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“Little Kid, Big City” Mom

Beth Beckman on Why She Loves New York

Coping in the age of COVID Tips for kids and parents

It’s time to visit the Empire State Building!

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On September 14th, Oakwood launches the Fall semester! With health and safety our overarching policy, we welcome students, boarding and day, grades 5-12, for our 5-day, in-person programming, including academic and extracurricular. Protocols meet and exceed all NYS health and safety standards and guidelines. • Staﬀ fully trained to engage students both in-person and remotely. Ample classroom and socially distanced instructional spaces in multiple outdoor classroom locations and newly constructed interior classrooms • SEL (Social & Emotional Learning) integrated into programming; full-time school counselors to support students in- and outside the classroom • Social justice, diversity, equity and inclusion central to community For complete details about our Health & Safety Protocols, and 2020 life at Oakwood, go to: OakwoodFriends.org

Join our Virtual Open Houses Tues Sept 29 • 7:00 PM and Tues Oct 13 • 7:00 PM Upper School Day & Boarding Programs (5 and 7-day) Middle School Day Program 22 Spackenkill Road, Poughkeepsie, NY For more info or to join us, write or call: admissions@oakwoodfriends.org (845) 462-4200

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FEATURES 12 | Back To School Our roundup of ready-made kids’ lunches 34| Health Check out these eight products for back-to-school wellness for mom 36 | Style We chatted with Alexis Kristiana’s on her Black-owned vintage online shop Liquid Gold Vintage 48 | Beth Beckman: Mom in the Know Beth Beckman, founder of Little Kid, Big City, and co-founder of FOMOfeed Kids on the city she loves!

54 | Family Day Out Our roundup of the farms open during COVID-19 for fall apple picking

24 | Home Creating a homeschool nook with Decorist for Bed Bath & Beyond

58 | Family Fun We have all the details on visiting the iconic Empire State Building

44 | Ask The Expert Tips for parents and kids on how to cope with emotions as we head back to school in the age of COVID-19

Stories & columns 6 | Editor’s Note September New York, Baby 8 | Mom Stories Why I am sending my Autistic son to school 16 | Real Estate Eye on the Suburbs

Directories 28 | Activities & Classes 38 | Education Directory

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Editor’s Note

NewYorkFamily.com Publisher: Clifford Luster Executive Editor: Donna Duarte-Ladd Digital Editor: Katarina Avendaño Senior Adviser: Susan Weiss Digital Director: Erik Bliss Partnership Managers: Erin Brof, Mary Cassidy, Shelli Goldberg-Peck Ad Operations Manager: Rosalia Bobé Art Director: Leah Mitch Web Developer: Sylvan Migdal Graphic Designers: Arthur Arutyunov, Connie Sulsenti

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New York, Baby! We are heading back to school. And yes, for the millionth time, it is different, weird, bizarre, and hard — it has been really challenging in many ways. Some of your friends are moving away, and we get it. If this period has taught us anything, we all have to do what is best for our families. No judgments. What many of us do know about New York; it is a tough city to shake off. Sure, things are whacky right now, but this is a resilient city. So this month we have answers. Yes, we are providing solutions where we can. Wondering what vitamins and tonics can be helpful this year? Check out Back to School Wellness for Mom (page 34). As for lunchtime for our remote school kids, we have Ready-Made Kids’ Lunches (page 12). While many of us are taking deep breaths

while we enter into a historic school year, The Emotional Scientist (page 44), Dr. Marc Brackett shares how we and our kids can cope in the time of COVID-19. And let’s not forget that Fall is around the corner, and we have a list of the best Fall Apple Picking (page 54) in New York. Lastly, as we go into this new school year, we want you to know all that this city offers. This month’s cover mom, Beth Beckman, of Little Kid, Big City and Fomofeed Kids tends to quietly stay out of her gorgeous photos and posts, but we managed to capture her at the iconic Empire State Building (page 58). And in her cover feature Mom In The Know (page 48) she shares on her new book and all the spots we can enjoy in and around NYC. Donna Ladd Executive Editor

Editorial Contributors: Jana Beauchamp, Courtney Ingalls, Regan Mies, Mia Salas Editorial Interns: Jenna Fanelli, Katrina Makayan, Marta Rybczynski

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Why I’m Sending My Autistic Son to School When it comes to school plans, my choices are very limited By Donna Duarte-LaDD

ince coronavirus entered the hemisphere, I have been walking a tight rope when it comes to my child’s special needs. The first two months of the COVID shutdown, my four-year-old son regressed in severe extremities. Within weeks of quarantine, he ended up in the hospital, was diagnosed with a compulsive disorder, and I was labeled by the very person I chose to advocate for him a failure as a mother (this is another story, and this person has since been replaced). Never mind, he is on the ASD spectrum, and the doctors (who were saints) explained how his compulsion led us to the hospital. It was on me, not my husband, who also parents our children. The mother is the one who is expected to be the ‘super’ parent. I have now labeled this time as one of the roughest periods of my life. And I’m not alone. Stat news recently shared that “Years ago, a University of Wisconsin-Madison study showed that autism mothers experience levels of stress comparable to those of combat soldiers — and that’s without a global pandemic.” Yikes. My child tends to be in his bubble, happily, but as social interaction is necessary for all children’s growth, it is especially crucial for children with Autism. After the hospital stay, quarantine, and negative COVID tests, my son went to daycare during the school break in the hope that socialization would

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help with his developmental regression. He exhausted the staff. I was politely told not to return; the daycare workers were unable to ‘handle’ him. Many parents with special needs kids hear these words more often then we’d prefer. The truth is he is not a lot to handle; the daycare workers were not equipped or educated in special needs to understand a child with autism. I have learned not to take it personally. Most children have to find the right school fit, and during a pandemic, watching a child with special needs is pretty extra. When it comes to kids with special needs, it takes a team of experts to teach the child. A strong squad sees his/ her strengths and builds on them to make this beautiful human’s life, one of value. We all know as parents that having a teacher that ‘gets’ our kid means we are going to have a great school year. However, our child health trumps even a good school experience in the time of COVID. We all have had to decide how to proceed with our children’s education here in New York. When it comes to returning to school and sending my son out in COVID, there are no pods or yurts where my son can safely learn. After speaking to my son’s IEP coordinator and teachers regarding going back to school — the decision was as an overwhelming yes for this is the appropriate route for us to take. Fortunately, my son is in a small class that will be even smaller this year. I do not foresee any crowded hallways such as the viral tweet that Georgia student Hannah Anderson shared. Not cool, North Paulding High School! So in a few weeks, most of our kids will either be remote or blended learning. And the gist of it all is I have no judgment on how a parent decides their child’s educated path this school year. What I do know is when you or I see parents sending their kids to school in the next few weeks, or heading to their ‘pod’ know we are all genuinely doing the best we can. This is not ideal for anyone; let’s work on being there for each other, judgment aside.

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he German American School was founded in 1851 by refugees from Germany fleeing political persecution following the revolutions that swept Europe in 1848. Their aim was to teach German to the children of their immigrant community as well as help to maintain a link to the motherland. The original German-American School taught reading, writing, singing and German history. Between 1859-1898, the school had as many as 600 pupils who learned their lessons in classrooms on Orchard Street. The first President of the German American School in 1892 was none other than famed piano manufacturer William Steinway, and the goal of the school at the time was to offer free supplemental education to gifted, but financially disadvantaged immigrants. By 1910, it was common for New York Public Schools to offer German instruction, and enrollment

in the German American School declined. In 1911, the German American School was officially recognized by the New York State Board of Regents, and to this day, the School offers a “Regents” diploma upon completion of the 10th Grade, before continuing to Advanced Placement classes. The impact of World War I and World War II led to a decline in German study, but with the strong support of parents, the German American School maintained its presence in the city and even grew its student body. The School started a lending library, dropped the singing, and added geography and the study of literature. By 1985, the German American School was ready to adjust its approach to serve a broader population, and the focus changed from the children of German immigrants, to any student from First Grade through 10th Grade eager to learn German.

The School now reflects New York’s amazing ethnic diversity and has a student body who value the impact that being bilingual will have on their growth and economic future. This means that the School uses English in the classroom when necessary, especially in the lower grades. German -American School has 200 children enrolled in its three locations: Manhattan, Garden City and Franklin Square and has responded to the pandemic by offering online instruction this year. (classes are on Mondays, Tuesdays, or Fridays). Even with the current challenges the school is remaining true to its original mission: to provide German instruction at an affordable price. To find out more information about German-American School’s programs please visit german-american-school.org or call 212-787-7543.

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Ready-Made Kids’ Lunches No matter where your kids are doing their learning, we’ve rounded up some easy meals By Jenna Fanelli & Donna Duarte-laDD

e know you keep hearing it over and over again. This school year is going to be different. It is the ‘new normal.’ And parents are amazing; we adapt, we make it work. And whether your kids are participating in blended learning or remote — the kids’ lunchtime in some form is on us. So, we’ve rounded up some great ready-made kids’ lunches and snacks: some take just a minute to heat up at home, and others that can come ready to eat. The best part — these are kid-tested and approved! *Please keep in mind that not all products may be Tree nut, milk, wheatfree, please read the packaging before purchasing.

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In-Store ReadyMade Lunches Most schools are closing the cafeteria, meaning no hot lunches. For some kids, they are going to be required to eat at their desks. If your child is at one of these public schools, they can do a grab-and-go lunch. And most schools have gotten creative, offering meal kits and deliciously nutritious meals. However, kids often get bored about school lunch, even during preCOVID times, and these meals are great to add to the school lunch mix, whether at home or in the classroom. If you are home, these are easy meals that require no heating or fast heating. If you are dealing with multiple kids or working remotely and need to be time-efficient, these are affordable meals to feed the kids this year.

Good & Gather™Lunch Kit Target’s in house brand of lunch kits offer yummy lunch kits offering Smoked Turkey & Cheddar Cheese and Uncured Ham & Cheddar Cheese Lunch Kit, to name a few kids’ favorites. The turkey is raised without antibiotics and growth hormones, and the ham has no added nitrates or nitrites, making this an easy, healthy lunch choice you can feel good about. Price: $2.79-$2.99

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Lunchables Lunchables has always been a kid-friendly favorite. They’re available at most grocery stores, easy and fun, and there are great options to choose from offering a multitude of offerings such as Lunchables with Juice, Lunchables Uploaded, Lunchables Bruncheables, and more. From chicken kabobs to Extra Chessy Pizza, there are many options for the pickiest of kids this school year. Price: $2.69- $3.79

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Kid Cuisine Kid Cuisine meals can be heated in the microwave or oven and feature longtime favorite amongst ready-made kids’ lunches such as Bikini Bottom Chicken Breast Nuggets Meal, which features breaded, white meat chicken for a slam dunk meal your little one will enjoy. Each frozen meal comes with macaroni and cheese, corn, and vanilla pudding with graham sprinkles on top. Price: $1.98

Ready-Made Lunches f�r Delivery Listen, we all want to be able to pick the herbs from the garden and bread the chicken into the nuggets ourselves. But we’re busy! Delivery meals are yes, an extravagance, but we found two services that provide nutritious meals that not only the kids will love, but so will the parents. Also, from our research, these plans were cost-effective, and meals were well thought out, just like moms!

Yumble Yumble is quite aware of its audience. The meals are delivered in a fun box have cool names like Class Cheese Ravioli, Say Cheese! Gluten-Free Chicken Nuggets and more. But they also know what parents want, which is high-quality meals that mom doesn’t have time to make. Meals such as the Class Cheese Ravioli, Say Cheese! Gluten-Free Chicken Nuggets come in a chef-crafted tomato sauce that is packed with pureed veggies and lentils to give a boost of Vitamins A, C, and E, and features a side of green beans. Refreshing tricky recipe add-ons that mom (or dad!) does on the sly for her dishes are part of these meals; expect to find their signature hiddenveggies cauliflower puree cheese sauce. Meals are microwavable and ready in 60-90 seconds! Price: Starting at $5.99/meal

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Eye on the Suburbs Family-friendly towns to check out now! By Serena norr

oving to the suburbs is something that’s always on the mind of New York City parents. While there are so many options, it can be challenging to figure out the right town for your family that’s suitable for your needs and budget. It’s no easy feat, but we’re excited to share insight from several trusted real estate agents about some of the hottest suburbs for families to relocate to right outside of NYC. Discover more below:

Westfield, NeW Jersey A classic town for modern families, Westfield is renowned for its charming downtown area, excellent school system, and convenient commute via train or bus to New York City. This includes a bustling (and walkable!) downtown has a ton of shopping and dining options Frank Isoldi with 450 stores, restaurants, and upscale boutiques. Westfield is also known for their prestigious school system with 10 public schools and tons of amenities with access to 211 acres of parks, golf courses, and recreational facilities. The area also offers buyers picturesque homes that range in style from Victorian to Colonial-style as well as modern homes. To find your dream home in Westfield, New Jersey reach out to Frank D. Isoldi, a broker sales associate affiliated with the Westfield East office of Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage, who has been working to help families for 14 years. A lifelong resident and second-generation native of Westfield, Frank can help families find exactly what they are looking for and answer any questions they may have about the area.

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Montclair/ Glen ridGe, new Jersey For classic homes dating from the late 1800’s to 1930’s (and modern additions), look no further than Montclair and Glen Ridge, New Jersey. Renowned for their treelined streets, parks and vibrant Amy Owens downtown area with restaurants, galleries, live music and special events, Montclair and Glen Ridge have excellent public schools and are a short 30 to 50 minutes to Penn Station via the Midtown Direct train lines or bus options to Port Authority. For assistance with this exciting move, buyers can reach out to Amy Owens of Keller Williams who has been the go-to for all things real estate, specializing in New Jersey commuter towns since 2003. Formerly a Garment Center Executive and Upper West Side Resident, Amy and her family moved to Glen Ridge in 2002 and have since become an active member and proponent of her community. She also has first-hand knowledge of the home restoration process having restored an 1860’s Victorian as well as a 1907 Craftsman Tudor in Glen Ridge. Amy noted, “My attention to details and to motivating all parties makes me

Keller Williams successful as a realtor. I enjoy taking care of the extras for my clients, whether it’s meeting with a contractor, hiring a cleaning staff or helping to stage a property for sale.” In addition to buying, Amy and her team also has relationships with investors, contractors, tradesmen and local connections which can be a great benefit to buyers and sellers. amy owens: 201-396-2927 / amy@amyowensteam.com

Maplewood, new Jersey Maplewood has been a popular relocation town for former city dwellers that is renowned for being within close proximity to NYC. The charming town is also home to several parks and a lively downtown filled with restaurants, shops, bakeries, and coffee shops. The schools are also excellent Caroline Farnsworth with six public schools in the district. And for commuters, the time from NYC to Maplewood can’t be beat where it is one of the fastest direct train rides into New York City and only 15 minutes to the Newark International airport! When looking for a home, reach out to Caroline Farnsworth of Coldwell Banker in Maplewood, NJ. A resident of 15 years in Northern New Jersey, she will work with buyers to help them find the best home for their families based on their needs and budget. And her resume surely shows her illustrious accomplishments, including the New Jersey Association of Realtors Circle of Excellence Award, the Top Sales Agent in her office for four years, and being the recipient of the Five Star Agent Award.

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Katonah, new YorK The Westchester real estate market is particularly attractive right now with Katonah, New York being one of the hottest areas to buy. This charming hamlet is home to numerous restaurants, a bookstore, small shops, and art galleries. The town also hosts numerous community events like a stacey Pinkas community art stroll where patrons come out and enjoy a sip and shop in the town as well as the Katonah carnival and parade, to name a few events. Schools in Katonah are part of the Katonah-Lewisboro School District that includes five public schools. Stacey Pinkas of Douglas Elliman is your go-to agent to help you find your new home in Katonah. “I believe that support and education are key when going through the intricate, emotional undertaking of buying or selling a home. I pride myself on presenting a wealth of information to my clients, which I explain in understandable terms so they can make the best choice for their particular needs and situation,” she stated. She also stated that homes are moving quickly with top amenities buyers being a pool, home office or zoom room, and home gym. She also has first-hand experience with having made the

256 Mt Holly Rd, Katonah, NY, Douglas elliman leap from the Upper East Side to Westchester only five years ago. During this process, she learned more about the Westchester real estate market, and specifically what the area offers for families. She stated, “I was in the same position as many families in NYC, who needed more space as our son’s toys and equipment began to take over our entire apartment. Having not known the area, my husband and I would take trips up here on the weekends to explore the towns that sparked our interest. We’d go to the parks and playgrounds, enjoy the restaurants, and drive the communities to see where the schools and train stations were.” Stacey Pinkas:- 914-273-1001 / stacey.pinkas@elliman.com

Garden CitY, LonG iSLand, nY A village in Nassau County, Garden City is one of the most affluent and prestigious areas to live on Long Island. This modern village is home to seven public schools, including two elementary schools as well as many restaurants, pubs, stores, and parks. Peter Diaz Peter Diaz of Keller Williams Realty can help families find the right home as a real estate specialist in Nassau County with a primary focus on Garden City (his current hometown) as well as Manhasset and Rockville Centre. After selling real estate in NYC and Brooklyn, Peter and his family made the move to the suburbs and understands the frustrations and many challenges that come with going from NYC to Long Island. Throughout his process, he makes sure that his clients have the correct “power partners” (i.e mortgage bankers, attorneys, inspectors, contractors etc) to ensure that the transition and home buying process is both smooth and efficient. Currently, Peter has a beauty in Garden City at 114 5th Avenue. This classic colonial home features stunning designer

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114 5th st., Garden City, NY, Keller Williams Realty details throughout its nine rooms and three floors of living space. Prospective buyers will also love its sun-soaked living room, contemporary eat-in kitchen, recreation room, picturesque backyard, and hardwood flooring--not to mention its ample space with five bedrooms and 3.5 bathrooms on .29 acres. Peter diaz: 516-642-9881 / pdiaz@kw.com

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Pelham, New York Around 30 minutes from Manhattan, Pelham is made up of two sections: Pelham Village and Pelham Manor that’s a great option for families who want to live close to the city while still being in the suburbs. The oldest and the smallest town in Westchester, sona Davidian Pelham is located on the Long Island Sound on the southernmost border covering 2.45 square miles. It’s close proximity to NYC makes it a 29-minute ride to Grand Central Station and easy access to all of the major highways. The area also offers families ample housing options, including impressive older and newer homes. Many families find the area favorable as you can walk everywhere and enjoy a bustling downtown filled with ellen Hennessy shops and restaurants. Sona Davidian of McClellan Sotheby’s Realty Pelham is incredibly proud of Pelham’s excellent award-winning public school system, including four elementary schools, one middle school, and one high school. Pelham also has numerous community organizations, sports activities, cultural institutions, and various recreational opportunities for families and kids of all ages. Sona is also a Pelham resident and mother to three daughters who all attended Pelham school where they academically strived. When looking to buy in Pelham, Sona will do everything she can to find your dream home. She noted, “In 2008 we were invited to join the prestigious Sotheby’s International Realty brand as the exclusive agent for Pelham. We now have extensive global connections and real estate partners throughout the world.”

207 Wolfs lane, Pelham, NY, McClellan sotheby’s Realty Pelham Ellen Hennessey of Sotheby’s International Realty is another fantastic agent to work with. She works very closely with her clients to make the experience efficient, pleasant, and satisfying. She particularly loves working with first-time buyers as she works to guide them through every step of the process. Additionally, she is a longtime resident of Pelham who is also a mother of three children who have gone through the Pelham schools. Currently, Ellen and Sona have a listing of a gorgeous renovated Victorian home with ample sunshine radiating in. Within walking distance to Blue Ribbon schools, Metro-North, the Town, and playgrounds. With almost 1/2 acre, a large screened porch, and a slate patio with a huge landscaped yard, this is a forever home. Always wanted a mudroom? This house features a mudroom, laundry, and powder room located on the 1st floor-perfect home for a family. Sona Davidian: 914-738-5250 / Sona.davidian@sothebysrealty.com ellen hennessy: 914 262-3210 / ellen.hennessey@sothebysrealty.com

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How to Create a Homeschool Nook Expert tips on how to transform even the smallest area into your kids’ new learning space BY DONNA DUARTE�LADD

ike most parents, when the COVID-19 quarantine first started, I threw together makeshift spaces for the kids thinking (like most of you) remote would be temporary. Soon these areas turned into borrowed furniture from neighbors, and although there are more significant worries in the world right now, the area started to feel a bit dreary. And like many of you, I have accepted that remote life may be part of our lives at least for another year, and it was time to make the kid’s school nook permanent. To save my sanity, I reached out to Decorist for Bed Bath & Beyond. Through Bed Bath & Beyond — Decorist offers its services at $199 per room. As a creative person, I am the first to admit it is tough to let go of decor control, especially with my youngest son being

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autistic. Having to explain to the Decorist team that my four-year-old likes to nibble on plants, loves outer space, and gravitates towards strong design felt like a gamble. Like here you go...welcome to my eclectic tribe... good luck. So how did Decorist designer Mikayla Keating do? Superb. While unpacking the boxes of goods, I felt this former preschool teacher turn interior designer grasped not only the kids’ needs but mine. Both my kids love the new nook, especially the youngest, who is drawn in by the vibrant art and pieces like a comfortable chair and a pouf for when break time calls. Decorist designer Mikayla Keating shares helpful tips when incorporating a homeschool nook in your home space: Do you feel that having a space designated

for your child’s learning is important? Yes! Having a designated space helps your child focus and be ready to learn. When setting up a school nook, what should a parent look for? As you know, many New York parents are tight for space to begin with. What is the best way to go about creating this space? Look for a space that is quiet, in a corner, or has good lighting. The nook does not have to be large, but a place where your child can sit down and feel comfortable. A simple desk & comfy desk chair are all you need to create a school nook. When you work on design projects for clients, what do you keep in mind, regarding their space? I always keep in mind how they will

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be using the space day to day. Apart from creating something that they love, I want to create something that is functional for their everyday needs. How can you design a homeschooling space for your child that blends into your home decor without spending a fortune? I suggest choosing pieces that can be multifunctional like a storage side table or coffee table. Adding a small desk with some storage next to or above it is an easy way to create a designated space without spending a fortune. When is a child-size or adult size desk appropriate? (At what size/age do they graduate to a full-size desk?) When choosing a desk size, it is best to select one based on your child’s size. The desk should be about 8 inches from the seat of the chair to promote good posture. In most cases, the best time to upgrade to a full-size desk is when your child is in their preteens. Is the chair choice important? Should it be a proper chair, or can it be a pouf or something less traditional? Your chair choice is very important. It needs to be a proper chair since this helps children concentrate and promotes good posture. The chair should allow your child to sit with both feet flat on the floor, and the top of the desk should be about 8 inches from the top of the seat. What about lighting? Is it necessary to add a lamp? Good lighting is important, as well. Your child will be less likely to strain their eyes and will help them focus. If you are able to, set up your school nook by a window for natural light. What types of things make space personal for a child? How can you make it special for them? Accessories and artwork are a great way to make the space feel special for your child. Add a fun pencil holder or desk organizer to add some personality to the desk. A soft rug added under the desk will also help your child feel like it is their own space. I also suggest adding a fun weekly calendar on the wall by the desk to help your child keep track of their assignments. What are the must-haves for the desk? (i.e. notepads, pencil cup, pencil sharpener, etc.)

Decorist designer Mikayla Keating created a learning nook with vibrant art and comfortable seating. My must-haves for any desk are a pencil cup, a desk lamp, magazine file for loose papers, and sticky notes. Credits: • Marmalade™ Jensen Desk, $299.99 • Marmalade™ Jensen Accent Chair in White, $79.99 • iCanvas Astronaut II 40”x26” Canvas Wall Art, $125.99 • Lorena Canals Milky Way 4’7 x 6’7 Washable Area Rug in Black/White, $299.99 • Marmalade™ Brenner Table Lamp in Grey/Natural, $49.99 • Taylor Madison Designs® Rectangular Natural Braided Maize Basket with

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Seagrass Stripes, $64.99 • Nearly Natural 18-Inch Artificial Sansevieria with Ceramic Planter, $59.99 • Surya Desoto Pouf in Tan, $178.99

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Languages China Institute 212-744-8181,ext. 143 children@chinainstitute.org Learn a new language and experience a new culture at China Institute’s School of Chinese Studies! For more than 80 years, the School has taught children as young as 18 months to begin learning Mandarin Chinese language through fun, engaging, and culturally immersive lessons. Our curriculum builds a solid foundation for students to gain linguistic skills, deepen cross-cultural competence, and pursue life with an open mind. Our dynamic and dedicated educators are specifically trained in early childhood education and teaching Chinese, and are devoted to furthering the personal growth of each and every student. Join us online this Fall!

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have enabled children to learn la bella lingua of Italy in an interactive, fun and nurturing environment for over fifteen years. Now they are offering students the opportunity to learn about Italian language and culture online, through fun lessons, games and activities. Designed by their dedicated and experienced native Italian educators, their online classes can be enjoyed by children and teens ages 2-16, that are divided into age groups. In addition, they are also offering private classes for children and adults as well as their Leggiamo! - Children’s book club on Sundays and Yoga in italiano! on Saturdays.

German-American School 212-787-7543 german-american-school.org German-American School’s after-school German language programs serve children in NYC and Long Island. For 2020-21 classes are on line - so kids anywhere can learn German from the safety of their home! With a curriculum that services grades K through 10, this is the only German-American afterschool program accredited by the New York State Board of Regents. They offer once-per-week afterschool German language programs beginning with basic alphabet and phrases through comprehensive grammar, culture, history and conversation. Apply for school year enrollment. See the registration form on their website.

Performing Arts Atlantic Acting School atlanticactingschool.org education@atlantictheater.org Ages 4-18, Fall Virtual Classes for Kids & Teens Founded as an ensemble of impassioned students in 1985, Atlantic has grown into a powerhouse Acting School and a Tony and Pulitzer Prize-winning OffBroadway Theater Company. For young creative minds, our after-school and weekend programs are dedicated to nurturing the talents of kids and teens! This fall, we invite your young ones aged 4-18 to play, create, and form lifelong friendships – all from the comfort and safety of your own home. With 30+ classes varying from musical theater

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Ballet Academy East 1651 Third Avenue, 3rd Floor, New York, NY 212-410-9140 balletacademyeast.com info@baenyc.com Ballet Academy East’s Young Dancer Division instills a love of dance in an environment focused on developing individual potential. Children, 18 months to 6 years of age, experience the joy of dance while benefiting from increased coordination, self-confidence, musicality, strength, and creativity through age-appropriate, structured classes. Our classes are led by gifted instructors who specialize in teaching young children and are comfortable teaching both in-person and virtually. Limited in-person classes at BAE will be open to ages 3 and up. Virtual classes will be available for ages 18 months and up. We are excited to be able to dance, grow, and learn together this fall!

Steps Youth Programs Manhattan 2121 Broadway @ 74th St.,New York, NY 212 -874-3678 stepsnyc.com/youthprograms YouthPrograms@StepsNYC. com The Steps Youth Program offers children ages 2 to 18 years the opportunity to express themselves, find their artistic voice, enhance their technique, and have fun while exploring the world of dance. With a variety of levels and styles, we have a class to help your child succeed: Joyful interpretive movement and creative games introduce children to the art form of dance in our First Steps classes. Classes & Workshops for Kids and Teens offer ages 6+ enriching and fun weekly dance classes. The Pre-Professional and Academy programs provide outstanding training in various dance styles along with performance opportunities.

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Tutoring Intelligentsia Tutoring Co. 347- 334-2751 insight@intelligentsianyc.com intelligentsianyc.com Intelligentsia offers exceptional academic tutoring, test prep, and admissions consulting. Our educators all share the gift to communicate, inspire, and mentor their students while emphasizing the importance of scholastic selfmotivation, academic ownership, and investment in the learning environment. We’ve spent years tutoring remotely and in-person; we’ve developed curricula for homeschool students; and we’ve helped students get into their firstchoice schools time and time again. For us, it is not enough to improve students’ grades while leaving them dependent on support; our goal is to create an intellectual foundation on which students can build far into their futures.

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Back to School Wellness for Mom Eight products worth checking out as we try to stay healthy this COVID school year By Donna Duarte-LaDD & Katarina avenDaĂąo

s the kids head back to school (sort of) we know from the crash course we had in March that COVID-19 has changed how we take care of ourselves. Whether it is sitting in the park bench solo, getting out and having a social distance mom meet up -taking care of you is more necessary than ever. Adding some healthy wellness to your daily regime also never hurts. Staying healthy and sane can be tough especially as we moms enter into another COVID school year. Here are 8 items perfect to keep you on the wellness path this school year.

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A desperate attempt to stay healthy during the COVID pandemic height led me upon a Target where I found these vitamins. The packing is gorgeous, and the description straightforward, the best part is these vitamins are affordable. I started with the multi-vitamin. I soon began to feel less tired, which is saying a lot as I was wiped out at the time. I also noticed that my skin looked refreshed within a few weeks, and my nails started to harden, pre-vitamin they were peeling away. The multi-vitamin contains A/C/D/E and all eight B vitamins that support healthy cellular growth. $14.99, raewellness.co

Sitting is causing aches and pains for many of us. Unfortunately, with remote schooling and work, there is more sitting in the future. HVCBD is formulated with natural ingredients that help reduce pain and inflammation. The raw hemp- is added to stimulate your endocannabinoid system to help restore balance and healing. This salve is great for everyday aches and perfect for stimulating your muscles after a workout. What this all means is a bit of a miracle worker on your achy parts of your body you didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t even know could ache. $54.99, hvcbd.com

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I am also using RAE Energy drops, which contain B vitamins and Thiamine. I do not drink coffee and add one-two drops in my water when starting to feel tired. Without feeling jittery, I feel a burst of energy, which I need to get me through the day, no nasty side effects. $14.99, raewellness.co

Give your skin a boost of hydration and CBD with this two-piece sheet mask. This mask is infused with broad-spectrum hemp extract, other natural oils, and plant extracts to promote healthy skin. This sheet mask is super great if you need a little help to make your skin feel and look rejuvenated. I did this mask before going to bed while watching a movie since you need to wear it for about 20-30 mins and a little extra time after that to have it fully sink in. My face was nice and glowy, even into the next morning (and I am a face sleeper). $90 (5 pack)

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If there was ever a time to get a good night’s sleep, the time would be now back to school here in its new crazy form and life, keeping many of us awake at night. This herbal blend includes valerian root, organic ashwagandha root, hops flower, and natural passionflower aerial tops- to name just a few of the ingredients in this mix. Made to lull you to sleep so you’ll wake up well-rested and ready for the day. $45, wthn.com

After having positive results with Rae’s multi-vitamin, I decided to give a few more of their products a try. I have added into my monthly regime Rae ReBalance with vitamins A, C, D, and E lavender and superfood mushrooms, which help support hormones and improves mood. I have been stressed. Who hasn’t with 2020 being what it is? These pills have taken that slight edge I had been carrying for some time. $14.99, raewellness.co

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The Mom Behind Liquid Gold Vintage Alexis Kristiana’s Black-owned online shop for nursing and breast-pumping moms By Donna Duarte-LaDD

nursing mom’s wardrobe may change from ‘before baby’ to ‘after’ — fast becoming an array of deep v-neck tees and camisoles. Easy on, easy off. In the beginning, this is perfectly fine, as it is all about accessibility. Then style or rather the desire for a sense of fashion creeps in. With COVID, many moms are wearing relaxed pieces (read: stretchy) more than ever. As we navigate kids and quarantine life, this has made sense. However, as we enter into another school year of COVID life, moms want their style back. This is especially true for nursing moms who are in a bit of a double whammy dressing during this time. For nursing moms, style in non-pandemic times can be a challenge. New mothers are dealing with how the style fits their bodies and functions in their life. Finding a wardrobe balance is essential, and balance is key when adding pieces that infused and elevate your wardrobe. Special enough to go with your comfy jeans or over your nursing top while you have a zoom meeting or a social distancing mom meet up this is

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“We need breastfeeding clothing that makes us feel empowered, confident, and stylish.”

where Liquid Gold Vintage, a Black mom-owned and operated curated vintage for the nursing mamas enters the picture. This well-curated site caught this former fashion director’s eye for being out of the box style that isn’t what ‘others’ think nursing or pumping moms should be wearing. Moms are sexy, stylish, and wearing something showcased on Liquid Gold Vintage celebrates women. We recently chatted with Brooklyn mother, Alexis Kristiana, owner and founder of Liquid Gold Vintage, a Curated Vintage shop for the nursing (and breast pumping ) mama. What inspired you to found Liquid Gold Vintage? I’ve always had a deep love for stand out vintage finds, and I found myself shopping for a lot of pieces that were nursing friendly after giving birth to my son. I was struggling to find nursing pieces in stores and online that made me feel like myself and resonated with my style. I didn’t want to sacrifice style to be able to nurse comfortably. So I started looking for my own vintage pieces one day and it turned into an “I could make this into a business” moment. The nursing clothes that are available to us on the market are just completely outdated and don’t reflect the waves that have been made in the breastfeeding community. I wanted to see clothes out there for the breastfeeding mamas that reflected that change. We need breastfeeding clothing that makes us feel empowered, confident, and stylish, so I went out and started curating pieces that would be that change. What are some of the key styles and fits that a nursing and breastfeeding mom should look for? Easy access to that liquid gold is the name of the game here. You want to look for pieces that button-down easily, nothing with teeny

tiny buttons that will be hard to get open with a fussy eater. Think medium to big size buttons. Anything that has snap closures in the front too are great, along with making sure the fabric isn’t too lightweight and can withstand any breast milk leakage that will and can occur! Being mindful to also stay away from fabrics that are itchy and can be uncomfortable for your nursing little ones. Think soft cottons, blends, etc. Liquid Gold Vintage is curated, how does a

piece make it into the collection? First I take into consideration the uniqueness of the piece. Is it stand out enough? Will it make some breastfeeding mama feel better in it during her breastfeeding journey? Then I test out the functionality of it. I make sure it’s easy to nurse or pump in and that’s it’s comfortable for not only mom but got your little you’ll be nursing. Lastly, I inspect the garment and its quality, making sure it’s worth adding to the shop! September 2020 | New York Family

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Dwight School Preschool & Kindergarten: 144 Riverside Boulevard (66th Street) Grades 1-12: 18 West 89th Street Preschool & K: 212-362-2350 Main Campus: 212-724-3630 Dwight.edu Founded in 1872, Dwight School is an internationally renowned independent school (nursery to grade 12), committed to educating the next generation of innovative global leaders — one student at a time. Providing a personalized experience for each student through the academically rigorous International Baccalaureate (IB) curriculum, Dwight is dedicated to “igniting the spark of genius” in every child. Dwight School has been recognized by the IB organization as a world leader in international education.

The École 111 East 22nd St. and 206 Fifth Avenue, New York, NY 10010 646- 410- 2238 theEcole.org bonjour@theEcole.org The École instills in students with a lifetime benefit of bilingual education, empowering them to create and connect to a world filled with possibilities. Located in New York’s vibrant Flatiron District, our intimate and independent French-American school an internationally-minded community of students. From Maternelle to Middle School, we artfully blend the best of the French and American educational systems, gifting our students with deep academic bi-literacy, wholechild skills and knowledge, and an optimistic, multicultural perspective. Through their illuminating journey, students grow more flexible, fluid, interested, interesting, persistent, and positive.

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school offers a non-sectarian program, welcoming children and families of all configurations, religions, races, cultures, and economic backgrounds. Respect for individuality and community building are centerpieces of the program. The Nursery School is dedicated to the development of the whole child in a warm and nurturing environment, with an educational philosophy based on the theory of Developmental Interaction, the program is enhanced and inspired by the Reggio Emilia Approach. FPCNS believes that children learn best when they are active participants in their learning. The school offers experienced classroom teachers, along with specialists in Studio Art, Music, Movement, Gardening and a Healthy Snack Program. FPCNS has excellent student teacher ratios in classrooms for children aged 2.0 to 5.3. The nursery school offers large airy classrooms, a roof top playground, and indoor play space for rainy day play. Extended Day programming and an Early Summer program are available for 4s and 5s students. Parent participation is welcome and encouraged. A lending library with over 3000 volumes is a beloved parent run resource. The school actively raises funds to provide financial assistance to families in need.

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410 E. 92nd St., New York, NY 212-831-3667 gillenbrewer.com Gillen Brewer provides a family-oriented, early childhood program for children ages 2.8 to 10 years old with language-based and non-verbal learning disabilities. Learning and growing in a secure and nurturing environment, their students develop the skills necessary to overcome challenges. They work closely with families to instill self-confidence and build a strong foundation for lifelong learning and independence.

Great Oaks Charter School 38 Delancey Street 212-233-5152 GO-NYC@greatoakscharter. org Great Oaks Charter School – New York City (GO – NYC) is located on Manhattan’s culturally rich and diverse Lower East Side. We opened our doors in 2013 where students are provided with a high-quality, rigorous education, which includes foreign language and the arts. Currently we serve students in grades 6-8 and will open our first High School in August 2021 with 9th grade. GO-NYC provides a safe and nurturing environment for all students. English Language Learners and students with IEPs receive admissions preference in our lottery. In addition to our strong and professional teaching staff, we have a partnership with Ameri-Corps and employ 40+ full-time Fellows. Every GO-NYC student is provided with two full periods of individualized, small group instruction from a GO-NYC Fellow. Support includes small group English Language Arts and mathematics instruction as well as social and emotional support.

Green Meadow Waldorf School 307 Hungry Hollow Rd. Chestnut Ridge, NY 10977 845-356-2514 www.gmws.org Wondering what school will look like this Fall? Green Meadow Waldorf School plans to reopen on September 9, 2020. We are also creating hybrid learning plans for any students unable to return to campus, and have distance learning plans ready. A Green Meadow education has always included lots of outdoor time in all grades; we are leveraging that strength to expand our outdoor classroom spaces. Class sizes throughout the school will be kept small for safety and our popular, all-outdoor Forest Preschool is open. Join us for a virtual Information Session or a private in-person tour to learn more. Busing available from Westchester & NYC!

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the Emotion scientist Dr. Marc Brackett talks about how to cope (and help kids cope) in the COVID-19 age By Hester ABA

s parents, however we’ve personally been affected by the COVID pandemic, we are all suffering from some form of emotional burnout. We’re heading into an uncertain fall, with schools “reopening,” but plenty of stress and anxiety lying ahead, so we sat down for a chat with Dr. Marc Brackett, Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and member of Mayor de Blasio’s 45 member Education Sector Advisory Council, for a check-in on how we can feel, understand and manage our emotions, and those of our children. Dr. Brackett is also the author of Permission to Feel (which we recommend all NYC moms and dads grab a copy of) which features a system which has been adopted by schools across New York City, called RULER, a high-impact approach to understanding and mastering emotions. How can we support our children’s emotional wellbeing during this pandemic, when we as parents might be struggling with our own? If you have the mindset that you have to be the role model for my child, it changes your attitude about your feelings. Some people have a mindset that their anxiety makes them weak. Other people say, “My anxiety is an experience that I’m having. It may not be pleasant, but it doesn’t have to take over my entire life.” What I try to do is teach parents how to shift their relationship with their stress and anxiety, to give themselves the permission to experience the anxiety, without allowing the anxiety to have power over them. We also experience feelings about our feelings: meta-feelings. I’m a father. I’m a mother. I can’t be anxious, that’s bad. And that’s not true. So, the first step is shifting your mindset about your anxiety. The

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Dr. Marc Brackett, member of Mayor de Blasio’s education sector advisory Council and author of Permission to Feel: Unlocking the Power of Emotions to Help Our Kids, Ourselves, and Our Society Thrive. second is labeling it properly. Because it may be anxiety. It may be stress. It may be that you’re overwhelmed. And each of those words has a different meaning. Anxiety is about uncertainty. Stress is about having too many demands on you, and not enough resources. When you’re overwhelmed, you just have so much on your plate and you just can’t function. On the surface, those things seem the same. But they’re not, because the strategies that we would use to help a parent manage overwhelmed, stressed, and anxious are different. When we look at strategies for dealing with those emotions, the first is managing physiology. We’ve got to help parents deactivate, because with any of these emotions, if you’re driving yourself out of your mind with negative talk, like, “This

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is never going to end” and “I can’t take it anymore” and “What am I going to do about it that’s going to put you into a place of heightened arousal, which is going to make your brain go into fight or flight mode. If we can teach people how to deactivate through breathing exercises, or through taking a walk, or just giving yourself some space, then the brain becomes available for cognitive strategies that can be useful. Research also shows that you can distance yourself from your feelings by saying your name and then a phrase. So for example, “Mark, you can get through this.” Or “Mark, you’re stronger than you think.” Positive affirmations actually do help to shift thinking. You can also engage in what’s called ‘reappraisal’ which is where you teach yourself how to tell a different story. If you have catastrophic thinking around COVID, you can say to yourself, “Let’s take a look at this from a different perspective. We’re doing everything we can to protect ourselves. We’re using masks. We are distancing. So the truth is we are pretty safe.” These are core strategies that parents need to use for themselves, and they also have to help teach their kids those strategies. How much do you think it’s appropriate for parents to talk about our emotions surrounding COVID with our children? It all depends on what your face looks like, what your body language looks like, what your vocal tone looks like, and how you demonstrate your ability to regulate the feeling. So if I walk into my house and say, “I can’t take it anymore. I’m going to freak out. Oh my goodness, everybody’s going to die,” your kids are going to be off the wall. The more you catastrophize, it’s contagious. Negative emotions have a contagion effect. But if I walk in and say, “You know honey, daddy’s worried about the Coronavirus. A lot of people are sick and we want to make sure that we don’t get sick. And

so we’re going to make sure that we distance from others. When we go outside, we’re going to wear our masks. And we’re going to have talks or conversations about it every night to make sure that we’re supporting each other, so that we can get through this together.” Totally different experience. Is it helpful or unhelpful for parents to share when we are going through a difficult time emotionally, with their children? Children are listening and children are watching. So if you don’t tell them, they’re going to know anyway. Research shows that sometimes the more you suppress the feeling, the more it shows up in your facial expressions in weird ways. So you don’t want to be a nervous mess and say, “No, daddy’s fine. Daddy’s fine.” They pick up on that quickly. The most important thing is that when you’re communicating your feelings to your children, let them know that you are able to manage them effectively and that you’re not looking for them to take care of you. We want to normalize that life is filled with positive and negative emotions. Otherwise what

we tell them is that when there’s a crisis we don’t talk about it. And so what kids grow up learning, is if they’re feeling fear and anxiety themselves, we suppress those feelings, which is the worst thing we can do for children’s healthy development. How does a conversation sound where you’re introducing language around feelings and emotions with your children? You’re at the dinner table, or you’re at breakfast, and you make it a ritual to just check in with everyone. So you’d say, “You know honey, daddy’s feeling pretty excited today. I’ve got this great meeting at work. I can’t wait to meet with this new client because I’m excited about this thing.” It’s about making sure that as a parent, you are showing your child that you experience all emotions. And then it becomes normal. Then there’s no taboo, there’s no fear, there’s no anxiety. And then you can ask them to describe how they’re feeling. How will masks and online communication affect our efforts to understand the emotions of others?

The only way to really know how someone is feeling is to ask them. So we have to create rituals around checking in with people, because certainly wearing masks is going to hide a lot of our ability to express. I mean the eyes are revealing, but not enough. We have a tool called the Mood Meter, which is in use at 400 New York City schools every day. The Mood Meter is a tool to say, “Hey, everybody, let’s just check in our feelings. What color are you in today? Yellow, red, blue, or green. All right, what’s your word?” And then the teacher can see the range of feelings that our kids are experiencing, then help kids. The same thing applies at home. You can say, “Hey honey, where are you today?” “Oh, daddy’s in the red.” “Why are you in the red daddy?”, “Well, because I’m really upset about this and XYZ. What about you?” In schools, the Mood Meter is a poster board. We also have a virtual app for schools where teachers can put it onto Google classroom, or they can use our own platform. And kids can virtually check in, anonymously or with their names. Parents love the tool. September 2020 | New York Family

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How can we teach our children the words for various feelings and emotions and the differences between them? As part of RULER, we developed the Feeling Words Curriculum. The goal is to make sure children from preschool all the way up to their middle and high school years develop a full language to describe their inner experience. We teach preschoolers the basic words like happy, sad, calm and angry. For upper elementary and middle school, they learn words like alienation, apprehension, hopelessness. The design of the Feeling Words program includes teachers and students sharing their own stories around feelings, and it can be linked to the curriculum. So kids can use it to analyze characters in social studies and in poetry. Then they go home and teach their parents the words. And so they’re having conversations with their families around feelings. And then finally, they get into conversations like, “Well, what do you do when you have these feelings?” If you do this every year of your academics, by the time you’re in high school, you’ve got hundreds of words and dozens of conversations around how to regulate, and we find that it really does impact children in a very positive way. How will your work around RULER and emotions be pivoting to deal with these (groan) unprecedented times this school year? So all the schools that have adopted RULER are going to go deeper with the work this year, of course. We have created amendments and extra strategies to support them through COVID, and also to help think through how to use Ruler to support more culturally responsive pedagogy, as well as to support difficult conversations around race. We want to make sure teachers understand there are possible implicit biases associated with reading children’s emotions, and to be engaging in deep reflection before they attribute an emotion to a child. There is a bias associated with White people identifying Black people’s emotions. White individuals are more likely to attribute anger for example, to a neutral black male’s facial expression. And so teaching people that that’s a possible bias is very important, because it’ll make people pause and reflect, and maybe ask the question before saying something like, “Why are you angry” or before even thinking that the person is angry,

“We have a tool called the Mood Meter, which is in use at 400 New York City schools every day. The Mood Meter is a tool to say, ‘Hey, everybody, let’s just check in our feelings. What color are you in today?’” they’re going to second guess and say, “You know what, this may be my implicit bias operating here right now. I’m not going to assume this, I’m going to actually find out how the child is feeling.” As an emotion scientist, have you been surprised by your own feelings during the COVID pandemic? I would never have anticipated my own anxiety during this crisis. Here I am, supposedly an expert in this space, and I’ve struggled with my anxiety. And even a lot of my anger about what’s happening in the world. And so I’m working on it. I’m reflecting on it. I’m thinking about how I can appraise things in different ways to support my own health and wellbeing. I think if we think of this as life’s journey, we put less pressure on ourselves to be perfect at it right away. As parents, we also just have to work at always trying to be the best possible role model for our kids. And when we mess up, we’ve got to be comfortable apologizing. And when our kids mess up, you’ve got to be comfortable forgiving. Otherwise there’s no room for error, and there’s a lot of error that’s going to be made in this work. And relationships have ups and downs. Let’s normalize the fact that everybody messes up, but that doesn’t mean that we have to dislike each other, or make each other feel bad. It’s a way to bond, by sharing that I feel bad about what I said and did.

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What final words of advice would you like to share with New York parents at this time? We want to give children permission to feel all emotions. And so that’s an important distinction versus trying to get them to not feel negative emotions and feel more positive emotions. With that said, we do want a greater balance of positive to negative emotions. So we don’t want to spend 70% of our day in that deep blue or high red, because that’s not good for our physical and mental health. We just don’t want to have a mindset that the negative emotions are bad. They’re signals. They’re information that we need to attend to and help people out. And that means, secondly, that we really all need to strive to be, as I like to say, emotion scientists, as opposed to emotion judges. Curious explorers of our own and other people’s feelings, as opposed to critical judges who think we know how people feel. So by adopting what I call the emotion scientists’ mindset, we become open to our own and others’ feelings, and we become helpful in terms of thinking through options to manage our emotions. For more insights from Dr. Marc Brackett, pick up Permission to Feel, out in paperback now, or visit www.moodmeterapp.com to download the Mood Meter app to use with your children at home. You can also listen to Dr. Brackett’s recent appearance on Brene Brown’s “Unlocked” podcast, which is a wonderfully enjoyable conversation.

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Mom in the Know Beth Beckman, founder of Little Kid, Big City, and co-founder of FOMOfeed Kids on the city she loves!

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ou have seen writer, explorer and photographer Beth Beckman’s gorgeous New York pictures. If not through her Instagram and website Little Kid, Big City! Certainly through FOMOfeed and FOMOfeed Kids, which she co-founded. This perpetual non-sleeper lives in Manhattan with her husband, 7-year-old son, and their Mini Dachshund, Hotdog. Beth obsessively researches NYC and shares it all with us. As an editor, what I appreciate about Beth is in one post, she gives the reader a wealth of information. You want to drop everything and run to that spot kids’ in tow — pronto! We know we are going into a school year and most likely a year where how we live comes with some significant changes; however, we live in the best city in the world, and Beth an admitted culture addict, shares how we can enjoy New York City and appreciate the beauty of a city we adore. You love to explore, have you always had wanderlust? What inspires you to explore a city? I love exploring and discovering a new destination, and have a major addiction to wanderlust. I grew up in Wisconsin and for many years my family didn’t have the means to travel or explore often, but I was always curious about the world out there. Then at a young age there

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were a few unfortunate events where I lost a few close family members. Tragic events change perspective, and for me this completely cemented my lifelong wanderlust and need for exploration. Every day is a gift, and I believe every day should be lived to its fullest. My goal is to see and explore as much as possible, and to make incredible memories while doing it. Start spreading the news….! While in college I had a unique opportunity to move to New York through school. I signed the contract’s dotted line without ever even stepping foot in NYC. There was no question. I knew it was where I wanted to be, and I never looked back. For me, I have always been inspired by discovery, and believe that researching a destination can be just as exciting as the trip itself. We love traveling, and when we book a trip I find myself enthralled with excitement, and immediately deep-dive into research on the destination to see what we can discover in person. From travel books to blogs, Instagram to TikTok, I scour the internet and grab as much information as I can get my hands on. I consider myself an “experience seeker,” always on the lookout for cultural and unique experiences at each destination. It could be an exotic locale or nearby neighborhood. To me all exploring is amazing, and equally stimulating. Discovering them in person is thrilling, and endlessly inspiring. There are amazing things to discover out there,

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“Showcasing New York and inspiring others to get out and explore is amazing...but honestly, I just consider myself lucky that each day I get to wake up in the world’s greatest city.”

Beth’s upcoming Little Kid, Big City! book series are travel guides created especially for children.

and in New York, these discoveries change and refresh on a daily basis. From museums, parks, activities, and incredible art...We are so lucky — this is our backyard! The culture here is incredible, and all of this makes it a magical place to raise kids. When I started my blog my life mission was (and continues to be) to inspire others to get out there and explore with their children. It’s why we live here, right? The culture and experiences here are worth every penny. Over the years our account has grown into a love letter to the city. Showcasing New York and inspiring others to get out and explore is amazing...but honestly, I just consider myself lucky that each day I get to wake up in the world’s greatest city. You explore everywhere with your son, how can a parent guide their child to have a fun yet educated experience when visiting anything from a museum to a nature spot? Many museums and galleries offer engaging, interactive children’s programming — which can be a great way to get your little one excited about the visit. Our first stop is usually the information desk. There’s almost always a map or family pamphlet, or an online resource that will help engage children further. One favorite is the MetKids program. They have a (free) map of the museum made just for kids that my son loves. For non-museum led activities, I always bring along

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a notebook and color pencils. (Note: not markers, it must be pencil — most museums/galleries only allow pencils as they are less likely to damage the artwork, etc). Sometimes the simple act of looking at the technique of the art and mimicking it on paper, or drawing the art that they see in their own interpretation is a fun way to engage children. Another tip — make a game of it! We sometimes create a scavenger hunt during our visit. Try having kids locate a color, shape, object, or even an animal or food. You can be more detailed for older kids — artists, specific details, etc. You can do this before you head out, you can make it up as you go, room by room. From seek-and-find at a local nature spot, or looking to the tree tops for birds at a local park — there are so many ways to engage children further while exploring outdoors. Our little guy asks *tons* of questions — many to which I don’t know the answer. I often take photos on my phone and “Google” the bird/ tree/animal when we get home to learn more. Another tip — I usually keep a large Ziploc in my bag for fun nature discoveries. We often bring a bag of leaves, rocks, and other natural goodies home and then make an art project or build something together to keep the conversation (and intrigue) going. When COVID is over I highly recommend the (free!) Urban Park Ranger programs through NYC Parks. They hold many incredible events, such as camping under the stars. We have camped in Prospect Park and Central Park, both of which were incredible learning experiences, and a memory we will never forget. Social distancing rules are now a way of life, what advice do you have for parents when out and about in the time of coronavirus? To say it’s been a turbulent and crazy year with coronavirus would be a colossal understatement. One thing I can say for certain — New York is resilient.

I’ve lived in the city through September 11th, the great Blackout, and in lower Manhattan during hurricane Sandy. New York is strong and ALWAYS perseveres. There’s no doubt that we will get through this. There’s glimmers of hope on the horizon. Stores, museums and experiences are all starting to reopen, and the city is starting to, ever so slowly, feel a tiny bit like New York again. When out and about — Mask Up! They are required at most places and make it safe for you and others to visit. Social distancing is the new normal, and safety procedures are under way at almost all establishments and are clearly marked/easy to follow. Most importantly, keep little hands clean. Wash hands as often as possible, and don’t leave home without the new must-have accessory: hand sanitizer. Aside from that — get out there and see the city, it’s a great time to explore! (Yes, seriously!) As NYC is mostly void of tourists at the moment, many places that once had lines and long waits are virtually empty, squeaky clean, and eagerly awaiting your visit. To see the city like this is a rare opportunity…and businesses need us more than ever. Just be prepared, be careful, and enjoy! One notation: Be sure you have a bathroom plan — many establishments have closed their bathrooms to the public. As a general rule, department stores and (usually — not always!) grocery stores are available to guests. Restaurants with outdoor dining will allow customers to use the facilities as well. If it is in question, be sure to call ahead and check before venturing out on a day trip with the fam, just to be sure. What many parents may not know is you co-founded FOMOfeed and FOMOfeed Kids? How did this come about? After seeing my partner at many of the same NYC events, we decided to join together and also launch a family version of FOMOfeed, called FOMOfeed Kids.

This platform showcases a curated mix of the best of NYC cultural events for kids (but honestly, aren’t we all just big kids at heart?). The platform has a heavy art focus, and we regularly showcase museums, art galleries, installations and cultural happenings throughout the city. As our beloved city is nothing without the incredible and inspiring New Yorkers who call it home, we often try to feature our community in the photos — always crediting their amazing explorations and helping to showcase them discovering the city. Our platform has been getting incredible traction, and we have had many ask us for more locations. We will soon be spinning this off into its own entity and to other big cities across the country. It’s an exciting time...Stay tuned!

Beth’s exploration of the city with her son, like these shots from Williamsburg, has continued into the current age of social distancing.

There are still restrictions on where we can visit, what are some of your favorite social distancing spots for parents to take kids? I’ve been *really* impressed to see how New York City has pivoted so quickly to social distancing measures. There’s been some really creative measures and adaptations — here’s a few of our current favorites: Domino Park and Madison Square Park: O Marks the Spot! Both locations have recently debuted social distancing lawns, where the park has painted large circular spots six feet (or more) apart on the grass. The spots are meant for families or friends to gather within, to help keep their social distance from others while relaxing on the grass. Great for adults and it actually works quite brilliantly for kids, as these painted lines do help to keep little ones within the area too. Pier 17: The Pier 17 Rooftop has just launched The Greens — an open air seating arrangement that gives visitors their own personal mini lawns. Perfect for New Yorkers who don’t have a backyard — each lawn has (contactless) food service, an umbrella and September 2020 | New York Family

chairs, and an amazing view of Lower Manhattan and the Brooklyn Bridge. They also rent separate Gaming Lawns where your family can play unlimited yard games (think giant Jenga and toss games) for a specified time period. These lawns are insanely popular — reservations are essential, be sure to book in advance! Drive-In Movie Theaters: It’s been the summer of the Drive-In Theater, and this trend is going to roll right through fall and early winter. Skyline Drive-In NYC is located in Greenpoint, Brooklyn and offers great movie classics as well as a selection of family-friendly favorites, and a jaw dropping view of Manhattan. No car? No problem! They just opened walk-in seating for those without a vehicle. Rockefeller Center: Rockefeller Center has many “family favorite” stores, that in these times of COVID have no lines nor tourists, making it a great time to explore these iconic destinations. Mask up and head over to The LEGO Store, Nintendo and FAO Schwarz — all of which are all within a couple blocks radius. Don’t miss the famous BIG Piano during your visit! As we enter into a COVID school year, kids will need to be out more than ever. What are a few of your top New York spots for kids? We have learned that outside is best when dealing with these crazy times of COVID. The good news? There are endless green spaces and outdoor destinations in NYC to explore. Here are a few favorites: Governors Island: It’s only 8 minutes away by ferry but it feels like it’s hundreds of miles away from the city. Wide open spaces, historical elements, and the view from the waterfront is epic! Be sure to try the twisting and turning slides, and then climb The Hills for a tip-top view of the Statue of Liberty and Lower Manhattan. There’s also an Urban Farm you can tour on weekends. The Highline: The park that is high in the sky is a great place to go with kids when you want to get outside. Currently visits are free but require a reservation to control capacity. The Highline has artistically added green polka dots across the paths and benches to help with social distancing measures. Kids can connect (and count) the dots and follow the path, right through the elevated train tracks. Flushing Meadows Corona Park Queens: This gigantic park has great green spaces to social distance and plenty of bike paths to explore. Swing by the Unisphere to take in the out-of-this world-sculpture that was once the centerpiece for the World’s Fair. A Drive-In movie theater just recently set up shop at the New York Hall of Science parking lot, making it another reason to visit this world famous green space. Brooklyn Bridge Park: We love exploring this massive 85 acre waterfront park. With incredible playgrounds (isn’t Pier 6 the best?), rotating art exhibits and many nature paths, it’s one of our go-to destinations. Enjoy one of the open air green spaces,

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Pier 17 Rooftop: “An open air seating arrangement that gives visitors their own personal mini lawns. Perfect for New Yorkers who don’t have a backyard.” and then head over to DUMBO where you’ll have your choice of many competing pizzarias. Bryant Park: Our favorite lawn in the city! Bryant Park, and its famous lawn is surrounded by Midtown buildings creating the ultimate urban park setting. Pay a visit to the iconic fountain and lounge in the large grassy oasis, and stay for a snack at the many take-out counters that line the grass. We love how the park has adapted so quickly with multiple free-standing handwashing stations and great social distancing measures. Prospect Park: Brooklyn’s backyard oasis has endless things to do with kids. Try fishing on the lake and going on a nature hike, and there’s a “secret” waterfall near the Ravine! LeFrak Center at Lakeside is currently open with many fun rental options — such as paddle boats so you can explore the waters of Prospect Park Lake.

Hudson River Greenway Bike Path: We’ve become a bike family during COVID, and it’s such a great way to get around the city (especially when you may want to avoid public transportation). We love the Hudson River Bike Path. It stretches from Battery Riverside Park to the tip of Manhattan (and links up to other paths for further explorations) and is a much safer option for kids than dealing with the crazy street traffic. Many parents are watching their money. What are some of the places or things in the city parents can do for free with their kids? Agree, cost is very important now more so than ever. New York City offers some pretty incredible experiences with your family for free. A few favorites: We love the Staten Island Ferry — grab a window seat, the 25 minute (free!) ferry ride passes right by the Statue of Liberty, with amazing views! Walking the city is free and there’s no better way to soak in New York’s incredible melting pot of cultures. Chinatown is one of our all-time favorites. It really feels like you have stepped into a new country without a plane ticket. You can also take advantage of the free city experiences out there. The Bronx Zoo offers free admission on Wednesdays for families. There are many free kayaking experiences in the city (check the Brooklyn Bridge Park and Hudson River locations!). There’s also great experiences that are free for children such as the Empire State Building! It’s the perfect time to visit the King of the New York City Skyline (and one of the city’s most iconic landmarks) especially as children under the age of 6 are always free. You have launched a book series, Little Kid, Big City! Book Series. What inspired you to author these books as this is no small feat? Can you share what more on what ground you cover on in the books? Our little guy has always been into books. Even when he was too young to read, we spent endless hours together pouring through books at home, at our local libraries, and book stores. Being an avid traveler, I was always on the lookout for a travel guide for children. While there are a number of amazing illustrated books on big cities, I realized that there wasn’t a true travel guide within these on the market. I longed for an inspirational travel guide for our son that showcased more than the top 10 tourist destinations that we could be inspired by while relaxing at our home, or take along with us on a trip or vacation. With this, Little Kid, Big City! book series was born — travel guides to help curious little minds explore big cities across the world. While I love art, sketching is not my thing and I knew I needed a proper partner for the series. After searching through hashtags and illustrator profiles, a brave Instagram Direct Message led me to the book’s insanely talented illustrator, Holley Maher. We signed on with Quirk Publishing for the series!

The Highline: “Artistically added green polka dots across the paths and benches help with social distancing measures. Kids can connect (and count) the dots.” New York City will be launching in February 2021 and London launching in June, with more cities to come soon! (we can’t share these quite yet…!). The books will introduce travelers to landmarks, must-see attractions, and family favorites, paving the way for surprising trips full of sightseeing and under the radar exploration. The books have an emphasis on cultural immersion, and are mixed with gentle history lessons, too. We are overjoyed, and can’t wait to have these adventures hit the shelves. Beth’s children’s travel adventure book series, Little Kid, Big City! was acquired by Quirk Books and will be hitting shelves in Spring of 2021. The literary adventure kicks off in her home of New York City, and then London, and continues on to other big city titles across the world. September 2020 | New York Family

Family Day Out

Fall Apple Picking!

ummer is coming to a close and apple picking will soon be in full gear for 2020. With school starting any day now and many kids reverting back to being at home for remote learning, what better way to get out of the house than by heading to one of these farms to pick juicy apples? Pick fresh apples and make classic apple cider, pie, and more! Although apple picking is a fall-favorite activity for many families, we are still in the middle of COVID and things will look a little different this year. Many farms are requiring face masks, reservations, and some are not allowing strollers. Make sure to check the farm’s website before visiting and review its safety guidelines. We recommend visting websites or calling for COVID updates and guidelines before visiting. One Hour and Under

Demarest Farms demarestfarms.com 244WiermusRoad,Hillsdale,NJ07642 2016660472 (40minfromMidtown)

Starting September 5th (approximate date), you’ll be able to taste the first of fall’s harvest! Step foot in the orchards and start picking delicious apples for your seasonal pies, ciders and more. Some of their tasty apples include Cameo, Cortland, Empire, Fuji, Gala, Golden Delicious, Honeycrisp, McIntosh, Mutsu (Crispin), Red Delicious, Snap Dragon and Zestar. $7 per person (age 2 and over), which includes free parking and entrance to the apple orchard. You must make a reservation for a date and time to visit the farm. Strollers must me left at home.

Hillview Farms 223MeyersvilleRoad,Gillette,NJ 9086470957 (50minfromMidtown)

Make the trip to Hillview Farms to pick seasonal apples starting September 1st. You can’t go wrong with the classic red apple, but make sure to take home a few other delicious options, such as Cortland, Empire, Fuji, Granny Smith, Golden Delicious, Jonagold, Jonathan, Macoun, McIntosh and Stayman/Winesap. Open 9 am – 6 pm (field closed to the public at 5 pm), daily. One Hour to One Hour and a Half Dr. Davies Farm drdaviesfarm.com 306NY304,Congers,NY10920 8452687020 (1hr&10minfromMidtown)

Warm apple pie days are here! Visit Dr. Davies Farm starting September 7th to pick apples for all your delicious fall desserts. You will be able to pick from 4,000 trees, with 20 different varieties of apples, spanning over 55 acres. Bring the whole family, even the dog, for a great outing that everyone will enjoy for the fall season. Guests are required to wear masks at all times and maintain social distancing. Open 10 am – 4 pm, daily. Riamede Farm riamedefarm.com 122OakdaleRoad,Chester,NJ07930 9088795353 (1hr&20minfromMidtown)

With 40 types of apples, Riamede Farm is opening its apple-picking gates on September

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3rd. Get a taste of their first batch of ripening apples, or check out the other varieties as they begin to ripen over the course of the fall season. Face coverings are required for entry. Open 9 am – 4:30 pm, daily. Harvest Moon Farm & Orchard harvestmoonfarm andorchard.com 130Hard scrabbleRoad, NorthSalem,NY10560 9144851210 (1hr&20minfromMidtown)

Be part of the excitement at Harvest Moon for their biggest time of the year. This familyowned and operated apple orchard will be welcoming their main harvest with a variety of delicious apples available for picking beginning September 5th. Bring the family to visit the orchards as well as their farm store that has farm-raised meats and dairy products. Store and orchard open Friday – Sunday for apple picking by reservation only from 9 am – 5 pm. Store will be open MondayThursday from 9 am – 6 pm.

Stuart’s Fruit Farm stuartsfarm.com 62 Granite Springs Road, Granite Springs, NY 10527 914-245-2784 (1 hr & 20 min from Midtown)

Since 1828, Stuart’s Fruit Farm has been a proud family-operated farm. This fall season, bring your family along for the beginning of the apple-picking season where there will be an array of apples to choose from! Apple picking begins September 5. Open 10 am – 5 pm, daily. Alstede Farms alstedefarms.com 1 Alstede Farms Lane,

Chester, NJ 07930 908-879-7189 (1 hr & 20 min from Midtown)

Alstede Farms invites your family to pick their crisp, seasonal apples for the fall season. Kids will be thrilled to see and learn how food grows as they pick their own for a healthy snack. Bring home this delicious fruit for making traditional homemade apple pie, cider and delightful pastries. Choose from over 50 different varieties. Don’t forget to check out the other fun activities offered on the farm, such as the tractor-drawn wagon ride, seeing the sunflower field and more! Tickets must be purchased online, in advance, utilizing time slots. Ticket become available 24 hours in advance. Apple Ridge Orchards appleridgeorchards.com 101 Jessup Road, Warwick, NY 10990 845-987-7717 (1 hr & 30 min from Midtown)

Kick off the fall season by visiting the most scenic and rustic pick-your-own farm. Just 60 miles from New York City, you can pick from a variety of 20 different apples throughout the Hudson and Warwick Valley. Have a fun and educational experience as you spend time at the orchards picking. They even have dwarf trees that little ones can reach! Face coverings are required and strollers are not allowed. Open to the public from 9 am – 6 pm on Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday and all holidays. Lawrence Farms Orchards lawrencefarmsorchards.org 306 Frozen Ridge Road, Newburgh, NY 12550 845-562-4268 (1 hr & 30 min from Midtown)

Take a drive to Lawrence Farms Orchards and make it a family day out! Enjoy the beautiful scenery of the farm and have a blast picking a variety of apples such as Ginger Gold, Zestar, Ozark Gold and Gala available now. Face coverings are required. Open 9 am- 4 pm, daily. Admission is $5 per person, children under 2 years old are free. Season passes available. Barton Orchards bartonorchards.com 63 Apple Tree Lane, Poughquag, NY 12570 845-227-2306 (1 hr & 30 min from Midtown)

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These apples are known for being the best in the area with over 120 acres of apple trees to pick from. Apple picking starts here from the middle of August through November. As we move through the fall season, a variety of different apples will be available for picking, such as Early Golds in August, Jona macs in September, and Ida Reds in October. And, to make sure that you have the freshest apples, Barton’s Orchards rotates picking areas around the farm! In order to pick apples, you must purchase a Barton apple bag that day. Open 11 am – 6 pm on Sundays to Wednesdays and 11 am – 8 pm on Thursdays to Saturdays, from August-November.

ber and October. Open 9 am – 4:45 pm on Tuesdays to Sundays, by reservation only. Over an Hour and a Half

Masker Orchards maskers.com 45 Ball Road, Warwick, NY 10990 845-986-1058 (1 hr & 30 min from Midtown)

Apple Dave’s Orchards appledavesorchards.com 82 4 Corners Road, Warwick, NY 10990 845-772-1242 (1 hr and 40 min from Midtown)

Masker Orchards is a go-to for family-friendly apple picking in the Hudson Valley region (you can even bring the dog). Drive right to the trees with your family and then get lost in the massive orchard picking a variety of apples (picking poles are also available) and taking in the views and foliage. With 14 varieties of apples ripening throughout the season at Masker Orchards, you’re sure to find all of your family’s favorites; and to help make sure of this, they put together an approximate ripening guide. Admission, parking and bags are free and apples are $29.95 per bag (but you can eat all the apples you wish as you pick for free). With COVID-19 changing many things, most of the Family Fun Area activities will be closed. Pony rides, the maze, live music, haunted house and food stands will not be available, so the farm encourages you to bring your own picnic lunch. Opening day for the apple picking season is September 5 and goes into early November. Open 9 am-5 pm, daily.

Opening Labor Day weekend, start your picking at Apple Dave’s Orchards and take home a variety of apples like McIntosh, Cortland, Honeycrisp, Gala, Empire, Jonagold, Rome Beauty, Red Delicious, Macoun, Fuji and Golden Delicious apples. You can also visit their farm store where they have freshpressed apple cider, apple donuts, pies, flowers and seasonal items. Apple picking starts Labor Day Weekend on September 5 and has acres upon acres perfect for social distanced picking.

Fishkill Farms fishkillfarms.com 9 Fishkill Farm Road, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533 845-897-4377 (1 hr & 30 min from Midtown)

Fishkill Farms has been part of the Morgenthau family for over 100 years and invites your family for the apple picking season. This 270-acre apple orchard offers a variety of fruits and vegetables throughout the year that you can pick. Socially distant picking is available by reservation only, so be sure to check their website before visiting. Stop by for their apple season in the months of Septem-

Harbes Family Farm harbesfamilyfarm.com 715 Sound Ave, Mattituck, NY 11952 631-298-0800 (2 hrs from Midtown)

The star attraction at the 78-acre Harbes Family Farm is the breathtakingly beautiful apple orchard. Featuring 27 different varieties, the orchard uses an innovative trellis system to grow apples that are within reach of even the smallest of hands. Prices vary from $10 per person for the Early Bird Special (three lb bag) to the $22 per person Apple Lovers Big Bag Special (12 lb bag). On weekends and holidays they offer pig races, singing hayride tours, and hosted interactive activities. Plus, Harbes Barnyard Adventure (a paid admission area of Harbes Family Farm) has eight acres of family-friendly attractions where you can discover farm animals and chicken and bee observatories as well as enjoy the Gnome Hedge Maze, trike track, Jumbo Jumpers, sports zone and so much more. Reopening on Saturday, September 5, the farm reminds you to bring face coverings

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and observe social distancing when visiting. Bishop’s Orchards bishopsorchards.com 1355 Boston Post Road, Guilford, CT 06437 203-453-2338 (2 hrs from Midtown)

Bishop’s Orchards takes pride in growing the highest quality fruits to enjoy year after year from their family to yours. They grow over 20 varieties of apples that suit all your needs for cooking, gifts, or a quick snack on the go. At their pick-your-own locations, bags are free and you pay for what you pick by the pound. Bishop’s Orchards also recently opened their new ice cream stand, featuring delicious flavors, sundaes, ice cream sandwiches and their specialty, the Bishop’s Blitz! The farms will be following the pick-your-own procedures which goes more into detail on their website. It ensures proper distancing, sanitation and safety. Hank’s PumpkinTown hankspumpkintown.com 240 Montauk Hwy, Water Mill, NY 11976 631-726-4667 (2 hrs from Midtown)

Hank’s PumpkinTown in Water Mill, NY is well-known to families for its amazing apple picking and over 30 acres of fall family fun! It costs $25 to pick one peck (about 10 pounds of apples), after you’ve had your fill of picking, wander over to the wooden playground, maze park, face painting, and gem mining. The Market has yummy, freshly baked pies, cookies, cupcakes, candy apples and everpopular cider donuts. The farm will be open for apple picking on September 12. Be sure to check their Facebook Page for weekly updates on what’s available for picking.

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Visiting the Empire State Building It’s time for a unique “New York for New Yorkers” experience By Regan Mies

ccording to a 2011 Cornell study, the Empire State Building is the most photographed building in the world. A poll conducted by the American Institute of Architects named it “America’s Favorite Building.” Built in the year 1930 and towering at an incredible 1,454 feet, the Empire State Building is a beloved staple of the New York City skyline. As the city moves forward with its Phase 4 reopening plans, now might be a better time than ever to safely visit one of the Big Apple’s most iconic landmarks with your family. On a clear day, visitors can see six states from the Empire State Building’s observatories. From the 86th Floor Observatory, enjoy 360-degree views and have fun spotting Central Park, the Statue of Liberty, the Brooklyn Bridge and many more of New York City’s distinctive landmarks. On the building’s brand-new 102nd Floor Observatory, gaze through floor-to-ceiling windows for breathtaking vistas. Not only does a trip to the Empire State Building offer a once-in-a-lifetime view of the city, it also provides your family the chance to learn something new! The Empire State Building is home to a number of brand-new exhibits located on its 2nd and 80th floors. You and your kids will be swept up in history while learning about the building’s original site in the 1920s and its remarkable 13-month construction from 1930-31. The Modern Marvel exhibit showcases the steps taken by the Empire State Building that have led it to become a world leader in sustainability and efficient energy. With exhibits about celebrities and King Kong to exhibits about the Empire State Building’s light shows and its original elevators, there’s an experience to interest everyone! Through its international #HeroesShineBright campaign and music-to-light shows,

the Empire State Building has honored first responders and shone as a beacon of hope during the Covid-19 crisis. Now, they’re doing everything they can to ensure their exhibits and observatories are safe for you and your family. New protocols have been put in place for employees and visitors so that the Empire State Building can adhere to all official city and state guidelines. Anthony E. Malkin, the Chairman, President and CEO of Empire State Realty Trust, is confident “that New York is resilient and that our future holds promise.” As New York City begins to reopen, Malkin remains positive. If you and your family haven’t visited the Empire State Building, there’s no time better than now: “The reduced capacity and lack of tourists from out of town will create a unique ‘New York for New Yorkers’ experience.” Here’s what they’re doing: • Crowds will be prevented as ticket purchases shift to online, timed reservations. • The Empire State Building Observatory is currently open from 11 am to 11 pm. • Capacity will initially be reduced by more than 80%, allowing groups to distance by more than 18 feet. • Guests will be required to wear facial

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coverings for the entirety of their visit. • Mask-wearing and distancing will be monitored by CCTV and staff. • Guest protocol will include a contactless temperature check, and visitors’ temperatures must be under 100.4 degrees. • Signage, distance markings and hand sanitizers have been implemented throughout Empire State Building spaces. • Observatories and exhibits are suited to a one-way flow of traffic. • Interactive exhibits, like those with touch screens, have been transformed into touchfree experiences. • Enhanced cleaning methods have been put into effect, including Overnight Electrostatic Disinfectant spray of the entire observatory space and frequent cleaning of high-touch surfaces. • A recent $165 million renovation included the implementation of MERV 13 air filters, state-of-the-art air purification that reduces the risk of virus transmission. • New employee protocol includes training, masks, gloves and contact tracing. Visitor tickets can be reserved online at esbnyc. com. Child tickets start at $36. Adult tickets start at $42.

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Ann Marie Damashek GRI, CBR, SRES

Lic. Associate Real Estate Broker (917) 623-0624 annmarie.damashek@compass.com

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INCLUSION • DIVERSITY • EXCELLENCE • ACCEPTANCE • LEADERSHIP

The IDEAL Difference

In our diverse and inclusive community and within our robust academic program, IDEAL students recognize their potential to effect change and are equipped with the tools to do so. They strive for excellence in and out of the classroom and recognize and draw out the potential for excellence in their peers. They possess the self-awareness to advocate for themselves and the compassion to stand behind others. They not only appreciate but also seek out difference, understanding that only in community are we IDEAL. IDEAL is New York’s only K-12 independent inclusion school, where we celebrate the tremendous social, emotional, and academic growth born in a diverse and nurturing educational community. IDEAL’s 2020-21 hybrid program is offering classes in person and online. Visit our website to learn more about IDEAL’s rigorous and differentiated program, innovative social justice curriculum, and uniquely inclusive community, hybrid reopening plan, and also about IDEAL’s Next Steps Transition Program, open to students aged 18-21.

www.theidealschool.org

VIRTUAL LOWER SCHOOL OPEN HOUSES October 8, 9-11 AM | November 5, 6-8 PM 314 West 91st Street VIRTUAL UPPER SCHOOL OPEN HOUSES October 15, 9-11 AM | November 17, 6-8 PM 270 West 89th Street

IDEAL is currently accepting applications for 2020-21 placement. Contact us at admissions@theidealschool.org or 212-769-1699 for information about about ﬁnancial aid or to take a virtual tour.