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Lovers loving Taos

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TABLE OF CONTENTS 6 A LICENSE TO WED:

Making your union legal 8 WOW VOWS: Los Alamos author writes your wedding pledge 10 NO DROP IN THE BUCKET: Average costs for wedding goods and services in Taos, and who pays 14 WEDDED BLISS: What married people want

30 FOR THE LOVE OF FOOD

CHRIS BAKER | PUBLISHER

32 DANCE THE NIGHT

SCOTT GERDES | SPECIAL SECTIONS EDITOR

AWAY

ANDY NICOLAIS | LEAD DESIGNER

34 SOMEWHERE OLD,

STACI MATLOCK | MANAGING EDITOR

SOMEWHERE NEW, SOMEWHERE WITH A FABULOUS VIEW: Love your location 40 PICTURES OF YOU

16 THE ICING ON THE CAKE

DISHES: Local registry options 43 A WEDDING CHECKLIST:

Success is the sum of details

so uniquely Taos 22 A HUMANIST APPROACH TO WEDDINGS

STAFF

ROBIN MARTIN | OWNER

42 WEDDING WISHES AND

Weddings for all walks of life,

— Scott Gerdes, special sections editor

26 FLOWER-SPEAK

newlyweds to know

18 NEW MEXICO NUPTIALS:

aos is one of the most beautiful and spiritual places on Earth, making it also one of the most romantic. Local writer Virginia Clark once penned: “It is here that the elements of earth, fire, water and air conspire with the human heart to create the most benevolent atmosphere imaginable for auspicious beginnings, which is why so many couples are instinctively drawn to wed in Taos.” And she’s right. Couples come from all over the world to be blessed by Taos’ verve. And whether you live in Northern New Mexico or come from afar, now it’s your turn. Published yearly by The Taos News, this handy guide aims to serve as your Taos wedding resource no matter the season, no matter whether you envision a big bash or an intimate ceremony, no matter if you prefer a traditional or a unique ceremony, and no matter your budget. Taos has an unlimited natural and spiritual canvas on which to create your perfect day. Congratulations! May you fall in love with Taos and with each other many times over.

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LEGALITIES

A license to wed MAKING YOUR UNION LEGAL

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hen planning a wedding, it’s important not to let things slip your mind — particularly the legal aspects of a union. Thankfully, getting a marriage license is simple in New Mexico. It’s also inclusive — in December 2013, the New Mexico Supreme Court made marriage equality the law of the land. When visiting the Taos County Clerk’s office (taoscounty.org), be sure that you both have photo identification with your birthdate and your Social Security cards. Both partners must be present at the office to sign the application. There is a filing fee of $25. Blood tests are not required in the Land of Enchantment. The marriage license book is available at the clerk’s office and is open to the public. Whether you are local residents or not, you must attain and file a marriage license if you are married

in Taos County. New Mexico licenses are only good for in-state weddings, but the couple doesn’t have to be New Mexico residents to obtain a license. Marriage licenses are issued and valid immediately and do not expire. Taos and New Mexico laws regarding weddings are fairly customary; couples may get married as long as they have a licensed or ordained clergyperson, or a judge. No one else is recognized as a legal officiate by the state. And be sure to remember that two witnesses, other than the officiate, must sign the marriage license. After the officiant signs the license, it doesn’t become official until it is filed at the county clerk’s office within 90 days of the ceremony. — Staff Report

GETTING THE LICENSE COST: $25 FILING FEE PAID WITH CASH, DEBIT OR CREDIT CARD — NO CHECKS (PHOTO IDS AND SOCIAL SECURITY CARDS REQUIRED) WHERE: TAOS COUNTY CLERK’S OFFICE, 105 ALBRIGHT STREET, TAOS (ON THE CORNER OF ALBRIGHT AND PASEO DEL PUEBLO SUR) PHONE: (575) 737-6380 HOURS: MONDAY-FRIDAY, 8 A.M.-5 P.M.

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WEDDING COSTS

No drop in the bucket

AVERAGE COSTS FOR WEDDING GOODS AND SERVICES IN TAOS, AND WHO PAYS

ust five years ago, New York City ranked first in the average cost of a wedding in the U.S. at a whopping $65,824, according to a Reuters article. Tying the

knot in Taos, however, averaged $14,799 in 2017 as published by The Wedding Report, which is nonetheless nothing to sneeze at. To help with creating a budget for the big day and in deciding where you can save by doing it yourself, the following are the average costs for wedding goods and services (excluding rings) in Taos per The Wedding Report: SHUTTERSTOCK

ATTIRE AND ACCESSORIES • DRESS ACCESSORIES • TUXEDO/SUIT/OTHER ACCESSORIES • TUXEDO/SUIT/OTHER RENT/PURCHASE • WEDDING DRESS

GIFTS AND FAVORS $194 $89 $180 $1,057

BEAUTY AND SPA

$93

• GIFT/S FOR ATTENDANTS • GIFT/S FOR PARENTS

$110

• TIPS (FOR ALL SERVICES)

$347

• WEDDING FAVORS

$216

INVITATIONS

• HAIR SERVICE

$62

• CEREMONY PROGRAMS

• MAKEUP SERVICE

$50

• ENGAGEMENT ANNOUNCEMENTS

$106 $91

• MANICURE AND PEDICURE

$42

• GUEST BOOK

$51

• INVITATIONS AND REPLY CARDS

ENTERTAINMENT

$188 $88

• POSTAGE

$105

• DJ/MC

$556

• RECEPTION MENUS

• ENTERTAINMENT LIGHTING

$259

• SAVE THE DATE CARDS

$94

• TABLE NAME AND ESCORT/PLACE CARDS

$71

• THANK YOU CARDS

$75

• LIVE BAND • MUSICIAN/S, SOLOIST, ENSEMBLE

$1,287 $468

FLOWERS AND DECORATIONS

PHOTOGRAPHY AND VIDEO

• BOUQUETS

$297

• DIGITAL OR PHOTO CD/DVD

$259

• BOUTONNIERES, CORSAGES

$131

• ENGAGEMENT SESSION

$352

• EVENT DECORATIONS

$393

• PHOTO BOOTH

$344

• EVENT FLOWERS AND ARRANGEMENTS

$541

• PRINTS AND/OR ENLARGEMENTS

$211

• EVENT TABLE CENTERPIECES

$288

• WEDDING ALBUM/S OR PHOTO BOOK/S

$371

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• WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER

$1,429

• WEDDING VIDEOGRAPHER

$954

PLANNER/CONSULTANT • A LA CARTE SERVICES

$879

• DAY-OF COORDINATOR

$755

• FOR GETTING STARTED

$814

• FULL SERVICE

• HOTEL ROOM FOR AFTER RECEPTION

$262

• LIMO RENTAL

$401

• OTHER TRANSPORTATION

$430

• REHEARSAL DINNER

$475

• WEDDING CAKE/DESSERT

$348

$2,572

• MONTH-OF DIRECTION

$990

VENUE, CATERING AND RENTALS • CEREMONY OFFICIANT

$178

• EVENT ACCESSORIES

$271

• EVENT BAR SERVICE

$1,976

• EVENT FOOD SERVICE

$3,889

• EVENT LOCATION

$3,009

• EVENT RENTALS

$1,446

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WHO PAYS FOR WHAT?

ow that you have an idea of the typical cost of a wedding, what’s the best way to work it out? Sit down with an online assistant such as The Knot Budget Calculator on theknot.com, or put a pencil to paper, and figure out what you want and can afford. Below is the traditional breakdown (as in the bride’s versus groom’s families’ typical responsibilities) of costs for everyone involved. None of this is set in stone and times change; many couples these days are paying for the wedding themselves.

Ceremony Bride and family pay for church or synagogue, sexton, organist and so on. Groom and family pay for marriage license and officiant fee.

Pre-wedding parties

Bride and family pay for bride’s dress, veil, accessories and trousseau (lingerie and honeymoon clothes). Groom and family pay for groom’s outfit. All attendants pay for their own clothing, including shoes.

Bride’s or groom’s family plans and hosts the engagement party; if there’s more than one, the bride’s family hosts the first one. Groom’s family plans and hosts the rehearsal dinner. Maid of honor and bridesmaids host the bridal shower and bachelorette party. Best man and groomsmen host the bachelor party. Friends may throw additional engagement parties or showers.

Flowers and decorations

Reception

Wedding attire

Bride and family pay for floral arrangements for the ceremony (including a chuppah if it’s a Jewish wedding ceremony) and reception, plus bouquets and corsages for bridesmaids and flower girls. Groom and family pay for the bride’s bouquet, boutonnieres for men and corsages for mothers and grandmothers.

Honeymoon Groom and family pay for the complete honeymoon.

Photography Bride and family pay for all wedding photos and video.

Bride and family pay for all professional services, including food and decorations. Groom’s family pays for the DJ or band and liquor.

Rings Bride and/or her family pay for the groom’s ring. Groom and/or his family pay for both of the bride’s rings.

Stationery Bride and family pay for invitations, announcements and wedding programs.

Transportation Bride and family pay for wedding transportation of the wedding party to and from the ceremony and reception. — Compiled by Scott Gerdes

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ADVICE

Wedded bliss

WHAT MARRIED PEOPLE WANT NEWLYWEDS TO KNOW

RICK ROMANCITO

By Scott Gerdes

ou’re best friends. You’re in love. Now you’re making the commitment to be there for each other for the rest of your lives. But after many years of being together through life’s trials and tribulations, how do you keep that promise? Regardless of entertainment magazine and tabloid headlines and reality TV couples’ drama, marriage continues to be one of the most maturational steps people take. Maybe marriage is still desirable because human nature has an instinctive, spiritual or cultural need to partner. Besides, a healthy partnership allows for old wounds to heal and individual growth to happen, especially if each person honors

the other exactly as they are and allows them to follow their own path while continuing to strengthen their bond. My paternal grandparents were married for 68 years before my grandmother passed away in 1995, a month before their 69th anniversary. At their 50th wedding anniversary party, I asked them what they believed was the secret to their partnership’s harmonious longevity. My grandfather simply answered, “Compromise.” My grandmother nodded with a smile. We asked married couples to share their best piece of advice for newlyweds, and maybe now have a greater grasp of how to make a marriage work for the long haul.

Here are some pearls of wisdom worth taking to heart: “Be fun.”

just watching TV.”

“Laugh — a lot.”

“Work as hard with each other as you do your career.”

“Be each other’s No. 1 cheerleader. Hang in tough together to work through the difficult times.”

“After 30 years of marriage, I can confidently say that the No. 1 thing to remember is that you cannot change your spouse. Accept them for who they are. Look deep into yourself first before getting angry at your spouse or partner for the things that you’re not happy with in your life. Remember, when you point your finger at your spouse, there are four more digits pointing back at you.”

“No name-calling or belittling, ever.” “Extend grace — and a lot of it.” “Be present, kind and respectful.”

On a lighter note:

“It’s not 50/50 — it’s both doing 100/100.”

“The answer is always, ‘yes,’ “ according to one husband.

“Make sure you truly care and are interested in the well-being of your partner. Enjoy each other’s company even if it’s

“For men, the key to a happy relationship is never put yoga pants in the dryer.”

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CAKES

The icing on the cake TINA LARKIN

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By Scott Gerdes

he wedding cake — the often tiered bakery marvel lavished with frosting and sugary details that look more like art than food. The wedding cake is a staple of any ceremony, and its cutting is often a highlight moment. Whether you shove a bite into your spouse’s mouth or not is entirely up to you, but the cake itself should be a reflection of you both. From elegant to geometric, cake designs and flavors are as numerous and varied as every couple is unique. With 30-plus years of experience and a genuine love of designing cakes, Jocelyn Lucero of Jocelyn’s Cakes in Taos has helped create the perfect cake for many couples. Finding out the wedding theme and feel of the day, how many tiers, flavors, fillings and exterior design are all covered during a consultation, which lasts about an hour, Lucero explained.

“The first question I ask is, ‘During the last wedding you attended, do you remember the cake?’” she said. Over the years, she has noticed many trends. Rustic cake designs and more vintage styles are popular these days. “There are two worlds out there,” Lucero said. “People are wanting cake designs that reflect natural things — not so fancy or busy. And wooden presentation bases have become more popular.” Also often requested, she continued, are cakes featuring a lace design to reflect the bride’s dress. Lucero recommends that couples should order their cake about six months in advance, to a year out for out-of-towners. She also highly recommends saving the top tier or a slice or two for later. Lucero has heard many a story about the couple being so busy socializing that they miss out on enjoying a whole piece of cake, and that’s just wrong.

Local cake designers/bakers Cakes by Mariel (575) 770-0855 luv143@hotmail.com facebook.com/cakesbymariel Jocelyn's Cakes (575) 751-6281 jocelyncakes@msn.com taosweddingcakes.com Rochelle Woollard (505) 604-7889 chef.rochelle@live.com POETIC IMAGES BY DEANNA

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WEDDING OPTIONS

New Mexico nuptials WEDDINGS FOR ALL WALKS OF LIFE, SO UNIQUELY TAOS

MEGAN BOWERS AVINA

By Teresa Dovalpage

ouples willing to say “I do” need not look any further — from secluded inns to high altitude havens, Northern New Mexico offers them a variety of venues to tie the knot and enjoy their marital bliss in idyllic settings.

A resort wedding in the heart of Taos

Among the many features that make Taos the perfect place for a wedding is the intense light of the desert, which has been attracting painters and photographers for over a century. “Taos’ light is great for romantic portraits,” said Dan Wardlow, who married Joe, his partner of 10 years, in May 2015 at El Monte Sagrado. “Our photographer, Megan Bowers Avina, did a great job capturing it as well as the joy of the day.” Their wedding was somewhat traditional and somewhat unconventional. “Which is appropriate for the kind of people we are,” said Wardlow. Traditions were represented by the exchange of weddings vows and rings and the presence of two bridesmaids, a best man and a maid of honor. “We danced after dinner and had a beautiful cake that we cut together,” said Wardlow. “Among the nontraditional aspects was the fact that we were married by a minister who is also a well-known drag queen, the Rev. Latrice Royale.

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Our dogs also participated in the ceremony: Arlo, the Labradoodle, was the ring bearer and Alice, the Goldendoodle, was the flower girl.” Wardlow praises El Monte Sagrado for providing a wonderful setting for the ceremony and taking care of the cocktail hour and the dinner after the wedding. Many of their guests stayed there, too. “We highly recommend Taos as a destination wedding place,” he said. “Forty-five of our friends came from out of town, and they were so enchanted with it that they promised to come back.”

Personalized weddings

Sajit Greene is a wedding officiant and interfaith minister whose wedding ceremonies are not based in any particular religious tradition. She works with the couple to find out what they want and customizes the ceremony according to their preferences and values. She was once called to officiate in an impromptu wedding ceremony that would take place in a few hours at the Gorge Bridge. “This couple called me from Albuquerque at 10 o’clock in the morning and wanted to get married here in the afternoon,” she said. “But then it became very windy, so I took them to the Farmhouse Café instead. Micah Roseberry, the owner, allowed us to do the ceremony there and gave the couple gift certificates. Two customers at the restaurant

WEDDING OPTIONS happily signed the marriage license as witnesses.” Greene can prepare an “elopement ceremony” for only the couple or a bigger and more elaborate one for family and friends. “What I love about weddings is that I get to be with people — the couple, their relatives and friends — on a day when everyone’s hearts are open and there is so much joy,” she said. “Even though I usually don’t know the couple well, there is an amazing bond that is formed in that moment when I am celebrating their love and commitment with them. It is a very special time, truly a life passage and I always feel honored to be part of it. Sometimes I am so moved that I cry.” Greene has also officiated a wedding at Palacio de Marquesa, an ideal venue for a small intimate gathering or a honeymoon destination. The luxury retreat pays homage to famous women artists who have lived in Taos. They also have complimentary gourmet breakfasts, in-room spa services and many packages.

A sheltered paradise

The secluded grounds at Touchstone Inn provide a great option for those who want a unique Taos wedding. “People can choose among many special sites in our gardens that border Taos Pueblo lands,” said Touchstone Inn owner, artist and writer Bren Price. “We have grassy lawns, secret patios and playing fountains.” As part of the service, Price provides an interfaith minister, two witnesses, flowers, and a cake and champagne reception for two. One of her ministers is the Rev. Shaman Sandra Chestnutt, who can also create a personalized ceremony for the couple.

Marriage as sacrament

Fran Martinez has been the secretary of the Holy Trinity Parish in Arroyo Seco for more than 20 years. She is the first person couples talk to when they want a Catholic wedding, then she refers them to the priest. “The most important issue about a marriage celebrated in the Catholic Church is the fact that this is a sacrament,” Martinez said. “It isn’t just about a beautiful ceremony, a lasso, flowers or candles. Marriage is for life, and the couple is required to take a preparation class before in order to understand their duties and responsibilities.”

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They have to receive three more sacraments before the wedding — baptism, first communion and confirmation and choose wedding sponsors. “The padrino and the madrina are spiritual guides for the newlyweds,” said Martinez. “They are often a married couple that the groom and the bride respect. A madrina is much more than a bridesmaid.” Worship and wedding groove In the Taos-based Christian Church Lluvias de Gracia (Rains of Grace), a wedding is a lively ceremony where music plays a big role. The choir has four keyboards, guitars, drums and several vocalists. “We conduct our ceremonies with respect, but also with joy,” says Pastor Roberto Rugelio. “And it’s totally free. If someone wants to make a donation, we gratefully accept it, but we don’t charge a cent.”

Angel Fire Resort: love at high altitude

Angel Fire Resort caters to weddings “from 10 people to 500,” says Krysty Ronchetti, public relations epresentative, SJ Communications. “We make sure that the bride and groom tie a beautiful time and space to their wedding memories,” she said. “The Sangre de Cristo Mountains provide the best background to that special moment.” Their venues range from rather casual at The Lodge to the more formal Country Club rooms. “We have something for everyone,” Ronchetti said. “Indoors and outdoors, day or night, the possibilities are endless.”

Call of the wild and free

A spirit of love calls to the couples who venture to picturesque, romantic Taos seeking a simple, inexpensive union, whether planned in advance or inspired from spontaneity. That spirit also nibbled at the heart of Taos Magistrate Judge Jeff Shannon who has been offering free Valentine’s Day nuptials at the Río Grande Gorge Bridge since 2013. When Shannon first became a judge in 2012, a couple ask him to marry them on the famed span, which he did in 2013. The ceremony gave him an idea: Why not park out there on the Day of Love, Feb. 14, whether blowing snow or beaming sunshine, and unite couples free of charge? COURTESY PHOTO

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With a sign that read, “Weddings Aquí” (Weddings Here), Shannon married three couples that first year. That number has since grown. And on Valentine’s Day this year, Judge Shannon will again perform first come, first served marriages free of charge at the Río Grande Gorge Bridge from 1:30-3:30 p.m. The couples’ genders and religious affiliations are of no matter. He cannot accept tips and doesn’t want them. He only asks that couples bring two witnesses who are at least 18 years old, and a marriage license from any New Mexico county clerk’s office. Along the rim of the famous gorge is also a unique place to exchange vows anytime of the year.

Themed weddings

From Harry Potter to Downton Abbey settings, from Victorian to vintage, themed weddings are on the rise. The best thing about them is that there are no rules except for those the couple makes. Those who reject the cookie-cutter approach to tying the knot can give free rein to their creativity. Other advantages: guests tend to get more involved in the function than during traditional weddings, and the usually colorful ceremonies make great pictures either for a wedding album or Instagram. Susan Carpenter Sims, a Taos-based ordained celebrant, has performed a number of themed weddings and unique ceremonies specifically created for the couple.

“Ceremonies are profound in direct proportion to how personalized they are,” she said. “This is why I love doing weddings that are uniquely designed in collaboration with my couples to reflect their values and taste, and who they truly are as individuals and as a couple.” As an officiant, Sims always tries to find a guiding thread for all the ceremonies. The “theme” she devises can be pretty subtle or multi-faceted. Sims has also done weddings with quite obvious and even quirky themes when it suits the couple. “I did one in Red River where the entire wedding party and most of the guests were dressed in Victorian costumes with little top hats that the groom and his father had made for everyone,” she said. “The ceremony itself had a Dr. Seuss theme. I even structured the vows to have a Seuss-like rhyme scheme.” One of Sims’s favorite themes for a wedding is a labyrinth. She has performed several ceremonies at Adobe & Pines Inn, a 178-year-old Spanish hacienda with a 75-foot diameter labyrinth on the property. “Labyrinths provide a wonderful framework and metaphor for a wedding ceremony, in that walking them is calming and meditative and symbolically reflects the twisting, turning journey that a marriage really is,” she said. — Special Sections Editor Scott Gerdes contributed to this story

OFFICIANT RESOURCES Ceremony of Love with Rev. Susan Varon "Taos officiate of love" Ordained interfaith, non-denominational minister (575) 751-1452 susanintaos@juno.com taosweddings.org Ceremonies with Soul Sajit Greene (828) 231-4542 sajit@sajit.net sajit.net

Joyful Wedding Celebrations Laurie Moreau, Universal Life Church minister (505) 770-3005 laurieintaos@earthlink.net joyfulweddingcelebrations.com

Rev. Sandra Chestnutt Minister of Walking Prayer, Reverend Shaman — "unique ceremonies with an American Indian flavor" (575) 779-4253 earthwalkmedicine.com

SECULAR CEREMONIES

Embracing Ceremony Dan Jones, interfaith wedding celebrant (720) 849-5967 Dan@EmbracingCeremony.com embracingceremony.com

Susan Carpenter Sims Enchanted Circle Ceremonies Ordained minister through Universal Life Church and a Life Cycle Celebrant (575) 770-3946 susanthescribe@gmail.com enchantedcircleceremonies.com

Find more in the local “Names and Numbers” phone book under “Wedding Chapels and Ceremonies” at the Taos County Clerk's Office and in the “Spiritual Directory” found weekly in the C Section of The Taos News.

Jill Martinez, MA Humanist celebrant, clergy of the Humanist Society (575) 224-7707 jill@taoscelebrant.com TaosCelebrant.com

FOR MORE LOCATION OPTIONS, SEE THE VENUES SECTION OF THIS PUBLICATION ON PAGE 34.

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HUMANIST WEDDING

A humanist approach to weddings

KATHARINE EGLI

By Jill Martinez

humanist wedding is a joining ceremony to legally bind two individuals in marriage without any religious or spiritual constraints, but has all the spiritual, emotional and legal weight of a more traditionally religious wedding. Humanism, according to the American Humanist Association, is “A progressive philosophy of life that, without theism and other supernatural beliefs, affirms our ability and responsibility to lead ethical lives of personal fulfillment that aspire to the greater good of humanity. It aspires to give individuals a sense of community, to fulfill without constraining actions or threatening punishment in the way so many religions do. Humanism encourages freedom of thought, reasoned decisions, respect for intuition and an acceptance of infallibility. The core value of the system is to meet others with understanding and acceptance, knowing that we’re all humans and we all matter.” A common assumption about humanist weddings is that they are against anything religious or spiritual. It’s not that humanism is against religion; it just doesn’t include it. The ceremony is a celebration of love, time spent together and the promise to continue walking your paths together. Your choices come first and foremost in the planning and execution of your ceremony. Some couples are also concerned that having

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a humanist wedding could mean that they can’t respect their personal and familial traditions. Let me assure you that a humanist wedding is inclusive of everything a couple values in their relationship and experiences together. The ceremony has no constraints or rules beyond the consent of all involved. They revolve entirely around what you and your partner value most. The choices about what you want to be in your vows, how the ceremony is conducted, where the ceremony is conducted, its size and extravagance, are entirely reliant on you, and you alone. This option for your wedding is extremely customizable. You can write the entire ceremony, personalizing it and achieving a level of personal depth that may be difficult with scripted ceremonies. You can hold the wedding celebration wherever you feel most connected, with no constraints, so long as you obtain permission from the landowners where the ceremony will be held. There are endless options for your wedding’s welcome, readings, vows and exchange of rings. You can add or remove sections of the wedding, and customize them however you’d like. You could use a traditional format with an exchange of vows and rings. You could choose to adapt religious components to a secular form. Hand-fasting is another option. This is an Irish tradition

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performed by the tying of hands to symbolize the binding of the couples’ lives together. Some couples choose to write amusing and personally significant sections that reflect the way they met or want to spend their lives together. This can include references to literature or films that are important to your life. Your wedding can be full to the brim of personal touches and inside jokes, with every turn revealing a memory or making you and your guests laugh. You can have an extremely private ceremony with you and your partner being the sole focus. A humanist wedding can take place in almost any setting. You could even hike to an isolated valley or forest with your partner, an officiant and two witnesses for an intimate ceremony in nature. A humanist wedding ceremony is great way to start a marriage. It is an honest representation of who you are as a couple, where you have been and how you want to live together. Jill Martinez is a Taos celebrant who can be reached by calling (575) 224-7707, by email at jill@taoscelebrant.com or through her web site TaosCelebrant.com. COUTESY PHOTO

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FLOWERS

Flower-speak

he colors, shapes and scents of flowers are added impact to any wedding. Flowers are a staple decoration and accessory. They are the first impression people have when they walk into the room. Choosing the right flowers for bouquets, corsages, boutonnieres and arrangements comes down to personal taste, season and even location of your ceremony.

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In the Taos environs, wildflowers, sage and sunflowers are naturally abundant. Local florists also have portfolios of other flowers and a choice of arrangements. Flowers aren’t just beautiful accents; they have a language all their own. Beginning in the Victorian era, some flowers replaced words in a most romantic way.

Here is a sampling of 10 of the most popular “tried-and-true” wedding flowers (according to theknot.com) and their wedding-appropriate meanings. ROSE

TULIP

Meaning: Red signifies love, beauty, respect and courage; dark red means unconscious beauty; white represents happy love; pink symbolizes gentility, femininity, elegance and refinement; yellow means joy, gladness, friendship and promise of a new beginning; and red and white placed together signifies unity. Best for: Bouquets, corsages, boutonnieres and arrangements Scent: Lightly to very fragrant, depending on variety In season: Year-round Price range: Moderate to expensive

Meaning: Love, passion Best for: Arrangements and bouquets Scent: None In season: Late spring Price range: Expensive

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STEPHANOTIS Meaning: Marital happiness Best for: Bouquets, boutonnieres Scent: Mild to none In season: Year-round Price range: Moderate

SWEET PEAS Meaning: Lasting pleasure Best for: Bouquets Scent: Fragrant (like candy) In season: Year-round Price range: Inexpensive to moderate

GARDENIA Meaning: “You are lovely.” Best for: Bouquets, centerpieces, corsages, hair accessory Scent: Fragrant (sultry, heavy) In season: Year-round Price range: Inexpensive to moderate

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LILY OF THE VALLEY Meaning: Linked to the Norse goddess of springtime, Ostara; also means return to happiness and delicacy. Best for: Bouquets and to infuse a centerpiece Scent: Very fragrant perfume In season: Year-round in limited quantities, peak in spring Price range: Expensive

HYDRANGEAS Meaning: Devotion Best for: Filling out arrangements and bouquets Scent: None In season: July-November Price range: Moderate

PEONY Meaning: Bashfulness Best for: Bouquets, centerpieces and arrangements Scent: Sweet and mild to very aromatic In season: Late spring to early summer Price range: Expensive

RANUNCULUS Meaning: To carry ranunculus is to tell your partner, “I am dazzled by your charms.” Best for: Bridal bouquet or bridesmaid nosegays, boutonnieres Scent: Mild (sweet) In season: Year-round Price range: Inexpensive to moderate

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DARYL A. BLACK

Local florists and floral designers Buds Cut Flowers & More 711A Paseo del Pueblo Sur, Taos budscutflowersandmore.com (575) 758-3555 The Enchanted Florist 622A Paseo del Pueblo Sur, Taos taosflorist.com (575) 758-3030

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Margaret Palmer Floral Design (575) 741-0408 taosflowerdiva.com Taos Floral Designs Shelia Ross “European design” (575) 737-0245 taosfloraldesigns.com

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CATERERS

For the love of food

iring a caterer can be one of the most challenging missions when planning a wedding. After all, as the seasons come and go, it may slip guests’ minds that the DJ

played “Celebration” by Kool & the Gang multiple times, but they’ll remember the food — for better or worse. Remember to ask if they only cater on-site.

Local caterers ACEQ Arroyo Seco (575) 776-0900 aceqrestaurant.com The Bavarian Lodge & Restaurant Taos Ski Valley (575) 776-8020 888-205-8020 skitaos.com Brett House Catering El Prado (575) 776-1919 bretthousecatering.com Earlene's Public House Cafe & Bakery Taos (575) 758-2007 facebook.com/Earlene'sCafe El Gamal Taos (575) 613-0311 elgamaltaos.com

El Monte Sagrado Living Resort & Spa Taos (575) 758-3502 elmontesagrado.com KOKO Taos Take-out catering only (575) 758-9448 info@kokotaos.com kokotaos.com La Cocina de Taos Taos (575) 758-4855 lacocinadetaos.com Brigita Lacovara (575) 779-8810 blacovara@gmail.com Ranchos Plaza Grill Ranchos de Taos (575) 758-5788 facebook.com/ranchosplazagrill

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Ricky's Comidas Nuevo Mexicanas Taos (575) 758-1156 facebook.com/RickysRestaurantComidasNuevoMexicanas Sabroso Arroyo Seco (575) 776-3333 sabrosotaos.com Sabroso also hosts weddings and receptions. Sagebrush Inn & Suites Ranchos de Taos (575) 425-7012 sagebrushinn.com Stray Dog Cantina Taos Ski Valley (575) 776-2894 straydogtsv.com Taos Country Club Ranchos de Taos (575) 758-7300 taoscountryclub.com

Taos High School Culinary Arts Program Catering No out-of-town events Contact Benji Apodaca School: (575) 751-8080 ext. 3653 Cell: (575) 779-1996 benapo@taosschools.org Taos Real Food, LLC (575) 770-1973 taosrealfood@gmail.com taosrealfood.com Taos Ski Valley (575) 776-2291, ext. 2434 skitaos.com Rochelle Woollard (505) 604-7889 chef.rochelle@live.com

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MUSIC

Dance the night away

usic and love are what make the world and your reception go ‘round. Below is a listing of some local entertainers, including many emerging DJs and musicians in the Taos area.

DJs DJ Oliver Knight (575) 779-5705 djoliverknight.com DJ Krim (575) 770-9984 djkrim.com Lady DJs Christalyn Concha, aka Chrystalline and Julia Daye, aka Rhythm Ambassador. Along with husband Ryan Leon, in August 2016 Concha opened an interactive DJ, music production, dance and art learning space for youth called The BassMint. (505) 980-3387 ladydjs@gmail.com chrystalline.wixsite.com/ladydjs

DJ Lil Will's Carnival of Sound carnivalofsound2.0@gmail.com facebook.com/Lil-Wills-Carnivalof-Sound

The Jimmy Stadler Band Acclaimed three-piece ensemble plays a variety of genres. (575) 776-8234 jimmystadler.com

DJ Planewalker Brennan Murphey planewalker.bandcamp.com

Katy P and the Business Funk, soul and rock 'n' roll katypandthebusiness.com

Performers

Last to Know Seven-piece band featuring disco, funk and bluegrass mixed with the "heartiest world rhythms. lasttoknow@gmail.com lasttoknowmusic.com

Chipper Thompson Multi-instrumental musician and singer-songwriter performs folk, Americana and country tunes infused with a rock 'n' roll attitude. (575) 758-7840 lardslap@taosnet.com chipperthompson.com Christine Autumn Lauded jazz singer (575) 751-1885 christineautumn.com

Laura Bulkin Pianist Smooth, beautiful piano music featuring a vast repertoire from golden oldies right up to the moment, and she's always adding new songs. taospiano@gmail.com

Out of Nowhere High-energy dance band of covers and original tunes from a range of genres including soul, jazz, swing, R&B, blues, funk and Latin. (505) 913-1631 outofnowhereintaos.wordpress. com Paul and Grace Jones Local musicians Paul and Grace Jones play traditional American Indian flute music, drum and flamenco. Their family also builds traditional hand-carved flutes. (575) 758-1652 JnRo273@aol.com facebook.com/paulandgracejones Vanilla Pop "The coolest, hippest, most swingin'-est band around." (575) 770-2943 or (575) 7708142 vanillapop.com

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VENUES

Somewhere old, somewhere new, somewhere with a fabulous view LOVE YOUR LOCATION

TINA LARKIN

By Scott Gerdes

aos has no shortage of natural beauty, historic churches and unique venues in which to exchange vows and celebrate with family and friends. The hardest part may not be the planning of your ceremony but the choosing of which place it will be held. For church listings, look in the local Names and Numbers phone book yellow pages under “churches,” or see the Spiritual Directory found weekly in the C Section of The Taos News. If your heart’s desire is a backyard ceremony, in some other outdoor space or any place in which you will need tables, chairs, tent, dance floor and more (even a bounce house, if that’s your thing), contact Liz Walsh Gilroy at Celebrations Event Rentals by calling (575) 758-8463 or go online to taos-

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celebrates.com. Some venues have on-site event planners. If your perfect place doesn’t, no worries — there are experts out there who can take over on your big day. As Walsh Gilroy recommends, “You can plan your wedding, but it’s not a good idea for you to execute it. You need to be enjoying the moment with family and friends instead of worrying about where the lights go.” A resource of independent, local event planners can be found at the end of the venue list. Another helpful resource is the Taos County Chamber of Commerce (575-751-8800), who can assist with choosing locations, caterers, officiants, gifts, florists and everything in between.

Larger venues

VENUES

El Monte Sagrado This "living resort and spa" has a variety of customized and regular wedding packages and a "wedding team" to help make your planning and your special day seamless. In the heart of Taos, the lushness of El Monte Sagrado offers a dream destination for couples who envision a wedding, commitment ceremony or reception surrounded by views of mountains, waterfalls, ponds and towering 80-year-old cottonwoods. Pricing details, amenities and packages are detailed online in El Monte's Wedding Packet. Call 1-855-846-8267, (575) 758-3502 or go online to elmontesagrado.com. KTAOS Solar Center The home of two solar-powered radio stations, a concert pavilion and a dance floor offers a full bar, food service and plenty of parking space. The indoor capacity is 400 people for a reception, and 125 seated for dinner. The outdoor lawn, which provides beautiful views of Taos Mountain, can accommodate approximately 600 people. On-site officiate: Rev. Paddy Mac. Call (575) 758-5826 or go online to ktao.com. Origin at Rancho de San Juan A unique hacienda-style, luxury Northern New Mexico sanctuary in Ojo Caliente offers guests the much sought-after opportunity to become intimately reacquainted with their true nature and to have a wedding wrapped in stillness, wholeness and purity. Call (505) 747-2374 or visit originnewmexico.com. POETIC IMAGES BY DEANNA

Red River Another outdoor spot ready to take your breath away are the thousands of acres of Carson National Forest that surround this picturesque Old West ski town. Whether you're looking solely for a reception venue or searching for a full-service option from rehearsal dinner to morning-after brunch, the Red River Conference Center is available to suit your every wedding need. The conference center is located in the center of Red River behind Brandenburg Park, at the base of the Red River Ski Area along the river for which the town is named. Call the conference center at (575) 754-1708, visit redriver.org Resort Properties of Angel Fire The range of options found at Resort Properties of Angel Fire means they can accommodate any size wedding and/or reception. Call (575) 377-6441 or visit resortpropertiesofangelfire.com.

Taos Mesa Brewing Taos Mesa Brewing is a microbrewery, restaurant and indoor/outdoor "brewclub" on the spectacular Taos Mesa, providing incredible sunset views. The venue has one indoor stage and two outdoor stages. The capacity is 500 standing, 130 seated at tables. Call (575) 758-1900 or go online to taosmesabrewing.com.

Sagebrush Inn & Suites The historic Taos landmark's scenic grounds offer graceful portals, patios and traditional brick walkways connecting courtyards ideal for gathering, all with stunning views of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains. Sagebrush Inn & Suites offers multiple indoor and outdoor spaces and in-house catering accommodating celebrations ranging from an intimate group of 12 up to 800 guests. The inn also provides professional event planners. Call 1-800-428-3626 or go online to sagebrushinn.com for more information.

ACEQ The capacity at this outstanding farm-to-table restaurant is about 60. As a bonus, owner and sommelier Michael "Red" Wagener is ordained with the Universal Life Church. ACEQ is located in charming Arroyo Seco — just a hop, skip and a jump from Taos. For more information, call (575) 776-0900 or visit aceqrestaurant.com.

Taos Country Club The Taos Country Club (TCC) is a 12,500-square foot facility with full-service catering and full bar. There are multiple indoor and outdoor ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner locations on the property. TCC can accommodate up to 500 guests. TCC also offers on-site catering and an experienced "day-of" wedding planner. Taos Country Club is located at 54 Golf Course Dr., Ranchos de Taos. Call (575) 758-7300 or visit taoscountryclub.com.

Taos Ski Valley Celebrate your wedding with "old world" opulence at the The Bavarian Lodge & Restaurant while surrounded by a magnificent mountain backdrop. For more information, call (575)776-2291, ext. 2434 or go online to skitaos.com/weddings/.

Smaller venues

Adobe & Pines Inn This charming bed & breakfast is a luxurious, romantic and beautiful 1832 adobe hacienda nestled in a country setting. The inn features two intimate courtyards along with a grassy meadow for a larger reception and a grove of trees perfect for party lights. Plus, there is a large labyrinth with a small waterfall in the center that symbolizes the journey of life — a spot where many couples chose to say "I do." The inn is located in Ranchos de Taos, only four miles south of Taos Plaza. Weddings up to 100 guests. Call 1-800-828-0947, 575) 751-0947 or go online to adobepines.com. CONTINUED ON PAGE 36

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VENUES Columbine Inn specializes in outdoor ceremonies of up to 75 people. Lodging, meals and transportation can be provided. Call 1-888-884-5723, (575) 776-5723 or visit online at columbineinn.com. Edelweiss Lodge and Spa For 40 years, the original Edelweiss Lodge was a fixture in Taos Ski Valley. The Edelweiss is a luxury vacation condominium resort that was built in the same central location next to Strawberry Hill. The Club Room is an ideal location for small events, such as a rehearsal dinner, with seating up to 30 people, an integrated sound system, wireless and ethernet internet, and audio-visual facilities. Call 1-800-458-8754, (575) 737-6900 or go online to edelweisslodgeandspa. com. Ghost Ranch Ancient cottonwoods and apple trees cradled by unique, ancient cliff formations, this beautiful area in Abiquiú about two hours west of Taos that inspired celebrated artist Georgia O'Keeffe is an otherworldly spot for nuptials. The accommodations are on the rustic side (no telephones or TVs), but the casitas offer spectacular views. Call 1-800-804-4678, (505) 685-1000 or go online to ghostranch.org. Hacienda del Sol USA Today rated Hacienda del Sol as "one of the most romantic inns in the U.S." Spectacular courtyard garden venue with the majestic Taos Mountain as the backdrop, indoor/outdoor reception/dining area, with menus prepared by professional owner/master chef, plus luxurious accommodations for the bridal party and their families. This bed and breakfast has a full-service wedding package. Weddings for up to 100 guests. Call 1-866-333-4459, (575) 758-0287 or go online to taoshaciendadelsol.com.

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Alpine Village Suites Conveniently located steps from Taos Ski Valley's lifts, restaurants, nightlife and shopping, the conference room is perfect for receptions, rehearsal dinners or bachelor and bachelorette parties. Call 1-800-576-2666 or visit alpine-suites.com. Blue Sky Retreat at San Geronimo Blue Sky Retreat offers large common rooms with kiva-style fireplaces, a 51-square foot dining room, a 38-square foot living room and a 22-square foot sitting room. Capacity in the dining room is up to 100 guests seated. No self-catering. The center is located at 110 Witt Road. Call (575) 751-3776 or visit blueskyretreatcenter.com. Casa Benavides Inn This art-infused bed and breakfast is located in the heart of Taos and is within easy walking distance of Historic Taos Plaza on Kit Carson Road. Call (575) 758-1772 or visit casabenavides.com. Casa Gallina A Taos Artisan Inn Casa Gallina is located only five minutes from historic Taos Plaza at 609/613 Callejon in a quiet, pastoral, farmland setting. The peaceful inn is home to more than 40 happy hens who reside in their own mudded adobe hen house. Ceremonies can be held with up to 30 guests. Call (575) 758-2306 or go online to casagallina.net. Columbine Inn This locally owned inn at Taos Ski Valley boasts stunning mountain views galore.

Old Martina's Hall A landmark on 4140 State Highway 68, Ranchos de Taos, across from the famous adobe church, San Francisco de Asís, Old Martina's Hall features a large dance floor and state-of-the-art equipment. There is a restaurant, but no on-site catering due to kitchen capacity. Weddings up to 150 guests in the hall. Call (575) 758-3003, email booking@oldmartinashall.com or visit oldmartinashall. com. Ojo Caliente Mineral Springs Resort and Spa About one hour southwest from Taos, historic Ojo Caliente offers the only surviving round barn in New Mexico, not to mention breathtaking views, legendary mineral pools and a variety of accommodations from suites to cottages. Call 1-800-222-9162 or visit ojospa.com. Palacio de Marquesa Located in a quiet, tree-lined residential Taos neighborhood, this luxury-minded property is a great place for smaller, more intimate weddings and bridal showers. Its eight rooms are themed from the inspiration of some of Northern New Mexico's most notable women artists, such as Georgia O'Keeffe, Millicent Rogers and Mabel Dodge Luhan. Packages and specials are available. Call 1-855-846-8267, (575) 758-4777 or go online to marquesataos.com. Red River Red River also has smaller venues for your ceremony and reception. Visit redriver.org River Paradise Weddings River Paradise Weddings on the banks of the Río Grande in nearby Embudo is the perfect venue for an outdoor wedding of 80 to 100 guests. Caterers will find it easy

to access the lawn along the river and serve dinner under the shade trees. There are outdoor electrical outlets with an area for a dance floor and band. Call (617) 947-9016 or go online to riverparadiseweddings.com. CONTINUED ON PAGE 38

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Sabroso Restaurant & Bar This restaurant is housed in a historic 150-year-old adobe hacienda in the tiny village of Arroyo Seco and is halfway between Taos Plaza and Taos Ski Valley. Customized menus can be created to meet your culinary needs and desires — Chef Timothy has catered more than 400 weddings in his career. Sabroso's accommodating staff will provide everything for your special event, from flowers to cakes to custom menus. Choose the setting of your dreams — fireside, on the patio or in the plum grove under the stars. Call (575) 776-3333 or go online to sabrosotaos.com. Taos Art Museum at Fechin House The grounds are comprised of the Fechin house, studio and gardens. The setting includes three acres of exquisite landscaping, a beautiful artists’ studio and expansive flagstone patio. Living history and vibrant creative energy abounds. This historic property is a stunning jewel of architecture built by Russian master woodworker and artist Nicolai Fechin. This venue can accommodate up to 150 people. Call (575) 758-2690 or visit taosartmuseum.org. Taos Convention Center Coronado Hall offers the El Alcade, Los Angelitos and El Taoseño rooms available for rent providing a variety of options for wedding parties of up to 75 people each. In addition, two patios supply more than 5,400 square feet of open-air space. Call (575) 737-2617 or visit taosconventioncenter.com. Taos Goji Eco Lodge and Farm Approximately 30 miles north of Taos in San Cristobal, the Taos Goji Eco Lodge and Farm offers 40 gorgeous acres of land, a 1,600-square-foot open, rustic barn, cabins and a 500-square-foot dining area in the old San Cristobal Trading Post. Call (575) 776-3971 or go online to taosgoji.com. Taos Tennis at Quail Ridge Located minutes north of Taos in El Prado, Taos Tennis at Quail Ridge has 6,000 square feet of building space and 7.5 acres at its disposal for a wedding reception. This includes a large and a small conference room, a large and a small patio and a .3-acre park. Call 1-800-624-4448, (575) 776-2211 or go online to taostennis.com.

Hot air balloon weddings

Exchanging vows in a hot air balloon is the ultimate wedding for those that love the free feeling of the great outdoors and wide open spaces while peacefully floating somewhere in between the treetops and heaven. Eske's Paradise Balloons taosballooning.com (575) 751-6098 Pueblo Balloon (575) 751-9877 puebloballoon.com Taos Balloon Rides (575) 224-6022 taosballoonrides.com

Independent event planners Celebrations Event Rentals (575) 758-8463 taoscelebrates.com KWK Events Red River (575) 5951971 kwkevents.com Zia Event Design (full-service coordination) (575) 779-9008 ziaeventdesign.com

Touchstone Inn This is a secluded inn (circa 1800) close to everything Taos. Choose among many special sites in gardens bordering Taos Pueblo lands. Touchstone Inn is located on Mabel Dodge Lane. Call (575) 758-0192 or go online to touchstone inn.com.

Off the path

Carson National Forest Spanning 1.5 million acres within the Enchanted Circle, Carson National Forest provides some of the most stunning vistas and secluded pockets in the Southern Rockies. Whether asking your wedding party to hike to Williams Lake or you find the perfect clearing near a road, if there are more than 15 people in your party, you'll need to get a special-use permit for a nominal fee. The CNF office in Taos is located at 208 Cruz Alta Road. For more information, call (575) 758-6200.

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PHOTOGRAPHERS

Pictures of you

ure, cell phones today take very good pictures but, let’s be real — selfies at weddings border on tacky, and friends and relatives trying to jockey for position to take that “only going to happen once” shot can be distracting at best.

Getting your special day properly and completely memorialized in pictures is best done by a professional, who can stay on task and offer suggestions that result in unique and beautiful shots.

2 BIRDS STUDIO

KATHARINE EGLI

RAZOR SHARP PRODUCTIONS

ROBIN PARROTT

(505) 470-8172

PHOTOGRAPHY, DESIGN, VIDEO

(505) 429-9100

KATHARINE.EGLI@GMAIL.COM

(575) 613-0027

ROBINPARROTT.COM

KATHARINEEGLI.SAMEXHIBIT.COM

RAZORSHARPPRODUCTIONS.COM

MEGAN BOWERS AVINA

MV JENSEN PHOTOGRAPHY

SEAN KELLY PORTRAITS

(575) 770-2122

MICHAEL JENSEN

CHARLES MCLAUGHLIN

FACEBOOK.COM/TAOSWEDDINGS

(512) 627-7605

(575) 770-4367

MVJENSEN.COM

SEANKELLYPORTRAITS.COM

(575) 770-8806

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SPARROW PHOTOGRAPHY

BRENDANCURRANPHOTOGRAPHY.COM

DEANNA NELSON

HEATHER SPARROW

(575) 779-0755

(575) 737-2473

POETICIMAGES.NET

SPARROWPHOTO.COM

BRENDAN CURRAN PHOTOGRAPHY

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REGISTRY

Wedding wishes & dishes LOCAL REGISTRY OPTIONS

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COUNTRY FURNISHINGS OF TAOS

STARR INTERIORS

WABI-SABI

DÉCOR & GIFTS

117 PASEO DEL PUEBLO NORTE

126A PASEO DEL PUEBLO NORTE

534 PASEO DEL PUEBLO NORTE

800-748-1756

(575) 758-7801

(575) 758-4633

STAR-INTERIORS.COM

WABISABIGIFTS.NET

TAOS COOKERY

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CFTAOS.COM MONET'S KITCHEN

113 BENT ST.

124M BENT ST.

(575) 758-5435

(575) 758-8003

TAOSCOOKERY.COM

JOHNDUNNSHOPS.COM/MONETSKITCHEN TAOS LIFESTYLE NAMBÉ

710-C1 PASEO DEL PUEBLO SUR

109 N. PLAZA (TAOS PLAZA)

(575) 758-5885

(575) 758-8221

TAOSLIFESTYLE.COM

NAMBE.COM

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CHECKLIST

• BOOK YOUR OFFICIANT. • RESEARCH AND INTERVIEW CATERERS, PHOTOGRAPHERS, VIDEOGRAPHERS, FLORISTS, PERFORMING ARTISTS AND MUSICIANS. • THROW AN ENGAGEMENT PARTY, IF DESIRED.

EIGHT MONTHS PRIOR • HIRE THE PHOTOGRAPHER, VIDEOGRAPHER, CATERER AND ENTERTAINMENT. • SELECT BRIDAL GOWN AND TUXEDOS. SHOP FOR BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES. • RESERVE A BLOCK OF HOTEL ROOMS OR CONFIRM OTHER ACCOMMODATIONS FOR OUT-OF-TOWN GUESTS. • COMPLETE GIFT REGISTRY AT A MINIMUM OF THREE RETAILERS. • LAUNCH A WEDDING WEB SITE, IF DESIRED.

SEVEN TO SIX MONTHS PRIOR • CHOOSE INVITATIONS. • VISIT CEREMONY, REHEARSAL DINNER AND RECEPTION SITES. • START PLANNING HONEYMOON — ORDER PASSPORTS AND CHECK IMMUNIZATION NEEDS IF LEAVING THE COUNTRY. • MEET WITH THE OFFICIANT — MAP OUT THE CEREMONY AND MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A LIST OF ALL THE LEGAL DOCUMENTS YOU'LL NEED FOR THE WEDDING. • HIRE A FLORIST AND START SELECTING FLOWERS — THEY CAN SERVE MULTIPLE CLIENTS A DAY MAKING IT SAFE TO WAIT A LITTLE LONGER TO HIRE ONE. AND AT THIS STAGE IN PLANNING, YOU SHOULD BE CERTAIN OF YOUR CHOICE OF WEDDING PALETTE. • RESERVE STRUCTURAL AND ELECTRICAL NECESSITIES SUCH AS PORTABLE TOILETS FOR OUT DOOR EVENTS, EXTRA TABLES, AND CHAIRS, LIGHTING COMPONENTS, LARGE TENTS, ETC. • FINALIZE HONEYMOON AND TRANSPORTATION PLANS (COMMERCIAL OR PRIVATE). GET IT IN WRITING SO NO ONE IS CONFUSED AND LATE. • BEGIN CREATING A DAY-OF TIMELINE — SCHEDULE THE CAKE-CUTTING AND FIRST DANCE, FOR EXAMPLE.

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CHECKLIST

FIVE TO FOUR MONTHS PRIOR • SCHEDULE FITTINGS FOR YOU AND ATTENDANTS. SELECT WEDDING SHOES. • SELECT HAIR, NAIL AND MAKEUP ARTISTS, AND MAKE APPOINTMENTS FOR WEDDING DAY AND BRIDAL PORTRAIT. • FINALIZE RENTALS AND BOOK SITE FOR CEREMONY, RECEPTION AND REHEARSAL DINNER. • PURCHASE WEDDING RINGS. • FINALIZE MUSIC SELECTION. • CHECK ON WEDDING INVITATIONS AND EDIT AS NEEDED. • SELECT AND ORDER THE CAKE.

THREE MONTHS PRIOR • SEND INVITATIONS. • COMPLETE GUEST LIST. • MAKE A LIST OF PEOPLE GIVING TOASTS. • FINALIZE VOWS AND OTHER READINGS. • ORDER FAVORS, IF DESIRED. • FINALIZE MENU AND FLOWERS. • UPDATE YOUR WEB SITE WITH DIRECTIONS AND HOTEL INFORMATION. • FINALIZE DAY-OF TIMELINE FOR THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION. • SHARE EVENT SCHEDULE WITH VENDORS, ALLOWING TIME FOR TWEAKS AND FEEDBACK. • PRINT MENU CARDS AND PROGRAMS, IF DESIRED, WHICH CAN BE CREATED ON YOUR COMPUTER. • ARRANGE CARE FOR PETS IF NECESSARY. • MEET WITH THE PHOTOGRAPHER TO DISCUSS SPECIFIC SHOTS, AND WALK THROUGH THE LOCATION(S) TO POINT OUT SPOTS YOU LIKE. • SUBMIT WEDDING ANNOUNCEMENT TO NEWSPAPERS.

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