New Orleans Bride Magazine Winter 2023

WINTER/SPRING 2023

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DETAILS

FROM THE EDITOR 12

REAL WEDDINGS 66

HONEYMOON 74 BRING YOUR BROOD

Romantic resorts that are also fun for the entire family

CHECKLIST 78 CHECK IT TWICE

Use our handy wedding planning checklist to stay organized

LAGNIAPPE 80 ‘I DO’ SALUT

A newly released book makes writing wedding toasts a breeze

STANDARDS PRELUDE

BEAUTY 16

SIMPLY THE BEST

Our beauty editor’s top picks for soon-to-be classic skincare

HAIR 18

LOCKS OF LOVE

The best haircare of 2022 for making your mane a shiny, thick and lush

MAKEUP 20 FACE OFF

The most winning makeup of the year for a flawless wedding day glow

INVITATIONS 22

LOCAL VIBES

New Orleans-chic stationery

FASHION

ON THE COVER

CAKES 46

WORKS OF ART

Hand-painted fondant adds a touch of artistry to cakes

CUISINE & COCKTAILS 50

A LOCAL FARE TO REMEMBER

Fresh, seasonal and local reception cuisine adds flavor, fun and a sense of place

JUST DESSERTS

Creative drink pairings that level up the sweets course

LOCATIONS 54

LOVELY LOCALES

These local venues provide the ideal backdrop for weddings, receptions and more

PHOTOGRAPHY 58

EYE FOR DETAIL

Five local photographers share their top tips for spectacular wedding day photos

MUSIC 62 TUNED UP

Local bands and DJs that will rock your wedding reception

TRANSPORTATION 64

Getting There

A handy guide to New Orleans’ many options to get you and your guests to and from the wedding

BRIDAL/ MENSWEAR/ FLORAL 30

SOUTHERN MODERN

A classic venue reimagined with a cool edge is the lush setting for our fashion spread and the stuff of your New Orleans wedding dreams

Gown: Martina Liana “Mitzi” A-line dress with balconette bodice and tulle skirt and Bel Aire Bridal oval crystal earrings at The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe. Photograph by Theresa Cassagne; Styled by Lisa Tudor; Model Stella Bosio; Makeup by Meggan Ory; Hair by Monique Munoz.

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Weddings have always made me cry. My own wedding was a simple and intimate affair, which is good, because at 25 years old, my event planning skills weren’t yet wellpracticed. While my Big Day was a lovely event, knowing what I know now, after attending countless weddings as a more mature adult, I would do a few things differently. For example, I’ve seen the impact of adding in little details that tell the couple’s story. Seemingly small touches, such as hiring a jazz manouche band for the ceremony to commemorate the couple’s first date on Frenchman Street or serving a dessert at the reception inspired by the restaurant where they got engaged, invite guests into their world and add another layer of love and romance. That said, even a short, sweet city hall wedding can evoke tears when it’s so obvious that two people who love one another are saying “I do.” Whether your dream nuptials are a glammed up affair for 500 or a simple exchange of vows in your favorite outdoor space, you’ll glean inspiration from these pages. For our fashion spread on page 38, we took over the Columns on St. Charles Avenue to imagine a lush, romantic Southern Modern wedding. The grounds and interiors of the beloved hotel have been given a soulful makeover and we are here for it. Couples can deck out the various spaces at the hotel with personal touches or leave it as is and have a stunning event either way. From venues like the Columns and your Big Day makeup to dessert at the reception, we hope you use this issue as a resource for making your wedding dream a reality. Cheers!

On Jan. 5, join us at the Higgins Hotel for the New Orleans Bride Magazine Bridal Show. Meet the city’s top wedding professionals in a festive setting to plan your wedding. Visit brideneworleans.com for tickets, pricing and more information.

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Visit Let Them Eat Cake (myneworleans.com/ category/bride/eat-cake), the official blog of New Orleans Bride Magazine for more tips and trends, trunk shows and other events, plus advice, ideas, inspiration and interviews. It’s all of the bridal buzz you can use, five days a week.

HANDCRAFTED GIFTS AND COCKTAILS

Locally based NOLA Boards offers custom handcrafted wooden cutting boards, cheese boards and accessories, with custom engraving available. For example, the Louisiana-themed wooden roux spoons make great gifts for bridesmaids and grooms. Plus, the retail store also offers fun cocktail classes to elevate your wedding events. Classes are $65 per person. nolaboards.com

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PIERCING PARTY

When celebrating your nuptials, why not invite your bridal party to a piercing party at the newly opened Rowan on Magazine Street? The female-founded boutique offers piercings performed by licensed nurses using safe, nickel-free and hypoallergenic earrings. Choose from cute locally inspired earrings such as a fleur-de-lis, crescent moon or NOLA stud; animals such as dragonflies, ducks and snakes; birthstone studs; hoops; cuffs; threaders; and much more. heyrowan.com

FLOWER POWER

Destiny Pinson, local founder and creator of Doris Ione — a flower and décor company lovingly named after her two grandmothers, Doris Jean and Eleanor Ione — added flower parties to her menu of services, as well as workshops. Both are fun options for bachelorette parties and bridal showers. Choose from private or group floristry classes — held either at your home, chosen venue or Doris Ione’s studio — and create beautiful bridal and bridesmaid bouquets, floral crowns, home decor arrangements and more. dorisione.com

GIRLFRIENDS FOR LIFE

If you’re looking for a stylish gift for your bridesmaids (and, of course you are), consider Mignon Faget’s new Sweethearts Pave Diamond Pendant ($866) from the Whimsies Collection. The heart slide pendant, designed locally at Mignon Faget’s Magazine Street location, features 27 cultured pave diamonds and is available in sterling silver or 14K gold (chain sold separately). mignonfaget.com

BRIDAL BEAUTY

Looking your best on your wedding day starts well in advance of the big day with a proper skincare regimen. Karuna is line of beauty products designed to help to balance, restore and brighten skin with gentle yet effective ingredients. The collection, which includes Maintain, Boost and Correct lines, are rooted in the traditional Hindu system of medicine Ayurveda, traditional Chinese medicine, clinical research and the use of adaptogens (natural, inflammation reducing ingredients). These daily skincare products, such as the light and silky All Day Cream and moisturizing Drench sheet mask, will amp up your bridal beauty arsenal. Available at Whole Foods, wholefoodsmarket.com

Hourglass

Simply the Best

Our beauty editor’s top picks for soon-to-be classic skincare

BY MIRELLA CAMERAN

Every year, the beauty industry provides hundreds of new products to try. Only the best survive. Here are our picks of the ones set to become classics.

Cerave Hydrating Cream-to-Foam Cleanser

Your skin should not feel tight after you wash it. Instead of stripping the skin, this great value cleanser removes dirt, makeup and pollution while restoring your skin’s natural barrier.

Phantom Volumizing

If you are looking for high gloss, gorgeous color and the hydration of a lip balm, this is for you. This 3 in 1 new formula is deserving of its instant tick tock fame!

Glossy Balm

Kiehl’s Rare Earth Deep Pore Cleansing Masque

Develop a healthy weekly habit to unclog pores and minimise them. Skin looks and feels smoother after just one application.

Thayers Blemish Clearing Salicylic Acid and Witch

Bader The Rich Cream

Augustinus

We would not recommend this eye-wateringly priced cream unless we were sure that it delivers, but it does. Its TFC-8 technology sends your stem cells into repair mode and Jennifer Aniston’s swears by it.

No 7 Pure Retinol Night Cream

Enjoy the benefits of retinol without any of the downsides of redness and flakiness thanks to this formulation which keeps skin blemish-free, reverses sun damage and prevents wrinkles.

Hazel Acne Pads Using natural ingredients such as aloe vera, tea tree oil and lemongrass, these daily use pads exfoliate impurities on the surface of the skin and draw it out from the pores, keeping skin in the clear.

456 Skin Biomimetic

Essence Packed full of ingredients such as hyaluronic acid, royal jelly extract and vitamin B3, this serum lives up to its claim to be able to “reset” your skin, leaving it plump and glowing all day long.

Vaseline Clinical Care Extremely Dry Skin

Rescue Hand and Body Lotion The smallest dot of this formula removes any dryness or flakiness restoring skin to baby softness.

Locks of Love

The best haircare of 2022 for making your mane a shiny, thick and lush

BY MIRELLA CAMERAN

Over the last few years haircare has exploded with countless new products, but our keen experts have handpicked and hair-tested some of the superstars of 2022 to make sure your locks are camera ready, before, after and during your Big Day.

Hask Rose Oil & Peach Color Protection Conditioner uses hydrolyzed quinoa to keep color vibrant and slow down fading. No wonder this brand is getting a lot of buzz.

Described as a smoothie for your hair, Briogeo’s Superfoods Banana + Coconut Nourishing Shampoo and Conditioner harnesses nutrients and vitamins, including antioxidant-rich açaí to provide a bath of goodness for all hair types.

L’Oreal Paris EverPure Sulfate Free Moisture Shampoo takes on and beats newer and pricer brands when it comes to an everyday shampoo, which keep color shiny and rich while gently cleansing.

She probably has the most famous hair in the world, and now she has a line we can all try. Jennifer Aniston’s Lolavie products are clean, natural and perform beautifully, and her Lightweight Hair Oil is already an award winner.

Act + Acre Cold Processed Scalp

Detox is the number one scalp treatment to repair the damage of heat and the environment, by gently removing sebum and restoring balance.

One of the most iconic hair products of all time, L’Oreal Paris Elnett Satin Extra Strong Hold Hairspray cannot be beaten for a clean-feeling, long-lasting hold that never weighs your style down.

ColorWow has done it again with its Xtra Large Bombshell Volumizer which uses a proprietary polymer complex to give brides all the volume and shine they have ever dreamed of.

Moroccanoil Color Depositing Mask uses ArganID technology to deliver rich conditioning while enriching hair with temporary color, available in seven shades.

K-18 Biotmimetic Hair Science Leave-in Molecular Repair Hair Mask has steep price tag for a tiny bottle is worth it as it reverses damage from color, chemicals and heat in just four minutes thanks to a patented peptide technology.

Face Off

The most winning makeup of the year for a flawless wedding day glow

BY MIRELLA CAMERAN

On your special day, you want the best. Fortunately, advances in makeup technology means you don’t have to break the bank to enjoy the prettiest colors, hardest-working formulas and most beautiful glow. Here we offer a guide to a few unmissable and budget-friendly 2022 winners.

e.l.f. 16HR Camo Concealer

Wave your blemishes and dark circles goodbye with this magic wand of a concealer that has true staying power and never flakes.

L’Oreal Paris True

Match Lumi Glow Nude

Highlighter Palette This little box contains pretty highlighter and bronzer to perfect multidimensional sculpted look.

Photofocus Natural Finish Setting Spray Aloe Vera is the superpower ingredient that keeps your make up in place all day and your skin hydrated to create a perfect, glowing look for as long you want it.

Urban Decay Cosmetics

Naked3 Eyeshadow Palette

These 12 stunning rose-hued neutral eyeshadows in matte, shimmer and metallic are custom made for any bride and offer buildable color.

Rose Inc Cream Blush Refillable Cheek & Lip Color Rosie Huntington-Whiteley has gotten it the right first time in her new line with this cream which combines pigmented color with squalane, vitamin E and hyaluronic acid to deliver a soft, velvety, pretty flush.

Revlon So Fierce! Vinyl Eyeliner

Offering a high-gloss, highly pigmented look that won’t smudge or budge, this gel formula stands out from the crowd and comes in stunning hues.

Glossier Lash Slick You will reconsider those falsies once you try this hydrating formula which gives an extensions look without any flakiness or smudging. We get why it’s a cult fave.

Maybelline

New York Super Stay Vinyl Ink

Liquid Lipcolor Boasting a color-lock formula, your chosen hue will stay firmly in place for 16 hours, no smudging, transference or dryness.

Revlon ColorStay Semi-Permanent Brow Ink The super-fine felt tip allows you to replicate fine natural hairs to perfect your brows and with the effect lasting three days, few products offer this much value for money.

Make Up For Ever HD Skin

Undetectable Stay-True

Foundation

This is a bestseller for a reason. Powered by a micro-skin system, the formula syncs with the skin while covering any blemishes to create a perfect canvas.

Local Vibes

New Orleans-chic stationery

BY ANDY MYER PHOTOGRAPHED BY THERESA CASSAGNE

A lovely hand-drawn custom wedding suite printed on Lionheart Prints’ almost century old letterpress. The envelope liner features a custom watercolor illustration of the venue, Race + Religious. By Lionheart Prints, lionheartprints.com.

Festive custom illustrations and watercolor showcasing the Mississippi River, the happy couple and their pets and iconic local landmarks, hand lettering printed on 100% recycled cotton blend papers. By WalkingMan Studios, walkingmanstudios.com.

Arzberger White stock mixes both a delicate engraved gold border and fine charcoal letterpress printing, adorned with a custom sketch of Saint Louis Cathedral. To complete the suite, a bright Sungold envelope liner is added, along with a modern take of a reception card finished with the couple’s wedding website information.

By

Gem Printing, gemprinting.com.

This stunning invitation, welcome party and reply insert were letterpress printed on Mist stock in gold ink, featuring a rendering of Columns Hotel, paired with Stone Grey envelopes lined with a vintage river scene. By Scriptura, scriptura.com.

SOUTHERN MODERN

Forever the darling of St. Charles Avenue and leading-lady location for feature films and fashion, the Columns has undergone a stylish makeover inside and out guaranteed to keep the stately Italianate mansion’s star power shining as a beloved setting for gatherings both intimate and grand. To quote Pulitzer-winning journalist Rick Bragg, “I think the Columns on the right day, at the right time, pretty much sums up the southern heart,” making it a landmark in the history of love as well as the history of New Orleans.

BY LISA TUDOR PHOTOGRAPHY BY THERESA CASSAGNE

MAKEUP

BY MEGGAN ORY HAIR BY MONIQUE MUNOZ

SET STYLIST LAUREN FAVOR FLORAL STYLIST ANDY MYER

MODELS STELLA BOSIO FOR ABOUTFACES MTM AND BROCK BURGESS FOR IMAGES MODEL + TALENT PHOTOGRAPHED AT COLUMNS

Facing page: Quesste Cerimonia Velvet shawl collar jacket with brass button and braid detail at Tuxedos to Geaux, tuxedostogeaux.com; Reem Acra “Lullaby” lace ball gown with pearl buttons at I Do Couture, idobridalcouture.com

A lavish combination of shades of pink in a freeform design containing florals of Coral Sunset peony, fuchsia double stock, Quicksand roses, Jubilee leucadedronl in burgundy and blue eryngium. Finished with greenery of Italian ruscus and Italian nagra pittosporum. By The Plant Gallery, theplantgallery.com

Reem Acra “Beautiful”

A-line dress with square neckline and floral embroidery from the “Love from Above” Spring 2023 Collection at I Do Bridal Couture, idobridalcouture. com; Brides & Hairpins “Carla” earrings at Town & Country Bridal, townandcountrybridal.com

Black “Quincy” 2-button notch lapel classic black tuxedo at John’s Tuxedos, johnstuxedos.com

”Rooney” allover lace and tulle gown with shaped train at Bliss Bride, beablissbride.

com; Bel Aire Bridal pearl clip at Pearl’s Place, pearlsplace.

com; Haute Bride Swarovski crystal and pearl earrings at Linen Jolie Bridal, linenjoliebridal.com

Lillian West by Justin Alexander

Kent & Park leopard print on velvet formal jacket at Tuxedos to Geaux tuxedostogeaux.com

Élysée Atelier Collection

“Valmont” gown with sweetheart neckline and beaded bodice at Linen Jolie Bridal, linenjoliebridal.com; Haute Bride Swarovski crystal and pearl earrings at Linen Jolie Bridal linenjoliebridal.com

This stunning bridal bouquet contains a mix of Coral Charm peonies, veronica, calla lily, spray roses and a host of other locally grown items for the perfect lush and organic effect. By Kim Starr Wise Floral Events, kimstarrwise.com

Martina Liana “Mitzi” A-line dress with balconette bodice and tulle skirt and Bel Aire Bridal oval crystal earrings at The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe, maemebridal.com

Renoir gray two-piece tuxedo with black satin shawl lapel at Rome’s Tuxedos, romestuxedos.com; black dress shirt at Tuxedos to Geaux, tuxedostogeaux.com

Allure Bridals

“Idina” Gown with leafy appliques and sequined tulle bodice and skirt at Pearl’s Place, pearlsplace.com

“Braydon” black tuxedo with shawl lapel by Ike Behar at Rome’s Tuxedos, romestuxedos.com

Martina Liana Luxe Collection Gown with bustier bodice and tiered tulle skirt with Brides & Hairpins “Carla” earrings at Town & Country Bridal, townandcountrybridal.com

A medium round bouquet with a mix of Playa Blanca roses, Quicksand roses and wine-colored dahlia, burgundy ranunculus, and tips of burgundy Astilbe.

The bouquet is accented with deep blue thistle and light blue nigella with a collar of Italian ruscus and plumosa fern. By Fabulous Flowers, fabulousflowers.us.

“Thea” floral silk jacquard strapless ball gown by Amsale with illusion plunge cutaway at I Do Bridal Couture, idobridalcouture. com; Brides & Hairpins “Carla” earrings at Town & Country Bridal, townandcountrybridal.com

Works of Art

BY ANDY MYER PHOTOGRAPHED BY THERESA CASSAGNE

Almost too pretty to eat, this three-tier traditional almond white cake is covered in white fondant and intricately handpainted with climbing, watercolor-like florals.

By

Chasing Wang, chasingwang.com.

Hand-painted fondant adds a touch of artistry to cakes

This sculptural two-tiered masterpiece is made up of a bittersweet chocolate cake filled with fresh raspberries and chocolate mousse covered in a chocolate fondant delicately handpainted with gorgeous blooms. By Bittersweet Confections, bittersweetconfections.com.

A Local Fare to Remember

Fresh,

seasonal and local reception cuisine adds flavor, fun and a sense of place

BY AMY GABRIEL

You’re the type of couple who frequents the Crescent City Farmers Market to kiss amid the kumquats and consider the smell of a fresh-out-of-the-oven Bellegarde Bakery baguette your shared love language. So when it comes to mapping out your wedding reception menu, the idea of going primarily with local and seasonal farm-to-table cuisine has planted roots in your romantic mind.

“We have definitely seen couples asking for more locally sourced items and have seen more intentional menu planning based on the time of year of their event,” said Walker Geoffray, owner and chef of Black Pearl Catering.

From canapes to buffets to main courses, Geoffray often incorporates regional nods in the reception fare, thanks in part to the growing availability of resources.

“The South, being so hot, has a longer growing season and therefore we can get local produce and seafood almost all year round,” said Geoffray, noting ideas like goat cheesecake appetizers made from goat’s milk from Franklinton, fresh field pea salads for lighter side dishes to accompany cochon de lait and grilled bavette at carving stations.

Recalling a couple desirous of incorporating satsumas into the menu as an homage to the bride’s grandfather’s property in Thibodaux, Geoffray sees the idea of a locally inspired menu as a creative way to introduce your guests to the city where you’ve chosen to celebrate.

“The food that you serve to your wedding guests may challenge their

notion of what wedding food should be, but that can hopefully start a conversation about what really makes New Orleans special. For some it’s a small nod to a memory tied to growing up in Louisiana, for others it’s a want to be able show their guests what is at its peak locally in and around New Orleans.”

Chef Amy Mehrtens of Bonfire Events + Catering encourages couples who are interested in seasonal and regional fare in their wedding menu to weigh in not only time of year, but availability of product.

“If you come to New Orleans, the ingredient sourcing will be what the Gulf Coast has to offer,” said Mehrtens, noting Ponchatoula strawberry season in the warmer temps and Plaquemines Parish satsuma season in the wintertime. “These locally grown ingredients are optimal during those seasons which creates a rare experience for those enjoying them.”

Mehrtens, who loves to get creative with her farm-to-table options for plant-based bites to the tune of eggplant caponata tartine, cucumber and radish tea sandwiches, blackberry and blue cheese canapes and Creole tomato bruschetta, believes these local incorporations are a fun way to get your partygoers bonding.

“New Orleans is all about the food,” said Mehrtens. “When people travel to this city there will naturally be ingredients they are not used to seeing and eating. This will lead to discussion and create memories to reflect on with their friends when they think of their time here.” b

Visions of the beloved labels lined up behind your bar are dancing in your head, you’ve crafted customized signature sips that speak to your personalities and prepped for a round of welcome drinks that will have the festivites in full swing before you even step into the scene as newlyweds. What more can send your reception into a next level celebration? When it’s time to get sweet, surprise your guests with creative libations to coordinate with dessert service.

“Traditionally, most guests stay with the same bar offerings for the entire event,” said Christian Pendleton, general manager of Brennan’s. “However, after the cake is cut, and the event draws to a close, bringing in new food and

Just Desserts

Creative drink pairings that level up the sweets course

BY AMY GABRIEL

new drinks is a fun way to renew the energy and leaves guests talking about this unexpected surprise. Dessert cocktails can serve as a subtle reminder that the event is nearing its conclusion, while also demonstrating that every part of the event has been considered and planned. It opens the final chapter to the party.”

For winter weddings, Pendleton suggests ideas like an Irish coffee cocktail paired with a Bananas Foster station, or, for receptions during the day, a bar dedicated to brunch beverages like a brandy milk punch to pair with a doughnut or beignet display.

Quinn Richard, owner of Cocktail + Creative, reminds that it’s important to balance the savory and the sweet aspects to your cocktail choices

during dessert service.

“You don’t want to overwhelm your guests with anything overly sweet,” said Richard, who suggests ideas like warm chai-based cocktails or apple brandy with bitters for cold weather weddings. “Depending on the season, you can really play up the flavor profiles by infusing your dessert cocktails with dried herbs, edible flowers or fruits. Bringing in those elements as garnishes that play up the color palette of your event also make very Instagrammable moments for your guests.”

Richard sees these types of dessert drinks, which can be rolled in on bar carts as an unexpected treat after the toasts, as ways to create a more elevated experience. “Slow sippers help people take in the last

hour or moments of the event and bring a little more refinement and camaraderie to the night.”

Drew Kingswell, bar manager at Saint John, considers the idea of dessert cocktail service as an exciting way to keep the party going, even as it’s winding down.

“Dessert cocktails are a great way to end any dinner, or continue to enjoy the table’s company afterwards,” said Kingswell, suggesting ideas like pairing limoncello with lemon icebox pie or introducing edible shot glasses made of chocolate and filled with Godiva or Baileys.

“Even if someone is full, a surprise digestif can be an awesome way to keep them engaged and satisfied when everyone else is ready to leave.” b

Lovely Locales

These local venues provide the ideal backdrop for weddings, receptions and more

BY MISTY MILIOTO

It’s always fun to discover off-the-beaten-path venues that embody the personalities of the engaged couple. Here, we take a look at a variety of spaces that will ensure the quintessential New Orleans wedding of your dreams.

THE FRENCHMEN HOTEL

The Frenchmen Hotel, which was originally built in 1860, has been completely reimagined and redesigned by Denver-based FAM Design and hospitality entrepreneur Robert Thompson (who purchased the hotel in 2021). The redesign takes inspiration from Leonor Fini (a major figure in the French surrealist movement) who is known for her independence and eccentric, flamboyant style. In addition to 23 guest rooms, two loft suites and two two-bedroom suites, the hotel features a first-floor bar called Tiki Tock with space for 300 guests and a rooftop/mezzanine with capacity for 90 guests. Full buyout of the spaces is available, as are custom packages. thefrenchmenhotel.com

FIRE HOUSE LOFT

Fire House Loft is a gorgeous and unique space in New Orleans that’s perfect for bridal parties, showers and receptions for up to 113 guests. The property, which started off as an Airbnb, now acts as an art gallery featuring 1,700 square feet of entertaining space (including two bedrooms and two full bathrooms). One of the former bedrooms has been converted to a private dressing room. The space also photographs extremely well thanks to the exposed brick walls. Rental of the space includes use of the entire facility, plus all in-house furniture and kitchen equipment. Fire House Loft also provides private security during the evenings. Catering is allowed, as is bringing in alcohol, but guests must use bartenders from a pre-approved list. firehouseloft.com

FOUR SEASONS HOTEL NEW ORLEANS

Recently celebrating its one-year anniversary, the award-winning Four Seasons Hotel New Orleans offers elegant bridal venues and attentive service. The hotel features two modern ballrooms (one with floor-to-ceiling

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windows overlooking the Mississippi River and another with built-in marble bars, overhead-star lighting and wrap-around access to an openair terrace); a lush garden that can host up to 200 guests for welcome cocktails, a ceremony or a post-wedding alfresco brunch; and the Vue Orleans 34th-floor observation deck with panoramic views of the city. Four Seasons Hotel New Orleans can accommodate receptions of up to 500 guests. fourseasons.com/neworleans

SABA’S LOUNGE

Alon and Emily Shaya’s Pomegranate Hospitality has opened Saba’s Lounge, an all-new lounge space adjacent to the group’s flagship restaurant, Saba. The Lounge is an intimate setting with capacity for up to 50 guests. Enjoy Israeli-inspired cocktails (plus large-format classic cocktails served in beautiful, hand-selected decanters), and a curated list of distinctive natural wines. Of course, Saba’s signature food also is available, including salatim, hummus, wood-fired pita and desserts. eatwithsaba.com

THE NEW ORLEANS JAZZ MARKET

The New Orleans Jazz Market is an artistic events venue that provides a lovely backdrop for weddings and receptions. The Jazz Market Theater features polished floors, comfortable seating, bright lights and a grand stage for a band or DJ. This arena can accommodate up to 370 guests with any desired seating arrangement, from round dinners to standing

cocktail parties. The historic facility also contains a lounge area to mingle over appetizers or drinks. The site offers a blend of contemporary chic decor, tall bar chairs and colorful furniture. thenojo.com/the-market

CAPULET

Originally built in the 1800s, the Capulet has been thoughtfully restored and now features a distinct warehouse interior that provides a romantic setting for up to 250 guests. Details include soaring 30-foot wooden ceilings, exposed brick walls and industrial-chic accents. The warehouse’s main event space features a sleek bar, and the rooftop deck has beautiful views of the city. The Capulet also has a full kitchen for either in-house or preferred caterers. capuletbywater.com

HOTEL PETER & PAUL

Built in 1861, Hotel Peter & Paul previously served as a church in the Faubourg Marigny. Now, after decades of rest, the great hall has been restored with careful attention. In addition to offering 71 hotel rooms across three historic building (group blocks are available), Hotel Peter & Paul offers a number of spaces that are ideal for weddings and receptions. The 4,950 square-foot church hall can accommodate up to 330 guests for wedding ceremonies and up to 160 guests for a seated reception. The piazza, which is nestled between the School House and the Rectory, also is available for a 45-minute cocktail hour between the ceremony and reception. ash.world/hotels/peter-and-paul

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HOTEL ST. VINCENT

Located in the Lower Garden District, inside a landmark 1861 building, the Hotel Saint Vincent features 75 guest rooms and a bevy of event spaces. Designed by Lambert McGuire Design and managed by McGuire Moorman Lambert Hospitality the hotel exudes ‘70s-era Italian charm and unexpected details. (Lambert McGuire partnered with real estate developers Zach Kupperman, Christian Strobel and Jayson Seidman. Many know Seidman from his local hotels The Drifter and the Columns and he is part of the Hotel St. Vincent ownership group.) Of the many onsite venues, the Evangeline Hall & Courtyard can accommodate 175 guests and feature an open floor plan with full kitchen, a private wood-paneled bar and ample outdoor space. The second-floor veranda overlooks the pool and courtyard and can accommodate receptions of up to 55 guests. The North veranda also is available for open-air receptions of up to 30 guests. The Grotto, between the main hotel and Elizabeth Street Café, can accommodate up to 85 guests. Finally, the Chapel Club features a neon-lit entrance, hot-pink velvet bar siding, and a black-and-white marble-topped bar; it can accommodate up to 60 guests. saintvincentnola.com

VIRGIN HOTELS NEW ORLEANS

Virgin Hotels New Orleans has various flexible wedding spaces. All spaces include expertly crafted cuisine from award-winning Chef Alex Harrell. The Shag Room, which is tucked inside Commons Club, is an

intimate space for up to 30 guests. Meanwhile, Dreamboat, adjacent to The Pool Club on the 13th floor, has lush greenery and lanterns with occupancy for 100 guests. Additional wedding spaces include The Manor, an 1,860-square-foot space with arched colonnades and custom murals, with space for 150 guests. There’s also The Lounge pre-function space, accessed via a sweeping art-filled staircase overlooking Commons Club, with a second-floor outdoor balcony and occupancy for 75 guests. virginhotels.com/new-orleans

TUJAGUE’S

From rehearsal dinners to wedding receptions, Tujague’s can create a gorgeous setting for a French Quarter event. The newly renovated threestory restaurant’s new location offers six dining rooms, decorated in traditional New Orleans and Tujague’s decor, dating back to the restaurant’s opening in 1865 with space for 10 to 300 guests. tujaguesrestaurant.com

JACK ROSE/THE PARLOR

Jack Rose is a lively concept in New Orleans’ historic Pontchartrain Hotel with several event spaces. Both The Mile High Pie Club (capacity for 36 guests) and the entire Jack Rose restaurant (capacity for 120 guests) are available for receptions. Larger weddings and receptions can be hosted at The Parlor (capacity for 110 to 220 guests), tucked behind the Pontchartrain Hotel, accessed via an unassuming garage door that gives way to the dazzling interior. jackroserestaurant.com, theparlornola.com

PHOTO COURTESY OF BRIDGET BURNETT AND MIDNIGHT REVIVAL

Virgin Hotels New Orleans

Jack Rose/The Parlor

The Frenchmen Hotel

Linka Odom Photography

Eye for Detail

Five local photographers share their top tips for spectacular wedding day photos

BY MISTY MILIOTO

Photography is quite possibly the single most important line item when it comes to wedding budgets. Not only do photos capture the special moments on a couple’s Big Day, but they will last long after the “I Do.” It’s important to not only find a photographer who matches your style and personality, but also someone who is professional, courteous and capable. Here, five local photographers share their best tips for choosing someone who fits the bill.

SEPTEMBER COMPANY

Between big weddings and small elopements, Thad Billiot and Caitlin Guidry, the husband-and-wife photography duo behind September Company, have photographed nearly 150 couples in New Orleans since starting their business in 2016. Their top tip is for couples to research a few different photographers to find a style that really speaks to them.

Thad and Caitlin also know how important it is for couples to not only consider their wedding photographer’s style but also their personality and professionalism. “You’ll spend lots of time with your wedding photographer on such an important day, so hop on a call to make sure it’s a good fit,” Caitlin says. “Also read their reviews to make sure past clients have had a

good experience. It’s also a good idea to see some of their full galleries at venues similar to yours.”

If a couple prefers to have more candid photos, Caitlin recommends that couples keep their must-have photo list short. “Let your photographer capture the moments of the day that you didn’t even know would happen,” she says. “Trust between the couple and the photographer will always translate to more meaningful photos.”

Yet another way to ensure fantastic wedding photos is to hire a wedding planner or coordinator who can ensure that all of the details of the day are going smoothly. “That way, you can focus on enjoying your day, and your photographer can focus on capturing it in photographs,” Caitlin says. theseptemberco.com

LINKA ODOM PHOTOGRAPHY

Local wedding photographer Linka Odom has always loved the nostalgia and timelessness of photography. Having shot nearly 75 weddings in New Orleans since 2018, she believes in equality, diversity, expression, respect and growth. She also enjoys capturing a couple’s eccentricities, intimacy and true love.

Her No. 1 tip for couples is to always have a phone call or meeting with a potential photographer to ensure there is a mutual, natural connection. She also recommends that couples think about what is unique to them, and then hire a photographer that aligns with those points.

“Also make sure your photographer discusses the photography timeline with you,” she says. “Crafting a custom photography timeline will help the day run smoothly. Another great idea is to keep things really simple or hire a day-of wedding planner at the very least. Finally, the getting-ready location can add so much to your wedding day. Do your research or ask your wedding photographer for their advice on venues.” linkaodom.com

STACY MARKS PHOTOGRAPHY

Since 2000, New Orleans wedding photographer Stacy Marks has shot nearly 1,800 weddings, and he was named Photographer of the Year in 2004 by a number of local vendors. He suggests that couples ask friends for referrals to find out how they enjoyed the entire experience. “Also, ask your venue who they recommend,” Marks says. “They’ve seen everyone and know how they dress and work.”

Just as important as referrals, Marks says that couples should get a contract in writing from the photographer who is actually shooting the wedding. “After all, that is the work you saw and wanted,” he says. “Sometimes, second or third shooters will show up on your day instead if it’s a big company.”

When it comes to pre-bridal events or engagement photos at notable New Orleans locations, Marks says to book appointments during the week when those locations aren’t as busy. “Finally, relax and let the professional you hired capture your day with his or her eye and experience,” he says. “You will be much happier with the end result.” stacymarks.com

MICHAEL CASWELL PHOTOGRAPHY

Michael Caswell, a local wedding photographer who has shot more than 700 weddings since 2005 in New Orleans and the Southeast, says that, first and foremost, it is important for couples to carefully plan the time of their ceremony. “The preferred light for outdoor photography is generally going to be the last hour before sunset, with the absolute best light being in the last half hour,” he says. “Consider ending the ceremony around sunset, so that the entire ceremony can be captured with natural light.”

Caswell also suggests doing first-look photographs. A main benefit is that the photographer can take most, if not all, of the formal group shots before the ceremony (so the couple can quickly get to the reception). Another benefit is being able to get daytime shots (if it’s a nighttime wedding).

Additionally, Caswell says that couples should gather any detail items they want photographed (such as jewelry, perfume, shoes or the wedding invitation suite) prior to the photographer arriving so that precious time isn’t lost. “Your florist also may be able to supply

some loose flowers, or the bride can provide fabric scraps from her dress alterations — both of which are helpful for these shots.”

Finally, Caswell says to include some buffer time for the day of the wedding. “This way, a delay has less of a chance of cascading down to the rest of the schedule,” he says. michaelcaswell.com

BRIAN JARREAU

PHOTOGRAPHY

Brian Jarreau is a local wedding photographer known for his breathtaking photojournalistic style and amiable personality. His main tip is for couples to prioritize their photography budget.

“Your photographs will be the cornerstone of posterity for one of the most important days of your life,” he says. “These photographs will be the treasured moments you share with your loved ones for generations to come.”

Jarreau also suggests that couples should not feel the need to fit a certain trend. Instead, he urges couples to incorporate personal touches that make the couple unique. Equally important, he says, is that couples actually talk to their photographer either via phone or in person.

Yet another tip Jarreau shares is that couples should be specific with all of their vendors about times and locations, and that means planning out the imagery with their photographer. “My studio uses a Wedding Day Details form to collect all the pertinent information,” he says.

Finally, Jarreau says that couples should make time for portraits with each other. “Sometimes your wedding day timeline is tight, and you don’t have the time to spend on solid portraits of the two of you,” he says. brianjarreau.com

Brian Jarreau

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Michael Caswell Photography

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Having a packed dance floor during your wedding reception is the best sign of a good band or DJ. If you don’t already have a favorite, this roundup of some of the best options in New Orleans will help you turn up the jam.

BANDS

BAG OF DONUTS

This popular New Orleans band has been together since 1988 and includes Bobby Hoerner (lead vocals), Jonathan Hoerner (guitar, vocals), Jerry Christopher, Jr. (bass, band leader) and Kevin George (drums). The band added Ian Smith

Tuned Up

Local bands and DJs will rock your wedding reception

BY MISTY MILIOTO

(trumpet) and Phil Morin (saxophone) in 2016. Since the band’s start, Bag of Donuts averages about 100 shows per year, 20 of which are weddings. It’s also the first cover band to be inducted into the Louisiana Music Hall of Fame.

A band known for its high energy and over-the-top costumes, Bag of Donuts plays what Christopher calls “SuperPop” — party songs from every decade to current interpretations of New Orleans culture and clever mashups with a jam-band experience. “Folks tell us all that time things like, ‘This felt more like a rock concert or dance party than a wedding,’” Christopher says. “That’s the kind of energy we bring to every

performance, so we’re looking for couples who are looking for that type of experience.” bagofdonuts.com

NOLA DUKES BAND

Nola Dukes Band — a premium, customizable, three- to 14-piece band — consists of live music experts, wedding enthusiasts and party-starters. The most popular seven-piece band consists of two vocalists, guitar, keys, bass, drums and one horn. The band has been performing since 2012 and has played at thousands of weddings.

“There’s no better feeling than seeing the look of love when a couple’s friends and family join them on the dance floor,” says Randi

Adlesic, musician and producer. “We will make sure you and your guests have the night of your lives, because we pride ourselves on contagious energy. We are also there to help you curate your own personal playlist for your special day with a variety of genres to get all your guests grooving.” noladukesband.com

SUNNY SIDE JAZZ BAND

Formally named in January 2020, Sunny Side Jazz Band consists of Darold Alexander (vocals), Adam Arredondo (trumpet), Adam Lessnau (trombone), Andy Page (alto /tenor/ soprano saxophone), Soren Andrade (guitar), Steve Walch (upright bass) and Rob Montgomery (drums, band

NOLA Dukes Band

manager). The band provides a full New Orleans-style jazz band experience with three-part harmonies, a solid rhythm section and an energetic vocalist and dancer.

“Playing jazz sometimes has a stigma of light background music,” Montgomery says. “However, we aim to showcase early and midcentury jazz and swing, which has an energy that is infectious.” sunnysidejazz.com

THE TOPCATS

Another popular New Orleans band, This year, the Topcats, celebrate 40 years of playing together with the same band members. The band consists of Buzzy Langford (guitar, vocals), David Gamble (keyboards), Pat Campbell (bass, vocals) and Robert Schulte (drums, vocals). Since they started the band, they have played more than 1,000 weddings. The Topcats have a vast setlist covering music from the 1940s to the latest hits.

“The band prides itself on being able to play any kind of music, catering to the old and young alike,” David says. “We are a fourpiece band capable of creating the sound of a 10-piece band, without distracting from the setting or overcrowding the party area. Our goal is to keep the dance floor packed throughout the entire reception.” thetopcats.com

DJS

AARON LANE ENTERTAINMENT

Aaron Lane started performing as a DJ at 13, and has consistently performed for more than 20 years (including more than 500 weddings). “I absolutely love performing for receptions, because it’s not only a celebration of love (which we need more of in this world), but it’s a time of joy and togetherness with both friends and family,” he says. “I love being able to take a couple’s taste in music and translate that into a personalized entertainment experience for them and their guests.”

Aaron Lane Entertainment is focused on making sure the music reflects the couple. “Everyone on our team has performed extensively in nightclubs and shows, so we’re able to bring that experience to the reception,” Lane says. “I’ve had weddings that only wanted the classics, and weddings that wanted EDM for three hours.” aaronlaneentertainment.com

DJ KEREM

Kerem Ozkan performed as a DJ since 2014, and has more than 50 weddings under his belt. His main goal when performing at weddings is to remember he is part of a couple’s momentous day. ”The joy that folks feel at a wedding truly cannot be compared to anything else,” he says.

DJ Kerem works closely with couples to learn about their taste in music. He then draws upon his existing library to prepare a wide selection of music appropriate for the wedding. “Doing that prep work in advance gives me a lot of freedom to improvise in the moment and read the crowd,” Ozkan says. keremthedj.com

MOBILE BEAT ENTERTAINMENT

Jeff Tircuit, a DJ with Mobile Beat Entertainment, has been performing in the greater New Orleans area for 22 years (including about 1,200 weddings). In addition to having years of experience, Tircuit provides an extensive music library. He is available to play ceremonies and receptions, and provides intelligent lighting, professional equipment, lasers, foggers and more.

He works with couples to fill out a worksheet, followed with a consultation meeting, to determine the type of music to be played. However, Tircuit says he can literally play anything. neworleansdjselect.com

NOLA TOAST ENTERTAINMENT

Ang Garcia, operations manager and owner of NOLA Toast Entertainment, offers a rotation of eight to 12 DJs for weddings and receptions. Since opening in 2018, the company has performed at more than 500 weddings. “Our DJs have anywhere from four to 25 years of DJ experience,” Garcia says.

In addition to providing DJs, NOLA Toast Entertainment also offers the option to add a photo booth, or photography and videography services. “We train our staff to make your event the lifetime experience it should be,” Garcia says. “Our integrity, attitude, business ethic and delivery of our work is proof of our consistent five-star reviews.” toastnola.com b

Getting There

Don’t stress about how you’re going to make it to your wedding. With so many options for couples in New Orleans — whether you want to make it to your ceremony by land, air or sea — you can arrive in style. Each choice has its own charm and beauty and can be tailored to your wedding ceremony, so all you have to do is enjoy the ride.

HORSE AND CARRIAGE

The classic New Orleans mode of wedding transportation, the horse and carriage, is the image of wedded bliss. Enter your ceremony as if you are in your own personal fairy tale. Royal Carriages has been a New Orleans institution since 1941 and provides several options to its guests. neworleanscarriages.com

STREETCAR

Seat 40 to 52 of your guests in a classic New Orleans streetcar by chartering one from the city. You can create your own route, bring food and non-alcoholic drinks onto the streetcar and decorate it to your heart’s content. It’s a mode of transportation steeped in history but customizable to your goals. norta.com/help-and-contacts/ business-information/streetcar-charters

LIMO

They’re ubiquitous to weddings for a reason — the luxury and comfort of a limo is tough to beat. Sip champagne and settle into the rich leather interior while a chauffeur gets you to your destination in style. americanluxury.com, bonolimo. com, limolivery.com

ROLLS ROYCE

A classic Rolls Royce or antique Bentley exudes vintage luxury and style and allows you to transcend time. Arrive at your wedding in true elegance and enjoy the plush leather seating while sipping champagne in VIP Transportation’s antique motorcars. viptransportationinc.net, alerttransportation.com

PEDICAB

Whether it’s your main means of transportation for your ceremony, a bachelor or bachelorette party visit to the French Quarter, or you put a coupon for a free ride in your wedding gift bag, these chauffeur-driven bicycles provide a fun means to explore the city and offer a quick getaway when necessary. needaridenola.com, neworleansbiketaxi.com

MOTORCYCLE OR SCOOTER

Get a fleet of motorcycles or scooters to carry you, your beloved and your guests to your wedding. Pick between classic Harleys or BMWs on the motorcycle side or hop on a Genuine Buddy scooter with your pals and fly through the streets. avenuescooters.com, eaglerider.com/neworleans

TANDEM BIKE

Prove your commitment to fun, whimsy and teamwork by renting bikes on your Big Day. The American Bicycle Rental Company gets its bicycles made specifically for the wear and tear of the Big Easy’s streets, so that the beginning of your marriage isn’t too bumpy.  bikerentalneworleans.com

PARTY BUS

Why not rent a party bus? Champagne chillers, accent and fiber optic lighting, flat-screen TVs, a mirrored ceiling and a dancing pole — gasp! — are a few of the amenities. The buses range in size, running up to 28-passenger limits, and Royal Coach will meet all of your specifications.  myroyalcoach.com, nopartybus.com

GONDOLA – CITY PARK

If you’re near City Park for your wedding, a gondola ride is a must. Glide through the smooth waters of the park and have a private, relaxing moment with your new partner in life and love. If you want to bring guests, the boat carries up to six. nolagondola.com

YACHT

Charter a yacht and party all the way to the altar. Watch the sun set and enjoy balmy breezes as you float through the waters of Lake Pontchartrain. If you’re up to it, have the captain of the ship officiate the wedding. The options are endless when luxury is your focus. neworleansyachtcharter.com

TROLLEY

Don’t worry, you can still ride off into the sunset in a classic Crescent City trolley even if your wedding isn’t on one of the town’s main streetcar lines. Limousine Livery provides refurbished streetcars free of both cable restraints and tourists. What’s more, the renovated vehicle’s cushioned seats offer a little more luxury than the city’s current hardwood offerings, so you can cozy up and cool off next to your new spouse. limolivery.com b

Bride: Kenyia Houston Groom: Felton Brown

III Date of Wedding: Sept. 24, 2022 Ceremony and Reception

Location: Hilton Baton Rouge Capitol Center

Coordinator: Dannakia Bougere’ Photographer: Shagari Jackson

sVideographer: Silver Loop Studios Bridal Gown: Casablanca Bridal and The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe Bridesmaids’

Dresses: David’s Bridal Men’s Attire: John’s Tuxedos Rings: Zales Florist: Dannakia Bougere’ Caterer: Hilton Baton Rouge Capitol Center

Cake: The Royal Cakery Hair: Jordan Washington Makeup: Jennifer Peters Music: Red Tape Music (live band) and DJ Mario Harris

Favors: Dannakia Bougere’

Bride: Olivia Huppman Groom: William DePass V Date: May 21, 2022 Ceremony and Reception

Location: Brennan’s Restaurant (courtyard and downstairs)

Coordinator: Kaitlyn David of Kate David Events (coordination, planning, design)

Photographer:

Greer Gattuso Gown: Sareh Nouri from Town & Country Bridal Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Dessy Men’s Attire: Black tie from Perlis Rings: Aucoin Hart Florist: Bella Blooms Floral Caterer: Brennan’s Restaurant Cake: Chasing Wang

sHair: Elissa Warriner from Culture and Co. Salon Makeup: Samantha Babin from Katie Malonen

Music: Nola Dukes Band — string trio for ceremony, full band for reception, jazz trio at rehearsal dinner

Invitations: Scriptura Rehearsal Dinner: Commander’s Palace (both the bride and groom’s parents had their rehearsal dinners at Commander’s, it’s a family tradition) Hotel: Monteleone, where bride, groom, family, and guests stayed and got ready Furniture rentals: Distressed Rentals & Revival Lighting & Tent: Element

Bride: Jessica Jaycox

Groom: Tyler Mahl

Date: Oct. 15, 2022

Ceremony Location: St. Joseph Church, Gretna

Reception location: Federal Ballroom Gown: Linen Jolie Bridal

Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Bliss Bridal Men’s

sAttire: John’s Tuxedos Rings: Ramsey’s Diamond Jewelers

Florist: Beth’s Flowers Caterer: Capdeboscq Catering Service Cakes: Haydel’s Bakery

Photographer: Theresa Elizabeth Photography

Videographer: RZ Productions Hair: Cody Miller, Root Salon and Studio Makeup: Krystal Lepine, The Southern Belle Music: Sugar Shaker

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Bring Your Brood

Romantic resorts that are also fun for the entire family

BY BECCA HENSLEY

You’d dreamed perhaps of some couple time alone. But, like the Brady Bunch, this second marriage, this new beginning for each of you and your respective, rollicking broods, marks a novel way to parent and a fresh way to repose. There’s just no way around it — you’re going to have to bring the whole family on your romantic date to a luxury location. Does this worry you? Do you resent it? Heavens no — you wouldn’t do it any other way. This is your new life — and you want to celebrate the hugeness of it — even if that means the biggest suite on property or seats on two whole rows on the airplane.

For all of you new marrieds with kids who are starting anew, we bring you a stellar list of romantic destinations, each one sure to achieve lovey-dovey-ness for couples in equal proportion to over the top fun for kids and the new family at large. Let the honeymoon (and the new memories) begin. You’ve got this.

INTO THE WILD

There’s no way the kids were going to let you go look at cheetahs and black rhinos in the Kalahari without them. While an African safari entails painstaking logistics (and a good travel agent) under any circumstance, South Africa’s Tswalu uniquely provides families with complete flexibility when it comes to their on site itinerary options. A place you can see animals not often found elsewhere, the lodge keeps things bespoke. Each suite, whether the two two-bedroom accommodations at Motse or the five bedroom option at Tarkuni, comes with its own private vehicle, guide and tracker. Staff welcome kids upon arrival with accoutrement-brimming backpacks, and entice them to activities from bow and arrow making to tracking practice. Besides cuddling during game drives in those sexy khaki outfits, couples can sneak away for alone time at the pool, for a private bush breakfast or for date night at peerless Klein Jan, a gastronomic restaurant amid

the wild. by South Africa’s first Michelin-starred chef Jan Hendrik van der Westhuizen.

FRENCH KISS

Snow-loving honeymooners whose idea of romance is a glamorous ski scene inspired by a vintage James Bond movie, can embrace the chic ski haven of Le Coucou by Maisons Pariente, a gem in the French Alps. As parents practice choreographed s-turns down the slopes, luxuriate in the Tata Harper spa or sip apres ski Champagne by the fire, children, ages 4-15, can join entertaining guides in The Kids Club and Teen Lab to partake of activities that range from dog sledding to igloo building — not to mention ski lessons and the fun-filled Yeti Park, an outdoor playground on the mountain. For the whole family hot air ballooning over Courchevel,  ski-joëring (skiing while being pulled by a horse), ice skating at the nearby Olympic rink and snowshoeing promise to build the new family bond.

Ireland’s Dromoland Castle in County Clare

MEXICAN WELLNESS

An established hideaway on Mexico’s Riviera Nayarit, just a short drive from Puerto Vallarta, Four Seasons Resort Punta Mita occupies an eye-popping expanse of tropical terrain on the Pacific Ocean. With a breezy, yet opulent vibe and a commitment to immerse in local culture the resort has long been a pioneer in going beyond pampering to cater to the mind, body and spirit of its guests. While suites, decked out in local art, can accommodate smaller clans, a trio of new beach homes, set on their own corner of the retreat, stretch out grandly to hold larger crowds of honeymooning families. Children from 5-12 can partake of KidsWell, the FS Punta Mita’s groundbreaking children’s program with a focus on mindfulness, local culture and connectedness (think yoga, art therapy, interaction with animals and marine life, gratitude activities, cooking classes), while their parents indulge in classic five-star coddling at the spa, beneath beach cabanas, over long lunches and during activities from horseback riding to tequila tastings. Plan for all-family bonfires on the beach beneath the stars to cap idyllic days.

MONTANA MOMENTS

The Resort at Paws Up, family-owned itself, specializes in multigenerational holidays and unforgettable experiences that satisfy all ages. The seminal trailblazer of today’s glamping trend, this vast, 37,000-acre wilderness playground entices with a variety of accommodation options, from luxurious tents to multi-level cabin-like homes. Guests immerse into the bucolic surroundings via more than 50 activities. Fly fish, take trail rides, rise above Lewis and Clark’s terrain in hot air balloons rides, learn to paint, participate in a bonafide chuck wagon dinner and buzz through the sky in a helicopter. While the Kids Adventures option supplies gamechanging fun for kids, ages 3-12 (think: geocaching, swimming, archery and more), couples can launch their new life together with action-packed mornings, lazy afternoons at the spa and candlelit suppers a deux. Large families can book an entire tented luxury camp, camping butler and concierge included, or overtake a luxury Wilderness Home amid the pine trees — hot tub and ample deck part of the treat.

REGAL RETREAT

Bring your fairy tale to life with an all-family honeymoon at Ireland’s Dromoland Castle in County Clare. With towers, crenellated walls, storybook grounds, antique-filled rooms, crystal chandeliers, massive fireplaces and silk claret wallpaper, the opulent 16th-century castle, lords over 450-acres of emerald parkland. With the power to convey couples and their kids to legendary times, the resort guides wannabe royalty in bygone activities, such as the ancient art of falconry. An onsite genealogist supports those in search of information on their Irish roots, horses await riders, a small golf course beckons and resplendent afternoon teas, complete with clotted cream, sate appetites. Sign kids up for one of Dromoland’s Princess programs, which include treats that range from breakfast in bed to princess gowns, as well as age-appropriate spa treatments and Irish dance lessons.

SWISS SHANGRI LA

If all the charms of stunning Switzerland could be distilled into one place it would be Bürgenstock Resort, which crowns a mountain that rises from the banks of crystalline Lake Lucerne. Your newly combined family will love the novel arrival: a boat ride from the city, followed by a heartthumping, steep ascent to the top by funicular. Historic, but reimagined by new owners, the resort — a village-like medley of three hotels, a wellness center, 10 restaurants, a golf retreat, two spas and much more — evokes quintessential Swiss allure: beflowered meadows, endless cowbells, mountain trails, a shimmering lake, gracious staff, assiduous attention to detail, and, of course . . . cheese. While you and your beloved experience the tri-level spa, rife with saunas and punctuated by a cliff-hugging infinity pool, your children will be well minded in the fairy tale-themed kid’s

club, where tennis lessons, chocolate making classes and kids’ mocktail events rule the stay. A cinema for rainy days will delight the entire family.

FAR-FLUNG FUN

Nobody will argue that the Maldives isn’t a long way to go for a vacation. An archipelago in the Indian Ocean that consists of 1,200 variously sized islands that scatter across a huge expanse of sea, the destination promises a foray to the earth’s furthest corners and a marine wonderland. Check into Niyama Private Islands Maldives Resort and your household won’t regret a minute they spent on that plane. Touted as the most family friendly hideaway in the storied Maldives, the retreat comprises two islands (Chill for calmer stays and Play for wilder ones) connected by a footbridge. Found on Play, Explorer Kids Club keeps children occupied in gleeful bliss. Expect surfing (the best in the Maldives), cooking classes, pools, treasure hunts, dolphin spotting and games galore. Besotted newlyweds can canoodle in Subsix, an underwater restaurant, at Nest, a treehouse eatery or in the spa. Ideal for larger groups, the three-bedroom beach pool villa will envelop families in happy connection.

HULA HAVEN

Situated on Oahu’s less trammelled North Shore, Turtle Bay Resort, recently transformed and re-polished, sits beachside along five miles of riveting coastline. A secluded paradise, on Hawaii’s most famous island (but far from the madding crowd), it exudes every aspect of Hawaii’s storied paradisiacal mystique and magic. Perfectly positioned to spot humpback whales and monk seals and to capture kaleidoscopic sunsets, the hideaway has new Ocean Bungalows roomy enough for you and the kids. While newlyweds can nibble from a gourmet picnic basket, paddle a canoe over the waves, ride horses along the coastline and melt into the joys of couples treatments at the spa, their children can take surf lessons complete with surfing dogs, and go turtle spotting. Days end with the whole family in tow at a Paniolo (Hawaiian cowboy) dinner, complete with fire-knife dances, hula lessons and a luau-style buffet dinner. b

Burgenstock Resort

Tswalu

Four Seasons Resort Punta Mita

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lot that goes into wedding planning, so don’t feel bad if you’re having a hard time keeping track of it all. Use our handy checklist to stay organized.

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10-12 MONTHS TO GO

You’re engaged! Make sure you celebrate with your fiancé, friends and family.

Nail down the basics. Where are you getting married? Who’s paying for what? What is your budget? How many guests will be there?

Alert the wedding party. Decide who you want in your wedding party and ask them as soon as you can.

__ Pick the date. Check with your family members and wedding party before you make a final decision so there are no huge time conflicts.

Find a wedding planner. If you’re going to use a wedding planner, find one in the early stages. He or she will make all the craziness more manageable.

Book your ceremony and reception location. Where you get married will affect a lot of your planning decisions, so reserving a place should be at the top of your to-do list.

__ Insure your ring. Your engagement ring is special, but it’s also expensive. Make sure you get it insured, just in case.

Book officiant. Make sure your preferred officiant has your wedding date on the calendar.

Write thank you notes for engagement gifts. You will most likely receive a few gifts right after your engagement. Send a thank you note for each gift within three months of receiving it.

__ Take engagement photos. Book a session with a professional photographer so you have a few nice photos of you and your fiancé for save-the-dates, newspaper announcements and more. Some photographers will include an engagement shoot with a wedding package.

Pick your colors. Think about your wedding colors and the overall look of your day. Are you going for a classic look or trendy? Vintage or glamorous? Your color scheme will guide you through other big decisions, such as the bridesmaids’ dresses and the groomsmen’s ties.

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MONTHS TO GO

Interview and select vendors. Make sure you book the “big ticket” items, such as the photographer, the caterer, the florist and the entertainment, early.

Send out save-the-dates. The typical rule on sending save-the-dates is six months before your wedding, but send them earlier if you’re inviting a lot of out-of-town guests so they can book flights.

Go dress shopping. You need an appointment at most wedding boutiques, so call a few of your favorite stores to set up a time.

__ Register. Register at two or three stores. Choose items at a variety of prices so everyone can find something they can afford. Add more gifts than you think you need so your friends and family have some options.

Think about the rehearsal dinner. It’s customary that the groom’s parents host the rehearsal dinner. Talk to your future in-laws about possibilities.

__ Schedule transportation. Book a limo, trolley or another form of transportation to shuttle your wedding party from the hotel to your ceremony location. Decide whether you need transportation for your guests to get from the reception to the hotel at the end of the reception.

Plan your honeymoon. If you’re going out of the country for your trip, make sure you and your fiancé have up-to-date passports.

__ Figure out your rentals. Rentals depend on the location of your wedding, but if you’re responsible for common rental items such as chairs and plates, make a list of everything you need and where you’re going to find each item.

Book a block of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests. If you’re not familiar with the hotel, ask a hotel representative to show you a room and don’t forget to inquire about a group rate.

Order bridesmaids’ dresses. If your bridesmaids live far away, give them plenty of time to buy their dresses and get them fitted.

4-5 MONTHS TO GO

Buy wedding bands. Shopping for wedding bands is usually less stressful than shopping for an engagement ring, but carve out a time when you and your fiancé can go look together.

Finalize the rehearsal dinner. Once you’ve decided on the location, book your rehearsal dinner.

__ Reserve a wedding night hotel room. Where are you staying for the wedding night? If you’re not leaving for your honeymoon immediately after the reception, decide where you want to stay for the night.

Get your dress fitted. Your wedding dress is one of the most important dresses you will wear in your life, so it should fit impeccably. Many brides plan up to three fittings.

__ Decide on attire for the groom and groomsmen. Talk to your fiancé about what he wants to wear and what will match your overall color scheme. Keep the time of day in mind when researching options.

Check in with your vendors. Make final decisions with your vendors and update them on new wedding information, such as when they should arrive.

__ Order your wedding cake. Taste a few cakes before you decide on your final choice. Talk to your fiancé about a groom’s cake if he wants one.

2-3 MONTHS TO GO

Mail out the invitations. Double check with the post office that you have enough postage. Many wedding invitations require more than one stamp.

Solidify the catering menu. Whether you’re doing heavy hors d’oeuvres or a sit-down meal, verify the final menu.

Schedule your hair and makeup team. Find a good hair stylist and makeup artist to help you and your bridesmaids get ready for the day.

ONE MONTH BEFORE

Send your wedding party an itinerary. Make sure your family and friends know where and when to be for the wedding day so everyone shows up at the right place at the right time.

__ Enjoy a facial. Everyone reacts differently to facials. If you’re planning on getting one, schedule it a few days before your wedding, or do a trial run months before.

Get your marriage license. Head to the Orleans Parish Marriage License Office in Benson Tower (1450 Poydras St., Suite 407) for your marriage certificate. The office is open Monday through Friday from 8:15 a.m. until 3:15 p.m. Visit ldh.la.gov for requirements.

Set up your second line. If you’re planning to second line at your wedding, you’re going to need a permit. Call the City of New Orleans One Stop Permits & Licenses at 658-7100 to schedule everything 15 to 20 days before your wedding day.

__ Practice your hair and makeup. It’s best to practice with your hair stylist and makeup artists ahead of time so there are no surprises on the big day. Plan your trial run for a day you want good hair, such as your bridal shower or bachelorette party.

__ Finalize the guest list. Send a final headcount to your caterer and any other vendor who needs the number.

ONE WEEK BEFORE

__ Double check with your vendors. Touch base with everyone one more time to remind them where to go and to answer any last-minute questions they might have.

Remind friends and family of their responsibilities. Assign duties to your wedding party or other loved ones. Who is the contact for the photographer? Who is making sure all guests get a favor?

__ Get a manicure and pedicure. This can be a great bonding experience with your bridesmaids, mom and future mother-in-law.

Put together a welcome package. If you have a lot of guests traveling for your wedding, ask the hotel if you can put a welcome basket or bag in their hotel room for when they arrive.

THE WEDDING DAY

Find a way to relax. Whether you go for a run or read a book in the morning, find a way to keep stress to a minimum.

Make sure you eat something. Brides always say, “I never had time to eat anything!” Give yourself some time during the reception to have a bite.

Have fun! You’ve made it through all the planning, now it’s time to celebrate. Enjoy your first day as a married woman. b

‘I Do’ Salut

A newly released book makes writing wedding toasts a breeze

BY MISTY MILIOTO

Writing a wedding toast can be a bit overwhelming, if not outright daunting. Should it be funny? Deep and meaningful? Over the top or simple and to the point? So. Many. Questions. Thankfully, a new book by Pete Honsberger, entitled “Wedding Toasts 101: The Guide to the Perfect Wedding Speech” (Adams Media, $13), will help you nail your toast. This 128-page lighthearted book offers building blocks on how to write a great speech, anecdotes and advice from past weddings and an easy-to-follow checklist — all with a dash of humor to take the stress out of speech-writing. It makes a great gift for any future maid of honor, best man or anyone else planning a wedding toast. Available at Garden District Book Shop, gardendistrictbookshop.com b