my estonia
justin petrone
passport forgery, meat jelly eaters and other stories
part 1
Copyright: Justin Petrone and Petrone Print OÜ, 2009 Cover design: Anna Lauk Cover photo: Andres Tarto, taevapiltnik.ee Layout: Aive Maasalu Printed in: OÜ Greif, greif.ee ISBN 978–9985–9996–7–7 (set) ISBN 978–9985–9996–8–4 (1st part)
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contents
A Moment in Zavood Helsinki is Not Romantic A Less Fortunate Scandinavian Country “But if You Come to London...” How the Other Half Lives Pakistani Kitchen Johnny Depp is a Genius Welcome to Estonia Café Moskva Choose Order! Buckwheat Porridge is Good for You Vodka Socks Aunt Salme Old Friends Athens on the Emajõgi Happy Birthday to You The War Begins Broken Apples
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The Bold and the Beautiful Playing Ball Guys Like Rick The Spirit of Tartu I Live Here Mother’s Day In the Heart of Estonia Sass The Republic of South Estonia Wedding Day Am I Permitted to Live? Estonian House Up North
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a moment in zavood
I met Epp in Helsinki. Usually when Estonian ladies ask where we met – and only ladies ask – they respond with interest in this fact. “Helsinki!?” they say in surprise. “Why, what were you doing there?” Could Helsinki really seem so distant to some Estonians? Were they really that local in their mindset? All one had to do is take a ferry north from the capital of Estonia, Tallinn and they’d be in the Finnish capital, Helsinki, surrounded by moi* and moi moi**. Other foreigners must have been lured to Estonia by its womanhood via this route. Other foreigners like me. Having met Epp in Helsinki has allowed me to extract myself from some awkward conversations. Once in Zavood, the basement-level bar that stays open the latest in the Estonian university town of Tartu, two muscular, sweaty, blondhaired townies – let’s call them Hardo and Janar – decided * **
‘Hi’ in Finnish ‘Goodbye’ in Finnish.
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a moment in zavood
to make something of the fact that I had stolen “their” table, where their empty beer glasses had stood for 5 minutes or more. “This is our fucking table,” swore Hardo, clearly looking for an excuse to hit somebody, anybody. In the background, young co-eds played pool and sipped beer. The cacophonous sounds of a local rock band blasted from the speakers. “I’m so sorry,” I replied nervously, in Estonian. “I thought that this table was free.” “You have a weird accent,” said Janar, who also seemed itching to punch somebody. “Where are you from?” he demanded. Janar’s heavy hands were covered in dark marks, perhaps from fixing bicycles or car engines. Or strangling people. “I’m from New York,” I said, quickly moving to explain my situation, “but my wife is Estonian, so I can speak Estonian.” “Your wife is Estonian?” Hardo exploded in jealousy. He clearly didn’t have his own eesti naine*. Hardo looked at Janar as if this fact – a foreigner making off with one of their women – was enough to try and convict me in the name of southern Estonian justice. Not only had I stolen their table; I had stolen one of their women as well. To Hardo and Janar, I was surely just another undeserving wealthy foreign man who had decided to take an Estonian girl as a trophy wife. When it came to women, multicultural marriages always moved West. Finns, Brits, Dutch, and Americans married Estonian girls, while Estonian guys settled down with Russians or Ukrainians. Or so I had heard. *
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‘Estonian woman’ in Estonian.
my estonia
“Yeah, but don’t worry, guys – we actually met in Helsinki,” I explained in a calm voice. “Helsinki?” they looked at each other in curiosity. “What would a nice Estonian girl be doing in such a faraway place?” Janar asked. I thought he was kidding. But then I realized that, for a lot of Estonians, Helsinki – only 80 miles from Tallinn – was some far-off metropolis. Anyway, Janar and Hardo suddenly calmed. Two minutes later we were deep into a conversation about the challenges of learning the Estonian language. “Do you know,” Hardo admitted as we sipped our beers, “that you speak Estonian really well.” Janar agreed. “There are people who have lived here for fifty years,” he gestured with his meaty fists, “and they don’t even know one word!” In the sweaty air of Zavood’s underground bar, I blushed from the compliment, even though I had heard it a few times before. However, Janar and Hardo had understood that I did not come to their land with the specific intent to make off with one of their women. The first time I had come to Estonia, it was only supposed to be for one day. Tartu, July 2009
PS. While most of the names used in this book are genuine, some have been changed to respect the privacy of certain individuals. All the events, though, are true to the best of my recollection.
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helsinki
is not
romantic
helsinki is not romantic
Helsinki is not romantic. For most people the ferry docks in the Finnish capital do not evoke the sensual feelings of the Mediterranean. Yet whenever I find myself anywhere near the Esplanaadi – the long walking street that terminates in a fresh food market near the ferries that go to Tallinn – I am overcome. It was here that I met Epp for the very first time. I had stood there one gorgeous August day, my body pummeled by jetlag, staring at this young Estonian woman and her mane of curly hair. She wore red pants, a red corduroy jacket, and orange tinted sunglasses. The little waves of the Gulf of Finland lapped the docks, and Epp had stood there smiling in the sunlight, set against a backdrop of happy-looking ships and people selling fresh fish. “My name is Epp and I am 28,” Epp said, approaching me. “I just got back from India. It’s so weird to see the Baltic Sea again.” 10