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Dear St. Louis Community, For more than 40 years, The Magic House, St. Louis Children’s Museum has strived to be a trusted place of learning and joy for the children and families of our community. As always—and especially in this unprecedented time—we are committed to the safety and wellbeing of our visitors! During our recent closure, our team was working hard in preparation for welcoming you back. We have made modifications to our building and exhibits and have implemented new practices and protocols that follow and exceed local, state and CDC guidelines. We are excited to welcome you back to The Magic House and look forward to giving families the opportunity to enjoy our interactive learning environment once again! We are also eager to share that our reopening comes with several new exhibits including our annual Sandcastle Beach, the all new Hot Wheels™: Race to Win™ exhibit, our brand new Bayer STEM Pathway, an expanded Canfield Station featuring a life-size train engine and more! We can’t wait for you to see our new additions. To reserve tickets, please visit www.magichouse.org. We hope to see you soon! Sincerely,
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We Need Your Help! In order to continue to be a resource to our community, your support is more important than ever. As you may not know, The Magic House is a self-supporting not-for-profit organization. Unlike many of the cultural institutions in the St. Louis area, we receive no tax support and rely on the income generated from our membership, admissions and programs to provide high-quality interactive exhibits and learning experiences. Your donation also offers new tax advantages. Under the CARES Act, individuals are able to take an above-the-line deduction for donations up to $300 in 2020. For those who itemize, the cap on annual giving has been lifted to 100 percent of adjusted gross income.
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To keep children learning during the pandemic, the library donated more than 200 PBS Kids Playtime Pads to the Ritenour and Hancock Place school districts. Each device comes preloaded with educational videos, games and apps and doesn’t require Internet access.
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FOR 150 YEARS, THE HUMANE SOCIETY OF MISSOURI HAS BEEN DEDICATED TO PROVIDING CARE FOR ANIMALS IN NEED. ITS MISSION IS TO END THE CYCLE OF ABUSE AND PET OVERPOPULATION THROUGH RESCUE AND INVESTIGATION EFFORTS, SPAY AND NEUTER PROGRAMS, AND EDUCATIONAL CLASSES. PICTURED ON THE COVER: HUMANE SOCIETY PRESIDENT KATHY WARNICK WITH ANDY COHEN. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.951.1542 OR VISIT HSMO.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY CYDNEY MOORE COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF THE HUMANE SOCIETY OF MISSOURI
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by stephanie wallace WHEN IT WAS FOUNDED IN 1870, the Humane Society of Missouri’s mission was to “promote humane sentiments among all classes.” While the wording may be a little outdated, 150 years later, the principle remains the same: There’s no excuse for animal abuse. The nonprofit has always been dedicated to the abused and neglected, and today it provides important care for animals in need. Along with being the largest provider of adoptable pets in Missouri, it is dedicated to ending the cycle of abuse and overpopulation through rescue efforts, spay and neuter programs, and educational classes. The organization didn’t begin with the rescue and adoption services it’s known for today. It was created to help mistreated workhorses. “Many people are surprised to learn that our roots are in the horse world,” president Kathy Warnick says. “Later, in the 19th century, we added children to our roster since there weren’t many organizations looking out for their welfare at the time.” The nonprofit worked closely with police to ensure abusers were held accountable, and in the 1920s, it started providing veterinary services and built its first animal shelter for dogs and cats. In the 1950s, the Humane Society Animal Cruelty Task Force was founded. “This group is highly trained and investigates cases of abuse and neglect throughout the entire state of Missouri,” Warnick explains. “They rescue animals so our veterinarians and shelter staff can provide the care needed for rehabilitation and adoption so they can have a chance at a happy, healthy life.” The team doubles as a crisis response unit called to locations across the country to aid in rescues during natural disasters like floods and hurricanes. A more recent initiative the organization is proud of is SNIP, the Spay/Neuter Incentive Program, which launched in 2001. Since the nonprofit began tracking procedures, it has spayed or neutered more than 400,000 animals to help reduce pet overpopulation in St. Louis.
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Clayton Native St. Louisan Marvin Kosky passed away May 31, just a month shy of his 100th birthday. He was one of ‘The Greatest Generation,’ a decorated hero of World War II. When he was drafted on his 21st birthday, he went willingly. In 1941, he married Joyce Miller, also of St. Louis, while on a three-day pass. He received a Bronze Star for his service as an Army captain during the Allied campaign to liberate
France. He also was awarded the Legion of Honor, the highest military honor awarded by the French government. Kosky was married to his wife for nearly 75 years, and he lived independently at Clayton on the Park for five years following her death. He was humble and a gentleman, according to his friends at the residential tower, many of whom enjoyed lunch with him at the Kingside Diner there. He was also known to enjoy Dewar’s on the rocks—just one, sipped slowly, before dinner. Kosky was an avid tennis player who participated in the Senior Olympics into his 80s. “He had a big serve,” recalls his grandson, Terence Stern. He vividly remembers playing golf with his grandfather when Kosky was 90, exactly twice Stern’s age. Karen Stern, Terence’s mom, said her father also “dabbled in painting,” fondly recalling the watercolor class they took together. He was long retired from a post-war business career that included his own construction firm and years of service at a title company. Says one of his neighbors: “Marvin was a bright light, a positive force and man of complete character until his last breath.” A celebration of life and a dedication of the Marvin Kosky Memorial Garden will be held on what would have been his 100th birthday, June 30, at Clayton on the Park. The permanent display will be a perfect spot to reflect on the rich lives of Kosky and others who sacrificed so much for our freedom.
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O’Fallon George Floyd is the common thread that pulled together Jalen Thompson and Darnella Frazier, both 17. They probably don’t know each other, but they both know that Floyd, an unarmed black man, was asphyxiated by a white police officer whose knee was pressed against his neck for 8 minutes and 46 seconds. Jalen is a senior at Fort Zumwalt West High School in O’Fallon, and Darnella is the traumatized Minneapolis teen who captured the event on video. You’ve seen it, or you’ve heard about it. It was the evening of Memorial Day. As Floyd lay motionless on the street, face-down, handcuffed and lapsing into unconsciousness, the cop’s expression changed no more than it might have while kneeling to tie his shoe or check his tire pressure. Darnella had been walking her cousin to the store where Floyd was arrested for alleged forgery. She is black, as is Jalen, whose thoughts that night before the horrific news broke were like those of millions of recent high-school grads: What about my plans for college in the fall? Will the pandemic force me to stay home? Then, his thoughts turned to the hundreds of Black Lives Matter protests that flared up worldwide. Jalen started planning his own protest with friends Ryan Staples, Joseph Bartholomew and Ryan Fetsch, thinking that maybe 100 demonstrators would join a march in their mostly white, suburban community. Once the word was out, threats came in that armed whites would be there to protect business owners. But the call to action could not be retracted. June 1 brought between 1,500 and 2,000 protesters, and at the head of the group was the newly minted activist, arm in arm with friends and the town’s white police chief, Tim Clothier. Will active protest dissipate after a while, as it did following the 2014 death of Michael Brown in Ferguson? Outrage over the anguish of 400 years, from the first enslaved Africans to the next tragedy, has not and will not.
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LAST ISSUE’S Q&A Who were the umpire and significant players involved in our 1985 World Series loss? What about our 2011 victory? Don Denkinger is the ump who flubbed a key call during the 1985 World Series. The Redbirds led the Royals three games to two, and in the sixth game were leading 1-0 going into the bottom of the ninth. K.C.’s Jorge Orta led off with a ground ball to first baseman Jack Clark, who tossed it to reliever Todd Worrell covering the bag. Denkinger called Orta safe, although replays showed the throw beat Orta by a half-step. The Royals won the game and the Series. In the 2011 World Series, David Freese hit a walk-off homer in the ninth inning of Game 6 with the Texas Rangers, and the Cardinals won the series.
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CWE Miriam Meyer, managing director of Cutters & Co., the barber for the time being, plexiglass barriers have shop below the main lobby at the Chase Park Plaza Hotel, is been installed where needed, and there are an honorary member of the Rat Pack. Behind the register is drapes to separate the four women who a huge image of the three most famous Pack members: Dean cut and style the hair of the famous, the aspiring and everyday Martin, Sammy Davis Jr. and Frank Sinatra. (Hmm; who are role models. All four are back after being idled, having collected unemployment during the two and a half the two others? Read to the end for the months Cutters was out of commission. Meyer was answer.) The most important thing to know apprehensive about what sort of response she’d about the venerable snippery, other than receive after an email to clientele, but she ended up the fact that it’s been there for 98 years, is feeling flabbergasted. Almost everyone needed an that it reopened May 18 after a remodeling WE TREAT appointment, including businessmen, professionals, during ‘lockdown,’ ‘quarantine,’ or however EACH CLIENT doctors, college students, local notables and other history will end up referring to our first LIKE A famous people (an exclusive group that Meyer experience with a 21st-century pandemic. keeps in the safe, so to speak). “We treat each client CDC guidelines, along with common-sense CELEBRITY... like a celebrity, so everyone feels like a VIP,” insists approaches considering the nature of the Meyer. She and her husband Tom kicked off Cutters business, provide more space for the shop on December 12, 2005, after an extensive rehab to and a sense of well-being for clippers and clients. Of course, masks are de rigueur; everybody knows the shop. (It would have been the 90th birthday of Ol’ Blue better than to show up without one. The entrance has been Eyes, who died in 1998.) They don’t cut hair, but they do make expanded into the lobby, one of four barber chairs is off limits the shop spick and span for Monday, the first business day of
a six-day week. “Not only are we the owners, we’re the janitors, too,” Meyer says with a chuckle. So whose follicles have they seen up close and personal, as it were? Suffice it to say, in the first 98 years, presidents, actors, athletes and other celebs have had their hair cut there, but scissor-wielders who have gone on to their eternal reward took with them the knowledge of who wore a toupée besides Sinatra. (Oh, yeah: Along with the Chairman of the Board, Davis and Martin, the other two Rat Pack members shown in the photo are Peter Lawford and Joey Bishop. Judy Garland was ‘First Vice-President.’ But you peeked, didn’t you.) Well, would Miriam and Tom alter anything about their operation, which over the past 15 years has shorn men with visions of franchises dancing in their heads? Nope, no change there. But they’d love it if the lowest button on the Chase elevator read ‘LL’ instead of ‘B.’ Anyhow, you say you’re pretty shaggy and really need a haircut after more than three months? Visit cutterschase.com.
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St. Louis Post-Dispatch columnist Aisha Sultan (pictured) brought her writing talents to the big screen. Her debut documentary, 33 and Counting, tells the story of Patty Prewitt, a Missouri woman serving a life sentence in the killing of her husband more than 35 years ago. The 39-minute film looks at Prewitt’s experiences as an inmate and her wrongful conviction claims.
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out of our bunkers after quarantine and re-engage with the real world, I think we can be divided into two groups: Those who used their time wisely and those who didn’t. I would fall into the latter category. I’m lazy, and COVID-19 brought out the absolute worst in my personality. My husband Carey and I watched our grandson Robbie about four mornings a week. But it quickly became obvious I was the assistant to the Robert Jay and Robert Carey Show. Grandma only was needed for diaper changes and bottle refills. I am okay with that; I’m more of a toddler person anyway. Once Robbie was gone, Robert Carey left for work, so I had plenty of time to do what I wanted.
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I actually did attempt a few constructive things. First was cleaning out my closet, which still has winter clothes in it. But then the weather took a chilly turn, so I decided to wait even though I can’t shut the door. Then, I had my husband drag upstairs three boxes of belongings from my parents, who have long since passed. I needed to go through them, but every time I tried, it made me sad. So I read a book or watched Netflix instead. Second was my desire to start a walking program. I live in a neighborhood that is very walkable. Both sides of the streets have sidewalks, there are no speeding cars, and people wave as you walk by; it’s like Mayberry. I have noticed an increase in foot and bike traffic, though. Lots of
people have been working from home and just taking a break for a quick walk. That said, all the women looked like models out of Shape magazine who recently shopped at Dimvaloo. The men have had no reason to shave or get a haircut. (Guess Zoom was a little too forgiving.) Wait, they weren’t walking; they were jogging or running, fast, and they were in great shape. Not strolling, like the 60-year-old in bad sweatpants and a T-shirt with a picture of a chicken smoking a blunt. So, I came home and read a book. My third idea was to finally sit down and start the book I have wanted to write for the past five years. (I’ve even gone to writing workshops.) I had lots of false starts. I know that I have what it takes, according to
other writers and editors. Or do I? I mean, let’s face it. I paid to go to those workshops. What were they going to tell me? “You are awful”? Were they really in a position to crush my dreams of being published? Anyway, not much headway was made on my book. (But I did read a few good ones written by other people.) My fourth idea lasted about as long as this sentence. I was going to make bread so I could post it on Instagram. Then, I realized no one would believe I had done it on my own anyway. So, dear readers, if you had a productive time in lockdown, great! But I also hope a few of you were just as lazy as me.
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The school community has been hard at work serving others during the COVID-19 crisis. Faculty members donated personal protective equipment to local medical facilities, some of it made with the school’s 3D printing equipment. MICDS’ foodservice partner made a contribution to Operation Food Search, and parents and students have created thousands of face masks for local healthcare professionals.
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STUDENT STANDOUTS by stephanie wallace
AVI ADLER OF YESHIVAT KADIMAH HIGH SCHOOL 〉〉 LIKE SO MANY EVENTS THIS SPRING, the Go! St. Louis Marathon & Family Fitness Weekend was cancelled, but that didn’t stop one local high-schooler from lacing up his running shoes. Avi Adler, a senior at Yeshivat Kadimah High School in University City, mapped a route and completed the more than 26 miles by himself. “I’m really inspired by my dad, who has run 13 New York City marathons,” he says. “My sister and I like to joke that it’s in our blood.” After running a half marathon in October, Adler decided he was ready to tackle his first full race. He set his sights on this spring and started training. But just weeks before the event, the coronavirus pandemic hit the U.S., and the race was called off. Adler’s disappointment at the cancellation quickly turned to determination. “I had it in my mind that I was going to run a marathon, and I didn’t want the virus to stop me,” he says. “It felt important to maintain my goals in these crazy times.”
sleet and even snow. “When I woke up, I initially thought I might push it off,” he recalls. “Then I started thinking that if it was the actual marathon day, the weather wouldn’t have gotten in my way. In the spirit of that, I decided to run. As I kept going, I realized that a lot of people are facing much harder challenges than I am. A little rain or snow shouldn’t stop me.”
Adler’s family fully supported him when he undertook the challenge. “One of my favorite things is that my mom and sister The original plan was to follow the Go! St. Louis route, but Adler followed me in the car, cheering me on and handing me water,” realized it would be smarter to create his own centered around he says. “My sister made signs that she stuck out the window. his home. He included his favorite stretch to run on Clayton It was really special. My dad also made me a finish line.” Adler Road. “It’s hilly, so that makes it fun and challenging,” he says. “The crossed that line after 3.5 hours, making his average time around marathon would have started in Forest Park, so as a testament to 8 minutes per mile. the original path, I also ran there.” As for future marathons, Adler, who will attend Columbia The mid-March day Adler had selected for his run turned out to University in the fall, says they are definitely in the cards. “But I’m be one of the harshest of the month. The forecast included rain, hoping for a regular race and sunshine,” he adds.
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PARENT TRAP OUR ‘CANCEL CULTURE’ by dr. tim jordan OUR CULTURE OF EXTREME POLARIZATION and disrespect has a new tool that could lead to more cyberbullying; it’s called canceling others. This refers to a behavior usually played out online where people cut someone out of conversations and groups. If Jane has said or done something that Tess doesn’t like, Tess can ‘cancel’ her and encourage others to pile on with condemnations. It’s a way to call others out for not conforming to norms or what’s cool, resulting in their being ostracized, belittled and excluded. I have some concerns about this behavior, but also some ideas about how it can be valuable. Let’s start with the potential negatives. I find a lot of girls today are willing to write off peers because of one misspoken word or action. This is especially concerning because misunderstandings happen easily online where there is no personal contact, i.e., body language and tone of voice. There is also a real possibility of a flurry of judgments despite most participants being unaware of context or past history between people. It’s like gossip 2.0. Many girls will join in on this canceling process as a way to fit in and be included. People who are canceled often aren’t warned and have no recourse because they are shut out of further communication. I worry that canceling will become a tool for bullying or revenge. Leaving people out can be an aggressive way to exert power over others. On the flip side, canceling others can be used as a way to set clear, firm boundaries. I have encouraged girls to block toxic ex-boyfriends or friends. It’s not a first line of defense; it’s what you are pushed to do after the person has ignored your set boundaries. I want girls to be open to different ways of looking at issues,
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to get into the shoes of others and hear their perspectives. We need to teach them how to have civil discourse without aggressive rhetoric. Listening to others gives you an appreciation of why they speak or act the way they do. I want girls to try to understand people instead of judging them and writing them off. I have heard the term ‘call-out’ as another way to describe canceling others. I prefer the opposite, ‘call-in,’ which means to be led gently to understand your error. I also encourage girls to adopt a mentality of equality. If someone acts in a way that you disapprove of, remind yourself that you make mistakes too. Girls can learn to lower their expectations of repeat offenders so they are less affected by them and less disappointed when relationship mistakes are made. Thus, I’m not perfect, you’re not perfect. It’s important not to judge by rumors or past reputations because it’s possible for people to become better versions of themselves. So, remind your daughters not to jump into a canceling pool and drown with everyone else. Encourage them to check things out instead of relying on gossip or texts taken out of context. It’s best to be understanding and influence others to do the same. & TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO WORKS WITH GIRLS IN GRADE SCHOOL THROUGH COLLEGE IN HIS COUNSELING PRACTICE AND CAMPS. HIS NEWEST BOOK IS LETTERS FROM MY GRANDFATHER: TIMELESS WISDOM FOR A LIFE WORTH LIVING. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.
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TIM BURKE, A PRINCIPAL AT EDWARD JONES, IS NO STRANGER TO A CHALLENGE. AS AN ULTRA DISTANCE RUNNER, HE HAS MASTERED COURSES MOST OF US CAN’T IMAGINE TACKLING. WHEN THE CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC HIT ST. LOUIS, HE WAS DETERMINED TO USE HIS EXPERIENCE TO GIVE BACK. IN SUPPORT OF OPERATION FOOD SEARCH, HE RAN 100 MILES IN A LITTLE OVER 24 HOURS.
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Burke’s interest in long distance running developed over time. “After my first half marathon, I swore I was never going to run that far again,” he recalls. Despite his initial resistance, his wife encouraged him to continue, and he found inspiration in books like Born to Run and Running to the Edge. “Physics limits how fast people can run, but these books explore how long they can,” he says. “I wanted to find out how far I could go.” In 2012, Burke participated in his first ultramarathon. The 146-mile course took him from the lowest point in the continental United States, Badwater Basin in Death Valley, to the highest peak, Mount Whitney. He ran it all in support of SouthSide Early Childhood Center. For him, the decision to combine the pursuit with giving back came naturally. “Ultra distance running is a very selfish sport,” he explains. “I spend a lot of time training away from my family, and there is an entire crew to support me. I don’t want it just to be about me, though; it needs to make a bigger difference.” This spring, many races Burke planned to run were cancelled due to COVID-19. He noticed that several went virtual but decided that he could give back in a different way. “I didn’t need another T-shirt or medal for participating,” he notes. “I figured that if I raised money and ran on my own, there would be no operating expenses. All of the funds could go toward the cause.” He says OFS seemed like a natural fit because the pandemic has increased demand for all of its services. When it came time to plan the run, Burke determined that mid-May would offer the best weather. That meant he had two weeks to pull everything together. He decided on Forest Park and chose a flat, two-mile loop where he had trained previously. The route ensured that he regularly passed by his Jeep, which served as his aid station. “I spoke to police and park authorities to make sure it would be okay,” he says. “They thought I was crazy but didn’t see a reason I couldn’t run. It all just came together.” The weekend that Burke chose to run ended up being a rainy one, which presented new challenges. “It slowed me down because wet feet mean blisters,” he says. “The pain kept me awake, so I didn’t have to worry about feeling tired.” The route took 25 hours and 38 minutes for him to finish. He found motivation to keep going in the support of others. He estimates that for 94 of the 100 miles, someone was walking, running or biking beside him. “That made it really special,” he notes. Burke originally planned a fundraising target of $10,000. But as more people learned about his plan, the goal shifted to $30,000, or $300 per mile. In the end, OFS received almost $36,000. “It’s great to see our community come together in challenging times, and I’m lucky to be part of it,” he says. “You don’t need to take 200,000 steps like I did, but if you take one in order to help somebody, that’s a step in the right direction.” &
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Ever since COVID-19 kicked into high gear, most of my business meetings have taken place on Zoom or a similar platform. You would think by now, my colleagues and clients would have gotten the hang of these videoconference calls. However, I’m amazed at how many could use some Zoom etiquette. Any tips? Unfortunately, there are a number of people who are still grappling with FaceTime, let alone Zoom! The underlying issues of these video platforms are a matter of knowing how to act, where to look and what to wear. Here are a few tips that might help your officemates and clients Zoom more successfully. BEFORE YOUR NEXT VIRTUAL MEETING:
Until We’re Together Again St . L o u i s i a n s h av e a l w a y s k n o w n t h at s t r e n g t h c o m e s f r o m l e a n i n g o n e a c h o t h e r, a n d t o g e t h e r, w e w i l l r i s e a g a i n .
Think about what you should wear. Although the current Twilight Zone we’re living in seems to have given us permission to wear sweats and an old T-shirt, please resist. Instead, dress to impress. Your colleagues and clients expect you to look a certain way. Before you select your wardrobe, consider the possibility that your supervisor could even be looking for his/her next team leader. So, dress as if your meeting is in person. Invest in quality equipment. Part of looking and sounding good will depend on the quality of your webcam, speaker and headset. Think about investing in quality equipment that will outperform your computer’s built-in system. In addition, be selective where you join the meeting in your home. Try to find a quiet, indoor space to control ambient noise and provide an appropriate backdrop with good lighting. Talk to your camera, not your computer screen. The tendency is to look at the computer screen, but you should learn to speak and look at your camera when you’re talking. This will make it look like you are speaking directly to the audience. Mute your microphone when necessary. Zoom has a mute button that can reduce ambient feedback for the rest of the participants. It should be used when you are listening to someone else speak. Use the chat feature. Instead of interrupting the speaker with a question that can be answered by someone else, use the chat button to send a question or comment to everyone or privately to a participant. Think about your body language. Always remember that everyone can see you. Someone is watching you roll your eyes, take a big yawn, stretch or walk about the room. These movements become exaggerated on Zoom and are distracting to participants; they also can be disruptive to the speaker. Try to keep still and remain attentive.
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BY JULIA M. JOHNSON
Nothing can replace the words of wisdom you get from your dad (or any father figure, for that matter). He has experienced the ups and downs of life firsthand, and chances are, he wants to help you learn important lessons and avoid unnecessary pitfalls no matter how old you are. In celebration of Father’s Day, here are some St. Louisans who have learned a lot about living from the men they call Dad.
advice I’ve always tried to emulate my dad, Richard Sr. I was blessed with a generous and dedicated father, grew up in a wonderful neighborhood and had a pretty normal family life. My dad wasn’t so lucky. He gets a gold medal for perseverance, honesty, hard work, ingenuity and dedication. The best advice I’ve received has come from
My stepfather, Richard, was an inspiration to me.
He always taught me to find the fun, even in the toughest of situations. He impressed upon me the importance of connecting with people and taught me
watching his example. The best advice I’ve gotten from my dad, Mike, is that THERE ARE GOOD AND NOT-SO-GOOD PEOPLE everywhere in the world. Recognizing them and deciding whether you want them in your life is up to you.
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The best advice from my father, Jack, was to broadcast games knowing nobody is listening just to hear you. They want to enjoy their game and watch their team try to win. It’s not about you. Also, he said, don’t be a jerk.
Treat people respectfully no matter who they are or what they do. ■ JOE BUCK BROADCASTER, FOX SPORTS
I have had many male role models who imparted significant wisdom over the years. The following are lessons I learned from them: ✚ Leadership is about action, not position. ✚ Well done is better than well said. Anyone can give an opinion about something, but many are not willing to do the work to make it a reality. ✚ We should follow the Ignatian traditions of the Jesuits and be ‘men and women for others.’ ✚ Anyone can be great because anyone can serve.
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Two things come to mind when I think about advice from my dad, Tony:
how a smile can bring joy to others. He would have told me during this difficult time that the silver lining is spending quality time with your children.
“Always be loving and happy,”
he said. I can attribute my optimism to his words of wisdom. Nothing is more rewarding than the loud bursts of laughter and endless smiles my daughter, Lena, and I enjoy together. ■ REGINALD VAN DERSON OWNER AND ARTISTIC DIRECTOR PURE ENTERTAINMENT CO.
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■ KYE PIETOSO CO-OWNER, CAFÉ NAPOLI
My dad, Daryl, worried that I was too interested in being cool and wanted me to concentrate on working hard and treating people right
It’s the same stuff I stew about today as a parent. Here are a few of his most memorable lines: ✚ Nothing good happens after midnight. ✚ If you sleep in, you waste half the day. ✚ Don’t make your mother mad. ■ MATT HALL CO-FOUNDER AND PRESIDENT HILL INVESTMENT GROUP ■ MICHAEL McMILLAN
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✚ Proper preparation prevents poor performance. This has been taught to me my whole life. Anyone who has ever worked at Café Napoli knows the 5 Ps. ✚ Never ask anyone to do something you wouldn’t do. Dad and I work together every day, and he really has taught me the importance of this.
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by stephanie wallace RIGHT NOW, IT’S MORE CRITICAL THAN EVER that we care for ourselves and
those around us. That focus on serving people has been integral to The Gatesworth for more than 30 years. The staff, programs and living spaces at the retirement community are constantly evolving to better suit residents’ needs and lifestyles. The Gatesworth continues to deliver innovative services and luxury amenities to ensure seniors stay active, happy and comfortable. Resident Charlotte Wolff has firsthand experience with what it takes to care for others. Originally from Trenton, New Jersey, Wolff studied at the Albert Einstein Medical Center School of Nursing in Philadelphia. She worked in the city for a few years before moving to Durham, North Carolina, to continue her studies. It was there that she met her future husband, Richard, who was from St. Louis. After they wed, the couple moved back to this area, and Wolff spent time working as a nurse at St. Luke’s Hospital. When it came time to make the transition to a senior living community, they looked at various local options, and The Gatesworth immediately stood out to Wolff. “When we walked in, I turned to my husband and said that I felt like we were going on a cruise,” she recalls. “That feeling has never gone away. The food, the people, the services, I just love everything here.” It’s been almost 10 years since moving in, and Wolff still is impressed by the living options and level of care offered by the community. Daily walks, exercise programs and classes in subjects like art and music keep her active and engaged. “All the activities here are wonderful,” she says. “There is always something to do if you want it.” Even now that COVID-19 is altering everyone’s daily lives, The Gatesworth continues to keep its residents not only safe and healthy but also stimulated and busy. While large groups and classes currently are unable to meet, Wolff says she walks every day, and on Fridays, she is part of a group of five residents who meet for a sing-along. “While there are restrictions about what we can and can’t do, these little things make
us feel a lot better,” she notes. The gym, swimming pool and art room also are starting to reopen with limited capacity. Residents can sign up to reserve those spaces, and time slots are limited to two people. Wolff has been using phone calls and video chats to stay connected with her family. Plus, The GATESWORTH DELIVERS INNOVATIVE SERVICES AND LUXURY Gatesworth allows visitors THE AMENITIES TO SUIT RESIDENTS’ NEEDS AND LIFESTYLES. to see their loved ones through a specially designated window, where they can talk while maintaining a safe distance. She says this level of consideration is par for the course at the community, and she hasn’t had to worry about receiving the support she needs during the pandemic. “The service is outstanding, and I can’t say enough about the people here,” she explains. “If we have any SE NI OR LIV IN G questions, we know where to go. It’s a nice feeling to be able to depend on the staff for whatever we need. It really makes life easier for us, especially now.” & SPEC IAL SECT ION
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WE ARE THE GATESWORTH FAMILY. Now, more than ever, we are grateful for our residents’ words of wisdom. Their life experiences tell us that this, too, shall pass. We celebrate their resilience and positive outlook. By working together and helping each other, we are a family. If we can help answer your questions during this challenging time or you have words of wisdom to share with us, please call.
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The community is celebrating its 60th anniversary. Located on a 23-acre campus in Town and Country, it offers a continuum of care, from extremely independent and active to 24-hour nursing assistance including memory care. Its skilled nursing team serves all residents. 13900 Clayton Road 636.227.5347 maridevilla.com
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ST. LOUISANS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN RESILIENT, persevering through difficult periods and learning lessons to help them cope. Keeping mentally and physically occupied is one of the best ways to stay on top of challenging times, and who would know that better than our seniors? T&S asked retirement community residents for simple wisdom about remaining positive.
OLLIE WARD, a resident at Allegro Senior Living in Richmond Heights, says a constructive attitude and activities that stimulate her mind are the best tools for weathering tough times. “I love doing anything that makes you think,” she notes. “I’m an avid reader, and I devour the newspaper from cover to cover every day to learn about current events. Crossword puzzles and playing along with TV game shows are helpful as well.” Music and day trips also help Ward keep a positive mindset. “I always look forward to riding around St. Louis neighborhoods or visiting places like the aquarium or the Shrine of Our Lady of the Snows,” she says. “Another favorite event is the sidewalk entertainment that comes to our building on Fridays. My neighbors and I enjoy relaxing on our balconies and listening to the guitar or keyboard music.” Ward says she has not allowed the COVID-19 restrictions to affect her outlook. “We’re all wearing our face masks whenever we need to,” she says. “I don’t see it as a problem. It’s just something we’ve got to do.”
For KEN ALEXANDER and JERRY CALCATERRA, residents at The Gatesworth in Ladue, online services and technologies have made life easier during the pandemic. “The best thing we’ve discovered is online grocery shopping,” Calcaterra says. “I love ordering what I need without having to get in the car. I’m not sure I will ever go to a supermarket again!” He also has been taking advantage of telehealth visits and appreciates those services immensely. “Some people think the technology sounds daunting, but it’s actually very convenient,” he notes. Alexander says while at home, he’s learned to absorb life’s little details more completely. “There are hummingbirds at feeders outside the window, and they have helped me focus on nature,” he explains. “I discovered a real interest in learning about them.” He says the pandemic also has taught him a lot about resilience. “I used to expend a lot of energy ‘catastrophizing’ about what might happen in the future,” he notes. “But as the years went by, I discovered I was always wrong. There’s no sense wasting time and energy on worry. You have to live in the moment and enjoy it.” &
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Caspari acrylic glassware brings an element of beauty and durability to the table. With the look of glass and the strength of plastic, each piece can be used indoors or out.
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We provide travel assurance for the new normal with safety, security and a jet cabin just for you and your guests. Enjoy guaranteed private jet services from a secure, local terminal. GATEWAY ARCH PARK FOUNDATION
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STANGE LAW FIRM
Stange Law is a divorce and family law firm headquartered in Clayton. The firm has office locations across the Midwest in Missouri, Illinois, Kansas and Oklahoma. NOTE: THE CHOICE OF A LAWYER IS AN IMPORTANT DECISION AND SHOULD NOT BE BASED SOLELY ON ADVERTISEMENTS.
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HUMANE SOCIETY OF MISSOURI
As the organization celebrates its 150th anniversary this year, it is proud to be one of the largest and oldest animal advocacy organizations in the United States. Its comprehensive programs include rescue, rehabilitation, adoption, humane education and world-class veterinary care.
SSM HEALTH FOUNDATION
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GATEWAY ARCH PARK FOUNDATION
The foundation welcomes Amanda Goldsmith as director of development. Her background in development, law, and secondary and higher education brings leadership, advocacy and passion to the foundation. ONE MEMORIAL DRIVE, STE. 700 | 314.881.2015 | ARCHPARK.ORG
FOUNDATION FOR BARNES-JEWISH HOSPITAL
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Support St. Louis’ urgent health care needs by making a gift to our SSM Health Urgent Response Fund or our oncology, women’s health or behavioral health efforts. Donate at givetossmhealth.org.
THE MAGIC HOUSE
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THE FOUNDATION FOR BARNES-JEWISH HOSPITAL
Join us Oct. 23 for our rescheduled Illumination Gala to support research at Siteman Cancer Center. This year’s entertainment is The Gatlin Brothers. Tickets and sponsorships are available. Call 314.286.0602 or visit illuminationgala.org. 1001 HIGHLANDS PLAZA DRIVE W., STE. 140 | 314.286.0600 | FOUNDATIONBARNESJEWISH.ORG
THE MAGIC HOUSE, ST. LOUIS CHILDREN’S MUSEUM
The Magic House is open! New practices and protocols have been put in place that exceed local, state and CDC guidelines. Reservations are required. 516 S. KIRKWOOD ROAD | 314.822.8900 | MAGICHOUSE.ORG
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The dinner and auction gala at The Sheldon served as a fundraiser for the nonprofit, which exists to prevent infant mortality, child abuse and neglect by providing in-home nursing visits that promote health care, education and positive parenting skills. Cynthia Yoder received the Lifetime Achievement Award. guests: Executive director Melinda Monroe, board president Linda Dougherty, honorary chairs David and Thelma Steward, Sen. Brian Williams
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Welcome to summer 2020 (official start, June 20)! If yours is like mine so far, it’s been filled with new challenges, new blessings and still more questions than answers about our ‘new norm,’ a phrase I am already tired of hearing. But as much as we want to be given a clear road map and reassurance that our lives will settle back safely, we still have work to do. What I do know is that we will be OK because of the ones who have gone before us, like my dear neighbor Marvin Kosky, who recently passed just 30 days before his 100th birthday. During World War II, he served as a captain in the 95th Division of Gen. George Patton’s Third Army. In addition to being a decorated veteran, he was an amazing human. You can read more about him in Talk of the Towns (pg. 8). He believed in working hard, loved a good competition and understood that life isn’t always fair, but kindness always wins. He was humble until his last breath and never lost hope that our post-COVID world would be a better place. It was a privilege and honor to call him my friend.
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My nephews affectionately refer to me as Aunt Kiki and my car as the ‘Vertible, and nothing makes me happier than being with those I love, out for a ride with the top down! One of the many adventures I had with Marvin was a ride with my best friend Penny on our way to dinner at Café Napoli last summer. A more recent adventure with my nephews was a sno-cone stop with their favorite song playing. These images make me smile and are my reminder that I need to be present in the moments given to me. Human connection will help us heal in the weeks and months ahead. Stay well, be safe, and continue to shine brightly!
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SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP PROVIDES A COMPLETE RANGE OF MEDICAL AND SURGICAL SERVICES TO TREAT FOOT AND ANKLE INJURIES AND DISORDERS. STARTING JULY 1, PATIENTS CAN BE SEEN IN SUITE 400 OF THE ST. FRANCIS BUILDING AT SSM HEALTH ST. CLARE HOSPITAL IN FENTON. PICTURED ON THE COVER: DR. MEGAN WALTERS. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.977.4440 OR VISIT SLUCARE.EDU/ ORTHOPEDIC-SURGERY. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP
HEALING STEPS SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP
by julia m. johnson WHEN MARYLAND HEIGHTS RESIDENT Stephanie Will fell a few months ago and broke her ankle, she was concerned about more than the physical side of her healing process. She also deals with anxiety issues and was worried about how she would handle surgery and recovery. Will says her fears were put to rest after meeting with SLUCare foot and ankle surgeon Dr. Megan Walters, who operated on her at SSM Health Saint Louis University Hospital. “Dr. Walters was wonderful,” she says. “She is the kind of doctor who remembers the little personal details about a patient, and that means a lot. She and her team worked hard to make me feel better at every step. I had never written a review about anything in my life, but when the hospital sent me a patient survey, I had to respond. My experience with the SLUCare staff was great.” Will had a fracture at the bottom of her fibula, so Walters inserted a plate and screws to stabilize the joint and help the bone heal. During a followup visit, the doctor noticed she was still walking with a limp, so she addressed the problem right away. “Dr. Walters taught me to concentrate on walking properly so I wouldn’t have future problems with my gait,” Will says. “She and the nursing staff understood my concerns, and they kept me laughing and smiling throughout so I wouldn’t focus on
my anxiety. They were helpful from start to finish.” Walters says there are a number of reasons a patient may require foot or ankle care. Bone and soft tissue injuries are common, and so are conditions like bunions, hammertoes, arthritis and flat feet. And in cases where surgery isn’t needed, doctors can work with patients to decide on the most effective medical treatment. “With most bony surgical procedures, you need strong fixation in the area, especially in a situation like Stephanie’s involving a weight-bearing joint,” Walters explains. “Bones generally take six to eight weeks to heal, so we need to hold things in place while the body repairs itself. Sometimes, implanted plates and screws can be removed later if the joint is stable.” She says the ankle generally does the same amount of weight bearing as a knee or hip joint, but the actual stress can be even greater when the person does strenuous activities like running or walking up stairs. Because the foot is made up of intricate joints, operating on it can be a complex process, so it’s important to consult with a knowledgeable surgeon. Foot and ankle patients now can access services at a new SLUCare office at SSM Health St. Clare Hospital in Fenton. Walters says that at the beginning of July, she will start seeing Friday appointments in the hospital’s St. Francis Building, and
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she looks forward to helping patients heal and return to normal activities. “We want to be sure each person regains as much mobility and flexibility as possible,” she says. “Recovery of these joints doesn’t happen overnight; it requires physical therapy, followup and a commitment from the patient and medical team. We work together to ensure the process goes smoothly from beginning to end.” &
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Many of us star t our days with the familiar face and voice of Rene Knott , morning anchor at KSDK-T V. The veteran broadcaster is recognized for his knowledge and candor, but also for his sar torial polish. T&S got an inside look at his formative years, sense of st yle and what he loves about St . Louis. HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN WITH CHANNEL 5, AND WHAT LED UP TO THAT? I’ve been there 16 years. I started in 1987 in Medford, Oregon, doing weekend sports. I was there for a couple years, then went down to Mobile, Alabama. Then I went to D.C. in 1992 as the weekend guy. That lasted for about two months, then I became the regular evening anchor and was there until 2004. YOU’VE BEEN HERE LONGER THAN ANYWHERE ELSE AND WATCHED YOUR FAMILY GROW HERE. THAT’S GOT TO BE A FUN THING FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE. It’s incredible. My son was born in Mobile, then we moved to D.C. and my daughter was born there. When we came here, we didn’t know what to expect. It has been a great experience family-wise because the neighborhood where we live is very strong. My son went to Wash. U. and my daughter went to Mizzou. It’s been outstanding to see them go from learning how to walk to being full grown adults leading their own lives. THEY ARE OLD ENOUGH TO BE PARENTS, SO YOU ARE ELIGIBLE TO BE A GRANDFATHER HERE SOON. Hey, keep that to yourself. Everyone always gives me a hard time about whether my daughter is going to get married. I say, not on my watch! WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR BEST FATHER’S DAY MEMORIES AS A SON? My dad was an old-school guy from Springfield, Ohio, who joined the Navy and moved out to California. He wasn’t one to really be affectionate or show a lot of love, but we knew he cared because he always provided for us. When you’re younger, you go to the drugstore and get him a bottle of cologne or a tie and make him a card for Father’s Day. He probably kept it all in a drawer and had it all the way up to the day he passed away. WHAT DID HE TEACH YOU? Memories of my dad have a lot to do with the man I got to hang out with after he retired. Those are the times I cherish the most because it was man-to-man. There were relatable conversations like, “Dad, how should I handle things with my own son?” He was the strongest person I ever met. No one had a greater influence on my work ethic and who I am today. I watched him work so hard for so long at UPS, and I understood that if you want to provide for your family, you’ve got to do it yourself. DO YOU HAVE CORNY DAD GIFTS IN YOUR DRAWER AS WELL? No, my kids know Dad is a little more fashionable than that. They’ll band together with my wife and get me something like a watch or a good bottle of whiskey. I do still have the pottery and gifts they made for me in elementary school. WHAT MESSAGES HAVE YOU TAKEN AWAY FROM THE PANDEMIC SITUATION? It’s not about me and my woes. It really is about all of us being in this together. I’ve watched the Urban League giving away $1 million worth of food, and just the fact that people out there are taking time to make sure others are comfortable is amazing. I thought for a long time that we had lost touch with those things, but now I think we’re going to be OK. People are showing an overwhelming amount of compassion for others. WHAT DO YOU MISS MOST THAT YOU USED TO DO BEFORE THE PANDEMIC? Being able to stop and eat lunch at one of our wonderful local restaurants. I’d go and get a hamburger and a beer, kick back and relax. I also miss going over to Busch Stadium for a ball game, and getting a beer on Friday with friends after work. I know restaurants are opening back up, and it’s not that I can’t go; I’m just not ready to. I will say that I’m cherishing home time a lot more than ever now. WHAT IS YOUR SIGNATURE STYLE? I enjoy wearing a patterned or plaid jacket and slacks that are solid. I love a white shirt because it’s crisp and clean and any tie goes with it. I’m not a guy who likes to wear suits; there’s more versatility with a jacket and a pair of pants. I love mixing up the shoes; I’ve got a pretty decent collection now, and a lot of ties, though I’ve kind of slowed down on them lately because some of them can be a little too bold. I’d rather have the jacket play the bold part. WHAT’S YOUR TRADITIONAL WEEKEND HANGOUT GARB? Lately I’ll wear black or brown loafers, blue jeans, a black T-shirt, my diamond cross around my neck and a big watch. I wear a beaded bracelet on my other wrist. I have a few other T-shirts with designs on them, but I prefer black. I just like to be comfortable—that’s my main thing. &
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Schlafly Bankside in St. Charles is now open! Following social distancing guidelines, the brewpub has limited capacity for dining and also is offering curbside carryout. … Caribbean comfort food restaurant Jerk Soul has set up shop at its new location at 3108 Cherokee St. Originally a carryout-only concept, the new digs include a dining room, which will open when COVID-19 regulations are further relaxed.
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Gerard Craft has been appointed culinary director for City Foundry STL. The James Beard Award winner and his team will be responsible for the food hall experience at the development, which plans to expand to include a public market. Niche Food Group will help curate tenants and will manage one or more of its own concepts within the space. … We’re all spending more time online, so don’t miss out on Weeds and Sardines. The new YouTube channel comes from acclaimed local chef Brian Langerstrom (previously of Niche and Union Loafers). His videos share recipes, knowledge and insider insight into the restaurant business.
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After having temporarily closed their doors due to the pandemic, a number of St. Louis restaurants have made the difficult decision not to reopen. They include 5 Star Burgers in Creve Coeur, Angelo’s Chicago Taste in Hazelwood, Bobo Noodle House on Skinker Boulevard, BRAVO Cucina Italiana inside West County Center, Cork Wine Bar in Ferguson, The Dubliner in Maplewood, Filomena’s Italian Kitchen in Glendale, Gamlin Whiskey House in the CWE, HopCat in the Delmar Loop, The Melting Pot in University City, Ryder’s Tavern on Chippewa Street, St. Louis Pizza and Wings in Florissant, STL Sunrise Cafe in Princeton Heights, SubZero Vodka Bar in the CWE, Tavolo V in the Delmar Loop and Wok-o-Taco on Page Avenue.
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MAJOR EXPANSION〉〉 Katie’s Pizza and Pasta Osteria is going national! The restaurant is expanding its newly created frozen pizza delivery service, which sold more than 40,000 pies locally in its first seven weeks. Pizzas are made to order, frozen and shipped the same day. They can be ordered along with frozen pasta bake options at katiespizza.com.
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PORSCHE, ALWAYS A LEADER IN AUTOMOTIVE TECHNOLOGY, has taken electric cars to a whole new level with its newly introduced Taycan, a good-looking four-door sedan that delivers the technology, quality, and most of all performance of a Porsche to the electric car world. The Taycan is a revolution, introducing performance levels heretofore unseen in the electric (or gas) car markets. A 0-60 time of 2.6 seconds makes it the quickest Porsche ever. Weighing in at a whopping 5,100+ pounds, the Taycan belies its weight with such driving aids as Porsche Dynamic Chassis Control Sport, all-wheel drive, and 4-wheel steering. Having all of the battery weight in the floor keeps the center of gravity very low, thus aiding agility. That such a heavy car can accelerate so quickly is a testament to the brute power and instantaneous torque output of the electric motors. With launch control, acceleration is blisteringly fast thanks to the available 750 horsepower. Power flows to the front wheels via a single-speed motor and to the rear wheels through a two-speed motor for maximum torque off the line, then more relaxed power delivery for cruising. Shifts are automatic and seamless. Different drive modes include economical, normal, sport and sport plus for varied levels of responsiveness, power and energy consumption. In sport or sport plus, the Taycan is extremely responsive and surprisingly nimble for such a heavy car, thanks in large part to a tightly tuned Porsche suspension and communicative steering. Of course, being a Porsche, the Taycan has excellent brakes. But unlike other electric cars, they are only minimally regenerative, so they don’t slow you down nearly as much as in makes like the Tesla. Porsche figures its drivers value maintaining speed by coasting more than regenerative slowing when the accelerator is released. The Taycan is deceptively fast. Without accompanying engine noise, it is very easy to get well above posted speed limits without realizing it. On the highway, it feels like you’re going 20 mph slower than you actually are. Additionally, with all that torque at your disposal, just touching the accelerator increases speed in 10 mph increments. One of the biggest barriers for people considering an electric car is range anxiety. The Taycan boasts an unprecedented 800-volt battery system, which allows an 80% recharge in about 25 minutes with a supercharger. Stated range is 192 miles, but independent testers have gotten upwards of 250. Lastly, the Taycan offers the practicality and luxury of a four-door sedan, with decent rear seat room, rear climate controls and heated seats, a decent-sized rear trunk (albeit with a small opening), and because there’s no engine up front, an additional ‘frunk,’ or front trunk. Well bolstered front leather seats are heated and cooled, the steering wheel is heated, and full cabin comfort is provided by 4-zone climate control. The futuristic gauge panel is all LCD. Exterior cameras offer surround and bird’s-eye views around the car. Vehicle, entertainment and connectivity interfaces are through large center touchscreens. Porsche St. Louis sales manager Casey Eldridge says, “Driving the Taycan changed the way I look at the automotive future. Porsche has taken electric to a whole new level, combining the brand’s best attributes with the future of automotive technology.” &
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REFRESH & RENEW PUR-ONE MEDISPA by julia m. johnson The injectable filler Restylane Kysse also is available now to help lips look softer and fuller. The hyaluronic acid treatment provides support to the lip border and enhances the body OWNER JACKIE CARR, RN of the lips.” Carr says each new client receives a free consultation to discuss individual concerns and address questions. “We talk about each person’s expectations and look at their facial structure, anatomy and skin health,” she says. “We also talk about what to avoid, like treatments that shouldn’t be done while on certain medications or supplements. And not all procedures are appropriate for every facial structure. If you have small, fine features, for example, a lot of lip enhancement won’t look right.” She says many people also are dealing with difficult areas of body fat since the lockdown, so treatments like Coolsculpting can be helpful. “It’s used in spots like the abdomen, flanks, bra area, underarms and thighs,” she says. “Whatever the client’s needs this summer, we offer treatments and solutions that can provide a more youthful appearance. St. Louisans are ready to RE JU VE NATIO N get back to normal as much as possible, and we are ready to help them feel refreshed and revitalized.” & SPEC IAL SECT ION
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The answer to dull skin, fine lines & unwanted body fat
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THE PAST FEW MONTHS HAVE BEEN CHALLENGING FOR MANY, but stressful times always underscore the importance of good self-care, says Jackie Carr, RN, ANP-BC, LE, owner of Pur-One Medispa in Des Peres. She says her practice is welcoming clients for treatments and procedures with a carefully thought-out set of safety measures in place. The medical spa’s services can help women and men regain a sense of vitality that they may have been missing this past spring. “We are practicing important precautions such as wearing masks and gloves and sanitizing surfaces,” Carr says. “We are very glad to be open and serving clients again, and safety is a high priority. The practice is all about enhancing a client’s natural beauty, and we have many ways to accomplish that this summer.” Popular services include chemical peels, hydrafacials, dermaplaning and other treatments to encourage skin cell turnover and improve freshness and texture. Good at-home skin care is encouraged as well. “Turnover slows significantly as you age, and that can cause dullness, dryness and other problems,” Carr explains. “When you are consistent about your care regimen, it trains your skin to ‘act younger’ and push out new cells.” Carr says she currently is seeing a lot of interest in facial services like lip fillers, especially among clients who have lines and wrinkles around the mouth or who want their lips to appear fuller. “Adults of all ages are asking for this treatment,” she says. “Another popular procedure is the ‘lip flip,’ which is accomplished with small amounts of Botox injected around the perioral muscles. It decreases pursing so that the top lip turns up slightly and looks fuller.” She says that as people age, they begin to lose volume in their facial tissue, including bone, muscle and skin. “When these structures deplete, it causes changes like pursing of the lips and vertical lines around the mouth,” she notes. “Each person’s anatomy is different, and it often takes a series of treatments to get to the level of fullness that is desired. Options like Juvederm Ultra can help with these issues.
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FRESH START By Julia M. Johnson
Doors are reopening around town as summer gains a foothold, and medical spas are among the health-related businesses paying special attention to client safety and convenience as they come back online. T&S talked with two medical spa directors who are adopting a positive outlook, putting new protocols in place and helping clients refresh their skin heading into the warmer months. AERON SHEFFIELD, RN, BSN, of Ethos Aveda Salon & Medspa, says his first priority is making sure patients and staff are protected properly at the office. “Everyone who comes in is scanned with a thermometer, and we ask them to wear masks and wash their hands with soap or use hand sanitizer,” he says. “We also are minimizing clients’ time in the waiting area and advising them to stay outside or in their cars until they can be checked in. There has been a learning curve, but it’s going well, and everyone has been very understanding.” Staff members are screened, gloved and masked as well, and the office keeps track of their daily temperatures to make sure no one is getting sick. CAROL ANDERSON, RN, CANS, owner of Nouveau, A Boutique Medspa, is paying close attention to health and safety concerns as well. In addition to using personal protective equipment and cleaning, screening and distancing procedures, her staff talks with clients about whether they’ve been exposed to COVID-19. “We looked at best practices regarding infectious disease and planned accordingly,” she says. “If you’ve had contact in the past two weeks with a person testing positive, we will ask that you delay your appointment for a couple of weeks. We schedule 15-minute intervals between clients to allow time for thorough sanitizing, and we make sure each person clears the building before the next appointment comes in. We also have people call us from the car upon arrival so we can manage their entry and exit. And we make sure to carefully answer any questions they may have.” Anderson says her clients have been accepting of the new procedures as well because they care about their own health and that of others. “We have two or three staff members working at any given time, and we can’t see as many patients in a day right now, but we feel the need to be safe and not take chances is more important,” she explains. “Once it’s OK to do so, we plan on expanding our schedule and holding a client appreciation party that we had to postpone.” Sheffield agrees that education is one of the most important safety measures a medical spa can practice, so he is putting particular emphasis on consulting individually with clients. “We are welcoming them back in a way that’s safe but also much more personal than a sign or handout,” he explains. “They have heard a lot of technical explanations about the pandemic from doctors and the media, and that information can be scary when it’s not in layman’s terms, so we are connecting with them directly in a way that’s easy to understand. People are craving the kind of outside human interaction and attention that they haven’t had in a while.” &
Summer-ready skin Now is a great time to think about medical spa treatments to refresh and de-stress your skin as you head into summer. They can help restore vitality and balance whether you’ve been stuck inside or working outdoors, and medical spa professionals can advise which ones may be combined to produce the best results. “Some people have been under a lot of pressure during this time, and others have had a chance to decompress,” Anderson says. “Whatever your stress level, you often can see the difference in your skin. Stress can break down collagen and lead to conditions like dryness and acne. If you’re not taking steps to rebuild and refresh your skin, you may run into problems.”
Here are some skin-rejuvenating medical spa treatments to consider: MICRONEEDLING, a procedure that can be combined with platelet-rich plasma therapy to refine and refresh skin CHEMICAL PEELS to strengthen skin and improve imperfections like discoloration, lines and wrinkles HYDRAFACIAL, a revitalizing treatment that removes dead skin cells and moisturizes; can be combined with aromatherapy and spot massage IV COCKTAILS, an intravenous infusion of nutrients and hydration to support immunity and skin health INJECTABLE TREATMENTS to improve appearance and texture JUNE 17, 2020
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WE’RE ALL EAGER FOR A RETURN TO SOME SENSE OF NORMAL, and for many, a big part of that is saying goodbye to working from home. As the city continues to open this summer, more and more St. Louisans will be returning to in-person working environments. While it is cause for excitement, that doesn’t mean that COVID-19 is just going to disappear. It’s important that we continue to keep ourselves and those around safe as we start to come into contact with more people. Greater understanding of how the disease spreads can help us work smarter and safer. Luckily, we already have an excellent model for how to deal with the virus in the workplace, according to Dr. Stephen Liang, an infectious disease specialist and assistant professor at Washington University School of Medicine. “Many hospitals have been operating with people working in close quarters for the past three months,” he notes. “The health care system has shown which interventions most effectively curb the spread of infection. It’s a mix of social distancing, everyday prevention practices and protecting vulnerable populations.”
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which when expelled, can travel up to 6 feet,” Liang explains. “That’s where the magic number for social distancing comes from.” He suggests limiting the number of people in conference rooms and break areas. If a meeting space does not allow people to maintain the proper distance, consider adding a videoconferencing component. “Providing an environment where you can separate people minimizes the risk of transmission,” he says.
✔PRACTICE PROPER HAND HYGIENE: “Everyday prevention is really important,” Liang notes. “So
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many different kinds of infection can be prevented by soap and water or hand sanitizer. Washing your hands frequently protects you from germs transmitted by others and the environment.” ✔WEAR A MASK: Face masks help prevent the spread of respiratory droplets. “When you wear a mask, you’re protecting others,” Liang says. “Face covering is especially important in indoor settings where it’s more likely you’ll come into close contact with other people.” In workplaces, masks should be worn when it’s not possible to maintain a 6-foot distance such as in hallways, elevators and break rooms. ✔CLEAN THE ENVIRONMENT: Regularly sanitize high-touch surfaces like doorknobs and keyboards. ✔LOOK OUT FOR OTHERS: While the majority of COVID-19 cases are mild, the virus is still a serious threat to some populations, such as senior citizens and people with pre-existing medical conditions. “It’s important to protect these employees because they have the greatest risk of an adverse outcome,” Liang notes. ✔STAY AT HOME: One of the most important things about returning to the office is actually knowing when it’s time to stay home. Don’t go to work if you feel sick or are exhibiting symptoms. “Taking sick days is something many of us aren’t good at,” Liang notes. “We feel the need to push through because we don’t want to let down our coworkers. But it’s important to realize that spreading infection won’t help anyone. We must promote a work culture where people can feel safe and seek medical care if they need it.”
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Beauty Treatments By Marylyn Simpson
Whether you’re not quite ready to venture out to a salon or spa, or you’ve always preferred to pamper yourself in the comfort of your own home, there’s no time like the present to indulge in at-home beauty treatments. From nail kits to NuFace toning devices, here is a list of beauty products that will keep you in tiptop shape.
BRIGHT EYES
Trying to recover after a late night of watching TikTok videos? KNC Beauty has your back (well, your eyes), thanks to its retinol-infused eye mask. Packed with natural ingredients like hyaluronic acid, gold, collagen, aloe, and licorice root and rosemary extracts, the mask will help your eyes shine brightly no matter how many hours of sleep you lose.
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You can have it all with Olive and June’s Everything Box featuring the brand’s complete collection of 14 manicure tools and 6 nail polishes. Getting a professional manicure at home has never been easier thanks to the kit’s flat-edge nail clipper, dual-grit nail file and ‘The Poppy,’ Olive and June’s universal polish applicator. Your go-to L.A. manicurist is now just a few clicks away. Olive and June Everything Box oliveandjune.com, $80
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A microcurrent facial toning device that boasts the same benefits as a luxury spa facial, NuFace Mini is the product du jour for at-home pampering. Delivering unparalleled professional results after just one use, it works to minimize the appearance of fine lines, define the jawline and improve facial tone. The gentle, adjustable microcurrent provides results that are more than skin deep, leaving you with lasting improvement. NuFace Mini mynuface.com, $199
KNC Beauty Eye Mask kncbeauty.com, $25 for a 5-pack
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The heavyweight at-home treatment device, SpectraLite FaceWare Pro Mask by Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare, is as intense as it sounds. Designed to smooth skin and combat wrinkles, this hockey mask-like device is the closest thing to a laser facial at home. With 162 red and blue LED lights, the mask destroys acne-inducing bacteria and boosts collagen production. It also firms skin, evens out tone, reduces sun and age spots and eliminates redness and inflammation. Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare SpectraLite FaceWare Pro dermstore.com, $435
WORKOUT FOR YOUR FACE
It looks a bit odd, I will admit, but think of Skin Gym’s High-Frequency Wand as a modern-day zit zapper. Perfect for acne-prone skin, the wand’s high-frequency currents treat stubborn blemishes, even in the most hard-to-reach areas like around the nose. The wand comes with three glass electrode attachments and is a travel-friendly size, so you’ll never be without your blemish fighter. Skin Gym High-Frequency Wand revolve.com, $95
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their houses and notice spaces that need updating. The owners of this Creve Coeur home decided to modernize their kitchen by introducing some bold contrast, and they asked Liston Design Build to step in and help their vision take shape. “Our typical clients are those who love where they live but need to make changes because their rooms have become tired or outdated,” says co-owner Jeanne Liston. “The owners of this home have a growing family, so it was important to make some kitchen updates. For example, they needed to move the cooktop off the center island so more people could sit and eat together.” The kitchen’s previous look included brown tones, but the owners decided on a bold white and charcoal scheme to replace it. Liston says the owners had always liked the idea of white in their kitchen, but they didn’t want too much of it, so they worked with the company to create a pleasing balance between light and dark. “Our client said she had always wanted a professional Wolf range for her ‘forever kitchen,’ so we added that,” she notes. “She also wanted marble countertops for a classic, elegant look.” The Liston team was able to provide a variety of options and finishes so the client’s dream cooking environment could become a reality. They also added beautiful hardwood floors to flow seamlessly with the flooring in adjoining spaces. “It’s a classic look that will last,” Liston says. Remodels like this are made easy and efficient by Liston Design Build, a 36-yearold company in its third generation of family ownership. The business is set up to provide convenient turnkey service, from initial planning and design to construction and finishing. Liston says working with one company for design and construction makes the process easier because it eliminates the need to juggle different providers, and it keeps everyone on the same page during each phase of the project. She says the company can connect with clients by videoconference to consult about the design process and any questions they have along the way. “Many clients are realizing there
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are rooms they need to repurpose, like turning play space into a home office,” she notes. “We enjoy helping them bring their ideas to life.” Liston adds that the company is particularly sensitive to safety concerns, especially since most families have to be at home during their renovation projects. “We have put a lot of thought into our procedures and are keeping the appropriate amount of space between individuals while each remodel is under way,” she notes. “We also use wash stations, air filtration systems and other precautions to keep everyone safe.” Liston says working virtually with clients has proven to be a real benefit, and the company has fine-tuned its online consultation process to serve them efficiently. “We make the experience easy and enjoyable,” she notes. “People love being able to choose cabinets, countertops and flooring from HO ME & GA RD EN the comfort of their homes. With more than three decades of experience, we know how to make our clients happy, from the first drawings to the finishing touches.” & SPEC IAL SECT ION
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HOMEWORK
DEAR HOMEWORK,
We’ve brought our mid-century home back to shining on the inside, but the outside is a challenge. Our front door is on the back, facing the pool. We have two driveways—the first goes to a side door and garage, and the second is the ‘public’ drive that leads to the entry on the back. Add to this the fact that the soft brick on the garden walls and chimney is decaying, and you have a mess. Any help you can provide to get people to our main door and increase our mid-century vibe and curb appeal would be a blessing. Sincerely, —ENTRY EXAM
DEAR ENTRY EXAM,
It would be a test to any visitor, providing a choice of driveways and hiding the front door as well! To make the entry as simple as possible, I suggest several modifications. First, at the curb, let’s build an entrance gate with a new brick wall to house the mailbox, coach lamp and address plaque. Then, let’s plant a bold, curving bed of Sunshine Ligustrum to draw the eye to a new wood trellis that frames an iron gate. A matching coach lamp and large flower urn help underscore this as the entry point. Next, I would try to make the landscape a bit bolder and simpler by planting a continuous evergreen hedge finished with large, colorful grasses. I show a new brick planter below the chimney mass to add an additional layer to the architecture. I also would add three white dogwoods to draw the guests up the entry drive, and I would hide the service drive with informal plantings to minimize the confusion. Personally, I like the current colors, but painting the brick and siding some sort of earth tone would be fine. I would maintain the difference between the brick and the siding colors because I think it helps the overall composition. Thanks for an interesting problem, —HOMEWORK
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3 DUNLORA LANE | HUNTLEIGH | $2,299,000
Rarely is a home as elegant and impressive as it is charming and cozy. This is the home fairy tales are written of! A nearly five acre private park-like paradise includes a koi pond, picturesque swimming pool and majestic trees. Enjoy the views from numerous terraces and covered porches. Garage parking accommodating four cars and adequate land for horses make this a truly special offering. Create a lifetime of memories and a legacy for generations to come at #3 Dunlora Lane!
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In “The Cornell Reading Courses” Martha Van Rensselaer once wrote “The first law of good taste is simplicity”. Whether as a matter of design or a daily lifestyle, 52 Westmoreland Place embodies this philosophy. Beginning with a complete renovation by St. Louis architectural firm Maritz and Young in the 1930s, this home has been meticulously maintained and upgraded throughout the decades including some more recent changes made by a prominent St. Louis mayoral family.
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3304 HALLIDAY | ST. LOUIS | $375,000
7444 WASHINGTON | U CITY | $939,000
Walking to the diverse restaurants and cultural attractions of South Grand, annual neighborhood block parties and enjoying Halloween festivities with neighbors is a little taste of the fun life that awaits you at 3304 Halliday Avenue. Located on one of the prettiest streets in Tower Grove East you will find this stately limestone clad city home. The total package for your next chapter.
Gorgeous, 3 year young 2 story brick and stone home. Over 4100 ft of total living space with 5 beds and 4.5 baths. Bright eat-in kitchen opens to family room- tons of space for entertaining, second floor has master suite, laundry and three more generouslysized bedrooms. The partially finished lower level offers large rec room, fifth bedroom and full bath. Charming porches, fenced yard.
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Sought after La Hacienda, this home has a beautiful contemporary flair, open floor plan, 5 bedrooms and a finished lower level. Perfection!
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THE LUXURY COLLECTION OF ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE
12760 Post Oak Road
111 South Spoede Road
12445 Balwyck Lane
30 Brighton Way #3S
426 North Harrison Avenue
353 Oak Stand Path
4 Litzsinger Lane
10935 Janridge Lane
1608 Frontenac Woods Court
735 Thiebes Road
17685 Wakefield Meadow Court
17406 Windridge Estates Court
3117 Longfellow Boulevard
9635 Old Bonhomme Road
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Town & Country | $2,900,000
Creve Coeur | $1,675,000
Kirkwood | $1,250,000
Chesterfield | $950,000
Frontenac | $885,000
St Louis City | $788,000
Labadie | $829,000
Olivette | $775,000
Des Peres | $1,650,000
Clayton | $1,295,000
Ladue | $949,900
Creve Coeur | $928,000
Wildwood | $799,900
Chesterfield | $799,000
Chesterfield | $760,000
Weldon Spring | $625,000
THE CLASSIC COLLECTION OF ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE
Olivette | $735,000
Ladue | $725,000
Wildwood | $719,900
19139 Hardt Road
16215 Thornberry Ridge Ln
6318 Washington Avenue
730 Fairfield Lake Drive
307 Tavern Creek Court
1623 Garden Valley Drive
728 Cherry Tree Lane
University City | $669,000
702 Willow Spring Hill Court Chesterfield | $469,000
12 Maryhill
Chesterfield | $659,900
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University City | $469,000
St Albans | $650,000
Wildwood | $695,000
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159 Kendall Bluff Court Chesterfield | $685,000
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275 Merlot Lane
St Albans | $670,000
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University City | $469,900
Creve Coeur | $469,900
354 Greenbriar Lane
307 Shady Meadows
Ballwin | $349,900
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SUMMER IS HERE, AND FOR MANY ST. LOUISANS, THE SEASON MEANS BARBECUES, LOTS OF OUTDOOR PLAY AND JUST RELAXING ON THE PORCH OR PATIO. NOW IS THE PERFECT TIME TO TRANSFORM YOUR BACKYARD INTO A PERSONAL OASIS SO YOU CAN MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR TIME IN THE SUN.
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According to Richard Knight, owner of Garden Oasis, early summer is a great time to tackle gardening and landscaping. You avoid the season’s worst heat, and nurseries have more plant options in stock. He says the best way to start is to look around your yard and find areas you aren’t satisfied with. “If there’s a spot that’s been bugging you, measure it to see what you can plant there,” he explains. “Focus on one project, do your research and get it started. Consider planting trees to add shade for your patio. Add flower beds for more color and interest. If you already have a beautiful garden, you might want to add a water feature to create a sense of tranquility.” Don’t have a green thumb? Knight says container gardening is an easy way to add flowers and other plants to your yard and patio. “A lot of people don’t want the hassle of weeding and maintaining flower beds,” he notes. “Pots are a great way to add a splash of color, and they’re easy to maintain. All you have to do is water, feed and pinch back the blooms. It’s a great way for inexperienced gardeners to get an instant wow factor.”
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For many kids (and adults), an at-home court for basketball, tennis and other sports is a dream. Austin Helfers, co-owner of Sport Court St. Louis, says it’s more achievable than people think. “From a small shooting area to a full tennis court, we can create something that fits your backyard,” he explains. “We take care of everything from start to finish, including helping with the permit process.” The multi-sport courts are highly personalizable. While Helfers says blue and green are the most popular surface colors, there are more than 20 options, and all lines are custom painted. “The possibilities are endless.” he notes. A home court offers other advantages, including increased family time and greater security. “It’s important that we think about safety when kids are involved in athletics,” Helfers says. “The PowerGame+ surface was tested for concussions, and the drop height was found to be 36 inches. For comparison, it only takes a 1-inch drop on concrete to cause a concussion.” PowerGame+ will be used at the upcoming Tokyo Olympics for 3-on-3 basketball. Along with reduced risk of impact injury, it provides shock absorption, abrasion protection and dry traction.
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While sunshine and beautiful weather certainly are appealing, they can also mean painful glare, annoying insects and other issues. Porch screens can help you enjoy your backyard without worrying about summer’s peskier aspects. “They increase your living space and allow you to enjoy the feeling of being outside,” says Dayton Holloway, operations manager of Broadview Screen Co. A big trend he’s seeing this year is motorized screens. The retractable shades allow homeowners to keep their porches and patios open to their backyards and pools during the day while enjoying a bug-free environment in the evening. The value of a screened-in porch can extend beyond the summer months. Holloway says EZE Breeze panels can make a porch comfortable in all seasons. They open to allow in breezes while keeping out insects and debris, and when closed, they provide protection from rain, snow, sun and even pollen. “The high-density vinyl looks like glass,” he notes. “The panels allow you to extend use of your outdoor spaces into winter. They do not keep out the cold, so you may need to use a heater.”
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Offered at $1,575,000 | 8000 SF fi fin nished living space
Vacation at home! Located in the Heart of Chesterfield, this impressive 1.5 story home won’t disappoint. The 1.5 acre lot, on a cul-de-sac, backs to trees offering ultimate privacy. Summer is here and it’s time to relax in the refreshing saltwater pool. Enjoy the finished walk-out lower level with media room for the perfect movie night.
Sheryl Deskin Real Estate Team 636-534-8329
8141 KINGSBURY BLVD, CLAYTON
1401 FOX HILL FARMS COURT, CHESTERFIELD
Offered at $1,395,000 | 3120 SF fi fin nished living space
Offered at $1,645,000 | 5354 SF fi fin nished living space
This stately home in a prestigious suburb is a satisfying mix of old & new in an unbeatable, walkable location. The former owner’s labor of love has produced a property of refined elegance that you’ll only appreciate fully on viewing.
Gorgeous private setting, custom details on all three levels of this versatile floor plan create a move-in ready opportunity in a premier location! Additional SF in the professionally finished lower level.
Sabrina Robb Partners 314-677-6490
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16718 WILLS TRACE, WILDWOOD
4 BRAZILLIAN COURT, LADUE
Offered at $1,450,000 | 6479 SF fi fin nished living space
Offered at $899,000 | 2836 SF fi fin nished living space
Private lot, in ground pool, main fl master, wood flooring, custom mill work & archways, 3 fireplaces, high pour on all levels are just a few of the many features offered!!
Beautifully appointed renovated home offers light filled spaces, classic finishes and perfect outdoor entertaining spaces around the pool!
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525 TICINO DRIVE, IMPERIAL $4,250,000 The breathtaking estate on 120 sprawling acres is perched at the peak of the property, overlooking stunning views of the Mississippi River. It has a fine equestrian facility housing 12 horses, a riding ring, lovely pool/spa, carriage house and greenhouse. STEPHANIE OLIVER DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY 314.322.6992 | 314.725.0009 525TICINO.COM DIELMANNSOTHEBYSREALTY.COM
8025 MARYLAND AVE., PENTHOUSE 15C, CLAYTON | $2,735,000 This penthouse combines today’s modern amenities with fabulous outdoor spaces. Architecturally significant and perched atop the 15th floor, it offers remarkable views from every room. Luxury combined with casual living spaces provides an experience that feels unlike any other. SUZIE WELLS AND AIMEE SIMPSON DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY 314.881.3838 | 314.725.0009 WELLS-SIMPSON.COM DIELMANNSOTHEBYSREALTY.COM
118 CRANDON DRIVE, CLAYTON $1,750,000
11415 CLAYTON ROAD, FRONTENAC $1,450,000
There is a certain mystique to the jewel known as Clayton Gardens. Enjoy the allure of tree-lined streets and the wonder of realizing that everything you’ve ever wanted is just a stroll away.
Nestled on just under 1 acre in the heart of Frontenac, this home provides 4,778 square feet of open living spaces. It features a two-story entry with great room, dining room, study, master suite, open kitchen and hearth room on the main floor.
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The Gellman Team Sells St. Louis! �� THE REAL ESTATE MARKET’S ON FIRE ��
Spring Market Is Starting Late – Ready to Buy or Sell?
Town & Country - $2,850,000
Frontenac - $2,589,013
Town & Country - $1,625,000
Clayton - $1,625,000
Chesterfield - $1,525,000
Wildwood - $1,460,000
Chesterfield - $972,500
Richmond Heights - $960,000
Chesterfield - $875,000
Creve Coeur - $850,000
Town & Country - $838,000
Clayton - $800,000
Chesterfield - $795,000
Clayton - $770,000
Wildwood - $759,000
3 ANDRE DRIVE, DES PERES | $1,149,000 Spectacular 6-bedroom, 4.5-bath home with 5,926 square feet of space nestled on a one-acre lot. Updates include living and dining rooms with chic finishes, a reimagined kitchen, sunny breakfast room and dramatic great room. CHRISTY THOMPSON JANET MCAFEE REAL ESTATE 314.974.6140 CHRISTYTHOMPSON.JANETMCAFEE.COM
17050 WOODCHUCK PLACE, CHESTERFIELD | $1,100,000
Town & Country - $715,000
Town & Country – $710,000
Richmond Heights - $705,000
Warson Woods - $696,250
Chesterfield - $695,000
Creve Coeur - $685,000
Town & Country – $656,000
Chesterfield - $628,000
Chesterfield - $620,000
Wildwood - $605,000
University City – $599,000
Creve Coeur - $595,000
Ballwin - $575,000
Chesterfield - $569,000
Creve Coeur – $567,500
Creve Coeur - $555,000
St Louis - $549,000
Creve Coeur - $542,900
Ballwin - $515,000
Wildwood - $490,000
St Louis - $485,000
Fenton - $482,387
Olivette - $480,000
St Louis - $460,000
Creve Coeur – $459,000
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This 4,246-square-foot Parkview II masterpiece is dedicated to water views and comfort. Every room in the back of this must-see home has been designed to maximize the lake view. JULIA BAKEWELL REDKEY REALTY LEADERS 314.401.7620 | 314.692.7200 JULIABAKEWELL.COM
16648 BARTIZAN DRIVE, WILDWOOD | $995,000 Immaculate, pristine, and luxurious while remaining comfortable, this custom-built beauty sits in the picturesque neighborhood of Bartizan Pointe. Let Lottmann Realty lead you to luxury today. JEFF LOTTMANN LOTTMANN REALTY GROUP, RE/MAX RESULTS 636.812.4414 MYSTLREALTOR.COM
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97 ABERDEEN PLACE, CLAYTON | $925,000 This big-hearted home in a friendly neighborhood blends proud 1930s craftsmanship with contemporary architecture to deliver a peaceful escape from everyday life. Walk to schools, restaurants, entertainment and universities or enrich the soul at Forest Park. SABRINA ROBB PARTNERS KELLER WILLIAMS LUXURY SAINT LOUIS 314.677.6490 SABRINAROBBPARTNERS.COM
IMAGINE WH AT THE REST OF TH E P L ACE LO OKS LIKE. IMAGINE WH AT THE REST OUR FROM A VISION OF BRILLIANT ENGINEERING OFPRODUCTS TH EAREPBORN L ACE LO OKS LIKE. AND INSPIRED DESIGN. PATENTED TECHNOLOGIES BRING A NEW DIMENSION TO FUNDAMENTAL ELEMENTS OF DESIGN FOR AN ELEGANT OUR PRODUCTS ARE BORN FROM A VISION OF BRILLIANT ENGINEERING YET MODERN AESTHETIC WHERE FORM, FUNCTION AND FLOW BLEND AND INSPIRED DESIGN. PATENTED TECHNOLOGIES BRING A NEW TOGETHER SEAMLESSLY. DIMENSION TO FUNDAMENTAL ELEMENTS OF DESIGN FOR AN ELEGANT YET MODERN AESTHETIC WHERE FORM, FUNCTION AND FLOW BLEND PRESENTING THE PARABOLA COLLECTION. TOGETHER SEAMLESSLY.
7257 GREENWAY AVE., UNIVERSITY CITY | $915,000 Majestically poised on one of the best lots in University Hills, this manse offers the elegance of a golden era with a floor plan that is bright and open. Each room is its own architectural gem. THE WARNER HALL GROUP DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY 314.764.5238 | 314.725.0009 WARNERHALLGROUP.COM | DIELMANNSOTHEBYSREALTY.COM
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35 GRANADA WAY, LADUE | $825,000 Gorgeous two-story in the sought-after La Hacienda neighborhood has four-plus bedrooms and numerous high-end updates. With walls of windows and contemporary flair, this home is spectacular. Enjoy the finished lower level and vaulted ceilings in the show-stopping great room. KIM CARNEY COLDWELL BANKER PREMIER GROUP 314.422.7449 KIMCARNEY@CBPHOMES.COM
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