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6 Near and Far Places to Spend Your Spring Break

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Raising Girls 14 Cheerleading: Has It Gone Too Far? By Cecilia Morgan

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16 All-Girls School: Yes or No? By Carrie Vittitoe

18 More Than Skin Deep: Raising Girls to Value Themselves for Who They Are By Yelena Sapin

17 Parent Perspectives 17 The Mood Wars by Barb Hartman 17 Drama Queen Despite My Best Effort by David Stephens 19 Girls Rule by Kristina Jorgensen Harrigan

20 Puberty Can Be As Simple As ABC By Nadyne Lee

22 A New Mother’s Story By Laura Clark

26 Take a Trip: Historical Adventures in Washington, DC By Kelly Watkins

28 Today’s Family 2011 Beautiful Baby Contest 34 Calendar of Events

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How hard is it to get six girls and a dog to pose for a photo? It took a lot of Gracelyn Sidney and flexibility and a dog Molly few tears (much the same as raising girls takes on a daily basis), but we did it. Left to right:

• Hannah M. Santos, 3 1/2, is the daughter of James and Terra Santos. • Azaria Moore, 4, is the daughter of Terri Moore. • Hadleigh Smith, 11, is the daughter of Jeremy and Liz Smith. • Gracelyn Jack, 8, is the daughter of Elaine Jack. • Sidney Smith, 11, is the daughter of Joe and Beth Smith. • Gaby Melgar, 4, is the daughter of Jay and Edith Melgar. Photos by JAMES MOSES

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uring Spring Break 2010, our family decided to take a two-day trip to explore the Cumberland Region of Kentucky. We made reservations at the Pine Mountain State Resort Park Lodge in Pineville, Kentucky, packed our bags, and jumped in the car. On our way to Pineville, we noticed a sign for a Camp Wildcat Civil War battlefield and decided to stop to investigate. Next to the small parking lot is a gazebo with informational plaques explaining the battle. We learned where the troops were positioned and about the events leading up to the 1861 Battle of Camp Wildcat, the first Union victory in Kentucky. After leaving the gazebo you walk up the mountain on a gravel road until you reach the very top. We were a little unprepared for the walk, which is steep, but we all made it to the top. And we were rewarded for our efforts: the Union trenches are still visible on continued on page 8

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the mountaintop and you can feel the history as you stand there. After spending the night in Pineville, we decided to travel home a different route, stopping at Fort Boonesborough near Richmond. Fort Boonesborough was Kentucky’s second settlement, founded by Daniel Boone and has been reconstructed as a working fort. Families can stroll around the fort, talking to people dressed in period costumes and performing chores as they would have in 1775. My kids loved seeing history and had lots of questions about life before television and the Internet! — SLM

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fter one trip to Destin, and one to Panama City — complete with unpredictable weather, extreme partying by spring-break kids, crowded restaurants, and difficulty keeping track of my own kids — I gave up on those destinations. But we’ve found some great alternatives. My favorite is the Ritz Carlton at Amelia Island, Florida. Their kids’ club is second to none, with daily activities that would rival the best schools in the country. My youngest son, Gib, enjoyed ocean animal study, “discovery” walks on the beach, Amelia Island encounters with a talking parrot, hermit crabs, turtles, and a terrific aquarium. Every afternoon there’s a hunt for shark’s teeth on the beach, and every evening they have an amazing bonfire with a costumed storyteller telling pirate stories. All the childcare workers love children; they are fun, upbeat, positive, creative, nurturing, incredibly kind, and caring. You can fly directly into Jacksonville and get picked up at the airport by the Amelia Island Ritz Carlton. The service is spectacular, and considering the five–star brunch included in the price of lodging, it’s amazingly affordable. Great service, good food, beautiful beach, spa, great workout room, yoga classes, kids activities, and games and activities for all ages. It has a superb playground, with sand right in the pool area, as well as an indoor pool, bike rentals, and great, safe bike trails. You never have to leave the property. They also have a game room which contains X-Box, Playstation, a movie theatre, Wii, foosball, and air hockey. I am completely sold! The Ritz Carlton at Lake Oconee, Georgia, is another one of our favorite locations for spring break. The hotel has more of a lodge feel and is situated on a beautiful lake and features boating, lake swimming, tennis, golf, and great hiking and biking trails. A family can dine inside or out, swim in the beautiful pool that overlooks the lake, and wind down in the evening at the bonfire. You can fly into Atlanta and rent a car for the rest of the trip, about two hours. The most important point in considering where to go is making sure you are going to a location where everyone — including parents — can have fun and be relaxed and happy. — SWT t o d a y ’ s

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om and I are veteran scuba divers with hundreds of dives between us. Our daughters showed interest in diving early on, so we enrolled them in classes. Marla and Kathryn trained together and when Lauren turned 10, she earned her certification at Paradise Divers in Louisville. After that, we headed south for spring break diving adventures. A great place for a family scuba vacation is Nassau, Bahamas, with Stuart Cove Dive Shop. Cove is an international dive expert who runs a top-notch operation specializing in shark dives. You can catch a direct, non-stop flight from Louisville and be in Nassau in less than three hours. Check out Atlantis while you’re there. Another awesome dive venue is Grand Cayman Island, British West Indies. Besides some fantastic coral reef diving, you can visit Stingray City and snorkel with dozens of stingrays. Belize offers beautiful diving on the second largest barrier reef in the world. In Cozumel, Mexico, you can do a cave dive at Chankanaab National Park and swim through a curtain of thousands of sardines. If you want to experience the best of land and sea, head to Costa Rica, where you can hike through the rainforest, zip line, surf and dive some great sites in the Pacific. Scuba is an exciting way to spend a spring break and there are lots of places to choose from. Just dive in! — URM

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ur family loves Callaway Gardens in Pine Mountain, Georgia. Only eight hours from Louisville, it is close enough to drive but far enough to feel like a vacation. Accommodations include an inn, villas or private cottages. We usually take our bicycles with us to take advantage of the bike trail surrounding the property. You can also rent bikes if you don’t want to take your own. My kids love the all-glass Butterfly Conservatory where butterflies will land on you if you can stand still enough! Our favorite activities have been “astronomy night,” where four astronomers set up telescopes and taught the kids how to see Saturn and Venus and other cool celestial objects — and a “night bug hunt,” where we went out after dark with flashlights to catch bugs then study them with magnifying glasses. Nature trails, a discovery center, Robin Lake Beach, beautiful gardens, and a pool delight the kids. But don’t worry parents: mom will love the new spa and full-service salon and dad can play golf on the same course where the PGA’s Buick Challenge has been held for over a dozen years. — SLM Stacie L. Martin lives in Mt. Washington with her husband William and Taelor (11) and Andrew (10). She is a frequent contributor to Today’s Family. Ursula Robertson-Moore lives in Crestwood with her husband Tom Moore and daughter Lauren (15). Marla (21) is a senior at Murray State University and Kathryn (20) is a junior at MSU. She is co-owner of UPPERCASES LLC, (www. uppercases.net). This is her first feature for Today’s Family. Stacy Westray Tackett lives in Pewee Valley and is mom to Alexandria 22, Westray 19, and Gib 8. She is a frequent contributor to Today’s Family. 12

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y family spent many wonderful spring breaks at Kentucky State Parks when our daughters were young. Most parks are within easy driving distance and have an abundance of hiking trails, so as soon as the girls were walking, they were hiking. Natural Bridge is one of our favorites, with a beauty that dazzles in spring and the Skylift that the girls love. Its 10 trails, ranging from an easy one-half mile hike to a challenging seven-miler, make it a hiker’s paradise. My daughters’ love of hiking blossomed here. With 44 miles of awesome trails, Pine Mountain State Park is another great hiking destination. Its proximity to Cumberland Gap National Park makes it a two-for-one hiking treat. The variety of flora, fauna, and wildlife is amazing and taught the girls a lot about the beauty of their home state. Ditto for Lake Barkley, Kenlake and the whole Land between the Lakes area, where elk and bison ranges make family hikes more exciting. Cumberland Falls is a great hiking venue that gave our daughters their first glimpses of a moonbow. And no child’s hiking experience is complete without a visit to nearby Mammoth Cave National Park. While my family has enjoyed many “happy trails” over the years, our earliest and most memorable spring breaks were spent hiking in the Kentucky State Parks. Our daughter Kathryn just returned from studying abroad in Europe, where she spent many happy hours hiking the mountains of Austria, so, while the locale may change, the passion for hiking only grows. — URM t o d a y ’ s

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was a cheerleader from fifth to eighth grade. Back then, our primary job was to stand on the sidelines at football and basketball games and, well, cheer. We helped the crowd get excited about the game and ramped up school spirit. Our skirts fell halfway between our thighs and knees, the only make-up we wore was lip gloss, and our raciest cheer was “H-O-T-T-OG-O, Bobcats are Hot to Go.”

We’ve come a long way, baby — and not necessarily for the better. I was waiting for my son at a gymnasium last week when I overheard three fifth or sixth grade girls talking about cheerleading. It was obvious that two of the girls were cheerleaders and the third was not; the cheerleaders were explaining to the non-cheerleader the benefits of being on a competition-only squad. My jaw fell listening to these girls talk. According to them, cheerleading is now more of a social activity with an excuse to wear make-up than a school-spirited one. There are separate squads for ‘competition’ cheerleaders who literally cringe at the idea of actually standing on the sidelines at a game and cheering (because, in the words of one of these girls, “Do you really think I’m gonna stand in the rain at a football game and cheer for a bunch of sweaty football players? What would happen

to my make-up?”). One of the girls commented that cheerleading is only about how you look. Society has increasingly become focused on thin models, outer beauty, and the perfect female form, and young girls are the unfortunate victims of this fascination. Younger and younger cheer squads are now requiring heavier make-up, shorter skirts, skimpier outfits, and hair extensions. What kind of message does this send to our daughters? Today’s girls are growing up in an even tougher generation than we did: images are sexier, songs are more explicit, video games depict women as sex objects or victims, and television is racier and raunchier. And now, our elementary school cheerleaders are being pushed into looking like sexy, miniature Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders. Thankfully, some people have begun to stand up and say, “Enough is enough.” In Michigan, the mother of a 6-yearold cheerleader made headlines when she objected to a cheer which stated, “Our backs ache, our skirts are too tight, we shake our booties from left to right.” In Nebraska, an 11-year-old girl was thrown off a squad when she refused a move that required the cheerleaders to ‘shake their booty’ by turning around to the crowd, bending over and moving their pelvises from side to side. In Connecticut, a group of high school cheerleaders appeared before the local Board of Education to complain about their skimpy cheerleader outfits. I am all for cheerleading itself. It can instill self-esteem, leadership, and confidence in young girls and be great physical exercise. But, come on society, let these girls be girls! Let’s get back to what cheerleading is really supposed to be about: having fun and encouraging school spirit!

Cheerleading Has It Gone Too Far?

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s I begin the initial planning of my 20-year high school reunion, I am awash with memories of four years spent at Presentation Academy, a Catholic all girls’ high school that has been in continuous operation since 1831.

Having been brought up Catholic, it was important to my parents that I attend Catholic schools. After eight years at St. Rita School in Okolona, my parents said I could pick any of the handful of Catholic all girls’ high schools in Louisville. The prospect of being with girls all the time for four years sounded like no fun to my very boy-crazy 13-year-old self. I would have much preferred the co-ed experience of Southern High School, where a number of my neighborhood friends were headed. With my teenage scowl in place, I headed to Presentation where I had an overwhelmingly positive experience despite my initial reluctance. On every level, not having to worry about boys was a benefit for me. There was no need or desire to fix my hair or wear cosmetics because I had no one I cared to impress with my looks. Not having to worry about any of my external features allowed me to focus solely on my internal features: increasing my academic understanding and developing strong leadership skills. By the time I graduated I had, among other things, served as Junior Class President, National Honor Society President, and Miss Presentation. Thanks to the various mixers and football games at the Catholic boys’ schools, I had still managed to have my fair share of dating experiences. Success all around! My husband and I have already discussed the possibility of an all girls’ school for our 7-year-old daughter, Norah, who currently attends public school. If she is in any way as boy-crazy as I was, we will seriously consider an all girls’ high school for her as a way to focus her energies and improve her self-esteem. Given that my experience was so positive, we hope hers would be equally rewarding. According to the National Coalition of Girls’ Schools, my experience at an all girls’ school is not unusual. At these schools there are fewer social distractions, more female role 16

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models and leadership opportunities, and a greater likelihood that the female students will not only dare to take traditionally “male-dominated” courses, like chemistry and calculus, but will be able to excel in them because they aren’t worried about asking questions in class or appearing “too brainy.” Taken together, these things result overwhelmingly in young women who value and respect themselves and expect others to do the same. Sabrina Duncan, a mom of two daughters at Assumption High School, sees firsthand how an all-female environment “completely empower(s) the girl.” It has even been said that some college professors can identify graduates of all girls’ schools because of their initiative in the classroom and expectation that their views are worthwhile. Barbara Wine, vice president of Academic Affairs and Principal of Presentation Academy, agrees: “Recent graduates are often surprised that girls who attended co-ed high schools tend to be more reticent during (college) class discussions.” Generally all girls’ schools are small in size, which means students receive more individualized attention from teachers. This can include a teacher varying the degrees of difficulty within a single course of study based on the needs of learners within that particular classroom. Smallness also fosters a sense of sisterhood among pupils and is a source of support for all. While the benefits of all girls’ schools are many, there can also be disadvantages. Kristen Cherry, a senior at Assumption High School, recognizes that “boys and girls tend to think about information in different ways, and I think it would be beneficial to experience the thoughts of both genders in the classroom.” While some high schools might be gender isolated, the world at large is not. Critics of single sex education argue that students need to work cooperatively with a wide range of other children over their educational careers. All girls’ schools are also not immune to problems like bullying. There are incidences of “mean girls” who gossip about and form alliances against girls they don’t like. Barbara Wine acknowledges that very rarely “there are incidents involving Facebook, texting, excluding girls from the lunch table, (and) staring down someone in the hallways,” but she adds that “there are never physical altercations at Pres.” Attendance at all girls’ schools may also mean financial hardship for a family since they are all tuition-based. Although scholarships are offered, there are simply many families that cannot even begin to afford these schools, regardless of financial aid. Since the schools don’t offer bus transportation, there are also the logistical challenges of getting students to and from school and various activities. Affordability also brings into play the issue of diversity and its benefits to one’s education. Selecting a school for a child is a challenge because parents want what is best for their child, and they must consider many factors. Tricia Taylor, a graduate of Sacred Heart Academy, says, “Much of any educational experience is dependent on your involvement and confidence in the process. I cannot say that my high school experience at an all girls’ school was superior to someone else’s experience at a public high school. I just know that for me, it seemed like the best fit.” An all girls’ school was also the “best fit” for me, but time will tell whether that fit will be right for Norah. My husband and I, while mindful of our own educational experiences, will focus on the unique needs of our daughter. Having numerous co-ed and all girls’ high schools from which to choose makes me feel confident we will make the right choice when the time comes.

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The Mood Wars

Having a daughter has been an incredibly rewar ding event. I’m not a “girly girl” but have certainly enjoyed watching my little princess grow up and move from infancy, to toddlerhood, to young adolescence . However, one thing the owner’s manual failed to mention was the cross-over from strong-willed young ster to hormone-driven, strong-willed pre-teen. Were there no external influences on my side, I feel I would be adequately prepared. The issue arises when I, too, fall prey to that “occasional” mood swing brought on by my body’s changing chemistry. I’ve had to develop a new approach to paren ting. There are times that I just have to shut my mouth and walk away. This is completely contrary to my nature. I finally understood that mutually-raised voices and eye-rolling and stalking off to neutral corners was not an approach advocated by most professional child-rearing sources. Inevitably, even if I came out of a confrontation with some feeling of victor y I didn’t feel good about the way I achieved it. Backing down from a fight when in a state of flux brought about by estrogen surges is not an easy thing. So my non-professional advice to mothers of young, beautiful little princesses: enjoy the time before the conflict and steel yourselves for the adolescent years. Learn to bite your tongue and do some deep breathing until you have both returned to a rational plateau. To quote an old Persian proverb: “this too shall pass.” — Barb Hartman, 43, mother of Maeve (almos t 10), Liam (7), and Sean (5)

Drama Queen Despite My Best Effort

Oh my “Daddy, guess what happened at school today? and I gosh, like there was this boy like he did something, y, and like like told him not to do it but like he did it anywa like. . .” my friend she said she told him not to do it also and l contypica a how is That “stop!” say, I And this is where I can say versation starts with my 13-year-old daughter. All a breath, is, “stop, think about what you want to say, take senother every g startin “like” word the t withou and say it very well tence.” If you have a child who talks this way you may have a drama queen on your hands. Sarah is Having a drama queen for a child is not always bad; thinks She lady. young tic energe and justed, well-ad a happy, drama to every conversation needs to be embellished with g the make the subject matter seem more important. Fightin battle. losing a is n situatio my in drama and But I will continue to ask her to stop, breathe, start speak without using the dreaded word. I may If given a charging her a nickel for every ‘like’ she uses. college choice she would probably pay the nickel. Her even might I and year, a than less in for would be paid recognize become wealthy. But I do not know if I could my daughter if she changed her vocabulary. a dramatic Sarah is a drama queen who likes to dress up in her. She change not will world the in fighting the all fashion, and sweet, is who she is and as long as she remains the same drama. loving child she is right now, I will be okay with the (13) Sarah and — David Stephens, 43, father of Kelli (20)

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ne of the things that upsets me is all the airbrushing in magazines, the ideal of perfection, and the pressure it puts on girls to look sexy,” says Suzanne, my good friend who lives in California. Since we each have two daughters (hers are 10 and 7), the topic of our long-distance phone conversations often turns to the challenges inherent in raising them. According to an American Psychological Association (APA) report on the sexualization of girls, the proliferation of sexy images in media and marketing, as well as societal messages that place great value on physical appearance above all else, is detrimental to their self-image and psychological

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development. And because their sense of self is still forming, the younger girls are even more vulnerable. “I’ve seen little girls all decked out like Bratz dolls and talking about being ‘hot’ and ‘sexy,’ words that shouldn’t even be in their vocabulary at their age,” Suzanne laments, “and it just makes me sad that instead of running around the playground in comfortable jeans and loose T-shirts, they’re so concerned with how they look.” There’s no denying that sex is everywhere, and that the struggle to protect our children from too much too soon often feels like fighting a losing battle. We can certainly keep some of the more objectionable content out of our homes by supervising our kids’ TV, internet, and reading habits, but all bets are off when they walk out the front door. Out there is a world of sexy billboards at the mall, racy magazine covers at the supermarket checkout lane, increasingly provocative clothing, and a gen-

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left to make their own, often grossly mistaken, assumptions about what is healthy and acceptable behavior. “If you’re not involved in any of that process,” she cautions, “what they see is what becomes normal for them.” As parents, we are the first lens through which our children learn to view the world. That’s why it’s so important to be mindful of the attitudes we model at home. Studies show that having a mother with a healthy self-esteem and a father who’s loving and supportive can give girls a head start in developing a positive self-image. Exposing kids to a variety of art, literature, and cultures can broaden their definitions of beauty and teach them that real women come in many shapes, colors, and sizes. Encouraging girls to participate in sports gives them a break from having to look a certain way, creates opportunities to form alternative peer groups, and helps them see their bodies as a source of strength and accomplishment. Wherever our children’s interests lie, we need to “do a really good job at letting them explore a lot of options so they can find something they are really great at,” says Frankel. Developing hobbies, getting involved in extra-curricular activities, contributing to the community, nurturing positive relationships with family and friends – all these are factors that can boost girls’ self-esteem and help them realize what we, as their parents, already know: that the real measure of our daughters’ value lies not in how they look, but in who they are and what they do. Yelena Sapin lives in Goshen with her husband Alex and daughters Zoe (13) and Emma (10). She is a frequent contributor to Today’s Family. For more information on the APA findings and recommendations, visit http://www.apa. org/pi/women/programs/girls/report.aspx

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eral cultural climate of in-your-face sexuality. “Last week (my 7-year-old) came home from school and asked me what a pole dance is,” Suzanne confides. “I’m very careful about what my kids are exposed to, but I know that other people parent differently. I worry about what messages my girls are getting through their peers.” According to the APA report, the prevailing message girls are getting is that they have to look “hot” and act sexy. We all want to look our best, but the images put forth by marketers and media go way beyond good grooming and flattering clothes and beeline straight into the bedroom. When girls buy into these messages, the struggle to be “hotter,” coupled with a self-perceived failure to measure up to the narrow, plastic, and mostly unattainable standards of beauty propagated by the media, can lead to higher rates among them of a host of behavioral, psychological, emotional, and cognitive disturbances. These include depression, eating disorders, self-loathing, early and risky sexual activity, anxiety, poor academic performance, shame, and low self-esteem. Despite the strides we’ve taken toward expanding the opportunities for women in many spheres in our society, there’s still tremendous emphasis placed on a woman’s sex appeal to men. Down the road, the belief that women are only as good as they look can interfere with the development of healthy sexuality and the ability to form positive relationships, and chips away at a woman’s sense of self-worth as she grows older and no longer conforms to youthful beauty ideals. “From a very young age we’re teaching girls all the wrong things, I think, and everything they need to focus on at this stage – hobbies, interests, sports, school, finding out who they are, developing a peer group, developing relationships – is being short-circuited by this,” says Dr. Ora Frankel, a board certified child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist in Louisville. How much to hold the media accountable, and whether parents should take steps to curtail their children’s access to it, is still under debate. In the meantime, experts urge parents to not shy away from talking with their kids about sexuality and relationships so they can better filter and interpret what they see and hear. (Pediatricians, school counselors and nurses, parent groups, religious leaders, books, and the internet can help parents approach these issues in an age-appropriate manner.) The APA suggests that parents watch TV and movies with their kids, listen to their music, read their magazines, and surf their websites together to break the ice and start a conversation. “It doesn’t have to be these lengthy speeches, it can be these small little ‘oh, that’s really dumb, why is she doing that’ comments,” advises Frankel. Without knowledge and parental input, kids are

Girls Rule (at our house)

In the process of raising four daughters, I have decided that my favorite Disney movie is Mulan. The basic story: a young woman pretends to be a man in order to save her father from having to fight against the Huns. In the process, Mulan ends up saving all of China. I love that movie because I think it teaches my girls that it is important to rescue yourself and not wait for a man to come and save you. While I enjoy the other princess movies, I think they suggest that it takes a man to swoop in and save you from all your troubles. In reality, that is just not going to happen. I strive, as a divorced Mom, to teach my girls to be independent, self-supporting thinkers. Mulan finds love during the course of doing what she feels is right. Her relationship develops out of equality and not out of a need to be taken care of by a man. I want my girls to realize that they can be strong, intelligent women and still find love. I encourage them to speak their minds and not fear letting others know their opinions. I want them to know that they have value based on their own ideas and efforts. — Kristina Jorgensen Harrigan, M.Ed., 42, mother of Megan (10), and triplets Abigail, Brigid, and Caroline, (7) F e b r u a r y / M a r c h

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hat do you remember about going through puberty? Was it a time of mother-daughter bonding, a time when you grew into your beautiful new body? Or was it a rocky road where you faced challenges that still linger as craggy memories?

For me, menarche came on the wings of embarrassment. For years I had anticipated the joyous day when I would become a woman. I had fantasized that my special news would cause my mother such pride that she’d give me a lovely gift. A string of pearls would be perfect. When the big day finally arrived, I went to Mom with the great news. She hardly looked up from folding the laundry and said, “You’ll have to go up to the store and get some sanitary napkins. I don’t have any.” That was that. So much for flourish and enthusiasm. So much for rights of passage. I biked a mile to the nearest grocery praying that the Goddess of Puberty

wouldn’t let stains of my new status in life become evident on my shorts. I walked into the grocery store and realized that I didn’t know where the feminine hygiene products were kept as I had never needed them before. My search for a box of sanitary napkins was fruitless, and I realized I would have to ask for help. I was getting desperate. You understand, time was of the essence. I could not find a single, solitary woman in the entire store, only one 16-year-old male stock clerk in the vegetable aisle. But, I had no option. I had to ask him to help me find sanitary napkins. I swallowed my embarrassment and said, “Could you please direct me to the aisle with the napkins?” “Yeah,” he said, “Aisle 3.” I made my way up and down aisle 3. No Kotex. Just Charmin toilet paper, Scott paper towels, and Dixie dinner napkins. He’d misunderstood and directed me to paper products. Now I’d have to ask him again. This time I would have to be painfully explicit. My 13-year-old psyche was drowning in a tsunami of embarrassment. As I was walking back to the vegetable aisle I thought, wasn’t this why God gave girls mothers?

Let’s look at the ABC’s of P-U-B-E-R-T-Y! is for Period. Mothers should anticipate the event and talk about the big day before it arrives. But how does one know when that will happen? Most girls get their first period between the ages of 9-15, usually 1-2 years after the beginning of breast development. Watch for the signs! Mothers should teach their daughters the biologic basics and the practical aspects of feminine self-care before menarche. Girls can wear either pads or tampons, but to avoid toxic shock syndrome the tampon should not be left in for more than eight hours or overnight. The Care and Keeping of YOU, published by American Girl, is an excellent resource for girls and it contains detailed diagrams with instructions on inserting tampons.

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is for Underarms. Changes begin in the pits. Body odor is the first sign of puberty. Even before her breasts develop, a girl will need to wear deodorant. Gently reinforce the importance of antiperspirants. It’s also important to teach a girl how to shave her underarms (and legs). is for Breasts. Most girls reach the stage of full breast development at about age 18. Many girls (and women) are unhappy about the size of their breasts. Too small? Exercise won’t help. Breast tissue (composed of fat and milk ducts) has no muscles to flex. Too large? Diets won’t reduce their size. Remind your daughter that it’s not what’s

in her bra but what’s in her heart that makes her an attractive person. is for Emotions. Surging hormones bring waves of emotions: anger, fear, jealousy, pride, confusion, hysteria, happiness, love. Sulky silences alternate with outbursts of uncontrolled tears. Mothers wonder who kidnapped their once placid little girls. Take a deep breath and help your daughter understand that her mood swings are a normal part of growing up and that unpleasant feelings are usually temporary. Be sensitive to her struggle with controlling her emotions. If you have ever suffered from PMS, you know what your daughter is living through. t o d a y ’ s

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“Sir,” I said, “I didn’t mean dinner napkins. Could you please tell me where you keep your feminine hygiene products?” Couching my request in grown-up terms would surely stem the tide of death by shame. “Aisle 10,” he said, eyes focused on a can of green beans. Later in the safety of my bedroom, I consoled myself with the certain knowledge that I just experienced the most embarrassing moment in my entire lifetime. Little did I know. Embarrassing “puberty stories” happened to most of us. When they did, were our mothers there for us? But most important, will we be there for our daughters? How many of us waited for our breasts to grow to a respectable size? Or prayed that they’d STOP growing? is for Rest. Be sure to get plenty of it. You need it, and your daughter does too. Teenage girls need nine hours of sleep a night! Suggest daytime exercise, a regular bedtime, and no caffeine before bed. is for Teasing. Insulting remarks or cruel jokes can hurt. Teasing may turn into bullying. Tell your daughter that if she feels threatened in any way, she should come to you or tell a teacher. is for Yikes! Blackheads, pimples, and zits, oh my! Let’s face it. It’s tough to be a teen. Just when a girl wants to look her best, oil glands clog up and an ugly zit erupts on the tip of her nose.

Were any of us taunted or bullied, but kept it a secret? Did we require sutures after our first attempt at shaving? Or did our mothers prevent that rite of passage from becoming a bloody mess? We all had mood swings, but how many of us knew that they were a normal part of becoming a woman? Were our mothers our confidants, guides, and teachers? Or were they another stumbling block on the rocky road of adolescence? Puberty is a difficult time in life. Hormones are raging, and the body is changing. It can be a time of bonding between mother and daughter or it can be cause for separation. Our daughters need the wisdom of our experience as they navigate this stormy chapter in their lives. They need our support, understanding, and guidance.

Advise your daughter to keep her face clean, avoid popping pimples, and check out the drugstore for the latest acne treatment. Puberty is challenging for mothers and daughters. It is a time that can make or break a life-long bond. If you believe that your daughter is experiencing unusual physical symptoms or emotional difficulties, consult your pediatric nurse practitioner or pediatrician. But most of the time, following these PUBERTY guidelines can be as simple as ABC.

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PART 2 in a Series — In this story series throughout this year, Louisville freelance writer Laura Clark, 28, will guide us through her experience as a first-time mother.

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his birth story is best understood in minutes and hours. In reality, it’s tough to recall those exact times.

Once labor began I stopped thinking so much and simply felt the sensations of the ride, listening to my body and heart. Each minute was a series of breaths, the rhythm of swaying and rocking. Each hour passed with gentle, sturdy hands holding mine. And time was marked by the changing light around me: from night to day to night and, finally, a new dawn as I gazed at my baby boy, Carter. This was a 30-hour labor full of surprises for us, not the least of which was whether we were having a boy or girl. We certainly had some excitement but thankfully no danger. While things didn’t go as

smoothly as I had hoped, I found childbirth could be as empowering as it was humbling. In my first column I detailed my desire for a homebirth. I had received excellent prenatal care with Jeana, my midwife. Since I’m healthy, a homebirth was a safe option for us, and I adamantly wanted to avoid the hospital scene. I saw the way labor was managed in the hospital, flying in the face of natural childbirth. That said, I did end up going to the hospital, and my birth team grew to include a very skilled, patient labor and delivery nurse, Tracy. I am incredibly grateful to my entire birth team and ended up feeling like I got the best of both the homebirth and hospital worlds, given the circumstances. Anyway, a week after my due date, I figured I would be that anomaly that was pregnant forever. I’d done everything but jump on my neighbor’s trampoline to encourage labor, but nothing worked. Contractions woke me up just after midnight November 20, but I was so sleepy I thought they were signals to go pee. By the third one in short succession, I was really awake and sure it was the real thing: the contractions were too strong to sleep through. continued on page 24

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They were a steady 4-5 minutes apart by 5 a.m. and I’d started having a bloody show so we called Jeana, who was actually leaving another birth, and my mom, who had agreed to help us through the labor and delivery. My mother was the perfect unofficial doula for me. She has a calming presence, she gave birth naturally, and she believed in my birth choices. Perhaps most importantly, she knew intuitively how I was doing through labor and could anticipate my needs without asking. When the sun came up Saturday morning, labor was progressing slowly but surely. We got the house ready for delivery in between contractions. The contractions became longer, stronger and closer together, and I just kept integrating them with steady breaths. Sometimes I would settle in a rocking chair for them, holding my mother’s hand. Sometimes I would lean on whatever furniture was available and someone would rub my back, squeezing my hips on occasion or using one of those funny-shaped massage tools to apply counterpressure. It was wonderful to be at home. It was private and comfortable. As my cervix thinned and opened to seven and eight and nine centimeters, I had to work harder to stay relaxed. Chet was working hard, too. I would hang off his shoulders during a contraction, rocking my pelvis in a sumo-squat and moaning. By early afternoon, I was in transition, otherwise known as the hardest but shortest part of labor right before you get to start pushing. And here’s where we got stuck. Literally. My baby’s head had come down at an angle that was not optimal for moving through my bones. And as he came down, a lip of the cervix was caught between his head and my pubic bone. He was wedged. We tried breaking my water to move him on down. Still stuck. I tried some pushing to move him past the lip. Still stuck. At Jeana’s encouraging I surrendered to the power of the contractions and willed them to come on stronger. Still stuck. I was getting pretty darn tired by 7 p.m. Jeana tried to manually push the cervix back once, and I simply couldn’t handle the pain to let her keep trying. My baby’s heartbeat was strong through all this, but his mama was worn out and a bit dejected. Chet suggested we go to Plan B, i.e. the hospital. I know he was getting uneasy. I was beginning to lose 24

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the will to integrate contractions. Indeed, I would soon start fighting them. No one is supposed to hang out in transition for what would ultimately be 8 hours. So we loaded up and headed to the University of Louisville Hospital. Once there, it was a blur of bright lights, needles and monitors. I had been afraid to come to the hospital because with the baby so stuck and me so tired, the powers that be might insist on a cesarean section. But I was blessed with Tracy, who said she wanted to do everything possible to keep me out of the operating room. She let me labor kneeling against the inclined head of the bed, naked, because I was hot as hell. Jeana, Mom, and Chet were with me the whole time. Once Tracy and the doctors realized I wasn’t progressing, Tracy said I would have to have some Pitocin to increase the strength of my contractions. I knew I couldn’t handle the Pitocin without an epidural. Of course, neither of these was in my birth plan and I knew there were risks with both. But if we didn’t go the Pitocin/epidural route, I was very likely to have a C-section. At midnight I was administered an epidural and finally able to relax and actually sleep a while. I woke up around 4:30 a.m. The room was dark and quiet. Finally, Tracy came back in, and we got ready to work again. I learned later that Tracy had started my Pitocin at 6 units but had to increase it to 30 units to get my baby past the cervix and into the birth canal. Who knows how long that would have taken without the drugs and if we would both be doing well. Surrounded by my birth team I pushed for an hour. At 6:16 a.m. out he came, quickly placed on my chest. My little boy. I cupped his soft bottom and breathed a sigh of awe. I think I was too tired then to cry tears of joy, but I have certainly been overcome by the wonder of it all in the weeks since. Time. I look back at those 30 hours (my midwife’s second-longest labor) and know that my baby had to make his own way into the world. The fog of labor lifted and the swelling subsided. I’ve settled into my role as a new mother, learning a little more about my baby and myself each day. I gaze at my healthy baby and am so thankful that I get to be his mommy. t o d a y ’ s

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Historical Adventures

By Kelly Watkins

in Washington, D.C.

t was about time! During my last two trips to Washington, D.C., my favorite museum had been closed for renovation. When my family started planning a trip to D.C., I was ecstatic. The National Museum of American History was now open. I couldn’t wait to share it with my husband, Ross, and my children, Ethan (11) and Autumn (8). When the day of my much-anticipated visit finally arrived, Autumn was whiny, Ethan was rowdy, Ross was impatient, and I was exhausted. Next time, I’m going by myself. Fortunately, the rest of the trip was much better. We stayed at the most convenient hotel in D.C., L’Enfant Plaza Hotel (www.LenfantPlazaHotel.com or 202.484.1000). It’s only one block from The National Mall, home to the national monuments and the Smithsonian Institution museum complex (http://www.si.edu). L’Enfant hotel sits literally on top of a Metro Stop. The D.C. subway system is fantastic. Ethan quickly learned to navigate it. Autumn said it reminded her of the monorail at Walt Disney World. After spending three days looking at monuments and museums, it was time to experience history firsthand. We drove the short trip to Mount Vernon 26

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(www.MountVernon.org or 703.799.8606). One of the best parts of visiting George Washington’s estate was the tree-lined lane leading to his house. Why? It was 95 degrees outside. Those shade trees were a blessing while we stood in line for an hour to take the tour. I loved the elegance of the home, where I daydreamed about wearing fancy dresses and living in a different time. But there was so much more to explore than just the house. The out buildings showed how the plantation was run. I kept saying to the kids, “Can you imagine what it was like to . . .?” They were engrossed (when they weren’t whining about being hot and thirsty). We continued our historical adventures by driving to Prospect Hill Plantation Inn (www.ProspectHill.com or 800.277.0844) near Charlottesville, Virgina. It’s just a short two hours from D.C. This authentic 18th-century plantation gave us the opportunity to touch and feel history like we weren’t allowed to do at the presidents’ homes. The complex contains all seven of the original outbuildings dating from 1699 to 1850. The Prospect Hill manor house was built in 1732. That’s almost 300 years ago. I must admit it was a bit intimidating to stay in a cabin built in 1796. I was nervous to even walk on the original wide plank wood floor. I cautiously ran my hand over the original whitewashed brick nogging walls. After having visited so many museums, I was t o d a y ’ s

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When I went to Washington, D.C., I heard, “Look at this monument, it’s famous.” Or, “Guess who signed this?” It was a little overwhelming, though I still learned a lot. The thing I remember most is the Washington Monument. It looks pretty big from a distance. But up close, it’s immense! Despite how fast the elevator was, it seemed to take a long time. Once at the top, you could see forever. I hated to go back down. I yearned to be back up there, looking down on all the tall buildings. You don’t have to be in the city of Washington, D.C. to learn about presidents. You can visit their homes. Take Monticello, for example. It’s big, cool, has narrow and steep stairways, was designed by Thomas Jefferson, and contains lots of info. Monticello has three floors but only two rows of windows. Jefferson designed it that way to trick his friends. A picture of Monticello is on the back of the nickel. Prospect Hill? Three words — lots of fun. Why wouldn’t it be with a delicious tasting (and smelling) breakfast and a cool pool? Our cabin was an old slaves’ quarters. For once, Autumn and I got our own room — with snacks. The entire time was a blast. I can’t wait to go back.

expecting a security guard to jump out and start yelling at me. My confession: Amidst all the historical surroundings, I was delighted to discover the comfy king-size bed and whirlpool tub. And, it was delightful to send the kids upstairs to their own private attic room. Family togetherness is wonderful, but it had reached its limits. After a scrumptious, multi-course breakfast, we reluctantly left Prospect Hill for a 15-minute drive to Monticello (www.Monticello.org or 434.984.9826). We were lucky to be one of the first groups to take the “Behind The Scenes” tour. We went upstairs to the private bedrooms and even walked inside the iconic Dome Room on the third floor. Long before the end of the tour, Autumn had reached her limit of “viewing history.” But her interest was renewed when we went to the basement, where there were hands-on activities. This new “Crossroads” exhibition demonstrated daily life at the estate. In fact, one of Thomas Jefferson’s granddaughters called the basement “the bustle and hurry” of life at Monticello. Everywhere we went, I wish we could’ve stayed longer. I guess that’s a sign of a successful vacation. Kelly Watkins helps companies develop leaders and improve their service. Contact Kelly at www. KeepCustomers.com or 812.246.2424. w w w . t o d a y s f a m i l y m a g . c o m

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WHEN Now through May 22 WHERE Louisville Science Center COST $18/adults; $14/children 2-12 CONTACT

~ 502.561.6100 ext. 6111

Operation PARENT: Teens & Drugs: What Parents Need to Know Detective Spegal will be discussing current trends in drug usage among teens, peer pressure, signs of drug usage, and what parents can do to protect their children.

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WHEN February 16 @ 10am-12pm or 6:30-8:30pm WHERE 13029 Middletown Industrial Blvd. COST $10 CONTACT

~ 502.245.7154 or www.operationparent.org

Tuck Everlasting Is eternal life a blessing or a curse? That is what young Winnie Foster must decide when she discovers a spring on her family’s property whose waters grant immortality. Members of the Tuck family, having drunk from the spring, tell Winnie of their experiences watching life go by and never growing older. Now Winnie must decide whether or not to keep the Tucks’ secret — and whether or not to join them on their never-ending journey.

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Sic Semper Tyrannis During this 45-minute live performance, students learn about the life of John Wilkes Booth, one of America’s most infamous and complex personalities, as well as gain a better understanding of America during the mid-1800s. This performance was developed by one of the actors themselves, so this is also a unique opportunity for students to learn firsthand about the play-writing process. Advanced reservations and payment required.

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WHEN March 4 from 2-4pm WHERE Frazier Museum COST $ 9.50/adults; $ 6/children 5-17; free/members and

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~ 1.800.775.7777

Finances for the Family For adults: A six-week financial literacy course. Learn about balancing your budget, savings plan, Bank On, and much more. For middle and high school students: Junior Achievement presents a six-week course called “More than Money.” Topics include starting a bank account, smart spending, and business. For ages 3-11: Creative and educational activities that introduce children to basics such as currency and savings.

~ Thursdays, February 24-March 31 from 6-7pm ~ Farnsley Middle School, 3400 Lees Lane CONTACT ~ 502.448.9799 WHEN WHERE

Alexander, Who’s Not, Not, Not, Not, Not, Not Going to Move Alexander just received some really bad news from his parents...the family is moving. He already knows that he’ll hate it, so he decides that he just won’t move! Based on the popular children’s book series. Parking is free, and the food is kid-friendly.

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WHEN Saturdays, February 26-March 26 WHERE Derby Dinner Playhouse COST $16/breakfast; $21/lunch CONTACT

~ 812.288.8281

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Photos should be sent in high resolution to editorial@todaysfamilymag.com with “calendarphotos” in the subject line. You will need to include your name, phone number, and mailing address. Keep in mind you need to think ahead. If it is an activity that they enjoy in the summer, you will need to send it two months ahead. Go to our website at www.todaysfamilymag.com for more information.

Coppélia A fantastical story ballet about a mysterious toy maker and his life-size creation — a doll named Coppélia. This comic tale revolves around a case of lovesickness, jealous mischief, and mistaken identity. Based on stories by E.T.A. Hoffman (the writer who created The Nutcracker), Coppélia is a fun, lighthearted comedy that will delight the entire family!

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~ 1.800.775.7777

Celebrating Women’s History Month We’ll celebrate both the traditional and not-sotraditional roles of women and girls throughout history with women-centered activities and demonstrations going on throughout the museum.

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WHEN February 18 @ 7pm WHERE The Kentucky Center COST $12.50 CONTACT

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Star Trek: The Exhibition The exhibition features sets, costumes, priceless museum pieces and props from all five Star Trek television series and 11 Star Trek feature films, including the newest blockbuster film. Themes include exploration, health innovation, communication, and space travel. Experience Star Trek as never before—hands-on, live, up-close, and in-person. Explore the worlds, the wisdom, the science, the stories, the cultures, characters, fashions, and the fantasies of the Star Trek universe.

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A girl dances at the Pegasus Parade Preview Party.

The Good. The Bad. The Cuddly: Toys and the Movies In this playful, hands-on exhibit, the widely-recognized Toy Story characters help tell the story of some of America’s most beloved toys, beginning with the early 20th century through present day. The 3,800-square-foot exhibit features over 500 toys from the last 75 years.

~ Now through March 27 ~ Frazier Museum ~* $ 9.50/adults; $ 8/seniors; $ 6/children 5-17 CONTACT ~ 502.753.5663 Win Tickets to “The Good. The Bad. * Guests who bring in a new or gently used toy will receive $2 off The Cuddly.” Exhibit! WHEN WHEN COST

admission for everyone in their party. This toy drive benefits the Home of the Innocents, a nonprofit organization that serves hundreds of children in crisis every day.

Today’s Family is giving away two sets of four tickets to the Frazier Museum’s “The Good, the Bad, and the Cuddly” exhibit. Visit our Facebook page for details on how to enter to win: www.facebook.com/todaysfamily. t o d a y ’ s

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continued from page 34 Operation PARENT: Legally Speaking What happens when teens are arrested? How does the legal system work with the families and teens? What are the legal consequences for sexting and driving under the influence? These are just a few of the questions that will be addressed by Judge Feeley and Attorney Rob Riley.

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Peter and the Wolf Peter and the Wolf famously uses personified instruments to tell the story of young Peter and his animal friends as they outwit the wolf intent on menacing a small Russian village. Introduce your children to Prokofiev’s classic work presented by the Louisville Orchestra. Free preconcert activities begin at 10am.

Steve-o’s Birthday Party Magic Show is a funny, engaging, and amazing 45-minute show that includes music, colorful magic, and plenty of interaction and laughter. Includes “star” treatment for the birthday child and a special gift. (The party must be held indoors and the coupon must be used within 12 months.) To win go to www. todaysfamilymag.com and enter your contact information for this random drawing. Deadline: March 11. PHOTO: JAMIE RHODES

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WHEN March 26 @ 11am WHERE Brown Theatre COST $15 CONTACT

~ 1.800.775.7777

Children’s Tea with the Derby Festival Princesses A third-year event on the Derby Festival schedule is the Children’s Tea with the Derby Festival Princesses. Children are encouraged to dress like a prince or princess for this social event with the members of the Derby Festival’s 2011 Royal Court.

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WHEN April 17 from 1-3pm WHERE The Seelbach COST $ 30/children age 4 and older CONTACT

~ 502.451.1258 or filliestea@gmail.com

Republic Bank Parade Preview Party Parade enthusiasts can sneak a peak of each float in all its splendor, complete with dancing costumed characters. Giant inflatable characters, horses, bands, clowns, and more will join the floats on display for an “inside” view of a parade. Get an autograph or photo of the Derby Festival Queen and Court while they stroll through this indoor “carnival of fun.”

~ May 3 from 9am-1pm (private group tours) & 5-9pm (open to public) WHERE ~ Kentucky Exposition Center, South Wing C COST ~ 2011 Pegasus Pin CONTACT ~ To schedule a private group tour, call WHEN

502.584.6383 x 823 or e-mail ann.kraemer@insightbb.com.

Win Tickets for Tea! Enter to win tickets to the Children’s Tea with the Derby Princesses on April 17 at 1 p.m. All you have to do is enter your name and contact information in a form at www. todaysfamilymag.com by March 10. Today’s Family magazine will be giving away two tickets each to five winners. One set of tickets will be given away to one of our Facebook friends. To become a Facebook friend, go to www. facebook.com/todaysfamily

Who is your Super Hero? To celebrate the Kentucky Derby Festival’s SuperFest, Today’s Family magazine is having a contest. The winners will get a chance to ride in the Republic Bank Derby Festival Pegasus Parade. How to Enter: Write something about a person that is Super to you, someone you look up to and admire. It should be someone you know versus a fictional character or a celebrity or sports star. It should be less than 100 words. How they will be judged: The entries will be judged on how well the entrant describes the person they admire and why they admire them and whether the entry sounds like it is in the child’s own voice.

WIN!!

Ride in the parade with Spiderman!!

Age Groups: 5 winners will be chosen, one in each of the following age categories: 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 Winners will receive: • Photo in Today’s Family April/May issue. • Ride in the Republic Bank Derby Festival Pegasus Parade on a Float with Spider-Man on Thursday, May 5. Deadline: March 10.

You can enter through our website form at www.todaysfamilymag.com or send the entries to Today’s Family magazine, 9750 Ormsby Station Road, Suite 307, Louisville KY 40223. Include the child’s name, child’s age, parent’s name, contact phone number, email address.

Adoption

Adoption Bridges A non-profit adoption agency providing full services for birth parents and adoptive parents. Please visit our website at adoptionbridgesofkentucky.org and see us on Facebook and YouTube. 401 West Main St #1710, (40202) • 502.585.4369 • 1.800.542.5245 • www.adoptionbridgesofkentucky.org • facebook.com/adoptionbridgesofkentucky

Childcare

Community Coordinated Child Care, Inc (4-C) 4-C is the central point of contact for community child care needs and serves as a VOICE FOR CHILDREN and families. Call or visit our website if you are looking for child care, and/or need help in paying for child care. 1215 So. 3rd St., Louisville, KY 40203 • 502.636.1358 www.4Cforkids.org • facebook.com/4CVOICE

Childcare/preschool

St. James Catholic School Come soar above with St. James Elementary and Monsignor Horrigan Pre-School/Pre-K Programs! We encourage and support the development of every child by enhancing a positive self-image through education. 1818 Edenside Avenue • 502.454.0330, Ext. 11 • www.stjamesbluejays.com

CLOTHING

Little Treasures Kid’s Sale Area’s most anticipated kid’s consignment event held every March and August. Parents can earn money on the things their kids have outgrown and save up to 90% on new and delicately used brand name items. For more information about the sale, visit www.littletsale.com 502.541.4446 • www.littletreasuressale.com

Education

Barefoot Books We specialize in multicultural, earth-friendly children’s books that celebrate art, story, imagination, and creativity. Fundraising is available for schools and churches. We have great gifts for classroom birthday parties, special occasions, and showers. 502.509.3336 • www.KidsNeedGreatBooks.com • facebook.com/KidsNeedGreatBooks

EDUCATION/SPECIALTY SCHOOLS

Meredith-Dunn School Meredith-Dunn School is an independent school that offers prescriptive education for students with learning differences in grades 1-8. We help children with learning differences develop academically, socially and emotionally. We value each child as an individual with unique strengths, weaknesses and learning patterns. So, we personalize each child’s instruction and create an environment rich in learning, growing, and confidence-building opportunities. We believe in the potential of all learners. Meredith-Dunn School is recognized as a School of Distinction, by the All Kinds of Minds Institute. Contact us for additional information about our school, tutoring, and diagnostic services. 3023 Melbourne Avenue., Louisville, KY 40220 • 502.456.5819 • www.meredithdunnschool.org

Health/Wellness

Marshall Women’s Health & Education Ctr. Free wellness classes, health risk assessments, pre vention info and education, to navigation and physician referral services. We’re meeting needs of women of all ages–adolescence to menopause. Created to empower women to take charge of their health. Norton Medical Plaza III - Suburban, #108, 4121 Dutch mans Ln. • 502.629.1234 • www.nortonhealthcare.com

Winners will be contacted by March 17.

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F A M I L Y

MAtERnity/BABy

OBStEtRiCS & GynECOLOGy

Babyology Breastfeeding Resource Center & Boutique

Women First of Louisville, PLLC

We rent and sell a full line of breast pumps, maternity/nursing bras 32B to 50L, nursing covers, baby carriers, and a lot of unique mommy/baby gift items. If you need help, we also offer lactation consults by IBCLCs, latch checks, and more. Plus, we offer FREE weight checks and Gift Registry. Classes — Free Mom’s support group, Lamaze, Breastfeeding, Cloth Diapering, Introducing Solids, and many other classes. Complete listing of classes on our website: www.babyology.com. BaBy showers — For facility rental and planning information contact Andrea at andrea@lyricalhands. com or 502.640.9698. Hours M-F 9a-7p & Sat. 9a-6p. 3934 Dutchmans Ln., Louisville, KY 40207 • 502.721.7727 • www.babyology.com

Choose A Gender Have you ever wondered if there was a way to influence the gender of your next child? Choose A Gender, LLC. allows families to do just that. We offer a laboratory procedure that can increase the odds of producing a male or female child at an affordable cost. Our website contains information on our process, other gender selection methods, costs, forms to get started, and contact information to submit any questions you may have about our services. Since gender selection is possible, there is a demand for the service. Some of the reasons for using a gender selection service include: Family Balancing or the process of bringing the number of children of each gender in one family closer to equal. 8814 Linn Station Rd. (40222) • 502.767.1942 • www. chooseagender.com • facebook.com/chooseagender

Clark Memorial Hospital Family Birth Place The Family Birth Place offers expectant parents a personalized birth experience. With spacious labor and delivery suites, in-room waiting areas, and garden tubs, the Family Birth Place has the ambience of a luxury hotel. Providing quality care to mom and baby is of utmost importance, that’s why the Family Birth Place promotes Kangaroo Care, the practice of a mother holding her baby skin-to-skin, and Quiet Time. Clark Memorial is also the only hospital in the area to have two Certified Nurse Midwives on staff and an on-site Breastfeeding Center staffed by a Certified Lactation Consultant. Childbirth Classes – Prepared Childbirth, Lamaze, Breastfeeding, Brothers and Sisters To Be, Infant CPR and Safety, and Doula Night. A complete class schedule is on our website. Breastfeeding Center – Breastfeeding supplies including bras, pads, and pumps for purchase. Breast pump rental, free weight checks for baby, and individual consultations. Hours: 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Monday – Saturday. Phone: 812.283.2901 Clark Memorial Hospital Family Birth Place 1220 Missouri Ave., Jeffersonville, IN 47130 • 812.283.6631 • www.clarkmemorial.org

Norton Women’s Pavilion Norton Women’s Pavilion is here for you, from free prenatal classes to breast-feeding support and everything in between. Because of our specialized services, more expectant parents choose to deliver their babies with us than any other birthing facility in the region. Norton Hospital • 200 E. Chestnut St., 40202 Norton Suburban Hospital • 4001 Dutchmans Ln., 40207 502.629.1234 • www.nortonbaby.com

women taking care of women. At Women First of Louisville, professional women in all stages of life, career and motherhood take care of other women who are balancing the same issues. So we’ve built our medical practice by focusing on women first, in everything we do. We offer comprehensive care for women with many innovative technologies and even surgeries available right in the office. Our services include digital mammography, osteoporosis screening, OB/GYN ultrasounds, genetic and preconception counseling, high risk obstetrics, lactation counseling, urinary incontinence testing /surgery, sterilization, minimally-invasive GYN surgeries, menopause counseling and hormonal therapy management. We make it easy, too, with our on-line patient portal so you can pre-register and schedule appointments, pay your bill on-line, and renew prescriptions — all though our website www.wfoflou.com. We know you take care of a lot. At Women First, we take care of you. Find out more about us on-line or call and set up a new patient appointment. Baptist East Medical Pavilion • 3900 Kresge Way, Suite 30 (40207) • 502.891.8700 • www.wfoflou.com

SUMMER CAMPS

Camp Allegheny Founded in 1922, Camp Alleghany offers three-week summer programs for girls 8-16 in West Virginia’s Alleghany Mountains. Emphasis on character development aims to help campers experience new activities, express themselves and broaden their abilities away from the distractions of technology. Campers wake up each morning with reveille and go to sleep every night with taps. Each camper takes four daily activities, choosing from 11 traditional offerings including archery, drama, canoeing, arts and crafts and other classes. Campers will have the opportunity to master skills, accomplish real goals and succeed in passing set progress levels. During two unstructured periods daily, campers swim, play tennis, write letters and relax. Each session’s fun Blue/Gray Event features friendly competitions in swimming, archery, rifle, canoe, tennis and more. The staff prepares balanced meals, three times a day that include fresh fruit and salad. (And cookies and milk before bedtime!) The camp store is open after dinner for limited sweet snacks and a small soft drink, should a girl wish to partake. Campers live under an honor system, and counselors supervise all activities. E-mail: CampGhany@aol.com • 540.898.4782 • www.campalleghany.com

Camp Palawopec A good old-fashioned fun camp in the hills of Brown County, Indiana. Activities include swimming, mountain biking, canoeing, soccer, basketball, climbing, campfires every night, Indian lore, crafts, horseback riding, archery, etc. Great summer fun in a relaxed outdoor setting. One staff for every three campers. AGES: Ages: 8 – 15 years COST:

$595 for one week, $995 for two weeks, $1395 for three weeks, etc.

DATES: Boys: Three 1-week sessions: June 12 – July 2 Co-ed: Four 1-week sessions: July 3 – July 30 Girls: One 1-week session: July 31 – Aug 6 Nashville, Brown County, Indiana 812.988.2689 www.camppalawopec.com

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The dePaul School The 2011 dePaul School Summer Program (June 13 through July 22) offers academic instruction in an enjoyable setting for students who learn differently. Designed to enhance skills and prevent summer learning loss, our 6-week program is available to students who have completed grades 1-8. Using small classes, highly-trained staff, and researchbased curriculum, The dePaul Summer Program offers a multisensory learning environment to bolster Reading, Math, and Language Arts skills. The “Morning Instruction” segment begins at 9am and concludes at Noon. Students may also enroll in the afternoon “Enrichment Camp,” 1p-4p M-F, participating in science, sports, computer, performing arts and visual arts, with some off-campus trips. For parents needing extended morning hours, our “Early Morning Program” opens at 7:30a. Private and semiprivate tutorial sessions are available for students who have previously enrolled in dePaul. admissions: Admissions testing is required to determine a child’s eligibility. For information about tuition or to schedule a tour, contact The dePaul School Admissions Office at 502.459.6131 or admissions@depaulschool.org. 1925 Duker Avenue, Louisville, KY 40205 • www.depaulschool.org • 502.459.6131

Emerging Artists Group Emerging Artists Group is offering a three week non-residential weekday summer Music Theatre Camp June 7-23, 2011 to culminate in four performances of “Pirates of Penzance” June 24-27, 2011. This camp is for grades 4-12 as well as college internships available. All participants of the camp will have opportunities to participate in acting, singing, costume making, and scenery workshops. Participants of the camp may choose to be cast or crew of the show. Call for price information and discounts are available for two or more students from the same family. A registration fee is due at sign-up. There are six highly trained professionals on staff at Emerging Artists Group. We provide private voice, piano and acting lessons year round and openings are available now. Please contact us for more information or to sign-up. Emerging Artists Group is located in the Lyndon area of Louisville. 8015 Catherine Lane, Suite 1, Louisville, KY 40222 • E-mail: emergingartistsgroup@hotmail.com • 502.322.7361 • www.emergingartistsgroup.org

Encore! Youth Theatre Encore! Youth Theatre has two camp styles — a performing arts camp for students who want to perform in a musical and a visual arts camp for students interested in behind the scenes work. Without designers, actors would be walking on a bare stage, without costumes, and in the dark! The visual artists will spend their mornings in learning new techniques and skills in art classes. In the afternoon they’ll use what they’ve learned to design the costumes and sets for the show. Daily they will participate in a dance, music, or drama class. Each camp session is one week long and ends with an exhibition of their work. Get ready to put on a show! Students in the performing arts camp will spend their mornings at dance, drama, and music lessons. They’ll learn character development, dance technique, and music skills in a fun and exciting way. Their afternoons will be spent rehearsing for a musical. The actors will also participate in visual arts workshops to learn about set and costume design. Camp sessions are two weeks long and end with a musical theatre performance. Cost: $140-$330; Ages: 4-17. Springdale Presbyterian Church • 7812 Brownsboro Rd., Louisville, KY 40241 • 917.608.3420 • www.encoreyouththeatre.org

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Frazier International History Museum

Louisville Science Center

YMCA

Fascinating stories come to life at Frazier History Museum Summer Camp! Children engage in an array of fun, multi-sensory experiences and activities, including daily excursions into the galleries, hands-on investigation of museum objects, creative arts & crafts and lively interactions with our costumed cast of historical performers. Children ages 6 to 12 (rising 1st through 6th graders) explore over 1,000 years of history via multiple weeklong and day camps offered in June, July and August. Camp sessions are from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. We also offer an extended care option until 5:30 p.m. All camps are led by museum education professionals. Parents receive a daily newsletter. Pick-up and drop-off are easy with parking passes for our adjacent lot. Camp size is limited to 15 children, so early registration is recommended. Visit www.fraziermuseum.org for more information, or call 502.753.5663 to register today!

Louisville Science Center School’s Out Science Camps: June 6 – August 12. When school’s out, science camp is in! With new camp themes each week, your little scientist will never get bored. Whether it’s learning to engineer with LEGOs, concocting magical mixtures in Potter’s Potions, or taking on the science behind ancient Castles & Catapults, the summer will be full of wonder and curiosity when you register for School’s Out Science Camp. Half day camps available for grades Pre-K – K, full day camps available for grades K – 8. Visit LouisvilleScience.org/events for program descriptions, dates, and to register, or call 502.561.6100, ext. 6111. • Full Day: $175/week Members, $200/week Non-Members • Half Day: $90/week Members, $105/week Non-Members • 6th-8th grade camps: $275/week Members, $300/week Non-Members Buy early and save! Purchase your camp by April 15, 2011 for these discounted prices: • Full Day: $160/week Members, $175/week Non-Members • Half Day: $75/week Members, $90/week Non-Members

A world of discovery awaits children at YMCA day camps so give your child the chance to play, to learn and to grow as a person at the Y this summer! No one creates a camp experience like the Y where activities include swimming, arts and crafts, sports, field trips, literacy initiatives and more! Campers have fun while making new friends, building self-confidence and becoming more self-reliant! Choose from over 40 locations in Jefferson, Bullitt, and Oldham counties. Visit us at ymcalouisville.org for more details and to register, or call 502.587.9622. At the Y, we make sure that all children have the opportunity to learn, grow and thrive; ask us about our affordable program rates for everyone!

829 W. Main Street, Louisville, KY 40202 • 502.753.5663 • www.fraziermuseum.org

727 West Main St., Louisville, KY 40202 • 502.561.6100 X 6111 • 800.591.2203 • www.louisvillescience.org/ events • Facebook.com/louisvillesciencecenter

Jewish Community of Louisville

Louisville Zoo

Experience the magic of JCC Summer Camp with something for every child. JCC Summer Camp offers traditional camp for kids 16 months through 6th grade with arts ’n’ crafts, sports, free swim, swim lessons and more! Children 3 and 4 years old receive swim lessons three times a week and children in Kindergarten through 3rd grade receive swim lessons daily. Specialty camps are also offered which include: Football, Soccer, Theatre, Dance, Horseback Riding, Lego, Circus and more. All specialty camps swim once a day. Also, Middle School students have their own camps which include: Community Service, Out ’N’ About and Adventure. Beautiful campus with two outdoor pools, baseball and soccer fields, basketball and tennis courts, as well as indoor gymnasiums, auditorium and more! Call for brochure and information. 3600 Dutchmans Lane, Louisville, KY 40205 • 502.451.8840 • www.jewishlouisville.org/camp

Louisville Ballet Louisville Ballet School offers kids a chance to make new friends while exploring all the wonders that dance has to offer. Summer dance programs are designed to be fun-filled days full of creativity and physical activity for children ages 3 -16. Children will also get the opportunity to continue developing their coordination, musicality and teamwork skills. The tools and awareness gained from participation in dance as a child builds invaluable skills that they can carry throughout life. Sessions fill up rapidly, so register early to reserve your child’s place! For more information, visit the www.louisvilleballet.org/danceschool or call (502) 583-3150 x245. Mark your calendar for our Summer Dance Program Open House on April 23rd from 1 - 4 p.m. at the St. Matthews studios (4121 Shelbyville Rd.)! 315 E. Main Street • Louisville, KY 40202 • 502.583.3150 • www.louisvilleballet.org • facebook.com/louisville ballet school

Week-long sessions from June 6 through Aug. 8 Safari Day Camps and Teen Camps at the Louisville Zoo provide wild summer learning adventures for kids age 6 – 15. Kids are naturally curious about their world and the Zoo’s “hands-on, minds-on” camps provide opportunities for campers to experience and explore that amazing world and the animals and plants that populate it. These science-based programs encourage children to investigate, apply thinking skills and relate what they are learning to their own experiences. Sessions include observation and inquiry, arts and crafts, games, activities, animal contact and more! Programs are designed for the specific developmental needs of children so campers are placed in groups with others of the same age. A variety of full day and half day options are available. Summer programs are also available for pre-school age children. Register online at louisvillezoo.org. Safari Day Camp Cost: Half Day: Regular $125; Members $110 Full Day: Regular $195; Members $180 Full Day (4-Days/4th of July week): $160; Members $145 Teen Safari Cost: Regular $195; Member $180 1100 Trevilian Way, Louisville, KY 40213 • 502.459.2181 • www.louisvillezoo.org • www.facebook.com/pages/Louisville-Zoo/57523587007

Several Kentuckiana locations 502.587.9622 • www.ymcalouisville.org

YMCA - Camp Carson Don’t miss out on the summer of a lifetime! With campers and staff from over 25 different states and 7 countries, and an endless list of activities to take part in, it’s not hard to see why we were voted Best Regional Resident Camp. Camp Carson offers horseback, dirt bikes, archery, canoeing, sailing, swimming, kayaking, pottery, crafts, archery, marksmanship, climbing, mountain boards and bikes, rhythm drums, fly-fishing, woodworking and more! Located just 1-3/4 hours west of Louisville, Camp Carson offers co-ed programs for campers aged 7 to 16. Christian emphasis based on YMCA core values – Faith, Caring, Honesty, Respect, and Responsibility. ACA accredited. Call for brochure and information DVD. See our ad on page 35. 1-3/4 hours west of Louisville 812.385.3597 • www.campcarson.org

Meredith-Dunn School

YMCA - Camp Piomingo

For over 40 years, Meredith-Dunn School has provided excellent educational support for children. Our program offers basic reinforcement in all academic areas. The program is designed for children completing grades K-7 and is available to students who do not attend Meredith-Dunn during the school year. Meredith-Dunn’s summer offerings are: Summer School – a four week program offering 66.5 hours of instruction with a written report at session’s end. This 4-week session meets each morning 8:30 to noon; One-to-One Tutoring which provides remediation in the student’s areas of difficulty; and Middle School Workshops which help students develop a better understanding of strategies for learning and how to apply them in the classroom. Workshops meet 11:00 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. daily, for two weeks. Costs: Summer School – $800/4-week session, 3-1/5 hours daily; Tutoring – $45/hour, $25 registration fee; Middle School Workshops – $200/2-week session, 1-1/5 hours daily, $25 registration fee. Call 502.456.5819 for more information. Note: Meeting dates will be announced.

Camp Piomingo’s coed camp for kids ages 6-16 is the summer experience that builds self-esteem, promotes friendship, develops interpersonal and leadership skills, and instills in your child an appreciation of nature … all in a safe, fun and nurturing environment. Living in a rustic setting, campers share unique adventures and have many opportunities to grow on the inside … by being outside. We offer a variety of overnight camps from June 5 - July 29. Our programs help kids develop the skills and relationships they need to be healthy, confident and connected to others. Check out some of the fun like high ropes, zip line, horseback riding, and our new aquatic facility at ymcacamppiomingo.org.and register online to reserve your bunk today! You can also find us on facebook at facebook. com/camppiomingo or speak with us directly at 1-800-411-5822.

3023 Melbourne Avenue., Louisville, KY 40220 • 502.456.5819 • www.meredithdunnschool.org

800.411.5822 • www.camppiomingo.org • facebook.com/camppiomingo

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By Carrie Vittitoe • Photos by Melissa Donald Do you know a playgroup we should feature? If so, send an email to elaine@todayspublications.com. Put “playgroup” in the subject line.

INSIDE THE Who they are: Six “all-boy”

Playgroup The Doodlebugs

boys, one girl who tolerates their shenanigans, one girl who usually enters the fray with them, and the moms who try to keep the peace and sneak in some “adult” conversation.

Hannah Skarbo, Kean Taylor, Mason Zirkle, Gavin Scott, George Kudmani, Brody Pontrich, Zoe Boucher, and Graeme Langford

How they met: Through the

When they meet: Tuesday or

Friday mornings at 9:30 a.m. on a rotating schedule.

Where they meet: Usually

at each others’ homes, but occasionally at Kazoing, Kentucky Gymnastics Academy, or All About Kids.

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Louisville East chapter of The MOMS Club.

What the children like most:

Trucks, diggers, trains. If it has wheels, it’s a big hit.

What they like almost as much as vehicles: Eating everyone else’s snacks but their own.

How they spend a good portion of their playdates: On hands/knees pushing cars or making endless circles around a train table.

Most dangerous plaything: A pool

table, topside and underneath. It served simultaneously as a place to roll pool balls by little hands, a bridge for crawling beneath and a stage for standing upon (that part only lasted a minute before moms intervened!)

Most exasperating/rewarding for the moms: Seeing the progression from

complete caveman behavior to civil interaction over the course of time. t o d a y ’ s

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