San Antonio Woman July / August 2021 by Las Tres Muchachas

July/August 2021

STEM

FROM CLASSROOM TO CAREERS

BEAT THE HEAT WITH PERFECT

POOL COVER-UPS!

SAN ANTONIO LEADING LEGAL EXPERTS

ASIA CIARAVINO

LIVING A LIFE OF PURPOSE, SERVICE, AND JOY

DOSSIER:FINANCIAL PLANNERS DOSSIER

IN THIS ISSUE

JULY/AUGUST 2021

16 Cover Story

Helping people be their best fuels Asia Ciaravino’s success.

21 Feature Story

Lifelong learning and ability to see solutions keep these women in technology on the fast track.

38 At Home

A San Antonio couple gets a fresh start in a new home after tearing down their old one.

59 Women In Law

59 6

sawoman.com

The legal profession offers no shortage of diverse career paths. Meet four accomplished women who’ve made their careers in four vastly different areas of law.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

JULY/AUGUST 2021

Stories

2 6 Role Model 2 8 Guy to Know

Business

3 1 S p o t l i g h t : C a r r i e C o o p e r, O n Po i n t P r e m i e r 5 9 Wo m e n i n L a w 81 Dossier: Financial Planners 92 Business Insights 9 4 Wo m e n o n t h e M o v e

Lifestyle

3 2 Fa s h i o n 36 Beauty 4 3 At H o m e E x t ra 96 Mommy Matters 9 9 N o n p r o f i t S p o t l i g h t : S A Yo u t h

To Your Health

4 8 T h e G r e e h e y C h i l d r e n ’s C a n c e r R e s e a r c h C e n t e r 51 Business Matters: Business 5 2 P r e p a r i n g Yo u r D a u g h t e r fo r H e r F i r s t G Y N E x a m 54 Hormones & Hope 56 From Fertility to Obstetrics 5 8 H P V Va c c i n a t i o n

Special Section Food & Entertainment

86 Special Section: Private Schools 100 Hill Country Destinations 1 0 2 H i l l C o u n t r y C u ra t e d 104 Dining: Brasserie MON CHOU CHOU 1 1 0 Art Beat 111 Entertainment 1 1 2 We d d i n g

104

32 8

sawoman.com

112

DIFFERENCE

OVER 10,000 POOLS

Designed &Constructed SINCE 1985

C O N T R I B U T O RS

Nina Padilla

Al Rendon

Nina is the Art Director, lead Al photographs homes seen in San consultant, and the owner of Motion Antonio Woman magazine. “My Arts Media, LLC and Vignette Portrait photographs use light to bring a home’s Photography. A lifelong lover of light personality to life. When I raise the and movement, Nina’s photographic camera and focus on a room’s view, I art captures the authentic and real am composing to express its owners’ moments of each human that steps personality in the best light.” He has had in front of her lens and her work has more than a dozen major solo exhibits, been both locally and internationally and his work is in such permanent published. In 2021, Nina decided collections as the National Portrait to expand her photographic career Gallery of the Smithsonian Institution and created San Antonio’s newest and the National Museum of Mexican Art full service media company, Motion in Chicago. Arts Media, LLC that offers content creation, management, and marketing solutions for local businesses.

Désirée Shelanskas Désirée is an internationally and nationally published photographer. She works as a beauty, luxe portrait, personal branding, fashion and editorial Lifestyle photographer, with more than 14+ years of experience. She is an artist, a new mom, a photographer, a wife and a storyteller. Her love for travel and photography comes from deep curiosity and respect for stories, art, people, culture, relationships, and human connections. She is European, born and raised in Germany but has also lived in the Netherlands, Canada, and now, permanently, in San Antonio, Texas. 10

sawoman.com

David Teran David, a self-proclaimed people person, is a free-lance photographer that loves to tell people “good morning!” in the afternoon, to try to make them smile. He enjoys coffee, tacos, and writing letters on his 1968 German typewriter. When he is not writing about himself in the third person, David can often be found in a foreign country, photographing ballerinas with his 40-year-old Hasselblad camera. David has been blessed to be able to make people smile at his jokes on four continents - and to work with an awesome team of people.

Dawn Robinette

Janis Turk

An award-winning writer, communications expert and founder of Tale to Tell Communications, Dawn Robinette loves to share the stories behind the faces and places that make San Antonio shine. Despite being told by her high school English teacher that she couldn’t write, Dawn has made a career doing just that and is a regular contributor to Alamo City Moms, Rio Magazine and Texas Lifestyle Magazine.

Janis is an award-winning travel writer/photographer, and author of several books and travel guides. Her culinary photography appears in the James Beard Award-nominated “Come In; We’re Closed” and in “Queens: A Culinary Passport.” Her byline has appeared in national and international magazines and newspapers. Follow Janis at www.TurkTravels.com

Steve Bennett A native Texan, Steve Bennett has written about art, architecture, and books for more than 30 years, working for the San Antonio Light, Express-News and Austin American-Statesman. Currently a freelance writer and editor, Steve makes a mean platter of green enchiladas and enjoys cycling, British detective shows and the Dallas Cowboys.

Andrea “Vocab” Sanderson The first African American Poet Laureate of San Antonio 20202023. Sanderson’s arts career spans over twenty years. She is the winner of the 2019 People’s Choice Award, awarded by Luminaria Artist Foundation. Her debut book entitled: She Lives In Music, Flower Song Press, was released on Valentine’s Day 2020. Her album, She Tastes Like Music, is available on all music streaming platforms. Follow her at: andreavocabsanderson.com Instagram: @Vocabulous

EDITOR’S LETTER

JULY/AUGUST 2021 EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Cathleen Lane CREATIVE DIRECTOR & GRAPHIC DESIGN Miriam Jesaijes PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Nina Padilla DIRECTOR OF DIGITAL MEDIA Taylor Lane DIRECTOR OF SALES & PARTNERSHIPS Dale Lane WRITERS Cover: Dawn Robinette Rudy Arispe, Dr. Wendy Askew, Steve Bennett, Jeff Fehlis, Dr. Jillian LoPiano, Shelby Mauldin, Carlissa Montoya, Jennifer Newell, Dawn Robinette, Tracie Ross-Garcia, Andrea “Vocab” Sanderson, Angel Santiago, Janis Turk, Dora Vera, Blithe Wiley

I hope this finds you relaxing by a pool (under an umbrella, of course!) or curled up in a cozy chair, enjoying the long, lazy days of summer. It’s a great time to take a breath to see how far you’ve come this year - and then dream of how you want the second half of the year to look.

PHOTOGRAPHY Cover: Siggi Ragnar Mariana Galvan, Matthew Niemann, Désirée Shelanskas, David Teran, Janis Turk, Nina A. Padilla ADVERTISING SALES Cindy Jennings ADMINISTRATION & CUSTOMER SERVICE Abaigeal Lane

Many of the stories in this issue are about following dreams and giving back to others to help them follow their dreams. Our cover profile, Asia Ciaravino, lives out that mission every day. Asia genuinely cares about the people who surround her, from the team she leads at SA Youth, to the kids living in SAISD, to her beloved family. She is constantly looking for ways to build others up and find solutions to seemingly impossible problems. Asia’s strength and enthusiasm are evident in each project she takes on.

PRINTING Shweiki Media, San Antonio, Texas EDITOR EMERITUS Beverly Purcell-Guerra PUBLISHED BY Las Tres Muchachas, LLC. NOMINATIONS AND ADVERTISING INFORMATION Email: info@sawoman.com

Our fashion feature offers colorful and fun ideas to add a little excitement to your pool-side attire. And our beauty feature gives timely advice for keeping your makeup fresh, even on the hottest days. I think you’ll be inspired by each story in this issue - from STEM careers and women in law to the latest in childhood cancer research and so much more.

Cathleen

sawoman.com

July/August 2021

STEM

FROM CLASSROOM TO CAREERS

BEAT THE HEAT WITH PERFECT

POOL COVER-UPS!

SAN ANTONIO LEADING LEGAL EXPERTS

JULY/AUGUST 2021

Happy summer!

www.sawoman.com SAN ANTONIO WOMAN

As we settle into the relaxed pace of summer, I encourage each of you to live in the moment! Enjoy these long days and use this time to recharge - and have some fun! Stop at a lemonade stand, eat watermelon in the backyard, wade in the river, sit around the fire pit with family and friends late into the night and dive into a great fiction book. There are so many ways to “fill your cup!”

A Las Tres Muchachas Production Cathleen & Dale Lane 1150 N Loop 1604 W, Ste 108-249 San Antonio, Texas 78248 (210) 236-5834

ASIA CIARAVINO

LIVING A LIFE OF PURPOSE, SERVICE, AND JOY

On the cover: Photography by Siggi Ragnar @sragnar Makeup by Dora Vera @thelookstudiomu

DOSSIER:FINANCIAL PLANNERS DOSSIER

San Antonio Woman is published bimonthly by Las Tres Muchachas Enterprises (Publisher). Reproduction in any manner in whole or part is prohibited without the express written consent of the Publisher. Material contained herein does not necessarily reflect the opinion of the publisher or its staff. San Antonio Woman reserves the right to edit all materials for clarity and space and assumes no responsibility for accuracy, errors or omissions. San Antonio Woman does not knowingly accept false or misleading advertisements or editorial, nor does the Publisher assume responsibility should such advertising or editorial appear. Articles and photographs are welcome and may be submitted to our offices to be used subject to the discretion and review of the Publisher. All real estate advertising is subject to the Federal Fair Housing Act of 1968, which makes it illegal to advertise “any preference limitation or discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex, handicap, familial status or national origin, or an intention to make such preference, limitation or discrimination.” Printed in the U.S.A.

since

elegance.

expressing a clear purpose without unnecessary adornment.

This magnificent bedroom is 100% made in Italy and is a perfect example of truly elegant design. Simple lines focus on function while select finishes add just enough glamour. By employing the latest in modern manufacturing and using earth friendly, man-made materials, our Italian bedroom offers great value while maintaining a truly distinctive look and feel. King bed $1399, Queen bed $1199 (mattress and bedding not included). Nightstand $449 each. Dresser $998.

Visit Copenhagen for the largest in stock collection of European style platform beds. San Antonio 18603 Blanco Road 210.545.4366 Austin 2236 West Braker Lane 512.451.1233

www.copenhagenliving.com

furniture and accessories for your modern lifestyle

SA CURATED

SA CURATED SA Curated brings you the best events, announcements, SA Woman staff favorites, things to know, and places to be in San Antonio!

SMH Class of 2021 Embarks on Next Steps Toward Success On May 21, a total of 92 graduates from the Class of 2021 officially graduated from Saint Mary’s Hall (SMH). The school’s 140th Commencement Ceremony was held on campus at the Alonso Ancira Event Center.

PLANT SHOPPE

In case you needed a reason to add another plant to your home… Here it is! Stop by the instaworthy PLANT SHOPPE on N Saint Mary’s to make all of your greenery dreams come true! 3020 N St Mary’s St, Suite 103, SA

The students, who hail from 28 zip codes (three of whom drove over an hour back and forth to campus each day), have proven to be one of the most resilient by overcoming the pandemic. This class has earned more than $11 million in merit scholarships and completed a collective total of 16,589 community service hours. They will attend 54 different colleges and universities in 20 different states and three countries outside of the United States. The talents and achievements of this class are varied and vast. They represent the great breadth and depth of the school and reflect the deep legacy of those who came before them. To learn more, visit www.smhall.org.

Editors Pick:

“I Am Jax, Protector of the Ranch.” San Antonio author Catherine Stier writes award-winning fierce & fanciful Children’s Books. One of her newest publications tells the tale of Jax, a livestock guard dog, and his adventures protecting the flock! Pick up a signed copy at The Twig Book Shop, and ask about Stier’s other fantastic books!

Lincoln Dominion Grand Opening!

Kahlig Auto Group is excited to announce the opening of North Park Lincoln at Dominion! Celebrations kicked off with a grand opening event complete with mariachis, cocktails, and vintage cars. Guests were joined by Edsel Ford II & Clarence Kahlig, pictured here.

SA Senior Goes for Gold! Winston Churchill High School senior Anne White accepted an NCAA D1 scholarship to the TCU Women’s Rifle National Champion Team next season. Anne earned her first national USA Shooting metal at the 2020 Junior Olympic Trials. This season’s scores earned Anne automatic qualification for the USA Shooting Junior Olympics in Air Rifle and Smallbore, an invitation to a National Championship match for the country’s top 15 high school rifle athletes, and many more impressive victories at championship competitions across the country. Way to go, Anne!

sawoman.com

The Dog Guide

The Dog Guide San Antonio founder Amy Lynn poses at North Park Subaru with 30K for Canines donor and giveaway winner Erick Reynero. The local small business recently raised over 60,000 pounds of pet food from their birthday fundraiser for non-profit Daisy Cares, the pet partner of the San Antonio Food Bank. Lynn started The Dog Guide San Antonio, formerly Dog Friendly San Antonio, three years ago and has just recently launched their latest pet-friendly product: the Paw Pass. The membership-based card will give San Antonio pet owners perks and discounts at both online and inperson retailers around the city. For more information, visit thedogguidesa.com

FIESTA® 2021! We are in love with this year’s official poster designed by SA native, Andy Benavides.

Black Violin Impossible

The Tobin Center for the Performing Arts welcomes Will B. on viola and Kev Marcus on violin with DJ SPS and drummer Nat Stokes for a performance of classical and hip-hop music. Overcoming stereotypes and encouraging people of all ages, races, and economic backgrounds to join together to break down cultural barriers. July 28th - tobincenter.org

Trend Alert!

Abstract shapes, clean lines,negative space, and colorful french tips are on-trend this season. Nails by Trio Nail Lounge

Magik Theatre Donor Appreciation

The Board and Staff of Magik Theatre were happy to host A Night of Magik on May 25, 2021. The event honored Magik’s new and longtime supporters and the 100,000 children they serve each season. Signature cocktails were poured by Sir Barkley’s, and a four-course dinner on the Magik stage was provided by Jason Dady Catering amongst the set of its latest production Charlotte’s Web. With the end of the pandemic in sight, patrons were ready to celebrate with Magik. July/August 2021

COVER STORY

‘‘withWe’rejoy,working and we’re

doing great things, and we’re moving forward, and we’re affecting change, and we’re helping people, and we’re having fun. Is there anything better than that?

”

Asia Ciaravino A Passion for People

sawoman.com

By Dawn Robinette Photography by Siggi Ragnar

Ask Asia Ciaravino to talk about herself, and she’ll tell you about children in need at SA Youth, the nonprofit where she serves as President and CEO, working to empower San Antonio’s high-risk youth and young adults to achieve their full potential by providing quality educational programming in a safe environment. You’ll also hear about the team she works with, a talented, dedicated group of individuals doing everything they can to ensure all San Antonio youth and young adults have equitable access to educational opportunities, graduate from high school, and become successful community-minded adults, regardless of circumstance. She’ll gush about her family, husband Tony and daughters, sharing how amazing they each are before regaling you with loving stories about her parents and siblings, a family of servers who all give back in some way. “I really would like to call out my team, how proud I am of them. And my friends, my tribe is really important, my family. I don’t talk about myself very much. I’m more of the person that is the listener,

solving the problem. When I’m asked to talk about myself, it’s always weird,” she explains. Yet every story she tells reveals a part of her heart and the passion that fuels her commitment to helping others. “One of my biggest philosophies on life is just shut your mouth and listen just for a second. People are going to give you everything that you need to know about them and where they’re at in that space.” “From the time I was very little, I was gathering people together to create. And I knew that what I wanted to do in my life was give the voiceless a voice and tell the stories of people who didn’t have the ability to tell them themselves. Creating conversation for me was really important and also affecting change. “Coming from a background of people who were activists and people that saw the world in a different way, I wanted to do that. I knew that whatever happened in my life, I was here to serve on this planet. Holding people up is a big part of who I am— helping people become the best self they could possibly be. That’s always been really important to me.”

July/August 2021

Ciaravino has been a part of the nonprofit community for 19 years, giving her a unique perspective on the needs laid bare by COVID. “Right now, the landscape is worse than I ever thought it would be. It’s overwhelming the amount of need there is,” she explains. “Everybody thinks it’s gone away, and it hasn’t. The need is even more deep and profound. “I don’t even think we know half of the impact and problems that we’re about to unearth in the next couple of years. The kids that we serve that are socioeconomically underprivileged; they already started down here. They were already way behind in terms of focus, money, attention, value in the community. And now you layer something like this on top of it. Everyone is suffering. I don’t know how people catch back up.” SA Youth works exclusively with children in South San Antonio Independent School District. “Sometimes it’s really hard to explain to people why they should care about a kid in south San Antonio. You should care about them because they’re human beings. They all deserve a chance to be successful. They all deserve to have help when they’re struggling. I could talk about it for 100 years because it makes me so frustrated and angry.

sawoman.com

“Everyone deserves a chance to be successful. That’s why I’m so passionate about the work that we do at SA Youth. And even people that seem like they have everything could be falling through the cracks at any moment. Everybody has issues, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t deserve somebody to reach down and hold their hand and bring them up. “We find kids all over the city of San Antonio that school just didn’t work. Or maybe they got bullied or whatever happened, and we can bring them in, get them their high school diploma, and do leadership training with them. I feel so honored to be a part of this work.” That work is what continues to fuel her. “I’m not inspired by money, status, or brand names. I want to be able to help. What inspires me is seeing people grow and finding their true voices, and being authentic. I’m really fired up by changing and growing our community and helping everyone to be the best that it can possibly be. That’s what drives me every day.” She stays ready to help others by focusing on herself. “Health is your foundation for everything in your life. If you don’t feel good every day, if you’re not taking care of yourself, if you’re not drinking water, if you’re not exercising, if you’re not like looking at yourself

every day and saying, ‘I love you, you’ve got this,’ you’re not going to be prepared to do anything. You have to be your driver, and you can’t rely on others to do that for you.” For Ciaravino, that’s making sure she’s out in nature every day. She starts every morning with a run. “That’s kind of my church – being outside. McAllister Park is a place that I feel grounded.” That grounding, and true connection to herself, is something she encourages in others. “The biggest piece of advice that I would give others is to really, truly show up as your authentic self. And that’s really hard to do, especially as a woman. It’s taken me a long time, longer than I like to admit, that I could really embrace and be authentically 100% me. But when I talk to women about being leaders and the kind of growth that they want for themselves, I always push them to be authentic because you’re the best at that. “There’s no one else that’s going to be better at being you than you. A lot of people try to push themselves to be an extrovert or be bubbly or be whatever everyone else expects them to be. We’re just human beings, and we’re all super different, and we need all kinds of people. So show up as you, give what you have to offer, and don’t look around you. The comparing game is a really dangerous end point. It won’t help you grow; it won’t help you invest in others.”

direction. Something’s going to stick. Stop trying to be perfect, please. Everyone. Perfection is the killer of any innovation that we could ever have in our lives. Please stop trying to be perfect. Trying to do your best is good enough. “You’ve got to have fun every day. Make fun of part of your work. We spend way too much time in our work every day not to be fun and have levity and have joy and have laughter. We take ourselves way too seriously. Let’s just have some fun. Yes, we can get work done. Yes, it will be good. Does it have to be perfect? No, but it can be excellent. That’s not necessarily perfect, though. And we should all be okay with that. “We’re working with joy, and we’re doing great things, and we’re moving forward, and we’re affecting change, and we’re helping people, and we’re having fun. Is there anything better than that? I always want to be the person that’s able to give people the permission to have fun and be who they are.”

Being herself and accepting who she is is something Ciaravino has grown into. “I’d tell my younger self to enjoy the moments more, embrace your fire and embrace your talents. I didn’t realize the strengths I brought to the table.” The idea of going all in, in spite of the risks, is another tenet she embraces. “My philosophy is to go big and make those mistakes. It’s worth it to go full force in. Even if you mess up, even if it’s all a failure, you’ll learn so much by putting all of your heart and soul into something.” “I tell our team all the time about failure, how important it is and how much of it shapes us. And I joke, ‘I failed ten times today already, and I’m still here.’ If you can approach life with that kind of abundant passion and movement and fire, go in that

July/August 2021

FEATURE STORY

Using STEM to Grow and Blossom

The number of women pursuing careers in STEM, Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math, is on the rise and San Antonio is home to a stellar line-up of women making names for themselves in the field. Despite working in different tech niches, they all share a lifelong love of learning, as well as persistence, resilience and a knack for seeing solutions where others see problems. Another commonality? They all had someone in their corner, encouraging and nurturing their STEM path. Now they’re all paying it forward to help young women find their own STEM success.

By Dawn Robinette Photography by David Teran

July/August 2021

Alejandra Zertuche CEO, Enflux If you’re adding a new product line to your business by the age of 12, then expanding again when you’re 16, you might have a future as an entrepreneur. That’s how Alejandra Zertuche began her path to CEO of Enflux: seeing a need and working to fill it. From selling treats at the age of 8, expanding to own in-store gumball machines at age 12, then purchasing her own vending machines at 16, each step was logical because she saw a need – and an opportunity. Flash forward, and Zertuche began her adult career as an industrial engineer, becoming a data wizard. “Now they call us data scientists. Back then, a wizard was able to collect a lot of information about the plant and the factory to pinpoint where problems were and where we needed to make improvements.” She decided to pursue her MBA and could only work on campus due to her student visa status. She interned at St. Mary’s University, a lucky turn of events as the self-described data nerd discovered a powerful way to integrate and analyze data from assessment systems across the university. Her idea ultimately became a product at Enflux, where she now serves as CEO. “Deans, faculty, academic program chairs were drowning in data, with no way to reliably convert it to actionable insights. The process felt broken, and I was determined to solve the problem. How can I find a solution with the ultimate goal of being to help students achieve educational success and track their progress along the way? That’s how it started.” She finished her MBA in information systems, then earned a Masters in Applied Statistics. Last year, she added a Masters in Biomedical Informatics. Her 22

sawoman.com

commitment to education is all about solving problems. “I think our mind is the most powerful thing that we have. It’s a precious asset that, in time, we can train. STEM opens the door to so many opportunities because you learn about the scientific method of doing careful observation, being a skeptic, and asking questions of why we’re doing this, questioning the status quo. What can I change so that we can have a better and more efficient, positive impact?” Zertuche encourages other young women to follow that path. “Young women should pursue their ideas. They should be passionate about it and not be afraid to fail. Failure is part of the process. You learn what works and doesn’t work. You have to embrace that to be successful with an idea. You need to feel comfortable with failure. You need to feel comfortable with not always winning and comfortable with not everything being perfect. Resilience is key because if you’re resilient, then you’re not afraid to fail.”

Monica MayaSotomayor Simpson Senior Pricing Analyst, Booz Allen Hamilton

Monica Simpson’s father, an industrial engineer who raised his daughters to value math and science, made sure she dove into STEM head-on. “He had been a math teacher, and he expected us to do well. He would always tell us if you can do math, you can do anything.” Simpson’s career certainly reflects that. Spanning from industrial to cost engineering, she understands not only how things are produced but how to price that production. “’Pricing Analysts’ are the people who work with the proverbial ‘spreadsheets from Hell’” is how she jokingly explains her role at Booz Allen Hamilton. “It keeps my brain active. I am always learning new things. And knowing how hard it is to develop, produce, market, sell and sustain new technology gives me an appreciation for other tech I was never a part of developing.” She believes there are many opportunities for women in the tech industry. “Women are incredibly flexible, have a great ability to multitask, and are emotionally intelligent. In today’s world of work, where there are virtual teams, teams of teams, lots of different specialties from various parts of an organization or business collaborating to innovate something new, those skills are important.” She sees mentoring as key to growing the number of women in technology. “With women still seriously underrepresented in many STEM fields, it can be hard for a young woman to visualize and pursue success. Studies indicate that when women in STEM have female peers to support them, they’re less likely to drop out of doctoral programs,” she explains. With that in mind, Simpson, who attributes her love of engineering to her passion for problem-solving, started a

STEM club at St. Anthony Catholic School for her daughter and her classmates. “It’s very important if we want to encourage women in STEM and technology early on. It’s important to give back.” She also speaks at schools to encourage students to pursue science. “It really makes a difference when you encourage people around you, and you treat people with respect, and you encourage them. When you look at someone, look at what’s the best they have in there. Bring the best out of them. Instead of looking at what’s wrong with them, look at what’s right with them. “I was blessed to have a mom and dad who encouraged me in math and science, and I have had mentors encourage me when things got difficult or when I felt like giving up. That’s why I decided to give back to the community, encourage children and give them hope and open their eyes to STEM. We need to open their eyes to what they can see or what they can be.”

July/August 2021

Tiffany Tremont President, CEO of Silotech One test in high school put Tiffany Tremont on the path that led to her role at Silotech. At 16, she took the Civil Service Exam and was offered a summer job at the National Security Agency. A mentor encouraged her to take courses offered through the NSA’s National Cryptologic School, where she became proficient in UNIX. “I didn’t know of any other girls who were doing that. We really weren’t conditioned to look at programming or computers back then.” But once the door was opened, Tremont never looked back. She joined the U.S. Air Force, and ultimately, she became a consultant in the commercial sector. She founded Silotech in 2008, providing a range of cyber solutions, intelligence solutions, enterprise/cloud I.T. services and products to federal, state, and commercial clients. She credits consistency and persistence for making Silotech one of the fastest-growing private companies in Texas. “You can’t get thin-skinned in this industry. You’re going to hear no a lot. I had a very good friend tell me early on in my career, ‘You’re going to meet with 100 people and 99 will say no. But there’s that one person that’s going to say yes.’” Tremont believes that women definitely belong in tech. “Women have a unique perspective, and they have very good problem-solving skills. I truly believe that if young women were to pursue STEM more frequently, we could be solving some of the country’s largest and biggest issues.” During school presentations, when she explains that she works in cybersecurity, the response is always surprise. “They think of a guy in a dark room wearing a hoodie,” she laughs. “As a community of women, we need to be involved, do community outreach, and really encourage young women to be involved in math and science.”

sawoman.com

Yet, there are times when she’s the only woman in the room. “The gap is improving, but it’s been sad to see when you come to a table, and you’re meeting to make decisions that are going to affect the company, and you may be the only woman there. The gap is improving, but more needs to be done.” To keep herself up to speed, she completed her Master of Science in Cybersecurity Management and Policy and is working on her Doctorate of Science in Cybersecurity. “People misunderstand that once you have a certification or you complete a degree that you don’t have to continue learning and educating yourself. Software and cybersecurity change on a daily basis. You’ve got to be a continual lifetime learner. People think that when you’re a CEO, you might not be hands-on, you’re just policy and direction, but that’s not true. You have to stay knowledgeable to stay ahead.”

ROLE MODEL

Melissa Aguirre

Leaning In to Help Others Learn and Grow Yoga Therapist. Educator. Author. Business Owner. Military Program Developer. Lululemon Ambassador. Military Spouse. Mom. She answers to all of those titles, but it’s easier to identify Melissa Aguirre for the heart, passion and drive she pours into everything she does. Yet like so many others, she struggled with confidence when she was trying to find her path.

By Dawn Robinette Photography by Désirée Shelanskas 26

sawoman.com

“Even though I had all this experience and training, I still struggled to believe in myself. I felt like I needed outside permission because I was so young or what people would think. I thought, ‘Who am I? Who am I to lead this kind of work?’” The doubt led her to make poor business choices early on, leading to stolen intellectual property and other lessons she had to grow from. “It forced me to look at myself and ask, ‘Why do I need permission or validation from other people that I’m good enough?’.” Aguirre credits her success to working through the doubts and leaning into faith. “I am brave. I am not afraid to ask or move forward with my visions. I am persistent, I follow up, I show up. I wanted to write a book. What was stopping me? If it is in my heart, why not? This work is not mine to keep, but to share.

“Overthinking is the most insidious form of self-sabotage. So if I feel called to something, I lean in.” Now the owner of MelMarie Yoga and Boerne Yoga, Aguirre is a holistic life coach and stress management specialist educating and guiding the San Antonio community in adaptive yoga and mindfulness. She also works for the U.S. Army developing mindfulness-based programs to operationalize holistic initiatives across the military to address stress, sleep hygiene, and mental health.

that they’re being a burden or high maintenance, especially when it comes to boundaries and self-care.” A lot of women will swallow what they need because they don’t want to seem like they create problems. “But we need to stand up for what we need, especially for our health. And a lot of people don’t even know what they need because they don’t slow down to check in. Give yourself permission, check in and take inventory on what is not serving you,” she explains. “Put it on paper and start to clear and map out what you want to let go of and what it is that you need. Then ask for it.” Aguirre approaches life as a student, looking for learnings and growing through them. And these lessons, she applies deeply into her own teachings. “It’s not about avoiding responsibilities because I think we need to be accountable. If you say you’re going to show up, you should show up. But learn from it. When you realize you shouldn’t have agreed to that, don’t do it again. Learn from it. ‘That was not okay, and I’m not doing that again’.” “We learn who we are by experiencing our contrast. If we feel out of alignment, it’s because it’s showing us who we are not so we can lean deeper into who we are. I don’t fight change. I allow change to change me. I look at experiences as a curriculum that is guiding me on where I need to go.”

She applies her own teachings to find the calm in her busy life. “I’m a recovering people-pleaser. I think a lot of people can relate to that. We think that our goodness comes from what we do, so we give and give then become depleted. That’s when I was able to recognize the boundaries I wasn’t setting. I realized it is not so much what you do but who you are.” Part of that is regulating the boundary between her work and personal life with husband Adam and daughter Iyla. “When I’m off, I’m off. I’m not responding to messages. I don’t check email. So there is that ‘practice of what I preach.’ I don’t create a schedule of ‘from this time to this time’; it’s just when my daughter starts talking, my phone goes down.” She works to model that for others as well. “I want to empower women to let go of this feeling

July/August 2021

GUY TO KNOW

Stephen Lucke A Healthier Community, a Healthier Planet.

Travel down N New Braunfels on the East side of San Antonio, and you might catch Stephen Lucke working in the urban micro-farm and home of his education-based nonprofit, Gardopia Gardens. By Taylor Lane Photography by Nina A. Padilla

sawoman.com

Lucke became enamored with health and wellness during his undergraduate years. He started a student & employee wellness program and community garden on campus, and received his Organic Farmer Certification from Palo Alto College. After securing both a Bachelor of Science in Biochemistry and a Masters of Arts in Nutrition from the University of the Incarnate Word, he set out to further address the obesity epidemic and climate crisis facing our community. In 2015, Gardopia Gardens was born. “Our core values are education, health, and the environment,” says Lucke as he prepares for a Community Garden Workday, fostering a sense of community wellness through the practice of horticulture & organic gardening. Gardopia Gardens offers programs and resources dedicated to educating the community on the impact sustainable nutrition has on the environment and teaching individuals how to grow their own food. Self-awareness coupled with essential tools for wellness empowers program participants to make healthy choices. The GardenBased Learning Curriculum has a strong emphasis on reducing obesity and malnutrition. This program is available to youth classes, public and private workshops, and adult courses.

“I hope that we can have a more educated population, a healthier population, and a more sustainable society.” When we see the statistics around obesity, diabetes, cardiovascular disease here in San Antonio and the population it impacts the most, Lucke knows that Gardopia Gardens can make an impact. One way we can help address that issue is by growing food- fresh organic produce to feed the people and the planet. Gardopia Gardens has a network of partner gardens in schools, community centers, churches, and more. These serve as learning classrooms throughout the year, focusing on educating the community on sustainable gardening. To support this mission, you can volunteer Thursdays from 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm and Saturdays 9:00 am - 11:00am. You can also help at any of

their partner gardens throughout the communityeducating individuals and maintaining these spaces. Check out Gardopia Gardens at 619 N New Braunfels Ave., or visit www.gardopiagardens.org to learn more. The goal is to increase self-sufficiency by empowering individuals to partake in growing their food. Individuals are encouraged to Adopt-A-Plot at Gardopia Gardens or build gardens in their own homes. The very first Garden Awards Gala hosted by Gardopia Gardens will be held on August 11th, 2021, highlighting all the great gardening and urban agriculture organizations here in San Antonio.

“Whether it’s your time, sweat equity, or actual dollars, everything helps us continue to amplify our mission so that we can make San Antonio a healthier and more sustainable city to live in.”

GARDOPIA GARDENS, 619 N. New Braunfels, San Antonio, TX 78202 (210) 478-7292, info@gardopiagardens.org, gardopiagardens.org July/August 2021

BUSINESS SPOTLIGHT

OnPoint Premier

Carrie Cooper Chief Operations Manager I am incredibly grateful for them. I have also met men that still reflect misogyny and do not always treat women with respect. Does it make my job a little harder sometimes? Sure. But I am up for the challenge. What is the best advice you ever received? Hands down, “Other people’s opinions of you are none of your business.” I have struggled with depression and anxiety my entire life. When someone told me this, it took me back. I thought about it, and they are right, everyone is entitled to their opinions, and their opinions are really none of my business.

Photography by David Teran

What community or non-profit groups do you support? I am a supporter of St. Jude’s, North SA Chamber of Commerce, National Women in Roofing, Greater San Antonio Builders Association, and the North East Council of PTA’s.

What career path led you to where you are today? I was working as an office manager for several dental practices. I was working constantly. My husband, Jac, overheard his boss talking about needing an office manager for OnPoint Premier. He told him about me, and I interviewed over the phone and was hired on the spot. Now I have moved up after a little over three years to Chief Operations Manager. What is it like working in a male-dominated industry? I have met many types of men working in roofing and construction in general. I have met men that have become mentors, those willing to teach you and guide you to become better in the industry.

Who has influenced you the most in your life or career? My Grandparents, Robert B. Brown & Ruth Hernandez Brown, have influenced me greatly in my life and my career path. My grandparents built a dealership empire together. My Granny taught me how to be a lady, to be confident without apology, and that I am always stronger than I think I am. My Grandad taught me to be smart in business, to take care of those that work for me, to be a leader, and to make decisions after fully analyzing all potential outcomes. They instilled a driving force in me to always be better today than I was yesterday. What is your favorite event in San Antonio? Why? My favorite events are the Spurs games. I have grown up a Spurs fan. I have very fond memories of going with my Granny sitting in row one. When she was well, she was a HUGE Spurs fan and knew the players. Because of her, I got to meet quite a few of them myself. The Spurs program is very impressive. GO SPURS GO!!

18847 Redland Rd. Ste. 104, San Antonio, Texas | 78259 Phone number: (210) 301 - 0135 www.onpointpremier.com, info@onpointpremier.com July/August 2021

FASHION

Pool Time

We’re bringing our pool day outfits to the next level this season! Cover-ups to take you from the pool to dinner, coordinated sets, and statement accessories will bring your looks together and have you feeling oh-so-glamorous and confident all summer long. Photography by Nina A. Padilla 32

sawoman.com

Left page Left to right: Danielle Conques: Raffaello Bettini Floral Hat, Tory Burch Swimsuit, Echo Wrap, Maaji Skirt, Flora et Belle Bag by Julian Gold Lisa Astorga Watel: Johnny Was Cover Up Kat Day Gomez: Painted Pony Dress, Lele Sadoughi Headband by Julian Gold Right page Danielle Conques: Eric Javits Hat, German Fuentes Necklace, Tory Burch Swimsuit, Agua Bendita Floral Skirt by Julian Gold

July/August 2021

Tropical Prints & Classy Black

Kat Day Gomez: Maaji Floral Pants, Shiraleah Bag, Anatomie Top by Julian Gold

sawoman.com

Styling: Taylor Lane & Miriam Jesaijes. Clothes and accessoires available at Julian Gold or www.juliangold.com, Location: Keith Zars Pools

Lisa Astorga Watel: Agua Bendita Floral Cover Up by Julian Gold

July/August 2021

Summer Glow

BEAUTY

Are you using the proper skincare? We sat down with Dr. Bill Murphy, owner and Medical Director of Turquoise Springs Medical Spa, to discuss why Medical Grade Skincare is a MUST.

What is medical-grade skincare, and why is it important? Medical grade skincare offers a higher potency of grade-A ingredients, which gives a quicker delivery system to penetrate the layers of your skin. The best Medical Grade skincare consists of natural, pure ingredients with no chemicals or fillers and contains easily absorbed carrier agents. Medical Grade skincare is essential because you will see a significantly more impactful transformation of your skin rather than using over-the-counter products.

What Medical Grade skincare product would everyone benefit from as they age? Retinol because it helps the surface of your skin cells turn over. We have an excellent one that is non-irritating and doesn’t dry your skin out! 4. 3. 5.

1. 2.

1.Crystal Blue Advanced Hyaluronic Acid Serum 2. Amethyst Body Firming Cream 3. Diamond Turnover Retinol Serum 4. Quartz UltraLight Sunscreen 5. Sapphire Eye Enrichment 6. Citrine Boost & Brighten Morning Serum

Products available at Turquoise Springs Medical Spa. Call (210) 253-3313 or visit turquoisesprings.com to schedule a FREE consultation with Dr. Murphy! 36

sawoman.com

Photography by Désirée Shelanskas, Make up by: Irene O’Brien

If you had to choose, what would your MUST HAVE medical-grade skincare product/products be for clients? A combination of Hyaluronic acid and Vitamin C serum. Hyaluronic acid helps increase skin moisture and reduces the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. Vitamin C is a potent antioxidant that helps neutralize toxins and brightens the skin. This combination leaves your skin rejuvenated and younger-looking.

BEAUTY EXTRA Beauty news with

Dora Vera

Dora Vera, owner of The Look | Makeup & Hair, is a San Antonio native with 10+ years in the hair & makeup application industry. She works with women of all ages around San Antonio, offers one-on-one makeup lessons, and specializes in the “no makeup, makeup look.” thelookstudiohmu@gmail.com @thelookstudiohmu

Summer Makeup! It’s summer in south Texas and you know what that means… capricious weather, blistering heat, frizzy hair, and makeup’s arch-enemy, SWEAT! There are a few ways you can maintain the integrity of your freshly beat face starting with a lightweight moisturizer containing SPF. There is also an assortment of waterproof foundations, eyeliners, and mascaras that you can find at your local drugstore or specialty makeup retailer to help you beat the heat and keep your face looking flawless! One important thing is to stay away from powders! Also, remember to work in light layers and only apply foundation or concealer where you need it. If you are looking for something lightweight that still gives good coverage, you may want to look into Pat Mcgrath Labs Concealers, Glossier’s cream-based blushes (cloud paint), and cream shadows as they are more forgiving as they wear throughout the day. Finally, always, always, always keep blotting paper on hand to help soak up excess oils on your face. I have also found that keeping a face mist on hand is a great way to refresh and cool off during these hot summer months.

2. 1. Glossier’s cream-based blushes $18 each glossier.com

2. Pat Mcgrath Labs Concealers $32 patmcgrath.com

AT HOME

A Restarter Home San Antonio Family Bulldozes Their Old House to Build a Dream Home By Steve Bennett Photography by Matthew Niemann

When a Shavano Park couple decided to remodel their aging house, it didn’t take long to realize that for a comparable cost, they could build a new home on the same shady 2-acre lot, in the neighborhood that they loved. They could also keep their pool and cabana. So, they tore down the old castle and started from scratch. “Their old house was very pretty, but they felt it was dated and wanted something new,” said Roberto Kenigstein, founder of Image Homes, builder of the new house. Image, one of the city’s most sought-after luxury builders, typically constructs homes on the north side of San Antonio ranging from 3,000 to 19,000 square feet, priced from $500,000 to $5 million. “The new home is very high-end,” he said. Kenigstein refers to the exterior style of the home — whose owners asked not to be identified or interviewed — as “Hill Country contemporary,” featuring metal roofing and a skin of warm gray Lueders limestone, a native stone quarried in North Texas. Designer Lori Caldwell of Lori Caldwell Designs brought that stone into the entry foyer in drystacked (without mortar) walls set against a patterned Burlington gray and Avalon white marble tiled floor in an original, hand-cut design. It’s a beautiful juxtaposition. “A home’s interior design should be in balance with the architecture,” Caldwell said. “So, what we were looking for in this home is the marriage of a modern aesthetic with a more transitional feel, a blend of traditional and modern that is timeless.” According to Caldwell, the couple toured an Image spec home and really liked what they saw. 38

sawoman.com

“There was an opportunity to take what was in the spec home and really make it theirs,” she said. “Why look like somebody else’s house?” The color palette throughout the 6,800-squarefoot, four-bedroom Shavano home is muted whites and grays, with porcelain white floor tiling and engineered hardwoods with gray tint throughout, Sherwin Williams Agreeable Gray walls, and pure white for the coffered ceilings, trim, and doors. “The artwork in the house, which is very contemporary, provides a lot of color and conversation,” Caldwell said. Throughout the house, the custom furniture is by Vanguard, and the rugs are from Loloi. The heart of the home is the great room and kitchen area, with massive wood and steel trusses — a mix of rustic and cutting edge — supporting a 25-foot ceiling. On either side of the Lueders stone fireplace, with a Nero Marquina black marble surround, are two bombastic abstract paintings by Houston artist Howard Sherman. “The owners, especially the husband, are art collectors,” Caldwell said. “He loves cuttingedge art.” The voluminous space manages to remain airy thanks to eight-foot windows overlooking a courtyard on one side, with sliding glass doors leading to the pool area on the other. Sunlight also floods into the room through small rectangular windows near the soaring ceiling. “We used lighter colors on the walls and ceilings so that it wouldn’t have a heavy feel, and there’s a lot of light that flows into the house,” Caldwell said.

July/August 2021

sawoman.com

At the opposite end of the room, the kitchen features pure white cabinetry, a gray and white Calacatta Borghini marble island, stainless steel appliances, and an intricate Mosaïque Surface backsplash, with contrasting Delta black honed granite countertops.

elegant, and sophisticated, believes the designer’s primary role is to be a good listener.

“The kitchen is really important because you spend as much time there as in the master suite, at least when you’re awake, and that’s where guests congregate,” Caldwell said.

“It’s not just about aesthetics, but about functionality,” she said. “Everybody has their own sense of style — just as they have budgetary concerns — and at the end of the day, if a client doesn’t love their house, I haven’t done my job. And the best way to do that is to listen to what they’re saying, to pay attention, from what a client is wearing to pets they may have.”

The sexiest room in the house must be the master bathroom, with hand-crafted blue Lunada Bay glass tiles in a herringbone brick pattern framing a window over a custom tub.

Left page, top left photo: The Calacatta Borghini marble island is one of the most expensive items in the interior design, offset with pure white cabinetry, stainless steel appliances, an intricate Mosaïque Surface backsplash with gold and gray veins, and contrasting Delta black honed granite countertops.

“It really is a sanctuary,” Caldwell said.

Left page, top right photo: The breakfast room features furniture by Vanguard and brass lighting by Arteriors. The dramatic black columns separate the informal dining room from a game room.

Contemplating Hill Country flora and fauna while soaking in that tub must go a long way toward relieving some of the stress of the past year. “I remember having a couple of our initial meetings on the interior design without masks, but most of it was done during the pandemic,” Caldwell said. Caldwell, whose design vocabulary is simple,

Left page, bottom photo: The master bathroom features cabinetry in Sherwin Williams Web Gray, porcelain tile floors, which have the look of marble but are more maintenance-friendly, and Lunada Bay glass bricks in a herringbone pattern on the back wall. Right page photo: The master bedroom features a Vanguard bed with bed linens by San Antonio-based Lili Alessandra, York wallpaper and a Loloi rug.

July/August 2021

AT HOME EXTRA

Fall in Love with Your Closet! By Carlissa Montoya

Most people think of the closet as that space in your home to store stuff, it never has enough room, and you keep the doors kept tightly shut because it is an eyesore. I believe the closet should be that special space to store all the belongings that make you feel good, and it should have plentiful space for all your wardrobe needs. It is your personal boutique, it is organized, and you keep the doors left open because it’s a part of your home that you love. A beautiful and functional custom closet will double your closet space and calm the chaos of everyday life. Consider each of these ideas when designing your custom closet and turn your wardrobe from a dreaded room in the house into a beautiful and personalized space. 1. Hardware: Hardware is the jewelry to custom cabinetry. Keep in mind the scale, style, and finish you choose. Your hardware should act as a complement to your cabinetry and should complement the rest of your home. 2. Keep it Neat: With a custom storage solution, you will add up to three times as much storage

space. Compartmentalize your wardrobe and other items by color or style. This will help keep your closet neat and clean. The right clothes hanger will keep your wardrobe tidy and in good condition. It optimizes your storage space and gives your closet an organized and uniform look. Everything in its place will keep your closet organized. 3. Light it up! Lighting changes everything. Lighting improves your ability to see and find what you’re looking for. Whether you incorporate lighting within the design or adding a chandelier, lighting will make a massive difference in your space. It creates a great ambiance and mood. 4. Color and Pattern: There are a few simple ways to add color and pattern. Painting your walls a different shade will give great contrast to your custom closet. Wallpaper is another great way to add color and pattern. Subtle or bright? Whimsical or bold? You choose! 6. Mirror, Mirror on the Wall: By adding a mirror to your closet, you will make your closet space feel more prominent, and it helps create more lighting. Full-length mirrors are the perfect way to check the total effect of your clothes before heading out for the day.

Carlissa Montoya is the spirit and expertise behind CM Closet Design. She features Classy Closets products in her assortment of offerings. Her professional background spans over two decades in the luxury retail and lifestyle industry. Carlissa has combined her passion, knowledge, and resources to launch CM Closet Design LLC, a full-service custom storage design company specializing in custom closets and home storage design. Contact us: www.cmclosetdesign.com, office 210-664-0020, @cm.closetdesign July/August 2021

come see us in person, to view our courtyard filled with sample walls

To Your Health connects you with experts and resources in medical care, mental health, nutrition, fitness, and wellness, providing insight into all aspects of a woman’s health. Empowering you to advocate for yourself - mind, body and soul.

Salud!

The Greehey Children’s Cancer Research Institute Dr. Raushan Kurmasheva By Blithe Wiley

Many San Antonians don’t realize that the city is home to one of only two institutes in the United States dedicated solely to pediatric cancer research. Established in 2004, the Greehey Children’s Cancer Research Institute’s mission consists of three key areas — research, clinical, and education. The Greehey Children’s Cancer Research Institute (GCCRI), part of The University of Texas Health Science Center San Antonio, operates 18 labs that focus on a variety of research areas, including cancer genomics, DNA damage and repair, RNA biology, drug development, and preclinical therapeutics to find less toxic treatments for childhood cancers. One of these labs is run by Dr. Raushan Kurmasheva, Assistant Professor at the Institute. A main focus of her lab is the development of effective treatments for children with sarcoma, particularly Ewing’s sarcoma, which is a bone and soft tissue cancer. Central to the lab’s research is understanding the mechanisms of resistance of Ewing sarcoma cells to DNA damage, with the ultimate goal of developing efficient and non-toxic therapies for pediatric patients. “Ewing’s sarcoma is a rare cancer that occurs in only about 200 children and adolescences in the United States each year, but it’s an important cancer to study, because for children whose tumors come back (relapse) after the initial therapy, no effective treatment has been approved by FDA in the last three decades, and only about 20% of them survive for longer than five years,” Dr. Kurmasheva said. “In our research, we saw that some tumors are resistant to therapy, and some treatments can also be very toxic. We focus on the importance of understanding why some patient’s tumors do not respond to treatment.” Dr. Kurmasheva was invited to serve as guest editor for the Journal of Clinical Medicine special issue on the current treatment of childhood cancer, which was published this past April. “This issue was aimed at bringing much needed attention to pediatric cancer, the current state

sawoman.com

of its therapy, and challenges along the way to curing children,” she noted. “We brought researchers in from all over the world and got to showcase the current pediatric cancer research advancements and challenges.” In her introduction to the special issue, she wrote: “In the last four decades, the five-year survival rate of children with cancer has increased from 58% to 83%, with the standard of care for these children relying on surgery, radiation therapy, and systemic therapy using cytotoxic agents. While cytotoxic therapies may induce complete responses in children with metastatic or relapsed tumors, however, treatment is rarely curative, and the long-term consequences of chemoradiation can be devastating.” Kurmasheva said what this means is that while the increase in the five-year survival rate in childhood cancers is remarkable, the relapse of pediatric tumors, as well as metastatic spread, is an ongoing challenge. “For example, with Ewing’s sarcoma, relapses happen more often than with other pediatric malignancies.” Dr. Kurmasheva also shared the information on the recent release of the Research to Accelerate Cures and Equity for Children (RACE) Act. RACE, which went into effect in August 2020, is one of the most significant recent developments in pediatric cancer research and treatment. This new legislation now requires pharmaceutical companies to evaluate their new drugs for children’s cancer before they are submitted for adult cancer therapy. As a result of this Act, more clinical trial options and better treatments will become available for pediatric cancer patients. “The RACE Act is a big step forward toward better and more precise cancer therapies for children,” she said. Dr. Kurmasheva also noted that the role of the GCCRI in the field of pediatric research and treatment has significantly grown in the last five-to-six years. “It is encouraging that as part of UT Health San Antonio, GCCRI has developed ties with patient care programming (e.g., the university’s Department of Pediatrics) and is taking discoveries directly to clinical trials.”

Dr. Gail Tomlinson Division Chief, Pediatric Hematology/Oncology, Co-Director, Population Science Program and Prevention, Greehey Distinguished Chair in the Genetics of Cancer, The University of Texas Health Science Center San Antonio

The Greehey Children’s Cancer Research Institute’s Dr. Gail Tomlinson is something of a medical detective in her research field of inherited cancer syndromes. Her work involves looking for genetic markers that can signal a predisposition to a particular cancer in both children and adults. Tomlinson said she has always been fascinated by genetics. “It’s remarkable how a tiny misspelling in a gene can have such major consequences.” She said that most children who develop cancer do not have an inherited predisposition to the disease. However, about 10 to 15 percent of children with cancer do have an inherited cancer syndrome. “When we do find children who do have a genetic predisposition to a particular cancer, we can be more vigilant in following them over their lifetime.” Tomlinson said a major component in treating a child with a genetically based cancer is working with the family to

devise a plan to adhere to and monitor the child’s risk over the long term. She emphasized that having a child with a genetic cancer clearly causes stress and added worry for the family. “This is why we offer a multidisciplinary team to work with the family,” she explained. “This team consists of genetic counselors, psychologists, and social workers.” The team takes a very holistic approach in working with the family by helping them to better understand the meaning of the genetic factors and help them with the practical aspects of getting the necessary tests done and sometimes even with transportation to get to the Greehey Children’s Cancer Research Institute if they live out of town. Tomlinson stressed that one of the most important things for patients and families to keep in mind is that having a thorough understanding of the genetic root of the cancer is a very powerful tool. “Knowing one’s genetic make-up provides insight and power to manage one’s risk.” The Greehey Children’s Cancer Research Institute (GCCRI), part of The University of Texas Health Science Center San Antonio, operates 18 labs that focus on a variety of research areas, including cancer genomics, DNA damage and repair, RNA biology, drug development, and preclinical therapeutics to find less toxic treatments for childhood cancers. It is one of only two institutes in the United States dedicated solely to pediatric cancer research.

July/August 2021

WELLNESS MATTERS:

Business By Angel Santiago

We want to grow, succeed, and be happy, but we’re constantly pushing away and trying to control the situations that will provide us with just that. We go through life doing whatever we can to avoid struggle, failure, and pain. We’re so focused on trying to get it right that we’re constantly interfering in our own lives, keeping situations from playing out as intended, and thus, delaying our growth. We’re so busy fighting off failure that it inhibits us from welcoming success. But if failure isn’t an option, then success isn’t either because failure isn’t the opposite of success, it’s an integral step towards it. How do you feel about failure? How do you define it? Take a moment to think about this.

“It is impossible to live without failing at something unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.” ― J.K. Rowling

Do you see how she perceives failure? Now, reflect upon your definition again. Is that how you want your relationship with failure to be? If not, take a moment to redefine it. We all have a desire to succeed but being in a constant battle with failure is counterproductive. When we start something new, there’s always a learning process. We’re going to go through a period of making mistakes and not getting it right. In other words, we’re probably going to fail. Before I became a coach, I was a salsa dance instructor. Oftentimes, I would get students who, in their very first class, would struggle, become frustrated, and feel disappointed. When I’d ask them about it, they’d say it was because they just weren’t getting it. “Were you expecting to get it on your first day?” I would always ask. “Yes, I’m

an adult; I should know better,” they’d say. I have no idea where adults got the impression that somehow the learning process skips them and that failing only applies to youth. People expect the path of least resistance and the least amount of effort. They want to snap their fingers and immediately become a success story without putting in the work. Success doesn’t work that way. Your desire to succeed means nothing without the effort. Effort is what produces results. So, what does that effort look like? Here is the formula: 1. Have a burning desire 2. Be clear on your purpose 3. Show up 4. Put in that extraordinary effort 5. Have unwavering faith Are you going to struggle? Are you going to experience failure? Are you going to feel pain? YES. But these are the very things that will cause you to improve. If you never experience failure, you’ll never see the need to improve. It’s a process that requires patience to see it through. If you want it to happen fast, if you wanted it to happen yesterday, it’s probably not worth your time. Besides, “fast” puts the reward at risk. You must honor and respect your timeline, for it’s precisely what will prepare you for success. Remember, your challenges and failures are there to support and aid your growth. You just have to believe it and invest in yourself.

My name is Angel Santiago, and I’m a Transformational Coach. Feel free to connect with me via social media under the hashtag #LifeCoachAngel.

July/August 2021

What Parents Can Do to Prepare Their Daughters for the World of Women’s Health By Jennifer Newell, Founder, and CEO of Betty’s Co & Jillian LoPiano, MD, Medical Director of Betty’s Co

One challenging aspect of parenthood is helping children navigate the milestones of adolescence. For parents raising daughters, this includes guiding them through their newly activated reproductive system, from hygiene to symptom management to healthcare providers—gynecologists.

Remind your daughters that her provider wants to make her comfortable. Communicating any sensations—pain or discomfort—will help them better serve her.

Parents sometimes feel lost when it comes to introducing their daughters to a gynecologist. Here are three ways to create a safe space for your daughter to get her healthcare needs met.

One Boerne mom was on the way to the pediatrician with her young daughter, who asked, “Does the doctor have to check my “vajayjay?” Seeing the concern, this mom instructed her daughter she would have to tell the doctor herself if she didn’t want them to examine her privates. So, the daughter did just that, and the doctor was able to make her more comfortable by adjusting to only take a quick look (no exam) and explaining why it was needed (to ensure she was developing properly).

Establish an Early Relationship with a GYN There are many misconceptions about when young women require care. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) recommends young women receive specialized care once beginning their periods, suggesting a first gynecological visit between ages 13 and 15. Early introductions to gynecologists create a sense of normalcy for younger women around their bodies and ongoing need for women’s health. Plus, it establishes health providers as a resource for questions before approaching major lifestyle milestones, like sexual activity and pregnancy. Tell Her Exactly What Happens During Pelvic Exams Although it is rare for a teenager to need a pelvic exam yet, it’s good to begin discussing it early to alleviate future anxieties. We have created a scripted discussion guide for talking to a teenager about their first pelvic exam. Please reach out if you would like a copy.

Teach Her to Self-Advocate

This mother taught her daughter an important lesson: self-advocacy. Gynecological visits can make women of all ages feel vulnerable. So, as you guide your daughter, consider sharing these options: · She may request to talk to the doctor before getting undressed · She may ask to speak with the doctor in an office setting, not an exam room · She may request a chaperone’s presence in the room In our daily work with Betty’s Co., a women’s health company in San Antonio catering uniquely to younger women, we recommend parents have open conversations with their daughters about their health needs while also helping them take control of their own healthcare by establishing a strong foundation with a women’s health provider.

For more information, visit bettysco.com. Jennifer Newell, Founder, and CEO of Betty’s Co Jennifer Newell is a passionate healthcare entrepreneur and founder of Betty’s Co., a women’s healthcare company that serves younger women with the care, products, and education they need to stay well. Jillian LoPiano, MD, Medical Director of Betty’s Co Dr. Jillian LoPiano believes in educating and empowering women to manage their own health and wellness. With a Medical Degree from The George Washington University, Dr. LoPiano serves as the Medical Director of Betty’s Co.

sawoman.com

Hormones & Hope for Better Health By Dr. Wendy Askew

My office is often a place of hope for patients who’ve been told over and over again, by physician after physician, that there is ‘nothing wrong’ with them. These patients seek out help and often leave their physician’s office frustrated when no obvious cause for their symptoms can be identified. These symptoms include: · Insomnia · Fatigue · Mood changes · Inexplicable weight gain · Joint pains · Lack of mental clarity · Low sex drive, and many more. If their labs are normal, and their imaging studies and test results are unremarkable, this ‘absence of evidence’ is misinterpreted as evidence of absence, meaning that there is not a physiologic (“real”) cause for their symptoms. Even young women in their thirties and forties are told that feeling unwell and tired all the time is ‘simply a part of getting older.’ Sometimes, they are diagnosed with depression and offered treatment with antidepressants. But is that really all there is to it? Are they all truly experiencing depression? Are their symptoms merely figments of their imagination? An even more depressing concept to me is the idea that aging is simply synonymous with feeling bad most of the time, both emotionally and physically. I don’t believe all of this to be true, and it has taken decades of clinical patient care and nearly an additional decade of continuing education and clinical experience in functional medicine to see how much impact can be made on so many lives by looking beyond the usual places. Which brings us, finally, to the question that has not yet been asked: “Could it be my hormones?” I am frequently informed by my patients that other physicians have told them that whatever the problem they are experiencing, it “must be due to their hormones.” Occasionally, I interpret this to mean that some providers are eager to direct patients elsewhere to look for help in situations when they aren’t able to figure out a cause or offer help. It is also important to realize that the term “hormones” is a vague umbrella term that describes nearly a hundred molecules produced in our bodies that regulate nearly every process that our organ systems perform. With that in mind, it certainly seems plausible that hormones may be involved in many if not most health conditions and symptoms that we experience.

Looking a little bit closer at what they are and what they do, hormones are chemical signaling messengers produced by our cells that can have effects throughout our bodies to direct and regulate most of our bodily functions. Consider a hormone called insulin. The pancreas makes insulin, which in turn circulates throughout our bodies and instructs cells to take up glucose to use it as an energy source so the cells can perform their jobs. Muscle cells in different parts of the body must contract so that we can move, walk and breathe. Insulin has other functions as well. The sex-steroid hormones estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone are involved in many processes as well. These hormones are involved in the regulation of our mood, cognitive function, bone, and muscle building, and of course, sexual health, to name just a few of their functions. Thyroid hormones are involved in the regulation of metabolism, skin health, gastrointestinal function, reproductive health, hair health, and immune system function, and other processes. There are dozens of other hormones that can also impact various aspects of health. Without optimal hormonal functioning, it makes sense that people may suffer from a constellation of non-specific symptoms, like those already mentioned. For patients seeking help from possible hormonerelated symptoms, it’s important to select providers who are knowledgeable about and experienced in these areas. Attending a weekend course in anything doesn’t make one an expert in that topic. Every provider will have his or her areas of expertise as well as areas that they are particularly knowledgeable about. Being honest enough to admit limitations in one’s medical knowledge is a sign of wisdom, not weakness in healthcare providers. With that said, I can honestly answer that for many patients who perhaps aren’t sick but certainly aren’t feeling well, hormones might be a factor. Offering honest and not false hope for patients seeking relief is important in medicine. Having hope for more effective treatments and for better health is important for patients. Not only because those treatments may give relief, but because hope, in and of itself, is often a powerful and overlooked therapeutic agent. In good health, Dr. Wendy Askew

Vital Life Wellness Center (210) 595-1019 vitallifewellness.com 54

sawoman.com

From Fertility to Obstetrics Dr. Tiffany Satterfield and Dr. Jaye Adams Focus on Women’s Health

By Rudy Arispe Photography by David Teran

sawoman.com

During her 22-year career as an OB/GYN, Dr. Jaye Adams was the proverbial “stork” who has brought countless bundles of joy to many happy couples, although she can’t put an exact number on how many babies she delivered. “I stopped counting a few years into practice, but it’s probably about two thousand, although I no longer do deliveries,” she said. Today, Dr. Adams continues to make dreams come true for hundreds of couples in a slightly different capacity by helping those who have trouble conceiving. She is a fertility physician and board-certified in reproductive endocrinology at the Fertility Center of San Antonio. “I still take care of women and still do early obstetrics, but I now get to do family building and help people wanting to have a baby get pregnant,” Dr. Adams said. “That’s very rewarding.” The Fertility Center of San Antonio was established by Dr. Joseph Martin more than 30 years ago. It was the first practice to offer office-based in vitro fertilization (IVF) in Texas and the first to achieve a pregnancy through intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) in the Southwest. The Fertility Center also provides an on-site andrology and embryology laboratory, directed by their embryologist, Dr. Thomas Pool, which allows them to perform diagnostic and procedural lab work at the same location as a patient’s treatment. In 2005, they became the first Texas center to offer preimplantation genetic testing for monogenetic/ single-gene diseases, PGT-M (formerly PGD), and embryo biopsy, and they continue to generate some of the highest success rates. Since 2012, Dr. Adams has been counseling and treating couples with a variety of issues that prevent a woman from getting pregnant. Her patients, she said, are “those who have been trying for a year but can’t conceive, which is more common than people realize, affecting up to 10% of all couples who desire a pregnancy.” “We find that 30 percent of the time it’s a female factor, 30 percent a male factor and 40 percent there’ a combination of factors with both, ranging from ovulatory dysfunction to low sperm count to uterine or tubal issues, as well as agerelated, when couples delay until their late ‘30s, and the natural ability to get pregnant is declining.” Still, there is help and hope, Dr. Adams advises. “If you’re having issues, we can provide a timely evaluation, help identify any problems that are correctable and hopefully shorten the time to get pregnant through a variety of treatments,” she said. Meanwhile, Dr. Tiffany Satterfield, who joined Seven Oaks Women’s Center in 2009, recalled wanting to be a physician since childhood.

“I had this picture in my mind that I would carry a little, black bag and make house calls like they did on ‘Little House on the Prairie,’” she said with a laugh. At Seven Oaks Women’s Center, Dr. Satterfield focuses on obstetrics and gynecology because of her love of providing health services to women. “I like taking care of women from adolescent to post menopausal, as well as delivering babies and gynecologic surgery,” she said. “It’s all I’ve ever wanted to do.” Like Dr. Adams, Dr. Satterfield has found great joy in delivering babies. “It’s an amazing experience, and it’s crazy to think that you play a part in one of the most important days of a person’s life,” she explained. “You are an integral part of seeing someone expand their family, especially when it’s their first baby. We get to be there and celebrate.” Seven Oaks Women’s Center provides the women of San Antonio with complete health care services, including routine gynecologist exams, pregnancy planning and prenatal care, among other services. “Our group has been around for 25 years, and we have more than 100 years of combined medical practice among our physicians,” Dr. Satterfield said. The Seven Oaks Women’s Center, as well as the Fertility Center of San Antonio, will move into the Oak Hills Women’s Pavilion. The 92,982-square-foot, 4-story medical office building is under construction and expected to be completed in fall 2022. It was financed by The Bank of San Antonio. “When we contacted The Bank of San Antonio about our new Oaks Hills Women’s Pavillion, the bank was able to meet our requests regarding the type of financing we were looking for,” Dr. Satterfield said. “The bank responded quickly and worked with us on the terms that made us feel like they wanted to be a part of this project. As a physician-owned medical office building, it is nice to have a partner like The Bank of San Antonio to have their support and trust in us.” Maria F. Breen, The Bank of San Antonio’s private banker for the project, said it was a joy to work with Oak Hills Women’s Pavilion. ”These are the types of projects that make my job rewarding. A strong partnership between our leadership at the bank and visionaries in our community has allowed us to better serve the women of San Antonio.” Brandi Carberry - Vitier, Market Executive for The Bank of San Antonio, added, “Accelerating positive impact to women’s healthcare is something I’m passionate about, and I am inspired by these leaders for bringing their vision to life.” oakhillswomenscenter.com thebankofsa.com

July/August 2021

HPV Vaccination is Cancer Prevention As a parent, I would do anything to protect my children. When they were tiny, I childproofed the house. When they set off to the park on a skateboard or bike, a helmet was not optional. When I taught them to drive, wearing a seatbelt was the rule of the road. The human papillomavirus (HPV) is a common virus similar to the common cold in terms of the number of people infected. In fact, HPV will infect nearly every person in their lifetime and will cause cancer in many. When I learned I could protect my children from both the virus and six types of cancer with a vaccine, my decision to take action was crystal clear, and I got them vaccinated against HPV. According to the American Cancer Society, a leader in the fight against cancer, 4 out of 5 Americans will get HPV during their lives. That means nearly every Texan will become infected with HPV at some point in their lifetime. This year alone, an estimated 1,470 women in Texas will be diagnosed with cervical cancer, and more than approximately 1,900 men and women will be diagnosed with throat cancer – all caused by HPV. I live in Texas. These numbers frighten me particularly because they represent people who could be my neighbors, colleagues, friends, or family members.

You can learn more about how the HPV vaccine safely protects children against cancer by visiting cancer.org/hpvtexas. In the meantime, here are three facts that drove it home for me: 1) it’s cancer prevention, 2) it’s safe and effective, and 3) it works best for boys AND girls between ages 9 and 12. Not that long ago, people lived in fear of deadly infections like smallpox, polio, and hepatitis. Thanks to vaccines, those fears have been eliminated, and millions of lives were saved. Today it’s the HPV vaccine and cancer. Imagine if preteens in the United States were vaccinated against HPV. About 90 percent of HPV cancers could be prevented. The HPV vaccine delivers on a dream many have held for decades: a cancer prevention vaccine. As parents, being aware and informed is critical. Be a partner to your pediatrician when it comes to the HPV vaccine. Talk to your child’s health care provider today about preventing six types of cancer with the HPV vaccine. If you missed routine vaccinations during the pandemic, now is the time to get back on track. As parents, it’s up to us to protect our children from HPV cancers.

Jeff Fehlis

Father of two Executive Vice President

American Cancer Society You can learn more about how the HPV vaccine safely protects children against cancer by visiting cancer.org/hpvtexas 58

sawoman.com

Women in Law

Charting Divergent Courses The legal profession is an attractive one for many women, as it offers so many varied opportunities for specialization and areas of interest. In addition to numerous types of litigation, women can choose careers in the corporate sector, in administrative service and in academic-related professions. Featured here are four women who’ve made their careers in the legal profession – each one taking a vastly divergent path from the others. Yet, a common thread that runs through all four is their passion for their work and for their legal specialty. By Blithe Wiley Photography by David Teran

July/August 2021

Veronica Legarreta Owner of Legarreta Law Firm, PLLC Veronica Legarreta is a fighter. “I am an advocate for my clients. I tell them, ‘I will handle the tough stuff and will let you know when you need to worry.’” After spending nearly two decades in the legal profession, including working as a prosecutor in the Bexar County District Attorney’s Office, she opened her own firm, Legarreta Law Firm, PLLC, and focused her practice on criminal defense cases and family law matters. In high school, Legarreta dreamed of becoming an attorney, but she was so shy, she was ‘too shy to order in a restaurant.’ When she attended the University of Texas-Austin, she decided to become an acting major. “My acting background greatly helped me to break down my guard and to speak comfortably in front of people,” she said. “It really helped me in my preparation for becoming a trial attorney.” When Legarreta first opened her practice, her main focus was on criminal defense cases. Her specialization in family law started with a criminal law client who was going through a divorce. She found that the arena of family law brought with it a whole new level of intensity, but she thrived on the challenge. Legarreta is also passionate about connecting with and supporting her Hispanic culture and heritage. Today, she sits on the Council for the Hispanic Issues Section of the State Bar and is a member of the Hispanic Women’s Network of Texas. She notes the justice system has experienced a profound evolution as a result of the COVID pandemic. “We have harnessed the available technology to continue to move the justice system forward, despite the pandemic restrictions.”

sawoman.com

Patricia Roberts Dean of St. Mary’s University School of Law In June 2020, Patricia Roberts was named the 10th Dean of St. Mary’s University School of Law. Previously, she served on the administration and faculty at her law school alma mater William & Mary School of Law, for two decades, culminating in her tenure there as Vice Dean. While at William & Mary, she greatly expanded the school’s clinical programs, particularly in the area of veterans law. Before starting her career in academia, Roberts worked as a plaintiff’s attorney for eight years. However, she felt she was destined for a more service-oriented career. “I’m a problem solver who is always looking for creative solutions,” she said. Roberts says the biggest challenge in her first year at St. Mary’s was ensuring the school continued to provide an outstanding legal education for its students - both in-person and remotely - in the face of the pandemic. Roberts says that the school’s biggest opportunities include serving South Texas, in-person and online, and training our exceptional students to impact their communities. She notes that 57 percent of the student body identify as underrepresented minorities. “I’m very proud that the law school provides excellent legal opportunities that increase access to the profession to underrepresented populations,” she said. Roberts’ advice to young women considering a career in law? “Reach out to women lawyers and judges in your community – even if you don’t know them personally,” she said. “We’ve all benefitted from mentors, and we all want to help young women interested in this noble profession. Also, volunteer to intern in local law offices or non-profits to get a better sense of all different legal specialties that exist, and reach out to St. Mary’s to learn more about law school!” July/August 2021

Stephanie Chandler Partner at Jackson Walker Growing up in a small Nebraska town, Stephanie Chandler had an innate passion for hard work, holding her first job at age 11. As a finance major in college, she chose law school at University of Virginia as her next step. Today, Chandler specializes in three areas of law: launching and growing businesses; mergers and acquisitions, especially for family-owned businesses; and advising family offices in their investment activities. She notes that many people think of lawyers as having a courtroom focus, but her role is much more strategic, being a partner to clients in executing on their goals. Top among her career accomplishments was serving as primary counsel for Corner Store when Valero spun off its retail division in 2013 in a $2.4 billion transaction. One of the most profound legal situations she has worked on was representing the First Baptist Church in Sutherland Springs after the horrific mass shooting in 2017. “We were contacted the day after the shooting,” Chandler explained. “The church had endured such a heartbreaking tragedy. I walked alongside the surviving church members to help them pick up the pieces and meet the church community’s needs.” Chandler is eager to offer advice to young women who may be considering a legal career. “It’s so important to chart your own path,” she explained. “Determine how you can best channel your innate talents. Law is a very flexible career choice that offers so many diverse paths. Find mentors, not just for your career, but for how you can achieve a life well lived.”

sawoman.com

Katina Zampas Associate in Dykema’s San Antonio Office Katina Zampas began honing her ‘Type A’ personality as a Southern California competitive tennis player at the tender age of eight. She continued competing through college at the University of Hartford, where she was a scholarship Division I athlete. She always knew she wanted to go to law school, because litigation was a natural career choice to channel her competitive spirit. When she and her husband moved to San Antonio to be closer to his family, she enrolled in St. Mary’s School of Law. After graduating law school second in her class and passing the bar, she joined Dykema’s San Antonio office as an associate in September 2019. At Dykema, Zampas primarily practices labor and employment litigation. “We work with employers to develop the policies and practices that define their work environment and mitigate risk and defend clients in actions brought by current or former employees,” Zampas explained. “Our work covers numerous areas – such as recruitment, hiring, wage and hour, disability accommodation, harassment, discrimination and retaliation. We handle a diverse mix of employment litigation matters, and we advocate for employers in mediation, arbitration and litigation.” Zampas noted that working for Dykema has afforded her opportunities to work with inspiring senior attorneys and very large clients, which in turn allows her to impact many employees. “A career in law can be suited to all types of personalities and interests,” she emphasized. “There are so many different types of law that women specialize in – many more than people often realize.” She noted that the legal profession has come a long way in recent years in terms of female representation. “I strongly encourage more women to pursue a legal career so that we can continuously have better representation of women in the profession,” she said. July/August 2021

Jean S. Brown

Morgan Glenny

Not every family law matter needs to be litigated. Know all your options before you walk into the court room!

Jean S. Brown and Morgan Glenny Jean Brown Law

Civil and Criminal Attorneys 222 Main Plaza San Antonio, TX 78205 (210 354-2662 Jean@jeanbrownlaw.com

Virtual appointments available

WOMEN IN LAW

You Don’t Want to Argue with Attorney Heather Tessmer If Heather Tessmer wasn’t practicing law, she would be just as busy with a fulfilling career as a caterer. Although it seems like an interesting choice for someone who has been a family law attorney for 22 years, it’s actually an industry where the Llano native has lots of experience, and for which she credits her ability to deliver exceptional customer service to her clients, all thanks to a stint with one of the best-known caterers in town, Rosemary Kowalski. By Rudy Arispe Photography by David Teran 66

sawoman.com

But first, Tessmer shares how she got started in the foodservice industry in the first place and a bruised ego along the way. “My parents owned a resort on Lake LBJ, and I started waiting tables at age 11,” she said. “After college, I told my dad I’m never flipping another hamburger.” Or so she thought. After graduating from college in 1989 with a bachelor’s degree in business administration from Angelo State University, she got married, and she and her husband moved to Germany, where work was hard to come by because of a hiring freeze in the town they lived. “The only job I could find was at Burger King,” Tessmer recalled. “It was a very humbling experience because it was my first job out of college.” Before long, however, she was catering director at the Officer’s Club. When the couple moved back to San Antonio from abroad, Tessmer worked for the RK Group. “I learned so much from Rosemary and her son, Greg, and about taking care of people that I still apply today,” she said. “Number one is you have to take care of your client, and communication is key. You have to make sure you communicate effectively, and you have to be professional in everything you do.” Those sound business principles that Tessmer acquired from her days with Kowalski have served her well. It’s been key to her success as owner of Tessmer Law Firm, which she launched in 2005 with an office in San Antonio and a satellite office in Boerne, as well as 17 employees. Her special areas of practice include family law, divorce, personal injury, estate planning and probate, and child custody, among others. Tessmer, meanwhile, has been known to appear larger than life. She has, actually. Her image has been imprinted on outdoor billboards strategically placed along the city’s highways. A cross-armed and imposing Tessmer stares motorists straight in the eye: “Ever Argue With a Woman?” She chuckles for a moment and then explains, “It runs the gamut. I’ve had people call me and tell me I’m the

reason people are getting divorced and that I encourage it (because of the billboards). But I’ve been married for 32 years, and I encourage marriage.” On the other hand, “I’ve had men tell me they find it hilarious, and they don’t want to argue with a woman. They know better. Also, a lot of people think we represent only women, but it’s 50 percent women and 50 percent men.” Whatever the case, Tessmer’s goal is to keep her clients happy, whether it’s representing families in divorce court, assisting someone with a living will, or finding a permanent home for a foster child with a loving family. “Adoptions are my favorite things to do because everyone is happy in those hearings, and the judge likes it when we bring those types of cases to court instead of contentious ones,” she said. But she also wants to make sure everyone is fairly represented. “I’m a middle child, and I realize after 53 years that life isn’t always fair,” Tessmer said. “But I think one of my faults and one of my pluses is I like things to be fair. I like when we can get to a fair resolution in a divorce case and make sure children are safe and healthy.” Serving her community is also an important aspect of her life, which is why she volunteers with several nonprofits. She is proud to serve on the boards of Boysville, Pearls Court, which enhances the lives of girls aging out of foster care, and with the alumni board of her alma mater, St. Mary’s University of Law, where she earned her law degree in 1999. But nothing makes her more proud than her two children, Chase, a Ph.D. candidate in computational math, engineering, and physics at the University of Texas at Austin; and her daughter, Abby, who recently accepted a Ph.D Candidate Position at the University of Oklahoma. However, she admits she couldn’t do it all without the help of her husband, who, incidentally, is the chief financial officer at the law firm. For more info, www.tessmerlawfirm.com.

Tessmer Law Firm P.L.L.C 7550 W I-10 Suite 1201, San Antonio, TX 78229O (210) 368-9708 | www.tessmerlawfirm.com July/August 2021

Women in Law

Cathleen Lockhart BSN, JD

Lockhart Law Firm PC 530 Lexington Ave San Antonio, TX 78215 O (210) 223-8334 C (210)279-8334 clockhart@lockhartlawfirm.com www.LockhartLawFirm.com

Everyone has a story, and I am passionate about my client’s story primarily because of my experience. Born and raised in a small, poor rural community outside El Paso, Texas, by two blue-collar working parents, I was encouraged to be a nurse or a teacher as I could always help someone. For the majority of my young life, my father was chronically ill and bedridden, so my mother was the sole provider and decision-maker for my father’s medical choices. Watching my mother and father struggle with the daily decisions of a chronic illness made me aware of a healthcare system that was complicated. I decided that nursing school was the natural choice for me to understand the system and to be able to support families in crisis. I saw the health care system as a way for me to help families, and it was a natural fit for me. As many young people do, working two or three jobs to attend school was necessary and taught me organization and time management. I was licensed as a registered nurse in 1978, and I loved working in the hospital. I enjoyed meeting families and working with patients that had devastating injuries. It was very rewarding to watch patients overcome obstacles that initially appeared insurmountable. Moving up the career ladder into Risk Management for a large hospital corporation, I realized that a lot of families needed legal help after being critically injured. Working as a Risk Manager, I had an “aha” moment when I met an elderly lady that was neglected and severely crippled as a result of the negligence of the hospital. Law school was the next path. Licensed as an attorney in 1998, I have had the opportunity to meet, work with, and help incredible people. Passion and empathy for the injured and the rights of the families devastated by negligence are the driving force that motivates me. I have two wonderful children, and I am a grandmother of four, counting my deceased sister’s child that I consider my grandchild. I am interested in everyone’s story. 68

sawoman.com

Women in Law

Robbie L. Ward

Lawyer

Robbie L. Ward, Attorney at Law 530 Lexington Ave San Antonio, TX 78215 O (210) 758-2200 C (210) 758-8500

Photography David Teran

robbie@robbiewardlaw.com www.robbiewardlaw.com

Born in Odessa, Texas, Robbie was taught the value of loyalty, hard work, and dedication at an early age by her parents. Her practice focuses on federal criminal defense as well as state. Robbie has been extremely successful in defending those accused of federal white-collar crimes, drug crimes, as well as those accused in State court of aggravated robbery, family violence assaults, and sexual assaults. After graduating from St. Mary’s University School of Law Robbie began her career at the Bexar County District Attorney’s Office, where her expertise as a trial lawyer earned her a spot as a Felony Prosecutor. She was then recruited as a Federal Prosecutor with the United States Attorney’s Office for the Western District of Texas. Her next high-level promotion was as a First Assistant in the Ector County Attorney’s Office where she resided and ran the office for several years. With her transition back to San Antonio, Robbie entered Criminal Defense Law as a partner in a local defense firm for four years, she thrived and gave every client her unique experience as both a prosecutor and defense attorney. Now in private practice, Robbie continues to serve her clients at the highest level, in a community she has personal and professional ties to. As a prosecutor, she was the one other prosecutor went to for guidance. Now as a Criminal Defense Lawyer, she is the go-to Lawyer for those who have been arrested or accused of a crime in either state or federal court. She serves as a current Board of Directors of the San Antonio Criminal Defense Lawyer Association, is a current Member of TCDLA and NACDL, and has been recognized in 2019 as a Lawyer of Distinction, and as a Top 10 Defense Attorney by Attorney and Practice Magazine, and 2021 SA Scene Top Criminal Defense Lawyer.

July/August 2021

sawoman.com

Women in Law

Rebecca Carrillo

Board Certified Attorney in Family Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization

Law office of Rebecca J. Carrillo, PLLC 12915 Jones Maltsberger, Ste 524 San Antonio, TX 78247-4277 O (210) 468-1581

Photography by Renee Spade

www.rjc-lawfirm.com

Rebecca J. Carrillo is a Texas Board Certified Family Law Attorney. Only 10% of Texas Attorneys can claim this accomplishment. She is an Alumna of Texas A&M University, where she obtained her bachelor’s degree in Political Science and Sociology. Rebecca attended St. Mary’s University School of Law in San Antonio, where she ultimately decided to root her business and home.

Through the years, she has built upon her accomplishments and has succeeded in growing her business and having a wonderful family, which continue to show her how to best maintain a good work-life balance. Her busy home life includes her husband, 3-year-old son, two Boston Terriers, two gorgeous cats, some fish, and the occasional stray! She wears many hats: Mom, wife, caregiver, friend, chef, and business owner, all without sacrificing the needs of any of her loved ones or clients.

As a Hispanic woman in law, Rebecca strives to be a role model for other female minorities who also have the desire to own a business while navigating the challenges presented to them, both personally and professionally. She is grateful for everyone that has given her motivation to be where she is now, and Rebecca hopes to inspire others committed to reaching their dreams.

July/August 2021

Women in Law

Jamie L. Graham Sr. Litigation Attorney

Jamie Graham & Associates, PLLC 2630 Kerrybrook San Antonio, TX 78230 O (210) 308-6448 F (210) 308-5669 www.jamiegrahamlaw.com

Jamie Graham has more than twenty years of legal experience and a well-earned reputation for excellence. Mrs. Graham has earned multiple awards for her excellence and dedication as an attorney. Most of her clients are retained through referrals from current clients and, many times, from the former spouses of clients. You can rely on receiving accurate information and experienced advice from Mrs. Graham. Her priority is to ensure that you have the information and advice you need from an experienced attorney to make informed decisions throughout the family law process. Mrs. Graham specializes in representing members of the United States military and their spouses in family law cases as certain factors involved with military divorce and family law matters differ considerably from civilian matters. There are specific laws in place to address some of these issues, laws that only apply in military cases, such as the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) and the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA).

Jamie Graham & Associates, PLLC, is a law firm dedicated to helping men and women throughout San Antonio and surrounding areas in divorce and other family matters. We earn your trust through honest, skilled, and diligent representation. We earn it by learning about your specific situation and objectives and then putting in the hours of work necessary to achieve your goals.

“When I was young, I saw my parents go through a very nasty divorce. It had a profound effect on me, and I became a family law attorney to help others, especially children, avoid going through that experience, if possible.”

sawoman.com

Women in Law

Erica Maloney

Owner of Maloney Law Group, PLLC, Attorney

Maloney Law Group, PLLC 1007 S. Alamo St. San Antonio, TX 78210 O (210) 228-0400 F (210) 758-5908

Photography by: Bend the Light

www.MaloneyLawGroup.com

As the daughter of renowned trial lawyers Marynell Maloney and Michael Maloney Sr., and granddaughter of celebrated trial lawyer Pat Maloney Sr., there is a longstanding joke that Erica has been programmed since birth to be a trial lawyer. After graduating from the University of California, Irvine Law School in 2012, Erica returned to her hometown of San Antonio to practice law where she and her husband, Byron Miller, built their practice, The Maloney Law Group, PLLC, a boutique plaintiff personal injury and malpractice law firm. As the mother of three children, Erica has focused particular attention on advocating for infants who have suffered catastrophic birth injuries. She has handled multiple cases involving infants who have suffered brain damage as a consequence of oxygen deprivation during labor and delivery. In 2020, she obtained a $7,000,000 result (contingency fee $2,800,000; reimbursable expenses $75,578; net to client $4,123,421) for the family of a baby who sustained hypoxic ischemic encephalopathy from the childbirth process. Erica believes in taking cases that she feels passionately about and that can invoke systemic change. She enjoys the close bond she develops with clients and using litigation to improve the quality of healthcare. In addition to medical malpractice cases, Erica also handles cases involving victims who have been seriously injured by defective products and commercial vehicles. Erica is on the Board of Directors of the Texas Trial Lawyers Association and a member of the San Antonio Trial Lawyers Association and The William S. Sessions American Inn of Court. She was selected as a 2021 Texas Super Lawyers rising star and was named a top personal injury lawyer by Scene in San Antonio in 2020. Erica is also a member of the MultiMillion Dollars Advocate Forum and the Million Dollars Advocate Forum. July/August 2021

Women in Law

Jane H. Macon PARTNER

Bracewell LLP 300 Convent , STE 2700 San Antonio, Texas 78205 O (210) 299-3517 C (210) 410 -6225 jane.macon@bracewell.com www.bracewell.com

After graduating from the University of Texas Law School, Jane began her law career in Atlanta at the Office of Economic Opportunity. She moved to the San Antonio City Attorney’s Office in 1972. From 1977 to 1983, she served as San Antonio’s first woman City Attorney and laid the legal groundwork to further the development of the River Walk downtown projects. Jane entered private practice in 1983 as a partner at Fulbright & Jaworski. She joined Bracewell in 2013, where she continues to focus her practice on Public Law Finance and Economic Development law. In addition to her private practice, Jane is extremely active in professional and civic organizations like The Women’s Forum, at both at the national level and the state level, and raises miniature horses.

Kelli Cubeta PARTNER

Cubeta Law Group 322 Martinez Street San Antonio, Texas 78205 O (210) 934-4500 kelli.cubeta@cubetalaw.com www.cubetalaw.com

Kelli Cubeta is a Partner at Cubeta Law Group, a certified woman-owned business based in San Antonio that focuses exclusively on representing businesses in the areas of litigation, employment, and transactional matters. For over 18 years, Kelli has represented businesses of all sizes including serving as General Counsel and head of Human Resources for two publicly traded companies. Kelli has been recognized nationally by the Association of Corporate Counsel as one of the top 10 business attorneys in the nation and by the San Antonio Business Journal as one of the top business leaders in San Antonio. Kelli is a proud wife and mother of two precious girls and serves on several non-profit Boards.

sawoman.com

Women in Law

Amber Lidell Alwais

PARTNER, Board Certified - Family Law Texas Board of Legal Specialization Orsinger, Nelson, Downing & Anderson, LLP 310 S. St. Mary’s, 26th Floor San Antonio, Texas 78205 O (210) 225-5567 www.ondafamilylaw.com

Amber Lidell Alwais is an experienced family law attorney who protects her clients, making them feel safe and secure while fighting for them. She is compassionate and committed to providing legal services in all Family Law matters including traditional and non-traditional divorce, custody issues, property division, child support and adoption matters. Amber has been a source for the San Antonio media to speak on Family Law issues during the COVID-19 crisis. Amber graduated from Sam Houston State University and St. Mary’s University School of Law in 1996. She has been acknowledged for her excellence in family law, being recognized as a Texas Super Lawyer from 2013-2020. Amber also serves as a law instructor at the University of Texas at San Antonio. Her clients describe her as “a true professional, but not at the expense of being a beautiful human being.”

Rachel Reuter

Attorney at Law

Reuter Law Group, PC 112 East Pecan St., Ste 2920 San Antonio, Texas 78205 O (210) 812-4239 C (210) 284-8866 rachel@reuterlaw.com www.reuterlaw.com

Rachel Reuter is Board Certified in Family Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization. With over 20 years of experience, she established Reuter Law Group, PC as a boutique family law firm specializing in divorce and child custody disputes. Understanding that each client has different needs, Reuter Law Group was created as a premier family law firm dedicated to providing individualized attention to each client. With integrity, creativity, diligence and passion, her team at Reuter Law Group will fight for their clients and help them come up with a plan that works best for his or her family.

July/August 2021

Women in Law

Cynthia Orr

MANAGING PARTNER

Goldstein & Orr Criminal Law & Appeals 310 S. St. Mary’s St. Ste 2900 San Antonio, Texas 78205 O (210) 226-1463 F (210) 226-8367 whitecollarlaw@gmail.com www.goldsteinhilley.com

Cynthia Eva Hujar Orr is the past Chair of the ABA Criminal Justice Section and in its House of Delegates, on the Texas Board of Law Examiners, is past President of the NACDL and TCDLA. She founded the San Antonio Lawyers Association and the Texas Innocence Network. She is listed in the Best Lawyers in America, is a Fellow in the American College of Trial Lawyers and is a Texas Top 100 Trial Lawyer. She is in the San Antonio Women’s Hall of Fame, she was TCDLA 2015 Pro Bono Lawyer of the year, clerked for federal Judge Emilio Garza and is Board Certified in Criminal Law and Appeals. She is listed in the Best Lawyers in America and is AV Rated by Martindale Hubble.

Paula D. Perez

Managing Attorney of Paula Perez Law 6128 Bandera Road San Antonio, Texas 78238 O (210) 729-2029 F (210) 729-7130 info@paulaperezlaw.com www.paulaperezlaw.com

Paula D. Perez is the Managing Attorney of Paula Perez Law Firm. Her areas of practice are Criminal Defense, Personal Injury, and Family Law. She has also represented clients in the areas of Probate, Commercial & Business Litigation, Construction Litigation, and Debt Collection. She is a graduate of St. Mary’s University, where she obtained a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science. She attended and obtained her law degree from Texas Tech University School of Law. Her law career began as an Associate Attorney for a large Personal Injury Law Firm, where she represented clients involved in Mass Tort Litigation and Motor Vehicle Accident Litigation. She then served in a Corporate Compliance role for a Fortune 500 Company, managing compliance for all of its South Texas Storefronts before beginning her solo law practice. July/August 2021

Laura O.Duran

Roberson Duran Law, PLLC

4243 E. Piedras Ave., Ste. 140 San Antonio, Texas 78228

Women in Law

Jaclyn Roberson

Senior Partner

O (210) 224-4077

jaclyn@rdfamilylawfirm.com www.rdfamilylawfirm.com

laura@rdfamilylawfirm.com www.rdfamilylawfirm.com

Jaclyn Roberson is a graduate of William H. Taft High School, The University of Texas at Austin and Tulane Law School. Licensed since 2003, she practices family law, probate, and estate planning. Jaclyn does not discriminate against clients based on race, gender and gender identity, sexual orientation, disability or religion. Jaclyn takes a sensitive and non-judgmental approach to the unique facts of each case. Jaclyn is the chair of the Family Law Section of the San Antonio Bar Association, the chair of the Bexar County Dispute Resolution Center Advisory Board and a council member of the African-American Lawyers Section of the State Bar of Texas. When she is not practicing law, Jaclyn enjoys adventures with her husband, Leon Collins, a mediator and published author.

Laura O. Duran has been a licensed attorney for 17 years. Dedicated to helping families navigate their legal matters with compassion and empathy, Laura has represented hundreds of children and parents and has developed a reputation for taking on Child Protective Services. She also serves as an amicus attorney in complicated custody battles. Laura is a proud graduate of Texas A&M University, College Station and St. Mary’s University School of Law, where she became a published author and an editor of “The Scholar: St. Mary’s Law Review on Minority Issues.” Laura O. Duran is a dedicated wife to Francisco Duran and mother to three beautiful children. She also serves as a mentor at Brandeis High School for students who wish to join her profession.

Laura D. Heard FOUNDING PARTNER

Laura D. Heard Law Firm Inc.

14607 San Pedro, Ste. 205 San Antonio, Texas 78232 (210) 655-9090 Attorney@LDHeard.com www.LDHeard.com

Laura D. Heard, family law mediator and lawyer, practices all aspects of Family Law, Divorce, Wills, Mediation and Probate Law. Laura’s entire career since 1987 has been in San Antonio. She started her own law firm in 1992. Her motto: “Justice Flows From Truth, Compassion, Wisdom, and Persistence.”™ Laura’s accomplishments include her role as attorney, mediator, teacher, author, mother, and small business owner. She has served as Guardian ad litem for hundreds of abused children, Adjunct Professor at Wayland Baptist University, 4th Court of Appeals Briefing attorney, and Mediator at the Bexar County Dispute Resolution Center. Awards include Best Appellate Attorneys in San Antonio, Outstanding Lawyer by the San Antonio Business Journal, Top Family Law attorney in San Antonio, Top 10 Family Lawyers in Texas and 10 Best Attorneys, exceptional client service by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys.

July/August 2021

DOSSIER

Dossier Financial Planners

There are so many things to consider when thinking about managing money and reaching financial goals. Knowing where to start can be overwhelming. That’s where a financial advisor can help. It’s essential to do your research to determine what type of advisor you need and in what areas you need help - from retirement planning to debt repayment, insurance products, and estate planning - each person has different needs at different stages of life. The following pages introduce some of San Antonio’s top financial advisors who can help you figure out what’s most important to you - and then help you reach those goals. As A. A. Milne said, “Pay attention to where you are going because without meaning, you might get nowhere.” With a plan and a little help, you can reach your financial goals. July/August 2021

Dana M. Jones CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER TM - FINANCIAL ADVISOR What is your primary objective in working with clients? I believe that financial planning begins with listening and learning about each client’s values, objectives, and priorities. Once I have an understanding of their specific situation, I can make informed recommendations about retirement, investing, and estate planning. My objective is to develop and follow a sound plan that allows my clients to live their best life without undue sacrifice or too much exposure to risk. What do you love most about your career? As a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER TM practitioner with over a decade of experience, the ability to help people through all aspects of their financial life is what brings me the most joy and honor. Who is your ideal client? Allen Lakein once said, “Failure to plan is planning to fail.” I prefer to work with people who view planning and investing as necessary, and as a form of stewardship for their family. While I am happy to meet with anyone in an effort to help them get on the right path, my investment strategies hold a minimum of $250,000. My practice consists primarily of business owners, retirees, physicians, and other professionals. Regardless of your personal situation, you are welcome to contact my office for a consultation. How do you spend your time away from the office? I believe in education and like to stay involved in the community. Currently, I serve as a Board of Director of the UTSA Alumni Association and I am also a proud member of Hill Country Women in Business. My husband Kyle and I live in the Texas Hill Country. We enjoy outdoor activities, especially with our Boston Terrier, Brady.

Dana M. Jones, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER Financial Advisor 9311 San Pedro Ave., Suite 1200 San Antonio, Texas 78216 (210) 377-7714 Dana.Jones@wellsfargoadvisors.com home.wellsfargoadvisors.com/Dana.Jones

Investment and Insurance Products: NOT FDIC Insured / NO Bank Guarantee / MAY Lose Value

Wells Fargo Advisors is a trade name used by Wells Fargo Clearing Services, LLC, Member SIPC, a registered broker-dealer and non-bank affiliate of Wells Fargo & Company. This is a paid advertisement.

sawoman.com

Scroggins Advisory Strategies Jennifer & Wade Scroggins

How has your investment strategy changed over the past year? There’s a lot of opportunity right now to take action. I am excited to see what innovation is ahead as we come out of the crisis of the past year. Who is your ideal client or who can benefit from having a financial advisor? We specialize in wealth management and risk management for individuals and small businesses. This includes all investments, life, long term care, and disability insurance. What is your primary objective in working with clients? Helping clients build strategies toward meeting their goals is extremely rewarding, especially when it comes to retirement planning. Having retired over 250 families has allowed me to share my knowledge with others and help them learn how to navigate their future by anticipating needs they may not have thought about before. How would you describe your financial advising philosophy or your business culture? The foundation of what we do best is educate clients so they feel confident about making sound financial decisions. Our actions create the trust necessary to build life long relationships with our clients. We are firm believers in taking advantage of time and encouraging clients to start early. What do you love most about your job? We truly care, and have a way of eliminating your biggest fears. Whatever you wish to accomplish, we are your biggest advocate guiding you in this important journey in life. It’s not just about the money, it’s about the relationships we build along the way; it’s all about YOU! Scroggins Advisory Strategies 3522 Paesanos Pkwy , STE 100, San Antonio, Texas 78231| (210) 789-2003 www.scrogginsadvisorystrategies.com July/August 2021

National Financial Alliance Kristen Wagner, Financial Advisor & Partner

What is your primary objective in working with clients? I work with my clients to pursue their idea or vision of financial success. That success is different for every client, and every plan is customized based on the client’s goals and dreams. I get to know my clients on a personal level. I connect with their families and am a part of their life, not just a financial advisor. How do you get to know your clients and determine the best strategies to meet their financial goods? I use a specific questionnaire that directly addresses what keeps them up at night and what they need to understand their goals. I meet clients in a setting that is accommodating for them, whether they want to have a professional business dinner at their favorite restaurant, meet at their place of business (or ours!), or just have a cup of coffee at their home. I am always available and here to serve them. I utilize a few different software programs, including Morningstar, Retire Up, and E-money, to assist me in determining the best action plan for every client. How would you describe your financial advising philosophy or your business culture? Our company is based on the Five Fs: Faith, Family, Finance, Fitness, and Fun. It is not just a slogan; it is our way of life. We ethically align with our clients’ way of life and make sure their family is taken care of. A healthy mind, body, and spirit are vital to any financial plan and its success. What do you love most about your job? I have a passion for serving people, and I strive to help people reach their vision of financial success daily. My passion for helping people, combined with my skill in wealth management, creates an ideal environment for me. This motivates me to continue double-digit growth each year and provide a wonderful life for my family. National Financial Alliance 6800 Park Ten Blvd, Ste 130E , San Antonio, Texas 78213 | (210) 737-7800 www.tnfa.net NATIONAL FINANCIAL ALLIANCE, STRATEGIC FINANCIAL CONCEPTS AND LPL FINANCIAL ARE NOT AFFILIATED. Securities offered through LPL Financial, Member FINRA/SIPC. Investment Advice offered through Strategic Financial Concepts, LLC, a registered investment advisor. Strategic Financial Concepts, LLC and National Financial Alliance are separate entities from LPL Financial.

sawoman.com

Texas Financial Advisory Brooklynn Chandler Willy President & CEO

Texas Financial Advisory’s purpose is to help individuals take something complex and make it simple. We foster collaboration to deliver better outcomes and pursue a common goal - financial well-being. Our wealth advisors have dedicated focus to protect and enhance client’s wealth and are committed to being the client’s most valued partner. We thrive when we are creating personal connections and building dynamic relationships. At Texas Financial Advisory, we specialize in a holistic approach to wealth management and seek to optimize each and every aspect of the client’s financial strategy. We excel by creating an experience that includes a specialized system to aid in making informed and educated decisions. Advisors work closely with clients to define their financial goals, outline suitable paths for achievement and deliver their TFA Roadmap to Financial Wealth.

Photography David Teran

Texas Financial Advisory boasts a team of professionals with fifty-plus years of combined experiences, providing an array of services, but with a narrowed focus. We are thoroughly invested in being a firm that clients can trust to deliver optimized investment solutions and strategies. Join Brooklynn every Sunday at 10:00 A.M. on San Antonio’s #1 News Radio Station WOAI 1200 AM or at 1:00 P.M. on KTSA 550 AM. Each week, Brooklynn shares with the audience lessons she’s learned over 10 years of helping retirees and pre-retirees prepare for financialwell being. Texas Financial Advisory 20650 Stone Oak Pkwy , Ste 100, San Antonio, Texas 78258 | (210) 530-1292 texasfinancialadvisory.com

Investment advisory services are offered by Queen B Advisors, LLC dba Texas Financial Advisory. Insurance products are offered by Texas Financial Advisory. July/August 2021

PRIVATE SCHOOLS Sunshine Cottage

Cornerstone Christian Schools

Buckner Fanning School The Winston School

2021-2022 SAN ANTONIO PRIVATE SCHOOLS

Montessori Kids Universe Shavano

Saint Mary’s Hall 86

sawoman.com

Central Catholic High School

KNOW SAINT MARY’S HALL

Saint Mary’s Hall creates a culture of trust where every student is known – by faculty, each other, and in turn, themselves. SMH echoes the offerings of a liberal arts college with a rich, dynamic curriculum; passionate, expert faculty; extensive fine arts; and a competitive athletic program with unique sports offerings. Graduates go forth confidently armed with the skills, knowledge, and self-awareness needed to thrive in college and find fulfillment in life. Experience Saint Mary’s Hall. Attend a preview or take a tour: RSVP at www.smhall.org/admission www.smhall.org Saint Mary’s Hall does not discriminate in admission or educational programs against qualified students on the basis of race, color, sex, religion, sexual orientation, or national/ethnic origin.

Private School Education:

Finding the Right Fit for Future Success By Cathleen Lane

The past year brought tremendous change to every part of our lives, including how we look at our children’s education. With so much at stake, it’s vital to find the best fit for our children and our families. Private schools offer a wide range of options, from college-preparatory education to faith-based education to Spanish Immersion programs and programs for students with learning or physical challenges. No doubt, a child’s learning environment has a huge impact on how prepared they are for life. There are so many excellent private schools in and around San Antonio; you are sure to find a school that will help your child thrive and prepare for success in college and life.

Mission and values Private schools are traditionally founded on guiding principles, and these core values are woven throughout the school’s curriculum and daily activities. Many Private Schools state their core beliefs on their website and include a discussion of their values during the school tour and application process.

Curriculum Private Schools have the flexibility to offer a wide range of course selections so students can pursue

Teachers can create unique learning experiences to fit the class’s needs best and integrate multiple subjects into their lessons.

Small Class Size Small class sizes and low student/teacher ratios allow students to have more individual attention from teachers and interaction with other students. In addition, smaller school communities can help parents feel more connected to their child’s education and the school’s faculty and administration.

Extracurricular Activities Extracurricular programs offer students the opportunity to develop teamwork and become well-rounded leaders. Many private schools offer a variety of opportunities outside the classroom, from Athletics to Fine Arts and Speech & Debate. Private schools often have a comprehensive application process that usually begins with a school

tour and meeting with an admissions director. In addition, most schools offer tuition assistance, scholarships, and grants, so don’t rule out a private school simply because of the costs involved. A child’s education is about much more than grades - it’s about developing the character and skills to become a successful adult and a leader in their community. Each child and family is unique; private schools can fit what you are looking for to help your child reach their full potential. For more information on the schools in this section, please visit: mkushavano.com sa-ccs.org providencecatholicschool.net smhall.org cchs-satx.org bfsms.org sunshinecottage.org winston-sa.org

BUSINESS INSIGHT

Reducing Expenses to Help Your Business Grow By Shelby Mauldin

According to Benjamin Franklin, “a penny saved is a penny earned.” In other words, it’s just as beneficial to save money as it is to earn it. But anyone familiar with cost reduction knows that Franklin was wrong. In fact, a penny saved is significantly more valuable than a penny earned! One of the primary reasons for this is that “a penny earned” applies to the top line of a company’s revenue. Top line growth is all about the gross sales, the total money that comes in before paying overhead and expenses. But how much of that money does a business keep after accounting for their expenses? On the other hand, when “a penny saved” applies to the bottom line, the company’s net income and profitability increase. Since the company’s net income includes all business-related expenses, you can see how “a penny saved” on the bottom line is worth more than “a penny earned” on the top line. Increasing profitability is the value of cost reduction. And you might be surprised how many opportunities there are for your business to increase the bottom line by reducing expenses. The global COVID-19 pandemic exposed how vulnerable all small businesses are to sudden change. While many companies thrived, many of our favorite local establishments closed their doors for good. All small business owners experienced anxiety during these uncertain times, especially early in the pandemic. More than any other time, saving money on your bottom line is imperative. By reducing your

business expenses, you provide yourself with the flexibility to adapt to sudden changes. You also give yourself more of a safety net to try new things – something that small businesses have had to do to adapt quickly. Increasing revenue is difficult at the best of times, but it’s even more so when economic conditions are chaotic. Reducing expenses is a way to maintain financial stability when increasing revenue is especially difficult. It’s easy to take your operational costs for granted. Business service expenses are often seen as a necessary, if unfortunate, drain on your overall profits. But there’s usually room for negotiations on your business expenses, and there are professionals who can help you navigate them. Most people do not realize that many expense categories, such as telecom services, are open for negotiation. You don’t need to take your initial quote as the bottom line. Is there room to reduce the fees you pay when your customers swipe their credit cards through your terminals? Could you be paying for features that are redundant or ones you don’t use at all? How about your shipping expenses? Reducing your business expenses can be intimidating and very time-consuming. However, the potential impact that these reductions can have on your bottom line and, by extension, the stability and growth of your business, is significant. Properly optimized business expenses could mean the difference between letting employees go versus keeping them employed – not to mention being prepared for future bumps in the road.

If you are interested in speaking to a professional Cost Reduction Consultant on how you can save on your business expenses, do not hesitate to reach out to Shelby Mauldin at 210-202-1070 or by email at shelby.mauldin@schooleymitchell.com. Schooley Mitchell is the largest independent cost reduction consulting firm in North America. On average, we reduce essential business service expenses by 27-28% and have delivered over $360 million in documented savings for our clients to date. The best part is that Schooley Mitchell’s services are risk-free; any fees are contingent on finding savings.

sawoman.com

WOMEN ON THE MOVE

Emma Weber A recent graduate of St. Edward’s University, Emma Weber has a degree in Communication with a focus in PR and Advertising. After graduating early, Emma interned and worked part time for local small businesses before finding a home at Noisy Trumpet. As social media specialist, Emma is responsible for planning, implementing and monitoring social media strategy to increase brand awareness and improve marketing efforts for Noisy Trumpet’s impressive client roster. Emma looks forward to helping clients develop their social media presence in a creative and effective way.

Maria Martinez Crédito Real USA Business Capital welcomes Maria Martinez (CLU, CHFC) as the Director of Business Development. In this role she’s charged with expanding the company’s sales and business network across Texas. Maria is a bilingual leader in the community and a finance expert who works tirelessly to help businesses grow.

Amanda McChesney As the new San Antonio Credit Executive Senior Vice President at The Bank of San Antonio, Amanda will use her leadership and business acumen to oversee the credit analyst team, create/implement credit policies, and grant/extend credit facilities. She will continue to support the bank’s growth through a strong credit culture, providing local decisions and timely solutions for clients. Amanda serves on the board and finance committee for the San Antonio Public Library Foundation and is also a sustaining member for the Junior League of San Antonio.

Lauren Culp While most of us relied on Netflix and Carbs to sustain us during the Pandemic, Lauren Culp of Crandall & Associates Insurance choose to obtain her CEBS (Certified Employee Benefit Specialist) designation. This grueling credentialing encompasses five courses that build a total benefits perspective and partners with the Wharton School of Business. This dynamo is eager to redefine the Insurance experience. Lauren is looking to expand the line to include Compliance Management, Strategic Benefits Management, and Retirement Planning. Lauren aspires to take Crandall & Associates to dizzying heights of innovation.

Miriam Jesaijes Miriam joined San Antonio Woman magazine early this year as their new Creative Director – she is the driving force behind the great new look of this magazine. Miriam has been in publishing most of her life – she started as a Fashion editor at the biggest weekly magazine in the Netherlands. As a fashion editor and fashion stylist, she produced and styled fashion shoots across the globe. She then decided to become an independent fashion stylist so she could work for several magazines, applying her creativity to different target demographics. After emigrating to the US in 2015, she has found her next challenge at San Antonio Woman magazine. Congratulations to these amazing women making moves in their industries! 94

sawoman.com

Why United Texas?  Local decision making  Low rates  Loans for equipment, business vehicles and real estate, including investment real estate  Lines of credit and term loans  SBA Guaranteed Loans - we’re an SBA Preferred Lender P  Home Loans with a personal touch

Sharon Miller

Member Business Lending Ofﬁcer 5500 UTSA Boulevard 210.561.4582  sharonm@utxcu.com utxcu.com

MOMMY MATTERS

ummer urvival

Make Time for You, Because It’s Your Summer, Too

Oh yes, it’s here! Summer Break, a much-needed pause in learning for our kids to de-compress and have fun! Cue 90’s summer theme music *Summer, summer, summertime. Ooooh, summertime. Time to sit back and unwind.... (*record screech)

By Tracie Ross-Garcia Photography by Mariana Galvan 96

sawoman.com

Break? Unwind? Who, me? I don’t know about you, but summertime for most moms is not exactly what I would consider a “break.” A time that should be for rest and relaxation just feels like really long, very hot, days of coordinating summer camps, playdates, disrupted sleep schedules, wellness checkups, endless to-do lists, and if you’re lucky, a family vacation (that you will probably need a vacation from). The reality is, our children tend to demand more of our attention in this season. Raising children is hard work, y’all. Motherhood, though I wouldn’t trade it for the world, is relentless. It’s draining. I said what I said, not up for debate. But guess what? We get it done, often at the expense of caring for ourselves. Summer has its challenges, but if we are intentional about carving out time to relax and refresh while powering through, those beautiful sun-kissed kiddos will be better humans because of it. Regardless of what stage of motherhood you’re in, here are 3 ways every mom can keep their cup full and recharge this summer. 1. Daycation, Staycation... “Bae-cation” We love our kids but having time away is not only healthy, it’s necessary and totally normal. Take a daycation, or day trip, to drive somewhere easily accessible where you can get away from it all. No one calling you mom, interrupting your conversations, no major responsibilities for just a brief moment feels completely recharging. It’s also well deserved. This can be to a nearby winery (as close as Helotes, Spring Branch, and Fredericksburg), bookshop, antique store, or even a day spa near your neighborhood. You can travel solo or invite your best friends.

“Treat yourself, and leave the guilt behind.” If it’s within budget, splurge on an overnight getaway at a local hotel or resort, or even better, a weekend stay. This may be a good time to call in a favor with a trusted mom friend to do an overnight playdate with the kids while you reconnect and recharge with your bae (or significant other). Of course, be prepared to return the favor.

Whether it’s a few hours with friends or a whole night out with your spouse, a little time away makes a big difference. 2. Move Your Body Okay, before I lose you on this, I’m not suggesting to start marathon training or hours at the gym, but I strongly believe that movement is medicine. Even twenty minutes of low-impact movement does your mind and body good. Taking a walk around the neighborhood before the kids wake up or a quick yoga flow while they take a bath can do wonders to reduce stress and anxiety. While they splash around in the pool, jump in and take a couple of laps or freestyle some water aerobics, and they can even join in. It’s not so much the fitness, although if the arms look a little more toned in those summer tank tops, I’m here for it. Exercise is a great way to boost your mood, and if you make it a habit, you’ll start to feel you have more energy. 3. Schedule Downtime Be mindful about jam-packing your days with activity after activity. Allowing time to unwind is just as important for the kids as it is for you. Journaling, meditation, prayer, and short naps are all healthy ways to recharge mentally and physically. Give yourself space to breathe and gather your thoughts. Disregard the number of times the kids say, “I’m bored,” and let them figure out for themselves how to utilize their downtime. You might be surprised at how creative they can get. In our fast-paced world, downtime improves patience, and I don’t know a mom or child who can’t use a little more of that. Pencil in days this summer where you do absolutely nothing. I know it’s easier said than done, but prioritizing a break to recharge is critical for moms’ overall wellbeing. When we take care of ourselves, we can see the positive impact it has on our kids. That’s a win-win! Remember, it’s not just their summer, it’s your summer too. What are some things you do to recharge over the summer? We could all use more ideas!

Tracy Ross-Garcia is a wife, mom of 5, yoga instructor, and lifestyle coach. Her professional background in communications allows her to connect with women to help navigate parts of life that feel overwhelming or unclear. With proven tools and techniques, her clients gain focus and clarity, create success habits, and reach their goals. To connect, visit her website, www.tracygcoaching.com July/August 2021

NONPROFIT SPOTLIGHT

Lisa Hutchinson, SA Youth Site Coordinator

In the Spotlight:

SA Youth What is your role at your organization, and what does it entail? I may be a bit biased, but I believe I have the best role at SA Youth as a Site Coordinator in our Elementary Out-of-School Time (OST) Program! Our OST Program provides a safe place with engaging programming at times of the day when juvenile delinquency is the highest— after school and before parents get home from work. As Site Coordinator, I have the opportunity to give back to San Antonio by creating meaningful relationships with our students and their families. I get to assist them in their learning and emotional development through our curriculum, which includes STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts, and Mathematics), reading, math, and physical education activities. Describe your organization’s mission in your own words. At SA Youth, we strive to provide a fun and safe environment for our students to reach their maximum capabilities,

all while providing exceptional educational programming. We empower our students with the tools they need to develop their character, strengths, talents, and skills to exceed their potential, both personally and academically. We accomplish this through our programs, Out-of-School Time (OST) and Youth Development, a dropout recovery program that is designed to build competitive workforce skills for students ages sixteen to twenty-five. What is a common misconception about your organization or the mission you serve? Most people generally assume that we are just an afterschool program, but we are so much more than that! Our OST Team strives to connect with every student and their family members on a personal level, in many cases following the family all the way through the student’s high school graduation. We truly work hard to get to know our community so that we can provide much-needed support and resources whenever needed.

What does $100 support when giving to your organization? Every dollar counts at SA Youth, and $100 means so much to our organization! With $100, we can provide materials and supplies to support our curriculum and our classrooms. What is an upcoming way to get involved at SA Youth? Currently, our OST team is planning for Lemonade Day on July 15! One of our key initiatives is providing our students with skills beyond what the classroom can provide. Because of this, SA Youth was handpicked as the exclusive City Sponsor for San Antonio’s Lemonade Day. Lemonade Day gives our students the opportunity to learn about creating and executing a business plan, financial literacy, and developing a brand while building a lemonade stand! Anyone can invest in our student’s lemonade stands this summer by heading to our website:

www.sanantonioyouth.org

Nonprofits are the heartbeat of our community.

Nonprofits are the heartbeat of our community. Behind each organization is a dedicated team driven by a unique mission to provide a necessary service to our city. In fact, San Antonio is home to over 12,000 registered nonprofit organizations that employ almost 68,000 San Antonians each year (San Antonio Nonprofit Economic Impact Study, 2020). What are these organizations, and whom do they serve? Who are their employees, and what work do they do? Nonprofit Spotlight will shed light on a local organization, a member of their team, and a peek behind the curtain to understand what it takes to serve our community. Nonprofit Spotlight is curated by:

July/August 2021

HILL COUNTRY DESTINATIONS

Almost Heaven, The Devil’s Backbone Drive Remote Hill Country Backroads for an Angelic Adventure By Janis Turk

As crooked, gnarled, and twisted as the spine of the devil, a road called the Devil’s Backbone traces a towering ridge atop the Balcones Fault, offering one of the Hill Country’s most scenic drives. Here, a high two-lane road with breathtaking bends snakes its way through stands of cypress, cedar, juniper, and oak. Carved through chalky limestone cliffs, this long loop with stunning vistas stretches from Blanco to Wimberley and beyond. All the country hamlets and roads splintering from its spine make for a heavenly summer drive. Some claim the Devil’s Backbone was named for ghosts haunting its promontories and vales, but unless you take a sharp curve too quickly, it’s not scary. Head up Interstate 35 toward San Marcos and then exit left onto FM 12. Then stop at a hot spot where the devil would feel at home playing with fire. Wimberley Glass Works is Texas’ premier hand-blown glass and art studio, where artisans offer free glassblowing demonstrations using fire-spewing torches. They also sell colorful glass creations, like platters, barware, lighting, and more. From there, turn left onto FM 32 and look for the Devil’s Backbone Tavern up the road on the left. Stop for a cold one, or play the jukebox and a game of shuffleboard. Dollar bills dot the ceiling, and a rock on the old stone fireplace in back bears a spooky resemblance to a devil’s face. Next, stop at the Devil’s Backbone Overlook, a spectacular spot perfect for Instagram shots on the right-hand side of the road. Turn around on FM 32, and head back to turn left on FM 12, and head toward Wimberley, home to pie shops, cafes, antiques, boutiques, and historic stone buildings. A river runs through it. Rustic lodging, rambling river views, and cool water sports can also be found at Wimberley’s 7A Ranch, but its best-kept-secret is Pioneer Town. Stroll at high noon down the dirt streets of a place that looks like an Old West movie set, complete with a saloon, barbershop, post office, sheriff’s office/ jail, full-scale opera house, and ice cream shop (often open in summer for a cold treat). There’s even a building made of colorful bottles. Staying the night? Why not go “glamping,” or glamourous camping—no roughing it at all—at Sinya at Lone Man

100

sawoman.com

Creek? Inspired by a life-changing trip to Africa, Sinya is the dream-come-true of owner Lynn Gallimore, who fell in love with the luxe safari encampments she saw there. So, Gallimore brought to Texas the enchanting allure of safari life. Sinya is an actual African tent set on a platform on a high ridge overlooking a creek under starry skies. With the amenities of a fine resort hotel, including a big comfortable bed, air conditioning, fireplace, living areas, decks, an indoor bathroom with claw-footed tub, indoor and outdoor showers, a barbecue spot, hot tub, coffee bar, and more, Sinya is a place so magical, timeless, and serene it seems to draw the moon closer to it. At night, dine in nearby Driftwood. For Italian country fare, enjoy a Tuscan-style dinner overlooking vineyards at Trattoria Lisina next to Mandola’s Winery. Or sit at picnic tables under string lights and oak trees, or at booths inside, and eat at Hays City Store. Driftwood is also home to the ever-popular Salt Lick BBQ. Next, visit Desert Door Distillery, named “Number One Craft Distillery in America” by USA TODAY. Expertguided tastings help visitors discover the nuances of sotol, a Mexican liquor dubbed the “dangerously delicious cousin of tequila and mezcal.” Sample craft cocktails, nosh from a food truck, hear live music, and enjoy curated goods in the tasting room. Kids and dogs are welcome, say its ruggedly handsome owners, three military veterans who met in the University of Texas’ MBA program. Keep driving north. At Hwy 290W, turn left toward the town of Dripping Springs (or “Dripping” as locals call it). Check out the popular boutique Cowgirls & Lace, with jewelry, clothing, fabric, and home décor delights. The highlight of this trip is dinner at an extraordinary restaurant called Tillie’s at Camp Lucy. Set inside an authentic 19th-century Vietnamese town hall brought piece-by-piece to Texas, with towering inner 18th-century doors from Pakistan, all shipped and reassembled at a sprawling remote resort property, the restaurant is architecturally astonishing. It looks like an ancient temple or church, but Tillie’s full bar, pool, and patio simply prove that even transplanted treasures fare well in Texas. Its eclectic but simple menu will also wow foodies. Driftwood and Dripping Springs aren’t actually on the Devil’s Backbone, but start on it and drive that crooked road till it tempts you to move on, offering glimpses of heaven at every turn.

July/August 2021

101

Photography by Janis Turk

HILL COUNTRY CURATED

Our Hill Country Favorites:

Dreamland Dreamland is an outdoor entertainment and arts venue that features the world’s most extreme miniature golf course, art garden, pickleball courts, and two stateof-the-art music stages for incredible acts playing to audiences large and small. Dripping Springs, TX dreamlanddstx.com

WestCave Outdoor Discovery Center Founded in 1976 as Westcave Preserve, the mission of Westcave Outdoor Discovery Center is to inspire people to develop a lifelong practice of enjoying and protecting nature. We accomplish this through educational programs, collaborative alliances, and conservation of our beautiful 76-acre preserve. Dripping Springs, TX westcave.org 102

sawoman.com

Family day out!

Hamilton Pool Hamilton Pool is one of those places that will have you saying, “Wait, THIS is in Texas?!” And indeed it is! A short drive from Austin in Dripping Springs, TX is this beautiful nature preserve created by Hamilton creek cascading 50’ into a box canyon. But before you hop in your car, there are some things you need to know before you visit! Dripping Springs, TX parks.traviscountytx.gov/parks/hamilton-pool-preserve

Asante Treehouse Staying at Asante Lodging in Dripping Springs is truly a unique experience. The African inspired decor was beautiful! While staying at Asante, we booked the Machan, a treehouse with a bridge overlooking one of the feeders that the springbok feed from. With bamboo walls, thatched ceilings, and beautiful African inspired decor, you might forget you’re in Texas. Dripping Springs, TX stayasante.com

DINING

Brasserie

MON CHOU CHOU A Moveable Feast “If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris … then wherever you go for the rest of your life, it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast,” —Ernest Hemingway. By Janis Turk

Forgive me, Papa Hemingway, but I prefer to say, “If you’re lucky enough to have eaten in Paris… the memory of each meal stays with you.” For you needn’t live in France to experience the joy of French cooking. As a travel and food writer, cookbook photographer, and epicure, I’ve visited France more times than I can count, and like the French, I can be a bit fussy about food. After dining at so many enchanting bistros and brasseries, I’ve formed and fossilized opinions about what constitutes really good ones. So even when three native Frenchmen, all popular San Antonio restauranteurs, opened Brasserie Mon Chou Chou at Pearl last December, I was initially skeptical. But because of the European travel ban, I knew I wouldn’t be sliding into my favorite booth at Le Grand Colbert, Paris, anytime soon. So one Sunday, my husband and I dropped by Mon Chou Chou for lunch, figuring it’s the closest French restaurant to our home in Seguin. (Little-known fact: The name Seguin appears on the side of the Eiffel tower. True!). As I beheld Mon Chou Chou’s sidewalk tables, classic bistro chairs, and boxwood topiaries out front, I was transported in memory to Montparnasse. And by the time I stepped inside and saw a rolling cheese cart and a Carrara-topped cabinet stacked high with crusty bread, I was très impressionné (impressed!) Brasserie Mon Chou Chou is the well-designed and refined recipe of Chef Laurent Réa, Philippe Placé, and Jérôme 104

sawoman.com

Sérot, friends, food lovers who have known one another for nearly two decades and collaborated at several successful Southerleigh Hospitality Group eateries. From Strasbourg, Chartres, and Lyon, respectively, each is familiar with traditional French foods, artisan breads, flawless pastries, and fine wines. They knew steak frites (shoestring fries with perfectly seared steak), East Coast oysters, and French onion soup were sure to be crowd-pleasers—and they are. Intimidated by a French restaurant? Don’t be. You don’t have to like escargot to love this place. Although Mon Chou Chou may impress the Mademoiselle, it’s not posh, and you don’t need a passport. Brasseries in France often have white tablecloths, stained-glass ceilings, and chandeliers, but Mon Chou Chou is far less fussy: a perfect fit for Pearl. Like all authentic brasseries, it serves simple dishes from various regions in France and offers a full bar. From mid-morning to late night, the place is bustling and busy. With a bar by the entrance lit by gleaming brass French light fixtures, little round tables, and octagon-tile floors, its breezy ambience is Parisian but not pretentious. Bright and casual for coffee midmorning, sunny and lively at lunch, and elegant at night in low light, Mon Chou Chou is a moveable feast. Menu favorites include rotisserie chicken, beef tenderloin, a hamburger topped with gruyere cheese, lamb chops, mussels in white wine sauce, and an Alsatian treat: veal and pork sausages with potato puree. Sides include baked

macaroni and cheese, glazed baby carrots, and French green beans. Try a charcuterie board starter before diving into the rich lobster bisque topped with a poof of golden flaky pastry. Missing Paris on Bastille Day this July? Why not settle for a celebratory dinner at Mon Chou Chou, as we did, starting with classic cocktails, like a French 75 and a Sazerac, followed by the signature menu item: Sandwich au Fromage Raclette served tableside. If you order nothing else, get this. The server brings a half-wheel of cheese whose center has been melted until, scooped out, it cascades in glorious gooey wonder onto a baguette. Enjoy delightful dishes of salmon with Béarnaise sauce and branzino bathed in brown butter with capers. For dessert, try a lemon tart with fresh raspberries, Tarte Citron, and a coffee and chocolate and sea-salt caramel pot de crème, served with strong coffee. Sugar cubes wrapped in paper were marked with a simple logo, like everything else in the restaurant. (So French). A Texassized coffee mug, rather than a traditional cup and saucer, was the only touch that felt like a misstep. “Mon Chou Chou” is a French term of endearment meaning, “my sweet.” With “la vie en rose” blushcolored walls, glimmers of brass, gleams of white Carrara marble, and “come as you are” French confidence, Mon Chou Chou is SA’s newest sweet spot. It’s also just what stranded world travelers needed this year: a fabulous way to enjoy a taste of France without leaving Texas. A “moveable feast” refers to a holy day or feast day in the church year, like Easter, which falls annually on a different date, changing with the lunar calendar. Mon Chou Chou’s menu also moves with the seasons to serve the freshest fare, while remaining grounded in Old World tradition and the chef’s grandmother’s recipes. Brasserie Mon Chou Chou 312 Pearl Parkway, (210) 469-3743 BrasserieMonChouChou.com July/August 2021

105

SA CURATED: DINING

Our SA Favorites:

Comfort Cafe Comfort Cafe offers much more than breakfast and brunch favorites, specialty salads and sandwiches, burgers, coffee drinks, and desserts. A division of the SerenityStar peer-to-peer recovery program, they provide a community for addicts devoted to finding a personal path and discovering purpose in recovery. “Pay-what-you-can” proceeds benefit SerenityStar, giving back to the community! 5616 Bandera Rd and 2015 NE Loop 410

Jones Sausage & BBQ House Located on Martin Luther King Dr., this San Antonio staple has been serving up all of your BBQ favorites since 1995. House-made sausage, smoked meats, and all the fixin’s! Nothing fancy, just some real good eats you can enjoy to-go. We know you’ll want to go back for more! 2827 Martin Luther King Dr, Ste 3139

106

sawoman.com

Hidden Gems

NACO Mexican Eatery This unassuming food truck on the corner of Nacogdoches and 410 serves real Mexican chilaquiles, tortas, and tacos. We frequent this spot for lunch almost every week, we can’t get enough. Our favorites? Chilaquiles Verdes (taco or plate), and the spinach, avocado, and egg taco. Get there early - they close at 2! 2347 Nacogdoches Rd.

Brenda’s Burgers This family owned and operated restaurant, located near Lackland Air Force Base, has been a staple of the San Antonio Southside Community since 1988. Burgers, fries, chili cheese dogs, milkshakes, and more! Psst… Visit on Tuesday’s for tacos and chalupas. 3837 SW Military Dr.

Q&A

How far back does your connection to the art scene in San Antonio go? I grew up in San Antonio and my dad was a creative director. I was definitely inspired by him and his peers. I started going to CASSA (Communication Arts Society of San Antonio) events and seeing all these creative and fun artists at work. That was my earliest connection to “the scene.” It was the eighties.

You’ve been in business a long time and the gallery feels very fresh. What do you attribute that success to? Not getting in the way and embracing change. The business starts

to evolve and take on its own identity, but the biggest attribute to any success we have had is our salon-style hanging. It allows us to hang works of art that may not be for everyone, but that is a big part of the “fresh” ingredient.

You recently moved locations. How was that? As it turns out the art world can be pretty

engaging from six feet away. Basically the new location has giant windows and lots of traffic. We have our bright lights on a timer so you can window shop without ever walking in. We also placed a QR code on our door to access our hours and all the works of art, which we update each Sunday.

Who are your artists? They are from all over. Many of our artists have been with us since we

started fifteen years ago. Those are special relationships whether the market is hot or cold. I admire artists who paint through the highs and lows. I have always been attracted to artists where you can see that consistency in their career and their body of work.

Are you doing art shows? Not really, because we are not hanging an elaborate display for any

single artist. Each quarter we take an artist from our roster and lessen their work on our salon walls while we feature another, then that rotates. We also invite other galleries and artists to participate in our quarterly salons to keep our rotation fresh. We have hosted smaller 8 to 12 person groups and have really enjoyed the intimacy and engagement of small gatherings.

Tell us about your partnership with The St. Anthony Hotel? We have two partnerships within the hotel. The first, Gallery On the Park, is a covered loggia open for breakfast. The north facing windows overlooking Travis Park provide amazing natural light for viewing art. Our second partnership is called The Ballroom Gallery where a show is conceived and exhibited in the corridor adjacent to the ballrooms and Peacock Alley.

Robby Felder, Owner

2516 N. Main Avenue | San Antonio, Texas 78212 | @feldergallery | feldergallery.com | 361-944-0167

ART BEAT

Andrea ‘Vocab’ Sanderson Poet Laureate of San Antonio 2020-2023 Photography by Désirée Shelanskas

Describe what you do as San Antonio’s Poet Laureate. I help bring awareness to the literary arts in the community by creating events and initiatives. I teach creative writing workshops and write commissioned poems. For instance, I created Facebook writing groups for young adults 17 and under and one for adults 18 and up. I created a hashtag writing challenge. Every Wednesday, I have a writing prompt that I put out on social media through my residency with the Carver Community Cultural Center. What path led you to become the Poet Laureate? It’s been a dream of mine since I saw Maya Angelou read On the Pulse of Morning at Bill Clinton’s Inauguration in 1993. I know the other four Poets Laureate of San Antonio, Laurie Ann Guerrero, SA’s 2nd Poet Laureate is very near and dear to my heart. She invited me to her investiture ceremony, and from then on, I knew one day I would achieve this goal. I was nominated by three people who sent in a recommendation packet for me. I am grateful I was chosen. The city puts out a call on their website getcreativesanantonio.com; there is a list of requirements: 1. resume with bio 2. curriculum vitae 3. sample poems & 4. a recommendation letter. What has been the most memorable moment so far? I would say the mural, Elevated Melanin, that I painted around Travis Park with Centro de Artes was very life-changing. Who is your favorite poet or writer, and why? Maya Angelou is my favorite, and everything about her is amazing. She is a multidisciplinary artist, and her voice, tone, and point of view are pure alchemy to me. What poem or book affected you personally and why? I would say, The Bible. It’s really full of poetry, and I use it in my life every day.

Why is writing so important? Writing is a form that freedom takes on. Your pen is a powerful tool. Just look at Yelp as an example, lol! What inspires you in writing poetry? I am inspired by my zeal for people, music, and my desire to understand the world. What projects are you currently working on? I’m serving an artist residency at the Carver Community Cultural Center, and creating content. I’m filming poetry for video vignettes entitled The B.R.E.A.T.H.E. Series in collaboration with Tamara Adira and other artists. I am also creating my signature initiative The Echo Project for my city laureateship. I recently won a fellowship with The Academy of American Poets. The fellowship will allow me to bring workshops about oral history and performance celebrations to the San Antonio community. What’s next in your poetic journey? I want to become a full-time Teaching Artist, I want to travel more with my art forms, and I want to write a children’s book or two. What advice do you have for young people who want to express themselves through poetry? My advice is to keep everything you write. Never throw anything away! Sometimes you need to sit with something or leave it and come back to it. Find your tribe that will help you with your process and keep them close.

andreavocabsanderson.com, @vocabulous, www.facebook.com/VocabSanderson 110

sawoman.com

Courtsey of

ENTERTAINMENT

Voyage to the deep! Release Your Inner Aquanaut! Based on French author Jules Verne’s 1870 classic 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea, the exhibition brings to life the deepsea adventures of Captain Nemo, his fantastical Nautilus submarine, and the mythical world he inhabited. Traveling exhibit through September 25. thedoseum.org

Live Music Floore’s Country Store

Hold my beer and watch this featuring Randy Rogers and Wade Bowen. Ticket available at liveatfloores.com/events Tobin Center July 28: Black Violin July 31: Ozz and The Crüe August 1: Yngwie Malmsteen August 14: Fonseca and Andrés Cepeda Tickets available at tobincenter.org

Noches de Frida Thursdays, through August 26 | 6 – 9 p.m. San Antonio Botanical Garden’s popular Summer Nights event returns with a Frida Kahlo twist! Enjoy extended Thursday night hours with docent-guided and self-guided tours of the new Frida Kahlo Oasis exhibition as well as beautiful bloom displays throughout the rest of the

The Rustic Free live music 7 days a week! View the full music calendar at therustic.com/musicevents/ #san_antonio

Botanical Garden. Food and drinks will be available for purchase, including cash bars and specially prepared picnic baskets and performances by local DJs. Guests are welcomed to bring lawn chairs and blankets. sabot.org

1964 The Tribute Saturday, August 21, 2021, 7:00 p.m. The Beatles toured the world in the early 1960s, but now only a precious few remain who actually saw them LIVE and felt the “mania” that brought them to world acclaim. “1964” meticulously re-creates the “MAGIC” of those LIVE Beatles’ performances with artful precision and unerring accuracy. themajestic.com

July/August 2021

111

WEDDING

The best is yet to come! Wedding Date March 27, 2021 Mr. & Mrs. Clark Victoria Miner, Will Clark Photographer: Tim Laielli Videographer: Dan Galvan Venue: The Historic Sunset Station Wedding Dress: Marry Go Round, Houston, TX Grooms Tuxedo: Calvin Klein Engagement Ring: Charles S Nacol Jewelry Co. Wedding Bands: Bride - Lily & Dahlia Groom - Charles S Nacol Jewelry Co Bridesmaids Dresses: BHLDN & Dillard’s Hair and Makeup: A Flawless Image Planner: Debra Reece Events Bar & Catering: Box Street Social Florist: Oakleaf Cake: Pink Flamingo Rentals: Table Talk DJ / Band: Ceremony - Valley Strings trio Cocktail Hour - Nick Schneider Reception - Cedar & Oak Entertainment

112

sawoman.com

Mr. & Mrs. Clark What was the most memorable moment of your wedding day? The ceremony was truly amazing. The feeling when I first laid eyes on Will as I walked down the aisle is something I will cherish for the rest of my life. Our pastor incorporated the history of the train station into the homily while Will held my hands. What was the most stressful part of your wedding day? On the wedding day, the venue coordinator called me to tell me the AC did not work and suggested relocating the entire ceremony and reception into a small room in another building. With the support and quick thinking of Will, my sister, the maid-ofhonor, and Debra Reece, our wedding planner, we were able to get it resolved and have the wedding in the dream room I had planned. Tell us about your Honeymoon! We stayed at Zoetry Agua in the Dominican Republic. The resort gave us the total honeymoon experience with breakfast in bed, spa days, horseback riding at sunset, sail boating, and a private dinner on the beach with our own musician. If you had to do it all again, would you change any part of your wedding? Planning a wedding during a pandemic was very stressful, and many things went wrong, including a trip to the ER two days before the wedding, but I would not change a thing. All the hiccups along the way put what is most important into perspective. We asked our videographer, Dan Galvan, to do an “uncle with a camcorder documentary-style” video, so it includes a lot of what went wrong, which is funny to look back on. What was your first dance song, and why is it significant? Lovely Day by Bill Withers became our song when Will surprised me with a trip to Canyon Lake for my birthday, where we stayed at the cutest B&B. Upon arrival, our Parisian-style room was filled with champagne and two dozen roses. We had a private hot tub on our balcony overlooking the lake, and it turned out to be the most romantic weekend, so naturally, we were playing a lot of Bill Withers. The song Lovely Day came on the playlist while we were relaxing in the hot tub, and we knew then that it was our song. Will continued the surprise with tickets to Paris, where he ultimately proposed in front of the Eiffel tower. July/August 2021

113

FINAL THOUGHTS

Painting by:

Zelime Matthews, ”Local Color” acrylic on Canvas, 36” x 36”

The Surge Surge of Electric. Stimulate me with vivacious colors. Your charisma infuses my skin. I burn from the richness of scarlet swimming in my veins. The dampness of blues embodied in every ounce of how we groove. Lavish as the dew sweeping across the skin of the earth. Tell me one more time how lightning struck the day we met; and I will whisper wonders into your earlobe at the dinner table. Your posture changes when I speak to you. The sparks move from your pupils to your grin. I know we are in for a decadent evening. Poem by Andrea “Vocab” Sanderson, San Antonio Poet Laureate

Photo of painting courtesy of

Hunt Gallery 4225 McCullough Ave. San Antonio, TX 78212 (210) 822-6527 114

sawoman.com

San Antonio Woman July / August 2021

Articles inside

Dining: Brasserie MON CHOU CHOU

Art Beat

Hill Country Curated

Hill Country Destinations

Mommy Matters

Women on the Move

Business Insights

Nonprofit Spotlight: SA Youth

From Fertility to Obstetrics

HPV Vaccination

Special Section: Private Schools

Hormones & Hope

Business Matters: Business

The Greehey Children’s Cancer Research Center

Role Model

At Home Extra

Guy to Know

Spotlight: Carrie Cooper, OnPoint Premier

Preparing Your Daughter for Her First GYN Exam

Beauty