The Acceptance and Decision
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he application is completed, interviews and shadow • Ask to talk to some teachers. days all done—all that’s left is waiting for the • Talk to graduates or current families of the acceptance letter (or email) and then the big school—especially any who have come from your decision. Usually, acceptance (or rejection or waitlist) child’s current school. notifications go out on a Friday in mid-March, and • Encourage your child to talk to other students. families then have seven days to decide where their child will attend. So how to make the decision? ONCE YOU DECIDE When you learn about your child’s acceptance, you • Be sure to contact the school you choose by the will also learn about financial assistance awards. If the reply deadline. grant you receive does not meet your needs, or if you are • Let all schools where you were admitted know not awarded any financial assitance, contact the school’s of your final decision so they can contact other financial assitance officer to learn about other options. families on their waiting list. The following are tips on choosing a school from the • Return your signed enrollment contract and National Association of Independent Schools. tuition deposit. WHAT TO DO IF YOU’RE ACCEPTED IF YOU’RE WAITLISTED • If you’re certain about the school, say yes—but feel free to take the full seven days to sit with the decision • Call the school right away and let admissions to make sure it feels right. officials know that you are very interested. Stay in touch with them throughout the summer. SomeDECIDING ON A SCHOOL times children can be accepted off the waitlist just • Discuss the options as a family. days before school begins. • Make a pro and con list for each possible school. IF YOU’RE REJECTED • Revisit your notes from tours and open houses. Follow • Consider other schools. your heart. Revisit your wish list to make sure you’ve fulfilled your priorities. Be sure that your child will thrive • Ask the school for feedback about what factors in the school community you choose. made the difference. Try to approach the issue in a nonjudgmental way; tell the admissions staff you IF YOU ARE NOT SURE want to get information that can help your child • Consider a second visit to the school; have your child do better in the future. do a shadow day if she hasn’t already. 24
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