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Dear Friend,
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It’s summer! I am so ready to swish
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down time now that the kids are
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to play, too!
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inside this issue COZY CRIB pg 4 a locally sourced nursery PET PONDERINGS pg 9 DI-WHY NOT? pg 13 FLOURISH pg 15 finding fertility
10 WAYS TO SNEAK IN LEARNING pg 17 WOMEN OF A CERTAIN AGE pg 18 URBANE FOLKLORE pg 20 summer fashion for men and women CALENDARS pg 24
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COZY CRIB A PEEK INTO A LOCALLY SOURCED NURSERY Personalizing your space is so
to actually meet the maker behind the
much fun, especially when you are
merchandise... what a joy!
welcoming a new little one into
I will always do my best to give back
the home! For one couple, Adam
to the creative hands and to keep our
and Haley Pavao, incorporating
money in the community,” offered Haley.
vintage and locally made items was essential. As the owner of Pastiche at Main, Haley enjoys supporting creatives through her store and other venues (such as Vintage Lynchburg and Peddler Antiques). “It is much more personal when you can find or customize items for your home. Then
When it came to decorating a nursery, Haley picked a “Native American meets local” theme for Addison’s nursery, which offers a sense of adventure for the baby boy. Haley stated, “I have always dreamed of decorating a nursery and had slowly begun gathering a few gender neutral items over the last couple of years. It was quite simple to go with natural decor that would grow up with Addison fairly easily.” The Pavaos live in a 1950s home, which is short on storage. Creatively incorporating cubbies and ledges, along with utilizing the wall space, aided in finding a place for books and collectibles. Adding a little extra seating in the form of an old Sears cart, which will eventually function as a toddler bed, also makes Addison’s room a great place to spend time when his cousins visit.
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As new parents, we asked both Adam and Haley to offer insight based on their experience. What was the most fun thing
H - How quickly each stage flies by.
about the pregnancy?
There is a constant change occurring!
A - I loved it when the baby would move
I’m just trying to soak up each day so I
around. It was the craziest thing to see
don’t miss anything.
our baby move, especially in the later
What is your favorite thing
months when he would respond to our
about being a parent?
voices.
A - There is nothing like his laugh. I
H - I enjoyed waking every day to
love coming home, making eye contact
a growing, moving baby that was
and hearing him squeal with joy.
healthy... just truly grasping what a
Absolutely my favorite part of being
miracle life is.
a parent is being “dada” and already
What is the one thing that has
starting that father/son relationship.
surprised you about being a
H - I love how instantly Addison
parent so far?
and I shared a mother/son bond
A - Being a parent changed me. I have
that no one else can have. It truly
become the biggest baby since Addison’s
is unique and melts my heart every
birth, and I have never experienced
time I see him just staring up at me
anything like it. I never knew I could
or grabbing my face.
experience such intense gratitude.
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Adam’s Advice For New Dads I didn’t know what I was doing when Addison was born. The truth is, I still don’t. I frequently call Haley a wizard because she can magically walk in the room, pick up Addison, and he settles down. There is just something about mom that makes everything okay. Encourage her. Support her. Love her beyond her expectations. She deserves it, and so does your baby.
Haley’s Advice For New Moms Grace! Every day give yourself grace. Managing another little life whether working or at home - is a life altering responsibility. Don’t be so hard on yourself. That baby was given to you, so take your time, learn what your baby wants, and roll with it! It is such a privilege to raise a child; I am forever changed by this journey of loving Addison.
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Pet Ponderings
SUMMER TRAVEL WITH YOUR PET Summer is here, and it is time to pack up the family and head off on some memorable adventures. Day trips and long vacations ensue, and some occasions call for the family pet to join in on the fun. If you are planning a trip with your pet, here are some important tips to consider.
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You can pack a first aid kit with bandage materials, topical medications and oral mediations that may help your pet with pain, allergic reactions or digestive upset. Discuss with your vet specific medications to know which are safe and necessary for your travels. Be prepared for motion sickness and nausea. Does your dog get nauseous on car rides? There is a medication you can get from your veterinarian called Cerenia (maropitant citrate) that can help your dog with motion sickness. It is available in tablet form, and can be given to your dog on an empty stomach two hours before traveling. Plan ahead! Plan your route and overnight stays in advance. It’s important to know if your destination is pet friendly and what pet services are
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available. If you are hiring a petsitter or boarding your pet, make sure to leave contact information and instructions on what to do in an emergency.
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With advanced planning, traveling with your pet can be enjoyable, fun, and help to create wonderful, long-lasting memories.
Remember: During the hot summer months, do not leave your pets in the car for any
Shella Baker is a veterinarian at Bedford Animal Hospital. When she is not spending time with her husband and her furry kids, she enjoys jogging, gardening, and traveling.Â
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Obtain a certificate of veterinary inspection. Are you going out of state for an extended period of time or flying with your pet? Depending on the circumstances, it may be important or mandatory that you obtain an official health certificate from your veterinarian stating your pet is healthy and vaccinated. This is usually required within 10 days of travel. You will also need a copy of their rabies certificate. Certain states and countries also require further documentation, testing or procedures. Before traveling, be sure to check out what different states and countries require at
CAR TEMPERATURE SAFETY CHART Running into a store for “just a minute” can be fatal to a pet left in the car, even when the temperature does not seem that hot outside.
http://www.aphis.usda.gov. Be sure that your pet’s vaccinations are current. Any dog or cat over four months of age that is traveling into the state of Virginia is required by law to have a current rabies vaccination. Boarding facilities usually have immunization requirements to make sure your pet is safe from contagious diseases. Travel with copies of your pet’s vaccine and health history records and the contact information for your veterinarian, if needed. Try to minimize the stress on your pet. Pack your pet’s normal food, and don’t change their diet during travel to avoid digestive upsets. Carry water, bowls, bedding, toys, treats and other items that
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will comfort your pet during travel. Remember to take plastic bags for picking up after bathroom breaks. Pet wipes or waterless shampoo can assist with cleaning pets and their dirty paws. If your dog or cat gets extremely anxious or nervous during a trip, there are medications available to help. Options should be discussed and tried prior to the trip to determine what will work best. One product that can help with cats is Feliway spray. This can be sprayed onto bedding and inside the carrier 30 minutes before travel (and daily) to help your cat feel less stressed. Make sure your pet has identification and restraints. Make sure you can control your pet by packing collars, harnesses and leashes. Double check that tags have current phone numbers and contact information. Microchipping your pets is an important consideration in case they are lost or stolen. Have appropriate carriers, crates, pens and gates for providing comfort, safety and exercise. Safety seats and harnesses can be purchased for your pet to keep them contained or restrained during driving. Pack first aid supplies for your pet. Pack your pet’s current medications, including heartworm
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preventatives and flea/tick control. Some southern states are considered heartworm endemic areas, and your pet should be on a preventative to
Do not leave your pet in a hot
protect them. Many sandy areas are hot spots for fleas. An interesting
car, even with cracked windows!
prevalence map of tick and heartworm diseases can be found at www.dogsandticks.com/diseases_in_your_area.php.
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DI-WHY NOT
PATRIOTIC SUMMER WREATH
Summer is the perfect time to celebrate with patriotic decor, especially with upcoming holidays such as Memorial Day, the 4th of July and Labor Day. Whether you are honoring a special day or recognizing a family member’s military service, craft a red, white and blue wreath for your door, mantel or office.
SUPPLIES • 16” wire wreath form • 1/2 yard each of red, white, & blue fleece • Rotary cutter, quilter’s ruler and cutting mat (or a ruler and scissors)
METHOD 1 Cut each color of fleece into 1” x 6” strips. 2 The wire wreath is divided into eight segments. Three segments will be blue with white “stars.” Three segments will be red and two will be white. Starting with red, tie strips of fleece to the form, one at a time. 3 Fill in one section of the wreath completely with red strips and the next completely with white strips. Continue alternating colors until three red and two white sections are filled.
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The remaining three wreath segments will be blue with
white strips added to form “stars.” Start by adding four rows of blue to one section. On the fifth row, alternate blue with white strips, and then add two more rows of blue strips. On the next row, alternate white with blue strips. Add two more rows of blue strips. After that, add a row alternating blue with white strips, then add two rows of blue strips, and then add a row alternating white with blue strips. Continue with pattern until the three sections are nearly filled. End the third section with four blue strip rows. 55
Hang your wreath and enjoy!
Photos by Paula Skulina
LOVE THIS IDEA? HERE ARE A FEW MORE IDEAS FOR THIS TYPE OF WREATH.
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Felt or fabric could also be used to construct a wreath.
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Make a wreath in colors that match your home’s decor.
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Construct a “school pride” wreath using your favorite team’s colors.
Paula Skulina is a teacher by day and in her free time enjoys biking, decorating and cooking. Visit her DIY filled blog at www.virginiasweetpea.com.
FINDING FERTILITY
Flourish
INCREASE YOUR FERTILITY If you have been trying to conceive for a couple of months with no luck, Dr. Evans-Hoeker noted that there are a few things you can do on your own to help increase your fertility. 1. Have intercourse frequently. Studies have shown that reproductive efficiency increases with the frequency of intercourse and is highest when it occurs every one to two days. 2. Take advantage of the fertile window. The fertile window for most women spans the six-day interval ending on the day of ovulation. Most couples believe they should wait until the day of ovulation to have sex, but this is a common misconception. For many women with regular menstrual cycles, intercourse every one to two days during the fertile window can help maximize conception. Photos byJeffrey C Gleason Photography
S
o you have finally decided to take
struggling to conceive. In fact,
the plunge. You and your partner
she also had to undergo fertility
are ready to have a baby! You go off the
treatments in order to conceive.
pill and smile to yourself thinking that
WHEN TO SEE A SPECIALIST
in a couple months you will be pregnant. Two months go by ...and nothing. And a few more months go by ...and nothing.
If you are under 35 with regular
You start to wonder if there is something
cycles, have been following the
wrong with you. You ask yourself if you
suggestions above and are still not
can even get pregnant.
pregnant within a year, it might be
You are not alone. According to the CDC, more than six million women in the U.S. have had trouble getting pregnant. Emily Evans-Hoeker, M.D., Carilion Clinic’s reproductive medicine specialist, sees couples in her office every day that are
time to see a reproductive medicine specialist. If you are over 35 and have been trying for six months without
3. Maintain a healthy weight. Fertility rates have been shown to decrease in women who are either very thin or have excess weight. 4. Stop smoking. Smoking has substantial negative effects on fertility, and it also increases the risk of miscarriage. 5. Cut down on caffeine. High levels of caffeine have been associated with decreased fertility, so don’t consume more than the equivalent of one to two cups of coffee per day. 6. Ditch the lubricant.
success, it is a good idea to seek help.
Some commercially available
However, if you have already been
water-based lubricants have been
diagnosed with an obvious fertility
shown to inhibit sperm motility
issue such as blocked fallopian tubes
by 60 to 100 percent.
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or you do not have regular cycles, then
tilization, or IVF. IVF has become
to perform most of the IVF process in
you should seek the help of a specialist
a popular fertility treatment that
Roanoke but then travels to UNC
right away.
involves combining eggs and sperm
Fertility to perform the egg retrieval
outside the body in a laboratory.
and embryo transfer on her patients.
Embryos are formed in a lab and
“What we do is not just your typical
then placed back into the uterus.
Contrary to popular belief, infertility
medicine. It is very personal to people,
Aside from a skilled reproductive
is not just a female problem. Besides
and it is very emotional,” explained Dr.
medicine specialist, having access to a
anovulation (a menstrual cycle
Evans-Hoeker. “My partnership with
state-of-the-art lab with high success
COMMON CAUSES AND TREATMENTS
in which an egg is not released), male factor fertility is another very common reason for infertility.
UNC Fertility allows me to perform rates is crucial for IVF to be successful. every step of the IVF process for our “The eggs cannot survive outside of
patients, rather than sending them
the body in the typical every day envi-
to another physician that they do
“Unlike women, men don’t necessarily
ronment for very long. Once removed,
not know to perform parts of the
have any symptoms,” said Dr.
the eggs must be handed directly over
IVF cycle, which is something that
Evans-Hoeker. “If a woman does
to the lab, which has a very controlled
we were not previously able to do.”
not get her cycle, then we know
environment. The same goes for the
If you suspect that you may have
something is wrong, but you won’t
embryo,” Dr. Evans-Hoeker stated.
a fertility issue, speak to your OB/
necessarily know if there is something
“Much of the success of IVF has to
GYN or visit a reproductive medicine
wrong with a man’s semen or if he has
do with how things are done in the
specialist about the next steps that you
an anatomical abnormality unless you
embryology lab.”
could take. Infertility is an extremely
look for it.” Thus, getting a thorough
For this reason, Carilion’s Reproductive
difficult journey. Thankfully, medical
history on both the man and woman
Medicine and Fertility Clinic
advances are making the dream of
is important in a consultation.
recently formed the first IVF
parenthood a reality for so many.
Treatments can range from fertility
partnership in Roanoke with
drugs to super ovulation (ovulating
University of North Carolina (UNC)
more than one egg per cycle) with
Fertility, an excellent embryology lab
intrauterine insemination (placing
with high success rates. Through the
sperm into the uterus) to in vitro fer-
partnership, Dr. Evans-Hoeker is able
Peggy Karpenske, RN, is the manager of Centra Medical Group Women’s Center, which offers centering groups along with traditional, one-on-one care. For more information, visit CentraMedicalGroup.com/ForestWomen or call 434.385.8948.
(434) 944-9477 www.chrisjohnson.inf.com
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Ways to Sneak in Learning
Photos by Jason Spear at Timberlake Christian Schools
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Kids love writing on the sidewalk with chalk. Have
them practice writing the alphabet
It’s here! 3 months of fun as kids experience freedom, sleeping in and making
or spelling words instead of drawing
memories. Although having a break is fun, students can lose 2 to 5 months
pictures. Count by 5’s or 10’s while
worth of learning, which is why the beginning of each school year is dedicated
hula hooping or jumping rope. If
to review. While there is a lot of fun to be had during the summer, there are
you’ve got a child that loves diving for
plenty of ways to creatively “sneak” in learning the summer.
dive sticks, use real coins instead to
1.
Family vacations can be both fun and educational. Have
4.
You are never too young to have a summer job. Lemonade
children help plan itineraries and
stands, family yard sales and bake
calculate potential costs of vacation
sales are great ways to reinforce math
spots. Consider recently studied
skills and introduce your child to
areas (or the upcoming year’s topics)
beginning entrepreneur skills like
to choose locations. Visit museums
planning a business, marketing, and
and historical landmarks at your
money management.
practice coin identification or several coins that total a given amount. For older kids who seem to constantly use phones and tablets, install apps that will help them review basic math skills. These are all easy ways to incorporate learning into everyday activities.
Growing a garden
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incorporates science and
Monopoly, Life, Clue, Dominoes, and
Encourage a family game
writing skills to write postcards back
5.
home to friends or family.
math skills. Children can research
Uno reinforce math and money skills as
2.
and learn about what to plant and use
well as logic, reasoning, and strategy.
measuring/math skills in the process.
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destination. Children can also use
Make a journal. Keep track of summer adventures and
use writing skills to create a book complete with photos and captions.
3.
Start a book club with neighbors or family. Adults
and children can be accountable and benefit from meeting together and discussing literature once a week. Children can do a fun hands-on activity related to the book.
As a Lynchburg native, Jennifer Whitt has been a teacher and tutor for over 15 years and is the Area Director/ Owner of Club Z! Lynchburg.
6.
Science, reading, and math skills can be used with backyard
night. Classic games such as
There are so many choices for summer camps such
as basketball, photography, horse
science experiments. Try making your
back riding and ice-skating. Check
own bubble solution or homemade
local museums, schools, and colleges,
ice cream. A simple web search of
as they tend to offer a variety of
“backyard science experiments” will
academic day camps for the summer.
yield lots of ideas.
7.
Making learning fun does take
Start a nature hobby. Take
planning and effort, so if you need a
walks around the neighborhood
little extra help purchasing a “Summer
and start a bug, butterfly, flower, or
Bridge” curriculum can help review
rock collection. Have children research
major skills throughout the summer. If
and create a display for the collection.
children need extra help or want to get
Observe animal tracks or pick up bird
a jump-start on next year, a tutor can
watching. If you are at the beach, start
also aid in ensuring that things aren’t
a seashell collection.
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Women of a Certain Age
ENDURING LOVE In an era of “starter marriages” and a still-high divorce rate, I’m thankful that my husband and I are about to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary. Even though it hasn’t been all sunshine and roses, we have experienced a long, slow, comfortable climb through life. It’s fun going through life with someone whose company I enjoy and whose opinion I value. I don’t believe in the concept of “soul mates.” In other circumstances – say, for example, we had each gone to a different college and never met – we might have married other people. But we did find each other: I was working
Photo by Crystal George Studios
at the mall, and he worked at the GE plant on the hill. That shy man was a
SHARED FAITH
frequent customer at our store.
Although there are marriages of
They say opposites attract, and I
differing faiths that work, I think for
believe that’s true. He is an introvert
us, incorporating tradition helped keep
and I am an extrovert, yet we agree
us close. We share similar values and
that our differing outlooks on life
morals, and we go to church together
help temper each other. My joie de
every Sunday.
vivre brings excitement to his life;
SHARED FUN
his calm demeanor keeps me from burning out.
We both enjoy games – board games, trivia games – so we play with others once or twice a month. We
“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.” — I Corinthians 13:7
both enjoy hiking, roller coasters, music, and movies. But too much together time can be stifling, bringing us to the next topic.
SPACE In looking back on what makes
Give each other space to pursue
our marriage work, what works for
different hobbies, friends, and
us also seems to come across as a
activities. I don’t share my husband’s
common theme in many studies
sheer joy in gaming; he has no
over the years. Couples can be
interest in fabric arts other than
different, but not too different; they
appreciating the finished product. I
can be similar, but not too similar.
take yoga; he plays in a “garage” band.
Here are some things that have worked
Our outside activities also give us
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something to talk about when we see each other again.
DIFFERENT SPENDING HABITS Although money arguments can cause friction in a marriage, I think it’s probably best if marriage partners are not both big spenders or both tightwads. I’m a tightwad, my husband is not. We discuss what big-ticket items we’ll buy; if it’s a treat (other than an appliance or furniture), we’ll buy it for ourselves for Christmas.
COMPROMISE Unless they’re clones, no two people will agree on everything all the time. Learn to find balance in your lives – when to stick to your guns, and when it’s best to say, “Yes, what you suggest would be better.” You learn to pick your battles. Some things are just not worth arguing over, and nagging is a no-no.
COMMUNICATION This is the most important thing
We’re empty nesters now, and we
in any relationship. If you can’t talk
find that we truly like to just hang
about an issue causing friction, you
out together, even if it’s merely
can’t solve it. Every once in a while,
running around town, doing errands,
one of us just has to say, “Can we
or working in the yard. The greatest
talk?” No one likes conflict, but
thing that keeps us in this grand
unresolved issues can simmer and
adventure is the fact that we love and
destroy a relationship.
respect each other and enjoy each
DATE NIGHT Many couples find setting a day now and again to get out of the house - to go have fun, even if it means hiring a babysitter for a few hours
other’s company. Deirdre Serio has written for newspapers, non-profits, and her present “day job” as a technical writer. She love the great outdoors, especially hiking and kayaking.
- goes a long way toward refreshing a marriage. When our daughter was young, we had the good fortune to have close friends nearby who would babysit so we could get out of the house and have an occasional quiet, romantic dinner.
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Summer Fashion
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‘Tis the season to freshen up your wardrobe and test out a new piece or two. Whether you choose to stick with the classics or try a different style, accessorizing and following a few trends can help formulate the right look for you this summer.
Menswear No matter the occasion or season, you can not go wrong with a clean, white oxford. For the summer, the goal is to always look for style, functionality, and simplicity. A crisp, white dress shirt anchors a look and establishes a foundation for accent pieces. These are great styles for any man aspiring to re-establish his inner gentleman.
Mix it up by wearing a combination of warm tones with pastels. A pair of denim jeans is a staple for any man’s closet. Adding a uniquely colored jacket and a pop of color with a pocket square expresses fashion, yet keeps the look simple at the same time. The addition of a Mad Men-esque skinny tie completes the look. Tie - it’s FOUND vintage Of course, in the summer, the white shirt can be paired with brown loafers and a matching belt. The bow tie adds a gentleman’s touch that coincides with the plaid designed shorts. Just be sure to roll up the sleeves for casual appeal. Bow Tie - Twenty23
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Again, jeans and a lightly rolled oxford take center stage. Adding a vest to show off those shoulders can be very easy on the eyes. Having a colorful lapel pin will express a bold accent piece and keep the look cohesive, yet interesting. Bow Tie - it’s FOUND vintage
Womenswear Try a bright, new color. Yellow is making a comeback this season in a bold and beautiful way, especially warm golden yellows. Think canary, honey, marigold, and dandelion. It is important to make sure you choose the right hue for your skin tone, so try it on and see how it works for you. If it washes you out, don’t get it. If it gives your skin a brightness and lovely glow and just makes you smile, then you have a winner! To add a bohemian vibe, which is still on trend for this summer, try mixing lacy and flowing items to the outfit like this lace kimono vest and top it all off with gold jewelry to match. You’re sure to feel comfortable and happy in this outift. Clothing and Belt - Gladiola Girls Handbag and Tie - it’s FOUND vintage Jewelry - Storm & Stress
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Mix styles and textures. Mixing vintage items and modern pieces is
a refreshing way to do fashion. Try to find vintage pieces that make a statement, like this fuchsia, suede, high waisted skirt and wear it with simple pieces, such as this white crop top. Also look for pieces with great textures to mix and match. The soft look of the suede skirt and the waffle texture of the shirt compliment each other in an aesthetically pleasing way. Have fun mixing bright colors together by adding a small touch of another color. For fuchsia, add a pop of turquoise, like this turquoise and quartz bangle. For other colors, think of opposing colors on the color wheel and just have fun from there! Blouse - Gladiola Girls Handbag - it’s FOUND vintage Jewelry - Storm & Stress Skirt - Out of Twig
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CREATIVE TEAM Creative Director Jennifer Prince Hair and Makeup Emily Garbee Harris of Bodyworks Day Spa & Salon Location Bedford, VA Men’s Stylist Anthony Andrews of Twenty23 Models Anna, Carlos, Earl, Fuix, Jaclyn, Kiera Photography Crystal George of Crystal George Studios Women’s Stylist Deidre Stone of Storm & Stress Where clothing isn’t redited, it is from the model’s own wardrobe.
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Roanoke Food Tour 11am-2pm Enjoy a culinary and history tour.
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Memorial Day 10k 8am Participate in a run to support Type 1 Diabetes.
Exhibitions at the Market Gallery Enjoy the opening of a Roanoke art show.
King Lear 8pm LU’s Tower Theater presents this classic.
Food Truck Thursdays 11am-3pm Plan on having lunch in Miller Park in Lynchburg.
Cooking in the Enslaved Community 5:30pm Enjoy this cultural 2 day event at Poplar Forest.
James River Wine & Music Festival 11am-6pm Sample and jive at the City Stadium.
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For more information check out these websites: 17th: presbyteriancemeteryva.com 20th: taubmanmuseum.org 21st: roanokefoodtours.com
22nd: roanokefestival.com 23rd: bowercenter.org 24th: gravegarden.org 25th: t1de.org 26th: marketgalleryroanoke.com
27th: liberty.edu 28th: lynchburgva.gov 29th: poplarforest.org 30th: vawinelover.com 31st: taubmanmuseum.org
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Putt Putt League 9am-11am Adults 50+ can enjoy fun on a Monday morning.
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Moonlight & Magnolias 3pm-5pm Enjoy an Alluvion production at the Academy in Lynchburg.
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Grease 2pm Soak in this fun musical in Bedford.
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Freezer Meals 6:30pm-7:30pm Those 50+ can enjoy a demo (and tasting!) in Lynchburg.
Festival 12pm-6pm Avoca hosts this event full of tastings
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Butterfly Ball 6pm-11pm Support this event for Center in the Square.
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Through the Looking Glass 8pm-12am The Jefferson Center hosts this fun “prom for everyone”.
Cinderella 10:30am & 1:30pm Enjoy a twist on this classic at the Academy.
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John Mellencamp 7:30pm Roanoke hosts this well known musician.
Big Lick Burger Fest 12pm-6pm Head to Roanoke for this fun food event.
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Lunch & Learn 11am-12pm Hear about Lynchburg churches while enjoying lunch!
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WWII Day Camp 8:30am-1pm This 3 day camp shows 4-6th graders what life was like in WWII.
1776, The Concert Musical 6pm-8pm Head to Poplar Forest for this patriotic treat.
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wine, art and crafts, and lavender.
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For more information check out these websites: 1st: lynchburgva.gov 5th: roanokeartbynight.com 5th: discoverlynchburg.org 6th: smwv.org
7th: academyfinearts.com 10th: lynchburgva.gov 12th: jeffcenter.org 13th: academyfinearts.com 13th: avocamuseum.org 14th: gravegarden.org 14th: littletownplayers.com
15th: lynchburgva.gov 19th: theberglundcenter.com 20th:downtownroanoke.org 20th: evergreenlavender.com 20th: vacanals.org 24th: dday.org 27th: poplarforest.org
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Buchanan Community Carnival 6:30pm Take the family for this 62nd annual event through July 4th.
Smith Mountain Fireworks 10pm A fun lake day culminates in a display at Parkway Marina.
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Art by Night & First Friday 5pm-8/9pm View local art in Lynchburg and Roanoke.
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Watermelon Festival 4pm-11pm Enjoy music and festivities at Devault Vineyards.
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19 Open Studio Tour 3pm-5pm The VCCA opens its doors for touring active studios in Amherst.
SML Pirate Days Dress like a pirate and have fun at this event at the lake. Photo by Virginia Hill
SATURDAY 4 Independence Day 11am-4pm Head to Poplar Forest for lots of celebrating!
11 Horse & Hound Wine Festival 11am-6pm Head to Bedford for this family friendly event.
18 Family 40s Festival 10am-5pm Head to the D-day Memorial to enjoy a fun day!
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Liberty Farmer’s Market 3:30pm-6pm Head to the Doc’s Diner lot for this farmer’s market.
Barrels, Bottles & Casks 6pm & 7pm Enjoy sampling foods and beverages from Jefferson’s time.
Touch a Truck 10am-5pm Have fun experiencing over 200 cool vehicles!
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Beauty and the Beast 7pm Enjoy this family show at Mill Mountain Theatre.
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1st: townofbuchanon.com 2nd: lynchburgva.gov 3rd: roanokeartbynight.com 3rd: discoverlynchburg.org 4th: poplarforest.org 4th: smlfireworks.org
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5th: presbyteriancemeteryva.com 6th: fair.salemva.gov 7th: leapforlocalfood.org 10th: devaultvineyards.com 11th: bedfordwine.com 12th: gravegarden.org
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14th: franklincountyva.gov 17th: visitsmithmountainlake.com 18th: dday.org 19th: vcca.com 22th: floydfest.com
Photo by Mike Licht
23rd: libertydining.com 24th:poplarforest.org 25th: roanokecountyparks.com 26th: renaissancetheatrelynchburg.org 31st: millmountain.org
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Dinosaurs & Fossils 10am-5pm The Science Museum of Western VA hosts this fun exhibit.
4 Coast Guard’s 225th Birthday 10am-5pm Head to the D-day Memorial to celebrate.
5 Lynchburg Hillcats 6:30pm See an exciting local baseball game.
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Art by Night & First Fridays 5pm-8/9pm Art galleries open in Roanoke and Lynchburg.
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Face the Forest 5K 7am-11am Run this fun obstacle course in Poplar Forest.
Photo by Steve Tatum
For more information check out these websites: 1st: baconfestva.com 2nd: millmountain.org 3rd: smwv.org
4th: dday.org 5th: lynchburg-hillcats.com 6th: renaissancetheatrelynchburg.org 7th: roanokeartbynight.com 7th: discoverlynchburg.org
8th: lynchburgva.gov 9th: gravegarden.org 12th: salemsox.com 15th: poplarforest.org
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inside this issue AMOUR BEBE pg 4
MINDING THEIR BUSINESS pg 14
ON THE MOVE pg 6 rental property tips
FLOURISH pg 16 outdoor activities
FIND YOURSELF pg 8 IN THE WOODS exploring in VA
IN SEASON pg 18 summer fun with dad OFF THE BEATEN PATH pg 20
CLUTCH GOES CULINARY pg 11 Roanoke food tours
MEN’S TOC
Photo by William Mahone Photography
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Amour Bébé
BEING MR. MOM
Photo by Sincerely, Liz: Photography
I
love the way my son’s face lights up
waking hours. He gets the lazy morn-
There seems to be a shift today with
on the nights he exclaims, “Daddy’s
ings at home. He gets to do most of
more dads staying at home and being
home!” It’s usually in the post-dinner
the preschool pick-up and drop-offs.
more involved. I’m not sure if we
craziness, when I’m trying to load the
He does the afternoon walks to the
should be surprised that now dads
pile of dirty dishes in the dishwasher
park and the trips to the library. Some
are more engaged in their children’s
and sweep up the crumbs from
days, I’ll admit, I’m incredibly envious
lives than ever before. Isn’t that
under my daughter’s highchair while
of this fact, especially when I’m doing
what we want? Isn’t that how it
simultaneously playing DJ for the impromptu dance party and racing Hot Wheels across the kitchen floor. When my son utters these words, though, everyone stops what they are doing to race to the door. I love the sound of little feet running across the
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There seems to be a shift today with more dads staying at home and being more involved.
should be, anyway? I know my husband enjoys his time spent with our two kids, so I thought I’d give him a chance to answer a few of my questions about being Mr. Mom. KF: What surprised you the most
to be so hands-on in their lives. He’s
the 9-5 gig and my kids are crying
when you became a dad? JF: You know going in that it’ll be timeconsuming, but kids occupy a large majority of your time and it’s all for the right reasons. You learn to adjust to it, and then
not exactly a full-time stay-at-home
“Mommy…stay home today!” That tugs
it becomes part of your new normal.
dad, but he’s close. He works mostly
at my heart, but I remind myself - as
KF: What’s the best thing about
second-shift Fridays through Tues-
I remind them - that dad gets to be
being a parent?
days, so he gets to enjoy many of their
home with them.
hardwood to greet daddy. My husband is lucky to be able to spend so much time with our kids and
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JF: The best part is seeing your kids grow
their kids’ day-to-day, hour-to-hour life.
every day and seeing little bits of yourself
KF: You do the majority of preschool drop-offs. What’s your secret to getting everyone out of the house on time? JF: Be organized and have stuff ready to go – outfits, snacks, backpacks. It helps to have things easily accessible. Also, I’ve found having set times for when things (such as breakfast) need to be started and completed makes it easier. Oh, and having the help from your spouse goes a long way in getting everyone out on time, too.
in them. KF: What’s the hardest part? JF: The hardest part is trying to spread your attention equally in all aspects of your day-to-day life - giving to your spouse, your children, your job – just all of it. KF: This year during the Super Bowl, there were a lot of commercials that featured dads in an active role in their children’s lives. What are your thoughts on this? Are you glad to see a shift in society’s expectations of dads? JF: I think it was good to see that dads were highlighted. Although not every dad is a stay-at-home dad, it’s nice to bring greater awareness that more and more men these days are playing more prominent roles in
I know there will come a day when my kids probably won’t declare with such enthusiasm, “Daddy’s home!” But for now, I’m going to soak it up every time they do. In addition to writing, Kimberly Feldcamp loves spending time with family and friends, laughing, shopping and being outdoors in the sunshine.
KF: What advice would you give to a man that’s about to become a dad for the first time? JF: Be prepared to have patience…and then more patience. Be active and present with your kids – play with them, laugh with them, let them know you’re there for them. And enjoy it.
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Moving Tips • Be prepared. • Know how big your space is and only bring what will fit without being cluttered. • Label all boxes so they can be placed in the proper rooms when unloading. • Check with property management for restrictions on moving times and parking moving vans. • Be careful! Do not damage the walls when moving in.
On the Move tips for finding a rental property The summer is a time for transitions.
When scoping out rental properties, be
Questions to ask:
Children are out of school, students
sure to do a thorough search of what is
• What is the base rent?
are preparing for college, and many
available in an area. Become familiar
• Is a security deposit required? If so,
families are getting ready for a move.
with specific neighborhoods in order
When considering a rental property,
to narrow down selections so that you
• What is included in the rent?
get an early start to find out what your
can contact the appropriate agencies.
• Who is responsible for utilities and
options are. With all the opportunities
If properties are not available, rental
in Lynchburg, we recently caught up
agencies normally have a waiting list as
with Priority 1 Properties, who offers a
a service to their prospective clients.
how much, and how does that work?
which ones? • Are there any amenities with the property? Do they have associated costs?
Be sure to have a
• How long are base leases?
list of questions
• What options do you have after that?
landlord first. Although picture hanging is normally allowed,
prepared when
• What appliances come with the
ask just to be sure. Some properties will even allow customized
contacting agencies.
painting if approval is sought first. The best rule of thumb is to
Do you need to be
• Is the property pet friendly?
ask before you act. You will be responsible for any repair that is
on a bus line? Are
• What does the application process
considered above and beyond normal wear and tear living.
there amenities?
Tips on Personalizing Your Rental
Tips on Personalizing Your Rental – Check with the
rental property?
consist of?
Also, know what your needs are. How
These are just a few of the basic
wide array of living spaces for rent, such
many bedrooms and bathrooms do you
questions. Remember, do not apply
as single-family residences, apartments
need? What is your budget? These are
until you have selected a property and
and townhomes. They offered their
questions your rental agency will ask,
want to live there. Every application
expert advice to help those who are
so be prepared to answer them.
you make will cost money and
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FIND YOURSELF IN THE WOODS Many of my favorite memories are set in the outdoors, in the woods of my childhood. I grew up in New York, just an hour north of “the city” in a region known for it’s beautiful mountains and hiking opportunities, much like what we have here in Central Virginia. In fact, if you were to take the arduous journey up the Appalachian Trail, you’d pass right by my home town — less than an hour from the private dirt road I grew up on, which ran through what was just as much of a forest as it was a neighborhood. As soon as breakfast was scarfed and before our cereal bowls stopped spinning in the sink, my siblings and I would run out the back door, and rush past the row of bright yellow forsythia bushes that lined our back yard. We would spend the rest of the day making trails and building forts with the dozen-or-so other kids that lived in our veritable paradise. We lived a childhood of infinite energy and exploration, spending almost all of our unschooled hours outside with the trees and dirt. Looking back, I realize how critical this period of time was for me. It’s when I learned how to enjoy the natural world and to cooperate with a diverse set of personalities - all the while relying on no one to provide us with entertainment. It’s what set Photo by Crystal George Studios of items available at Outdoor Trails in Lynchburg
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the stage for my endless drive to turn
enjoying the hike as much as the
whatever situation I’m in into its most
summit and to sleep so deep that the
enjoyable form and why I refuse to
next morning feels like a rebirth.
accept that life as it is cannot always be made into something better.
I guess that means I’ll just have to be a little more intentional about
In recent years, as my schedule
clearing my schedule to drive into the
often acquiesces to the demands
Blue Ridge Mountains and explore all
of adulthood, I find my stress and
that they have to offer.
anxiety levels tend to rise in direct relation to how physically inactive I can become if I’m not intentional about stepping outside (or onto my yoga mat) to breathe and move. Thankfully, our area has an aesthetic appeal that pulls me outdoors as soon as the days begin to lengthen.
WHERE TO GO IN VIRGINIA • Apple Orchard Falls - Jefferson National Forest • Big Rocky Row - Glasgow • The Cardinal Range (The Friar, The Little Friar, The Cardinal,
And you should too…whether for
The Priest, the Little Priest) -
your children’s sake or for your
George Washington National
own, treat yourself to the wonders
Forest, Nelson County
that surround us here in Virginia. Experience the joy of breathing in the scent of living pines, of feeling the warm caress of a summer wind and of hearing birds chirp (instead of
• Crabtree Falls - George Washington National Forest, Nelson County • Devil’s Marbleyard - Natural Bridge
I have kids of my own now, and
Tweets) and the scurrying of rabbits
raising them in a city means that
and squirrels.
• Dragon’s Tooth - Catawba
Maybe you can bring along some
• Grayson Highlands - Jefferson
they don’t have the same immediate access to acres of untouched forest to explore just beyond our back yard, as I did growing up.
friends, set up camp, cook a meal
National Forest
and spend some time counting stars
• Harpers Creek - Tyro
after everyone has gone to sleep.
• Horseshoe Creek - Tyro
Still, I want my daughters to know
You’ll find out that a tree falling in
what it’s like to run through the trees
the woods with no one else around
from early in the morning and to
does make noise, and it sounds like
• Lookout Rock - Tyro
climb a mountain with nothing but
an exploding firecracker.
• Mount Pleasant National Scenic
the strength of their own twiggy legs
• Hunting Creek - Big Island
Area - Oronoco
and a wide grin. I want them to know
• Mount Rogers (highest natural
what it’s like to end the day after
point in Virginia) • Petites Gap - Blue Ridge Parkway
WHAT TO BRING • Sleeping Bag • Suitable backpack • Toothpaste/brush • Bug spray (or garlic cloves) • Comfortable, yet sturdy footwear • Sunscreen • Camp stove • Lots of water
• Headlamp (even if you’re not camping) • AeroPress (for the best coffee imaginable) • Coffee from The White Hart (see above) • Flatware • Knife • Adventurous spirit • Positive attitude • Common sense
between Buena Vista and Buchanan • Spy Rock - near Montebello • Terrapin Mountain - Sedalia • Tinker Cliffs - Mount Union • Thomas Knob - Damascus • Thunder Hill - Glasgow Marcelo Asher Quarantotto is a writer and photographer based in Lynchburg. Find more of his work at www.fosterasher.com.
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Clutch Goes Culinary
ROANOKE FOOD TOURS When it comes to eating out (which is done more often in my house than I’d like to admit, hence this being my kind of culinary column), my husband, Earl, and I enjoy experiencing local restaurants. We feel that it’s important to support the business owners in our community, plus each eatery specializes in their own unique dishes. If the idea of testing out local cuisine and tasting different dishes while learning a bit of history intrigues you, then taking a food tour just might be the ticket for a fun date or time out with friends. It’s no secret that unique fare is en vogue, whether it is through experiencing authentic ethnic delights or finding places that utilize locally sourced items to create gourmet dishes. Food tours are popping up all over in major cities, and it was on a visit to Chicago where his wife, Marty, encouraged Larry Landolt to take a food based
excursion. “We had such a good time that we did another tour the next day,” he stated. The Chicago tour made such an impression on Landolt that he began his own culinary excursions in Roanoke. Physically, it made sense since Roanoke has more restaurants per capita than any other city in Virginia. The downtown area alone boasts over fifty eateries! Choosing restaurants for the tour was a challenge, but Landolt picked ones based on location and variety to satisfy an array of tourgoer palates. Although a bit of walking is required, the tour is handicap friendly. Accommodations can also be made for food allergies if they are made known ahead of time. Although foodies may expect the journey to be all about the cuisine, the tour is peppered with interesting facts about Roanoke’s history during a walk through the city. As a place rich with tradition, heritage and landmarks, the cultural part of the tour offers a glimpse into the Roanoke of yesteryear. Your stops may differ, but our tour hit the following highlights and restaurants. We enjoyed our experience with visitors from North Carolina and Wisconsin in addition to Yorktown, Virginia. We hope that you enjoy the tour through our eyes, and maybe it will encourage you to take one of your own. Bon appétit! 11
CEDARS LEBANESE RESTAURANT
HOTEL ROANOKE This beautiful, landmark hotel served a few of their
Roanoke has a rich Lebanese history, and Cedars pays
signature dishes, which made a lovely presentation while
homage to it with their flavors. Using old family recipes
being savory and tasty. The tour also highlighted some of
and several ingredients sourced from Lebanon (we
the historic décor in the hotel.
sampled two Lebanese spices), this restaurant wowed our palates with their unique offerings.
WEEKLY, YEAR-ROUND TOUR OFFERINGS • Downtown Roanoke Food & Cultural Tour • The Historic Downtown Roanoke Sunday Brunch Tour • Roanoke Craft Beer Tours • Blue Ridge Wine Tours
ON THE RISE BAKERY This bakery has long been a staple stop for us along the Roanoke Historic Market (their pizza is delicious!). As our last stop, we were able to sample a sweet, light and tasty end to our tour.
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FIREFLY FARE
BILLY’S
This environmentally friendly (think recyclable/
Despite its calm and beautiful atmosphere, this eatery’s
biodegradable conscious) restaurant offers locally sourced
location was part of the underbelly of Roanoke long
cuisine. Our sample was delicious with a taste that took us
ago. Nowadays the building offers delectable fare,
back to some of our world travels. As lovers of international
which was a favorite of many on the tour. Not to leave
flavors, this stop definitely ranked high for us.
craft beer off of the tastings, we were given a sample to accompany our shrimp and grits.
THERE ARE THREE GOALS FOR EACH TOURGOER. 1. Have a good time. 2. Learn something (about the city and also the restaurants). 3. Eat the right amount of food.
Craving more? Be sure to visit www.tourroanoke.com to schedule your own culinary experience, and like “Roanoke Food Tours” on Facebook to keep up with specials and events.
LITTLE GREEN HIVE Nestled into the 16 West Marketplace, this coffee and smoothie bar specializes in sensible coffees, exotic teas, and whole fruit
Jennifer and Earl would rather enjoy a great culinary experience out than cook, and they adore the local food scene.
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TOP 5 SELLING ITEMS • Queen Sized Beds • Sterling Flatware Sets
Minding Their Business
ESTATES REVISITED
• Small Occasional Tables • Chests of Drawers • Primitive Farm Tables
Selling an estate can be a daunting
Putting vintage items to use is
buying estates in Lynchburg and
task, yet that is where the help of an
important. “Don’t be scared to make
the surrounding areas. When Betty
expert can come in handy. Plus, as
it your own. Eat cereal out of your
retired and closed Estate Specialists
a shopper, finding items at a resale
grandmother’s china. Put a daffodil
in 2013, Joanne Newcomb and I
shop is both economical and exciting.
in that cut glass vase. Play a game
decided to open our own business,
Estates Revisited is the perfect place
of cards on a 100-year-old table.
Estates Revisited,” Dodd reflected.
to sell – or find - just about anything,
Precious things need to be loved,”
Since their opening, they moved their
and with weekly estate pickups, their
she stated.
business from Commerce Street to its
stock is constantly changing. “Our
Newcomb is not alone is this venture,
current location at 1301 Main Street
simple process helps people move,
which was opened in 2013 with
in Lynchburg, and they recently
downsize, redecorate or settle a
co-owner Art Dodd. “I got started in
opened a second store at 14521 Forest
family estate. Anything that is in a
the estate business 25 years ago when
Road in Forest.
home could be in one of our stores,”
I went to work for Betty Davidson
Whether you crave mid-century
offered Estates Revisited co-owner
at Estate Specialists. I started out
modern, 1800s primitives, or are
Joanne Newcomb.
working part time, but when she
looking to sell an estate, visit their
“Estate” is a general term used
opened a second location in 1997,
stores or find them on the web at
for previously owned pieces, yet
I became its manager. Throughout
www.estatesrevisited.com.
Newcomb describes it as “simply
this time, I also worked with Betty
being loved by a family before you.”
in the buying process, listing and
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5 THINGS TO CONSIDER 1. Condition. Although if you love it, enjoy it…flaws and all. 2. Finish. If something is 100 years old or older, do not refinish it, as it will diminish the value. If something
Q&A We asked both Art and Joanne to share a little bit of their own personal reflections on their love of estate pieces.
is newer than 50 years old, most of
What piqued your interest in
the time it is harmless to refinish it
vintage things?
(except for high end furniture). 3. Stability. Chairs can be reglued easily, yet larger pieces are more difficult to fix, so be sure the piece is strong and sturdy. 4. Fabric. Upholstered pieces can be recovered, and freshening up with new fabric usually won’t take away from the value of the piece. 5. Style and Design. If it speaks to you, don’t pass it by as it might be
Art - My grandparents and great-grandparents collected antique furniture of all types, primitive and formal, as well as accessory items, especially cut glass. My mother tells the story of being a child, and being in awe of all of the beautiful things in her grandparents’ parlor. It’s no surprise then that my mother inherited the “antiquing gene,” and then so did I.
gone by the time you decide. If you
Joanne - My family is from England. I
can’t get it out of your mind, buy it!
spent a summer living with family in a very old pub (Shakespeare would drink beer under the trees in the garden). Driving country roads to walk through castles was so memorable. That is where my love of English Country Antiques grows from. Do you collect anything? Art – books, local artwork and anything unusual Joanne – butter pat dishes What are your favorite things to get into the store?
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Art – inlaid, handmade pieces made in Central Virginia and anything unique
STEPS TO SELLING AN ESTATE • Decide what is to be kept from the estate, for example photographs,
Joanne - original artwork and midcentury refrigerator glass
paperwork, sentimental pieces and family heirlooms. • Contact Estates Revisited to make an appointment for them to view the items; there is no obligation or charge for this service. • Everything must be viewed and inventoried, so do not box up small items in the estate. • After the items are viewed, you will be contacted with an offer for the lot.
What is the most unusual item you have come across? Art – varied collection of taxidermy animals and a collection of antique, European paintings Joanne – Gustav Stickley desk
• If you accept the offer, an appointment is scheduled for the estate to be picked up and paid for in full. • The items are then taken back to the shop, where they are priced and resold.
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OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES For many of us, the cold winter weather put our exercise routines into hibernation. But with summer on the horizon, it’s now time to get back into the groove with fitness and health. These warmer temperatures and longer days are calling us to be outside, and there’s nothing better than feeling good and enjoying daily activities in the beautiful outdoors. A little exercise can go a long way, but take it slow because injuries, including sprains and strains, often occur from pushing your body too quickly. Whether hiking, jogging, weight lifting or playing competitive sports, know your limits and gradually let your body reach its potential. Here are some simple steps to avoid injuries this summer: STAY HYDRATED. Take in plenty of water each day. Drinking the right amount of fluids will prevent cramping. If you are working out for over an hour, consider a sports drink to replenish electrolytes. USE THE RIGHT EQUIPMENT. Wear loose fitting clothes during workouts. Make sure your equipment – tennis shoes or even a baseball glove – fits correctly.
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USE SUNSCREEN.
FOCUS ON NUTRITION.
Thirty minutes of exercise each day
Spending time in the sunlight
Food is fuel. Make sure you aren’t
can make a huge difference in your
provides Vitamin D, which boosts
cheating yourself by eating poorly.
health. To avoid burnout, switch up
immunity and health, but too much
Focus on lean meats, fresh vegetables
your workouts to keep it fresh each
can be dangerous.
and fruits. A little portion control
day. Most importantly, use exercise as
“
STRETCH. There is always the temptation to
It’s not about where you start, it’s about where you end up and the journey it takes to get there.
try the same workout or physical activity you mastered 10 years ago. Recognize that your body changes and you will have to work to better your performance. Stretch for 5 to 10 minutes before and after a workout. USE COMMON SENSE.
can make a huge difference. Taking
If something hurts, ease up on your
in carbohydrates before a workout
workout. Don’t ignore an injury. Early
feeds your muscles. Consider using a
consultation and treatment with a
smartphone app to help track eating
doctor can make a big difference.
and exercise.
an opportunity to relax and remove stress. No matter your level of fitness, activity and movement will help. Remember, it’s not about where you start, it’s about where you end up and the journey it takes to get there. Andrew Pieleck, DO, practices sports medicine and family medicine at Centra Medical Group – Village in Bedford. He also treats patients in Danville and Moneta. For more information, visit CentraMedicalGroup.com.
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WATCH THE CLOUDS. Head to a
IN SEASON Summer Fun with Dad
local park, toss out a blanket, and have fun counting how many shapes you can find the sky. MAKE POPSICLES. Freezing juice in a plastic cup with a spoon makes for a quick and easy treat. To make it a little more fun, throw in some fresh fruit before popping them into the freezer.
Summer brings out the kid in all of
EAT FUN DIP. This candy is a
GO TO A PLAYGROUND. Swing on
us! The season offers plenty of ways
hallmark of many of our childhoods.
the swings and remember what it was
to embrace our whimsical side and
Bought at the swimming pool
like to feel like you could touch the
engage in some good old-fashioned
concession stand or from the ice-
sky. Take a long forgotten ride down
vacation antics. The perks of our list?
cream man, this sugary treat is sure
the slide with your hands up in the air!
Most of these can be snuck in around
to give you a rush.
a family’s normal schedule.
MAKE KOOL-AID. Nothing says
come in all kinds of fun varieties
summer like a purple grape mustache!
now. From touchable to edible to
USE SIDEWALK CHALK. Buy a box
colorful, the world of bubbles sure
of jumbo chalk, and decorate the
has changed.
driveway with a masterpiece.
MAKE YOUR OWN SLIPPERY
HAVE ICE CREAM FOR DINNER.
WATER SLIDE. A tarp and a hose is
Whether you make sundaes at home
all you need to make your own epic
or grab a frozen concoction from the
slope. Find a slight incline, set up and
local ice cream stand, exchanging a
take a break with the family to beat
meal for a treat is a fun surprise for all!
the heat.
GO SWIMMING. No summer is truly
RIDE BIKES. Grab the family, make
complete without spending a day by
a simple dinner (sandwiches are
the water, whether it is at the pool or
perfect), and head to the Blackwater
at Smith Mountain Lake.
Creek or Mill Mountain Park Trails to
HAVE A WATER FIGHT. Pull out the water guns, fill up some balloons, or hook up the hose. Anything is fair game! CATCH FIREFLIES. Seeing these bright bugs often signals the real start of summer. Let them land on your hands and fill up a mason jar ( just be sure to leave air holes).
PLAY WITH BUBBLES. Bubbles
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EASY, HOMEMADE ICE CREAM INGREDIENTS: For ice cream: 1/2 c whole milk or cream 1 T sugar 1 t vanilla extract For freezing: 2 c ice 6 T Kosher salt You will also need to zip top style Photo by Jeffrey C Gleason Photography
baggies - one quart sized and one sandwich sized.
BUILD A FORT. Whether you
CAMP OUT. Visit the Peaks, pitch a
construct a simple blanket fort on a
tent in the backyard, or throw some
rainy day or an elaborate structure in
sleeping bags on the living room
the back yard - either will transport
floor. Make s’mores. Tell scary stories.
you to childhood summers spent in
Sleep as little as possible.
your own little world.
VISIT THE BEACH. Take the family
VISIT A FAIR. Indulge your inner
for a couple of days. Slather on
child, and consume cotton candy and
sunscreen and build a sand castle
corn dogs while you play carnival
while you listen to the waves.
games. Be sure to check out the Salem
PLAY FLASHLIGHT TAG. Later
Fair from July 1-12.
sized bag, and be sure it is zippered
bedtimes mean being able to stay up
tightly. Shake the filled bag until it
WATCH AN OUTDOOR MOVIE.
until dark. Pass out flashlights and
is the consistency you desire. This
Head to the Mayberry Drive In in
have fun trying to find each other!
normally takes around 5 minutes,
Moneta, or project a movie onto your
GO STARGAZING. Blankets,
but it depends on the capabilities
own outdoor wall (be sure to invite
pillows, and favorite snacks can
of your “shakers.” Have fun!
the neighbors).
elevate this childhood favorite to
MAKE ICE CREAM. Homemade ice
an unforgettable night. Do some
cream is fun to make in a jiffy! Check
research on constellations and see
out our easy, kid-doable recipe.
how many you can find.
GO ON AN ADVENTURE. There are
CATCH A BASEBALL GAME. The
so many places to visit...have you
crack of the bat, and the “seventh
been to Poplar Forest, the D-Day
inning stretch” make a Salem Red Sox
Memorial or the Mill Mountain
or Lynchburg Hillcats game full of
Zoo? Getting away from our normal
memories.
surroundings for the afternoon is
DO A CRAFT PROJECT. Pull out the
refreshing. Be sure to stop for snacks
construction paper, glue sticks, and
and play car games along the way.
scissors and make a mess.
METHOD: In the sandwich sized bag combine the milk (or cream), sugar and vanilla. Zip closed, and be sure it is a TIGHT seal. Place the filled, sealed sandwich sized bag into the quart-sized bag, and also add the ice and kosher salt. Seal the quart
Joy Niehaus enjoys expressing her creativity through writing, crafting, sewing, and finding unique ways to celebrate the every day with her husband and three daughters.
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Off the Beaten Path
OUTDOOR DAD
teens, and now we get to sit back and watch as we send them off to travel around the world. Outdoor activities mean learning to work together as a
I have the great pleasure of being
has had an unexpected effect as the
team, siblings learning to rely on one
married to an outdoor man. He
kids have grown up. We now have
another and many, many “firsts” get
turned me into an outdoor wife, and
something in common that we all
to be shared together as a family.
together we have outdoor kids. We
love and can do together. If your
jokingly refer to the stage of life when
children are teens or young adults,
my husband and I were just a young
you know that finding activities that
couple with three small children as
everyone can enjoy together can
the “Lean Years” when money was
become a little tricky.
tight. The outdoors always provided
As our children have grown, we have
us with activities we could both
down and show the kids what’s going
transitioned together as a family.
enjoy AND afford. Even now that
on. Whether it’s through sports,
We once had to physically carry our
the kids are all practically grown,
scouting, hunting, fishing, climbing,
kids on long hikes, and then we went
there has always been something
backpacking, camping or many other
through the long stage of moving
magical for me about watching my
activities, it is time well spent when
painfully slow as they walked on
husband interact with our kids in
dads find the time to share their
their own, stopping at every tiny
the outdoors.
passions with their kids.
stick and rock and bug. We helped
Cultivating this passion in our family
them develop their own skills as
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It doesn’t always come naturally to every man to truly “share” what he loves with his little ones. Many times, outdoor dads are so active that they can overlook the need to slow
Often times we are so busy trying to keep our families afloat that
we slowly allow our hobbies and
TIPS TO MAKE IT HAPPEN
interests to be edged out by life’s
1.1 Help your husband carve out the time in the family’s schedule to share his own passions with your children.
family who makes the extra effort
2. 2
other constant demands. But the
Just being willing to participate goes a long way in presenting the
attitude of teamwork to the kids. 3. 3
(and it is effort) to set aside a bit of time to maintain their passions and share them with the children - that is the family who will be rich during the
This one is important: There are times when snacks can completely
“Lean Years.” Carving out that time
save your family outing from disaster. Bring snacks.
is a big part of what keeps families
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close, especially as the children get
Dad doesn’t do it like mom. Ever. And that’s okay. (Repeat to
older, and that’s the good stuff worth
yourself as necessary and enjoy a snack.)
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Sometimes doing anything with your kids is like herding cats. Be
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Try to relax and recognize those sweet moments amongst the chaos
where the man that you love just imparted something of himself to the children that you’ve made together. That’s winning.
Melissa Williams enjoys hiking and traveling with her husband and three mostly-grown children. Train with her online at www.trainwithmelissa.com.
Photos by Adam Mullins Photography
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