Taos Wedding Guide 2017

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LOVERS LOVING TAOS T

aos is one of the most beautiful and spiritual places on Earth, and is also one of the most romantic.

Local writer Virginia Clark once penned: “It is here that the elements of earth, fire, water and air conspire with the human heart to create the most benevolent atmosphere imaginable for auspicious beginnings; which is why so many couples are instinctively drawn to wed in Taos.”

And she’s right. Couples come from all over the world to be blessed by Taos’ magic. Now it’s your turn.

Published yearly by The Taos News, this handy guide aims to serve as your Taos wedding resource no matter the season and no matter the venue from an intimate courtyard to a hot air balloon.

— Scott Gerdes, special sections editor

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Checklist: Staying organized, staying sane Legalities: Dotting i's and crossing t's The other "I do’s" Having your cake and eating it, too Flower speak Dance to the music Taos Wedding Expo 2017 Wedding spice: Time-honored New Mexico wedding traditions Photographers: Capturing the moments Venues: Destination Taos Falling in love — with your caterer Engagement announcement Wedding announcement

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Congratulations! May you fall in love with Taos and with each other many times over.

STAFF

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Scott Gerdes, special sections editor

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Chris Wood, advertising manager On the cover: “Ben and Elizabeth” by Michael Jensen, mvjensen.com Cover design: Karin Eberhardt The Taos News is grateful to the following photographers for allowing use of their images in our magazine: Megan Bowers Avina, Brendan Curran and Deanna Nelson.

(See page 39 for the photographers’ contact information.)

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Eric & Katherine We had so many people come up to us and tell us that it was the most touching ceremony they had ever seen, considering that most of them were Catholic, we were really happy to hear that!

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STAYING ORGANIZED, STAYING SANE

A WEDDING CHECKLIST

“A HAPPY MARRIAGE IS A LONG CONVERSATION WHICH ALWAYS SEEMS TOO SHORT.” — ANDRE MAUROIS, FRENCH AUTHOR

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hroughout the wedding planning process, you will discuss and ultimately decide on many details with your partner, vendors, friends and family members.

Keep track of the information in a notebook or binder. Use or create tabs to organize it by sections so you can easily find what you need when you need it. Make it a size that’s easy to transport, as it will likely not leave your side until after the wedding.

Following is a standard checklist to start with — you may want to add your own special details to the list.

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SIX MONTHS OR MORE PRIOR n Announce your engagement to family and friends. n Create a budget. n Set a wedding date or

season. n Select the wedding party. n Choose invitations. n Select gowns and tuxedos.

n Register a name for your

wedding website. n Visit ceremony, rehearsal

dinner and reception sites. n Interview caterers, photog-

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n Order passports and check

immunization if leaving the country.

THREE TO SIX MONTHS PRIOR n Contact photographer, caterer, cake baker, florist, musicians, performing artists and transporters. n Schedule fittings for you

and attendants. n Finalize rentals and site for

ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner. n Select wedding rings. n Finalize music selection. n Start selecting flowers. n Finalize honeymoon and

transportation plans (commercial or private). Get it in writing so no one is

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confused and late.

TWO TO THREE MONTHS PRIOR n Register for wedding gifts at the stores of your choice. n Send invitations. n Complete guest list. n Reserve block of hotel

rooms for out-of-town guests. n Update your website with

directions and hotel information. n Set hair, nail and makeup

appointments for wedding day and bridal portrait. n Arrange care for pets if

necessary. n Get marriage license and

get forms for name change if necessary.

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ONE WEEK PRIOR n Complete ceremony and

reception seating. n Pack for honeymoon. n Provide “special request”

photo and music lists for photographer, videographer and ceremony and reception musicians. n Remind attendants to pick

up their formal wear. n Finalize guest list and give

to caterer or reception management. n Assign transportation of

gifts, guest book, personal belongings and return of groom’s tuxedo. n Arrange for post office to

hold mail. n Make spa appointment for

wedding party for massage,

“MARRIAGE: A BOOK OF WHICH THE FIRST CHAPTER IS WRITTEN IN POETRY AND THE REMAINING CHAPTERS WRITTEN IN PROSE.” — BEVERLEY NICHOLS, BRITISH WRITER

manicures and pedicures.

WEDDING DAY EVE n Distribute wedding day schedule to wedding party. n Attend wedding rehearsal

and rehearsal dinner. n Nap, rest easy because all

is well.

DOTTING I’S AND CROSSING T’S

MAKING YOUR UNION LEGAL

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hen planning a wedding, it’s important not to let things slip your mind — particularly the legal aspects of a union. Thankfully, getting a marriage license is simple in New Mexico. It’s also inclusive — in December 2013, the New Mexico Supreme Court ruling made marriage equality the law of the land.

When visiting the Taos County Clerk’s Office, be sure that you both have photo identification with your birth date and your Social Security cards. Both partners must be present at the office to sign the application. There is a filing fee of just $25 in cash — no checks or credit cards. Blood tests are not required in the Land of Enchantment. The marriage license book is available at the clerk’s office and is open to the public.

Whether you are local residents or not, you must attain and file a marriage license if you are married in Taos County. New Mexico licenses are only good for in-state weddings, but the couple doesn’t have to be New Mexico residents to obtain a license.

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“A LONG MARRIAGE IS TWO PEOPLE TRYING TO DANCE A DUET AND TWO SOLOS AT THE SAME TIME.” — ANNE TAYLOR FLEMING, AMERICAN JOURNALIST, ESSAYIST

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GETTING THE LICENSE Taos County Clerk’s Office 105 Albright Street, Taos.

(575) 737-6380.

Monday-Friday, 8 a.m.-5 p.m.

OFFICIATE RESOURCES Rev. Sandra Chestnutt Interfaith mintister of walking prayer (575) 779-4253 earthwalkmedicine.com Susan Carpenter Sims Enchanted Circle Ceremonies Ordained minister through Universal Life Church and a Life Cycle Celebrant

(575) 770-3946 susanthescribe@gmail.com enchantedcircleceremonies.com Rev. Susan Varon Interfaith, non-denominational minister (575) 751-1452 susanintaos@juno.com taosweddings.org Local Names and Numbers phone book under Wedding Chapels and Ceremonies, the Taos County Clerk’s Office and the Spiritual Directory found weekly in the C Section of The Taos News.

have a licensed or ordained clergy person or a judge. No one else is recognized as a legal officiate by the state.

that two witnesses, other than

And be sure to remember

become official until it is filed

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the officiate, must sign the marriage license. After the officiant signs the license, it doesn’t

at the county clerk’s office.

Don’t forget to spread the good news from your engagement to the wedding. On pages 52 and 54 are announcement forms you can fill out and bring into The Taos News, 226 Albright St., just down the road from the Taos County Clerk’s Office. And if you’re celebrating an anniversary of 40 or more years, send a brief 50-word email and “now and then” photographs (if you choose to) to Editor Damon Scott at editor@taosnews.com.

All announcements are free of charge.

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will likely surprise and impress your guests and be a fun pre-wedding activity for you and your partner.

REACH OUT TO FRIENDS AND FAMILY Don’t think twice about reaching out to friends and family for assistance. Correspond their proficiencies with your needs, and watch your to-do list dwindle. Never forget: These people love you and want to participate in your special day. Plus, delegating tasks will reduce your stress, and that’s always a good thing.

PONDER A NO-PHONE WEDDING A smartphone can be found in just about everyone’s hand these days. While well intentioned, many guests may not hesitate to jockey for a good position in which to take a picture or video during a memorable ceremony moment. More active shutters may provide a varied stockpile of images and videos. However, too many “photographers” in the room can backfire when a guest inadvertently steps in front of the professional photographer to capture a one-chance candid moment. And recognize how many photos might end up on social media sites before you’ve had a chance to look at them. Also, consider asking your guests to refrain from using their cameras altogether or at certain times. Include this

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request in your invitation or ask your officiant to make an announcement at the beginning of the ceremony.

SHARE GUEST PHOTOS WITH A UNIQUE HASHTAG On the flip side of an “unplugged” ceremony, if you don’t mind your guests capturing photos or videos with their phones, create a unique hashtag and share it with them. They can then upload images using your custom hashtag for followers to view. Be sure to make your hashtag easy to remember and original.

AVOID LIQUOR STICKER SHOCK Celebration and liquor often go hand in hand. But it’s easy for the bar budget to reach its maximum faster than anticipated. Ask the caterer to stop serving liquor once your budget limit has peaked. Request that your caterer check with you (or someone you designate) about continuing a free bar — if you are OK with spending more money than originally allotted.

REQUEST A MIDNIGHT SNACK As the bride and groom, bride and bride or groom and groom, you will be very busy socializing at your wedding reception and may not get much to eat. Ask your caterer to prepare a special to-go box of reception food that you can enjoy later.

— Compiled by Scott Gerdes

THINK ABOUT THE CHILDREN If you know there will be children at your wedding reception, consider offering a special buffet or menu with kid-friendly food, drinks and desserts. Some tabletop activities at the ready, like coloring books, puzzles or board games, will help keep them content and occupied, and parents will no doubt be appreciative of your efforts.

“WHAT COUNTS IN MAKING A HAPPY MARRIAGE IS NOT SO MUCH HOW COMPATIBLE YOU ARE BUT HOW YOU DEAL WITH INCOMPATIBILITY.” — LEO TOLSTOY, RUSSIAN AUTHOR

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THE OTHER ‘I DO’S’ (OR MAYBE ‘I DON’TS’)

SOME IDEAS TO CONSIDER WHEN PLANNING YOUR WEDDING

“A SUCCESFUL MARRIAGE REQUIRES FALLING IN LOVE MANY TIMES, ALWAYS WITH THE SAME PERSON.” — MINGON MCLAUGHLIN, AMERICAN JOURNALIST, AUTHOR

RUSTIC-THEMED WEDDINGS ARE ALL THE RAGE.

HOST A HOMETOWN PARTY If Taos is your destination wedding, think about hosting a reception in your hometown for family and friends who cannot travel. It’s a considerate way to include as many people as humanly possible in your celebration.

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KNOW VENUE RESTRICTIONS Use of candles or open flames is often non-negotiable.

Inquire with staff at your ceremony and reception locations to learn of any restrictions regarding flower arrangements or other decorations.

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EXPLORE THE TRENDS Rustic chic and elegant appointments are the trends of last year’s and this year’s wedding seasons (May through October in Taos), said Celebrations Event Rentals owner Liz Walsh Gilroy.

Detail elements such as burlap table covers, wood, lace,

succulents and barn-themed ceremonies are catching brides’ eyes.

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“THE MOST SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGES, GAY OR STRAIGHT, EVEN IF THEY BEGIN IN ROMANTIC LOVE, OFTEN BECOME FRIENDSHIPS. IT’S THE ONES THAT BECOME THE FRIENDSHIPS THAT LAST.” POETIC IMAGES BY DEANNA

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— not so fancy or busy. And wooden presentation bases have become more popular.”

Also popular, she continued, are cakes featuring a lace design, for example — to reflect the bride’s dress.

Lucero recommends that couples should order their cake about six months in advance, to a year out for out-of-towners. She also highly recommends saving the top tier or a slice or two for later.

Lucero has heard many a story about the couple being so busy socializing that they miss out on enjoying a whole piece of cake.

To freeze slices or the top tier of your cake — or not to freeze — largely depends

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upon the cake’s ingredients.

Because of dairy and eggs, most cakes have to be frozen to prevent spoilage. Keep in mind that fondant cakes or cakes made with citrus curd layers preserve better than alternatives.

This may not cross your mind, but how the cake is served also determines whether it’s worth saving any of it for posterity. The most risk to your cake becoming a bacteria magnet occurs when it is transported to an event location. Was it out on the table for eight hours in the sun at the park and then wrapped up? If yes, you’re risking contamination. No amount of freezing will kill bacteria.

If you’re hosting your event at a catering hall that’s around 68 degrees inside, it’s less

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likely to take on tons of extra bacteria during the ceremony and reception.

Wrapping your cake correctly also greatly makes a difference. The actual freezing process is not usually the problem; it’s that most people don’t wrap the cake properly.

Moisture is the enemy when it comes to freezing. It is recommended that you wrap it as tightly as possible — there’s no such thing as overwrapping — so that no additional moisture or bacteria collects on the cake. Every time you open and close the freezer, you let moisture in and poorly protected cake risks getting freezer burn. Still, it’s true that cakes are great candidates for freezing if you control for contamination and freezer burn before preserving.

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The consensus among expert bakers is to eat the saved cake at your first-year anniversary, but not beyond then. The decorative flowers, made out of sugar paste, basically last forever. Sugar without moisture doesn’t spoil.

As your first-year anniversary nears, don’t just take a slice or an entire tier from your freezer and put it on your counter to defrost. A day or two before the anniversary, move it to the refrigerator (still covered). After it’s defrosted, remove it from the fridge and let it come to room temperature (still wrapped). You’ll also be eliminating that soft outside, frozen inside problem.

Remember: Memories last a lifetime; frosted cakes do not.

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HAVING YOUR CAKE AND EATING IT, TOO

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By Scott Gerdes

h, the wedding cake — the oftentiered bakery marvel lavished with frosting and sugary details that look more like art than food. The wedding cake is a staple of any ceremony, and its cutting is often a highlight moment. Whether or not you shove a bite into your spouse’s mouth or not is entirely up to you, but the cake itself should be a reflection of you both.

From elegant to geometric, cake designs and flavors are as numerous and varied as every couple is unique. Like the other elements of your wedding, the cake should also be a reflection of your style and your wedding’s theme.

However, like all aspects of planning a wedding, one must take cost into consideration when exploring cake options — some elements are more costly than others, like sugar flowers whose individual petals must be created by hand. The time of year and venue also need to be considered.

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A fondant cake (in the culinary arts, the word “fondant” refers to two types of sugar-based pastes used in preparing and decorating cakes, pastries and confections) would be a better choice than the traditional buttercream icing if you’re planning on an outdoor summer wedding. Fondant doesn’t melt as easily.

With 30-plus years of experience and a genuine love of designing cakes, Jocelyn Lucero of Jocelyn’s Cakes in Taos has helped create the perfect cake for many couples. Finding out the wedding theme and feel of the day, how many tiers (tied to how many servings needed), flavors, fillings and exterior design are all covered during a consultation, which lasts about an hour, Lucero explained.

“The first question I ask is, ‘During the last wedding you attended, do you remember the cake?’” she said.

Over the years, she has noticed many trends, and those trends often change

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LOCAL CAKE DESIGNERS/ BAKERS CAKES BY MARIEL (575) 770-0855 facebook.com/cakesbymariel JOCELYN’S CAKES (575) 751-6281 jocelyncakes@msn.com taosweddingcakes.com ROCHELLE WOOLLARD (505) 604-7889 chef.rochelle@live.com ALBERTSONS (575) 758-1250 SMITH’S Limited to smaller cakes (575) 758-3711 SUPER SAVE DISCOUNT FOODS (575) 751-2801 from year to year. Rustic cake designs and more vintage styles are popular these days.

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WEDDING ANNOUNCEMENT The marriage of (spouse 1) of (town) to (spouse 2) (date) occurred in (location): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ (Clergyman, other) officiated in the double/single ring ceremony: ____________________________________________________ Spouse 1’s parents are from: ____________________________________________________ Spouse 2’s parents are from: ____________________________________________________ The (location) was decorated with (altar, flowers, candles, other): ____________________________________________________ Music was provided by (organist, soloist, other): ____________________________________________________ Spouse 1 wore (simple description of the formal wear, including unusual or traditional elements):

Best man was (name) of (town), (relationship to couple): ____________________________________________________ Groomsmen were (names, towns, relationships): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ Flowergirl was (name) of (town), (relationship to couple): ____________________________________________________ Ringbearer was (name) of (town), (relationship to couple): ____________________________________________________

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The wedding cake was (description of cake):

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The maid/matron of honor was (name) of (town), (relationship to couple):

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____________________________________________________ Bridesmaids were (names, towns, relationships): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________

Spouse 1 is employed at: ____________________________________________________ Spouse 2 is employed at: ____________________________________________________ Signature and telephone number of responsible party:

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ENGAGEMENT ANNOUNCEMENT The engagement of (spouse-to-be 1) of (town) to (spouse-to-be 2) of (town) has been announced: ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ Spouse-to-be 1’s parents are (names) of (town): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ A (date, month, season) wedding is planned at (location): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ Spouse-to-be 1 is a graduate of/attends (high school, vocational school, college): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ Spouse-to-be 1 is a member of (clubs, affiliations): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ Spouse-to-be 1 is employed by (employer): ____________________________________________________

Spouse-to-be 2 is a member of (clubs, affiliations): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ Spouse-to-be 2 is employed by (employer): ____________________________________________________ Signature and telephone number of responsible party: ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________ Note: Engagements and weddings are published in The Taos News as space permits. Please bring information into The Taos News offices a month before the wedding. Announcements may be accompanied by a photograph of the bride or couple. Color photos are preferred, although black and white is acceptable. If neither the bride nor groom is a Taos-area resident, list the nearest relative living in the Taos area. Email is the preferred method for receiving announcements. Send email to editor@taosnews.com.

Spouse-to-be 2 is the child of (names) of (town):

Or, mail forms and photos to: The Taos News, P.O. Box 3737, Taos, NM 87571.

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Attn: Engagement (or wedding) announcements

____________________________________________________ Spouse-to-be 2 is a graduate of/attends (high school, vocational school, college): ____________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________

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final value or purchase price.

Also, caterers may or may not include tableware and linen within their quotes, so make sure you run this past them, as it’s not something you want to have to find extra money for right before the wedding.

5. LET YOUR GLUTEN-SOYVEGAN-PALEO FLAG FLY HIGH … BUT DON’T MAKE GRANDPA WAVE IT The time to let your caterer know about special dietary needs or restrictions is the sooner the better. The sooner he or she knows about your peanut allergy or dislike of 48

cilantro, the more seamlessly your caterer can work around it. Besides, such information can help create a menu that’s a nice reflection of you and your partner’s personal style, whether quirky or traditional.

This is not, however, a time or excuse to push your beliefs or restrictions on the rest of your guests. Thankfully, there’s a happy medium. Skilled caterers will work to make the food reflective of the couple’s tastes and style, while ensuring it’s also widely palatable.

6. CONDUCT THE TASTING IN SEASON Many caterers won’t conduct a formal tasting until they’ve been booked and the

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contract is signed —this is less a chance for them to woo you than it is for you both to create the menu of your dreams.

And don’t be shocked if your caterer charges for the tasting.

Conducting a full-scale tasting without cutting corners is one of the most important parts of the process, so both the customer and the caterer should take it seriously.

It’s also a good idea to conduct the tasting in or as close to the season in which the wedding will take place.

Your caterer’s to-die-for heirloom tomato salad may be the best thing on the menu, but you’d never know it if you taste it in December. If that’s

not possible, at least try the basic elements of a dish. The fresh basil pesto may not be as good as it will be on the day of your wedding, but at least you’ll know if he or she can roast a chicken thigh to perfection.

7. DON’T SETTLE A good caterer will listen and thereby should just get you. Seriously, you waited for years to find your spouse-tobe, so don’t settle on the first caterer you meet (unless it’s true love at first taste). Sure, any caterer worth their weight in prime rib will do their best to win you over, but it should never feel force-fed. —Compiled by Scott Gerdes

FALLING IN LOVE — WITH YOUR CATERER H iring a caterer can be one of the most challenging missions when planning a wedding. After all, as the seasons come and go, it may slip guests’ minds that the DJ played “Celebration”

by Kool & the Gang multiple times, but they’ll remember the food — for better or worse.

Read on to make sure you’re not setting yourself up for any catering bloopers.

LOCAL CATERERS ACEQ (575) 776-0900 aceqrestaurant.com

1. RESEARCH THE VENUE There are two styles of wedding venues: all-inclusive ones with on-site caterers and those that allow for outside vendors to handle the food. If you have your heart set on a specific independent caterer and a banquet hall that doesn’t allow outside food, you’ve got a dilemma unless you’re working with that kind of budget.

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2. AVAILABILITY First and foremost, you need to see if your caterer is available on your preferred date. It is also imperative to inquire about the booking and payment process. Be sure to understand at what point your date becomes set in stone and when payments are expected.

Ideally, you should start researching and meeting with caterers at least nine months before your ceremony.

ACEQ also hosts weddings and receptions (capacity about 60).

The Bavarian Lodge & Restaurant (575) 776-8020 skitaos.com Brett House Catering (575) 776-1919 bretthousecatering.com

El Gamal (575) 613-0311 elgamaltaos.com El Monte Sagrado Living Resort & Spa (575) 758-3502 3. FIRST IMPRESSIONS CARRY WEIGHT A glossy brochure or beautiful website describing delectable cuisine can easily get your attention, but it takes a lot more than pretty pictures and good writing — someone has to actually cook it.

It isn’t until you get face (or phone) time with the caterer that you can really know what he or she is all about and vice versa. When selecting a caterer, you are not only seeking excellent fare, but also exemplary service and the ability to

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Sabroso also hosts weddings and receptions.

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Brigita Lacovara (575) 779-8810 blacovara@gmail.com Ranchos Plaza Grill (575) 758-5788 facebook.com/ranchosplazagrill Ricky’s Comidas Nuevo Mexicanas (575) 758-1156 facebook.com/RickysRestaurantComidasNuevoMexicanas work with the enormity of the details involved in your big day.

If your caterer doesn’t offer food at the meeting, take note because this is the first opportunity to express their style.

4. ESTABLISH AN HONEST BUDGET Creating and understanding your budget before seeking a caterer can help you steer clear of major disappointment and stress. Based on your means, a caterer will help you determine what’s doable and

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what’s outside the realm of possibility. Ask about available options — the caterer should be able to provide a menu to suit your needs.

Educate yourself on what is and what isn’t included in the price, as this can often vary from one caterer to the next.

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door wedding of 80 to 100 guests. Caterers will find it easy to access the lawn along the river and serve dinner under the shade trees. There are outdoor electrical outlets with an area for a dance floor and band.

Call (617) 947-9016 or go online to riverparadiseweddings.com.

Sabroso Restaurant & Bar This restaurant is housed in a historic 150-year-old adobe hacienda in the tiny village of Arroyo Seco and is halfway between Taos Plaza and Taos Ski Valley. Customized menus can be created to meet your culinary needs and desires — Chef Timothy has catered more than 400 weddings in his career. Sabroso’s accommodating staff will provide everything for your special event, from flowers to cakes to custom menus. Choose the setting of your dreams — fireside, on the patio or in the plum grove under the stars.

Call (575) 776-3333 or go online to sabrosotaos.com.

Taos Art Museum at Fechin House The grounds are comprised of the Fechin house, studio and gardens. The setting includes 3 acres of exquisite landscaping, a beautiful artists’ studio and expansive flagstone patio. Living history and vibrant creative energy abound. This historic property is a stunning jewel of architecture built by Russian 46

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master woodworker and artist Nicolai Fechin. This venue can accommodate up to 150 people.

Call (575) 758-2690 or visit taosartmuseum.org.

Taos Convention Center Coronado Hall offers the El Alcade, Los Angelitos and El Taoseño rooms available for rent providing a variety of options for wedding parties of up to 75 people each. In addition, two patios supply more than 5,400 square feet of open-air space.

Call (575) 737-2617 or visit taosconventioncenter.com.

Taos Goji Eco Lodge and Farm Approximately 30 miles north of Taos in San Cristobal, the Taos Goji Eco Lodge and Farm offers 40 gorgeous acres of land, a 1,600-square-foot open, rustic barn, cabins and a 500-square-foot dining area in the old San Cristobal Trading Post.

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provides some of the most stunning vistas and secluded pockets in the Southern Rockies. Whether asking your wedding party to hike to Williams Lake or you find the perfect clearing near a road, if there are more than 15 people in your party, you’ll need to get a special-use permit for a nominal fee. The CNF office in Taos is located at 208 Cruz Alta Road.

For more information, call (575) 758-6200.

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Call (575) 776-3971 or go online to taosgoji.com.

Taos Tennis at Quail Ridge Located just minutes north of Taos in El Prado, Taos Tennis at Quail Ridge has 6,000 square feet of building space and 7.5 acres at its disposal for which to hold a wedding reception. This includes a large and a small conference room, a large and a small patio and a .3-acre park.

Call 1-800-624-4448, (575) 776-2211 or go online to taostennis.com.

Touchstone Inn This is a secluded inn (circa 1800) close to everything Taos. Choose among many special sites in gardens bordering Taos Pueblo lands.

Touchstone Inn is located on Mabel Dodge Lane.

Call (575) 758-0192 or go online to touchstoneinn.com.

Carson National Forest Spanning 1.5 million acres within the Enchanted Circle, Carson National Forest (CNF)

HOT AIR BALLOON WEDDINGS Exchanging vows in a hot air balloon is the ultimate wedding for those who love the free feeling of the great outdoors and wide-open spaces while peacefully floating somewhere in between the tree tops and heaven.

Eske’s Paradise Balloons (575) 751-6098 taosballooning.com Pueblo Balloon (575) 751-9877 puebloballoon.com Taos Balloon Rides (575) 224-6022 taosballoonrides.com INDEPENDENT EVENT PLANNERS Celebrations Event Rentals (575) 758-8463 taoscelebrates.com Zia Event Design (full-service coordination) (575) 779-9008 ziaeventdesign.com For more recommendations, ask at your venue or caterer.

Taos Goji can host your Wedding Ceremony and Reception along with offering accommodations for your guests. Our all inclusive packages include open barn weddings, and can make your dream destination wedding a reality. Our gorgeous 40 acre property runs through majestic San Cristobal valley with open fields and a Sangre de Cristo mountain backdrop.

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foot siting room. Capacity in the dining room is up to 100 guests seated. No self-catering. The center is located at 110 Witt Road.

Call (575) 751-3776 or visit blueskyretreatcenter.com.

Casa Benavides Inn This art-infused bed-andbreakfast is located in the heart of Taos and is within easy walking distance of Historic Taos Plaza on Kit Carson Road.

Call (575) 758-1772 or visit casabenavides.com.

Casa Gallina Casa Gallina is located just five minutes from historic Taos Plaza at 609/613 Callejon in a quiet, pastoral, farmland setting. The peaceful inn is home to more than 40 happy hens who reside in their own mudded adobe hen house.

Ceremonies can be held with up to 30 guests.

Call (575) 758-2306 or go online to casagallina.net.

Columbine Inn This locally owned inn at Taos Ski Valley boasts stunning mountain views galore.

Columbine Inn specializes in outdoor ceremonies of up to 75 people. Lodging, meals and transportation can be provided.

Call 1-888-884-5723, (575) 776-5723 or visit online at columbineinn.com.

Edelweiss Lodge and Spa For 40 years, the original Edelweiss Lodge was a

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floor got to bouncing. There is a restaurant, but no on-site catering due to kitchen capacity.

Weddings up to 150 guests in the hall.

Call (575) 758-3003, email booking@oldmartinashall.com or visit oldmartinashall.com.

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fixture in Taos Ski Valley. The Edelweiss is a luxury vacation condominium resort that was built in the same central location next to Strawberry Hill. The Club Room is an ideal location for small events, such as a rehearsal dinner, with seating up to 30 people, an integrated sound system, wireless and ethernet internet and audio-visual facilities.

Call 1-800-458-8754, (575) 737-6900 or go online to edelweisslodgeandspa.com.

Ghost Ranch Ancient cottonwoods and apple trees cradled by unique ancient cliff formations, this beautiful area in Abiquiú about two hours west from Taos that inspired celebrated artist Georgia O’Keeffe is an otherworldly spot for nuptials.

The accommodations are on the rustic side (no telephones or TVs), but the casitas offer spectacular views.

Call 1-800-804-4678, (505) 685-1000 or go online to ghostranch.org.

Hacienda del Sol USA Today rated Hacienda del Sol as “one of the most romantic inns in the U.S.” Spectacular courtyard garden venue with the majestic Taos

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Mountain as the backdrop, indoor/outdoor reception/ dining area, with menus prepared by professional owner/ master chef, plus luxurious accommodations for the bridal party and their families.

This bed-and-breakfast has a full-service wedding package.

Weddings for up to 100 guests.

Call 1-866-333-4459, (575) 758-0287 or go online to taoshaciendadelsol.com.

Old Martina’s Hall A landmark on 4140 State Highway 68, Ranchos de Taos, across from the famous adobe church, San Francisco de Asís. Old Martina’s Hall features a large dance floor and state-of-the-art equipment.

With a rich musical history, Old Martina’s Hall has long been at the center of life in the Taos community. Before owner Martina Gebhardt replaced the old wooden floor with a new oak dance floor, locals would know how good the band was by how much the

Ojo Caliente Mineral Springs Resort and Spa About one hour southwest from Taos, historic Ojo Caliente offers the only surviving round barn in New Mexico, not to mention breathtaking views, legendary mineral pools and a variety of accommodations from suites to cottages.

Call 1-800-222-9162 or visit ojospa.com.

Palacio de Marquesa Located in a quiet, treelined residential Taos neighborhood, this luxury-minded property is a great place for smaller, more intimate weddings and bridal showers.

Its eight rooms are themed from the inspiration of some of Northern New Mexico’s most notable women artists, such as Georgia O’Keeffe, Millicent Rogers and Mabel Dodge Luhan. Packages and specials are available.

Call 1-855-846-8267, (575) 758-4777 or go online to marquesataos.com.

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for a full-service option from rehearsal dinner to morning-after brunch, the Red River Conference Center is available to suit your every wedding need.

The Red River Conference Center is located in the center of Red River behind Brandenburg Park, at the base of the Red River Ski Area along the river for which the town is named. You and your guests will enjoy amazing scenery and wildlife along with the convenience of being within walking distance of everything in town.

Call the conference center at (575) 754-1708, visit redriver.org or contact event planners Dally Up at (575) 754-1757 or online at dallyupevents.com.

Sagebrush Inn & Suites The historic Taos landmark’s scenic grounds offer graceful portals, patios and traditional brick walkways connecting courtyards ideal for gathering, all with stunning views of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains.

Sagebrush Inn & Suites offers multiple indoor and outdoor spaces and in-house catering accommodating celebrations ranging from an intimate group of 12 up to 800 guests. The inn also provides professional event planners.

Call 1-800-428-3626 or go online to sagebrushinn.com for more information.

Taos Country Club The Taos Country Club (TCC) is a 12,500-square-

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foot facility with full-service catering and full bar. There are multiple indoor and outdoor ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner locations on the property. TCC can accommodate up to 500 guests.

More than just a golf course with spectacular 360-degree views and breathtaking sunsets, TCC also offers on-site catering and an experienced “day-of” wedding planner.

Taos Country Club is located at 54 Golf Course Drive, Ranchos de Taos.

Call (575) 758-7300 or visit taoscountryclub.com.

Taos Mesa Brewing Taos Mesa Brewing is a microbrewery, restaurant and indoor/outdoor “brewclub” on the spectacular Taos Mesa, providing incredible sunset views. The venue has one indoor stage and two outdoor stages. Since its inception four years ago, Taos Mesa Brewing has hosted 13 weddings and numerous special events.

The capacity is 500 standing, 130 seated at tables.

Call (575) 758-1900 or go online to taosmesabrewing.

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com.

SMALLER VENUES ACEQ The capacity at this outstanding farm-to-table restaurant is about 60. As a bonus, owner and sommelier Michael “Red” Wagener is ordained with the Universal Life Church.

ACEQ is located in charming Arroyo Seco — just a hop, skip and a jump from Taos.

For more information, call (575) 776-0900 or visit aceqrestaurant.com.

Adobe & Pines Inn This charming bed-andbreakfast is a luxurious, romantic and beautiful 1832 adobe hacienda nestled in a country setting. The inn features two intimate courtyards along with a grassy meadow for a larger reception and a grove of trees perfect for party lights. Plus, there is a large labyrinth with a small waterfall in the center that symbolizes the journey of life — a spot where many couples chose to

say “I do.” The inn is located in Ranchos de Taos, just 4 miles south of Taos Plaza.

Weddings up to 100 guests.

Call 1-800-828-0947, (575) 751-0947 or go online to adobepines.com.

Alpine Village Suites Conveniently located just steps from Taos Ski Valley’s lifts, restaurants, nightlife and shopping, the conference room is perfect for receptions, rehearsal dinners or bachelor/bachelorette parties.

Call 1-800-576-2666 or visit alpine-suites.com.

Blue Sky Retreat at San Geronimo Blue Sky Retreat has been the site of many a romantic wedding moment with events ranging from elegant and intimate to whimsical and fun. The venue offers large common rooms with kiva-style fireplaces a 51-square-foot dining room, a 38-square-foot living room and a 22-square~CONTINUED ON PAGE 44

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“WE’RE ALL A LITTLE WEIRD. AND LIFE IS A LITTLE WEIRD. AND WHEN WE FIND SOMEONE WHOSE WEIRDNESS IS COMPATIBLE WITH OURS, WE JOIN UP WITH THEM AND FALL INTO MUTUALLY SATISFYING WEIRDNESS — AND CALL IT LOVE — TRUE LOVE.” — ROBERT FULGHUM, AMERICAN AUTHOR AND UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST MINISTER

and plenty of parking space.

The indoor capacity is 400 people for a reception and 125 seated for dinner. The outdoor lawn, which provides beautiful views of Taos Mountain, can accommodate approximately 600 people.

On-site officiate: the Rev. Paddy Mac. Call (575) 758-5826 or go online to ktao.com.

Taos Ski Valley Can you see your wedding party riding a chairlift on its way to your nuptials held outside in the arms of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains?

Or are you looking for a more quaint Alpine ambience? In either case, Taos Ski Valley — just 18 miles north of Taos — is an idyllic place to hold your ceremony. The Bavarian Lodge & Restaurant provides unique old-world German charm and opulence. The Bavarian also offers catering.

With a number of lodging options to boot, such as the new hotel The Blake at Taos Ski Valley, you may not want to venture very far. The events experts at the village or resort can help your Alpine indoor or outdoor wedding dreams come to life.

To contact the village of Taos Ski Valley, call 1-800517-9816 or go online to taosskivalley.com. To contact the Taos Ski Valley resort, call 1-866-968-7386 or visit skitaos.com.

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aos has no shortage of natural beauty, historic churches and unique venues in which to exchange vows and celebrate with family and friends. The hardest part may not be the planning of your ceremony, but the choosing of which place it will be held.

For church listings, look in the local “Names and Numbers” phone book yellow pages under “churches” or see the “Spiritual Directory” found weekly in the C Section of The Taos News.

If your heart’s desire is a backyard ceremony, in some other outdoor space or any place in which you will need tables, chairs, tent, dance floor and more (even a bounce house, if that’s your thing), contact Liz Walsh Gilroy at Celebrations Event Rentals by calling (575) 758-8463 or go online to taoscelebrates.com.

Some venues have on-site event planners. If your perfect place doesn’t, no worries — there are experts out there who can take over on your big day. As Walsh Gilroy recommends, “You can plan your wedding, but it’s not a good idea for you to execute it. You need to be enjoying the moment with family and friends instead of worrying about where the lights go.” A resource of independent, local

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event planners can be found at the end of the venue list.

LARGER VENUES El Monte Sagrado This “living resort and spa” has a variety of customized and regular wedding packages and a “wedding team” to help make your planning and your special day seamless. In the heart of Taos, the lushness of El Monte Sagrado offers a dream destination for couples who envision a wedding, commitment ceremony or reception surrounded by views of mountains, waterfalls, ponds and towering

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80-year-old cottonwoods.

El Monte Sagrado was built around “The Sacred Circle” — revered by Native Americans for hundreds of years.

Today, The Sacred Circle serves as a meditation spot, contemplative promenade and a location in which to perform the sacred rite of marriage. Brides and grooms can choose to affirm their commitment in an intimate ceremony in The Sacred Circle or, for larger wedding parties, indulge in the Río Grande Ballroom, which can accommodate 400 guests. There is an array of rooms and settings

from which to choose, from the intimacy of the library to the Grand Bohemian Gallery overlooking aspen trees and waterfalls. El Monte’s Romance Suite is the icing on your big day. Pricing details, amenities and packages are detailed online in El Monte’s wedding packet.

Call 1-855-846-8267, (575) 758-3502 or go online to elmontesagrado.com.

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practicing traditional families.

During the ceremony, it was customary to tie a faja (sash) around the couple, who knelt before the altar. This signified that they were now symbolically enfaciados (belted together).

At the reception, it was customary for a male relative to sing the entriega, verses explaining to the couple their responsibilities to each other.

Kneeling humbly before the troubadour, the couple sometimes had to listen to many verses. If the singer was talented at composing rhyming lyrics, the entriega could go on for a while.

Then it was typically time for La Marcha, a type of wedding march where all attending danced in two intertwining lines and concentric circles honoring the bride and groom. The music then changed to a waltz and all the men and women took turns pinning a dollar to either the bride or the groom signifying a dance with them.

But it’s the tradition of el trivilín that Jerry said was the “most fun” and likely made for a “nervous” groom. In some parts of the country, this is known by other names similar to “shiveree.” Once the bride was abducted, it was the job of the best man and ushers to ransom her back. Usually, this was done before the couple left on their honeymoon. The price was the promise to provide for a dance, food 34

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and beverages in the near future.The La Marcha custom is still en vogue in Taos, and

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o understand the traditional Hispano way of bringing about a fun, culture-driven and time-honored wedding, you have to start at the beginning — the courtship.

As told to me many moons ago by Jerry Padilla — my late friend and longtime Spanish section editor at The Taos News — once relatives got wind of a romantic relationship, elder males in the boy’s family, such as a father or grandfather, were enlisted to start the formalities. A polite letter was written to the girl’s family, inviting them to dinner.

Often the elder would hand deliver the invite, promptly leaving to give the family time to consider the union. This was known as pedir la novia (to ask for the bride-to-be.)

Praise of the potential brideto-be was a main focus in such a letter and should her family agree it was a good idea to become relatives by allowing their beautiful princess to be wed to a humble, hardworking, etc., prospective groom, to please reply by coming to dinner.

If no was the answer, the girl’s family would find a large pumpkin and discreetly leave it at the boy’s family’s door-

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step. Giving a pumpkin to politely refuse was known as dando calabaza.

Conversely, if the girl’s family accepted the invitation, they

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sent an equally polite letter back stating they would be honored to have their humble daughter become a part of such a distinguished family.

Once a date for dinner was agreed upon, the happening often became an engagement party, or prendorio. After that, the wedding details were worked out, allowing time for the pending nuptials to be announced at church on three consecutive Sundays, known as correr tres banas.

As the big day drew near,

the groom was required to give the novia a ride in a wheelbarrow from her home to the church. This was done to prove he could handle the load (responsibility) he was taking on. Even in remote rural areas, there was likely a capilla (chapel) where the wedding would take place — and with any luck, she didn’t live far from it. I remember Jerry telling me that he had never heard of any groom failing to fulfill this expectation, among ~CONTINUED ON PAGE 34

TAOS WEDDING EXPO 2017

KEEP TAOS LOCAL The chamber is offering this LGBT- and guy-friendly event as another in the ongoing campaign to "Keep Taos Local." The chamber campaign challenges you to "put your money where your heart is!" In that vein, CFT Décor and Gifts (formerly Country Furnishings of Taos) now offers a bridal/ gift registry. While shopping online is trendy, it isn't very personal. And sometimes online pictures just don't do items justice — especially more artsy, unique things like those found at CFT Décor and Gifts.

"People think we're just a furniture store," said CFT Décor and Gifts owner Franches-

ca Zoppe. With an inventory of costume jewelry, beeswax candles, cards with a comical edge, towels, dishes and serving bowls made by local potters, whimsical table lamps made from recycled materials, crow votives, bedding, hand-painted pillows, iron door hardware and hooks and some painted furniture, "eclectic" is an appropriate descriptor.

dustry is destination weddings to scenic, one-of-a-kind places like Taos and the Moreno Valley. That fact has proven to be an important economic driver. According to the 2015 Wedding Report, an estimated 253 weddings were held in Taos County with an average of $17,877 being spent per event.

"Even if it's a mature wedding couple, there's some whimsy and sprite to add to their home decor here, as there is for young married couples as well," Zoppe added.

The chamber works with corporate sponsors to bring this expo to the community.

Sponsorship has been provided by El Monte Sagrado, The Taos News, Leshem Diamonds and Gold, Taos Mountain Casino and the town of Taos

Another mainstay of the in-

Entry tickets are $5 at the

door. You can also register online at taosweddingexpo. com.

A fashion show will not be presented this year. For questions, go online to taosweddingexpo.com or call (575) 751-8800.

PHOTOS BY KATHARINE EGLI FROM LEFT: PEOPLE ATTENDING THE 2016 TAOS WEDDING EXPO SAMPLE PASTRIES FROM OLD MARTINA’S HALL; AS THE SAYING GOES, “DIAMONDS ARE A GIRL’S BEST FRIEND.” HUMIE LESHEM DISPLAYED A CASE FULL OF THOSE BEST FRIENDS AND PRECIOUS GEMS AT THE 2016 TAOS WEDDING EXPO; PROFESSIONAL CAKE DECORATOR AND BAKER MARIEL LOVATO SHOWS OFF HER CAKES DURING THE 2016 TAOS WEDDNG EXPO AT THE SAGEBRUSH INN CONFERENCE CENTER; GUESTS ARE TREATED TO MIMOSAS AT THE TAOS WEDDING EXPO IN 2016.

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ou found each other, and wedding bells are going to chime. Planning a wedding, whether big or small, can be a daunting task full of options and decisions. To help with that endeavor, the Taos County Chamber of Commerce will again host the Taos Wedding Expo on Saturday, Feb. 25, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at El Monte Sagrado Living Resort & Spa Conference Center, 317 Kit Carson Road.

From small ceremonies to large, the Taos Wedding Expo brings together resources to help you create your

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of Taos, Taos Ski Valley, Questa, Red River, Eagle Nest and Angel Fire.

By Scott Gerdes

wedding in Taos and the Enchanted Circle, highlighting area providers for local and destination weddings and events. This third annual gathering will showcase everything any couple needs in order to plan their dream wedding in the communities

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With a little something for everyone, the Taos Wedding Expo features exhibits and representatives from jewelers, venues, caterers, cake bakers, florists, photographers, event rentals and more in the Río Grande and Sandoval ballrooms. Enjoy food and wine tastings. View wedding fashions and chat with event planning experts. Hop into a photo booth for silly pictures.

There will also be door prizes that include a diamond ring donated by Leshem Diamonds and Gold and a

honeymoon package at El Monte Sagrado. Exhibitors will also be awarding gift card door prizes. Exhibits and door-prize drawings run the entire day of the event. The final door prize — the Leshem diamond ring — will occur at 3:30 p.m.

New this year, the Taos County Chamber of Commerce is holding a “Dress Drive.” Gently used formal dresses and accessories will be collected and priced affordably to be sold in a boutique setting to women who attend the expo. Proceeds from the sales will go to nonprofits designated by those who donate items.

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DANCE TO THE MUSIC M usic and love are what make the world and your reception go ‘round. Below is a partial listing of some local entertainers. There are many emerging DJs and musicians in the Taos area.

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DJ OLIVER KNIGHT (575) 779-5705 djoliverknight.com DJ KRIM (575) 770-9984;djkrim.com LADY DJS Christalyn Concha, aka Chrystalline, and Julia Daye, aka “Rhythm Ambassador.”

(505) 980-3387 chrystalline.wixsite.com/ ladydjs DJ LIL WILL’S CARNIVAL OF SOUND facebook.com/Lil Will’s Carnival of Sound DJ PLANEWALKER planewalker.bandcamp.com

PERFORMERS

CHIPPER THOMPSON Multi-instrumental musician and singer-songwriter performs folk, Americana and country tunes infused with a rock-’n’-roll attitude.

(575) 758-7840 chipperthompson.com CHRISTINE AUTUMN Jazz singer (575) 751-1885 christineautumn.com THE JIMMY STADLER BAND Acclaimed three-piece ensem-

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“A SIMPLE ‘I LOVE YOU’ MEANS MORE THAN MONEY.” — FRANK SINATRA

ble plays a variety of genres.

(575) 776-8234 jimmystadler.com KATY P AND THE BUSINESS Funk, soul and rock ‘n’ roll katypandthebusiness.com LAST TO KNOW Seven-piece band featuring

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disco, funk and bluegrass mixed with the “heartiest world rhythms.” lasttoknowmusic.com LAURA BULKIN Smooth, beautiful piano music for any occasion. Vast repertoire from golden oldies right up to the moment. taospiano@gmail.com OUT OF NOWHERE High-energy dance band of covers and original tunes from a range of genres, including soul, jazz, swing, R&B, blues, funk and Latin.

(505) 913-1631 outofnowhereintaos.wordpress.com

PAUL AND GRACE JONES Local musicians Paul and Grace Jones play traditional Native American flute music, drum and flamenco. Their family also builds traditional hand-carved flutes.

(575) 758-1652 facebook.com/paulandgracejones VANILLA POP “The coolest, hippest, most swingin’-est band around.”

(575) 770-2943 vanillapop.com — Compiled by Scott Gerdes

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“Magical, One of a Kind Arrangements” “Margaret, the Taos Flower Diva, creates magical one of a kind arrangements for any occasion!” ~ MEliSSa SErFling

Taos Flower Diva PHOTO BY SHAYLA EDENFIELD

Margaret Palmer Floral Design 575-741-0408

Wedding & Event Specialist Serving Taos and the Enchanted Circle

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FLOWER SPEAK F lowers aren’t just beautiful accents to your wedding; they have a language all their own. Beginning in the Victorian era, some flowers replaced words in a most romantic way.

Here is a sampling of four of the most popular “triedand-true” wedding flowers (according to theknot.com) and their wedding-appropriate meanings.

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The colors, shapes and scents of flowers are added impact to any wedding.

Choosing the right flowers for bouquets, corsages, boutonnieres and arrangements comes down to personal taste, season and even location of your ceremony.

In the Taos environs, wildflowers, sage and sunflowers are naturally abundant. Local florists also have portfolios of other flowers and a choice of arrangements.

— Compiled by Scott Gerdes 1. ROSE Meaning: Red signifies love, beauty, respect and courage; dark red means unconscious beauty; white represents happy love; pink symbolizes gentility, femininity, elegance and refinement; yellow means joy, gladness, friendship and promise of a new beginning; and red and white placed together signifies unity.

Best for: Bouquets, corsages, boutonnieres and arrangements

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In season: Year-round Price range: Moderate to expensive 2. TULIP Meaning: Love, passion Best for: Arrangements and bouquets In season: Late spring Price range: Expensive 3. CALLA LILY Meaning: Magnificent beauty Best for: Bouquets and arrangements, such as tall centerpieces In season: Year-round, peak in winter to late spring Price range: Moderate to expensive

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LOCAL FLORISTS/FLORAL DESIGNERS BUDS CUT FLOWERS & MORE (575) 758-3555 budscutflowersandmore.com

MARGARET PALMER FLORAL DESIGN (575) 741-0408 taosflowerdiva.com

THE ENCHANTED FLORIST (575) 758-3030 taosflorist.com

TAOS FLORAL DESIGNS (575) 737-0245 taosfloraldesigns.com

ELEGANTE FLORALS (575) 741-0637 eleganteflorals.com 4. LILY OF THE VALLEY Meaning: Linked to the Norse goddess of springtime, Ostara; also means “return to happiness and delicacy.”

Best for: Bouquets and to infuse a centerpiece In season: Year-round in limited quantities, peak in spring Price range: Expensive