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Many people take good psychological health for granted. It’s easy to assume we will always feel mentally strong, but inevitably there will be times when we need assistance. With the holidays approaching, stress can run high and many people worry about coping, but it’s important to remember that help is close at hand. Our cover story about behavioral health provider Provident and its dedicated supporters reminds us that everyone can benefit from compassionate, professional care. The nonprofit has been helping people live more fully for 158 years, and it’s continuing to grow with the help of generous local champions. People always say that St. Louis is a city of givers, and they’re right! Sharing with those less fortunate is a great way to retain a healthy sense of purpose, especially at this time of year. The second installment of our Charity Wish List is in this issue, and we hope you’ll use it to match some of your holiday giving with organizations that can use your support. Whether you can donate some school supplies or help a nonprofit purchase a van, your generosity will make the road easier for neighbors in need. Finally, it’s important to stay active in support of good health, and for that we can take a page from the St. Louis Strutters’ rule book. They’re a group of dancers age 60 and up who have thumbed their noses at the idea of sitting still, and I admire the way they inspire others to follow their lead. Read about them in Timeless Talent, our feature story in this issue. We hope your holiday season is healthy, bright and filled with enjoyable experiences! —Julie Johnson
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by julia m. johnson FEW TREASURES IN LIFE ARE AS PRECIOUS AS GOOD MENTAL HEALTH . It deeply
impacts our physical well being, relationships, happiness and personal success. And though it’s vastly important, it also can be fragile and elusive, especially for those in financial need. Provident, a behavioral health nonprofit with three area locations, believes that compassionate, proactive care should be available to everyone regardless of their means. Its licensed clinical therapists and other professionals are readily available to fill a growing need for assistance, and its motto of ‘Changing Lives, Saving Lives’ reflects their dedication. The 158-year-old organization provides counseling, advocacy and education services for people of all ages, and its 24-hour crisis help line assists more than 70,000 callers a year. The need is always great, so prevention and intervention are at the heart of everything Provident does, according to executive director Kevin Drollinger. Organizations of this kind rely on local champions, and Drollinger says Provident has been especially blessed to receive support from philanthropists Stuart and Elaine Greenbaum. The couple’s many contributions will be celebrated February 9 at the annual Spirit of Provident Gala at the Four Seasons Hotel downtown. “I’ve worked with nonprofits in three states over 40 years, and I can’t think of another board member who has contributed more than the Greenbaums,” Drollinger notes. “We truly think of them as being ‘all things Provident.’” Stuart is finishing up his final term on the nonprofit’s board of directors. Among many other roles, he is a finance professor and former dean of Washington University’s Olin School of Business, and Elaine is an economist who helped establish the Down Syndrome Center at St. Louis Children’s Hospital. “Stuart has the most amazing background,” Drollinger says. “His curriculum vitae is 12 pages long, he has consulted with many heads of state, and his list of published works is astonishing. Though he and Elaine have access to tremendous financial resources, they never lose sight of people with the greatest need.” As he prepares to leave the board, Stuart has been helping Provident update its strategic plan and mission focus. “He has been passionate about our vision to help others from the beginning, and Elaine has taken up the mantle just as enthusiastically,” Drollinger says. “Over time, many people become set in their ways and rigid in their thinking, but Stuart and Elaine are the opposite. Their thirst for learning and desire to help Provident grow are never-ending. The financial and moral support of people like the Greenbaums is why we have been around so long.” Drollinger says the organization is looking optimistically to the future, standing on a strong foundation the Greenbaums have done much to secure. “Among other things, we are developing new initiatives to provide in-person and telephone support to seniors struggling with isolation, depression, illness and thoughts of self-harm,” Drollinger says. “We are always thinking of new ways to help people lead full, productive lives, and our programs and services would not be possible without supporters like the Greenbaums. They inspire the passion and long-term personal connections that keep us going. At our gala in February, the room will be filled with people wishing to thank them.” &
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It’s the circus, by Jove! That’s great … is it on the Internet? Yeah, yeah … more on that in a few lines. But it’s also live, in person and free of charge, boys and girls! In the next few weeks, Circus Harmony is taking the holidays to new heights at the Wohl and Gamble recreation centers in North City. The first show is at 1 p.m. Dec. 15 at Wohl, 1515 N. Kingshighway (63113). The second is at 1 p.m. Dec. 22, 2907 Gamble St. (63106). Circus Harmony spotlights agile, multitalented youth from the metro area. After each show, performers lead workshops in juggling, hula hoops and other circus arts. PNC Arts Alive provided support for these combined circus shows and workshops. If you can’t make it to either, they will be livestreamed at facebook.com/ circusharmony. There … you don’t even have to get off your duff.
the foodie list to distract you from grim reality.) According to the most recent Gallup polls, fears of cybercrime, identity theft and home burglary top the list of American crime worries. Meanwhile, the personal-finance website WalletHub has released its own safety survey. Results are about as attractive as the brick buildings crumbling into dust everywhere in our city. With 1 as the safest and 91 a ‘C’ (average), we’re failing miserably in many categories, among them: 182nd – Traffic fatalities per capita 168th – Assaults per capita 100th – Hate crimes per capita After all those fear-inducing stats, isn’t it time for another distraction? Well, we’re fresh out of rainbow unicorns. But how about those Cardinals? At his recent Las Vegas show, Grammy Award-winning rapper and St. Louis native Nelly made a personal pitch to mega-fan and baseball wunderkind Bryce Harper, one of the most sought-after free agents in any sport, ever. And if that’s not enough to wish for, have you bought a lottery ticket this week?
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Among the safest cities in the world, according to a website devoted to dining out, are Madison, Wisconsin, Irvine, California, Raleigh, N.C., and Salt Lake City. Alas, those are the only U.S. cities on the list. Many of the others are in Asia, western Europe, the Middle East and the former Soviet Union. According to the foodies who created the list, the safest city on earth is where Garfield the cat was always going to send Odie the overly eager dog: Abu Dhabi. Suffice it to say, Chicago’s not on the list, nor is The Lou, which has achieved the dubious honor of being the most dangerous city in the country, according to another website. (We started with
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Celeste Grayer is a social worker at Bertha Knox Gilkey Pamoja Preparatory Academy at Cole, a city school where reading, math and science are taught alongside African values, customs and culture. Those values are also as American as apple pie, among them self-control, respect toward elders and giving back to the community. It makes sense that Grayer, an artist, has been a driving force behind the Kwanzaa celebration held for the last two years in The Delmar Loop, where students have been responsible for the whimsical holiday storefront decorations. This year, kids will dance, play African drums and otherwise exuberantly mark Kwanzaa from 5 to 7 p.m. Dec. 29 at St. Louis Artworks, 5959 Delmar. Grayer is working with George Buckner Jr., the school’s music director, to put more than three dozen kids through their paces. Not coincidentally, she’s also a creative wizard, an abstract artist (her company is named The True Trifecta) who can transform found and discarded objects and recyclables into wondrous, unusual works. BKG, a three-story brick building at 3935 Enright Ave., is a city school whose curriculum is modeled after similar programs in Kansas City, Detroit and L.A., where African-centered schools are popular and growing. Grayer, who’s been on staff at BKG since 2013, simply describes Kwanzaa as an exhortation to “live life every day, to love yourself.” Developed in the early 1960s during the Civil Rights era, the seven-day observance focuses on the seven principles of Nguzo-Saba, among them Umoja (unity), Imani (faith), Nia (purpose) and Kuumba (creativity). Kwanzaa starts Dec. 26 and ends Jan. 1. Although the menorah, tree and stockings may still be up, we’d all do well to honor Nguzo-Saba in the New Year.
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There’s a golf tourney for this cause, a dance for that disease. But for the last several years, proponents of Fathers’ Support Center have taken their best shot at clay pigeons. It’s an unusual fundraising spin for this unique nonprofit: FSC offers parenting education and support services to dads in the StL … specifically those who have children but need some help learning to raise them. Halbert Sullivan, the nonprofit’s founder and CEO, notes the present location in an old hospital building (4411 N. Newstead Ave.) has grown beyond cramped. Last year, FSC launched a capital campaign, Fathers Forever, to pay for its new headquarters at 1601 Olive St. The new location has 20,000 square feet, twice that of Newstead. Nothing succeeds like success, and more space was needed as the slate of services increased. The program is like a boot camp, a tough-love environment where dads learn, at the very least, to handle child support and negotiate the legal system—and ideally, to interact with their sons and daughters. There are parenting programs for mothers, too. Fathers Forever aims to raise $4.3 million to cover renovations at the new location. Donors already have pledged $2.8 million, and FSC is looking to raise an additional $1.5 million, hoping to make the move by next October. The new HQ will improve access to the Metro by centralizing FSC’s services in the area some call Downtown West. The size and location also will allow the agency to serve more than 1,000 people annually, an increase of 34 percent. To date, the 20-year-old agency has reconnected nearly 15,000 fathers with their children. But kids represent the most important number—40,000 boys and girls who are fatherless no more. TT TRIVIA | ‘BY JOVE!’ IS A CRACKING GOOD PHRASE. AND YES, IT’S ANTIQUATED. TO WHAT ON EARTH … OR TO WHAT IN THE SOLAR SYSTEM, ACTUALLY … DOES THE EXCLAMATION EUPHEMISTICALLY REFER? LAST ISSUE’S ANSWER | SQUARE INC. OPENED ITS FIRST ST. LOUIS OFFICE IN THE CENTRAL WEST END IN 2015.
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Consider these two words: Ylang Ylang. Then, these three: Location, location, location. And, thirdly, this monogram: JEM, which is how Julie M. Ettinger’s is situated. Confused? Well, it’s hardly a riddle. JEM sounds like ‘gem,’ which is the business Ettinger has been in since the early 1990s—jewelry. She started her career modestly, albeit a bit reluctantly, in the fine store her mother, Lois Morganstern, established at Plaza Frontenac in 1985. Ettinger wrapped packages as a high-school and college kid. And she told Morganstern she felt selfconscious about approaching people … at first. She was preparing for a career in pharmaceutical sales once she finished up at Mizzou. But by the end of a summer, she remembers exclaiming about the jewelry business, “I love this!” A co-worker and friend says Ettinger has a huge heart and always seeks to make authentic connections with others. This is the woman we met at the ‘coolest’ small jewelry store in America, according to InStore, an
industry trade publication. She’s on the cover of the August issue next to the man who runs the ‘coolest’ large store, which is in Beverly Hills. Coolest, perhaps; but warm, mostly. In no time, you feel like a friend. “We’re not stuffy or judgmental,” says Ettinger, who makes you feel as though you’ve known her since high school. (Parkway North, since obviously you were about to ask.) Soon enough, it becomes evident she’s a very spiritual woman in her approach to fashion, jewelry and life. Her outfit is eclectic: ripped jeans, funky black boots, black velvet top. And, of course, diamond hoop earrings that manage to be both striking and subtle. She’s designed jewelry with a gold-anddiamond ‘harness’ holding a crystal, blessed on the slopes of a volcano in Bali.
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St. Louis’ own twin comic duo, Randy and ▶ Jason Sklar, swung by their hometown to headline PROJECT WAKE UP ’s INAUGURAL COMEDY NIGHT AT CHAMINADE COLLEGE PREPARATORY HIGH SCHOOL. The fundraiser supported the nonprofit’s efforts to raise mental health awareness, including scholarship funding and a new documentary on suicide prevention.
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LAST WEEK I SUGGESTED some ways to survive holiday shopping. Today, I want to tip you off to some local retailers who will make your shopping experience even less stressful. (And of course, like always with me, there is a background story.) Each year, Town&Style publishes a holiday gift guide that contains some of our favorite items from area stores. Normally, I have nothing to do with it because, well, the editors want people with good taste making the gift selections. But this year, with an editor on maternity leave and other scheduling conflicts, they had to hit up the B team for help. That’s me! I hoped for the Home or Women’s category, but sadly, I got Kids’. I say this because I am not a big fan of children. I mean, I like my own, but mostly I just find kids annoying. They ask a lot of questions and always seem to interrupt TV shows right at the good parts. My husband holds the opposite view, however, so our children are normal, and I have managed to keep my annoyance pretty well hidden from the public. You may remember I was a Girl Scout leader for five years. How did I do it? I had a swear jar, and I used to shove $20 into it before each meeting to cover what I would inevitably say during those 90 minutes. Oddly, none of the parents ever pulled their daughters out of the troop. (Hmm, does that make them bad parents, or did they just want to prepare their children for the sort of crazy people they were bound to encounter later in life?) Anyway, I was not super-excited, so I did what I always do and made my friend Rachel come along. She likes kids, so off we went in search of the perfect presents—and I have to say, I was blown away! We visited Imagination Toys on Clayton Road, which is like a smaller version of FAO Schwarz. What I loved best about the place was that it had toys for kids of every age, including me! Feel the need to play sports at night? Grab a light-up soccer ball or baseball bat. The store has every game you can imagine. Happy Up on Maryland Avenue is a great choice if you have a child who aspires to be an American Ninja Warrior. Seriously, I didn’t realize I wanted to be one until I saw all of the stuff they have to help me jump and fly. I know it’s not meant for 58-year-old women, but if you have kids, you should stop by. They sell games that challenge your mind, too. City Sprouts was my final stop. I’ve always loved cars, trucks and racetracks, but not the fancy kind. I like the wooden ones made for little hands. Plus, the store has a great selection of cute clothing. There also is an online company, Hello Dobson, that sells adorable dresses for moms and daughters. The clothes are made right here in St. Louis. So why am I telling you this? It’s not a paid advertisement. But before you hit the big-box retailers, just try some of these local stores. They have great stuff, the employees are nice, and they actually made me think about kids with a smile. Shop local! It really does make a difference.
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▲ Believe it or not, THE ‘BINGWA BUNCH’ IS ALREADY A YEAR OLD! THE ST. LOUIS ZOO ’s celebrated family of cheetah cubs—three males and five females—is growing and thriving. According to the Association of Zoos and Aquariums, they are the first litter of eight to be reared by a female cheetah at a U.S. zoo. The cubs, born to parents Bingwa and Jason, weigh about 55 pounds each and are nearly full grown.
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k c e h c it ▲ The power of the pen was celebrated at the St. Louis Press Club’s recent annual meeting and dinner at the Norman Probstein Golf Club. Special recognition was given to Miran Halen, Sheri Sherman, Phyllis Langsdorf, Faith Berger and T&S contributing writers Ellen Soule and Joan Berkman for their work to support the organization and raise funds for journalism scholarships. St. Louis Mayor Lyda Krewson gave a talk about the state of the city.
〈〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉〉 For a dash of holiday humor, check out the New Jewish Theatre’s production of An Act of God, on stage at the Jewish Community Center’s Staenberg Family Complex through Dec. 16. The play stars Alan Knoll as the man upstairs.
Don’t miss Garden Glow at the Missouri Botanical Garden, a dazzling display of hundreds of thousands of holiday lights adorning the Climatron, Tower Grove House and other favorite sites. The exhibit runs through Jan. 1; it’s closed on Dec. 24 and 25.
Bundle up, lace up and head downtown to the Winterfest Ice Rink at the Arch, open through Jan. 1. The outdoor rink at Kiener Plaza entices holiday revelers with free admission, hot chocolate and skates for rent.
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The company I’ve worked at for 10 years was sold recently. Although I like the new owners, their leadership style is driving my colleagues and me crazy. They launch a new initiative every other month, causing us to drop whatever we’re doing and start from scratch. These new programs are blurring our focus and wasting our time. Not sure I can take much more of this, and would appreciate your thoughts. – THINK OUR NEW BOSSES NEED A REALITY CHECK
Most bosses don’t mean to waste their employees’ time. Many give orders without realizing how much work their directives entail. In fact, some are downright clueless that they are doing it. Unfortunately, leaders who continually jump from one new managerial concept to another companywide initiative without accounting for their previous directives usually end up sapping time and energy from people who do the most important work. They also may create costly mistakes for the company down the road. That said, any boss who puts his or her employees in this situation is indeed due for a reality check. This kind of manager needs to be aware that the new initiatives require additional training, meetings and documentation. And although staff will comply with the new directive, refocusing on their new assignment takes time away from their core work. In addition, ongoing or frequent changes in managerial direction not only are disruptive, they also create an office fog of confusion about the firm’s priorities. Eventually, they may lead to a lack of employee confidence in the company’s leadership and the possibility of a mass exodus. If leaders want to stop making these mistakes, they need to be willing to encourage candor and constructive criticism from employees—not just lip service, but constructive advice backed up by actions. Straightforward communication needs to take place on a regular basis—not just one and done and a declaration of victory. Otherwise, those old habits will creep back into place, and wasting time will become the norm, not a temporary aberration. As a staff member, speak up but be thoughtful, strategic and respectful. And yes, there are risks associated with such an intervention, especially if the new owners aren’t up for a reality check. As such, make sure your resume is up-to-date, because the reality is that you might be in a no-win situation. The Velvet Hammer wishes everyone a productive and healthy New Year!
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WISH LIST
IN THIS SEASON OF GIVING, Town&Style has contacted local charities to ask what’s on their wish lists.
It’s important to remember those who could use a helping hand during our season of joy and celebration. Why not add a few of these items to your shopping list to help make the holiday season a little brighter for others?
BURUNDI MIRACLE PROJECT
LET ME RUN - ST. LOUIS
PROJECT: To move vulnerable children in the direction
PROJECT: To inspire boys through the power of running
ITEMS NEEDED: Broken or unused jewelry (gold, sterling silver or platinum), gold or silver coins or bars, unwanted sterling silver flatware or serving pieces
ITEMS NEEDED: Games of all varieties, new toys for children
ITEMS NEEDED: Volunteer coaches (register online at letmerun.org), bullhorn or megaphone, a color or black and white printer
by providing meals, shelter, education and medical care
of hope by delivering comprehensive therapeutic and educational services to support biological, foster and adoptive families
DROP LOCATION: 695 Hawbrook Ave.; for secure drop off,
of all ages, winter clothing for all ages (e.g., mittens, gloves, hats, scarves)
CONTACT: Brookie Moore, 314.504.0335
DROP LOCATION: 3309 S. Kingshighway Blvd., 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.
please text 314.504.0335
THE CENTER FOR HEAD INJURY SERVICES PROJECT: To help people with brain injuries, autism and other disabilities reach their maximum potential by developing skills, creating opportunities and shaping brighter futures
ITEMS NEEDED: White noise machines, tablets, laptops, adult-sized sweatpants
Monday through Friday
CONTACT: Karen Grant, 314.534.9350, ext. 1325, karen.grant@familyforwardmo.org
FORTE! CHAMBER ORCHESTRA ST. LOUIS PROJECT: To perform music to delight its audience, challenge its members and benefit the community
DROP LOCATION: 11828 Lackland Road, 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.
ITEMS NEEDED: Orchestral sheet music, music stands, highquality audio and video recordings of its concerts
CONTACT: Sue Kaiser, 314.983.9230
DROP LOCATION: Dropoff by appointment only CONTACT: Chris Pallozola, 636.256.3572
Monday through Friday
COVERING HOUSE PROJECT: To provide refuge and restoration using the least
restrictive environment for sexually exploited and trafficked children and teens, offering safety, dignity and freedom
ITEMS NEEDED: Toaster; griddle; ricer; Dutch oven; waffle maker; 18-gallon plastic containers; large, locking file cabinets; comfy chairs; industrial refrigerator; industrial dishwasher with sanitizer DROP LOCATION: Call 314.962.3450 to arrange dropoff.
CROWN CENTER FOR SENIOR LIVING PROJECT: To honor Jewish values and traditions; to provide
affordable, high-quality living and services to enable residents to flourish independently; and to create inspiring programming to enable all community seniors to maintain an active and healthy lifestyle
ITEMS NEEDED: Watercolor supplies (e.g., paints, brushes,
papers, pencils); 12-inch square canvases, carrageenan paper marbling kit
DROP LOCATION: 8350 Delcrest Drive, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Monday through Friday
CONTACT: Randi Schenberg, 314.991.2055
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PROJECT: To support the forgotten children of Burundi, Africa,
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FOSTER & ADOPTIVE CARE COALITION PROJECT: To create permanency in foster children’s lives by
recruiting and supporting foster and adoptive families in the metropolitan St. Louis region
ITEMS NEEDED: Plug-in night lights, bubbles, diapers (all
sizes) and Pull-Ups (especially larger sizes)
DROP LOCATION: 1750 S. Brentwood Blvd., Ste. 210 CONTACT: 314.367.8373
HOME WORKS! PROJECT: To partner families and teachers for students’ success ITEMS NEEDED: Books, especially elementary level; tools for
home learning (e.g., flash cards, academic activities, work books, rulers, flash drives), school supplies (e.g., notebooks, pencils, pens, erasers, dry erase markers, sticky notes, stickers, index cards), math materials (e.g,, protractors, calculators, math games and activities)
DROP LOCATION: 1968 Innerbelt Business Center Drive, 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. Monday through Friday CONTACT: Amoni Henderson, 314.325.9506, ext. 104
to be courageous enough to be themselves, build healthy relationships and live an active lifestyle
DROP LOCATION: Contact Monica Wohlberg to coordinate dropoff or pickup.
CONTACT: Monica Wohlberg, 314.440.1201, monicaw@letmerun.org
LOLLY’S PLACE PROJECT: To provide quality after-school tutoring and
enrichment programs to area students in kindergarten through 6th grade
ITEMS NEEDED: Computer charging station, Own Voices & Diverse Authors collections (grades 3-5) from BookSource, a desk with drawers DROP LOCATION: 6800 Washington Ave., 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. Monday, Tuesday and Thursday CONTACT: Rhema Anazonwu, 832.475.7333
MISSION: ST. LOUIS PROJECT: To empower people to transform their lives, families and neighborhoods
ITEMS NEEDED: Tools to help with minor home repair, including hand-held tools like hammers, screwdrivers and tape measures; table or skill saws; a trim gun and compressor DROP LOCATION: 3108 N. Grand Ave., 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Friday; pickup can be arranged CONTACT: Laura Kleffner, 636.368.7106, laura@missionstl.org
NATIONAL KIDNEY FOUNDATION PROJECT: To prevent kidney and urinary tract diseases,
improving the health and well-being of individuals and families affected and increasing the availability of organs for transplantation
ITEMS NEEDED: Blood pressure cuffs, a hospital scale, 10 ft. by 10 ft. branded tent DROP LOCATION: 1001 Craig Road, Ste. 480 CONTACT: Kathleen Davis, 314.852.9412
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RONALD McDONALD HOUSE CHARITIES OF ST. LOUIS PROJECT: To provide comfort, care and a home away from home for families of seriously ill children
ITEMS NEEDED: New, unwrapped holiday gifts for mothers, fathers and teenage children; individually wrapped snack items; high-efficiency laundry detergent DROP LOCATION: 300 Ronald McDonald House Lane CONTACT: Ian Lindquist, 314.773.1100
THE SGT. BAM FOUNDATION PROJECT: To support veterans living with PTSD ITEMS NEEDED: Gift cards to grocery stores DROP LOCATION: 11468 Olive Blvd., Ste. 242 CONTACT: 888.558.8488
ST. MARTHA’S HALL PROJECT: To help battered women and their children break the cycle of violence in their lives
ITEMS NEEDED: Toilet paper, prepaid cell phones with
gift cards, tennis shoes for women
DROP LOCATION: Due to its confidential location, call 314.533.1313 to arrange pickup
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WILLOWS WAY PROJECT: To empower individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities to live a life beyond limits through personalized support and community engagement
ITEMS NEEDED: Comforters and sheets for full- and queen-sized beds, gift cards, Amazon Fire tablets DROP LOCATION: 800 Friedens Road, Ste. 100,
8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Friday; pickup can be arranged for larger items
CONTACT: Melodee Benton, 636.757.0513
THE WOMEN’S SAFE HOUSE PROJECT: To provide safe shelter and transitional
ITEMS NEEDED: Winter coats, boots, scarves,
hats, gloves
DROP LOCATION: Due to its confidential location, please email Burgandy Bonser to schedule pickup. CONTACT: Burgandy Bonser, bbonser@twsh.org;
Monica DuBois, mdubois@twsh.org; 314.772.4535
YOUTH IN NEED
ITEMS NEEDED: A new or used van, projector, new or
DROP LOCATION: 1815 Boone’s Lick Road, 8:30 a.m.
Monday through Wednesday
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and families so they find safety, hope and success in life
ITEMS NEEDED: Play-Doh, art supplies (e.g., paint, canvases and craft kits), socks
CONTACT: Clare Higgins Siegel, 314.810.6770
online ordering available thru Dec. 18th
PROJECT: To build on the strength of children, youth
resilient local food systems
DROP LOCATION: 3224 Locust St., 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Reserve your Holiday Meal today!
living services to battered women and their dependent children and to empower them to make informed choices about their futures
PROJECT: To build community around inclusive and like-new laptops
You Set the Table We’ll do the Cooking!
to 4:30 p.m. Monday through Friday; pickup can be arranged for large donations
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CONTACT: Autumn Shepherd, 636.757.9334, ashepherd@youthinneed.org
VOYCE PROJECT: To advocate for the needs of residents
living in long-term care settings and to help families better advocate for loved ones to receive the care and services they deserve
ITEMS NEEDED: Bottled water, copy paper, office
supplies
DROP LOCATION: 680 Craig Road, Ste. 245 CONTACT: Mary Lynn Faunda Donovan, 314.918.8222
WILD BIRD REHABILITATION PROJECT: To ensure the survival of native songbirds through professional medical care and education about their value and needs
ITEMS NEEDED: Paper towels, bleach, dish soap DROP LOCATION: 9624 Midland Blvd., 9 a.m. to 1 p.m.
and 5 p.m. to 7 p.m.; pickup can be arranged
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CONTACT: Joe Hoffman, 314.426.6400
For more info call 314-962-7666 or visit TheRefindRoom.com
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ALYSSA GREER WITH TESSA, KERRI MCCURDY WITH LANA
GATEWAY ARCH PARK FOUNDATION arch bark by bill barrett WHERE Gateway Arch grounds WHY The event,
A PLACE FOR DEVELOPMENT
presented by Royal Canin, celebrates the dogfriendly Gateway Arch National Park with a variety of activities for dog lovers and their four-legged companions. WHO Foundation executive director Eric Moraczewski, director of development Sarah Melinger, Royal Canin president Kamie Eckert, emcee Emily Pritchard HIGHLIGHTS Paws on Pavement one-mile fun walk, live music by Feel Good Inc., dock diving, agility course
KAMIE ECKERT WITH BAXTER AND BOGEY
Not all children have access to the same opportunities. At the Y, we believe every child deserves access to enriching life experiences where youth connect, belong and achieve. That is why last year alone, the Gateway Region YMCA provided $470,000 in financial assistance for 1,800 children to participate in early childhood or school-age child care services. Because all children deserve to start and attend school developmentally on par with their peers. gwrymca.org/opportunities
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2019 Social & Charity Datebook, a fan-favorite special showcasing ‘must go-to’ events from galas to golf, theater to exhibits ... and so much more. Do not miss out! coming january 16, 2019
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The Compton Heights Concert Band’s
20th Annual
CAITLIN, NICK AND CARTER CLARK
Holiday Pops Spectacular!
STEPHANIE BAHN POTEE
T, KEN POTEET
Edward Dolbashian, Music Director/Conductor Harry F. Swanger, President/Founder Featuring
Hugh Smith, Tenor Robert Ellison, Baritone Gina Galati, Soprano and David Morris, World’s Top Whistler! DON HUTSON, DARIUS WILLIAMS
COREY POTEET, DOUG WINTERS, MCLANE POTEET
M1 BANK grand opening by bill barrett
LUM NNE WESA, STEVE ROSENB
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WHERE M1 Bank, Clayton WHY Opening of new bank location WHO Chairman and CEO Ken Poteet, director and chief credit officer McLane Poteet, director and senior vice president Corey Poteet, director and CFO Trent Hillis, director and president David Hill, COO Kelly Hutson, marketing and community outreach director Stephanie Bahn Poteet, senior vice presidents Don Hutson and Robert McLain HIGHLIGHTS Fall fare and cocktails, entertainment by Malena Smith
Skip Viragh Center for the Arts
Chaminade College Preparatory School, 425 S. Lindbergh, St. Louis, MO 63131
Saturday, December 22, 2018 Two Exciting Performances
2:00 PM and 7:30 PM For All Tickets
www.chband.org or (314) 776-2227 Indelible Memories and a Joyous Start to the Holiday! Celebrate the Holiday with Taste & Style!
LINCOLN GRAY, DAVID HILL, JARED ANDERSON
BETSY SCHMIDT, ROSEMARY HANLEY
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Purchase VIP Tickets Best Seats Post-Concert Reception! Bonus Drink LoRusso’s Catered hors d'oeuvres
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ELLIE DARLAND, JEANNE CALLAHAN, MARY CLARE DARLAND
NATALIE VILLMER, CATHY INKLEY
FRIENDS OF THE RURAL PARISH WORKERS OF CHRIST THE KING annual fashion show and luncheon by bill barrett WHERE The Ritz-Carlton WHY To benefit the Rural Parish HOLIDAY HOURS
“In the heart of Ladue”
M-F: 9-5 | Sat: 9-4 | Sun: 12-4 314.567.6650 | MiesnersFlowers.com
9723 Clayton Road Ladue, 63124
MANDY MURPHEY, VICKI MESSMER
MARY JANE AND JOHN CUSUMANO
Color her Holidays 314-984-0040 | www.glennbetzjewelers.com crowne plaza of des peres | 11776 manchester road 1 mile East of I-270 Monday-Friday 9:30-5:30, Saturday 10-4, Sunday (12/23 only) 12-5 Extended hours are welcome, but by appointment only.
ELLI, MAUREEN TRAM A MELISSA JEDLICK
CHARLENE MALLIEN, FRED DICKINSON, LORETTA RALEY
Workers of Christ the King as they serve families, help rehab homes and restore human dignity WHO Co-chairs Cathy Inkley and Vicki Messmer, directress Natalie Villmer, emcee Mandy Murphey HIGHLIGHTS Shopping boutiques, lunch, fashion show
JEN TRAUBE, ADDIE HAGEN, AVA HAGEN, DARA NEIERS
JESSI MUELLER, KELLY DELUCA
LISA ROSE KOON, STACEY CRIBBIN
CHRISTINE GORDON, JANE SCHMIDT, HOLLY FESLER
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GIVE & GET IN RETURN! LILLY YANAGIMOTO, AVERY BOSWELL
CORY SMALLWOOD, BESS WILFONG
PINK RIBBON GIRLS ignite the fight by rick miller WHERE COCA WHY Inaugural event to raise funds and awareness of the organization’s services for women and families affected by breast and gynecological cancers WHO President and CEO Heather Salazar, regional director Cory Smallwood, event chairs Linda and Jesse Hunter, Dr. Kate Appleton and Taka Yanagimoto HIGHLIGHTS Featured speakers, auction, cocktails, hors d’oeuvres and a candy bar
Give a gift of $200 or more to Circle of Concern and get half your donation back in the form of a tax credit. Donate up to $5,000* to receive a credit up to $2,500. Donate by December 31 and we’ll mail a 2018 tax credit form to you in January.
DRS. IAN AND ANDREA HAGEMANN
Your generous donation provides low income families in West St. Louis County with: DRS. JAGU AND
MILAN ANADKA T
• Wholesome Foods • Financial Assistance • Summer Camp Opportunities • Career Mentorship • Scholarships
www.circleofconcern.org
Call Juliet or Cyndi for further information at 636.861.2623. *Couples filing jointly may donate up to $10,000 and may receive up to $5,000 in credits.
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The Giving Guide
BUILDING STABLE COMMUNITIES ONE FAMILY AT A TIME Helping Hand-Me-Downs (HHMD) is a local nonprofit helping families break the cycle of poverty and working with them to find stability and independence. We were founded 7 years ago and now have 4 locations throughout St. Louis and Jefferson County. This year the organization will serve over 5,000 children by providing them with clothing, shoes, coats, and other necessities along with helping their parents find stable employment and safe affordable housing.
Get involved today! TO LEARN MORE, DONATE OR TO VOLUNTEER PLEASE VISIT
HelpingHandMeDowns.org or call 314.514.5987
Bringing the therapeutic benefits of art to those touched by cancer and other chronic illnesses.
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Your gift goes directly toward art supplies for free studio classes, hospital waiting rooms and chair-side projects for over 200 participants monthly.
DONATE: ARTSASHEALING.ORG
Since 1930 Mary Ryder Home has been providing low-income senior women a place to call home. We nourish their social, physical and emotional needs, and enhance each woman’s quality of life through compassionate care.
Contributing to Mary Ryder Home Donate online at www.maryryderhome.org Gift of appreciated securities Memorial or tribute gifts Volunteer Donate in-kind gifts or a Resident Registry item for the holiday season
4361 Olive Street, St. Louis, MO 63108 www.maryryderhome.org 314.531.2981 infor@maryryderhome.org
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“St. Patrick Center Saved My Life.” We’ve heard this many times in the 35 years that we’ve been blessed to help people overcome homelessness and gain independence. St. Patrick Center moves hundreds of people into housing each year. We witness how dramatically a home changes a life. Our clients tell us housing changes everything. Please invest in St. Patrick Center. Your gift will help us provide life-changing opportunities and end homelessness for families.
Donate at stpatrickcenter.org or call 314.802.0690.
We’re all in this together – preserving lives – one person, one family at a time.
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The Giving Guide Serving pregnant, homeless women and their children for over 35 years.
How you give makes a difference in the lives of local children
Full range of services include: • Shelter in a safe and loving environment • Perinatal nursing services, counseling and mental health care • Parenting and life skills • Education support and job-training • Two-year aftercare program Please consider a gift to Our Lady’s Inn in support of our moms and babies. For more information visit www.ourladysinn.org.
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St. Louis Children’s Hospital is a not-for-profit hospital. Your contribution supports groundbreaking research, exceptional pediatric care and health outreach programs for kids throughout our community. Become a Guardian of Childhood and donate today at StLouisChildrens.org/townstyle.
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TRUE CARE
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MCKNIGHT PLACE by alexa beattie
AT MCKNIGHT PLACE ASSISTED LIVING, ENRICHMENT OF THE SOUL IS just as important as care of the physical self. Cultural activities and opportunities for continued learning are an integral part of daily life in the senior community, helping to keep residents engaged and enthusiastic. Lauren Heller, activity director, says great attention goes into the planning and tailoring of activities, beginning when a resident first moves in. “We interview everyone individually when they arrive, and this allows us to get an immediate, in-depth view of their likes and dislikes so we can make them feel at home,” she says. “Our staff then gets to know the resident and family so it’s easy to plan activities.” In addition, a monthly residents’ council meeting gives them the opportunity to suggest programs they would like added to the calendar. Whether it’s a Philosophical Cafe discussion led by a Webster University professor, a talk on politics, a flower arranging class offered by the Missouri Botanical Garden, or a monthly opportunity to get up close and personal with small animals from the St. Louis Zoo, there is literally something for everyone. “I particularly like the presentations given by the Botanical Garden,” says resident Josie Clark. “I was a gardener when I lived at home, and now I can garden here, too.” Sometimes, daily activities are as simple as enjoying High Tea and Harp in the Grand Lounge. “Studies have shown that listening to classical music can slow the progression of dementia,” says Heller, adding that trips to Powell Symphony Hall also
GUEST SPEAKER SCOTT FITZER WITH RESIDENTS AT A WINE CONNOISSEUR CLUB MEETING
are incorporated into the rich panoply of cultural excursions. Similarly, art and nature are highly valued at McKnight Place. Visits to the Saint Louis Art Museum play a significant role in keeping minds agile, as do trips to local parks. “We also make great use of the University City Public Library,” says Heller. ”We use its book kits for our Book Club. The staff there has been very gracious, making sure our club members get exactly what they need.” Heller adds that a recent highlight was the Summer Staycation event, which combined St. Louis history lectures with visits to restaurants and landmarks like Busch Stadium. Friends and family always are welcome to join in. “We encourage them to attend activities with their loved ones,” she notes. “Whether it’s relaxing at our daily happy hour, going to lunch on one of our weekly trips, or a line dancing class or Trivia Tuesdays, we welcome them with open arms. They might even learn a thing or two!” Clark concurs: “My son has come to group activities with me and seems to enjoy them just as much as I do.” Heller attributes the success of the activities program to a talented music and art therapy team and a fun and energetic staff that never stops thinking of ways to make the residence a model of excellence. “We are very proud of what we do here,” she says. “Our residents feel the same way.” &
MCKNIGHT PLACE ASSISTED LIVING IN LADUE OFFERS COMPREHENSIVE, COMPASSIONATE RESIDENTIAL SERVICES FOR SENIORS. PICTURED ON THE COVER: RESIDENTS TAKE PART IN A FULL SCHEDULE OF ENJOYABLE ACTIVITIES. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.925.0085 OR VISIT MCKNIGHTPLACE.COM. COVER DESIGN COURTESY OF MCKNIGHT PLACE
More Choices, More Expression! What do you want to do today?
Move-in specials are now available. Call (314) 993-3333 for more information or to schedule a personal tour.
McKnightPlace.com We are committed to equal housing opportunity that does not discriminate in housing and services because of race, color, religion, sex, handicap, familial status or national origin.
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Peggy Liggett
Your Senior Real Estate Specialist • Senior Real Estate Specialist (SRES) • Certified Relocation Specialist • Member of Multi-Million Dollar Club • Business developed upon referrals and repeat clients
SENIOR SERVICES
• Assists with all phases of sellers leaving their homes of many years - including estate sales, preparing house, complete cleaning!
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Peggy has a sense of unwavering principle... She is very responsive, returning calls quickly and making sure you are well informed with the status of the purchase or sale of your home. A rarity these days, Peggy is a real straight-shooter and a delight to work with in what can be a very stressful transaction. - Testimonial from a repeat client
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Contact Peggy for expertise in Senior Real Estate needs o: 314.725.5100 | c: 314.265.1041 pliggett@lauramccarthy.com
AccuCare Home Health Care of St. Louis, locally RN owned and RN managed, is dedicated to providing seniors with the finest private, in-home health care. In their home. On their terms.
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Preparing a home for sale can be overwhelming, especially for those who have lived in the same house for years. Peggy Liggett makes the job easier by assisting sellers during all phases of preparation and moving.
The Fountains offers independent, assisted and memory care living options for seniors in an affordable, upscale West County neighborhood. We offer all-inclusive pricing and are proud to be locally owned and operated.
29 The Boulevard 314.725.5100 lauramccarthy.com
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At McKnight Place, every day brings more activity choices. Creative offerings include art appreciation, expressive art classes, music appreciation, cooking classes and a horticultural group. Call for information about our move-in specials.
Help your loved ones navigate their aging journey. Join LSS experts at noon Jan. 9 for a free Luncheon Education Series to learn why estate planning should include more than just a will, and how you can be prepared in case of an emergency. Call to RSVP.
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Advanced Nursing is a locally owned and managed corporation providing the St. Louis area with quality nursing care since 1984. Owned by Maggie Holtman, RN, BSN, it provides private duty nurse aides, licensed practical nurses and registered nurses for patients.
AccuCare is locally RN-owned and managed. It is dedicated to providing exclusive RN, LPN and aide services to help seniors live independently.
141 N. Meramec Ave. 314.863.3030
Dana Phillips, RN, BSN; Jacque Phillips RN, BSN, President/Founder
Exclusive Registered Nurse & Home Care Aide Services RN Oversight Personal Care Dressing/Grooming Companionship
Bath Services Medication Set-Up Mobility Assistance Transportation/Errands
DIGNITY | RESPECT | PEACE OF MIND Visit their website www.accucare.com. Contact us 24-hours-a-day at 314.692.0020
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ge is just a number, right? If you have any doubts, some statistics from the St. Louis Strutters dance troupe may convince you. The team includes 14 performers who have been together 33 years. They produce 85 shows annually, hold 52 all-day rehearsals each year, make at least five costume changes during each show, and have performed on three continents. They’ve also raised $170,000 for charity—and their youngest member is a sprightly 60 years of age. PHOTO: RICK MILLER
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Once they’ve wowed audiences with their high-energy tap routines and gorgeous
auditions, aspiring members are not always prepared for the level of expertise
costumes, the Strutters conclude each performance with dancer introductions. And
necessary to master the group’s intricate routines. “We just make it look easy,”
just like with most families, the baby gets to go first. Audiences are always surprised to
Bruder notes.
learn the dancers’ ages, and that surprise turns to astonishment when Pat Bruder, a
Recalling her own introduction to the Strutters, Tockman says, “When I was 50,
founding member, announces that she is 85. (When the Strutters first came together in
I was diagnosed with cancer and began teaching dance to take my mind off it. One
1985, Bruder was the youngest member at 52.)
day, I heard sounds coming from another room; it was the
“In the beginning, it was just six dance teachers who
Strutters practicing their tap dancing!” They invited her
wanted to get together and do our favorite kinds of dancing,
to audition, and she was one of just four chosen from a
tap and chorus line,” Bruder says. “One of the teachers had
group of 40 women who tried out.
a studio, and we started creating routines. Then someone invited us to do a show, then another and another. Before we knew it, we were doing 25 to 30 performances a year, and we just kept building from there.”
AUDIENCES INCLUDE FANS OF ALL AGES.
While the Strutters have donated a great deal of money to charities over the years, Tockman says the women get back much more than they give. “After one performance at a local senior community, an audience
Over three decades, the Strutters have been invited to
member took my hand and said, ‘Please come back! You
perform in Russia, Australia, Atlantic City and Las Vegas
are the best thing that has happened to me since I moved
and at countless venues throughout the St. Louis area,
here,’” she notes. “That made me cry.”
including The Muny. They also traveled to Chicago to perform for the judges of America’s
Audiences include fans of all ages. “One of the most satisfying things is when
Got Talent. In addition to dancing around the globe, several of the Strutters are pageant
young girls come up to us after a show and say, ‘Wow! I wish I could do that!’” Bruder
queens and runners-up. Pat Bruder, Marcene Tockman, Jan Barrett, Marlene Grant and
notes. “They really appreciate what we do.” The dancers rehearse for several hours
Deborah Gross all have taken top honors in the Ms. Senior Missouri pageant.
each week, but they still find time to celebrate one another, especially when there’s
It’s glamorous fun, but it’s also hard work, Bruder says When the group holds
a milestone birthday. “We are really good at parties,” Tockman says.
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I CAN’T SAY THAT I’VE BEEN TO MANY war memorials outside the iconic ones in Washington, D.C., but the newly renovated Soldiers Memorial in downtown St. Louis is well worth a visit, even for non-veterans—well, especially for non-veterans. Now operated by the Missouri Historical Society, the neoclassical structure of marble and terrazzo is imposing as a piece of architecture. But it’s the interior exhibits filled with wondrous artifacts and historical information that reveal how important St. Louis has been in the defense of the free world. Originally built as a memorial to the fallen of World War I, the museum chronicles the city’s military role from preRevolutionary War times to today’s war on terrorism. Ever wonder how Arsenal Street got its name? It was the site of St. Louis’ famous military arsenal that cast much of the fledgling nation’s musket and rifle ammunition, cartridges, artillery rounds, swords and bayonets. And the Eads Bridge was named for James Eads, who developed ironclad gunboats used by the North in the Civil War. St. Louis also was an important city from which forces helped settle and defend the American west. Ft. Belle Fontaine, 12 miles north of St. Louis, was the first American military post west of the Mississippi. The Missouri Territorial Rangers operated from there, scouting and skirmishing with Native Americans along the Mississippi and Missouri rivers. In 1826, Jefferson Barracks was built to replace the old fort, and it holds the distinction of being the oldest active military post west of the Mississippi. Among those who have passed through its doors: Ulysses S. Grant, Robert E. Lee and Dwight D. Eisenhower.
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APRONOMICS – Aaron Martinez of Elaia and Olio DRIVEN – Acura NSX NOT SO DEEP THOUGHTS HAPPY HOUR
HEALTH & BEAUTY 〉〉 Local companies have played a major role in securing our nation, too. Wagner Electric made munitions for WWI, and Emerson Electric produced aircraft turrets for B-25 Liberator bombers in WWII. Mallinckrodt Chemical Works supplied refined uranium to the Manhattan Project, and the St. Louis Ordnance Plant was the largest manufacturer of small arms ammunition in the world during WWII. Soldiers Memorial Museum is humbling. To stand amid 250 years of regional history will make you proud of all that St. Louisans have endured, sacrificed and achieved.
F10 HEALTH – Oh Baby! F12 BEAUTY – Aromatherapy: De-Stressing Naturally through the Holidays
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GIVING SEASON THE FUR BOUTIQUE by stephanie wallace IN WINTER, IT’S DIFFICULT TO IGNORE THE LESS-THAN-IDEAL WEATHER. The
temperature drops, the wind blows, and snow and ice cover roads and walkways. But with the proper coat, gloves, scarf and hat, you’ll have no problem braving the winter chill—and looking fabulous while doing it! The Fur Boutique, located in Ladue, offers a unique selection of one-of-akind pieces ranging from trendy accessories to luxurious furs, making it the perfect destination for seasonal wear and holiday shopping. “There’s something about the holiday season that gives us a feeling of coziness, and that goes wonderfully with fur,” says Ann Hurth, founder and owner of The Fur Boutique. The store’s varied array of products includes cashmere wraps, mink jackets and versatile vests and capes as well as accessories like pompom hats, lined gloves and head scarves. They’re all perfect for adding warmth and style to your winter wardrobe, and Hurth says fur also is great for casual wear. “You don’t have to be dressed up to enjoy it,” she explains. “A shearling jacket can take you from school dropoff to the grocery store to drinks with the girls. You can wear it anywhere.” This year, Hurth is using the boutique to do more than provide St. Louis with fine furs. She is partnering with Ranken Jordan Pediatric Bridge Hospital to promote its Beyond Gala Jan. 19 at the Four Seasons Hotel downtown. The hospital helps make the transition between traditional hospitals and home as smooth as possible for children and families dealing with serious illness and injury. It provides a full spectrum of services alongside medical care, including counseling, spiritual support and community integration assistance. “Ranken Jordan understands that a hospital stay doesn’t just affect the patient,” Hurth says. “The whole family needs to learn to cope.” This especially can be true of siblings. From depression to jealousy, Ranken Jordan helps them manage the overwhelming emotions that can come with seeing their brother or sister in the hospital. That is certainly the case for siblings Claire and Isaiah. He suffers from apraxia and a phonological disorder, two conditions that impact his ability to speak, and he was bullied as a result. Ranken Jordan helped Claire understand her brother’s condition, and she in turn worked to educate her peers, putting a stop to the bullying. This dedication to helping the families of patients has a very personal connection for Hurth. When she was 11, her sister, Lucy Dolan, was injured in a mountain climbing accident, leaving her a quadriplegic. Through the experience, Hurth learned just how much illness and injury can impact the whole family. “I know first-hand how important Ranken Jordan’s services are,” she says. “I support the hospital because of all it does for people, including the siblings of patients.” Promoting the hospital is just one way Hurth uses the shop to better serve St. Louis. Its quality selection of merchandise and excellent customer service have allowed the business to flourish by building trust with customers. “We make each individual experience remarkable so people are motivated to come back,” she notes. “We love what we do and have decades of experience, so St. Louisans can feel confident they are getting the best when they come to us.” &
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by stephanie wallace | photos by bill barrett AARON MARTINEZ’S CULINARY JOURNEY has taken him across the world and into some of the nation’s most renowned kitchens. Now, it’s bringing him to the StL! Martinez is taking the reins at Elaia and Olio, the flagship sister restaurants from Ben Poremba of Bengelina Hospitality Group. While he was growing up in Orange County, California, you weren’t likely to find Martinez in a kitchen. Cooking wasn’t really a hobby of his, and he didn’t consider it a professional option when he was younger. He was actually training to become a firefighter when the culinary bug bit. “I was working in restaurants while testing to be placed in a firehouse,” he recalls. “I moved up to nicer restaurants and encountered better, more interesting food. That’s what caught my attention.” To gain kitchen experience, he worked mornings at a restaurant, manned the salad station and waited tables at night. From there, Martinez enrolled in an accelerated program at the Arizona Culinary Institute on the advice of a chef and coworker. “It was an eight-month curriculum, so I got in and out fast,” he says. “Any knowledge is good knowledge, and I learned a lot in a short time. Plus, I was able to parlay it into more experience working in kitchens.” Martinez’s impressive career has taken him to several prestigious positions. In San Diego, he served as sous chef at Addison at The Grand Del Mar under chef William
Bradley. It was a formative time for Martinez, and he considers Bradley his mentor. “Working with William was the hardest three years of my life, but he taught me how to be a chef and run a kitchen,” he explains. In San Francisco, he was chef de cuisine at the lauded restaurants Quince and Commis. He even stretched his culinary muscles abroad, working in Spain and Dranouter, Belgium. He recommends all chefs study in other countries if they have the opportunity. “Food cultures are very different around the world,” he says. “In Spain, people eat dinner over a four-hour period. It’s about the experience, and they don’t just consume to be satiated. Encountering that first-hand helped me respect the crafts of cooking and hospitality a little more.” In Dranouter, he held a position at In de Wulf as part of a team of four who nightly prepared a tasting menu of 20 courses. “At Quince, I worked with 14 cooks and four sous chefs, but in Belgium, it was just three other people,” he recalls. “You had to rely on the person working next to you, and the experience taught me what can be accomplished when people really operate as a team.” After traveling so much, Martinez says he and his wife are ready to settle down and raise their daughter. “My wife is from St. Louis, and she wanted to come home,” he says. “She’s gone with me everywhere for my job, but family is more important now.” That doesn’t mean he’s not
excited to contribute to the city’s blossoming restaurant scene. “There are a lot of talented chefs delivering fun and interesting concepts, and the world is starting to take notice of what’s happening here,” he notes. “It’s a cool time to be here, and I’m excited to be part of that growth.” So what’s his St. Louis dining must-do? “I love barbecue, and before we moved here, we’d have to stop at Pappy’s every time we visited,” he says. Martinez is excited to bring his experience and unique brand of cooking to St. Louis. “I’m going to stay true to who I am as a chef,” he says. “I take a lot of inspiration from sourcing local products, and that’s not going to change now that I’m in Missouri instead of California. If you don’t start with good ingredients, your dish isn’t going to be great, no matter what you do.” He’s also looking forward to growing Elaia and Olio and already has started making changes at the former. “I want to make the experience more fun and exciting for diners,” he notes, adding that he hopes his food and flavor combinations will speak for themselves. With almost two months under his belt at Elaia, Martinez is thrilled to hear positive responses from guests, and he is ready to start shaking things up even more. “I’m excited to be in St. Louis,” he says. “I want to get the community to come to Elaia and Olio and see what we’re doing here.” &
kohlrabi with smoked trout roe and cultured butter » 4 kohlrabi 3 1/2 oz. reduced buttermilk whey 10 1/2 oz. cultured butter 1/2 oz. pickled shallots
DIRECTIONS : ▶ Cook kohlrabi in buttermilk whey until soft. Keep warm and put aside. ▶ Put buttermilk whey in a small saucepan on low heat. Add the butter and whisk until combined.
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DRIVEN ACURA NSX by robert w. paster THERE SEEMS TO BE ONE OPTIMAL AERODYNAMIC SHAPE for cars these days, so most of them end up looking pretty similar. It’s refreshing, then, to see something really different. The new Acura NSX is unusual, but in an awesome supercar way—like how a Lamborghini shouldn’t even be on the same road as other cars. The NSX has a low hood, sharply raked windshield, small carbon fiber roof, raked rear window covering a mid-mounted twin turbo V-6 engine, short rear deck, and lift-reducing rear spoiler. Its sharp angles and smooth curves give it a striking, exotic look from any perspective. Everything in the NSX’s design is intended to make it fast and fun to drive. I didn’t notice a cup holder, which is fine; if you’re driving this car, you should be enjoying it, not drinking coffee. Everything an enthusiast could want in a super car, save one, is here. Gorgeous, sexy looks? Check. Unbelievably powerful engine? Check. Superbly balanced handling with allwheel drive grip and taut, extremely communicative steering? Check. The only thing it lacks is a manual gearbox. A driver’s car like this begs for interaction and control, both of which are maximized with a stick. The NSX does offer paddle shifters if you want to work the gears yourself, but I’ve always considered these kind of like kissing your sister. Everything else about the NSX driving experience is superb. Gobs of power emanate from the twin turbo V-6 assisted by three electric motors, one in the back and one on each front wheel. Thanks to the mid-engine configuration, handling is sublime and steering is responsive and satisfying. Torque vectoring can shift power forward, rearward and right to left on the rear wheels. Brakes, especially the optional ceramic ones, feel like they could stop time. If you want to really unleash the beast, a launch control feature allows you to rev the engine almost to redline, release the brake and then be catapulted forward like a bullet. The instantaneous torque of the electric motors really helps. The NSX also can be a refined, reliable car for commuting. It comes with four driving modes that affect the suspension, braking and transmission. Amenities include dual automatic climate control, navigation and a backup camera. A very small trunk is located
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behind the engine. Though it’s not the easiest car to enter and exit due to its very low stance, it’s worth the effort. A motoring enthusiast I know bought a new NSX after owning two first-generation models. His first comment about it was, “It’s a blast!” He says there are a lot of differences between the old and new NSX, but the only negative thing is the lack of manual transmission. With the NSX, you get the exotic looks and performance of a supercar, but with Honda reliability (Acura is Honda’s premium division) at a fraction of the price. According to Nicolas Dubrouillet, sales consultant at Frank Leta Acura, “The NSX is the only supercar built in the U.S. With its different driving modes, it can be driven every day and at the track. It’s an eyecatching car, and each one is now made to order.” &
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by patty & janie wildlife
You can assume the title of this film is supposed to be ironic, as it actually is about three very quiet lives in a remote part of the country. Directed by Paul Dano and based on a Richard Ford novel, Wildlife tells the story of a small family struggling to stay afloat in 1960s Montana. I didn’t really expect to connect with Jake Gyllenhaal as Jerry Brinson, a 40ish dad in a sleepy town, but he does a convincing job with the role. Carey Mulligan plays Jeanette, the stay-at-home mom who resents Jerry’s escape to a job fighting forest fires. She rebels against his abandonment by finding her own job and getting romantically entangled with a local auto dealer. The Brinsons’ son, 14-year-old Joe (Ed Oxenbould), is shy but more mature and observant than his parents in many ways. All three roles easily could devolve into tiresome suburban clichés, but the individual strengths of the actors keep that from happening. Gyllenhaal puts a real face on the father who has trouble living up to the title of breadwinner, and Mulligan communicates Jeanette’s seething frustration well. Special kudos, however, are due to 17-year-old Oxenbould, whose sensitivity seeps through in every scene. Joe quietly absorbs his parents’ emotions and sincerely tries to help—which makes me appreciate his character (and the film) even more.
SHOULD YOU SEE IT? Yes, it’s a good choice for a tranquil evening. —J.J.
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forever. Amazon Prime. A married couple with very predictable lives end up with the same kind of boring existence in heaven, until one of them just has to make a change. Maya Rudolph and Fred Armisen are outstanding as the longtime partners who try to make each other happy instead of just themselves. It’s bingeworthy.
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2 | IMMERSE Les Ondes by THG is impeccably designed and manufactured. Its faceted base and trident-shaped handles suggest French elegance and timeless style. On display at Immerse. 836 Hanley Industrial Court | 314.375.1500 | immersestl.com
3 | COMPTON HEIGHTS CONCERT BAND The band’s 20th Annual Holiday Pops Spectacular features Hugh K. Smith, Gina Galati, Robert Ellison and David Morris. Shows are at 2 and 7:30 p.m. Dec. 22 at the Skip Viragh Performing Arts Center. Visit chband.org.
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4 | GRAND CENTER INC. Grand Center Arts District offers more to see, hear, taste, learn and experience—often in the most unexpected ways and places. The district is alive with possibility, whether you’re a familiar local or a first-time visitor. grandcenter.org
5 | ST. PATRICK CENTER Housing changes everything. Help St. Patrick Center provide life-changing opportunities for those in need. Your gift helps us move people into homes. To donate, call or visit us online.
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6 | M1 BANK M1 Bank proudly sponsored Christmas in St. Louis: The Ameren Missouri Festival of Lights. 112 S. Hanley Road, Ste. 120 | m1bank.net
7 | PROVIDENT Provident’s behavioral health services support nearly 80,000 individuals annually. The Spirit of Provident Gala Feb. 9 will raise funds for the nonprofit’s counseling, suicide prevention and after-school programs. 2650 Olive Blvd. | 314.802.2626 | providentstl.org
8 | CIRCLE OF CONCERN FOOD PANTRY A cash donation to Circle of Concern can help a struggling family keep their gas or electric utilities on this winter. Your donation can make a holiday dream come true. 112 St. Louis Ave. | 636.861.2623 | circleofconcern.org
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You can’t arrive at a holiday party empty-handed! While food is nice, libations are even better. Here are some great choices to bring along, whether you’re counting your pennies or splurging. HIGH BUDGET
Whiskey There’s nothing like sitting by a holiday fire with a great glass of whiskey. These days, there are all sorts of price points because consumers are more refined; boutique whiskeys can cost upwards of $1,000. If you really want to impress friends or clients, get a bottle of Pappy Van Winkle—there’s some great folklore behind it. Another good high-end whiskey is Blantons, which is handmade and has amazing citrus, vanilla and spice flavors. Champagne It’s the perfect time to break out a bottle of bubbly. Look for champagnes with a specific vintage date. These are considered the best of the best, made only in years when conditions are perfect. The older the champagne, the higher the price. As champagne ages, its fruit character becomes less vibrant and its secondary aromas more apparent. Dom Perignon is a great choice. If you want to really blow people’s minds, find a bottle of Pol Roger Winston Churchill. The 2004 vintage is one of the best I have ever tasted.
MEDIUM BUDGET
Dark rum This goes great in eggnog and can be used without mixers due to its natural sweetness. Diplomatico produces an amazing rum whose brown sugar flavor pairs great with holiday cuisine. Even if you just want to mix a Cuba Libre, you’ll appreciate the difference between a mid-tier dark rum and a lower-end clear rum. Non-vintage madeira Vintage madeira can be expensive, but non-vintage ‘rainwater’ madeira is perfect for a holiday party. It’s vibrant on the palate and usually sweet, which means it pairs well with holiday desserts and honey-baked hams. Blandy’s Rainwater Madeira is a favorite.
A STROLL FOR YOUR SENSES Around every corner, through every window, behind every door; you will find the hear ts of ar tists. Passionate per formers, master musicians, culinary craftsmen; they all gather here. Take a stroll, and take your senses to a place where beauty is created, and humanity is celebrated.
LOW BUDGET
Beer If you want to save some money, beer is a great option. New Belgium and Sam Adams offer holiday packs in a range of types and flavors. If you prefer to buy local, Four Hands Incarnation IPA is full of holiday spice without being too bitter or hoppy. Mixers There’s nothing wrong with being the person who brings mixers to a party! In fact, this aspect of party planning often gets overlooked. I’ve attended gatherings where everyone brought their favorite spirits but no one remebered tonic water or soda. Fever Tree offers a variety of superior mixers.
E X P LO R E W H AT’S H A P P E N I N G TO D AY AT G R A N D C E N T E R.O R G
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BY JULIA M. JOHNSON
When you’re an expectant parent reading up on child-rearing, the amount of advice available can seem like information overload. Books, videos, magazine articles and the Internet offer a sea of suggestions on nurturing your new baby into a happy, well-rounded person. To help distill the mountain of info just a bit, we’ve checked in with area health professionals on some talked-about topics—feeding, sleeping and the ever-popular gender reveal.
BREASTFEEDING VS. FORMULA Health professionals agree on the overall merits of breastfeeding. It provides
Breast milk even can adapt to accommodate the baby’s health needs,
bonding opportunities, optimal nutrition and important immunity benefits to
according to Robbins. “For example, if the infant has an infection, the mother’s
a new infant. Interestingly, though, there occasionally are reasons not to do
body can change the milk to help fight it,” she says. “The milk contains fat, protein
it, says Washington University obstetrician and gynecologist Dr. Camaryn
and electroytes that naturally become denser to meet the baby’s needs. When
Chrisman Robbins, who practices at Barnes-Jewish Hospital. “If the mother is
the baby is no longer sick, the milk returns to normal. Formula can’t adjust in
taking medication that can be passed through her milk or if she has certain health
the same way.”
conditions, breastfeeding may not be a good idea,” Robbins says. And if the baby is not gaining weight after birth, doctors may recommend that the mother pump breast milk and mix it with formula for bottle-feeding instead.
TOUGH BUT WORTH IT Robbins says that although breastfeeding can be difficult and frustrating, it’s also rewarding and well worth the effort. “We should be honest about how hard it
A NATURAL WONDER With that said, breastfeeding is still the method of choice for most babies, according to Robbins. “It’s pretty amazing,” she says. “Doctors have known for
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can be,” she notes. “When a baby is born, a new mom is born as well, and it takes a lot of effort to work as a team. And if breastfeeding does prove too difficult, mothers shouldn’t feel bad if they have to switch to formula.”
a long time that infants do best with breast milk, and long-term data show that
She advises talking to a doctor, lactation consultant, support group members
breastfeeding is good for mothers, too. It may provide protection from ovarian
and experienced friends for moral support. “Having a new baby is hard enough
and breast cancers, and recent findings have strengthened that association.”
on its own,” she says. “Your body feels foreign, and your moods may be shifting.
Breastfeeding blocks ovulation from occurring, and that prevents rapid cell
Adding breastfeeding to the mix introduces even more complexity, but don’t get
turnover that may lead to cancer in the long term, she explains.
discouraged. It tends to get easier over time.”
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CO-SLEEPING The idea of a baby and adult sharing a bed isn’t new, but it comes with risks that parents should be aware of, according to Dr. David Wathen, a SLUCare pediatrician at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. “Reasons for co-sleeping vary, and there are strong feelings on both sides of the debate,” he says. “Sometimes it is done out of necessity in low-income families who have to share a bed to keep warm in winter. Other people do it out of convenience because it’s easier to have the baby nearby for nighttime feedings. And some do it for cultural reasons; a mother and infant sleeping together is seen as an important bonding experience.” Whatever the reason behind it, Wathen says co-sleeping can present health risks, so parents should consult a pediatrician. “There is a chance the adult may roll over on the child, a pillow or blanket may interfere with breathing, or the baby may be injured by falling off the bed,” he notes. Adult beds often have pillow tops, down comforters and other features that can smother babies who aren’t strong enough to pull themselves out, Wathen
BLUE OR PINK? You’ve seen them on social media—the adorable gender reveals that parentsto-be celebrate with parties, shared videos and cute photo opportunities. So how do they find out the baby’s sex before birth? Most often, it’s revealed through ultrasound, says Dr. Shilpa Babbar, a SLUCare obstetrician and gynecologist at SSM Health St. Mary’s Hospital. “At 18 to 20 weeks of gestation, we can use ultrasound to do an anatomy survey and make sure the infant is formed properly,” Babbar says. “If the baby is in a good position, we normally can tell the sex at that time, if the parents want to know—and the majority of them do! In some cases, we can tell gender as early as 12 weeks.” She adds that a DNA test of the mother’s blood can indicate the baby’s sex at about 10 weeks, but it isn’t usually necessary.
IN SOME CASES, WE CAN TELL GENDER AS EARLY AS 12 WEEKS.
notes. For all of these reasons, he says, bed sharing is typically discouraged by the National Institutes of Health and other medical organizations. “You wouldn’t leave a child unbuckled in a car seat,” he notes. “Most of the time, co-sleeping may not cause a problem, but it just takes one night for serious consequences to happen.”
Babbar says the ultrasound exam also can show whether the baby has certain health problems requiring immediate treatment after birth. “Knowing the gender can be helpful because some of these conditions only occur in one sex,” she notes. “The main takeaway is that expectant mothers should have at least one ultrasound during pregnancy so doctors know if the baby is developing normally.”
HEALTH HAZARD A main health threat is infant brain injury due to lack of oxygen, Wathen explains. “Unfortunately, we see this quite often,” he notes. “The child can be permanently disabled by it.” Some companies make special cushions and pillows that claim to promote safer co-sleeping, but Wathen says there is not much evidence they work, and they may even have the opposite effect. “People mistakenly think that if a product is sold in a popular baby store, it must be safe,” he says. And some parents feel that co-sleeping reduces their stress levels, but Wathen says studies do not bear that out, either. To prevent problems that come with co-sleeping, he advises putting a crib in the parents’ bedroom instead. “Recent research shows that children sleep better in a bed by themselves, and the same goes for adults,” he notes. “You are more likely to reach a deeper, more restful state of slumber if you have your own space.” He says co-sleeping also may cause relationship problems if it interferes with the parents’ intimacy. Room sharing instead of bed sharing can be just as convenient for feeding purposes because the baby is still close by, Wathen adds. “Once the child is six months to a year old, you can move the crib to a nearby bedroom,” he notes.
HONEY, WHAT SHOULD WE NAME THE BABY?
In 2018, Sophia and Jackson continued
Emma, Amelia, Noah, Lucas and Elijah
Hailey, Chance, Ariana) and British royals
their six-year reign as the nation's most
also made the top 10, while more modern
(Louis, Meghan, Eugenie, Jack).
popular newborn names. Layla and Oliver
choices like Adalyn, Kinsley, Jayden and
popped into the top 10, edging out Zoe
Jayce appeared farther down the list.
and Logan, and the year's fastest climbers included Isla, Everly, Leo and Carson. Other old-fashioned favorites like Olivia,
Gender-bending choices seem to be gaining popularity, too. Names like Tyler,
Babycenter.com predicts that in 2019,
Ryan, Stevie and Drew are on the rise for girls.
parents will be inspired by pop-culture
(Case in point: Max and August, daughters of
icons including American celebrities (Justin,
Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan.)
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‘Tis the season of hustle and bustle! With seemingly endless shopping lists, back-to-back soirees and family get-togethers, it’s easy to get lost in the extra demands of the holidays. Whether it’s an hour-long aromatherapy massage or peppering your bedroom
B Y M A R Y LY N S I M P S O N
with relaxation-inducing candles, taking a break is an essential part of de-stressing during the most hectic time of the year. Here are some of the best scents of the season to keep you—and the people on your gift list—relaxed and centered until the New Year.
RELAX AND REVIVE
Created with the go-getter in mind, the UMA x Equinox Pure Recovery Candle is perfect for those needing to unwind this holiday season. The candle features notes of eucalyptus, sandalwood and lavender intended to stimulate recovery and relaxation. Going beyond just a pleasant fragrance, all UMA candles are formulated to boost feelings of positivity and well-being. UMA X EQUINOX PURE RECOVERY CANDLE, $68 UMAOILS.COM
DIFFUSING THE SITUATION
Diptyque is more than a home fragrance brand, it's a symbol of luxury. The company's Berries Hourglass Diffuser combines mesmerizing fragrance with elegant décor. With its unique shape, the diffuser is ideal for small spaces and lasts for months. Perfect for gifting this season, it's as aesthetically pleasing as it is relaxing.
TWO IN ONE
DIPTYQUE BERRIES HOURGLASS DIFFUSER 2.0, $150 DIPTYQUEPARIS.COM
Why limit aromatherapy to the home? Le Labo’s Santal 33 Perfume Oil is perfect as a personal fragrance for daytime use. The oil can be used to smooth and soften both hair and skin. It’s vegan and cruelty-free and contains no parabens or alcohol.
GUCCI GAME-CHANGER
Leave it to Gucci to create fuchsia bamboo incense sticks. Elements of esotericum, Seville orange, jasmine, leather and salt create an eclectic mix of fragrances. Pair the sticks with Gucci’s Herbarium Bee Incense Burner for the perfect designer mood maker.
LE LABO SANTAL 33 PERFUME OIL, $147 NORDSTROM.COM
GUCCI ESOTERICUM BAMBOO INCENSE STICKS, $70 GUCCI.COM
MERRY MASSAGE
If a candle just won’t cut it, check out Sound Stone Massage Spa to step up your aromatherapy game. The Crestwood spa specializes in aromatherapy massages and offers everything from hour-long to full-day spa packages. The Head2Toe Rejuvenation package lives up to its name with a facial, full body massage, stone skin treatment and hot stone foot massage. SOUND STONE MASSAGE SPA, SERVICES PRICED AT $55 TO $250 SOUND-STONE.COM
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LESSONS LEARNED
Over several years of writing this column, I have become aware of various universal themes that are often a major part of a given design problem, but not included in my written response for reasons of space and practicality. Lessons Learned, a new feature of the column, will help address this issue. The universal theme we want to keep in mind is that any home, no matter how humble, can be made remarkable if you just give it a chance. So let’s look at this early 1960s ranch house from a ‘lessons learned’ point of view. As you can see from the ‘before’ photo, our house doesn’t look much different from thousands of 1960s entry-level homes seen in the suburbs of U.S. cities. Many people wouldn’t give this house a second glance, but they should, because it is brimming with possibilities for substantial improvement … even transformation. Often, 50-year-old homes like this occupy more generous lots that are closer to the action than new starter homes built farther from urban areas. That can make these older houses logical candidates for substantial remodeling. Additionally, their aging roofs, windows and siding may lower their price tags and open up avenues for real aesthetic improvement. In this case, I have changed just about everything down to lighting, accessories and even the mailbox. The landscaping gets a complete refresh as well. Picture a young homeowner who could, with a step-by-step plan over time, turn something that is livable but not lovable into a home that is modestly magnificent. By thinking of the original house as a blank canvas, you even can reimagine the roofline as you replace shingles and windows. In the 1920s and ‘30s, architects and builders gave considerable attention to designing more modest homes; after World War II, however, that mindset somehow was lost. This design response shows what can happen if we reapply that prewar thinking and learn to appreciate the substantial potential of a smaller home. Thanks for reading, HOMEWORK IS PENNED BY PAUL DOERNER, FOUNDING PARTNER OF THE LAWRENCE GROUP. IF YOU WOULD LIKE YOUR HOME CRITIQUED, CONTACT US AT HOMEWORK@TOWNANDSTYLE.COM.
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