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Cooking with Kids Love & Chocolate

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Bits and Pieces Let Your Dragon Roar Squeeze the Day

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Sounds of Mardi Gras Shoot for the Sky LGBT Teens Create Community

Features 10 High Performance The five characteristics of effective charter schools.

12 A Big Move Strategies to help children with mid-year school transitions.

Fairytale Ball

18 Camp is Calling Finding the best summer activities for your child’s personality.

Calendar of Events

34 Humor Break The Five Love Languages of Modern Parenting

22 Dental Drama Addressing kids’ common tooth troubles.

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focused curriculum on Black American history in school’s across the nation during the month Sharon Gowan of February was Publisher/Editor prompted by Dr. Sharon@family-life.us Carter G. Woodson, who started Black History Week in 1926. Noticing a deficit of African Americans highlighted in his own school studies, Woodson believed this weeklong focus would help bring awareness to more people of color.

Ultimately, his week of study was expanded to Black History Month in 1976.

Fittingly in this issue, thoughts toward education increase, as families begin to consider schooling options for the fall. Take a look at our advertiser’s offerings toward open houses and activities to introduce

you to what they provide. Peruse the calendar (page 24) for learning activities, plus other teachable moments like those at Lunar New Year events.

What would February be without a nod to Valentine’s Day, like our Fallen Chocolate Cake recipe made simple (page 7)! And after all the sweets, it’s a good time to be aware of how to handle tooth troubles (page 22). Charter schools (page 10), mid-year school transitions (page 12), and summer camp selection (page 18) are also topics this month. Also check out the Family Life Virtual Camp Fair kick off at familylifevirtualevents.com. In the spirit of Dr. Woodson, we hope this issue encourages you to learn!

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Cooking with Kids

Love & Chocolate Easy Version of Restaurant Favorite

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allen chocolate cake, also known as molten chocolate cake, is superlatively decadent, with its undercooked center that pours temptingly out of a mound of rich chocolate cake. We wanted to turn this restaurant-menu standard into a practical recipe for home cooks.

Rather than beating the egg whites and yolks separately, we found that beating the eggs with sugar to a foam and then folding them into melted chocolate delivered cakes with the rich, moist texture we wanted. A mere 2 tablespoons of flour did an able job of holding the soufflé-like cakes together. Finally, we wanted to ensure that these decadent desserts would arrive at the table hot and still molten; happily, we found that we could prepare the batter ahead of time and refrigerate the filled ramekins until ready to bake. You can substitute bittersweet chocolate for the semisweet; the flavor will be slightly more intense. ❖ Used, with permission, from Everything Chocolate: A Decadent Collection of Morning Pastries, Nostalgic Sweets, and Showstopping Desserts (America’s Test Kitchen, 2020), americastestkitchen.com.

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Fallen Chocolate Cakes Serves 8 Eight 5- to 7-ounce ramekins Unsweetened cocoa powder, for ramekins 8 ounces semisweet chocolate, chopped 8 tablespoons unsalted butter, cut into 8 pieces 4 large eggs plus 1 large yolk, room temperature ½ cup (3½ ounces) granulated sugar 1 teaspoon vanilla extract ¼ teaspoon table salt 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour Confectioners’ sugar 1. Adjust oven rack to middle position and heat oven to 400 degrees.

Grease eight 5- to 7-ounce ramekins and dust with cocoa. Arrange ramekins on rimmed baking sheet.

Microwave chocolate and butter in large bowl at 50 percent power, stirring occasionally, until melted and smooth, 2 to 4 minutes; set aside.

2. Using stand mixer fitted with whisk attachment, whip eggs, yolk, granulated sugar, vanilla, and salt on

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high speed until eggs are pale yellow and have nearly tripled in volume.

(Egg foam will form ribbon that sits on top of mixture for 5 seconds when dribbled from whisk.) Scrape egg mixture over chocolate mixture, then sprinkle flour on top. Using rubber spatula, gently fold egg mixture and flour into chocolate until mixture is uniformly colored.

3. Divide batter evenly among prepared ramekins. (Unbaked cakes can be refrigerated for up to 8 hours.

Return to room temperature for 30 minutes before baking.) Bake until cakes have puffed about ½ inch above rims of ramekins, have thin crust on top, and jiggle slightly at center when ramekins are shaken very gently, 12 to 13 minutes. Run thin knife around edges of ramekins to loosen cakes. Invert each ramekin onto plate and let sit until cakes release themselves from ramekins, about 1 minute. Lift off ramekins, dust with confectioners’ sugar, and serve.

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Bits & Pieces

Let Your Dragon Roar

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2024 Lunar New Year Celebration

unar New Year begins with the first new moon of the lunar calendar. This year, the Children’s Museum of Sonoma County is partnering with the Redwood Empire Chinese Association to present the wonders and joy of the 2024 Lunar New Year: The Year of the Dragon. This family-friendly celebration event will take place on Saturday, February 3 from 10 a.m.–2 p.m. and will feature traditional Chinese Dancers and let kids join the fun with Lion and Dragon Dances. Expand your knowledge of calligraphy, traditional paper cutting, and adventures in the Chinese Zodiac.

Tickets for adults and children are $20, museum members $12. Discounted admission available for Seniors, Military, Teachers, EBT/WIC/MediCal beneficiaries. Get tickets and find out more info at cmosc.org/events/lunar-new-year-celebration.

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Cloverdale Citrus Fair

he 132nd Cloverdale Citrus Fair (the second largest on the West Coast!) will take place this year from Friday, February 16 through Monday, February 19. Enjoy live music by local bands, a carnival with rides and games, a Friendly Farm Petting Zoo, and agricultural 4-H shows that include junior Pygmy goats, rabbits, and more. Culinary demos and wine tastings showcase the region’s bounty, while art and photo exhibits highlight community talents.

Special events include a parade, cabaret performances, talent shows, and a Citrus Fair Queen pageant. Children 3-5 years old can enter to compete in the Lily Lemon & Oran Orange Contest and babies can make a break for it in the Diaper Derby race. Advance tickets are $10 for adults and $5 for children. Buy tickets and carnival wristbands ahead of time at cloverdalecitrusfair.org.

Sounds of Mardi Gras

rab your friends and jump start Fat Tuesday with the cool sounds of hot jazz, starring Delfeayo Marsalis & The Uptown Jazz Orchestra.

Presented by the Green Music Center, on Thursday, February 8 at 7:30 p.m. Swing with the songs of Fats Domino, Professor Longhair, Earl King, Marsalis & more! Celebrate Mardi Gras with your purple, green, and gold beads, costumes, and dance shoes! Experience the excitement in the air as you imagine the wild parades, crazy costumes, and the beautiful people of New Orleans. It’s right around the corner so get your tickets today! Tickets: $25–$85. gmc.sonoma.edu.

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Reach for Your Dreams

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ll high school and community college students are invited to attend the Reach for Your Dreams conference at Sonoma State University.

The conference will be full of vital information such as, how to fill out a college application, how to pay for college, and how to transfer from Santa Rosa Junior College to a university.

The event, which will be held in both Spanish and English, will take place on Friday, February 23 from 8:30 a.m.–2 p.m. Find more information at facebook. com/ssu.dreamcenter.

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esbian, gay, bisexual, and trans (LGBT) teens often struggle to claim their sexual identities and feel included in community. The Sonoma County Library’s Virtual Pride Club for Teens gives LGBT kids and allies grades 7–12 a place to make friends while they explore queer-oriented media. The free group meets on the third Wednesday of each month, 5–6 p.m., via Zoom. Kids can register for it at tinyurl.com/mssyk3wa.

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hat sparkles, glitters and brings delight? It’s the Fairytale Ball at Finley Community Center in Santa Rosa on Saturday, February 24, 4-6:30 p.m. Experience a children’s dance party, full of imagination, innocence, and whimsy for ages 3–12. Share in the fun together and make lasting memories everyone will cherish! Embrace the fanciful fairytale theme where you will dance to the music, snack on light refreshments, enjoy fun activities, and meet a special guest! It’s a popular event you won’t want to miss! Pre-sale tickets only: $40 per adult/child couple.

Neighborhood services members: $20 per adult/child couple. Max 2 children per 1 adult chaperone (each child must be registered separately for $40 fee). Additional adult chaperone $15. Finley Community Center, (707) 543-3737.

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High Performance What Makes Charter Schools Great

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By Tom Miller

y journey into public charter schools and learning about the characteristics of effective schools began in 2008 when I was an Exceptional Children’s teacher. I later became the director of a rural charter middle school. It was during this time, while writing my dissertation on charter schools, that my “leadership lid” was lifted as I spent time in five high-performing K–8 public charter schools. As a result of this experience and my 2011 research, I discovered these five characteristics of effective charter schools.

Clear School Mission Effective public charter schools understand and live their mission daily.

From the governing board to the families, they are intentional with communicating the mission at every opportunity. The mission lives through succession planning, stable 10 SonomaFamilyLife

school leadership, effective teachers, and highly engaged parents.

Student-Focused Instructional Planning Effective charter schools teach students where they are, not where they should be based on their age or grade-level. This occurs by having February 2024

clear prevention and intervention systems that assess students’ strengths, learning styles, and interests. Additionally, those same systems are applied to help students build the necessary strategies and skills to be more successful in the classroom. By having such a clear education plan in place,

Effective charter schools engage their parents and community as partners in the school’s programs and success. teachers can master their craft and implement these plans with fidelity.

Effective schools do not waiver from their clearly defined education plan; they tweak it based on the results, closing the achievement gap for all.

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choice, public charter schools count on building strong relationships with their parents and community.

Effective charter schools engage their parents and community as partners in the school’s programs and success. These relationships grow through intentionality, purpose, and transparency. From working side-by-side while building the school to teaching classes, the formula is simple: be clear and deliver on promises.

“Real Time” Site-Based Decisions Effective charter schools have built operating systems that continually inform leadership about what is working and what is not. These leaders trust their “on the ground” staff to make decisions

Effective public charter schools understand and live their mission daily.

Strategic Personnel Decisions Effective charter schools develop strong processes to recruit, hire, and retain dedicated, mission- and value-oriented

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“Some teachers may resent a new child.

The classroom will be out of phase.

It throws off the social order and it’s more work for them to assimilate this child into the class.”

On the other hand, there are some pluses when a new student arrives, says Patty Marquis, a licensed clinical social worker. “Sometimes the novelty of a new student is just what the

A Big Move Changing Schools Mid-Year

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By Susan Solomon Yem tarting a new school can be intimidating to any child. When the first day of class is in the middle of the year, it can seem overwhelming for the whole family. There are strategies parents and teachers can apply to make the transition a smooth and comfortable one.

The most common reason for a child to switch schools is family relocation.

However, other factors, such as changes in family structure due to divorce or death or school/child incompatibility may also motivate a move. Educators agree that there are specific challenges to starting a new school in mid-year. “It is harder to move a child after the school year has started,” says Kathy Simons, MS, co-administrator of the MIT Family Resource Center in Cambridge, Massachusetts. “It is out of sync with the child’s sense of the pattern, rhythm, and flow of the year. When school begins in September it’s ‘get acquainted’ time for both the students 12 SonomaFamilyLife

and the teacher. By mid-year the class is past this stage. What’s missing for the new child is the adult-directed activities around helping kids adjust.

The new student must immediately move into work time.”

When Mark and Maura Lally, who had previously homeschooled their son, Justin, decided to place him in a second grade classroom, they knew it would not be easy. “Here we were placing our son into a group of kids who had worked together all year long and Justin might displace someone or disrupt the order of the class,” Maura recalls.

Teachers will sense the disruption in the classroom as Simons explains, February 2024

Parents should personally review and transport records to the new school. classroom needs. Even though the daily routine has already been formed, when someone new comes in it breaks up the monotony.”

“We enrolled Justin in school right after spring vacation when everyone would feel new,” says Maura. “We thought it would be an easier transition for the whole class.”

Parent/Teacher Interaction To ease the change-over some interaction between parents and teachers should occur even before the move has taken place. For children who are transferring from another school, the current teacher should be informed that a move is being contemplated as early as possible.

Nancy Lauter-Klatell, an education specialist, stresses the importance of good communication between all parties. “You should be honest with the first school while you are in the process of making a decision.

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to say this is in the best interest of your child, but you should be open with them. Parents should give the receiving school as much information as possible. The worst thing to do is drop a child into a classroom without the teacher having any prior knowledge of who he or she is.”

Marquis. “Ask old teachers to talk to new teachers to give a sense of the child in the classroom. You, as the parent, should also talk to the new teacher about who your child is.”

Marquis suggests that parents share information on their child’s strengths, vulnerabilities, and learning style.

Although it is uncommon for a parent to choose which classroom their child is assigned to, Maura Lally was able to pick Justin’s class after spending time in both second grade rooms. “I didn’t let them intimidate me,” says Maura.

“Even though the principal said it was the school’s choice where Justin would

Simons recommends that the parents be the ones to transport old school records to the new school. “Be sure to review your child’s school records first.

There may be information there that is inappropriate, unfair, or not relevant to share with the new school.”

“Parents need to take the initiative to be advocates for their kids,” adds

Top Transfer Tips You and your child do not have to make the school transition alone.

Some school districts have set up support groups for new students.

• Before enrolling your child in a new school, call the building principal or the superintendent’s office for information on these groups.

• Contact the local chapter of the Parent/Teacher Association for information on school and extracurricular activities.

• Consider volunteering in the school as a lunchroom monitor, librarian, or office helper to familiarize yourself with your child’s new routine and friends.

• If you are concerned that your child will have difficulty coping with the changes moving to a new school brings, arrange a meeting with the school psychologist to discuss strategies to make things easier.

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go, as a parent I knew how my child worked and which setting would be best for him.”

A review of the new school’s curriculum is also a good idea.

“Parents should be aware that there are differences in curriculum from school to school,” says Simons. “Try to work with the school towards reasonable expectations.” An individualized plan may be necessary to bring the newest member up to date with the class.

“Knowing the curriculum in advance will allay a child’s fear,” says Marquis.

“And parents should do all they can to diminish their child’s fear of failing.”

Visits to the New School Most children are nervous entering a new environment and Marquis says, “Parents should not minimize a child’s

worries. Some kids worry about if everyone is going to stare at them. Are their clothes right? Do they have the right backpack?”

Experts agree that visits to the school prior to beginning classes are helpful.

“One of a child’s biggest fears is getting lost,” says Marquis. “You and your child should go to school when no one else is around. Get familiar with the building.”

“You might want to bring your child to school while in session to get clear answers about classroom behavior, how kids dress, where the cafeteria is, and where to wait for the bus,” adds Simons.

A week before he entered school Justin accompanied his parents to a special event taking place in the auditorium.

They stayed for an hour to help Justin begin acclimating himself to his new surroundings. “I was concerned that kids might not think Justin was cool,” says Maura, “so I bought him the same type of backpack and lunchbox as the other children had.”

Saying Goodbye A child needs to say goodbye to the old school as a first step in adjusting to the new one. According to Simons, “If leaving the first school is rushed and proper attention is not given to saying goodbye, the child’s ability to make attachments at the new school may be interfered with.”

Lauter-Klatell recommends, “Two weeks to one month prior to the move, parents should get together with the child’s teacher or principal

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and ask, how will this be handled in the classroom? How will friends say goodbye? Rather than having a party I think classmates should write a story or letters the child who is leaving can take along.”

“Children will feel the loss of their old classmates deeply,” says Marquis. “In part it is a loss of their own identity.

They worry that if they make new friends, they may lose their old friends.

If possible, you should maintain contact with old friends in the former school.”

First Day Jitters Changing schools is a very significant event in a child’s life. “For some kids changing schools is wonderful,” says Marquis. “They have no baggage and they gain a new sense of self.” How

well a child adapts depends on many factors. “Sometimes we forget to talk to children about the implications of this major change in their lives, “ says Lauter-Klatell. “They adjust in different ways. Children may be angry and those feelings should be validated.

A goodbye plan can make new hellos easier.

They may be fine in school, but they may act out at home. Parents need to be the anchors during this time and give kids coping strategies to help them feel secure.”

Justin’s entrance into his new school was heralded by the arrival of his entire family. Maura, Mark, and

Justin’s sister, Leah, all escorted him into his new classroom on his first day.

“We didn’t want to embarrass him,” Maura relates. “We wanted to support him.”

Children who are having difficulty adjusting may be mourning the loss of old friends and the routine of their former school. Simons describes some warning signs of trouble, “If a child has little positive to say about school or classmates and if they don’t want to go back these are symptoms of missing their old environment.”

Maintaining Contact Besides talking with the child about entering a new classroom, parents should seek out help from the teacher.

“Even before the new child enters the class teachers should have preliminary

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discussion to prepare the other students,” says Lauter-Klatell. “And after the new student has arrived there should be some discussion about rules and routines.”

Most teachers will pair a new child with a buddy to encourage friendships, but parents should ask teachers to point out potential friends as well.

“One reason why I wanted to choose Justin’s classroom was because I wanted to pick a friend to buddy him up with,” says Maura. “I saw one boy who had a similar personality and they did become good friends.”

“It is important for parents to stay in touch with the new school and vice versa,” stresses Lauter- Klatell.

Periodic phone calls or conferences may be valuable in establishing a good

relationship between home and school.

Close communication is just as vital at the preschool level. Preschool director Karen Donaher agrees. “Parents and teachers should be talking constantly,” she says. “The parent should plan on attending the first day at a new

Communication between parents and teachers is especially vital for mid-year transitions. preschool or daycare. Enter with the child. Make it a shorter than usual day and then work up to a full-time schedule.”

Donaher also recommends sending in a family picture for the child to

place in his or her cubby and a special something to hold on to during naptime.

Justin’s transition to his new school was successful. He completed second grade with glowing recommendations from his teacher.

“A child in a new school can feel out of control,” says Simons. “Support him or her during this time. Model a long-range outlook. Remind your child that with any change there are opportunities to develop new skills, make new friends, become involved in a new community. These are all good for their future development.” ❖ Susan Solomon Yem is an internationally published writer specializing in parenting, education, and women’s issues.

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Options include baseball, soccer, tennis, golf, and even surfing or sailing.

Private organizations usually run these types of camps, but there may be some town-operated sports camps, too.

Camp is Calling What Kind of Camp is Right for Your Kid?

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hen I was younger, I only had one choice for summer camp—the town camp, a traditional all-day, six-hour camp with a heavy emphasis on sports. I was more of a bookworm than an athlete, so it was not a good match for my personality. I remember coming home every day whining to my mom, “It was so hot and all we did was play (fill in a sport). Do I have to go to camp tomorrow?” By the end of the summer, I’m sure my mom wished there were other options for me.

Now there are so many choices it can be overwhelming to figure out what type of camp would work for your child. Hopefully, the following descriptions will help you to match your camper with the correct camp.

It’s better to hear, “Camp was so much fun today,” instead of what my poor mother had to hear daily.

Traditional Day Camp A traditional day camp is six hours (half-day options may be available) and offers a variety of activities, such 18 SonomaFamilyLife

as sports, swimming, art, and music.

These camps are located at YMCAs, public schools, or private settings.

Is this a good fit for your child? Most of the activities are outside so if your child loves the outdoors, playing sports, and/ or participating in team-building activities, then this would be a good choice. A diverse array of activities make day camps a nice fit for children that like to try different things.

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Is this a good fit for your child? If your child loves a certain sport and would like to improve specific skills, this would be a great option. It could even be a way for your child to try a sport such as surfing to which he or she might not otherwise be exposed.

Consider your child’s personality and interests when choosing between camps.

Art/Musical Theater At musical theater camps, children usually put on a production like Beauty and the Beast, whereas at art camps children learn to paint or draw or develop other skills related to different media.

Private organizations or public schools usually run these types of camps. In the case of the latter, the program may not be formally advertised, so call your local public schools to find out about summer theater offerings.

Is this a good fit for your child? If your child is creative and prefers to be indoors, then an arts camp could be a great option. Since most of these camps usually last only about a week, they allow kids the chance to check out an art form www.sonomafamilylife.com

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without committing to a longer program.

Educational Camps These camps focus on learning a new skill or subject matter. They tend to be hands-on with an emphasis on creating a fun, as opposed to a labor-intensive, experience. Educational camps are located in public schools, museums, and colleges.

Is this a good fit for your child? If your child is curious and always asking questions about how/ why things work, these kinds of camps may be up his or her alley. These programs are particularly appealing to children who are interested in learning new skills, such as computer programming or speaking Spanish or another foreign language.

Overnight Camps Kids usually stay at sleep-away camps for a week or longer. Think: Boy/Girl Scout camps and private residential camps offering options such as sailing, boating, archery, horseback riding, and other activities that may not be available close to your home.

away from Mom and Dad, consider this kind of experience. Besides the chance to find out who they are apart from the family unit, sleep-away camps also offer kids the opportunity to meet other children from different states and countries as well as focus attention for a long period of time on particular activities.

A diverse array of activities make day camps a nice fit for children that like to try different things.

How can i find these camps?

A good place to start is asking friends and family where they sent their child to camp and if it was a positive. Check out Family Life’s Virtual Camp Fair. ❖

Is this a good fit for your child? Overnight camps foster a child’s sense of independence. So if your child is ready for some time

Cheryl Maguire’s writing has been published in The New York Times, National Geographic, The Washington Post, The Boston Globe, Parents Magazine, AARP, Healthline, Your Teen Magazine, and many other publications. You can find her at Twitter @CherylMaguire05.

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sometimes heal, and a dead baby tooth may not create any further problems or harm adult teeth, says pediatric dentist Dr. Sabrina Magid Katz.

A graying baby tooth may become infected, which sometimes causes a tiny pustule on the gums above the tooth; a dentist can extract it and

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By Malia Jacobson

eeping kids’ smiles healthy takes more than regular dental checkups (which should begin around 18 months) and brushing twice daily. In addition to the normal loss of baby teeth and a cavity or two, many children will at some point experience some type of tooth-related trauma, like a chipped tooth or one that suddenly turns gray. While childhood dental dramas are common, experts warn against ignoring them, because problems with baby teeth can affect the developing permanent teeth below. Read on for help with dental problems, from minor mishaps to true emergencies, to keep baby teeth beaming and big-kid grins gleaming.

EARLY YEARS, AGES 0-5 Many parents are dismayed to discover that one of their toddler’s pearly whites isn’t white at all—think gray or light brown. A tooth that suddenly darkens is fairly common.

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roots than permanent teeth, they can die with even a slight bump, causing them to lose their white luster. Dentists generally advise a “wait-and-see” approach to a graying baby tooth, because it’s usually just an aesthetic issue; dying baby teeth February 2024

Be aware of how dental mishaps vs. emergencies may impact permanent teeth. help treat the underlying infection.

If the tooth has to go, take heart— it won’t affect spacing of the permanent teeth, and your little one may get to be the first of his pals to get a visit from the Tooth Fairy.

ELEMENTARY YEARS, AGES 6-12 During the school years, kids lose most of their baby teeth and learn to care for their new adult choppers. And because children are so active during this stage, it’s not uncommon to knock out a tooth— ouch. A knocked-out tooth is a true dental emergency that warrants a call to your dentist. The Greensboro Center for Pediatric Dentistry in Greensboro, North Carolina, advises keeping the tooth damp so it doesn’t dry out; if possible, have the child hold it in place with a finger. If the tooth is a permanent one, your dentist may be able to restore it to its original position.

But knocked-out baby teeth aren’t re-implanted, as that can damage the adult teeth underneath. www.sonomafamilylife.com

Another common dental dilemma: Permanent teeth coming in before baby teeth fall out, resulting in multiple “rows” of teeth. This can look odd, but it’s not a big deal, says Magid Katz; the tongue will push the permanent teeth into alignment once the baby teeth fall out. Encourage your child to keep wiggling the baby teeth; if one is particularly stubborn, your dentist can help coax it out.

TEEN YEARS, AGES 13-18 Chomping ice, using teeth to open a bottle, or playing sports can lead to something most teens don’t want in their yearbook photo: A chipped tooth. When is a chipped tooth an emergency? While minor

chips are mostly an aesthetic issue, a larger chip can expose nerve endings that make a tooth extremely temperature-sensitive and very painful, says Magid Katz. If your child chips a tooth, try to locate the

A knocked-out tooth is a true dental emergency that warrants a call to your dentist. missing piece, put it in water and call your dentist right away, per the Greensboro Center for Pediatric Dentistry. A severe break may qualify as an emergency, while more

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minor chips can probably wait until the next business day.

If the broken piece can’t be found, your dentist can create a composite filling to restore the tooth; composites look natural and can last for years, though your child may need to replace it at some point in his or her lifetime. To avoid chips, have teens wear mouthguards for sports, and advise them to never use teeth as “tools”—and always model healthy dental habits by refraining from this practice yourself. ❖ Malia Jacobson is a health journalist and the parent of three children in various stages of orthodontia.

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February Calendar of Events Thursday 1 FREE Año Nuevo Lunar Evento: Lunar New Year Fun. All ages.

Celebrate the Year of the Dragon with a dragon craft, red envelopes, and face-painting by Elsa. This is an inclusive program. This event is in Spanish with an English interpreter.

3–4:30 p.m. Roseland Library, 470 Sebastopol Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl. com/yksddchk.

Fences. A play about family,

responsibility, love, friendship, and respect. Feb. 1–3: 7:30 p.m.

Feb. 3–4: 2 p.m. Runs thru Feb. 4. $29–$45. 6th Street Playhouse.

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Monroe Stage. 52 W. 6th St., Santa Rosa. 6thstreetplayhouse.com.

Friday 2 Sensory Swim at the YMCA. For

kids with sensory, motor, or other developmental needs. Reservations not required, Fridays: 2:20–4 p.m.

Sundays: 9–10:30 a.m. $10 for a family swim pass (2 adults & any minors in the same household).

YMCA. 1111 College Ave., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/37z2kwws.

Saturday 3 Lunar New Year: The Year of the Dragon. Children participate in

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Lion & Dragon Dances, calligraphy, Chinese Zodiac, Chinese drummers, martial art demonstrations and more. Two peformances: 10 a.m.–2 p.m. Members: $12. Non-members: $20. Seniors, income-based discounts available. Infants 11 months & younger: Free. Children’s Museum of Sonoma County. 1835 W. Steele Ln., Santa Rosa. cmosc.org/events/ lunar-new-year-celebration.

FREE The Secret of Kells.

Screening of 2009 animated movie.

Part of the monthly Family Matinees series. Tickets available at box office before the movie. Feb. 3 & 4: 11 a.m. Rialto Cinemas Sebastopol.

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6868 McKinley St., Sebastopol. rialtocinemas.com.

Great Sonoma Crab & Wine Fest.

Live auctions. Proceeds benefit Sonoma County Farm Bureau’s agricultural education activities.

4–8:30 p.m. $165. Santa Rosa Fairgrounds. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. 707-544-5575 Tickets: tinyurl.com/ye27u67p.

$16. Infants 11 months & younger: free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. Children’s Museum. 1835 W. Steele Ln., Santa Rosa. cmosc.org/events.

Tuesday 6 Sandy Loam Early Release Enrichment. For elementary

school-aged children who have 1/2 days on Tuesdays & Wednesdays.

Farm, nature, and art-based experiences, snacks provided.

Tuesdays & Wednesdays: 12:30–4:30 p.m. $10 –$45. Veronda-Falletti Ranch. 175 W. Sierra Ave., Cotati.

707-664-5347 Registration required: sandyloam.org.

14th Annual Montgomery Education Foundation Crab Feed. Auctions, entertainment

by Montgomery High students, crab, and clam chowder. 5:30–9 p.m. $70 person or to-go dinners for $45. St. Eugene Becker Center.

2323 Montgomery Dr., Santa Rosa.

Tickets: tinyurl.com/smjadd5s.

Nuestros Parques - Taylor Mountain Family Hike. Spanish led 1–2 mile hike for the whole family.

Dogs allowed. 10 a.m–1 p.m. Parking $7 or free with a Regional Parks membership pass. Taylor Mountain Regional Park. 2080 Kawana Terrace, Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/yw3nn676.

Sunday 4 FREE Pokémon & Magic the Gathering Club. Ages 10–17. Learn

to play, learn to build decks and/or stop by for a casual game. Sundays.

2:30–4 p.m. Sonoma Valley Regional Library. 755 W. Napa St., Sonoma. Registration required: tinyurl.com/yc82nbf3.

Monday 5 Nature Explorers at CMOSC.

Hands-on program for all ages to experience & explore nature around the museum with a California Naturalist. Mondays. 11 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Members: Free. Non-members: www.sonomafamilylife.com

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Wednesday 7

FREE Young Astronomers at the Library. Grades 4–9. Learn how to

use telescopes, meet other kids who are interested in space & receive a Young Astronomers membership button. No registration required. 6–7 p.m. Rincon Valley Library. 6959 Montecito Blvd., Santa Rosa. rfo.org.

FREE Postpartum Planning for Expectant Parents. 2-hour on-line

class for expectant parents, moms, birthing people, non-gestational parents, partners, couples, & single parents (2nd & 3rd trimester). Held first & third Wednesdays of the month.

DADS! JOIN US FOR AN ENCHANTING EVENING WITH YOUR PRINCESS

FEBRUARY 9 6:30-8:30PM

Snacks, Photo Booth, DJ & Dancing Register at newvintage.org

Feb. 7: 4:30 p.m. & Feb. 21: 10 a.m.

Registration required: postpartum.net/ postpartum-planning-for-expectantparents.

FREE Family is a Rainbow Storytime. Ages 3-8 years. For queer

families celebrating the importance of family, diversity, & community. Songs, crafts & more. 3–4 p.m. Roseland Library. 470 Sebastopol Rd. Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/4krze84v.

Thursday 8 Mardi Gras with Delfeayo Marsalis & The Uptown Jazz Orchestra.

Bring your costume, beads, & dancing shoes to celebrate New Orleans with songs by Fats Domino, Professor Longhair, Earl King, Marsalis & more. $25–$85. 7:30 p.m. Green Music Center. 1801 East Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. Tickets: gmc.sonoma.edu.

FREE After School Hang Out (Grades 6-12.) Drop by the After School Hang

MOMS! JOIN US FOR A FUN NIGHT OF GAMES, MUSIC AND LAUGHTER WITH YOUR LITTLE DUDE

Out to study, play games, or just chill with your peers. Laptops & board games available. Thursdays 4–5 p.m.

Windsor Library. 9291 Old Redwood Hwy., Windsor. Other library branches will host this event. View full schedule: tinyurl.com/kcf7wxxv.

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FREE K-Pop Club. Ages 12–17.

New releases, Korean snacks, crafts, & chill-out with other K-pop fans.

4:30–5:30 p.m. Sonoma Valley Library.

755 W. Napa St., Sonoma. Register: tinyurl.com/swvv2h5b.

Saturday 10 FREE Lake Sonoma Steelhead Festival. Live music, bubble show,

arts & crafts, fishing-themed games, CAL Fire, wildlife & conservation www.sonomafamilylife.com

exhibits. Rain or shine. 10 a.m–4 p.m. Milt Brandt Visitors Center.

3288 Skaggs Spring Rd., Geyserville.

Steelheadfestival.org.

All-you-can-eat Crab Feed & Live

9:30–11 a.m. Summerfield Waldorf School & Farm. 655 Willowside Rd., Santa Rosa. Registration required: summerfieldwaldorf.org/admissions/ valentine-tea.

A Capella Show. Wine, Lagunitas

Science Saturdays: Seed

beer, auctions. 5–9 p.m. $80. Ages 10 & younger: $30. Petaluma Veterans Building. 1094 Petaluma Blvd. S., Petaluma. Tickets: tinyurl. com/3neuv93p.

Balls. Kids ages 6–12 learn about the difference between native &

non-native plants & the benefits that native plant gardens provide for local wildlife. Second Saturday of each month. Two Sessions: 11 a.m.–noon & 1–2 p.m. $10–$12. Parking $7 or free with a Regional Parks membership pass. Spring Lake Regional Park Environmental Discovery Center. 393

Petaluma Riding & Driving Club Crab Feed. Feb. 10: To-Go Orders Pick-up times: 3–5 p.m. $70–$72.

Add 1 crab with each order: $20.

Dine-in Doors open at 5 p.m. $85–$87. Feb. 11: To-Go Orders Pick-up times: Noon–2 p.m. $70–$72.

Add 1 crab with each order: $20.

Petaluma Riding & Driving Club.

820 Skillman Ln., Petaluma. Tickets: petalumaridingclub.com.

Tropical Shellebration. Dinner &

dancing. Silent & live auctions, & raffle. 5–10 p.m. $85/person (includes 2 drink tickets). Hosted by the 20–30 Club of the Redwood Empire #1029.

Friedman Center 4676 Mayette Ave., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl. com/4nnvmb8w.

Sebastopol Rotary Crab Feed.

All-You-Can-Eat crab plus clam chowder, dessert & wine. Live music.

Two seatings: 5 & 7 p.m. (Bar opens at 4 p.m.) $80 donation. Holy Ghost Hall.

7690 Mill Station Rd., Sebastopol.

Tickets: sebastopolrotary.com/sitepage/ crab-feed.

FREE Valentine Tea. Prospective

preschool & kindergarten families are invited to visit the Early Childhood Education Village. Valentine songs, stories, and crafts. Meet Early Childhood teachers & children. www.sonomafamilylife.com

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populations by planting native grasses. Gloves and tools provided.

Ages 10 & up. Youth under 16 must be accompanied by an adult. Rain or shine. 8:30 a.m.–1 p.m. Pepperwood Preserve. Meet up: Dwight Center Courtyard. 2130 Pepperwood Preserve Rd., Santa Rosa. Sign-up: tinyurl.com/2t88bxth.

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Live music & entertainment, Mardi Gras beads & crown. Produced

by Petaluma Music Festival & Petaluma High School Music. 7 p.m. $25–$30. All proceeds benefit the music programs at all Petaluma area public schools. Mystic Theatre. 23 Petaluma Blvd. N, Petaluma.Tickets: tinyurl.com/3jrzrhy5.

Spurned Love Valentine D’Luxe Ghost Walks. Ghost Walks through Downtown Petaluma while hearing stories of Petaluma’s historical families during Victorian times.

Feb. 10–11: 3–5 p.m. $15. Petaluma Museum. 20 4th St., Petaluma.

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Second Saturday Cartoonist. Meet, watch & talk to Amber Rakin, a 2D animator & illustrator, including short films Let’s Eat & Amped. 1–3 p.m. Cost included with museum admission. Free for members. $5–$12.

Age 3 & under: Free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org/ amber-rankin.

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music & culture. Spanning music from the 1920s thru the 1960s. Feb. 10: 1 p.m. Feb. 11: 7 p.m. General $35/ Child $25. Spreckels Performing Arts Center. 5409 Snyder Ln., Rohnert Park. Tickets: rpcity.org.

Monday 12 Broadway to Brooklyn. David Babinet had enjoyed a successful career as a baritone opera singer when he discovered his new passion: His Jewish identity. Enjoy a performance that draws from opera, Broadway, Yiddish, cantorial, Ladino, Israeli, & Chassidic melodies. Following the performance, David presents a Kosher wine-tasting demonstration. 6:30 p.m.

Couvert: $35 Petaluma Woman’s Club.

518 B St., Petaluma. RSVP: tinyurl. com/2s37dyrb.

Tuesday 13 FREE Sensory Friendly Afternoon.

Exclusive to families of children ages 0–12, with special needs. Hands-on exhibits, art studio. Safe, accessible environment. 1–5 p.m. Childrens Museum. 1835 W. Steel Ln., Santa Rosa. Pre-registration required: tinyurl. com/2henub3h.

Wednesday 14

Now Accepting New TK–6th Grade Students for the 2024–25 School Year. www.rvusd.org

FREE Walk Through the Grades Tour. Take a peek into Waldorf

classrooms. Check out the campus & working biodynamic farm. Adults only. 9–11 a.m. Summerfield Waldorf School & Farm. 655 Willowside Rd., Santa Rosa. Register: summerfieldwaldorf.org/admissions/ walk-the-grades-tour.

FREE Virtual Queer Book Club.

Grades 7–12. Held virtually the third Wednesday of each month.

6–7 p.m. Register for Zoom link: www.sonomafamilylife.com

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Friday 16 Cloverdale Citrus Fair. Feb. 16-19: Noon–8 p.m. $5–$10. Ages 5 & younger: Free. Carnival wristbands (all day unlimited rides) not included in fair admission. Cloverdale Citrus Fair. 1 Citrus Fair Dr., Cloverdale. cloverdalecitrusfair.org.

Saturday 17 Masons All-You-Can-Eat Crab Feed. Two seatings: 5 p.m. & 7 p.m. $70. Children 6-12 yrs: $35. Under 6 yrs: Free. Sebastopol Masonic Center.

373 N. Main St., Sebastopol. Tickets: sebastopolcrabfeed.eventbrite.com

FREE Repair Fair. Ages 12 & up.

En Garde Fencing Valentine’s

Lamps, small appliances, textile or bike in need of repair? Volunteers & specialized repair professionals will be on-hand. No guarantees item will be repaired (depending on damage & availability of materials). Volunteers needed: volunteer@reusealliance.org.

1–4 p.m. Registration encouraged. SR Central Library. 211 E. St., Santa Rosa. reusealliance.org/events.

FREE Festival of Olives. Curated

selection of artisanal olive oil, olive-inspired art & olive centric vendors. Food & drinks available for purchase. 11 a.m.–3 p.m. Jacuzzi Family Vineyard. 24724 Arnold Dr., Sonoma. RSVP required: tinyurl.com/ ms28ej79.

Date Night. Pizza, movie, nerf gun battle. Ages 7–12. $35. 5–9 p.m. En Garde Fencing. 917 Piner Rd., Ste. D, Santa Rosa. egfencing.com/ fencing-classes-calendar.

FREE Virtual Event. Asian Art

Museum Lecture: Lunar New Year.

Ages 12 & up. Celebrate the Year of the Dragon! Lanterns, dragons, red envelopes & more: Learn about colorful traditions & symbolism

by Asian cultures. 11 a.m.–Noon.

Advance registration required for Zoom link: tinyurl.com/2s3sv84z.

Sunday 18 Bodega Bay Grange Annual Cioppino Dinner. All-You-Can-Eat

fresh Dungeness crab in a cioppino sauce, with garlic bread, salad &

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dessert. Noon–4:30 p.m. $80. Bodega Bay Grange Hall. 1370 Bodega Ave., Bodega Bay. Tickets: tinyurl. com/3xd2mu37.

Tuesday 20 FREE Common Ground Sibs Meetup. Ages 7–17. For siblings of

disabled or special needs child. 4–6 p.m. Through Common Ground Society. Double Decker Lanes. 300 Golf Course Dr., Rohnert Park.

Register: commongroundsociety.org.

Wednesday 21 Homeschool Day: Beach & Boards.

New exhibition Cowabunga, Peanuts!

Hands-on activities: Ocean, water, waves, & more. 10 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Cost included with museum admission. $5–$12. Ages 3 & under:

free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. Ice skate at Snoopy’s Home Ice, located across the street from the Museum: 12:30–2 p.m. (additional costs apply). Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. Register: schulzmuseum.org/ beach-and-boards.

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Africa thru indigenous music & story telling. 11 a.m.–Noon. Guerneville Library. 14107 Armstrong Woods Rd., Guerneville. Other library branches will host this event. View full schedule: tinyurl.com/5cty4fwn.

Friday 23 FREE Reach for Your Dreams Conference. Workshop that will help

YMCA Family Fun Night: Bingo. TBD. Members: Free.

Non-members: $10 per household (2 adults & children living in the same house). Sonoma County YMCA. 1111 College Ave., Santa Rosa.

Register: scfymca.org.

FREE African Music & Arts Village.

Baba Shibambo leads a family friendly, interactive program that introduces the cultural traditions of South

high school & community college students understand the process of applying for college, transfer from Santa Rosa Junior College to a university, take college classes in high school, & much more. 8:30 a.m.–2 p.m.

Sonoma State University. 1801 East Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. facebook. com/ssu.dreamcenter.

Raven Winter Gala Fundraiser.

Eclectic mix of performances

Valentine’s Date Night

Kids Night Out at En Garde Fencing

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of singers, children’s chorus, ballroom dance, knife-throwing, & sharpshooting. Silent & live auction, savory culinary treats & locally procured adult beverages. 6:30 p.m. $100–$125. Raven Performing Arts Theater. 115 North St., Healdsburg. raventheater.org.

Saturday 24 FairyTale Ball. Dance party for ages

3–12 & their chaperones. $40 per adult/child couple. Neighborhood services members: $20 per adult/child couple. Max 2 children per 1 adult chaperone. Call 707-543-3737. Sign-up early as this event sells out. 4–6:30 p.m. Finley Community Center. 2060 W. College Ave., Santa Rosa. Pre-sale tickets only: tinyurl.com/3m7vrcfj.

FREE Common Ground “Under 5” Family Meet-up. For families

with a child younger than 5 with a disability, medical complexity, or any sort of unique need. Enjoy snacks & companionship with other Common Ground Society families. Siblings welcome. 10 a.m.–Noon. Common Ground Society. 85 Brookwood Ave., #12, Santa Rosa. Register: commongroundsociety.org/calendar.

Annual Chili Bowl. A variety of chili

prepared by local chefs. Proceeds benefit Community Center Programs.

Three sittings: 11:30 a.m & 1:30 p.m. $35. 5 p.m. $70. (Includes cocktail hour.) Sonoma Community Center.

276 E. Napa St., Sonoma. Tickets: tinyurl.com/yxujkwkr.

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Monday 26 Happy Valentine’s Day, Charlie Brown! Museum Mondays for Little

Ones. Ages 1–5. Before 11 a.m.: $10 per child & free for up to 2 adults per child. After 11 a.m.: Regular admission applies, $5–$12. Free for members & ages 3 & younger.

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intergenerational LGBTQIA2S+ people to come together, explore the natural world and foster a sense of community. All are welcome. 1–3 p.m.

Parking $7 or free with a Regional Parks membership pass. Crane Creek Regional Park. 5000 Pressley Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/3n8w5fwt.

Hālau Hula Ka No‘eau. Dancers

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perform traditional hula styles that descend from the lineage of O‘ahu’s renowned Maiki Aiu Lake. 7:30 p.m. $20–$49. Luther Burbank Center. 50 Mark West Springs Rd., Santa Rosa.

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Thursday 29 Voctave The Corner of Broadway & Main Street. Ensemble brings

harmonies to favorite songs from the Disney screen & the Broadway stage. 7:30 p.m. $35–$95. Weill Hall, Green Music Center. 1801 East Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. Tickets: gmc.sonoma.edu.

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Humor Break have resigned themselves to the fact that no matter what they do, they are going to get sick exactly one day later after their toddler comes home with the sniffles. So even if they have a perfect solo vacation planned, it’s going to be spent with their head hanging over the bed and reaching for the trash can. Don’t make them wait for the glorious gift of stomach issues combined with a splitting headache.

The Five Love Languages of Modern Parenting What We Really Want For Valentine’s Day

By Shannon Carpenter Words of Get Me a Snack After a long day of cutting cucumbers into little shapes so your children will eat the “fun snacks,” nothing lets a parent know they are loved more than someone else fixing them a snack. For those that feel affection by Words of Get Me a Snack, just the thought of someone else getting them food for a change makes their chocolate hearts melt.

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as a clean pot. Or maybe load the dishwasher. It doesn’t even have to be right. Put the silverware scattered in the top near the glasses, lay plates horizontally, whatever.

Those who speak this love language are so desperate that they really don’t care. Is it that hard to ask for just one clean counter when you wake up in the morning?

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Quality Time by Myself in the Bathroom Nothing shows a person how much you love them by not knocking on the bathroom door.

When you feel the need to knock on the bathroom door because the wrong episode of Sesame Street is on, put down your little toddler fist of fury. The parent that speaks this love language just wants a few moments of alone time and perhaps a long phone charging cord.

Don’t Physically Touch Me Who doesn’t like to be poked all day, be hung on like a jungle gym, or kicked in the shins because they can’t play in the garbage? Parents who speak the love language Don’t Physically Touch Me. It’s the most effective around the middle of the night and the third time they’ve gotten up because you can’t sleep.

Well, maybe if you didn’t sneak that sugary snack when the parent’s back was turned things would have worked out better. So to show your parents true love, send them a letter and go poke the dog for a little bit.

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