CHURCH of SAINT MARY
The Second Sunday of Lent March 13, 2022 Reverend Father Robert A. Romeo | Pastor Reverend Father Dominik Wegiel | Parochial Vicar Reverend Father Collins Yeboah | Parochial Vicar
1300 Northern Boulevard | Manhasset, New York 11030 516 627 0385 | Fax 516 627 6070 www.stmary.ws
Parish Mission Statement We, the community of Saint Mary’s, Manhasset, building on our rich heritage of Catholic faith and tradition, center ourselves in the Eucharist and honor God in proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ. Guided by the Holy Spirit, we seek to be the presence of Christ through our liturgical, educational and social ministries. We dedicate our time, talent and treasure to the service of all as we build the kingdom of God in our world. We commit to this mission in the name of Jesus Christ.
Church of Saint Mary 1300 Northern Boulevard Manhasset, New York 11030 (516) 627-0385 Fax (516) 627-6070 www.stmary.ws
Schedule of Masses Monday–Friday 9:00 AM Saturday 9:00 AM, 5:00 PM Sunday 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, 12:00 Noon
Sacrament of Penance Saturdays from 4:00-4:45 PM and by appointment. Please call 627-0385.
Anointing of the Sick The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is celebrated in the Chapel on the second Sunday of the month following the 10:30 AM Mass. If you are unable to come to Church, please call the Parish Office to make arrangements for Anointing or to receive the Eucharist.
Parish Office 627-0385 | Fax 627-6070 Monday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM Tuesday - Friday 9:30 AM - 4:00 PM Saturday - Sunday (phone only) 10:00 AM–1:30 PM E-mail: information@stmary.ws
Parish Social Ministry 365-2705 Monday-Wednesday-Thursday 11:00 AM-3:00 PM E-mail: socialmin@stmary.ws St. Vincent de Paul Society: svdp@stmary.ws
Religious Education 627-4028 Monday 12:00 Noon-8:00 PM Wednesday 9:00 AM–5:00 PM Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 AM–6:00 PM Closed on Friday
PARISH DIRECTORY Pastoral Staff Rev. Fr. Robert A. Romeo Pastor 627-0385 | ext. 1004 pastor@stmary.ws Rev. Fr. Dominik Wegiel Parochial Vicar 627-0385 | ext. 1006 frdominik@stmary.ws Rev. Fr. Collins Yeboah Parochial Vicar 627-0385 frcollins@stmary.ws
Parish Staff
The Schools of Saint Mary Nursery through 12th Grade Very Rev. Dom Elias Carr, Can. Reg. President
627-2711 president@stmary.ws Norma Ragalli Stafford Director of Admissions 627-2711 | ext 1084 nstafford@stmary.ws Edward Short Vice President of Development 627-2711 | ext 1120 eshort@stmary.ws
Jane Clifford Bulletin Editor bulletin@stmary.ws
Eileen M. Symmons ’82, ’86 Director of Communications 627-2711 esymmons@stmary.ws
Jennifer Fedele Office Manager 627-0385
Kiera Gmelich Walsh Director of Alumni and Parent Relations 627-2711 | ext. 1162 kwalsh@stmary.ws
Marie T. Granieri Director of Religious Education 627-4028 | ext. 1127 releddirector@stmary.ws Vincent Hartley Facilities Manager 627-0385 | ext. 1002 Kathleen Kosciusko Director of Parish Social Ministry 627-0385 | ext. 1126 kkosciusko@stmary.ws Robert Levulis Music Director 313-7606 Vanessa Quiros Parish Office 627-0385 vquiros@stmary.ws Sr. Teresa Raftery, IHM Adult Faith Formation 627-0385 | ext. 1010
St. Mary’s Elementary School 627-0184 www.stmary11030.org Sarah Griffin (de Venoge) ’02, ’06 Co-Principal sdevenoge@stmary11030.org Theresa A. Kemp Co-Principal tkemp@stmary11030.org St. Mary’s High School 627-2711 www.saintmaryshs.org Gerard J. Buckley Principal gbuckley@saintmaryshs.org
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From the Pastor’s Desk Dear Parishioners,
“This is My Chosen Son; listen to Him.” (Luke 9:35) Here on the mountain of the Transfiguration, we hear echoes of the words from the Baptism of Jesus, “This is my Beloved Son,” as Jesus is “changed.” Moses and Elijah appear in glory to show that Jesus is the fulfillment of the promises of old. He has come as the Father’s Word and, because of this, He takes on the mantle of all the Father promises. It becomes clear that Jesus is the One sent from the Father, who speaks the Father’s will. If Jesus speaks the will of the Father, then we know that we are bound to not just hear His words, but to take them to ourselves. Lent is the journey that invites us to come to know Jesus. It becomes “our” journey to the mountaintop. Encountering the face and presence of Jesus will certainly mean change, of course, but the change is given that we may come to know Jesus more deeply and to embrace His call for our lives. This journey will mean leaving behind some pre-conceived notions or understandings of who Jesus is. This, of course, is difficult and may, at times, be our biggest challenge. We are comfortable with what we know and what we may have been taught as children. While many of those ideas might be helpful, they also may be the unconscious walls that keep us from truly knowing Jesus. Like St. Peter, who wanted to build permanent altars on the mountain – to remain on that mountain to experience the expression of Jesus that is revealed – Jesus reminds Peter and us that he must be willing to travel to places that leave behind the comfortable expressions in order to seek out the truth of Jesus. Change is never easy, as we know, but necessary for a life that we want to be rooted in Jesus. As St. Paul says, “Remain faithful to the Lord.” So read the Scriptures and do not be afraid if you encounter another image or understanding of Jesus. Who knows? He may have something wonderful in store for you! A reminder that some wonderful ways to consider for celebrating Lent are attending daily Mass, Stations of the Cross, confession and acts of charity. Don’t let the time go by without deepening your relationship with Jesus. What a great gift for Him and each of us we can present at Easter. This past Sunday we sent our parishioners seeking Baptism at Easter to the Bishop for the Rite of Election. This is the formal acceptance of those wishing to be baptized and received into the Church at the Easter Vigil. Our R.C.I. A. (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) team has been working with them in teaching and faith formation so they may become members of the Catholic Community. On certain Sundays, they will attend the 10:30 AM Mass and engage in what are called the Scrutinies. These are moments of prayer and blessing that prepare the Candidates for the Easter Sacraments. I ask that you keep them in your prayers and may their dedication renew our own commitment to the Faith. I would like to thank Sr. Teresa, Fr. Collins, and the entire R.C.I.A. team for their hard work and dedication. In these difficult and trying times, Pope Francis has reminded us to continue our prayers for peace in the world, especially in Ukraine. As you know, last weekend a collection was taken up for humanitarian relief for the hurting people of Ukraine. You may still contribute by dropping off an envelope at the parish office or in the collection. Please indicate the word “Ukraine” on the envelope so we know what the donation is for. Stations of the Cross are prayed each Friday at 7:00 PM in the Church. In Jesus, our Crucified Lord, Fr. Bob
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Stewards of God’s Gifts In the Gospel reading for today, we hear about the Transfiguration of the Lord. This event also appears as the Fourth Luminous Mystery of the Rosary. Living Stewardship (Pillar of Prayer): As we begin another week of Lent, perhaps take up a new prayer habit— praying the Rosary. If praying a full Rosary is not possible for you at the moment, just do one decade (or 10 Hail Marys) as a beginning.
The collection for Sunday, March 6, 2022 amounted to $26,588.00 The collection for Sunday, March 7, 2021 amounted to $25,348.00 The collection for the Church in Need-Ukraine amounted to $9,436.00
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We Care for Our Parish Community Baptism We celebrate Baptism at 1:30 PM on the second Sunday of the month and at 12:30 PM on the fourth Saturday of the month as scheduled. Please call the Parish Office at least one month in advance to see if a date is available and to arrange to fill out pre-baptismal paperwork. New parents are required to attend a Baptism preparation session held once every month. Those chosen as sponsors for Baptism should lead lives in harmony with the Catholic faith and the role of Godparent.”
4:30-5:30 PM. Classes also meet on Sundays from 9:3010:20 AM for Grades 1 through 8 and on Mondays from 7:00-8:00 PM for Grades 6, 7 and 8. We also offer the option of an online home program for Grades 1 through 7. For information about Grades 1-8 call 627-4028 or email Mrs. Marie Granieri at releddirector@stmary.ws.
Parish Social Ministryã We care for our sisters and brothers through our Parish Social Ministry and Food Pantry. For information call 365-2705.
Marriage Youth Ministry
At least six months before you plan to be married and before you make arrangements for the reception, please make an appointment with one of the priests to begin the necessary preparations.
We reach out to our teens though our Youth Ministry Program. For information email youth@stmary.ws or visit stmarysyouth.weebly.com.
Children’s Education
New Parishioners
Saint Mary’s Elementary School offers excellent education in the spirit of the Gospel from grades N, Pre-K to Eighth grade. For information call 627-0184.
We welcome new members to the Catholic Church and to Saint Mary’s Parish. If you are new in the area or interested in learning more about the Catholic faith, please call the Parish Office.
Empowering Character, Innovation and Leadership in our students, Saint Mary’s High School is a dynamic, contemporary, Catholic value-centered school, combining a commitment to academic excellence and educational innovation, with a passion for learning, and an emphasis on moral character development through the pursuit of truth and discovered in faith and reason. For information call 627-2711. The Religious Education Program provides excellent formation in the Catholic Faith for children in public or private schools. Preparation for First Holy Communion and Confirmation requires two years. Classes are held at St. Mary’s for Grades 1 through 5 on Tuesdays and Thursdays
Opportunities For Prayer The Church is open Monday to Friday until 8:45 PM, on Saturday until the end of the 5:00 PM Mass, and on Sunday until 6:00 PM so that we may have the opportunity for quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. The Miraculous Medal Novena is said each Monday following the 9:00 AM Mass. Monday to Saturday the Rosary is said following the 9:00 AM Mass. Eucharistic Adoration is held every Monday from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Chapel. On First Saturdays, the Scriptural Rosary is recited following the 9:00 AM Mass.
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Masses and Special Intentions Lottie Jennings Kristen Lovero Christine Marchese Margaret Murray Gabriella Tranchina Anna Forte Madison Milio Laarni Melliza Perlman Ellen Ward Thomas Hyland Maryann McDermott Thomas Ryan Estela Fernandez Marie Pellegrino Theresa Fallon Cherie Baldenko Marguerite Baron Virginia Fallon Carol Bennett Eileen Zurndof Salvatore Marsala Lisa Fontenelli Gina Ross Eugene Rorke Paul Martocci Marko Russ Jeanette Albanese Paul Rogalli Names will remain on the list for three months. Please email bulletin@stmary.ws if you would like to continue with the listing. Robert George Plansker Jean M. Gallagher John P. Harris Connie Mills
125th Brigade Support Battalion 23rd Marine Regiment 25th Marine Regiment 2-4 GSAB Task Force Mustang 2-211th GSAB Task Force War Horse 51st Security Force Squadron 75th Ranger Regiment 82nd Expeditionary Rescue Squadron Alacqua, Alexander, 1LT, USA Amerson, Jason, CPT, USA Anderson, Michael, 1LT, USA Arnold, James, LCpl, USMC Avasthi, David, Capt, USAF Baber, Joseph, Maj, USAF Broderick, Evan, SGT, USA Broderick, Steven, SN, USN Brodie, Virgina H., 2ndLt, USMC Brown, Jason, SGT, USA Fontanetta, Joseph, Maj, USMC Hayes, Andrew, Capt, USMC Hernandez, Steven, SSgt, USAF Higgins, James, GySgt, USMC Hilton, Justin, SGT, USA Hilton, Nathaniel, SGT, USA Horner, Brian G., 1stLt, USMC Howard, Edward, PV2, USA
Hussey, James M., GySgt, USMC Jones, Scott B., LT, USN Jones, Katherine L., LTJG, USN LaManna, Vincent S., Jr., PVT, USA Landolphi, Michael, ENS, USN Lanza, Anthony E., LtCol, USMC Madden, Michael E., Major, USAF Major, A. Edward, III, MAJ, USA Marine Medium Tilt Rotor Squadron 161 Marine Transport Squadron 352 McGorry, Patrick F., HM3, USN McKievear, Gary, LT, USA Millau, Jeffrey, PFC, USMC Morris, Jr., Brian J., MA1, USN O’Leary, Jason, SSgt, USAF Petracca, Evan L., LTJG, USN Quinn, Anthony, Jr., SGT, USA Richardson, Timothy, PV2, USA Radman, Paul Cpl, USMC Rodi, Caroline G., CAPT, USN Sharkey, John J., LtCol, USMC Spivak III, Edmund, Capt, USAF Sweeney, Timothy, CPT, USA Swersky, Roberto, Capt, USMC Tafone, Samantha, SGT, USA Ullrich, Kenneth C., HN, USN Unger, Matthew J., SPC, USA Vachris, Madison LTJG, USN Wood, Kelly, BMSR, USN
Masses for the Week Monday, March 14th Dn 9:4b-10, Lk 6:36-38 9:00 AM | 1. Ann-Marie Cannatella 2. Adam Brozowski (20th anniversary) Tuesday, March 15th Is 1:10, 16-20, Mt 23:1-12 9:00 AM | 1. Lucia Derosa 2. Angelo Paladino Wednesday, March 16th Jer 18:18-20, Mt 20:17-28 9:00 AM | 1. Alfred Lepore 2. Howard Miller Thursday, March 17th St. Patrick, Bishop Jer 17:5-10, Lk 16:19-31 7:00 AM | Brian Bourke 9:00 AM | Tim & Timothy Dowd Friday, March 18th St. Cyril of Jerusalem, Bishop & Doctor of the Church Gn 37:3-4, 12-13a, 17b-28a, Mt 21:33-43, 45-46 9:00 AM | 1. Richard Augeri 2. Domenick Puleo Saturday, March 19th St. Joseph, Spouse of the Blessed Virgin Mary 2 Sm 7:4-5a, 12-14a, 16, Rom 4:13, 16-18, 22, Mt 1:16, 18-21, 24a 9:00 AM | Angelo Paladino 5:00 PM | Mimi & Vincent de Venoge Thomas J. Flynn, Sr. Mary Rose Sammut William Haska Joyce Leila Foroe Vincent Leddy, Sr. Sunday, March 20th Third Sunday of Lent Ex 3:1-8a, 13-15, 1 Cor 10:1-6, 10-12, Lk 13:1-9 7:30 AM | Larry Austin 9:00 AM | Anthony Edward Spinetta 10:30 AM | People of the Parish 12:00 Noon | 1. Rosemary O’Connor Angelo Paladino Hilda Kaldawi Joseph Filardi Catherene Dargento Helen Sarcevic 2. Anthony D’Angelo
On the cover: The Transfiguration. Artist: Raphael (1483-1520).
If you have a service member that you would like to add to this list please e-mail bulletin@stmary.ws. Please include name, rank and branch of service. The Second Sunday of Lent | March 13, 2022
at St. Mary’s DAILY MASS DURING LENT is celebrated at 9:00 AM Monday through Saturday 7:00 AM on Thursday
EXPOSITION AND ADORATION OF THE BLESSED SACRAMENT WITH BENEDICTION is held on Mondays from 3:00 to 5:00 PM in the Church. STATIONS OF THE CROSS are held in the Church every Friday at 7:00 PM. SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION Lent is a special time to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Priests are available for confession each Saturday afternoon from 4:00 to 4:45 PM in the chapel or by appointment. Call the Parish Office at 627-0385 to make an appointment.
Readings and Questions for Faith Sharing on the Third Sunday of Lent
A Lenten Prayer Group, led by Sr. Teresa, meets on Wednesdays, from 7:30 to 8:30 PM, in the Marian Room.
Reading I: Exodus 3:1-8a, 13-15 “This is what you shall tell the Israelites: I AM sent me to you.”
The Rosary Society annual Day of Recollection is scheduled for Wednesday, March 23rd. Father Dominik Wegiel will be the guest presenter. FAST AND ABSTINENCE - Those who have reached their fourteenth year are bound to abstain entirely from meat on all the Fridays of Lent. All Catholics between the ages of eighteen and fifty-nine are also bound to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. This means to limit oneself to a single full meal and avoid food between meals. Two other light meals, which together do not equal a full meal, may be taken during the day.
Reading II: 1 Corinthians 10:1-6, 10-12 Whoever thinks he is standing secure should take care not to fall. Gospel: Luke 13:1-9 “But I tell you, if you do not repent, you will all perish as they did!” Question for Adults: How am I being called to repentance this Lent?
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Question for Children: What new things am I doing this Lent to get ready for Easter?
Parish Social Ministry The food pantry needs your help in filling its shelves. If you can provide some of the items listed below, it would be grestly appreciated.
Jelly Oatmeal Pancake Mix/Syrup Rice
Tuna Fish Mac & Cheese Canned Fruit Crackers
Toothbrushes Cleaning Supplies Shampoo Diapers
Donations may be left in the donation box located in the south lobby of the Church or brought to the Parish Social Ministry office located on the ground floor level of the convent facing the east side of the church. Thank you for your generosity and support!
F.O.C.U.S. Friends Offering Care, Understanding and Support for the divorced, singles and the widowed FOCUS is a ministry that offers support to parishioners who have lost a spouse. The group also welcomes singles looking for companionship and comradery. Some of the activities the group organizes include special Masses, luncheons, bridge, and trips to shows and museums. If you are interested in joining FOCUS, please call Esther Markiewicz at 516-625-0708. In addition to continuing to pray for peace, we have the opportunity particularly in this Lenten season to give alms in direct response to the crisis in Ukraine. From now until March 21st, the Parish Social Ministry office will be collecting supplies to be sent to those suffering in Ukraine. All donations can be brought to the social ministry office or left in the food donation box in the south side of the church. The requested items include, but are not limited to: Medical Supplies: Thermal underwear and socks Tourniquets Work Boots and Work Gloves Trauma Shears Flashlights and Batteries First Aid Kits Solar Chargers Gauze Dry Baby Formula Antibacterial Ointment Diapers Aspirin Wipes HELP Advil Sleeping Bags FOR Therafl u Medicines THE UKRAINE NyQuil and DayQuil Protein Bars Water Purification Tablets Non-electric Air Mattresses If you prefer to make a financial donation to help with the cost of transporting these items, please call the PSM office at 516-365-2705. Thank you for your generosity.
Parish Social Ministry Reaches Out to the Elderly and Homebound The Elderly and Homebound Ministry provides a social connection between the parish and the one in need. This ministry, through volunteer efforts, contacts parishioners who reside in residences, nursing facilities, and other home situations. Ministry volunteers offer a listening ear to those who are ill or homebound. The goal is to offer parishioners an encounter with one another to experience God’s goodness and to continue the connection to St. Mary’s Parish. If you are interested in volunteering or being contacted by our volunteers, please call the Parish Social Ministry office at 516-365-2705.
COVID-19 TESTS
Richard Nicolello of the Nassau County Legislature has provided Parish Social Ministry with free COVID-19 tests. If you need a test, please stop by the Parish Social Ministry Office on Monday, Wednesday, or Thursday, between the hours of 11:00 AM and 3:00 PM. You may also call us at 516-365-2705 to arrange for pick-up.
Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament A Lenten Prayer Dear Lord Jesus, by Your Passion and Resurrection You brought life to the world. But the glory of the Resurrection came only after the sufferings of the Passion. You laid down Your life willingly and gave up everything for us. Your body was broken and fastened to a Cross, Your clothing became the prize of soldiers, your blood ebbed slowly but surely away, and Your Mother was entrusted to the beloved disciple.
Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament with Benediction Mondays 3:00 - 5:00 PM in the Church
Stretched out on the Cross, deprived of all earthly possessions and human aid, You cried out to Your Father that the end had come. You had accomplished the work given You, and You committed into His hands, as a perfect gift, the little life that remained to You. Lord, teach me to accept all afflictions after the example You have given. Let me place my death in Yours and my weakness in Your abandonment, Take hold of me with Your love, that same foolish love that knew no limits, and let me offer myself to the Father with You so that I may rise with You to eternal life. Amen.
Society of St. Vincent de Paul Lent is a call not just to “give up something” but more important to “give something for the poor.” Wherever you live in the parish, there are poor families within walking distance of your home. When in need, they ring the rectory bell. They are, in effect, ringing your doorbell. If you or someone you know needs assistance, contact the St. Vincent de Paul Society at 516-627-0385 ext. 1125 or SVDP@stmary.ws. If you would like to make a donation, you may use the collection slots at the doors of the church or place an envelope in the regular collection marked “St. Vincent de Paul Society.” For furniture and household donations, please call 516-746-8250 to arrange for a pick up.
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A Lenten Reflection by Father Collins BEFORE YOU GIVE-FOR GOD, FOR-GIVE Undoubtedly, prayer is believed to be the most important thing in our Christian life. It is through prayer that we establish a relationship with God and with his Son, our Lord Jesus Christ. The importance of prayer is further underscored by the fact that even “when we do not know how to pray as we ought, the Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words” (cf. Romans 8: 26). As a necessary part of our Lenten discipline, we are encouraged to intensify our prayer life. Therefore, it is important to understand the relationship between prayer and forgiveness. The first text of Scripture to analyze here is Mark 11:25: “Whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone; so that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses.” In simple terms, this text tells us to forgive wrongs before you pray. To go back to our play upon the word FORGIVE, we can say: to be GIVEN what you ask FOR, you first must FOR-GIVE. Of all the petitions in the Lord’s Prayer, the only one that seems to have a condition attached to it is: “…and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us” (Matthew 6: 12). Jesus again picked that line alone and reiterated it in verse 14: “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses” (Matthew 6: 1415). As Scott Hahn puts it: “We forgive as we have been forgiven. We forgive as God forgives. Only then should we ask God to forgive us as we forgive others.” (Scott Hahn: Understanding “Our Father,” p. 52). It stands to reason then that the more we pray the Lord’s Prayer, the more we should forgive; and the more we forgive, the more meaningful, powerful, and acceptable will our prayer be also. The last Scripture reference to make is Matthew 5:23-24: “So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift.” Again, this text can be simply restated as before you GIVE-FOR God, you must FOR-GIVE your brother or sister who has offended you. Our community of faith expresses our love for God and our need of his gift of salvation in the most sublime and supreme way through the offering left to us by Christ which is the Mass. The Mass is our highest form of prayer offering to God. Therefore, given reconciliation with brother or sister as a pre-condition for prayer offering means that forgiving offenses is essential to making our offering acceptable to God. This explains why in the offering of the Mass the Lord’s Prayer and the Sign of Peace are put in close relation to that high point of the Mass when we receive the gift of Christ himself in the Holy Communion. The Church is literally bidding each one of us to express in word and deed that we FOR-GIVE and reconcile with our brothers and sisters as we get ready to receive Christ our Lord who GIVES himself FOR us in the Holy Eucharist. Understand and appreciate here, then, the significance of the penitential rite at the beginning of Mass. Clearly, the expression of our prayer and its acceptance before God are inextricably linked with the forgiveness of our brothers and sisters. So, before you GIVE an offering of Prayer FOR God, FOR-GIVE a brother or sister who has offended you. Fr. Collins
A Reflection on the Pilgrimage to Italy by Fr. Dominik At the end of February, Fr. Bob was gracious enough to allow me to join St. Mary’s High School pilgrimage to Italy as their chaplain. We traveled to Venice, Florence, Padua, Assisi, Sorrento and Rome. In the beginning of the pilgrimage, we started in Venice right in the midst of the Carnival. The Carnival is always the week prior to Ash Wednesday and they have this tradition in Venice of people dressing up in Renaissance fashions and wearing masks. We also visited St. Mark’s Square and its Cathedral. We were exposed both to local and Catholic culture surrounding Italy. During the trip, we were also able to make visits to Padua and Assisi. We prayed before the relics of Ss. Anthony, Francis and Claire. To visit the actual burial sites of the saints helped us to visualize the reality of their lives. It is easy to reduce the saints to a collection of stories. But when we visited and saw their bones it pointed to their historical reality. They’re not mythical heroes, but real people who lived, worked, ate, laughed, and breathed as we do. In the Basilica of St. Francis of Assisi, there are giant frescos depicting the life of St. Francis. These helped us to see the magnitude of Francis’ life, the impact he made on the people of his day, and how he helped to inspire others to follow the call of Jesus. I had the privilege of celebrating Mass in St. Peter’s Basilica. It was powerful knowing that popes and saints are buried in this sacred place. It made me ponder on the mystery of the Church and how the Eucharist is what unites us with them. The Eucharist brings us into communion with them and with Jesus Christ. To think of all the history behind those altars and of all the saints who walked the same steps filled me with wonder. I remember sitting in the Sistine Chapel not even knowing where to look because my eyes were saturated with beauty. I looked at the drama of salvation painted on those walls and couldn’t help but sense the cosmic wonder that man belongs to such a mystery of life and God. Many people have asked me what was my favorite memory about the trip. One moment I won’t forget is when we first walked into the main square of Florence and saw the marble Cathedral of Florence called Saint Mary of the Flower. It’s a giant gothic Cathedral with an exterior made of marble. When the students first walked into the square and laid their eyes on it, I could hear the gasps of awe as they looked upon this magnificent and sacred architecture. The next day, we climbed over 400 steps into the top of the dome and we were able to see the whole city of Florence and the Apennine Mountains. Those were the moments that made the trip special. It was seeing the students encounter a world so ancient and so different from our own. The pilgrimage to Italy was an amazing experience which helped our students encounter our Catholic history, beauty and faith. Our pilgrimage was filled with Christian joy which created memories we will never forget.
The Schools of Saint Mary Lady Gaels Win Catholic League Championship After an incredible undefeated regular season, the top-seeded St. Mary’s High School Girl’s Basketball earned their well-deserved place in the NSCHSGAA Championship Game. On Thursday, March 3, 2022, the team laced up their sneakers to take on Sacred Heart Academy in the Mack Sports Complex at Hofstra University. With the ability for spectators to be present, our Lady Gaels had a terrific showing of support to represent our school proudly. Under the leadership of Coach Kevin White and Assistant Coach Michael Ryan, the team took to the court and resumed their remarkably consistent play. They gave 100% non-stop throughout the game and defeated SHA 50-35. The Lady Gaels achieved what they set out to do all season and celebrated their victory with great joy. This win is the team’s second title in three seasons for St. Mary’s. The game MVP was awarded to Alisa Blalock ’22, and Taryn Barbot ’23 received the League’s most outstanding player for the season. Tara Murray ’23 hit three big three-pointers, and Cayla Williams ’23 played a great game. Way to go, Gaels!
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Religious Education Dear St. Mary Families, We walk into the season of Lent together in search of peace and answers to relentless prayer. Images of the suffering people of the Ukraine leave broken hearts behind. But for the Christian, we know that God is ever present in the midst of all of it. Not one soul suffers apart from his love. Indeed, we pray for the grace of faith and trust in God more than ever before. God knows especially now, that the human capacity to hear his voice is increasingly diminished in the face of tribulation. We are certainly in the desert here with Christ, facing many temptations of faith that aim to draw us away. But they will fail because we are not alone in the battle – we are with Christ invading that desert of despair, knowing that in the end – truth, goodness and beauty wins. And so, we pray for the hand of eternity to breathe sanctification into every life that has been taken. Proverbs tells us that God abhors hands that shed innocent blood and a heart that devises wicked plans. May his almighty hand bring an end to the suffering of both Ukraine and Russian mothers weeping for their children. If there has ever been a time for a spiritual retreat – it is now. Thank you to the Catechists who have volunteered to support the Confirmandi retreat. The Franciscan Sisters of the Renewal are SO excited at the opportunity to share Christ’s message with our students. We have a beautiful day of spiritual reflection and prayer planned. A reminder that reconciliation services for Grade 8 will also take place this month. Given the large number, a certain number of students will be assigned to the service on March 17th and another on March 31st. Grade 2 First Communicants will also receive First Reconciliation on March 23rd and 24th. Reminders will also be issued to families this week. It is hard to believe that we are just 8-10 weeks away from the completion of the 2021/2022 year. Spring begins March 20th. How lovely to see my orchid flowers bloomed. Wishing you a blessed Lenten season, Mrs. Granieri
RCIA and Adult Faith Formation RCIA Group Immerses Themselves in Lent The RCIA group are immersing themselves in the spirit of Lent as they enter the final preparation for their Easter Sacraments. They will study the Creed and the Lord’s Prayer, make the Stations of the Cross together and learn the great significance of Holy Week. Do keep them in your prayers.
Lenten Prayer Group It is not too late to join the Lenten Prayer Group that is meeting on Wednesdays at 7:30PM in the Marian Room. All are welcome to take advantage of this opportunity to pray with a group. Remember the words of Jesus, “Wherever two or three are gathered my MY Name, there am I in the midst of them.” Sister Teresa can be contacted about our RCIA and other Adult Faith Formation programs at 516-627-0385, ext. 1010. Her office hours are Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday between 10:00AM and 4:00PM and other times by appointment.
The Second Sunday of Lent | March 13, 2022
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Rosary Society Our Mission Statement: The Rosary Society fosters devotion to Mary through prayer and good works for causes that would be dear to her heart Invest 20 minutes of your day to pray the Rosary, and see the difference it will make in your life. If you would like the Rosarians to pray for a special intention, please e-mail us at rosarysociety@stmary.ws.
PRAYING THE ROSARY DURING LENT Pray a decade of the rosary for the intentions of your prayer life during Lent. Then, spend a few moments determining what you will do—something reasonable, like a daily rosary, short prayer aspirations throughout the day, a daily visit to Our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament (which does not have to be exposed for you to be in His presence and adore), or praying some parts of the Liturgy of the Hours. - Father Hugh Barbour, O. Praem., catholic.com
Lenten Day of Recollection Wednesday, March 23rd Our Lady of Grace Spiritual Center Registration will begin at 10:00 AM Please join us as we pray Our Lady’s Rosary, celebrate Mass and listen to a presentation by Father Dominik. Luncheon is included, with a suggested donation of $40.00 payable at the door. IMPORTANT! Please remember to RSVP to rosarysociety@stmary.ws or to Marijo at 917-496-5640
Flowers and butterflies aren’t the only things that will return in the spring!
GRAND REOPENING of the ST. MARY’S GIFT SHOP is
SUNDAY, APRIL 3RD The shop will be open after the 9:00 AM, 10:30 AM, and 12:00 Noon Masses on Sundays. It is located in the Parish Ministry Center below the church.
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Join Bishop Andrzej for Liturgical Catechesis
Journeying Together Communion + Participation + Mission
This lecture will be presented via All are Invited to Participate.
Tuesday, March 15 Communion
Monday, April 25 Participation
Wednesday, May 18 Evangelization
All at 7:30 pm To receive the ZOOM link, please call Suzanne at 516-744-6850 or email westernvicariate@drvc.org. If you previously registered for prior ZOOM calls, there is NO need to register again – you will automatically receive the ZOOM link via email.
“The Synod calls the People of God, in all their diversity, to embark on a journey together toward a common mission to witness to the love of God at work in the world.” Synod Preparatory Document
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Worldwide Marriage Encounter announces an in-person experience in New England. This non-residential weekend takes place at St. Gabriel The Archangel Church 151 Mendon St., Upton, MA from Friday, March 18 - Sunday, March 20, 2022. Couples can drive to the experience from their homes or stay at one of several hotels in the area. Worldwide Marriage Encounter is designed to deepen and enrich the joys a couple shares together whether they’ve been married only a short time or many years. This inperson experience will be conducted in accordance with CDC safety protocols including social distancing. To apply contact Joe & Ginny Vatalle at 800-710-9963 or visit wwmema.org.
Do you feel alone? Are you frustrated or angry with each other? Do you argue or have you just stopped talking to each other? Does talking about it only make it worse? The Retrouvaille Program is for married couples facing difficult challenges in their relationships. It is primarily a practical program to improve communication, build stronger marriages and help couples reconnect. Presenters are not trained marriages counselors, but rather couples sharing their personal stories of marital struggles and the tools they used to rediscover their love. For confidential information about the Retrouvaille program, or to register for the upcoming weekend that begins on Friday, May 13, 2022, please visit our website www.helpourmarriage.org or call 1-800-470-2230 and you will be connected directly and confidentially to a couple from Long Island/Metro Retrouvaille who can help.
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