Beauty & Fashion issue 2016 (1)

Acknowledgements Contributors Chimee Ahaiwe Beverly Beal Que Johnson Tyra Johnson Francheska "Fancy" Felder B. Simone Valencia Griffin Wallace Photographers Gabrielle Cornish David Sutton of All A Sutton Media CDavis Photography Oliver White Editor Francheska "Fancy" Felder Graphics/ Layout Rick Wells Photography Francheska "Fancy" Felder Marketing Jarmel Roberson Website: http://swagher.net For advertising info contact: advertise@swagher.net For features contact: swagherpromoandpr@gmail.com

Table of Contents Features Dani J. Talks 9 Mag, Being on Reality, and Fashion 5 LaTasha Wright Talks Achieving the Wright Look and Growing As a MUA 10 Still a R&B Diva: Monifah 42 Still a R&B Diva: KeKe Wyatt 67 Jump Into the Mind of a Champion: Brittney Reese 79 Dawn Dickson: Why You Bet On the Jockey

Wednesday Wonder Women Nadia Lindsey 7 Kierra Gray 15 Kia Clark 21 Yolanda Smothers 26 Michele Lawson 40 Ni'Cola Mitchell 49 Folasade Ayegbusi 57 Sherrie Philiips 64

Business Fashion Blogger Beverly Beal On Running a Successful Blog 12 Don't Be Like The Rest of Them Darling 24 Thinking Long Term in the Fashion Industry 44 Kimo Bentley Talks Skincare & Business 72 Fashion Blogger Beverly Beal On Running a Successful Blog 12

Inspiration

MANdatory Awareness: Jason Hughes 19 His Swagger: Brandon Frame 61

Lifestyle Raising Kids Unconventionally 38 Dressing the Part 59 How to Organize Your Kitchen 76

Events Mommy Masterclass Event Recap 14 Speak Life Tour 36

Greetings, Finally, I get to write this, because it is usually the very last piece written, and it has taken soooo long to finish. I quit my job, left my roommate, moved to California, got my heartbroken, fought an over 6 feet man, experienced border patrol at its finest, and moved back home to Mississippi, only to be starting over again from scratch. Throughout it all, I asked God why? Why six years in the game, am I still struggling? Why all of this after he and I had discussed the future in prayer, before I quit my job and blindly moved across country. I wondered if this was really my purpose, and again, if so why so much struggle.

I can't say God responded directly, but after much contemplation and self work, I realize the answer to those questions (because there was only one answer) is I wasn't giving myself enough credit. I wasn't believing in myself and my talents. I was straddling the fence, hoping someone would see the greatness in me, instead of simply seeing the greatness in myself and working with what I had. I discovered I am more of artist than businesswoman so many things effect me differently, and yet I love business, so I must learn to pick up the pieces in a much more timely fashion, put on my big girl "drawls", and move on. From experience, I have learned something beautiful is often created during the hardest or lowest of times.

With that being said, I hope you all enjoy the issue. I personally learned a great deal about life, the industries and myself. I think you should find the features to be very informative. Until next time....Peace and blessings!

From Fancy with Love

Dani J. Talks 9Mag, Being On Reality TV and Fashion decided they wanted me to work up there, and I gladly accepted”.

When she looks back at herself on television the toughest thing to see are her interviews.

“We were asked those questions months before the show actually aired, so by the time it plays back, you forget what your responses were! That’s always interesting AND funny because I’m someone who always speaks my mind”.

By B. Simone The voice of reason for VH1’s Black Ink Chicago, 9Mag, is none other than the laidback, sexy, outspoken receptionist Dani J. She started working at 9Mag because of her relationship with one of the most sought after female tattoo artists in Chi-town, Kat. “I’ve known her since 6th grade; we went to high school together, and we were roommates in college. When she moved back to Chicago to start working at 9Mag, I would visit her at the shop all of the time. Overtime, I got closer to all of the guys who worked there. After building a relationship with all of them, they

Constantly being asked for advice and guidance, “The best advice I’ve ever given is that you have to live your life for yourself. Be your biggest fan and don’t care what other people think. If they know you and love you, that’s one thing, but strangers, f*** em! We only have one life to live and you can’t worry about what anyone else wants you to do.

Always do what’s best for you”.

Dani wasn’t always crazy, confident, and cool. “In college, other than my education, I gained a confidence in myself, in terms of being self-reliant. It was the first time I was 100% accountable for my actions, expenses, and managing my life in general. Maintaining my own schedule for class, working, partying as well as budgeting my money, were all things that helped me adjust to the real world”. Being obligated to accept responsibility is the first step into adulthood.

Your attitude during that process is what establishes your character and defines your individuality. College is more than partying and networking. It’s an opportunity to see and experience life from a whole new perspective.

Fashion, style, and trends. We all got a glimpse of it watching her on the show, and if you’re one of her thousands-uponthousands-upon-thousands of Instagram followers, then her great fashion sense has also blessed your timeline. She’s a college educated reality star and business woman, however what is dear to her heart is FASHION! Dani got excited when asked her current fashion obsessions. “definitely the nude color palette- from the camel waterfall coats, to the two piece mini crop top and pencil skirt. I LIVE for nude. I’m also really into bodysuits, bomber jackets, leather, and mini dresses. In terms of jewelry, I love choker necklaces, they’re so edgy to me!”

For all the busy and gorgeous ladies living and shopping on a budget…no worries Dani has you covered with some frugal fashionista advice. “Some tidbits I have for young fashionistas on a budget would be online shopping! You’d be surprised how many online boutiques are out there with super trendy pieces at an inexpensive price. I almost never go to the mall anymore, because most of my clothes are purchased online. In my opinion, it offers you more options, and it is time-efficient because you can narrow down your search”. Remember, price tags do not make you beautiful. It may be cliché but beauty is within. “Owning your flaws yet still realizing your worth; being confident, strong, kind, and humble…that’s what makes you beautiful”.

A low-key foodie, Dani wants try travel more, not only to try different foods, but to experience different cultures as well as historical monuments. Wondering what a lady like Dani has on her bucket list? “To visit every country at least once in my lifetime

would be dope! In terms of fashion, it’s my passion, and I’m constantly doing things that will set me up to be in the position to take over fashion in the near- future. Starting with my blog ‘iamdanij’ coming out this spring!”

Keep an eye out for this stylish diva , Dani J is making moves and all about selfexpression, fashion, and 9Mag!

B.Simone studied literature and theories during her undergrad at USF and graduated in 2012. She s the co-founder of a literary and artistic social site, Cempst, launching soon as well as a North Florida ministry leader for WeIgniteTheLight Ministries on top of being a proud single mother to my daughter London J.

Wednesday Wonder Woman:

Nadia Lindsey-Francois Q&A By: Francheska “Fancy� Felder Nadia Lindsey- Francois is a divorced mother of four boys and a hard working entrepreneur. She is a hairstylist for the last 10 years, a Mary Kay Consultant, founder of Sistars of Empowerment, Inc., and owner of Legacy Medical Transportation, LLC. Nadia holds several licenses in the cosmetology field and also holds a

bachelor of science in Business Administration.

Her children are her purpose and her motivation. She believes that with God all things are possible and knows that He is the one that has brought her thus far.

What inspired you to start the Mr. and Miss Empowerment Pageant?

Working with children as well as being a mother made me realize that our children need a positive outlet to encourage and motivate them to be themselves. I didn’t want the pageant to be based on looks or clothing but to build on their intellect and their self esteem. A lot of kids are shy or scared to show their true personalities, and I wanted to give them the opportunity to eliminate fear.

How has the pageant grown over the past 3 years?

The pageant has grown in participation and community involvement. We have gained supporters and contestants which are the backbone of the pageant.

What obstacles have you overcame with it?

Some obstacles that we had to overcome included the low registration of our males, consistency, and the acceptance that this is not a beauty pageant.

What do you want children and parents to take away from the event?

I want the children to first off enjoy themselves while participating in the pageant and the activities that surround it, but most of all

elevated self confidence, the feeling that they can do anything they set their minds to and that they have a chance at a bright future regardless of their circumstances. The parents should take pride in their children and realize that they are our future, and we must expose them to great things that will impact them for life.

Why do you feel such events are important?

These events are important because they give children the opportunity to express themselves in ways that they would not normally have. This event allows the children to speak publicly, participate in community service, youth entrepreneurship and it also allows them to work as teams and learn valuable life skills during the empowerment sessions.

What words of inspiration would you care to share with our followers?

No matter what the world throws at you keep the faith that God has your back.

Every day is a fresh start….

Nadia lives by the golden rule “treat others as you would like to be treated.”

She strives to leave a legacy for her children and instills in them the importance of helping others and treating people right.

The 2016 Mr & Miss Empowerment Pageant which will be hosted by AV Mitchell. For more information visit, http://

www.sistarsofempowerment. org/.

Follow Nadia and the organization below: Facebook: Sistars of Empowerment

MR EMPOWERMENT 2016 JAYVON FRANCOIS

LITTLE MR EMPOWERMENT 2016 TAYVEIN PRATT

Update: The 2016 Mr & Miss Empowerment Pageant winners were as follows:

MISS EMPOWERMENT 2016 KAYLA JENKINS

LITLLE MISS EMPOWERMENT 2016 TAMIRRAL PRATT

Latasha Wright Talks Achieving the Wright Look A household name in beauty and glamour circles, Latasha Wright is frequently commissioned by entertainers, industry executives and private clients both nationally and internationally to create her signature look. “The Wright Look�, which represents the essence of beauty, is a personalized look for any woman but has graced the pages of media outlets such as Cosmopolitan, Shape Magazine, Allure, Essence, Vibe Magazine, Vegas Magazine, Hype Hair, Today's Black Woman, Ebony, Jet and Upscale Magazines to name a few, further securing Latasha Wright and The Wright Look as a powerful force in the beauty industry.

SwagHer: What sparked your interest in the makeup and beauty industry?

Wright: What sparked my interest was seeing the immediate difference wearing makeup made in a woman's life. I knew I wanted to be a part of the beauty industry, so that I could help show women that makeup is also an accessory. It complements and completes their look.

SwagHer: Did you ever dream that being a makeup artist would allow you to travel the world?

Wright: I never once imagined that doing what I love would take me all over the world, because I had

never met or talked to an artist that had done it.

SwagHer: How does one go about obtaining celebrity clients?

Wright: I never contacted or reached out personally to a celebrity. They have all been referrals or I meet them on a job.

SwagHer: We watched an interview where you mention not being afraid to go to other artists and ask for advice or tips for improving. As women, it can be a little difficult to go to others in our field and ask these things. Can you elaborate more on the subject or suggest how one might go about doing so?

Wright: In any industry, corporate or on an athletic court, teammates work together and share knowledge, so it should be no exception to the rule as makeup artist. For example, If there is a new product that comes out that you wanted to try and haven't gotten around to it, it's easy to ask"Hey how do you like it?

Does it dry down pretty good and stay true to color?" It will save me time, and I love feedback from other artists.

It helps keep everyone informed and saves from wasting time and money if it doesn't work.

I help mentor artists all the time, because I wish I would have had someone help me when I started. There are certain things you will only learn on the job unless someone tells you.

you working but you need to understand how this business really works.

SwagHer: What makeup products and brands do you suggest for the upcoming summer heat?

Wright: In the summer season, I recommend lighter products. Less is more because you're going to sweat; no one wants on a lot of makeup. Bronzers and a lip gloss always looks great.

stand out from the rest. Its going to be very innovative, it will introduce more competitions, plus it will have the top talent in the beauty industry. This isn't just for hair and makeup. It includes Doctors, business professionals, fashion stylists and more. They are really aiming to increase the income potential of anyone in the industry, beginners and veterans.

SwagHer: We know you’re a part of the 1st Annual IRIE Mega Beauty Expo.

What class will you be teaching?

Wright: At the Expo I will be teaching Beauty & Business Basics. Natural glam Done "WRIGHT" will always keep

SwagHer:What makes this Expo different from others?

Wright: The IRIE Mega Beauty Expo will definitely

updates by following @iriembe on instagram.

SwagHer: Please share some everyday makeup tips for the working woman.

Wright: Everyday you should have a simple sexy face that works. Keep it consistent.

Foundation (even if it's a powder) Mascara Fill in your brows Bronzer (if you don't wear blush) Lipstick or Lipgloss www.LatashaWright.com IG: @LatashaWright

SwagHer: How can we find out more or attend your class?

Wright: Visit www.iriembe.com and view class. You can also get expo

Fashion Blogger Beverly Beal On Running a Successful Blog Tips for running a successful blog: Scheduling and organizing, they are two components a blog cannot survive without. Juggling everything else I’m involved with and keep up with the blog is a task in itself. But luckily when you’re doing something you love, it doesn't feel like work, and you make time for it.

Summer staple pieces: Off What my blog is about: What is needed to monetize the shoulder tops & flare Being a city girl definitely your blog: Quality!!! You jeans. had a huge influence on the need quality content, voice style of Life In Beverly of your own, and images of Why I started my blog: It Heels, I wanted to give the course. Brands want to work started as just an outlet for entire feel of the blog a with individuals who will me; I was finishing up with street-style theme. I am very positively represent them. law school, and my stress excited about Life In Beverly Once you start putting out was at an all time high.

Heels. It's been years in the quality, the response you get Fashion has always been a making. It’s truly my baby. will amaze you. Have a stress reliever for me, so Although the title may lead representation for quality, starting a fashion blog was a you to believe this blog will and before you know it no brainer. I never in a be all about shoes, it’s more brands and the million years would have of a lifestyle blog, it is just be sponsorships will start to thought it become a platform told from the point of view as seek you. for me. if you were in my heels. My blog features my personal

style, beauty secrets, dating tips, and much more. My goal is to have an interactive blog by creating a style haven for fashionistas alike to connect and collaborate.

Mommy Masterclass Recap By: Francheska “Fancy” Felder The Pink Evolution hosted the Mommy Master Class for mom and mompreneurs at Jola’s Joyful Events in Atlanta, GA. While The Pink Evolution founder, Shevon Jones was also a speaker, Rachel Kalukango-Harris (author/ speaker/ marriage coach) emceed the event. Guest speakers included Tammie Parks (accountant/ author), Toni Preyer (minister/ creative consultant), and Brenda Spenser (owner of Jola’s Joyful Events). The ladies shared insight on finances in marriage and following your dreams.

“I decided to host the event to give moms a chance to come together to network, be inspired, empowered and learn how to get to their dreams,” says Jones who is a life coach and social

worker though she considers her most important role to be that of a single mom.

Just a few points from the topics discussed that we found particularly interesting were: Being married does not mean all finances have to be joint, because it begins to make the partners feel like children having to constantly ask permission to do what they desire.

(Speaker) Parks configured a formula for stay at home mommies to determine their worth and contribution to the household.

Partners should assign titles outside of wife and husband that fit their role within the household.

In order for a household to be successful, they must

Photography by Gabrielle Cornish.

increase their income by 40%.

Find your passion and live in it.

Learn to care for you and operate from your overflow.

Money is energy and energy is needed to manifest money.

Build a support network and utilize it, because it is needed.

Don’t get lost in motherhood.

A spiritual life of some sort is imperative for balance as a mother.

Attendees enjoyed refreshments sponsored by Sweet Shot Cupcakes and giveaways, and they left with tons of knowledge and inspiration.

To learn more about The Pink Evolution visit http:// thepinkevolution.com.

Wednesday Wonder Woman:

Kierra Gray  How would you describe your swagher? What makes Kierra, Kierra?

I would label my swagher as a Determined Queen!!!

Determination fuels everything that I go through in life. You have to be determined from the very beginning to shape your life the way you want it to go, whether you are in school, working, a parent, going through struggles, and so forth.

I was always the person that truly believed you can achieve anything you set your mind to. I am my biggest critic when it comes to anything in life, because I know what I am capable of doing. I am a Navy veteran, mother of 2, a student, a wife, and so much more. These things are a major key in the creation of me as a person, day by day.

Just like most women, I see my future so much brighter than what the devil has thrown at me. I walk by faith and not by sight, and that, fueled with my determined mindset makes me the woman I am today.

I noticed you seem to believe firmly in embracing uniqueness. Is that something you had issues with growing up?

In some cases, uniqueness was most definitely a struggle of mine. For instance, I was the smart girl at school that dressed very preppy, kept to myself, and only kept my head in books.

Instead of going out to parties, I would rather read. Instead of creating memories in the hallways of school, I would rather get to class early to ensure that my work was finished to the teachers liking and prepare for the next lesson that day.

People would befriend me just so I can be that smart friend to do their work. At one point I was okay with it, because I felt noticed, then I would later hear them

talking about the way I did my hair or the way I dressed, because I wasn’t into dressing like everyone else. Now, one thing to know about me and my family was that we were well off. We were not rich but we had money. With that being said, if I wanted the latest trends I could have gotten them, but I chose to dress according to my liking, as I do now. As I got older with more experiences under my belt, I realized that being unique was what made me the person I love being. I started to visualize the world in a unique way, and from then on I wanted to help others express their uniqueness and be confident in it.

Tell us more about the Majesty Imprint brand…

Majesty Imprint is what I like to call a beauty color brand.

What I mean by that is we base our beauty off of the colors of the world, whether it is neutral, vibrant, or pastel. I have learned that color can fuel your mood. In the beauty industry, color can spike a major confidence in a female. Our mission is to find those women in the world that are confident or are searching for that confidence and help them build onto it. I am a firm believer that everyone has some type of beauty alter ego embedded into them. Our goal is to tap into that person and help them release their inner and outer beauty. We are a brand that

stands for beauty uniqueness in every sense of the word.

What’s special about virgin hair; what are the benefits or advantages?

I wouldn’t necessarily say that there is anything ‘special’ about virgin hair, but it definitely has its advantages. One of the major advantages is the fact that you are able to do more with pure virgin hair than your own hair without damaging your real hair.

Especially, when it comes to coloring and processing your natural hair, it is safer to get the hair sewn in, have some clip-ins made, have a wig made, or possibly get a quick weave. Virgin hair can also be a major confidence booster based on the fact that you can do anything to the hair without any major regrets later and change your style up however much you choose. In my opinion, virgin hair is for the people who chose to enhance their beauty. It is a wonder the confidence that can stem from a simple change of a hair do.

What is the biggest obstacle you’ve overcome and how did you do so?

The biggest obstacle that I have ever overcome was being in the military. At first when I graduated, I wanted to go to college and become a lawyer. Well, I made the decision to go into the Navy as a gunner's mate, which is

someone who works on all military weapons. I went in with the intentions that it would be hard because it was something I was not used to use to. I went into the Navy in 2008, and I traveled all around the world, met some amazing people, came out of my nerdy shell, became independent, met the love of my life, mastered my job, went up in rank, got pregnant, and was honorably discharged at 2012. That was the biggest obstacle for me because I had to prove to myself that I could do anything I put my mind to, while still staying true to who I am. It was not easy, but in the end it was well worth it. The way that I got through that obstacle was by pure determination. I took what I had and made the best out of it, and in the end it became part of what made me the woman I am today. Without my enlistment in the military, I truly believe life wouldn’t have gone as amazing as it has for me.

How do you plan to expand your business this year?

I plan on revamping my brand and my site to become something that is truly eye catching and stands out. I am working on other products that I would like to add to my brand. I am also working on possible beauty events for my majesties. Majesty Imprint

plans on becoming a household beauty brand in the years to come that will help bring the confidence out of any woman. We are mothers, wives, and so much more, sometimes we want to bring out our alter ego. My majesties should know that IT IS OKAY to do just that. Although, I am still working on the goal setting for 2016, I am truly determined to make sure that I have an established brand this year.

Other than the hair industry, are there any other industries that might interest you? If so, which ones and why?

I am completely enthralled with the beauty industry as a whole. In my opinion, I feel like hair is a part of that

industry. I love how the beauty industry can put so much confidence in a woman, to the point where their walk can change from a switch to a sway. How it can change a smirk into a beautiful blooming rose of a smile. I am also in love with the entrepreneurial business world. I have always been the type of person to take charge of my own life and my career path is no different. Being my own boss means being independent. Independence equals hard work and determination with an outcome of success and happiness, in my opinion.

What words of inspiration would you care to share with our followers?

To all the women in the world that feel like they have to look exactly like the Instagram pictures, have to wear their hair according to the world, do their makeup in accordance to everyone else, raise their children by standards of others, manage their career choices by the advice of others…….MAJOR NEWSFLASH: It’s the unique ones that find happiness within the world.

Do you and do it well, but make sure you do it with full confidence and determination. Just watch how one day the tests God gives you in life becomes your testimony. No one can be YOU, but YOU!

MANdatory Awareness: Jason Hughes auto body painting, as well as towing and rental assistance for our customers. Our technicians offer over 20 years of professional experience in auto repair, painting, and mechanical repair. Our goal is to take the worry out of the collision repair experience, keeping our customers’ satisfaction at the forefront.

By Francheska “Fancy” Felder “Always working to be better” is the motto, Capital City Collision owner Jason Hughes lives by. Capital City Collision is an auto body shop located in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Hughes is the youngest body shop owner in the city and proud of it, but he has reason to be. Check out our Q&A below.

How would describe your swagger? What makes Jason, Jason?

I would describe my swagger as confident. All of my life lessons have made me the man that I am today.

Tell us a little about Capital City Collision and what services you offer.

Capital City Collision is a full service collision repair center with a state-of-the-art facility located in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. We offer complete collision repair and

You are the youngest body shop owner in the city of Baton Rouge. How did you go about that? Was your age or race ever an issue throughout the process?

The process to open Capital City Collision did not happen overnight. It took years of planning and hard work.

Financing the purchase of the facility was a major hurdle. I spent six months working secure the funding.

I can’t say that race or age was an issue for me during this process, however I was confident in my business plan and purpose, so I refused to let any denial stop the progress.

Tell us a little about your upbringing.

I was born and raised in Baton Rouge, Louisiana to a plant worker and a schoolteacher. I am one of three children.

Did you go to school or receive any further skills or certifications?

I am a proud graduate of Southern University in Baton Rouge with a degree in Family and Consumer Science. I am continuously learning and perfecting my craft in collision repair and business. I recently completed additional training in auto painting through PPG. What is one obstacle you overcame and how did you do so?

The denials I received while securing funding my collision center was a major hurdle, but I continued to work toward my goal.

Finding funding would have been easier if I chose a

different area of the city to open my business, however I was committed to opening the collision center in North Baton Rouge.

For men who may desire to one day open their own body shops what are some key points they should be aware of or the first steps to take?

Planning and preparation is key. You must have a solid business plan in place.

Do you volunteer or give back to the community in any way?

Absolutely. It is extremely important to me to give back to my community. I make it a priority to volunteer my time and financially support programs that benefit my local area. Most importantly, I wanted to take the lead in revitalizing the area in which my business is located and where I spent some of my teenage years, so I recently founded my own non-profit organization called Project

70805. The goal of Project 70805 is to empower, support, and increase economic and social capital in North Baton Rouge. Our programming will focus on a select number of events throughout the year to provide assistance to families in our area such as a back to school giveaway and Christmas giving, as well as education through an apprentice program. The apprenticeship program will be geared toward high school students, giving them hands-on experience and exposing them to entrepreneurship.

You’re a semi-new dad.

How is fatherhood treating you?

Fatherhood is the best thing to ever happen to me. My son is my world, and I work hard every day to be the best dad and example of a man that I can be for him.

What words of inspiration can you share with our brothers?

Hard work and dedication pays off.

List your website and social networks: Jason Hughes Instagram: @hughesconsults Capital City Collision Capitalcitycollisionbr.com Instagram: @capitalcitycollisionbr Facebook: facebook.com/ capitalcitycollisionbr Project 70805 Project70805.org Instagram: @project70805 Facebook: facebook.com/ project70805

Q&A By Fancy How would you describe your swagher? What makes Kia, Kia? My ambition, my drive, my motivation, my creativity! I dream big and take steps to make sure that dreams soon become reality, along with my love and loyalty to that needle and thread (sewing

in extensions). I truly love what I do. A client’s smile after I finish her hair, is worth more than any money that could be put in my hand for my services.

What sparked your interest in hair and how long have you been in the beauty industry?

I have been doing hair since I was seven years old! At that young age, my mother use to buy me doll heads,

and that's all I wanted to do was wash and braid my doll's head. Then I knew that’s where my passion was at. In high school, I braided most of the basketball and football players hair in my town,but then I was told I should find another interest, one that will maybe a better financial career. I stopped doing hair, and I went to college to pursue a degree in pre- law.

That is when I was introduced to "sewins" in 2010. I had seen them done, and a fellow student was upset; she needed someone to fix her hair. I offered my lending hand to help her, and she loved the way I fixed it. Next thing you know, I was a hot commodity in my college! Everyone wanted their hair done, and the love I had for hair was rekindled.

Forty days before graduation in 2012, I decided to call my mother to pick me up from school, because I was dropping out!

She cried, but I assured her me coming home and following my dreams would be nothing but success!

Fours years later, look at me now Mom and Dad! How are you able to work a Monday through Friday schedule in that industry?

When you truly love what you do, it's not looked at as a job. I look forward to meeting and servicing my clients during the week. I make sure I stay organized, and my clients are aware

and understand my policies, so I can stay on top of things.

What obstacles) have you overcame in your career or life and how did you do so?

Curling! Oh my goodness!

When I first started out, I could NOT style any of my work to save my life. All my installs were plain and just straight. I got so determined to one day change that. I started Googling tips, watching Youtube videos,asking to watch other hairdressers, anything I could think of. I bought numerous new equipment to help me. After about a year and a half (lol), practice makes perfect! I was so determined to get it, then I finally did. I was so happy to do "Kim Kardashian� curls.

I've began to notice more and more people actually taking sides and/or commenting about others bullying due to alopecia or having "no edges" remarks. What are your thoughts and what can women due to prevent this?

Bullying someone due to their hair issues is wrong on so many levels. As women, that's how we feel beautiful!

Whether it's long wavy locs or a brush cut, our hair makes us, us. No one truly knows another's situation to even judge. I’ve dealt with numerous ladies with

alopecia, hair breakage, "no edges" etc, and all are still beautiful ladies. I try my best give them as much help as I can by giving tips to take care of their hair such as:

Use heat protector when applying heat to hair.

Go back to using grease.

If using any type of glue or adhesive use the proper solutions for removal.

Try "Baby Don't Be Bald" or other hair growing products like Rogaine that can help stimulate dead hair follicles.

Use flexi rods or rollers instead of curling appliances.

Get hairstyles that may be less stress on your real hair, For example, no braids if your real hair is weak and brittle, because it will break it off.

All these things that can be done to help hair issues.

What hair trends are you predicting for this summer?

Lots and lots of lace closures and lace frontal installs. A lot of people have extreme hair damage or are transitioning from relaxed to natural, so a closed sewin with no hair out, a closure piece, and/or natural flexibility is the "look" this summer! Protective styles.

Do you have any upcoming events or projects that you would care to share with our followers?

Things I’m working on are still in the works! I’ll be revealing them soon!

What words of inspiration would you care to share in closing?

The Sky is NOT the limit!

Please list your website and social network links.

Twitter: @Princess_Kiaaa Snapchat: Queen_Kia92

Instagram: @TheRealllTek9_ Facebook: Kia Clark

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Don't Be Like The Rest Of Them Darling Q&A by Fancy I first met Betty Harris when she came to our first casting call in Atlanta. She stood out to me because she had driven from New Orleans for the event and would then be leaving out for a BET event in LA. Unfortunately, the designers we were working with did not choose Harris for that shoot, but I began following her on Instagram.

It has been so motivating to watch her start Noel Models.

I continued watching as she and her dad remodeled and then as she began taking on clients. I thought her story was very inspiring as she used rejection to find her purpose and continue her passion.

Fancy:How long have you been modeling?

Betty:I started runway walking in heels at the age of 9 and signed with an agency around the age of 15, but I’ve only been modeling professionally for 2 years.

Fancy: What campaigns have you worked on and where have you been published?

Betty: I worked on the Men Ask For Consent (MAC) campaign, which was created to expose the issue of sexual assault, educate the community at large, and empower those affected.

-Publication's: Saptahik Kantipur (newspaper located in South Asia, Nepal) -BET Experience Live 2015 with Getty Images -SMGlobal Catwalk NYFW -The 504 TV -The Dolphin Newspaper Just to name a few.

Fancy: What is one obstacle you overcame and how did you do so?

Betty: FEAR! Fear of wondering if modeling was

gonna happen for me. After being let down by a modeling agency, I focused all of my attention on trying to build myself on my own and not depending on someone else to do it. My birthday was coming up, and I wanted to give myself something I had never had,which was being in a fashion show. I began casting for models, searching for a venue, Dj,designers,etc. Prior to this I had never done a show until I produced my own. After that day, doors opened; I began booking jobs locally within the cities of New Orleans and Atlanta and the state of Texas, which eventually led toward bigger jobs.I had to MAKE others notice me, i pushed through and chased hard.

Fancy: You were with a modeling agency before for a while and then branched out on your own. Please share how that came about.

Betty: Yes, I was with an agency before (John Casablancas) ,and was overlooked. I never had the

opportunity to book jobs or get sent out on castings,etc.

I was motivated to start searching for ways to become a working model. I begin shooting with local photographers, auditioning for local shows,etc. I became my own agent, scouting and booking myself jobs within the city. While booking jobs as a model, I was also building a business. I am a proud of of my own little studio.

Its called Noels Models. Its purpose is to help shape and groom models who are just starting out and may need guidance.

Fancy: What all can aspiring models learn under Noels Models?

Betty: Models will learn etiquette and basic knowledge of the industry such as knowing which type of model you are, whether it’s print,runway,commercial or all the above. As a runway trainer, I personally teach runway and posing.

Posing lessons are directed on set of an actual live photoshoot. Models learn basic hairstyling and makeup techniques. They also are sent out on casting

calls to gain hands on experience. 90% of the models sent out by Noels Models have booked their jobs with ongoing professional relationships.

Noels Models is to help build you, link you, and release you to watch you blossom.

Fancy: Whats plans do you have to expand your brand?

Betty: I plan to continue investing in my studio producing quality work. Currently Noels Models studio has a photography room, a makeup studio, and runway. I have one of the rooms rented out to a photographer. I would love to continue to rent rooms out to upcoming artist whether photographers or makeup artist to continue to keep production moving under that one roof.

I want to continue to grow as a “runway trainer” training bigger productions. I was recently the senior runway trainer for Fashion Beyond Limits fashion show out in Houston, Texas as well as other local shows. I’m being blessed with many opportunities and can't thank God enough.

Fancy: What advice would you give to other aspiring models?

Betty: Stay faithful, your work is not in vain.

What's meant for you, is for you! Trust God! Only you truly know if this is truly your passion. If you can't ever stop thinking about it, no matter how many years has passed by or what obstacles you faced, use it,your passion, as your outlet and chase it hard!

“If you are willing to learn I am willing to teach” ~Model Betty Harris

Wednesday Wonder Woman:

Yolanda Smothers

Q&A: FRANCHESKA “FANCY” FELDER

Yolanda M. Smothers is a native Floridian, married mother of two. She has been writing since her youth and was inspired to write when she dedicated herself to walking with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, after encountering several heartaches, setbacks and trials in life; but credits her overcoming and triumph to writing what she feels that God has purposed for her to do in life WRITE! She loves to encourage mainly women, but people in general, of the goodness of the Lord Jesus Christ.

How would you describe your swagher?

What makes Yolanda, Yolanda?

What makes Yolanda, Yolanda, is my Swag is all my own – her own. “To thine own self be true”. Thankfully through humility and remaining steadfast in my faith, I trust that I am authentic in who I am and what is displayed outwardly, in my persona in the public eye, as well as in my personal relationships. What you see is what you get.

I’m not trying to be anything that I am not or that I am not comfortable with. It’s already hard enough being who we are; so to try and be anything other than that is what I call, “too much work!”

All I want in this life is to find out who God created me to be and to do it to his Glory, and to the best of my ability. Everything else afterwards will fall into place. Discovering who we are is a task all within itself and it takes a lifetime to figure it out – that is, if we are blessed to find that inquisitive nature that wants to discover the purpose of life; and the reason for being born.

What sparked your interest in writing?

I started writing actually before I could make a legible letter or form a word, so I would scribble. I just knew that there were words inside of me, thoughts and ideas that I needed to get out of me before I imploded.

As I matriculated through life, and life sometimes getting the best of me (us); that nagging and sometimes aching to write was the thorn in my side that I needed to spur me

into my vocational calling. I’ve tried several different career choices, but I was always led back to my first true love. I thought it might be in journalism after a semester stint for the school paper once, or for a magazine publication such as yours. However, I wanted full autonomy to write what was in my spirit, and at my own discretion; and didn’t find the normal hierarchy of editors critiquing my work alluring. Thus, I decided on being my own boss.

How many titles do you have under your belt and what are they?

To date, I have four titles – “Plus Size Girlz Gone Wild!!!” She (Yes, my books are like people to me), is the fourth book that I have written although she was in my heart first to do. My other books are “Giving It to You Blood Raw, Nothing but the Blood”, “Illegally Blessed - Favor Ain’t Fair”, and “TBN Mega Churches”. All of my books have the centric aesthetic of God as the root and anchor of our lives. And all titles can be found, previewed and purchased at all major distributors – www.BarnesandNoble.com , www.Amazon.com and www.Books-aMillion.com.

Tell us a little about “Plus Size Girlz Gone Wild!!!”?

Plus Size Girlz Gone Wild!!! What can I say other than it’s an ode to the plus size woman, but is a body of work for all women to look to as a source of womanhood. There is a whole lot more to being a whole woman and being replete in all that entails, than just clothes.

Clothes don’t make the woman – the woman makes the clothes. We’ve all seen stars captured by paparazzi though they haven’t had a team do their makeup, or a stylist do their wardrobe, but they were simply running a quick errand and got caught out-and-about and they were women and representing as such.

Being plus size is just a physical characterization, not the sum total of who that woman is as a person, a mother, a wife or professional. There are a myriad of ways that a woman is sculpted into who she is, and I know that this book can both aid and assist with women who want to be all that they can be and get all what God has for them.

Do you have a writing ritual, and if so what is it?

If I am to be transparently honest, then I would not call my writing a ritual – it’s more of a lifestyle, a habitual recurrence that is regenerated or birthed when I see a need.

My writing is out of a need to want to be what God called us to do – be loving and kind towards one another. Each and every word that I write/type is out of love for mankind, my neighbor, my family and friends; and as I do; I encourage myself – It’s a reciprocal commandment that has many beneficial qualities and attributes that transcend cultures, race, or creeds.

What do you want readers to take from your books?

Readers should take away from the book first and foremost that I have their best interest at heart. That I not only address what I see as social carcinogenic stereotypes in the plus size community, but also the inward negativity that first must be addressed amongst the plus size sorority, that which

allowed for the self-inflicted hazing to ruin the self-esteem of what women need to feel like a woman in the first place. If we don’t love ourselves first, then we are not capable and fit to love on anything or anyone else. We must first know love in order to love.

What is an obstacle you overcame in your career and how did you do so?

My greatest obstacle was not understanding the logistics of how to put a book together from cradle to the grave. It’s one thing to write, whilst it’s another thing to sit down and go about doing it; especially when you have never taken on such a task – for everyone to critique, be it good or bad. Writing leaves a person exposed and raw and when someone says something against your work; it’s like rubbing salt into an open wound – painful to say the least. And once it’s out there, circulating through the public, we just have to take it… With a smile.

I think that I am still in the process of coming or on my way, but not that I have overcome all of them. Life is about one obstacle after another. You catch your breath and we kick it out to the next hurdle. Keep going, keep trying, keep believing, keep hoping, keep trusting and keep our faith in God, and every obstacle will turn out to be a catalyst for a higher level.

What advice would you give other aspiring authors?

The best advice that I can give to other aspiring authors would be to remain true to the reason that led you to write first and foremost. Passion is what gives the words life from one flip of the page to the next, and if you are not writing from a place of passion, then what’s the purpose? Writing Dear Diary down in your journal versus allowing others into your “think tank” is an entirely different beast.

Writers write because we want to provoke and make others think; not necessarily be cogs in the machine, or think as we do, but to simply weigh all opinions on a subject matter and hopefully leave enlightened by our input.

Another word of advice would be to love the craft. Although writing may be our passion or vocation, it is also a craft and anything that we put out for public consumption, you want it to be good for the reader. To read a good book is like being a foodie for the mind.

There’s plenty junk food on every bookshelf, but when your readers sits down to have a good meal with your book, you want them to leave full and with satiety. Our world is already obese from social media and the like thereof, therefore, take your craft seriously and put out quality cuisine.

Do you have any upcoming events or projects that you would care to share with our following?

Right now my grind is currently working on getting a good ground-swell about this book,

and then I will see where it takes me. I have been interviewed by a few talk radio stations around the country in the past regarding my books; and I have been approached about speaking engagements and by book clubs, but my focus is more so on the mainstream audience and thus my feature in your publication. Hopefully, this feature will open the doors to ears that are itchy to hear from someone like me who truly does have hope for a better world, and a better life through what I might have to say.

Please list your website and social networks below: Facebook – Yolanda Smothers Twitter – Yolanda Smothers @ysmothers Instagram – YolandaSmothers

Dawn Dickson: Why You Bet On the Jockey

BY FRANCHESKA “FANCY” FELDER

When you speak of innovative, leading Black women, one must think of Dawn Dickson, creator of Flat Out Of Heels. I remember when I first heard of her and her brand, it was one of those “You don’t know…” moments, but at the time I really did not.

However, I began to follow her and her work, so before we spoke, I was thinking she was pretty cool, but once on the phone I was really blown away by her authenticity and passion for business, and even more so her knowledge. Though I was hanging on to every word and recording our interview, I wanted to be writing out every word as she spoke, because this was the first time a Black woman had broke down funding to me, personally. That’s a slight forewarning that the quotes might be a little long, but as always, it’s because I want you to get all the knowledge being dropped.

Dickson started working early as a child first talking her mother into allowing her to have a paper route and by the age of 14 she was working at a summer youth program. Initially she thought she would be a teacher, but later changed her major to journalism with a minor in marketing while at Ohio State. She graduated college and went on to be hired at NBC’s interactive desk but left there almost a year later to attend the Devry Institute of Technology. Over the following years, Dickson worked in tech, built a tech company which was an event platform with videos, music, and entertainment, hosted events, and gave birth to her daughter.

“I knew that I did not want to do that anymore( the entertainment company)-just the travel schedule and the lifestyle, because I probably travel more now than I ever have before, but it was the lifestyle of entertainment and sports. I knew that was not a lifestyle I wanted to be involved in. I stopped in 2010, and I actually spent like eight months not doing really much. I actually worked at a yogurt shop, “ Dawn shared. “I went from being a CEO of a lone company that was making good money to working at a yogurt shop, so by the time I got the idea for

Flat Out Of Heels, I was so ready to do something, and between the consulting company and the event company and starting Flat Out, I thought I wanted a break and for someone else to be in charge instead of me, because being in charge, being responsible for everything was getting to be a lot to me. I wanted to spend more time with my daughter. At that time, she was in first grade, but when I got there I would pray like ‘God send me something that I can be successful from, that will help me achieve my goals and be excited about’, “ she went on to say.

As you may have read, the idea for Flat Out came to Dawn while working an event for a friend. Apparently after so many hours in heels, Dawn’s feet began to hurt and she wondered why there were no shoe options for her to carry with her or a vending machine of some sort to relieve her feet. The next day she immediately began to research and form a plan for Flat Out Of Heels. She had her business plan completed within a week.

“Within a month I had raised $40,000.

I just felt like, “Ok, this is what God gave me.”

We all get ideas everyday. I mean like literally, and I am sure you do too. Someone will be sitting somewhere and be like, “Man it would be cool if”- I see things myself because literally I’m very creative person, but how many times do we go after these things seriously. I know that the reason why I did it was, because it just felt like what I was supposed to do. I don’t even know why out of all the ideas I’ve gotten in my life, why Flat Out, outside of the fact that I felt like it was a divine intervention for me to move forward, do this, and challenge myself, and this has been extremely challenging. Developing, designing, manufacturing, distribution, import, export, promotion - these are things I had never done in my life before. I was ready for something extremely challenging, and that did it,” Dickson said.

So how does one find funding for a business that sells shoes out of a vending machine? Dickson admitted, “My case is

really unique. I just started to go out and get outside investors. All of the money that I have raised has been about $300,000 and has been from friends and friends of friends, never banks and never traditional investors.

Although now at this point, traditional contractors are contacting me. They are interested in me, but in the beginning the way to get investors is to really be clear and know how you are going to turn this idea into money. I mean we all have creative ideas- ideas that are amazing, but at the end of the day people want to know how you are going to make money, and how you are going to get their money back for them. You never know what’s going to happen. When I started Flat Out, I was very ambitious. I didn’t know anything, but sometimes ignorance is bliss.”

Dawn researched her market and competition in and out, and while things did not go necessarily as Dickson planned, because her investors believed in her and her proven track record, they did not worry.

The fact that her idea was new and creative also kept them on board, because they wanted to be a part of something innovative, and her unheard of idea of a rollable, stylish and compact ballet flat to rescue the feet of women everywhere after hours in heels was birthed.

Dickson says, “The key to getting anybody to giving you their money that they have worked hard for, is for you to show them

number one like how they are going to get their money back, how this is going to be profitable for them, and how is it going to be an opportunity for them. My investors- they looked at it like this is what is going to send their kids to college.

This is going to be like their little nest egg, Instead of putting your money into a 401k every month, instead of putting your money into a savings or into a CD, put your money into a business. Bet on the jockey. A lot of time people say bet on the money jockey, not the horse, and that’s me. I am the driving force behind it, so they invested in me, but it was also my track record of business. At that time I had been in business for ten years. Several of the people that had invested with me, had done business with me before in the past, so they knew my work ethic. They know my integrity. It’s not like they were just giving me money; they had experience with me. I had made several of them money before in the past, and that is the key, finding people who believe in you.”

This brought us to our next question.

If we are to initially start with friends and family when fundraising, do we need to have the complex business plan that often scares many aspiring entrepreneurs away from trying? Dawn says yes, it does not matter that our friends and family may not look at it like a banker, but being thorough sounds

more secure. She also pointed out keywords we should include in our pitches that will attract investors, like “traction” which is your sales or progress and “margins” which is your manufacturing cost versus your sale cost.

Other things she went on to say investors whether at the angel level, venture capital, or a bank, would like to know are ‘How profitable can you be? What is your customer acquisition (how much does it cost to attract new customers and what methods would be used)? What is the life value of your customer (how much do you expect them to spend over a course of time of shopping with you (your average price x time expectancy)?’

The CEO shared, “That just helps them to understand how your business is going to grow and scale, so knowing your numbers is super important and knowing what your projection of growth is. So I can easily say, in five years what my business is projected to do if I continue to do something.” From her years of experience with pitching, Dickson went on to add, “And most of the time, when entrepreneurs want to pitch an idea they are so passionate and so focused on the idea, that they are just wanting to convince people of how great the idea is, and it can be an amazing idea but how are you going to make money, how are you going to get repeat customers, and how are you going to get your cash flow consistent in order to build and scale, scaling is growing. These are words that investors use.”

She should know first hand, because she began to study pitching after being told “no” so many times. “The first time somebody asked me that, I didn't know what they were talking about, and I told myself I am never going to again put myself in a position to not know what they are saying to me, so I studied and studied. I studied people who raised money, watching pitches, going to pitch competitions, where i hear the questions, “ Dickson recalls. Now Dawn wins pitching contest all over and is known for being able to deliver. She says she has now gotten down to hitting the points in her pitch whether it be one, two, or five minutes.

Dickson believes not enough Blacks in business possess these basic fundamentals, so when we do know we should be willing to share this knowledge with others, so they grow to higher levels as well.

In other communities, the children are taught these things along with entrepreneurship early. She also pointed out though the Black community has much buying power and Black women are opening businesses faster than any other, yet we receive less than 1% of the funding.

While researching her, I discovered an interview where Dickson stated she does not consider herself a fashion designer; her passion is not fashion, so I asked her to elaborate on that. “I mean I am; I am a shoe designer somehow, but it just happened. It’s amazing to me how some people go to school for years and years and are so passionate about it, and then someone like me comes along and sells thousands of shoes, and I think that it is like this, because I see it as a business. Even now with our latest collection coming out, this year, very fashionable. It’s nothing that anyone has ever done period, but again I don’t feel like a fashion designer;I see it as a business, and the passion for me is not the fashion but the business, building the brand, so with that I will do whatever it takes to win,” Dawn explained. She went on to say, “If it means designing some really hot shoes based on the latests colors of the pantone, then done.

Like I have never in my life bought a fashion magazine. I have never cared. I have no interest, like fashion week, I don’t care.

Clothes, I don’t care. I have never in my life bought a nice pair of expensive designer shoes.”

Her passion for business and ensuring minorities are provided the same resources and knowledge, is also a reason for her being part of the VentureFund.IO (instead of .com). Venture is a platform where investors and entrepreneurs can connect within data based out of Silicon Valley. “This again is something i am really passionate about, because the foundation of

the company is eliminating bias when it comes to investors, so allowing entrepreneurs to connect whatever data type they are trying to use whether it is software, service, or whether it be connecting their API or connecting their shopping carts and and ecommerce-like myself, and show your growth. So in layman’s terms the techie broke it down as the following, “ If your company is growing significantly that should be what determines who will get an investment, not particularly who you know or

who you went to college with.

We’re trying to open the doors for more people outside of the Good Ole Boy’s club, and give them a chance to be able to get recognition for something that you are actually doing, so I am a part of the team.

As a team member, Dickson is in charge of the community and growth. She is responsible for all of the social media, all of the marketing efforts, whether it be online or offline marketing, because that is her background and enjoys it.

Aside from Flat Out, Dickson also owns Solutions Vending International (SVI) , which is the automated retailer manufacturing company that makes vending machines for consumer products. Flat Out Of Heels is one of its clients. Dickson says anyone can purchase the machines for the items they would like to sell. She decided to make the two operations separate entities, so there would be no conflict of interest.

Meanwhile Dickson and her team are preparing to launch their latest collection entitled Flat Out Luxe. Initially the line was designed for a celeb I will not name, but when things did not go as planned, she decided to launch it herself without any celebrity endorsement stating that those types of endorsements no longer have the same value as before. The fact that we see celebs endorsing almost anything is watering down the effects of the partnerships. However, the collection is to include 10 designer inspired style, yet there has been some delay with the launch.

As we discussed the situation, I almost thought Dickson was too calm about the delay, but then she explained, “I have learned that things happen when they are supposed to, even if we don’t understand.

That's where faith comes in. It’s like believing in something and just being patient and having faith that is going to work out, even when you have no idea how it’s going to work out. I feel like with any entrepreneur that is consistent across the board.”

Her faith and understanding of both possessing patience and being adaptable play major roles in this gogetter's life. She admitted herself that her life is very nontraditional. Her mornings start with prayer, meditation, and getting her mind right. Then she reviews her calendar and begins taking calls. She says she spends most of her day on the phone and delegating,well aware of the fact that she is only capable of so much, and she conquers more with her team. Much of her time is also spent traveling, so her daughter is homeschooled and travels with her frequently. “I may be working on my laptop, and she is right there with me. So we are there together, and that is the most important thing. It is certainly important to let our children know we are there for them.

‘You are number one to me but what I am doing right now is for you and for our life.’ “ When asked our popular question of how does she balance her personal and business life, Dawn replied, “I don’t believe that here is a such thing as balance because that indicates that everything is even, and it is not. Every day things are different. You have to prioritize for that day, so some days, work takes precedence over everything going on, even myself or my daughter. Not saying that she isn’t going to get fed or taken care of.”

While that last quote still may not sit well with some, it made lots of sense to me. So many of seek the work life balance that we grow weary and begin to feel guilty. I love the fact that Dawn sees there is no real balance, but being present when with family is important and it is equally important for our children and family to understand the “why” behind what is consuming so much of our time.

Needless, to say there is a great deal more to look for from Dawn. Be sure to follow and support her brands below. https://www.flatoutofheels.com/ https://venturefund.io/ https://www.facebook.com/FlatOutofHeels Twitter: @THEDawnDickson Instagram: @DawnDickson

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Through the "Speak Life Tour" we give a voice to disenfranchised youth statewide, re-open their mind to hope, and connect them to viable resources to live a productive life. SLT provides wrap around services such as “Youth Focus Groups” (Speak on the Unspoken, Behavior Talks, Finding Your Voice) and a “Creative Arts” summer program. The tour has inspired youth in the community to become leaders and take the message statewide.

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Raising Kids, Unconventionally

By Valencia Griffin-Wallace Being a young, single parent was quite scary. Between the news, statistics, and the way the world was going, I didn’t know how I was going to do it. The good thing though, I was a blank slate.

Having no real examples of good parents, I had to create my own. There were several things I did to

ensure my son was raised right.

Be a parent, not a friend. I have seen parents involve their children in their personal lives. Sitting and talking with them about the parent’s problems. Dressing like their friends and even going out with them.

Allowing them to talk

disrespectfully. When you make your children your friend, you can’t be mad when they treat you that way.

Don’t physically discipline your children. Personally, I believe that physical punishment teaches violence. Once the pain is over, the child is left feeling

defeated, and the parent feels bad. Spanking teaches them that when someone does bad things, you hit them. People often say that is what is wrong with the kids these days, but if a survey was done with inmates, you will find many of them have been spanked.

Look for alternative ways to discipline, like taking or restricting access to electronics. Discuss with them why what they did was wrong and allow them to explain, not debate, but explain their POV. When we don’t do this, we take their voice. That will lead to them fighting to be heard and not knowing how to express themselves verbally.

Don’t date anyone that you don’t want them to grow into. We want the best for our children, but we don’t date the best. If you don’t want your children to grow up dressing or acting a certain way, don’t date that type of person. If it is okay for you to date them, it will be hard for you to explain to your children why they can’t do the same things.

Love negative people from a distance. Having negative people as friends or family is our choice. I am not saying that you have to cut people off, but raising a child in a negative environment is hard. There were certain people I limited my son’s access to because of their negativity. Rather it was in their behavior or lifestyle, I

didn’t allow it to be around him.

Show them the benefit of hard work. If we always complain about being tired or working hard with no benefit, your children will adapt that same attitude.

Vacations, even staycations are important. It is not always about material things, but work is for adding to the enjoyment of life, not just surviving.

Structure their life. By nature, I am an organizer so my son grew up with list.

There was list for dinner, groceries, chores, homework, to do and etc. If chaos is in the home, it will leak out. So I kept things real organized to make both of our lives easier.

Have fun with them. I am known for my random karaoke moods. At one point, I was all over my son’s Snapchat singing. He was raised to not take life so serious. We have been hiking, to the movies, and more. Family fun night was a staple for the majority of his life, and it shows.

My parenting life hasn’t been without its errors, but I learned quick and pivoted.

When you become a parent, it isn’t about you, it is about your family. My son and I have a very close relationship. He has never been in trouble and now is in the military. I taught him how to set goals, not just by telling him but by showing him.

When I had him at 20, I

was worried about him being a statistic, so I made a plan to do everything opposite of what I saw and was told.

Parent from your heart, it always works.

About Valencia GriffinWallace Valencia Griffin-Wallace is a BOLDness Coach and Lifestyle Designer. She knows what it feels like to have 80 pounds of mental and physical weight on you. She also understands the power of finding your voice and embracing your boldness. When Valencia accepted that she was a BOLD, the relationship with herself and others changed. Her passion in life is to teach both women and girls how to embrace their BOLD and not deny it! Strength is not a weakness and learning how to cultivate your BOLDness can lead you into a life designed by you.

She owns LIFE BY DESIGN, a company based on acceptance of who you are and using that to DESIGN the life you deserve to live.

As the writer of RELATIONSHIPS 101, a blog featured in SWAGHER magazine, she knows the importance of relationship building and incorporates this in both her talks and mentoring.

She has been called a realist instead of a speaker because she speaks to the audience like a friend who has been

Hudson Fashion Show and Caribbean Fashion Week in St. Thomas, Virgin Islands.

Michele continued her passion and went on to do in-store showings for such brands as Ashley Stewart, Dress Barn, The Fur Man, Estelle’s Dresses and more.

Not only did her experience provide an excellent outlet for the enthusiastic and energetic star in the making, it would also prove to be a fortunate precursor for the start of her professional acting career.

What first sparked your interest in modeling and acting and which came first?

I actually always wanted to be an actress, but it was my parents who didn’t think that was a realistic career. I started taking acting classes

in high school and then my second year of college. I took several theater and beginner acting classes.

Then in 2004, I decided to live out my dream and pursue acting full time. The modeling came years later in 2010 when a friend asked me if I wanted to model for her designer. So after that first runway show and walking in the Harlem Week Grants Tomb Show, where I was also featured in the Amsterdam Newspaper, I was hooked. I have worked as a paid model in fit, catalog, print and runway.

As a paid actress I appeared in two plays, one on Broadway, one off Broadway, several television shows and movies.

You have been in 3 Denzel Washington movies. How did you accomplish that?

When I actually saw Mr. Washington I told him he looked just like,Denzel Washington and he laughed at me. It all started with my head shot. I was working with an awesome photographer, and I had a great headshot. I booked a lot of work by just submitting my headshot/ resume to several casting directors or production companies. I was very fortunate and appreciate all of my blessings.

What projects are you currently working on?

Since all of my work has been as a freelance model and actress, I am more focused on working with a talent manager and a commercial agent. I am also taking classes behind the camera. And writing a book. Shhhh. The rest is a work in progress, and I will divulge real soon, lol!

We are hearing more and more how the roles for Blacks are limited in the film industry. Is that why you switch back and forth between modeling and acting and what are your thoughts on such issues?

I love acting and being in front of the camera, but I also enjoy modeling as well.

I guess when you look at it , they both entail being in front of the camera and having acting skills does come in handy when you

are modeling too. I think they both go hand in hand. I am now more selective when it comes to the projects that I choose. Some projects are just not for me, and I know where I fit in the industry. It saddens me when some people feel like you should not be paid or don’t understand why only you feel that you should be paid. I think that I have paid my dues, and I don’t want to consider any projects where I am not compensated.

Once before when we talked you shared that you have adult children, how do you maintain your youthful appearance?

Well, I just turned 50 last week, and I try to eat right, exercise when I can get it in, and spend time on my personal growth as well as spend time with my family. I try not to sweat the small stuff and enjoy life. I write poetry, travel, and ride horses when time permits. I think that staying busy keeps you youthful too. No, there are definitely not enough hours in a day. I do drink a lot of water and my only vice is shopping!

What are some of your favorite staple pieces for the upcoming warm months?

As I focus on slimming down and toning up, I do plan to change up my wardrobe. I am very conservative, but do want to be more daring. I will wear more bold colors,

patterns and show a little more skin, in moderation of course. My skirts will be above the knee, flatter my shape and colors accentuate my skin tone. I will also incorporate more denim, maybe add a few midriff tops, pencil skirts, Aline dresses and definitely some lace or sheer tops, especially, when I am not working as a clinic manager or real estate agent. I will still dress professionally as well as on the conservative side when needed but sexy and trendy.

What advice would you give to other women who may be a little bit older in age but are still yearning to pursue the entertainment industry?

There is a vast market for the mature woman, and you really need to do your research. Find out where you fit and decide whether the entertainment industry will be a career or just a hobby. There is a difference.

A person that is serious should focus on investing in themselves by taking the necessary training (which is important in modeling and acting), do their homework, take professional photos, obtain their demo acting reel, have a marketable comp card and headshot, and work really hard at achieving success in this industry.

Please list your website and social network plugs.

My name is shelleymichele70 on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. I am Michele Lawson on LinkedIn. My websitewww.michelelawson ent.com.

Still A R&B Diva:

Monifah Carter By: B. Simone The ever so humble and conscious New York native actress, writer, and R&B

singing diva, Monifah Carter does not feel compelled to re-invent herself. Working

since the young age of nine, she states, “I think that most of us (hopefully) during our lifetime, shed old skin, habits, and belief-systems as we grow and evolve. It’s a natural process”.

Privileged to have always had the support of her family and friends she considers herself, “blessed”. We all know New Yorkers are notorious for being brutally honest, but whether it was her writing, acting, or singing her family and friends have cheered her on since her big break in the early 90s. The same words of encouragement that kept her centered while in this tough industry is the same wisdom she shares with inspiring youth and young adults… “remember you are good enough. Everyone is as unique as their fingerprint. Trust that truth.

Nourish that truth. Get to know yourself so you can love you and be the example of how you expect to be received and treated in the world, in your family, and in your life”.

The greatest lessons she has ever received comes from life experiences; from the peaks, the valleys, and the plateaus of her life.

“Experience is an incredible teacher if you’re awake in class”. The music industry can be rough, and although her schedule is hectic at times, she always finds her solace in her gratefulness and through prayer.

Remembering those that came before her is selfeffacing. “This is the music business, so it's important to keep up with the flow, but still maintain your individuality”. Monifah tries her best to not feed into her fears, but one of her biggest ones is giving in to the negative thoughts and insecurities. Sometimes we’re our own worst critic.

At that moment she has to “re-mix, re-program, reevaluate. I pray away any negative self-message at that very point in time. I don't take my sanity, health, or healing for granted”.

Although the genre of R&B music is sampled everywhere, there’s this myth that its dead or lost in the shuffle. Monifah states the objective that gets fickle in the current state of R&B music is that the public doesn’t support it as they should. She believes that we have to do better in supporting and unifying the contingency of R&B music, because it’s the soundtrack

to many lives and movements.

There’s nothing like a mother’s love and Monifah’s daughter, Akemi, has a great one in her corner. When asked to name something she loves about her relationship with her daughter she proudly stated, “the healing transition that has taken place in my daughter Akemi's and my relationship has given birth to an open, sincere, and ‘straight-talk’ level of communication. We have the best talks about life”!

The world got to witness Monifah’s beautiful wedding on TvOne's R&B Divas Atlanta almost two years ago to her longtime partner.

“Terez is an amazing human being. On our journey together, we both learn incredible life jewels that assist us daily. With God first, we make each other better. I'm so blessed “.

MoNation (aka her amazing fans) keeps her inspired daily. She admits they fuss and love on a various range of topics through social media and meet-n-greets, and she’s thankful for all her fans and their support.

“I want to speak truth in my music. I think I've kind of always done that but, now it's on a different level,” and she can’t wait to share more music, more movies, and more TV projects with MoNation.

About B.Simone: B.Simone studied literature and theories during her undergrad at USF and graduated in 2012. She is the co-founder of a literary and artistic social site, Cempst, launching soon as well as a North Florida ministry leader for We IgniteThe Light Ministries on top of being a proud single mother to my daughter London J.

Thinking Long Term in the Fashion Industry BY: FRANCHESKA “FANCY” FELDER

It’s always nice to have celeb designer, Kym Quaintrelle (formerly known as Kym Stylz) back with us, as we shared the news when she released the Kym Couture Kollection and her book Life Stylez, as well as when she participated in Vancouver’s Fashion Week. Kym is a designer of over ten years; she attended the Columbia City College and the Academy Art & Couture. The Bay Area native enjoys taking on new projects and challenges and has quite a few projects in the works.

Kym is preparing to release her new collection which she describes as being “glam casual”.

“We are in a spring season right now.I have a lot of new concepts, I have a lot of new textiles that I will be working with, so it gives me some leverage to relax things a little bit. I have flowers and things like that to kind of pop the fabric, some of the pieces are handmade.

The designs and the cuts that we are looking at are a little bit more relaxing, a little bit more daytime wear or evening wear where you can dress it up or you can dress it down and still be really cute and glamorous, “ Kym described.

The line will be debuted at Encore Fashion Week in the near future and then also participating in Stylers Panel Melrose Experience, Los Angeles Fashion Week, and Perth Australia Eco Fashion Week November 2016. Kym says Australian designer, Sue Hall, has taken her under her wing and is teaching her concepts that she (Kym) admits she hadn’t thought of before. In return, the seamstress is applying these new practices to her work, now focusing on being a more conscious designer, which is only fitting if you

follow her on social media. One can instantly see that Kym has an elevated way of thinking and that she is not afraid to address the elephant in the room.

“They will still be couture pieces. Some of the pieces are handmade, so it still gives it a couture edge. The cuts that we are looking at are eco, ethical, and sustainable fashions They all are a little bit different, but they all fall under eco. The difference is sustainable fashion can be a handmade fashion; it doesn’t necessarily have to be a cotton picked in Peru. As when you are dealing with the eco side of things, you are dealing more with the textile design side, where you are making sure children are not making these fabrics or there’s no child labor involved,” Kym explained. She went on to say, “In fashion, a lot of the stuff that we love so much, people fail to realize that other people really risk their lives to make some of these things in lower levels countries. We don't realize that, and so now being introduced to the eco side has really opened up my eyes to the horrible things that take place in the industry. Designers like Sue Hall make a big issue out of being eco and being ethical, and

because we understand that a lot of people suffer to create a lot of the things that we have and take for granted.”

When asked if the process of being ecofriendly and ethical would make her clothing a little more pricier, she agreed but pointed out that Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s cater to a niche market, and she would like to do the same.

“Me being new at this venture, this is my perception, this is how I am looking at it, “Ok, this could be something that could be beneficial to you. It may not be able to target all the markets, but then I am trying to be continuously savvy because I don’t want to to continue to target all markets at the time, I still want to have my urban wear, my t-shirts, my hoodies, backpacks purses, and those types of things, but this is actually a good avenue for me. Again I am Kym Couture Kollection. I spent three years at the Academy of Couture Arts Fashion University, $30,000 out of my own pockets. I do want to be able to put a little bit of an extra price, and if being ethical and spending a little bit more money like a designer like myself, does anyway, it makes sense. I buy the most

expensive laces, the best sheers, because it’s all apart of calling myself couture, “ Quaintrelle explains. “For me it kind of makes sense, for more more ready to wear designer it might not because they might not benefit, but the minute I said couture on my name is the minute I had to constantly do new things and get ahead, because that made me couture.

For me it was always looking at big companies calling themselves couture, and they really were not.

They were sweat markets.”

The Kym Couture Kollection is also expanding back into the Bay area of Northern California and looking for a space to open another location. Quaintrelle already has two other ateliers, one is between West Hollywood and Beverly Hills; the other is located in Las Vegas where she works with a costume designer Richard Oaks, and they more so focus on designing and altering costumes for sets.

Thinking long term, the two have a contract with a local casino which guarantees them some work. With the same mindset, the designer is also trying to move into the film side of things, pursuing accreditation with the Screen Actor Consumer Guild so she can be eligible to work on more movie sets . Meanwhile, the celeb designer will be working on a film in Chicago later this year.

The mom of three is also working on a children’s line inspired by her daughters, called Kidz Khlothes. “Yes, everything is inspired by them. We have our little sessions where I let them guide me, even when it comes to the sketches and stuff like that. For the most part, we kind of delved right into the sewing to start, and we are working with textiles and fabrics. They are trying to see what they can make from the fabrics mommy

uses. This is kind of one of those ideas- you know how your daughter wants to wear your this and wear your that? That’s how I kinda came up with the idea. I wondered how we could incorporate the fabrics into something more child like,” Kym shared.

The fashion industry is often thought of as being fake with those behind it being superficial and vain, lacking of substance.

However, Kym’s outspoken mannerism quickly signals that she is not like all the rest.

Aside from speaking on child labor issues,

Kym has no problem promoting what she is passionate about whether it be self love, Black power, feminine energy or, entrepreneurship. The conscious fashionpreneur has been in the industry for years, and it appears that she has many more years ahead of her, as she a designer who understands the importance of thinking long term.

Photography by Nicole Barton Photography

Striving to inject her unique flair into the realm of contemporary fiction, AwardWinning, Best-Selling author blogger, Ni'Cola Mitchell entered the literary scene with one main objective: To Stimulate Your Mind, One Word at a Time. Through her independent publishing company NCM Publishing, Ni'Cola published numerous titles which have been featured on various best-selling lists throughout the country. Much of her work revolves around complex relationship issues and Mitchell’s compulsive desire to see women overcome challenges. Originally from Kingston, Jamaica, she currently resides in Atlanta, Georgia with her two daughters Destani and Diamond. Ni'Cola is also the Founder of Girls Who Brunch Tour, CEO of Diamond’s Destiny Media, and Co-Founder of the Baltimore Urban Book Festival. She sits on the board of the Miss Black Collegiate USA Scholarship Pageant, and manages the pageants Author Pavilion. She is also a primary panel member for the State of Black Parent Conference. Ni'Cola is also the Celebrity Brand Ambassador for Premier

Hair. She is a contributing writer for Urbania Magazine and FeedLynks, the Urban News Network. Ni'Cola is a Strategic Partner for the California’s Women’s Conference, and is also a 2014 Blogger’s Week Ambassador. She holds a Bachelor's degree of Science in Business Management and is currently pursuing a Master’s in Film.

“Over and Over Again” was featured in the top ten by EDC Creations Recommended Reading List the 2009 fall season under

Mainstream Fiction and Women’s Fiction. Ni'Cola was nominated Self-Published Author of the Year with the African-American Literary Award Show for 2010, 2011, and 2012. Her short story "The Forbidden Rain" was featured in the Between the Sheets anthology which won 2011 Anthology of the Year with the African-American Literary Award Show. Ni'Cola's distinctive writing talent has led her to become a featured columnist for Urb Society Magazine, and a nominee for the 2014 I Am a Diva, literary awards. With her outstanding representation of Las Vegas’ African American community, Ni'Cola Mitchell was featured in the second edition of Who’s Who in Black Las Vegas. As well as being an author, Nicola is also a motivational speaker and literary consultant, which allowed her to become the recipient of the 2013 Queen that Rocks Award, from the Heal a Woman to Heal a Nation Conference. Ni'Cola was also the 2015 Upward Bound Honoree award, presented by the University of Nevada Las Vegas and listed as one of the 5-Follow Worthy Female Bloggers in Black Enterprise. Recently her organization, Girls Who Brunch Tour, just received a Proclamation from the City of Charleston, South Carolina. Currently, she is touring across the country, speaking about the importance of going after your dreams and overcoming obstacles, and how to selfpublish your book successfully. When she isn’t writing, Mitchell loves to spend time with her family and volunteers as a mentor for youth activities.

How would you describe you swagher?

What makes Ni'Cola, Ni'Cola?

I first would like to say that I LOVE my Swagher! I am educated, intelligent, and a forward thinker, but at the same time down to earth. I love to laugh, dance, and have a good time. I am always cracking jokes, giving hugs, and not afraid to tell the next woman walking beside me that they are beautiful. I love to love, and be loved. I am not perfect, and will share my mistakes with you, if that allows you not to make the same ones. I don’t believe that the next woman is my competition, I look at her to support each other and will assist in building her up. All of the components above, are what makes Ni'Cola, Ni'Cola.

How long have you been writing and what sparked your interest in writing?

I have been writing all my life, but I did not venture out into novel writing until 2008.

Coming from Jamaica and moving to Las Vegas in the 80’s, I felt like an outcast. I used my notebook to channel my thoughts, fears, and loneliness. As I grew, my writing evolved, and in high school, I was your go to girl for break up poems, LOL. Do you have a particular writing routine?

No, I do not. I am all over the place when it comes to writing a story. I come up with a scene and will write for hours. Usually that scene is the one that I use for the Interlude and write the story around that. When I am really writing, I lock myself up away from the world and let the word flow from my pen.

Please tell us about your latest book, “Pum Pum”.

“Pum Pum” is about a young lady named Iyana, who was born in Jamaica, but came over to the United States at 3 months old and was set up for a drug charge and deported

back to at the age of 22. After she left, her family never looked back, so Iyana had no clue about the poverty, and lack of that commercials do not display. She met the beautiful Phe-Phe who was also a deportee.

Quickly they become friends, while Phe-Phe teaches Iyana how to survive by becoming a Dancehall Queen.

Even though there are many social issues in the book such as LGBT, HIV, Poverty, and Deportation, it is fast paced and entertaining.

“Pum Pum 2” will be out by this summer.

I've noticed your followers seem to be fond of the characters you create in your works, what do you think makes them so memorable?

I believe that my characters have fan clubs, because my readers can always relate to one

of them. I use situations that I have been through, friends, family, news, etc, and come up with powerful situations and very unique characters. My readers always find themselves or someone that they love in my characters, and I love it.

I also noticed you sit on many boards and do lots of volunteer work, which are some of your causes you like to support and why?

I am advocate for the following subject matters: Homelessness Teen Pregnancy Domestic Violence Rape Girl/Women Empowerment Literacy Even though I have never been on the street homeless, there was a point in my life that life was just as hard. I was a 20 year old mother of two and living in the budget suites in Las Vegas. I have been a victim of domestic violence, rape, and I was a teen mother, so if I can use my testimony to encourage and provide assistance for the unfortunate, I always will.

What obstacles have you overcame in your career or life and how did you do so?

Well my daughter is going blind in one eye and has a mass on her brain, so in the midst of all the meetings, touring, writing, etc, I have to be a Mom first and accompany her to all of her appointments. Some days I am overwhelmed, but her strength is what motivates me to keep going. She launched an online boutique with her girl friends. She is also a freelance makeup artist, and has artwork displayed all over Atlanta. If she can have tunnel vision and not allow life to pass her by, then so can I. I recently also lost my mother and my son whom I was seven months pregnant with weeks apart. I had to use the same drive from my child to get

through the storm, but I would be lying if I didn’t admit that some days it is so hard.

Do you have any upcoming events or projects that you would care to share with our followers? Please share a little about the Girls Who Brunch tour.

I have several tour stops coming up but I will list a few. You can catch me in the following places: Palm Beach Florida: Doing a mini girls who brunch for the IGCHS 5/20 My Teacher, My Hero Gala featuring Lee Daniels 5/21 East 38th Street Local Author Fair June 4 (Organizer/Speaker: Tea with Omar Tyree and Ni'Cola Mitchell) GWBT June 18 Atlanta Essence Festival July 1 (Book-Signing) GWBT July 9 Indianapolis GWBT July 16 Indianapolis GWBT August 13 Las Vegas Bloggers Week Unconference August 21 (Speaker: How to Make Instagram work for you) Girls Who Brunch Tour's (GWBT) purpose was designed to cultivate, inspire, and empower girls between the ages of 9 - 17 nationwide. I bring out the who’s who of women in each community and showcase them via panels and workshops for the young ladies. Through live entertainment, food,

games, prizes, beauty lounges, and a red carpet, I want every young lady that attends to leave overjoyed and enriched!

What words of inspiration would you care to share in closing?

My words of inspiration is simple. In the words of Nike… “Just do it.” You will never know if you will succeed, if you do not try.

Please list your website and social network links.

NicolaCMitchell.com FromThePenofNicola.com Twitter.com/MsNicola Instagram.com/Mz_Nicola Facebook.com/AuthorMsNicola

L-R Michelle Hester, Baby Bash, and Chris Hester.

What's New: Mojiuauna App I would like to make a public service announcement, the name marijuana has now been changed to what?

I had absolutely no idea what to expect when I was invited to attend the Mojiuana Press Day at the TLC Collective in Los Angeles, California. I had never visited a dispensary before and was curious as to what one would do with a cannabis themed app in the marijuana industry.

The official event started with the announcement above from co-owner, Michelle Hester.

Hester went on to say, “As marijuana is being legalized around the country, it definitely has the freedom to be able to express itself and

what better way than the Mojiuana app being used as a communication tool as you talk about and share your Mojiuana experiences with your friends. Then we also created another way for the business community and consumers to reach out to

one another using emojis as well.”

Michelle and her husband Chris are the owners, of Mojiuana, the new cannabis themed app filled with tons of emoticons in different styles for diverse personalities” to express themselves.

The couple tapped celebs who were known for their extracurricular activities, like Slim Thug, Paul Wall, and Baby Bash. Due to the weather conditions in Texas at that time, Slim Thug and Paul Wall were unable to attend the press day, but Bash had no problem keeping guests entertained, sharing the real inspiration of his hit song, “Suga, Suga”. He also shared how he and Paul Wall were working on the Legalize It album when they met the Hesters and that it only made sense to work with them and their brand.

(L-R) Terrill Bilbo, Trea Davenport, Michelle Hester, and Chris Hester.

I want to thank you all for bringing me into the Mojiuana family, businesslogical way to talk. I can't wait to push it and move forward and meet the whole team. I mean you can’t miss on the product.

Photography by David Sutton of All of a Sutton Media.

(L-R) Michelle Hester, Chris Hester, and Fancy

Artist Spotlight: Kelsey Nykole SwagHer: How has life been since VH1's Couples Therapy?

Kelsey Nykole: Since VH1, life's had its ups and downs just like it did before VH1, but I've had to work harder than ever since then too.. It definitely didn't make my pursuit of my music dreams easier.

SwagHer: Tell us a little about Allow Me To Reintroduce Myself?

Many may remember Kelsey Nykole from VH1’s Couples Therapy, but the young entertainer has grown since her time on the show.

She has been featured in minor published works recently, as well as made some red carpet appearances. Her transformation inspired her new EP, Allow Me To Reintroduce Myself. She discusses a little about her growth below.

SwagHer: How would you describe your swagher?

What makes Kelsey Nykole, Kelsey Nykole?

Kelsey Nykole:I’m always bold, blonde, daring, and different... I'm not afraid to switch it up, push the envelope, and try new things.

Kelsey Nykole: Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself is a compilation of records that explains in depth more about who I really am, and

how I really feel, and a display of what I really do, which is great music.

SwagHer :What is one obstacle you overcame in your career?

Kelsey Nykole: Fear... I've learned that fear is the biggest thing that can hold someone back from success... Being afraid to sing, being afraid to try new looks, being afraid to branch off is not an option... I have to be ready and willing to fearlessly take these things on, to truly be successful and bring my dreams to reality.

SwagHer: How does it feel to be nominated for the GA Music Awards?

Kelsey Nykole: It feels AMAZING to be nominated for a #GAMusicAward because out of all the artists in this state... I was the pick of the litter ya know... It goes to show that my hard work is paying off and that I'm very well on my way in this music industry.

SwagHer: What's next for Kelsey Nykole?

Kelsey Nycole: Well what's next for The New And Improved Kelsey Nykole is acting, stage plays, movies, tours, label deals, Grammy’s, and traveling the world to entertain the masses!!

Please list your website and social networks:

@iamkelseynykole on all social media Www.KelseyNykole.com coming soon.

Photography by CDavis Photography

Wednesday Wonder Woman: Folasade Ayegbusi What makes Folasade Ayegbusi is my story. I struggled for 95% of my 30 years of life. However, now my mess makes me who I am and because of struggle, I refuse to be anything else besides my definition of successful! I will not STOP until the majority of African American Small businesses leverage their accounting to increase profitability and dominate their industries.

I refuse to allow my unwavering passion to help African American small businesses and entrepreneurs obtain increased profitability and massive success burn out. .

What sparked your interest in accounting and what do you find most rewarding about your career?

Q & A By Fancy How would you describe your swagher?

I would describe my swagher as simple but eclectic with a hint of sass and unfiltered confidence.

What makes Folasade Ayegbusi?

What really sparked my interest in accounting was growing up in my underserved community in Northeast, Washington DC and observing that our community brought in millions of dollars every month but failed to retain any of that money because of the lack of businesses. I find accounting extremely rewarding, because accountants contribute to the success of the economy by assisting businesses in retaining profits which allow them to hire more staff and invest into their communities.

What is an obstacle you overcame in your career and how did you do so?

One of the main obstacles I overcame within my career was my staggering age in

comparison to my counterparts. There were very few twenty-five year old African American women running a full service payroll company. Basically, I found my niche with small businesses because they were willing to provide the opportunity to us regardless of age.

What is the most common accounting mistake you see among women in business and how can it be avoided?

The most common accounting mistake I notice women in business make is us being jack of all trades and making money but the backend of their business lack required support to make a scalable business. It can be avoided by hiring an accountant, an attorney, and any needed additional support.

What should small business owners be looking for when trying to decide the best payroll, insurance, and tax preparation options for their business?

The small business owners should first observe their needs and administrative support. For instance, if your company was a start up law firm with no assistance then they would require a more hands on service provider.

Would they want to have one company that can handle all of those services? If not, just make sure each service can be communicated through all channels if needed.

Do you volunteer or partner with any community organizations or causes and if so who and why?

Yes, I volunteer occasionally with several organizations in the state of Maryland.

Additionally, I'm the treasurer for one of the largest African American nonprofit and small businesses membership organizations that provide them with the resources and

knowledge to have profitable and successful businesses and missions.

What words of inspiration would you care to share with our followers.

Don't let your past predict your future! You can truly walk over mountains but whatever you desire you must be willing to work for it.

Do you have any upcoming events or projects that you would care to share?

We will be hosting a conferences every month this year! For more information please visit our websitewww.SuncrestFinancials.com

Please list your website and social media.

Accountingwithfolasade.com Suncrestfinancials.com 

Dressing The Part By. Valencia Griffin-Wallace

As I get older, I am more mindful of the way I carry myself. Not only am I a wife, but I am a mother.

However, bigger than that, I believe young ladies should have an appropriate image of how a woman carries herself. In 2015, I started a personal movement to bring the lady back. I started wearing skirts and heels more often. Not just for dressy occasions, but for everyday wear.

I do have a mix of old school values due to being partially raised by my grandmother.

There are certain things that weren’t allowed and I carried that into adulthood. For instance, I don’t wear tennis shoes in public unless I have to, I won’t leave out of

the house without earrings, and I never wear my hair tied up.

How does this play a part in being a wife and a mother?

As a wife, I am always respectful of my husband.

There is a line between sexy and thirsty that I don’t cross.

There is a disconnect somewhere between the way some women dress and the fact that it is accepted. I don’t like seeing beautiful young women overshadowed by their makeup, distracting hairstyles, or under clothed.

We are entering an age of single women because no one is teaching them how to dress respectfully. It is like the old adage “why buy the cow, if the milk is free?” If all

of your boyfriend’s friends have seen your body on social media or elsewhere, do you really think that is something a man can be proud of?

My image and the way I carry myself also comes into play as a mother, “bonus” mother, and aunt. I am often referred to as the “Diva auntie”. Even my bonus daughters call me girly.

I don’t consider myself girly, just a lady. I used to mentor at an alternative school. One of the things I noticed was the way some of the parents dressed when they came to pick up their kids.

Borderline club wear. I also paid attention to the way the children would act, react, and show signs of embarrassment. I never wanted to embarrass my son. Him being proud to call me mom was always very important to me.

Dressing the part is as much about your present situation as it is your future? You don’t have to be a prude, but be respectful and think about your image. What are you saying to your future husband or children? Are you more than a body? I know in this day and age where some role models are

less dressed than ever, it seems like the “trendy” thing to do. Think about “trendy” people and the reputations they cannot escape from; then think about the status you want and dress the part.

About Valencia GriffinWallace:

Valencia Griffin-Wallace is a BOLDness Coach and Lifestyle Designer. When Valencia accepted that she was a BOLD, the relationship with herself and

others changed. Her passion in life is to teach both women and girls how to embrace their BOLD and not deny it! Strength is not a weakness and learning how to cultivate your BOLDness can lead you into a life designed by you.

She owns LIFE BY DESIGN, a company based on acceptance of who you are and using that to DESIGN the life you deserve to live.

His Swagger: Brandon Frame By: Francheska “Fancy” Felder TheBlackManCan is one of the most current inspiring sources for positive Black male stories and narratives. Over the past six years, TheBlackManCan has hosted 37 TheBlackManCan Institutes (TBMCI) and reached over 3,000 boys. In 2015 the organization’s founder, Brandon Frame, was recognized as a Change Maker by Black Celebrity Giving and listed as one of BET’s Freshman Class innovators in 2016. It is a huge honor to feature Frame now as our His Swagger male.

Frame says he was inspired by the remark of a young man he was mentoring while in college at Morehouse. The young man had shared with Frame that the only place he could think of with so many Black men like Morehouse was prison.

Frame said the comment stayed with him and motivated to him start TheBlackManCan blog where he featured positive Black male figures. He then realized he needed to monetize the blog, so he created TheBlackManCan journals and later TheBlackManCan Awards. Next he had to figure out a way to get the journals into the hands of boys, so along came TheBlackManCan Institute. Throughout this time, he also enlisted the help of the men he had featured on his blog to mentor the boys.

Growing up as the oldest of three to a single mother, Frame says he used journaling to “process his emotions, build a positive identity, and develop critical consciousness through written reflection”. “So that is where the journal comes from, to create a tool for other young men to do the same thing because it helped me to be what some people would consider successful,” he shared. All the young men who attend the events receive a necktie and copies of TheBlackManCan Journal Define Yourself, Redefine the World: A Guided Journal for Black Men and Boys.

Frame also accredits much of his success to building solid relationships, while

being intentional, diligent, consistent, and innovative but also remaining honest and true and holding steadfast to his faith.

“None of this was a part of the vision, but it comes with it. My goal was not to be a motivational speaker or any of that, but because we built a platform that inspires and uplifts, it comes with the territory. You have to own that space. You can’t really shy away from it, especially when you get into the spiritual side of things and realize this is your assignment.

Benjamin E. Mays said, “Every child, man, and woman was put on this earth to do something unique and something distinctive, and if he or she does not do it, it will not be done.” So if you believe in that, which I do then, then what I am doing is what I am supposed to do.Then no one else is going to do a BlackManCan, so therefore I need to follow through. I believe that ideas are spiritually seeded children given by God, so the ideas that I am working on were given to me from Him. Therefore it is my obligation to birth this spiritual child, build it, and oversee it.”

Taking it a step further, Frame even says he researched his first name “Brandon” and it means “beacon on the hill” or “lighthouse”, which is more confirmation of his purpose. “I was supposed to be the oldest, because I was to be the beacon on the hill not just for my family or brothers and sisters, but ultimately for society, for the community, and that’s what TheBlackManCan is, and that is what TheBlackManCan Institute is for young men.

It’s a beacon, and it’s a guiding light. I was supposed to birth all that,” Frame explained.

Aside from Brandon’s passion for inspiring and motivating young men and the community, he is also aware of the state of love in the Black community. His latest projects, Falling Black in Love and the Black Couples Power Brunch are to ignite or spark those

intimate conversations about balancing love, work, and everything in between talking about love.

“We have faith, hope, and love and the greatest of all is love, and I think the biggest challenge that you face whether you are single or you are married; you’re engaged; you’re in a situation, it doesn’t matter, balancing love and work becomes a challenge. So I think that people don’t always come together and share their secrets or strategies for success around it. There is no silver bullet, but there are different ways to make it work. So I think that we don’t always share that, and relationships often fall apart, because they didn’t have some tools or some strategies or some ways to balance the concept of love/work and everything in between, because it’s like a Venn diagram,” Frame says.

He went on to say, “For me, right now there is Brandon Frame, and somewhere there’s Brandon Frame chasing his dreams and living out his career, but then I also become a boyfriend and there comes

responsibility with that. After boyfriend becomes husband, and husband turns into father, but all three are actually separate, and they all overlap at the same time. So I wonder what do I need to do to show up at all times and be the best version of me. Then there are times when you come up short.

That’s just the reality of it.. That’s what Beyonce is talking about in “Lemonde”. She's basically talking about men falling short of women’s expectations. Whether she’s referencing her husband or referencing her dad, she’s speaking of Black women, Black womanhood, and Black girl magic all together. As a man, I look at it like “Dang, there were times when I didn’t live up to expectations”, and that’s why I started the Black Power Couple brunch, because I know there were times when I came up short, and I don’t want to (continue to do so). I want to be my best self, and so we have places where we can get the best strategies that’s used in all aspects of your life.”

May we also add, Brandon is currently single? The bachelor says his career keeps him busy, but he is very open to love right now as he is always looking ahead.

His ideal woman is someone who is as driven as he is, and who equally understands the importance of balancing life roles. During our interview we joked about how his influence can almost be intimidating or misleading, though he is actually a very laid back type of guy.

When asked what does a typical day consist of for him, he admitted he often has to go with the flow and work from wherever, but typically he starts his morning by saying TheBlackManCan pledge, praying, and when time permits he listens to a call with Jeff Johnson. He also tries to make Bible study once a week for what he calls his “weekly refill”.

Frame strongly believes that once we are made aware of a problem we are obligated to work toward a solution. He saw the need for young boys and men to not only see more positive Black male images in the

media, but also the importance of them bonding as well.

At the time of the interview, Frame who is also an administrator at High School Inc., was preparing for graduation and traveling. TheBlackManCan Institute ended its tour for the year on May 7th, but I assure you there is definitely more to look for from Brandon, like the Black Couples Power Brunch mentioned above.

Now it’s not what how he himself described his swagger, but after pondering over our interview, we think Brandon would best describe it with this quote I found on his Twitter “So reminded of Martin and Malcolm, yet so inspired to sketch my own path!” Don’t you just love that? Be sure to follow and support him with his plugs below.

Website: http:// tbmcinstitute.theblackmancan.org Facebook: http://www.Facebook.com/ TheBlackManCan Twitter: @TheBlackManCan

Wednesday Wonder Woman: Sherie Phillips Thomas What is your name and how did you become who you are?

Sherie Khadija Phillips Thomas How old are you?

35 years young Where are you from?

Bogalusa, Louisiana Tell us how you first got involved with (business, volunteering, etc.…)?

I first got involved in healthcare in 1995. My career began at an attorney’s office, strangely enough. There was a 10 x 10 square foot room filled with medical records that

someone had to review for signs and symptoms that were related to a chemical spill. None of the other legal secretaries, paralegals, or attorneys were up for the task. I took on the challenge like a champ and enjoyed every minute of it. During

my review, I made daily telephone calls to Louisiana Medicare and discovered my passion. During one of the calls, a manager who happened to be covering for her staff, identified my enthusiasm and offered me a job over the telephone.

Within one week, I located a daycare for my one-yearold son and a house to lease. Two weeks from the day of the job offer, I sat proudly and excitedly at my new workstation at Louisiana Medicare.

What is your first impression of the beginning of your advocacy?

My first impression of my career appeared to be very intimidating; therefore, I was determined to receive formal education in order to excel within my position. During my research for formal education, medical billing and coding appeared to be the closest subject that could assist. I enrolled into the program at LSU in 2000, and everything fell into place with the vision God placed on my life.

What do you most find challenging about (your business, volunteering, etc.…)?

As the business blossoms, marketing is the biggest challenge. The products and services that are offered at the Institute are valued to every healthcare organization; therefore, they

need to know that we are a local organization present and willing to assist with healthcare reimbursement, training and education.

What’s the best thing to happen to you since starting (your business, volunteering,etc.…)?

I allowed God to lead me!

The vision that God has for my life is so clear that my heart races with excitement, as he continuously lights my path. I have been awarded a contract with the state of Louisiana to train healthcare organizations.

If you could change one thing about being an advocate? What would it be?

I would love to find a way to reach more people. I have the ability to prepare individuals that have gone through other institution’s medical billing and coding program for their national certification exam. Having a national certification and experience is vital within this profession, and I have the ability to provide both.

What do you wish other people knew about your outreach mission?

In 2000, when I enrolled as a student, terrified on my first day; I had no idea that God was preparing me to offer the exact same course previously offered by the major world-renowned university of LSU.

What’s your personal philosophy on what should be done to help steer society in a positive direction?

Education! I feel that the state of society is currently in disarray due to the lack of misguidance and improper education.

What might someone be surprised to know about you?

I like to walk barefoot outside on the weekend!

What would you tell someone who is thinking about going in a more positive direction in how they live life?

Pray and learn to allow God to lead your path.

What do you think will change about your business) over the next five years?

I will have this program available to more than 250 students annually.

In five words or less how would you describe (YOU)?

Dedicated, determined, loved, giving and chosen.

What do you do when you aren’t running your business?

Mentor other entrepreneurs, perform community service and decorate.

What else can you tell us about you or your mission?

I was taught by someone near to me that I first should take care people, then the mission and lastly myself in order to become a more effective leader. Therefore, my mission is not driven by monetary values, I am driven and chosen to assist other individuals reach their potential. I not only provide medical billing and coding education; I also, provide training and experience needed to enter the workforce. I have a 75% initial passage rate of the CPC certification.

Still A R&B Diva, Keke Wyatt

BY B. SIMONE

Preacher’s kid, wife, mother, singer, musician (mastering both the keys as well as the drums), and R&B Diva, KeKe Wyatt is someone not only to admire, but she’s a lady that will thoroughly entertain you.

She kicked her door of opportunity completely off the hinges back in 2001 with her rendition of “Nothing In This World”, featuring Avant. Her big introduction to stardom was electrifying and memorable for everyone in love (or who thought they were in love) in the early 2000’s.

When I stated she has been singing and in the music industry a long time, she responded with her contagious laugh, “ A long time? Chile, you make me feel like I'm old. Ummm…I'm still an 80's baby, OooooKay!” Singing and reared in the church, to performing with girl groups, then working as a

songwriter, KeKe has been fulfilling her passion and purpose from a young age.

With a voice touched by angels, you would think she dreamed of being a singer/ entertainer all her life…but that’s far from the truth. “I

After her debut album release, she found herself in a toxic and abusive marriage. Fortunate enough to make it out alive, with her kids, she doesn’t hesitate to tell her testimony.

She literally had to fight and stab her way out of a

was not out searching or looking for it. Honey, I was just a little church girl singing with my family. The entertainment industry and my professional singing career came to me and fell into my lap. I truly believe what God has for you will be for you!”

disappointed love story from hell. She speaks straight from the heart when she says, “Keep God first and tell a friend or family member so they can help you get out. If a man raises his hand to you, get out fast and do not stay because the next time you might not

make it out alive. That's just keeping it real”.

Trends, hashtags, music, and image changes from day to day. What’s hot and what’s not is in consistent fluctuation in the music industry. Yet, Wyatt is not intimidated and always stays true to who she is.

“Everyone who really knows me is aware that I am as real as they come boo. So I really don't focus on trying to re-invent myself. I have my own label now, so I can do the music I want and most importantly music that comes straight from my heart. I always have a new beat or a melody in my head to record. I plan to always

give my fans something fresh from me”.

Her run on TV One’s reality show, R&B Divas, provided a first-hand look into the life of a busy working mother and wife.

With her hectic schedule, I figured she’d be perfect to provide some advice to busy ladies on how to keep things fresh and exciting with their husband or significant others. Leave it to KeKe to break it down really sweet, simple, and with a big laugh, “All I am going to say is HOE is in the word HOME!” KeKe wears so many different hats professionally as well as personally, how does she stay sane and maintain a peace of mind? “I

pray every day and all day!”

Her core is gospel and her house-hold name and sound is rhythm and blues so when asked has the evolution of R&B disappointed her, she replied saying, “I’m only disappointed when people say or post on social media that they are a fan and don't support and/or buy R&B”.

The direction of a particular genre of music is left to the interpretation of the artist.

However, if you’re a fan then support your favorite artists by purchasing their music and tickets to their shows and events. Fans are the main reason artists continue working on their craft, so

give them a reason to continue.

She leaves her fans with these words, “Listen, stop trying to fit in with the rest. Only be yourself. God made you just like you are-special. You cannot get on the road to your destiny trying to be someone else.

At the end of the day if you want what God has for you then be yourself. Now with that being said, my new album “Rated Love” is anywhere music is sold digitally, Okay!”

About B.Simone B.Simone studied literature and theories during her undergrad at USF and graduated in 2012. She is the co-founder of a literary and artistic social site, Cempst, launching soon as well as a North Florida ministry leader for WeIgniteTheLight Ministries on top of being a proud single mother to my daughter London J.

copying what another blog is doing. Of course, we all are inspired by others, but when inspiration becomes imitation that is never a good thing. You should also be original. Originality allows you to stand out from the rest and to draw more readers to your blog.

About Me I am Chimee Ahaiwe, Fashion Blogger (www.Aroundthewaygyrl.com) I’ve always been a lover of fashion so I started an internship as a past time hobby with a local clothing boutique here in Houston,TX. I enjoyed it very much, but with a full time career, found it very challenging to manage both.

I started blogging as an outlet to express myself through fashion, not really realizing the opportunities it would bring. Now that I am two years in, I cannot see myself giving it up anytime

soon. To play dress up everyday and be compensated for it from time to time is pretty awesome.

Blog: www.Aroundthewaygyrl.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ _aroundthewaygyrl/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ chimee.ahaiwe Twitter: https://twitter.com/ATWGyrl Tips on running a successful blog.

I truly believe the best way to run a success blog is to be yourself. You cannot run a successful blog by imitating another one or

Stay true to yourself and to your brand.

When you are a new blogger sometimes it can be a bit distracting and discouraging when it appears other bloggers are thriving more than you are. Comparing the success of other bloggers to yours will definitely kill your momentum and often deter you from blogging. Believe in your brand and stand behind whatever you blog about. They are your words and your vision, so if you don’t believe in you, no one else will.

Build relationships. A great way to gain exposure and readers is to build relationships. Though I have only been a fashion blogger for two years, I’ve learned early on to build relationships. I joined a blogging group here in

Houston, TX in order to network and collaborate. I’ve built relationships with retailers, so that I am always in the know when It comes to special store events and of course fashion must haves.

banner. This can be very lucrative as it allows you to cut out the middle man.

Another is affiliate marketing, if done right, this is a great way to monetize your blog. This is one that I

My final tip when is comes to building a successful blog is to be genuine.

Others can tell when you are not being genuine which is a total turn off. If you do not like a particular topic or blog post, don’t say you do. If you know you are not interested in attending a particular event, be honest about it.

Being genuine as it relates to blogging or anything for that matter, goes a long way.

What is needed to monetize your blog?

There are many different ways to monetize your blog, however monetizing is not an easy task. To receive monetary compensation for your blog, many companies want to see the numbers.

They want to know if you have the following and that their readers are visiting your blog. One way to get monetized is pay per click advertising. This is measured by the amount of ad clicks you get on your page. More ad clicks equals more money. A second way to monetize is advertising space. You can sell space on your website for advertisers to display a

use the most. Because I am a fashion blogger, companies usually reach out to me to review a new item, such as a new dress design from their collection or a new piece of jewelry. With this type of advertising you can get a commission sale that resulted from your recommendation. I enjoy this form of monetizing; not only do you receive compensation but you also get to keep the items you review.

What are your summer staple pieces?

I am totally in love with chokers and neck scarves this summer. They add a bit

of sass to outfits, which I really like. I am also really into denim, that includes dresses, jeans, shirts, hats, etc. I am really feeling the denim vibe for this summer.

Though it is really hot during these months, I have fallen in love with athletic sneakers. I wear them with dresses and skirts for a fun and flirty look. My last summer staple piece would be slides. I recently purchase a pair of Fenty x Puma slides and they are so cute. They give this laid back funky look that I am really feeling right now.

Kimo Bentley Talks Skincare & Business so much more, I had to do this interview in Q & A format, because I thought it was so informative.

BY FRANCHESKA “FANCY” FELDER

When I thought beauty for this issue, I wanted someone knowledgeable, because I come across so many women who want to start their own makeup and product lines, but that insider knowledge is hard to come by. I happened to hear Kimo Bentley, founder of the Kimo Bentley all natural skincare line, on a radio interview and loved how passionately she shared her brand’s story.

Kimo started her line after learning of her daughter having eczema. She has spent the past 17 years working alongside world famous plastic surgeons to perfect her skills in the most cutting edge technology in skin rejuvenation treatments, scalp, full body and laser rejuvenation treatments. What started as a body butter has now grown into an entire product line.

From our interview. I realize there is much more to skin than I thought. Actually there is

Fancy: How did you first get started, what previous knowledge did you possess?

Kimo: As a young girl I would get in trouble for like mixing sand or mixing deodorant.

I didn’t have- as a young child, the knowledge to professionally put ingredients together, but I had an idea. I thought sand can be used as an exfoliator, but if your skin is dry6, add some Petroleum jelly, and I would always get into trouble for mixing things together. That was the majority of what I did in my past time.. . mixing stuff. .

Fancy: You’ve been working in this field for 17 years. What do you attribute to your longevity and success?

Kimo: We can continue to grow, because we have sustainability, we have loyal customers.

We have repeat customers. The key in maintaining longevity is having a loyal customer base, and that’s kind of like how you know if this business is for you or if it’s not. If you have repeat customers, that’s kind of like indication on ok, the products are selling. The products are working. People are liking it. People are posting it. Reposting it.

You’re getting referrals. I have been around for a long time, but I didn’t get on a large

scale until I actually got the distribution deal for Walgreens. People knew about me, but they did not know where to find me, because I did not have a website. I had something like a referral base, so I had a lot of people that would come to my house, or they would meet me at events. I did a lot of vending. People would see me at events, and I built some really solid relationships with people, and in essence you know- your friends, family, and people who know you, give you free PR, and that’s kind of like how I maintained it for a while. Then I said “You know what? I’m going to go ahead and get the website and add the e commerce.” Once I started doing that the horizon was just far ahead for me, and the brand started getting international recognition. We had a couple of write ups in Spain, and a lot of people started to take notice. This is not something that I went into to make money, like I am entrusted in people’s skin. They trust me with their skin, and us as women of color and people of color, I feel that we do not take care of our skin. Other races do, and we are the only ones that put that on the backburner, because they always have that saying, “Black don't crack.” If it’s not taken care of, yes, it does crack. You do get blemishes. You do get moles.You do get discoloration and those are forms of skin problems.

Based on my experience with vending- I like to go back to vending because you interact with a lot of people, when I interact, I ask them, “What are you using on your skin?

What are you using to cleanse? What are you using to moisturize?” Those are my basic questions that I like to ask people. I notice that when I ask that they usually say, “Oh, just water.” We have dirt and pollutants in the atmosphere. We have a lot of free radicals.

People wear makeup, but they will come home, and they don’t use a cleanser. They will just wash their face with water, and then they wonder why it’s blemished, why it’s breaking out, why there’s discoloration, or there’s problems. I think the education has to be there, and with my company it's not about

having you buy a body butter or facial wash or something. It’s deeper than that. It educating them on how to take care of their skin, whether they decide to go with my brand, or whether they decide to go with another brand. It’s the education that is going to sustain the consumer and have them come back, because once you gain their trust, you know- they will come back. They will ask you more questions, and they will say “Ok, what do you have for this, because I was not using a cleanser to wash my face, or a moisturizer, or an SPF. You know those things make a difference. I try to stress on the four keys of skincare which is cleanse, moisturize, hydrate, and protect. Those are the basic steps that we should all know, along with understanding how to treat our skin and preserve it.

Fancy: What are some things one should be mindful of when launching a beauty line? We often hear about the branding and so on, but being that these are products for skin care use, I am sure there are some kind of legal issues or regulations to be mindful of as well.

Kimo: Once you go into business, you know you have to follow the FDA precautions. Like for instance, your labeling has to be extremely precise in details. If you are going into major retailers, they do ask you to have a serial numbers/ UPC codes on your products- which should be individual UPC codes for each and every product. They also ask you to present them with the shelf life, you know- how long is this product going to be able to sit on the shelf. They are also going to ask you, in ascending order, your most active ingredients all the way down to the first ingredient in your line, so it is very important to list that. It’s also important to list your disclaimer and your instructions. They might seem like very little things. They may be overlooked, but they are very important.

It’s also important for you. Once you are selling to the public, you have to have product liability insurance. I can’t stress on

that enough. It protects you. It protects the consumer. Let’s say that there’s some sort of reaction; the product liability insurance will be able to kick in and help you out if this person has any type of medical issues, if they need to go to see a doctor. A lot of people think that just starting a product line is going into the kitchen and mixing stuff, and then you can present it on a shelf, but it is so much more rigorous than that. In terms of the insurance, they ask you like every single question. They ask you for proof of your labels, if you are a LLC or sole proprietor. It takes a lot to fine tune a line for it to actually, professionally go on someone’s shelf in a store. Whether it’s a beauty supply store or a major chain, like Whole Foods or Walgreens, all of these things that they fact check. So you can’t say yes, I have all of my stuff, because the companies are going to ask you for your insurance certificate. They are going to ask you for other information like your manufacturers, if you are not doing it yourself, and where your products are sourced from.There are so many things when you are going into mainstream with a line that you are looking to produce.

Fancy: Are you all launching any new products soon?

Kimo: Oh, yeah! We have a lot of new stuff coming out.We have a couple of launches coming actually. We have our featured body oil for the summer. We also have our activated charcoal body wash which is really exciting, and we have a day and night time moisturizer that also are going to be launching this summer.

Fancy: Do you have any skin products or suggestions for men?

Kimo: I know a lot of men suffer from ingrown hairs from shaving. It’s also called pseudofolliculitis barbae. That’s the clinical term for that, but we have developed a male toner, which is packed with tea tree oil, frankincense. It’s also packed with lavender which is going to calm the skin down after a shave .It’s zero alcohol obviously. When I do my workshops for the men, I like to call it the K.I.M.’s method- K.I.M-which is keep it moving, and I show them how to use a special brush that I have. You can find something similar at the beauty supply stores. It’s not a hard brush, It’s kind of like a facial brush. Right after you apply your cleanser, you are going to use the brush in a circular motion for at least one minute over the area to at least, ensure that all of the hair follicles have been removed from on top of the skin. That actually minimizes the ingrown hair on the face. Also the fact that they are shaving everyday, they should wear an SPF. Shaving is a form of exfoliation, so often times, once they shave, they splash a little cologne on per se. Then they go out the door, and they are wondering why around their mouths and their necks are dark, but it’s because you are not only shaving the hair.

You are shaving the skin down, and it's leaving it open t o the UVA and UVB rays,

and what happens is the skin automatically gets dark.

So we have what we call ultrasonic facials that I offer at the clinic. It looks kind of like a spatula, and it uses radio frequency waves to vibrate the dirt and impurities out of the skin.

So for instance let’s say that you have a blackheads, whiteheads, and/or other pimples on the face, you kind of vibrate over it, and it pops right out. You don’t necessarily have to perform the traditional extraction, because it is popping right off, on top of the device. Obviously it's not going to be painful, because radio waves are almost invisible.

Of course, you are going to feel the vibrations of it. That's one of the technologies. Also there’s another that’s called High Frequency, this cauterizes and sterilizes the actual breakout. Let’s say you have a breakout. You come in, you get your facial, and we use the High Frequency, and we literally cauterize that whole area. It is going to sterilize and prevent the spread of the acne, causing it to heal much quicker than the regular time of a breakout. So those are two things off the top of my head. In the clinic, we also use things like gold for treatment. 24 carat gold is used for skin discoloration. It helps a lot for that. For the past year, I have been using the gold mask for replenishing and rejuvenating my skin and helping with my line, but most importantly helping with my discoloration and dark spots posts being in the sun for a long time, even if you are using your sunscreen. You are going to get a little bit of tanning, but it is not going to be as severe as if you went out there unprotected. So let’s say I had a day in the sun, and I am reapplying sunscreen. When I get home, I would use my gold mask to kind of like revitalize my skin and help it be restored.

Fancy: Wow, well last but not least, do you have any upcoming events or projects you care to share?

Kimo: We will be going on tour coming up in the next eight weeks. It is going to be called I Am Beauty tour, and we will be hosting

events in New York, New Jersey, Los Angeles, DC, Philadelphia, and two other stops. We will end it in Trinidad, because that’s where my roots are from, so I am going to end it off there. We are going to be covering quite a few area and aspects of the brand and the business. We will also be teaching in these workshops, so it’s not just going to be your average motivational workshop. It's going to be a little bit more deeper than that, but we are going to touch on topics like the notion of Black doesn’t crack,. That’s one workshop that I can mention off the top of my head, but we’re still in the fine tuning process.

Currently Kimo is pursuing a Masters in Esthetics and is constantly reinventing herself as she creates new and exciting products and introducing new technology to the United States and the Caribbean. Be sure to follow her and her brand below. www.kimobentley.com Instagram: Kimo Bentley Facebook: Kimo Bentley

How To Organize Your Kitchen Submitted by Posh Life Enterprise, LLC The kitchen is one of the busiest rooms in the house.

More often times than not, clients want to start there.

So let’s! Whether you are a busy mom, entrepreneur or corporate executive, these organizing basics are sure to get you off to a good start.

The No. 1 thing that you always want to do before you can even attempt to organize (any area) is to set a goal for how you want the room to function. You want to devise a plan for where everything should be stored, especially when you have children.

Step No. 2 is to take inventory of what you have and to discard outdated, broken and unused items, this includes paper-work. I know you have a pile of paper you’ve been meaning to get to. – we all do. But that’s another story. Whether you decide to start with your refrigerator, cabinets, or

pantry, you must declutter FIRST. This involves taking EVERYTHING out. This step is very important and may take several hours depending upon what you have and the number of years you’ve been holding onto things. Have a trash bag handy.

Once you discard items that no longer serve purpose you can start to organize.

An organized kitchen with the right long-lasting staples, can help you take advantage of fresh seasonal foods, eliminate impulse purchases, not to mention will save you lots of time and money!

Now that you have discarded outdated, unwanted and “smelly” items, you want to store the foods in your fridge and pantry methodically.

Refrigerator Storage Basis: Categorize the items you'll be placing back into your

refrigerator and then designate areas, or zones, to place the categorized items in. Here are some of the possible categories or zones to consider for your refrigerator: Fresh produce (Typically stored in the fruit or vegetable bins.)

Meats and cheeses (Meats may go in their own drawer and should be kept in the coldest part of the fridge, while lunch meats and cheeses may go in a lunch making zone or bin.)

Eggs (Although the door of your refrigerator may have a space for them, it is best to keep eggs in their carton on a high shelf, and not on the door, because the door has more temperature fluctuations.)

Condiments (Typically store on the door of the fridge.)

Lunch (Store items for kids or weekend lunches

together for easy fixing and quick access.)

Snacks (Typically store in the middle-most shelf for easy access by kids) Leftovers (Designate a shelf or portion of a shelf.)

Place to thaw things from freezer or marinate food (Designate a lower shelf) Milk and other beverages (Designate an upper shelf)

You may want some of the items in your categories to stay loose, or you may decide to containerize them to keep them together within the refrigerator. I containerize snacks that will be accessed by kids often.

Keep in mind you don't want it over pack your fridge.

Instead, there has to be enough free space for air to circulate freely, for it to cool efficiently and effectively.

Pantry Basics: Commonly used items like canisters of flour, sugar and bottles of cooking oil should be stored at a convenient level for easy access. Less frequently used items like canned goods should be stacked on lower shelves

with the labels facing you, so that you can quickly see what you have. Lightweight items, such as potato chips, cereal, rice, and pasta, are perfect for high shelves.

If you want your pantry to look like those pictured in a magazine, choosing the right containers for storage is important. Glass is convenient because you can see what you have with a quick glance and it can be cleaned in a dishwasher.

What more could you want?!

Plus, it looks super Posh.

But the one drawback is it’s breakable. So if you have little kiddies accessing your pantry often, be sure to store glass containers safely. Side note, be sure select glass containers with rubber seals to lock in

freshness. Otherwise, it just looks pretty and is affecting the freshness of your food.

On the contrary, I am partial to plastic containers, you know the OXO Pop containers? They really POP! (Not an endorsement, it’s just what I use.)

Cabinet Basics: As for your kitchen cabinets or cupboards – whichever you prefer to call them, to eliminate having to deal with unmanageable stacks of random cups, plates, bowls and utensils, finding a storage solution is necessary. I recommend stacking plastics and separating them entirely from glassware. In other words, have a designated cabinet for glass and another for plastic. Consider purchasing metal or wood racks and placing them in your cabinets for vertical storage of glass. It saves so much space, and it looks pretty chic!

Pots & Pans: To eliminate having to search for the right lid in an unmanageable stack each and every time that you need one, the metal and/or wood racks mentioned above will work perfect. This allows you to line up the lids vertically. Arrange lids smallest to largest, with their companion pans stacked close by. Vertical racks can be found at your local retailer (Walmart, Home

Goods, Marshalls, Ross, Container Store).

Cooking Ingredients Basics: Remember the long-lasting staples, I mentioned above?

Here are a few storage periods.

If you follow these easy tips, you will have your kitchen in order in no time. But if you prefer to just leave it to the professionals, don’t hesitate to contact Posh.

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Jump Into The Mind Of Champion Brittney Reese

By Francheska “Fancy” Felder Gold Medal Olympian, Brittney Reese made history again when she received her 6th World Gold Medal in the long jump at the 2016 IAAF World Indoor Track & Field Championships.

Reese placed first in the 2012 London Olympics (long jump), 3 World Indoor Championships, and 3 World Outdoor Championships. Reese’s accomplishments in track and field have exceeded those of Olympic legends Carl Lewis nor Jackie Joyner-Kersee, and she (Reese) is expected to win gold again at the 2016 Rio Olympics.

I know athletes seem to interview better when they are comfortable, so I aimed to keep my interview with Reese was very laidback, and I also wanted to keep the authenticity of it, including her Southern dialect which certainly made me feel more comfortable.

Now step into the mind of an Olympian.

Fancy: How would describe your swagher, like what makes Brittney, Brittney?

Brittney: I will say my ambition. I strive for greatness at all times. I work hard at all times. I want to win, so I will do whatever it takes when it comes to working hard and so on to

win, so I would say my ambition to win.

Fancy: Well that definitely sounds like the mindset of an athlete. So I’m kind of a prissy girl. I never would

have thought,”Oh, I wonder if I can jump over that?” How did you discover this skill? How did you say, “Hey, I’m going to try to jump over this.”Then, “Hey I think I am going to make this a career and center my life around it?”

Brittney: (Laughs) I was always hanging with the guys, playing basketball, climbing trees, those types of things. I’d get in trouble for being in the trees when my grandpaw came down the street. I was always doing things like that, so I was always involved in sports. I was playing basketball mainly at the time, and in the seventh grade. You know how they give you a little paper, and they’re like “Ok, who wants to sign up for track?”. My friend was like, “I’m going to do it,” so I was like, “I am going to do it too”, but my grandpaw was like, “Yea you goin’ do it anyway.”

So I went out there and started doing track.

Honestly, I was ready to quit the first day because we were doing entirely too much running for me.

(Laughs), but my mom and my grandpaw told me I couldn’t quit, so I just stuck with it, and became real successful at it in high school, despite me loving basketball so much.

I think I decided I wanted to make it a career when I got to college at Ole Miss, and I had just won SEC Indoor

(Championship), SEC Outdoor (Championship), National’s Indoor, National Outdoor, and my coach just basically told me that I needed to be challenged. I wasn’t being challenged enough. I had already made my first team. I had placed 8th, so it was around 2008 for the Olympics, and he just told me he didn’t want to be selfish and keep me in school running on the track team. He told me that I needed to be challenged more, and it was just going to be too easy with these girls (at that time) on that level. I needed to be pushed. I decided to turn pro then- just off of his decision.

Fancy: As a defending Olympic Gold Medalist heavily favored to win again in Rio Olympics, how do you deal with the pressure of knowing so much is expected of you on the biggest stage in the World...the Olympics?

Brittney: I take it meat by meat, day by day. From winning back to back for a couple of years, I kinda know everybody just wants to beat me at this point, and I can’t think about that. I have to think about me beating myself. I’ve won the medals. I’ve done all that, but there’s a lot more I want to accomplish on my end before I can think about retiring. I want to break America’s record outdoor and the World Record, so I don’t really focus on having

the pressure and having everybody on my back. I just focus on what my goals are and what I want to achieve before I retire.

Fancy: What are your training and preparation habits like getting ready for the outdoor season leading up to the Olympic Trials?

Brittney: Honestly, right now I am getting killed, because it is so hot out here, and we’re doing a lot of running, not so much jumping right now, because I am just coming off an indoor- like yesterday my training was brutal. I had approaches, I had jumps, and I had to run, so I am more in a conditioning, strengthening phase, where I am doing a lot of running and heavy lifting, but as it starts getting closer to the Olympics, things will start tapering off.

The main focus going into the Olympics is mainly- how I am coming onto the board, I tend to get a little too forward and stick my feet out. Things like that. I am preparing now working with biomechanics, working with my life coach, my psychologist, the chiropractor, just things and people like that to make sure I am in the right body position. I have to make sure my head is on where it needs to be. I am trying to stay mentally and physically strong to get to where I need to be by the time the trials come around.

Fancy: Wow, you know I never really knew that much went into long jumping. Initially I thought you just ran and jumped, but as I watched your videos, and tried to understand how you all were scored and ranked, I realized there were numbers where you land, which confirmed that there has to be some kind of system to it.

Brittney: No it takes a lot, a lot of science if you really had to break it down. It’s a lot of numbers and a lot has to do with how fast you are coming down the runway; how fast can you get off onto your jump leg; how fast

you draw your knee; how high you draw your knee; how long it took your arms to land; how you land.

Everything is so technical that people don’t really understand. It’s really not a run and jump event. You really have to be a student to this sport and to the event, so it takes a lot to be a long jumper.

Yeah your positioneverything is so crazy.

Fancy: You do a great deal of speaking with the youth, in particularly, young girls on issues such as self love and self esteem. Why are these issues important to you?

Brittney: I’m starting to see that more and more- and I don’t want to down celebrities, but I am seeing things like Love & Hip Hop have kids just watching- but looking for the wrong reasons. The big thing now is your image which is a good thing, but young girls now- I feel like girls are more worried about using their appearance to attract boys. 13 year olds girls are worried about things they shouldn’t be worried about at the age of 13. For example, I have a family member with self esteem issues due to her hair. She thinks it should look a certain way, which I do too, but she is worried about it looking a certain way for the wrong reason. It’s the whole “worrying about one group of friends being cooler than this group of friends” thing.

Teens are worried about the wrong things. You should be more concerned with doing well in school and receiving scholarships so your parents won’t have to pay the full thing or you getting a full ride into your sport. I am just starting to see that self esteem is one of the bigger problems for the youth now days. I just want to let them know that I am here for every little girl. In my hometown they have more going on than just self esteem issues. Now we have things like gun violence and things like that, so I have a couple of projects going on at home

to try to bring the youth back together over the summer, keeping them off the streets and keeping them focused on other things, not just hanging around, with their friends and doing stuff like that. That’s not productive.

Fancy: It’s good that you can see that some youth may have other interests outside of sports.

Brittney: Yes, that’s why I didn't just make my scholarship for athletes, because everybody isn’t interested in sports, and you can't just throw a scholarship out there and say it’s only for sports. If athletes are good enough, they will get a full ride regardless but I wanted to give the scholarship to someone worthy. Last year, I think it was a member of the band, and she really needed it. It’s just a two page scholarship, and the school picks the topic. The kids write it, the principal picks the top choices, and I pick the finalists every year.

Fancy: You are well known for your dreads. What do you use on your hair?

I use Jamaican, Mango, and Lime on my hair, and I use some Cantu products sometimes when washing.

Fancy: I’m actually considering growing dreads, but I keep hearing conflicting information about whether or not I will be able to straighten my

hair from time to time with them. Some say I can, some say I can’t. I know you have had your dreads for quite some time, do you know?

Brittney: (Laughs.) Well you can,but it is a long process.

It depends on how long you have had them. See I have had my dreads seven or eight years now, so I don’t think it would be good for me to try to take them down. Because when you have had them up for years and years, you can take them out, but I think the only way is to cut them out.

The good thing for me is if I cut mine, my hair is so fine in the middle, I wouldn’t actually be bald I would have some kind of hair sitting up there and could do something to it. (Laughs.)

Fancy: Are there any other events or projects that you are working on and would like to share with our followers?

Brittney: No… just the trials coming up.

Trials for the Rio Olympics begin July 7th, and we wish Brittney the best. Be sure to follow her progress!

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One last cool thing about Brittney that I did not know until researching her, is she grew up in Gulfport, Mississippi, which is not too, too far from where I am originally from. Had my own school been one division higher, we could have crossed paths.

Nevertheless, I am very honored to have gotten the privilege to speak with her now.