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You can still catch the community college’s Peterson Photography Series exhibition through Oct. 27. The show features the work of Photo Flood Saint Louis, a collection of professional and amateur photographers dedicated to capturing the vibrant histories of St. Louis neighborhoods.

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The nonprofit celebrated its 2022 grantees: FamilyFoward, Ready Readers, North Side Community School and City Garden Montessori School. The organizations were awarded a total of $200,000 to expand access to early learning programs for children in underserved communities.

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The foundation is celebrating 25 years of giving back to St. Louis. Since its inception in 1997, it has provided nearly $3.9 million in donations, materials and labor to around 90 local nonprofits.

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Congrats to the senior living nonprofit! It won five awards from LeadingAge Missouri for its contributions in the fields of aging, health care, housing and community-based services.

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TOWN TALK 〉〉 7 COVER STORY – St. Joseph’s Academy 8 TALK OF THE TOWNS 10 THE INSIDER PATTY UNLEASHED STANDOUT SCHOOLS 12 HEARD IN THE HALLS 13 PARENT TRAP – Is College Necessary? 16 SPECIAL FEATURE – Last-Minute Halloween Costumes CHARITY & CULTURE 〉〉 18 SPECIAL FEATURE – Glennon Card: STL Support 20 SNAPPED! Clayton Winehouse Paraquad 21 SAVE THE DATE IN THE TABLE OF CONTENTS october 19, 2022 next issue november 2 FOUNDED IN 1840 BY THE SISTERS OF ST. JOSEPH OF CARONDELET, ST. JOSEPH’S ACADEMY IS AN ALL-GIRLS’ CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL IN FRONTENAC. IT RECENTLY COMPLETED A RENOVATION OF ITS LIBRARY. PICTURED ON THE COVER: PAUL AND KATHLEEN MOORE MATECKI (’74) WITH ST. JOE’S STUDENTS IN THE NEW MATECKI LIBRARY. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.394.4300 OR VISIT SJA1840.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO BY COLIN MILLER OF STRAUSS PEYTON PHOTOGRAPHY 12 10 The all-new Matecki Library NOV. 6, 11 A.M. 4 P.M. TOWN TALK CHARITY & CULTURE PHOTO CREDIT: MICHELLE BATES 18

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A PLACE TO LEARN

LIBRARIES ARE AT THE CENTER OF EVERY SCHOOL as a place for students to explore interests, engage in their education and work together to solve problems. St. Joseph’s Academy in Frontenac recently renovated its library to better serve students. Inspired by the charism of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet, the all-girls Catholic high school is dedicated to providing an environment where young women are challenged to grow in faith, knowledge and respect for themselves and others.

Built in 1955, the library needed an update, according to principal of academic affairs Jennifer Sudekum, Ed.D. “Prior to the renovation, it was a bit like stepping into a time warp,” she says. “Now, the space can really reinforce our mission to cultivate intellectual distinction and overall excellence through a balanced education that supports the whole woman.” The library’s update is part of a larger renovation project that began at St. Joseph’s Academy in 2019 and encompasses the school’s second and third floors, including the new Weidert Center for Integrated Science and the Sisters of St. Joseph Humanities Hall.

The library’s renovation was funded by a donation from alumna Kathleen Moore Matecki (’74) and her husband, Paul. Matecki has always been passionate about reading, so she was interested in meeting the needs of St. Joseph Academy’s library and inspiring its students to become avid readers. The renovated space was named the Matecki Library, and it has a special section called “Kathleen’s Favorites,” which is filled with meaningful books. “We could not complete projects like the Matecki Library without the support of alumnae,” Sudekum says. “We are so grateful to Kathleen and Paul for their belief in Catholic education. Their donation has allowed us to create a space where our students can learn and grow.”

The renovations have made the library a more usable space with a new circulation desk allowing students to more easily conference with a librarian and workstations for them to use their laptops for projects and research. Along with quiet study areas, there are collaborative learning spaces where students can work together, just as they would in a college environment. “All of these additions are combined with our great research databases and collection of fiction and nonfiction works,” Sudekum says. “The new library is ideal for developing the 21st-century skills necessary in college prep education.”

With the start of the new year, students are already enjoying the Matecki Library–whether it’s through collaborative work, research projects or independent study. The space also is now home to virtual reality equipment, which will be used to provide an immersive, interactive experience in a variety of subjects. “It’s a cross-curriculum learning platform that is already being used by English, theology and science classes, as well as by our Global Education program,” Sudekum notes. “The library has always been an important place for students. Now, it just better complements St. Joseph’s Academy’s dedication to preparing young women to go out and make a profound impact in the world.” &

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Someone once said that there’s nobody more boring than a talking writer. My wife would tend to agree on occasion with that statement. But this is probably not the case for fiction writer George Saunders: Time calls him the best short-story writer in English. In 2013, the magazine included him in its list of the world’s 100 Most-Influential People. He’s won a truckload of literary awards, including the Man Booker Prize. What’s more, he sports awesome, bushy facial hair, much like the favorite writer of a few local folks. So, it might be worth spending an evening with Saunders, who’s coming to Chaminade to share Liberation Day, his latest collection of short fiction, which publicity materials say, “cuts to the very heart of what it means to live in community with other humans.” Whether familiar with his work or not, readers should be affected by many of these nine stories,

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So, you think chamber music appreciation requires sitting impassively, ramrod-straight, perhaps adjusting your bowtie and inspecting your cufflinks while your date lovingly admires her jewelry? Bet you didn’t think you might actually start toe tapping! Chamber Project St. Louis (CPSL) presents “GROOVE,” a program designed to dash misconceptions and even motivate you to move. This spirited and eclectic program for flute, clarinet, strings and keyboards is 7:30 p.m. Nov. 18 at WashU’s 560 Music Center just west of the Delmar Loop in U. City. Sampling the Caribbean’s rich musical tapestry, Jamaican composer Peter Ashbourn will perform “Jamaica Folk” with his string quartet. This will be followed by the world premiere of St. Louis composer, performer and educator Blake Hernton, AKA Concert Black, who melds elements of classical, jazz and hip hop—his ‘new-age instrumental’ style will incorporate expanded versions of pieces from his debut EP. (It’s part of CPSL’s commissioning project, now in its seventh year.) Then comes a blast from the powdered-wig past: Nearly 300 years ago Italian composer Antonio Vivaldi compiled a set of concertos for the flute, an instrument still under development at the time. Groove to his flute concerto La notte—a driving rhythmic element is a chief characteristic of Vivaldi’s sound, which links it to the modern works slated for the evening. For instance, cowboy dance steps inspired Libby Larsen’s “Barn Dances,” so each movement of her music expresses a playful take on this uniquely American music. The closer? Arranged by Christopher Woehr of St. Louis, “Roma Suite” evokes a famed Romanian ensemble’s take on the traditional; Woehr produced this wildly expressive, complex and rhythmic arrangement for clarinet and string quartet just 10 years ago. But if any or all of this still seems too rich for your pop-oriented blood, consider attending a ‘Very Open Rehearsal’ on Nov. 3 at the St. Louis County Library’s Willowyck branch. A moderator of this casual, interactive—and free—preview will let you ask questions of the musicians as they rehearse. Visit chamberprojectstl.org.

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which “coalesce into a case for viewing the world with the same generosity and clear-eyed attention Saunders does, even in the most absurd of circumstances.”

And, certainly, we don’t need a publicist to tell us that plenty of absurdity seems to be going around nowadays. Come hear what Saunders has to say about the world and our place in it. He is set to appear next week—Oct. 26 at 7 p.m.—at the Skip Viragh Center for the Arts. Visit slcl.org for information on tickets, which also are available through Eventbrite.

When I worked as a vendor stocking candy in the checkout lanes at metro Home Depot stores, it astonished me how the company got such a big jump on holiday merchandising. Huge, inflatable spooky yard ornaments started appearing in the store, fully formed and much bigger than life, as early as July. But folks, if the pre-holiday frenzy seems to start earlier every year, that’s definitely true this year. Experts say there’s a method to this madness. It’s another unpredictable side effect of the COVID-19 pandemic. Supply-chain problems led to a glut of merchandise arriving at the last minute or late. Collectively, retailers are stuck with tons of unsold, out-of-season inventory, from unfashionable apparel and obsolete laptops to musty furniture. Earlier this month, The Washington Post took a deep dive into the situation, explaining that stores are sitting on a record $732 billion of merchandise. So retailers’ 2022 entreaties smack of desperation—the big boxes for weeks have been asking us, in advertising and through mailings, whether we’re ready for the upcoming holiday. They don’t mean Halloween, of course; cartons of candy, costumes and decorations shipped months ago. They mean the extended late-fall buying season that culminates on Dec. 24. Amazon has even announced a second Prime Day sale, less than three months after its last one. Maybe economists are just trying to urge Americansto spend their hard-earned money because we’re all trying to avoid a recession. Spend it now, for all of us. Take one for the team. Season’s Greetings!

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WHAT DID THE LATE POP SINGER LAURA BRANIGAN HAVE TO DO WITH THE BLUES’ STANLEY CUP EXPERIENCE? Extra credit: “Celebration” was the unofficial Redbirds theme song for the 1982 World Series. Who recorded the song, and when was it a No. 1 hit in Billboard?

LAST ISSUE’S Q & A

As time passes, what happens to the titular portrait in Oscar Wilde’s The Picture of Dorian Gray?

Perhaps better known for his plays, Irish writer Oscar Wilde is also famed for The Picture of Dorian Gray, his only novel. If you don’t mind getting the creeps combined with the willies, it’s a great gothic read. The title character makes a deal with the devil to retain his youth, which he does. Meanwhile, the portrait ages horribly.

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The ecstasy and the agony sum up another frustrating season for the Redbirds, but that’s not important right now because it’s over. This just means that it’s time for the StL to bleed blue! It’s also time for another sports book from Dan O’Neill, who retired a few years ago after 32 years as a sportswriter for our town’s esteemed metro daily. Best of The Blues: The Greatest Players in Team History is the third of three Reedy Press books by O’Neill, and his second on the favorite NHL franchise of nearly everyone in the metro. (He had to go back in to revise When the Blues Go Marching In once the team had won the Stanley Cup in 2019. It’s now the “Championship Edition.”) O’Neill, who lives in Oakville, has also authored a book on baseball, Celebration: The Magic of the Cardinals in the 1980s. One could say they wove the most magic in 1982, although they made it to the World Series in 1985 and 1987, too. But that ‘one’ would not be Dan O’Neill, who was like one of those ‘knothole gang’ baseball fans, only with hockey. He was a few years away from graduating

U. City High—age 15, in fact—when he did his best to look old enough for the busboy job he landed at the Arena Club, during the formative years of the Blues franchise. But the inveterate sports fan came by his professional career honestly, graduating from Mizzou’s J-School in 1981 and cutting his teeth with the Suburban Journals before landing at the St. Louis Post-Dispatch in 1985, where he became known affectionately around the newsroom as the ‘Bogeyman,’ because he wrote a lot about golf, too, in his popular sports column. Sportswriting is kind of, but mostly not, like newswriting—‘fans’ is just a shortened form of ‘fanatics,’ but after all, sports is just for good sports. Well, it should be. (I mean, don’t people still call that New York baseball team, the one that’s not the Yankees, ‘pond scum’?) O’Neill’s books can be the source of lively arguments, but usually no one gets hurt unless someone’s had too much to drink. Any of O’Neill’s books looks beautiful on a coffee table, and can serve to start conversations at any party, with or without cocktails.

“I just think they’re fun books,” says O’Neill. “But these days, you can’t talk to anybody or read anything that doesn’t have an agenda.” You certainly can argue the merits and debits of a Bernie Federko vs. a Brett Hull until a third person steps in to insist that Wayne Gretzky isn’t called ‘The Great One’ for his hairstyle. Yeah, the paper needs to hit the presses at a certain time—but championships are won or lost during those excruciating extra innings, endless overtime periods, nail-biting playoff holes … and interminable minutes timeouts take in football, basketball, soccer, ad nauseam. “Nobody knows deadlines like a sportswriter,” O’Neill says, ruefully. Visit reedypress.com. &

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Happy birthday to The Greenberg Gallery!

Founded in 1972, it was one of the first contemporary art galleries in St. Louis. To celebrate the milestone, it's running a special 50th anniversary exhibit. The opening reception is Nov. 3 at 6 p.m., and the show will run through Jan. 31.

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5 On Your Side’s “Tackle Hunger” campaign has surpassed more than 50% of its goal to donate 40,000 pounds of food to Operation Food Search. Each week, the station features a high school football matchup and challenges both schools to compete by collecting food donations in the lead up to their game.

THE INSIDER

St. Louis County Library has been named the 2022 Missouri Library of the Year! The award was presented by the Missouri Library Association in recognition of SLCL’s work in the areas of digital equity, community partnerships, improved facilities, service to the justice-involved and COVID-19 relief efforts.

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You can celebrate a piece of St. Louis history at the annual Arch Builders reunion Oct. 29. From 10 a.m. to noon, the public can meet the engineers, tradesmen and support staff who contributed to the construction of the Gateway Arch, which was completed 57 years ago.

FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT GATEWAYARCH.COM.

THIS MONTH, MISSOURI HAS GOTTEN A LITTLE GREENER!

Forest ReLeaf partnered with Spire to plant 1,000 native trees throughout the state—including in St. Louis county.

I DECIDED IT WOULD BE FUN to take a vacation this fall with just my husband—something we hadn’t done in 20 years. We tend to vacation with other people or head down to our second home in Florida. I have visited every state except Alaska so we thought a cruise would be perfect. While it might sound rather geriatric, we called our friend Melissa who is a travel agent, and she found the perfect one for us. It departed in Alaska and returned to Vancouver, which was great. Both Carey and I visited Vancouver about 35 years ago and loved it, so we could add on to the end of the trip.

Well, that would have worked if we had not let our passports expire. Seriously. Little Miss On-Top-of-Everything somehow managed to not renew our passports. At first, I blamed the United States government. Shouldn’t they send out a postcard or something? But then I realized I barely look at the mail so really it was my own fault. Our cruise was off, and I am still one state short of the

magic 50! (I’ve been to Puerto Rico. I know it is just a territory, but I’ve hit 50 places under the U.S. domain … that has to count for something!)

Then I had a better idea: driving up the Pacific Coast Highway from Long Beach to Carmel-By-The-Sea. Now, if you are a faithful reader, this idea should cause you to ask, “Is she nuts?” Just a few months ago I wrote 600 words about how much I hated the way my husband drives, and now, I wanted to plan a vacation that involved driving on a twisty, curvy and (sometimes) scary highway? Yes, that is what I proposed, and that is what we did. The good news is we are still married. I said not one word about his driving during our vacation. and being together has not led either of us to an attorney’s office. (I’m speaking for myself here, but hey, if anyone has seen my husband heading into one, a quick email would be appreciated.)

Before we left, Carey and I chatted about his driving. Carey has driven on the PCH a time or two

so he is familiar with all the twists and turns, but he assured me he would take it slow and easy. A few of our friends and family even talked to him about the drive, and it worked. I never once tried to put on the brake on my side of the car, no F-words were said, and no harm came to either of us. We were overwhelmed by the beauty of what we saw, the Pacific Ocean on one side and cliffs and hillsides on the other. It was beautiful.

We stayed in six cities: Long Beach, Malibu, Santa Barbara, Cambria, Big Sur and Carmel-by-the-Sea. As we left each one, it became our favorite. In Big Sur, this ‘not really into nature’ person spent two days in a treehouse surrounded by huge redwoods. There was a certain smell that I can’t describe, but luckily the gift shop had a bottle of the scent for me to buy.

So, this going away together by ourselves is going to be a regular thing. Next year, Australia! G’day my Peeps! &

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TEAMWORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK

Buying or selling a home can be a complicated and stressful process. It’s important to have someone in your corner who you can rely on. Rachael Boxdorfer and Will Springer know the importance of strong relationships. Working with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate, the two agents have formed a team dedicated to helping clients successfully navigate the market—whether they’re buying their first home, exploring St. Louis’ luxury market or looking to find an investment property.

Both Boxdorfer and Springer came to real estate from different backgrounds. Boxdorfer initially started her career working for nonprofits and marketing for TV and radio—an experience that gave her critical skills when it comes to selling homes. She made the transition to real estate in 2002. Springer made the move to real estate more recently in 2015. Originally, the St. Louis native worked as a lawyer in California. “I decided that wasn’t what I wanted to do,” he says. “When my family and I moved back to St. Louis, I had an opportunity to start working with a friend of mine who is a real estate broker. In 2017, I made the transition to Alliance Real Estate.”

It didn’t take long for the duo to realize they had similar work ethics, although their partnership didn’t officially form until this January. “Real estate is a 24/7 business, but there are times when you won’t be available,” Boxdorfer explains. “You need to find someone you can trust your clients to, and I always found myself going back to Will. He cares just as much as I do about client services. We balance each other, so we started conversations about teaming up. It’s been a great match.”

Collaboration is key for the Boxdorfer Springer Team—whether it’s how they work with each other or clients. “Our goal is to find the best resolution, and that means working well with buyers, sellers and other agents,” Springer notes. “Any market is stressful, but the past two years have been particularly so. We’re here to help navigate different challenges.” Boxdorfer adds that helping explain and work through the process with clients is crucial to their process. “We’re comfortable with our clients and work to build good long-term relationships,” she says. “We do

a lot of education about real estate. Even experienced buyers and sellers have to relearn the process in difficult markets.”

For both Boxdorfer and Springer, their love of St. Louis makes it easy to love what they do. “Part of my job is getting to be an ambassador for the city,” Springer says “St. Louis has so much history, and there is a lot to teach people about the city, especially if they are relocating. There are good homes to fit any budget.” The team is dedicated to giving back to the city it serves. At the start of the pandemic, they helped organize a food drive that has become an annual tradition at Alliance Real Estate. “We’re in a business that deals so personally with people, so it’s important that we support the community,” Boxdorfer notes. “St. Louis has a small town mentality, and that means we all help each other.”

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Missouri Governor Mike Parson made a special visit to the high school. Joined by the Missouri Department of Elementary and Secondary Education Commissioner Margie Vandeven, he presented a Missouri Proclamation in honor of the school being one of only eight in the state to earn the National Blue Ribbon Award, a designation awarded for a school's overall academic performance or progress in closing achievement gaps among student subgroups.

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The school’s Bonsack Gallery is currently displaying an exhibit of alumni art as part of its centennial celebration. Jiggity Jig features the work of beadist Jan Huling (’72). Through a meticulous beading process, Huling creates sculptures that draw inspiration from her travels to India and Mexico, as well as imagined, playful scenes. The show can be viewed Monday through Friday from 8 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. and will be on display until Nov. 29.

Last year, alumnus Robert Glassman (’02) made a donation to the school to establish the Glassman Leaders program, which helps participants develop public speaking, networking and interpersonal communication skills. Whitfield recently announced the program's second class. Derrick Palmer (’25) and Sarah Wooten (’24) were selected after completing an application process that included short answer questions, references and a video response. As part of Glassman Leaders, they will attend the Dale Carnegie Course, receive mentorship from one or more Whitfield alumni and complete a Capstone project their senior year.

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The elementary school was visited by local muralist Cbabi Bayoc. Working with art teacher Tom Butler, the artist developed murals based on the school’s five key pledge words: cooperative, respect, responsible, honest and persevere. Students in all grades participated in the artistic process, working together to design five works that celebrate the differences of people inside and outside their school and community. The murals will be displayed around North Glendale.

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The school is celebrating the success of its Go Forth campaign, which aims to invest more than $71 million in its programs and 100-year-old campus. The initiative has allowed SLUH to grow its endowment for financial aid by more than 100%. “The generosity of the SLUH community has been overwhelming,” president Alan Carruthers says. “Through their tremendous support, our alumni, family and friends, in addition to leading businesses, have solidified our school’s commitment to the city of St. Louis and our longstanding tradition of forming young men of competence, conscience, courage and compassion.”

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standard about college and be open to kids finding their own path to success. Let me explain why.

When I asked Julia about her post-high school plans, she gave me a look of disbelief and responded, “College.” When I followed up by asking why she wanted to go to college, she couldn’t come up with a reason. I find most young adults I work with have never really thought about why they might want to attend college. Instead, they tend to focus on everyone else going or their parents’ expectations. Julia finally admitted that she really wanted to attend beautician school because she dreams of doing hair and makeup for celebrities. When Julia described doing her friends hair and makeup before prom and homecoming dances, her whole being lit up.

When I ask young adults and parents what percent of people in the U.S. over 25 have a four-year degree, they typically answer 70% to 80%. The truth is that only 30% to 37% of adults have earned a college degree. My point isn’t to discourage anyone from attending college; it is to encourage them to figure out their reasons to attend.

There are benefits to having a four-year degree. Generally, workers with higher levels of education earn more money and find employment more readily. But it’s also true that last year 41% of college grads in their 20s were underemployed. It’s also true that only 46% of college graduates are currently working in their field of study, and the high up-front cost of college can dig a hole that takes on average two decades to pay off. On the other hand, some studies have shown that people with college degrees make better decisions about health, marriage and parenting; have higher job satisfaction; and tend to live longer. So, how can we support our kids in deciding about college?

First, recognize there are lots of ways your kids can create a successful life. Let’s teach them that how you go to college is more important than if or where you go. Being fully engaged in your academics, taking risks, making different kinds of friends than high school, spending time on self-examination and personal growth can be accomplished at any university. And it can also be experienced outside of college as well. This same outlook also pertains to taking time off school. Gap years can be of great benefit to young adults.

Secondly, we need to do a better job of educating our children about choices. Have open discussions about what the return for attending college is supposed to be. Is it just about earning more money? Is the only purpose to get a job? Discuss the short and long-term costs of college versus vocational school, issues about loans and debt, and opportunities and salaries for different jobs.

If given the autonomy to choose their path, your kids will be more invested and reap more benefits from the experience. What every young adult needs is usable skills and personal growth, and college is hardly the only source for developing them. Support your kids in finding what fits their interests, passions and aptitude, and watch them soar. &

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CAT, DOG, WITCH OR ANGEL: Choose a base color consisting of a top and bottom or leotard and tights—black, brown, white or spotted to match your desired look. Stuff a sock or an old pair of tights for a tail and use an eye pencil to draw whiskers and a nose on your child for the cat or dog. For the witch, grab the kitchen broom. To create an angel, craft wings out of hangers and aluminum foil and get the matching headband from a friend or a neighborhood dollar store.

GRILL MASTER: An apron, oven mitts and a grill tool—that’s it!

CEO: Dress your child in a power suit and don’t forget the files and briefcase SECRET AGENT/INSPECTOR GADGET: All your child needs for this look is a trench coat and sunglasses. The rest is up to the imagination.

MUMMY/ZOMBIE: Time to get rid of some of that stockpiled toilet paper. This costume can be as creepy as your child wants.

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JELLYFISH: Choose an all pink, blue or white outfit as a base and create a jellyfish body with a clear umbrella, fairy lights and streamers.

BARBIE OR KEN: Whether it’s Malibu Barbie or Ken with an ascot, Google your favorite doll and copy the look. Add a DIY Barbie box made from cardboard and printed logos. Or, check social media listings to find someone who isn’t using theirs from last year!

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CLARK KENT/SUPERMAN: Find a Superman logo T-shirt and have your child wear it under the suit you thought they’d only use for holidays and special occasions. Leave the dress shirt unbuttoned to expose the T-shirt underneath and add a pair of black-framed glasses. This costume is as fast as Clark Kent changes his look!

DENTIST OR ER DOCTOR: Use a lab coat or scrubs from an old costume and the PPE you still have around the house. Add ketchup for a scarier version.

POP STAR/ROCK STAR/BROADWAY SINGER/YOUTUBER: Choose your own costume and add a DIY microphone by taking an old headset and gluing a bendable straw to the side. Make a microphone piece by gluing the top of a door stopper onto the straw.

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Sometimes the most popular costumes are the easiest ones to borrow from friends, cousins or older siblings who have already showcased these looks.

M&M: All you need is a solid color tutu, a matching T-shirt and knee socks. Cut an “M” out of white felt and glue it onto the T-shirt.

T-BIRD OR PINK LADY: Start with a basic black T-shirt and jeans or a skirt. Ask around for a leather jacket or pink satin one, depending on which look your child is after.

SCHOOL CHEERLEADER: Any cheerleading outfit or costume will do—the only tricky part is your child coming up with a school cheer! Download the school’s logo to a Cricut maker and attach it to the costume for extra school spirit. &

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GLENNON CARD STL SUPPORT

October is almost over, which means the holiday season is fast approaching. If you’re looking to start checking items off of your shopping list a little early, don’t miss out on the Glennon Card shopping period. Every fall, the initiative offers St. Louisans a chance to support the young patients at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital while also showing some love to great local businesses.

Glennon Card is organized through a collaboration between SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Foundation and Glennon Guild, a women’s auxiliary with more than 300 members. This year’s shopping period runs through Oct. 23. With the purchase of a $60 card, shoppers get 20% savings at more than 320 stores, restaurants and service providers. All proceeds from card sales goes toward important services at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon. The program has supported initiatives like the hospital’s Milk Lab, the Reach Out and Read program, the 3D Printing Center of Excellence, Danis Pediatric Center and a number of enhancements to patient areas and different programs.

SSM Health Cardinal Glennon would not be able to make these improvements easily without the support of the St. Louis community, but Glennon Card does not solely benefit the hospital. According to Ann Boldt of Splash, a women’s boutique located in Colonial Marketplace in Ladue, the program benefits all parties involved. “It’s just a good cause, and card buyers

can feel confident that 100% of their money is going to Cardinal Glennon, which is not how all fundraisers work,” she says. “At the end of the day, it also brings more business to our store, and for our customers, it’s a rare chance to get a discount.”

The increase in business comes at a great time of the year. “The program kicks off the holiday shopping period and incentivizes people to support local businesses instead of heading to big box stores or shopping online,” Boldt says. She notes that Glennon Card is the perfect opportunity to get some gift shopping done with the added discount. Splash has been a part of the initiative for years, and at Colonial Marketplace, 14 businesses are participating for 2022. Many stores at the shopping center offer additional bonuses for guests, such as refreshments or special sales, according to Boldt.

While Boldt does not have a personal connection to SSM Health Cardinal Glennon, she is grateful that St. Louis has such a valuable resource in the community. “I’ve been blessed that my children have not needed the services of the hospital, but I feel for the families who do,” she notes. “Many of the customers who come into Splash during the shopping period know someone who has been affected by the hospital. So many St. Louisans are willing to support Cardinal Glennon through Glennon Card. The program has a very strong community presence, which is awesome.” &

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THE DRIVE TO FIGHT CANCER

IT’S OFTEN SAID THAT GIVING IS BETTER than receiving, and while there is certainly truth to that, nothing beats doing both at the same time. That’s an opportunity that Autohaus BMW and the St. Louis Men’s Group Against Cancer are giving to the community this fall. The organizations are teaming up to raffle off a 2023 BMW X3, so St. Louisans have the chance to win a brand new set of wheels while also joining the fight against cancer.

Autohaus BMW has been a part of the St. Louis community since 1966. The family-owned dealership is currently operated by its founder’s daughter, Peggy Wessel. As president of the company, she is dedicated to serving the city she works in, according to general sales manager Todd Cherry. “Peggy’s main priority is not profit but people—whether it’s the Autohaus BMW staff, our customers or the broader St. Louis community,” he says. “As a company, we are very involved in local charities, and giving back is important to us.”

Men’s Group Against Cancer is one of the organizations that Autohaus BMW supports. It’s a nonprofit that has a very personal connection for Cherry. “I started going to the Men’s Group’s annual Men’s Dinner around 10 years ago,” he notes. “I would go with my dad, uncle and cousin. All three of them have since passed away from cancer.” The nonprofit is dedicated to funding research for all forms of cancer—whether it impacts men, women, older adults or children. “The money raised stays in the community to support people in St. Louis,” Cherry says. “With a lot of organizations, you may have questions about where the money is going, but with the Men’s Group, you know it’s local.”

Last year, the Men’s Group Against Cancer and Autohaus BMW partnered to giveaway a 2022 BMW Z4. The nonprofit’s executive director, Margie Price, says it was a natural fit. “Our demographics are the same, so we decided to work together for the raffle,” she explains. “It was incredibly successful. We’re always working to find new ways to raise money to support the St. Louis cancer community.” Last year’s raffle was held at Autohaus BMW, but the winner of the 2023 BMW X3 will be announced at the nonprofit’s Men’s Dinner fundraiser Nov. 10 at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis. The event will feature St. Louis Blues alum Kelly Chase as its guest speaker. Since its inception in 1969, the Men’s Group Against Cancer has raised millions of dollars to benefit cancer patients and their families in St. Louis. Price notes that it’s a mission that would not be possible without the assistance of community partners. “We give money to organizations focused on cancer research, care and prevention, both large and small,” she says. “Some of the smaller organizations we fund could fall through the cracks without our assistance. Working with local businesses is our lifeblood. I can’t say enough about how wonderful Autohaus BMW has been. We are so lucky to have them as partners in our mission.” &

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PENELOPE WOODHOUSE’S CUP OF TEA is, well, afternoon tea. Originally from England, she’s happy to share her interest with people in her new home. At Botanical Tea Room in Augusta, she offers guests an unique experience— one that is steeped in tradition and history but also keeps modern sustainable practices at the forefront.

Growing up in England, Woodhouse always had an interest in the culinary arts—whether it be cooking or growing food and edible flowers. However, she never imagined she would have a culinary career. Instead, she found success through a different creative outlet: fashion. “My career was in fashion merchandising,” she says. “I designed store windows and displays. I connect it to cooking and gardening through the visual component. Plating a dish and designing a garden are all about color, texture and proportion. It’s really not that different from creating a window display.”

After moving to the U.S, Woodhouse found that her accent brought up certain questions from people, especially about tea and baking. “I would meet people at farmers markets, and they would ask me about the British baking shows,” she recalls. “From there, I started inviting people over for afternoon tea. The feedback was always positive.” Eventually, Woodhouse decided to try her hand at opening a tea room. Due to her love of gardening, she decided to make the focus on afternoon tea with a botanical twist. “I didn’t see myself as a baker,” she notes. “I’m a culinary herb grower. I love to infuse botanical flavors and aromas into food.”

Woodhouse and her husband, Dennis, opened Botanical Tea Room on a 76-acre sustainable farm in St. James. She started by cooking her way through afternoon tea cookbooks from around the world and experimenting with ways to infuse botanicals into recipes. Since its inception, the tea room has had a focus on sustainability and eco-friendly practices, such as preserving biodiversity in heirloom foods, creating menus that are pollinator friendly and finding ways to keep food prep zero waste. “We grow many of our ingredients, and source others from local producers who use sustainable practices,” Woodhouse says.

Botanical Tea Room enjoyed success in St. James, but the Woodhouses found the location to be a little isolated. They made the decision to relocate

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to Augusta in 2019. “The farm was an ambitious landscape for us to maintain,” she notes. “With its rolling hills, wineries and historic buildings, Augusta was the perfect fit for us. Plus, it is more accessible to St. Louis, where we’ve always had a home. We still get to be a part of the rural landscape while enjoying the amenities of the city, such as the botanical garden.” The Augusta location continues Woodhouse’s dedication to sustainability. One acre of the two-acre property is dedicated to growing wild native edibles.

While 2020 should have been an exciting time of growth for Botanical Tea Room, the pandemic threw a wrench into plans. With the hospitality industry hit hard, Woodhouse knew she needed to pivot. Her solution was bringing in a focus on the historical importance of tea rooms and their traditions. It was a natural fit since Botanical Tea Room already recreated many historical recipes. Woodhouse established a nonprofit, the Tea Room Society, dedicated to sharing that culinary and cultural history. “In America, tea rooms were started by women in their homes as a first step toward entrepreneurship,” she says. “They made a huge financial contribution to the rural economic landscape. We are following in that homesteader tradition. We want to create an educational experience through a piece of living history for our guests.”

Woodhouse is excited to see what the future holds for Botanical Tea Room and the Tea Room Society. One project currently underway is creating a cookbook library. “The Joy of Cooking actually originated in St. Louis,” she notes. “Researching and exploring has really shown me the role cookbooks play in our everyday life. They make and preserve food trends—who didn’t have one centered on canapes or fondue? We want to create a resource where people can exchange and share food history.”

Woodhouse is currently a student in St. Louis Community College’s culinary program. She’s looking forward to being able to share her kitchen with other participants and graduates. “I want to give them an opportunity to create something special at Botanical Tea Room for themselves,” she notes. “Augusta has a wonderful audience to support the hospitality community we are trying to establish. My culinary journey is just beginning.”

1. In a large bowl, sift dry ingredients. Add butter and rub together to form a fine texture crumb.

2. Stir in raisins. Slowly mix in wet ingredients.

3. On a lightly floured surface, roll out the dough to form a circle, and cut six scones or score into triangles.

4. Transfer to a baking tray, and gently brush tops of scones with egg wash. Let scones sit for about 20 to 30 minutes to allow baking powder to activate.

5. Bake until evenly golden, around 10 to 15 minutes. Scones are best enjoyed the day of baking, but can be frozen.

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global threads

The exhibit explores how Indian chintz revolutionized fashion, industry and global trade.

Along with a variety of chintz textiles made in India, it includes a selection of European and American dress and furnishing textiles inspired by these fabrics.

Saint Louis Art Museum | Members: Free $6-$12 | Regular museum hours 314.721.0072 | slam.org

11/2-11/13

disney’s frozen

The musical features the songs you know and love from the beloved, Academy Award-winning film, plus an expanded score with a dozen new numbers by the film’s songwriters, Kristen Anderson-Lopez and Robert Lopez.

The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $29-$145

Various showtimes | 314.534.1111 fabulousfox.com

11/5

cherokee street jazz crawl

This year marks the 10th anniversary of the event, which is a day-long celebration of music and dance.

Cherokee Street | Free | 10 a.m.-9 p.m. cherokeestreet.com

11/5

laumeier after dark

Visitors get the chance to experience the park’s sculptures and explore its trails at night. The event features temporary art installations, live music, fire pits and the Night Market.

Laumeier Sculpture Park | $5 | 4 p.m.-10 p.m. 314.615.5278 | laumeiersculpturepark.org

11/6 r.e.s.p.e.c.t.

The tribute celebrates the music of the legendary Aretha Franklin through a journey of love, tragedy, courage and triumph.

Stifel Theatre | $31.50-$71.50 | 7 p.m. 314.499.7600 | stifeltheatre.com

11/5-11/13

st. louis jewish book festival

The event celebrates authors, books and ideas in a variety of topics, such as business, cooking, economics, family, fiction, history, music, religion and sports. This year’s keynote author is Marie Yovanovitch, former U.S. ambassador to Ukraine.

J’s Staenberg Family Complex | Free-$118

Various times | 314.432.5700 | jccstl.com

11/15 the eagles

The iconic band performs their greatest hits as part of its Hotel California 2022 Tour.

Enterprise Center | $126-$496.99 | 8 p.m. 314.622.5400 | enterprisecenter.com

11/17

Due to the ever-changing COVID-19 situation, please check with organizer websites closer to the event dates.

native american heritage month program: coyote and crow Set in Cahokia in an alternate future, Coyote and Crow—a Nebula Award–nominated role-playing game created by Indigenous game designers and artists—imagines a world in which colonization never happened. Join the Coyote and Crow team for a look at the game and what it can teach us.

Missouri History Museum | Free | 5:30 p.m. 314.746.4599 | mohistory.org

11/18

vocal company fall concert

The concert showcases a song-cycle of musical theater and contemporary works that offer an exciting look into the up-and-coming generation of artists coached by COCA’s vocal company co-directors Alicia Revé Like and Jermaine Manor.

Staenberg Performance Lab at COCA | $18 7 p.m. | 314.725.6555 | cocastl.org

For eons, humans have looked to the skies for answers. The St. Louis Symphony Orchestra explores the intersections of legend, the divine and the stars through four unique composers.

Powell Hall | $15-$93 | Various showtimes 314.534.1700 | slso.org

11/19

scifest: health & safety expo Visit with health and safety professionals and organizations; get a closer look at human health science, research and technology; and participate in health and safety-related activities and demonstrations for all ages. Saint Louis Science Center | Free 9:30 a.m.-5:30 p.m. | 314.289.4400 slsc.org

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5. Hindman Auctions

Trusted for 40 years, we offer appraisal and auction services for fine jewelry, fine art, furniture, decorative art property and more. We provide local clients with seasoned expertise in the global art market.

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We’re your hometown source for uncommon fine jewelry. With more than 65 years of combined expertise, our award-winning master jewelers can bring your jewelry ideas to life—whether it’s a simple repair or an exquisite bespoke piece. Plan your visit today! 601A E. LOCKWOOD AVE. | 314.731.6008 | FIREANDFACETSTUDIOS.COM

7. St. Louis Estate Buyers

Get paid cash for your gold, diamonds, watches, costume jewelry and more. Do not miss the Jewelry Buying Event on Oct. 27 to 29, 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. at West County Mall. 63 WEST COUNTY CENTER | 314.691.2888

8. Genovese Jewelers

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9. Advanced Nursing Services of St. Louis

We have served the St. Louis area with quality nursing care since 1984. We provide private duty nurse aides, licensed practical nurses and registered nurses for patients. We work as a team, so you will always speak to a team member.

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10. Clarendale Clayton

Clarendale Clayton has just launched their new fall menu! It includes resident favorites like pecan encrusted salmon and new dishes like butternut squash ravioli and pumpkin gnocchi. And don’t forget dessert—fan favorite Tahitian vanilla crème brulee or cinnamon apple baklava!

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11. The Gatesworth

The Gatesworth’s beautifully landscaped courtyards feature lakes, extensive walking paths, a putting green, outdoor dining and a pavilion. The grounds are truly stunning when they reach peak fall colors.

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In general, these flowers represent gratitude, grace and beauty, making them a perfect fit for any blushing bride. Pink hydrangeas specifically mean heartfelt emotion because their shape evokes a beating heart.

sk any bride-to-be, and they’ll tell you flowers are an integral part of a wedding day. The blooms you choose are going to be a big part of your decor, but you also may want to consider the extra meaning flowers can have. With most having symbolic representations, you can design floral arrangements that are as meaningful as they are beautiful.

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Known as the king of flowers in its native China, this wedding staple represents love, honor, happiness, wealth and romance. What more could you ask for?

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HOOKED BOOKS

Walking in My Joy by Jenifer Lewis

Jenifer Lewis, the actress you've seen on your TV and movie screen for years, may have grown up in Kinloch, but she spent most of her life traveling around the world. This book, which vaguely follows the arc of her career, is a collection of experiences that are always interesting and highly entertaining. Her character on Blackish made you laugh, and her book will too.

The Divider by Peter Baker and Susan Glasser

I really do try to stay away from books about politics and national affairs, but sometimes, I can’t! This highly anticipated book by New York Times and New Yorker reporters provides a very detailed insider’s look at the Trump presidency. Much has been reported before, but the information related to the election is new. It is a very candid look at what was done by the actual people in the rooms. The book is more than 700 pages so it can be a slog at times to get through.

The Fortunes of Jaded Women by Carolyn Huynh

I know this is a Good Morning America pick—sorry about that. But the book is great! This story of multiple generations of Vietnamese American women focuses on the grudges they hold but also the deep love they feel for each other. It was a book I read while on vacation in one day. You will appreciate each of the characters as they narrate their own story with honesty and humor.

The Means by Amy Fusselman

This book made me laugh, but it might have been in all the wrong places! The story follows a woman who will do anything to build her dream house in the Hamptons. Unfortunately, things don’t go her way when her husband, a voice-over actor, loses his best gig and the zoning commission does not really like her approach. She also has anger issues, which results in her hurling objects at people during PTA meetings. Now tell me, who hasn’t wanted to do that? Read it for fun but don't start throwing things!

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SOMETHING NEW: 2022 Wedding Trends

It’s hard not to love the romance and elegance of a classic wedding—the white gown, the shimmery decorations, the lush florals. But romance and elegance can take many forms, and as these trends show, more couples are tying the knot in their own style.

Scaled-Back Ceremony

After so many weddings were postponed or canceled thanks to the pandemic, some couples are going all-out with a grand ceremony now that they can finally hold their nuptials. However, that’s not the case for everyone. Inflation, supply chain and labor challenges have taken a toll on wedding costs and availability. Environmentally-conscious couples also are finding clever ways to cut waste from their event.

A scaled-back ceremony doesn’t have to scale back on the celebration. A smaller guest list makes the affair more intimate and gives the couple more time with their loved ones. Affordable dried flowers add a rustic touch to bouquets and centerpieces and can be repurposed for other decor. A photo booth app, tripod and DIY partition are all that’s needed for a fun photo booth.

Gown Alternatives

Brides can feel like royalty on their wedding day without donning a princess dress. More and more brides are ditching the tulle in favor of pantsuits and one-pieces. But in most cases, they aren’t completely bucking tradition, incorporating classic bridal elements into their modern look. White lace jumpsuits and ivory blazers with a train are as show-stopping as any gown.

Wedding Pancakes?

Now we’ve reached my favorite part of the wedding—the dessert! And it doesn’t just have to be a tiered wedding cake. Couples are elegantly towering macarons, doughnuts, cupcakes and pancakes into unique, delicious show-stoppers.

For those scaled-back ceremonies, however, an extravagant dessert tower might not fit. I recently attended a wedding where the bride and groom cut into a bundt cake. Guests were treated to a wide range of flavors, from seasonal pumpkin spice to classic red velvet.

Perhaps my friend’s wedding and these trends are proof that the biggest thing in weddings right now is for couples to follow their hearts, whether or not they align with tradition. Isn’t that how weddings are supposed to be anyway? &

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Breast Cancer: Know Your Risk

While October brings with it the reds, yellows and oranges of autumn, it’s also a time to think pink for Breast Cancer Awareness Month. One in eight women will be diagnosed with the disease, meaning you’ll likely know someone touched by it—whether it’s yourself, a friend or a relative. It’s important to screen and conduct self-exams.

The earlier breast cancer is detected the more successful treatment will be.

Breaking down screenings

The most reliable way to find breast cancer early is regular screening. The age you should begin annual mammograms depends on your risk for developing the disease—risk factors include family history, race and lifestyle factors, such as drinking, weight and not having children. Women who are high-risk should begin annual mammograms at 30, so a breast cancer risk assessment should be completed before then.

THE AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY’S RECOMMENDATIONS FOR MAMMOGRAMS FOR WOMEN OF AVERAGE RISK ARE:

• Between 40 and 54 screen with a mammogram every year.

• Women 55 and older can switch to every other year or continue with annual mammograms.

• Women should continue screening as long as they are in good health and expected to live at least 10 more years.

THERE ARE THREE COMMON TYPES OF IMAGING DONE TO DETECT BREAST CANCER.

• Mammogram: This is a low dose x-ray of the breast that can detect changes years before physical symptoms develop.

• Breast MRI: The process uses radio waves and strong magnets to make detailed images of the inside of the breast. For certain high-risk patients, an annual MRI is recommended alongside a mammogram. While it can detect more cancers than a mammogram, it also is more likely to result in a false positive.

• Breast Ultrasound: These images are formed using sound waves and their echos. It is not typically used for routine screening, but it can be used to look at lumps

that can be felt but not seen on a mammogram. Unlike a mammogram, it can differentiate between solid masses and cysts or other fluid-filled masses, which are unlikely to be cancerous. It also is useful for screening women with dense breast tissue.

Signs & Symptoms

In its early stages, breast cancer may not have any symptoms, but some women do notice changes. These can be signs of other health conditions, so make sure to consult a doctor if you have any concerns.

New lump in the breast or armpit

Thickening or swelling of part of the breast

Irritation or dimpling of skin

Redness or flaky skin in the nipple area of the breast

Pain around the nipple or in other areas of the breast

Discharge other than breast milk, including blood

Changes in the size or the shape of the breast

Lower your risk

There is no sure way to prevent breast cancer, and many factors, such as genetics or age, are completely out of a person’s control. However, some simple lifestyle changes can lower your risk.

• Maintain a healthy weight. Weight gain is associated with a higher risk of breast cancer, especially in women who have experienced menopause.

• Keep active. Studies have shown that regular moderate to vigorous activity can lower breast cancer risk. The American Cancer Society recommends adults get 150 to 300 minutes of moderate activity or 75 to 150 minutes of vigorous activity a week.

Moderate activity: These are exercises that cause a slight increase in heart rate and breathing. You should still be able to speak while doing the activity. Examples include a brisk walk, water aerobics and level bike riding.

Vigorous activity: These activities should cause an increased heart rate, sweating and faster breathing. Examples include jogging or running, swimming laps and riding a bike fast or on hills.

• Limit alcohol. Alcohol increases the risk of breast cancer, even when consumed in small amounts. The American Society says it’s best not to drink at all, but those who choose to, should limit themselves to one drink a day, meaning 12 ounces of beer, five ounces of wine, or one and a half ounces of hard liquor.

• Eat a healthy diet. The impact of diet on breast cancer risk is something that is still being studied. It is unclear if consuming specific foods or cutting down fat intake has any effect. However, a diet high in fruits and vegetables has many health benefits and has been shown to reduce the risk of other types of cancer. &

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There are many variables that come into play in the development of breast cancer. Most of us are highly motivated to prevent or diminish the risk of developing cancer and there are things we can do to reduce that risk. For example, recent studies published by the National Institute of Health show that in about 35% of all cancers there can be a nutritional influence. Reducing the intake of alcohol, certain fats, and red meat can minimize risk due to diet. Including foods high in antioxidants, adequate fiber and vitamins in your diet can also possibly reduce one’s risk of developing breast cancer. In addition to dietary changes, it has been consistently shown that regular physical activity can diminish the risk of developing cancer. The National Cancer Institute reported in a 2016 meta-analysis that the most physically active women had a 12- 21% lower risk than those who were the least physically active. The target goal is to engage in moderate aerobic activity for a minimum of 150 minutes or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity weekly, in addition to strength training at least twice a week. Finally, there are medications that can be used preventatively in certain patients found to be at high risk of developing breast cancer.

Unfortunately, despite our best efforts cancer still can develop. Screening for early detection and intervention is instrumental in better health outcomes. There are simple screening tools that your doctor can use to help assess if you are at higher risk of developing breast cancer. One such tool, the Tyrer-Cuzick score, takes just a few minutes and can lead to additional evaluation in a high-risk patient with the ultimate goal of early detection. It considers breast density and family history, as well as other health risk factors. It is important to talk with your doctor to come up with your individualized screening plan. Sometimes there are different imaging modalities or genetic testing that may be considered. The current recommendation is to start screening mammograms at age 40, or sooner based on your risk factors. There are new developments every day that are being used to help detect cancer early, such as Galleri. Galleri is a multi-cancer early detection blood test that screens for over fifty different types of cancer. Thus, Galleri isn’t just for women, but also for men who should also be screened based on their individual risk factors. The goal with early detection is for treatment to be initiated sooner, leading to better outcomes.

If cancer is found, there are many resources and treatments that can help. We are fortunate in the Saint Louis area to have many excellent treatment centers. Having a great team and someone to advocate for your health is important for both your physical and emotional wellbeing. Knowing that you are not alone and having access to resources and someone you can talk to in your time of need is invaluable.

When you next go in for your annual exam, make sure to review and update your family history, discuss your risk factors, as well as create your individual screening plan with your physician. Here at Amy Roberts MD & Associates, we are committed to provide individualized, gender-specific care plans. If we can ever be of service, please do not hesitate to contact us.

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What do you like about the home’s location?

We love how quiet and walkable the area is. It’s very wooded, and we have an acre lot, so it’s private. We would go on walks pretty much every night, and we could ride our bikes to downtown Kirkwood.

Are there any standout features?

from the homeowner » Located on a wooded lot not far from downtown Kirkwood, 1540 View Woods Drive offers a private escape. Built in 1964 and fully renovated, the home offers traditional charm paired with modern amenities. Current homeowners Chris Cook and Chase Stark are leaving the property to build their dream home from the ground up, and they hope someone new will love the house as much as they have.

One of the things we loved about the house is that it has a lot of windows. The home was built in 1965, so it’s rare to have large, floor-to-ceiling windows like this. The layout is standard for a Colonial, but it has a nice flow, and it was opened up when the home was fully renovated around five years ago.

How is the home for entertaining?

We did a lot of entertaining. The family and living rooms are connected by a large opening, and both are just off the kitchen. There are French doors that open to the back patio, so there is a good mix of indoor and outdoor living space available for hosting guests. We can have quite a few people over.

Do you have a favorite room?

We have two. The first is the kitchen. It’s where people tend to congregate, and it’s very light and bright. The other is the family room. There’s a large bay window, and we spent a lot of time in that room enjoying the view.

What are the outdoor spaces like?

There is a back patio with space for a dining area, grill and loungers. Because of the woods, it still feels like you are away from the other homes in the neighborhood. It’s rare to be this close to downtown Kirkwood and have a yard this big. It has a nice ambience for entertaining. We also had an outdoor TV, which is perfect for game days in the fall. The other week, we spent hours on the patio eating food and watching the Chiefs game.

What do you most want the next homeowners to know about the property?

We love this house, and it’s been great for us. We hope someone takes care of it and enjoys it as much as we have. &

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botanical heights

WHEN INTERSTATE 44 WAS CONSTRUCTED in the 1960s, McRee Town was split into two parts. The Shaw neighborhood thrived while the area to the north of the dissection fell apart. After decades of neglect, the Garden District Commission (GDC) was created to help renovate the area now known as Botanical Heights. It consists of 14 square blocks, bounded by Folsom Avenue on the north, Lafayette Avenue on the south, 39th Street on the east and Vandeventer Avenue on the west.

FOUNDED: 2000

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In 1998, the Missouri Botanical Garden created the GDC in an effort to revitalize the area now called Botanical Heights.

NOTABLE LANDMARKS:

The Liggett & Myers Historic District, City Garden Montessori Charter School

bars & restaurants

LA PATISSERIE CHOUQUETTE: Chef Simone Faure runs this French inspired boutique pastry shop. Specialties include a macaron subscription, wedding cakes, split beverages and breakfast.

NIXTA, OLIO AND ELAIA: All owned by James Beard semi-finalist Ben Poremba, Nixta serves contemporary chef-driven cuisine with nods to Mexico and the American Mediterranean. Olio can be found in a renovated Standard Oil filling station from the 1930s, featuring a blend of Mediterranean and Middle-eastern cuisine. Elaia is known for imaginative cuisine and its extensive wine list.

UNION LOAFERS: This bread bakery and café serves sandwiches, soups and salads for lunch and then transforms into a pizzeria with a variety of wines and beers at dinnertime.

local shops

AO&CO: Also owned by Poremba, this specialty foods market features an espresso/tea bar and a cigar and gift shop.

SUGARWITCH: This Airstream business parked on the patio of Olio is a must visit. Specialty ice cream sandwiches include the Glimmer ‘Witch, made of lavender ice cream and miso toffee shortbread. Other items include push pops, pup cops and seasonal coffee and tea original recipes. UNION STUDIO: Works from more than 100 artists are featured in the retail section of this workplace.

UTOPIA STUDIOS: It’s the hub for musicians, dancers, DJs, photographers, videographers—you name it! A variety of studios are offered by the hour or through memberships.

parks

BOTANICAL HEIGHTS COMMUNITY GARDEN: MaTovu recently built a temporary sukkah in the garden to celebrate Sukkot. The community garden is supported by Gateway Greening.

BOTANICAL HEIGHTS PLAYGROUND: This playground was created in 2011 by a group of volunteers wanting to transform a vacant lot. It’s small but includes a puppet theater and play train.

annual events

BOTANICAL HEIGHTS NEIGHBORHOOD ASSOCIATION’S GARDEN WALK (JUNE): Having been celebrated for five years, the event helps raise money for the Botanical Heights Neighborhood.

OPPORTUNITY AROUND THE CORNER: Organized by Park Central Development, the job fair connects residents of Tiffany, Botanical Heights and Forest Park Southeast to jobs within walking distance of their neighborhoods.  &

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Impeccable Arts and Crafts home built in 1918. This 5 bedroom home showcases the importance of functional aesthetic beauty and the craftsman’s artistry. Updated kitchen with Gaggenau, Miele, Viking & Sub-Zero appliances, and walk-in pantry. Enjoy the very private backyard with an English formal garden, multiple seating areas, and a large koi pond with a water feature. Conveniently located near the BJC Medical Complex, three blocks from Euclid Avenue and directly across the street from Forest Park.

9755 Old Warson Road Ladue | $4,499,000 FEATURED LISTINGS 8136 Cornell Ct. U. City | $375,000 Proud to be Locally Owned and Operated Since 1936 • 314-721-4755 • gladysmanion.com Information contained herein has been obtained through sources deemed reliable but cannot be guaranteed as to its accuracy. Information should be obtained through independent verification. UNDER CONTRACT 1359 South Mason Road Town & Country | $3,222,000 61 Portland Drive Frontenac | $1,875,000 4448 Olive St. #102 STL City | $287,000 55 Ridgemoor Drive Clayton | $1,899,000 4 Middlebrook Lane Creve Coeur | $919,000 2 Pricemont Drive Olivette | $1,475,000 7915 Delmar Blvd. U. City | $405,000 5257 Lindell Boulevard Central West End | $1,749,900 1176 Bella Vista Drive Frontenac | $1,499,000 1819 South Mason Road Town & Country | $1,325,000 7241 Colgate Ave U. City | $379,000 315 N. 11th #902 STL City | $305,000 48 Kingsbury Place CWE | $899,000 7053 Westmoreland Dr. University City | $485,000 7100 Cambridge Avenue University City | $510,000 4218 West Pine #2 CWE | $495,000 9545 Park Lane Ladue | $399,000 7101 Northmoor Dr. U. City | $445,000 522 Bahia Drive Rock Hill | $315,000 625 S. Skinker #202 STL City | $269,900 4107 Bowen St. STL City | $165,000 13 Westmorland Place Central West End | $2,550,000 36 Thrasher Court St. Charles | $385,000 1118 Peach Blossom Dr Arnold | $249,900

LESSONS LEARNED FROM HOMEWORK:

A Tribute to Paul Doerner

IT IS WITH GREAT SADNESS THAT I INFORM OUR READERS OF THE PASSING OF OUR BELOVED AND SUPREMELY TALENTED HOMEWORK COLUMNIST, PAUL DOERNER.

His death was sudden and unexpected, leaving all who had the good fortune to experience his generous nature, design genius and trademark wit feeling the void that has been left by his passing. Paul has been a part of Town&Style since our inception in 2011. He penned more than 200 columns—doling out his wisdom and meticulously drawing and coloring each rendering by hand for our readers’ benefit.

Paul was born and raised in St. Louis and lived his life in service of elevating our native architecture. In Paul’s mind, there was almost no structure that was not salvageable if just given some love. Before your eyes in mere minutes, he could magically bring his transformations to life using the signature red marker and transparent paper that he always kept in his briefcase. When creating a new home, Paul worked to respect the neighborhood and made sure the new abode felt as if it had been there all along. The end product was always nothing short of remarkable.

Paul attended Lindbergh High School and received his architecture degree from the University of Kansas. When he returned to St. Louis, he had the great fortune to work with the late William Bernoudi, amongst others. Only four years after graduating, he invited four of his classmates and fellow St. Louisans to join him in creating The Lawrence Group, named after their alma mater. The firm enjoyed wild success, becoming an industry leader both locally and nationally. Paul recently retired from The Lawrence Group after nearly 40 years, but he continued to practice, pursuing his personal passion for single family residential architecture as well as penning his column.

Paul truly loved being able to reach the St. Louis community through Homework. Even if a homeowner didn’t share what neighborhood a home was located in, he could usually tell based on the style of the property. Occasionally, he would drive by later to see if his advice had been taken. “Sometimes people have made changes I didn’t suggest, and other times, they have taken my recommendations and made them even better,” he said in a profile T&S ran in 2019. “I may notice that homeowners have made their home look more Tudor than I proposed, but it really works. I think the column is a catalyst for other people’s creativity as well as my own.”

Whether you are a diehard Homework fan or have never read it before, take a minute to review Paul’s recreations from the past 12 years of writing the column. I know you will agree that we can all learn something from his work.

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The Versailles Building on Skinker Boulevard has been a part of St. Louis architectural history for almost 100 years.

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Today, a small group of residents get to call the historic building home, enjoying its classic style and central location in the De Mun neighborhood. T&S got a peek inside one of its condominiums. The homeowners have married traditional style with a collection of art and furniture gathered during decades of traveling the world, creating a truly unique space.

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3508 McKean St. Louis City | UNDER CONTRACT FIRST DAY 12321 Carberry Place Town and Country | UNDER CONTRACT FIRST DAY 4 Green Oaks Drive Olivette | NEW LISTING dielmannsothebys.com | dielmannsir | 314.725.0009 alexthornhill@dielmannsir.com | 314.239.4993 Global Real Estate Advisor ALEX THORNHILL REPRESENTING THE BEST OF ST. LOUIS Call Alex for your confidential consultation. ALEX THORNHILL

What do you enjoy about the De Mun neighborhood?

We like everything! We overlook Forest Park, and we also enjoy visiting Concordia Seminary’s park, which is only a block and a half away. There are so many restaurants in the neighborhood, such as Louie, Sasha’s, Kaldi’s Coffee, Barrio and Clementine’s Ice Creamery, and it’s easy to walk to the Schnucks on Clayton Road or visit the Hi Pointe and AMC cinemas.

How did you come to St. Louis?

We have family in the area. We’re from Chicago and Maine originally, and we lived in Atlanta previously. We wanted a smaller city experience. St. Louis has so much that people aren’t aware of. There are great museums and other cultural institutions, and it’s much easier to get around.

What attracted you to the building?

It was built in 1928, and it has a lot of character. It’s on the National Register of Historic Places. There are great features like original doors and molding. The two lobbies are beautiful. It’s a small community with only 45 units, and the people who choose to live here really love this building. It makes for a happy community.

Are there any standout features?

We were lucky because the unit was completely renovated around 2015. Before that, it sat untouched for 20 years.

It was like Sleeping Beauty waiting to be woken up. Working with a designer, a developer restored it, and he did a superb job that respected the historic nature of the building. With three bedrooms, it’s a large condo, and it has almost as much living space as we did in Atlanta. Overall, we love the space we have here.

How do you approach interior design?

Our furnishings are traditional—many pieces are more than 50 years old and have been a part of every home we’ve lived in. We love antiques, and we’ve lived overseas sporadically over the years, so a lot of our items are things we have gathered. Everything in the condo represents different parts of our lives, whether its places we’ve traveled or friends and family who have gifted us pieces.

So travel impacts your decor?

Assuredly. While we have very traditional pieces like our Queen Anne dining set, we like the contrast of introducing something modern or bringing in something from a different part of the world. We tried to put all of our experiences into our interior design here.

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Do you have any favorite pieces in your art collection?

There are artifacts from Africa that I started collecting in the early 1960s. I’ve both visited and lived on the continent, so they are very cherished.

Our son is a graphic designer. He lived in New York before moving to Poland where he continued to do art. We have a lot of his work in the condo. We have a collection from Puerto Rico, ceramics by an Argentinian artist and some art from Asia. Other than two pieces we picked up at a gallery in Atlanta, I don’t think we’ve ever gone to a store to purchase framed artwork. We’re happy with the way everything fits together, and every time we look at a piece, it brings back specific memories. We’re lucky that we have space outside of our front entry that allows us to display even more of our artwork.

What is your favorite room?

We don’t really have one. It’s a very spacious condo, but we tend to live in all of the rooms. We spend a lot of time in the dining room, and it’s very cozy in the winter. There is a smaller room with a lot of art on the walls, which is where our TV is. The corner bedroom has become my art studio. During the pandemic, I gave up painting and started doing paper cutting. We have some of my pieces displayed in the condo, and I’ve given others away as gifts. &

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LADUE | $4,499,000

A gated driveway leads to an architecturally significant English-style estate poised perfectly on 4.76 private parklike acres. Built in 1926 and extensively renovated, the home boasts unparalleled handcrafted details, distinctive appointments and

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This stunning home has five bedrooms, seven and a half baths and more than 6,000 square feet of living space. It is situated on 1.49 parklike private acres with a pool. Don’t miss the fabulous lower level!

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This gorgeous eco-friendly home is nestled on a secluded, beautifully wooded 5.73-acre lot.

36 N. BOYLE AVE. CENTRAL WEST END $599,000

Are you looking for a townhome within walking distance to Barnes-Jewish Hospital or Cortex? This sophisticated unit is in the heart of the Central West End. For a low monthly fee, you can enjoy three bedrooms, three and a half baths and a two-car garage.

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This special two-story home is in a sought-after neighborhood with mature trees, good schools and unique features. Amenities include double gas fireplaces between the great room and office, wrap around porch, four season sunroom, sprawling deck and a large finished area on the lower level.

13 WESTMORELAND PLACE CENTRAL WEST END $2,550,000

Built in 1899, this limestone manse on a premier private street in the CWE has been masterfully restored with elegance, grace and thoughtfulness. It features six-plus bedrooms, seven and a half bathrooms and a four-car garage.

DAVIS DRIVE, CLAYTON | $1,250,000

You never gave up believing! Here it is: A five-bedroom Clayton home with a in-law suite. Located on one of the larger lots in Davis Place’s eastern end and close to the walkable Wydown restaurant row, this is an incredible architectural gem with an athlete-worthy inground pool.

VIEW WOODS DRIVE KIRKWOOD | $899,900

Renovated and meticulous, this property has it all! Located in a quiet cul-de-sac, the private one-acre corner lot backs up to woods.

Colonial ranch with four bedrooms and two baths sits on a half-acre lot in the Ladue School District. It features an effortless floor plan that exudes a mid-century vibe.

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ROUND-UP OF ROUND NIGHTSTANDS

Step away from sharp lines and straight edges to elevate your bedroom with round nightstands. Think outside of the box and experiment with sculptural shapes and organic lines to create a blissful and balanced space.

Why Round Nightstands?

Nightstands are a bedroom staple that visually frame your bed. Rounded corners, soft edges and arched shapes help offset the boxy dimensions of a room and give the eye a natural place to rest. The curved silhouette of a round nightstand contrasts with the clean lines you’ll often see in a bedroom’s supporting pieces.

THINGS TO CONSIDER WHEN CHOOSING A ROUND NIGHTSTAND

Round nightstands are a great way to break up a uniform space. There are just a few things to keep in mind as you go on the hunt for that perfect pair.

▶ Height: Height can vary for different nightstands. You want yours to be level or slightly higher or lower than your mattress height. The top of your nightstand should be aligned with the top of your bedding or within two to four inches, so before choosing your round nightstands, you’ll want to be sure to measure the height of your bed and mattress.

▶ Mix, Don’t Match: Mix it up with colors, textures and styles. You also can experiment with mixing materials. If your bed is a solid-colored upholstery, a lighter or natural wood finish would pair beautifully. For wooden frames and headboards, you could opt for a painted nightstand or a contrasting material, such as metal, concrete or plaster. Even nesting two similar table styles can add variety to your design.

Storage: Added storage is always a bonus. Round nightstands with drawers or cabinets are perfect for housing charging chords, phones, throws and various items. There also are some great options with open shelves so you can tastefully showcase some of your favorite sculptural pieces and books.

QUICK TIPS FOR STYLING YOUR ROUND NIGHTSTAND

Make it Practical and Functional: Practical doesn’t equal bland or boring. Decorative boxes and lamps are a wonderful addition to your nightstand and overall bedroom. Two to three items on top of your nightstand are preferred, as you don’t want it to look cluttered and messy. Vary the scales of those items, and you can always throw in some greenery to brighten up your space.

Add Something Special: Personal touches really complete a space. Make your nightstand special by adding items that bring you happiness. Whether it’s a framed photo of loved ones, a stack of books or your favorite candle, adding these small details provide style and sentimental value.

Whether you opt for a simple, open option or a large piece with ample storage, round nightstands are the perfect way to add some personality and functionality to your space. We hope these tips for selecting and accessorizing your round nightstand help you incorporate a bit of natural balance and sculptural beauty into your bedroom. &

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What are some different bunk styles you’d recommend for best use of space?

Top and bottom twin bunks are popular as well as twin tops over queen bottoms. I discourage clients from anything larger than a twin bunk on the top. Otherwise, changing the sheets on the top bunk can become a nuisance. We customize duvets and blankets for our built-in bunks to have fitted bottom corners. They keep the beds looking tidy and make bed-making a breeze.

What size room will accommodate a built-in bunk set up; is it a basement only design?

Built-in bunks work well in a variety of spaces. We have installed built-in bunk rooms in finished lower levels as well as secondary bedrooms. As long as there is a wall long enough for a bed to flank the wall, we can incorporate the design. Typically, those include four bunks, but it can be eight or just two, depending on the size of the room. Sometimes we also add a sleeper sofa to maximize sleeping capacity and give the room additional function.

This sounds like the ultimate sleepover situation, but it probably isn’t just for kids, right?

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You’d be surprised at the demand for built-in bunks. The first bunk room we did was in a finished lower level, and the clients wondered if it would ever get used. It was such a hit that their children took turns “reserving” the room each weekend. Another empty nester client wanted a bunk room upstairs in lieu of a guest room for their grandchildren. They are also very popular in bonus rooms over garages, and, of course, they are probably the most popular in weekend and vacation homes.

What are some fun nooks you’ve incorporated into your built-in bunk designs?

Our designs always include lighting for each bunk that is individually switched and a niche/shelf to place a pair of glasses and charge a phone. When space allows, we add storage drawers beneath the bottom bunk. Access to the top bunks varies by design; when steps are included, we can build additional drawers into those steps. In other applications, we may use a fixed or moving ladder. Depending on the mood of the space, sometimes it’s fun to incorporate privacy curtains at each bunk, which add a layer of coziness to the experience. &

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