QSaltLake Magazine - Issue 309 - March 2020

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Vacation: The best cure BY ROCK MAGEN

I recently

had the opportunity to go on an ‘off-season’ vacation to Italy. It was wonderful, but that is not the point. The point is that I was initially scared to take the vacation because I was worried about taking time off of work. When I shared this concern with an Italian, they were shocked. My time in Italy taught me that the United States doesn’t have a strong vacation culture. Unlike every other developed nation in the world, the U.S. has no mandated number of days off for employees. About one-fourth of American workers get no paid vacation at all. Those whose employers offer it receive an average of about 10 days a year. And 54 percent of American workers didn’t even use the days off they earned. Doing some research, I learned that men who don’t take vacations were 30 percent more likely to have a heart attack and for women, it went up to 50 percent! Those numbers even held true even after researchers took into account other health factors like diabetes, cigarette smoking, income levels, and obesity. The conclusions from the study have been backed up by other similar research studies and show how the body reacts to a lifestyle of stress. This is real evidence that vacations are important to your physical health! I grew up with parents who didn’t receive a lot of vacation and often were too busy to take time off. When I started

working myself, I realized that I didn’t know what to do with my time off because I never learned it from my parents. It’s hard to value something that’s never been experienced. How do we fix this? It might sound strange, but vacations take practice. How do you get in the vacation habit? Like any other goal, it requires planning. If you are like me, the key reason I struggle with not taking vacations is that I don’t feel I can leave work. But, I have learned that it can be done with proper organization. Start by blocking your calendar to actually schedule time for a trip. Once the vacation is on your schedule, even if it’s six or eight months away, you can organize around it. Look at your workflow to clarify your priorities, delegate, and talk openly with your colleagues about your time off. This will help prevent it from being an unexpected surprise when you’re out of town. Although it can be a bit time consuming, planning will force you to prioritize your goals over time and can be a net benefit, helping you work smarter and more efficiently. Start viewing vacation time as a non-negotiable — like the dentist or yearly checkup, it’s a vital part of your health care, so start treating it as such. Just like any other habit, this takes time — but this is something that I have a feeling you will enjoy. Now, go block some time and start planning your getaway. Who knows, maybe our paths will cross abroad!  Q

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The tale of a dizzy queen

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8 things that’re getting on my GD nerves right now

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Vacation: The best cure

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You’re a Bad-Ass

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Gay Like Me: A Father Writes to His Son

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5 retail replacements that should satisfy your urge to splurge

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The Madness of Martha Wash

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Deep Inside Hollywood

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Steven Hotze

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IF YOU’RE OUT IN PUBLIC AND YOU CAN’T FIGURE OUT A STRANGER’S GENDER, FOLLOW THESE STEPS:

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The Equal Rights Amendment is a queer movement

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My brother is wrong about his transgender bill

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Rachel Slawson is the first out contestant for Miss USA

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Elevation Utah Gay Ski Week Turns 10

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Utah Gay Football League’s 2020 season beginning

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Salt Lake County Health Dept. adds HIV PrEP to STD Clinic services

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Few LGBTQ-related bills on Utah's Capitol Hill this legistlative season

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Local leaders endorse Buttigieg for president

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Buttigieg draws thousands for town hall in Salt Lake City

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Utah ranks in top half of states in HRC State Equality Index

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Top national and world news since last issue

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