Original Memory Book for The Late Stanley Major

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A CELEBRATION OF THE LIFE AND LEGACY of

STANLEY

ALFRED MAJOR Born: December 17, 1929 Died: May 31, 2022 Age: 92-years Service Held At: HILLVIEW SEVENTH-DAY ADVENTIST CHURCH Tonique-Darling Highway Nassau, Bahamas Sunday, June 26th, 2022 at 1:00 pm Officiating: Dr. Paul Scavella Assisted by: Pastor Leonardo Rahming Pastor Michael Smith Dr. Michael Toote Musicians: Mr. Nelson Dorsett Pastor Barrington Brennen Interment: Lakeview Memorial Gardens J.F.K Drive and Gladstone Road Nassau, Bahamas 2

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Obituary

“For I know that my redeemer liveth, and that He shall stand at the latter day upon the earth. And though after my skin, worms destroy this body, yet in my flesh shall I see God: Whom shall see for myself, and mine eyes shall behold, and not another; though my reins be consumed within me.” Job 19:25-27.

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n December 17, 1929, a Tuesday, a baby boy was born to the union of Clifton Gustavus Major, seaman/ sponger originally from South End, Long Island and Magdell “Maggie” Major (nee Brown), housewife, of Farmers Cay, Exuma. Look out world, because there came Stanley Alfred Major.

led to Dad spending several summers in Long Island with his paternal grandmother, Emmaline Cartwright. Dad got his schooling at the Eastern Senior School on Shirley Street, now a government post office. He completed third grade, which is the equivalent of today’s 6th grade. At the age of 14 he quit school in order to help support his family, a common practice in those days. His first job was as an office boy with Barbadian Dr. Worrell on Shirley Street opposite Kelly’s Bakery. There, he learned to thoroughly clean and sweep but he also learned business etiquette - answering phones and greeting

His early years were spent in Farmers Cay. But a serious illness as a young child eventually required him to attend the Bahamas General Hospital in Nassau for daily treatment. One of his last memories of Dad was riding on his shoulders, morning after morning, for daily treatment at the hospital. Eventually the family moved to Nassau, where the head of the house was employed by government as a supervisor of a street cleaning crew. Tragedy struck when his father died, in his mid-thirties, when he was only about 7 or 8 years old. That meant that his mother, who had always been a housewife, had to work outside the home. Additionally, his oldest sister, my Aunt Ethlyn “Coolie” had to leave school in the 5th grade and work to help support the family. According to Aunt Coolie, Mama, Dad’s Mom, cried every day for almost three months when her husband died so suddenly. This tragedy A Life & Legacy | Stanley Alfred Major |

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Family Island Clients. Next, while waiting to join The Bahamas Electricity Corporation, thanks to his mother, he began learning trade with Mr. Ulysses Davis who was a builder/ master tradesman/mason with a very good reputation. So, at 17, he began his journey from apprentice to master craftsman to master builder. During this season, he became good friends with fellow trainees/tradesmen Aaron “Kiki” Knowles, Sr., and Dutch Randol Dean, eventually helping them build their homes in Chippingham. Early on, he made two strategic decisions that set the trajectory of his life: 1) to quit going to the bars for drinks after work (he didn’t drink much anyway.)

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2) to work for himself, be his own boss. About that time, the government had begun building clinics, and residences for doctors, nurses and commissioners in the Family Islands. He began bidding on those jobs. He won the bid for a job in Alice Town, Eleuthera and he was on his way. He was the first black to build in Spanish Wells. He built the Commissioner’s residence in Sandy Port, Abaco. In Ragged Island, he built the library and the Commissioner’s office. And he built the June Levy Clinic in Governor’s Harbor, Eleuthera. Working with Architect Donald Cartwright, he built a good reputation in Eleuthera. This led to him working with Robertson Ward Associates in building high end homes in Windermere and Cotton Bay.

At the age of 14, Stanley had met the girl of his dreams and had determined then that one day she would be his wife. So shortly after he made the decisions to quit drinking and start working for himself as an independent contractor, he made two other lifealtering decisions. He decided to court his dream-girl and he decided to study and join the Seventh-day Adventist Church. Ruby Charlotte Rookwood was one of the Hay Street-Farm Road Rookwood sisters, of Inagua descent. They had become friends. So, after writing a letter to her father requesting permission to “call” on her, and being approved, he began to court his lady love. The smart, tomboyish, Government High School educated teacher trainee, accepted his overtures and they “kept company”. As


she was a Seventh-day Adventist, he took interest in her church and after careful and deliberate study, he joined the Grants Town SDA Church, in 1948, and never looked back. The two young people were joined in holy wedlock on July 17, 1951, in close proximity to their friends, Alfred and Mary Brennen. Out of this union came 7 children, 6 boys (1 deceased) and one girl. They are all products of christian education.

In fact, our father believed so strongly in christian education that he felt no sacrifice was too great for his children to attend our schools. At one point, there were five of us off in school, at his expense. We inquired of him one day as to how it was that he didn’t follow his contemporaries and invest in duplexes and apartment buildings. His response was that he and Mom made the conscious and deliberate choice to invest in their children rather than in property. That’s how important they considered Ellen G. Whites’ counsel. That’s how important they considered their children and the role of christian education in their development. His children came first. A little later, Dad was offered the Gouda Water Pump Franchise by a Miami businessman. But he turned it down primarily because his construction business was taking off and he did not want any sideline that would interfere with his church work.

Stanley Alfred Major was an extraordinary man, tall in impact and influence. He adopted Christ’s instructions to be “salt of the earth” and “light to the world”. He was a selfless man who put others before himself: family, church, staff. He was a self-made or rather “god-made” man who with the support of his wife and the strength of God, pulled himself up by the boot straps, starting as an office boy, then an apprentice, helper, mason, master craftsman to a full-fledged and fully qualified building contractor. He was a self-educated man with only a third-grade school education. But his insatiable thirst for knowledge and for God’s Word made him an avid reader of the Bible, biographies, newspapers, magazines, and the like. He paid attention to the news, first on radio then on tv. He observed, listened, and learned from those around him who had attained higher education and leadership positions.

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Did you know that Elder S.A. Major was the first Bahamian “layman” recommended for a scholarship at West Indies College to be trained as a full-fledged Minister? Thanks to the quality of this man: his service to his church, his dedication and support for his church, his evangelistic capabilities and activities, his leadership abilities, allowed him to be recognized as pastor material. He would have been a full-time worker in his Lord’s work. This was an opportunity of a lifetime. Unfortunately, it was not to be. Family commitments made him decline the opportunity. It should be remembered that while the first cadre of Bahamian pastors were being trained at West Indies College, laymen such as my father, Daniel A. McMillan, Jack Dean, Alfred 6

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A. Brennen and others, were laboring in the trenches, evangelizing, and building up the work, until such time as the West Indies College-trained pastors returned to provide leadership in the church work. He concentrated on giving his all to the Lord in serving His church as a layman. A prime example of “stewardship-inaction”, Bro. Major gave generously of his time, talents, treasure and (body) temple. As a leader in the Grants Church, under the mentorship of Elder D.A. McMillan (father of Dr. L.V., Dr. Curtis, Dr. W.R., Elder Cyril and Bro. Danny McMillan) he gave stellar support and leadership to the church and its mission. Under the tutelage of Elder Jack Dean, Mr. Prophecy, he was instrumental in nurturing and building up The Englerston Church (now New Englerston).

His evangelizing and “church planting” in the Family Islands are not so well known. As a builder, he traveled around the country for various building projects. Wherever he went, he established a branch sabbath school if there was no church presence If there was a church,he attached himself and helped to nurture, support and grow the church. In those days, local pastors were few and not resident in the islands, so pastoral visits were few. Ragged Island, Eleuthera, Andros, Berry Islands, Exuma, were some of the islands where he labored. In addition to all the above, from 1952 to 1979, he served on the Mission/ Conference Executive Committee. It should be noted that he accepted not one dime for his service. Most of those years, he would have had to travel from one of the islands to come to Nassau to


attend the meetings. He always paid his own fare, never accepting payment or reimbursement for his travel expenses. He believed that if you put God first, God would take care of you. He believed that you couldn’t beat God giving, no matter how hard you tried. All he ever wanted was to serve his God and fully represent Him as an “Ambassador for Christ” and have his children know and love and serve God to the best of their ability. Dad’s health began to decline about 10 years ago. Prostate problems, followed by a series of strokes, eventually left him bedridden. His most pressing regrets were that he could no longer attend to his ailing wife and could no longer attend church. In the last few years, this active, and hard-working man of God, had several near brushes with death but bounced back after a while. Finally, it became clear that he was weary in body and spirit. We recognized around April/ May of this year that his time was

approaching. During the early morning hours of May 31, 2022, a Tuesday, Dad surrendered and breathed his last. Our fervent prayer is that we will meet him again, soon, on the resurrection morning.

GREAT GRANDCHILDREN Kailee, Braydon, Major; Kasidee Howells, Lily Major.

He will be fondly remembered by:

NIECES, NEPHEWS INCLUDING Rudolph Young, Judy Lindner, George Kerr, Ena Cooper, Perry DeCosta, Debbie Abduliahwali, Sheron V. McKenzie, Antoinette Kerr; Priscilla Rollins & Family; Joan Deveaux, Anton(Emily), Kim, Dawne Sturrup; Cindy(Douglas) Sawyer, Owen and Jason Major; Andrea Wood; Mario, Carolyn, April, Dwight, Robert, Thomas, Randy and Julie Major; Stephanie Weir; Wealthia (Dr. Leslie) McMillan & Family; Marsha Elliott & Family, Annette(Glen) Fisher and Family, Andrew(LeAnn) Ifill & Family; Opal and Hubert Roach, and Family.

FAMILY His loving and devoted wife of 70 years: Dr. Ruby Charlotte Rookwood-Major. CHILDREN Don (Olga), Colyn (Linda), Keith (Linda), Craig, Stanlyn, Ricardo (Mavis) Major, Paul (Bibi) Rolle, Barry Shane Saunders, Ena (Carney) Cooper; Hatchie (Diane) Robinson Pastor Leonardo (Paulyn) Rahming, Darrell (Deborah) Russell. GRAND CHILDREN Keith Jr., Rory (Vi-Ola), Brandon(Krystal), Devin(Rusara), Don Jr. Major, Maximus Andrews, Rishab, Seth, Rahyl Rolle.

BROTHER Densil (Lilly) Major

SISTERS-IN-LAW Olga Roach, Delores Ifill, Virginia Major, Lilly(Densil) Major.

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RELATIVES, IN-LAWS & FRIENDS Wendall Albury and Family; Nellie Brown; Descendants of Emmaline Cartwright; Descendants of Joseph and Louisa Brown; Descendants of John Felix Vanderpool; Ralph and Olga Vanderpool; Deputy Commissioner of Police (retired), Keith and Mabel Mason and Family; Edith Young and Family; Ollimae Tynes and Family; Ree Bourne and Family; Dr. Ruth White and Family; Ruth Walkes and Family; Beverley Laroda, Helena Hepburn, Marissa Rolle & Aria, The Antonio Family; Amos Flowers and Family; Majorie Adderley and Family; Roland Brown and Family; Charles Miller and Family; Arlington and Judy Wood, and Family; Ruth McKinney and Family, Dr. Herbert(Avery) Thompson and Family; Lydia Browne and Family; the Rollins Family; the Guillaume Family; Kenneth & Ernestine Williams and Family; Harold and Carol Dorsett, and Family; Carol and Carlos Mitchell and Family; Cyril and Eloise Johnson, and Family; Lorraine Bowleg, Dr. S. Peter and Joanne Campbell, and Family; Mrs. Gwen McDeigan and Family; Allan, Rosemary Hanna and Family; Gary King, Petronah Moncur and siblings, Darrell and Deborah Russell, and Family; the Brennen Family; the McKinney Family; the Scavella Family; the Moncur Family; the Cartwright Families; the Toote Family; the Forbes Family; the Woods Family; The Curtis Family; the Colebrooke Family; the Haven Family; the Romer Family; the Sturrup Family; David and Pansy Brown and Family; Rodman Forbes and Siblings; The Rahming Family; the Rolle Family; the Knowles’ Family; 8

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Curline Forbes and Family; Winome Flowers and Family; Harry and Ken Lockhart; Joy Goffe; University of the Bahamas; and many others too numerous to mention. GOD CHILDREN: Carlton Campbell, Jr; Nigel Audley Lewis, Jr. NEIGHBORS: Mr. and Mrs. Gaitor, Mr. Garth Nash and Family; Mrs. Miller, Mary Roberts and Family; Mr. Shervin Stuart and Family; The Perpall Track Community; The McKinney Drive Community; The Polehemus Gardens and Chippingham Community The extended families of: Linda Woodside-Major; Linda Lewis-Major; Olga Hepburn-Major; Viola Barnett Major; Krystal Major Members of the following Seventhday Adventist churches, conferences, Union: Centreville, Johnson Park, Grants Town, Ephesus, Coconut Grove, Florida; Miami-Bethany, Florida; The North Bahamas Conference, The South Bahamas Conference, Atlantic Caribbean Union Seventhday Adventist communities in Andros, Eleuthera, Exuma and Crooked Island Other Churches: Antioch Baptist, Wesley Methodist, Holy Trinity All Pastors and their Families of the Atlantic Caribbean Union (ATCU) ALL THOSE PERSONS WHO KNEW STANLEY MAJOR AND HIS FAMILY

Special Thanks to: The Turnquest Family of Lil’ General; Elder Bursil Wallace and Family; Doctors John Carter, Kevin Moss, Monique Mitchell, Joseph Evans, Mandela Kerr, and Hastings Johnson; Nurse Mario Rahming, Primary Care Assistants: Herbert Thompson; Kadesha Rolle; Caregiver Ann Charite; Cecil Jr. and Eldena Cartwright; Leroy and Delores Moncur; Fannette Albury; Praise Reunion. We sincerely apologize if we overlooked anyone. Please be assured that it was not intentional. We appreciate your love, prayers and understanding as we go through this period of bereavement.


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Service

ORDER OF ENTRANCE OF FAMILY Pathfinder Colour Party

Opening Remarks | Dr. Michael D. Toote Pastor, Hillview Seventh-day Adventist Church PRAISE REUNION MUSICAL Coordinator of Music | Harold Dorsett Musicians | Nelson Dorsett Pastor Barrington Brennen Congregational Hymn | “Great Is Thy Faithfulness” Great is Thy faithfulness, O God my Father; There is no shadow of turning with Thee. Thou changest not, thy compassions, they fail not; As Thou hast been Thou forever wilt be.

Summer and winter and springtime and harvest, Sun, moon, and stars in their courses above Join with all nature in manifold witness To Thy great faithfulness, mercy, and love.

Great is Thy faithfulness! Great is Thy faithfulness! Morning by morning new mercies I see: All I have needed Thy hand hath provided— Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me!

Pardon for sin and a peace that endureth, Thine own dear presence to cheer and to guide, Strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow— Blessings all mine, with ten thousand beside!

Prayer of Invocation | Dr. Kent Price Assistant to the President, Atlantic Caribbean Union of Seventh-day Adventists (ATCU) Condolences and Tributes | Dr. Dennis Ross (Video Presentation) Southern Union Conference of Seventh-day Adventists (Retired) Dr. Calvin Rock: (Video Presentation) Retired VP General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists, Former President of Oakwood University and Former President and Chairman of the Loma Linda University Hospital Boards Dr. Nigel Lewis Family Friend Elder Charles Miller Family Friend 10 | Stanley Alfred Major | A Life & Legacy


Musical Tribute | No More Night | Allison Mason-Rolle (Family) First Scripture Reading | Psalm 24 | Devin Major (Grandson) 24 2 3 4

The earth is the Lord’s, and the fulness thereof; the world, and they that dwell therein. For he hath founded it upon the seas, and established it upon the floods. Who shall ascend into the hill of the Lord? or who shall stand in his holy place? He that hath clean hands, and a pure heart; who hath not lifted up his soul unto vanity, nor sworn deceit fully. 5 He shall receive the blessing from the Lord, and righteousness from the God of his salvation. 6 This is the generation of them that seek him, that seek thy face, O Jacob. Selah. 7 Lift up your heads, O ye gates; and be ye lift up, ye everlasting doors; and the King of glory shall come in. 8 Who is this King of glory? The Lord strong and mighty, the Lord mighty in battle. 9 Lift up your heads, O ye gates; even lift them up, ye everlasting doors; and the King of glory shall come in. 10 Who is this King of glory? The Lord of hosts, he is the King of glory. Selah.

Musical Tribute | The South Bahamas Conference of Seventh-day Adventists Meistersingers Condolences and Tributes | Dr. John Carey Retired Pastor and Educator, South Bahamas Conference of Seventh-day Adventists Dr. Peter Joseph Personal Ministries Director, South Bahamas Conference of Seventh-day Adventists Pastor Michael Smith Director, Atlantic Caribbean Union of Seventh-day Adventists Video Musical Tribute | Joel McPhee: Until Then (Family Friend) Video Photo Tribute | Stanley Major Family Slideshow Congregational Hymn | “Joy By and By” Oh, there’ll be joy when the work is done, Joy when the reapers gather home, Bringing the sheaves at set of sun To the New Jerusalem.

Sweet are the songs that we hope to sing, Grateful the thanks our hearts shall bring, Praising forever Christ our King In the New Jerusalem.

Joy, joy, there’ll be joy by and by, Joy, joy, where the joys never die; Joy, joy, joy, for the day draweth nigh When the workers gather home.

Pure are the joys that await us there, Many the golden mansions fair; Jesus Himself doth them prepare, In the New Jerusalem.

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Second scripture Reading | 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 | Brandon Major (Grandson) 13 But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. 14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him. 15 For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep. 16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: 17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. 18 Wherefore comfort one another with these words. Musical Tribute | Centreville Seventh-day Adventist Church Choir Condolences and Tributes | Pastor Eric D. Clarke President, North Bahamas Conference of Seventh-day Adventists Pastor Leonardo Rahaming Executive Secretary, South Bahamas Conference of Seventh-day Adventists Dr. Peter Kerr President, Atlantic Caribbean Union of Seventh-day Adventists Dr. Leonard Johnson Executive Secretary, Inter-American Division of Seventh-day Adventists Musical Tribute | Dr. Marvin Smith (Family Friend) Reflections | Dr. Leslie V. McMillan (Video Presentation) Retired Departmental Director of Stewardship, Inter-American Division of the General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists First Elder Barry Shane Saunders (Son) First Elder, Johnson Park Seventh-day Adventist Church Musical Tribute | Elder Charles B. Zonicle (Family Friend) As I Knew Him | Rory Major (Grandson) Musical Tribute | Ena Cooper, Antoinette Kerr and Claudia Seymour (Nieces) As I Knew Him | Don Major (Son) 12 | Stanley Alfred Major | A Life & Legacy


Major Family Musical Tribute | “Rise Again” | The Major Clan Introduction of Speaker | Pastor Melvin Lewis Message of Hope Seventh-day Adventist Church Song of Meditation | Duet | Harold Dorsett and Carol Mitchell Homily | Dr. Paul A. Scavella Pastor, Centreville Seventh-day Adventist Church Prayer for family | Dr. Michael D. Toote Pastor, Hillview Seventh-day Adventist Church Recessional Hymn | “When We All Get To Heaven” Sing the wondrous love of Jesus, Sing His mercy and His grace; In the mansions bright and blessed He’ll prepare for us a place.

While we walk the pilgrim pathway Clouds will overspread the sky; But when trav’ling days are over Not a shadow, not a sigh.

When we all get to heaven, What a day of rejoicing that will be! When we all see Jesus, We’ll sing and shout the victory!

Let us then be true and faithful, Trusting, serving ev’ry day; Just one glimpse of Him in glory Will the toils of life repay.

Onward to the prize before us! Soon His beauty we’ll behold; Soon the pearly gates will open– We shall tread the streets of gold.

GRAVESIDE SERVICE Processional | Pathfinders Welcome | Dr. Paul A. Scavella Scripture | 1 Corinthians 13:12 “We see through a glass darkly…” | Elder Harrison Moxey Centreville Seventh-day Adventist Church Committal | Pastor Leonardo Rahming

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Family Tributes Hymns | “And Can It Be” And can it be that I should gain An int’rest in the Savior’s blood? Died He for me, who caused His pain? For me, who Him to death pursued? Amazing love! how can it be That Thou, my God, should die for me?

He left His Father’s throne above, So free, so infinite His grace; Emptied Himself of all but love, And bled for Adam’s helpless race; ‘Tis mercy all, immense and free; For, O my God, it found out me.

Amazing love! how can it be That Thou, my God, should die for me!

Long my imprisoned spirit lay Fast bound in sin and nature’s night; Thine eye diffused a quick’ning ray, I woke, the dungeon flamed with light; My chains fell off, my heart was free; I rose, went forth and followed Thee.

No condemnation now I dread; Jesus, and all in Him is mine! Alive in Him, my living Head, And clothed in righteousness divine, Bold I approach th’eternal throne, And claim the crown, through Christ my own.

My Hope Is Built My hope is built on nothing less Than Jesus’ blood and righteousness; I dare not trust the sweetest frame, But wholly lean on Jesus’ name. On Christ, the solid Rock, I stand: All other ground is sinking sand; All other ground is sinking sand. When darkness veils his lovely face, I rest on his unchanging grace; In every high and stormy gale, My anchor holds within the veil.

His oath, his covenant, his blood, Support me in the whelming flood; When all around my soul gives way, He then is all my hope and stay. When he shall come with trumpet sound, O may I then in him be found: Dressed in his righteousness alone, Faultless to stand before the throne.

Jesus Is Coming Again

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Lift up the trumpet, and loud let it ring: Jesus is coming again! Cheer up, ye pilgrims, be joyful and sing; Jesus is coming again!

Coming again, coming again, Jesus is coming again!

Heaving’s of earth, tell the vast, wondering throng: Jesus is coming again! Tempests and whirlwinds, the anthem prolong; Jesus is coming again!

Echo it, hilltops; proclaim it, ye plains: Jesus is coming again! Coming in glory, the Lamb that was slain; Jesus is coming again! Nations are angry by this we do know Jesus is coming again! Knowledge increases; men run to and fro; Jesus is coming again!

We Speak of the Realms We speak of the realms of the blest, That country so bright and so fair, And oft are its glories confessed; But what must it be to be there! We speak of its pathway of gold; Its walls decked with jewels so rare, Its wonders and pleasures untold; But what must it be to be there!

Our mourning is all at an end, When, raised by the life-giving word, We see the new city descend, Adorned as a bride for her Lord; The city so holy and clean, No sorrow can breathe in the air; No gloom of affliction or sin, No shadow of evil, is there.

We speak of its freedom from sin, From sorrow, temptation and care, From trials without and within; But what must it be to be there! We speak of its service of love, Of the robes which the glorified wear, Of the church of the Firstborn above; But what must it be to be there!

Do Thou, midst temptation and woe, For heaven my spirit prepare; And shortly I also shall know And feel what it is to be there. Then o’er the bright fields we shall roam, In glory celestial and fair, With saints and with angels at home, And Jesus Himself will be there.

Prayer for Family | Elder Todd Beneby First Elder, Centreville Seventh-day Adventist Church

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Remarks | Bethel Brothers Morticians Closing Hymn | “Abide With Me” Abide with me: fast falls the eventide; the darkness deepens; Lord, with me abide. When other helpers fail and comforts flee, Help of the helpless, O abide with me. Swift to its close ebbs out life’s little day; earth’s joys grow dim, its glories pass away. Change and decay in all around I see. O thou who changest not, abide with me. I need thy presence every passing hour. What but thy grace can foil the tempter’s power? Who like thyself my guide and strength can be? Through cloud and sunshine, O abide with me. I fear no foe with thee at hand to bless, ills have no weight, and tears no bitterness. Where is death’s sting? Where, grave, thy victory? I triumph still, if thou abide with me. Benediction | Elder Clayton Forbes Centreville Seventh-day Adventist Church

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RUBY’S TRIBUTE TO STANLEY: BY DR. RUBY CHARLOTTE MAJOR My Husband, my Forever Love Adapted from Linda Sackett Morrison Your friendship and love, and all the wonderful things they brought to my life, were like nothing else I’ve ever known. My heart was complete with the love we shared, and our love grew more beautiful each day. Moments of success came and went, and material things brought us momentary joy. But you were with me always...in a smile, a touch, a memory, a feeling, or a moment we shared. Friends entered our lives, sometimes only for a short time, but the friendship we shared was deep and secure. Even if everyone else suddenly left me, I knew that I’d still have you as my best friend. We passed through different phases of life with all their changes and challenges, and one day turned into another. But through it all, our love was constant. You lent me strength when I needed it most and gave me a precious gift each day by loving me just the way I was. I don’t know how you did it, but in your own special way, you filled my life and heart with a wondrous joy that will always be present. You made my life complete, and I loved it, I still love it. Together we loved our children and gave them special care. But most and best of all we loved God and served Him faithfully. So long my best friend until we see Jesus on that glorious Morning. Adapted from Linda Sackett-Morrison

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DON MAJOR FIRSTBORN SON TRIBUTE: My Dad was larger than life, large and in charge because he was a man of God. He put God first and foremost and his steps were ordered by the Lord. His wife and children were next in importance and he committed them and entrusted them to God every single day. His church, the Seventh-day Adventist Church was next as he gave his all in service to the church as a leader and officer. Most of our lives, growing up, he was a senior leader or Senior Local Elder. So essentially, we were raised as “PKs” or preacher’s kids, to our chagrin. That meant, of course, that his children were products of christian education, from kindergarten through college and graduate school. In his professional life, he was renowned as an excellent building contractor. His 20 | Stanley Alfred Major | A Life & Legacy

integrity and honesty were such that it was said that his word was his bond. Owners and architects could leave the job site for days and have no doubt that the right quality materials in the right quantities and proportion would have been utilized, as specified in the contract. He got his start as a mason, who worked hard and worked his way up, step by step, ably supported by his teacher wife, now Dr. Ruby Rookwood Major. A very generous and unselfish man, he mentored, apprenticed and/or provided jobs for many of his brethren and comrades. I still meet men who tell me that they learned trade under him or got their start with him. A busy man, a serious man, he took time to play with us at Montague and Clifford Park. He helped us get our start in “Pingpong” or table tennis so that we were among the best players in school and church. He was also a teacher, a builder of men. He was sought out by young men who valued his wisdom and counsel, his ability to correct and admonish without judging and condemning them. He and Mom have many “sons and daughters” not by birth but by adoption. It took us a minute but we got used to it. So we have many brothers and sisters from other mothers and fathers especially our Johnson Park Church Family. He was a special man who knew who he was, who knew his place and purpose. He was a man of God who belonged to God, so he bowed to no man. No man was his master. God was his master, his guide, his protector, his provider, so he always, always, stood on principle, stood for justice and fair play, a spokesman for the defenceless, the oppressed, those who had no voice. For that he paid a price. He knew victimization and discrimination, but he took it like a man, bruised and bloodied but unbowed and unbroken. Even when we didn’t understand, he stood up and spoke out, on the job, in the church,

in the country. No matter the consequences, he stood for right doing and right living. Because he trusted his God. And his God did not disappoint. I will miss him terribly. For me, when other boys and young men found their role models in sports or movies or politics/ government or business/corporate world, for me, the number one son, their was only and always one role model - my Dad! Construction is hard work and in the early days, before he became the boss, he worked hard and long. Additionally, he worked hard as a draftsman. He worked equally as hard in church work. We swore he was a pastor because in those days, pastors were few and you didn’t see them for weeks. We often felt that his church work and family life were in competition. Fortunately, he had a supportive and capable partner/wife. I will miss him but I’m happy his struggle is over. When the resurrection morning comes, I intend to meet and greet my Dad again. Even so come, Lord Jesus! See you soon Dad! Maranatha!


MY DAD: MY ROLE MODEL BY COLYN MAJOR, SECOND SON (NUMBER TWO) My dad was my role model: in life and in marriage. He was handsome and debonair. Always dressed GQ and if I had my wish he would be on the cover of Esquire Magazine. He was a very fine man, a gentleman of the highest order, a loving and devoted husband, A servant leader, a counsellor and a forever friend. One who loved the Lord first and foremost, my mother, his wife of almost 71-years, his family, his church and his country. He was one of the best building contractors I have ever known. My dad made his mark in life, in work, in his church, the community, in his home and in his family. He always strived for excellence in everything he did. His Mind was always sharp. People often remarked at his wisdom and insight and though he was “not educated in the schools of the Rabbis many marveled and took knowledge of him, that he had been with jesus. Yes, my father got him wisdom from time spent alone with Jesus each day reading the Holy Bible and the Spirit of Prophecy, talking with Jesus and surrendering to Jesus. He had a higher learning than that which was gained from institutions of higher learning: he sat at thee feet of Jesus. But make no mistake: my dad believed in and supported Christian education. He made certain that all of his children attended Christian schools, from kindergarten to high school and then college. When my mother received her Ph. D from Florida International University he was there to share in her accomplishment. He was so very proud of her. She was his Queen. Dad was creative in his work and drawing plans for buildings and construction. He was good at giving you a great product even if you had a small budget. Dad gave wise counsel to all who sought him out: young and old, male and female, no matter their status in life. He was a principled man and I will miss his fatherly advice that have guided me up to the time of his passing. But the memories of him will remain in my heart, mind and soul forever. I love this man: Stanley Alfred Major and I’m proud to call him “father”! Whenever I would go to visit him each day, he would always say: “My Son! My Son” I will always cherish those endearing words of greeting from My Dad: My Role Model. I love you Dad! Your Son, Colyn A Life & Legacy | Stanley Alfred Major |

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KEITH MAJOR TRIBUTE TO DAD BY KEITH MAJOR, THIRD SON My Father became choir leader at Johnson park Sda church when I was 8 years of age. He had no pianist but was sending me to music lessons….so he conscripted me to become his ‘ musician’. I had no choice in the matter. We would practice Tuesday night, Friday night, Saturday afternoons with each lasting three hours. Thus we spent many hours together. From him I formed my value system which included such elements as determination, dedication, commitment, punctuality, self discipline, trust in God. Without this I would not have had success in music. I thank my Dad for this and the other virtues of being kind, loving everyone and helping people. Many of these things I took for granted until his passing. The beautiful hope is that we will meet again on that resurrection day. Get your rest Dad… I’ll see you on that Great getting up mornin’ Your third son Keith

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TRIBUTE FROM CRAIG MAJOR: FOURTH SON A life well lived is a precious gift Of hope and strength and grace, From someone who has made our world A brighter, better place It’s filled with moments, sweet and sad With smiles and sometimes tears, With friendships formed and good times shared And laughter through the years. A life well lived is a legacy Of joy and pride and pleasure, A living, lasting memory Our grateful hearts will treasure. Poem by Anonymous May each of you remember him as he influenced and added to our lives. He lived for his god and his family. His heart guided his decisions in life. He always wanted the best for everyone. That is my father. Your Son, Craig

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TRIBUTE TO DAD: STANLYN MAJOR, DAUGHTER Dad, a giant, loved, but heavily revered. He was wise and he knew it…ALWAYS giving counsel. He was determined to give advice, even if you did not request it! I saw him as the great influencer, injecting his thoughts into your head without your even asking. He was always so serious; it drove me nuts! He seemed to have no room for play; but finally, one day, that aha moment came. He would throw a smart remark towards Mom and then go into pure, bellyaching, fits of laughter! I was like, “Wow, Dad, I love it. Keep doing it! Laughter is good medicine!” I got a chance to see the mischievous little boy that I had often heard about. Those moments were invaluable! I will forever cherish them. I am named for him; imagine that!!! What an honor! Stanlyn Alfreda Major

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TRIBUTE BY “J” KEITH L. MAJOR JR. It was crusade time. My brothers and I were there sitting up front on those wooden fold up chairs, under the tent. My dad’s there pinging away on that old upright piano. Meanwhile my Grandfather is at the helm of the pulpit conducting the audience, while raising, what I believed to be the nightly theme song. “Something beautiful. Something good. All my confusion, he understood. All I had to offer him was brokenness and strife. But he made something, really beautiful, of my life.” It was the essence of him. Leadership, spreading the message of Seventh-Day Adventism, song, and music. If you were to add a hearty feast with my Grammy, their children, myself and his other grandsons, that would have completed him. I watched with pride. Man I walked with pride and confidence after he said to me one day: “Jay! They use to say, ‘look at that handsome major boy walking down farm Road?” Grammy wanted a doctor. You see she had been to THE Government High School with fellow classmates that had names like Pindling and WallaceWhitfield. But the handsome Major boy, who was a mason at the time, wanted her. Grampy went on to spend the rest of his life proving to her that he could love, cherish and partner with her better than any doggone physician could. In fact, I honestly believe that he only made it through May to share her birthday with her on the 10th. Boy they were a team. Grammy would lay out the facts and the issues, and then on cue he’d bring the

emotion; humanizing it while adding a little tears on top. Daddy and the other siblings would antagonize the ole man every chance they got, never scratching below the surface though. But he’d laugh it off. Uncle Roddy often got him though. He had the uncanny ability of bringing the man to his knees and launching him back up to the stars in an instant. I don’t think he could bear to open Rock’s (Roddy) obituary up to his very own death. Throughout his 80’s and early 90’s I watched him evolve right before my eyes. He wasn’t as stern and subjective. The man became more humble, down-to-earth and jovial. At times I felt I could possible tell him that the special ingredient that made mommy’s and in turn Grammy’s fruit cake delicious, was what was in that brown paper bag that they both had conspired to snuggle into his home, affectionately referred to as “Da ting”. Lol. He would laugh and tell me how my dad foolishly blew his allowance on all of the kids in the neighborhood as a child. And then in the next breath tell me how daddy had been so kind to the two of them over the years. Roddy once told my parents that ‘Pa Maj’ (Grampy), he wept when he found out my dad had eloped with my mom. Forty years later, he wept while declaring to me that she was “tops”. In that bedroom on McKinney Drive he would give me his recollections and thoughts of the entire clan, from the Super smart (Don & Colyn), the ones that brought him the most laughter (Keith and Roddy), the nicest guy in the world (Cardo), to his one and only (Lindy). Meanwhile I’m staring at him. His head tilted to the side, strong cheek bones and slightly bowed legs. And I’m saying to myself: Man Uncle Craig cut right off this dude. Grampy’s time, energy and resources were spent primarily in the SDA Community,

here and abroad. Admittedly this made me quite jealous at times. However, understanding came when I witnessed him harvesting from this as a senior citizen. So many of those people helped him. Just the day before he died I was approached by a business partner whom I had a very tumultuous relationship within the past. The deal sounded sweet. Man I’d been thinking of all the various controls that I could put in place to protect myself from the fellows deceitful nature. And then a loud voice cried out to me from 2-years earlier saying: “Jay! Get out of that! You need your peace.” I had to listen to Pa Maj man. I’m just ‘Lil Maj’. It was the wise thing to do. Roaming the settlement of Mortimer’s, Long Island with his grandmother Emeline Cartwright, walking down Farm Road, packing lavish care boxes to send to his sons in boarding school in Jamaica, flying in from Miami, in the 80’s and teaching my mother how to fix scallop potatoes, telling of the mangoes he and Grammy ate in Mandeville in the 90’s, harmonizing the happy birthday song with his children at a celebration dinner, learning of his grandsons’ lives with keen interest and fascination. Man this was his life. He was good and God was good to him. “All I hath needed thy hand hath provided…” “JAY” Keith L. Major Jr.

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TRIBUTE FROM: THE ROACHES: Our family has lost a giant of a man and once again, another patriarch is gone, leaving our family chain broken. Uncle Stanley was an extraordinary, generous, God-fearing man who not only took good care of his family, but all those around him. He was a strong tower, hardworking, disciplinarian and no-nonsense man. Working as a contractor, Uncle Stanley mastered the trade. He was so good that he was always in demand and was called on to work on many high-end projects throughout the country. Perfection and quality craftsmanship were his trademarks. And while he was a contractor extraordinaire, he was also more than a brother-inlaw to the Rookwood sisters. We looked up to him as a dear brother who minced no words in giving sound advice. His good deed of sprinkling nuggets of wisdom on all, provides the impetus for his legacy to live on. The passing of this giant of a man, reminds us that we can make our lives sublime, departing, leaving behind footprints on the sands of time. As we bid you farewell Uncle Stanley, you will never be forgotten. Your fond memories we shall cherish until we meet again. Forever in our hearts, the Roaches. 26 | Stanley Alfred Major | A Life & Legacy

TRIBUTE FROM: DELORES IFILL AND THE WHOLE FAMILY God looked around his garden, And found an empty place, He then looked down upon the earth, And saw your tired face. He put his arms around you, And lifted you to rest. God’s garden must be beautiful, He always takes the best. He saw the road was getting rough, And the hills were hard to climb, So, he closed your weary eye lids, And whispered, “Peace be thine.” It broke our hearts to lose you, But you didn’t go alone, For part of us went with you, The day God called you home. From: Delores Ifill and the whole family.


TRIBUTE FROM: THE ROACHES:

Our family has lost a giant of a man and once again, another patriarch is gone, leaving our family chain broken. Uncle Stanley was an extraordinary, generous, God-fearing man who not only took good care of his family, but all those around him. He was a strong tower, hardworking, disciplinarian and no-nonsense man. Working as a contractor, Uncle Stanley mastered the trade. He was so good that he was always in demand and was called on to work on many high-end projects throughout the country. Perfection and quality craftsmanship were his trademarks. And while he was a contractor extraordinaire, he was also more than a brother-in-law to the Rookwood sisters. We looked up to him as a dear brother who minced no words in giving sound advice. His good deed of sprinkling nuggets of wisdom on all, provides the impetus for his legacy to live on. The passing of this giant of a man, reminds us that we can make our lives sublime, departing, leaving behind footprints on the sands of time. As we bid you farewell Uncle Stanley, you will never be forgotten. Your fond memories we shall cherish until we meet again. Forever in our hearts, the Roaches.

MEMOIRS OF A TRUE VILLAGER – STANLEY A. MAJOR BY DR. ALTHEA MCMILLAN Long before the proverb “It takes a village to raise a child” became popular in the twentieth century, Bahamian communities enjoyed the benefits of this practice. In the 1950s and 60s, we were privileged to benefit from a church community and a neighborhood community. We are products of both, and a key figure in our village was Elder Stanley A. Major. As teenagers in the Grants Town church during in the 1950s and 60s, we were taught more than Bible truths. We learnt lessons deliberately and incidentally that prepared us for life. Brother Major was an elder in the days when the term had meaning; when we were not just “told”, we were “shown”. He provided opportunities for aspiring young people, providing me a full-time job after completing high school. Years later, Wendell II got his training in the trades from Bro. Major during a Summer job. S. A. exemplified the characteristics of a true “villager”: sincere - his word and life were congruent; cooperative – his support and nurture helped to “grow” leaders; hardworking – with positive proof of his labors; hospitable – his heart and home were open to all of us. The Stanley Major legacy was not confined to the Bahamas, nor limited to our era. During their years as working professionals in Miami, Florida, the Majors continued their work at Bethany SDA Church. Our daughter, Laurel, and her husband, Kevin, joined their village, and still claim Roddy, Ricardo and Stanlyn as siblings. The Major influence reached West Indies College (now NCU) in Jamaica via Keith and Craig – the debater and singer, respectively. Don was the standard bearer at Oakwood, whom the Webs and others still hold in high regard, and he blazed the trail for Rory, who became Laurel’s son years later. Meanwhile, back in Nassau, Colyn, Coralie, our daughter, and Ethan, our son-in-law, developed a permanent, synergistic relationship. Colyn keeps us engaged with higher education issues, in true “Dr. Ruby fashion”. According to Don, my constant collegial contact, “It’s been a wonderful connection for decades.” We know the benefits and the potential of a village. Elder Stanley will be remembered for so many wonderful traits, but we will always treasure him as one who was not afraid to “speak his truth”, even if it meant losing favor with those in authority. Years after he retired, he accompanied his wife to Mandeville, Jamaica, where we were serving. Again, we were privileged to sit at his feet, and he earned our respect. In that university community, S. A. Major was a preferred Sabbath School teacher - knowledgeable, articulate, engaging, with meaningful, practical experiences. Indeed, he held his own among the academicians. Tom Ziglar defines legacy as “teaching and transferring the habits that build character, integrity, and wisdom, which ripple through eternity.” Elder S. A. has bequeathed to all of us a legacy, a spiritual gift that will endure through time, and fit us for eternity. His heirs, born and unborn, and those of us who were a part of his village for most of our lives, can face the future with strength and courage, as proud beneficiaries of Elder Stanley Major’s legacy. May God hold Dr. Ruby and the entire family close to His bosom. With our love and prayers Drs. Wendell R. & Althea L. McMillan A Life & Legacy | Stanley Alfred Major |

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TRIBUTE FOR THE LATE STANLEY MAJOR: FRIEND, MENTOR, CONFIDANT, ELDER EMERITUS

A TRIBUTE TO BRO. STANLEY A. MAJOR FROM THE LOCKHART FAMILY

Today, my wife, Pat and I pay tribute to the Major’s family with the passing of our dear Elder Stanley Major with whom we have had a great friendship for over 52 years. It all began at the Johnson Park Seventh-day Adventist Church where the Majors and the Stewartsons worshipped together. As the years passed on the friendship grew stronger as parents and children bonded even closer, embracing common values and enjoying good fellowship. The memories are too many to tell but one thing remained constant and that is, our ongoing friendship and concern for each other. Even when we were physically separated from each other, the opportunities for us to visit the Bahamas and for the Majors to visit Jamaica, found us at each other’s home. Such was one of those occasions when we housed Elder Major and his wife Dr. Ruby Major. It was such a pleasure and joy to have them, and we know that was the same experience when we visited them in the Bahamas on different occasions.

It was after the passing of Hurricane Donna, Aug/Sept., 1960 which left Ragged Island devastated that our mother became acquainted with Brother Stanley Majorwho came to the Island to rebuild the Ragged Island All Age School in Duncan Town.

From: The Henry And Stewartson Families

Our generation will long treasure the mentoring that we received from the Majors during our stay in the Bahamas. Their children and ourselves were beneficiaries of sound council and good advice that aided us well when it was time to choose a life partner. His godly and spiritual example was an inspiration and we will long cherish the guidance that has helped us in raising our own families. We owe a great debt of gratitude to him for being there for us and for adopting us into his family. Elder Stanley Major, this spiritual giant, now sleeps in Christ, and on the authority of God’s word we can weep if we may but not without hope. For we are assured that those who sleep in Christ will be raised in the first resurrection and will be caught up to meet the Lord in the air and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Comfort one another with these promises and let us continue to abide in Christ as He abides in us. “Oh, that will be joyful when we meet to part no more.” With much love and prayers from the Henrys and the Stewartsons. MARANATHA 28 | Stanley Alfred Major | A Life & Legacy

by Maureen Naomi Lesbott

Our mother, Mrs. Naomi A. Moxey-Lockhart, now deceased was an avid reader and quickly joined him and a handful of his men, Bros. Cyril McMillan, Neville Rolle and others in weekly Bible studies and Sabbath worship, to the dismay of her children. Sabbath worship meant no more attending bazaars, parties or schoolhouse dances and fishing trips! Bro. Major was responsible for setting up the first and only Branch Sabbath School in Ragged Island. Our sister, Eliza kind-heartedly made bread for the group. In later years when I(Maureen) visited him, he would reminisce of her bread as being “the best bread in The Bahamas!” Bro. Major had a voice like no other; his voice was melodious and we quickly learned the Adventist songs. We eventually moved to Nassau where in joint Vesper Hour, I would make my seat as near to Bro. Major as possible to hear his voice. We thank God and you, Sis. Major, for lending him to us for we believe it must have been a very difficult time having him gone for such a long time. Bro. Major is responsible for the Lockhart family and many others, directly and indirectly, coming to know the Lord and the His Sabbath truths. He will forever be in our hearts. God bless you all, The Lockhart Family


TRIBUTE TO ELDER STANLEY MAJOR FROM AMOS FLOWERS FAMILY My family and I came to know the Major family some 59 years ago when my wife and I joined the Adventist church. Elder Major has been a good spiritual model for me. He was the Head Elder of JP at the time. I recall him giving me my first counseling in church ethics and spiritual conduct. We worked together in erecting the first Johnson Park Church building. We were in the Senior choir under the direction of Brother Ferment. I remember Bro. Ferment putting me next to Elder Major after evaluating the quality of my voice so that Elder Major would mentor and help me as a tenor singer. Subsequently Elder Major took over the leadership of the Johnson Park choir. He was a dynamic no nonsense choir leader. I respected him highly because of the way he lived and conducted himself. To me he was what I believe to have been a GIANT of a Christian. May He Rest in Peace.

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TRIBUTE FROM DR. CHRISTOPHER TOOTE & FAMILY In the Toote Household, the Major Family was the gold standard. My parents admired the strength of Ruby and Stanley’s marriage, their unwavering commitment to God, family, and the Adventist Church. To inspire me and my siblings to strive for excellence, my parents applauded the academic and career successes of the Major children and expressed, “If you have friends, that’s the kind of company to keep.” Brother Major never minced words. He had presence. He was principled and lived by a tenet of excellence. As a notable contractor and master builder, his greatest investment was in the Kingdom building business and his dividends are exponentially eternal. His aura was greater than life and although he was firm, he was gentle in spirit, kind, and compassionate, with a warm inviting smile. He was a symbol of stability, fervency, and strength. He was revered by many and respected by all. An era has ended. On behalf of the Toote Family, we salute Brother Stanley Major for living a life that was exemplary to his family; displaying strength, commitment, and leadership in the Church; and expressing grit, resolve, and loyalty in His commitment to Christ and the Church. Thank God for his leadership, fellowship, example-ship, and mentorship. His memory and legacy will live on. The Toote Family celebrates his life’s journey and contribution to humankind. Well done, faithful servant! Our thoughts, love, and prayers are with you during your time of loss. Dr. Christopher Toote & Family

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A TRIBUTE TO BROTHER STANLEY ALFRED MAJOR (“BROTHER MAJOR”): by The Moore Family

We the nine children of the Late Pastor Hezekiah and Sister Tulla Moore remember Brother Major with great respect, admiration and appreciation. We first met him as a Musical man - a musician, church choir conductor and director, an artist and a singer who led the best SDA church choir in the Bahamas in the 60’s; the Johnson Park Seventh Day Adventist Church Choir (“JP Church Choir”). Brother Major led in such a way that the JP church choir produce beautiful, melodious, unusually harmonious, rhythms and expressions of emotions through singing church music. He was also a leading Crusade Song Service leaders in the SDA Mass Crusade Days. At one point or another 7 of the Moore children sang in his choir at the Johnson Park SDA Church. Yes! Marge, Val, Hezekiah, Timmy, Joe, Enid & Betsy Moore were all singers in the JP church choir lead by Brother Major. More so, Brother Major encouraged and led Marge and Hezekiah to become Church Organists at JP, and he gave Marge her first start as a Choir Director, and Marge is still a Choir Director and Church Organist today, thanks to Brother Major. If you couldn’t sing, Brother Major could teach you to sing.

Brother Major was kind and generous to a fault! We remember when he purchased the very first set of Choir Robes for the JP Church Choir out of his own money and was happy to do it. There was no internet in those days, but he researched and selected Church Choir Music and purchased the Music for the Choir out of his own pocket. The hymn “Oh Lord, Make Me an Instrument of Thy Peace”, by St. Francis of Assisi, is a favourite that he taught the choir. Brother Major was a good Church Local Elder, and a great preacher. His sermons were lively and he pursued excellence, while seeking to bring the best out of every one. We the Moore family also knew Brother Major as a great Builder and Contractor. Indeed, the present Grant Town SDA Church stands today as one of the magnificent Church edifices that he built that has withstood the test of time and still stands as a testimony to his good architectural and construction work. Brother Major was a Masterful Master of Ceremonies. He was the Master of Ceremonies for the 50th golden wedding anniversary celebration of the Moore Family Parents, the late Pastor Hezekiah & Sister Tulla Moore; and he was also the Master of Ceremonies for the wedding of Val Moore. He did an excellent job on both occasions. As Pathfinders, Hezekiah & Timmy recall the Pathfinders hiking to Saunders beach one Sunday Morning, and all ending up at the home of Brother Major at Perpall Track where we received refreshments. Yes! Yes! Yes! Brother Major was known to the Moore family as a Pioneer in the

Bahamas SDA Church, a Soldier of the Cross, a Warrior and a true and dedicated Servant of God. A family man extraordinaire, who loved his family and would do anything for them. Brother Major was a man of substance, a Mentor, an Educator who encouraged the Moore Family, indeed it was his influence and example that lead Timmy and Dr. Hezekiah Moore to attend Oakwood College. His life was a legacy and he was a legend in his time. He was a resolute and determined servant of God and friend to man. And he was GQ (always well dressed, in style and culture, that we took note of and followed). Brother Major, was a man of integrity, a bulwark, a protector, powerful and strong, a defender of the Faith, a peace maker, always with a winning smile and a cheerful hello while showing great humility. A stalwart in the SDA Church, in the Community and wherever he went. He was always full of energy. Brother Major remembered his Creator in the days of his youth. He was a believer and a doer of the Word of God. In accordance with Psalms 91: 1 & 16, he dwelt in the secret place of the Most High, and did abide under the shadow of the Almighty. With long life Almighty God satisfied him, and God will show him His Salvation. We say farewell to his earthly vessel of dust which is being returned to the earth, knowing that his spirit has already returned to God who gave it. Ecclesiastes 12:7 KJV. May he rest in peace and rise in Glory. He will be forever missed by the Moore Family.

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THE LEWIS FAMILY SALUTES THE LIFE OF STANLEY ALFRED MAJOR The children of the late Joseph and Claridge Lewis extend condolences to the Major Family o the passing of Elder Stanley Alfred Major. He lived a godly life and was a shining example to all of us who grew up in Johnson Park SDA Church. Brother Major’s contribution to God’s work an to humanity is incalculable. We will miss his jovial laughter, his firm nature and his ability to galvanize the members to do the Lord’s work. Sister Ruby Major, children and grandchildren, may you find comfort in The Blessed Hope and glorious Appearing of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! MARANATHA. The Cartwrights Tribute:

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THE CARTWRIGHTS TRIBUTE:

For Bro Stanley Major, The Wheel was synonymous with The Cartwrights. It was the name he affectionately called our late father and so we all became wheels. We all can share stories of his affection, support, smile, wise counsel and guidance over all our lifetimes. We can speak of worshipping at Grants Town, Johnson Park and Ephesus. Of Sabbath meals and Sunday play at the Majors on Cecilia St. and Brighton Rd. and of fellowship at the Mckinney Ave. residence and so much more. A loving, devoted husband, supportive father and grandfather, faithful friend and dedicated Seventh Day Adventist are some of the many tributes that will be conveyed here. However, it is the Godly character of the man that we bear witness today. When we were young, smart and intelligent and questioned church doctrine, his advice was always, ‘being young, bright and smart is a good thing, wisdom, knowledge and understanding is better and will come in time.’ ‘Manners maketh the man’ was sound advice given and one should try and adhere to it but it is a Christlike character that will develop and enhance and get you into heaven.’ He was right. This cemented the love between the Cartwright and the Major families. This bond and love continued even when separated by distance. Over the past few years, Cecil and his wife Eldena were regular visitors at the Major’s home. They enjoyed fellowshipping with them. Dad Major’s wisdom and candor and the love and concern he always lavished upon them will be greatly missed. As Ellen G. White wrote in The Review and Herald November 29,1887 ‘ In every act of life, Christians should seek to represent Christ, seek to make his service appear attractive. Let the graces of the Spirit be manifested in kindness, meekness, forbearance, cheerfulness and love. This was the testimony and example of Stanley Alfred Major and for being our North star, we rejoice for a life well lived. Sleep on Bro. Major. You have earned your well-deserved rest. Your legacy will live on in all of us who knew and loved you dearly. THE CARTWRIGHT’S...

THE ADDERLEY FAMILY: A TRIBUTE TO BROTHER MAJOR Brother Major was an honorable, brilliant Christian man. Our family is blessed to have known him, Sister Major, and their entire family for over 60 years. This warm relationship dates back to the founding of the Johnson Park Seventh Day Adventist Church. Brother and Sister Major and our parents, Daniel and Marjorie Adderley, were pioneer members of the church. They quickly developed a close bond, and so did the children in both families. We would frequently dine together, socializing and engaging in lively conversation. Brother Major believed that everything he was involved in should be done in a first-class way. He believed in excellence and that the Lord’s work should be done in an exemplary way. He was very intelligent, an intellectual, and always gave the best advice. With our father, Brother Adderley, he often had discussions about their shared field of construction and their shared passion for advancing God’s work. With us, and so many other JP children and grandchildren, he was an additional father figure — always inquiring about our wellbeing and offering an encouraging word. Sister Adderley describes Brother Major as “a friend who became family”. We will dearly miss him but are grateful that we got to experience such a stalwart man of God. We offer our deepest condolences to the entire Major family and look forward to reuniting with Brother Major on that Glad Reunion Day. Love, The Adderley Family

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BRENNEN’S TRIBUTE: COLLINS WALL AND THE MAJOR AND BRENNEN FAMILIES The offspring of the late Alfred and Mary Brennen: Claudia, Barrington, Judith and Ann, their spouses and children, extend their deepest condolence to Ruby Major and her family on the passing of a dear husband, father and friend, Stanley Alfred Major. We have fond memories of the Major family. Both Bro Stanley and my father had the same name—Alfred, and affectionately, they called each other “George.” We had so much fun saying “George” even in their old age. I remember just a few years ago talking to Bro. Stanley about that name. He chuckled with me as he recalled the memories. Oh! The memories! We cannot forget the experience of climbing Collins Wall on Sabbath mornings during the late 50s and 60s. The Majors lived on Talbot Street and the Brennens lived on Montfort Street West, just east of Collins Wall. Therefore, the ten feet tall wall that extended from Wulff Road to the north near Shirley Street, called Collins Wall, divided Centreville from Grant’s Town and Bain Town. It is believed that the wall was built during the Great Depression by an American real estate developer, Mr. Ralph G. Collins to mark off his giant fruit estate and provide jobs for locals. In the early years, both families had to walk to church on Sabbath morning. To get to the church from where we lived, we had to climb Collins Wall. Yes, with our Sabbath suits and dresses on. Our parents pushed the giant baby carriages with the youngest ones in them, and the others walked. Imagine the Majors and the Brennens, on a Sabbath morning, climbing Collins Wall, because there was no opening in it at the time to walk through. With the use of a ladder, one by one we went over the wall. The mothers, children, and then the fathers lifted the baby carriages over the wall. Believe it or not, we still got to church before most people each Sabbath. Stanley Major was a person of integrity, focus, and a drive that impacted the lives of many. His passion for music and singing was felt in the home and the church. Stanley Major and our father, Alfred Brennen, were both building contractors and draftsmen. We cannot forget them both because they were both enthusiastic and passionate about what they did. They often worked together on church projects. Both our parents were passionate about serving the church. Both of our families were members of the Grant’s Town Seventh-day Adventist Church. After serving at the Grant’s Town Church for 40 years, my parents, along with Stanley and Ruby Major, accepted the invitation to become founding/charter members of the Ephesus Seventh-day Church now known as the Parkgate Seventh-day Adventist Church. Stanley and Ruby Major were very close to my parents. They got married just one day apart-The Majors or July 17 and the Brennens on July 18, 1951. They often celebrated their wedding anniversaries together. We could remember as children having to stay home as they both went out to celebrate. We will never forget Stanley Alfred “George” Major, a friend to our late parents and all of us. Ruby, Don, Colyn, Keith, Craig, and Stanlyn, Ricardo, and family, let us look forward to the resurrection.

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A TRIBUTE TO STANLEY FROM: DR. LLEWELYN CURLING & THE CURLING FAMILY A tribute to a great man and a wonderful human being! Brother Major, as he was affectionately known to all of us, was very instrumental in making sure there was peace and harmony among the church members, and that we young ones had a proper, memorable and joyous upbringing. He was well respected by everyone at Johnson Park Church; his influence extended even beyond our small close-knit congregation. His singing was inspirational. I remember, the times when we needed a reference for a job application or some other such important matter, Brother Major was one of the first persons in the Church we thought of approaching for such. One day, I and my siblings were playing in the yard, near the gate of our home, and Brother Major was passing by in his vehicle. It was a Friday evening, and to this day, I remember his kind and thoughtful counsel to us: “Y’all watch that sun now,” he said, “Watch that sun!” as he drove off. You see, the Sabbath was approaching. Brother Major cared, not just for his own family, but for all the other families who served God faithfully along with him. His presence and tremendous impact will be missed by many. My condolences go out to his wife, Sister Ruby Major, and their surviving progeny, our good friends and colleagues: Don, Colyn, Keith, Craig, Stanlyn and Ricardo, and all the rest of their families. May his soul rest in peace, until surely we meet again! Llewelyn R. V. Curling, Ph.D. Professor of Engineering & Technology, University of The Bahamas

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“REMEMBERING STANLEY MAJOR” BY DR. CLARA MCPHEE My earliest recollection of Stanley was on a Sabbath morning on my way to church, walking North on Market street from Young street. As my little brother Arthur and I approached Laird Street, a good looking young man was coming from the opposite direction on Market Street. He was wearing a light brown or tan jacket; in one hand he was carrying a large bible. Walking beside him was Dorothy Major (who I learned was his sister) a member of the Strachan’s Choral group, a popular gospel choir. We were both going to Grants Town Church. Stanley was baptized soon after our first meeting on Market and Laird street. A short time after his baptism it seemed to a young teenager that there was a spark of love between Stanley and Ruby. We soon learned that they were to be wed. I can remember some of their wedding. There is one thing which I will never forget; Ruby’s wedding gown had a tight fitting waist and it seemed like there were 50 tiny buttons running down its back. Stanley was a favorite. He was likable, gregarious, extremely friendly, a man of wisdom, firm, serious and a no nonsense person; qualities which I admired about him. Stanley embraced the Adventist faith zealously and immediately became very active in the Grants Town church. He enthusiastically took on a number of leadership roles eventually becoming a local elder. He was the builder of the new Grants Town church. Voices have always fascinated me. It is the first thing that I notice about people. Stanley’s voice stood out. He had a big voice, loved singing, and became a choir member singing in the bass section. Cantatas were a popular musical activity of church choirs in those days, and Grants Town church choir performed one or more of them each year. Stanley sang solos in many of them. Every one returned to church on Sabbath afternoons for bible class, young people’s society, choir practice and a song service, which was held before vespers. Stanley led song service with Arnold Dean at the organ. He made song service special, so most members participated because of his leadership. The singing was heavenly! The rafters of the old Grants Town Church literally rang with sopranos, altos, tenors and basses singing lustily favorite hymns such as “How cheering is the Christian’s hope, while toiling here below”, and “We’ve no abiding city here”. He was a devoted father. When my family and I returned to Nassau, we lived for a short time in the Kemp road area and finally moved to Nassau East. Stanley brought Recardo, Stanlyn and Roddy to my house every week for piano lessons. Interacting with him was always a positive experience. That was who Stanley was. The words of the song says “there’ll be singing up in heaven such as we have never known”. Stanley will be a part of that heavenly choir. We can’t imagine what a grand and glorious time that will be!

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TRIBUTE BY DR. LEON WELLINGTON

TRIBUTE BY DR. WILFRED ADDERLEY

Brother Stanley Major was one of those delightful souls around whom you could never experience a dull moment. Usually has wise councils born of experience, loves the Lord fervently, cares for his family and a genuine Christian brother. If there’s anything positive about death, it makes us look more anxiously for the resurrection of the righteous when we hope to meet again. Sleep in peace beloved friend, until we meet again.

It was January 6th, 1992 that I took up my pastoral assignment at the Ephesus SDA Church, Jerome Ave. and Chesapeake Rd. Stanley Major was the Head Elder for 1992 and that brought us together as the leaders of the Ephesus Sda Church. For the three (3) years of my Pastoral Ministry Elder Stanley Major worked well with me and gave me great support in every area of Pastoral service to the membership of Ephesus Sda Church. I will long remember the great fellowship, on the Sabbaths when we Worshipped and Fellowshipped eating together as a family. On behalf of my wife Sister Sheila, my son Wilfred 11 and all my spiritual sons and daughters, we extend our heartfelt condolences to Sister Ruby Major and the entire family. May his soul Rest In Peace.

“AMAZING GENTLEMAN: TRIBUTE BY PASTOR MARK EWEN It was indeed a privilege and pleasure to learn from the feet of Elder Stanley Major. We met in Jamaica 30 years ago, Dr Ruby Major taught my wife Taweisha in the Bahamas and when she taught at West Indies College we would go for lunch and pray and fellowship with Stanley, Ruby and the other students from the Bahamas. I always looked up to Elder Major as a man of God with wisdom, he would share stories and practical experiences for us young people to learn and be successful in our endeavours. He was a father figure for many of us young men at that time. We had many conversations and prayer together. The last time I saw him was 5 years ago in the hospital and even then he was offering encouragement, prayer and words of wisdom. We hope in the resurrection to see Elder Major again. May the God of all comforts, comfort Dr Ruby, the children and entire family and grant you peace and strength at this time of your loss. My wife Taweisha. Daughter Matea, Son Mark, Mother Arnadell and I are praying for the family, please accept these words of condolences.

TRIBUTE BY CURTIS BRYAN: My parents, siblings and I were regular visitors at Aunt Ruby & Uncle Stanley’s home and received much love and encouragement from these awesome role models. My wife loves both of them. Elder Major was an awesome song leader and one who encourage others in their Christian journey not only by word, but also with his actions. He will be missed. I can hear him now singing, “The Marketplace is empty”. We are praying for your family and encourage us all to remain faithful and in Christ and look forward for that bright and glorious mourn when we shall once again see our loved ones and rejoice with them in heaven. The King Is Coming!

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TRIBUTE BY DR. HERBERT & AVERY THOMPSON: Stanley Major was truly a remarkable man who showed dignity, grace, mercy and a positive attitude in leading his family and those in his sphere of influence. His resounding voice, in speech or singing would draw you in from wherever you were. Times in his presence showed a soul that desired to exemplify the behavior of his Saviour. His warmth was shared with members of his “external family” which included us. We will miss the gentleman who acted justly, loved mercy and walked humbly with His God (Micah 6:8). We await the promise of the resurrection.

TRIBUTE TO BROTHER STANLEY MAJOR FROM THE ZONICLE FAMILY: When we think of the name Stanley Major, what automatically comes to mind is good singing. Oh how he loved to sing! He was a member of the special singers of the day going back to the late 1950s and early 1960s. He along with the late Bro. Alfred Brennen and Sis. Althea Tinker were noted messengers who proclaimed the gospel in song. Fond memories of Bro. Major and his association with the late Pastor S.N. McKinney are prominent with the construction of the Centreville S.D.A. Church. Later in life, when he and his wife, Sis. Ruby C.R. Major, fellowshipped at the Centreville church, he continued his legacy of singing. He took the position of being a chorister very seriously. His display of pure joy in singing the old advent hymns was a sight to behold! He would hold those notes and stress those key phrases like no other! He sang the song “How Great Thou Art” with such enthusiasm that one could easily see that he truly believed in the words of that song. He sang about that blessed hope with gusto. He now sleeps but it’s not long now before Jesus comes to gather his saints in that first resurrection. Let’s be faithful so that we all will sing and rejoice together in that great reunion in the earth made new, when we will be with Jesus forever! FROM ROSEMARY HANNA: 38 | Stanley Alfred Major | A Life & Legacy

TRIBUTE FROM PASTOR RICHARD HENDERSON & FAMILY A close friendship with Rory, afforded me the generous hospitality of a Sabbath seat in the Major home. Back then, I had no idea of the value that that packed plate possessed. I had heard about Stanley Major the Head Elder, the Statesman, the Builder, the Singer and the Preacher, but at the Major home I came to see him in ways that some may have missed. “Pa Maj” as I knew him spent many weeks toiling over delightful dishes for his family, and gracefully welcoming unexpected guests. His smile was radiant, his voice majestic, and his cheerfulness, contagious. Laughter lingered around their table as he conversed and coaxed others to eat of their full. Many a time before and after the meal, Pa Maj, would extend the chambers of his bedroom or study for private counsel, or the comfort of their couches for lively discussions about the Lord and the church that he loved. I personally received and witnessed his mentoring of young pastors and other young adults. I can picture him now leaning forward on his cane as he listened attentively, seeking to understand before he responded, and how with care and sometimes discreetly, he corrected and encouraged. If you stayed away too long, he and “Ma Maj” would call to remind you that their love and prayers remained for your good, and that you were not just a friend but a part of their family! I saw and remember a man whose witness of Jesus begin at home and made room for others. – Love Pastor Richard Henderson and Family. D. Richard Henderson


MY DEAREST RUBY

Deepest and heartfelt condolences to your and family on the passing of your wonderful husband Stanley. His warm and inviting smile always made me fee special and I will miss that. I was happy to have had the opportunity to speak with him on several occasions prior to his passing and will always remember his smiling face and words of encouragement. He is now resting with the Lord and as the song says” “Be strong in the Lord and be of good courage”. My brother Allan and Stanley’s lifelong friend and my daughter Clarice join me in sending condolences and wishing you God’s continued blessings as you face the days ahead. With Much Love , Rosemary

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THOUGHTS FROM PASTOR AND SIS PATRICE WILLIAMS-GORDON

Its not very often one meets someone who is interested in another person’s success without hoping to gain anything. That was my feeling as I shared in the life of Elder major. My Wife and I moved into the neighborhood of the Majors, (McKinney Drive) and Elder Major and Dr. Ruby greeted us and welcomed us with love and neighborly warmth Elder Major’s reduced mobility opened up the door for us to visit them quite frequently. It was always a jubilant exchange He was indeed a talker, so we brought goodies from our farm and he filled us with passionate stories and sound advice. On several occasions he would apologize for talking so much and so long, and would encourage us to go, so that we could return again. His advice was always spiritual and reinforced with personal experiences of when he sat on conference boards or while serving at various churches. Patrice especially liked to hear him sing and he would often oblige her. On hearing of my assignment as Church Pastor to Johnson Park, the church that was dear to him, he had some unsolicited advice for me; “Be yourself, love the people, serve the people”. His expressed confidence that I could manage the task was empowering. During this period, on several occasions I was called to his bedside to pray, because it was thought that he was on his way out.... and each time he would rebound. God knows the future, Dr. Ruby and family, and Bro Stanley falling asleep did not catch God off guard. He knew all the time when this event would come, and He has factored into His plan eternal plan a great reunion. It is my hope to continue our conversations, when the renewed Elder Stanley will walk and even run with me on streets of gold.

A PERPALL TRACT BOY’S REFLECTION: BY THE PERPALL TRACT FAMILY

The years have left me with few memories of Mr. Stanley Alfred Major. Even so, there is one that I wish to share. As a boy growing up in Perpall Tract/Ferguson Manor, hitchhiking to and from school was common. One day I was sure to be late had not Mr. Major stopped for me. Not long after I got into his car, I remember him asking about my parents and how they were doing. Then the conversation turned to how I was doing at The Government High School. Once I told him everything was fine, he told me that he was heading straight into town. This happened when we were around the Fort Charlotte/Clifford Park area on West Bay Street. Of course, I said that would be fine. As we were approaching Nassau and West Bay Streets intersection, he asked “what time was the first bell”. When I told him, he made a right turn onto Nassau Street and drove me all the way so that I would be on time. To this day I think of that right turn as a righteous turn by a righteous man who showed me what sacrifice, and kindness looked like. Thank you, Mr. Major. We the Perpall Tract Boys remain entirely thankful for Mr. Major’s steady influence and wonderful testimony in leading along with other Perpall Tract fathers of our Perpall Tract family...yes leadership which spawned deep rooted family, friends and good fortune. What he did for us as a parent was to lead by example. What a flotilla of talented, graceful kind leaders that he has left behind through his grace and sacrifice in his children... (and in some small way, in we Perpall Tract girls and boys) are leaders who seek to emulate this example, this life well lived! Rest in peace.

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STURRUP FAMILY TRIBUTE: A MAN OF DISTINCTION – UNCLE STANLEY A man of stature, faith, strength, and most of all a disciplinarian. Growing up as children, the ride to Perpall Tract, on a Sunday, was a treat to visit my mother’s brother, Uncle Stanley and his wife, Aunt Ruby. It was a time of joy and fellowship between our parents (Doral and Leroy Sturrup), because it was now old stories and finally bible lecture. You see our father was Anglican and mother, Baptist; you can only imagine the conversation. Listen, our mother, small in stature, held fast to her faith and her belief. Uncle would say “Pickney you’re a hard nut to crack”; and that robust laughter, he would give. They all held on to their faith knowing that they all loved and served the Lord. You see, our parents held my uncle in high esteem as Doral was his baby sister, and she always was caught shooting marbles, wearing her big brother’s pants. It was a joy to sit and listen to them relate. Upon transitioning to the United States, the bond grew deeper as every other summer we had to go and visit with Uncle Stanley and Aunt Ruby, and of course we all knew that once all the pleasantries were done the lectures would begin before being dropped off to the hotel. You see, they all loved and worshipped God no matter what. Uncle Stanley was hard and stern, but he loved unconditionally. Upon the death of our Father (Leroy Sturrup), he became a father figure to us all. Whenever there was a problem, Mom would call Uncle Stanley, and trust me, as you walk through the gate, sitting at the dining room table were Uncle Stanley and Mom. You know what was coming after that. He mentored my eldest brother Anthon (Tony) and taught him the trade; as he worked with him, this bond grew and grew. Tony enjoyed the time he spent working and living with Uncle Stanley in Great Harbour Cay, Bahamas. When his sister’s (Doral) health was failing, he called with instructions; and believe you me, he always followed up to see if it was done. He took on that father figure role, and no matter what, when he spoke, you had to listen. As Uncle Stanley got down in age, Tony made sure his uncle and aunt had a meal on a Sunday, whenever he was in town, without fail. We shared a love and a bond for our Uncle Stanley and Aunt Ruby, and the children, as it was always a joy when we got together. Uncle Stanley, you were prepared for God’s eternal journey. We are never ready to say goodbye forever even though we know it is a part of life. This day our hearts are heavy for losing someone so dear and special to us, but as we mourn your death, we also celebrate your life. Rest in Peace. Joan Deveaux, Tony, Kim, and Dawne Sturrup A Life & Legacy | Stanley Alfred Major |

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TRIBUTE TO THE LATE BRO. STANLEY MAJOR: THE MCKINNEY FAMILY Bro. Stanley Major, who was a talented building contractor, was most particularly, a faithful Seventh Day Adventist and charter member of the Johnson Park SDA Church. He loved the Lord, his wife, his children friends, other family and people. He never shifted in the least, in his stance as a soldier of the Cross of Christ! He loved the Lord and loved to sing! He was an outstanding tenor! A virtual lifelong friend of my Daddy, they were indeed brothers of different mothers. Together, the two of them along with three other friends, met regularly on Wulff Road at my parents business, operated by my Father. And they gathered for the expressed purpose of discussing the “issues of the Day.” This was well before Jones & Co. They took pleasure in the use of their code words, some unknown to most - even now. Words such as, “Elick”, “Clyston”, clystionic” and “societal factor” etc. Bro. Major and Daddy both had “ boy chirren” and so, I can vouch that while they no doubt loved us, they didn’t play with us - if you know what I mean... Bro. Major also had a significant impact on the life of my brother-in-law, Pastor, Dr. S. Peter Campbell. This was during Pastor Campbell’s time in The Bahamas as a young ministerial intern. In this connection, Pastor Campbell asked me to mention how during a very discouraging time during his internship, Bro. Major took him aside and provided sage Christian counsel. This changed the trajectory of his future - and for that, he has remained grateful. I look forward to seeing Bro. Major, along with Daddy and Unca Silas in the earth made new - ...and the dead in Christ shall rise first! Selah... Tony McKinney

KEITH VERE MASON, SR. OD, LVO, MBE, QPM DEPUTY COMMISSIONER OF POLICE (RETIRED) Stanley Alfred Major:

Nearly sixty years ago I formed my own opinion of and evaluated the resourcefulness of Stanley Alfred Major. I saw a young man who seemed focused on whatever he intended to do, or was at the time doing. I saw a young robust man intent on delivering his services in a timely manner and with the best professional conduct. I saw a young man driving the best car available at that time and doing so with pride and care; having a general concern for the well-being of all. I always associated him with the Adventist Church, and remember that on the occasional meeting I had with him, he vehemently admonished young men especially as to their behavior as husbands and boyfriends. It was impossible to misunderstand his plain and simplified caution to young people in their attention to relationships. I often heard of the family ties that existed between my wife’s father, Archibald Carroll and his father, Clifton Gustavus Major who were very close cousins; there is little doubt that the Long Island heritage was strongly passed down to Stanley even though his parents resided at Farmer’s Cay, Exuma. My wife certainly reminds me that the Centreville Seventh-day Adventist Church is a standing reminder of his building skills and extraordinary ability in the field of construction, and we boast that our daughter, Allison and one of the Gooding sons were the first two children to be blessed in the church upon its completion. Sing if you may, but not more vociferously and lustily than Stanley who was constantly called upon to lead Song Service. I am not sure that this man’s gifts and talents were ever exhausted; but there is no doubt that he did his best. To his wife Ruby, his children and grandchildren, on behalf of my wife and family, I again extend deepest condolences and genuine love.

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DR. RUTH WHITE: A TRIBUTE TO STANLEY ALFRED MAJOR Memories, precious memories of the “Good Old Days”, flood my mind as I think of the memorable events we shared in many religious services, in well-planned M.V. Programs, and enjoyable weekly socials at the Grant’s Town Church. In a backward glance, I see myself standing at the altar as Maid of Honour at your wedding day. I was the first person to visit you at your new home just a few feet from Our Ladies Catholic Church. Another unforgettable day was to watch you admiring your first born son whom everybody called Don but whom you called “SPUTNIK”. A well respected contractor, Stanley built many large buildings including ‘churches to support a growing family of seven children whom he and Ruby sent to private schools. When these children reached college age, Stanley said, “Ruth it is too expensive to remain in Nassau to educate all of my children”, so they relocated in the U. S. A. To educate their children. A very staunch Christian, Stanley remained the priest of his home. This I happily observed when I had dinner at their home in Miami. On their return to Nassau, Stanley didn’t forget old friends, including me. Every December 9th, my birthday, the phone would ring. When I answered there was Stanley, singing “Happy Birthday.” He never, never forgot one birthday. If I was working in the yard he demanded that I stop to take the call. What a faithful friend. I can go on and write a book with many intriguing chapters about the Majors but let me end by saying, really a True Friend sticks closer than a brother, and so my forever Friend, Stanley until we meet again to sing the song of Moses and the Lamb and to dwell with Jesus, I say good bye, I will see you again. To Stanley’s faithful wife, Ruby and the children, I extend my deepest sympathy. GOD BLESS YOU ALL! Dr. Ruth White.

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THE FORBES FAMILY TRIBUTE The journey of the Forbes and Major families began many years ago when two young ladies Ruby Major and Eulease Forbes both employed by the Bahamas conference met on the porch of the Old Bahamas Academy during a school break. Both were recent employees at Bahamas Academy, Both were married Seventh Day Adventist, with a house full of young children so they had much to talk about. Our mother (Eulease) was relatively new to the teaching experience especially at Bahamas Academy while Sis. Ruby Major was a seasoned veteran, who had even at that early stage in her life achieved much, and was highly regarded for her prowess in academia. Many years later when I spoke to my mum about the close friendship bond between the Major and the Forbes family and how it was formed, she said that within a few minutes of speaking to Mrs. Major, observing her down to earth, practical, Christian and approachable manner, she knew that she had found a friend that she could relate to; a friend who understood her struggles and challenges both on the home front, work, and church environments. Between their common interest and the conversation that ensued that day, their souls were knit together and a friendship emerged that has lasted a lifetime. Our mothers had a lot to talk about, and talk they did. Mr. Major was often there to stir the pot on issues and cause everyone to think outside the box, that was his way. Some of the children from both families were similar in ages and attended Bahamas Academy, and that was another positive point that helped to forged and strengthen the friendship. We often played together as children, and before long we felt like, and began to live as if we were blood relatives. Our families grew together and we shared joys, pains and life experience. We shared a common faith and belief in a God that became very real, and all important to us. Today we share in the pain and loss that you feel as your beloved father, and husband’s earthly journey is ended, but we also rejoice with you because of the life that he lived; a life of many accomplishments that I’m sure will be rehearsed in your ears here today. But the things that Elder Major did that bring us all the greatest joy are the things he did for his God and family. What a great legacy of love and service as a faithful child of God. He was a loving father, church member, Sabbath School Teacher, elder, board member, singer, choir director and whatever else the work of the lord required. Elder Stanley now sleeps with his fathers, he will be sorely missed in many circles, Adventist and otherwise. We do pray and I believe that he will rise in that first resurrection with the redeemed, when our Lord and savior returns to claim His own. I only pray that we who loved him can rise with him when our God returns to claim his faithful children. Amen THE FORBES FAMILY

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*Grandson, Rory Major Tribute (To Be Added)

*Grandson, Brandon Major Tribute (To Be Added)

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*Grandson, Devin Major Tribute (To Be Added)

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Acknowledgements

Words cannot express how grateful our family is for your generous support, encouraging words, and thoughts and prayers. Thank you for thinking of us in our time of need. Perhaps you sent a lovely card or sat upon a chair. Perhaps you sent us beautiful flowers, made us a meal or maybe we saw them there. Perhaps you spoke the kindest words that any friend could say. Perhaps you were not there at all, just thought of us that day. Whatever you did to console our hearts, We thank you so much, whatever your part. THERE WILL BE NO REPAST PALL BEARERS Rory Major Brandon Major Devin Major Phillip Haven Clayton Forbes Dwayne Adderley Barry Shane Saunders Akin Barr

HONORARY PALL BEARERS Densil Major Don Major Colyn Major Keith Major Craig Major Ricardo Major

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