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CONFETI WINTER 2010

Your Winter Wonderland Wedding

MAGIC OF THE MALDIVES

JUSTIN ALEXANDER Old-style Hollywood glam

Same-sex WEDDINGS NERJA SPECIAL

Exclusive interview with milliner to the stars

Philip Treacy

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London glamour, Maldives luxury… and same-sex marriages

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onfeti Magazine was back in the UK in October, spreading the word about southern Spain’s pre-eminence as a wedding destination.

Once again the National Wedding Show was the place every soon-to-wed couple wanted to be, gaining inspiration and ideas from the UK’s largest wedding exhibition.

In London, added glamour was provided by Sugababe Heidi Range, on a day out with friends in preparation for her own marriage to TV presenter Dave Berry; while Confeti’s celebrity make-up expert Ariane Poole was on hand to offer consultations to visitors. (In her column this issue she advises how to avoid wedding make-up mistakes.)

In Birmingham, the Confeti stand was inundated with exhibition visitors seeking advice and recommendations for weddingrelated companies and specialists based in Spain and Gibraltar.

This autumn we also travelled to the Maldives for our honeymoon

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travel feature. This stunning string of coral islands is known as “the jewel of the Indian Ocean” for a very good reason: its azure waters, silky beaches and intimate luxury make it the perfect crowning moment of a true dream wedding.

Back on the Costa del Sol, we moved down the coast from Gibraltar – our featured wedding destination last issue – to Nerja. A favourite holiday haunt for tourists and visitors, this charming town at the eastern end of the Costa del Sol has an active expatriate community, many of whom are involved in wellestablished businesses offering the complete range of services and products to help you arrange your wedding in southern Spain.

Our exclusive designer interview this issue is with milliner to the stars Philip Treacy, who explains why one of his creations can make a bride feel a million dollars on the best day of her life; while celebrity hairdresser of the year Tara Smith reveals how those bridal locks can be kept luscious and lovely under one of Philip’s hats.

Our regular fashion section includes tips on what’s hot for brides and their bridesmaids; classy wedding outfits and accessories to keep the young guests cute and comfortable; and the advantages, for grooms on limited budgets, of hiring a suit.

We also take a look at the options for same-sex marriages in Spain, a country which – like the UK – introduced civil law partnership legislation in 2005 to enable all couples to celebrate their union in a legally recognised ceremony.

Finally, we are pleased to announce – especially for our Spanish readers and clients –that we are publishing Confeti in Spanish this issue, and will be distributing the magazine at one of the premier national wedding and bridal fairs: Celebra in Málaga from 26 to 28 November.

If your Spanish is okay, or even if you are just happy to look around, we definitely recommend a visit to this exhibition – to add another “native” touch to your special day.

ADVERTISING EXECUTIVES Emma Maria Landberg Tel. 667 619 488 emma@iconpublishing.es Annalisa Turner-Sterling Tel. 655 466 798 annalisa@iconpublishing.es

PRODUCTION Opus 1 Design design@opusone.com

EDITOR Nicola McGeorge info@iconpublishing.es

FEATURES EDITOR Laura-Jane Bruce press@iconpublishing.es

CONTRIBUTING EDITOR Peter Leonard

CONTRIBUTORS & PHOTOGRAPHERS Giles Brown, Owen Farrell, Anna Gazda, Natasha Johnson, Ariane Poole, Heather Sadtler, Tara Smith, Jeremy Standley, Gary Tapp, David Toms Confeti is published quarterly by: Icon Publishing S.L. Depósito Legal: MA 1559-2010 CIF: B93035210 The views and opinions expressed by contributors to Confeti may not represent the views and opinions of the publishers.

Icon Publishing takes no responsibility for claims made in advertisements or advertorials in this magazine.

No part of Confeti may be reproduced or copied in any way without the prior written consent of Icon Publishing.

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JEREMY STANDLEY

CONTENTS Features, advice, tips, ideas and suggestions to help arrange THE PERFECT WEDDING IN SPAIN AND GIBRALTAR

09 CONFETI Loves… 58 Gets to know… a magical winter wedding wonderland

16 Styles… haute couture, earrings, bridesmaids, children, suits-for-hire

38 Talks to…

Philip Treacy: milliner to the stars

Irish photographer Owen Farrell

74 Recommends… the best professionals, specialists and services

61 Prepares… hair with 76 Remembers… special moments from 64

Tara Smith and make-up

by Ariane Poole

your big day

s you… high

78 Talks business

society weddings in Spain and Gibraltar

with… Sue Danker: planning to perfection

82 Plans… wedding Gets real… with 42 Looks at… same-sex 66 sparkling extravaganza, from “shabby chic” weddings in Spain

46 In Nerja… superb setting for a memorble wedding

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in Marbella

Front cover: justinalexanderbridal.com

London to Birmingham

Parties… Staggering 96 Warns… run for your 68 Informs… latest news 85 abroad – and hen-pecked lives – it’s Groomzilla! from the world of weddings 88 Travels… to a 98 Designs… real brides 72 Asks… valuable tips honeymoon dream from the experts

destination: Maldives

in designer gowns

Spanish Wedding Planner

Spanish Wedding Planner is a professional event management team led by Jennifer McCloy and has been operating in Spain since 2004. Our years of experience and consistently meeting and exceeding our clients’ expectations have earned us trust and respect in the industry and an extensive track record of success.

What sets Spanish Wedding Planner apart?

I Fantastic wedding planning software, ensuring our communication with you is simple, accurate and documented.

I We are known for going the extra mile, and our reputation is second to none.

I We are professionally trained and certified event managers.

I A proven track record since 2004; please ask us for our references.

I We offer a complimentary personalised wedding website.

I The finest vendors, ensuring you have quality and choice for all your needs.

I Our office is here to help you and your guests with travel plans and local knowledge.

"I just had to thank you once again for being a wonderful wedding planner, fairy godmother and friend - we had such a fabulous time and everyone was thrilled to be there. All of your contacts were lovely and helped to make the day the special occasion that it certainly was.

We shall never forget it and loved the fact that you just appeared whenever we needed you as if by magic, but we were unaware of the behind the scenes activities going on whilst enjoying our day - the flowers were perfect, the food delicious and the music certainly got everyone up dancing. Thank you so much - from one now calmed down mum of the bride.

Love and best wishes.” – Darley, UK

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Ice Maiden Indulge your snow queen fantasies with Vera Wang’s ivory, stretch, Mikado, strapless, mermaid gown, with swirling flange skirt and black grosgrain bow at waist. “Ethel” verawang.com

The Perfect Fit Loved by Elizabeth Hurley, Luella and Jenny Packham, “Emmy” is a new concept in buying wedding shoes that takes the hassle and compromise out of the process by providing flexibility, choice and personal service. We just adore “Elizabeth” at £445. emmyshoes.co.uk

Your Guiding Star A truly opulent hanging decoration… glass beads on a pewter frame, set into a snowflake design with a holder for a tea light in the middle. It looks opulent and dazzling in the evening when lit. coxandcox.co.uk (£12)

Brighten your smile

A winter bride looks ravishing with a slick of red lipstick. We love Clinique's Lip Collection for a brighter smile – specially designed lipstick colours certified to make teeth instantly look whiter. clinique.com

WINTER WONDERLAND The Ultimate Cover-Up Adorned with signature roses and feathers, Valentino's ivory chiffon bolero is a beautiful cover-up. Slip this romantic style on over a simple gown to complete an exquisite wedding ensemble. net-a-porter.com (€1,980)

00 days of 3 r e v o y jo n e We may uthern Spain, o s in r a e y a sunshine u cannot o y n a e m ’t n s but that doe al winteric g a m a r fo t still op g. themed weddin

Top Three Winter Accessories Charlotte vintage feather headband: £32, rocknrose.co.uk

As Sweet As A Rose Debbie Sheridan’s stunning twotier cake with red appliquéd roses would work perfectly with your winter wedding theme.

Spanish Red Roses, from €380: Tel. (+34) 952 964 103; weddingcakesspain.com

Glitter fabric tube clutch: €795, jimmychoo.com

Crystal flower brooch: £27.99, ayedo.co.uk

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All the latest news and products from the world of weddings

The Final Touch Make sure all eyes are on you with this spectacular Icicle Swarovski crystal tiara; €15 to order from Fi Santamaria.

Tel. (+34) 636 865 154 fisantamaria.com (Photo: Lolpromos.com)

Black Magic This stunning black wedding invitation features a silver metallic cover foil, on an embossed card featuring striking texture and pattern. This beautiful invitation is suitable for both a day or an evening reception, and is accessorised with an elegant 25-millimetre black satin ribbon incorporating a fabulous diamante buckle.

It comes with a printed insert sheet displaying your wedding information on a white soft touch paper with black print – £3.20. eliteinvite.com

Keep It Sweet Fly Away With Me Going for a butterfly theme?

Then you will love this wedding cake by Cake Couture. It comes with edible hand-painted sugar butterflies on the cupcakes and edible hand-painted gelatine butterflies on the cake. Bespoke cupcake wrappers with the bride and groom's initials and colours are available to fit the wedding theme. Price: €180 for the cutting cake and 31 cupcakes Tel. (+34) 693 379 397 cakecouturemarbella.com

Back To Nature Benahavis is the dream setting for weddings – and JM Weddings specialise in events in this location. Co-director Maggie explains, “We can use the small auditorium in the park for the blessing and then, while the photographs are being taken, the guests can wander around whilst being served champagne cocktails beside the small church ruin. It really is idyllic.”

Tel. (+44) 7860 540373 (+34) 646 156 198 jmweddings.co.uk

A Cake To Wow Sweet Things By Fi have done it again with this gorgeous traditional tiered wedding cake with a contemporary twist, perfect for the modern bride. “Maise” from €400.

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For Lisa and Jez's sweetie-themed wedding in the stunning Sala Málaga room at Sunset Beach Club, overlooking the Mediterranean, the highlight was a unique wedding cake of brightly coloured cupcakes decorated with licorice allsorts and tutti fruities.

The fun-loving couple went to great lengths with decoration details, which included goodie bags for guests with classic sweets, such as black jacks, refreshers and lollipops. sunsetbeachclub.com

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See the latest collections straight from the runway

WHITE HOT

ALAN HANNAH

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lan Hannah’s collection was inspired by long summer days, sweet scents and delicate flowers – whilst also imagining what Vincent Van Gogh would have felt from the darkness of his soul to the beauty he produced. Think long, floaty, soft fabrics swaying in the warm summer breeze… rich ivories with pure and romantic hand-crafted flowers and beading. alanhannah.co.uk

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AMANDA WAKELY

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manda Wakeley Sposa featured a supremely luxurious range of dresses with fresh new shapes and contemporary, light fabrics. Intricate cord embroidery and youthful embellishment on bodices of satin were remarkable, and parachute hemlines gave fresh twists to the traditional train. Making an exceptional statement was the gun metal chain trim on an empire line georgette dress. amandawakeley.com (Photos courtesy of whitegallery.com)

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ver the course of the last decade, Monique Lhuillier wedding gowns have graced some of Hollywood’s most famous brides. Lhuillier’s feminine and fashionforward silhouettes are a recognised and much soughtafter fashion signature. Her latest collection’s soft, feminine look is set off with a touch of sexy structure. brownsfashion.com

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See the latest collections straight from the runway

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s usual Ian Stuart has wowed us all with his ever-theatrical style and diverse offering for eccentric brides. His 2011 Revolution Rocks collection pays tribute to European royalty and nobility throughout history. Fabrics include silk, silk organza, silk taffeta and metallic taffeta; and he has even made his own fabrics this season, using embroidery and re-application. The new season colours include gold, amethyst, powder blue and pink. ianstuart-bride.com

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Silver cubic zirconia vintage-style earrings:

£49.99, H. Samuel

Clear Swarovski crystal ball earrings:

Vintage diamond earrings:

£7, I Kandi

from £10,500, Boodles

Silver mirage drop earrings:

£30, Yarwood-White

Platinum earrings with pave of 350 round-shaped diamonds:

P.O.A., Antonio Seijo

dare to

dazzle

Wedding day earrings are the finishing touch for your big day outfit… sparkle in style with these statement earrings.

Heirloom art deco crystal chandelier earrings:

White gold pave and white diamond earrings:

£104.50, Martine Wester

P.O.A., Stephen Webster

Freshwater pearl and diamond vintage earrings:

£135, Earnest Jones

White gold and diamond earrings:

£895, Tous

Treasured heirloom earrings:

Giorgia Swarovski luxe drop earrings:

£38, Glitzy Secrets

£49.99, Crystal Bridal Accessories Bezel-set pear-shaped diamond earrings:

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IT HAD TO BE You For timeless elegance opt for couture bridal gowns with accents of glamour, drama and luxury.

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Fairytale Gown

Love Thy Shoe Let your bridesmaids weep with joy when you tell them they will be wearing these incredible Flower Rose sling-back peep toes – £59.99. schuh.co.uk

The Long Twinkle dress is scattered with hundreds of threedimensional silk flowers; the embroidery alone takes over four days to sew. A long train and accentuated sleeves make this a dramatic yet glitteringly beautiful dress that will leave wedding guests in awe.

Veil €630; dress €7,810

Who’s a Lucky Boy! Sexy and luxurious, the Fifi Bridal Collection from Agent Provocateur will have your bridesmaids squealing in excitement when they see what you are planning to surprise the lucky groom with on your wedding night! agentprovocateur.com

Diamonds with a Difference A plain wedding band not your cup of tea? Then how about this unique, ornate ring from Tous.

Ivy diamond ring, £1,447. tous.com

Boho Bride temperleylondon.com

Here come the girls

Embody ethereal glamour on your wedding day in Matthew Williamson's floor-sweeping, white, silk-chiffon gown. With a crystal-sprayed, plunging V-neck and a self-tie belt to gently define your form, this exquisite gown is perfect for relaxed nuptials. Matthew Williamson, €1,552.37. net-a-porter.com

Our fashion team’s pick of what’s hot for brides and their maids. TOP

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A Statement in Style Opting for a vintage theme?

Then look no further than Rosie Willett’s fashionable floral headpieces, beautifully hand-stitched using silk organza and French lace. rosiewillettdesigns.co.uk

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Cut-out stone bangle, €43: topshop.com

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Smarty Pants

Nicki Macfarlane children’s wear is second to none – the finest quality, the very best fabrics and the most Twinkle Twinkle original twist on Little Star traditional grand style.

Let your flower girl sparkle for less nickimacfarlane.com expense, in these gorgeous glitter ballet shoes (£6). matalan.co.uk

Kid Couture If you have opted for a pastel colour scheme then you will love this range from Little Bevan Star. Alice dress, from £155; boy’s mandarin shirt from £60 and silk knickerbockers from £70. littlebevan.co.uk

Petals in Bloom

The Golden Keepsake

The easiest way to create elegant and beautiful flower girl hairstyles is to add hair accessories to a simple do. Sweet Rose Dew hair pins: £14.99. ayedo.co.uk

The classic design of this expander bangle makes it a great gift that will be treasured for years to come. Child's ninecarat gold expander bangle: £79.99. hsamuel.co.uk

Little Darlings Younger guests will stay cute and comfortable in these classy wedding outfits and accessories for children.

Little Lord of the Rings Through the use of a ring cushion the role of ring bearer is enhanced. Olivier Laudus Floriana is a vintage-inspired design from their new collection – £74.99 for the personalised version. olivierlaudus.com

Comfort with Style Pretty as a Princess Monsoon’s Bella Corsage ivory dress with an embellished bodice and detachable corsage is just too cute for words (£48).

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Wedding shoe company Rainbow Club stocks a great range for children. We like Cecily, a dainty bar shoe with pretty organza butterflies (£25); and Sam, a cool satin trainer for kids (unisex) with a velcro fastening (£23-£30). rainbowclub.co.uk

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FOR 2011/2012 BOOKINGS CONTACT OWEN SPAIN MOB 0034 670664341 IRELAND MOB 00353872682832 www.owenfarrellphotography.com http://owenfarrellphotography.com/blog/ info@owenfarrellphotography.com

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f you're on a tight budget, why not consider hiring your outfit: it's a great way to get a smart suit without blowing a lot of cash.

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All models are wearing black tailcoat with black striped trousers, Chesterton waistcoat, cold ruche and hankie.

Price: ÂŁ85 for full package for men; ÂŁ75 for boys; groom free on five or more suits.

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Black frockcoat, traditional striped trousers with Byron waistcoat, Victorian wing collar shirt and gold ruche and waistcoat.

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Black short jacket and matching trousers with Burns waistcoat, plain collar shirt with ruby shimmer ruche and hankie.

Price: men’s £75; boys not available.

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Black Prince Edward, Bronte waistcoat and ivory ruche and hankie.

Price: ÂŁ85 Stockist:1860.com

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Style Statement Looking for some off-the-cuff attention?

Then top off your outfit with Boodles’ “Velocity” gold cufflinks set with diamonds. boodles.com (£1,400)

Elegant Attire The Royal Ascot Collection is made up of tailcoats, waistcoats and traditional striped trousers. Luxurious pure wool cloth has been crafted into ultra-lightweight morning suits.

Available to hire from £79 or to buy: mossbros.co.uk

ALERT ink straight D N E R T s, th r e s u o r For t row: keted c o p r t a n and n fronted, sla i.e. flat htly tapered. and slig Tailored with a Twist Thumbs-up for the fresh, edgy, unique designs from Adam Waite Custom Tailoring. Offering a made-to-measure suit fitting service, specialising in wedding suits… we think Adam Waite is one to watch. adamwaite.co.uk

Suited and Booted One of the popular bespoke tailors for those in the entertainment world, Mark Powell is also one of the most original. His clothes are fun and beautifully cut, with a dash of sixties influence. markpowellbespoke.co.uk

Groomy Baby!

Our guide to fashion and style for grooms...

TOP IDE AS

Finishing Touches Liven up a sombre suit with this quirky spotty silk bow tie in dark blue by Peter Christian. peterchristian.co.uk (£25)

CONFEFRTOIM Watches with THE WOW Factor

Getting Personal The perfect gift: a beautiful pair of personalised shirt collar stiffeners which can be hand-stamped with words of your choice. chambersandbeau.com (£80)

Diesel: £99

TAG Heuer Carrera Calibre 1887: £2,350

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Hugo Boss: £275.00

Tel: 952 929 120 Mobile: 618 343 488 info@cornelcatering.com www.cornelcatering.com

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O T F F O S T A H LIP TREACY PHI

Favoured by the likes of Kate Moss, Naomi Campbell and Sarah Jessica Parker, his creations have graced the heads of some of the biggest names on the celebrity scene. Discovered by fashion legend Isabella Blow in 1989, Philip Treacy has since gone on to design for Karl Lagerfeld, Valentino and Alexander McQueen. In this exclusive interview, he talks to Nicola McGeorge about why he decided to work in bridal, his first fashion show and receiving an OBE.

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simple is e g a s s e m e ‘‘Th a great and absolute: e its sid hat exists out own time’’ Why did you become a m illiner?

I love hats. It‘ s an enigmat ic object that serves th e human purp ose only of beautification and embellish ment and making one fe el good, whe ther you’re the observer of the specta cle or the wearer. A hat is a positive sy mbol.

A good hat is the ultimate gl amour accessory. It thrills observer s and makes the wea rer feel a millio n dollars.

This creates a high status of desirability and, although the images re ceived can seem out of th is world, the co nspicuous consumer rela tes strongly to it. The message is si mple and abso lute: a great hat exists outs ide its own tim e.

I believe in be auty and eleg ance and communicatin g thoughts an d dreams in a visual way. I st arted designin g hats 15 year ago while a st s udent at the R oy al College of Art. It was at a time when ha ts were perceived publ icly as somethi ng worn by ladies of a certa in age, and so mething from a bygone era.

I thought this was totally ridiculous and simply believe d, “We all have head, so ever a ybody has the po ssibility to wear a hat.” I love to work w ith my hands making somet hing from noth ing – turning tw dimensional m oaterial into a th ree-dimension object is the pe al nultimate mom ent of creativity of my craft. I ha ve had the grea test pleasure having the op of portunity to ch allenge people perception of ’s what a hat shou ld look like in 21st century. the I decided to work in bridal because… ha are part of a br ts ide. As a smal l child I used live across th to e road from th e village chur loved to watch ch. I the weddings there. They w the equivalent ere of fashion show s to me. The dresses that pe ople wore, I co uldn’t believe them: they wer e incredible.

It seemed so glamorous to see these crea tures appear these extraor in dinary clothe s, as we didn much glamou ’t ha ve r where I cam e from.

I started my ca reer with Isab ella Blow’s w headdress. I edding wanted to ba se the hat on called The Mira a 1930s play cle, which La dy Diana Coo suggested to per was in. I Issy that may be this would be wedding. I co good for the uldn’t believe that I’d hit up who didn’t ex on a person pect tulle and veiling and pe wedding hat. arls for her

‘‘A hat is a po sit A good hat is ive symbol. the ultimate glamour acce sso observers and ry. It thrills makes the wearer feel a million dollar s’’ CONFETI

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A key momen t in my career was… when my first fashio I staged n show – all black hats – Harvey Nicho in the ls departmen t store during Fashion Wee London k. The superm odels of the er Naomi Campb a– ell, Yasmin Le Bon, Kate Mos Stella Tennan s, t and Christy Turlington – al modelled for l me. I phoned up Christy Tu say that I was rlington to having a show and would sh for me? She e do it agreed and th e rest followed Naomi Campb on. ell’s agent ca lled the next Moss complai day. Kate ned that I ha dn’t asked he was in a lull th r. London en. The med ia went crazy those girls di when all d my show an d it completely perceptions changed of the hat.

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My boutique is… a precious golden box w our window to ith the world. Our customers ar everyone from e a young girl w ho’s saved up for a £150 rain wear trilby to a very distinguished gentleman of about 70. He comes in ever y summer to or der 20 couture hats to entertain th e ladies who will be staying on his yacht. matter how m It doesn’t uch people pa y for them: ev wants to look eryone a million dolla rs in a hat.

My biggest ac hievement is … being appo honorary Office inted an r of the Most Ex cellent Order British Empire of the (OBE), awarde d by HRH Prin and HRH The ce Charles Duchess of C ornwall in Cla surrounded by rence House my family. The honour was co on me by Her nferred Majesty the Q ueen in recogn services to the ition of my British fashion industry.

I started desi gning hats fo r the high stre because… ha et ts are for ever yone. We all ha head so we ha ve a ve the possib ility to wear a feel better for hat. You wearing them . I was happy to make hats to be able that anyone co uld afford.

A Philip Trea cy creation sh ould make a feel… a millio bride n dollars on th e best day of her life. philiptreacy. co.uk

Fabulous online boutique stocking a stunning range of stylish wedding accessories

www.davidtoms-weddings.com

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By Natasha Johnson

SAME-SEX WEDDINGS IN SPAIN Jens Nagel for yourweddingmoments.com

In 2005, both Spain and the UK took extremely positive steps in recognising that same-sex couples should be able to celebrate their union in a legally recognised ceremony. Hence was born the civil law partnership in both countries.

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any gay couples felt that the legislation was well overdue and wasted no time in planning their ceremonies and celebrating their partnership. Nick and Ivan did just that. In 2009, they were legally married in a civil ceremony in Girona, a beautiful town near where they lived in Barcelona. The day after their civil ceremony Nick and Ivan had a wedding blessing in a converted farmhouse they rented for the occasion.

“We always wanted our wedding to be a happy occasion in a beautiful place where we declared our love and commitment to each other in front of our friends and family. Our guests had come from all over Europe and we were sure that they wanted to be present at the big moment.

As lovely as the town hall was, we couldn't have had such a big, fun ceremony there and it would only have been possible midweek. Our Humanist ceremony, for us, will always be our true wedding. It allowed us to celebrate our marriage exactly where and how we wanted.”

Home or away… or both!

Now that in Spain and the UK same-sex couples have been afforded the same rights and privileges as heterosexual couples, their choices for the wedding celebrations are just as varied. In the same way that heterosexual couples can opt for a simple civil ceremony in their home country and then a more personalised blessing and

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wedding reception in Spain, now gay couples can as well.

One such couple are Jude Satchell and Lisa Foley, who in 2009 had a civil ceremony in the UK and a blessing in Málaga. After some research on the internet, they came across the beautiful rustic charms of El Molino del Conde, in the heart of the Andalucian countryside, and knew it was where they wanted to hold their wedding celebrations.

“It was never our intention to have a full civil ceremony in the UK. There were a couple of reasons really why we wanted to go abroad, and particularly Spain. We wanted some sun and we wanted to manage our costs. Lisa in particular has a large family and we knew we couldn't afford to hold something in the UK for a large number of people. Plus, we really wanted something much more intimate with only very close family and friends,” Jude says.

Wedding With Pride photo by Luanna Francis Photography

As with civil weddings in the UK, civil partnerships work in very much the same way. The first steps are for the couple to register their intentions at their local registry office. This notice of civil partnership is then publicised by the registration office for 15 days. Once this period has passed, the date can be arranged for the actual ceremony.

The registry office will also need to see proof of your age, nationality and identity.

If you and your partner are planning on having a civil partnership ceremony in Spain, not only will you need to satisfy the criteria of your local town hall (ayuntamiento), district court (juzgado) or civil registry (registro civil) where the ceremony will take place, but you will also need to provide proof of residency, if one or both of you are not Spanish nationals.

As always, it is best to check exactly which documents you need with the office concerned, but in general you will be required to present documents to confirm your age, nationality, identity and/or residency, such as the Certificado de Empadronamiento.

At the time of writing, Gibraltar still does not offer civil ceremonies for same-sex couples, as it does for heterosexual couples, so Spain and the UK are currently the best options if you are living in any of those countries.

Wedding With Pride photo by Luanna Francis Photography

The legal bit…

Gary Tapp - yourweddingmoments.com

The day before they arrived in Spain, Lisa and Jude had their civil ceremony but they always had in mind that their blessing in Spain was going to be their actual ceremony.

“The whole day in Spain was about celebrating our union in the company of our family and friends, but also doing that in the best way we could, utilising the Spanish culture that we were so lucky to be surrounded by. So, for our wedding meal we had local Spanish ladies from the village cook us tapas and paella. We also had a local Spanish guitarist play for us, and the owners of a small local hotel made our ‘rustic’ wedding cake. We even utilised the beautiful flowers and herbs in the garden to decorate the tables, and had olive oil from the local olive groves as favours. It really was about making the most of the beauty and resources that surrounded us. Our civil ceremony in contrast was simply the signing of a legal document. I guess it just paved the way really to allow us to have the day we truly wanted in the place we loved,” recalls Lisa.

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Checklist for a same-sex wedding in Spain: I Talk to a wedding planner or do your own research to see if you can have a civil ceremony in Spain or the UK. I Decide if you would like a blessing, which will allow you to have a more personalised ceremony at a venue of your choice in Spain. Most couples treat their blessing as their “actual ceremony”.

I Confirm your venue and other suppliers. Use the Confeti directory to help you.

I And, finally, enjoy your special day!

Natasha Johnson Humanist Wedding Celebrant malagaminister.com

LET´S GET PLANNING Created by sisters Julie and Maggie, Weddings With Pride specialises in samesex civil ceremonies. After attending countless same-sex commitment ceremonies that didn’t quite fulfil their potential and whose brides or grooms arrived on the day stressed out and tired, many times encountering attitude from suppliers and often settling for second best, Julie knew that a new approach was long overdue.

Both have a passion for beautiful, seamless weddings with the expertise of event and wedding planning. They aim to stop the stress and encourage their clients to relax and let their imagination run wild. A romantic location, a most delectable banquet, the “Picasso” of wedding cakes… in short, the most exquisite and unforgettable party they will ever have.

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Maggie lives in Benahavis, a picturesque Spanish mountain village situated between Marbella and Estepona, and has extensive knowledge and experience of all the village venues, secret beauty spots and Spanish laws relating to same-sex civil ceremonies. Whether it is a private villa, a luxury hotel, a ceremony on the beach or one of many other delightful and unique venues, the theme can be as English or Spanish as you wish.

Julie lives in the UK, is actively involved in the gay community and has established strong links with professionals and gayfriendly wedding services. Every detail – from graphic-designed wedding stationery to bespoke woman’s bridal tailoring – can be covered in the UK and Spain by both halves of Weddings with Pride.

Maggie has a wonderful relationship with Benahavis and has trusted suppliers along the coast, so you can be rest assured your day will be free from all prewedding anxieties. Weddings With Pride gives couples the chance to spend extra special time with their family and friends: not just one perfect day but a continuous celebration, often in a new and exciting location. From a casual Friday night welcome supper to a private barbecue, a golfing day or a lazy Sunday brunch for the morning after the big day, Weddings With Pride will create a special weekend that will never be forgotten.

Tel. (+34) 646 156 198 (+44) 7860540373 info@weddingswithpride.co.uk weddingswithpride.co.uk

At the time of writing, Gibraltar still does not offer civil ceremonies for same-sex couples, as it does for heterosexual couples, so Spain and the UK are currently the best options if you are living in any of those countries.

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ying between small coves, untouched by development and surrounded by impressive mountain scenery, is the quaint town of Nerja. At the easterly end of the province, only 50 kilometres from Málaga and within a one and a half hour drive to Granada, it really is an idyllic location for weddings.

Protected by the mountains, the temperate climate makes Nerja an ideal place to have a wedding at any time of the year. Offering an excellent range of quality accommodation and leisure facilities… there are 13 kilometres of beaches, including the internationally famous Burriana beach that has once again been awarded the European Union’s “Blue Flag”, and the small coves below the impressive cliffs of Maro, which have been the inspiration of numerous artists setting up residence there. However, the spirit of Nerja is its magnificent Balcón de Europa,

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a splendid esplanade along the edge of a soaring cliff – a beautiful setting for your wedding photos.

The Legal Bit The only way for non-resident foreigners to marry legally in Spain is in a Catholic church. At least one of you must be Catholic and neither previously married.

All paperwork must be dated within six months of your wedding day. There are a few priests who speak English but it is possible to bring your own priest to perform the ceremony.

If you are unable to marry in the Catholic church, you can still enjoy a blessing ceremony performed by a non-religious English minister living in the area. It will still feel like a traditional wedding ceremony: the exchanging of rings, vows, lighting marriage candles and signing paperwork at the end.

You will need to get married legally at a civil registry office in the UK, Ireland or Gibraltar.

The Ceremony There are three churches to choose from in the area: El Salvador in Nerja; San Antonio de Padua in Frigiliana; and Nuestra Señora de las Maravillas in Maro.

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El Salvador The El Salvador Church is situated opposite the Balcón de Europa and close to what used to be the Guards Tower. It was erected in 1505, although the existing structure was not built until 1697. The exterior features a four-sided bell tower, while its interior is renowned for its 18th century frescoes decorating the Evangeline nave, and the modern mural of the annunciation by the painter Francisco Hernandez. This church is popular for Spanish weddings and foreign couples, either for the marriage ceremony itself or for a blessing.

Rvdo. D. Andrés Francisco Pérez González (speaks English) Church donation: €270 Weddings Fridays and Sundays only.

Plaza Cavana 13, Nerja San Antonio de Padua The Church of San Antonio de Padua, patron saint of Frigiliana, was built in 1676 and sits high up in the village of Frigiliana. It has a striking, gold-plated altar and capacity for around 200 people. The church has an attractive square out front, with panoramic views across the coast. This provides an impressive backdrop for wedding photos.

Rvdo. D. José Maseda Vázquez (doesn’t speak English). Requires a deposit of €50 at the time of making the booking.

Currently the fee is €270.

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Nuestra Señora de las Maravillas The church is located in Maro overlooking the sea. It was built in the 17th century and later reformed. The façade is simple; inside you will find a large ceramic altar with the image of the virgin.

Rvdo. D. José Maseda Vázquez (doesn’t speak English) Requires a deposit payment of €50 at the time of making the booking.

Currently the fee is €270.

Plaza de la Iglesia, Maro Weddings at Frigiliana and Maro – any day with the exception of Sunday, and more flexible with the time of the ceremony.

Confeti have put together a list of the finest wedding-related companies who can help you achieve your dream wedding in Nerja.

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Celebrating in Style Celebrations in Spain have been trading for seven years and have organised over 400 weddings. They are passionate about every wedding, ensuring the smooth running of each one, whether small and intimate for two (the bride and groom) or larger weddings with several hundred guests.

They cover the area from Nerja down to Gibraltar but Nerja has always been a favourite location for them as it is smaller and more compact than some of the other resorts on the coast. It is also one of the few places where there are wedding venues within walking distance of the church.

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El Salvador is a stunningly beautiful church situated right in the centre of the town on the famous Balcón de Europa.

While this is the main parish church in Nerja they urge couples to also look at neighbouring villages: for example, Frigiliana, Maro, Benamocarra and La Viñuela for the smaller traditional Spanish church. You have the choice of having the ceremony in Spanish with a translator or they can arrange for an English-speaking priest to travel to your chosen church.

There are many venues in the area to suit a wide range of budgets, with full menus including drinks reception and drink with the meal starting at just €40 in Playamaro. Menus in Nerja are generally a little more Spanish than in other areas but all venues can be flexible to suit the tastes of the foreign guests.

Tel. (office): (+34) 952 535 688 Tel. (mobile): (+34) 636 588 697 celebrationsinspain.com limelight.pl

Music to Your Ears There's nothing like live music to create an intimate atmosphere. Linda & Belen will make your wedding ceremony a memorable event. They specialise in Catholic weddings and will work with you before the day to create the perfect music according to your wishes.

They are very happy to spend the time with you needed to chose that special song you remember from your childhood and even learn it if they don’t know it. Able to sing in English and Spanish, their repertoire in both languages is wide and they can help advise the best Catholic hymns for the ceremony.

You deserve more than canned music on your special day!

True professionals, Linda and Belen have been performing at weddings for many years. Their spirit, professionalism and love of the music they play will help ensure your wedding's success. They can also play at receptions and other gatherings along the Costa del Sol with solo background music, light rock vocal music and any other special requests you might have.

Tel. (+34) 639 778 476 info@nerjaonline.com

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PERFECT SPANISH WEDDINGS Wedding Planners In southern Spain‌ and much more!

Full Wedding Planning Service Beautiful Venues All Types of Wedding Ceremonies Venue Decoration Photography Entertainment Accommodation Transport

For more Information contact us:

www.perfectspanishweddings.co.uk info@perfectspanishweddings.co.uk

Call us on (+34) 958 069 073 or (+34 662 183 145)

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keep up with contemporary trends and fashions. Extra attention is given to the wrapping: beautiful bags, cellophane paper, coloured tissue paper and elegant ribbon top off their breathtaking creations.

Whether you have a set theme or need a little inspiration, Flor Valentin are happy to work with you and produce exquisite floral arrangements for your dream wedding Tel. (+34) 951 311 086 florvalentin.es

An Andalucian-Style Reception Casa Luque is situated in one of the most beautiful houses in Nerja, maintaining its old canopied façade and internal distribution. With more than two decades serving quality Andalucian and Spanish cuisine, their food concept is about honesty, simplicity, with a balance of taste and texture, and adapting to modern times. That is, 21st century Andalucian cuisine without losing their roots.

Their terrace is located at El Salón beach. Surrounded by cliffs, white houses and fishermen’s boats, it is a magnificent scenario to celebrate one of the most important days in your life. All wedding and celebration menus include a small table floral arrangement, a special table floral arrangement for the main table and personalised menu prints. In the event you require a seating plan for your event they will produce a personalised copy to make your guests relaxed on arrival.

Tel. (+34) 952 521 004 casaluque.com

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A Rosy Future Opened in March 2007, Flor Valentin is a little universe of plants, flowers and beautiful décor. Their charming flower shop, which has everything from freshlycut flowers to candles and lanterns, is located just off the highway between Fuengirola and Mijas.

Danish owner Janne Valentin Lassen and Swedish Anna Sofia Fritzell pride themselves on their personal service and guidance – a creative team on a mission to make every day pretty, thus contributing to your well-being. The pair specialise in weddings and are happy to accommodate weddings in the Nerja area.

The style at Flor Valentin is rustic, raw and feminine, with a twist of old French Bohème. Everything is presented in a cosy, warm atmosphere. The talented duo

Whisper Sweet Nothings Sue, a C.E.N.T.R.A.-qualified cake decorator from Wedding Cakes In Spain, brings you 15 years of experience in classic cake couture. Based in the Axarquía area, the company is ideally located to serve major wedding venues in and around the Costa del Sol and Axarquía.

Their cake designs range from classic elegant designs, sparkling sensations and floral fantasies to cascading cupcake creations. All cakes are individually designed to compliment your very own unique wedding style and colour scheme.

Their cake prices are totally flexible to suit all tastes and budgets. They offer an exciting range of scrumptious flavours from indulgent chocolate biscuit crunch and summer strawberry with white chocolate to the more demure rich brandied fruit cake.

Cake consultations are highly recommended, at least three months prior to your wedding, in order to secure your date. It will also give you the opportunity to meet the team, sample some of their delicious cakes and discuss your wedding cake in more detail.

Tel. (+34) 645 600 631 info@weddingcakesinspain.co.uk weddingcakesinspain.co.uk

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The Sound of Music Musibodas offer classical music services for weddings and events on the Costa del Sol. With more than 10 years experience supplying entertainment for wedding ceremonies and receptions, they are one of the leading companies in the wedding sector.

Offering you a refined live classical music selection, they take care of every single detail of the musical organisation at your event. Having an extensive and varied repertoire, they can create that elegant moment you are looking for on your special day.

Musibodas are available for all kinds of social events – weddings, parties, concerts – making your celebration an unforgettable event.

Tel. (+34) 660 75 32 46 (Laura Sánchez) classicalmusicweddings.weebly.com Lady of the Manor Hotel Cortijo Bravo is a rural hotel located in the Axarquia area of Málaga province.

This top-quality hotel ensures you have everything you could possibly dream of for your special day.

The hotel's rooms are designed to express the soul of an Andalucian manor house. The perfectly designed grounds are a fabulous location to hold your wedding ceremony and reception.

The blend of sea and mountains, serenity and personal attention ensures an unforgettable stay. Their wedding packages offer many extras to make your special day unique, and the standard of their food and service is five-star.

Tel. (+34) 952 115 044 hotelcortijobravo.com

Bespoke Weddings Spanish Wedding Planner is a team of professionals dedicated to planning, organising and executing the most perfect and stress-free wedding you can imagine.

Headed by Jennifer McCloy, the team works hard to ensure that your special day runs perfectly and smoothly.

It is well known that weddings rank as one of the most stressful events possible. That is why Spanish Wedding Planner makes sure that everything is organised and timed perfectly. But they go much further than just planning: at every wedding, a member of the expert team is present to coordinate and oversee the entire event. As such, Jennifer compares her work to being a “film director for weddings”.

According to her, there is no better feeling than queuing the musicians and opening the church doors at the precise moment for the start of a truly magical day. "I worry when I hear about couples without a planner," says Jennifer, "because it is absolutely necessary for someone to control the flow of the day’s events and handle any hiccups that can occur on the day."

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Whatever may happen – from a wedding dress that needs immediate attention, to a guest who might be unwell, or a best man who can’t find his way to the church – if anything goes wrong, Spanish Wedding Planner is there with the skills and experience to handle it for you.

After all, this is your wedding day; leave the work and stress to the professionals!

Jennifer McCloy Tel. (+34) 667 364 188 spanishweddingplanner.com Luxury Weddings Perfect Spanish Weddings are leading wedding planners and events organisers for Nerja and the surrounding area. They are an established company and arrange all types of weddings, from a small intimate affair to a large wedding of over 300 guests. All their weddings are tailormade to suit each individual couple, as all their clients are unique.

Perfect Spanish Weddings have worked with couples from all over the world, including the UK, Ireland, the US and other European countries. They understand that planning a wedding in a foreign country may seem like a daunting task, but their friendly, professional and committed team will take away all your worries and put you at ease.

They work closely with their clients, offering creative ideas and practical help, whilst ensuring they keep within budgets.

They take care of all the arrangements so you can enjoy the whole experience from start to finish – stress-free!

They have an ever-growing network of contacts and gorgeous venues, enabling them to offer clients a fabulous choice of location, packages and prices.

Tel. (+34) 958 069 073 or (+34) 662 183 145 info@perfectspanishweddings.co.uk www.perfectspanishweddings.co.uk

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Katie

Janssen and Andy Waters chose the picturesque town of Nerja for their big day.

How We Met A friend of mine was working at a computer software developer’s and took me along as her plus one to a work do, and that’s how I met Andy. He is a software programmer. We started dating when I plucked up the courage to call him and we went out that same night – that was almost 10 years ago!

it on. I opted for minimal jewellery as the dress was so detailed: Swarovskistudded earrings and a Swarovski tennis bracelet. My something blue in the end was turquoise lace underwear; my borrowed was a horseshoe charm of my mum’s which we hooked to my garter.

My shoes were amazing – from Dune, and so comfortable

The Proposal My parents have a villa in Nerja and we have holidayed there as a family for over 20 years. Andy and I have been there several times on holiday. This particular evening he took me out to a beautiful restaurant overlooking the sea and proposed. I did have an inkling that something might happen as Andy was acting a little strangely. I painted my fingernails “just in case”. I said yes straight away – I had been waiting for a very long time!

My Wedding Planner Planning a wedding abroad was a tricky task and we decided that we would need a Spain-based wedding planner. We met Jenny McCloy in Spain to look at venues and straight away I knew I wanted her to help plan our big day. She was amazing, so professional and friendly; she kept everything organised and on track in the lead up to the day and on the day itself.

All my guests commented on how brilliant she had been.

Getting Married Abroad Nerja is a very special place for us. After he proposed in Nerja, we started thinking how wonderful it would be to have our wedding there. We were married in the church on the main square exactly one year after Andy had proposed.

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Finding the Dress I wore a Sancerre by Ian Stuart. It fitted perfectly and my custom-made, beaded, French lace bolero was perfect for the church. It was unusual for me to wear such a detailed dress (everyone expected something very plain) but I knew it was “the one” the second I tried

Capturing the Moments As soon as I said we were getting married in Spain a friend showed me her brother’s wedding album, shot by Jeremy Standley.

I decided from seeing his work that we would love to have him photograph our day. He was the first person we booked for our day.

All in the Detail It really had to be Spanish – we chose a turquoise colour scheme to compliment the blue of the sky and sea. We had our guests’ names written on pebbles as the place settings, and Spanish fans with our names and the date as favours for our female guests.

The Church The ceremony took place in a beautiful Catholic church called El Salvador; it is in the main square in Nerja by the Balcón de Europa. When I arrived at the church there were lots of locals stopping to see the bride arriving and wave, or wish us good luck.

Some even came into the church and stood at the back to listen to the service.

The church had some floral displays but did not really need any decoration as it is so ornate and beautiful inside.

The Reception We had eaten at Casa Luque before and always enjoyed our meals there – they serve traditional Spanish food using local produce with a modern twist. Myself and my three bridesmaids went to Spain three months before the wedding and had a menu tasting – everything was amazing but the choice of the scallops, the beef and dessert was unanimous. We also chose this venue because it was only a minute’s walk from the church and had a beautiful terrace overlooking the sea. The venue again didn’t need much decoration as the terrace looked stunning already in the Spanish sun.

The tables were covered with white linen, each with a white rose centrepiece; the chairs were large wicker, each with a turquoise sash tied around it. Each table had the name of a destination Andy and I had visited together and the date of our visit – personalising the day.

KATIE’S ADDRESS BOOK Dress: Ian Stuart – mamfiibridal.co.uk Wedding Planner: Jennifer McCloy – spanishweddingplanner.com Photographer: Jeremy Standley – jeremystandley.com Reception: Restaurant Casa Luque – casaluque.com Stationery: Druett Designs – druettdesigns.co.uk

Memorable Moments It’s such a cliché but our wedding day was truly the happiest day of my life. To be married to the man I love, in the brilliant sunshine of Nerja, my home from home, surrounded by all the people I love, all looking gorgeous and smiling. It’s a feeling I’m not sure can be rivalled! I also felt incredibly proud: proud of Andy, of my family and of all my bridesmaids – in particular my elder sister, who dropped two dress sizes to look fabulous on the day. And my parents, who did so much to help us achieve our perfect wedding day.

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A FAIRYTALE WEDDING AT CASTILLO DE MONDA MAGICAL SETTING

Have you ever

dreamed, as a little girl, of getting married in a castle?

Now you can. Hotel Castillo de Monda is romantic, alluring and captivating – and makes the perfect venue for a wedding.

The hotel itself is steeped in history. Built during Roman times, it was erected on the towers and walls of an Arabic fortress.

Since being developed into a hotel in 1996, it has been shrouded in enchanting mystery and romance. The hotel consists of 27 rooms, making your stay much more personal and private than at some other larger establishments. They are charmingly classic in style: with wooden beams, authentic furniture and glorious views over Monda and the surrounding sierras.

This really could be the fairytale wedding of your dreams.

Hotel Castillo de Monda can be rented exclusively for your wedding, enabling you to host the perfect ceremony, celebration and overnight stay all in the one place – and relax and enjoy your special occasion to the maximum. The intimate location provides for supreme privacy; your day is all about you.

The hotel also offers a fully comprehensive wedding planning service. They are able to plan your special day down to the final detail, and will liaise with you throughout, allowing you to have control of your wedding without any of the stress.

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The hotel staff have extensive knowledge of the area and have contacts with certified clients who will be able to supply everything for your wedding. So, if you are not entirely familiar with the area, they will all be on hand to help.

Each event is planned and quoted individually, so existing wedding packages can be adapted to make each experience unique.

Highly regarded as one of the most charming hotels on the Costa del Sol, Castillo de Monda is ideal for your special day. You can host your wedding in a magical and original setting that will create irreplaceable memories that last forever.

Castillo de Monda Tel. 952 457 142 castillodemonda.es

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Bespoke Wedding Photography Owen Farrell Photography is the business of an Irish photographer located in Marbella, who covers all areas along the Coast from Gibraltar to Granada. He is based in his Marbella studio full-time while maintaining an office in Dublin.

Well-established and much sought after, Owen shoots commissioned weddings in Spain and internationally.

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How did you start photographing weddings?

I love the diversity of shooting weddings.

After shooting a friend’s wedding over six years ago, I was soon asked to shoot another; it seemed to just snowball from there on. Having trained in cinematography and worked on a wide range of feature films for the past 10 years, I implement this training into my photography. The way I shoot and visualise weddings is strongly influenced by my experience on movies.

Owen Farrell Photography Marbella Mob. (Spain): (+34) 670 664 341 Mob. (Ireland): (+353) 872682832 www.owenfarrellphotography.com owenfarrellphotography.com/blog info@owenfarrellphotography.com

How would you describe your approach to photographing weddings?

I am inspired towards the uncontrived documentary style of wedding photography and successfully capturing the natural beauty, emotions and candid details of that truly special day. My style is a visually stunning mix of candid black and white and colour imagery. Beautiful and creative images are captured in an entirely relaxed manner. I usually only need 20 minutes approximately with the couple alone to create an intimate and fun atmosphere.

What can future brides expect when they book Owen Farrell Photography?

I offer a complete professional service for the modern bride. The entire day is captured from the preparations right up until the first few dances. Wedding images are presented in an online gallery as well as a hardback proof book. Brides love the idea of the proof book and the fact that they have a fully-bound hardback book of their entire day’s photography before they even get their finished book.

What style of wedding albums do you offer?

Only the best products available worldwide are used to present the final chosen images, including beautiful hand-bound, bespoke-designed photographic books. The finished books and albums are as innovative and creative as the photography.

Finish the following sentence.

Owen Farrell Photography… …specialises in producing stylish, candid and truly original wedding imagery, and is available for weddings in Spanish and international locations.

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Shine on your wedding day with bridal hair and beauty from Halo Marbella.

Now under new Irish ownership, we have recruited a team of experts in up styling, hair extensions and makeup artists who will create a beautiful and lasting look for you on your special day.

Our salon is located off the main street in central Marbella and our mobile team will travel to your villa or hotel anywhere from Sotogrande to Mรกlaga city.

We have a private makeup suite in the salon where brides can enjoy privacy while they prepare.

All bridal parties receive complimentary cava and pastries on arrival.

Call to arrange a free consultation for hair, skincare and makeup on (+34) 952 865 796, email info@halosalons.com or visit our website, www.halosalons.com.

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Luscious Bridal Locks Celebrity hairdresser of the year Tara Smith has worked with Hollywood heavyweights such as Demi Moore, Kevin Spacey, Neve Campbell and Anna Friel… he change of season is the perfect time to start following my simple hair rules. This will make sure that your locks are in top condition for your spring/ summer wedding.

I am often asked how often we should be getting our hair cut.

This depends on what hairstyle you have: if it’s sharp, blunt or precision-cut, then every four to six weeks; if you’ve got something more dishevelled with layers, you can wait up to three months. If you have longer hair in good condition and you are using moisturising treatments and

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serum regularly, you can go up to four months. If your hair gets split at the ends have it cut immediately; once it starts to split it will fray like a piece of fabric.

Hairdryers, straighteners and other heat appliances are fine to use as long as you are protecting hair, so use a hair primer such as Tara Smith Base Coat Serum and a heat protector like Organic Connect Thermal 2 Twenty (organiccoloursystems.co.uk).

Invest in a good hairdryer like a T3 Tourmaline or ceramic, as these are better for your hair.

Good brushes are also essential; you might think it’s costly to invest

in them but it’s cheaper than going for a blow out every week, and you’ll get a close result!

Good quality hair irons like Corioliss or GHD can be used every day – the plates are titanium so they aren’t damaging to the hair. Try using irons on the lowest heat setting that will work for you.

Don’t use cheap ones – it’s when you have to drag them through hair three or four times that it gets damaged, and you can’t use them every day.

The best sort of brush depends again on what type of hair you have. If it’s curly, a wide-toothed comb such as Philip Kingsley’s is great. Denman paddle brushes or vent brushes are good for straight hair; and for blow-drying use a ceramic, larger, round brush as

this holds the heat in the middle so it becomes like a roller.

I always advocate good nutrition as part of my hair advice.

Hair is like a plant that needs to be nourished properly from the roots, and that means that what you put in your body is as important as what you put on it!

I decided, as I have been doing so much recently, that it would be good to try the three-day juice detox plan. I can really recommend it if you are rundown/exhausted/bloated (all signs of stressed out bride-to-be) because by cleansing and refreshing your body you will be energised, revitalised and radiant – and that means glossy hair. tarasmith.com CONFETI

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Celebrity make-up artist Ariane Poole’s clients include Penelope Cruz and Uma Thurman…

hen getting ready for your big day, many brides think that they must wear more make-up.

Well, this is simply not true.

Here are six common wedding make-up mistakes that brides make unknowingly.

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Make-up that doesn’t look like you I always tell my brides that they should be true to themselves.

So if you are someone who wears no make-up then keep it simple. Don’t let anyone, even a make-up artist, tell you that you should or need to wear more on the day if it doesn’t feel right. At the same time if you are someone who loves their make-up – the liner, the lips the false lashes, etc.

– don’t be tempted to go au natural unless you have tried it before.

Wear all the make-up you want to if that is your signature look.

2. Matchy matchy No longer do you need to match all the bridesmaids’ make-up so they lose their individuality. Your bridesmaids will thank you if you allow them to coordinate with each other while still looking right for them. Take into consideration their skin tone and age when deciding on the makeup look.

3. Too trendy Although you may want to be a modern bride beware of trends.

What is on trend today or this season may make you cringe in a few years time. Remember that

Wedding make-up mistakes… and how to avoid them you’ll want to look back at photos and think “Ahhh” – not “Yuck! What was I thinking?”

4. Panic beauty So many brides plan facials, false tans, manicures, Botox and teeth whitening a week before the wedding, hoping they will look great on the day.

What commonly happens in these situations is that skin erupts, teeth become over sensitive and faux tans look fake. Solution: plan ahead. Start or continue a good skincare routine and see skin specialists, dentists, etc., at least six months before the wedding day. Do a test tan a few weeks before your wedding and then have it topped up three days before.

For teeth whitening, I suggest making sure they look their best with Pearl Drops Hollywood Instant Whitening.

To make sure your nails look divine, try a long-lasting manicure two days before the wedding.?

5. When to shine I know all brides want to look radiant both on the day and in the photos but be careful that you don’t look greasy.

Keep the t-zone shine free; highlight the tops of the cheekbones and under the arch of the brows. If you are not a fan of powder, try one of the many antishine primers which go on under your foundation, or tinted moisturiser to keep shine at bay.

6. Make-up disaster Whether you are using a professional make-up artist or doing it yourself, have a trial run about six to eight weeks before the wedding so that you know what you are getting, and take pictures – even if the make-up artist is someone famous or you have known them for ages. The trial is the time to try something different to see if you like it. DON’T try anything new or different on the wedding day. arianepoole.com CONFETI

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Monika & Peter Monika and Peter were planning to have their post-wedding session taken at home in the UK but the weather ruined their plans. Instead, they fled to the beautifully lit and still warm Costa del Sol in late October, where a fun session awaited them – including a bit of “Trash That Dress”.

Photo by Anna Gazda: limelight.pl

Caroline Clarke & Larry McInerney Caroline and Larry's wedding took place in the stunning La Vinuela resort. Joan from spanishweddingplanner .com created a beautiful wedding reception for the lovely couple from Dublin.

Photo by owenfarrellphotography.com

Melanie Sayce & Stuart Dale Melanie and Stuart were married in Gaucín using the breathtaking castle for their ceremony, before dining and partying away till the early hours at La Herriza, with friends and family.

Photo by thoroughlygorgeous.com

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Drea & Brian Brian and Drea had a dream – and Alhambra Weddings made their dream come true.

Everything was perfect down to the very last detail.

Photo by alhambraweddings.com

Deven & Lelia The beautiful couple were married in the elegant and chic La Meridiana in Marbella.

Photo by davidtoms-weddings.com

Lucy & Gareth The couple were joined by family and friends from around the world for a fabulous evening celebration at the Marbella Club.

Photo by jeremystandley.com

Ann & Andy Ward Ann and Andy are pictured roaming around in the beautiful city of Sevilla after being wed in the amazing gothic Catedral de Santa MarĂ­a de la Sede.

Photo by Gary Tapp: yourweddingmoments.com

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Inspirational setting... and original style Harry and Michelle’s sparkling “shabby chic” wedding at a private cortijo in Marbella Our vision…

We always knew that we wanted a private and intimate venue for our wedding but it was just a question of finding the right one.

We chose the cortijo out of many we looked at. We had viewed a lot of great venues with our wedding planner Heather but fell

in love with this one because of its stunning grounds. We were not restricted on what time the wedding had to finish due to noise, so we partied all night and into the early hours of the morning. There were numerous bedrooms that were versatile for suiting our guests and family

needs. The pool area was a great size for the table placement for the wedding day and, finally, we were just inspired with the place.

Our style...

I would call it “glamorous shabby chic”. I started off by designing my own wedding dress and took the crystal detail from the top of the dress for my inspiration for the table decorations. We had large crystal napkin holders and crystals scattered over the tables.

We also had heart crystal and shabby chic style name placements. We hung hundreds of romantic love quotes in all the trees around the villa to put our guests in a romantic mood, and

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five large giant silver candle sticks to complete the look. We also had beautiful white Bali umbrellas for the ceremony, provided by Laura at Reviva Weddings, which gave a really original and stylish look to our blessing ceremony.

The highlights...

There were so many… I think seeing the ceremony set up for the first time really got the excitement going; walking down the aisle and seeing my husband-to-be Harry waiting for me; my mum and the bridesmaids looking absolutely glamorous; having our photos taken by our fantastic photographer David Toms… and the speeches, which were hilarious and emotional.

The dress...

I designed the dress myself and had it made by a dressmaker called Lynda Yong at Twin Cheeks in Ascot. She was absolutely amazing and really included me in every part of the process during all the dress fittings. The funny thing was that when I first went to her I said I didn’t want sequins and I didn’t want a veil. Little did I know that Swarovski crystals don’t actually sparkle that much on their own, but after Lynda showed me a few sequins mixed in with the crystals… wow did they sparkle! The top bodice Swarovski crystal fabric was then hand-stitched onto white duchess satin. The skirt was made from layers and layers of white tulle and I took this inspiration from a dress Sarah Jessica Parker wore to a red carpet event. Lynda then made me a long veil and the moment I put it on I loved it.

So I’m now a convert to the veil and sequins!

Our treasured moment...

I really couldn’t just pick one.

The whole day was absolutely amazing; we couldn’t have asked for it to have gone any better. I did ask this question to some of our guests and they said the secret singing waiters was a great idea.

The food was delicious and the ceremony looked like a fairytale.

We would like to say a huge thank you to Heather, Laura, Kathryn, Tres Divos, Lizzy and David for helping us make our dream wedding come true.

MICHELLE’S ADDRESS BOOK Wedding planning and catering: FiestaSol Tel. 952 898 746; fiestasol.com Venue: Cortijo La Perdiz Enquiries via: fiestasol.com Photography: David Toms davidtoms-weddings.com Tel. 690 656 120 Flowers and decoration: Reviva Weddings Tel. 618 021 172; revivaweddings.com Entertainment: Arran Harding (singing waiters and solo singing) Tel. 627 672 355; arrantsinger.com Hair and make-up: Kathryn Parr Tel. 607 717 523; kathrynparr.com Officiant: Lizzie Marriage Tel. 690 092 720

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The perfect finishing touch Confeti would like to introduce you to Olivier Laudus, established in 2004 by Belgian designer Olivier Laudus (formerly a stylist and model). A fabulous online bridal accessory boutique based in London, their range comprises of three collections that are certain to add the perfect finishing touch to your wedding.

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LATEST NEWS from the Coast’s wedding experts accessories including luxury hand-beaded wedding ring cushions and guestbooks designed by Olivier – which can also be personalised, making them lovely keepsakes of your special day.

In addition they offer a Boutique Collection of handpicked ready-towear gorgeous accessories which includes stylish bridal bags, pearl and crystal jewellery, princess style tiaras, vintage-inspired headbands, bejewelled decorative hair combs, dreamy flower clips, sparkly diamante monogram cake toppers and even ivory heart-shaped umbrellas.

Finally, Olivier Laudus is proud to work with independent

designers and offers the Artisan Collection of unique handmade jewellery and tiaras.

All items are sold under the Olivier Laudus brand and, to add

to the feeling of luxury, most items come wrapped in tissue paper and packaged in a stunning white presentation box.

Tel. (+44) 20 8374 1239; olivierlaudus.com Cakes for all tastes and budgets Delicious Cakes and Treats were established in Spain two years ago.

Born in Gibraltar, owner Daniella James learnt her talents from her mother. She has attended many of the best cake courses in London over the years, and draws on her experience when designing cakes for brides-to-be.

Daniella makes and designs traditional wedding cakes with

two, three or four tiers. She likes to keep the fillings as simple as possible, with vanilla, chocolate and lemon being the most popular, but may also make banana or carrot cakes. The flavours may also be alternated between each tier to please all members of the wedding party.

For those weddings who want to stray from the habitual traditions and offer originality to guests, Daniella also designs cupcake towers. These use 30 to 150 cupcakes, depending on the size and budget of the wedding, which are a stunning feature and centrepiece for the big day. Each guest will have their own cupcake, with a small cake included as the top tier for those who want to keep a touch of tradition.

Daniella will also supply birthday cakes and rich fruitcakes for Christmas. All her cakes are baked to order, and delivery between Estepona and Puerto Banuú is free. deliciouscakesandtreats.com

What dreams are made of...

Working from her studio near Marbella Fiona produces beautiful gowns, wedding apparel and accessories to order, surrounded by wonderful silk fabrics, delicate laces, Swarovski crystals and freshwater pearls.

“It is a privilege to be able to translate my passion for good design into a fabulous gown or an embroidered waistcoat,” she says, “and to contribute so much to that most special of days.”

At the first consultation thoughts and ideas are brought alive on the sketchpad. Once the design has been decided the first pattern is cut and a toile is made, followed by a series of fittings.

Any couture techniques are employed throughout the production process, ensuring an exceptional quality of finish.

Each garment is created as an individual work of art, with its own personality, “just as no two individuals are alike”.

Fiona has always worked closely with her favourite photographers, hairstylists, makeup artists and florists, creating a theme or ambience as a backdrop for the bride. This has now been extended to include invitation design, cakes and catering, wedding transport, spectacular venues, entertainment, legal and translation, etc.

A full or part planning service can be provided as required, making your wedding a truly “bespoke” affair. fisantamaria.com

Reviva Weddings Creating Beautiful Occasions

Reviva’s talented team, combined with their flair for design and effortless organization have created many exceptional weddings and events here in Marbella and have earnt a reputation within the wedding and event industry as one of the top event planners and stylists in Europe.

What makes Reviva different is our bespoke wedding planning and design service and our attention to the all important details, we will translate your dreams into reality.

We are dedicated to help you delight and enchant your guests and provide you with the most beautifully organised and decorated day.

Reviva Weddings are based in Marbella, in the first dedicated wedding and event design shop.

Offering a wonderful selection of decorations, flowers and details to help you design and style your wedding or event, from elegant chair covers, sashes and linens to fabulous bridal flowers, ceremony decorations and romantic reception centrepieces.

Come and visit us and be transported into a wonderful world of weddings and parties or for more information visit www.reviva-weddings.com or visit our popular blog www.theweddingdecorator.blogspot.com Appointments are recommended please call Laura on

951 271 220 or 618 021 172

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growth. However, she will always do her best to keep it unobtrusive and candid, adding the right feel to each situation.

Anna is a member of the Wedding Photojournalist Association (WPJA) and was recently invited to join the ranks of Cake & Pictures – a new directory of some of the finest wedding photographers in the world. She says that some of the names from that directory make her want to work even harder.

Tel. (+34) 633 654 476 limelight.pl

Life Through a Lens Anna Gazda likes to call herself a photographer at large. Whenever she walks out with her camera she says she feels like a predator observing everything calmly yet intensely –especially now she has moved to the Costa del Sol (Frigiliana), as it is amazingly lit most of the time. The abundant Spanish light and its quality scored high on her “relocation pros” list.

At weddings you can see her, though she usually does her best not to be seen too much: crawling, jumping, bending… always stalking the light. She is interested in people, their real actions and emotions.

Having studied photography at film school her photography (including weddings and portrait) is mainly photojournalistic/documentary, in style with a permanent search for a better way to translate and express what she sees and how she sees things around her. She once heard that you can only see what you know – and she believes this is so true.

Her main goal is to add even more dimension to her images, beyond the beauty, and make them more narrative and cinematographic. Also, she wants to remain fresh and humble as these are the only ways for professional evolution and

Kai O. Kaye, will assess your case before and after the training phase and recommend the additional minimal invasive aesthetic treatments to maximise your results.

Tel. (+34) 951 775 518 oceanclinic.net

New Horizons

Wedding photographer Gary Tapp has moved to his new studio in Centro Commercial El Campanario, Calahonda: a 100 square metre space fully equipped with high-quality photographic lighting equipment for everything from simple The Ultimate Makeover portraits, commercial, glamour Ocean Clinic in Marbella offer a and fashion shoots to pre and new integrated service of personal post wedding studio sessions and training, diet counselling and full high-end post production minimal invasive aesthetic editing facilities. The studio is also treatments as an all-encompassing available for hire. approach for clients who want to The basement studio is split refresh their body image without into three areas: hair and makemajor surgery. up area; working studio and Given a time frame of three to six photography area; and modern months, their specialists can provide client area for meetings, wedding you with assistance and counselling photobook/digital album design, in how to train and how to eat, so product viewings and large-scale that you can look your best for an imagery projection for important event such as your client viewings. wedding. The head of Ocean Tel. (+34) 600 545 032 Clinic’s aesthetic medicine unit, Dr. yourweddingmoments.com/studio

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My wedding is in August and I am worried that I might sweat off my make-up.

What tips can you give me to avoid this from happening? I would also like to know what trends to go for?

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As you probably know, next season’s bridal hair and make-up trends are based on the wedding fashions at this year's shows. The dress trends are highlighting accents of ruffles and lace, and head-dresses are definitely out.

Tiaras, flowers or bows are the hair adornments of choice. This means that hairstyles will be created around these centrepieces. Complicated hair-ups with a tiara, or asymmetrical styles with loose curls incorporating flowers or large bows, are the musthaves for next season! Make-up trends are shaping up to be very natural, with somewhat muted tones and a mat finish.

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I am planning to get married in Granada and I have no idea where to start?

Shauna O’Callanain, 26, Galway

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Wedding planner Angeles Porcel replies: Granada is often said to be one of the most beautiful cities in the world, and there is a wide range of venues for couples I am having a villa wedding and would like a buffet wishing to marry somewhere special, from gypsy caves in the served at my reception. How can I make it feel Sacromonte quarter with stunning glamorous? Sandy Patterson, 39, Yorkshire views over the Alhambra and Granada city to ancient convents Catering company director Cornel nothing worse than a gooey with all the luxury and comfort of a replies: Setting up an elegant, pool of sauce covering your five-star hotel. appealing home buffet table can entire plate. The little dishes Alhambra Weddings offers a be a lot of work. But with the right also look pretty when stacked complete wedding service from buffet recipes, a little planning and together on the table. start to finish. We are qualified a touch of creativity you can put Creative skewers… this is a great professionals based in Granada together a buffet that your guests buffet table setting idea. Put and our knowledge about will rave over. unexpected items on skewers. This wedding markets and providers in Get the right colours together: makes it easy for your guests to Granada guarantees a top-quality play with trays/supports in different take what they want without holding service. We can design every colours. Create some contrasts by up the buffet line. Skewers are also aspect of your wedding down to using black, red, blue or green. Go fun to eat and great to look at. the very last detail to make your with a coloured tablecloth and Mis-match… choose miswedding a personal and unique contrasting coloured napkins. matching platters and dishes. event. Every visual element of Use original decoration; play with Things don't always have to match your wedding will reflect your food items. Use uncommon fruit or to look great. personality and tastes. vegetables such as physalis, Small portions… little glass carambol, sprouts, baby leaves bowls and cups are cheap to and micro-vegetables. buy, and can totally transform Give height to the food your buffet table. They also help displayed. You can use any plastic guests keep their plates clean box or bucket; turn it around and and foods separate. This also cover it with a cloth. helps to make sure that each Extra dishes… this is a simple serving of a dish is just right – but often-overlooked buffet not all onions or all tomatoes, table setting idea. If you're but a perfect balance. serving any dishes that come Balance the menu – fish, with a sauce think about setting seafood, red meat, white meat, the buffet table up with teeny soups, vegetarian dishes, sweets bowls for your guests. There's –and vary cold and hot.

Advice and help from our top wedding professionals and etiquette experts

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Lorraine Romain Hair & Make-up Artist princess-bride.co.uk Tel. (+34) 691 061 484

Cornel Cornel Catering cornelcatering.com Tel. (+34) 951 775 518

Angeles Porcel Wedding Planner alhambraweddings.com Tel. (+34) 958 592 680

princess-bride We make your fairytale wedding a reality!

Hair, Make-up and Beauty Treatments, for the Bride and Her Guests We come to you, anywhere on the Costa Del Sol Hair - Colouring, Styling, Extensions, Hair ups Make-up - Flawless and Picture Perfect.

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Tanning – St. Tropez, Spray Tan Pamper Treatments - Luxurious Pre-wedding Packages, for the Bride, Her Groom, and Guests.

Fully qualified in all treatments Free initial consultation No price increases for the 2011 season!

For our full treatment and price list, and to view our Gallery and Comments pages, visit us at:

www.princess-bride.co.uk “Your Hair & Make-up dream team on the Costa Del Sol!”

Hair and Make up by Lavish Diane or Jessica Tel 622 192 507 or 655 277 180 www.hairandmakeupbylavish.com email: info@hairandmakeupbylavish.com

Lorraine Romain International Hair & Make up Artist Costa del Sol, Malaga, Spain 00 34 691 061 484

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THE WEDDING BUSINESS

DIRECTORY Cakes

Catering

General

Photography

Cakes Couture: (+34) 693 379 397; cakecouturemarbella.com

Cornel Catering: (+34) 952 929 120; cornelcatering.com

Humanist Wedding Celebrant: malagaminister.com

Anna Gazda: (+34) 633 654 476; limelight.pl

Debbie Sheridan Cakes: (+34) 952 964 103; weddingcakesspain.com

FiestaSol: (+34) 952 898 746; fiestasol.com

Ocean Clinic: (+34) 951 775 518; oceanclinic.net

David Toms: (+34) 690 656 120; davidtoms-weddings.com

The Dentists – Sotogrande: (+34) 956 795 273

Gary Tapp - Your Wedding Moments: (+34) 600 545 032; yourweddingmoments.com

Delicious Cakes and Treats: (+34) 666 584 132; deliciouscakesandtreats.com Sweet Things by Fi: (+34) 697 228 088; sweetthingsbyfi.com Wedding Cakes In Spain: (+34) 645 600 631; weddingcakesinspain.co.uk

Entertainment Belen & Linda: (+34) 639 778 476; info@nerjaonline.com Musibodas: (+34) 660 75 32 46; classicalmusicweddings.weebly.com Fashion & Accessories Browns: brownsfashion.com Matches: matchesfashion.com Net-A-Porter: net-a-porter.com Olivier Laudus London: (+44) 208 374 1239; olivierlaudus.com

Hair & Beauty Hair and make-up by Lavish Diane or Jessica: (+34) 622 192 507 / 655 277 180; hairandmakeupbylavish.com

Jeremy Standley: (+34) 607 717 565; jeremystandley.com Owen Farrell Photography: Spain (+34) 670 664 341, Ireland (+353) 872682832; owenfarrellphotography.com

Halo Marbella: (+34) 952 865 796; halosalons.com Princess-bride: (+34) 691 061 484; princess-bride.co.uk Reflections: (+34) 902 325 324; reflectionsmarbella.com Tara Smith: tarasmith.com

Stationery Elite Invitation Boutique: (+44) (0)151 920 6400; eliteinvite.co.uk Wedding Dress Emporiums Bruce Oldfield: bruceoldfield.com

Florists

Jewellery

Bunches: (+34) 952 463 712; bunchesspain.com

Stephen Webster – Puerto Banús: (+34) 952 816 976; stephenwebster.com

Flor Valentin: (+34) 669 061 234; florvalentin.es

Tiffany & Co: tiffany.com

Fi Santamaria Couture Bridalwear & Accessories: (+34) 636 865 154; fisantamaria.com Ian Stuart: ianstuartbrides.com Pronovias: pronovias.com Vera Wang: verawangonweddings.com

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DATES FOR YOUR DIARY Wedding events not to be missed!

Celebra Málaga 26-28 November 2010, Málaga Celebra Málaga is a fair for all festive occasions including birthday parties, baptisms and business meals. Particularly in focus this year will be weddings. All the reputable companies from the events industry will be represented, with products and services in the areas of catering, marquees, music, lighting, decorations, gifts, wedding tables and photography.

Celebra Málaga also offers an extensive programme of fashion shows for festive clothes, screenings for hairstyling and make-up, tastings, raffles and music performances. We’ll see you there!

Palacio de Ferias y Congresos de Málaga Tel. (+34) 952 045 500 celebramalaga.com

Marchesa Trunks Show 3-4 December 2010, London

Toms Photos Da vid Wedding Planners

Venues

Alhambra Weddings: (+34) 958 592 680; alhambraweddings.com

Beach House: (+34) 952 839 458; marbellabeachhouse.com

Celebrations in Spain: (+34) 952 535 688; celebrationsinspain.com

Buddha Beach: (+34) 952 813 882; buddhabeachbanus.com

Exclusive Events: (+34) 693 777 535; exclusiveeventsmarbella.com

Castillo de Monda: (+34) 952 457 142; castillodemonda.es

FiestaSol: (+34) 952 898 746; fiestasol.com JM Weddings: Spain (+34) 646 156 198, UK (+44) 7860540373; jmweddings.co.uk Perfect Spanish Weddings: (+34) 958 069 073; perfectspanishweddings.co.uk Reviva Weddings: (+34) 951 271 220; reviva-weddings.com Spanish Dream Weddings: (+34) 951 317 367; spanishdreamweddings.com Spanish Wedding Planner: (+34) 958 617 292; spanishweddingplanner.com Weddings With Pride: Spain (+34) 646 156 198, UK (+44) 7860540373; weddingswithpride.co.uk

El Elefante: (+34) 952 568 057; el-elefante.com Finca Cortesín: fincacortesin.com Los Monteros: (+34) 952 86 11 99; monteros.com Nikki Beach: (+34) 952 836 239; nikkibeach.com

Beautiful and brilliant New York-based British design duo Georgina Chapman and Keren Craig’s wedding dresses are always a joy to behold and a pleasure to wear. Browns will be presenting Marchesa’s springsummer 2011 collection hot off the catwalk and ready to go down the aisle!

Enjoy a champagne appointment and leave with a luxury goody bag. There is a £25 charge redeemable against any purchase. brownsfashion.com

Sunset Beach Club Hotel: (+34) 952 579 400; sunsetbeachclub.com

The Wedding Journal Show 15-17 January 2011, Citywest, Dublin

The Rock Hotel: (+350) 20073000; rockhotelgibraltar.com

Thousands of excited brides-to-be and their fiancés, friends and family flock to the new Citywest Convention Centre for Ireland's largest bridal exhibition. There’s a buzz in the hall the whole weekend as exhibitors showcase their latest offers to the captivated audience. weddingjournalshow.com

Villa Del Mar: (+34) 952 822 211; marbellaclub.com

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If you would like your wedding to appear in Confeti Magazine please contact: 653 960 397 info@iconpublishing.es

The wedding of Julia and Jamie March The ceremony was celebrated in the beautiful village of Frigiliana. Guests wound their way through the labyrinth of narrow cobbled streets lined by whitewashed village houses to find the church in the centre of the town – and then enjoyed a glass or two in the shade of the old plaza waiting for the heat of the day to recede.

The reception continued at Cortijo Bravo in the hills above Velez-Málaga, surrounded by orchards and views of La Maroma. Lucho and Leticia provided beautiful music to accompany the sunset and DJ Pedro played until sunrise (well, almost!).

Huge thanks go to Jeremy Standley and his associate Jennifer for the photography; with special thanks also to Carla Mazzeo at Reviva Weddings for all her endless help and planning – it wouldn't have happened without her.

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PLANNING TO PERFECTION Interview by Natasha Johnson Photography David Toms and Jeremy Standley

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arbella-based wedding planner Sue Danker is a woman with a lot of passions: a love of the Mediterranean and its stunning scenery; the gastronomic delights that are impossible not to indulge in; and exploring the beautiful places that the Costa del Sol has on offer. So what better way to combine business with pleasure than by using her personally gained knowledge to help couples celebrate their dream weddings in Spain?

With over 100 weddings under her belt, and husband and business partner Howard by her side, there is very little she does not know about the Spanish wedding industry. Confeti spoke to the

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director of Spanish Dream Weddings to learn a little more about the driving force behind the company.

Being a married couple that helps others to get married… is a lot of fun but can sometimes be a little too much “together time”! Some days we simply enjoy the weddings and it is like having a day out. We both enjoy meeting the wedding guests and Howard is a great one for helping the guys with their speeches.

A day in my life means… no two days are the same. Certain months see a concentration of viewing trips where we drive couples around to help them choose their venues, and in the lead up to June and September my hands nearly fall off from doing so much typing of event summaries and wedding budgets.

My favourite part is going out on factfinding missions to look for new venues and churches.

If I had to name a Spanish Dream Weddings highlight it would be… last year when we completed 60 weddings in our second season, which I was very

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proud of. Just before the season kicked off I had a baby girl so it was a manic year but a landmark one all the same.

On top of that we made a TV programme, which was shown on Irish TV and called “The Great Escape”. The cameras followed our progress in setting up the business, which started in Ireland in 2007, to our first big wedding, which took place in the Kempinski Hotel in Estepona. The ratings were great and it was a super way for us to put the company name out to the public. As a result people feel like they know us personally and this is important.

My motto in life is… don’t sit back and wait for things to happen; they probably never will. Make things happen!

I love that the Spanish wedding industry is… very fast-paced and is expanding at a phenomenal rate. We are all passionate about what we do and we value this work, especially during the crisis.

When a wedding is over… I hope that the couple have had a good experience and will tell all of their friends to call us!

We generally have a very good relationship with our couples and we like to keep in touch and hear about the new babies being born.

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In five years time I see myself… turning Halo Salon in Marbella, which I’ve just bought, into Marbella’s wedding headquarters. We will have a hair and beauty section, a studio for photographers

My dream wedding in Spain would be… a ceremony in the amphitheatre in Villa Padierna. The party would take place in the villa at the Marbella Club.

All of the guests would wear white and I would wear purple. Flowers would be a mix of white and purple hydrangeas.

The food would be buffet style and casual and the bar would serve champagne and purple mojitos.

Our own wedding took place eight years ago in Dublin and, as we were of different religions, a religious ceremony was out for us. I had to organise a registry office wedding, which was beautiful but lasted all of seven minutes! So when we are 10 years married in August 2012 I plan for us to renew our vows and I think this is what I would like.

If I had to describe myself in a few words… I would say hardworking, loyal but a bit too wild sometimes!

to come in during fashion and make-over work, and a wedding counter where couples can meet with me for consultations and to buy their wedding supplies.

Spanish Dream Weddings Tel. (+34) 951 317 367 info@spanishdreamweddings.com spanishdreamweddings.com

Debbie Sheridan Cakes Specialising in hand-made sugar flowers for your bespoke wedding cake.

Delightful to look at and delicious to eat.

All cakes are homemade using the very best ingredients.

Tel: +34 952 964 103 www.weddingcakesspain.com

Wedding Cakes In Spain Professionally qualified cake decorator, offering talent and expertise in wedding cake styling and design, presenting: I Traditional Wedding Cakes I Floral Sugar Decoration I Cupcake Couture I Pretty Cupcake Wrappers I Coordinating Wedding Favours

Contact us to set up your cake consultation‌ to meet with us, discuss your cake and sample some of our delicious flavours III New for 2010 – Coordinating Organza Chair Sashes

info@weddingcakesinspain.co.uk www.weddingcakesinspain.co.uk Visit our new site www.weddingsashes.webs.com

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WEDDING EXTRAVAGANZA Newlyweds-to-be flocked to London and Birmingham to plan their big day – with a little help from Confeti Magazine.

The National Wedding Show was the place to be in October as couples and their families and friends visited Earls Court in London and the NEC in Birmingham for inspiration galore at the UK’s largest wedding exhibition.

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London We teamed up with Gibraltar Tourist Board, Hour Weddings and The Rock Hotel for the London show. Monica Coumbe from Hour Weddings helped to hand out magazines from the stand, and enthused later, “The brides-to-be loved it.”

The London event received a visit from pop princess Sugababe Heidi Range, who toasted her future marriage to TV heartthrob Dave Berry with a girl’s day out. Brides-to-be were also given a unique opportunity to have a personal consultation with our very own beauty expert, Ariane Poole.

Birmingham The Confeti stand at the Birmingham show was virtually mobbed over the three days, and the team were run off their feet. All copies of the magazine had been snapped up by Sunday lunchtime!

Bombarded with requests for wedding company recommendations and advice, and helping visitors to fill in forms to win the chance to have their wedding featured in the magazine… it was non-stop work.

We did manage one quick break though, to watch the stunning catwalk show, which featured a selection of the latest in bridal and occasion wear from some of the UK’s top designers and manufacturers – including Justin Alexander Collection, Benjamin Roberts, Sottero & Midgley, Jonathan James Couture, Aire Barcelona by Rosa Clara and the stylish Candy Anthony.

We are delighted to announce the winner of our competition is Hayley Shortinan.

We will leave you with some of the shows’ highlights and trends for 2011.

See you at the National Wedding Show in February.

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Weddings in Marbella FiestaSol Weddings & Catering is the Costa's premier wedding planner for your special day anywhere in Puerto Banus, Marbella, Mijas or the Costa del Sol. Weddings in Spain can be difficult to organise, but with FiestaSol's expertise in all matters of paperwork, legalities, venues, churches, priests and suppliers, we can take over the hard work and let you enjoy yourself! Our catering services are second to none, and we provide reasonable and modern menus to cover barbecues, weddings, private dinners, canapes, finger food, vegetarian, buffets and corporate functions.

Contact us any time for a free quote, menus, images and information email: fiestasolspain@yahoo.com www.fiestasol.com

Tel/Fax: +34 952 89 87 46 Mobile: +34 657 214 831

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You only have one chance to plan the best hen party of your life… the Confeti team can help you get it right with all the latest ideas for your “last night of freedom”.

Girls Night Out La Sala Banús is the most exciting bar and restaurant to open in Marbella this year. Combining the classic with the contemporary in a stunning setting, La Sala offers an unbeatable dining experience in eight different areas.

With a stylish bar area, Laurent Perrier champagne for an incredible €49 a bottle, live music, DJs at the weekends and even wicked cocktail making (and tasting!) sessions, La Sala is the perfect place to get your hen party in full swing!

Tel. (+34) 952 814 145 lasalabanus.com

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Sheer Bliss If you are looking for a little more TLC than vodka jelly shots, why don’t you and the girls book into Finca Cortesín. The hotel is home to one of the best spas in the region – offering heated and double-cushioned massage beds, a snow cave and a chemical-free indoor pool, which is a destination in its own right!

Tel. 952 937 800 fincacortesin.com

Pamper Day

If you want to look fabulous for your big night then why not all pop down to Reflections Hair Nails & Skin Care to be plucked and preened to perfection.

Choose from luxurious manicures and pedicures, an all-over spray tan, relaxing massages or rejuvenating facials. For the finishing touches let Gerry create the ultimate hair-up style, while make-up artist Vera will turn you into a red carpet goddess.

Tel. (+34) 902 325 324 reflectionsmarbella.com

Va Va Voom Instead of dressing up as the oh so passé bunny girls, why not opt for a bit of glamour and have a burlesquethemed night. Think Dita von Teese, Gypsy Rose Lee and Bettie Page. Slip on your seamed stockings, opera gloves and a corset, and unleash your inner showgirl.

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Go down in a blaze of glory with Confeti’s top ideas for the ultimate bachelor party…

Slippery when Wet Before you dive into your big day with your beautiful bride, why not take a dive into the beautiful underwater world that the Costa del Sol has to offer? Simply Diving, the only Britishrun PADI 5 Star dive centre from Málaga to Marbella, will make sure you have some scuba diving fun with your closest mates and family, whether you are beginners or already certified. Your only requirement for the day is to enjoy yourself and the amazing marine life on show. Everything else – including collection from your hotel, full scuba equipment and refreshments throughout the day – is taken care of.

Check out their website or contact them for more information about your group booking. simplydiving.com

In the Fast Lane Ascari race resort is situated in a stunning and quiet valley near Ronda. Here guests can enjoy an entirely new concept in adventure holidays.

On offer is a 5,425-metre racetrack (the longest in Spain) providing all thrill seekers with an adrenaline rush. Choose from their Lotus, BMW, Radical, F3, F1 or buggies and karts. ascari.net

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Buddha Beach, Marbella’s first and best boutique club, is a great venue for stag parties. With three great bars, a VIP area, superb food, HD TVs and a live DJ playing the best music around, the guys can relax and enjoy themselves throughout the day. Buddha Beach has also earned a great reputation as a place where the celebs like to party, and has seen hotties such as Jennifer Metcalfe, Chanelle Hayes and Alexandra Burke, as well as Premiership stars David Bentley, Aaron Lennon and Paul Robinson let their hair down!

Tel. (+34) 952 813 882 / 661 623 623 buddabeachbanus.com

Be a Rock Star Feeling slightly hungover and wanting a night in?

Don’t worry: you and the lads can still feel like rock stars with the new Rock Band 3 video game. This next iteration in the Rock Band platform has something for everyone. Master an instrument through the gameplay fun of “Rock Band Pro”; add

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another member to your band with a keyboard controller; or experience 83 new hits from 83 unique bands, together with your current library of songs from the over 2,000 available to date – and counting. Now all you need are some groupies! rockband.com

DAYS A YEAR FOR YOUR CELEBRATIONS AND EVENTS

The best beach club on the Costa del Sol, La Cabane… with such dream settings as La Luna Restaurant.

Seven magnificent dining rooms in the five-star Hotel Los Monteros, including the majestic Salón Real.

Your smaller celebrations and dinners in the exquisite El Corzo Restaurant.

Los Monteros… a spectacular place to enjoy life, 365 days a year in Marbella.

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For this issue Confeti decided to review dream wedding and honeymoon destination the Maldives. A byword for luxury, romance and tropical bliss, this beautiful string of low-lying coral islands, with their pristine combination of white sand beaches and lush tropical vegetation, provides the ideal private island hideaway.

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Quick Facts Time: GMT+5hrs Capital island: Male Total islands: 1,190 Inhabited islands: 200 Currency: Rufiyaa (US$1 = MRF 12.85) Religion: Sunni Islam Language: Dhivehi (official) Climate: the temperature ranges between 24°C (75°F) and 33°C (91°F) throughout the year.

The Maldives lies in two rows of atolls in the Indian Ocean, just across the equator.

The country is made up of 1,190 coral islands formed around 26 natural ring-like atolls, spread over 90,000 square kilometres. Ninety-nine percent of the Maldives is made up of sea. The people of the islands are widely dispersed, with about 200 inhabited islands. About 90 islands are developed as tourist resorts and the rest are uninhabited or used for

agriculture and other livelihood purposes.

My partner Andy and I decided to visit the north and south of the Maldives. We would spend six days at the Beach House, located on a private island in the unspoilt atoll of Haa Alifu. This resort caters for the discerning traveller in an idyllic setting of clear turquoise water, pristine beaches and flourishing virgin flora and fauna.

We would then move south for five days to the Conrad Maldives Rangali Island. An island paradise nestled in South Ari Atoll, three degrees above the equator, Conrad Maldives is set on two private islands, joined by a footbridge across a dreamy blue lagoon.

class, there is no going back! From the warm greeting in the elegant airport “First Lounge”, which provides a sanctuary away from the outside world, to boarding and being able to stretch out in total comfort with the privacy of your own luxurious bed… Andy was enthralled with the touch button privacy screen, as it meant he could shut me out when I annoyed him. He, of course, did this constantly!

I hate flying – it usually takes me days to recover from a long-haul flight – but for the first time I didn’t feel as though I had been run over by a bus. My skin wasn’t dehydrated (thanks to the complimentary Elemis goodies), and the wide range of food options and excellent service made the flight a thoroughly enjoyable experience. A great way to start any trip, but especially for honeymooners. britishairways.com

The Flight We decided to fly with British Airways as they offered thrice-weekly direct services from Gatwick to Male, and great deals for honeymooners. We opted for Club World.

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The Art of Seclusion The Beach House sits at the most northerly tip of the Maldives, in the pristine, lagoon-ringed Haa Alifu Atoll, little explored by foreigners. Here you will find world-class service, delivered amidst immense open spaces of dazzling turquoise waters, white powdery beaches and distinctive Maldivian architecture.

On touching down at Male International Airport, we were delighted to find every single aspect had been taken care of.

We were greeted by a Beach House representative, who escorted us to our domestic transfer, a 45-minute plane-hop over the ocean, followed by a 45minute speedboat ride to our private island idyll. The crew were fun and entertaining; look out for Mohamed – he is a real character.

In peak season there is now the option of a 75-minute direct seaplane transfer.

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arrive at what can only be called paradise. The private island resort features 83 beautifully designed contemporary thatched villas including Beach Villas, Suites, Water Villas, Ocean Villas, one Grand Water Pavilion and a Grand Beach Pavilion. Each comes complete with a private pool and a butler to tend to your every need.

Our villa host Nasheed (who couldn’t have done more for us) showed us to our Water Villa, perched over a lagoon. You can opt to take in the breathtaking views from a Maldivian swing, sun loungers or your own infinity pool. Glass-panelled floors allow quiet observation of the exotic marine life, while steps lead directly onto the soft sandy lagoon for a refreshing dip.

The whole resort offers just the right balance between style, luxury and amenities. The public pools are particularly fabulous.

Imagine a fairytale pool of clear water in a rainforest and you'll

begin to understand the vibe at Amazon, a traditional Maldivianstyle bar.

The pool, fed by a waterfall which gurgles playfully away in the background, has submerged seating and a number of waterjets; while the low-key Maldivian Infiniti Bar has a deck and swimming pool that extends lazily over the water, fusing at one with the ocean. Look out for the

incredibly cute (rather large) fruit bats, who have taken to swooping over the guests’ heads.

With an extensive choice of four restaurants, each meal was as individual as the resort and I was extremely grateful for the opportunity to try many new dishes.

My favourite restaurant was Saffron – a stunning over-water setting specialising in local delicacies inspired by wider Asian influences.

The wine list is built around the five tastes (salt, sweet, bitter, sour and umami) which, together with sake and shochu martinis, provided the perfect complement. I highly recommend the Indian-themed evening. It is honestly the best I have ever had.

My favourite dish? The Sri Lankan-style fish soup. I am never one to opt for this dish but it was truly out of this world.

Andy preferred the Medium Rare restaurant. Located in a stunning beachfront setting, it serves the freshest fish and seafood, together with premium meats sourced from organic global suppliers, fused with herbs from the restaurant gardens.

Boutique wines from around the world are selected for the story they tell and the methods used. The whole ambience just exudes romance. Well, dining under the stars… what more can you ask for?

Our Highlights The Cellar An underground treasure trove, housing the resort’s extensive wine collection and home to weekly wine dinners created by the executive chef and sommelier… this experience pairs gourmet creations with specially selected wines, offering guests an insight into the intricacies and techniques of wine pairing – including fun “blind tasting”.

Andy, who fancies himself as a bit of a wine buff, was really looking forward to this event.

However, as I do not drink, I presumed I would be bored.

Wrong! We started of with a

cheese tasting, before selecting our favourites. I even found myself a new favourite: Swiss cheese Tete de Moine.

We then moved on to the cold cuts, and I was happy to note many were from Spain. The wine tasting turned into a slightly heated affair as Andy disagreed with most of what the sommelier was saying. One tasted game, the other couldn’t, and on it went.

By the end of the night, after one Petrus too many, Andy was hanging off the cellar ladder with my pearl hair band on his head.

A fun night had by all.

The Cast Away Experience If you decide on only one excursion on your trip, do choose this one. The crew dropped us off on an uninhabited island located 10 minutes away from the resort.

With a picnic and chilled champagne waiting for us, we were left to our own devices for the rest of the afternoon.

Completely secluded you can sunbathe and even snorkel in the nuddie. Just be sure to wear suncream or you will end up with an extremely red, sunburnt bottom, unable to sit down for days like a certain Miss McGeorge… ahem!

Beach House Maldives The Waldorf Astoria Collection Tel. (+960) 6500 400 beachhousemaldives.com

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Barefoot Luxury The second part of our trip took us to the Conrad Rangali Island, part of the Hilton hotel family group, which we reached by a 30-minute seaplane flight from the capital, Male. This beautiful resort is spread over two islands, linked by a 500-metre walkway, and surrounded by a deep blue lagoon and dramatic coral reef. It has twice been voted “Best Hotel in the World” and several times “Best Resort”, so we were really excited to finally get there.

After being greeted with icecold, aromatherapy-scented cloths we were whisked off to our Spa Water Villa. The elegant villas, set on stilts over the ocean, offer sweeping views of turquoise surrounds complemented by iridescent sunsets. With sea view baths, private sun decks, espresso machines and Molton Brown bathroom goodies, it is almost impossible to imagine anything more beautiful.

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They looked after us exceptionally well, even making us dishes that were not on the menu. A special mention must go to our waiter Raffeek, the only person in the world to have a drier sense of humour than Andy.

He added a little extra sunshine to our days. After the meal I would sit with my legs dangling over the side watching baby sharks swimming beneath my feet. Simply heaven.

With seven restaurants, three bars and over 30,000 bottles of wine, and other private dining options such as beach designed to enhance the and reached by jet boat or barbecues and desert island benefits of every wellbeing private walkway. A circular bed picnics, the resort offers the programme; while the linked rotates 180 degrees to view the widest choice of dining in the private treatment rooms were breathtaking sunsets.

Maldives. We particularly loved the ultimate in pure indulgence.

We spent most breakfast and watching the sunset at the As much as we loved our villa, I lunchtimes at the over-water Rangali Bar, the perfect chillhave to say I was slightly jealous Mandhoo Spa Restaurant. Serving out area for pre-dinner when I saw the two stunning well-balanced organic and biococktails. Another favourite Sunset Water Villas, so loved by dynamic gourmet meals, pastime was spending the day Katie Price and her then husband smoothies, organic wines and at the adults-only “Quiet Zone”.

Peter Andre. The definitive in beers in accordance with the Spa The area offers the first island luxury, they are set in their Retreat’s Four Elements over-water swimming pool in own private area of the lagoon philosophy… it was perfect for me. the Maldives

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Andy and I at Ithaa

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The Conrad has two spas, each with its own product range and philosophy. The Spa Retreat is a self-contained over-water resort offering a wide range of holistic treatments; while the Over-Water Spa offers at extensive range of therapies and rituals using exclusive products in glass-floored treatment rooms. We booked in for a couple’s massage, both suffering from back pain. Let me tell you: do not let the size of these dainty, doll-like therapists fool you. They are VERY strong… painful at times, but the most relaxed I have felt in ages.

Our last night was spent at the Ithaa, the world’s first all-glass undersea restaurant. It is set five metres below the surface with 180-degree panoramic underwater views, serving contemporary Maldivian cuisine in a set menu composed of 23 different dishes over four courses and a “Wine Concept” dedicated to champagne. I wasn’t feeling too well on this particular night, but there was no way I was going to cancel: I had been looking forward to it for months.

Was it worth it? Hell yes. Not only did a gigantic smiling sting ray swim over our heads but we also spotted a reef shark (this is

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apparently very rare; our waiter was very miffed that he had missed it). With capacity for 14 people, it is intimate and incredibly romantic. I asked if there had been any marriage proposals in Ithaa. I was told that one brave fellow had left his girlfriend sipping champagne while he ran upstairs and jumped into the water. He then swam down to the restaurant, banged on the glass and, when she looked up, he held the ring to the window. Now, come on gentlemen: beat that one.

This evening was magical and one of the places you must visit in your lifetime.

Conrad Maldives Rangali Island Tel. (+960) 668 0629 conradhotels1.hilton.com

South Ari Atoll is renowned for its aquatic life, and premier dive sites are within reach of the resort in a matter of minutes. For those looking to take their first underwater steps, the resort’s numerous house reefs offer the perfect setting for allowing guests to fully experience the idyllic underwater paradise.

We had a bit of a shock on the first day as we had literally been on the island only an hour when we spotted an eight foot (2.5metre) shark by our villa. Slightly spooked, we turned around only to find a sting ray swimming towards us. Throughout the week we saw parrot fish, needle fish and baby sharks galore.

However, I STILL haven’t seen a turtle… the quest continues.

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The Mini-Moon Whether you have an early flight, are too tired to drive home or just want to start your honeymoon in style, in this regular feature we will be reviewing the finest hotels located close to major airports.

Langshott Manor is very different from the usual bland hotels found near airports. Located only eight minutes from London’s Gatwick Airport, set in peaceful country surroundings, the beautifully restored 16th century manor house is ideal for a first or last stop in England or an exclusive-use wedding celebration.

The hotel is surrounded by three acres (1.2 hectares) of stunning gardens and an ancient moat. With elegant interiors featuring exposed beams, polished oak panelling and glowing log fires, the property has the charm of a bygone age with all the modern luxuries for discerning guests.

We arrived in the evening and were delighted to find the staff genuinely friendly and very

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efficient. The receptionist helped us with an urgent courier delivery: no hassle, no questions – she just arranged it enthusiastically.

As it was getting quite late we decided to have our supper before being shown to our room.

Mulberry is the award-winning restaurant of the hotel, where one can indulge in fine food and wine… and we did.

My pan-seared fillet of hake, smoked potato croquette, sweet corn and grape was beautiful; while Andy enjoyed the braised shoulder and cutlet of Romney Marsh lamb with textures of onion.

If we hadn’t been so tired we would have gone for the tasting menu, which looked divine.

Our picturesque bedroom, King Henry VIII (all are individually named), featured a restored four-poster bed, a working fireplace, the finest Egyptian linen and views overlooking the moat. Each bedroom has a private bathroom, fitted with marble and granite power showers and deep baths.

After the long flight, being able to soak in a traditional roll top bath was sheer bliss.

Following a good night’s sleep, we explored the mature gardens and discovered colourful herbaceous borders, a formal rose garden and beautiful willows. After feeding the ducks, we had afternoon cream tea in the charming gardens (which ended with a fight over the last delicious scone). We ended this perfect day with a game of croquet.

Experiencing the charms of this Elizabethan manor house and gardens was a superb end to our incredible adventure.

Langshott Manor Surrey Tel. (+44) (0) 1293 786680 alexanderhotels.co.uk

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Brides magazine reports, more than the 25 per cent who still rely on the bride’s family to foot the Giles Brown, Confeti’s man who whole bill. So that leaves plenty of once levelled Tokyo with his fiery scope to suddenly flip out at the table decorations, flower breath (he blames the sake), on arrangements or DJ for the the rise of a matrimonial monster. reception; though anybody who remble with terror, puny potential to turn into monsters. plays Lady Gaga at a wedding – or mortals. A fearsome Celebs such as Simon Cowell and any other social gathering – beast has risen from the Russell Brand have been getting deserves to be instantly vapourised depths, spreading chaos at green and scaly with the best of by the laser beams shooting from weddings across the land. them. According to fiancée Katy the giant reptile’s eyes.

Everyone knows about Bridezilla — Perry, "We go out for breakfast and "The groom is getting more the monster in a wedding dress he has to stop at a news-stand to involved and he's obviously paying whose meltdowns send bystanders buy a glossy bridal magazine. Then for it," says Cynthia Hornblower, running for cover. But there is a all through breakfast he's talking executive editor of Brides magazine. more ferocious creature lurking out about dresses. He's way over his "He's getting more stressed out. there: Groomzilla head with excitement."

There's a lot more on his plate."

When you think about it, it was Meanwhile, Simon Cowell and Another reason behind the rise of only a matter of time before the his famously large ego have come the Groomzilla can be attributed to chaps started getting involved in over all Groomzilla. Before reports the Metrosexual. Over the past every detail about their weddings. first surfaced that his wedding to decade men have taken a greater After all, what do all male make-up artist Mezhgan Hussainy interest in their grooming, look and adolescents do better than was on hold, the X Factor mogul general image. Not me, obviously: compiling their CD racks in had decided on a Salvador DaliI’m an unconstructed Neanderthal. themed extravaganza. How the However, inspired by Clooney, melting clock and flaming giraffe Beckham, et al, your average bloke theme must have thrilled the knows the difference between off caterers. I doubt he plumped for the peg and bespoke, Harris the great surrealist’s 1954 work Tweed and alpaca cloth, and that Young Virgin Auto-Sodomized by Saville Row is not where the Her Own Chastity as the fitting marathon-running former presenter backdrop for the exchange of of Jim’ll Fix It lives. So, whereas rings, but I digress. before it was up to the bride to fuss A lot of it is all down to our over her outfit for The Big Day, now present lifestyles, of course. We are Groomzilla gets in on the act. getting married later, with the “A lot of grooms these days are average age for first-time grooms vain,” Kathleen Murphy, deputy now 27.5 years (up from 22 years editor of wedding magazine The in 1987 and 13.7 years in 1607, Knot, says. “They’re not renting a although that’s still the normal age morning suit; they’re getting Paul in certain parts of Merseyside). And Smith suits or Gucci suits… They the weddings themselves are want to look just as good as the alphabetical order, memorising costing more and therefore men every detail about their favourite want to be involved. Plus there’s football team or – in the worst the fact that blokes love to pull off cases, far beyond the realms of the old “my wedding is more professional help – spending their spectacular than your wedding” bit Saturday job’s hard-earned cash of one-upmanship. Put those stats building and painstakingly painting together and you've got an older, miniature soldiers to fight war more sophisticated groom who games with other hopeless cases. can't escape from wedding fever (I recreated Charles I’s royalist and who wants to see where the army in the English Civil War, since hell all his money is going. you’re asking.)

More than 80 per cent of So, given this slavish attention to husbands-to-be are full planning stats, lists and tiny details, it isn’t partners for weddings today, surprising that Groomzillas have according to Bridal Guide been wading ashore in evermagazine in the States. Now 27 per increasing numbers. It’s not just cent of couples are paying for former trainspotters who have the weddings entirely on their own,

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bride.”Which means turning up in an quasi military outfit that you cobbled together from your great uncle’s cast-offs, plus a pair of studded felt boots, will not go down at all well. What can I say? It was the eighties and I was a Goth…

So how do you stop turning into Groomzilla? Summer Krecke, deputy editor at WeddingChannel.com (crazy name, crazy job), has some tips for brides I Communication is key…

Before you even start planning, find out what's important to him and what he wants ownership of so he doesn't feel cut out of the process.

I Pick your battles… If he has to have his DJ, let him have his DJ. But that means you get control of planning the reception. It should be a divideand-conquer mentality.

I Take a day off… If he's losing sight of the bigger picture, get his mind off the wedding. Take a romantic outing or just avoid the conversation for 24 hours, then reassess the problem once he has cooled off.

I Turn to his friends… Skip the heated argument by letting his friends put him in his place. He may not want to hear it from you, but if his best man and ushers offer some buddy intervention he'll be all ears.

Take the above advice, a deep breath and a strong drink, and maybe, just maybe, you’ll be able to drive Groomzilla back into the depths from whence he came.

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