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THE BLACK FAMILY MAGAZINE 4 Table of CONTENT 6 Special Message from Belinda Salley 20 Shannon Goodwyn-Sejour 30 Paratriathlete Erin ‘Bionic’ Brown Makes International History for Women and Disabled Community 10 April Milow 22 Patricia Brown 34 Michelle AndersonBenjamin, MHA 14 Charita Selden 24 Belinda Salley Special Feature 36 Why am I Fearless? 18 FAMILY SUPPORT Tammie BlyGarrett 28 Jacqueline M. Beachem 38 In Memory of Triumphant Soror Leonora Sneed
THE BLACK FAMILY MAGAZINE 5 41 Rosangela SANTANA 39 Dr. Radiance L. Rose 49 What Would It Mean If There Was No Cancer By Veronica Simon 63 Alexis Akridge 75 Dr. Ross Cooperman 81 Raymon Walker 86 Fabian Thorne 43 (LA) Tonya Richburg-Wilson 53 SABRINA THOMAS Visionary 65 Tamika S. Lowe 45 Dr. Lori L. Schleicher, MD 54 Dasia “DASIAVU” EDMOND 71 Smell My Love by Sharonda 47 Cassandra Smalls NICHOLSON 57 Arriel BivensBiggs 73 Dorothy Jones
Message From
Belinda
As we enter the month of October many emotions come to surface, so as we celebrate “Breast Cancer Awareness Month” and everyone wears Pink, please remember those on this journey, we live this 24/7, 365 days for the rest of our lives. The facial spasms, brittle nails, fatigue, emotional roller-coaster, multiple surgeries, copays, chemo brain and a million other long-term issues.
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We are the real Superheroes in human form Special
SALLEY
Belinda Salley is excited to be named Editor – in -Chief of this special edition of The Black Family Magazine, First Breast Cancer Edition. Belinda is a single mother of two beautiful and talented daughters. Darnajah is twenty-one, working two jobs and finding her footing in life. Dasia is seventeen, a senior in high school, bestselling author, and athlete.
Belinda was in tune with getting her yearly mammograms and only told of dense breast tissue for years. However, the doctor always stated it was nothing to worry about. In 2019 she felt a lump in her left breast and became concerned. Belinda Immediately called and scheduled an appointment. After returning to the doctor for the results she received an all clear. Belinda was puzzled because she knew something was not right and requested to see the doctor. They wanted to put her mind at rest and scheduled a biopsy.
My gynecologist called me two days before Thanksgiving
and asked if she could conference with a family member. Belinda had the doctor call her mom and was given the news of Breast Cancer. Belinda was heartbroken but remembered she had to be strong for her daughters. Belinda wasn’t ready to tell them. Prior to her surgery she told the girls and began preparing for the surgery.
Her mother, aunt Tammie, family, and friends were a big support. Surgery day came and went. She did well. Belinda was so determined and trusted her faith to beat this disease. She began journaling the good, bad, and ugly of treatments and appointments. She completed sixteen rounds of chemotherapy, and thirty days of radiation. While fighting her fight Belinda maintained a positive spirit and inspired many not to give up.
Belinda decided to create a limited liability company called BCourageous LLC, her community was always saying she was courageous,
so she added the “B” from her first initial and that’s where the name came from. She designed two sneakers to remind women to get their mammograms, the sneakers were also featured in Vanity Fair. She also created masks, hats, hoodies, hair bonnets and tee shirts. Belinda gives away free merchandise to women battling breast cancer. Her most recent project was a co-author book titled, “Girl Don’t Count Yourself Out” and it is a best seller. Belinda is currently cancer free and thriving.
Email: bsalley1968@gmail.com
Facebook Url: http://www.facebook.com/ BCourageousLLC Instagram Url: http://www.instagram.com/ bcourageous_/
Belinda Salley gives all photo credit to Darryl Sheppard Photography
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Special
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On behalf of The Black Family Magazine, we wanted to say THANK YOU!
Everyday someone is being diagnosed with a form of cancer and this edition is to educate, honor and bring understanding of what cancer patients go through. It was an honor to bring my vision to light and I'm so grateful to God that I'm cancer free. I will continue to advocate and share my story with the masses. My testimony and story is also dedicated to the voiceless. CEO Dr. Monica D. Reed, thank you for trusting me to create this special edition. You are my Sunshine.
I would like to also give a special shout out to my Darnajah, Dasia, (Mom) Jacqueline Beachem, (Dad) Willie Beachem, (Sister) Valarie Salley, Shawne, Emily, Tamicka, Jackie Faye, Patricia, Sharon, Shuwanna, Ashante, Catresa, Tangie, Allendine, Vic and Terrell Day.
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My name is April Milow. I am a woman of faith and an Elementary School Principal in Denver, CO. I am originally from VA and consider myself to be a downto-earth county girl. I am 50 years old and survived breast cancer during the height of the pandemic during my first year of Principalship while going through a separation. Being a cancer survivor is part of my identity but not my sole identity. I love to share my journey of overcoming breast cancer with anyone who cares to listen or read.
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April MILOW
Getting a mammogram was so routine for me that I never thought twice about what the results might be.
I often got the call that I needed to come back in for a second mammogram due to a spot being abnormal, but it always turned out to be the result of dense tissue. So when I got the call to come back I wasn’t surprised.
Returning for this second mammogram this time would be different. I was 48 years old and had no family history of breast cancer.
I thought I had nothing to worry about. No way could I have breast cancer, however; that feeling of assurance that nothing was wrong soon changed.
I didn’t even get a chance to change back into my clothes, all I remember is the technician asking for me to stay put until she consulted with the doctor. I could feel my heart begin to beat faster as I sat in the chair waiting for the doctor to come in. The look on the doctor’s face let me know that they had spotted something that they did not like.
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The doctor pulled me into a room with images of my breasts on the screen and pointed to a star-shaped figure in my left breast. Although small, even to the untrained eye, I could tell that it didn’t look like all the other cells. I remember taking a deep breath and asking if she
thought it was breast cancer. The answer hit me like a ton of bricks. My first thoughts were, “Am I going to live?” and “What will my family do without me?” These thoughts were soon disrupted by the doctor asking if I had time for an MRI before leaving that day.
Within 15 minutes, I was having an MRI completed. Two days later I got the call that I needed to come in for a biopsy. The biopsy was completed and the day before Thanksgiving of 2020 I got the call that no one ever wants to get, “We are sorry to tell you, but you have cancer.”
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The news was negative but I soon realized to survive I must pray and change to a positive mindset. I scheduled a photoshoot just in case I was going to have a mastectomy. With early detection, I soon found out that I was at Stage 0 DCIS (my cancer was contained in a milk duct). I never even knew that Stage 0 cancer was a thing. My doctors were fabulous and with their guidance, I completed genetic testing to learn I do not carry the BRCA gene.
By receiving a diagnosis of Stage 0 cancer and not having the BRCA gene, I was able to fight cancer by having a lumpectomy and completing 24 sessions of radiation. I did not need to undergo Chemotherapy.
For this reason, I encourage everyone to get their annual mammograms without any excuses or delays. If I had waited any longer, I may not be where I am 20 months later. I
am cancer free and living my life to the fullest.
April Milow Email: Aprilfoolelmo@yahoo.com
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Charita SELDEN
My name is Charita Selden, and I am a licensed professional counselor, owner and solo practitioner of A New Cycle Counseling Services. I have been cancer free now for 14 years.
I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 39. At that time, I was a single parent to two children, in between jobs, and living in Georgia without any family. I will never forget the day I was informed of my diagnosis and all of the negative thoughts that went through my head. I cried so hard and then I thought about my kids and dried my tears, and then my journey began. Scared on the inside, but faking bravery on the outside, so that my kids would feel secure.
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I was going through so much at one time, back and forth for doctors' visits, test after test, and all I could think about was, this is my daughter's senior year and I felt like I was a distraction to what should have been one of her most memorable years. I had always dreamed of buying her prom gown, but I wasn't financially able to do so. My daughter could have cared less, all she asked for was for me to be there with her, and she used her own money to buy her dress. My family's
love and support are what got me through the fight. My mother flew from Virginia to Georgia and attended EVERY medical appointment with me. She prayed for me and kept me encouraged. My father came from Virginia to Georgia to help me with my
aftercare, after an extensive surgery. I was living in a state with no family, yet my family was my greatest source of strength. Any fear that I had was diminished because their support made me feel safe, and I didn't have to fake being brave.
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I was going through so much at one time, back and forth for doctors’ visits, test after test, and all I could think about was, this is my daughter’s senior year and I felt like I was a distraction to what should have been one of her most memorable years. I had always dreamed of buying her prom gown, but I wasn’t financially able to do so. My daughter could have cared less, all she asked for was for me to be there with her, and she used her own money to buy her dress. My family’s love and support are what got me through the fight. My mother flew from Virginia to Georgia and attended EVERY medical appointment with me. She prayed for me and kept me encouraged. My father came from Virginia to Georgia to help me with my aftercare, after an extensive surgery. I was living in a state with no family, yet my family was my greatest source of strength. Any fear that I had was diminished because their support made me feel safe, and I didn’t have to fake being brave.
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I think that anyone who receives a cancer diagnosis immediately becomes scared and thinks of their mortality. Many years before receiving my diagnosis, I had a coworker that fought breast cancer and won. She came to work every day with a smile. She was so bright and cheery, and I remember being in awe of her. Even when she lost her hair due to chemotherapy, she would come to work smiling with the prettiest scarves. When it was my time, I remembered her. She was such an inspiration and watching the way she fought her battle gave me encouragement. I hope to inspire others, like she inspired me.
There's definitely more to my story, but I believe that the readers would benefit by knowing that support can get you through anything.
- Charita Selden
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Tammie
BLY-GARRETT
My name is Tammie Bly-Garrett, aunt of Belinda Salley. I was her caretaker during the beginning stages of her breast cancer diagnosis and the one who relayed information to her mom. She was scared and upset when she got her results, and I was there immediately to comfort and support her. I made many visits, follow up calls, picked up prescriptions, groceries run and assisted in any way possible to help. During her cancer journey she had to take many tests to confirm the type and stage of her breast cancer. I took her to her doctor’s appointments to get tests, bloodwork, and to her chemo treatments.
I was there for her 1st appointment with Dr. Clarke, MD and Dr. Cooperman, Breast Surgeon and many others too. By the grace of GOD, I had to be strong for her even
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FAMILY SUPPORT
though there were moments I cried and was scared, but she needed me. She was going through a lot at this time in accepting she had cancer and thinking about her children and finances. Belinda is a strong person and has faith in GOD, however she had several weak moments during this time, and GOD pulled her through it all.
Belinda made a commitment to informing women and others about her journey and the importance of getting a mammogram. Now that Belinda is a survivor GOD has made her much stronger and wiser. She was gifted to be a mom of two beautiful young ladies, an Educator, Entrepreneur, Author,
Motivational Speaker, and the Ambassador for a black owned magazine called, The Black Family Magazine. She’s not only an inspiration to me but others and I’m so proud of her and her accomplishments.
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Shannon
GOODWYN-SEJOUR
Iam a single mother of 2 young girls who were 5 and 11 when I was diagnosed with stage 1 and 2 metastatic breast cancer (invasive ductal carcinoma) at the age of 40. I did not detect any lumps during self-examinations, and neither could the gynecologist or medical oncologist. I am one that visits the doctor’s annual, exercises daily, has no family history of breast cancer and has a strong faith in God yet cancer found me. Ironically, the doctor said that the high levels of estrogen in my body had caused the cells to mutate and spread and that could have explained my recurring hot flashes for the last 3 years. I believed that the issue was my thyroid due to family history and certainly not cancer. I did continue to apply pressure until the doctor ordered blood work for the thyroid, estrogen levels et cetera,
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but no mammogram or other imaging. The doctor was focused on my age and not the symptom. She continued to say that I was too young to be experiencing menopause and never addressed cancer because there was no history of breast cancer. However,
my father has survived colon and prostate cancer. How could I have missed this. I have been touched by breast cancer several times in my life and advocate for a living, yet I could not be seen or heard by my black, female GYN.
I am a mother, sister, and daughter so I have the responsibility to sound the alarm and get the word out that breast cancer is impacting black women at an alarming rate for those that are younger than 40. In fact, data shows that 85% of women diagnosed have no family history of breast cancer. That leads me to believe that the causes are all environmental, so we must start to examine the foods and water that we purchase and eat.
Black and Brown Women of all ages because breast cancer is no longer a 40 and older disease. The youngest woman I’ve known to be diagnosed was 26 and the doctors were not overly concerned with the lump that she found because of her age, so they required her to come back in 6 months for a follow up and it was indeed breast cancer. We need to be aware that age and family history are no longer the key factors in identifying women who will be impacted by breast cancer.
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Iwant to bring awareness to Multiple Myeloma which is a blood cancer that affects so many and where there’s no cure for this disease it’s a silent killer if not caught in time. Multiple Myeloma only goes up to stage 3. Doctor tells you your life expectancy is between 2 to 5 years. Having chemotherapy and stem cell transplants can add more years to your life.
I retired and decided to help within my community by giving back by helping the homeless and families
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Patricia BROWN
in need. I had drives to get coats, socks, hats and gloves and also bags with various items that they would need. I volunteered with various businesses in my area including my local hospital for over 7years and was a member of the Auxiliary Board of the hospital giving back to the hospital. My love for helping others is in me
I still give back when I can but I had to take steps back from volunteering due to my illness, some days I have no strength and can’t get up due to bone pain but, when I feel good I will make phone calls to ask for help to help the less fortunate. God is my provider and I am not ready to give up.
Multiple myeloma (Blood Cancer) Awareness
Multiple myeloma is a blood cancer that affects the bone marrow and forms tumors. These tumors weaken the bones and can cause fractures or broken bones. Bone pain is the worst and immunity compromise it’s hard to fight germs and a common cold, pneumonia etc.
I would like more readers to understand this type of cancer because many have never heard about Multiple Myeloma which is a silent disease. Doctors don’t look for this disease right away when blood is taken. This blood cancer has three stages and if blood is drawn for other illnesses I believe this disease should be on that list to catch it in time . My hope is that one day there is a cure.
- Patricia Brown
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Special Feature
Belinda SALLEY
Belinda Salley, motivational speaker, was born May 19,1968, in NJ; is the mother of two beautiful daughters: Darnajah Edmond and Dasia Edmond. I graduated from Frank H. Morrell High School Irvington, NJ. obtained her bachelor’s degree in Early Childhood Education from Montclair State University; joined the Finer women of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated; secured a job from Essex County Division of Welfare, in March of 1994 as a Family Service Worker. While
working, she pursued and completed a master’s degree in Public Administration. She
is also an active member in the Order of Eastern Star. Salley was diagnosed with stage three Invasive Lobular Carcinoma Breast Cancer; Overcame her illness and created a sneaker and clothing line to challenge others to “BCourageous
Black Family Magazine:
What motivated you to build your own brand and share your story?
Belinda:
My brand reminds customers to Bcourageous and continue to fight. My testimony is my motivation because my brand is created with love and passion to educate the masses. To have a lasting impact, my brand is be bigger than me and what I’m selling. I have a long-term vision, defined values, and a story that moves my audience to action, not to mention some kick-ass products or services that transforms people’s lives. No matter what I’m selling, it gives me flexibility to change
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my offers around to reflect my growth, changes people’s lives, so you can carry with you for life.
Black Family Magazine: What do you want readers to take away after this edition of Black Family MagazineCancer Awareness Edition?
Belinda:
I would like the readers to get their yearly Mammograms, talk about family health and trust their faith. No matter what you’re going through it’s okay to ask for help and remember this too shall pass. Breast Cancer is a ugly disease that was taboo to talk about in the African American household but it’s so important that we change the narrative to educate. Every October, you likely see a wealth of information about breast cancer. And that is a good thing. Awareness surrounding breast cancer is incredibly important as early detection, often through screening, can catch the disease when it is most treatable.
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Cancer Diagnosis Inspires
Jersey Mom Belinda Salley
To ‘BCourageous’ To Launch Shoe and Shirt Line
By Arthia Nixon, The Ambassador Agency New Jersey, USA... Less than a year after being diagnosed with and battling stage 3 cancer, New Jersey mom Belinda Salley went from depression to designer and created a sneaker and clothing line to challenge others to “BCourageous”. “Finding out I had breast cancer on November 23, 2020 was devastating,” says Salley. “One moment, I’m balancing my job, creating another career, helping my 19-year-old Darnajah navigate adulthood, attending my 16-year-old Dasia’s basketball games, and the next, I’m being told I have stage 3 invasive lobular carcinoma. Of course, no one is prepared for that news but I was determined not to give up and my prayer was ‘God, help me through and give me the courage not to fold but thrive.”
Thriving for Salley came in the form of creativity especially when she found herself at home looking for things to do to keep her mind off of reality. She told her inner circle what was going on and then went public on social media, journaling her doctor visits, her pains, her body changes and her desire to support others battling illnesses. She began noticing people telling her she was so courageous for pushing forward in the comments. That’s when Salley decided to create a few products for her supporters to wear such as t-shirts, giddies, caps and masks. She took it a step further and came up with an athletic shoe.
“I got the vision from my social media tribe to call it BCourageous which is a combination of using the first letter of my name and the word courageous,” explained Salley. “I never thought I would be diagnosed with breast cancer, but then again I never thought I would use my time in chemotherapy thinking of designs for shirts or shoes, but here I am.”
Salley had a mastectomy on March 10, 2021 and after 16 rounds of chemotherapy , she rang the bell on September 13, 2021. On October 4, 2021, she went back to work fulltime and has no plans of slowing down.
“I’m writing a book on my cancer journey based on my social media posts,” she said. “Other than that, I am working on BCOURAGEOUS LLC and of course raising my two girls. They were truly there for me, my mother was there for me, my village was there for me... A cancer diagnosis doesn’t have to be the end. For me, it ended up being a beginning.”
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Jacqueline M. BEACHEM
Breast Cancer Journey
Belinda became totally conscious of the changes that were occurring in her left breast. However, she had a mammogram that didn’t indicate any problems or concerns. My best advice to her know your body, trust what you are feeling then take your concerns to your physician. Be ready to find a solution to correct the problem. I told her not to worry I will be coming to New Jersey. Unfortunately, Belinda’s doctor appointment was push back do to Covid19 pandemic. Six weeks past, another mammogram and the doctor’s results would be coming in the mail.
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The day before Thanksgiving I received a call from Belinda’s gynecologist asking to speak to Belinda’s mom. First and foremost I (Belinda’s mom) knew something was wrong. Yes. I responded that Belinda okay she informed me that Belinda had a lump in her left breast and it’s cancer. My heart fell to my feet. My daughter was in distress and I’m in Virginia. Now it’s time for praying and fasting. I know that God will intercede on Belinda’s behalf and she will overcome breast cancer in victory.
Mom has arrived in New Jersey to meet Dr Clark, Oncologist and Dr. Cooperman, Breast Surgeon. Belinda was informed about the time frame of her Chemo and Radiation treatment at Beth Israel Hospital. The day and time have arrived for Belinda, surgery she’s nervous but ready to overcome this disease. Her mom is focused, daughters are concerned, and Auntie Tammie is still strong but on edge. We know that God will intercede, sustain and comfort all of us during this time. Surgery went well
Belinda woke up asking when they were going to do the surgery mom responded it’s over. Soon she will be released to go home with medication and instructions to take care of herself.
Belinda’s villages
Her church, college friends, co-workers, sorority sister and neighbors all came to support
her. She was blessed with prayer, flowers, gift baskets of fruit candy and chips and many different care packages. Many of her friends cooked meals and different types of soups. Belinda is a giver and God gives back in abundance. God has a purpose and plan for our lives.” - Jacqueline Marie Beachem, Belinda Salley’s Mother
BELINDA IS CANCER FREE AN A ADVOCATOR FOR WOMEN WITH BREAST CANCER
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Paratriathlete
Erin ‘Bionic’
BROWN
Makes International History for Women and Disabled Community
By Arthia Nixon, The Ambassador Agency
International...After losing her mother and her closest cousin to cancer, then being told she too had cancer and would need her leg amputated, Erin Brown went from worrier to warrior and is now an internationally recognized disability inclusion consultant and ambassador who has presented to the UN,
WHO and PAHO roles as International Disability Inclusion Consultant for the Caribbean. Additionally. She created a movement to empower people facing cancer and living with disabilities, from paralympic development to disability rights.
In 2021, Brown’s tremendous contributions led to her being a face of Royal Caribbean Cruise International (RCCI), a historical moment as she is the first Bahamian, paratriathlete and Black woman with a disability named Godmother of Odyssey of the Seas.
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Years ago, Brown fell while she was a student at university in the USA and a doctor examining noticed a mass that would later be diagnosed as bone cancer, osteosarcoma. She later experienced disrespect as an above-the-knee amputee, especially in her native Bahamas which did not have the support for the disabled when compared to other places. A passionate ally for the underdog and community activist, she transitioned from self-advocacy pledging to use her voice to amplify the disabled voices of those with disabilities to help them advocate for access, inclusion and opportunities. This included calling out jobs that were prejudiced against hiring qualified people based on disability, creating more parking spaces and being represented in forums where disabled voices were not represented on a global level.
In order to do more, Brown began training to get her strength and eventually, her athletic prowess led her to become the first disabled paratriathlete from The Bahamas to compete internationally. Usually the only amputee in many of the events, fellow competitors began calling her Bionic Brown.
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Now at 41 and with the trust of those she represented, she created Erin Brown Connects Disability Advocacy and Inclusion Management, a multidimensional entity she raises funds for so that she can continue to assist the disabled with basic necessities, job training and more.
Among her international accolades, Brown has worked along with the World Health Organization, Pan American Health Organization, spoken before the United Nations and was recently declared RCCI Godmother to Odyssey of The Seas by Royal Caribbean. It was a national celebration as even the Bahamas Prime Minister led congratulatory remarks.
“My experiences have empowered me to reinvent myself and transform my life, and I’m committed to helping ensure others can do the same,” said Brown. “Every time someone walks on that ship and sees my photo, hears my story, or meets me in person, they see a cancer fighter, a Black woman, a woman, a single parent, an athlete, an advocate, an ambassador... I saw a need to create a solution and
after being ignored for years, to be recognized by such entities, by national leaders, by international organizations and more is truly a testament that people will eventually listen if you continue the fight. It’s not about being known in women’s month, cancer awareness month or disability awareness week because this is my daily life. I do it for those who need to be seen and heard and who don’t have the strength to fight. We matter.”
Now, Brown is writing a children’s book to help others, especially families with young children, find strength when a parent is battling cancer. From age 12, she watched her own mother eventually lose her battle with cancer and feared her children would lose her too. That gave her the strength to fight and write. She admits to being inspired by her son, who is now in college and her daughter who recently entered elementary school. She noted that as a divorced mom, she wants to encourage single and divorced parents with disabilities that they are valuable.
For interviews, photos, booking and collaboration: Publicist - Arthia Nixon, The Ambassador Agency info@ambassador-agency.com www.erinbrownconnects.com
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ANDERSONBENJAMIN, MHA
MichelleAnderson-Benjamin
is a mother of two from NYC. At the age 36 Michelle was diagnosed with Stage-1 Triple Negative Breast Cancer and unfortunately diagnose again with DCIS Estrogen + Breast Cancer two years later. Being a 2x cancer survivor she was inspired to turn her pain into her purpose and started The Fearless Warrior Project, LLC. As a Certified Mental Health Coach and Advocate her mission is to help individuals address and overcome their emotional and mental traumas.
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Creating a legacy for her children is her biggest motivation.
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Why am I
FEARLESS?
Imagine being told at the age of 36 that “You Have Stage 1 Triple Negative Breast Cancer” with no family history of breast cancer in your family. Imagine seeing the fear in my children’s eyes as I told them the news. How my 13-yearold son stared at me and held back tears. Having to explain to my 3-year-old daughter that mommy would have to remove her breasts and my hair would fall out. Having to sit my husband down and prepare him to take over my daily duties as superwoman because my entire focus would be on my survival.
Being Fearless is a mindset, a tunnel vision approach to
fighting battles. You are never prepared for these types of challenges but being forced
into channeling superpowers moves mountains.
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On 9/21/20 my world stopped!
I was put in a position where I questioned “Why me God” and after hours of breakdowns, and resentment; I got my answer…
WHY NOT YOU!
THIS IS YOUR TIME QUEEN, to walk in on purpose. In order to overcome 15 rounds of aggressive chemotherapy, 8 surgeries, a second diagnosis, removal of both your breast, hair falling out and multiple setbacks. I need you to challenge yourself and start walking towards your purpose. The same way you invest in everyone else, it is your time to take center stage and let the world see your greatness.
Many watch my journey and are amazed by my strength to continue to smile despite the odds being stacked against me. My motivation is the legacy I leave behind, my children and the women and men that are in this fight with me. I am legendary because I took control of my journey
and did things my way. I didn’t allow cancer to be my story but just a chapter in my book of greatness. I am
Michelle AndersonBenjamin, MHA The Fearless Warrior
fearless because I decided on 9/21/20 that I would be the voice for the voiceless. I would create a legacy for my children to be proud of and celebrate. Even on my weakest days, they would see what strength and determination looks like and follow the foundation set.
Being Fearless means being Unapologetic when telling your story. Walking with your head high and a smile on your face regardless of your struggle. Embracing the good, the bad and understanding that life is a marathon, so keep running…….
The Fearless Warrior Project, LLC focus is to coach individuals to discover the warrior within. It is important to identify and channel the mental and emotional effects when dealing with life obstacles. Do not let trauma or life experiences define you, overcoming them is what makes you a Fearless Warrior. We provide group, one on one coaching, education, advocacy and resources to individuals ready to be fearless, Unapologetically.
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In Memory of
Triumphant SOROR LEONORA SNEED
To My Triumphant Soror and Forever Finer Fighter Leonora aka “Lee Lee” October 30,1980 - July 15,2022
Leonora we love you and miss you rest in peace until we meet again. Love always your Soror and Pink Sister Belinda Salley Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated I kept my promise to honor you!
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Dr. Radiance
Dr. Radiance L. Rose is a Transformational Leader/Speaker, Certified Professional Leadership & Life Coach, Professor, Human Rights Advocate, Trauma Disruptor, Master Resilience Trainer, and Entrepreneur. She is the SHE-EO, & Owner of ViVi Cole Coaching & Consulting LLC. As an experienced life coach, she helps veterans, educators, & first responders discover transformative solutions to balance work/life matters, gain clarity, accelerate careers through selfawareness/character development, & overcome trauma through resilience. Specializing in trauma recovery & resilience, Dr. Rose is committed to helping clients identify & enhance their strengths to achieve personal and professional goals. ViVi Cole Coaching & Consulting LLC is a client-focused
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business that helps veterans, educators, & first responders unpack & attack personal and professional life challenges to enhance productivity.
My Story:
In 2020, after various extensive mammography imaging/biopsies, I received life-changing news… “You have cancer, but it was caught early.” I underwent radiation treatment within 2-weeks, and my journey to recovery began. My story is like many others. Today, my cancer is in remission, and I am grateful to God & everyone who helped me navigate through one of the most challenging times in my life.
To every brave “breast cancer baddie” who is still in the fight; You have a right to advocacy! Women of color, you MUST advocate for yourself when it comes to your health.
If I ignored the symptoms that my body showed
me, my outcome would have been much different. Self-managing your own recovery in the areas of physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional health is where you will see the most gains. Do what your body will allow you to do. Take a trip or staycation, meditate/ pray, have lunch with your friends, exercise, maintain a balanced diet, journal for mental clarity, and get plenty of rest. Each woman’s road to recovery from breast cancer is different…the highway that chose me is HER2+. Be encouraged, keep your faith, never give up … and FIGHT!
If you want to heal from trauma wounds of the past or present, I am the coach for you. If you want to learn how to lead a more productive life with purpose on purpose, I am the coach for you. If you know what needs to be done in your life to achieve your goals, but you need help with drafting the blueprint, I am the coach for you. If you are
ready to toss the towel in on excuses and plunge into the deepest depths of your existence to face yourself & GROW, I am the coach for you.
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Rosangela SANTANA
My name is Rosangela, most people call me Rosie. I was born and raised in New Jersey. I have two kids, a daughter who is 14, and a son who is 4. Growing up, my father was ill and in and out of the hospital. Although young, I was able to help my mother comfort him, and assist him with his activities of daily living. It was challenging at times, but it always felt right to me. These circumstances were very influential on my decision to pursue a career in nursing at a very young age.
I’ve been nursing for 10 years, and I’ve only worked in the field of oncology. Working as an oncology nurse has truly been a life changing experience. Every single day, I am challenged by the fact that with every cancer diagnosis, the course
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of the journey and the way patients and families respond, is different. I have grown not only as a nurse, but also as a person. My eyes have been opened to the value of life, and not just life itself, but the precious thing that is a healthy life.
fact that cancer chose the WRONG ONE. At our very first meeting she showed me pictures of a photo shoot where she was dressed in a beautiful pink dress surrounded with balloons, right after her diagnosis. Almost as a welcoming to her
about how she was going to make a difference for women. She created a brand, Bcourageous where she designed masks, t-shirts, hoodies, bonnets, and designed TWO sneakers among so many other things. She would hand out her BCourageous masks to patients who needed or asked about them. She’s even in contact with legislators to change the age for breast cancer screenings to 35 WITHOUT family history.
Belinda faced all her chemo and radiation treatments with a smile on her face and a heartfull of positivity. She celebrated every single day. We’ve developed a special relationship.
Meeting Belinda. What an inspiration. She always maintained high spirits and hope for a new life despite her diagnosis of breast cancer, facing multiple surgeries, chemotherapy, radiation, and countless appointments. She was adamant at the
new life with breast cancer. It was admirable. She was transparent and documented her journey every step of the way.
As months went by, she excitedly began to tell me
I personally feel while caring for someone throughout their cancer journey, you grow a tight bond that you nor your patient will ever forget.
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(LA) Tonya
RICHBURGWILSON
“My testimony to uplift and inspire readers that there is life after cancer and with early detection and research (also look into your family history) you can beat this ugly disease. What got me through and still does is my favorite scripture Jerm. 29:11”
- Tonya Richburg-Wilson
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Tonya RichburgWilson was diagnosed with DCIS and IDC Stage 2 Breast Cancer (Invasive/ In-Situ) at the age of 45. I found my own lump in my right breast while taking a shower. I had my first surgery in September 2014 called Lumpectomy with one lymph node removed because it started to spread. My second surgery was in November 2014 to remove “margins’ ‘ aka edge or rim. I started Chemo December 2014 to April 26, 2015 called ACT (aka as Cocktail aka Red Devil), which I had no port and had chemo taken from my left arm only. I lost all my hair and my fingernails turned black, chemo left me with a metal taste so I had to eat with plastic utensils. I had 6.5 weeks of Radiation Monday thru Friday from May 2015 to June 2015. I had many many sleepless nights and very little appetite.
I have been in remission for 7 years and counting, but I still get treatments from my Oncologist called “Lupron” and “Prolia” injections, I
take a daily chemo pill called Anastrozole, I suffer from neuropathy and hot flashes,
I now have osteoporosis and suffer from insomnia and anxiety. I wrote and self published two (2) books about my breast cancer journey. One is titled “It’s Still Me Only Better, My Life Before, During and After Breast Cancer” and my second book is titled “In Remission on a Mission, My “New Norm” after Breast Cancer.” You can purchase them both on Amazon or contact me at Ltrichwil@aol.com for your copy.
When being diagnosed with
breast cancer in 2014-2015 at the age of 45 with DCIS and IDC Stage 2 made me realize how precious life is and that you don’t know how strong you are until you have to fight for your life. Not fighting just for my life but for my family. My three (3) children have seen and been through a lot while I battled breast cancer, but through it all, they have been so very supportive and by my side even at my weakest and ugliness. Having family support is everything and for that I will always be blessed and thankful for my family. Support is so mandatory when battling this kind of disease.
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Dr. Lori L.
SCHLEICHER, MD
Lori Schleicher, M.D., Chief, Gastrointestinal Oncology, was recently appointed as an attending physician in the division of hematology/oncology at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center. Her clinical interests include the management of colorectal, pancreatic, gastric, and esophageal cancer. Dr. Schleicher is actively enrolling interested patients on Colorectal and Esophageal protocols.
Dr. Schleicher earned her medical degree from the University of Rochester school of Medicine and Dentistry in Rochester, NY. She completed her postdoctoral training in Internal Medicine at Boston Medical Center, Boston University in Boston, MA and pursued a fellowship in Hematology/Oncology at New York Presbyterian Hospital, Columbia University Medical Center in New York City, NY. She is board certified in Internal Medicine and hematology/ oncology.
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Lori L. Schleicher, MD
Chief of Gastrointestinal Oncology at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center explains why early detection is so important especially when it comes to breast cancer.
Early detection of breast cancer can save your life. Even if you don’t feel a lump, swelling or tenderness, you still need a mammogram. In fact, experts recommend that all women receive their first mammogram at age 40 and continue to get screening mammograms once every year after that.
Newark Beth Israel Medical Center together with the Rutgers Cancer Institute of New Jersey (RCINJ), the state’s only NCI-designated comprehensive cancer center, offering 3D Mammograms, Breast MRI, genetic testing, access to clinical trials and peace of mind.
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Cassandra Smalls NICHOLSON
“The first and most important choice a leader makes is the choice to serve, without which one’s capacity to lead is severely limited” is the mantra that most effectively defines Cassandra Smalls Nicholson. Cassandra Smalls Nicholson is committed to building the lives of individuals one brick at a time. She is a strategic thought leader, visionary and the Pastor of Nehemiah Ministries International and the Overseer of Resurgence Ministries Liberia where her life’s body of work has a proven track record of encouraging, equipping, and empowering individuals to fulfill their life purpose.
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Cassandra has a heart and talent for inspiring women to be the best, authentic version of themselves. Her life resume shows that she is the architect behind several faith-based women empowerment projects that focus on bringing women to a place of wellness with a wholistic approach. Applying her wisdom and innate ability to connect with others she has had an impact on women across all ages, nationalities, and socio-economic backgrounds. Through her work with endeavors such as The Daughters of Zelophehad, and The Naomi Project, the transformational power of God heals, delivers, and sets women free spiritually, emotionally and physically.
A highly skilled and soughtafter speaker, Cassandra conducts workshops, retreats, conferences, and seminars nationally. In addition, she is an inspirational preacher and teacher who speaks truth to power through the gift of transparency, wit, and sound teaching. Cassandra was also a co-host on The Power of Gospel, a weekly radio
program (WRSU 88.7 FM) located at Rutgers University. She addressed real life issues from a biblical perspective. Thousands tuned in weekly to glean from her sage advice, perspective and instructions on how to navigate through the corridors of life intentionally and with proven results.
After 28 years with the County of Essex Division of Family Assistance and Benefits (formerly the Division of Welfare), Cassandra retired from her career as the Administrator of the TANF, Medicaid and Food Stamp offices. During her tenure, Cassandra was responsible for supervising the program and its staff, showing up as a servant leader in her vocation and the faith community as well.
Among her achievements, Cassandra is the author of The Art of Being Found, a relationship manual. She also helped initiate a preschool in Liberia, Hope Foundation Liberia. This school offers a free, formal education to over 200 children and
feeds them twice daily. Hope Foundation has also refurbished the county’s only hospital in Buchanan. The hospital now boasts a clean and sanitized building structure that provides new medical equipment and pharmaceuticals to the citizens. Cassandra’s work is changing lives “one child at a time”. She serves as secretary on the board of directors for Recovery House NJ, a nonprofit organization that offers supportive services for formerly incarcerated citizens.
Ms. Nicholson has some seminary training, and she received her master’s degree in Public Administration from Rutgers University. She received her bachelor’s degree in Criminal Justice from University of Maryland. Devoted wife, proud mother, and grandmother Cassandra thanks God daily for the blessings of family.
Humanitarian, philanthropist, encourager - Cassandra Smalls Nicholson
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SIMON
My biological father wouldn’t have succumbed to lung cancer July 23rd, 2019 wouldn’t be a day to remember the transition of a FULLY CHARGED STRONG TOWER in my life
Parents wouldn’t have to be concerned about their child being frail and undergoing so much at a young age due to their diagnosis
Families would be safe from such a devastating impact that begins with first their mental state, the state of their loved ones and ultimately the physical state which in some cases can be quite overwhelming.
If there was NO Cancer….
Veronica
What Would It Mean If There Was No Cancer By
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A woman that I absolutely love, STILL, beyond reproach transitioned into Heaven after having fought a solid fight against Cancer. She initially began with breast cancer which eventually spread to her brain and she fought with everything she had in her until her body simply became tired and she made the decision to live out the time she had left to make as many memories and to secure her family as best as she could before her transition.
I’M SICK… Literally and figuratively because I miss my loved ones, as unfortunately there have been others
who have experienced the devastation of cancer from colon, prostrate, lung, breast, brain and skin cancers.
Though I have never been diagnosed, having witnessed the experiences of other loved ones, some up close and personal, is beyond devastating and also inspiring because they fought and fought with the conviction to be a living testimony that CANCER for all does not have to be a death sentence. Thus why it is extremely important that we fight the good fight together against cancer for a cure!
My aunt was a retired biology teacher and Sergeant in the military and believed in fighting for a cure, not just for herself because she was a donor before she was diagnosed. She believed that there will someday be a cure and I believe the same! I am a proud supporter of The American Cancer Society as well as Curebound: www. curebound.org. Please be a part of the solution and help fight in the war against Cancer.
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Visionary
Sabrina
THOMAS
The Community of Girl, Don’t Count Yourself Out Girl, Don’t Count Yourself Out is a movement to empower and support women to push past their fears, self-doubt and lack of confidence to get to their next level in life. No more Counting Yourself Out, it’s our time to be the best version of ourselves.
Website: https://www.sabrinatspeaks.com/anthologysabrina Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GirlDontCountYourselfOut Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girldontcountyourselfout/
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Dasia “DASIAVU”
EDMOND
Dasia “DasiaVu” Edmond is a 17-yearold New Jersey-based bestselling author, barrier breaking athlete and gender equality activist. Dasia has penned two books and one coloring book, “Uniquely Made: Girls Don’t Play Football,” “Hair Chronicles: The Struggles of Natural Hair,” and “Color Explosion Activity Book”. “Uniquely Made” is a self-reflective journey that tells the story of true grit and determination. After constantly being told that girls don’t play football, Dasia not only made the Pop Warner All-Boys
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Football Team but played for 3.5 years.
Dasia takes readers on an enthralling expedition of how she convinced her parents to allow her to play football and earn the respect of her teammates and coaches.
In her second book, “Hair Chronicles: The Struggles of Natural Hair”, Dasia details the challenges she faced in styling her natural hair. She talks about the adventures of going to the hair salon - the stylist, different hair styles and the pain she endured while getting her hair done. For her third book, Dasia took a different route and created a coloring book that the entire family can enjoy.
As a result of the success of her books, Dasia has been featured on ABC7NY’s Here and Now segment with Sandra Bookman, Spot Light NJ, News 12 with Della Crews, FIOS 1 with Emily Girsh and on TV34 Union. She also has been interviewed on internet radio stations For Book Lovers Only and Rebel Radio. Her accolades include being the recipient of the Essex County
Althea Gibson Leadership Award by the Essex County Executive Joseph DiVincenzo, who named her Girl-OnThe-Go and she received the Mayor’s Award of Union Township. Dasia was inducted as the youngest member of the Chamber of Commerce in Union. She has also received a Certificate of Recognition from the Union Township Board of Education and received a Resolution by Union County Freeholders Vernell Wright and Mohamed S. Jalloh congratulates her for penning her books. Dasia was also one of five “She-roes” recognized at the 2018 Women’s Month Celebration in Union, was named Walmart Player of the Game by the New Jersey Devils and the “30 Under 30” Honorary Cloud Kid of New Jersey award recipient. When Dasia is not penning books, best-selling books, she is active in her community participating in various
service projects and speaking engagements. She also donated the first $50.00 of the proceeds of her book sales to her church’s scholarship fund, a basketball and ping pong set to the Boys and Girls Club of Union where she is an active member and has raised over $500 for St. Jude Children’s Hospital. Dasia also uses her creativity to create tee-shirts, hats, tote bags, and mugs. Ever the athlete, Dasia is still active in sports, currently playing on a New Jersey high school varsity team and with NJ Volts AAU basketball.
www.aliveshoes.com/ dasiavubooks
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Arriel BIVENS-BIGGS
Arriel is a two time cancer survivor and the founder of Young Biz Kidz and YBK Day, a nonprofit organization whose mission is to empower young people by engaging and encouraging financial literacy and entrepreneurship in youth. She believes that teaching financial education through entrepreneurship is a great way to introduce smart money habits early.
In addition to providing income, Arriel wants all to know that entrepreneurship teaches effective communication, personal responsibilities, and problem solving skills. It also builds self-esteem and strong relationships making it a great resource economically, academically and socially.
Initially focusing on educating youth, Arriel soon realized that parents could also use guidance in helping their
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children become business owners. She now offers services to help kids publish their books and become young influencers.
Arriel is a mentor, child advocate, parent advisor, public speaker. She has received many accolades for being a phenomenal woman entrepreneur and has been requested to share her knowledge with local, national and international audiences.
Arriel has taken her role as Mom Boss to another level and began empowering moms and families to build profitable personal brands and leverage their influence.
I have helped over 250 youth entrepreneurs build personal brands and influence. I have coached and worked with youth entrepreneurs to work with QVC and HSN, T-Mobile, Disney, Nickelodeon, PBS, Kidbox, Marvel etc...
I’m the visionary of the world’s biggest youth Marketplace in the US and I’m a Black woman. I have proclamations in 7 states for a Day I created called YBK DayYoung Biz Kidz Day
I have two successful youth entrepreneurs, My son is the youngest vending machine owner in the US (according to google) and my daughter has raised money to support the fight against Breast Cancer
I notice the more I speak and share my story the more moms come and talk to me and open up and share their stories. I’m also tired of playing small, God has spared my life too many times for me not to share his goodness and healing power. Lastly, I didn’t even realize I had built a brand until 2020 when I had a chance to reflect on my life.
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Regional Black Business Chamber of Commerce. She is a member of Tangipahoa Professional Women and member of the National Black MBA Association. Latasha is a Brand Ambassador for All Lives Do Exist Global Peace Movement and the Black Family Magazine.
Latasha RamseyCyprian is a native of Abita Springs, La. She’s married and has two daughters. She received her MBA from Louisiana State University-Shreveport. Latasha works professionally in HR. Latasha is the owner of Optimum Life Credit Solutions. She is a 5 times Bestselling Author, credit repair specialist, Life Coach and Speaker.
Latasha has a credit restoration program and she provides business
formation services. She hosts seminars in her community that focuses on the process to become a homebuyer. Latasha has helped over a hundred clients perform at their fullest potential professionally, personally, and financially.
Latasha is Louisiana State Chair for G100 Oneness & Wisdom, board president of Catch My Heart Outreach Non profit organization, member of Hammond-Northshore of Jack & Jill of America, Inc and member of Tangipahoa
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Mama's Southern Style BBQ for us, is about family cooking together to make the best food for your family. We are a family-owned and operated restaurant. Our Uncle first opened Mama's Southern Style BBQ in 1997. It was his dream to cook the recipes cultivated by generations of our family and share them with the world. He knew that if he opened Mama's people would come ...and so he did open Mama's... and so they did come time and time again.
In 2007, Nephew Chris Finnick took over as owner for us. That is where the 2 at the end of our name comes from. We made BBQ 2 official in 2008. Every morning you can find Chris at the market shopping for the freshest ingredients and then at the restaurant prepping for another busy day. We all are still here cooking together as a family, keeping our dreams and traditions alive. We welcome you to come on over and taste our unique blend of flavors.
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AK FIT is a brand that values the empowerment of every woman. Our products will provide confidence and edge with our trendy gym fits for all body types and products to enhance all your figure needs. AK will bring out the eliteness in every woman, having you look and feel amazing. Free of judgment and stigmas, allowing women to be their truest and natural selves. Helping you take your fitness journey to the next level in every way.
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She Contractor
She Contractor is an rganization created for women in construction. She Contractor is looking to give trades women a platform, a presence and a voice. The organization will offer webinars, seminars, conferences, mentorship, certification classes, have a worldwide directory, host a podcast and have a clothing line for trades women so we can stop shopping in the men’s section or not being able to find reasonably priced clothing.
Email: tamikalowe@shecontractor.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ shecontractor Phone: 888-640-1737
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Master Magician, ISLANDMAGIC, was born in St. Thomas, Virgin Islands. Growing up in the Caribbean he was always curious about magic and it wasn’t until he performed a show at his own kids party when he decided entertaining children would be part of his life forever. Known as one of the best magicians in the Tri State area and a member of the International Brotherhood of Magicians and Kidabra International; he offers astonishing magic shows for all occasions.
ISLANDMAGIC is mesmerizing with his fast moving card tricks, mind games and beautiful white dove production, always leaves his audience wanting more. This Caribbean infused show with soca and reggae beats is definitely one of a kind and will have the audience screaming “YeahMon”.
ISLANDMAGIC, also teaches magic to kids. My mission is to keep Magic alive, by teaching and sharing the Art of performance magic with new generations of magic enthusiasts. To use performance magic as a vehicle to help others develop interpersonal and public speaking skills. “I was motivated to build my own brand because there are not a lot of African American Magicians. Not only am I a role model for kids, but I can encourage kids to start their own magician business.”
- Jason McClean
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THE BLACK FAMILY MAGAZINE 68 Website: www.islandmagic.tv Facebook: www.facebook.com/islandmagicjasonmcclean Instagram: www.instagram.com/islandmagic2 Email: needcarkeys@hotmail.com KEY CITY LOCKSMITH
THE BLACK FAMILY MAGAZINE 69 Now is the time! Whether you are SELLING, BUYING, or RENTING... If you are waiting for the right time to invest in Real Estate for you and your family, NOW IS THAT TIME! Get in touch with me and I will introduce you to the entire team of Real Estate and Insurance Agents and Lenders at Weichert, Realtors who together we will handle all your needs to SELL or BUY your future space. I’m your #HomeGirl Client Satisfaction Is My Only Option Part Time Agent with Full Time Attention Website: https://jorelle-green.Weichert.com Facebook: @jorellesellshomes Instagram: @jorellesellshomes My name is Jorelle and I am here to work for you.
Smell My Love by
Sharonda
Reeds superb customer service and amazing products keeps customers returning for more. Sharonda enjoys creating quality products that make people feel good. Soon, Sharonda hopes to be a nationally recognized, wellestablished, Black-Owned business. Eventually Reeds wants Smell My Love to be a globally known business.
Within one year, Smell My Love’s CEO and Founder, Sharonda Reeds is on her way to creating a natural self-care empire. Sharonda has dedicated many hours to creating the perfect business that not only promotes self-care, but also helps
relieve stress and provides relaxation. Sharonda’s heart and passion is the foundation of Smell My Love. Each product is handmade with love and care. From the creation process to packaging and staging products for photo shoots, Reeds is hands on with every aspect of Smell My Love.
Through the grace of God and Sharonda’s entrepreneurial drive, Smell My Love has quickly become a household name. Even when Sharonda was afraid that Smell My Love wouldn’t produce the sells’ that she projected, Reeds quickly shifted her paradigm and remembered her parents instilled in her that failure is not an option. Sharonda hopes to create generational wealth through Smell My Love and to leave a legacy for her children and their children.
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“I want the readers to understand that in most cases if you’re not ok, then nothing around will be. Take a little time to allow yourself to relax and refresh your body, mind and spirit. A few minutes of self-care can go a long way. I challenge you to try it and I’m sure you’ll love the results!
and I am looking forward to what God has in store for the future.
My goal is to continue giving back to the disadvantaged communities by providing self-care workshops. These workshops are interactive and provide step by step instructions on how to create products and promote love and care for yourself.
depth research and testing, I was able to build Smell My Love on a solid foundation.
This is my passion as it gives me such joy creating, mixing, pouring, and packaging products and orders. I found my purpose by providing quality products for women and men at a reasonable price. My mission is to show people that self-love and care are needed.
This is my ministry, and I am thankful that God chose me for this assignment. I am grateful to still have creativity and I can see my growth as an entrepreneur.
My blessing is what started as a side business, flourished from passion and love for 3 years strong. Smell My Love by Sharonda, LLC ® is a Trademarked company
I plan on providing workshops for entrepreneurs pertaining to teaching, researching, trademarking, and branding. I will also provide individual consultation on how to start your own business and begin writing my book.”
Smell My Love by Sharonda started out to bring additional income into my home. I wanted something that would be exciting to learn, create, stage and be beneficial for my clients with a reasonable startup cost. After doing in
Smell My Love by Sharonda is for anyone that has the desire to spend a little time to care for themselves. Selfcare can be as easy as mixing a few household ingredients together and moisturizing their skin. When someone is committed to maintaining self-care, often they will have lower stress levels and more energy.
Website: www.smellmylove.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ smellmylove Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ smell_my_love_by_sharonda/
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JONES
My name is Dorothy A. Jones I am a licensed Cosmetologist with the State of New Jersey. I have been a hair care specialist for over forty years and the owner of Sybil’s International Beauty Salon located at 2056 Springfield Avenue Vauxhall, New Jersey 07083. All clients are welcome, and we do walk-ins. Our services include but are not limited to natural hair, braids, and weaves. I specialized in professional hair care and provided a safe private salon.
Sybil’s International Salon introduced a new product for individuals who have dry, damaged, and unhealthy hair called, Zion Angel hair serum. My product is organic and includes eleven ingredients: Olive oil, Grapeseed oil, Almond oil, Avocado oil, Jojoba oil, Tea Tree oil, Vitamin E, Eucalyptus oil, Lavender oil, Peppermint oil and Frankincense oil. I have several client testimonials that purchased my serum due to dry, damaged, or balding. Within “six months”, of using
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my serum three times a week their hair was thriving showing no evidence of dryness, damage or balding.
I also have a wildcraft butter which is used for hair and body moisture.
Sybil’s International Salon introduced a new product for individuals who have dry,
damaged, and unhealthy hair called, Zion Angel hair serum.
My product is organic and includes eleven ingredients: Olive oil, Grapeseed oil, Almond oil, Avocado oil, Jojoba oil, Tea Tree oil, Vitamin E, Eucalyptus oil, Lavender oil, Peppermint oil and Frankincense oil. I have several client testimonials
that purchased my serum due to dry, damaged, or balding. Within “six months”, of using my serum three times a week their hair was thriving showing no evidence of dryness, damage or balding.
I also have a wildcraft butter which is used for hair and body moisture.
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Dr. Ross COOPERMAN
Dedicated plastic and reconstructive surgeon specializing in microsurgery, who combines state-of-the-art surgical techniques with individualized, patient-centered care.
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My medical specialty is a balance of technical skill and careful judgment. Fortunately, our field has made tremendous advancements during its several decade history. In fact, I believe we are in a renaissance of breast cancer care that our global academic community has developed during this time. Currently, we can provide efficient breast reconstructions with safer implants and microsurgery using one’s own tissue. On the frontlines are surgeons like I am who develop profound relationships while delivering high-quality surgical care.
When a diagnosis of breast cancer is made, it is critical to assemble a team of specialists. The leader of this group is the breast surgeon. This doctor will provide referrals to a reconstructive plastic surgeon, medical oncologist, possibly radiation oncologist, geneticist, and other team members as necessary. There are various centers that have the resources to deliver this
modern care but certainly not all.
The plastic surgeon should be board certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery and a member of the American Society of Plastic Surgeons. Plastic surgical decision making is complex. Each patient requires a unique analysis of their situation. The plastic surgeon must be experienced and be able to explain the plan in simple terms and answer all questions patiently.
Breast reconstruction plastic surgeons ask how do we confidently deliver an operation that will be long lasting and satisfying to the patient? How do we get our patients back to feeling normal after treatment as it pertains to their personal and professional lives?
How do we listen to clues while taking a history with a patient to formulate the best personal plan for them?
In that manner, a two-way discussion between doctor and patient over multiple consultations is important. This allows the patient to fully understand the plan
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I am a father. I am a husband. I am a plastic surgeon who specializes in breast reconstruction.
prior to surgery and open the door of communication for any subsequent issues. Also, second opinions can be quite valuable during this process if that level of comfort is not met. Another idea to keep in my mind is that sometimes no plastic surgery whatsoever can be the best choice. Lastly, to emphasize this point, your plastic surgeon must demonstrate that she or he is always available for you.
The path on my journey to become a specialist in reconstructive breast surgery has been a series of sliding doors. These are critical moments that have proven to be the milestones of who I am today. Examples are encounters with mentors, words of wisdom from various people, guidance by my phenomenal parents, enduring support of my wife, and pieces of important literature. All these influences have built a guiding principle in my heart to better people’s lives while breaking down walls of inequality. This fits well into my profession because cancer does not discriminate. I have had the
honor of treating patients from every continent and all neighborhoods. I have learned about different languages, religions, and cultures. I have learned about local, national, and international history. I have been treated to a variety of delicious homemade foods and many handwritten notes of gratitude. My patients and I have shared laughter, tears, and hugs. My life has truly been blessed with the patients who have entered my doors. This is my personal interpretation of race, beliefs, and gender as it pertains to being a doctor. With this understanding, I am excited to continue to serve the community for years to come in a positive and meaningful way. Website: https:// coopermanplastics.com
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Community Matters. Professional Black Estheticians (PBE) was created in August 2013, as a Facebook Group. It was the first exclusive black esthetician group that was deemed a safe space for us to communicate about the beauty industry. Engage. Educate. Empower.
Today, Professional Black Estheticians is my ministry, a way for me to give back to a professional beauty community that I love. It has grown to be the Amazon of PBE-a B2C and B2B Resources Community. We help generate leads and revenue through brand awareness, social media, education, retail sales, and our website: www.professionalblackestheticians. com. Partnerships with PBE include # GETPINNED and Premiere.
Professional Black Estheticians:
• Largest Professional Black Estheticians Collective
• B2C and B2B Resources Communities
• Network & Collaborate with Beauty Industry Experts
• Grow your Streams of Revenue
Representation Matters. There are 50,989 licensed estheticians in the United States. However, Professional Black Estheticians (PBE) only make up 3.5%.
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Over the past few years, Estheticians have become a major player in the form of self-care.
Self-care can be experienced in many ways: body enhancements, lymphatic
drainage, massages, facials, homecare, products, and more. Today, PBE are also product manufacturers, distributors, retailers, medispa owners, and recovery home owners.
Despite being low in numbers, Professional Black Estheticians are here to help you take care of yourself. We understand life's challenges and skin of color. We are trained and committed to your self-care.
Website: https://www.professionalblackestheticians.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/professionalblackestheticians
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/professionalblackestheticians/
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Raymon WALKER
Ray-moan LuxuRay Walker is a proud Brooklyn native New Yorker, Designer, Stylist, Luxury Curator, Founder, and CLxO of Haus of Flash. His fashion journey began the moment he recognized clothes for himself during his early childhood. Born to a mother and father who are both seamstresses and studied fashion, a grandfather who… well let’s just say was for the streets in an error of Frank Sinatra kept him the “people’s choice” for best dressed. In daycare LuxuRay’s favorite playing station was “housekeeping”, not because he loved to play house but because he was able to play in the closet. While others were pretending to cook and play mommy and daddy, he was forcing his friends to play at weddings or dinner parties. LuxuRay has always had a burning passion for clothing
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and events! By 1st grade, he was picking out his own clothes. While the road was not easy he is a proud product of the NYC Public School System, an Alumni of Howard University and King School of Business. LuxuRay resides in Dumbo Brooklyn with his partner Rashod and “pawter” Bella.
I would like to inspire anyone who is doubting themselves or their calling for any reason. I delayed transitioning into the fashion world because I
did not want to be seen as a stereotypical gay man who loved fashion. Once I got over that insecurity I have not looked back. I want someone to read my story and release all fear and doubt. GO FOR YOURS!
I have been told that I am “an experience”. From how I dress to where I choose to hang out, the activities and hobbies
I partake in always leave a strong and positive impact on people. All of my life, I have been flamboyant, a “flashy”
person if you will. It’s not just my clothing, it’s the way I carry myself, my expectations, and my outlook on life. I am genuinely about maximizing every moment and opportunity and I have been blessed with the creativity to enhance almost anything if given the opportunity and resources even when limited. This innate talent is what I believe draws people to me and what draws me to my craft.
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Photo Credit: TLS Shoots LLC
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Photo Credit: TLS Shoots LLC
For a long time, I struggled with finding clothing that caught my eye or illustrated my vision. In 2014 I began using google as my resource to find items that I could not find in stores no matter the brand. While this worked for a while it became frustrating not having a one-stop shop for everything. As a maximalist and a doer, I decided to be the change I wanted to see, for a number of years I designed my own clothing and footwear and worked with small businesses to produce my designs. After multiple prophetic confirmations and my own understanding of God, I knew it was time as I came into this new season. Out of obedience Haus of Flash was born.
My target audience is anyone who has had a hard time unleashing their “Entire Self”. It’s not about just being your authentic self because you can illustrate authenticity but remain censored or only show a portion. I am reaching out to individuals who worry about the perception of others or worry that they may prove people “right” if they embrace and publicly share who they really are, especially young effeminate and LGBTQ+ black boys and men.
Email: the.luxuray@gmail.com Website: www.hausofflash.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luxu_ray
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FAMILY HEALING CENTER
Malik Carey is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional based in Livingston, NJ. Conveniently located, Malik specializes in anxiety, addiction, and Trauma and PTSD. Contact them today to overcome the challenges you are facing.
Family Healing Center is a leading provider in wellness
and recovery care. We provide our clients a safe and intimate atmosphere for their emotional well-being and recovery from addiction. Our team is comprised of highly trained professionals. Their expertise covers evaluation, assessment, counseling and therapies to assist with a broad range of mental, emotional and behavioral issues. Receiving treatment at the Family Healing Center will have a profound impact on your emotional well being and bring healing in your life.
Our mission at Family Healing Center is to provide families with the highest quality of care. We accomplish this through compassionate individual therapy, supportive group counseling, and mental health education.
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