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Fall Edition 2020
REAL WEDDINGS 8 Kate & Eric 28 Jessica & Justin 56 Kelsey & David 68 Elise & Matt
BACHELORETTE PARTY 16 What to do before ‘I do’? 18 Backyard happy hour 20 Lake house Olympics 22 Disney destination
ESSENTIAL RESOURCES 54 Submit your wedding 76 Vendor Listings 78 Venue Guide
TRENDS + ADVICE 24 Fit for a groom 36 Rolling with the changes 40 Would-be wedding day 50 To have and to hold 52 COVID-cautious setup tips 64 Bridal gown alterations
SPONSORED FEATURES 38 Small Business Directory
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Kate & Eric A N D R E A B I B E A U LT
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T H E M AG N O L I A H OT E L
GO JAYS Kate Wiste and Eric Forney met on an elevator
bulk of their budget going toward guest experiences, like the
at a residence hall at Creighton University, where they were
meal and bar. SWEETEST MOMENT They’ll never forget
pursuing their undergraduate degrees. But it wasn’t until eight
reading their vows to each other. “We hadn’t heard them
years later that fate brought them together again as they
before the ceremony. It melted my heart to hear the words Eric
consoled each other after bad breakups. BIG SURPRISE
put together,” Kate says. Their ring bearer, nephew Kingston,
Eric conspired with friends to get Kate back on Creighton’s
stole the show with his happy demeanor. He even got offers
campus. Kate thought Eric was in Georgia, where he was doing
from other engaged guests to be the ring bearer for their
his surgical residency — until he stepped out in front of St.
weddings. UNITED WE STAND They planted an oak seed
John’s Church. “I can’t quite remember the words he said
from the Nebraska Arboretum for the unity ceremony, using
because I was so flustered, but I do know that he asked me
mason jars full of soil from the backyards of where they grew
to spend forever with him,” Kate says. FOCUS ON FAMILY
up. “We have the oak planted in a large pot and it’s doing
Kate wanted a simple and elegant wedding that incorporated
quite well. We plan to keep it with us until we can plant it in
as many family heirlooms and personal details as possible. Her
our forever home.” WORDS WERE ENOUGH They didn’t
bouquet featured a blue brooch from her great-grandmother,
exchange gifts. “I’m sentimental that the vows meant more than
a white handkerchief that belonged to her grandfather and a
anything else could have,” Kate says. Their favorite gift was a
silk magnolia that paid homage to her family’s Southern roots.
cake knife that Kate’s dad forged by blending pieces of steel
She wore her great-aunt’s necklace, just like her sister did,
from his farm and the Forney ranch. The handle is half walnut,
and her great-grandmother’s ring on her right hand. The floral
from Eric’s family’s backyard, and maple, from the front yard
arrangements included pheasant feathers collected by Eric
of Kate and Eric’s first home. They also loved a case of wine
and his family while bird hunting on their ranch in western
sent by a winemaker friend in Napa. “Both were meaningful
Nebraska. The cake stand was a gift Eric’s grandparents had
because they were crafted by family and friends.” BUSY LIFE
received on their 50th wedding anniversary. Kate’s wedding
Scheduling time together has been their biggest challenge, so
ring came from her grandmother. GAME DAY They married
they’ve reserved a weekly date night. He didn’t know she was
on a Husker bye weekend, which fell the day before what
a night owl, and she didn’t know about his T-shirt collection.
would have been her grandparents’ 50th anniversary. “Every
But it’s all good. “You’re the love of my life,” Eric tells Kate.
Nebraska bride will understand the struggle in trying to have
She says she’s lucky to have a partner who is loving and hard-
a fall wedding,” Kate says. They invited 160 guests, with the
working and encourages her to do what makes her happy.
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Essential details THE COUPLE KATE WISTE AND ERIC FORNEY PHOTOGRAPHER ANDREA BIBEAULT — A WEDDING
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B AC H E L O R E T T E PA RT Y
WHAT TO DO BEFORE ‘I DO’? Whether you’ve been planning your bachelorette party as intensely as your wedding, or you just want a way to celebrate friendships as you embark on life’s next journey, the “last fling before the ring” is a hallmark of most engaged couples’ wedding experience. On the next pages are three Nebraska brides’ bachelorette parties, with details and tips for everything from DIY themes and group activities to how to approach your dream destination weekend.
Kelsey
Marisa
Lauren
Backyard happy hour
Lake house Olympics
Disney destination
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BACKYARD HAPPY HOUR STORY JESSICA THOMPSON
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PHOTOGRAPHY KELSEY KIRK
maha bride Kelsey Kirk was just starting to plan her bachelorette party when the COVID-19 pandemic hit in March. She and her
bridesmaids had been mulling options like a long weekend in Kansas City, a local lake house rental and a vineyard day trip. “My friends and I tossed out ideas left and right, but nothing really stuck,” the bride says. “When the pandemic started upending things, we put a halt to planning.” Even her Aug. 8 wedding date was up in the air. But as spring and
The scouts of Troop 8820 — a play on Kelsey’s wedding date — enjoyed snacks, games and cocktails in personalized mugs, with social distancing measures and more creative details planned by “troop leaders” Katherine Leszczynski and Julianne Schmitt. “We kept the party outside, except for when we snagged food. But when you did walk into the dining room, you were met with the aroma of pine trees,” Kelsey says. They dined on individually portioned finger foods like chicken tenders, trail mix and fruit skewers. The highlight of the day was the craft activity. Troop members chose
summer wore on, Kelsey made COVID-conscious adjustments to the
colorful patches to iron onto green sashes (sewn by a fellow troop
wedding and reception, and her bridesmaids did the same in planning
member). The bride’s selection included a diamond and a slice of
her bachelorette bash.
watermelon, plus a cat, “as a nod to my fiancé (David).”
“I was content to have a little get-together after the wedding, once life got a little more normal, but my friends weren’t hearing it.” The result was “Kamp Kelsey,” a campout-themed backyard happy hour at her maid of honor’s house, inspired by a hand-painted sign that adorned Kelsey’s childhood swing set.
Partygoers briefly broke social distancing efforts for a group photo, and Troop 8820 closed out festivities with s’mores around the campfire, as any campout should. The best part? “Going home to sleep in our own beds. No tents or sleeping bags rolled out on uneven ground for us!”
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LAKE HOUSE OLYMPICS STORY CHRIS CHRISTEN PHOTOGRAPHY CHRIS CHRISTEN + KONRAD CHRISTEN
tournament and frozen T-shirt race (first to
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a slip and slide, then races to a table for Flip
Besides a water balloon toss, beer pong thaw and put it on wins), games included: Slip ‘n’ Flip: Each contestant dives onto
istance, time and money were concerns as bride Marisa Laue Christen and maid
Cup.
of honor Shelby Rissler started talking last
Splash Bombs: Like dodgeball, but with
January about bachelorette party options.
smaller, water-logged foam balls.
Marisa wanted a getaway, but with a clinical
Giant Sponge Race: Wet a sponge from
rotation in Kansas City, her fiancé Konrad in
one bucket of water, then pass it person-to-
Columbus, Ohio, and wedding appointments
person, with the last one in line squeezing out
in Omaha and Lincoln, finding a string of open
the water into a second bucket. The first team
days in spring 2020 would be tough.
to fill the second bucket wins.
Her maids also had crazy schedules and
So who claimed ultimate victory? They all
expenses to consider. “The main issue was five
did; the games succeeded in breaking the ice
of us in four different states,” Shelby says.
and building camaraderie before the wedding.
Everybody, however, could be in Lincoln a few days before the July 11 wedding. So Shelby
“Some of us didn’t know each other,” Shelby
searched for an Airbnb that would give them
says. “People’s personalities really come out
quality time together, and a place to get ready
when things get competitive. It was fun to see
the day of the wedding. A lakeside property
who was super into it.” But points-wise, “it kinda fell apart in
called The Boathouse near Crete, Nebraska, met every requirement, with a full kitchen,
the end,” Shelby says. Two challenges were
dreamy lake views and a fire pit. Shelby booked
forfeited. “Everyone got tired and hungry. We
it for Thursday through Saturday morning. Then the coronavirus pandemic hit. And the groomsmen had to scrap their plan for a weekend in Columbus.
Each team wore bandanas in an Olympicsinspired color (red, green, orange or blue),
never had the medal awards ceremony. We went straight into supper!” The biggest expense was the Airbnb. Beyond
and had coordinating koozies, compliments of
that, Shelby says she spent $175 to $200 on
So a day at the lake would now include
DIY-savvy Shelby, who created a logo and an
food, game equipment and supplies for the
the guys, and water games, in the spirit of the
iron-on transfer commemorating the outing.
group of 18.
Summer Olympics.
She also DIY-ed a scoreboard.
Here’s how the games played out.
Points would go to the top three finishers in
Shelby’s advice for planning a bachelor/ bachelorette party: “Do whatever the bride and
each challenge. The team with the most points
groom want to do.” For Marisa and Konrad, it
into four teams, grouped by who knew who
at the end of the day would go home with the
was quality time with friends, and relaxation.
for COVID-19 precautions.
gold: dollar store medals.
“The Boathouse weekend worked great.”
The bridal party and their plus-ones divided
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DISNEY DESTINATION STORY JESSICA THOMPSON PHOTOGRAPHY JENNIFER PIERCE PHOTOGRAPHY + LAUREN BRANDT
characters) and lodging at one of Disney’s value resorts.
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Disney parks and intermittent lounging by the hotel pool. Lauren opted
auren Brandt wanted to “party like a princess” and started planning her Disney World bachelorette trip soon after getting engaged.
“I knew it would be pricey and challenging to make it happen, but that
didn’t stop my pursuit of the magic,” she says. The Omaha bride is a seasoned fan of the Florida parks and knew exactly how to fill a long weekend there. But she also had her bridal party to think of, so considering their budgets and presenting a fully formed plan was important to her. Planning early and doing her own research were key. “I glanced at flights, hotels, theme park tickets, food, drinks and souvenirs to get an overview of what I’d want and an estimate of the cost.” Three members of the bride squad got on board. The tripgoers
The foursome set off for Orlando in early 2020 for five days of for Park Hopper passes for multiple park visits in one day (standard Disney tickets admit guests to only one park per day), and the group often took advantage of that flexibility. For example, one day they set out early to Disney’s Hollywood Studios for a chance to see the popular “Star Wars” and “Toy Story” attractions, went back to the hotel for afternoon rest, then enjoyed dinner and smaller evening crowds at Animal Kingdom. Their final park day was spent at Epcot, with a jaunt back to Magic Kingdom for ice cream and the Happily Ever After fireworks show. To commemorate the trip, Lauren hired Orlando-area photographer Jennifer Pierce for a two-hour group photo session in Magic Kingdom. Clad in matching bridal party swag, “we took the castle by storm, jumping
gathered at Lauren’s to finalize the itinerary — a must in planning a
around in our sequined Minnie ears, turning our ‘fake photography
destination bachelorette party, the bride says.
laughter’ into true, wholehearted belly laughs,” the bride says.
Budget-conscious measures included planning meals (cheap, quick bites on park days and splurging on one breakfast with Disney
“We experienced the happiest place on Earth arm-in-arm, preparing me for my own happily ever after.”
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Fit for a groom Consider these tips for tux shopping to make sure your wedding attire measures up STORY CHRIS CHRISTEN
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bride spends months contemplating and perfecting her wedding-day look. A groom? For many, it’s one-
and-done. One tuxedo shop with two
Especially if your primary motive is to save
day. Or worse. He might skip the in-person
money on the rental, or you think there’s an
appointment, order his wedding attire online
element of convenience to shopping online.
and instruct his groomsmen to do the same.
It’s likely to cost you frustration and angst and
Menswear retailer Dick Lerner doesn’t
even embarrassment if the order is wrong or
get it. “The bride invests a great deal of time and money in her gown and accessories. The groom should respect the dress and look like a million bucks too.” And toward that goal: “Ordering a tuxedo online is a risky proposition,” Lerner says.
the fit is bad. Tux shopping, Lerner says, is an entirely different ballgame from athleisure shopping. “Tuxedos are all about the measurements,” CONTINUED ON PAGE 26
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appointments: one to select his look;
another to fine-tune the fit before the big
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Lerner says. “If you don’t turn in the correct measurements, the tux is going to look
advice beyond what’s stated on the website.” Tuxedos typically are offered in classic,
horrible.” Most people have no experience
modern and slim fits. The terms can be
taking formalwear measurements. Lerner
confounding.
knows because he has spent 35 years coaching
and slim fit — narrower in the shoulders, trimmer in the body but still generous. Get it wrong on your own, and there may not be enough time to reorder online. And
“If you don’t have the right body type for
then there’s the risk of the replacement still
out-of-town grooms and groomsmen via
the cut you select, you’re not going to look
needing alterations by a sympathetic retailer
phone, video and email when long-distance
your best,” Lerner says. “You put the wrong
like Lerner, which was the case with one
measurements don’t measure up.
body type in a slim cut, for example, and
recent groom.
Online representatives at discount tux houses often aren’t helpful because they lack training themselves, Lerner says. “They rarely
a one-pound package.”
An in-store experience is a fail-safe experience. “We’re the eyes and ears for the
For that groom, a modern fit most likely will be the better choice. It’s in between a classic
vendors for rentals,” Lerner says. “It’s up to us to make sure we take very detailed, exact
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will question a measurement or give you
they’re going to look like a two-pound swan in
Michael Koch Married Allison Johnson on July 20, 2019 Suit from Jerry Ryan
measurements. We’ll also have options in
delays and shortages of manufactured goods and
your wedding attire six to nine months in
tuxedos and combinations of fits from a variety
raw materials in the apparel industry, he says.
advance. And to get everyone in your wedding
of vendors, not just one.”
“When you have things bought and paid for
party measured by a professional. Going the wedding suit (not tuxedo) route
Reliability is another consideration.
and you don’t communicate with the bride and
“Since March 15, we’ve had several weddings
groom in the weeks leading up to the wedding,
can alleviate some anxiety about receiving
that’s a problem,” Lerner says.
rental attire in time for the wedding, Lerner
where the couples had bought and paid for rentals of tuxedos and suits online and the
Lerner’s shop, Bel Air Fashions, sometimes
says. Price-wise it can be a wash. And everyone ends up with a classic suit for future use.
retailers simply stopped communicating with
has come to the rescue with just two weeks to
them,” Lerner says. “The weddings were
pull everything together. “We’ve had Zoom and
happening, and the couples had no response.”
FaceTime calls and after-hours appointments
is going to look great for the wedding and
to help couples.”
look wonderful for the pictures,” Lerner says.
The pandemic no doubt has been a
The clothier stresses the need to finalize
“That’s what you should be paying for.”
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contributing factor, with layoffs, closures, mail
“The thing is, when done right, everybody
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Jessica & Justin B R E T T B RO O N E R P H OTO G R A P H Y
NOVEMBER 9, 2019
THE DURHAM MUSEUM
LOVE STORY Jessica Gibbons was swiping through Tinder
before the ceremony, so their first look as Jessica walked down
when she recognized Justin Langenfeld from classes at the
the aisle to Pachelbel’s Canon in D was “a moment unlike any
University of Nebraska-Lincoln College of Architecture. She
other,” she says. I WANT CANDY The funniest moment was
swiped right. As it turned out, her former classmate did,
a candy toss for the kids at the reception. The DJ played “The
too. Justin proposed to Jessica at a Taylor Swift concert in
Candy Man Can,” and the couple emptied big bags of Halloween
Kansas City in September 2018, and they were married at
candy on the dance floor. “The kids went nuts!” TIMETABLE
Countryside Community Church in Omaha on Nov. 9, 2019.
The bride’s best piece of advice? Create a detailed schedule for
PHONES AWAY Just like any dedicated Husker couple, Jessica and Justin wanted to hold their wedding on a Nebraska football bye week. Once the date was set, they worked on their wishlist for 1) a venue that fit their “1920s Gatsby Bash” theme, and 2) A photographer who could flawlessly capture their day. To ensure the quality of the photography, the couple planned for an “unplugged” ceremony. Jessica commissioned a sign on an antique mirror asking their 338 guests to silence and put away their cellphones, and posted it outside the church sanctuary. CRUNCH TIME For a Roaring ’20s reception venue, the couple booked the Durham Museum, but it came with a time
the wedding day, then send it to your photographer and bridal party ahead of time so everyone knows what to expect. “I’m talking down to 15-minute increments. I started making my schedule six months before our wedding day, and everything timed out perfectly.” SHARED VISION Justin says there is no limit to what Jessica can accomplish when she’s passionate about something, especially when it came to planning their wedding. “Jessica had a vision for everything, down to the littlest detail, and it was so impressive to see it all come together on the big day.” Jessica says her groom was the best
crunch. To avoid clashing with the museum’s public hours,
co-planner she could have asked for. “He endorsed all of my
reception setup in the lobby couldn’t begin until 3 p.m. for
ideas in addition to coming up with a lot of his own — and
their 5:30 cocktail hour. “Our day-of coordinators had two-
helped me get them executed.” Like leaving the church in a
and-a-half hours to set up 41 tables complete with linens,
1920s hot rod! BON APPETIT The couple live in the Omaha
china, menus and complex custom centerpieces,” the bride says.
area and love to cook and try new recipes together, helped
FIRST LOOK Jessica and Justin opted not to see each other
by the many kitchen gadgets they received as wedding gifts.
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Rolling with the changes I wasn’t going to pretend, even for the pictures, that we weren’t getting married in the middle of a pandemic. STORY KELSEY KIRK PHOTOGRAPHY SARAH GUDEMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
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few weeks after my wedding, I had seen only a handful of photos from the big day. But of that sampling, one
stood out as my clear favorite. At a glance, it’s your typical wedding portrait. I’m standing next to my husband, his arm wrapped around my waist. My wedding gown is fanned out neatly behind me and my bouquet is anchored to my hipbone (just how all the wedding professionals instructed me to hold it). But instead of a big goofy grin, I’m sporting a white face mask. Beside me, my husband is in a black mask adorned with a white bow tie. I wasn’t going to pretend, even for the pictures, that we weren’t getting married in the middle of a pandemic. How could I? The pandemic had consumed my mind for almost five months leading up to our August wedding date. It was going to leave its mark one way or another, and I opted, er, tried to embrace it. During planning crunch time, I had to learn to roll with the changes. It wasn’t easy. But it
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was going to be OK that hand sanitizer pumps were royal blue and didn’t match any of my other decor. It was going to be OK that the sign we printed letting guests know we had masks available wasn’t quite the same as the others. Here are other steps we took to err on the side of caution. » We tied the knot just before Omaha’s mask mandate went into effect. While masks weren’t required — and we didn’t feel like we could force guests to wear them — we still provided disposable masks. We wanted to at
least give friends and family the tools to stay safe. » I bought two large pumps of hand sanitizer for the guest book tables at church and at the reception. To make clean hands a little more fun, I printed labels for the bottles that said, “Spread love not germs.” » I planned on filling two small baskets with items guests might need in a pinch — pain reliever, antacids, floss sticks, hairspray — and setting them in the restrooms. But CONTINUED ON PAGE 38
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we scrapped the baskets to avoid anything communal. » To avoid lines and crowds, I revamped our guest book. I planned on having guests take and sign Polaroid photos before sticking them in a book. Instead, we opted for a traditional guest book. We had three pens, hand sanitizer and a helper at the table who sanitized the pens. » Our venue made COVID-related changes, too. The caterer revamped the food line to keep guests from feeling trapped in a big line. Extra staff wiped down high-touch surfaces. All beverages, including water and coffee, were served from behind the bar. Both of our snack items, popcorn and pretzels, were served by catering staff. Mints and nuts, typically self-serve on the cake table, were scooped onto each plate. Staff was accommodating, too, when I asked for tables to be spaced farther apart. Despite those precautions, I still spent
nights dreaming about the wedding and everything that could go wrong. I still spent my days scratching at stress-induced hives. As we inched closer to our date, I was constantly asking my now-husband if we were doing the right thing. Are we being irresponsible? What happens if one of our loved ones winds up sick? Could the priest just marry us at the rehearsal? Or should we just cancel it right now? My nerves faded away as soon as we got hair and makeup rolling. And once I had time to look around at the ceremony and reception, I saw how smart our guests were. Many sported masks. Most out-of-towners stayed home, as did some who had possible exposure to the virus or who felt under the weather. Two weeks later, no one tested positive or reported any symptoms. It was a hard decision to stick with our date. Looking back, I’m happy we did. We got so lucky, and I’m incredibly grateful.
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Despite a pandemic-prompted postponement, love prevailed on June 27, for more than one couple.
ome moments are like fireflies, beautiful but fleeting. Others are ingrained in your very soul, memories you can almost touch, feel, smell or taste years later. That is how Saturday, June 27, 2020, will be remembered in my family. After postponing our big day to November, my fiancé, Alex, and I were facing the sadness of our would-be wedding day. Instead, it was a day where love prevailed, tears turned to laughter and joy overcame sadness. Our makeup plan, “We Still Do and We Will Soon,” had been in the works since May. Alex and I had planned to surprise my parents with the news of their Saturday backyard vow renewal on Friday night, the 26th. However, another surprise occurred earlier that week when my aunt Brenda called. “I think we’re coming to Omaha” were the words that echoed through my iPhone, so the reveal plan needed shifting. After consulting with my fiancé, we opted to let the cat out of the bag on Thursday, since our special guests would be arriving Friday afternoon. On that muggy Thursday evening in the shade of my parents’
maple trees, we had Mom and Dad open a special announcement, a variation of the one we had sent their friends and family. Their initial shock was real. And the excitement that followed was the ultimate reward. We then announced the next day’s arrival of Aunt Brenda and Uncle Terry. The plan was off and running! We spent Friday picking outfits and decorating my parents’ house and backyard. My mom pulled out her wedding champagne glasses, cake topper, marriage certificate and cake cutter from their big day. She also got out her vintage wedding box, and we used some of their original decorations and cards around the house. She’d even kept her bridal magazine from 1988! Friday night, Alex and I hosted the family for dinner at our house, tacos all around. Although it wasn’t the 40-person rehearsal dinner we had originally planned, the six people, tacos and a special Milk Bar cake from one
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land. Up and at it super early, we grabbed breakfast and, in turn, ruined a surprise bridesmaids visit. To be so loved was both a comfort and a sadness, due to the fact that this perfect June day was supposed to be Alex’s and mine, and the reality was a difficult one. We stopped by Janousek Florist to gather our blooms for the evening, then picked up our cakes at Hy-Vee. Both elements were as beautiful and bold as we had envisioned. Michael, our florist at Janousek, created two tropical bouquets for our backyard soirée, as well as a couple of centerpieces and boutonnières. One centerpiece had been delivered the previous day as a gift from my maids of honor — that gesture was a real tearjerker. The gentlemen worked on stringing lights through the yard, and we hung a beautiful banner from one of the maple trees that read, “I have found the one whom my soul loves.” My beautiful gold and faux marble desk served as our cake table, decorated with clip lights and the postcards of love and well wishes for my parents from our family and friends. Vases at each end of the table held the bouquets. Two ornate gold frames held a 1988 wedding photo and an updated photo of my parents. The cake, frosted with white rosettes, sat in the middle with a rhinestone topper. It was just as I had envisioned it. The trees, the sunshine, the feeling in the air. With all the stirring in the house, it felt like a real wedding day. CONTINUED ON PAGE 45
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Before we knew it, our photographer Ashley had arrived for pictures. Shortly after, our priest, Father Tom, arrived, just in time to share in the laughter and even jump into a few pictures. With just the nine of us in the backyard, it was tempting to forget that COVID-19 was even in existence, although it was entirely the cause of this event. The closeness of human touch was everything. Father Tom gave a beautiful sermon, and my
The rest of the evening included an
essence of love. Postponing our wedding was
Corona beers, champagne and dancing under
an act of love. Giving my parents this day was
the twinkle lights. We sat around the fire pit
an act of love.
for hours sharing love and conversation, just
It was not an easy day — not being able to
so happy to be surrounded by those who mean
say our own “I do’s” on such a gorgeous day
the most.
took its toll. But my loved ones are what make
After everything, we were in buttercream bliss, ready to go to bed. We exchanged well wishes, then Alex and I cleaned up the mountains of cake, wrapping up sections for the family and my bride tribe. To be in a flower crown, barefoot and
parents recited their vows under the great
carefree despite the state of the world was
oak with John Denver playing softly in the
so sacred and special. I will never forget
background. Alex and I were given a blessing
those moments shared among the fireflies,
to keep us cradled as we wait patiently for
wildflowers and cascading branches. The
our rescheduled day in November. To have
memory of June 27 will be as strong as the
these memories in my childhood backyard, as
backyard oak tree, where vows were renewed
my aunt and uncle looked on from their lawn
and blessings were given.
chairs, was something I will cherish forever,
and the world itself, but it can’t change the
incredible meal, a couple of cake cuttings,
The pandemic may have changed our plans
life beautiful and what made this day possible. I have to thank: » Ashley Nicole Dickes for capturing these incredible images. She is not only a wonderful photographer and artist, but also now a dear friend. » Father Tom Bauwens for his presence, joy, grace, faith and sharing of God’s love within our backyard. » Jennifer Solma, one of my maids of honor, for picking up and delivering the catering for the evening. CONTINUED ON PAGE 47
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» Janousek Florist for creating beautiful arrangements. » Hy-Vee’s bakery for the best buttercream frosting in town. » Uncle Terry and Aunt Brenda for making the journey from St. Louis to share in the day with us — an extra-special surprise! » My bride squad: Jennifer, Sidney Adams, Lauren Taylor Anderson and Trista Groves for the extra blooms, cake, pastries and infinite love through this whole process. » My parents, who have been a beacon of love and light as we’ve struggled to cope with the state of the world and our wedding. » All my parents’ friends and loved ones who sent postcards of love and well-wishes — such a highlight of our celebration. You were with us in spirit. » And my fiancé, who has been my anchor through every tear, mood and moment. You are selfless and loving in every way, and I’m so lucky to be yours. Despite the sadness that led to the creation of this event, this truly was a perfect evening. In the end, no matter what the trial or tribulation, love conquers all. They still do. We will soon.
Lauren Brandt blogs for Wedding Essentials as The Midwest Magnolia. She and fiancé Alex rescheduled their June wedding for November 2020. Read more of her posts on weddingessentialsmagazine.com. weddingessentialsmagazine.com
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registry is a smart idea for any wedding couple — even those with well-established households. Guests really do love gifting items newlyweds will use, even cherish. Here are 10 items that have scored high with newlyweds in our orbit. Personalized cutting board. Extra points if it’s handcrafted. Be careful here, though. Some custom designs are awfully busy — and can’t be read when the board is loaded with crackers, meats, cheeses, fruits, etc. Less often is more. Look for a design that’s engraved or burned into the wood; stamped designs can wear off over time.
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A cozy blanket or throw, personalized with the couple’s monogram and wedding date. Again, keep the custom embroidery or tag understated. And select a neutral color.
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A YETI cooler. Yes, it’s pricey, but it’s also a great group gift idea and something that’s built to last. The Tundra 35 ($250 retail) hard cooler is just right for packing beverages and food for two. Step up to the Tundra 45 for $300 and you’re tailgate ready. Add a personalized luggage-style tag or stick-on plate with the couple’s name and contact info.
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Stemless wine glasses engraved with the newlyweds’ monogram or last name initial and a bottle of wine with a personalized label. Throw in a monogrammed bottle stop. And a written toast to the newlyweds.
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A quilt, made from squares of fabric signed by the couple’s wedding guests. This is a gift that can be announced at a shower, then presented to the couple after the quilt has been assembled. The couple could even have the option of picking a color scheme or style.
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For foodies: Stainless steel measuring cups, quality kitchen cutlery or a steak knife set that coordinates with the couple’s flatware. A KitchenAid mixer or waffle maker can be used for years, too — and be the source of many happy memories in the kitchen.
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A classic, quality picture frame that will stand the test of time. If you’re unsure of the couple’s metal preferences, opt for a twotoned design. Silver and gold complement any decor.
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Door sign personalized with the couple’s last name and the year their home was established (their wedding year). Metal and wood designs abound on Etsy. Select one in a neutral tone that best fits the couple’s wedding style if you’re unsure of the style of their home.
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A leather-bound journal with an engraved plate or tag, for recording special moments and milestones in the couple’s married life. Pen a personal message on the first or last page.
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A Basket of Firsts, filled with fun items to commemorate “firsts” the couple will experience all year long — and beyond. For a wine-loving couple, you might fill a basket with fine whites and reds with custom labels or tags: first big purchase, first anniversary, first baby, first Christmas, first fight. Or wrap and tag small gift items like a keepsake ornament, a gift certificate for a tree, a gift card for an anniversary dinner at a favorite restaurant, a box of fine chocolates. The sweeter or funnier the tags and gifts, the better. The best baskets we’ve seen have been assembled by the newlyweds’ parents who collaborated — and bonded in the process. The most meaningful component: letters to the couple that can be read on their first full day of married life — and every wedding anniversary thereafter!
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Don’t let down your COVID guard WHILE HEALTH MANDATES MAY BE LIFTED, YOU STILL HAVE GUESTS TO CONSIDER STORY + PHOTOGRAPHY CHRIS CHRISTEN
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ouples marrying in late 2020 and early 2021 no doubt are feeling more secure about their ceremony
and reception plans amid the coronavirus pandemic. Six months ago, celebrating in person with lots of guests anywhere in the U.S. was an impossibility because of COVID-19 lockdowns. Finally, a flicker of normalcy is returning — at least to Nebraska weddings. In early September, state-imposed health mandates for reception venues were mostly lifted. But that’s not permission to throw caution to the wind. Those COVID-19 germs are still out there. And health officials continue to encourage people to follow voluntary
Before the ceremony
guidelines to reduce the risk of a resurgence
» Downsize your guest list without apology —
of the disease.
out of an abundance of caution. If you have a
Here are proven ways to keep everyone
wedding website, post a memo to your guests
healthy and at ease in what still is a COVID-
saying that you regret that your numbers are
cautious wedding world.
going to be limited to immediate family and
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their plus-ones — or whatever you decide. Everyone will understand. And, trust us, your wedding memories will not be compromised. Every couple we’ve encountered has cherished their downsized day. » Two weeks before the ceremony, check in
with your wedding party to be sure no one is experiencing symptoms of COVID-19. If so, ask them to be tested to be sure it’s safe to travel and mingle with others.
Day of the wedding CEREMONY » Create a station for temperature checks and hand sanitizing for guests arriving for the ceremony and reception.
outside family and friend groups.
the outside temperature is apt to be chilly.
» Livestream your ceremony for family and
» Trade a buffet for a sit-down meal. Or serve
friends who are unable to attend.
individually wrapped food items. This might
» Skip the receiving line and go table to table
include a gourmet sack lunch for the reception
at the reception to acknowledge your guests.
meal, and a sweet-and-salty dessert table with
» No hugs! Instead bump elbows, wave or blow mask-shielded kisses. RECEPTION » Create table assignments that only include
individually wrapped treats dressed up with custom stickers and-or ribbon. » Serve bottled drinks, and avoid community drink stations. Have waiters go tableside to pour champagne for toasts. Or place bottles
» Encourage mask-wearing indoors and
members of the same household and maintain
outdoors where maintaining 6 feet of social
at least 6 feet of social distance with those
distance will be difficult.
outside your household or friend group.
» Place hand sanitizer in strategic locations
» Skip paper programs and email or text a
» Set up multiple smaller dance floors to
throughout the reception venue. Consider a
digital version to your guests.
minimize people partying shoulder to shoulder.
small bottle for every guest table.
» Seat guests by household for the ceremony
» Create outdoor seating, if possible, for
» Assign someone to manage the guest book
and encourage social distancing among people
spacing purposes. Consider space heaters if
so elements can be sanitized after each use.
on each guest table.
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Kelsey & David S A R A H G U D E M A N P H OTO G R A P H Y
AUGUST 8, 2020
MILLARD SOCIAL HALL
SWEET DREAMS Kelsey Stewart and David Kirk met at a
of their 300 guests didn’t make it because of health concerns,
friend’s annual April costume party. “Lucky for me that year’s
but those who did enjoyed the plastic cups printed with “Kelsey
party was pajama-themed. Otherwise David wouldn’t have
and David” in gold. The kids got wedding-themed coloring
made an appearance,” Kelsey says. Friends got the ball rolling
books and crayons. “And by the end of the night, almost
by taking them to bingo night at a bar in Blackstone. They
every table had a coloring book on it,” Kelsey says. STAYING
exchanged numbers and started dating later that spring. NO
ORGANIZED Kelsey kept track of everything in a binder,
NAGGING The day David proposed, they had taken a morning
from receipts to contracts. But she still had to deal with a few
walk through freshly fallen snow at Gene Leahy Mall and then went out for a pizza lunch. That night, David came into the living room and Kelsey scolded him for not turning off his video game. “He still loved me enough to pop the question,” Kelsey says. “He said he couldn’t promise that all of our days would be as nice as that one was but he’d certainly try. Then he pulled out the ring box.” PRETTY IN PINK Simple and pretty was the theme, with lots of white and pops of dusty pink, gold and rose gold. Centerpieces were clean and modern. “We had lots of flowers, fresh eucalyptus and lots of candlelight on each table,” Kelsey says. They got married on 08-08-2020, which a friend suggested was fun and easy to remember. RELUCTANT RING BEARER Despite lots of training, Tanner didn’t make it down the aisle. His twin, Jill, tried to drag him but gave up and walked on her own. Walking down that aisle after the priest
changes. “Our DJ changed at the last minute. We had to find disposable masks for guests and label hand sanitizer bottles. You can only control so much.” PICTURE-PERFECT Both of them love flipping through old photo albums, and Kelsey loves to mark milestones big and small, so a photographer was especially important. “I’ve always heard my mom say how much she dislikes her wedding photos. I wanted to love ours. Our engagement photos turned out so well that I knew it was going to be money well spent,” Kelsey says. Food was also important, and she knew from the start she wanted Eddie’s to do their catering. “So many of my cousins have used them for their weddings, and my mom used to cater there when I was a kid.” NEAT AND TIDY Kelsey says she takes this to the extreme sometimes — her favorite gift is their Dustbuster. David is a big fan of a collapsible cooler, which is the perfect size to take to a backyard gathering, but compact enough to store in their one-
announced them as husband and wife was a special moment
bedroom apartment. They also love their waffle bowl maker
for Kelsey. “It was a huge relief, and it was such a great feeling
and have been experimenting with desserts and breakfasts they
to see the faces of our family and friends.” David joked that his
can serve in the bowls. Their first few weeks together have
sweetest moment was cutting and eating the cake. But it was
been spent getting to know each other better and combining
really sneaking away for some sunset portraits at Chalco Hills
their lives. David says, “She is my best friend and has made my
Recreation Area. “We weren’t gone very long, but it was nice to
life so much better.” Kelsey says David is laid-back and the most
take a break from all of the hubbub.” SOUVENIRS About half
patient person she knows. “He’s the perfect balance for me.” weddingessentialsmagazine.com
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Every dress needs a tweak or two or more * Alterations specialist Libia Pollens began her career early, watching her seamstress mother. * What Pollens couldn’t sew as a child in Colombia, she glued. “I started doing alterations for STORY MARJIE DUCEY
my Barbies,” she says.
* She graduated to real-life brides of all sorts and sizes, and now is considered one of the best wedding dress alterations specialists not just in Omaha but in the Midwest. Many brides drive from the Kansas City area and elsewhere for Pollens’ expertise.
* After years of working from her home, she recently opened her own studio, Livi’s Designs, where she also creates gowns and special occasion dresses for women and girls. Here, she shares seven considerations for brides. KNOW WHAT’S POSSIBLE Most dresses are made longer to accommodate higher heels. But many brides now are opting for sneakers or other comfortable shoes, so hemline adjustments are required. The more layers of fabric to shorten, the more expensive the alteration. A bustle often is needed, too, so the train or hem of the gown isn’t stepped on while dancing or mingling with guests. Pollens also might add cups to a strapless dress, or rework a bodice to include sleeves, embellishment or an overlay.
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BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR WEIGHT Brides who plan to slim down should try to be at their goal weight six months ahead of their wedding. “That way when you do the first fitting, you are what you want to be,” Pollens says. Starving yourself at the end, when you are already stressed out with a seemingly endless number of decisions, can backfire, ending instead in weight gain. And if you show up at your final fitting 10 pounds heavier, Pollens will need to start over. And that means more stress and a bigger alterations bill.
SCHEDULE FIVE MONTHS OUT Don’t wait until the last minute to book the services of an alterations specialist. The best ones are busy year-round. Pollens likes to meet with her brides at least five months before the wedding for a first fitting. A second fitting is done 3½ months prior to the big day, and by then, the dress is ready to go. A visit in the final month is just for tweaking. Not surprisingly, summer is the busiest time. Note: Because of the coronavirus pandemic, some bridal shops are recommending that gowns be ordered eight to 12 months in advance of the wedding date to guarantee timely delivery for alterations.
EXPECT SOME ALTERATIONS Nearly every wedding dress needs to be altered, Pollens says, because bodies aren’t exactly the same in every area. “You want the dress to be like your second skin,” she says, following the lines of your body. That doesn’t mean tight. No one wants unsightly bulges ruining the effect of a beautiful dress. For proper fit, arrive at your fitting with the shapewear and shoes you intend to wear on your wedding day. CONTINUED ON PAGE 66
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SIZE UP — BUT NOT TOO MUCH When choosing a dress, make sure it fits your biggest area. For some, that may be the hips and for others the bust or the waist. The rest can be taken in. Otherwise, if a dress needs to be expanded, there may not be enough fabric to let out. That could mean ordering more material, and some designers don’t sell their fabric. Many brides also arrive with a dress that is three or four sizes too large, which creates extra work, which ups the bill.
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CONSIDER THE LABOR INVOLVED Every dress alteration involves five or more hours of labor. Hemming a puffy dress or ballroom gown takes more time than a sheath. Beading and lace must be carefully taken apart to make alterations and then put back together again. “It’s very timeconsuming,” Pollens says. The industry standard is to charge by the hour.
BUDGET FOR THE FINAL BILL The average alteration runs between $450 and $680, Pollens says. But it can go much higher. She has had some brides buy a $3,000 designer dress, and then use only the skirt or top. If they ask Pollens to create something different, it can run as much as $2,000. For one bride who wanted a new skirt, she used lace from the original to create a veil. On the opposite end, adjusting a bust can start around $90.
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REAL WEDDING
Elise & Matt THE LEEKERS
NOVEMBER 9, 2019
O M A H A M A R R I OT T D OW N TOW N C A P I TO L D I S T R I C T
A-MAIZE-ING PROPOSAL Elise Van Hove and Matt Ober
funniest and sweetest moments happened on the dance floor.
met at a mutual friend’s Husker football tailgate party. “His
Elise’s dad busted a move during the father-daughter dance to
pickup was, ‘Hi, I’m Matt,’” Elise says. His proposal was a bit
Stevie Wonder’s “Isn’t She Lovely.” Then everyone encircled the
more creative: The Omaha couple were celebrating their
couple as they danced to the final song of the evening, “Piano
second dating anniversary at Vala’s Pumpkin Patch when Matt
Man,” by Billy Joel. “It was such an awesome moment being
popped the question. They were in the corn maze, in the very
surrounded by our loved ones and dancing and singing with
same spot where they had taken their first picture together on
my new husband.” ENJOYING THE PRESENT The wedding
their first date. DETAILS AS OLD AS TIME In similar spirit,
day flew by, Elise says, but having a day-of coordinator made it
the couple wanted an autumn wedding. Elise chose timeless
run smoothly. “My wedding planner was a lifesaver. She helped
and elegant details in maroon and gold and lots of greenery.
take away some of the stress of the day and allowed us to
“I knew I would be looking back on the photos forever, so I
relax and enjoy it.” For gifts, the couple exchanged letters
wanted to have the details be classic,” she says. The couple
before the ceremony, and especially treasure a journal from
and their parents spent the most on the reception venue,
Matt’s dad, so they can write about their life together. PIANO
but that expense also included catering and beverages and
WOMAN Matt says Elise goes out of her way to make people
accommodations. C IS FOR COOKIE Creating the perfect
feel special. “She’s honestly the most caring person I know.”
atmosphere for their 320 guests drove Elise’s choices, too.
Before marriage, he never knew she was such a good piano
“I wanted the decor, food, drink and music to be fun and
player. He came home one day to the sounds of her playing a
inviting.” That meant forgoing a traditional wedding cake for a
keyboard she had bought. Elise never knew they had different
multi-tiered cookie cake and cookie sandwich smorgasbord.
philosophies for the best way to load a dishwasher, but Matt
“They were a huge hit!” The couple’s Aussiedoodle Winston
was still “an open book” before marriage. She says he’s an
was included as the ring bearer. “He had no idea what was
amazing husband, and she values his humor and supportiveness.
going on, but he liked the attention!” SING US A SONG The
“We enjoy setting goals for ourselves and our future.”
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