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This month brings with it all the anticipation, excitement, nervousness, and stress of a new school year. For first-time students and their parents, it can be scary. That’s why this edition shares tips on preparing for the transition to the classroom (page 10).

For students who’ve done it all before and found school particularly difficult, a local education specialist provides practical advice on facing academic challenges head-on (page 12).

New student or oldtimer, no matter what age your student is, they will find this month’s lunchbox recipe

— PB&Joy Bundles — a sweet reminder of their favorite childhood snack (page 7). Bonus, they can prepare these the night before to make mornings less hectic!

August is Children’s Eye Health and Safety Month, so we take a look at the importance of vision testing and signs that your child may need glasses (page 24). But before we get back into the hustle and bustle the school year brings, Family Life also offers 10 ways to enjoy the last days of break with your family … spending little to no money in the process (page 22). And if one last road trip is on your end-of-summer bucket list, our humor columnist (page 34) explains exactly what Dad’s expectations will be.

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Nostalgic Lunchbox

A New Take on Tradition

Back-to-school calls for delicious comfort food, so it’s no surprise that I turn to the traditional treats of childhood when packing lunchboxes. Just like a new box of crayons transports me to the simple joys of kindergarten, the familiarity of pb&j sandwiches conjures up days of simplicity and innocence. This iconic duo inspired my new twist: Bundles of PB & Joy.

Substitute whole-wheat tortilla wraps in place of bread and tuck them into your child’s lunchbox. Try them for a satisfying breakfast or for the perfect after-school snack.

Before the back-to-school rush takes over, let me encourage you to find joy in the simple things. Hearken back to the good old days and reward your kids — and yourself — with this innocently delicious treat.

Karen Nochimowski is the author of the cookbook 6-Minute Dinners (& More!), featuring more than 100 simple recipes. Karen started and runs Momma Chef’s Soup Kitchen and Momma Chef’s Little Free Pantries. Part of her cookbook proceeds go toward feeding those facing food insecurity.

PB&Joy Bundles

Prep time: 5 minutes

Yields: 4 rollups

4 flour or whole wheat tortillas (at room temperature)

1/2 cup Smucker’s Natural Strawberry Fruit Spread

3/4 cup Jif Natural Peanut Butter Spread Instructions

Spread tortillas with Jif Natural Peanut Butter Spread (or your brand of choice) to within 1/2-inch of edges. Top peanut butter with Smucker’s Natural Strawberry Fruit Spread. Carefully roll up tortillas.

To serve, slice rolls in half or into 1-inch bite-size pieces. You can also wrap each rolled tortilla in plastic wrap and refrigerate for several hours or overnight. To serve, remove from refrigerator and let sit until it comes to room temperature.

Accordions in Action at Festival

The 33rd Annual Cotati Accordion Festival showcases three days of live performances with more than 40 acts over seven stages, plus dozens of vendors featuring foods, crafts and, of course, accordions! Attractions include a Zydeco Venue, Polka Tent, Accordion Jam Tent, and a Student Stage. The Cotati Accordion Festival is a non-profit organization established in 1991 “to promote the love of the accordion and to help fund music programs in the local schools.” To date, the organization has awarded more than $500,000 to local youth. Friday–Sunday, August 16–18. La Plaza Park. 60 W. Cotati Ave., Cotati. More information is available at cotatifest.com.

Orchard Open for Picking

Laguna Gold is a retail orchard growing some of Sonoma County’s finest fruits and berries. Whether you’re local or just visiting, you’ll enjoy the experience of picking your own fresh fruit. It’s a quick 5-mile trip from the towns of Windsor, Sebastopol and Santa Rosa in the heart of the Gold Ridge, or join the Peach Club and have fruit delivered to your door. Open for picking on Saturdays in June through September from 9 a.m.–3 p.m. Cash, debit and credit cards accepted. No checks. 2600 Laguna Rd., Santa Rosa. Call the Fruit Line to see what is ripe and ready for picking: (707) 322-5806. For more details, visit lagunagoldfruit.com

Enjoy All Things Apple

Marking its 51st anniversary, the 2024 Gravenstein Apple Fair is the primary fundraiser of Sonoma County Farm Trails. Since 1973, this country fair and music festival has fostered an appreciation of local agriculture featuring esteemed farmers and producers sharing presentations and demonstrations. Diverse, delicious, and nourishing foods and libations are available, along with arts and crafts vendors, and a kids area including face painting, farm animals, games, and more. Tickets range from $23 in advance to $30 cash–only at the gate. Children (ages 6–12): $10 in advance/$15 at gate. Kids 5 and under: Free (no ticket required). Discounted weekend passes. Artisan VIP and Tasting Alley tickets also available. Saturday, August 10–Sunday, August 11. 10 a.m.–6 p.m. Ragle Ranch Regional Park. 500 Ragle Rd., Sebastopol. For more information, visit gravensteinapplefair.com

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Fundraiser Picnic Promises a Ball

The Sonoma Valley Education Foundation presents the Red & White Ball Community Picnic, an inclusive community-wide celebration featuring a picnic-style dining experience, student performances, live music by local band Funk Fatale, and an opportunity to support local students and teachers. General admission tickets cost $50, including lawn seating and a complimentary beverage. A Champions of Education package is available for $2,500, including a table for four, meals from an on-site food truck, wine or beer, and a special shout-out from the stage. Champions of Education packages are limited, so early purchase is recommended. Saturday, August 24. 5–10 p.m. Sonoma Plaza. 453 1st St. E., Sonoma. Visit tinyurl.com/mu93j4tu for full details.

Stringing Along Some Fun

String and Shadow Puppet Theater presents “Or So It Would Seam” Summer Tour. Called “A giant puppet voyage into the hidden universe,” this touring puppet show weaves together a variety of puppetry styles, circus arts, and original music. String and Shadow is a theater company based in Olympia, Washington, using “copious amounts of cardboard, fabric, and paper-mache to pluck at the strings of universal wonder, innocence, and joy.” Presented on a free/by-donation basis, the California stops include Blue Lake, Caspar, Forestville, Petaluma, Alameda, and Santa Cruz, with dates and times unique to each city. The Petaluma show is Thursday, August 15, at 2425 Adobe Road. For a full schedule, visit stringandshadow.com

Cowabunga, Schulz Museum!

Join in the Schulz Museum’s 22nd anniversary with a day of beach-themed family fun inspired by the Cowabunga Peanuts! exhibit. Besides creating their own surfing Snoopy, visitors will enjoy hands-on activities and free giveaways from GoGo SqueeZ. Also, learn about the Marine Mammal Center and Sonoma County Regional Parks, and draw with Emmy Award® -winning cartoonist Joe Wos. Wos will draw 26 ocean animals from A-Z in under 26 minutes with suggestions from the audience, followed by a book signing. Cost: Included in museum admission; free for members! Saturday, August 3. 10:30 a.m.–3 p.m. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. Learn more at tinyurl.com/5xnbsdfr

Red & White Ball Community Picnic
String and Shadow Puppet Theater

A New Start Tips

for First-time Students

Starting school for the first time can be anxiety-provoking (for kids and parents) — but it doesn’t have to be. We talked to the pros to find out how parents can set their kids up for a successful start to preschool or kindergarten.

Make Learning Fun — As parents, we are our children’s first teachers. Although this might seem like a lot of pressure, it’s an amazing opportunity to present learning as something that can (and should) be fun.

According to Lisa Stratton, an educational services manager at an early childhood education center for preschool children, we can do this by encouraging kids’ natural curiosity. “For example if your child asks you, ‘How do bats fly in dark caves without bumping into each

other?’ you can help them find the answer online or at the library,” Stratton said.

By encouraging your kids to go where their interests take them, Stratton said, “You will be teaching them that learning is fun without them realizing [it].”

Encourage Independence at Home — Parents can support the learning process by fostering childrens’ independence with daily tasks. When kids come to school prepared to handle some of these

basics, teachers have more time to focus on helping them develop academic and social skills.

Try teaching practical skills, like tying shoes, buttoning and unbuttoning clothing, and washing their own hands. Being able to open containers in their lunchboxes eases mealtime anxiety. Recognizing their

Sharing fun experiences children can look forward to is essential, as is preparing for any potential mishaps.

own name makes identifying labels on their things easier, too, especially in the case of another student having a similar backpack or jacket. Rules around getting a drink of water and waiting their turn sound like basic skills, but being prepared to put them into practice saves time and frustration at the school house.

“These day-to-day life skills and learning how to get along with

others are more important at this stage than knowing how to write their ABCs,” Stratton emphasized.

Talk to Your Child — A children’s therapeutic services manager, Shari Karmen, recommends parents let kids know what to expect before school starts. “Let them know they will be making new friends, playing with different toys, having new snacks,” she outlined.

Karmen suggests parents describe what a typical day might look like or even visit the school in advance. “Telling children several times helps them to learn that a change and new routine will be happening. Include who will be picking them up from school so they know that they will see you again.”

Sharing fun experiences children can look forward to is essential, as is preparing for any potential mishaps. Role-play ways to handle introducing oneself and responses to things that might not go as planned.

allay some anxiety by educating themselves.

Shela Blankenship, a school district early childhood coordinator, encourages parents to visit the school’s website to learn about program information, hours, and drop-off and pick-up expectations. She encourages Parent Orientation participation to forge relationships with teachers from the start. Blankenship emphasizes, “The more parents know in advance, the more comfortable everyone will feel on the first day.” ❖

Be Informed

— As all parents know, kids are masters at picking up on their parents’ emotions; if we’re anxious, they’ll know it, and they may feel it, too. Parents can

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Academic Advice

Helping Challenged Students Succeed

It’s early June as I write this and the festivities of the school year are finally behind me! With all the joy and celebration comes an exhausting amount of work behind the scenes to take some kids across the finish line. Most people don’t see the teachers dragging students across that line but all the hard work is worth it to see the students’ smiles and family pride at graduation or promotion.

Shortly thereafter, I walked into Staples and saw the employees setting up the “Back-to-School” displays. “NOOOOOO! Too soon!” I groaned. And I’m the teacher! I love school so much I never left. Can you imagine how students feel? What about the students who struggle with learning? Or who may not necessarily understand what it is to be a student or enjoy school? How can we help them get “back” to school when they may have never been fully invested in being present to begin with? Since I was stuck without good answers, I turned to the experts — my students, parents, and teacher team.

Me: “How can adults help children who may have a hard time at school, get ready to go back to school?”

From Parents:

• Be prepared! Start waking, eating, and going to bed on a school schedule starting at least one week before school starts.

• Prepare outfits for the week on Sundays — it reduces stress in the mornings and anxiety throughout the week.

• Turn off social media and computers at least an hour before bedtime — we all know how tough this can be but it will be worth it!

From Students: (Full disclosure, this has been heavily edited to remove high school slang/language.)

• Stock up on snacks both at home and at school.

• Have a selection of quiet fidget toys aka “sensory tools.”

• If we ask you to “back off,” we mean it, we need some space — but it means a lot to us when you come back to check in on us later, even if we don’t show it.

Let

the student experience some success before pushing them a little bit to go beyond their comfort zone.

• Help us meet expectations by telling us exactly what they should be — where are the classrooms, where are the bathrooms, who are our teachers; but don’t expect us to “get it” the first time.

Particularly at the high school level where expectations change every single hour when students rotate classrooms; understanding what is wanted and needed from students takes time, repetition, and patience — not just from teachers but from parents when the students get home. Students are emotionally and mentally exhausted the first week of school.

From Educators:

• Make the student win — don’t make the assignment, instruction, whatever it is, more difficult than it has to be. Let the student experience some success before

pushing them a little bit to go beyond their comfort zone.

• Focus on positive behavior supports even if the student isn’t necessarily displaying their best effort. Offer full-sized pencils when students forget their own — golf pencils imply you don’t trust them with the best for their own education. Nonverbal positive reinforcement can be just as effective as verbal praise.

• Support students with structure and universal design for learning strategies. Consider what materials you require or use in class: Build accommodations into worksheets and offer supplies (like tri-write pencils) that support ALL students without calling attention to anyone in particular.

• Keep a small toolbox on hand to help kids out with individual problems in private. Students will thank you later on if they don’t in the moment. For example, Zip ties can fix a broken belt so their pants don’t fall down. Safety

• A Tide pen for when students (or you!) invariably spill something on a shirt. Baby wipes get almost any stain out of carpet/other fabrics. WD-40, duct tape, screwdrivers (Phillips & flathead), basic black sharpie — not for student use, but man do they come in handy in the classroom!

If your child dreads going back to school, or you’re a teacher of such students, perhaps these tips can improve the experience and help set them up for success! ❖

pins solve so many problems. An eyeglass repair kit can fix a frame so a student doesn’t have to feel more self conscious than they probably already do. Don’t forget bandaids galore.

Chrissy Brady, M.A., is Director of Special Education at Hanna Academy NPS in Sonoma. She has been an Education Specialist for 20 years and has taught all ages including college. Even with this experience, she knows her limitations — Chrissy likes to work with high schoolers best; Kindergartners eat her alive. Bless the

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College Planner

Month-by-Month

Get Ready Guide

Getting ready to apply for college? The National Association for College Admissions Counseling suggests students follow these month-to-month steps as soon as summer ends …

AUGUST-SEPTEMBER

Register for the SAT and/or ACT if you didn’t take a college entrance exam as a junior or want to take one again. Remember: Your counselor can help with fee waivers.

Take a look at some college applications. Make note of all the pieces of information you will need to compile. Check with your school counselor to make sure you are on track to graduate and fulfill college admission requirements.

Take every opportunity to get to know colleges. Meet with college representatives who visit your school, attend local college fairs, and visit

campuses. Narrow down your list of colleges. Collect information about the application and financial aid process at each school.

Create a checklist and calendar to keep track of standardized test dates, college application due dates, and financial aid deadlines. Make note of the other materials, such as recommendations or essays, you’ll need to complete your applications.

OCTOBER

File your Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) as soon after Oct. 1 as possible. In addition to determining your eligibility for federal funds, many colleges and states use

the form when distributing grants, so don’t delay. Watch the mail for your Student Aid Report (SAR)—it should arrive four weeks after the FAFSA is filed.

Some colleges will have deadlines (rolling, priority, early decision, and early action) as early as this month. If you cannot afford the application fees that many colleges charge, ask your counselor to help you request a fee waiver.

Don’t slack in the classroom. The college you decide to attend will want to see your second semester transcript.

Finalize your college essay. Many schools will require that you submit at least one essay with your application. Request personal recommendations from teachers, school counselors, or employers.

Research scholarships. Ask your counselor, your colleges, and local religious and civic groups about scholarship opportunities. You should never pay for scholarship information.

NOVEMBER-DECEMBER

Finalize and send any early decision or early action applications due this month. Have a parent, teacher, counselor, or other adult review the application before it is submitted. Every college will require a copy of your transcript from your high school. Follow your school’s procedure for sending transcripts. Make sure testing companies have sent your scores directly to the colleges to which you are applying.

JANUARY

Begin to organize regular decision applications and financial aid forms, which will be due in January and/or February. If needed, register for the January SAT. It is the last one colleges will be able to consider for a senior. Many popular and selective colleges will have application deadlines as early as January 1. Others have deadlines later in January and February. If necessary, register for the February ACT (some colleges will still be able to consider it).

In January, ask your guidance office to send first semester transcripts to schools where you applied. At the end of the school year, they will need to send final transcripts to the college you will attend.

FEBRUARY-MAY

Acceptance letters and financial aid offers will start to arrive. Review your

acceptances, compare financial aid packages, and visit your final choices.

Don’t slack in the classroom. The college you decide to attend will want to see your second semester transcript.

May 1 is the date when the college you plan to attend requires a

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commitment and deposit. When you’ve made your college decision, notify your counselor. Send in your deposit by the postmark date of May 1. If you’ve been offered financial aid, accept the offer and follow the instructions given. Also notify schools you will not attend of your decision.

Request that your final transcript be sent to the college you will be attending. If you are wait-listed by a college you really want to attend, visit, call, and write the admission office to make your interest clear. Ask how you can strengthen your application. ❖ Learn more at www.nacacnet.org.

and Sebastopol, plus non-congregate meals in some rural areas. Learn

California law requires children entering TK or kindergarten to have these immunizations:

Diphtheria, Pertussis, and Tetanus (DPT) Measles, Mumps, and Rubella (MMR) Varicella (Chickenpox)

Hepatitis B Polio

So Long to Summer

Enjoy the Last Days of Break

Days are slipping away. We feel them through our fingertips like the sand our kids once played in. No matter how tightly we clench our fists, the sand keeps falling. Instead of holding so tight, maybe we need to relax. Open our hands. Let the sand rest there a moment before we reach down and grab another handful.

Here are 10 ways to help you enjoy remaining moments of summer ... Introduce them to a movie from your youth. They’ll think it’s fun to make fun of the clothing and hair and cheesy movie lines. You’ll enjoy the walk down memory lane with your child

Let them plan a day for the family. Give them a budget and let them take the lead. It’s exciting

to see what they come up with. We could talk all about the great skills they are practicing with this one, but it’s more fun just to sit back and enjoy the ride. You may be surprised to see what they come up with!

Read a book together. Either out loud or a book you can both read individually. I find my teen reads far faster than I can, so I have to make a conscious effort on this

one. Without making it formal, just find times to slip the story into conversation. It’s a connection you can both enjoy.

Pick a show to watch together. Start with episode one, pop some popcorn, and enjoy a good binge-fest together. While I often lament missing those quiet evenings from back in the days of 8 p.m. bedtimes, you now have time to relax together. Find a way to enjoy it.

Go to a game or a concert. It doesn’t have to be the major leagues or a top musician, but find a local game for a sport your kid loves or a local concert for a style of music

Being available is one of the best ways to create a connection.

your teen enjoys. It’s simple, doesn’t cost a lot, and gives you a great time out together … being outdoors is a bonus! Plus this one doesn’t usually take much convincing.

Be the house the kids want to come to. This one isn’t about parent-child bonding like some of the other ideas on this list, but when you create an atmosphere your teen and his or her friends want to be in, you benefit, too. Not only is your tween/teen around more, but you get to know their friends and see them interact together. Have the good snacks. Resist the urge to embarrass or scold. Don’t mistake this for changing how you do things or your rules. Just be real and welcoming and let the rest happen naturally.

but once you get started most kids come around and even appreciate it. Find something you can do for someone else together. Working together is the key to making this successful. Good places to try

most likely be funny, but giving them the chance to show you how to do something creates a special bond. Recognizing their expertise helps them feel respected and that goes a long way.

kind of house do you think you’ll live in when you’re my age? If you could eat anything in the world for your next meal what would it be?

Make time, but don’t force it. Being available is one of the best ways to create a connection. It doesn’t mean following your kids around, but make sure that you aren’t checking out or disappearing every time they are around. Be present and open and see what happens! ❖

Play

game. Sometimes teens are wrapped up in the latest game or app. Get involved. It will

Dream together. Even little moments offer opportunities to connect. Asking questions is a great way to see glimpses of your child that you never imagined. Here are a few questions to get you started: What is your dream vacation? What

Rebecca is a published author and former teacher passionate about authenticity, faith, and family. In real life, she can often be found typing words, driving her kids places, or wherever there is chocolate. Connect with her at rebeccahastings.net and on Instagram

Vision Test Remember August is Eye Health Month

You need glasses,” the ophthalmologist said to me when I was 12 years old. My mom was shocked since I never complained of unclear vision and no one else in our family had poor eyesight. I’d only gone to the doctor after failing the school eye screening exam. (My vision had become gradually worse so I didn’t realize it wasn’t normal.)

I remember when I first wore glasses thinking, “Everything seems so clear and crisp. I can see the tips of leaves on a tree and easily read street signs.” I had thought it was normal to see the world a little bit blurry!

August is Children’s Eye Health and Safety Month. This issue is important to me since my vision has significantly declined from the time of my initial diagnosis more than 30 years ago. Even though I am nearsighted (which means I can only see close up and need glasses

for far away), without my glasses or contact lenses, I wouldn’t be able to read anything on a Word document (it’s just a white blur with black lines) since my vision is so poor. I asked my eye doctor if I’m considered legally blind. Turns out I’m not since my vision can still be corrected with glasses.

According to the CDC 6.8 percent of children younger than 18 in the U.S. have a diagnosed eye and vision condition, with Amblyopia (lazy eye) the most common cause of vision loss in children which can

be treated if caught between the ages of 3-5 years old.

The website preventblindness.org found the most common vision disorders in children are myopia (nearsightedness/trouble seeing far away), hyperopia (farsightedness/ trouble seeing close up), and astigmatism (blurry vision at all distances).

The Urban Child Institute states that correcting poor vision can foster a child’s cognitive and social development. The American Optometric Association estimates

According to the CDC 6.8 percent of children younger than 18 in the U.S. have a diagnosed eye and vision condition ...

80 percent of a child’s learning happens through observation. In the classroom, most of the teaching is done by displaying the information. Children learn social skills from seeing facial expressions and body language.

Similar to my experience, children may be unaware their vision isn’t normal. This may lead to feeling frustrated about being unable to see the words in a book or on the board in the classroom causing a child to act out.

“Some children with learning difficulties exhibit specific behaviors of hyperactivity and distractibility. These children are often labeled as having Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD),”

The American Optometric Association stated. “However, undetected and untreated vision problems can elicit some of the very same signs and symptoms commonly attributed to ADHD. Due to these similarities, some children may be mislabeled as having ADHD when, in fact, they have an undetected vision problem.”

The following are signs a child could have vision issues:

1. Head tilt: If your child has a problem with their ocular muscles or nerves they will attempt to compensate by tilting their head.

2. Sitting too close to the TV. If your child is nearsighted, they will attempt to compensate for this by moving closer to the TV or reading materials.

3. Avoidance of reading: If your child has poor visual skills they will compensate by avoiding reading. Reading uses many complex eye movements and poor visual skills may cause your child to become frustrated easily.

4. Frequent headaches: Your child may have headaches because he/she is overstrained using their energy to align, focus, and use their eyes.

5. Laterality problem: If your child has poor directional skills and often confuses left and right it could be due to poor vision.

6. Finger pointing: If your child has poor vision tracking skills they may use their finger to compensate.

7. Can’t copy from the board: Your child may have difficulty with the ability to change focus between far and near.

8. Squinting: This narrows a bundle of light entering the eye which allows for sharper vision.

9. Poor hand/eye coordination: This skill is required for everything from writing notes in class to playing ball with friends.

10. Eye rubbing: This is a basic response to ocular discomfort. It typically occurs when one’s eyes are strained or have been working much too hard to complete a task.

If your child is experiencing one of these symptoms, consider scheduling an eye exam. There are two different types of eye doctors, ophthalmologists and optometrists.

An ophthalmologist went to medical school and had a one-year internship followed by a three-year residency. These types of doctors can provide total eye care services.

An optometrist did not attend medical school. Instead, these types of doctors went to a four-year professional program and received a doctor of optometry degree. Optometrists mostly prescribe glasses and contact lenses. Due to my poor vision and the fact I have had other vision issues, I go to an ophthalmologist every two years for a checkup.

Even though my mother didn’t think I would need glasses as a child, she took me to see the eye doctor. I’m grateful she did. ❖

Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and is the mother of twins and a daughter. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, National Geographic, Washington Post, Parents Magazine, and many other publications. She is a professional member of ASJA. You can find her on X @CherylMaguire05

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August Calendar of Events

Honoring SoCo Poet Laureates

The Sebastopol Center for the Arts, along with its Poet Laureate Selection Committee, invites the public to a reception honoring outgoing Poet Laureate Elizabeth Herron and welcoming new Laureate Dave Seter. SCA produces, promotes, and presents local, national, and international artists through poetry readings, concerts, lectures, curated gallery exhibits, and more. The center also hosts adult and youth education, a state-of-the-art ceramics studio, and an acclaimed documentary film festival. All ages welcome. Suggested donation: $10–$20. Sunday, August 18. 2–5 p.m. Sebastopol Center for the Arts. 282 S. High St., Sebastopol. Learn more at sebarts.org

Thursday 1

FREE Potter the Otter : A Healthy Adventure. Interactive pop-up museum exhibit based on the book

series Potter the Otter, published by First 5 Santa Clara County & created by the Joe Children’s Discovery Museum. Mondays–Fridays. 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Coddingtown Shopping Center.

1300 Coddingtown Center, Santa Rosa. cmosc.org/events/pottertheotter.

Ribbit Exhibit. Nationally-touring exhibition. Whimsical presentation of 20+ human-sized frog characters

JUNE 12 - JUNE 12AUGUST 9 AUGUST 9 12 DE JUNIO - 12 DE JUNIO9 DE AGOSTO 9 DE AGOSTO

Monday - Friday/Lunes - Viernes 10:00 am to 3:00 pm

1300 Coddingtown Center, Santa Rosa, CA 95401 cmosc.org/events/pottertheotter 707-546-4069 cmosc org/es/eventos/pottertheotter

Poet Laureate Reception
Free Lunch for Kids! ¡Almuerzo gratuito para niños!

placed in vignettes throughout the garden. $8–$15. Ages 4 & under: Free. Discounts available for teachers & active military. Open daily: 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Extended hours Wednesdays: 5–8 p.m. Sonoma Botentical Garden. 12841 Hwy. 12, Glen Ellen. sonomabg. org/visit/ribbit-exhibit

Pacific Air Museum Hot Dog Thursday. Family event on the field among the airplanes & helicopters. $8–$10. Held first Thursday of the month. 11:30 a.m.–1:30 p.m. Pacific Coast Air Museum. One Air Museum Way, Santa Rosa. pacificcoastairmuseum.org/events

Sonoma County Fair. Admission: $13.75–$25. Family 5-pack: $62. Carnival wristband tickets: $35–$44. Ages 6 & under: Free. Free Admission

Days for kids 12 & under. Aug. 1: 3–10 p.m., Aug. 2–4 & 9–10: Noon–11 p.m. Aug. 5–8: Noon–10 p.m. Aug. 11: Noon–10:30 p.m. Gates close: 9 p.m. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/y4822r9n.

FREE Thursday Summer Nights on the Green Concerts. Aug. 1: The Funky Dozen. Aug. 8: Cassie B. Aug. 15: Sacred Fire Band. Aug. 22: Mercy & the Heartbeats. Aug. 29: Hey Jude. Family lawn games, food vendors, & more. Bring blanket & chairs. Farmers’ Market: 5–8 p.m. Live Music: 6–8 p.m. See website for parking instructions. Windsor Town Green. 9291 Old Redwood Hwy., Windsor. tinyurl.com/ bddaa9sc.

Friday 2

FREE Bodega Marine Laboratory Tours. Docent-led. Explore the dynamic biodiversity of the Northern California coast. Suggested donation: $5 child, $10 adult, or $25 per family. Service dogs only. Fridays. Register for 1 of 3 time slots: 2, 2:30, or 3 p.m. Arrive no earlier than 15 minutes prior to your tour start time. Last tour for season: Aug. 30. Bodega Marine Laboratory. 2099 Westshore Rd., Bodega Bay. Questions: cmsi@ ucdavis.edu. Reservations: tinyurl. com/8py7msfy

FREE Party on the Plaza. Aug. 2: Sonoma Shakers. Aug. 9: Alamo Mission Band. Aug. 16: The Juggs. Aug. 23: The Poyntlyss Sistars & Show Band. Aug. 30: Aqua Net. Food, local

artisan crafts, & more. Fridays. 5–8 p.m. Music starts: 6 p.m. Rohnert Park Library. North Parking Lot. 500 City Center Dr., Rohnert. tinyurl.com/ yzsbh9n6.

Funky Friday Music Series. Aug. 2: Sang Matiz. Aug. 9: The Heard Eye. Aug. 16: Spike Sikes & His Awesome Hotcakes. Aug. 23: MOMOTOMBO SF. Picnicking $15–$25. 12 & younger: Free. Bring low-back lawn chairs or blankets. Venue opens: 6 pm. Music: 7–9 p.m. Hood Mansion. Hood Regional Park. 389 Casa Manana, Santa Rosa. fridaysatthehood.com.

FREE Friday Night Live at the Cloverdale Plaza. Aug. 2: Pardon the Interruption. Aug. 9: ¿Qiensave? Aug. 16: Joslyn & the Sweet Compression. Aug. 23: Surfer Girl. Aug. 30: The

Stone Foxes. Street Fair: 6 p.m. Live music: 7-9:30 p.m. Downtown Cloverdale. cloverdaleartsalliance.org.

Saturday 3

Laguna Gold Orchard. Bring the kids & join the fun. Pick your own fresh peaches & berries for purchase. Saturdays. 9 a.m.–1 p.m. Laguna Gold Fruit Company. 2600 Laguna Rd., Santa Rosa. lagunagoldfruit.com/ you-pick.

Redwood Gospel Mission City

Kids Festival. Students in grades K–8 will receive backpack w/school supplies. Limited to 800 people. Proof of grade level & email required. 10 a.m.–4 p.m. New Location: Juilliard Park. 227 Santa Rosa Ave., Santa Rosa. Registration required: rgm.org/ citykids2024

Celebrate the 22nd anniversary “Cowabunga, Peanuts!” Beach-themed family fun inspired by the exhibition. Learn about the Marine Mammal Center & Sonoma County Regional Parks. At 11 a.m., Emmy Award® -winning cartoonist Joe Wos will draw 26 ocean animals from A-Z in under 26 minutes with suggestions from the audience, followed by a book signing. Cost included with museum admission: $5–$12. Age 3 & under: Free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. 10:30 a.m.–3 p.m. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/wjensdcu.

FREE Rialto Cinemas Matinees. Family Matinees held the first Saturday & Sunday of the month. Screening of Bon Yoyage,

Charlie Brown. Aug. 3–4: 11 a.m. 6868 McKinley St., Sebastopol. rialtocinemas.com/sebastopol.

FREE Cornerstone Sonoma Summer Music Series. Featuring The Henry Coopers. Food & beverages available for purchase. No outside food or beverages permitted. 11:30 a.m.–2:30 p.m. Cornerstone. 23570 Arnold Dr., Sonoma. cornerstonesonoma.com.

FREE AV Films Cloverdale Summer Movies. Screening of The Wizard of Oz. Concessions & music. Bring blankets/low back chairs. Gates: 7:30 p.m. Movie: Dusk. Cloverdale Plaza. 122 N. Cloverdale Blvd., Cloverdale. tinyurl.com/ycywkyu4

Sunday 4

FREE Live at Juilliard Summer Concert Series. Aug. 4: Audio Angel & Her Good Intentions. Aug. 11: Joshua James Jackson & the Dream Team. Aug. 18: The Pulsators. Hydration Station will be providing free cold tap water. All encouraged to bring their own reusable bottle. Sundays. 5–7 p.m. Juilliard Park. 227 Santa Rosa Ave., Santa Rosa. tinyurl. com/4y4tb4w7.

Tuesday 6

FREE Family Movies on the Green. Outdoor film screening of Elemental Bring blankets/low back chairs. No blankets on lawn before 4:30 p.m.

*Please note: There is no shuttle for this event. Movie begins 15 minutes after sunset. Windsor Town Green. 9291

Old Redwood Hwy., Windsor. tinyurl. com/mtnpwfc7

FREE Luther Locals Live. Aug 6: Sabiee. Aug: 13: Spike Sikes & His Awesome Hotcakes. No pets. All ages welcome. Bring low-back lawn chairs or blankets. 5:30–7:30 p.m. Nelson Family Grand Plaza. Luther Burbank Center. 50 Mark Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/58p4rfj6

FREE Santa Rosa Taco Tuesdays Rides. Family-event. All cyclists welcome to roll through downtown Santa Rosa (8-miles round trip). Taco trucks will be on hand to sell tacos & drinks. Tuesdays: 5:30–8:30 p.m. Pedals up 6 p.m. Meet-up: 550 Silva Ave. parking lot. Franklin Park. 2095 Franklin Ave., Santa Rosa. tinyurl. com/yvytx69u

FREE Tuesdays in the Healdsburg Plaza. Aug. 6: Anthony Arya Band. Aug. 13: Grupo Valle De Santiago. Aug. 20: IrieFuse. Aug. 27: New Moon on Monday. Food, local artisan crafts for purchase. 6–8 p.m. Healdsburg Plaza. Healdsburg Ave. & Matheson St., Healdsburg. tinyurl. com/2aaz2vwu.

Wednesday 7

FREE Learn to Ride a Bike. Ages 5-11. Step-by-step guided instruction. Bring bicycle with training wheels removed & helmet. Hosted by Sonoma County Bicycle Coalition. $5. Aug. 7: 3:30–4:30 p.m. Windsor Park & Recreation. 9291 Old Redwood Hwy., Windsor. Aug. 14: 3:30–4:30 p.m. Petaluma: Lucchesi Park. 320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma. Register: tinyurl.com/y7bpzsaf.

FREE Postpartum Planning for Expectant Parents On-line Support Group. All expectant parents (2nd & 3rd trimester) welcome: Moms, birthing people, non-gestational parents, partners, couples, & single parents. Held the 1st & 3rd Wednesday of the month. Aug. 7: 4:30 p.m. & Aug. 21: 10 a.m. Register: tinyurl.com/yzka8ncs

FREE Back to Ives Summer Concert Series. Aug 7: Soul Fuse & Sarah Baker. Aug. 14: Fleetwood Macramé & the Bohemian Highway. Aug. 21: Soul Section & Michelle Lambert. Aug. 28: Poor Man’s Whiskey & Peacetime All Stars. 5–8 p.m. Ives Park. 7400 Willow St., Sebastopol. peacetown.org/ives.

Thursday 8

Common Ground Society is going to the Fair! Exclusive to families of

children ages 0–12, with special needs. One hour before the fair opens to the general public, rides will operate with no sound or lights. Petting zoo, & Fur & Feathers will have small animals. Registration limited to children & adults with disabilities and/or unique needs and their parents and/or caregivers, & siblings. $20 per person. Ages 12 & under: Free. Parking $15. Ride ticket prices vary. 11 a.m.–Noon. Santa Rosa Fairgrounds. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/ mw4dwne8

FREE Mental Health Virtual Family Workshops. Workshop for parents & caregivers on youth depression & anxiety, presented by the Sonoma County Office of Education. 5–6 p.m. Pre-Registration required for Zoom Link: tinyurl.com/3p5wczax or call 707-524-2816.

Friday 9

Shrek Trivia Fundraiser. $5 per person. Snacks, soda, beer, & wine available for purchase. All proceeds benefit Sebastopol Community Cultural Center. Doors open: 6 p.m. Starts: 7 p.m. Sebastopol Community Cultural Center. 390 Morris St., Sebastopol. tinyurl.com/rr7s48sr

Saturday 10

FREE Bike Petaluma. Community family-friendly ride held the 2nd Saturday of the month. 7-mile ride. 10 a.m. Meet-up: Bob’s Beach. 275 Water St., Petaluma. bikepetaluma.org

Annual Gravenstein Apple Fair. Live music, arts & crafts, children’s activities. Local food, wine & cider, & heirloom apples. $15–$30. Family pass (2 adults, 2 children): $55/on-line only. Group pass (6 adults): $120/

on-line only. Weekend pass: $40 pp. Ages 5 & under: Free. Aug 10– 11: 10 a.m.–6 p.m. Ragle Ranch Park. 500 Ragle Rd., Sebastopol. Tickets: gravensteinapplefair.com.

FREE Family Day at the Museum of Sonoma County. Art activities. Held the second Saturday of the month. 11 a.m.– 5 p.m. Drop-in Art Activity: Noon–2 p.m. Sonoma County Museum. 425 Seventh St., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/7d7m38wm

Second Saturday Cartoonist. A unique opportunity to meet & engage with Sonoma County artist Eric Martin as he discusses his new book, “Travel Sketches.” This collection features a series of drawings created quickly & on the spot. Cost included with museum admission: $5–$12. Age 3 & under: Free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. 1–3 p.m. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln, Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/5t6h8ws4.

Sunday 11

Sunday Fundays. Froggy-themed scavenger hunt, face-painting, arts & crafts, family yoga, music, lawn games, & more. Members: Free.

Non-members: Cost included with Museum admission. $8–$15. Age 4 & under: Free. 1–4 p.m. Sonoma Botanical Garden. 12841 Hwy. 12, Glen Ellen. tinyurl.com/y3pwczsb.

Movies at the Green Music Center. Screening of Guardians of the Galaxy. Pack a picnic. Bring blanket/low-back chairs. Mt. Mike Pizza, Swirl Time Yogurt, wine/beer available for purchase. Lawn tickets: $5. Kids 12 & younger: Free (ticket still required). 5 p.m. Weill Hall. Green Music Center. 1801 East Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. Tickets: tinyurl.com/mvd8xzer.

Tuesday 13

Sensory Friendly Afternoon. Exclusive to families of children ages 0–12, with special needs. Hands-on exhibits, art studio. Safe, accessible environment. 1–5 p.m. Children Museum. 1835 W. Steel Ln., Santa Rosa. Pre-registration required: tinyurl. com/kxs8e72f

Wednesday 14

FREE Summer Campus Tour. Summerfield Waldorf School & Farm 38-acre campus, including the biodynamic farm. Learn how Summerfield integrates its campus into every grade’s curriculum. Parents only. 10–11:30 a.m. Summerfield Waldorf School & Farm. 655 Willowside Rd., Santa Rosa. Register: tinyurl.com/4s9xb9my.

Thursday 15

FREE String & Shadow Puppet Theater. “Or So It Would Seam.” Giant puppets, colorful stilt-walkers, original storytelling, live music, & cast of 14 performers/musicians. $20 suggested donation, no one turned away. Noon-8 p.m. 2425 Adobe Rd., Petaluma. stringandshadow.com

Friday 16

Sonoma County Beekeepers Association at the Children’s Museum. All ages wecome. Hands-on activities, singing, drawing with bee-related items. For older kids, more advanced topics. Members: Free. Non-members: $16. Infants 11 months & younger: Free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. 10 a.m.–Noon. Children’s Museum. 1835 W.

Steele Ln., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/ bdzmrnsx

FREE AV Films Healdsburg

Summer Movies. Screening of Barbie Concessions & music. Bring blankets/ low-back chairs. Gates: 7 p.m. Movie: Dusk. Healdsburg Plaza. Healdsburg Ave. & Matheson St., Healdsburg. tinyurl.com/ycywkyu4.

FREE Movies in the Park. Aug. 16: Migration. Aug. 23: Trolls Band Together. Aug. 30: Space Jam. Bring blanket/low-back chairs & a picnic. Food/drinks available for purchase. Movies start at dusk. 7:30–10 p.m. Howarth Park. 630 Summerfield Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/27t8vvja.

FREE Petaluma Movies in the Park. Screening of Barbie. Bring blanket/ low-back chairs. Food & beverages

available for purchase. Movie begins at dusk. Lucchesi Community Center. 320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma. tinyurl.com/23b883vw

FREE Forestville Movies in the Park. Screening of Wonka. Concession stand opens an hour before movie begins. Movie starts: 8:40 p.m. Bring blanket/low-back chairs. No pets. Baseball Field. Forestville Youth Club. 7045 Mirable Rd., Forestville. forestvilleyouthpark.org

Saturday 17

FREE 25th Annual Russian River Car Show. Vintage cars & trucks. 8 a.m.–3 p.m. Northwood Commons. 19420 Hwy. 116, Monte Rio. Parking is first come, first serve. tinyurl. com/3hebjpar.

Harvest in the Historic Orchard. Learn about the history of an orchard originally planted in 1908-1912 at the Jack London State Historic Park, followed by medium-effort, 6-mile (roundtrip) hike (optional). $15 per person. $10 parking. 9 a.m.–1:30 p.m. Jack London State Park. 2400 London Ranch Rd., Glen Ellen (turn right after kiosk).Tickets: tinyurl.com/yfnnne93.

Cotati Accordion Festival. Live music. Kids under 15: Free when accompanied by paying adult. Free parking & shuttle service to & from, Cal Trans parking lot, corner of Old Redwood Hwy. & St. Joseph’s Way. Aug. 17–18: 9:45 a.m.–7:45 p.m. Event: LaPlaza Park, Old Redwood Hwy., Cotati. cotatifest.com.

Climate Ride Wine County Edition 2024. Gran Fondo-Style Ride offers options for every level of cyclist (11-81 miles). Timed routes, prizes, & PAELLA. In partnership with

Kendall-Jackson Winery. Fundraiser participant type: Pay $50 registration fee & commit to fundraising $150 by August 12. Meal & drink tickets for afterparty at Kendall-Jackson Winery. Starts & ends at Kendall-Jackson Winery. 5007 Fulton Rd., Santa Rosa. climateride.org/events/wine-country

Sunday 18

FREE SoCo Poet Laureate

Inauguration. The Sebastopol Center for the Arts invites the public to a reception honoring outgoing Poet Laureate Elizabeth Herron & new Laureate Dave Seter. Donations suggested. 2–5 p.m. tinyurl. com/5jbk3crt.

Tuesday 20

FREE Common Ground Sibs Meet-up. For siblings of disabled or special needs child. Snacks & hanging out. 4–6 p.m. Common Ground Society. 85 Brookwood Ave., Ste. 12, Santa Rosa. commongroundsociety. org/calendar.

Thursday 22

Flynn Creek Circus presents “The Heavy Lift.” A rurally-based, award-winning circus bringing international talent to the North Bay. Tickets are sold by chair, table, or bench, regardless of age of attendees. $18–$185. Aug. 22: 7 p.m. Aug. 23 & 24: 5 & *8 p.m. (*Adults 21+ only.) Aug. 25: Noon & 4 p.m. Sebastopol Grange. 6000 Sebastopol Ave., Sebastopol. flynncreekcircus.com.

Saturday 24

FREE Annual Pacific Islander Festival. Traditonal Pacific Island music, dance, arts & crafts, & food. 11 a.m.–6 p.m. City Center Plaza. 475

City Center, Rohnert Park. tinyurl. com/muzx9trc

Red & White Ball Community Picnic Fundraiser. Picnic-style dining experience, student performances, & live music, to support local students & celebrate the dedication of teachers. Tickets: $50, including lawn seating & beverage. +21 only. SVUSD students, families, & faculty FREE general lawn & dancing. 5–10 p.m. Sonoma City Hall. 1 The Plaza, Sonoma. svgreatschools.org.

Public Star Party. Astronomical topics & telescopes open for viewing. Adults & students: $10-$15. Age 6–12: $5. Ages 5 & under: Free, but still requires a ticket. Parking: $10. 9 p.m.-Midnight. Robert Ferguson Observatory. 2605 Adobe Canyon Rd., Kenwood. rfo.org/index.php/ calendar-of-events.

Santa Rosa Marathon. Aug. 24: 5 & 10K. Aug. 25: Full & half marathon. Race schedule: tinyurl.com/575jbj7t. $54–$149. Start & finish lines located in downtown Santa Rosa on 4th Street (next to the Old Courthouse Square). Ample parking located throughout downtown Santa Rosa. Register online: santarosamarathon.com

Sunday 25

Ragtime & Early Jazz Piano Concert. Featuring Sonoma’s ragtime king John Partridge & the Jack London Piano Club. Attendees are invited to dress in early to mid-1900’s costume but not required. Refreshments served during intermission. Seating limited. $20 per person & includes parking. 2–4 p.m. House of Happy Walls Museum (2nd floor). Jack London State Park.

2400 London Ranch Rd., Glen Ellen. Tickets: tinyurl.com/mt7as3pf

Monday 26

Museum Mondays for Little Ones. Ages 1–5: $10 per child. Free for up to 2 adults per child, before 11 a.m. (regular admission applies thereafter). $5–$12. Age 3 & under: Free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. Held the last Monday of the month. 10 a.m.-Noon. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/4za3rv3j.

Wednesday 28

FREE Providence Health Mobile Clinic. Blood pressure & glucose screenings. 1–2 p.m. This program will be hosted outside of the Children’s Museum of Sonoma County. tinyurl. com/mmn9a2b5

Friday 30

You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown. Based on the Comic Strip “PEANUTS” by Charles M. Schultz. Peformed by the Spreckels Theatre Education Program. Tickets: $16–$40. Aug 30–31: 7:30 p.m. Runs thru Sept. 15. Spreckels Performing Arts Center. 5409 Snyder Ln., Rohnert Park. Tickets: tinyurl.com/27bu8wxk.

Saturday 31

FREE Storytime with the Russian River Sisters. An afternoon of singing & dancing, BBQ’d hot dogs, & a hunt for magic things. All ages. Space limited. 1–3 p.m. Smokey’s Den. 17000 Armstrong Woods Rd., Guerneville. (1 mile past past the entrance kiosk, in the picnic area.) RSVP: stewardscr.org/events.

EARLY RELEASE Enrichment

Our program for elementary school-aged children provides farm, nature, and art-based experiences during local schools’ early-release hours, as well as for home schooled children. Engaging activities and projects are introduced continuously, following themes that are inspired by the children’s and teacher’s interests. Homework support and a snack are provided. Tues. & Wed. 1pm-4:30pm, early Extended Care available on Wed.

175 West Sierra, Cotati

707-664-5347

sandyloam.org/enrichmentprograms

• Paid job training.

• Part-time.

• Health benefits.

• CalPERS retirement.

• Winter & Spring Breaks off.

• Summers optional.

• Paid sick leave, holidays, & vacations.

Roadtrip Rules

Dad’s All-American Summer

When Dad loads up the family and gets behind the wheel of the family automobile any time between June and August, you can bet his sites are set on the all-American summer road trip. Like Chevy Chase in the classic 80’s film National Lampoon’s Vacation, Dad has certain expectations that undoubtedly will not be met. Nevertheless, he will hold on to hope that the following rules will lead to an unforgettable experience (especially for him)!

1. We will make good time.

2. We will make good mileage.

3. We will make good sandwiches.

4. Content that will be allowed on the radio: Talk radio with concerning views, books on tape but only if they pertain to the Civil War, and grunge music.

5. Content that will not be allowed on the radio: Any artist whose name

sounds like a verb or a swear word to his delicate ears. Examples include Dua Lipa, Ginuwine, Doja Cat. (Yes, Dad had to Google those names.)

6. It is the responsibility of the children to make sure the tire pressure stays EXACTLY at 32PSI and this must be checked at EVERY rest stop.

7. We get there when we get there.

8. We will stop at any and every sign that declares that something important once happened at this location. Wagon ruts from the Oregon trail? Stopping. A dog that died building the Hoover Dam. 100 percent stopping. The Home of Sliced Bread? Absolutely will be stopping. Even if we’ve already visited a “world famous” site? Let’s do it again.

9. Dry saltine crackers are a great snack.

10. If we don’t use air conditioning, we will save on gas. Use your sweat to

cool you off, just like Dad did when he was a kid!

11. We will not pack name-brand soda. You will drink your Shasta and like it!

12. The minivan is not overheating, it’s just breathing violently. Turning the radio up is a solution.

13. When Dad shares a pointless story about childhood and how hard it was because the internets didn’t exist and kids had to play outside and knew the value of hard work and there was a hill that had snow on it … just nod along like you’ve not heard it before.

14. Dad is not napping. He’s just resting his eyes for a bit. While driving. Let’s stop for coffee.

15. When we stop at a roadside fruit stand, yes, we will spend an hour talking to the proprietors. Get comfortable, this is going to be an interesting conversation about fertilizer.

16. The car game we will play, and the only one we will play, is “Hey kids, how long do you think it took them to build this random bridge?”

17. You will have a single dollar to spend on souvenirs.

18. We will eat in a sit-down restaurant only once. And when we do, you can only order water.

19. Don’t touch that.

20. If at all possible, don’t tell Mom. Shannon Carpenter is a professional humorist and the author of The Ultimate Stay-at-Home Dad: Your Essential Manual for Being an Awesome Full-Time Father

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