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COMMENTARY
We wish all of our readers, supporters and partners a safe and very happy holiday season. It’s been a great year, and we are very grateful for your support; support of which allows us to continue to be a successful publication; we could not have done it without you, a million thanks. A huge thanks to our incredible Art Director, Maya Kalabic, our great team of writers, Dann Foley, Terri Schlichenmeyer, Jill Langham, Daniel Vaillancourt, Mona Elyfali to name a few. Also, to our contributors including, Project Publicity, Mighty Real Agency, O’Bayley Communications, & Hocker Productions. In addition, a big thanks to our amazing photographer David A. Lee and of course to our advertisers. We look forward to providing you with great editorial, LGBTQ news, views and perspectives as well as fun and informative features as we move forward into 2025.
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THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO GAY GIFT GIVING 2024 EDITION COVER
BY MIKEY ROX
The Holidays are an excellent distraction after an election cycle – makes ya wonder if it was planned like that, huh? – and this year is no exception. Instead of churning out endless political memes on social media (really, give it a rest), turn your attention to making memories and exchanging gifts, like these carefully curated selections that’ll lighten the mood, facilitate festiveness, and bring joy to those on your Nice List (because we not givin’ Naughty List-ers nothin’ this year).
LE CREUSET BREAD OVEN
Honed your sourdough skills during Covid? Level ’em up in Le Creuset’s handsome enameled cast-iron bread oven, available in seven of the French manufacturer’s signature ombré hues, for stunning artisan loaves ideal for gifting or your own private gluttony. Make it a meal with Julia Turshen’s Fastest Chicken Noodle Soup recipe from the queer cook’s latest book, “What Goes with What.” $300, www.Food52.com; $26, Amazon.com
IMOGENE + WILLIE TEES/ACCESSORIES
Streetwear takes the sophisticated track via imogene + willie’s audacious selection of graphic tees and accessories, like its popular “bolt” in black and increasingly prescient “burn it all” tees, along with accessories that include the standout “bronco” trucker and “dead wrong” knit watch cap. For queers of a certain age (you know who you are), these style-forward mix-ins give edge without looking desperately trendy or – God forbid – completely out of touch (you know who you are, too). $38-$68, www.imogeneandwillie.com
BEEKMAN 1802 ADVENT CALENDAR
There’s no place like home when you’ve got Beekman 1802’s luxurious storybook-inspired advent calendar to see you through the holidays, each door revealing one of 24 cult-fave face and beauty products, including 16 full-size bestsellers. Bring the somewhereover-the-rainbow sentiment 360 with a few selections from the boys’ “Wicked”-branded lineup, like the Glamorous Gal Bodycare Gift Set or Make Your Own Magic 3-Pack Bar Soap Set, for all the good witches (and bad bitches) in your life. $179, www.Beekman1802.com
LA BOULE DINNERWARE SET
Home-based meals are anything but Avante Garde these days (and, no, Uber Eats doesn’t count), but Villeroy & Boch brings a splash of panache to the table with its multicolored, premium porcelain La Boule seven-piece dinnerware sets – in Miami and Memphis styles – which include two stackable regular bowls, two pasta bowls, two plates and one serving tray that form a single nesting round and an artistic conversation piece after the dishes are done. $450, www.Villeroy-Boch.com
CEDAR RIDGE THE QUINTESSENTIAL
You’re gonna need a buffer that packs a punch – so none are thrown – this holiday season, and Cedar Ridge The QuintEssential is the American single-malt whiskey up to the task with its notes of caramel and vanilla combined with a persistent pepperiness that’s H-O-T-TO-G-O. $60, www.CedarRidgeDistillery.com
PASTUREBIRD CHICKEN/“HOT ONES” SEASON 25 10-PACK
Read the reviews for Pasturebird free-range chicken products (five stars across the board, including its holiday-ready party wings), and you’ll be an instant convert – especially after you light ’em up with Heatonist’s “Hot Ones” Season 25 10-pack, featuring flavors like Little Dick’s Ghost Pepper Pear, Pepper North’s Jerk & Scotch Bonnet, and Hot Ones’ own The Last Dab: Xperience, an apropos name for the Pepper X-based sauce with a Scoville Heat Unit rating of over 2.6 million. (For reference, a classic buffalo clocks in at a mere 1,800 SHU.) Santa might be S.O.L. on milk this year. $10-25, www.Pasturebird.com ; $120, Heatonist.com
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THE ENERGYLOUNGER
Need a timeout? You’ll get one with a kickback on the EnergyLounger wellness platform offering cutting-edge, full-body red and nearinfrared light therapy sessions designed for relaxation and rejuvenation in the comfort of your own home. Benefits include reduced pain and stiffness, improved blood circulation, and cell regeneration for an experience that’ll take you away when Calgon ain’t cuttin’ it. $7,500-$9,998, www.EnergyLounger.com
PEPPER PONG GAME
Make room, table tennis – there’s a new player in the game. Pepper Pong – a 2023 Best New Game winner – is ping pong’s “go-anywhere, do-anything, challenge-anyone cousin… with a mean mullet and pickleball-infused DNA,” according to its website, and that translates to a whole lotta fun for the whole family… if you’re into that sorta thing. $70, www.PepperPong.com
DC COMICS STYLE GUIDE/BATMAN DVD SET
Pair a reissue of the 1982 DC Comics Style Guide – designed to assist licensees in delivering a consistent look for the brand’s celebrated Super Heroes – with the Batman 85th Anniversary 10Film Collection, which includes fan-favorite animated classics like “The Killing Joke,” “The Long Halloween,” and “Soul of the Dragon,” among others, for a gift that’ll instantly elevate you to Super Friend. $95, www.StandardsManual.com ; $200, Amazon.com
FINAMILL GRINDER
Save your knuckles from skin-chewing microplanes and graters with a convenient automated replacement in the rechargeable FinaMill Grinder that allows kitchen whizzes to season with ease thanks to its one-handed click-grind-release technology. Max and Pro Plus pods pulverize everything from cardamom seeds to coffee beans sans blood, sweat or tears, in complementary culinary mill colors that include black, white, red and gray. $100, www.FinaMill.com
Henry Cavill is a prime candidate for the anatomical embodiment of a Tom of Finland illustration, and it’s hard not to fantasize about the oversized actor decked out in head-to-toe leather, especially after you cop Loqi’s Tom of Finland Day & Night Recycled Weekender, featuring all-over printed ToF artwork that looks suspiciously like the Super Man that lives rent free in our collective spank banks. $40, www.Loqi.com
Did Vontélle sleep on the opp to name its Dwayne Chestnuts flip-up transitioning glasses the Dwayne Waynes, paying homage to the iconic spectacle-shades popularized by Kadeem Hardison on “A Different World”? Perhaps. But slap on a pair of these bad boys and you’ll bring all the early-’90s vibes (and maybe a few Whitleys or Ron Johnsons) to the yard. $189, www.Vontelle.com
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DANISH CREAMERY UCS
Danish Creamery – renowned for its fresh-churned European-style butter – keeps you and your sticks rizzed up and ready to spread this holiday season with its branded ugly Christmas sweater that includes a tiny additional sweater to dress up your serving dish, in a twofer that’s both salty and sweet. $80, www.UglyChristmasSweater.com
ANDY WARHOL X ABSOLUT VODKA
Art imitates life imitating art in Absolut Vodka’s full-circle Andy Warhol collab featuring elements of the pop icon’s overlooked 1985 blue bottle painting, rediscovered in 2020. With colors extracted directly from the original work and made with multi-layer screen printing to create an authentic sensory experience to touch, the spirited 2024 collector’s item also includes a QR code that opens a portal into the world of Warhol and the story behind both brands’ historic and enduring connection, this limited-edition release now among them. $26, www.ReserveBar.com
Mikey Rox is an award-winning journalist and LGBTQ+ lifestyle expert whose work has appeared in more than 100 publications around the world. Connect with Mikey on Instagram @mikeyroxtravels.
COVER AND THE GIFT IDEAS KEEP COMING
BY HANK JARVIS
Do you find yourself saying “I have no idea what to get him/her/them.” Well, it’s that time again and if you are starting to wonder what to get those certain special people in your life, we might be able to help. The annual Standard Magazine Holiday Gift Guide to the rescue. So, fear not my fellow procrastinators we are here to help you find the perfect gift, weather naughty or nice. Happy shopping!
BLISSAL SCRUBBER
Exfoliation Made Easy: Get ready to feel the softest and cleanest you’ve ever been. The Blissal antibacterial exfoliating towel is a game-changer body scrubber with more substantial surface area coverage, allowing you to clean hard-to-reach areas without the cumbersome parts that can ruin your entire shower experience. www.blissal.com
OREO
Dunking your cookie will never be the same. Celebrations Drizzled Fudge Covered Chocolate Cookies bring you the classic OREO flavor with even more chocolate goodness in each bite. Under the extra layer of decadent fudge is the Double Stuf OREO sandwich cookie snacks that are stuffed with twice as much delicious OREO creme filling between two chocolate wafers. Get them customized for that special someone. www.oreo.com
ROYO BREAD CO
Royo Bread Co. is a company with a line of low-carb, superfoodrich baked goods including bread, bagels, buns and more — that are not only good for you, but that you’ll enjoy eating, crafted from superfood ingredients like flaxseed and psyllium husk, and are sure to satisfy your every craving as well as nourish your body. www.eatroyo.com
Guys, throw away your disgusting loofah, it’s not manly and its gross. Meet your new shower buddy, the Black Wolf Sonic Scrubber. With its telescopic and detachable handle, it’s been designed to reach all angles of your body and face super easy plus this baby is rechargeable, lasts for 3 hrs. of use and it’s waterproof. Now available with the bestselling Wush Pro Ear Cleaner. WUSH is the NEW safe and effective way to remove earwax. www.blackwolfnation.com
FLEXBUDDY
After a long day of holiday shopping your body needs a good stretch your shoulders, back, hips & hamstrings. Stretching relaxes your body, so you can say goodbye to back pain, knee pain & overall stiffness Only 2 minutes a day can improve your flexibility & posture. Made for everybody and anybody. www.flexbuddy.com
The gift of nutrition. Gardyn is the new and easiest way to turn any space into a thriving hydroponic indoor gardening system, whether it’s your home, office, or even a commercial kitchen. The unique, patented Hybriponics™ technology offers unparalleled plant density, a vast plant portfolio, self-sustaining water management, and revolutionary machine vision — all housed within an eyecatching, elegant tower design. This is hydroponics like you’ve never seen before! www.Mygardyn.com
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UNIVERSAL YUMS
Give the gift of Yum. Try international snacks and candy from around the world. Exotic and unique flavors await. Experience the flavors and culture of a new country every month through their snack boxes. www.universalyums.com
VINCI EXPRESS ELECTRIC COLD BREW COFFEE MAKER
For the coffeeholic on your list, with the Vinci Express Cold Brew coffee maker, they can enjoy homemade cold brew coffee anytime they want it! The Vinci’s Express Cold Brew eliminates the long 1824 hour wait of the traditional cold brewing coffee methods and brews fully extracted, delicious cold brew coffee in as little as 5 minutes. www.vincihousewares.com
JBL GO 4 BLUETOOTH SPEAKER
Perfect for parks, beaches, and other on-the-go hangouts, the 3-by4-inch JBL Go 4 Bluetooth speaker easily slips into a small bag or a coat pocket. While some of our other picks for best portable Bluetooth speakers have clearer sound, the 7-ounce JBL is the least cumbersome to tote around, and it still produces a satisfying and reasonably full sound. It’s also waterproof and dustproof, offers five hours of battery life, and comes in some fantastic two-tone colors. www.jbl.com
3 MONTHS OF EUROPEAN CHEESE SUBSCRIPTION
Delight your favorite cheese lover with three months of outstanding selections from the finest artisanal European cheesemakers. This distinctive collection includes nine popular varieties from Italy, Spain and France. Featuring cow’s milk, goat’s milk and sheep’s milk cheeses, the assortment is a wonderful addition to any holiday party and makes a memorable gift. www.williams-sonoma.com
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BRIGHTLAND THE ARTIST CAPSULE COLD-PRESSED OLIVE OILS
Cold-pressed extra virgin olive oils and infused olive oils, crafted from carefully selected olives grown on family-run California farms. Taste the difference quality makes. Celebrate the merging of art and food with category-changing artists who have designed each special label for our infused, cold-pressed olive oils. Includes: Ardor Chili, Rosette Garlic, Lucid Lemon, & Arise Basil. www.brightland.co
BARTESIAN PROFESSIONAL COCKTAIL MACHINE
Bring the bar to home for Christmas with this easy-to-use cocktail machine. All they’ve gotta do is insert the cocktail capsule of their choice into the machine, choose their preferred strength, and then it’ll work its magic in seconds. Um, delicious cocktails on demand? www.bartesian.com
XGIMI MOGO 3 PRO PORTABLE PROJECTOR
Watch the hottest new shows and blockbuster hits right from MoGo 3 Pro. No installation hassles—turn on and tune in! Access 10,000+ apps and 800+ free channels. Just dive in and enjoy. www.us.xgimi.com
LGBTQ people are among the many subgroups of Americans known to experience high rates of food insecurity.*
The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert provides food for 30,000+ people annually.
*The Williams Institute
BOOK REVIEW ALWAYS OVERBOOKED
BY TERRI SCHLICHENMEYER
You got something to say, say it. Got an opinion? The world is waiting. It doesn’t do any good to mutter, sputter or whine when something’s bothering you. As in the new book, “Low-Hanging Fruit” by Randy Rainbow, take it to the complaint department.
Randy Rainbow has a lot to say, and he’s not afraid to say it.
For starters, he’s “resigning from trying to fix you, effective immediately.” Any boneheaded thing you want to do now, whatever. Nothing is his responsibility anymore. He has other issues to worry about.
“The truth is,” he says, “I have a lot of complaints about a lot of things.”
There are right ways of doing things, he says, and there are wrong ways, and we just all really need to know the difference –especially if you’re a “Karen.” Now, he’s compassionate, if you were born with that name, but not too much.
“I’m a flamboyant homosexual who’s lived my entire life with the name Randy Rainbow, so you’ll get little sympathy from me in this department.”
Other than that, you may wonder what Rainbow’s (ahem) “position” is: he’s actually thinking about running for President as a member of “a Rainbow coalition...” He doesn’t have much experience but, he says, if there’s one thing we’ve learned in the past few years, that doesn’t matter at all. He stands on a green platform, but he can’t ban fluorocarbons because, you know, the hair thing and all.
Rainbow misses his twenties, old-school dating sites, hooking up., and his former attention span. He waxes nostalgic about the places he’s lived, including an apartment overlooking a “fruit market.” He wonders why teenagers are suddenly “successful lifestyle gurus.” He hates when “stars begin losing their luster” and he wishes again for actors like Hayworth and Garbo.
But, he says, “Diva-complaints aside... I really do thank God for all the opportunities I’m given.”
So, the Elephant in the Room right now might be one you’ll (never?) vote for, but you know that author Randy Rainbow will reliably skewer that political animal online, hilariously. The fun-poking continues in the most deliciously snarky way in “Low-Hanging Fruit.”
And yet, that’s not the only subject Rainbow tackles. Readers who love catching his posts and videos are treated here to a random string of observations, opinions, and rants-not-rants, with the signature sassy style they’ve come to expect. What you’ll read can
be spit-out-your-wine funny sometimes, and other times it touches a nerve with nods toward culture, new and old, that’ll make you nod with recognition. Nothing in Rainbow’s path goes without sharpedged comment, which is exactly what you want from his books. Unexpectedly, this one also includes a soft word or two and a few slight confessions that are gentle and that might even make you say, “Awwwwww.”
If you’re ready for something snide and cynical that’ll make you laugh, something that you’ll want to read aloud to a companion, “Low-Hanging Fruit” is what you need. Look for this book now and you’ll have no complaints.
“Low-Hanging Fruit: Sparkling Whines, Champagne Problems, and Pressing Issues from My Gay Agenda” by Randy Rainbow c.2024, St. Martin’s Press / $28.00 / 224 pages
Whine, whine, whine.
BOOK REVIEW
ALWAYS OVERBOOKED
BY TERRI SCHLICHENMEYER
the season.
The season to bundle up when going outside. To anticipate a holiday tune or two, to admire lights on your evening walk or to decorate your own windows. ‘Tis the season to start looking for recipes to wow your guests this year, so why not check out these great cookbooks...
Just gazing at the cover of “Al Roker’s Recipes to Live By” by Al Roker with Courtney Roker Laga (Legacy Lit, $35) is going to make you hungry. Just paging through it is going to make you confident because what’s in here are easy-to-make dishes that your family will want again. Check out the sandwich section for those leftovers.
You don’t have to be from Wisconsin to want “Extra! Extra! Eat All About It! by Jane Conway and Randi Julia Ramsden (Wisconsin Historical Society Press, $30). What you will need, though, is an adventurous spirit to try the old-time suggestions and a willingness to enjoy the articles that go with them. Tasty recipes plus tasty history equals a yummy book for the person who likes to read cookbooks and then actually use them.
Of course, you want to bring the kids into the kitchen so they can host you someday, right? So have “Kids Cook Everything” by Mark Bittman (HarperCollins Harvest, $35), a nice hefty book that’s meant for the budding cook in two nice ways: this cookbook is easy for the 10-and-up reader to follow, and the recipes in here are both kid favorites and kid-enticing. The sidebars and illustrations just make it better. Be aware that you’ll want to be around to lend a hand, but then... how could you not, with this fun book?
For littler kids who need a little-kid-friendly first cookbook, find “Look and Cook Breakfast” by Valorie Fisher (Astra Young Readers, $19.99). Step-by-step pictures make this book perfect for the smallest kitchen helper, ages five to eight.
So, your shelves are full of cookbooks, thank you very much, but you still want to read something new about food? Then look for “Cold Kitchen: A Year of Culinary Journeys” by Caroline Eden
(Bloomsbury, $27.99) and take a trip through Eastern Europe and Central Asia with Eden, a Scottish writer who’s happy to have you along. You won’t find recipes in this book, but you’ll find plenty of inspiration.
Likewise, there are no recipes inside “Wild Chocolate: Across the Americas in Sarch of Cacao’s Soul” by Rowan Jacobsen (Bloomsbury, $28.99) but chocolate. Chocolate in its most raw form, in its most hard-to-reach form, and how its fervent fans are working to ensure that the wild cacao doesn’t disappear. It’s a tale of adventure, perfect for reading between meals and with a big bar of, well, you know...
And if these great cookbooks aren’t enough for your hosting pleasure or your kitchen counter, then head to your favorite bookstore or library and ask to see the cookbook section. Better yet, ask if your favorite bookseller or librarian has some favorite dishes and where they got them. Because ‘tis the season for (r)eating.
Cookbooks for the Family by various authors c.2024, various publishers $19.99 - $35.00 various page counts
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FEATURE DRAG ICON IS SPREADING LIGHT THIS HOLIDAY SEASON
BY BEN NELSON
Logan Hardcore was a celebrated drag performer, renowned for her biting humor, outrageous performances and her close relationship with Bianca Del Rio. In September 2022, the performer shocked fans on Instagram, announcing that she was hanging up her heels to pursue other endeavors.
This month, the artist - who now goes by the name Logan Joseph and uses he/him pronouns - is finally ready to reveal his bright new plans! He is creating a different kind of light—one that fills homes with warmth and memories through unique, hand-crafted candles. And much like Joseph’s former drag performances, each candle tells its own unique story.
The idea for Radiant Light Candle Co. came to Joseph during a transformative period in his life. “Radiant Light came about two years after I got sober,” he explains. “I was beginning to pull myself out of nightlife and preparing to have my daughter. I needed a slower pace that allowed me to be creative. Part of my love for drag was knowing I made an impact on people, and I needed to figure out a way to do that with a physical product.” With a love for candles and frustration over the lack of affordable, aesthetically pleasing options, Joseph saw an opportunity. “One night, I couldn’t sleep, and the next day, I began researching what would become Radiant Light.”
LOGAN JOSEPH AND HUSBAND TODD
As the fall and winter seasons approach, Joseph feels it’s the perfect time to spotlight his candles. “Everyone loves a candle during the colder months,” he says. “It’s a great time to play with scent. There’s a lot to work with, and people already have favorite fragrances associated with the holidays.” His best-selling holiday candle, “Festive,” takes a traditional Christmas tree scent and
elevates it with hints of berries, setting Radiant Light apart from mass-market options. “I never want to have a scent you can just get in a store. I always want it to be unique.”
“For fall, I enjoy using more nature-focused notes, playing with the balance of masculine and feminine scents,” he explains. One of his notable candles is called ‘F*ck It, I’m Buying a Cabin.’ “It’s a Christmas cabin in candle form,” Logan Joseph explains. “Together, the name and scent create a full experience.”
Radiant Light’s candles, with their distinctive scents and designs, aren’t just products—they’re conversation starters and thoughtful gifts that stand out.
One of Joseph’s first candles, “Mary,” is a deeply personal tribute to his late mother. “It’s white sage and lavender—her favorite scent. Creating that candle was my way of honoring her.” Another candle, “Cowboy,” was designed with his father during his battle with cancer. “He was a real-life cowboy, and we created the scent together. The crackling wood wick reminds me of the fires he would sit by on ranches.”
LOGAN JOSEPH WITH HUSBAND TODD AND DAUGHTER CHLOE
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The holidays are especially meaningful for Joseph, who fondly remembers his father’s love for Christmas. He aims to create that same magic for his daughter Chloé.
“Nothing prepares you for becoming a parent,” Logan Joseph reflects. “It’s hard managing everything—I’m a one-man show. In addition to candle making, I work full-time as an Accounts Payable Specialist, and I’m a stay-at-home dad. But my daughter, Chloé, comes first.”
Though Joseph’s drag career has taken a backseat, he has considered incorporating candles into a drag show one day down the line. He envisions it like how drag personality Dixie Longate sells Tupperware during her performances. He’s taking his time, though, for now concentrating on creating candles for popular NYC gay pubs Hardware and Pieces.
As Radiant Light Candle Co. looks toward the future, Joseph is hopeful for continued growth. “I want to reach more people, partner with more LGBTQIA+ and sober communities, and continue spreading light—both literally and figuratively,” he says.
Visit www.radiantlightcandleco.com
NYE HIGHLIGHTS DAP HEALTH UPDATE
5 STEPS ON THE PATH TO ZERO NEW INFECTIONS
On World AIDS Day 2024, DAP Health reaffirms its commitment to ending the HIV/AIDS epidemic. We have all the tools we need.
As we near the fifth decade of battling HIV/AIDS, we at DAP Health know that eliminating new infections is achievable, but that it will demand a multifaceted approach combining continuing education about options, efforts to dismantle stigma, and the ensuring of equity and access.
To us, it has always been about everyone knowing their status. That’s why every new patient who comes through DAP Health’s doors is tested for HIV — and why our three sexual wellness clinics (in Palm Springs, Cathedral City, and Indio) offer free HIV testing by appointment, or via a self-test discreetly mailed to a patient’s home.
“In honor of World AIDS Day 2024, DAP Health is commencing an enhanced clinical workflow to support its clinicians in screening all of their patients for HIV,” says Director of Specialty Programs Dr. Jason Halperin. “Our commitment is to notify a patient within 24 hours of their positive test result. A member of our incredible team of Early Intervention Services (EIS) patient navigators then enrolls that patient in our Rapid StART program, which includes an initial specialist visit alongside starting immediately on antiretroviral treatment.”
This standard also applies to those who may have fallen out of HIV/AIDS treatment. Those who test negative and are deemed at risk are informed about pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) and postexposure prophylaxis (PEP) to prevent against the virus, which can be accessed through a member of our PrEP navigation team.
Deeply committed to the eradication of the virus, all of us at DAP Health are firm believers in the following five steps that comprise the path toward zero new HIV infections.
1. Expand Comprehensive Sex Education
Knowledge is one of the most potent weapons in the fight against HIV/AIDS. Unfortunately, misconceptions about HIV transmission and prevention persist, particularly in communities with limited access to sexual health education. Comprehensive sexual education that includes information on HIV transmission, safer sex practices, and preventive measures like PrEP and PEP can empower people to make safer choices. This education should start early, ensuring young people understand the realities of HIV and the resources available to protect themselves. Remember, HIV does not discriminate.
Sexual health education should also address issues like substance use, mental health, and healthy relationships to tackle
the broader risk factors associated with HIV. Studies have shown that when individuals understand their options, they’re more likely to engage in preventive behaviors, reducing their risk of infection.
2. Break Down Stigma, Eradicate Shame, and Address Social Inequality
Stigma and discrimination against those affected by HIV remain major obstacles in the fight to end the epidemic. Stigma drives fear and isolation, discouraging people from seeking testing, discussing prevention, or accessing treatment. This is particularly harmful for populations most affected by HIV, including the LGBTQ+ community, people of color, and marginalized groups who already face systemic barriers in accessing health care.
Ending stigma requires a cultural shift supported by public awareness campaigns, inclusive policies, and protections against discrimination. This can be achieved through media representation, educational efforts, and leadership from governments and communities. By fostering an environment of understanding and empathy, we can dismantle the fear that prevents people from taking steps toward prevention and treatment.
There should be no shame in taking care of oneself, including seeking ways to ward off HIV.
3. Provide Routine and Accessible HIV Testing
Regular HIV testing facilitates early detection and treatment, ultimately reducing transmission. People who know their HIV status are empowered to protect both their health and the health of others, especially if they’re aware of effective treatment options. However, HIV testing remains underutilized due to stigma, shame, fear, and logistical challenges in accessing health care.
Integrating routine HIV testing into standard health care practices, including annual checkups and community health screenings — two areas DAP Health actively participates in — can normalize testing and make it more accessible. Additionally, rapid and self-testing options allow individuals to learn their status privately, increasing the likelihood that they’ll get tested. Health care providers, including primary care physicians, must promote a nonjudgmental environment where testing is seen as a routine part of self-care. At DAP Health, we want you to be tested for HIV, and pride ourselves on providing a shame- and stigma-free environment at every one of our 25 locations.
4. Make PrEP and PEP Available to All Who Want It
One of the most effective tools in preventing HIV infection is PrEP. Taken daily orally (as a single pill), or bimonthly by injection in a clinical setting, PrEP has been shown to reduce the risk of infection by up to 99%.
PEP — a 28-day course of antiretroviral medications (prescribed for 30 days due to insurance requirements) taken within 72 hours after a possible HIV exposure — also offers critical preventive support. Together, PrEP and PEP can stop new infections if made accessible and well-known in all communities.
However, expanding PrEP and PEP’s reach requires significant work. Currently, barriers such as cost, limited health care access, and misinformation prevent many from using these prevention tools. While some insurance plans cover PrEP, its cost and accessibility vary, especially in low-income and underserved areas. To address these disparities, health agencies must invest in making PrEP free or lowcost in all high-risk communities, and health care providers should proactively educate patients about it.
5. Prioritize Treatment as Prevention (TasP)
For people living with HIV, antiretroviral therapy (ART) is a lifesaving treatment that also plays a key role in prevention. ART reduces the amount of HIV in the blood to undetectable levels, making the virus untransmittable (a concept known as “undetectable = untransmittable,” or U=U). Treatment as prevention (TasP) is a powerful tool because it both improves the quality of life for those with HIV and prevents the virus’ spread to others.
To make TasP effective, it’s essential that all people living with HIV have uninterrupted access to ART, along with ongoing medical support. This goal necessitates universal health care policies and assistance programs that provide ART for free or at an affordable rate.
Additionally, educational campaigns around U=U can empower people living with HIV to seek treatment without the fear of stigma, as they can now live healthy, long lives without posing a risk to partners.
Until there’s a cure, all of us at DAP Health will soldier on in our efforts to lead the way as we continue to follow the five steps on the path to zero new HIV infections.
Please visit daphealth.org if:
• You need HIV/AIDS care and are not yet a DAP Health patient.
• You would like to access PrEP or PEP.
• You need free HIV testing — whether that be in person at one of our sexual wellness clinics, or by having a test discreetly mailed to your home.
(As seen at daphealth.org)
NYE HIGHLIGHTS Q&A FLEX FOR A GOOD CAUSE
BY TIM BLANKENSHIP
Once again, Mike Ruiz is combining his love for human and animal beauty and unleashes his 2025 Mutts and Muscles Calendar , that’s as compassionate as it is captivating. Mutts and Muscles features an array of top fitness icons alongside 14 irresistibly adorable rescue dogs, presenting images that are both heartwarming and inspiring. Gracing the cover of this year’s calendar is fitness legend Sergi Constance, known for his chiseled physique, social media influence, and his role as Zeus in Zack Snyder’s Justice League films.
Ruiz’s vision extends beyond the art of photography. Mutts and Muscles is a philanthropic project that supports animal rescues. With a staggering number of dogs being abandoned in 2024, the need has never been more urgent. This year’s proceeds benefit Louie’s Legacy Animal Rescue, a renowned organization dedicated to saving and rehoming pets. Mike Ruiz explains more from his home in NYC.
What message are you hoping to amplify through this year’s calendar?
Mike Ruiz: I wish people would fully comprehend that for every dog that a breeder brings into the world, one dog dies in a shelter. If people stopped supporting indiscriminate breeding and saved a life in need instead, the endless suffering would end. I urge anyone considering buying a dog from a breeder or pet store to take a stroll through a shelter on euthanasia day.
Why did you choose Louie’s Legacy Animal Rescue as this year’s beneficiary?
Mike Ruiz: Louie’s Legacy was the very first rescue that the calendar benefitted back in 2014. Having spread the love to other rescues over the years, I’ve come back to Louie’s Legacy because of their integrity, their compassion and their transparency as a 501c3.
Louie’s Legacy has a Platinum rating (the highest rating) on Guidestar, a platform that rates charities based on financial transparency and a myriad of other criteria that demonstrate integrity.
What’s the creative process behind pairing fitness icons with rescue animals for each shot?
Mike Ruiz: It really all boils down to who the dogs gravitate to. My main concern is always the welfare of the dogs. They have all been through so much stress and uncertainty, the last thing that I’d ever want to do is cause any additional stress on them.
How did you select Sergi Constance as the cover model?
Mike Ruiz: Sergi is a legend in the fitness world and has millions of social media followers. Also, he happens to a wildly compassionate man. After our shoot, he insisted that we visit a local shelter to photograph dogs in need so that we could network them and get them adopted.
He is exactly the type of person that I seek out to participate in this project.
In today’s digital age, do people still buy calendars?
Mike Ruiz: The calendar is always well received, and this year is no exception. They are selling like hot cakes! The calendar is a heartwarming message wrapped in a beautiful package.
Mutts and Muscles is the perfect holiday gift!
Mike Ruiz: Not only is the calendar an explosion of eye candy and an overload of cuteness but it actually saves lives. It’s a wonderful way to give a gift that keeps on giving for 14 months and it will make you feel like you’re making a difference. I can’t think of a better gift to give to others…and to yourself!
Mike Ruiz’s MUTTS AND MUSCLES 2025 is $29.99 at http://louieslegacy.org/calendar
NYE FEATUREHIGHLIGHTSHOLIDAY MERRY MEALS: EXPERT TIPS TO SAVOR THE HOLIDAY SEASON
BY PATI JINICH
With the holidays quickly approaching, it’s the perfect time to gather with loved ones and enjoy delicious, comforting meals. Whether you’re preparing a cozy brunch or a grand holiday dinner, elevate your celebrations with festive dishes. Celebrity chef and TV personality Pati Jinich shares five expert tips to add an extra layer of flavor and nutrition to your holiday cooking!
GIVE THE GIFT OF FLAVOR AND TRADITION
This holiday season, start a new tradition by organizing a family recipe exchange - an inspiring way to bring loved ones together. Whether its sharing cherished recipes passed down through generations or introducing new dishes that could become future family favorites, it’s a heartfelt way to celebrate. To add to the joy and further spread holiday cheer, consider gifting kitchen tools and supplies to the cooks and bakers in your family. These thoughtful culinary gifts will not only elevate their holiday meals but also create memories for years to come.
CREATE HOLIDAY MAGIC IN THE KITCHEN TOGETHER
Make holiday meal prep a joyful, shared experience by inviting loved ones into the kitchen. Whether it’s chopping fresh ingredients, mixing up favorite dishes, or rolling out dough for festive treats, everyone can play a part in the celebration. Even the little ones can get involved, from shaping cookies to serving as taste testers. By cooking together, you’ll not only lighten the load but also create delicious meals and heartwarming memories beyond the holiday season.
FUEL YOUR FESTIVITIES WITH A FILLING BREAKFAST
Kick off your holiday celebrations with a hearty, egg-based breakfast that will fuel the whole family through the day’s activities. Keep things simple with classic favorites like omelets, scrambles or quiches. These easy-to-make dishes are packed with protein and provide the perfect foundation for a long day ahead. There’s no better way to begin the holiday than with a meal that’s both delicious and nourishing.
ELEVATE YOUR TABLESCAPE WITH FESTIVE DÉCOR
Enhance your holiday table with festive décor that adds a touch of warmth and charm. Incorporating seasonal elements like candles, greenery and winter-themed place settings will create a cozy and inviting atmosphere that encourages conversation and connection, making every guest feel special. A thoughtfully styled tablescape not only complements your meal but also sets the stage for memorable holiday gatherings.
END CELEBRATIONS ON A SWEET NOTE WITH DELICIOUS DESSERTS
No holiday meal is complete without a delicious dessert to bring everyone together and wrap up the festivities. Baking something from scratch adds a personal touch to your celebration. For the best results, it’s important to use high-quality ingredients that will take your holiday treats to the next level. To truly impress your guests this season, try this recipe for Dedos de Novia (Bride’s Cookies) from Eggland’s Best - a festive and delightful addition to your holiday table.
1 stick unsalted butter, 1/2 cup, at room temperature
1/2 cup vegetable shortening
1 cup powdered sugar, plus more for covering the cookies
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
Instructions
* In a stand-mixer bowl fitted with the paddle attachment, beat butter, vegetable shortening and sugar at medium-low speed until soft and creamy, about 1-2 minutes. Add the Eggland’s Best egg yolks and vanilla extract. Continue mixing until incorporated. Reduce speed to low and add flour, baking powder and salt. Continue to mix until all ingredients are incorporated. Scrape mixture onto a piece of plastic wrap and refrigerate for two hours or up to a couple of days.
* When ready to bake, set oven racks in the upper and lower thirds of the oven and preheat to 350 degrees. Cover two baking sheets with parchment paper.
* Cut the dough into two pieces, leaving one in the refrigerator. Gently flatten dough and place it between two sheets of parchment, wax paper or plastic wrap. Using a rolling pin, roll to about 1/2inch thickness. Using a sharp knife or bench scraper, cut the dough into 1/2-inch by 2-inch rectangles. Then, use a dinner knife or back side of a fork or spoon to make 2 shallow lines down the length of the cookie.
* Place cookies on baking sheets and bake for 12 to 13 minutes or until lightly golden on sides and bottoms. Remove from the oven.
* When cool enough to handle, gently dip cookies in a bowl containing powdered sugar and cover entirely. Eat or keep covered in a container with a lid until ready to eat.
Create memorable culinary moments this holiday season by following these five tips. To find more holiday recipes to spread joy and treat your loved ones, visit www.EgglandsBest.com
2024 EVENTS
DATE EVENT
Nov 19 - Dec 29 Magic of Lights / Empire Polo Club
Nov 26 - Dec 30 WildLights / The Living Desert Zoo
Dec 1 World AIDS Day
Dec 4 Rock the Park - A Tribute to Neil Diamond
Dec 4 Holiday Wreath Auction for The Center / 849
Dec 4 -15 Palm Springs Aerial Tramway “Sounds Of The Holidays”
Dec 5 McCallum Theatre - Annual Gala 2024
Dec 6 PS Holiday Tree Lighting / Frances Stevens Park
Dec 7 The Laurel Foundation Toy Drive & Fundraiser
Dec 7 Palm Springs Festival of Lights Parade
Dec 7-8 Indio International Tamale Festival
Dec 8 Men of the Desert Fashion Show & Luncheon
Dec 9 Official Latino Film and Arts Festival
Dec 11 Desert Winds Freedom Band - Christmas Music on the Plaza
Dec 14-15 Modern Men / Home for the Holidays
Dec 19-22 Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus: FA LA LA...FABULOUS!
Dec 20 Ugly Sweater Theme Night at Acrisure Arena
Dec 27 Protect & Preserve, Artists for Oswit @ Desert Women's Gallery
Dec 31 KC & the Sunshine Band 50th Ann. Tour / The Show
Dec 31 Art in the Park in the Dark NYE 2025 / Demuth Park
Jan 2-23 Palm Springs International Film Festival
Jan 11 CV Firebirds Pride Night / Acrisure Arena
Jan 13 From Resilience to Action / The Center & EQCA
Jan 20 Justin Timberlake - The Forget Tomorrow World Tour / Acrisure
Jan 23-26 The Southwest Arts Festival / Empire Polo Club, Indio
Jan 25 Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo
Jan 25 Palm Springs Art Museum / Art Party 2025
Feb 6 PS Test Fest @ Toucans
Feb 7-8 Tour de Palm Springs in the Coachella Valley
Feb 13-23 Modernism Week 2025
Feb 20 -24 International Bear Convergence
Mar 29 Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards
RING IN THE NEW YEAR >>
THE ROOST LOUNGE NYE GLAM & GROOVE WITH DEBBY HOLIDAY
Join us at The Roost for “Glam & Groove” as Cabaret Meets Dance for New Year’s Eve, an unforgettable night of music and celebration! Enjoy two shows in one night, featuring Debby Holiday’s chart-topping dance hits, Broadway favorites, and some Tina Turner classics, with live piano accompanying one of the sets. The other will keep you dancing with high-energy positivity. Don’t miss this dazzling blend of glamour and groove—perfect for ringing in 2025!
Reserved Seating • Party Favors • Champagne Toast at Midnight. The Roost Lounge, East Palm Canyon Drive, Cathedral City
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YEAR’S EVE EARLY BALL DROP - COMEDY/MUSIC SHOW
2 PM—Yes, you read that right! Because let’s face it, midnight is for the young. This New Year’s Eve, join us for the most outrageous EARLY BALL DROP in Palm Springs, featuring the scandalous, everfabulous Ben Zook as Skyler Gentry, along with the delicious duo Deven Green & Handsome Ned. Prepare yourself for an afternoon of songs, music, erotic dance moves, make ‘em ups, and personal reflections so deep you’ll need a cocktail to recover (which, lucky for you, is FREE!).
At 2 PM, we’ll kick off with a toast that’s not only early but also downright inappropriate—and the show comes with free drinks and snacks, because that is how you party in the afternoon. You’ll be home in time for an early supper and even earlier bedtime—because you
are old and still like to party. So don’t miss the hottest (and earliest) countdown to 2025. Adults Only. 21+ with outrageous shocking humor with LGBTQIA + themes and Gay Content.
Tuesday, December 31 2pm-3:30pm 4629 East Sunny Dunes Road Palm Springs, CA 92264
NEW YEAR’S EVE PARTY WITH STONES THROW RECORDS AT ACE HOTEL & SWIM CLUB
Dance into the new year with electrifying DJ sets by J.Rocc, Peanut Butter Wolf, Xica Soul, and Sonrisita—spinning legendary sounds to keep the energy alive all night long. Toast to new beginnings with a complimentary glass of bubbly, and let the beats carry you into the year ahead. Don’t miss this epic celebration—see you there! Starting at 9pm. 701 E Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA 92264
CANOPY 1924 - A GREAT GATSBY INSPIRED NEW YEARS!
Step into a world of decadence, glitz, and glamour at Canopy Wine Lounge in Palm Springs for a Great Gatsby-Inspired New Year’s Eve Celebration like no other. On December 31st from 6:00pm-9:30pm, we’re ringing in the (East Coast) New Year with the elegance, extravagance, and excitement of the roaring ‘20s. Your ticket includes a Champagne Toast at “midnight” and Canapés by Chef Kristin Puttkamer. Additional hors d’oeuvres and bites will also be available for purchase. We will also be offering special pricing
on select bottles of Champagne. Lots and lots of Champagne. Our team will be Sabering bottles all night! Live DJ Performance: Dance the night away as we celebrate the new year in true Gatsby style! Champagne Toast at Midnight EST: As the clock strikes twelve (9:00pm), join us for a celebratory toast with Champagne, and welcome 2025 in the most glamorous way possible. Think Great Gatsby — flapper dresses, feathered headbands, pearls, fringe, tuxedos, bow ties, and suspenders! Go all out in gold, silver, and jazz-age sophistication! The more extravagant, the better.
Canopy Wine Lounge, 175 North Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs (Entry on Andreas across from Blaze Pizza)
ART IN THE PARK IN THE DARK NYE
Celebrate New Year’s Eve at Art in the Park in the Dark, a free, all-ages event that transforms Demuth Park into a glowing spectacle of interactive art and light. Attendees can enjoy captivating Laser Shows, the illuminated Glow and Go Parade at 7:00 p.m. and exploring the Night Gallery Art Walk. Highlights include the Desert Flaggers’ blacklight silk-spinning, light installations, and music all night. The first 200 guests will receive free blacklight flashlights to uncover hidden art in the park. The evening concludes at 8:45 p.m. with a sound bath, a final laser show and a big Video Countdown full of Coachella Valley 2024 Images. Demuth Park – 4200 E Mesquite Ave. 6 – 10 pm. Free
AGUA CALIENTE CASINO PALM SPRINGS BLOCK PARTY
Immerse yourself in a night of classic charm at our Outdoor Block Party. Enjoy specialty cocktails, oversized games, party favors, and more as you feel the nostalgia featuring live music from Liquid Blue
and DJ Erineil, building up to our exclusive New Year’s Eve countdown and a breathtaking midnight fireworks extravaganza. Buy your tickets now and Ring in the New Year at Agua Caliente Palm Springs in style!
$40 General Admission
$125 VIP Admission (includes premier seating)
Day of Event $50 General Admission
$150 VIP Admission (includes premier seating)
THE BALL DROP NYE 2024-25 AT OSCAR’S PALM SPRINGS
Performances by Jackie Beat, Sherry Vine, & Candis Cayne December 31, 2024 / 5pm Doors, 6pm Show 9pm Doors, 930pm Show. Outdoor courtyard, heat lamps will be on. However, please dress accordingly.
HUNTERS PALM SPRINGS
The best dance club in the desert is throwing a spectacular New Year’s Eve bash, no cover, Champagne bottle specials, free champagne toast and of course a balloon drop at midnight.
www.huntersnightclubs.com
CHILL BAR PALM SPRINGS
Join your friends and the one and only DJ Irene to count down to 2024. Along with the hottest gogos, lights and sounds. We’ll provide complimentary champagne to toast at midnight and party favors for the celebration. Sunday, December 31, 2023.
Doors Open 9pm. Hours 9pm-2am.
www.chillbarpalmsprings.com
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PERSPECTIVE WHAT’S NEXT ?
BY JILL LANGHAM
We are quickly approaching the end of another year and for 99% of you who may be reading this it is with great trepidation and for many fear. What a horrible way to begin a new year. For those of you who follow astrology, November 19 was the beginning of the age of Aquarius where Pluto enters Aquarius for the first time in 240 years. It is about enlightenment where we the people universally we begin to work as one. It is deconstructing society as it exists. Notice that this is before January 20, 2025, giving us time to pull ourselves together and effect positive change.
Now you might think this naïve on my part but if we look at the near future in fear and allow it to rule our everyday lives and thoughts, we will come to regret it. I believe it is time for us to come together.
I wrote a post on Gay Men of Palm Springs on Facebook, a few weeks ago, where I suggested that we look forward to June when World Pride will be held in Washington, D.C. As usual, I believe that there are no accidents and feel that it gives us 7 months to assess the safely of participating in this event but also planning how to make
use of this opportunity to peacefully march on Washington much like you did first back in 1979, 1987 and 1993. I did not take part in any of those marches because I was ignorant and unaware of how to show my support.
We are in a holding pattern right now waiting to see what is going to happen and what is possible. We need to be present, thoughtful, kind, careful and cautious. But we need a plan to keep the momentum going from the advances you made after Stonewall 55 years ago. My question is what have we been doing since then?
Are we as a culture making movement? I know many changes have taken place in the trans world but what about in the Gay community itself? It appears that we are being blended into one large group and personally this bothers me.
The term, “Be Yourself,” should apply to every living person on this earth. Coming Out, also another term for everyone. But you have been doing this for decades and you have brought so much to our world that I still believe is being overlooked, disregarded, and disrespected by the masses. Gay men and women have provided
the rest of the world with gifts that are all encompassing. You have made our world a better place and yet you are still seeming like a threat to so many. When is it ever going to stop?
In my article and perhaps once on this platform, I suggested choosing a random day in the the upcoming year, where no gay person went to work for 24 hours. Can you imagine the chaos in the entertainment industry including TV, radio; newspaper; cable; social media platforms; restaurants; fashion; politics; health; retail; banks; stock markets; real estate; government? Just to name a few. Talk about making a statement!
Are they going to fire everyone who did not go to work? I think not, as the world would come to a screeching halt! However, if this is not an option than I would love to know what is? We can not just give up, hide our heads in the sand or hostilely revolt. So, what do you think we should do?
I would never want to encourage anyone or any group to do something unsafe but enough is enough. We need to move on from this scrutiny and focus on the same issues we have been trying to eradicate for decades like homelessness, hunger, sexual mutilation, misogyny, sexual abuse, child abuse and leave sexual preference out of it. This is almost 2025 and we are facing the same inequalities that existed 100 years ago! We are not making headway! We are
repeating history, and we seem to learn nothing from the past. I have immersed myself in reading about Women in the Resistance during both World Wars. Why you might ask, I have no idea but after finishing book one, I have gone on to read over 70 of them. Some are fiction based on historical events, and others nonfiction based on the lives of these unsung heroes.
It is frightening to see the comparisons of these same years in the 1920’s building up to WWII and I know I am not the only one seeing this. I am not a politician, nor do I aspire to be one, but I am vey concerned and have been given this amazing opportunity to bring my thoughts to you hoping that it will stimulate you to come up with definitive plans to move forward and not disappear underground once again.
Thank you for letting me share my thoughts with you and know that I am not going to stop trying to effect change.
I wish you Peace and Happiness along with excellent Health in this New Year.
XOXO, Jill, your hopeful and somewhat anxious, DQ.
CIRCUIT DREAMLAND LIGHTS UP MIAMI
THIS NEW YEAR’S EVE
BY TROY LEFFERSON
ADINAYEV MEDIA
ADINAYEV MEDIA
The countdown to 2025 just got a lot more exciting as Dreamland, North America’s largest LGBTQ+ New Year’s music festival, returns to Miami for a week-long celebration from December 27 through January 1. Dubbed the “Queer Coachella” by Out magazine, this event promises an atmosphere of unity, inclusion, and celebration with immersive experiences and six vibrant parties over five days, featuring world-class performances by Purple Disco Machine, Dombresky, Anne Louise, Coco & Breezy, Fleetmac Wood, Heidi Lawden, and Sagi Kariv.
The festival will take over some of Miami’s most iconic venues including ZeyZey’s, M2 Nightclub (formerly Mansion), and Kygo’s Palm Tree Club, a stunning waterfront venue in Miami’s North Bay Village with breathtaking sunset views that can only be accessed by luxury boat! Dreamland is also introducing Teleport City, a groundbreaking 5-D immersive experience described as a “multi-sensory playground.” Attendees will step into a realm that engages all the senses, offering a surreal escape that blurs the lines between dreams and reality. This new addition to the festival promises to captivate and transport guests, setting a new standard for interactive entertainment.
For Jake Resnicow, the festival’s founder and producer, Dreamland is more than just a party. In a time of political challenges for the LGBTQ+ community, Resnicow sees events like Dreamland as a vital space for empowerment and solidarity. “Dreamland serves as both a celebration and a sanctuary for the queer community, providing a space where music, culture, and solidarity can thrive, regardless of external pressures,” he explains. By creating an environment where
attendees can express themselves freely and proudly, Resnicow hopes to foster a sense of strength and visibility that transcends adversity.
Dreamland’s return to Miami adds a special layer of magic to the event. The city’s vibrant culture, diverse community, and coastal energy create an ideal backdrop for this celebration. Miami’s warm sun and open skies set the stage for unforgettable moments, from the pulse of music to the glow of fireworks lighting up the night. Dreamland offers attendees the chance to create lasting memories in a space where love and inclusion take center stage.
It will also offer a preview of sorts. Resnicow’s vision for uniting the LGBTQ+ community will expand beyond Dreamland in 2025 when he brings WorldPride to Washington, D.C. His event in the nation’s capital will be an opportunity to showcase LGBTQ+ resilience and pride on a historic stage, emphasizing the power of the community to inspire progress and visibility on a global scale.
Tickets for Dreamland New Year’s Festival are available now at Dreamlandnye.com. Whether it’s the world-class performances, the immersive experiences, or the camaraderie of like-minded individuals, this year’s Dreamland promises to be a celebration that goes far beyond the ordinary. With its blend of music, art, and unity, it stands as a beacon of resilience, joy, and hope as the LGBTQ+ community welcomes in 2025 with reluctant arms.
Visit DreamlandNYE.com
MUSIC WHAM!’S BELOVED CLASSIC LAST CHRISTMAS TURNS 40!
Announcing The Commemorative 40th Anniversary Ep including A Previously Unreleased Live Performance By George Michael, Released On Limited Edition Vinyl, Cd And Digital On December 13th. Ahead of the 40th anniversary of one of the most beloved holiday songs of all time, WHAM!, George Michael Entertainment and Sony Music announce the release of the Last Christmas 40th Anniversary EP . The EP will feature all the original 7” and 12” versions plus George Michael’s 2006 performance of Last Christmas at London’s Wembley Arena. The EP will be available on limited edition 12” Snowflake white vinyl, 12” picture disc, 12” zoetrope picture disc, plus CD and digital on December 13th.
Originally released by WHAM! back in December 1984, the six-time multi-platinum classic peaked at Number One in 16 countries upon its release and is officially the fourth highest-selling single of all time in the UK. The song has claimed the Number 1 spot multiple times over the last 4 decades and has amassed an incredible 5 billion combined streams. Now, 40 years on, the song has woven itself into the very fabric of the holiday season.
Order here https://wham.lnk.to/40LastChristmas
KYLIE MINOGUE: TENSION II
Kylie said: “The Tension era has been so special to me … I can’t possibly let it be over just yet! Welcome to ‘Tension II’.”
The high-energy, high-octane sequel of the Number 1 album and global smash Tension, sees Kylie head further into the electronic space, and is packed full of dance floor anthems. The record includes nine brand new Kylie studio tracks including lead single “Lights Camera Action”, as well as the dance hit “Edge of Saturday Night” with The Blessed Madonna and the collaborations with Orville Peck, Bebe Rexha and Tove Lo, and Sia.
Last month Kylie announced her highly anticipated Tension Tour for 2025, which will see the global icon perform in cities across the globe and is set to be Kylie’s biggest tour since 2011. Opening in Kylie’s home country Australia, the tour will then head into Asia and North America before reaching the UK in May and then moving across Europe. Due to phenomenal demand another Madison Square Garden date has been added in New York as well as additional shows in Sydney and London. Tickets for the Tension Tour are on sale now, please visit Kylie.com for more information.
Kylie said: “I am beyond excited about the TENSION TOUR 2025. I can’t wait to share beautiful and wild moments with fans all over the world, celebrating the Tension era and more! It’s been an exhilarating ride so far and now, get ready for your close up
because I will be calling Lights, Camera, Action … and there will be a whole lot of Padaming!”
https://www.kylie.com/
MAMMAL TALK PUTS A SPELL ON YOU WITH MAGIC
Mammal Talk’s new single, Magic is a captivating track that features tight, groove-heavy bass lines with dynamic percussion, creating an irresistible rhythm with a mesmerizing story. “Magic” highlights Mammal Talk’s talent for blending classic funk and R&B with a fresh, modern edge.
Mammal Talk is comprised of best friends with a pure joy for writing, performing, and creating music. They are Baltimore, Maryland natives, multi-instrumentalists, and producers who have performed with national and international acts across several genres and came together to create their own original offering to music lovers everywhere.
Mammal Talk draws its inspiration from roots music, funk, pop, and R&B. Their collection of songs celebrates an extremely talented circle of friends with live instrumentation including strings, horns, and featured vocalists mixed with modern electronic elements to create a truly unique yet familiar sound that will leave listeners craving for more.
Check it out here https://music.trendpr.com/mammaltalk
JADE RELEASES FANTASY
JADE has already racked up over 55 million streams as a solo artist, and now the pop superstar releases her new single ‘Fantasy’.’ Fantasy’ is sleek and euphoric disco-tinged electro pop track written by JADE with Mike Sabath and Pablo Bowman (the team behind her debut smash hit single ‘Angel Of My Dreams), with Mike recording every musical part of the track himself alongside production duties.
JADE says: “Fantasy is a love song that I wrote with dream team Pablo Bowman and Mike Sabath about feeling safe enough with your partner to shamelessly explore your fantasies! We wrote this the day after AOMD was written, and from then on, I always knew it would be the second single. I can’t wait for my fans to experience more of my musical world.” The standout video for the track was filmed in LA and
directed by the legendary David LaChapelle, the man behind such iconic videos as Christina Aguilera’s ‘Dirrty’, Britney Spears ‘Everytime’ and Gwen Stefani’s ‘Rich Girl’. JADE’s debut solo single ‘Angel Of My Dreams’ has been a huge critical and commercial success. The track has accumulated over 50 million streams to date, entering the UK Official Singles Chart at No.7, the third highest new entry for a British artist this year. The accompanying video was a No.1 YouTube trending video for 10 days and has had 8.8 million views. The song remained in the Official UK Singles Chart Top 20 for two months.
Last month JADE also dropped the track ‘Midnight Cowboy’. a sultry, understated bass heavy bop about owning your sexuality, featuring a spoken word cameo from superstar actor Ncuti Gatwa.
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MUSIC Q&A
BRIAN FALDUTO FINDS JOY IN A SOLO CHRISTMAS
BY PHILLIP BESSIMER
Brian Falduto first gained fame playing the role of Fancy Pants in the Jack Black film School of Rock. Last year, he released his first country music song. It received a flood of positive encouragement, quickly becoming an LGBTQ+ country music anthem. Subsequent releases followed including Falduto’s first full-length album, Gay Country (Deluxe Edition). Now the country crooner is out with his first original holiday song. “Christmas Solo” is a playful, country-pop tune that shines a spotlight on those who find themselves joyfully alone during the holidays. We caught up with Brian Falduto from his home in NYC.
What do you know about spending Christmas solo?
Brian Falduto: I was single for many Christmases. In fact, maybe all until the past two. I would always spend the day with my immediate family, and even though I may not have been physically alone, I often felt alone. I found that the holidays were a time of the year where I was forced to spend hours in environments that didn’t feel entirely
supportive. Where I felt I couldn’t be my full, authentic self. It’s common in the queer community to feel a bit out of place when returning to your hometown because you don’t feel the same sense of belonging that you might with the chosen family you’ve created for yourself.
The holidays can be a very lonely time of year.
Brian Falduto: People suffer with loneliness all year round but particularly around Christmas time. There’s an overwhelming number of songs reinforcing that feeling. “Christmas Solo” is meant to help alleviate loneliness rather than contribute to it.
Why is important to have a song for singles?
Brian Falduto: Because single people exist just as couples and families do. Times are changing and while romance and togetherness will always be a thing, people are realizing those aren’t the only options for happiness. In fact, it’s important to enjoy time with yourself before you go giving your time and self away to someone else.
What are some of the advantages of spending Christmas solo?
Brian Falduto: There are so many: not having to get dressed up, not having to make small talk with people you see once a year, not having to cook for people or clean up after them. There is also the advantage of actually getting some time off rather than having your holiday break filled with commitments! Being able to relax and decompress, maybe slowing down enough to be able to appreciate the true sentiment of the season which often gets lost in the hustle and bustle of it all.
Can you tell us about the process of creating the song?
Brian Falduto: My producer Brett Castro is so brilliant and much of the magic of “Christmas Solo” should be credited to him. We took a lot of production inspiration from Kelly Clarkson’s Christmas catalogue. She’s really perfected the modern holiday pop sound, in my opinion. I worked with a new mixing engineer (Ed Boyer) on this track too because I wanted it to sound a little shinier than some of my recent country releases.
Brian Falduto: Gosh, I don’t deserve what Nate’s done with this song. The sax moments truly make it what it is. I was so humbled he took the time out to do this because I know he’s beginning to release a bunch of his own music as well. As for Bron and Kels, I’ve been singing with them for nearly a decade. It’s awesome to have long time collaborators because they know me so well and I can be confident that they’re always going to deliver something great.
What do you hope listeners take away from “Christmas Solo”?
Brian Falduto: There are so many scary things going on in our world right now. I think joy can be not only a radical form of resistance when needed but also a remedy for pain and a vehicle for raising the vibrational frequency of our collective consciousness. I hope this song brings some joy to those who hear it.
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The song features a standout saxophone solo by Nate Hopkins and festive vocals by Bronwyn Whittle and Kelsey Martin.
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