“Will I Be Able to Love My Adopted Child?� This question is rarely asked out loud. However, prospective parents may be worried or nervous when they are considering adoption. The idea of adopting a child but somehow not being able to show him or her the same love as one would a biological child is a very discomforting thought. Ideally, someone who is new to the adoption process should be working closely with an adoption agency as soon as possible to share doubts or concerns. The experiences of parents and children bonding vary with each family, but love and bonding come naturally regardless of blood ties. Some parents immediately love their adopted child before they bring them home. Others form their love through continued bonding and interaction. The important element is the child’s inclusion in the family, whether biological or adopted, and an ability to encourage emotional bonding between the parents and child.
This question signifies two different concerns: Will the potential adoptive parent be capable of fully caring for and loving the child as deserved? Will the potential adoptive parent be able to love the child as unconditionally as another biological child? The reality is that not all people are fit to be good parents, and they may not be ideal candidates to adopt a child into their homes. This is something that adoption centers and birth mothers consider when reviewing adoptive couples. Contrary to that situation, many people are in fact sincere about adopting children and do have a caring heart, but they may have understandable concerns because of unfamiliarity with adoption. If you are considering adopting a new child into your family and have doubts about your ability to bond with them, talk with other adoptive parents about their experiences, and consult an adoption agency to gain insight and guidance. Lastly, a parent should not look at a child as ‘biological’ or ‘adopted.’ Although they may have come into the family through different ways, all children are human beings who deserve a quality of life, reliable shelter and love.
Adopting a child is not an impulse decision. It takes careful planning, thought, discussion, and patience before the parents can finally add the new member to their family. Parents go through the adoption process, which can be strenuous at times, and patiently wait while every detail runs its course. When a child’s adoption is finally confirmed, they can begin a lifelong journey with new parents and realize their dream of family. Adopting a child is an important decision that requires careful consideration. Are you contemplating adoption, or are you already planning to adopt a child? Do you have any idea about how or where to start? Action Adoption at Providence Place of San Antonio, Texas will guide you through the adoption process while making sure all your questions are answered. Contact them today to learn more about adoption and ways to get involved with our organization.