Church of Saint Mary Parish Bulletin: January 15, 2023

Parish Mission Statement

We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries. We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.

PARISH DIRECTORY

Church of Saint Mary 1300 Northern Boulevard Manhasset, New York 11030 (516) 627-0385 Fax (516) 627-6070 www.saintmarysmanhasset.org

Schedule of Masses

Monday–Friday 9:00 AM

Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon

Sacrament of Penance

Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.

Anointing of the Sick

The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Office to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.

Parish Office

627-0385 | Fax 627-6070

Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM Saturday - Sunday (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM E-mail: information@stmary.ws

Parish Social Ministry 365-2705

Monday-Wednesday-Thursday

11:00 AM-3:00 PM E-mail: socialmin@stmary.ws St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws

Religious Education 627-4028

Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM

Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM

Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM Closed on Friday

Pastoral Staff

Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws

Rev. Fr. Dominik Wegiel Parochial Vicar 627-0385 | ext. 1006 frdominik@stmary.ws

Rev. Fr. Kingsley Nwanwa Parochial Vicar 627-0385 | ext. 1089 frkingsley@saintmarysmanhasset.org

Parish Staff Jane Clifford Bulletin Editor bulletin@stmary.ws

Jennifer Fedele Office Manager 627-0385

Marie T. Granieri

Director of Religious Education 627-4028 | ext. 1127 releddirector@stmary.ws

Vincent Hartley Facilities Manager 627-0385 | ext. 1002

Kathleen Kosciusko Director of Parish Social Ministry 627-0385 | ext. 1126 kkosciusko@stmary.ws

Robert Levulis Music Director 313-7606

Vanessa Quiros Parish Office 627-0385 vquiros@stmary.ws

Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM Adult Faith Formation 627-0385 | ext. 1010

The Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade

Very Rev. Dom Elias Carr, Can. Reg., Ph.D. President 627-2711 president@stmary.ws

Norma Ragalli Stafford

Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstafford@stmary.ws

Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws

Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711 esymmons@stmary.ws

Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws

Sarah de Venoge Griffin ’02, ’06 Liaison for School Relations sgriffin@saintmarysmanhasset.org

St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184 www.stmary11030.org

Kristen Schreiner Principal kschreiner@stmary11030.org

St. Mary’s High School 627-2711 www.saintmaryshs.org

Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org

Dear Parishioners,

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The images of light and darkness are familiar metaphors that are found in the Sacred Scriptures. On January 8th, we celebrated the Feast of the Epiphany. It was the light of the star that led the Magi to the Newborn King, Jesus. Isaiah, full of hope, is reminding the Hebrew people that in the midst of all that happens, they are called to reflect the glory and beauty of God’s presence. It is through the covenant of old that God has made them His own people. That relationship is the promise that God will journey with them throughout their history. Conversely, this relationship calls for a response from the people. As we hear in Isaiah, that means to be a light to the nations. God asks for this so that others may come to see Him as the Lord of creation.

We, as inheritors of this covenant fulfilled in Jesus, are also called to be a light to all. That light comes from the way we live our lives. The “yes” to the call is to live as loving people. Love is not just a nice fluffy feeling, but, more importantly, a life stance... a total response to God’s command. So, like the Magi, we may need to pack up our lives, leave behind the extra baggage, and journey to find Jesus. The Wise Men saw that light and were willing to follow it. We are called not only to recognize the light, but also, more importantly, be willing to learn from the light of Jesus.

To follow Jesus, we all need guidance by seeking the counsel of the “wise men” in our midst - those people who can help us identify the call of Jesus in our own lives. Take a moment and think about those people who helped you recognize “the Holy Spirit who came down like a dove.” Maybe a mother or father, grandparent, a religious sister or brother, or a favorite teacher. The more we seek out the power of Jesus, the more the darkness of sin will flee from the light of Christ. As Baptized Catholics, we are called to be the light to all we encounter. We engage in ministry to be that light to others, BUT we must remember that, like St. John the Baptist, we are called to defer our hearts to Jesus. The work we do, even if it goes unnoticed and unacknowledged, must give glory to the Jesus whom we have accepted in our lives.

When we respond to the call of service and do so with joy, we become a light to others and can be a moment of evangelization to those we come in contact with throughout the day. We have the power to lead others to Jesus...and the power to push them away from Him. St. John knew the ministry of his life was to reveal and acknowledge Jesus before the world...no different from our responsibility today. From his own sense of obedience to the Will of God, the Baptist acknowledges to his listeners that “One is coming after me who ranks ahead of me.” The prayerful acknowledgment that he is simply a messenger and servant of the One who is to come teaches us how to be a light. It must always be in humble service to what Jesus asks of us. How well do we present Jesus’ light to others? This is a question each of us must ask each day. May the Holy Spirit guide us to the light of Jesus.

Open House for our Elementary School and our High School is coming up in three weeks on January 29th from 12:00 Noon to 2:00 PM. I encourage you to look at what we have to offer. They are schools I am very proud of and I’m certain you will find it a wonderful atmosphere to form your child in the Light of Christ.

On behalf of myself, Fr. Dominik, and Fr. Kingsley, we would like to thank all the parishioners who sent us gifts during the Christmas Season. We are most grateful to you for your generosity. A blessed, healthy and joyful New Year to All!

In Jesus, Fr. Bob

“I will make you a light to the nations.” (Isaiah

Stewards of God’s Gifts

In today’s Gospel, John the Baptist declares that Jesus is the Son of God.

Living Stewardship ~ Pillar of Formation: Ordinary Time is not the time to forget all the good works you’ve done throughout Advent and Christmas season. Continue to practice good works to others and to grow in your faith. Perhaps take up reading some Catholic apologetics to learn more about the Faith.

The collection for Sunday, January 8, 2023 amounted to $25,151.00

The collection for Sunday, January 9, 2022 amounted to $23,112.00

Have you enrolled yet? Visit www.faithdirect.net. Our parish code is NY281.

We Care for Our Parish Community

Baptism

We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Office at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fill out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Those chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”

Marriage

At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.

Children’s Education

Saint Mary’s Elementary School offers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.

Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711.

The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confirmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Thursdays

4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also offer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.

Parish Social Ministryã

We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.

Youth Ministry

We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.

New Parishioners

We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Office.

Opportunities For Prayer

The Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. The Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.

Masses and Special Intentions

Paul Martocci Geralyn Gerba Parker James Austin

Mark Stapleton

Stephen Sheehan

Sandy Pittman

Jeanette Albanese Moira Feely

Masses for the Week Monday, January 16th

Heb 5:1-10, Mk 2:18-22 9:00 AM | Matthew Mottola (living)

Theresa Fallon

Christine

Thomas

Estela

Cherie

Carol

Lisa

Marchese

Hyland

Fernandez

Baldenko

Bennett

Fontenelli

Frank

Prince

Hope Della Ratta

Nina

Marie

Maria DeAngelis

James

McCabe

Chuck Sockett

Ann Pardi

Kristin O’Shea O’Keefe

Marguerite Barone

Robert Labriola

Vincent Nicky O’Donnell

Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing

Catherine Camera

Richard E. Miller, Jr. ’53

Judith Betts ’55 ’59

Emmanuel Mesagna

William Jason Volpe Eugene Rorke

Tuesday, January 17th St. Abbot, Abbot Heb 6:10-20, Mk 2:23-28 9:00 AM | Erminia Endrizzi

Wednesday, January 18th Week of Prayer for Christian Unity Begins Heb 7:1-3, 15-17, Mk 3:1-6 9:00 AM | Lawrence McMahon

Thursday, January 19th Heb 7:25-8:6, Mk 3:7-12

7:00 AM | Mimi & Vincent de Venoge 9:00 AM } Peter J. Calabretta, Sr.

Friday, January 20th St. Fabian, Pope & Martyr St. Sebastian, Martyr Heb 8:6-13, Mk 3:13-19

9:00 AM | Patrick Edwards

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23rd Marine Regiment

25th Marine Regiment

2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang 2-211th GSAB Task Force

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51st Security Force Squadron

75th Ranger Regiment 82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron Alacqua, Alexander, 1LT, USA

Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA

Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA

Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC

Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF

Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA

Broderick, Steven, SN, USN

Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC

Brown, Jason, SGT, USA

Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC

Hayes, Andrew, Capt, USMC

Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF

Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC

Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA

Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC Howard, Edward, PV2, USA

Hussey, James M., GySgt, USMC Jones, Scott B., LT, USN Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF Major, A. Edward, III, MAJ, USA Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161 Marine Transport Squadron 352 McGorry, Patrick F., HM2, USN McKievear, Gary, LT, USA Millau, Jeffrey, PFC, USMC Morris, Jr., Brian J., MAC, USN O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA Vachris, Madison LTJG, USN Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN

Saturday, January 21st St. Agnes, Virgin & Martyr Heb 9:2-3, 11-14, Mk 3:20-21 9:00 AM | John Klein 5:00 PM | Carmine Russo

Arlene Marie Snyder Thomas J. Flynn, Sr. Andy Lukianoff Vivian Ramondo Angelica Mottola (living)

Sunday, January 22nd

The Third Sunday in Ordinary Time Word of God Sunday Is 8:23-9:4, 1 Cor 1:10-13, 17, Mt 4:12-23

7:30 AM | People of the Parish

9:00 AM | Josefina Buzeta

10:30 AM | Angela Mock Miller

12:00 Noon | Vito & Vincenzo Guagenti Santina & Santino Cani Biaga & Alfonso Guagenti Giuseppa & Gondolfo DiFiore Angela Di Bennardo Mary Sides

Cover: Saint John the Baptist in the Wilderness.

Artist: José Leonardo (1601 - ca. 1653)

If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service.

The Second Sunday in Ordinary Time | January 15, 2023

The Parish Office will be closed on Monday, January 16th in observance of Martin Luther King Jr. Day Adoration will not take place

Mass Intentions Book for April 1, 2023 - June 30, 2023 is open.

Mass intentions may be requested in person at the Parish Office, Monday through Friday, 9:30 AM to 4:00 PM, or call (516-627-0385) or email (information@stmary.ws) for other options. The Gift Shop is closed for the remainder of January. Any inquiries, please call 526-627-0385 ext. 1033 Bread & Wine are offered this week in loving memory of Dr. Peter J. Calabretta, Sr.

Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

Reading I: Isaiah 8:23-9:3 The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.

Reading II: 1 Corinthians 1:10-13, 17 Christ did not send me to baptize but to preach the gospel.

Gospel: Matthew 4:12-23 He went around all of Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the gospel of the kingdom.

Question for Adults: When has God been a light that has brought me out of darkness and gloom?

Question for Children: How can I answer Jesus’ call to “Come and follow me?”

St. Mary’s High School The Footsteps of St.

Paul

St. Mary’s High School is excited to be bringing 25 students to Greece in February, 2023. Our chaplain, Fr. Dominik Wegiel, will accompany these students as they experience the religious and classical highlights of Greece, walking in the footsteps of St. Paul and seeing the various sites from biblical times and early church history.

In order to help offset the cost of the trip, St. Mary’s High School is hosting a fundraising raffle. There will be one grand prize of $500., and a second place prize of $200. Each ticket is $20.00, and the drawing will take place on January 21st.

Cash and checks are accepted and can be either dropped off at the Parish Office or mailed to St. Mary’s High School, 51 Clapham Avenue, Manhasset, NY 11030. Checks can be made out to “St. Mary’s High School.”

of the Word Sundays at the

What Is It? After the Opening Prayer, children gather and are dismissed from the church with a blessing by the priest, proceed to the chapel for the Sunday Readings and a short reflection on the Gospel, all on a level that children can understand. They are returned to the church at the beginning of the Creed. Get Involved! We are in need of a few more people who would like to break open the Gospel reading for the children. Please consider sitting in on Sunday to see what it’s about and/or email Jane at bulletin@stmary.ws.

Parish Social Ministry

ST. MARY’S FOCUS GROUP GAME DAY

Thursday, January 19th

Where: Marian Room Time: 1:00 PM to 3:30 PM

HAS BEEN CANCELLED

Watch the bulletin and the DAILY for future dates.

All Are Invited to a Catholic Theology

Discussion

Lamenting Suffering in the Light of Christ

January 21, 2023 at 10:00 AM in the Ministry Center

Presenter: Mrs. Marie Granieri

Society of St. Vincent de Paul

In the Gospel after Jesus was baptized, John testified saying, “I saw the Spirit come down like a dove…and remain upon him.” As you place your gift in the Society of St. Vincent de Paul Poor Box, know that you are a sign of God’s Spirit of love to those who are suffering.

Our St. Vincent de Paul Conference is able to help our neighbors in need through the generosity of our St. Mary’s parishioners. Each time you donate, either through the collection slots at the doors of the church, or in an envelope marked for St. Vincent de Paul, you are helping our neighbors within St. Mary’s Parish. If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-627-0385, ext. 1125, or email SVDP@stmary.ws. To donate furniture, clothing or household items, please call the store in Garden City Park at 516-746-8250. Thank you for your continued support.

RCIA and Adult Faith Formation

Join a Prayer Group for Lent!

Sr. Teresa is organizing a Lenten Prayer Group to meet once a week during the Lenten Season. If you would like to be part of this group, please call or email Sister to register. If you have never been in a prayer group and would like some instruction, Sister will be happy to work with you. Give her a call. Please make your call or email between January 10th and January 30th so there is time for Sister to reserve the day and area where the meetings will be held.

Do You Know Someone Who Would Like to Become a Catholic?

Our door is still open for anyone who is interested in joining the Catholic Church, Learning more about the Faith we practice and becoming a fully initiated Catholic for anyone who has not received First Communion or Confirmation. In order to qualify as a Godparent in Baptism the person must have received all the Sacraments of Initiation. They include Baptism, Confirmation and Holy Communion.

Sister Teresa can be contacted about our RCIA and other Adult Faith Formation programs at 516-627-0385, ext. 1010. Her office hours are Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday between 10:00AM and 4:00PM and other times by appointment.

Rosary Society

Our Mission Statement:

The Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart

Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the difference it will make in your life.

If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws.

L O O K I N G A H E A D !

Events planned by the Rosary Society for the first few months of 2023:

Rosary 101 - Thursday, February 9th

Join us to learn more about Our Lady’s Rosary, why we pray it, and the prayers included in it.

New Members Coffee - Friday, March 10th

All women of the parish are invited to become members of the Rosary Society. For more information, please contact us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws

Day Of Recollection - Thursday, March 16th

Our annual event of Lenten reflection, including Mass and lunch.

Annual Communion Brunch - Saturday, April 22nd Induction Mass in the Church, followed by brunch at the Strathmore-Vanderbilt Country Club.

As always, all events and details will be shared with our members by email, and with parishioners through bulletin announcements. We hope you will consider attending any or all of our gatherings and prayer opportunities in 2023.

Religious Education

Dear St. Mary Religious Education Family, Catechism classes resumed with a New Year’s blessing and story sharing. Fr. Kingsley visited our classes to engage with students about their joyful memories of Christmas. Attending Mass, spending happy time with family, and enjoying special meals were described with a heart of love. We appreciate our parish priests for all they do in the spiritual formation of our students.

As we travel into 2023, we carry a fresh resolve to accomplish new endeavors. Stretching our God given gifts to reach even greater heights is a common thread we share. However, in our determined striving, it is important to hold on to the words our Lord taught us. We are to petition God each day for the giving of “our daily bread.” Above anything the world can offer is the sacramental Bread and the Word of God that sustains us right now – giving us everything we need to persevere in the present. Moreover, He directs us to let the “day’s troubles be sufficient for the day.” God knows our necessities and in Him alone, shall we be content.

May Christ, the Living Bread, bless you in the coming year! Mrs. Granieri

Second Collection Next Weekend for the Church in Latin America

For over 50 years, Catholic dioceses in the United States have participated in the bishops’ special annual collection for the Church in Latin America as a sign of solidarity and unity with Catholica in Central and South America and the islands of thw Caribbean. Parishioner donations to this collection support pastoral ministries like evangelization and catechesis, family ministries, lat ministry training, and the education and formation of priests, deacons, and religious brothers and sisiters. Please be generous.

Venerable Anthony Vincent Gallo

Diocesan Priest, Oblate of the Congregation of the Priests of the Sacred Heart

Montforte Irpino: 11 January 1899 - Rome: 2 May 1934

O Most Holy Trinity, Who deigned to raise Venerable Anthony Vincent Gallo to the priesthood, and endowed him with precious gifts, especially that of a burning love for suffering and immolation, we humbly beseech You, if it be Your will, that he may be glorified on earth, and that we may obtain through his intercession the particular grace which we ask for with living faith.

Amen.

27-29 2023

Knights of Columbus

Father William A. Daly S.J. Council #2122

Serving St. Mary’s Parish in Manhasset and St. Aloysius Parish In Great Neck www.kofc2122.org

What is a Knights of Columbus Family?

We are Catholic families building a bridge to our faith.

Our lives, time, efforts, and resources are dedicated to these values: Charity. Unity. Fraternity. Patriotism.

We come from different places, backgrounds, and all stages of life. But the common thread is our Catholic faith. We are Catholic families seeking to improve ourselves and the world.

It’s one thing to say who you are. It’s another thing is to live it. Put your values into practice.

Become a Knights of Columbus family.

Interested? Please call: Tony Racioppo 917 539 0859 Dan Garcia 516 358 1817

Ladies interested in joining the Columbiettes Please contact Maura Clifford at Macliff56@gmail.com