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Letters

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hat if you let this magazine be your excuse to put down the phone that is either glued to your hand or attached to your ear? Have a conversation with a stranger, and glance as you walk into the world that has probably gone unnoticed. Basically, live in the moment. What if we had real connections, engaging experiences, with a bunch of old friends and maybe a few new friends?

Whether we like to admit it, or are even aware, we’ve all made an agreement with technology.

We’ve let it take us on a ride, an out-ofcontrol rollercoaster ride that has no end.

Statistics tell us that we are spending 19% of our waking hours on a phone or computer. Every now and then, our little inside person whispers, ‘This is too much: too much information, too much distraction, too much of other peoples’ thoughts living inside our minds.’

Our give-a-shitter gives too much when it comes to others’ opinions and especially opinions of those we know as “friends” on our social media – “friends” we’ve never met. There was a day when “friends” were those we told secrets to, not an account we’re waiting for a like or a follow from.

Who cares what they think?!?

Really, who cares?

Without our permission, or maybe we’re totally unaware, we’ve allowed our world

Digital Detox

to increase in global interconnectivity and we’ve become an emerging tech-savvy population – and the surge isn’t slowing down. We’ve let it take control, without saying no, we’ve given it permission to take us on a ride. Technology – social media –has eliminated the boredom of solitude, replacing it with a continuous need for instant gratification. What’s your Pinterest board? Friend me on Facebook, follow me on Instagram. It has become the norm with how teenagers communicate with one another, and that is why their face-to-face communication skills are generally poor to really bad, to awful.

Have you paid attention to people’s eye contact? We’ve become notoriously bad in face-to-face encounters. Notice that when our youngsters, maybe even adults, should be using proper social skills, they pull out their smartphone and begin reading and swiping. They’ve become “phone-based” children’’ being raised by “phone-based parents.”

Speaking of swiping, we really meet our next date by a swipe, and we think that’s healthy?

What happened to the connection of a touch, a smile, an encounter? Now, people ask to work from home? Really, so you place yourself in a more socially inept place? And you want to remove yourself more from society by working from home?

Why have I felt the need to go on and on with this topic? Because I saw an interview (on TV so I believe there is some truth) of a woman who said, “We buy our kids

phones and tell ourselves it’s so we can stay connected in case of an emergency, so we can reach them when we want, to help us parent. Then we complain about the internet and their social media that sends them into a frenzy”. If that’s the purpose of purchasing them a phone, why wouldn’t we just purchase a flip phone and eliminate all that is unhealthy for them at a young age? Eliminate the exposure to what we’d like to keep them from as long as possible.

So put away your phone, sink into stillness and enjoy a good read – you could start with The City Magazine, learn about all the good things happening in El Paso.

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ike the fabulistas gracing our cover this month, journalism – more specifically, storytelling – is in my marrow. I’m a thirdgeneration journalist and have volumes of journals, newsletters, and newspapers I “published” as a child. I was never not going to be a journalist, which was something that stressed me out – the low compensation versus workload ratio, putting myself on the line in pursuit of truth, the incredible competition.

But, I persisted.

I never thought or wanted to be in news. When I went to Georgetown for graduate school, I was the only student in my cohort who wasn’t an aspiring political analyst or White House correspondent. I was there to write about bands for big, glossy, magazines – and I did! My first paid job in journalism was as the lead news writer for Rolling Stone’s website cover music, television and film, which involved covering the MTV VMAs the year Miley Cyrus and Robin Thicke had their risque performance, meeting Beyonce in Philadelphia at the Made in America festival, and covering James Gandolfini’s funeral –all in between interviewing bands backstage at the 9:30 Club in D.C. four or five times a week. The momentum led to gigs freelancing at ELLE, Teen Vogue, Glamour, and Cosmopolitan.

I felt like the Carrie Bradshaw dream came true for me.

When I moved back to El Paso for my second masters, I was thrown into the world of hard news right in my hometown as though the universe decided “You’ve had your fun in entertainment, now get to work on the big stuff.” In 2019, I was approved for a White House Presidential Pool press pass (say that three times fast!) and invited to cover President Donald J. Trump’s official campaign re-election rally at the El Paso County Coliseum for ELLE, blending my preference for longform magazine stories and live event coverage with what I considered to be a journalistic responsibility to report on big events as they happen in my community. Plus, I would never turn down a request from the White House (I did learn a few things in D.C.)

Not long after, The New York Times called to ask if I’d be interested in being their El Paso stringer and a few months later. Next thing I knew, I was writing front page stories on the Cielo Vista Walmart shooting, the COVID-19 pandemic in Texas and along the border, and immigration issues. I joke that it’s never good news when my editor at NYT calls me, but it’s the nature of the beast and I’m glad our community is receiving national attention.

In February of 2020, I was hired by KTSM and worked as a reporter primarily covering politics, (on TV!) and realized I LOVED it. From a phone call with Congresswoman Veronica Escobar on January 6, 2021 as she and other members of Congress were hidden inside the belly of the U.S. Capitol as rioters stormed; to weekly exclusive oneon-ones with some of President Biden’s newly-appointed cabinet members on what the federal government’s initiatives were doing for the Borderland; to interviewing candidates for the 2020 El Paso mayoral election.

Let me tell you, it’s called “hard” news for a reason: it’s incredibly difficult because there is SO much on the line, especially during that time in American history.

I’m proud of the experiences – most of all, the stories – as well as developing a newfound sense of grit and bravery that I didn’t know I had.

This year, we’re dedicating our human interest issue to El Pasoans unafraid of adventure, authenticity, and the unknown. From Annabella’s editorial on Kayla Perez, a glamour girl and extreme mountain climber who took up the hobby to remedy a fear of heights; to Stephanie’s stories on Stephanie Han and Enrique Lozano. Our cover story on the story of the storytellers taught me that despite the on-going roundelay of real news, fake news, opinion, and everything in between, we’re not alone.

We’re raising our voices together to illuminate the truth and look ahead to the future.

Let us light the way with our words.

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REACHING THE HIGHEST PEAK

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| Story

photography by: ANNABELLA MIRELES

Additional photography courtesy of: KAYLA PEREZ |

Everyone has something they are afraid of. Whether it’s as small as spiders, or something on a bigger scale, such as getting on an airplane, we all have to decide how far we’ll let those fears go from stopping us from experiencing life. Rather than letting fear steer us away from life-changing experiences because of the chance of failure or the unknown, people like Kayla Perez have used fear as a driving force to do the incredible, like climbing Mount Everest.

Perez climbed Everest in April of 2024, which took about two months to reach the summit and return to base camp one. Even reaching base camp one is a feat that not many can endure that requires a lot of physical and mental preparation.

She didn’t always have an interest in climbing, but Perez did always have a connection with nature and attributes her drive for adventure to her family.

“I grew up in Horizon City and we had a decent mid-size home, but we really didn’t have a lot growing up, so we were always playing outside,” Perez said. “We’d play in the streets and were always getting dirty. It was fun growing up with two older brothers and doing tons of outdoor sports. Our dad always had us at Elephant Butte or snow skiing at Ski Apache. I always had this fire inside me to just be outside and build this deep connection with nature.”

To build a closer relationship with nature, Perez wanted to challenge her fear of heights and became a private flight attendant. However, in 2020, she was inspired to take it a step further when she watched a documentary on the 14 highest mountains in the world.

“I had a connection with nature, but I also had a fear of heights,” she said. “

I thought that it would be interesting to do something out of my comfort zone. I wanted to not only come face-to-face with my fear, but be as uncomfortable as I can be. What really defines you is when you allow yourself to be as uncomfortable as can be to really allow ourselves to unlock so much untapped potential.”

Perez started climbing in 2020 and set her eyes on Mount Shasta in Northern California as her first big climb, followed by Mount Baker and Mount Rainier – and she eventually made her way to the Himalayas.

“When you face something that seems impossible, you inspire others to go for it too, and it is addictive trying to become the best version of myself. I needed people to know that anything’s possible in life.”

Although Perez has had many successful climbs, she also shared her more challenging

experiences, like getting pulmonary edema while climbing Manaslu and battling Raynaud’s disease which causes reduced blood flow to the extremities.

“I didn’t summit the first time and I got airlifted out,” she said. “It was terrifying because it feels like you’re drowning in your lungs. The weather will set in, and you have to be on oxygen to supplement it because if you don’t descend within 24 hours, you can die from pulmonary edema. The only cure for it is to just descend because it’s altitude induced.”

Despite experiencing a life-threatening event, Perez didn’t let this stop her from continuing her passion and went on to pursue Mount Everest, although she originally planned to climb Lobuche, a smaller mountain near Mount Everest.

“Because I formerly had pulmonary edema twice, I wanted to test out the altitude on a similar peak that was a similar altitude to Manaslu. Climbers from Everest and Lobuche share the same base camp. While I was there, I just kept staring at Everest, and I told myself that I was ready. I had medication from my doctor to avoid getting pulmonary edema again and I was properly acclimatized, so I called my sponsor and decided I was going to go for it.”

The climb to Mount Everest lasted from April 5 to May 24 of 2024.

During the climb, Perez was accompanied by about 12 other people and sherpas, members of an ethnic group who live in the eastern Himalayan region and guide climbers to reach the summit. These expert climbers also help carry equipment up to base camps and set up ladders and safety ropes to help make the climb safer.

“You’re getting really close to these people because you’re with them 24/7,” she said. “We’re all bonding because we are all crazy enough to climb this mountain. It’s people from different careers and different backgrounds, and we are all sharing the same experience. People prepare their whole year to climb this track. You’re constantly jumping and climbing up, down, and around. You really have to maneuver your way through this icefall that changes every day.”

In addition to dealing with curvaceous and tricky paths, climbers must deal with the extreme cold and extreme living conditions.

“We had a kitchen in the tent and a stove, which was all carried up by the sherpas,” she said. “They mainly cook traditional Nepali food like Dal Bhat which has rice, veggies or meat, and lentils. But as we got higher and higher, I was just eating ramen noodles every day and wasn’t getting many nutrients.

I was running on fumes, and at that point, I didn’t get much sleep. My digestive system was all over the place and my health was just declining every day.”

Although most people may first think of the physical hardship climbers face, their mental state is equally as impacted.

“When I was going to the higher camps, I would stay back because I was feeling so weak,” she said. “The team would keep going, so it was just me and my sherpa. I didn’t really have that sense of community or support at that time. I was alone with just my thoughts and my journal. It starts to become a mind game, because you have been there for so long and you’re so tired and want to give up at any moment. You’re now in these places where if you give up, you die.”

Just under 1000 people attempt to climb Everest each year, and only 500 of them

reach the peak. Although not everyone can try the climb, those who do, such as Perez, must maintain a positive attitude.

“Your mind is more powerful than you can ever imagine,” she said. “You’re capable, you just have to keep walking. You have to embrace the suck. That’s how you find a newfound strength you never thought you had.”

During the climb, Perez said that while she was having a hard time on her summit push, she felt a presence that she believes was her late friend and climber, Anna Gutu, who passed away in October of 2023 from an avalanche.

“I felt this immense pain in my stomach and felt like I was going to throw up,” she said. “I couldn’t even climb more than three feet.

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Anna popped into my mind, and I just felt her presence and this embrace of strength and love. I felt like I could hear her say ‘Don’t worry, you got this.’”

After finally reaching the summit, Perez said that she was honored to be able to represent El Paso, and hopes to inspire others to get out of their comfort zones.

“It was very humbling,” she said. “Everyone knew I had the hardest time on the mountain, so when I got to the top, I immediately dropped to my knees and thanked God. I prayed in thanks that I was alive and still had air in my lungs because there’s a lot of people that don’t make it off that mountain.”

The adventure doesn’t stop at Mount Everest for Perez, who now lives in Las Vegas.

In fact, she received her scuba diving license last year and plans on taking an international motorcycle trip with her brother and father. As for climbing, she plans on leading a team to Mount Kilimanjaro in December and is working on growing her organization American Alpine Girls, an organization dedicated to connecting climbers.

“I want to grow American Alpine Girls and get anyone who wants to climb and share the love of the mountains and the rocks with them,” she said. “Overall, it’s just about passion and getting over comfortability. That was the mindset Everest gave me, getting comfortable with being uncomfortable.”

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The Triple Combo

| By: STEPHANIE AMERENA photos courtesy of: STEPHANIE HAN |

“You shouldn’t fight. Use your words,”

is what a lot of parents would say to their children after a playground brawl. However, for the Han siblings, especially Stephanie Han, who is the fourth out of the five siblings, fighting is in their DNA. Fighting and winning.

To get to the point where she is now 8-0 and up for the WBA Intercontinental Championship, Han has been fighting since she was three years old. This is because her father, who owns Han’s Oriental Martial Arts, would bring her and her siblings to his studio almost every day after school. This became a second home to all of them. After competing in karate and kickboxing, by the age of 10, she followed in her older sibling footsteps and began her own boxing career.

Han found success as an amateur boxer, winning national championships, and even making it to Team USA. Though at the age of 20, burn out caught up with Han and she decided to quit boxing.

“I wanted to see what else I was besides just a fighter,” she said.

During this time, Han attended the University of Texas at El Paso where she earned a Bachelors in Kinesiology with a Minor in Biology. In between classes and late night study sessions, she met her husband. Then in no time at all they had their son. They were a new happy family, but they soon found themselves in financial strain.

Because of these financial issues, and with her husband still finishing his education, Han started looking for a job where she could utilize her skill set. One day, she saw that the El Paso Police Department was hiring

Knockout

for new officers. Han says she has always been attracted to law enforcement, especially since her father raised her to be tough in any situation. She applied and was accepted to EPPD’s Academy.

Once Han arrived at the Academy, she quickly realized that she had a lot to learn, describing the experience as “eye opening.”

Han explained that despite all her years in the ring, she was sheltered as a child and didn’t know anything else outside the Northeast and her father’s studio. At the Academy, she got to see how the world truly is. While she had the upper hand in physical fitness, she still needed to learn the common sense needed to be a successful police officer.

Han graduated from the Academy and began her career as one of El Paso’s finest.

While everyday was exciting and different, where she would help the community she was born and raised in, it was unpredictable from who she would have to encounter while on patrol, to how late she would have to come home from shift. This became even more challenging with the birth of her daughter, who needed extra care and attention. With her dedication and hard work ethic, Han was able to transfer back to the Academy as an instructor.

Not only would she have more time to focus on family, but she has also been able to keep the standards high for all future police officers.

Han found herself content with her family and her job, but then learned that her sister, Jennifer, needed help. Jennifer Han was

the first world champion boxer from El Paso and held the IBF Female FeatherWeight Championship from 2015 until 2020. During the pandemic, Jennifer was offered the opportunity to fight one of the best female boxers in the world. Due to COVID, there were limited options for sparring partners and trainers. Her sister was considered the underdog since she had just given birth to her first child. Han saw the writing on the walls of how her sister was set to lose on national television so she told Jennifer, “I will go and help you because we’re in this together; we’re family.”

From there she helped Jennifer prepare for the Katie Taylor fight.

While Jennifer might not have won, she made Taylor fight tooth and nail every second for all ten rounds.

During that time, Han was surprised at the

skills that stayed with her after so many years out of the ring. She was content with not boxing for the rest of her life, but training with her sister reignited the long lost spark and she had an epiphany.

“At that moment, it was either now or never. At that time of my life, I was stable with my job, my family, and with my daughter,” she says. Han decided to give boxing another chance and has been rising up the ranks for the last three and a half years.

Her next opponent will be Miranda Reyes in Ring Wars on the 27th of July at the El Paso Coliseum for the WBA Intercontinental Championship. It will be Han’s most competitive opportunity that she has had – so far.

Her opponent has already fought for a world title, so if/when Han wins, she will be that much closer to reaching her ultimate goal of being the World Champion for the Lightweight Division.

“I don’t train to lose, and I know I am capable of being a world champion,” she said.

Han starts her boxing training first thing every morning at 6 am until 7:30am. One of the perks of being assigned to the Academy is being able to get her cardio training in when she does PT with the newest recruits. After work she trains in either skills, techniques, or sparring with her brother or sister Jennifer at their family gym, or even with Louis Burke from Las Cruces PAL Boxing. Some nights, she won’t get home until after 10:30 or 11pm. Then, the following morning, she still needs to do what she needs to do to not only get ready for another day at work, but also fulfill her role as a mother and help get her kids ready for school.

“I have to be disciplined to make sure I accomplish everything that I need to do,” Han explains. “Though sometimes I wish there were an extra five hours in a day.”

A wish that is shared by many, the secret to Han’s success is from her biggest support, her husband and her whole family.

“I feel truly blessed that I have my family’s support,” said Han. “I know that I wouldn’t be able to follow my dream if I didn’t have them.”

Thanks to them she can do it all, but she emphasized that family will always take first priority.

While training is one of the hardest aspects for Han, it is also her favorite when she experiences the feeling of accomplishment of all the sacrifices put into being the best.

“All the timing you put into training and not only physical, but mental as well,” Han explained. “For me, it all comes down to that one day. The day of the fight. And when I came out victorious, all that hard work was worth it.”

Getting her training from the gym, the street, and from her own family, Han will be more than ready for her fight on the 27th.

“After becoming a mom and becoming a police officer, I feel like it’s only made me stronger,” she said.

On the day of the fight, she will have her family in the crowd, her trainers in her corner, and her chiseled and polished focus inside the ring. All unfaltering and remaining unwavering until the last ring of the bell.

The

Legacy

I| By: STEPHANIE AMERENA photography by: ENRIQUE LOZANO |

n the fast-paced day and age where eating has been reduced to a means of staving off the inconvenience of hunger or boredom rather than an event to indulge and enjoy, Enrique Lozano has taken great strides in building up, not only himself, but also El Paso as a destination on the culinary map.

Born and raised from both sides of the Borderland, Lozano has been exposed to

the world of cooking from a young age. He watched many of his family members, like his mother, show off their talents cooking at home; his father was a professional chef for a variety of different restaurants. Along with cooking and baking, his father even provided catering for weddings and Quinceaneras.

While Lozano was able to watch his father and family make the food, the first time

he truly experienced the power of food occurred at a humble A&W burger spot in El Paso.

With his father, middle school Lozano bit into a bacon double cheeseburger that was so delicious that it opened his mind to what food can be. So much so that when he got home, he tried to recreate that moment of that first bite.

Lozano’s exploration of food continued during his time at Socorro High School.

Even though he ran with the football crowd, he had started thinking about his future. This led to stumbling into a culinary class taught by Zino Souikni. If that name sounds familiar, it is because he is the owner of the local restaurant Zino’s Greek and Mediterranean Food. Lozano’s skills became so impressive that by the time he graduated in 2011, Zino reached out to him and offered him a spot at his westside location.

Jumping at the opportunity to work in a restaurant, Lozano began working at Zino’s.

While also attending culinary school at EPCC at the same time, Lozano couldn’t ignore the valuable and enriching experience Zino’s provided and dedicated his full attention to the restaurant. However, after eight years, the familiarity developed into a feeling of stagnation. It was at that time he knew he needed a change.

“It starts with a spark,” explained Lozano, “… but if you don’t turn it into a fire, you’ll get burned out.”

Lozano kept that fire burning with the logs of knowledge and techniques that he acquired from the restaurants: Steve’Os Kitchen Craft Bar; Grant Achatz’s Next in Chicago; and at the Stanton House Taft Diaz. Each experience provided him lessons of what it means to work in fine dining, the importance of taking a chance on yourself, and how impactful Mexican dining can be in El Paso.

Lozano took these lessons to heart when he opened his own restaurants. First at Nishi Ramen in 2017, which was also the first ramen shop in El Paso. Next, he polished his skills as a chef during his time at Taft Diaz, then to renowned El Charlatán between 2020 and 2021.

It starts with a spark, …but if you don’t turn it into a fire, you’ll get burned out.

Originally starting with the idea of a backyard family atmosphere, the concept evolved when Lozano saw a listing in Socorro for hacienda adobe style building. When he stepped into the 150-year-old building, it was love at first sight, but was a challenge to maintain the historical personality while also making it a social and functional restaurant. From the ground up, Lozano was able to build his dream with the help of his father.

Once the doors opened, is when Lozan’s took off.

El Charlatán became so successful that it was featured in Texas Monthly and The Local Palate. Then in 2022, when the James Beard Awards had their first category for Texas, Lozano was nominated for the Top 20 Chefs in Texas category. However, despite the success and notoriety, El Charlatán fell into some financial issues in 2023. Making the hard choice of either falling further into debt or closing down, Lozano decided to close down.

To reflect on his next steps, Lozano took some time off from cooking. But that didn’t stop the offers from coming to Lozano and his sous chef, Gil, from both in and out of town.

When the time came, they took a few weeks to consider their options until the owners of Ay Dios Mios, Jennifer Mendoza and Michael Magallanes, reached out. There was natural chemistry the owners had with Lozano with how they spoke and what they had to offer the chef’s team.

The couple not only provided them more than what other restaurants offered, but also gave them the creative freedom they crave.

After 14 years of cooking, Lozano’s creative process is sparked by a story. A story that has influence from his surroundings and the people who inspire him, like his family. “Coming up with recipes is the easy part,”

said Lozano. “Coming up with a story is more difficult.”

The story for Ay Dios Mios became the marriage of an El Paso bar and a fine dining restaurant that redefines what both could be.

Not long after Ay Dios Mios opened its doors in February of this year, did Lozano hit another milestone in his culinary career: being on the Food Network.

While the initial process took six months and then another year after filming, he was able to debut his episode of “Beating Bobby Flay” at Ay Dios Mios.

Like many moments that seem too good to be true, Lozano initially thought the Instagram message he received to invite him onto the show was a scam. But, he took a chance and once he got onto the main

stage, “It was like a dream come true, after shooting for the stars, and finally being there,” he said. “It felt like this is what I am meant to do, and I was representing El Paso and Socorro and my family.”

Many of his family were there to watch him go head-to-head with the legendary Bobby Flay and the rest watched at the launch party at Ay Dios Mios, including his young daughter who cheered for her dad the entire episode.

Plus, despite her passing in 2022, Lozano was certain his mother was watching over him with pride of how far he had come.

“It was a lot of emotions,” said Lozano. “And that’s what it’s all about.” While he might have not taken the title that day, he certainly made an impression on one of the biggest names in the culinary world.

Though those details need to be saved for later down the road.

When asked if he will be staying in El Paso or will be venturing internationally, Lozano said, “Now more than ever, getting into the legacy part of my career and what I’m leaving behind, I really want to make it my mission to elevate El Paso as a food city. I want people to travel here for just the food.”

He further explained how El Paso is a unique concept that has influences from all over the world from the people who come here. “Not just Mexico, but from all over Latin America as well as those from China or Korea,” he said. “It’s a story that needs to be told.”

With a few projects in the works, one including a new restaurant in San Elizario, Lozano is still telling stories through his cooking at Ay Dios Mios; with that first A&W burger proudly tattooed on his arm.

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Construction, Real Estate, and Home Pros Profiles

El Paso’s skyline and streetscapes are continually reshaped by the dedicated professionals in construction and real estate. Home to a blend of seasoned experts and innovative newcomers, this industry is driving the city’s expansion and modernization. These home pros are not just building structures; they are crafting the very essence of the city’s future. Their work reflects a seamless blend of tradition and innovation as they are at the heart of El Paso’s progress. Their commitment to excellence and vision for progress ensure that El Paso remains a vibrant, thriving city.

How does your company collaborate with clients in El Paso to personalize their home construction or renovation projects?

Our first venture started as the most successful business start. We had a project to build a fully custom luxury home and no luxury “custom” home builder would truly build a unique custom home. The builders mostly had a menu of options attached to a few different models of luxury homes in their inventory that could be somewhat tailored but never fully became a pure custom product! That drive to fill a market gap and disrupt the custom luxury home market in a time where market disruption was not a coined phrase has organically grown into the fully custom luxury home company we are today!

How does your company ensure that every aspect of a home build in El Paso meets high standards of quality? What are some key checkpoints or processes your team follows to maintain craftsmanship excellence throughout the construction process? Being at the forefront of innovation in each and every home we build thus setting us apart from our competitors includes prioritizing the needs and satisfaction of our customers, making their dream home a reality, providing exceptional customer service, and building strong relationships to create a loyal customer following, referral and repeat business. Consistently delivering high-quality custom luxury homes that meet or exceed customer expectations thus establishing a reputation for excellence and superior customer service in addition to building a strong brand identity, with clear values and “wow” factor builds!

How have you grown your clientele?

Although in the beginning of our journey we had identified the market need, customer demographics, our mission and vision –there was a huge problem. We had no way of proving our abilities and knowledge to our potential customers.

They had no reason to trust us with their money, time or dream home. that they could entrust hundreds of thousands of dollars to a group of inexperienced individuals. Resiliency, sacrifice, and persistence helped us navigate the custom luxury home path by mostly giving away our work and allowing us to build and prove our brand through hard work, inexpensive builder fees and a full commitment to our customers and their power to make or break us by word-of-mouth advertising!

How does your company navigate risks?

Our initial business model is key in our risk taking and mitigation strategy. The number one reason builders build a bad reputation and are sued, or lose referral business is due to the lack of excellent customer service and project management. Keep company staff always focused and empowered to make decisions that will mitigate risk or eliminate it completely thus greatly diminishing problems across all phases of the build.

What advice do you have for aspiring entrepreneurs?

ALWAYS have a plan and don’t be afraid to modify as needed throughout your journey. Be a square with rounded edges. Listen to your more experienced peers and leaders! Most of the time they have a great piece of advice wrapped in a boring conversation. Build a strong network. Focus on your team, without them, entrepreneurs are nothing.

AJ Trujillo, Trujillo Roofing and Construction

What inspired you to establish or join a roofing company, and how does your work contribute to the safety and protection of homes and businesses in the El Paso area?

I initially started my roofing business by accident. Prior to this, I was in the furniture business for over 10 years. We had a huge hail storm that affected most of El Paso in November of 2016, and that’s when I got recruited by another roofing company to lead their sales department. Less than a year later, I started Trujillo Roofing and Construction.

Can you share a recent roofing project you completed in El Paso that showcases your company’s expertise and commitment to quality craftsmanship?

We recently did a full roof replacement that needed new OSB decking, so we contacted the homeowner’s insurance company and they approved to cover the costs. We also follow the City of El Paso’d code requirements based on the 2021 IRC BUILDING CODES.

How does your company prioritize and ensure the safety of your team members and clients’ properties while undertaking roofing projects in El Paso?

Safety is very critical in this industry. Especially with our current temperatures reaching 100°+, it’s very important for me to make sure my roofers and other workers are properly hydrated. I think on an average day we go through 80-100 lbs of ice and about 4-5 cases of water. We also have safety harnesses and proper boots/shoes to ensure correct footing.

With advancements in roofing materials and technologies, how do you stay informed about the latest innovations and integrate them into your projects to enhance durability, energy efficiency, and aesthetic appeal for El Paso residents?

I take lots of online workshops and seminars about the latest and newest products. Although it costs more, we always install the best quality products that’ll protect our client’s home for many more years ahead. We guarantee all of our work with a warranty, that’s the number one reason we’d rather install quality materials so our client’s will have the peace of mind knowing they have a top quality roof.

How do you maintain open and transparent communication with clients throughout the entire roofing process, from initial assessment and quotation to project completion and follow-up inspections?

We offer FREE ROOF INSPECTIONS AND EVALUATIONS, we even have a program where we can check for hail or wind damage prior to us even going to the home so we know what to expect. We take detailed pictures of before, during and after the project has been completed and send them to the homeowner. We also do FREE Yearly ROOF INSPECTIONS to our previous clients for the next 5 years just to ensure their roof is still in proper working order and that there is no damage.

Caballero

Denise Caballero, Monarc Realty Group

What inspired you to pursue a career in real estate?

Over 15 years ago, after my daughters went off to college, I was excited to use my education in finance to provide homebuyers and commercial property investors with expert guidance.

How do you see your role in helping individuals & families find their dream homes in El Paso?

As a dedicated real estate professional, my role is to understand my clients’ unique goals, guide them through the entire homebuying process, provide expert advice, and find their dream home that fits their budget.

Can you share a recent successful home sale in the El Paso area? What were some of the main challenges you faced, and how did you overcome them to achieve a successful outcome for your clients?

I had a listing that was priced fairly; however, the offers we received were below market. My client was concerned and wanted my advice. It’s been my experience that it can take time for the right buyer to find ‘their’ house, so in this case, I recommended patience. The house sold for $18,000 over the list price in 10 months.

In the constantly evolving real estate market, how do you ensure that you stay informed about the latest trends, regulations, and market conditions to provide the best service to your clients in El Paso?

I surround myself with a great team of market and financial specialists; I subscribe to real estate market trends and stay current on the economy of Texas and New Mexico. I regularly attend industry conferences and keep a keen eye on market trends. I am a firm believer that knowledge is power.

How do you ensure clear and transparent communication with your clients throughout the buying or selling process?

There are many layers to buying or selling a home. I go over every offer, contract, appraisal, inspection, and market analysis with my clients so there are no surprises. I am available 24/7 and provide the same level of service regardless of the property’s price. I am highly diligent and committed to my clients.

How do you customize your services to meet the unique requirements of clients from different backgrounds and communities in El Paso?

I customize my services based on my clients’ needs. I am fluent in English and Spanish. Initially, I spend significant time asking questions and, most importantly, listening. Understanding my clients’ goals helps me strategize a plan to achieve success. People’s needs are similar; their tastes may differ, but they want a professional who understands what they want and always has their back.

Custom Homes Built to your Budget

Customization is often a key desire for homeowners. How does your company collaborate with clients in El Paso to personalize their home construction or renovation projects?

Our motto is: “Custom Homes, Built to your budget.” With your input and direction, we will first design your unique home to fit your needs and your budget. After we helped you design your dream home, we will build your dream home on your lot. If you don’t have a lot to build on, our preferred lenders will help you finance the construction as well as the land.

Every inch of your new home will be built on site, by humans, not in a factory by robots. We have to deal with weather and human error. The only way to maintain quality and craftsmanship is by constantly supervising the work and communicating with our team. We always strive for excellence, but if a mistake is made, we will address it.

How does your company integrate energy-efficient practices and technologies into your projects in El Paso? Could you provide an example of how you’ve helped homeowners reduce energy consumption or achieve green building certifications through your construction methods?

I love this question and I can geek out on it for hours!! We are one of the few Energy Star Certified Builders in El Paso. The one item that will make the biggest difference in your new home is Spray Foam Insulation. We use it in every home we build. It’s not just an awesome thermal insulator, it is also an Air Barrier. It makes your home more efficient, more comfortable and cleaner than other types of insulation.

Building codes and regulations can vary. How does your company navigate local building codes and zoning requirements in El Paso to ensure compliance and smooth project approvals?

We are heavily involved with the El Paso Association of Builders, we communicate constantly with the permitting authorities, and work closely with the best Third Party Consultant in El Paso. It is through these relationships that we remain abreast of upcoming code changes as well as best practices.

How do you keep clients in El Paso informed and involved throughout each phase of their project? What tools or methods do you use to facilitate clear communication, address concerns promptly, and ensure that clients feel confident in the progress of their home construction or renovation?

Throughout the entire process, our customers have a direct line to their designer and project manager. At multiple stages of the build, we coordinate their unique selections with customers and suppliers. We also perform a thorough walk of the project with the customer before drywall and before the final completion.

How do you approach training and development for your real estate agents at The Williams Advanced Realty Team?

At The Williams Advanced Realty Team, training and development are cornerstones of our success. We offer comprehensive training programs that cover everything from market analysis to negotiation techniques. Our agents have access to ongoing hands-on training, workshops, mentorship opportunities, and one-on-one coaching sessions. This commitment to education not only empowers our agents but also ensures that they can provide the best possible service to our clients.

What kind of support system do you have in place for your agents to help them thrive?

Support is crucial to our agents’ success, and we provide it in spades. From administrative assistance to marketing resources, we ensure our agents have everything they need to focus on their clients and close deals. We have a dedicated support team that handles logistics, technology, and client follow-ups, allowing our agents to concentrate on what they do best.

How does technology play a role in the way you conduct business and support your agents?

Technology is integral to our operations. We leverage cutting-edge tools for market analysis, customer relationship management, and virtual tours. Our agents have access to state-of-the-art platforms

Ben Williams, founder & ceo/coach

that streamline transactions, enhance communication with clients, and provide real-time data insights. By staying at the forefront of technological advancements, we ensure our agents can work more efficiently and provide exceptional service in a competitive market.

Can you describe the culture at The Williams Advanced Realty Team and how it contributes to agent satisfaction and productivity?

The culture at The Williams Advanced Realty Team is one of inclusivity, support, and continuous improvement. We foster a family-like atmosphere where every agent feels valued and appreciated. We celebrate successes together and provide constructive feedback to help each other grow. This positive and collaborative environment boosts morale and encourages high productivity.

How do you balance offering tough love with showing appreciation to your agents, and why is this balance important?

Balancing tough love with appreciation is key to developing highperforming agents. At The Williams Advanced Realty Team, we set high standards and hold our agents accountable, but we also recognize and celebrate their achievements. Constructive criticism is always paired with actionable advice, and we provide the support needed to implement changes. This approach ensures that our agents are constantly improving while feeling valued and appreciated.

What inspired you to pursue a career in real estate, and how do you see your role in helping individuals and families find their dream homes in El Paso?

Nakia Caldwell: Our broker, Ben Williams, inspired me to pursue a career as a realtor. He guided and educated me through selling my first home, especially during a challenging time due to my deployment while serving in the Army. His expertise and support made a complex process easier for me. I aim to provide the same level of dedication and assistance to all my clients. ”

Can you share a recent successful home sale in the El Paso area? What were some of the main challenges you faced, and how did you overcome them to achieve a successful outcome for your clients?

Rob Brown: Recently, I had the pleasure of helping a young Military Family obtain home ownership. Despite being qualified for a VA Loan the family was having trouble qualifying for a home that met their needs. Higher interest rates may have been a contributing factor. By working with an experienced loan officer we were able to explore many options to help the Family realize their dream of homeownership. To our surprise the family’s father was a Veteran who qualified and was added to the loan. Through the creativity of our loan officer we were able to increase the amount of loan, in-turn finding the perfect home.

The Williams Advanced Realty team 1700 N Zaragoza Rd. Ste. 117 (915) 255-2577 thewarteam.com

Carmelo Santaromana: We constantly monitor the local market through the MLS, and as members of NAR we keep up to date with current events nationwide. Our team thrives on training and continuing ed courses are paramount.

How do you ensure clear and transparent communication with your clients throughout the buying or selling process?

Daniel Garcia: A core belief of ours is “People over Profit,” which helps keep our clients top of mind. To ensure a clear and transparent communication with them, we conduct a buyer or listing presentation that walks them through the entire process so that they understand each crossroad.

How do you customize your services to meet the unique requirements of clients from different backgrounds and communities within El Paso?

Nakia Caldwell: We engage with local community leaders, organizations, and residents to better understand the needs and preferences of The City of El Paso and its residents. This tailors our services to be more effective and impactful.

Longhorn Maintenance

Heating & Cooling Inc.

14317 McMahon Ave. El Paso, TX 79928

(915) 852-7334 longhornairep.com

What is your specialty?

Top notch residential and commercial HVAC services and sheet metal fabrication, I serve our community as a mechanical contractor who is highly reputable for providing excellent service in El Paso for over 30 years.

What distinguishes you as a business professional?

I grew up in this industry alongside my father and he instilled hard work and customer loyalty in me. I have never let his lessons leave my mission for excellence here at Longhorn Maintenance Heating and Cooling.

Why should readers turn to you for their needs?

We are very highly rated, our customers come first. We deliver top quality products in a timely manner, have over 10,000 hours of combined expertise, and provide innovative heating and cooling solutions and personalized service.

Why do you live and work in El Paso?

I was born and raised here, I love El Paso and its amazing people. My family has served this amazing community for over 30 years, and we are excited to serve El Paso for another 30 plus years to come!

What is the best part of your job?

I’ve enjoyed working side by side with my father, and take great pleasure in building relationships with new clients, while nurturing my existing clients. Mutually rewarding partnerships is our goal.

Winsupply of El Paso 1465 Henry Brennan Dr. (915) 859-3817 winsupplyelpaso.com

How did you get started in the HVAC industry, and how has it evolved over your career?

I got started at the age of 14 by cleaning and helping as a sheet metal shop layout employee. My passion for the industry grew when I worked my way up to sales. I then bid on HVAC jobs for an HVAC contractor and have been working in the HVAC industry for the last 48 years. I’m still learning every day.

What made you choose to start a company in this industry? And why Winsupply?

After 32 years in the industry, I know what contractors in El Paso need. I wanted to create a business that would provide them with all the HVAC products they needed in a one-stop shop. Winsupply has embraced the philosophy of local ownership and local decision-making. Winsupply has provided us the opportunity to own and operate our own business with our local community.

Can you share an example of how your company provides exceptional service to your clients?

Our HVAC Contractors know time is money. They need to be assured that when their technicians come in, they will be efficiently taken care of and out the door quickly. Our combined sales reps have over 100 years of experience in this industry. We’re not just order takers; we are problem solvers.

HVAC systems can vary significantly based on building types, climate, and client needs. How do you ensure your HVAC equipment meets the specific requirements of diverse clients and projects?

As a born-and-raised El Pasoan and the son of a farmer, I grew up understanding the climate. Champion Heating & Cooling equipment is built to meet the challenges of our desert heat. In less than 5 years, Winsupply of El Paso has made Champion the #1 brand in the El Paso market. We offer top-quality products, a fully stocked warehouse, and competitive pricing.

Why is giving back so important to you, and how have you seen this impact your company?

Our motto has always been, “We are blessed to be a blessing.” We have always strived to support our El Paso community, whether it’s by using UTEP Athletics in our commercials, using only locally owned restaurants to cater for us, or sponsoring the Aaron Jones’ Yards for Shoes with the A&A All The Way Foundation. We want to bless our community, and we have had customers reach out to thank us for our involvement.

7340 Cimmaron Market

Tori Lynn Rivera Qualifying Broker | Agent | Owner

What inspired you to pursue a career in real estate, and how do you see your role in helping individuals and families find their dream homes in El Paso?

My career in real estate began out of necessity, after the birth of our third child. There had been some major changes in my life that thrust me into a make-or-break situation. What should’ve taken my family and me down, only made us stronger. I have always had a passion for real estate but never could’ve fathomed that it would hold such a beautiful future for myself and my family.

Can you share a recent successful home sale in the El Paso area? What were some of the main challenges you faced, and how did you overcome them to achieve a successful outcome for your clients?

One of my most recent sales was actually for my very first clients. We sold their first home so they could expand their growing family. They are expecting their second child, and I first met them when they were newlyweds seven years ago. We faced a couple of hurdles that included multiple offers, inspections, and solar panel liens. I’m happy to say that it all went extremely well and they made an incredible amount back from the equity gained over the years.

My constant focus is the real estate market. I follow several high-ranking real estate professionals including Brian Buffini, Barbara Corcoran, and Glenda Baker (she’s my favorite). I’m highly connected within the local real estate community, and find that the professionals in our city can best read our unique market.

How do you ensure clear and transparent communication with your clients throughout the buying or selling process?

I’m addicted to my phone! I’m just kidding, but I am always on-call. If I don’t pick up my phone, I’ll call right back. I really make an effort to make sure my clients feel completely connected to me throughout the entire transaction process and beyond. I always say “There are no dumb questions,” and I mean it. Call me!

How do you customize your services to meet the unique requirements of clients from different backgrounds and communities within El Paso?

I find that any challenge can be met with a little bit of patience and ingenuity. I find joy in making people seen and heard. If a client needs to speak to me from a different time zone, I stay up late to make that phone call. If a client needs wet signatures over digital, I’m there with paper and pen in-hand. If a client needs assistance prepping their home for sale, I have the connections. Whatever the situation – however unique – I’ve got their back.

Fernando Valenzuela 1st Choice Realty (915) 493-9793 221 N Kansas St. Suite 1901 Fernandotherealtor93@gmail.com

What inspired you to pursue a career in real estate, and how do you see your role in helping individuals and families find their dream homes in El Paso?

My inspiration to pursue a career in real estate stemmed from a desire to take control of my future and achieve success through my own efforts. I am passionate about helping individuals and families find their dream homes or starter homes. My role is to guide and educate my clients, providing them with accurate information and data so they can make well-informed decisions. I believe that by empowering my clients with knowledge, I can help them navigate the real estate market with confidence and find a place they truly love.

Can you share a recent successful home sale in the El Paso area? What were some of the main challenges you faced, and how did you overcome them to achieve a successful outcome for your clients?

I recently had the opportunity to assist a family with a challenging credit history who thought homeownership might be out of reach. Despite their credit issues, their motivation to own a home was unwavering. The main challenge was navigating the financing hurdles, but by connecting them with the right financial advisors and credit repair services, we started to make progress. I maintained constant communication throughout the process, ensuring they felt supported and informed every step of the way.

How do you ensure clear and transparent communication with your clients throughout the buying or selling process?

To ensure clear and transparent communication with my clients throughout the buying or selling process, I prioritize a structured approach and consistent updates. I start by establishing clear expectations and timelines from the outset. I maintain regular contact through various channels such as phone calls, emails, and meetings to keep my clients informed about every step of the process.

What inspired you to pursue real estate? How do you see your role in helping others find their dream homes?

I’ve always been passionate about real estate from developing, flipping, selling, and buying. I realized when searching for my first home that people make things complicated and boring. With my background and Master’s in Marketing, my mission is to help my clients with a fun, stress-free process.

Can you share a recent successful sale and the challenges you faced? How did you overcome them?

My clients are like my family and they’re very special to me. Recently, Marco, my lender, and I made the impossible possible. My client suddenly had an incorrect hit to his credit score and with no time to repair it, we thought it was a lost deal. But We Made Magic and got him closed with less than a 600 credit score on a million-dollar property.

In the constantly evolving real estate market, how do you stay informed about the latest trends and market conditions to provide the best service?

Trends are extremely important in my business. From architecture, technology, etc., myself, my team, title agents, and my lender believe that training, courses, and social media are key elements to staying on top.

How do you ensure clear and transparent communication throughout the buying/selling process?

Communication is the most important thing. I explain the process with my clients step-by-step until all questions are answered. Group texting ensures that conversations are documented so clients can reference the information discussed. I’m accessible “Monday to Monday” and ALWAYS THERE FOR MY CLIENTS.

Do you have a preferred lender? What can they tell us about their services?

Brothers Marco and Jos Viramontes with Maverick Funding bring over 30 years of experience in mortgages and real estate. They get results for non-conventional and traditional borrowers in residential and commercial markets in TX and NM. They specialize in self-employed borrowers with a strong history of finding creative solutions for difficult files. When others can’t, they can. Email Marco A. Viramontes at mviramontes@axenmortgage.com, or Jos Viramontes at jviramontes@nexamortgage.com, for a consultation.

Beyond the BylinesStorytellers Breaking News & Building Community

By: ERIN COULEHAN

Creative Director: SHELLEY MOZELLE

Editorial photography by: JORDAN LICON; KATHERINE KOCIAN; And ANNABELLA MIRELES

Additional photography provided by: IRIS LOPEZ, SALINA MADRID, and SECRET WHERRETT

Production Assistant: MELODY STOUT

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, my favorite word has everything to do with my favorite thing to do: storytelling. The Latin term fabula is derived from fari, meaning “to speak,” which is where we get the word “fable” from. Around the 16th century, a new word was born to describe people, places, and things being buzzed about – stories worthy of reporting.

Thus, the word “fabulous” entered the lexicon.

This month, we’re featuring fabulous women storytellers in journalism from across El Paso’s media landscape: morning news, primetime news in English and Spanish, print, and radio who all share a passion for storytelling in their DNA. Their origin stories are as diverse, dynamic, and interesting as the stories they share with their audience each day, and The City Magazine is thrilled to showcase not only the stories of the storytellers, but also the minds of some of the community’s most beloved members of the media.

You might say that these women are on the same page.

Crafting Stories at Sunrise

The stories start taking shape before dawn.

Amidst the backdrop of desert sunrises and bustling morning traffic, Salina Madrid and Jessica Gonzalez anchor the KFOX14 morning news, as a dynamic duo whose passion for storytelling is rivaled only by their dedication to the community.

“The passion for our work is fueled by the fact that this is our community,” explains Madrid. “These are our people and the stories that we’re telling impact our people. The work is so important to the both of us.”

Madrid’s journey into journalism was rooted in childhood mornings spent with her grandfather, poring over newspapers in their small village outside Las Cruces. Those early days instilled in her a love for uncovering truth and amplifying voices that often go unheard.

“You really have to have a strong work ethic in this line of work, and you really have to care. Jessica and I have our strengths when it comes to our communities: she’s very El Paso-first, and I’m very Las Cruces-first,” she says.

Her six-year career at KFOX14 has been punctuated by impactful series like “Becoming the Badge,” where she delved into the rigorous training of the El Paso’s Police Department’s Academy, fostering a profound respect for the city’s first responders. Her warm demeanor and knack for visual storytelling shines in every broadcast, reminding viewers that behind the headlines are real stories, affecting real lives.

“I like video, and that’s something that really helps tell a story (even though I think print is amazing),” says Madrid. “But I love to be able to showcase what we’re talking about, and be able to show a visually-impressive video. Ever since I was a kid, I just loved being in front of the camera. I think it’s fun and we’re able to show our personality a little bit more on-air.”

Gonzalez, on the other hand, discovered her passion for journalism through a love of writing and an insatiable appetite for news. Her career path has a solid foundation of persistence and dedication, from early days in print and digital media to her current role at KFOX. She returned to El Paso after a

three-year stint covering sports at ESPN in Connecticut, where she remains driven by a deep connection to her hometown and a desire to make a difference.

“We take our work very personally, especially when you’re doing it in your hometowns,” says Gonzalez. “For a lot of us, I think the main goal is network news. But there’s something very special about doing news right in your hometown. You’re very familiar with the people, with the places, with who you’re

reporting on. I find it to be more fulfilling than network news might be just because we’re so invested in the community. I left for three years to cover sports then I came right back home and I don’t regret it.”

Gonzalez’s coverage extends beyond headlines to personal stories that resonate deeply with local families, such as her franchise “Family First,” which focused on education and community issues close to her heart.

“The biggest compliment that you can receive as a journalist is someone telling you, ‘Thank you for telling my story.’ Or, ‘You’re making a difference,” says Gonzalez. Madrid and Gonzalez have formed a

formidable team on-screen with their primarily female-driven reporters and production crew, blending a knack for on-camera charisma with meticulous research and storytelling finesse. Their complementary strengths create a perfect recipe for impactful journalism. Whether holding elected officials accountable or showcasing uplifting community initiatives, their dedication to serving El Paso is unwavering.

“It’s demanding work, but it’s very fulfilling in the sense where we’re able to uncover the truth and be the voice for the voiceless – that’s something that’s really important to me,” says Madrid. “I also love that it’s different every single day and it’s not the same thing everyday because the industry keeps changing and it’s evolving. We’re learning to evolve with the times.”

Their mornings are a blend of serious journalism and lighthearted banter, a reflection of their shared belief that news can be informative without being overly somber. They know firsthand the importance of relatability and trust in their field, especially in a community as tight-knit as El Paso. Their camaraderie extends beyond the studio, built on years of shared experiences as working mothers and mutual respect for each other’s strengths.

“It took me a long time to graduate from college because I had my older daughter at 19. It was imperative that I finish college for my mom,” says Gonzalez. She’d tell me, ‘You are 19 years old and pregnant, but you will finish college,’ which I did. I started my career with handheld cameras, creating graphics, and producing a segment. I did a little bit of reporting, was on the assignment desk, then I went to the web desk. I worked my way up to being on-camera in the last 22 years, 10 of those years with KFOX.”

Each morning, as the sun rises over the Franklin Mountains, Madrid and Gonzalez continue to inspire their viewers, driven by

La passion for their craft and a deep-rooted commitment to their community. They not only inform but also uplift, reminding El Pasoans that amidst the challenges of the world, there are stories of resilience, hope, and everyday heroes worth celebrating.

“There’s a lot of bad stuff out there but there are a lot of moments where we are able to be ourselves and show our viewers we’re relatable,” says Madrid. “We’re just like you. I’m from a small town in Dona Ana County outside of Las Cruces, a little village. To be able to show people that you can come from the smallest place but do big things is so rewarding.”

The KFOX14 morning anchors are not only inspiring and informing the public each day, but also welcoming newcomers to the community as though a member of the family has just returned from an extended trip.

Illuminating El Paso with Due(weke) Diligence

eaving behind the rainy skies of Seattle for the sun-drenched landscapes of Texas, Liz Dueweke found herself not just in a new city as the weekday evening anchor at KFOX14, but in a place she could call home where her passion for storytelling and journalism could thrive.

“I became a journalist because I love to write. Journalism just felt like the obvious choice,” Dueweke shares, reflecting on her deep-rooted affinity for journalism that began with childhood scribbles and makeshift newspapers.

“I would pretend to be the reporters I saw on TV as a little kid. Once we got a computer, I would create my own newspapers and I’d write all the

articles,” she says. “My whole life, I would write little books and draw all of the illustrations.. Then I got to college, majored in journalism, and everything kind of clicked. I thought, ‘Wow, I’m actually pretty good at this.’”

Her upbringing, surrounded by literature and her father’s influence as an English teacher, planted the seeds for a career that would span from Michigan to Seattle and now to El Paso.

“I started at Michigan State and then I transferred over to Oakland University, which is outside of Detroit, which was awesome. All of my professors worked for Detroit newspapers and the local TV stations. Mentors were really doing it. I felt like I had a glimpse of what it was like to be in the business,” says Dueweke.

But – as any journalist will attest to – nothing can prepare you for everything that can be thrown at a reporter or anchor over the course of the work day or pay period.

“My second week on the job, I jumped out of an airplane with the Golden Knights,” she recalls, reflecting on her nearly 20-year career in broadcast journalism that began with the renowned United States Army Parachute Team known for their precision and daring aerial performances.

“I was 22 years old. I was in Yuma, that’s where they trained. Then a week later, I saw the Golden Knights on the ‘Today Show’ doing the same thing with the President.”

In Seattle, she faced the intensity of journalism head-on, covering everything

from exhilarating highs like the Super Bowl to heartbreaking lows such as the loss of colleagues in a tragic helicopter crash.

“We were sitting in the newsroom and heard buzzing outside the windows. We looked outside and said, ‘That’s our news chopper.’ Then we realized that our news chopper had just gone down outside of our station,” says Dueweke. “We raced upstairs and realized that our colleagues had died in the crash, and we had to do the breaking news on our own people. Then, a week after, about an hour north of us was a giant landslide that had killed 43 people. In the span of a week, there were these two major disasters.”

Now having lived in El Paso a year while at KFOX14, she continues her mission to amplify local voices and highlight the pulse of the community. Her appreciation for hyperlocal news underscores her belief in the importance of keeping communities informed and connected, especially in times of crisis like the New Mexico wildfires.

“What journalists do still matters,” she affirms, recognizing the power of storytelling to shape perceptions and foster empathy. Her dedication to portraying the depth and diversity of El Paso’s stories reflects her belief that every individual, every community, deserves to be heard and understood.

Beyond her professional endeavors, Dueweke relishes the warmth and hospitality of El Pasoans who welcomed her with open arms. “I almost didn’t trust it at first,” she admits, touched by the genuine kindness and sense of belonging she found in her new home. For her, the connections she’s forged in El Paso aren’t just professional, they’re friendships that resonate deeply.

“The friend groups that I’ve made and the people who have had my back mean so much to me. I feel like whatever happens, wherever I go, I’ve made friends for life,” says Dueweke.

As she continues to immerse herself in El Paso, Dueweke is learning not only about the culture, but also about living and working in a binational and multicultural home along a desert border like the city’s other seasoned local storytellers.

Veni, ‘Viri,’ Vici

She came. She saw. She conquered.

ew voices in the Borderland resonate with the depth and compassion of Viri Solano. An eight-time Emmy award-winning news anchor, writer, and editor for Univision26 in El Paso, Viri Solano has distinguished herself not only for her journalistic prowess but for her unwavering dedication to social justice and immigration issues that profoundly impact her community.

“I’ve always been someone who enjoys being in front of the camera, being in the spotlight, who likes to analyze, and talk – a lot – about controversial topics,” she reflects, tracing the roots of her career to a childhood fascination with storytelling and analysis. Her journey into journalism was driven by a desire to delve deep into issues, to unravel complexities, and to give voice to those whose stories often remain untold.

Her path at Univision26 began humbly, initially as a weekend editor before swiftly transitioning to morning news anchor due to unforeseen circumstances, a role she embraced with characteristic determination.

“Later on, I requested to be an afternoon reporter because I felt that I needed to know how to investigate stories, conduct

interviews,” Solano explains, highlighting her commitment to mastering every facet of her craft. This dedication culminated in her current position as a weekday anchor, a role she has held since 2016, anchoring the news with poise and integrity.

Central to her journalistic ethos is impartiality and empathy. “The most important thing is to be impartial,” she asserts, emphasizing the critical balance of presenting multiple perspectives while responsibly informing her audience. Her approach is grounded in a profound sense of duty to sift through the noise of sensationalism and ensure that the stories she reports serve the greater good, navigating delicate narratives with grace and clarity.

“I’m from Chihuahua and came to El Paso to attend UTEP in 2002. I’ve been here for 22 years,” Solano shares, highlighting her deep roots in the community she serves. Her dual identity as both journalist and immigrant lends a unique perspective to her work, infusing her reporting with a deep empathy born of shared experience.

At the heart of Solano’s tenure at Univision26 lies a commitment to community. “Univision26 is a very humanoriented channel that is always trying to listen and to help the community,” she explains proudly, reflecting on her 16 years with the station.

Her impactful reporting has garnered accolades, including multiple Emmy awards, notably for her poignant coverage of immigration and human interest stories. One such story, where she accompanied U.S. Customs and Border Protection to Lordsburg, New Mexico, left an indelible mark. “It was very hard for me because they were Mexicans like I am,” she recalls, recounting the emotional connection she forged with people enduring the hardships of migration.

Through it all, Solano remains guided by journalistic integrity and compassion, bridging cultures and communities through the power of storytelling the way different forms of news organizations connect the media landscape of El Paso on-air and in ink.

Open Secret

It’s no secret that the journalism industry has been shaking, rattling, and rolling with the punches of an ever-evolving technological landscape that transcends traditional models, sometimes operating under the misconception that “print is dead.”

In El Paso, however, one family-owned local magazine’s enduring legacy is buttressed by the integrity and ingenuity of its leadership, thanks to an open Secret.

El Paso Inc., a venerable business publication in the region, holds a special place in Secret

Wherrett’s heart, given its familial roots. “El Paso Inc. was founded by my parents while I was in college,” she reminisces. Despite initial doubts about following in her father’s journalistic footsteps, she pursued a business degree in Marketing in Arizona, eventually finding her niche in public relations in the late ‘90s.

After a successful career in tech, she and her husband decided to establish roots in El Paso with the family business.

“I moved to El Paso with my husband in the early 2000s and my first job was editor of ‘What’s Up,’” says Wherrett. “I really didn’t

Over two decades later, Wherrett has evolved from editor to Associate Publisher, overseeing significant transformations within El Paso Inc. and its additional publications. “Now it’s been more than 20 years,” she says. “I just started taking on more responsibilities at the company,” she notes, underscoring

know much about the business. I jumped into it. There wasn’t much training, they had been without an editor for a while.”

her proactive role in adapting to industry shifts and consumer behaviors.

One key aspect of her leadership philosophy is unwavering commitment to the printed product, a rarity in an increasingly digital age. “People want that printed product, we prioritize it,” Wherrett asserts, emphasizing the enduring economic vitality of print media for El Paso Inc.

Beyond preserving traditions, she is also keenly focused on innovation and adaptation. “I think the part I enjoy the most is being a problem-solver,” she says, a sentiment reflected in her strategic initiatives to explore new revenue streams and enhance reader engagement.

Under her stewardship, El Paso Inc. has maintained a balance between tradition and innovation, exemplified by their syndication of “The Wall Street Journal” and strategic diversification efforts. “There’s so much experimentation happening right now,” Wherrett observes, highlighting her proactive approach to staying ahead in a dynamic industry.

Her influence extends beyond the boardroom company, as she actively contributes to the community and is a board member of Executive Forum, the El Paso Symphony Orchestra, the El Paso Chamber Foundation and YWCA Paso Del Norte Foundation. Her commitment to recognizing local excellence through initiatives like the El Pasoans of the Year awards and Women of Impact underscores her dedication to celebrating community spirit and impactful leadership.

As El Paso Inc. continues to thrive under her guidance, Wherrett remains an inspiring figure who leads with journalistic integrity, entrepreneurial spirit, and community advocacy. Her journey from a career in public relations to a pivotal leadership role is not just a testament to her own growth but also to the enduring legacy of quality journalism in the heart of El Paso that celebrates local businesses and community members.

Iris On the Airwaves

The sounds of the city reverberate throughout the community as stories are transmitted through airwaves, the internet, and old fashioned word-of-mouth.

One stand-out is Iris Lopez, who embodies resilience, empathy, and a commitment to uplifting her community. From her beginnings as a multimedia journalist to her current role as a prominent radio personality, non-profit founder and CEO, and mother,

Lopez has navigated through various facets of media, each step guided by a profound dedication to storytelling and advocating for mental health awareness.

“Since I was young, I’ve always been an entertainer and a storyteller. Music was my first passion, I like to sing,” says Lopez. “Then, when I wanted to switch careers, I was like, ‘How can I still tell stories, write stories?’”

Born and raised in El Paso, Lopez’s journey began at The University of Texas at El Paso, where she honed her skills in multimedia journalism. Her career blossomed in local radio, where she became known as ‘Lily Lopez’ on 104.3 Hitfm before transitioning to television news at KVIA-TV. As a reporter and weekend evening weather anchor, she crafted compelling narratives, but it was her creation of the beloved ‘KVIA Sunday Funday Moments’ that highlighted her desire to share stories of joy and positivity within her community.

Her journey as a journalist has taught her the power of empathy in storytelling. She recounted a poignant moment where her human approach to reporting helped a grieving family find solace.

“I wear my emotions. As a journalist, you’re told to hold back your emotions. There was a fire that happened in an apartment where a young lady and her daughter passed away. My job was to knock on the door of the sister the next day after for an interview. She opened the door and – thankfully – she gave me a powerful interview. She cried. I cried. We cried together,” Lopez shares.

The experience solidified her commitment to focusing on feel-good stories and promoting positivity, a theme that resonates deeply in her current role as a morning show co-host on 93.1 KISS-FM radio.

“I was overworked, underpaid, and under so much stress. My son saw that. I left TV, but I

didn’t want him to think I left because I gave up. I knew when to stop: if it’s impacting my mental health, I have to walk away and know there are still more opportunities,” she says. Transitioning from television to radio was a pivotal decision driven by Lopez’s determination to prioritize her mental health and be a positive role model for her son. Her authenticity and willingness to discuss personal challenges, including her decision to leave TV due to stress and overwork, have inspired colleagues and listeners alike. Through radio, Iris continues to champion her causes with unwavering passion, encouraged by her supportive community and dedicated team.

Lopez’s journey into mental health advocacy was marked by bravery and determination. Despite initial reservations and societal norms that discouraged open discussion of mental health, she boldly broke the silence.

“I remember the first time I actually wrote a blog about my own mental health struggles,” she recalls. “I was asked to not talk about it so openly, because it wasn’t a pretty thing to talk about at the time. People told me not to and I said, ‘I’m gonna do it even louder.’”

Her decision to share her personal experiences resonated deeply with many, sparking conversations and offering solace to those who felt alone in their struggles. By leveraging her platform by founding a non-profit organization, Mija, Yes You Can, Lopez not only shattered stigma but also paved the way for meaningful dialogue and support within her community and beyond.

Lopez’s journey serves as a reminder that through storytelling and community support, we can break barriers, uplift spirits, and create lasting change.

“If a little girl looks at me and says, ‘She did it, I can do it,’” says Lopez, “that’s all that matters.”

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It’s About ‘Thyme’

Achange in lifestyle has led an El Paso wine lover to make a career change, which now offers El Paso one of its finest restaurants – with perhaps the best wine list in the entire City!

Ericsson Nunez, started his career in logistics back in ‘07, moved up the ranks at UPS and then DHL, then later became a business consultant for prominent manufacturing and distribution companies on both sides of the border.

His professional career took him all over the world.

Nunez traveled extensively in the U.S. and Mexico, Europe, Central and South America and even Asia (including a two month stint throughout China and a five year executive term in Guadalajara).

At some point during these globe-trotting adventures, he realized what he enjoyed most in life: hosting friends and family around fine food and wine and the lifestyle that came along with it.

“I’ve been curious about food and wine since my early twenties. The older I got, the easier it became to truly explore food and enjoy wine,” says Nunez.

As with many of us, his “aha!” moment came during the pandemic while living

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in Guadalajara. He drank lots of wine (of course), but also read Karen MacNeal’s “Wine Bible” and several other wine-centric books, leading him to complete coursework at the Wine & Spirits Education Trust of London shortly thereafter.

Family obligations and a dream for a lifestyle change led Nunez to make his love for wine and hospitality a priority in his life.

During the summer of 2022, he returned to El Paso from Guadalajara, marking the beginning of a dream coming true. After many planning sessions, conversations, and negotiations, that dream became a reality.

By the summer of 2023, Nunez found himself co-owner and general manager of Thyme Restaurant located in the Upper Mesa Hills neighborhood in the heart of West El Paso.

Take a step inside his restaurant and you’ll instantly feel the upscale touches that surround you: floor, chairs, chandeliers, drapes, artwork, silverware and everything in between. You name it, it’s been upgraded. No matter where you sit, your eyes will gravitate towards the curated wine cellar under the staircase which stores over 1,400 bottles at ideal cellaring temperature.

Believe me, you can only stare so much.

Eventually, you’ll order a glass, then a bottle, and the dream goes on and on, deciding then and there what you will order next time.

According to Nunez, all of the changes were made seamlessly over the past year without closing the business (not even for one day). When I asked why he never closed, as it is almost impossible to believe the transformation was accomplished without doing so, he replied, “Well, the restaurant has a 19-year trajectory; closing down and surprising loyalists with a ‘new’ concept seemed intuitively risky at the time, despite everyone else’s opposition. With support from my business partner and help from our wives, I stood by my decision and I opted to make our loyal patrons part of the renovation experience by working overnight on Sundays and Mondays to unveiling the changes on Tuesday mornings.”

In hindsight, it was the right decision, as longtime guests marveled over the evolution of the interior and savored the new menu changes.

“Our regulars were eager to come back and see what was new,” he says.

Seeing the decor today, it’s hard to envision that the space was once a drivein bank! (If you don’t believe me, go knock on the bulletproof window which serves as a picture frame of the tail end of the Franklin Mountains.)

Over the years and after frequent trips to Napa Valley and wine growing regions in France and Italy, Nunez knew that his love of wine was more than that – it was an obsession.

Nunez wanted a restaurant with a wine list that offered more than the standard three white and three red wines that everyone knows and expects.

Instead, he took his curiosity in wine to a whole different level, proving the adage that “If you do what you love, work will be fun and not just ‘work’.”

Quickly, it became a lifestyle to success.

Thyme Restaurant is fine dining at its best, and the wine cellar and its offerings are a testament to Nunez’s dream and love of all things wine.

While studying for and achieving his WSET 1-3 certifications, he held true to his belief that wine service needs to be constant and of the highest order regardless of the price of the wine.

Thyme Restaurant’s staff are individually trained on the wine list and regularly taste by the glass offerings (and others) to suggest and assist in food pairings. The staff utilizes the finest stemware available, without concern for the price of the wine being poured, nor whether it is by the glass or the bottle. They go a step further and use a specific glass for rose and white wine, another for Bordeaux derived red varietals, another for red and white Burgundy and Nebbiolo, and a champagne flute is always on hand for those special occasions.

Thyme Restaurant offers more than 400 individual wine selections on its list.

The wines range in price from $11 a glass to thousands of dollars a bottle, providing everyone the ability to enjoy a glass, “the proper way!”

Nunez’s stated goals are to create a wine culture at his restaurant, ensure pairings are appropriate, and oversee wines offered that are not only accessible in price but also quality.

Nunez tasted more than 2,000 wines over an eight month period to complete his curated wine list, all tasted and selected personally, not by distributors.

In its first year of operation, Thyme Restaurant is the only Texas restaurant to have sold multiple cases of the world famous Italian wine Masseto. As of June 2024, it has been awarded the Best of Award of Excellence by Wine Spectator Magazine, an accolade few restaurants receive, even after decades of trying.

Located at 5857 N. Mesa St in the Century Plaza, parking is never an issue. Reservations are highly recommended. If you call ahead, you can pre order your wine, have it extra chilled or decanted, and stored in the cellar until you arrive! If you don’t finish your wine, current law allows you to take the remaining wine home for tomorrow, which many wine lovers know: it is often better the day after.

Nunez’s initial belief in the integrity of the wine list has truly been a model for success.

Thyme Restaurant’s wine service, offerings and dedication to improvement in wine education and quality has led this newcomer to El Paso’s restaurant scene to have one of the top wine lists in El Paso.

Eclectic, but wide, deep yet affordable, have become unbeatable combinations for wine lovers in the region. Nunez is currently intrigued by up and coming wine regions such as northern Spain, particularly its white wines and of course Borolo, after a recent trip to Italy.

Let’s toast to Nunez’s lifestyle choice – “it’s about Thyme.”

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Christian Hanna Fierce Filmmaker

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Directing was not always his dream. As a teen in high school and college, Christian Hanna thought his future would be in acting. Today rather than starring in movies, he’s filming them.

From sports to faith to horror shorts, Hanna wants to breathe new life into filmmaking, especially in El Paso.

After coming face to face with the hard realities of show business, Hanna decided to start studying filmmaking at El Paso Community College (EPCC). Following his time at community college, he pursued and finished his bachelor’s in fine arts at Santa Fe University of Art and Design.

During his time as a student, Hanna was able to debut his first feature film: a documentary about former Dallas Cowboys player Tony Romo.

“I started it as my thesis film, he loved it, he helped kick that goal. And then the film evolved into an actual documentary feature film that was also licensed and approved by the NFL and NFL films,” Hanna said.

“The film is now my first documentary feature out on digital, all over streaming on Prime Video, now on Google Play. And we’re not done yet.”

With his powerful first feature ‘Now or Never: A Tony Romo Story,’ Hanna never stopped telling the stories of athletes and others whose stories he caught.

About two years ago, Hanna started on another documentary film telling the story of Gabrielle Daleman.

Daleman is an Olympic gold medalist who has won various other achievements, which Hanna decided to showcase in his film.

“I thought why not reach out and express how much of a fan I am over her career and that I would love as a male director being able to tell a female story,” Hanna said.

“I wanted to tap on that and learn and grow in telling a different story. And so I wanted to do that for my career and to grow and that diversity, I wanted to tap on that.”

While highlighting the triumphs of these athletes, Hanna has also focused on their struggles and how they were overcome.

One example of this can be seen in Hanna’s latest docuseries ‘Bleeding Red: The Bel Air Highlander Story.’

At the time of working on the feature for Daleman, Hanna began this new project back home. A “lower valley kid” himself, Hanna was excited to show the endurance of El Paso kids like himself.

“I became really good friends with (former) Coach Eric Scogin. We were really inside, down and dirty in the locker room before and after games, every single game, the playoff game,” Hanna said.

“And, really, the pursuit was to show what he was doing there and changing the mentality about high school football in El Paso.”

Throughout his time on the docuseries, Hanna was able to document Bel Air’s latest – and historic – football season.

For the first time in around 20 years, Bel Air had back to back eight win seasons. The school also hosted its first playoff game and in the past five years has gone to one of the highest districts in Division 1.

“Unfortunately, they did play for a gold ball, which was always the goal for the series, but they lost. At the end of the day life happens,” Hanna said.“I probably captured one of the

greatest seasons that school will ever see in their life. I hope that happens again.”

With a lot in his portfolio, Hanna hopes to expand through the possibility of making or producing different films.

He hopes to do this through his company, ZGN Productions, which started as a YouTube channel before becoming professional in 2018.

“Chris always operates with integrity. Anytime that we tackle a documentary, we make sure that we’re being truthful, we’re being respectful to the people that we’re documenting,” said Nina Hedberg, Hanna’s fiancee and the company’s sound designer and editor.

“The biggest quality of Chris is that he always wants to do right by

everyone. All of the films that we tackle, the root of all of them is storytelling. We just feel that without a great story, you can’t have all of these amazing technical achievements with your film.”

Through his filmmaking, Hanna wants to promote Texas and its identity as much as he tells the stories of people.

He believes in the potential of his state and in El Paso to produce quality films. With that said, Hanna hopes to inspire or lead others to show off his home.

“There’s been a lot of potential in terms of Hollywood star movies here. There’s a lot of actors like Matthew McConaughey that have

really helped try to bring more productions to Texas,” Hanna said.

“I really think it starts with independent filmmakers. I think filmmakers in Texas need to utilize Texas so that distribution companies such as Netflix start seeing that all these films are coming out of Texas independently, and eventually Hollywood will start doing that too.”

Before starting with blockbuster movies, Hanna realized that you have to start small. With the help of his company and connections, he hopes to see a bigger film scene in Texas through telling different stories about different people.

Keep Calm and ‘Kawaii’ at D’Licious Nails

by: ELISHA NUÑEZ |

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It is an explosion of color and cuteness. Pastels and bright colors shine from various neon lights and decorations that dot the inside of this boutique. Hello Kitty and My Melody memorabilia cover the walls alongside other iconic Sanrio characters.

Every day, customers leave with the cute designs that give D’Licious Nails and Kawaii Ink its personality on their nails or as their newest tattoo.

The salon opened its doors in January and is run by Julia Vanessa Domingo and her daughter Juliana Calvo.

Before opening the salon, both had previous jobs. Domingo worked at another nail salon while Calvo worked from home. While sharing struggles, the two also shared an interest in doing nails.

“It sounds cheesy, but my daughter always wanted a nail salon when she was a teenager and honestly, if it wasn’t for her, I would not have done it,” said Domingo.

With a dream and determination, the two searched for a space that would become their new salon.

“I feel like opening the business changed my life a lot. I used to work from home and I think being by myself so much made me really depressed,” Calvo said.“I think having an environment where you’re around a lot of people and where it’s constantly good is really good for mental health.”

While they wanted to make a comfortable space, the process to open D’Licious Nails was anything but. The two had to deal with a number of obstacles, including financial ones.

“It’s been an eye opener because a lot of people say ‘Oh, I’m just gonna open a business’ and it’s not always great. There’s challenges and there’s bills, stuff like that,” said Domingo. “The process was a little bit bumpy, there were times where we weren’t sure if we were going to be able to afford it.”

Though their journey was difficult, the two think the destination was worth it.

Today, D’Licious Nails and Kawaii Ink boast multiple services and family-like reception.

“We’ve had people come here and say ‘I feel like I’m visiting family.’ We don’t want anybody to come here and feel like they’re out of place or we’re rushing them,” said Domingo.

The salon’s amenities include manicures, pedicures, and nail art classes for anyone wanting to learn.

In addition to its nail services, D’Licious Nails and Kawaii Ink also makes itself different from other salons by offering tattoo consultations.

“I just love when people come with ideas and I just get to put it together,” said Dianna Miranda, the shop’s tattoo artist. “I feel like that’s super rewarding for me, just being able to be creative and bring people’s visions to a tattoo.”

While you are getting your latest body ink or manicure, you can take a look around and notice all of the cute Japanese characters

adorning the walls alongside the dollhouselike furniture.

Another detail that makes this salon different is its kawaii aesthetic. Kawaii is the word for “cute” in Japanese and envelopes a culture of adorable things from the country.

“Juliana has been obsessed with Hello Kitty and Sanrio (since) when she was younger,” Domingo said.

“Her wedding was Hello Kitty and she has a room in her house where all of this stuff came from. Whenever we decided that we wanted to open a salon, the first thing she said was, ‘Can it be kawaii?’”

While the salon’s decorations add to its personality, so do the employees.

Each of them have their own unique sense of style.

From various tattoos and piercings to style or the decorations at their station, every nail technician makes themselves unique.

“I’ve had clients say that they think it’s really cool that we’re allowed to have tattoos, or even having a tattoo artist in the shop,” said one of the salon’s nail techs Dahlia Torres.

Having your own flair is something that each of the salon’s workers brings to the table, but it was not always like that for some of them.

“I’m just speaking (from) my own experience. I feel that there’s a lot of bias for people with tattoos because I’ve always had really stuffy jobs before that.”

In addition to encouraging diversity in their shop, Domingo and Calvo have also made it a safe space for everyone, customers and employees.

“I just feel so safe and welcomed by everyone,” said Miranda.

“Every time I walk in, I’m happy to be here and I don’t want to leave sometimes. I linger around a lot.”

Other employees like Hannah Chacon and Rebecca Reyes share the same comfort Miranda holds when she comes to work.

“It’s good to feel appreciated because in this industry, it’s very easy for it to just become very catty. It’s nice to feel like you’re part of a team,” said Chacon.

“I’ve had my license since about 2013. I decided to teach for a little bit and I fell in love with my students, so when they decided to open their salon I jumped in,” said Reyes.

This familial bond is not only prioritized at the workplace, but with the workers’ families also.

The owners themselves are constantly reminded of the importance of family and want to preserve that importance for their employees.

After all, the salon is a family business.

“I tell the girls they can bring their kids if they have (any). We really instill that family value. I don’t want anybody to put a job before their family,” Domingo said.

Like mother like daughter, the same values Domingo holds dear are the same ones Calvo has wanted to follow for her young family.

“I think for me, it’s the same with my mom. I wouldn’t have been able to do it without her.

I was not a bad kid, but I did give her a hard time growing up,” Calvo said. “So I feel like now it’s my time to repay that, then besides her, I’d say like my husband and my son (are) my motivation too.”

With a strong resolution, Domingo and Calvo hope to continue running their salon with the possibility of expanding to a new location.

For now, they want to maintain and contribute to the families they have at home and at D’Licious Nails and Kawaii Ink.

Kick It Up a Notch: Sneaker Artist Blends Creativity and Craftsmanship

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Appreciation and humility were shown across the face of young artist Carla Padilla, as The City Magazine sat down with her to discuss her ever-growing business. Padilla, nicknamed Cee Dubbs, has found a creative outlet as unique as her designs. Padilla’s passion and love for shoes took her on a journey with a YouTube-taught hobby that would turn into much more.

In 2018, Padilla began custom painting her sneakers. Through trial, error, and a little bit of help from the internet, she began getting the hang of working with different materials and mediums to make remarkable designs on a unique canvas.

“Obviously, the first couple of shoes weren’t great, but that’s because I didn’t prepare them right. If you have a lousy foundation in a house, it’s not going to last, so it’s the same thing with the shoes,” Padilla said, showing her custom Vans featuring notable El Paso landmarks like Whataburger, Scenic Drive, and the Star of El Paso.

What started as a hobby blossomed into a business shortly after Padilla started mastering the process. She began taking orders and helping people create their visions into something they can proudly wear.

“It’s something my clients get into. They’re like, ‘I kind of have an idea,’ and we go back and forth. When they see it, they’re like, ‘Wow, this is on a shoe,’ so it does become very personal for them,” Padilla said.

Family is Padilla’s constant and her number one support system, even helping with the process when a large order needed to be filled. Her parents and grandmother, being

artists themselves, pushed her to embrace creativity growing up.

“They just always kept me creative,” Padilla said. “There wasn’t much time for TV. My grandma always kept me doing watercolor painting or clay, just everything arts and crafts.”

Her family’s support was very evident as we walked into her home, where her mom, Jessica Doblado, was doing her hair and makeup, as she does for all her daughter’s events.

“I’m just so proud of her. She’s my pride and joy and I’m her number one fan. She’s making a huge impact on people,” Doblado said.

When asked about her daughter’s success, she reflected on the growth that she has been able to see over the years, from when she was younger just saving her money to buy her first Jordans to all she’s accomplished now. With tear-filled eyes, she recounted the times when the process wasn’t easy, always reminding her daughter she could do it.

As the business has grown, Padilla has customized shoes for several businesses

and organizations throughout El Paso, most notably members associated with the El Paso Locomotive FC.

Over the years, she has built a recurring relationship with her clients.

“It’s been a great connection, great relationship. The guy I work with is very genuine, and when I met everyone, they were just so surprised. It goes back to the result of it coming back looking cool and really nice,” Padilla said.

One of her goals for the future is to customize shoes for all the major mascots in El Paso. With Ozzy, the mascot for the Locomotive, already on her client list, she hopes to one day design shoes for Paydirt Pete from UTEP and Chico the Chihuahua.

“Ozzy really wears the shoes all the time, everywhere. I’m gonna have to make him a second pair, I didn’t think he was going to be wearing them so much,” Padilla said.

She hopes to continue collaborating with others in the future, making an influence in the community. This impact ignited last summer when the El Paso Museum of History reached out to collaborate with Padilla to host a “Kicks Camp,” where kids were able to learn the process of designing their own shoes and having them displayed in the museum.

Padilla told the kids to “Feel free to do whatever you want. No one is judging you here. Feel proud about it, feel confident about it” when guiding them through the process. It’s unbelievable, or shocking, because I just taught them how to paint, but families come up to me and tell me I made an impact on them. They really do feel sentimental about it,” Padilla said.

“It brings you back to what your purpose is; you’re impacting people through a gift that you have. It’s hard to believe, but I feel very grateful.”

Catch Buenas Vibras at Viva La Plant Shop

| Words and photos by: ELISHA NUÑEZ |

If you drive too fast, you might miss it. On the corner of E. Robinson Ave. and N. Stanton St. is a small shop with a big story.

When you walk in, you notice the contrasts between green leaves and off-white walls. Studio lights hang from the ceiling, bathing everything in soft rays.

Pastel pots and boxes, green plants and colorful decorations catch your eye, beckoning you to bring one of them home with you.

With a diverse catalog of plants and plant products, Viva La Plant Shop is no ordinary store. From bus to boutique, this new business has planted its roots in Kern Place with owners Matt Benson and Iris Valenzuela Benson behind the wheel.

The business started as an idea from the pandemic. Wanting to own a business for a while, the couple realized their dreams after lockdown and decided to commit to a new venture.

“We lived in Portland, got married in 2018 and moved to Memphis in 2019,” said Valenzuela.

“Of course, the pandemic happened. It gave us all the time to reassess what we were doing and what we wanted for ourselves, so we went from there.”

The process to find out what they would sell stemmed from their days as college students in Portland.

Valenzuela lived in an apartment at the time and reflected on the little things that would lead to something bigger.

“I have always been into plants. I was really broke when I was first living in Portland. I mean, who wasn’t when you’re in your 20s?,” said Valenzuela.

“So buying a plant was a cheap way to decorate my space and more accessible than buying a bookcase or things like that.”

After realizing their plant prospect, the two decided to start searching for a way to sell their goods.

In 2021, the pandemic limited contact in many spaces, but that did not stop the young couple from looking for ways to bring their business to the community.

“We’ve always wanted to be business owners: that was something that really connected us when we first met,” said Benson.

“That was always our goal, and so that’s where Viva La Plant Bus began. During the pandemic, she sent me this van that was for sale in LA. It used to be an El Paso shuttle bus.”

The two traveled to LA to buy the bus and drive it back to Memphis. On the three-trip day back, the couple was able to get to know the bus and find out how they could make their mobile storefront successful.

Spending nights in the bus and hearing the hum of the engine made the two decide exactly what kind of environment they wanted to create.

“It was very relaxing for me compared to the fast paced, high stress work that I’ve been used to,” said Valenzuela.

“Being in the bus, sleeping in it and camping, we just kind of wanted to share that chill, laid back, vibe.”

Upon returning from their road trip, Benson and Valenzuela did not hesitate to get started on their project.

The two started driving around Memphis. Eventually, they moved to Albuquerque and made a couple of trips down to El Paso from there.

“The people of Memphis were so supportive, then we moved to Albuquerque and did quite a few pop ups there,” said Valenzuela.

“We lived there for just under two years. My parents are still here, so we came down for the holidays and would pop up (at) the upper valley market.”

With family and opportunity available in El Paso, the two decided to make their next move a permanent one to the 915.

The couple did not waste any time moving in. Two weeks after coming to El Paso, they opened the new Viva La Plant Shop.

“We’ve been fortunate enough to have things lined up and we could take a big risk,” said Benson.

“This is pretty much our life, it’s a really big sacrifice.”

The risks the couple was willing to take proved to be worth it. Going from a vendor at markets to now hosting and sourcing goods from vendors at their store, the two have big plans for the Viva La Plant shop.

“We just tried to find products that we would buy for our home and companies that kind of match our values,” said Valenzuela.

“It takes a lot of time for me to curate all of our different vendors and we try to be just conscious and have different things for everyone. We do have some local vendors, we’re hoping to expand on those local vendors.”

Pottery, art, coffee, and even tattoos, are just some of the products that have (or may) pop up in the shop soon.

In the present, the couple hope to increase their presence in the community and continue to make a positive impact on customers and other local businesses.

Unveiling a Not-So-Secret Garden

I| By: SHELLEY MOZELLE photography by: ANNABELLA MIRELES |

t was finally time to share the exciting news that has been a long time in the making. We were thrilled to invite both the media and special guests to the unveiling of the plans for the El Paso Children’s Garden, a 60-acre botanical garden with 10 event venues. Each colorful rendering told the story of the garden, giving guests a glimpse of the beauty and tranquility that is to come.

This family-friendly botanical garden will bring together a vibrant experience of colorful native plants and flowering garden walls. The official announcement of this garden marks a significant milestone for our community and for future generations that will benefit from this magnificent project. The El Paso Children’s Garden is not just any botanical garden: it is a dream brought to life, a testament to our collective vision for

a greener, more beautiful future. Spanning 60 acres, this garden is designed to be a haven of tranquility, learning, and inspiration, nestled right here in our beloved region. Visitors will be able to leave behind the busy streets and discover inner peace as they stroll through the garden and experience its magic.

As guests entered the reception, they wove their way through dozens of colorful renderings, each showcasing the unique design of the garden. We were incredibly excited to show the public these renderings, which have been conceptual for more than a decade, conversational among a small group for a few years, but in the planning design phase for over a year.

Introducing the founder, Dennece Knight, alongside board members Katherine

Brennand, Susan Hass Hatch, Sharon Robinet, and Sue Woo, was a surreal and proud moment. We also recognized the “money bees” involved in fundraising: Shelley Mozelle, Leyla Zeidan, and Stefanie Colquitt. For many, it was the first tangible impression of our botanical garden and seeing it in color was a dream realized. For many, it was the reality coming to life – the first impression of our botanical garden, in color.

The reception of the renderings was everything we’d hoped for – excitement was in the air. We climbed a big mountain, a feat that didn’t occur without the involvement of many who are committed to the garden. As we look forward to the seasons of development, expect to watch this magical garden evolve.

Planting seeds and watching dreams materialize...The El Paso Children’s Garden

Sugar, Spice, Skincare Advice

Dead Skin

Goodbye this July!

| By: CLAUDIA CASTILLO |

Let’s face it, skincare can be a little overwhelming – especially when it comes to the ingredients and understanding their effects with “acid” in the name.

Where on earth do you start?

When a product claims to simply work, you want to understand why, how, and what makes it work, right?

Having tried various skincare brands across different price ranges, including over-the-counter, celebrity-endorsed, and scientifically-tested products, I can confidently say that investing in premium, medical-grade skincare is something you will never regret.

Let’s say you visit your well-trusted aesthetician and they make recommendations based on your skin type. Do you ever question whether or not you really need it? Maybe you saw an ad on social media with a product that claims to do the exact same thing with the same results, for a smaller price tag.

But then you might wonder: Will that product actually work?

Maybe you don’t hesitate to purchase everything recommended, eager to start using it all that very night!

My advice is to listen to the skin professional (your aesthetician) who is knowledgeable about your skin’s needs. I want to encourage you to use the products that are best for you! I’m here to share my knowledge, tips, and tricks to help you understand why they made their recommendations, so you can feel confident about the products and their benefits.

Let’s focus on cleanser ingredients.

Allow me to introduce to you the acid sisters: AHA and BHA.

Their names may look similar, but these acid families function a bit differently.

AHA (Alpha Hydroxy Acid)

• Works to peel away the surface skin to promote the generation of new skin cells and replace dead skin cells.

• Improves the appearance of fine lines, sun damage, and hyperpigmentation

Welcome to the AHA family!

Do you recognize these familiar names?

Glycolic acid

• Made from sugarcane

• The most widely used AHA

• The molecule is small enough to penetrate deeper, at a faster rate

• Anti-aging benefits

• Exfoliates, diminishes fine lines, prevents acne, lightens dark spots, thickens the skin, smooths out texture, and evens skin tone

• Works by breaking up the bond between dead skin cells and the epidermis (the surface layer of the skin), allowing other products to work at a deeper level

Lactic acid

• Made from lactose in milk

• The 2nd most researched AHA acid

• The molecule is larger and does not penetrate as quickly, causing it to be gentle and hydrating (ideal for sun damaged skin)

• Slowly breaks up the bond between dead skin cells and the epidermis

• Increases cellular turnover and collagen production

• Skin becomes thicker, brighter, and more firm

Mandelic acid

• Comes from almonds

• Has a large molecular structure (has fewer side effects and irritates the skin less)

• Can be used to treat sun damage, prevent acne, smooth texture and even out pigmentation.

When using any AHA, remember that exfoliation causes more sun sensitivity. Though it’s important to apply and reapply

SPF throughout the day, it’s especially crucial when using any of the AHA acids.

BHA (Beta Hydroxy Acid) clears pores and congestion in the skin. It’s beneficial to use a product that penetrates deeply to eliminate dead skin cells and excess sebum trapped inside each pore.

This family is much smaller than the AHA, with the most common acid being Salicylic Acid:

• Comes from willow bark

• Oil soluble, which is why salicylic acid can penetrate into oily pores and successfully unclog them.

• Goes deeper than AHAs to do its job. (Precisely what makes it such a potent ingredient for targeting acne.)

• Well known for anti-inflammatory properties (helps red, inflamed pimples / pustules to go away faster)

Get ready for some skincare AHA and BHA magic!

The dynamic duo of glycolic acid and salicylic acid are the dream team for your skin. They’re frequently used together at your favorite med-spa. Glycolic acid works its charm on the surface to slough off old, dead skin, while salicylic acid dives in deeper to unclog your pores and dissolve the gunk.

It’s like a refreshing spa day for your skin!

Are you now more knowledgeable about your products? Do you feel confident in what they do and how they can help your skin?

I hope so!

Keep this pro tip in mind the next time you shop for your skincare:

“You are one acid away from a good mood. Where skin glows, energy flows”

Refining Instincts: Harnessing Emotional Regulation

| By: CHARITY VIZCAINO |

Emotional regulation plays a crucial role in our daily lives, influencing how we navigate relationships, handlestress,andachievepersonalwell-being.Inthis Q&A, we delve into the strategies and insights that empower individuals to manage their emotions effectively. From understanding triggers to implementing mindfulness techniques,weexplorepracticalapproachesthatcanenhance emotionalresilienceandfosterahealthieremotionalterrain.

Why is emotional regulation important for overall well-being?

Emotional regulation is responsible for guiding us to process external (and internal) stimuli and to know how to respond in a productive manner. It is not an arduous task to find examples of unregulated individuals. Whether that’s watching the news and seeing horrific acts of violence, observing political figures slinging insults in Congress, witnessing road rage, someone yelling at a barista for getting the order wrong, or parents fighting at their child’s sporting event.

Dysregulation is everywhere.

Learning how to regulate our emotions is vital to our overall health and success as human beings. Health and success look different for each of us, however, examples of this could be our interpersonal relationships, our relationship with ourselves, career/educational goals, physical health, financial stability etc.

When we live life on autopilot, unaware of ourselves, we often react to life instead of responding with intention. We often detest the consequences of our behaviors, and yet we can’t seem to stop them. We lose relationships, jobs, and feel powerless to make a change.

One of my favorite quotes comes from Austrian neurologist and psychologist Viktor Frankl, a Holocaust survivor, who wrote one of the most impactful books I have ever read, “Man’s Search For Meaning” says, “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

As a therapist who has practiced for nearly eight years, I can say, without a doubt, learning the art of regulation is one of the most important skills us humans can learn. We all have a primitive side, it wants to act impulsively at times – it is our job to train it.

Let me be VERY clear: Regulation is not suppression.

Regulation involves compassion for oneself, for the experiences we endure, the injustices, the sorrows, and rage. Dear reader, your feelings are not a problem. They never have been. Give yourself space to feel- anything and everything that comes up. Emotions are our teachers and friends. Their purpose is to alert us to something that is important and meaningful. Emotional regulation gives us permission to feel anything that arises, with curiosity and patience. That is your power and freedom.

What are some common challenges people face when trying to regulate their emotions?

The Broadway musical ‘The Book of Mormon’ says:

“When you’re feeling certain feelings That just don’t seem right Treat those pesky feelings like a reading light And turn ‘em off, like a light switch.”

The first time I watched the comedy, I couldn’t help but think how incredibly relatable those lyrics were. How… human. When we experience a feeling, a physiological sensation, a distressing thought: we want to “turn ‘em off.” I do it. You do it. All of us do. Our brain is designed to avoid what it doesn’t like. It’s designed to protect. After all, who looks forward to being angry or sad (or whatever feeling you hate)? Um, no one! Nevertheless, those feelings occur; and they will again, and again, and again. To feel discomfort is to be human. Learning to sit with discomfort takes practice.

The biggest challenges I see are people: Suppressing: Call it minimization if you will. Ever met someone and they seem devoid of all emotion? I promise you, they’re not robots, they’ve just gotten good at turning off the light switch. We get better at anything we practice in life, including maladaptive coping strategies. At some point, people who suppress don’t feel much at all. You might think, “Yay! Good for them! I want to do that.” I caution you, emotions are not a hot/cold faucet. Emotions are one knob, and when

we begin to suppress the ones we don’t like, eventually it turns off the ability to feel the ones that help us connect to ourselves and others, like love, compassion, empathy.

Numbing: Endlessly scrolling on Instagram, staying so busy we don’t have time to relax, working long hours, or the use of food/alcohol/exercise to not feel. It makes sense why we do it, but all numbing does is delay the inevitable. That emotion will pop back up. That is the job of feelings. They pester, annoy, and keep coming up until acknowledged and validated. Living in the delusion of “all- or-nothing” thinking causes us so much heartache. We think we must feel nothing, and do nothing. Or, feel and do everything about it.

What are some practical strategies for improving emotional regulation in everyday life?

• Practice self-compassion and learn to name the feeling you are experiencing.

• Mindfulness: Mindfulness is the act of observing one’s thoughts/feelings/bodily sensations, with curiosity, and not judgment.

• Identifying triggers (You can’t get rid of triggers, but you can learn how to respond!)

• Take a break/ self-soothe

• Talk it out with a trusted person in your life and/or attend therapy.

• Journaling

• Physical exercise and good sleep hygiene

Are there any specific techniques or therapies recommended for individuals struggling with severe emotional dysregulation?

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is an evidenced-based psychotherapy that increases awareness between the client’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is another evidenced-based psychotherapy and branch of CBT. DBT helps individuals who have a history of relational distress and interpersonal conflicts. DBT blends the practice of mindfulness with interpersonal training, emotional regulation, and distress tolerance skills.

Health Guide Thriving (and

Through Middle Age

| By: DR. OGECHIKA ALOZIE |

When I was growing up there was (I guess, still is) a New Edition song called “Boys to Men.” In it, the first verse goes “Growing up can be a pain. You’re not a man until you come of age.” Well guess what? I think I’ve come of age, and oh my gosh does it hurt!

Literally and figuratively.

For many men as they pass 30 and careen for the 50s and 60s, it’s that time when your metabolism throws in the towel, your hairline decides to go on a permanent vacation, and your knees creek louder than old vinyl records. But fear not, for this is not the beginning of the end. It’s merely the end of the beginning – or something like that.

To many men in this age group, it is a period often marked by expansive wisdom, expanding waistlines, and the occasional existential crisis. It’s time to navigate these golden years with a blend of satire and factual advice, ensuring you stay not just alive, but robustly, vigorously alive. Let’s embark on this journey through midlife with our heads held high and our guts sucked in.

Embracing the Mid-Life Crisis

The mid-life crisis is a well-documented phenomenon. Financial, marital, social, and sexual fears and insecurities rear their ugly heads. But rather than fear it, harness it.

Take up a new hobby, learn a skill, or travel. These activities can provide a sense of accomplishment and joy. However, if your mid-life crisis inclines you toward a flashy sports car, just ensure it doesn’t derail your financial health.

The Delicate Balance of the Dad Bod

Ah, the dad bod—the physical manifestation of your life’s priorities. Contrary to popular belief, maintaining a dad bod requires a fine balance of dietary indulgence and sporadic exercise. It’s a cultural phenomenon, a symbol of comfort and... uh... well-earned laziness. We all know it: that extra padding around the midsection that whispers, “I’ve traded six-pack abs for a keg of beer.”

But listen up, fellas.

While a bit of a belly might be a sign of a life well-lived (and well-fed), it’s not an excuse to let yourself go entirely. Remember, we’re aiming for “distinguished,” not “disheveled.” But jokes aside, there are actual studies that show that carrying a little extra weight might actually be beneficial, offering some cushion against life’s literal and metaphorical falls. It may also add some testosterone effects to a waning libido. But don’t let that be an excuse to neglect exercise. Aim for a mix of cardio, strength training, and functional movements to keep those joints lubricated and muscles toned, just enough to lift the remote with ease.

Mastering the Art of the Self-Diagnosis

Who needs a doctor when you have WebMD and a sturdy sense of self-diagnosis? The trick to this is that every ache, pain, and mysterious lump can be effectively ignored until it either goes away, or becomes dire enough to warrant a trip to the ER. However, regular check-ups can catch issues before they become lifethreatening. Routine screenings for blood

pressure, cholesterol, and blood sugar are crucial. Remember, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of avoiding the hospital; and the financial stressors caused by the average emergency room or hospital bill are capable of sending you right back to the hospital!

Navigating Fitness Fads

From goat yoga to underwater spin classes, the world of fitness is rife with bizarre trends. The key is finding something you enjoy that doesn’t make you look ridiculous. Consistency is more important than novelty. If you hate running, don’t force yourself into a marathon training plan. Instead, try activities like hiking, cycling, or swimming. These are joint-friendly and can be done at any fitness level. And yes, walking your dog counts. People always ask me about vitamins. The reality about supplements is this: there is no current evidence they add anything other than a monthly subscription to your plate. If you like them and can afford them, knock yourself out, but unless you have an actual medical condition, most vitamins and supplements are placebo.

The Zen of Grumbling (A.K.A. Mental Health) I often find myself talking to myself. Sometimes in song and sometimes internal complaining. Forget mindfulness apps and serene yoga retreats – the real path to mental wellness lies in a good, hearty grumble. Venting your frustrations can be oddly therapeutic. However, chronic stress is no joke. It can lead to hypertension, heart disease, and other serious conditions. Try to balance your grumbling with genuine stressreducing activities: meditation, hobbies, or even a simple walk can work wonders.

Remember, it’s not about bottling it up, but managing it healthily.

After all, mental health is health! We all have brains (even if they’re a bit foggy from time to time), and those brains need some TLC. So, go ahead and talk about your feelings. Seek help if you need it. Most importantly, try to

stop bottling everything up. Remember, a burden shared is a burden halved. (Besides, therapy is a great excuse to skip out on chores.)

Grooming and Gray

As the saying goes, “Gray hair is a crown of glory.” Embrace it.

Balding?

Let’s address the elephant in the room: hair loss. It’s a cruel twist of fate that the hair on our heads decides to abandon ship just as our eyebrows and nose hairs start growing with reckless abandon. But hey, who needs a full head of hair when you can rock a shiny dome or a distinguished beard?

Embrace the change, gentlemen. After all, bald is beautiful. (And it saves a fortune on shampoo.) Own it with a stylish shave or a dignified buzz cut.

Maintaining good hygiene and a grooming routine not only helps you look good but also feel good. Regular haircuts, skincare, and even an occasional manicure can boost your confidence. You’re never too old to look sharp. If all else fails, there are good hair replacement clinics both here and in Istanbul!

The Perils of Insomnia

Sleep is vital, but often elusive as we age. Insomnia can affect mood, cognitive function, and overall health. Establishing a regular sleep routine, avoiding caffeine and heavy meals before bed, and creating a restful environment can improve sleep quality. If you find yourself waking up at 3 a.m. contemplating the mysteries of the universe, try relaxation techniques or consult a sleep specialist. Oura or Ultrahuman Rings are the newest sleep tracking tool. Be warned however, the scores and push to improve your sleep can be both beneficial and strangely addictive (or anxiety inducing) depending on how you’re wired.

The Prostate: A Ticking Time Bomb

(But Don’t Panic Yet)

The prostate. It’s the unsung hero of the male anatomy, quietly doing its job until it decides to go rogue. But don’t let the fear of prostate problems consume you. Get regular checkups, eat a healthy diet, and keep yourself active. Remember – early detection is key. So whether it’s prostate health, erectile dysfunction, colon health (and screening), blood pressure or diabetes, talk to your doctor about it. (Yes, even if it’s a bit awkward.)

The Nutritional Nuances of Bacon

Bacon is the epitome of culinary joy, but let’s get real for a moment. A diet high in saturated fats can increase your risk of heart disease. Moderation is key. Embrace a balanced diet rich in vegetables, fruits, lean proteins, and whole grains. The Mediterranean diet, which includes healthy fats like olive oil and nuts, is especially beneficial. You can still enjoy bacon, just maybe not every day.

Embrace the Chaos

Gentlemen, the midlife years can be a wild ride. There will be ups and downs, twists and turns, and the occasional existential crisis. But it’s also a time of immense growth, wisdom, and self-discovery. So, embrace the chaos, laugh at yourself, and remember that age is just a number (and a poorly kept secret.)

Now go forth, my fellow midlife warriors, and conquer this next chapter with humor, grace, and a healthy dose of self-deprecation. Remember, it’s never too late to start taking care of yourself.

(But seriously, start now. It’s not getting any easier.)

Disclaimer

This article blends satire with factual advice. For real health concerns, consult a medical professional. Your health is your most valuable asset—treat it with the respect it deserves.

June Launch Party

The summer sun was no match for the heat radiating from Hush Hush at the launch of The City Magazine’s June issue. Cover stars Johnny Escalante and Kiki Cervantes were feted as El Paso’s Kings of Cool for their work in transforming the city’s nightlife and entertainment scene for more than a decade.

| Photos by: GIBEL AMADOR and ANNABELLA MIRELES |

JULY 2024 Advertiser INDEX

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Ben Bridge Jewelers Inside front cover

Ben E. Keith Beverages Pg. 35

Ben Williams, Williams Advanced Realty Pg. 48

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Casa Buena Vista Homes Pgs. 6-7

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Eco Living Home Improvement Pgs. 6-7

Eduardo Koch, Mister Real Estate Pg. 60

El Pasoans Fighting Hunger Pg. 19

El Paso Children’s Hospital Inside back cover

El Paso Rhinos Hockey Pg. 15

EP Accounting and Tax Services Pg. 11

Epic Events and Entertainment Pg. 86

Fabiola Salayandia Interior Design Pg. 59 Ferguson Pg. 57

Galleria Kitchen and Bath Pg. 58

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Hyundai of El Paso Pg.78; Back cover

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Ollivier Custom Homes Pgs. 40-41

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Walgreens Pgs. 8-9

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