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Hi, I’m Jessica, and I have a hard time asking for help, or admitting I need help. Like an addict taking their first step toward recovery, I am admitting one of my biggest flaws.

Before having kids, I thought I knew what the hardest parts of motherhood would be: the lack of sleep, the trying threes, a slight loss of identity – just to name a few.

I had a pretty good idea what to expect after having two sons, I have two younger brothers after all. I told myself that it would get challenging while reminding myself that I could handle it all. And guess what happened? Somewhere along the way, I fell into a pattern of bone-tired martyrdom.

You asked for this, rang constantly in my ears. Maybe it was the years of infertility struggles that not so silently whispered, “You prayed for this. Handle it,” that programed me not to ask for help. Or, maybe it was the recollection of my own childhood… Mom, you made it look so easy.

Whatever the reason, my stubborn head wouldn’t shut up despite plenty of women in my life constantly offering help.

Then, one day, I wasn’t given the option to say no.

“I’m picking L up from school today,” said my mother-in-law via text, knowing I was at the end of my rope as illness after illness, virus after virus raged its way through my house.

“OK, that would be a huge help,” I replied, as I stared at the watery mess washing machine mishap that broke the camel’s back.

“Good girl. Not a weakness. It’s what family does.”

Having my mother-in-law pick up my son that day helped. Not to mention, it was exciting for my son to see his grandma at pick-up rather than his frazzled mom.

As a fulfilled mother-in-law and a smiley son entered my house that day, I had a realization. Some people are born helpers and they thrive off the feeling they get when they do get to help. Who am I to take away their joy?

Since that day, I’ve not only accepted help, but I’ve asked for it. It’s vindicating and freeing.

Here’s your reminder that relying on someone else is not a weakness. By showing someone you need them, you are respecting yourself more.

Respectfully yours,

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‘WRAPPING’ THE COMMUNITY TOGETHER Bergen’s Promise Connects Local Youth to Growth-Focused Services

By Brianna ruBaCk

When Dean Pastras met with a teenage boy who graduated from long-term psychiatric care, he asked him to draw how he felt when thinking about Bergen’s Promise, a Hackensack-based organization committed to providing care management services to local youth. The teenager drew a picture of a child holding the hand of a headless adult.

“I asked him, ‘How come you didn’t draw the rest of the adult? Why is there no head on the adult?’” Pastras said. “And [the teenager] said, ‘Because it could have been anybody here that helped me.’”

This illustration ultimately became the logo of Bergen’s Promise, which was founded by Pastras, the organization’s CEO, in 2002. The 501(c)(3) non-profit is committed to supporting the needs of youth between the ages of five and 21 who have mental, emotional, and behavioral health challenges, substance abuse issues, and developmental and intellectual disabilities.

What started out as a team of 32 staff members providing services to 160 youth has transformed into a 150-employee organization serving approximately 1,700 young people in the community. Additionally, services are free of charge without regard to income, insurance or immigration status.

As Bergen County’s designated Care Management Organization (CMO), the non-profit’s key differentiator is its “Wraparound” approach to care. This model is rooted in building a comprehensive team around a child and their family by “wrapping” together both professional service providers and natural supports, such as family, friends, clergy, or community members. As highlighted on its website, the nonprofit’s goal is to keep “Healthy Families, Safe at Home.”

One way Bergen’s Promise carries out its mission is by being what Kathy Werheim, the organization’s director of Community Resources, refers to as “the Oz behind the curtain” of BergenResourceNet.org.

This website serves as a centralized resource directory designed to connect Bergen County families to local resources, such as programs, events and activities.

However, like countless businesses and organizations over the last two years, Bergen’s Promise has encountered increasingly more challenges. Since last May, the non-profit has seen an uptick in its population, noting higher rates of intellectual and developmental disabilities, as well as various mental health challenges, such as anxiety, depression, suicide ideation and disordered eating.

On top of this, the Bergen’s Promise staff has noticed more youth experiencing several of these issues at once, with Jan Schlaier, the organization’s director of Health Services, describing this problem as a “blending” of health conditions brought on by the pandemic.

“…That is very tough for children and young adults because they’re looking at their future, and they’re saying, ‘What’s around the corner?’– and there [are] shadows,” Pastras said.

With community services continuing to deplete and other organizations struggling to stay afloat, Pastras said Bergen’s Promise has become the go-to resource. However, it still needs a larger staff to accommodate its rising caseload.

In addition to raising awareness about its services by seeking out partnerships with local businesses, corporations, and school districts, the non-profit looks to present at universities where it can attract potential employees seeking careers in fields like social work, psychology, sociology, public health and criminal justice.

“We see that mental health piece…and then we’re also seeing that coupled with the physical part,” she said. “We’re seeing children that were not out exercising, were not out walking, were eating junk food or had felt they had no control and were then controlling their food, so they’ve become more restrictive in their eating.”

Pastras added that despite the decreasing number of COVID-related deaths and the rollout of vaccines, there’s still ongoing “malaise” among individuals.

“We always like to branch out and establish partnerships like that with universities to help prepare the up-and-coming social workers and counselors,” Werheim said.

Shelisa Foster, the organization’s chief operating officer, echoed a similar sentiment. She highlighted how Bergen’s Promise employees who were simultaneously in graduate programs have reported that their work experience at the organization directly related back to their education.

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The Bergen’s Promise Team

“To be able to add that connection and have their experiences be so diverse and so experiential really kind of prepares them for a lot of different career trajectories that they might be interested in,” Foster said.

Altogether it took Heidi, who works as a retail merchandise buyer for Burlington Stores, about a year to complete the book.

Spencer, who is now in remission, is a graduate of the University of Maryland and works as an associate buyer for a clothing store, was fully supportive of her mother’s effort to share her story, Heidi said.

Those who are interested in working for Bergen’s Promise may call the organization at (201) 712-1170 or visit the career page at www.bergenspromise.org/ careers.

“I hope other families find comfort in this book,” said Heidi. “It’s what’s inside that really matters.”

Since its release, Heidi has donated copies to several non-profits that work to help children facing hair loss while battling cancer, including Coming Up Rosies, Sunrise Day Camp and Cohen’s Children’s Medical Center.

“Whoever’s out there that feels that we can help them come in and do this job – and help us to do the job – that would be a great service to the community,” Pastras said.

It has also received the endorsement of several medical professionals for its uplifting message.

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“Cancer treatment, especially chemotherapy and radiation, has a profound effect on each patient’s body image and no side effect has a more noticeable effect on how a patient looks than hair loss,” said Dr. David Loeb, Chief of the Pediatrics Division of Pediatric Hematology/Oncology at Montefiore Medical Center in the Bronx.

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The Bendix Diner

A PIECE OF HISTORY AND POP CULTURE

By eMily r. Condon

At the Bendix Diner on Route 17 in Hasbrouck Heights, operations are seen a bit differently than other diners in the county. At the diner owned by Eva Diakakis, her 54-year-old son, John Diakakis, runs the show while being blind.

“I think even I’m a little bit amazed at my capabilities of what I was able to do. And all these years I never spilled not one cup of coffee on anyone. A little water here and there,” John said.

The Diakakis family had owned the Bendix since

the mid-1980s. The diner has stood in the same condition and location since 1945 with two different owners before Eva and her husband. Now, John runs the diner with his three sons Tony, Dimitri and Michael, head cook Julio Karino and his mother.

The three boys fit their lives around helping out at the diner. Tony graduated Harvard in May with a degree in economics; Dimitri attends the Culinary Institute of America; and Michael, who graduated Hasbrouck Heights High School in June and now attends Rider University.

“Before I started working in the daytime, Tony and I would work overnight, even on Fridays and Saturdays. So, Tony in high school would get up at 6/6:30 in the morning and wouldn’t get home until 6 o’clock the following Saturday morning from basically helping his dad out,” John said.

Some of the Bendix’s popular items include pancakes in a variety of flavors, reubens, grilled chicken sandwiches, gyros, hamburgers, cheesesteaks, chicken paninis, grilled chicken cobb salad and grilled chicken Greek salad.

John relies on his spatial memory in the diner. He explained that when he started helping out his parents when he was in high school and on breaks between semesters from Ithaca College, the most he did was ring people up. When he took up weekend shifts to get a few extra bucks, other staff members thought they could poke fun at him being blind, he explained.

“One or two waitresses decided, ‘Let’s stick it to the family and leave John by himself and watch him self-destruct.’ And actually the opposite happened.

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I kind of thrived with my spacial memory and everything like that waiting on tables,” John said.

John, who now completes numerous managerial tasks, still considers his title to be a waiter, though, only taking that salary. His approach to customer service is humor.

“That’s how I feel in every situation that if someone comes in and you make them kind of smile or chuckle that you now have them. And then it’s up to the cooks to make the food taste good and go from there,” John said.

Valerie Levy and James Chirillo, a married couple from Teaneck, have been dining at the Bendix for between 15 and 20 years. Chirillo explained that the Bendix is a “flash from the past” where he enjoys Greek omelet. Levy shared that she enjoys that family feeling present and the fact that the diner is family run.

“It’s a nice place to bring people if they’re from out of town and they’ve never seen a real New Jersey diner. Because it is. It’s a piece of history,” Levy said.

The diner, which has been featured in numerous movies including “Jersey Girl” (1992) and “Caged” (2006), according to IMDb. The diner has recently made its name known in pop culture as well. The Bleachers, a Grammy Award winning American rock band, filmed a music video for “Stop Making This Hurt,” uploaded in May 2021 at the Bendix. In January 2020, Singer Nicole Bus also uploaded her music video “Rain,” also filmed at the Bendix. John also shared in May 2021 that the diner was used as a backdrop in filming for the Sopranos sequel as well.

The 2022 New Jersey International Film Festival in June featured two documentaries on the Diakakis family at the Bendix. In “Bendix: Sight Unseen,” Director Anthony Scalia depicts the life of single-father John Diakakis and his three sons running the diner. “Bacon ‘N’ Laces,” by Director Stephen Michael Simon, featured a similar story on John’s struggles operating the diner and raising the three boys while being blind.

Part of what keeps that Bendix so iconic may be that it still stands in its original condition. John explained that the diner does well enough to pay a few salaries and the necessary bills, but that it never seemed to generate enough revenue to renovate the structure. He explained that there is a consistent business among Teterboro pilots, families and transient customers.

“I think it’s just something we [Eva and John] are accustomed to. I don’t think there’s been a lot of money that this place has generated through the years. You wouldn’t think that. It’s on Route 17. It’s an old place, old diner,” John said.

John shared that down the road, he is unsure what will happen to the diner. His son Tony is moving to Boston to begin working in a stockbroker agency and Dimitri seems more concerned with baking and cooking than managing. Michael, however, seems the most invested in the diner, according to John. Still, he is unsure if Michael’s first semester at college and away from the diner will change that. He shared that if a franchise came with a good offer to rent the space, he would advise her to give up the space.

Still, for customers like Chirillo, hope for the Bendix to preserve itself remains.

“It’s very comfortable. A lot of the newer ones [diners] you’ve got the bright lighting and everything looks like it’s barely been used. This has been here for a while. I hope it will continue to be here for a long while,” Chirillo said.

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Mom First, Author Second

Melissa Finkelstein Releases Children’s Book

Focused on Empathy, Coping and Kindness

By kevin CzerWinski

Melissa Finkelstein has always dreamt of writing children’s books. It took some time, however, for the dreams to coincide with the inspiration and the opportunity.

It wasn’t until the Woodcliff Lake resident got married and had three children, all with different per-

sonalities, struggles and needs, that the perfect storm brought the three factors together. Finkelstein, 36, recently published her first children’s book, Picky the Panda and the Tickly Tail, which is a story that teaches lessons about empathy, coping and kindness to young children.

The book, which is one of three she has written [the other two have yet to be published], was inspired by her 4-year-old daughter Skylar, who has sensory processing disorder. The neurological condition hamper’s the body’s ability to receive messages from the five senses thus making it difficult to turn those messages into appropriate motor and behavioral responses. The condition can be overwhelming at times, especially for a young child.

“She’s struggled with it since birth,” Finkelstein said.

“When she was a baby, she was pretty fussy and challenging because, as we now know, she was uncomfortable. She was diagnosed as a 1-year-old and we have learned quite a bit since then about how to cope and support her.

“Being highly sensitive, as both Skylar and I are, brings with it some struggles and difficulties but it also allows her to shine and that’s one of the book’s main messages. Embrace your sensitivity. It [the sensitivity] may make you seem fragile or weak at times but it’s really your superpower, allowing you to empathize, think deeply and open your heart to others.”

Finkelstein explained that Skylar is very sensitive to touch and doesn’t like things that are “slimy, sticky or icky.” Her response to such conditions can result in pain or extreme discomfort.

Picky the Panda, who is based on Skylar, finds herself in similar situations in the book. The love and support Picky is shown, though, is meant to serve as a lesson for both children and adults that some folks may not have it as easy as others, but they are no less special or deserving of support.

The book, which was recently released, is available on Amazon and is also available at Bookends Bookstore in Ridgewood, Ave

Lumi in Tenafly and at My Gym in Glen Rock. Expect at least two more books to follow – Bobby the Snake and the Broken TV, which was inspired by Finkelstein’s 7-year-old son Myles, and Squeaky Kiki, which was inspired by Skylar’s twin sister, Kayla.

Finkelstein said the background, research and brainstorming, “the thinking part,” can take a very long time when putting a book like these together. She said Bobby the Snake was an idea three years in the making. However, the physical part of writing the book comes much quicker to Finkelstein, who typically writes the first draft in just a couple of days.

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“Everything has to be perfectly marinated,” she said.

“There is a lot of thinking in the shower and in the car and waking up in the middle of the night when the lightbulb goes off. You ponder it all and when everything is perfectly aligned, I like to get it all out onto the page quickly.”

That Finkelstein, who is a Florida native, can be so prolific shouldn’t come as much of a surprise. She has been writing poetry since she was a youngster and has a custom poetry business, Designer Rhymes. She also writes daily nursery rhymes for her children and honed her skills for years writing litigation briefs while working as a lawyer. She is not currently practicing.

“I’m not practicing law, but I am still barred and current on my credentials,” Finkelstein said. “I don’t want to litigate right now, though. I’m really focused on this creative outlet. My favorite part about being a lawyer is writing and I’m excited to do that in more of a creative, joyful and whimsical way during this next chapter.”

That creativity is clearly evident in each of her books. Finkelstein said that she wanted to share a message about each of her children that “captures the essence of who they are” while focusing on one part of their personality. The intent is to make the story relatable to other children so that they can feel supported and not alone.

“One of the biggest parts of Skylar’s personality is her heightened sensitivity,” Finkelstein said. “She loves the book and is really proud. My other two children want to know when their books are coming out. That will be soon. Count on Skylar, though, to make her way to the front of the line.”

Finkelstein said the book about her son was going to come out first but when she found the right illustrator [Catarina Neto] for Picky, she decided to go back to the beginning and retool the other books. Each of the books, as well as future books, will see some crossover in characters.

“Bobby the Snake and Squeaky Kiki character each appear in Picky the Panda and the Tickly Tail,” Finkelstein said.

“The main message in Bobby the Snake is to get off the [TV, iPad and computer] screens and get outside. It’s the story of a snake who wakes up cranky and wants to watch TV all day, but to his dismay, the TV is broken. Once his parents convince him to play outside, he has a wonderful day and recognizes that movement and nature can reinvigorate us.

“Squeaky Kiki is a book whose main theme is about advocating for oneself. Kayla, or as we call her Kiki, is very mild-mannered and easy going. She tends to go with the flow, whether it’s with family or classmates. So, her book is about her finally learning to stand up for herself and her needs, which by the way she has done beautifully.”

Finkelstein said that she learned the process of writing, editing and publishing her own book by doing as much research as she possibly could and seeking out others who have done this before and even those who haven’t but whose opinions she trusts.

“I’ve done it by listening to my gut,” she said. “I’m grinding and doing the best I can.”

Picky the Panda, Bobby the Snake and Squeaky Kiki should be proud.

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Hackensack University Medical Center’s New Helena Theurer Pavilion

Photograph by Jonathan Hillyer

With the opening of its new 530,000-square-foot Helena Theurer Pavilion, Hackensack University Medical Center is raising the bar on patient care in the New York metropolitan area. From the facility’s staff spaces and operating rooms to all-private patient rooms and public spaces, every detail of this “smart hospital” has been optimized to include the latest technology and deliver an outstanding patient experience.

Six of the Pavilion’s operating rooms are specially designed to accommodate robotic-assisted surgery systems, allowing nationally and internationally recognized surgeons to perform minimally invasive procedures that may reduce recovery time and improve outcomes. The Pavilion also includes New Jersey’s first intraoperative MRI system — allowing for neurosurgical and neuro-interventional procedures to accurately remove tumors and treat conditions such as Parkinson’s disease, epilepsy and more.

After surgery, patients will stay in private rooms with floor-to-ceiling windows and views of the surrounding skyline. Each patient room includes an in-room, flat-screen monitor equipped with video-chat capabilities to help patients stay connected with their loved ones during their stay and a bedside tablet to control the lights, shades, television and room temperature.

A dedicated CT scanner in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU) improves safety and efficiency for critically ill patients, who will no longer need to be transported outside the ICU for frequent imaging scans. Other innovative features allow nurses to restock supplies and manage IVs and monitors from outside patient rooms, reducing sleep disruptions and enhancing privacy.

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Further, the Pavilion is equipped to meet the community’s needs in the event of a future pandemic or public health emergency. The entire Pavilion can be converted to a negative-pressure facility, which reduces the risk of in-hospital transmission of airborne infectious illnesses such as COVID-19, tuberculosis or measles.

“The Helena Theurer Pavilion will provide our communities with a world-class facility to receive worldclass care from the world-class team of physicians and nurses at Hackensack University Medical Center,” said Mark Sparta, FACHE, president, Northern Region, and president and chief hospital executive, Hackensack University Medical Center.

Cozy Chic

Embrace Your Inner Snow Queen

By soneCa guarada

On cold, dark mornings it can be tempting to throw on whatever you can lay your hands on. However, there is no reason to sacrifice style in order stay cozy and warm, especially on a cold winter day.

Most of us will be going in and out doors from weekend activities, to running errands, heading to meetings and going to events when it’s cold outside. So, it’s important to find a balance on how to look chic and stylish while staying warm.

Here are some fashion tips to look cozy chic that will allow you to embrace your inner snow queen and become a winter fashionista.

It’s About the Layers

Dressing for cold weather is all about your layers. Contrary to popular belief, however, big and cozy layers do not equal warmth.

Base layers should be thin and fitted to trap warm air closer to your body. Ideally, these layers are made of a natural, breathable fiber like Merino Wool. Uniqlo makes my favorite base layers. I wear them when playing outdoor sports as well as under all my clothes during the winter. Uniqlo is also incredibly conscious about their environmental impact and sustainability sourcing.

Secondary layers should also be on the thin side and fitted. This continues to trap heat close to the body. Then you can add a third more bulky layer (bring on the chunky sweater).

Silk base layers are also an excellent source of heat without adding bulk, as well as the combination of bodysuit and tights.

Soneca Guadara is a personal fashion stylist who helps women feel beautiful and confident. Soneca works with clients to unlock their true self through style. When Soneca is not thinking about fashion, chances are she is planning her next trip. Soneca loves to travel and is all about creating memories and having experiences that last a lifetime. She also loves to spend time with her family and friends and sipping coffee on her veranda enjoying the little things life has to offer. For more tips then go to www.stylebysoneca.com to download her “Must Have Wardrobe Checklist” or follow her on Instagram @styledbysoneca.

Try adding color and print to your base layers to create a more interesting look if you like bolder outfits.

Let Your Boots Steal the Show

Great winter style really boils down to a good pair of boots. Got a fab pair of over-the-knee beauties? Show them off by pairing them with short dress and patterned tights. Have killer ankle boots that the world deserves to see? Style them with cuffed jeans and a chunky knit.

While you will need a few practical pairs for winter, make sure you have at least one fun pair of boots in your wardrobe. If you need a happy medium, go for the winter white, which is understated, but far more exciting than basic black.

Make a Statement

Regardless of what is on the agenda, a good winter coat will elevate your outfit. I suggest wearing one that is a wool blend. Want something that really looks cozy? Opt for the classic - a teddy bear. The sophisticated long line is perfect for teaming up with a maxi dress and looks divine with pants and a sweater.

Want to up the game? There aren’t many redeeming factors about living through really cold weather fashion-wise, but it is the only time during the year that you can wear fur (faux, of course).

Essential Accessories

Your first instinct in the winter may be to splurge on a pair of boots or a coat, but I’m here to advise you that your finishing touches are non-negotiable. They can add color and texture to a look, and they will also be crucial for braving the elements. So, first off, your hat is a major wardrobe accessory for the winter months.

I suggest hunting high and low for the winter hat of your dreams. You’re going to be wearing that thing for a solid two months from here on out (not to mention it’ll be the first thing people will notice about you) so it should be something you love.

Trendy bucket hats have been in for a while now, but if you’re looking for something you’ll wear yearafter-year, a classic winter beanie will never fail you.

My personal favorite type of beanie is one that has some form of a cashmere blend.

Practical, yet a necessity if you want to keep warm from the cold elements but look chic and stylish are pretty scarves. Scarves in bright pops of color will instantly lift and add to your winter color palette. Wear them knotted loosely over a coat. And, finally, for a little evening glamour add a pair of leather gloves that are ultra-sophisticated and fully lined in silk. They’ll feel like an indulgent treat for cold hands.

Styling Tips and Hacks

Here are some ways I add to and accessorize my cold weather outfits to stay chic.

• Swap out dangly earrings for statement studs to avoid getting caught in bulky turtlenecks and scarves.

• Roll up sleeves and show off those base layers!

• Tuck your pants into your boots instead of cuffing them for added warmth and a polished look.

• Swap out normal booties or clunky winter boots for a combination style/winter boot. Uggs are great to stay warm and chic.

• Add socks. They’ll keep you warm, and they are super chic when they’re in a complementary color or print to your outfit. Wear your socks peeking out over your boots for a sweet chalet chic look!

• In addition to mitts and hats, a blanket scarf has additional use because it can be worn as a shawl both over your coat (a very chic look) as well as over your outfit if you are indoors and still cold.

• Fully tuck in light or medium shirts and sweaters. More fabric closer to the body, the warmer you are.

• Center tuck chunky sweaters into your pants to create some shape versus bulk.

•Choose heftier belts to balance the volume in chunky sweaters. I find thin belts look awkward when paired with bulk.

• Wear over-the-knee boots underneath wider trousers and skirts for an added layer and chic texture.

Pony Power Therapies

Pony Power Therapies held their, “A Farm to Stable Affair” honoring Lindsey Inserra. For more information visit: www.ponypowernj.org

Lindsey Inserra, Hannah Sullivan Caren and Mark Quinerly

Frank Siclari, Marie Inserra

Kyle Dupont, Rich Chamberlain, Inez Inserra

Alex and Jim Dorey, Rich Chamberlain, Pat Sullivan

Don and Susan Persico, Inez and Larry Inserra

Frank Meli, Terry Allerton, Lisa Meli

Derek and Jill Smith

Colleen D’Angiolillo, Allison Linaris

Anne Corbett, Megan Weinman, Lindsey and Bonnie Inserra

Ali Kawalec, Bobbie Gollan, Jenny Checkley

Eva Kohn, Michael Colella

Laura Inserra, Pat and Hannah Sullivan, Jennifer Stampone

Troy DePillis, Toni Ann Pierro, Cathy Allerton, JT Cardillo, Catherine and Scott Yales, Banc Pero

Doug and Danielle San Giacomo, Brittany Steele, Jim Travisano

Lawrence Inserra, Kyle Dupont, Mary and Ron Onorato

Checked Out

The holidays are behind us, and the cold has crept in. It’s time to get out of here! Grab the kids and head to the destination of your dreams. With help from the team at Marcia’s Attic For Kids in Englewood, the little ones will be looking perfect for all the family photos!

Joseph M. Sanzari Charity Motorcycle Run

The Joseph M. Sanzari Charity Motorcycle Run and Raffle was held at Ross Dock. For more information, visit www.hackensackmeridianhealth.org.

Jerry Iannone, Vinny Civitello, Alex Kaplan, John Salemme

Jo Ann and Karen Sanzari, Shannon Wong, Ilona Doviak

Randy McDonald, Lou Ragusa, Joe Sanzari, Tom Dunay

Lori Rubino, Joe Sanzari

Joseph Jr. and Joseph Sanzari, Lori Rubino, Lisa, Mia and Joseph III Sanzari

Stu, Coe and Sophie Dalgo

Joe Sanzari, Lori Rubino, Brittany, Nicolette, Giada, and Vinny Aiello

Helen Cunning, Kerry Reasoner, Hilary Cohen, Paige Cooper

Manny Quirola, Guy Balzano

Balpreet Grewal-Virk, Joe Sanzari, Ro Sorce, Bob Garrett

Bill Pulzello, John Salemme

Laura DiMartini, Diana DeAngelis

Brian and Melanie Perhacs

Tommy Hoerner, Thomas Scuderi

Nelson Rosa, Danny and Chrissy Murphy

Steven, John and Michael Salemme

A Rejuvenating Winter Escape

Crystal Springs Resort and Spa

By louise B. hafesh

The frantic holiday whirlwind is finally winding down. Yes, it was fun – magical even, but all that wonder and feverish pace, can take its toll. Before jumping back into the fray and demands of everyday life, why not consider treating yourself to a well-deserved dose of TLC?

Take heart! One of the advantages of living in the Garden State is its glorious natural beauty. And that is no more evident than in the environs of Sussex County’s Crystal Springs Resort and Spa. Nestled in an idyllic mountain setting, it is the perfect backdrop for a dreamy, rejuvenating winter getaway, and so close to Bergen, you could be lounging by a cozy fire with hot toddy in hand within an hour. So, what are you waiting for?

In that frame of mind, hubby Joe and I cleared our schedules, packed a suitcase and hit Highway 208 on course for a mini retreat. On route, stress levels seemed to dissipate with every gently rolling hill of the Kittatinny Mountain Range, and upon arrival, the resort’s peaceful ambiance synced in.

We had booked a suite and were taken back by its spaciousness, including a full kitchen, comfortable seating and dining area, indoor and outdoor gas fireplaces and a jacuzzi. There’s so much more on the offing at this year-round property. And, having viewed its extensive list of daily activities beforehand, we quickly ditched our bags and set about getting the lay of the land.

One of Crystal Springs’ main attractions is its six championship golf courses. Not golfers per se, but our balcony faced the self-guided, natural grass-putting course, which enticed us to give that a go first (complimentary putters and balls are at the front desk). Forget regular miniature golf — this is 18-holes with the feel of professional greens. And with a running stream and beautiful native flora at every turn, the scenic, meandering stroll alone is worth it.

Just for the record, I won! My reward awaited at the Clubhouse Wine Cellar, which has won Wine Spectator Magazine’s Grand Award every year since 2006. Suffice it to say, its many-chambered catacombs hold wines from around the world. We had an opportunity to taste (a misnomer – glasses were well filled) three distinct sommelier-chosen wines and enjoy a 45-minute round table, lively Q&A session ($25 per person). Great info and camaraderie!

Feeling no pain, hubby and I tromped over to the on-premises, freshwater quarry to tackle a little fishing. Embraced by an 80-foot impressive limestone cliff, the quarry is stocked for fun to accommodate its “catch & release” program (a small fee includes the use of rods and bait). After a fair number of near misses, encouraged by a few experts in the group, we happily ended up with a catch. Content with that, warmed by our crackling patio fireplace when back

at home base, we savored every moment of the delicious slower pace.

Homegrown Eats and Spa Treats

We opted to have dinner at the Crystal Tavern. After a full day of activities, it felt good to dress casually and relax in an unpretentious setting. Featuring farm-to-table cuisine, service was excellent and the panoramic sunset views were a wonderful backdrop to a delicious meal with my favorite person. Beef lover Joe ordered the tomahawk steak. It was perfectly cooked, succulent, juicy and huge. Even after sharing, there was still a large portion left. My choice, organic salmon, was also cooked to perfection. However, the crowning glory was dessert – a delicious apple crumb ice cream confection. Well-satiated, and back at our suite, we topped off a perfect first day with a fireside nightcap before retiring in clouds of white billowy comfort.

A Balancing Act

Day two was all about pampering and wellness. Reflections Spa was calling! That translated into a luxurious Signature Facial for me, and a relaxing massage for Joe. My service began with an expert analysis to determine the best protocol for my sensitive skin. And then, lathered and lulled into serenity by the healing hands of my aesthetician, I dozed off. Well rested upon waking, my skin was glowing.

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As for Joe, who was hesitant about his first massage post recuperating from rotator cuff surgery, he couldn’t say enough about his masseuse’s expert care and knowledge. She listened, assuaged his concerns and, in his estimation, gave one of the best massages he has had. After our treatments, we met up in the adjoining lounge, and indulged in a rose petal foot soak, enjoyed complimentary pink champagne and specialty chocolates. Nice touch.

Dinner that night was off-site at Kites’ Restaurant. Located about 5 miles away, at Crystal’s sister property, Minerals Hotel in Vernon, we loved the eclectic vibe at this casual hot spot. A huge, striking floral mural covers an entire wall. Opposite that, near where we were seated, are a massive fireplace and cozy nook, a great place to enjoy drinks and a little privacy. In yet another section, the bar is humming with friendly locals conversing and enjoying a live music scene. We were hankering for burgers and fries, which were good. However, the crispy Brussel sprouts appetizer with sweet peppers, parmesan and chipotle lime mayo was the standout.

Driving the winding way back, as Crystal Resort came into view, we were struck again by its picture postcard, serene setting. Aware that our winter adventure was ending, we chatted about the wonders it had worked on us. Had we relaxed? Yes, and then some. Refreshed and energized, we had reentered the world of the living and were ready to take on whatever lay in store back home.

Crystal Springs Resort & Spa is located at 1 Wild Turkey Way in Hamburg.

Learn more at www.crystalgolfresort.com.

Louise B. Hafesh is an award-winning artist and freelance writer who lives with her husband in Bergen County. She can be reached at www.louisebhafesh.com.

We’re Here for Them When Nobody Else Is

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2023 Chevrolet Tahoe

The Swiss Army Knife You’ve Been Waiting For

By riChard posluszny

Now, more than ever before, if you need to haul a lot of people and gear, the automakers have you covered. That’s because over the past 10 years, manufacturers have leaned in to producing sport-utility vehicles. When sports car companies like Porsche, Lamborghini, Aston Martin and Ferrari offer SUVs, you know there’s been a shift in buyer behavior.

More recently though, it’s become essential for mainstream auto builders to have three-row vehicles at the ready. That’s because today’s consumers just can’t get enough space for their stuff. And, if you’ve traveled with babies or toddlers lately, you’ll definitely understand. Between car seats, pack ‘n plays, strollers, coolers, and other items that make parenting easier, there’s only so much room.

All that said, with a slew of new options joining the party, I wanted to revisit an iconic three-row SUV just to see how it’s competing in this evolving landscape. Our subject? That would be the Chevrolet Tahoe. This time around I tested the top trim level, the High Country, because, well, why not?

Boasting a fresh face – the current-generation Tahoe’s debut took place in December 2019 – to me, it largely looks as you’d expect. That means it is massive, boasts a prominent front grille and has a largely squared off greenhouse. The details are more intricate and better designed than before though. Take, for example, how the headlights appear to be seamlessly integrated into the grille and how the rear window’s wiper is hidden underneath a roof spoiler. Bonus points for the power-operated run-

ning boards that deploy/stow upon passenger doors opening/closing.

But, that’s merely the start. Once you climb into the High Country’s cabin and get settled behind the steering wheel, you’ll note this is decidedly more upscale than previous General Motors products. After years of shabby interiors, it seems the team is being much more thoughtful about their brands’ interior designs. With competition attacking from all sides, it makes sense that GM finally brought its “A” game.

Starting with the basics, all of the major touch points (e.g., steering wheel, center stack controls, armrests) feel good. The heated steering wheel is wrapped in a crisp leather, the main controls have a nice feel when you adjust or press them, and the armrests are wrapped in what I believe is a high-quality leatherette – this is best for high-wear areas that take a beating. Moving along, the front seats are comfortable yet supportive with more pronounced bolstering than in previous Tahoes. Even better, they heat and cool should you so desire.

The second-row, heated captain chairs have plenty of space in all directions, even for me at 6’8. Additionally, they move super easily should you need to get a passenger into the third row. What’s remarkable in this new Tahoe is how GM’s engineers were able to carve out an additional 10 inches of legroom for third-row occupants. That’s a monumental feat, which means now adults can fit back there. Walking around to the cargo area, you’ll note with the third row in use there’s some space for errands; however, at the push of a couple buttons you can stow the last row’s seats and have a roomy cavern for your needs.

Then, there’s the technology. My 2023 model year test vehicle had a 12-inch digital instrument panel with a number of ways to customize it to my liking, over a dozen camera views around the Tahoe to make sure I was comfortable maneuvering it, a 10-inch touchscreen sitting in the center of the dashboard for infotainment purposes, and two 12-inch displays for second-row passengers. Here’s the thing: That’s only scratching the surface. The good news? All of the software works brilliantly – it’s easy-to-use and fast, which isn’t always the case today. Continued on page

For the driver, they’re more empowered than ever before with a Tahoe to feel comfortable behind the wheel. For the passengers, they’re traveling in what amounts to a rolling living room when you consider the level of comfort and convenience.

At this point you’re probably wondering, “So, how’s it drive?” Glad you asked.

My High Country was powered using a 6.2-liter V8 engine good for an impressive 420 horsepower and 460 lb.-ft. of torque. Coupled with a 10-speed automatic transmission, shifts happen with minimal drama. This is great as the transmission is constantly swapping cogs in the name of greater efficiency.

Between the powertrain’s oomph and the transmission’s sophistication, the Tahoe is able to get to 60 mph fairly quick given that it weighs a bit over 5,800 pounds. Although Chevrolet hasn’t officially documented its performance, I will say this: I felt like I had more than enough power during my time with this Tahoe. That accounts for around town driving, merging onto local highways, interstates and passing at high speeds. If I was a betting man, I’d guess its

zero to 60 time is somewhere around six or seven seconds, which is more than adequate for a full-size SUV.

Now that’s all fine and well, but where Chevrolet deserves praise is how it has totally transformed this new generation Tahoe’s ride quality. Featuring an all-new, air ride suspension that’s paired up with magnetic ride control, GM has finally delivered an SUV that genuinely feels luxurious. Previous-gen Tahoes and Suburbans were bumpy and brittle, which was extremely disappointing given their immense size and heft. The old vehicle’s ride quality totally took away from the experience. Today though, the company has stepped into the 21st century.

Going over bumps and potholes in the 2023 Tahoe, passengers are isolated. But, I will admit that I wasn’t thrilled to see a 22-inch wheel and tire package on the High Country. While the wheels certainly look wonderful, Chevrolet is foregoing an even smoother ride. After driving a Z71 trim Tahoe with 20-inch wheels and tires that can do some off-roading, I feel like this is how every Tahoe should come from the factory as it was even more comfortable.

When moving at speed, in its Normal driving mode, the Tahoe feels good. That said, because it weighs nearly three tons, you will feel the body roll and feel unsettled at times. By selecting the Sport driving mode – I know that’s an oxymoron in a vehicle this big — you feel the magic of the magnetic ride control. That’s because, instantaneously, body roll is kept in check.

Entering Sport mode doesn’t turn the Tahoe into a sports car, that’s for sure. What it does do, overall, is make the vehicle feel 10 times more composed without sacrificing passenger comfort. I am not sure how GM did it and, frankly, I don’t care. What I do know, however, is that it strikes the perfect balance, so drivers have more conviction when giving the Tahoe some giddy up.

Lastly, during my time with the Tahoe I made a business trip up to Boston. On my departure, the weather took a turn for the worse. A nor’easter showed up on my doorstep and the entire drive featured torrential downpours dropping sheets of rain all the way from New Jersey to New York to Connecticut to Massachusetts. It was brutal.

If I were traveling in many other vehicles, I probably would have felt a touch uncomfortable but, frankly, thanks to the Tahoe’s four-wheel drive, I had plenty of traction and confidence. All it takes is the click of one button and your concerns simply drift away.

To me, the Tahoe is the best buy in the three-row category. If you need cargo space, a third row that can fit adults, V8 power, a comfortable ride, and an auto that provides value-for-dollar, the Tahoe has the best mix across the competition. Just be mindful of the trim level you select as the prices can get staggering, quick.

Right now, there’s vehicles that have certain elements of the above but they can’t do it all. The Tahoe is a Swiss Army knife, in comparison.

That’s why when my fiancé and I take the next step and start a family, it won’t be hard to pick out our baby hauler of choice.

Spring Lake Toys Foundation

The Spring Lake Toys Foundation held their annual gala luncheon at the Indian Trail Club. For more information, visit www.springlaketoysfoundation.org.

Danielle and Domenick DeRobertis, Tara and Rob Adams

Maria Ruggiero, Linda Begley

Lauren Porter, Rebecca Amorosi, Ashley DiMauro

Dana Muro, Sandi Celentano, Gina Abdy

Erica Mazon, Karen Rutherford, Jamie Minsk

Rosa Riotto, Laura Capozzi

Christine DeFranco, Lindsey Tillack

Danielle Voyez, Jessica Martin

Kheira Sanjuanelo, Joseph Chinnici, Giuseppe Cascio, Heidi Gross

Amanda Alfauri, Nova Brown

Karen Rutherford, Paulette Laurenzi, Sal Frassetto

Susan Byrnes, Jeff Rubin

Cathy Marcos, Gab Olsavsky, Danyel Competiello

Sally McQuade, Allison Gioia, Erika Gallagher, Amparo Underfer

Rosa Riotto, Reem Batarseh, Fariba Shahamat Dave Green, Paulette Laurenzi, Sal Frassetto

St. Joseph’s Health Foundation Gala

The St. Joseph’s Health Foundation held their annual gala at The Legacy Castle. For more information, visit www.givetostjosephs.org.

Maryanne and Fred Puccio

Moira Connolly, Kevin Slavin, Mark Connolly

Dr. Joe Duffy, Janine and Tom Casey Caswell and Johnnalynn Samms

Dr. Allen Khademi, Patricia Drabik, Toni Loyas, Douglas Struyk

Dr. Ming and Heather Choi

Kim Birdsall, Charlene Gungil

Saari and Steve Binder

Terri and Dr. Frank Bauer

Nancy and Steve Kontos

Dan Cronin, Dr. Shideh Doroudi

Jessica and John Cioletti

Robert and Stephanie Budelman, Dr. Priscilla Kaszubski, Dr. Adel Zauk, Michael Candido

Nadine Menendez, Ro Sorce, Wendy Slavin

Jon and Rebecca Markley, Dr. Jeffrey Appelboom, Dr. Caroline Szpalski

Aaron Pell, Stephanie Eagan, Drs. Swati and Jai Parekh

Town Title Agency Golf Outing

The Town Title Agency held their annual golf outing at Ridgewood Country Club. For more information, visit www.towntitle.us

Josh Thomson, Todd Delfarno

Frank Lovato, Bobby Alfano

Brad Larsen, Chris Rotio, TJ Churchill Dina and Thomas Ciambrone

Alex and Stephanie Ross

Dawn, Giuliana and Chris Rotio

Dr. Sanjeev Patel, Michael Horton, Mohit Naik

Paul Sarlo, Mike Petruccelli

Art and Debbie Rotio

Kevin Smith, Carl and Carl Carfello Jr., Steve Stallard

Claudine Siero, Cathy Shea, Toni Ann Piero

Chris Rotio, Diane Scrivari, Joe Ciambrone

Maria Chappa, Melissa Gorga, Dawn Rotio, Danielle Martini

Matt Brogan, Jerry Iannone, Trae Minicucci, Bruno Sgambellone

Jack Inserra, Dina Ciambrone

Dina and Joe Ciambrone

YWCA of Northern NJ

The YWCA of NNJ held its “Walking the Talk Gala” at the Westmount Country Club. For more information, visit www.ywcannj.org.

Julia Orlando, Deborah Visconi

Jennifer Bladel, Deborah Visconi

Donnalee Corrieri, Rosemary Klie

Nancy Hamstra, Erin Myers

Donna Italiano, Marion Troise, Laura Behrmann

Darian Eletto, Adrienne Mariano, Kristine Pendy, Lori Pietropaolo

Gabrielle and Deborah Visconi, Dr. Anna Harutyunyan

Tiffany Lorincz, Daniela Pinto

Bergen New Bridge Group Deborah Visconi, Alexandra Acosta

Annie Hausmann, Patches Magarro, Emme

Rebecca Macadams, Madouna Hanna

Erin Myers, Tracy Schoenberg

Gabrielle Visconi, Silvana Athir, Cespedes Ilham, Deborah Visconi, Beth Schachtele, Rebecca Macadams, Kayla Loughlin

Rachel Pedalino, Alexis Abssy, Marge DiStefano

Emme, Deborah Belfatto, Susan Livio, Helen Archontou Deborah Visconi, Shavonda Sumter, Judy Newman

And the kindest hearts.

Everything medicine can do. A few things medicine can’t.

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