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It takes a village As a mom, I have a lot of different dreams for my kids as they grow. While I do care about grades and them doing well in their various activities, there is one desire I have for them above all others: that my children are healthy and happy.

In this ever-changing world, mental health is incredibly important. Not only for us but for our children as well! It’s so important that our children see us prioritize our mental and physical wellbeing. I know that I have a significant influence on how my kids understand how to face difficulties in their own lives by watching me face mine. I hope they see me seek out support so they know they can do the same.

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For this issue, we had several local families share their stories.

We hope these families encourage you in how they have handled challenging circumstances. You can read about the Becker family on page 16 and their journey with childhood cancer. On page 8, learn about a local mom who took the sorrow of a miscarriage and used it to create a non-profit that blesses other moms.

Inside, you will find a list of recourses that we hope can bless your family. You can find additional resources at thehoodmagazine.com. We all face different struggles, and here at ‘hood, we know that taking on those challenges can take a village of support!

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8 Planning for Purpose 16 T he Power of Community: The Becker Family

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Unique Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day

Jazz up Valentine’s Day this year with something new! From silly to sweet, check out these fun ways to add a unique spin to Cupid’s Day.

Easy Lunch Ideas for School By the second half of the school year, lunch ideas can be exhausting to come up with.

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Purpose

by Chelsey Schnell

Planning for

“What would it look like if there was an organization that sent flowers to moms of miscarriage on those hard days like the anniversary of her loss, or what would have been her due date?”

That was a text I sent my husband in 2017. It was a random idea, a fleeting thought, mixed among our daily spousal conversation. I had no idea that little text to my husband was planting the seed for a big purpose.

ultrasound to confirm what I already knew. Around 10 am on February 9, 2015, I went to the bathroom and was confronted with heartbreaking visual confirmation that I had miscarried.

We named the baby Ava Grace.

We had planned to have four kids close in age, but it turns out, after having our first in 2012, we had a lot to adjust to! We ended up waiting a few years before deciding to grow our family. Six weeks into my second pregnancy, I started spotting. After bleeding all weekend, I went to work on Monday, counting down the hours until I could leave for an

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In 2017, I shared on social media that I was struggling with the two-year anniversary of that loss. Later that afternoon, flowers showed up at my door from someone anonymous. I stood in my entryway, speechless and sobbing in disbelief. I was so humbled that someone saw me hurting and

with our daughter. Taking on the daunting task of starting that organization with no extra money, time, or brain space felt impossible, so I accepted it just still wasn’t the plan for me.

In December of 2019, my church presented a challenge that forced me to consider that maybe there was a plan I’d been denying. The challenge: if you have an idea and money is the only thing holding you back, apply for a grant to make it happen. In March of 2020—with the help of an incredible team—Evermore Blooms was founded.

We were awarded $2,000 and hoped to send as many bouquets as possible to local moms. God planned for more.

took action in a simple way to care for me. They didn’t plan for that bouquet to change my life...but it did. I just didn’t know it yet.

We went viral on Instagram nine months after launching, and our account has become a community of miscarriage moms across the country who support and care for each other. We launched a store in 2021 and have shipped hundreds In 2017, I shared on of orders since. In less than four social media that I was years, we’ve coordinated the struggling with the twodelivery of over 500 bouquets to year anniversary of that miscarriage moms in almost all loss. Later that afternoon, 50 states across the country. flowers showed up at

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my door from someone That kind gesture stuck with me, And after years of fearing our anonymous. and a few months later, I sent that pattern of baby, miscarriage, baby, text to my husband. He was used to miscarriage, baby would continue, his entrepreneurial wife pitching ideas we’ll soon welcome our fourth earthly child. (most of which I would quickly lose interest While I thought my plans were good, I’d say His in), so neither of us gave it much more immediate are better. l thought. After all, starting an organization like that wasn’t in my plan.

We welcomed our third child, another son, a year later. While having him healed a lot of my broken heart, as any loss mom will tell you, having a baby after losing one makes you fully realize what you lost, and you long for what could have been even more.

A little over a year later, we said goodbye as quickly as we said hello to our fourth child, Orion Job, after miscarrying again on July 23, 2017. As I grieved, I couldn’t help but be reminded of that text I had sent my husband. I knew if that organization existed, it could help moms like me feel less alone, more loved, and fully seen on their hardest days.

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by Alissa Colshan, PT, DPT at LifeScape

Navigating the World of

Infant Positioning Devices Take a stroll down the baby aisle at a store, and you’ll quickly become overwhelmed with all the latest swings, seats, walkers, jumpers, and more. Where do you begin to make the best decision for you and your baby? Navigating the world of parenting can be tricky, which is why the Therapy Team at LifeScape has created a new platform just for you called LifeScape+. It’s a video resource center that provides guidelines to keep in mind as your baby grows.

A fun series to explore is all about devices used for positioning!

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Devices used for laying include bouncy seats, rockers, swings, and baby loungers. The ages for babies who use these devices are typically birth to four months of age, as they can’t sit independently and are still working on developing head control.

They work great when you need a safe, supervised place to put your infant when cooking a meal or just taking a minute for yourself! Use small, rolled-up blankets or burp clothes to hold your baby’s head in midline to prevent concerns like neck tightness or looking in only one direction.

Many infant positioning devices for sitting include supportive infant seats and chairs, like Bumbos, Sit-Me-Up Floor Seats, and Upseats. These are great for working on fine motor activities and midline play. They’re best for babies who can sit upright with your support and have good head control, usually around 4-6 months of age. If you have concerns about a flat spot on your child’s head, these devices work well for minimizing time spent on their back.

Depending on the size of your infant, use small, rolled-up towels or blankets to fill in the gaps around them to improve their posture.

You don’t have to buy any of these devices if you don’t want to! You can place your baby on their side, tummy, or back on a blanket or activity mat on the floor. Add toys or a mirror to encourage looking in all directions, reaching, and kicking.

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Laundry baskets, storage containers, and boxes are all great alternatives to support your little one as they sit.

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If your child’s feet aren’t flat on the floor, use a step, book, or box under them to allow for improved positioning and minimize being up on their toes.

Infant play yards and playpens are great alternatives that allow your child to explore their mobility. Push toys and small activity tables can also give your infant alternative surfaces to play at in various positions, including sitting, kneeling, and standing.

6+ Months: What if your child is already on the move? Activity centers, exersaucers, jumpers, and walkers are devices suitable for babies aged six months and above who have good head control and can sit independently or with limited assistance. These devices help babies develop their fine motor and midline play skills and are a great hands-free alternative to keep your baby happy.

Babies who can’t yet independently explore their environment enjoy the movement these devices allow.

No matter what positioning devices you use, limit your baby’s use to no more than 15-20 minutes at a time, 2-3 times per day. You should also take your infant out of the device as soon as they start to get tired and are unable to keep their head in midline to prevent concerns like neck tightness and head tilting. After your infant spends time in a positioning device, give them plenty of time on the floor to play and work on their motor skills.

If you have any questions about the use of a positioning device, or if you are concerned about your infant’s development, including milestones, tight neck muscles, preference to look in one direction, or a flat spot on their head, give the LifeScape Therapy Team a call at (605) 444-9700 or visit LifeScape + to discover more in-depth recommendations and alternatives for infant positioning devices. l

For more information, give the LifeScape Therapy Team a call at (605) 444-9700

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7 THINGS TO DO ON

Valentines Day Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating love and not just for couples! We love a date night out, but sometimes that seems impossible. You can easily get overwhelmed with finding a babysitter, getting everything ready to be gone from home, and paying for a night out! Get the whole family involved this year in celebrating this festive holiday.

Check out 7 things to do with your family on the day of love!

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Spend some time giving back as a family! Use the day to bless those around you and teach your kids that loving others means serving others, too.

2. R andom Acts of Kindness Bring cookies over to a neighbor, offer to shovel snow for someone less able, or bring coffee to friends!

3. G o on a Family Date-Night Skip the babysitter and go out as a family! Go out to eat or watch an early movie showing (make it back for bedtime!).

4. D onate Clothing or Toys that still have plenty of life left!

Many of us have clothing we never wear or toys we rarely play with. Take the time as a family to declutter and give away what you don’t need.

5. Throw a Dance Party Have everyone wear their fanciest, or silliest, outfits for an epic dance party at home!

6. C ook a Fancy Meal at Home Make something extra special that the whole family will love! Remember to add some candles and break out the nice tablecloth!

7. B ake something New Valentine’s Day is often a day filled with sweets! Take on the challenge of baking something new as a family, like macarons or croissants.

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EmBe recognizes that Kindergarten preparation begins at birth, so our daily schedules, play-based curriculum, and assessments all work toward that goal. Special emphasis on Kindergarten readiness is added when Preschool begins, and teachers regularly assess both developmental milestones and academic progress.

One of our community partners, Little Navigators, provides additional socialemotional curriculum for all our Preschoolers and is available as a one-on-one resource for children at parent request.

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THE POWER OF

Community THE BECKER FAMILY’S JOURNEY

Tony and Danielle Becker live in Tea, SD, with their six children: Easten, Kasen, Hudsen, Izen, Vivian, and Rowan.

In November of 2022, when Danielle Becker was 32 weeks pregnant, their family received devastating news: their four-year-old son, Izen, had a brain tumor.

Izen had ependymoma, a type of tumor that can grow in the brain or spine.

Immediately after hearing the news about Izen’s cancer, they threw a party with friends and family to celebrate him. They didn’t know what the road in front of them would look like, but they did know that their son was worth celebrating! This start helped define their cancer journey by celebrating each victory of IzenMan along the way!

IzenMan was created when he had his PICC line placed. The Becker’s did their best to make a scary situation as positive as possible. Because of his PICC line, he became like Iron Man with a chest piece. IzenMan was going to be his own superhero!

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Immediately after hearing the news about Izen’s cancer, they threw a party with friends and family to celebrate him.

We will skip right to the good part: one year later, Izen is cancer-free!

Surgery to remove the brain tumor was followed up with radiation. It was during Izen’s seven-week stay at Mayo for radiation that Tony and Danielle’s sixth child was born! Danielle had her daughter on a Thursday and was back in Rochester, with the newborn in tow, to be with Izen on Sunday. s

Though they celebrate how he is doing now, it was a tough year for the family. Izen had to quickly have

brain surgery, which led to having to re-learn how to walk and talk.

Re-learning to walk took a few weeks, and it took his speech one month to return to where he was before surgery. His brothers stepped up during this time to help Izen out!

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Anyone looking in on the Becker’s last year would be overwhelmed. Balancing six children, jobs, school, and Izen’s cancer journey took hard work.

A theme for the Becker’s last year was community. With such a hard battle in front of them, they knew they needed help. Friends gave their other children rides, a sister came to live at their home during the week, there was a long-term meal train, and neighbors took care of snow removal. Izen’s preschool teacher even sent him videos, ensuring he knew there were things to look forward to after treatment.

The Becker family takes a little more time together these days. Hugs are extra long, and birthday parties are a bit bigger. Even though Izen is now cancer-free, they know to take nothing for granted. After the year they had dealing with cancer, the whole family celebrates harder. Tony and Danielle want to ensure that all their kids know how much they are loved and how celebrated A theme for the Becker’s they are.

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last year was community.

With such a hard battle in front of them, they knew they needed help.

It can be difficult to let people in or ask for help when faced with hard circumstances. Danielle said that telling others what was going on with Izen and asking for specific help was crucial. As a loved family in their community, people wanted to help but needed to know how! People were grateful to know exactly how to bless their family. In fact, people thanked them for being specific!

When Danielle was asked if there was anything she wanted to highlight about her family’s story with cancer, one thing quickly came to mind: advocate for your children! Izen’s headaches were initially brushed off, and they were told that an MRI would be unnecessary. But her gut told her differently.

She pushed and got her son the tests he needed. They don’t know how things would have turned out if they hadn’t advocated for Izen.

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Counseling &RESOURCES Therapy To live life at our healthiest and happiest, we sometimes need to seek out professional help.

Prioritizing mental and physical health is incredibly important for ourselves and our families.

Here are some of the fantastic resources available in our community!

Volunteers of America, Dakotas voa-dakotas.org Our licensed and caring professionals are experienced in supporting people through challenging circumstances. From everyday stress to unique and complex issues, we are here to help. Specialty services in play therapy, emotional and mental health, substance use, and trauma.

Flourish Wellness & Birth Co. flourishbirthco.com Flourish Wellness + Birth Co is creating a safe space for individuals and their families to be seen, known, and heard. Our wellness clinic provides postpartum care, including care for those dealing with postpartum depression. Hormonal imbalances can also create significant problems for your mental and physical health. Let our team help restore balance to your hormones.

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Vision therapy is an individualized program that corrects visual motor and processing deficiencies. Students struggling with vision or learning, individuals post-concussion, adults who may have struggled with learning their whole life, and athletes who want to reach peak performance levels can all benefit from vision therapy.

Stronghold Counseling Services strongholdcounseling.com Feel like you are sinking in the storms and floods of life? Since 1993, Stronghold Counseling Services has provided quality clinical counseling services informed by a biblical, grace-filled perspective.

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Center for Family Medicine centerforfamilymed.org If you need assistance in caring for your own mental health or that of your loved ones, the Center for Family Medicine is the place. We’re trained to assist with common problems through our on-site single, family, and marriage counselors.

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Sprout Play Therapy and Counseling Services sproutplaytherapyand counseling.com Sprout provides mental health counseling, with an emphasis in play therapy, to children ages 3-12. We also work with parents and caregivers to encourage optimal outcomes outside of the therapy space. We are here to help your child grow and thrive!

LifeScape Therapy lifescapesd.org Licensed clinical psychologists provide outpatient therapy for children, teens, adults, couples, and families. ParentChild Interaction Therapy, autism, ADHD, depression & mood disorders, trauma, anxiety, grief, and feeding challenges.

LifeScape also offers occupational & physical therapies, speech-language pathology, behavioral therapy (ABA), and a variety of specialty clinics.

Yellow Brick Road Counseling and Therapy holly-merrick-liston.clientsecure.me We are a mental health clinic serving people of all ages. We have a focus on serving teens and young adults. We provide a safe and positive environment to address trauma and improve lives. Life Can Be Better!

Sioux Falls Psychological Services offermehope.com

No matter where life takes you, Sioux Falls Psychological Services will meet you where you are, offering hope. Our team is trained to meet your emotional needs. We offer therapy and assessment for individuals of all ages, including children, adolescents, and teens. Therapist video introductions are available on our website.

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From children’s wellness visits to hormone health visits, we have your family covered.

At Flourish, we make it a priority to treat not just the symptoms but rather the whole person. We want to get to know you, your health goals, and your struggles.

In the questions we ask, the tests we run, and the lab results we read, we keep you as an individual in mind. We are committed to journey together to find the path to health, optimization, and vitality.

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“My birth was beautiful, empowering, and safe. It was intimate-just me, my husband, Erin, and our baby nurse. It was a dream.

I will cherish it for years to come.

Here at Flourish, we are excited to partner with our patients through all the different journeys in their lives. You will always feel supported, heard, and cared for by our providers. We are so excited to see you flourish.

To any mama reading this review- please seek a provider who sees you and hears you. Make choices that work best for you. Your birth is YOURS, no one else’s. It will be with you forever. I hope you can cherish your birth as much as I cherish mine.”

- Aggie K.

To set up an appointment, tour our birthing center, or inquire about family memberships, call us at (605) 271-4170 or head to our website at flourishbirthco.com. l

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She is silly, caring, strong, beautiful, smart – everything we could wish for. We are truly blessed to be part of “The Lucky Few.”

by Laura Hanson

We are the L ucky Few

“You’re grieving the baby you thought you were going to have.” This statement is commonly shared in the Down syndrome community to explain the emotions we felt when we learned of our daughter’s diagnosis. Three years later, Mara is thriving and living a life exactly like her typical peers.

Sadness. Anger. Guilt. Uncertainty. My husband, Tony, and I felt them all when we received the news that Mara, our fourth of five children, was going to be born with Down syndrome. We worried about our family’s future. Are we going to afford the medical care and therapies she is going to need? Who will care for her after we pass? How will this impact her siblings?

We were faced with so many questions and fears.

Desperately seeking guidance, I mustered up the courage to call the New Directions Down Syndrome Association. Within hours, we were talking to a dad (and board president of the organization) who had a three-year-old with Down syndrome. He and his family invited us to supper so we could ask all the questions we had – without judgment.

During our visit, we watched their sweet girl play with her brothers, interact and giggle with passersby, chow down a cookie, and simply enjoy her time with her family. During that time, those emotions we had felt before started turning into hope. We began to think, “Okay, we can do this!”

Mara’s Down syndrome has never defined who she is. Yes, it is a part of her and has thrown us several challenges, but she is so much more. She is silly, caring, strong, beautiful, smart – everything we could wish for. We are truly blessed to be part of “The Lucky Few.” The connections we have made with other parents have been incredibly helpful and necessary for us to be able to navigate

this journey. I quickly found myself ready to serve the Down syndrome community, joined the New Directions board in 2021, and recently stepped into the role of the organization’s board president.

When sharing Mara’s diagnosis, I received different reactions from friends and family. I always tried to share the news as positively as I could, but I’d often receive sad expressions and “I’m sorry.” In fact, I still receive them from time to time. Please do not ever be sorry – it’s a baby! Remember to congratulate the parents, celebrate the birth as you would any other, and give them a joyful hug!

If you are a parent hearing the words, “Your baby has Down syndrome,” I want you to know that it is going to be okay. Yes, you and your child are going to face challenges, but you do not have to do it alone. We have amazing resources in the Down syndrome community.

Remember that you can have the best plan and idea of what you expect in life, but sometimes, you must have faith and trust in what is in store for you.

New Directions Down Syndrome Association is a local nonprofit that strives to enhance the lives of individuals with Down syndrome by providing support, information, and education to those individuals, their families, and professionals.

Check out newdirectionsdsa.com for more information. l

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MENTAL HEALTH

IS HEALTH

Many people experience mental health challenges, but only a small percentage will seek help. Why? There are a variety of reasons for this, but stigma has been identified as a major factor. Keep reading to discover how you can fight stigma and support those in need.

What is Mental Health Stigma?

This stigma is defined as “a cluster of negative attitudes and beliefs that motivate the general public to fear, avoid, and discriminate against people with mental illnesses.”

How to Deal with Stigma: Is the perception of others keeping you from sharing your truth or seeking help? If so, consider one of the steps below.

• Don’t isolate yourself. Reach out to people you trust.

• You are not your condition. Instead of saying “I’m bipolar,” say “I have bipolar disorder.”

• Speak out. If you feel comfortable sharing, educate those around you on the reality of your condition, including how common it is.

• Join a support group. These often serve as a “safe space” where you can connect with and learn from others who have had similar experiences.

Be an Advocate for Kids with Mental Illness: Try one of the strategies below to reduce the stigma surrounding mental health and promote wellness among kids: • Know the facts. Educate yourself about mental health and mental illness.

• Listen to other’s experiences/your child’s experiences and offer your support.

• Be open to conversations about mental health.

• Speak out to correct stereotypes and assumptions that are inaccurate.

• Take action to raise awareness in your community and on social media.

• Use respectful and accurate terms.

Avoid hurtful labels like “crazy”, “insane”, or “mental”.

Remember, mental health is health.

No matter what you’re experiencing there are ways to take action to support yourself and those around you. In a crisis? Call the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline or text “TALK” to 741741.

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Bishop O’Gorman Catholic Schools Jenni Struck Admissions Director

Why Catholic Schools?

Consider our Value Propositions: • Traditional Family Values: We promote a virtuous life and aim to produce individuals of integrity who will make positive contributions to our community.

• Safe Learning Environment: Our students and staff feel physically and emotionally safe in an environment that allows for optimal teaching and learning to take place.

• Structure & Discipline: Focusing on proactive measures to encourage positive behavior helps students understand what is acceptable and enhances the overall school experience for all.

• Expectations & Outcomes: We aspire to provide a high-quality education that challenges them in the areas of critical thinking and encourages intellectual growth.

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Foley’s Heating & AC Inc. Travis Ball Vice President

Why is my furnace not working?

This is a basic question that most people face at some point in their lives. A few simple checks and questions might quickly fix it.

•D oes the furnace still have power to it?

•D id the power switch to the furnace get turned off?

• I s the thermostat calling for heat?

• I s the thermostat still turned on to heat?

• I s the exhaust pipe plugged with snow or ice?

• I s the intake pipe plugged with snow or ice?

If none of these simple items resolve the problem, it could be something more serious that requires a professional. They can come out to check and determine the problem so that you can get your furnace working again.

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‘hood Educator of the Year Cait Haug Kindergarten Teacher Discovery Elementary

Why should you nominate someone for ‘hood’s Educator of the Year?

Being awarded ‘hood’s 2023 Educator of the Year was a huge honor! I am very passionate about my job as a kindergarten teacher in one of Sioux Falls’ largest schools. Building relationships with my students and their families while instilling a love of learning is very fulfilling.

I want to encourage parents to take the time to nominate a teacher who has made an impact on their child’s life! In the business of children, words of gratitude and encouragement are very meaningful! Sometimes, ‘seeing’ academic or social growth in our students takes a long time, and to know that our efforts are appreciated is reassuring.

Nominations for 2024 are open now until February 8th! thehoodmagazine.com

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