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A round of applause is in order! The performing arts theater raised nearly $6,000 in support of the St. Louis Effort for AIDS during its recent run of Avenue Q.

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COVER STORY – ACCESS Academies TALK OF THE TOWNS THE INSIDER TECH TALK – Protect Your Privacy Online EVERY STUDENT. EVERY CHANCE. EVERY DAY.

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CHEERS TO MOM! 20 MY MESSY MOM LIFE 22 SPECIAL FEATURE – In Business with Mom 24 SPECIAL FEATURE – CANDID with Valerie Macaulay 25 THE HONEST TRUTH – Mama Drama 26 TREND REPORT FROM L.A. 27 STOREFRONT 28 BEAUTY – Mom’s Must-Haves 29 PARENT TRAP – Meaningful Family Meals

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Crown Center for Senior Living celebrated the volunteers who have been helping in the cafe since it opened four years ago. They provide residents and area seniors kosher meals that are healthy and modestly priced.

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Associate editor Julie Johnson attended the grand opening of the hotel’s Angad Rooftop Terrace in Grand Center. The indoor/outdoor venue features a bar, lounge and open-air party area with panoramic city views.

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The nonprofit held its third annual Legacy Luncheon at Hilton St. Louis Frontenac. The event is the only local fundraiser specifically dedicated to raising money to support children with complex neurological conditions and their families.


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This is the week before Mother’s Day, so it’s only appropriate that our issue is themed Celebrating Moms and includes a special section, Cheers to Mom! (After reading that title, am I the only one who pictures themselves with a glass of bubbles in hand? There is sunshine, a gorgeous patio and silence … sigh.) While that peaceful image is not what most of my spring evenings look like as a mom of three kids and two dogs, my reality is better. Yes, I said better. When I walk through the door from work, Oliver and Jack start barking like crazy and run up to get the first hello. After my usual attempts to keep them from jumping on me, I look up to see my 6-month-old, with the widest grin she can muster, flapping her arms and legs in sheer excitement. My other two are still young enough to also get excited when I come home, so unless they are distracted by something more important like slime or food, I get big hugs. And then, the madness starts. I start cooking right away to make sure we all can eat together before the first practice or game of the night—usually there are multiple. Dr. Tim Jordan’s Parent Trap this issue on family meals is spot-on in my opinion. Eating together is one of the most important things you can do as a family, and it’s one of my favorite parts of the day. For a glorious bit of time, we all get to talk and focus on each other. Afterward, it’s a nonstop, well-oiled machine to get everyone where they need to be. Through the rush of it all, through the frustrations, I tell myself: “Take it in. Remember these little voices, memorize their sweet faces and smiles.” I always try to keep what I love most about being a mom top of mind: the snuggles, like when we’re all piled on the bed for night-night books and laughing hysterically at my husband’s attempts to get through Dr. Seuss’ tongue twisters; every second of the amazingly sweet and adorably fascinating baby stage; watching my kids protect and love each other (well, most of the time); my son telling me I’m perfect (I’m not.) and the most beautiful; and realizing I have helped my oldest daughter become exactly what I always wanted to be at her age: confident, independent and strong. Happy Mother’s Day to all of the moms out there who have their own demands and busy schedules, but most of all, their own list of things to love.

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awkwardness, excitement and change most likely come to mind. It’s a pivotal time when children become teenagers; their young minds work hard to comprehend the added responsibilities and challenges that come with more demanding schoolwork and new social groups. If poverty and a lack of resources are part of the equation, the future can feel limited. Since 2005, ACCESS Academies has provided support and opportunities for at-risk students so they can thrive as they move to high school, college and beyond. The organization partners with four urban middle schools and assists participants through enrichment programs, guidance counseling and scholarships. “Our motto is ‘Every student. Every chance. Every day,’” says executive director Tom Mackowiak. “We work with all students in our partner schools to ensure they can take advantage of every opportunity.” More than 90 percent of participants qualify for free or reduced lunch, a federal indicator of poverty. There is no application process. To participate, students simply must be enrolled in one of the four partner schools: Most Holy Trinity School and Academy, St. Louis Catholic Academy, Saint Cecilia School and Academy, and Sister Thea Bowman Catholic School. The program takes a three-pronged approach to education. Working with the middle schools, it provides enrichment through extended school days and summer sessions that help students develop academically while building character and leadership skills. Students also receive scholarship support to ensure they can attend private high schools. Mackowiak says the program partners with 25 collegeprep high schools and has provided more than $500,000 in tuition support this school year. Financial assistance also is given for academic testing and applications for post-secondary institutions. Counseling is the third piece of the program, and Mackowiak says this element is what sets ACCESS Academies apart. Middle schoolers are paired with graduate support directors who serve as mentors, building trust, providing emotional support and helping with decisions about secondary education. The counselors schedule regular visits with the students in high school to monitor their progress. “They get to know students as individuals and become important advocates for them,” Mackowiak explains. “Starting in sixth grade, we commit to each student for more than 11 years.” When students are seniors, they begin working on post-secondary plans with a college and career counselor, but the support doesn’t end at graduation. Since the majority are the first in their families to attend college, Mackowiak says ACCESS Academies helps them navigate the new environment and connects them with existing resources. “Without our support, many of these kids wouldn’t be able to achieve the same levels of success,” he notes. The numbers show that ACCESS students are thriving. According to Mackowiak, 99 percent of students are accepted into private high schools, 98 percent graduate from high school on time and 96 percent go onto post-secondary institutions. More than 1,200 young people have benefited from the program’s resources and support. “Our approach is unique, and it works,” Mackowiak says. “We’re very successful in helping our students in the long journey toward success as adults.” On June 4, ACCESS Academies will hold its 11th annual Celebration Dinner at The Ritz-Carlton. The event showcases the achievements of students, and Mackowiak says the fundraiser plays a major role in making the organization’s mission possible. “We raise more than one-third of our annual funds at the dinner,” he notes. “It’s also our way of connecting directly with people who want to support urban education and more importantly, equitable education.” & MAY 8, 2019

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ST. LOUIS 〉〉

The St. Louis Public Library’s Central Library branch is an architectural marvel both inside and out. But, psst— you don’t always have to whisper in there. Regular free concerts, in fact, are part of its ‘Not So Quiet’ series. On May 16, enjoy the unique tone and high-energy delivery of Drea Vocalz, a St. Louis native who draws from her authentic experiences of city life. May is abundant with an array of lectures, presentations … and a children’s play. On May 18, Bright Star Touring Theatre presents The Velveteen Rabbit, based on Margery Williams Blanco’s beloved tale of childhood and imagination. If you’ve never visited the Central Library, what the heck have you been doing for the last 107 years? (Designed by Cass Gilbert, the building at 13th and Olive was completed in 1912.)

WEBSTER GROVES 〉〉

The colorful image of a long-haired dude in the poster for this year’s Cigar Box Guitar Festival, May 31 and June 1 at Hwy 61 Roadhouse & Kitchen, looks like 1970s axe shredder and prouder-than-hell NRA member Ted Nugent. Is that a coincidence? No matter. The Nuge likes to kill animals with bow and arrow, too. Anyhow, cigar box guitars seem like they’d sound kind of bluesy, Bo Diddly-ish, but Nugent plays heavy guitar. With an album titled Stranglehold, he didn’t play lullabies for napping. I can’t imagine Nugent playing acoustic anything. But back to cigar box guitars: Using an empty cigar box as a resonator, modern models typically have three or more strings. Generally, the strings are connected to the end of a broomstick. How quaint. But put pickups on one and plug it in. Then, you can turn it up to 11. Well, why not make your own at the Roadhouse in Webster Groves? For real. And there will be vendors and a craft show. If you’re not into arts and crafts, stick around to hear everything from surf guitar to rockabilly. If your playing is awful, you can always blame it on the inferior cigar box. (You know, it should’ve contained Cubans.)

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Scandal, anyone? Once the lurid flap over Eric Greitens and his alleged sleazy behavior faded into the background, we heard nary a peep from the disgraced former Missouri governor. We never heard anything from him anyhow. Notoriously media-wary, Greitens wasn’t one to give interviews about anything (even policy), and least of all a peep regarding the alleged tawdry affair with his hairstylist/paramour. And there’s no regional ‘apologist’ counterpart to the FOX cable news network in NYC to allow politicians free rein to whine about how unfairly they’ve been treated at the hands of the Deep State, the media, or whatever. (May we hear a ‘boo’ and a ‘hoo’? Anybody?) Mike Parson has been governor since June, I’m pretty sure. Yeah, that’s his name. No news about Parson is good news, I guess.

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But it’s boring. Well, stop the presses: Now we have plenty of Rod Blagojevich-style shenanigans right here at home, most of it rated PG so far (except for bleepridden recordings), what with the federal indictment and swift resignation of Steve Stenger, accused of a payto-play scheme as St. Louis County exec. In a one-two punch April 29, Stenger was indicted and resigned. The same day, a chief adviser resigned; for weeks, staffers were dropping like peel off a banana. Now what? Before Stenger resigned, a group had been collecting donations on behalf of Mark Mantovani, the opponent Stenger edged out by a hair in the last election. Maybe he’ll try again in 2020. Until federal subpoenas popped up last month, which Stenger said had nothing to do with him, he was poised to rocket into the future as the ‘metro mayor’ under the Better Together plan to merge the city and county. Meanwhile, he hired noted criminal attorney Scott Rosenblum. Hmmm. Well, it all happened so fast. Mantovani won’t be tapped for the metro mayor gig, if anybody ever gets to do such a thing. Dr. Sam Page, council chair, was chosen 5-1 in an emergency meeting to replace Stenger as county executive. Page is an anesthesiologist who served as a state rep in the early aughts, was elected to the council in 2014 and has been chair since 2017. He’ll serve at least until the winner of the 2020 general election is

sworn in. Page was having none of Stenger’s alleged foolishness during his tenure, constantly sparring with Stenger’s administration for its cozy dealings with campaign donors. The indictment, following a yearlong investigation, is damning. This gun is smoking: voicemails rich with expletives—plus names, names and more names. Stenger, 47, has pleaded guilty.

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Why is the dateline for this item Richmond Heights? Because there used to be a Glik’s store there at the Galleria. Used to be another at West County Center. But when it comes to our next ‘for whom the bell tolls’ bricks-and-mortar retail ring-a-ding-ding thing, you won’t hear a knell for Glik’s anytime soon. New stores are planned this year in small midwestern towns. Big cities, not so much. Glik’s has been around for more than 120 years, and by taking smallish growth steps in a reasonable time frame, it plans to be around for a century more. If you want to shop Glik’s in the metro, you’ll need to pop online or venture into the wilds of Illinois: Granite City. (Hey, it’s closer to downtown than Chesterfield!) The Missouri stores are in Farmington and two college towns, Columbia and Kirksville. In 2015, Glik’s expanded its Saugatuck, Michigan, store by 2,480 square feet, or about 40 percent. Glik’s has stores all along the tony Michigan lakeshore. CEO Jeff Glik told our Business Journal that year that his company prefers smaller towns. Fewer retailers compete, space is cheaper, and typically employee turnover and customer theft are lower. Sounds like you actually could make a living there, whereas stores like Sears, JCPenney, Macy’s, Dillard’s—ad infinitum—don’t represent the growth side of the retail segment. TT TRIVIA | WHAT DID THE LATE, GREAT SKIP SPENCE HAVE TO DO WITH THE ARMORY?

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LAST ISSUE’S ANSWER | ‘KROENKE’ DOES NOT RHYME WITH ‘CRANKY.’ ALTHOUGH MANY ST. LOUISANS MAY ENJOY PRONOUNCING THE RAMS OWNER’S LAST NAME TO MATCH HIS UNBEARABLY OVERBEARING ATTITUDE, STAN KROENKE’S NAME IS PRONOUNCED MORE LIKE THE SOUND OF A HONKING GOOSE: ‘KRON-KEY.’ THERE. THAT’S SETTLED.


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The district on both sides of the Grand Boulevard viaduct between SLU and its under-construction hospital is a mishmash of abandoned industrial buildings, railroad tracks, deteriorating streets that go nowhere anymore, and graffiti galore. Sometimes, first impressions are hell. So, let’s try again. Travel east along the depressed section of I-64/Hwy. 40, and to the north you’ll get a glimpse of the City Foundry complex under restoration. It’s kind of hard to see from the elevated section as you head west … but hey, there’s IKEA! And to the south, that awesome neon sign with the eagle flapping! Well, you need to look closer … much, much closer. If not, you’ll miss The Armory, an architectural gem that’s being brought back to life by developer Phil Hulse of Green Street St. Louis, one of several companies dedicated to making it even more wonderful than the tennis arena and music venue it was in halcyon days. The iconic Art Deco structure is to be central to a revitalized urban area that will tie together office space, residences, eat-and-drinkeries and entertainment venues, not to mention a greenway—in short, it will make a hard-to-access area easy to get to and get around in. “It’s a heavy lift,” Hulse says. “But a good one.”

The Armory itself, with about 300,000 square feet of space on three floors, is a jaw-dropper—massive enough for hockey. Sports is a rich part of its history. An interactive display will feature Arthur Ashe, Jimmy Connors and the other metro tennis greats who competed there. Grateful Dead fans scratched their curious itch for aimless jamming in The Armory; Moby Grape played there, too. Built in 1935, its original use included a cavernous space for the 138th Infantry, Missouri National Guard, to drill. But that was way back in the 1930s, when Bernard Dickmann was mayor. Here and now, sustainability is key to the retrofit, as it’s a primary focus of all Green Street projects. Solar panels will cover the south-facing slope of the vast roof. Enormous flat spaces on either side will serve not only as patio space for office workers, but also as rooftop gardens. Hulse is gratified by how many share his vision, from developers and architects to the men and women who wear tool belts with their hard hats eight hours a day. “We’re creating a community, not just a place for people coming and going,” Hulse says. “To make a city cool, everyone has to be rowing in the same direction.” Entrepreneurs, millennials, bicyclists, artists, musicians, craft-brew aficionados—anyone and everyone who shares a dream for the StL to continue its metamorphosis into a vibrant, diverse new city with ‘great bones’—couldn’t agree more. Visit greenstreetstl.com. &

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THE ACADEMY OF THOUGHT AND INDUSTRY (ATI) , a new middle and high

school in Grand Center, is CURRENTLY ENROLLING STUDENTS AND PREPARING TO OPEN THIS FALL. It recently announced a merger with the Montessori Adolescent Program St. Louis. ATI focuses on student accountability, autonomy, and disciplines like history, science, literature, economics, humanities and mathematics. Other campuses are in New York City, Austin and San Francisco.

SO MY LIFE HAS GONE TO HELL in a handbasket. I am not sure what a handbasket is, but that’s what my mom used to say when she was at her wit’s end. I will not go into all of the gory details, but for medical reasons, I have been forced to start a new diet. As I’ve mentioned before, I have chronic migraines, and my doctor suggested I try an elimination diet. When I agreed, I thought it meant you eliminated one food at a time. Oh no! You eliminate everything anyone who has ever had a migraine triggered by food has mentioned to their doctor, who then reported it to some database that then put it on this list, and now, all I can eat is berries. (That is quite the run-on sentence, isn’t it? First, I don’t know how the list is created. Second, I can eat more than berries.) I will be honest. My food choices are pretty much like those of a 12-year-old boy. They have gotten worse since my kids moved out, and my husband and I serve as each other’s enabler. “Let’s have ice cream with hot fudge for dinner!” “Will you pick up Steak ‘n Shake on your way home?” “I sure could go for a sprinkled doughnut!” The more processed the food, the better. I have never really cared about preservatives or the amount of pesticides my food contains. What’s wrong with a little side of RoundUp? Well, at 59, my eyes have been opened, and my eating habits are changing. The first items on the list are caffeine, chocolate and diet soda. I have been trying to break my Diet Coke habit for years. I can’t do it. Last time I stopped drinking it was 22 years ago when I was pregnant with my daughter Tess. It was so hard for me and caused such anxiety that my OB/GYN told me to go ahead and have one a day because it was causing too much stress for me and the baby. If I had to list my loves, it would be my husband, my children, Diet Coke, chocolate, my siblings, my nieces and nephews, and my friends. I know, I’m awful. But I’ve had a relationship with Diet Coke longer than most people are married. And then there is chocolate. As I am writing this, it is the week of Easter, which for me is a rather fun holiday because I still make Easter baskets for my family. I do this so I can spend all of Easter day eating the candy, mostly chocolate. Not this year. No, this year I couldn’t even bring myself to shop for candy, much less create baskets. My husband has to do it with me yapping at him not to buy the ‘cheap chocolate’ but to buy the ‘good chocolate’ even though not one bit of it will end up passing through my lips. Then we move on to processed meats. When I start to complain about this, I find out that I might be the only person in the world who still eats bologna and mustard on Wonder Bread. Many people are repulsed to find out how much I enjoy the fine delicacy of Oscar Mayer packaged meat. So, I know what you are thinking: first-world problems. You are absolutely right. I don’t expect anyone to feel sorry for me, especially if this relieves my migraines. Then I would be a total ass for complaining. But did I tell you I can’t have alcohol? There we go; maybe now you feel a little bad for me.

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▲ Tania Beasley-Jolly and Susan Sherman LAUNCHED THEIR NEW RETAIL CONCEPT, MERCH , by hosting a one-of-a-kind fashion event at The Ritz-Carlton. Shira Sue Carmi, president of Mansur Gavriel, spoke with guests at a cocktail party and flew in a sampling of the brand’s handbags, ready-to-wear pieces and shoes for a trunk show. MERCH will bring unique global brands to the StL through various pop-up events, each featuring a special guest. Find out more at themerchstl.com. Pictured: Shira Sue Carmi, Tania Beasley-Jolly, Susan Sherman

◀ THE LOOP TROLLEY is hoping to get new passengers on board with a RECENTLY RELEASED MOBILE TICKETING APP. Riders can use it to purchase tickets anytime, track trip histories and check out points of interest along the Delmar Boulevard trolley route. Twohour passes are $2, all-day passes are $5, and seniors, children and riders with disabilities get reduced rates.

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up AN IMPRESSIVE 35 YEARS IN BUSINESS. The Clayton company, owned by David Shockley (pictured here from the shop’s early years), offers men’s and women’s apparel, wardrobe consulting and wedding attire. Notables such as Lou Brock, Brett Hull and Wayne Gretzky have donned Savile Row threads over the years. (If you’ve ever spent time in central London, you may have noticed a street by the same name where tailors began plying their trade in the early 1800s.)

〈〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉〉 The St. Louis Civic Orchestra’s final show of the season will be its annual free Outdoor Pops Concert at 6:30 p.m. May 16 at the Chesterfield Amphitheater. Special musical guest is Miss Jubilee.

End your week on a musical note at CHOICE @ the Chapel Venue, a May 17 ‘audience choice’ concert by the Chamber Project St. Louis. The evening program is a secret and the result of audience voting over the past year, so prepare for some fun surprises!

Former St. Louis mayor Francis Slay is set to speak at the Clayton Chamber of Commerce’s Power Hour luncheon at the Clayton Plaza Hotel 11:30 a.m. May 21. As St. Louis’ longest-serving mayor, Slay will share memorable moments from his four terms leading the city.



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MARCIA MOORE • Owner Marcia Moore Design Not only do I get to play all day every day doing something that I am passionate about, but I have the pleasure of helping to dramatically change people’s lives for the better through intelligent, artistic design.

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Summer vacation destination: The world is my oyster! 11622 Page Service Drive, Ste. 103 | 314.395.1114 marciamooredesign.com

SHELLEY B. SMITH • Owner Special Solutions Private Learning Center I am thrilled to provide support and guidance to students who struggle with learning challenges and to the families who want to see them succeed.

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Current read: Becoming by Michelle Obama 9225 Manchester Road, Ste. 100 | 314.475.5035 specialsolutions.com

CARRIE MONTREY • Executive Director The Gatesworth I love always providing exceptional service to each resident and ensuring that their day-to-day needs are met with the utmost care and efficiency by our great, dedicated staff.

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Favorite restaurant: Mangia Italiano 1 McKnight Place | 314.993.0111 thegatesworth.com

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ACADEMIC SUPPORT

PROTECT YOUR PRIVACY ONLINE One of the common topics I deal with on a regular basis is how my company protects the data we collect for websites we host. It is our job to ensure no one gets access to the information and that we don’t use it in a way that would violate privacy laws. Today, there are countless ways your personal information gets on the Internet, so it’s important that you know how to protect your privacy online. Follow the steps below.  Turn off your location. All of your devices have location tracking, including your laptop. If you are like me, you like to open the Yelp app on your phone because it knows exactly where you are and can give you a list of nearby restaurants. Many of you track your children by their phones so you know where they are at all times. But what is the downside of location tracking? It’s your private information, and you are broadcasting to the world where you are. You also should turn off location services in your browser.  Use a passcode. A Pew Research Center report from 2017 reported that more than 28 percent of smartphone users do not use any security features to get on their phone. Someone easily can pick up your phone and access information about you this way. For apps and accounts, use two-factor authentication to ensure no one else can access them.  Only use approved software. When putting an application on your phone or computer, it should be reviewed or approved. For example, only use the iPhone or Google app store. If you have an Android phone, you

should make sure Unknown Sources in the Security setting is off.  Keep your technology updated. When your computer or phone company recommends you do a software update, do the software update. As soon as the announcement is out about security vulnerabilities (or holes), hackers across the world are looking for devices that haven’t updated yet.

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 Check your social media accounts. Go to each account and review your privacy settings. If you have them set to public, anyone can see your information. That’s fine if you are posting for a business or want to be an influencer. Otherwise, it might make you extremely uncomfortable to know that someone in California is following you and reading everything you post. Keeping your information private is tricky. I recommend you decide what is right for you and your family and then have a meeting to review everyone’s security settings. Happy surfing!

SHEILA BURKETT IS AN INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY EXPERT AND CEO OF SPRY DIGITAL, AN INTERACTIVE DESIGN AGENCY DELIVERING SMART DIGITAL SOLUTIONS. FOLLOW SPRY DIGITAL ON TWITTER (@SPRYDIGITAL), FACEBOOK (FACEBOOK.COM/SPRYDIGITAL), INSTAGRAM (@SPRYDIGITAL) OR LINKEDIN (LINKEDIN.COM/COMPANY/SPRY-DIGITAL-LLC).

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St. Luke’s Urgent Care Centers

Need a summer sports physical? St. Luke’s Urgent Care Centers offer them with no appointment necessary. Open daily from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Go online or call to find the nearest location.

SLUCARE FRANK LLOYD WRIGHT

314.205.6200 | STLUKES-STL.COM/URGENT-CARE

SLUCare Physician Group

Tired of dealing with unsightly varicose veins? SLUCare vascular surgeon Dr. Matthew Smeds offers a variety of effective surgical and nonsurgical treatment options to help eliminate them. 3655 VISTA AVE. | 314.577.6131 | SLUCARE.EDU

CBD Worx

CBD Worx is a locally owned and operated business offering natural, hemp-derived CBD products developed by doctors to support those seeking relief from a wide array of ailments.

ST. LUKE’S

10880 BAUR BLVD. | 314.801.1355 | CBDWORX.COM

EVENTS

The Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park

Join us from 4 to 7 p.m. June 9 at Hotel Saint Louis for Preserving What’s Wright, an event to benefit the nonprofit’s programs. Individual tickets are $125. Tickets and donations are available online. 314.822.8359 | EBSWORTHPARK.ORG/ENGAGE

The Magic House, St. Louis Children’s Museum

At our Boardwalk Beach Bash June 9, enjoy a delicious dinner, create a ‘cool’ treat at a build-your-own ice cream sundae bar, and visit must-see boardwalk attractions, including live music, face painting, a spectacular juggling performance and more.

MAGIC HOUSE

516 S. KIRKWOOD ROAD | 314.822.8900 | MAGICHOUSE.ORG

Art on the Square

The event May 17 through 19 features the original work of more than 100 juried artists from around the world, plus entertainment and local food and drink. Don’t miss a presentation by HGTV’s Design Star Meg Caswell.

ART ON THE SQUARE

30 PUBLIC SQUARE | 618.233.6769 | ARTONTHESQUARE.COM

HOME

Wilson Lighting

A beautiful, sculptural table lamp features a popular brass finish and is a timeless addition to any home. 909 S. BRENTWOOD BLVD. | 314.222.6300 | WILSONLIGHTING.COM

Sport Court St. Louis

With Sport Court, you don’t have to choose just one! Our backyard courts can be used for everything from basketball and volleyball to tennis, soccer, pickleball, futsal, roller hockey and more.

MISSOURI FLOOR

636.451.0400 | SPORTCOURTSTLOUIS.COM

Missouri Floor Company

SPORT COURT

Love your pets and wood floors? We can help install new flooring or renovate what’s there to keep everyone in the household happy! 2438 NORTHLINE INDUSTRIAL DRIVE | 314.432.2260 | MISSOURIFLOOR.COM

Broadview Screen Company

WILSON

Phantom Retractable Screens are ideal for any setting and disappear out of sight until you need them. They work well for single, double French or sliding doors.

12951 GRAVOIS ROAD, STE. 130 | 314.842.8888 | BROADVIEWSCREEN.COM

FASHION The Fur Boutique

We provide expert fur care. Now is the time for storage, cleaning, conditioning, repairs and restyling of your furs. Pickup and delivery are available.

FUR BOUTIQUE

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MOTHER’S DAY Summa Jewelers

The piece is hand-forged in 18kt. yellow gold and platinum by jeweler Jim Summa with a 4.20ct. blue sapphire and six ideal-cut round diamonds. Current price is $24,000, reduced from $32,000. 115 W. ARGONNE AVE. 314.965.0046 SUMMAJEWELERS.COM

SUMMA ELIZABETH MAYER

Fine Portraiture in Charcoal by Elizabeth Mayer

Keepsakes are beautifully rendered in classic black and white, conveniently drawn from photographs taken in the studio or provided by clients.

314.962.4953 PORTRAITSBYELIZABETHMAYER.COM

B. Davis Design

From the blushing petals of its scalloped tin roof to its freckled base, the Hollyhock Birdhouse provides more than a pretty perch for your feathered friends. The hand-painted metal roost is suitable for indoor and outdoor use. B. DAVIS

10502 MANCHESTER ROAD 314.822.2221 BDAVISCOMPANY.COM

Sign of the Arrow

Officially kick off spring with this tote! Bright fuchsia circle handles accent cheerful woven straw in beautiful hues of pink, blue, orange, green and gold.

SIGN OF THE ARROW

9814 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.994.0606 SIGNOFTHEARROW.COM

GENOVESE

Genovese Jewelers

A 14kt. yellow gold, fancy round starburst pendant features round pavé and bezel-set diamonds at 1.06cttw. 12460 OLIVE BLVD. | 314.878.6203 GENOVESEJEWELERS.COM

Paperdolls Boutique

We’re introducing a new jewelry line, Gemelli! The Sunny necklace comes in aqua and moonstone and is a beautiful addition to any look; $68.50.

PAPERDOLLS LAURIE’S SHOES

110 E. JEFFERSON AVE. 14418 CLAYTON ROAD 12095 MANCHESTER ROAD 7700 DELMAR BLVD. 314.394.3303 | PAPERDOLLS.BOUTIQUE

Laurie’s Shoes

Ask mom what she wants! The entire Simply Southern collection is available at Laurie’s Shoes. 9916 MANCHESTER ROAD | 314.961.1642 LAURIESSHOES.COM

Pamper MOM @ HIGH FIVE, MOM!

Purchase a gift card for MOM! Get 50% OFF a service for YOU! LIMIT ONE 50% OF SERVICE PER GUEST, SELECT SERVICE PROVIDERS ONLY, PROMOTION ENDS 5.17.19.

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You'll love the fascinating lines and textures in our new mirror. Clear acrylic tubing wrapped around a warm golden frame.

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Proceeds from the auction, held at the Four Seasons Hotel, allow Forsyth to remain independent so that decisions about curriculum, teaching standards and student expectations are made by its faculty, staff and volunteer leaders. guests: Head of school Dan Hildebrand, board president Eric Gilbert, co-chairs Marilyn and Rich Dredge and Amy and Lukas Zebala

JESSE AND LINDA HUNTER

PRESERVING WHAT’S WRIGHT SUNDAY, JUNE 9, 2019 • 4 - 7PM HOTEL SAINT LOUIS 705 Olive Boulevard Saint Louis, MO • Tours & insight into restoration • Wright-inspired auction • Sampling of St Louis culinary traditions

INDIVIDUAL TICKETS $125

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LIZ & MICHAEL GIBBONS, EVENT CO-CHAIRS Your contribution supports the preservation and programs of the Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park

AMBER AND KENNETH SIMPSON

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ST. LOUIS OVARIAN CANCER AWARENESS living out loud gala and auction by sue wolf The event at Logan University raised funds to support SLOCA, a nonprofit committed to ovarian cancer survivorship through education, funding research and supporting survivors. guests: Board president Jannet Dieckgraefe, executive director Susan Robben, co-chairs Cindy Becker and Lisa Cannon Beardon, Volunteer Impact Award honorees Bruce and Beth Hudson

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NURSES FOR NEWBORNS a night for newborns by sue wolf Proceeds from the dinner auction at The Sheldon bring vital support to the nonprofit’s in-home nursing program, which provides critical health care, education and positive parenting training to families most at risk to prevent child abuse and neglect and infant mortality. The evening concluded with live music by FatPocket. guests: Maxine Clark of the Clark Fox Foundation, board president Linda Dougherty

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started asking ourselves, “Does this bring me joy?” as we tossed everything we could into a big, black trash bag. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, check out the show Tidying Up and prepare for your life to change. All of this purging brought back the topic of minimalism as it relates to motherhood. Could having less stuff really help our minds have more clarity, and even better, would it bring us and our kids more peace? It’s amazing for children’s imaginations when they have to create a game out of almost nothing, and their focus dramatically increases when they only have access to one toy at a time. Can you fathom how painless cleanup is after a make-believe game instead of an activity with a million little pieces? (Cue Lego screams.) I’m not saying to deprive your kids of toys, but many are just not needed. My house is often a mess, and I usually go on a purging rampage every Monday. Kids accumulate stuff constantly so it’s hard to escape. But after some research and many not so graceful ‘mean mom’ reactions to everyday messes, I now think a lot more before I buy. I have a few tips for maintaining your sanity and creating a more minimalist environment in your home.

The most important question, and sometimes the most difficult one, is to define the reason for the appraisal. There are many types of appraisals, each of which dictates the use of its own market considerations and, perhaps, a different stated value. A quick example of different markets would be an appraisal of a family (estate) piece, let’s say a gold brooch, a 3 inch map of the United States with birthstones marking all the cities of family members.

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The family values this piece highly and wants it insured. It is stated by St. Louis Jewelry Appraisers IN THE COVER LETTER that the purpose for this appraisal is to have a copy made in the event of loss and to insure it for $5000.

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Same item, same family, only this time they want to know the resale value because the family wants to dispose of it. As you can see, finding a buyer for a personalized family piece would be difficult if not impossible. We would advise the family this item could be sold for the metal value (scrap) which would bring $750.

Same item, two different values. Again, it would be stated in the cover letter the purpose of the appraisal and is invalid if used for any other purpose. Giving a client the correct answer to the wrong question could result ultimately in a useless document.

St. Louis Jewelry Appraisals is located in a beautifully restored historic building in downtown Kirkwood, Missouri. Each appraisal is a collaborative effort by our experienced team in order to produce an accurate and professional document. St. Louis Jewelry Appraisals is a subsidiary of Summa Jewelers.

Have more questions? Contact Jim Summa 314.965.0046 or visit StLouisJewelryAppraisals.com

One room for toys: This is not always possible, but if it is, do it. We partially finished a space in our basement, and that’s where our kids play! They are free to make a mess down there without me losing it, and we clean it together every couple of days. I’m so much happier.

$5 birthday parties: This is a fairly new, trendy concept. On the invitation, ask parents to bring $5 instead of a gift. Then, your child can buy something he really wants with the money. I think it’s genius. I’m sure you could even bump it to $10, and parents still would be insanely grateful.

▶ One toy at a time: Easier said than done. I have ▶ Get rid of three before buying one: My husband a kid who wants to get out every item she owns at once. Making her clean up one toy before she plays with another makes for a lot more focused and more fun playtime. When my daughter turned 5 and got a zillion presents, she tried to open every box in a frenzy. I put more than half the presents in a massive bin in storage. Every couple of weeks, I got out a new present and put one of the other toys away. She felt like she was getting new stuff all of the time and never got bored! You even can do this with the toys you already have. #circulate

got me on this (don’t tell him I’m giving him credit). Every time I go shopping, he tells me to get rid of three things I don’t wear, sometimes for every piece I buy! It makes me feel lighter, and my clothes actually get worn. I’ve started doing it with my kids’ clothes, too, every time I come home with an Old Navy bag, and voila! Their drawers are not busting open. I know there are a million tips to becoming more minimalistic. I’m currently trying to implement this into my digital life; hopefully I can share soon. The important thing is to start somewhere. Do one thing today to relieve stress and chaos from your life.

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elyn —XO Kat KATELYN YOUNG IS A LOCAL MOM OF TWO (HER #CRUMBLYCREW) WHO SHARES REAL MOMENTS OF MOTHERHOOD AS IT RELATES TO FASHION, FOOD AND FUN! FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM AT @_KATELYNYOUNG_ OR FOLLOW HER BLOG AT THEBEJULEDLIFE.COM.

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Sarah Rhim

MISTER GUY CLOTHIERS I grew up in retail, and my mom started taking me on trips to the market in New York when I was about 8. Now when I go, I see people who have known my parents for 30 to 40 years. They have so much respect for them and what they do. It’s inspiring for me to continue their legacy. My mom and I challenge each other in a good way. We are in a growth phase of the business, and the industry is changing. I’m moving the business forward technologically, and my parents teach me old-school customer service. We balance each other’s strengths.

Mothers and daughters can have a tricky relationship, but for some local families, it’s the perfect business partnership. We asked local women the most important lessons they’ve learned from their moms—and why

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working with them was a good decision.

Carla Felumb & Sarah Rhim

My mom has always taught me to listen first and speak second. In our line of work, it’s important to always be a good listener; knowing about the clothes and fashion is almost secondary. The key thing is building personal relationships. Our customers come to us for more than just shopping. They share their lives and what’s going on in the community with us. It’s about friendship and camaraderie.

Trabert & Hoeffer: An Iconic Jeweler On May 15, Hindman is proud to present Trabert & Hoeffer: An Iconic Jeweler. The world– renowned jeweler and Chicago icon, will be closing its last location on May 31 and Hindman will offer a portion of Trabert & Hoeffer’s storied collection.

A Retro Platinum, Diamond and Pink Tourmaline Brooch, Trabert & Hoeffer-Mauboussin.

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LAURA McCARTHY REAL ESTATE

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Jamie Danieli

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Actions speak louder than words, and my mom always has modeled how to seamlessly balance a successful work and personal life. I always wanted to be independent and have a career, and my mom was a great teacher in this area. I was 5 when she started in real estate, so I’ve known it my whole life. I got my license when I was 18 and worked with her on and off until I graduated college. Working together now is fabulous, and I can’t imagine doing anything else.

It’s hard to be a working mother while making your husband and children feel like you aren’t working. Growing up, my mom always did that well. She taught me that it’s extremely important to have a spouse who is understanding and supports you. Real estate really is a lifestyle, and it doesn’t fit everyone. I bring my work home with me and am always multitasking, but I wouldn’t be happy if I wasn’t always busy helping others. The balance of work and family is tough, and I hope that people feel I pull it off as successfully as my mother does.

ALBARRE JEWELRY My parents have both taught me so much about the industry and balancing family life with owning your own business. From day one, my mother told me, “Family time is family time, and work time is work time.” It’s some of the best advice I’ve received. We make a really big effort not to talk about the store when we aren’t there. We’ve always been a very close family, and working with someone all week and still wanting to spend time together on the weekends is rare. I know a lot of people who went into business with family and were not successful. It takes a really good balance and the right personalities to make it work. My parents never pressured me to work for them; I came by choice. I was living in Florida when I started doing a few projects for them. Eventually, it just made sense to move back and do it full time. I think the dynamic was unique from the start.

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TOMORROW’S MEDICINE, TODAY: Carpal

tunnel syndrome

Hand numbness and tingling affects people of all ages. It often occurs from compression of a nerve near the neck or in the hand and arm. Patients with compression of a nerve often complain of: • • • • •

Pain, numbness or tingling in the hands or arms Worsening of symptoms when driving Weakness in grip Frequent dropping of objects Difficulty sleeping due to pain or numbness in the hand

Where to begin? Evaluation of a patient with the above symptoms begins with a careful physical exam. Often, additional tests are needed to more accurately diagnose the exact cause of the pain and numbness. This may include specialized studies to evaluate the nerves in the hand and arm. Common causes of nerve compression include carpal tunnel syndrome (nerve compression at the wrist) and cubital tunnel syndrome (nerve compression at the elbow). A variety of treatment options exist for treating carpal and cubital tunnel syndromes. These can range from wearing splints at night to modifying activities and work spaces and in some cases, steroid injections. When these measures fail, surgery may give substantial relief to patients with persistent symptoms. The need for and timing of surgery is tailored to each patient, but evaluation by an orthopedic surgeon is an important first step to establish the diagnosis and hopefully improve quality of life. Our providers treat the most common nerve problems, as well as some of the most complex. From infants with nerve injuries to adults in traumatic accidents, we have subspecialty clinics dedicated to restoring patients’ strength and function. From left: Christopher Dy, MD, MPH; David Brogan, MD, MSc; Lindley Wall, MD, MSc

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The Fur Boutique, llc St. Louis’ Finest in Fur Care

WITH VALERIE MACAULAY by laura katherine sawyier

VALERIE MACAULAY LAUNCHED LA LIGNE with co-founders Molly Howard and Meredith Melling a little more than three years ago. Her career is built on stints at Harper’s Bazaar and Vogue, followed by a few years running a creative consultancy with Melling. The two joined Howard to create a direct-to-consumer brand worthy of all closets. Taking a stand behind the universal appeal of the stripe—always classic, forever chic—they ensure that their line remains grounded in a democratic, versatile design. If you can’t eat, drink, dance and sleep in it, they won’t make it!

IT’S TIME FOR STORAGE AND CLEANING Time to Care For Your Furs. We take exceptional care cleaning, glazing & storing your items in premium conditions.

Valerie is co-founder and chief creative officer of La Ligne, with her home base in New York City.

TIME TO RESTYLE. Spring & Summer is excellent time to restyle your fur. Let us update your fur, with a new style for next season, or even make it into a fabulous blanket or pillow.

My personal style is tailored tomboy. I prefer classic, timeless pieces a little borrowed from the boys but always feminine.

Pick Up or Delivery Available

The best piece of fashion armor in my closet is my La Ligne Marin sweater. It is like a giant hug. It’s oversized and comfortable but never sloppy, and it goes with absolutely everything.

9820 Clayton Rd. 63124 | 314.401.0317 | Thurs., Fri., Sat. 10-3

I’m making my mark by co-founding a business with two other women I admire to make clothes for women and hopefully inspire other women. I was lucky enough to work at a company like Vogue and have the mentors I had, and learn from the best women (and men) in the industry. I hope to pay that forward. A professional/personal challenge that keeps me up at night is how to keep growing the business and determining the right next steps. You don’t want to grow too fast, but you have to keep up the momentum, and that is a delicate balance. I want to make sure we are taking risks but maintaining our core values as a company.

BALLWIN | DES PERES | KIRKWOOD | UCITY

In moments of self-doubt, I build myself back up by telling myself that even if I fail, I tried to do something, and I am proud of that. And if I fail, I will try something else. Words of wisdom that resonate with me are, “Always take the meeting,” and “Always look ahead.” It exemplifies an attitude of always keeping an open mind and allowing yourself to entertain different ideas even if you have a set course in mind. Things are constantly evolving, so you should be willing to change and adapt. I stay true to my passions by living a balanced life. I am also a wife, mother, daughter and friend, and all of those aspects of my life get their own time, which makes me a better business partner and creative director.

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I’m most proud of building a business with two amazing women— that we were courageous enough to try and formidable enough to keep at it. Nothing about this has been easy, but it has been one of the most fulfilling chapters in my life to witness ideas become realities. The one thing I would like to say to every woman in the world is to embrace failure. It’s the only way you learn about where you want to go and what you need to do to get there.

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▶ My 85-year-old mother is getting to the point where she needs more care and support. I work, so I’ve asked my daughter (a recent college grad with summers off as a teacher) to help out more with her. She says it’s not her responsibility. Who is right?

Beth: I can see how you might feel your daughter is being selfish. How about having an adult conversation about the joys of developing a relationship with her aging grandmother? I’ll bet your daughter doesn’t know that her mere presence—sharing stories, chatting, putting her phone away and really connecting—would mean so much to her grandmother. Just a little time each week could make a huge difference. One day, your daughter will be grateful she took that time with her grandmother. Jill: Supporting an aging parent can be extremely overwhelming

and can make you resentful if you’re the one doing all of the work. You need to have honest conversations with your entire family about getting outside help (in-home care, driving help, house cleaner, or even full-time residential care). It’s time to stop doing it all. Otherwise, that resentment will poison your relationship with your daughter.

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hair today It seems as if every decade, hair clips make a reappearance as the ‘it’ hair accessory. We may have hit the 10-year mark this spring based on all of the hair clips popping up in L.A. I first noticed the trend on Instagram with thick, pearl-embellished clips adorning the locks of the city’s ‘cool’ girls. While some are more daring than others with this trend, I find that tortoise shell options are the most classic while still being modern. Clip just behind the ear and rock this trend until it goes back into hibernation.

for the love of leopard Leopard is the new neutral. It works for any season, can be dressed up or down, and flatters almost everyone. The latest musthave piece? The leopard skirt, specifically a mid-calf, bias-print, silk style. From Free People to Altuzarra, this skirt can be seen all over the sidewalks of L.A., from the beach to downtown. Pair the skirt with white tennis shoes and a T-shirt or dress it up with black stilettos and a crop top. It’s such an easy look to pull off, and best of all, it’s the quintessential L.A. cool girl outfit that you can wear anywhere.

gold on gold More is more when it comes to the layered gold necklace trend. From dainty gold pendants to Cuban chains, no style is off limits. While some prefer more layers, I’m partial to three gold chains of varying lengths and widths. My best advice for layering is to start with a thick, short, gold chain and then add a longer, medium-width pendant necklace. Finish off the look with a dainty necklace that falls between the two. It’s perfect for adding a little glam to an off-the-shoulder summer ensemble.

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hands on West County Center in Des Peres has added a new concept, We The People, a retail store where customers can see, touch and buy new products made possible by Kickstarter campaigns. The shop is on Level 2 outside Nordstrom. We The People also has locations in Kuala Lumpur and Singapore.

fresh outlook RF Home Co by Rescued Furnishings is now a part of the busy Manchester Road retail scene in Kirkwood. Owners Nicole and Brandt Genz celebrated the grand opening of the 19,000-square-foot home decor and cabinetry business this spring. Previously located on Lafayette Avenue, the larger space allows for elaborate cabinet displays and is home to 40 retail vendors as well.

fashion relocation Jana Carani’s JAC Designs boutique has moved to bigger digs in Town & Country. The store, which features apparel, accessories and gifts, reopened recently at 264 Lamp & Lantern Village. Gift wrap and monogramming services are available, too.

fashion& gifts The put it on and go without having to think about it dress we all love. The Alpine Valley Dress from Patagonia. Now available at Alpine Shop. “Mother’s Day made easy @ Christopher’s!” Let MOM be interchangeable with this line of Jewelry at Christopher’s… Stop in today to see our full jewelry selection at our jewelry bar…

dress to impress Launch Clothing & Accessories has expanded with a second location on Olive Boulevard in University City. The company, owned by Lia Glynias, also has a Marconi Avenue store on The Hill. Local and international fashion is the focus, and there is an online shop as well.

crafty birthday Golden Gems, a ‘cheeky’ home goods and gifts retailer, recently celebrated the first anniversary of its brick-and-mortar location on Cherokee Street. The company formerly did business exclusively online. Owners (and sisters) Amanda Helman and Susan Logsdon make the products they sell, and customers can sign up for monthly creative workshops. Golden Gems is named for the street where the sisters grew up in Apopka, Florida.

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“Since I became a mother, dryness seems to be an issue. Because I don’t like to be seen without lipstick, my last-all-day moisturizing lip product is Chanel Le Rouge Duo Ultra Tenue Ultra Wear Lip Colour. My second favorite product is Chanel Sublimage La CrÈme Yeux. It is pricey for an eye cream, but well worth it!”

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successful. That’s what happened with Bridge Bread, the Cherokee Street bakery that turns homeless St. Louisans into commercial bakers. It’s a win-win, really a win-win-win. The bakery churns out goodies—breads, brownies, cinnamon buns and cupcakes—that keep the lights on and the ovens running, and the employees get a livable $10.13 an hour (plus affordable housing) to overcome the challenges life has thrown their way. The third winner is our community, which can be proud of everyone involved. It all started in 2011, when Fred Domke and his wife Sharon decided to bake sourdough bread with clients of The Bridge, a homeless shelter at their church, Lafayette Park United Methodist. With a little instruction from the chef there and permission from the church to use its kitchen after hours, the makeshift operation turned out “skinny, little sourdough loaves to sell for $1 apiece to congregants,” Fred Domke recalls. After three months, another half-dozen Methodist churches came on board, picking up loaves and selling them after services. This hobbled-together operation raised money not only from sales, but also from donations. “We’ve always made enough to pay for our ingredients,” says Domke proudly, except for a short while at the beginning, when $2,000 came from “the bank of Fred and Sharon.” After a while, news spread and churches of other denominations were offering the bread, plus delicious cinnamon rolls and brownies, allowing what was now called Bridge Bread to grow and train 40 bakers— and pay them a decent salary. From there, things snowballed into helpful partnerships with nonprofits like Homefirst STL, which arranges affordable rents, and St. Patrick Center, which refers viable candidates for employment. ‘Viable’ means nonviolent, having no untreated addictions or mental illness, and unable to get a job. “We don’t really screen them, which is why our success rate is so remarkable,” Domke says. Candidates can have a jail record and/or be recovering from addiction or mental illness. He says that contrary to common belief, many homeless do not have addictions or mental illness. “Just one relationship breakup or alienation from family support can render them unable to pay rent,” he notes. Domke, who moved to Holly Hills from Ballwin, was an IT consultant, and his business experience has helped Bridge Bread move into a storefront at 2639 Cherokee St., own and operate a food truck, and attract donors to offset costs. “Without donations, we’d be operating at a deficit,” he says. “Yes, we’re successful, but that doesn’t mean we’re profitable.” He adds that everyone can help. “What if I told you there is a simple way to help the homeless help themselves?” he asks. Any business can invite the Bridge Bread food truck to visit and sell its goodies from the parking lot. That simple gesture can net the nonprofit anywhere from $500 to $1,500. And, of course, there are volunteer opportunities like manning the register at the store or at the bakery’s new booth at Tower Grove Farmers’ Market. Think about all the good it can do. As Domke says, “Sure, you can teach a man to fish so he can feed himself forever, but first he has to have a fishing pole.” &

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TOTAL CARE SLUCARE PHYSICIAN GROUP by julia m. johnson LOW TESTOSTERONE, ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION AND PROSTATE DISEASE are some of the most sensitive health conditions men can experience. But a solution can be found for these and other issues through honest dialogue with a knowledgeable physician, says urologist Dr. Clay McDonough of the SLUCare Men’s Health Center in Richmond Heights. The center’s purpose is to help men stay healthy and enjoy a high quality of life—and open communication is at the heart of that effort. McDonough says the center, conveniently located in the University Tower office building, is fully equipped to treat men’s health issues in a way that is forthright and compassionate. He and fellow SLUCare urologists also perform surgery at SSM Health St. Mary’s and Saint Louis University hospitals. “We have the backing of a major health system and provide a complete spectrum of care,” he notes. The center’s physicians are uniquely accessible; unlike many specialist practices, a referral from a primary physician is not necessary. The patient can simply call and schedule a visit. According to McDonough, men appreciate the fact that they don’t have to sit through multiple appointments and discuss personal issues with different providers. Removing obstacles to care can go a long way toward better health, he adds. “Some men go immediately to a doctor when they have a problem, but others may delay treatment for a sensitive condition like erectile dysfunction,” McDonough says. “We reassure patients that there is no need to feel embarrassed, and we do that by keeping the discussion open and honest.” Doctors carefully discuss health history, lifestyle, symptoms and patients’ concerns among other issues and arrive at a comprehensive diagnostic and treatment plan.

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SLUCare endocrinologist Dr. Sandeep Dhindsa says low testosterone is another common condition among male patients. It can cause sexual dysfunction, decreased desire and low energy, and a number of factors can feed into it. “Before we start treatment for low-T, we need to understand why it’s happening,” he explains. “Aging, obesity and type 2 diabetes can play a role.” Dhindsa says SLUCare doctors work with patients to fully understand each treatment or surgery plan and dispel any misconceptions. “Some men try testosterone replacement therapy for a few months, think it isn’t working and want to give up,” he notes. “We explain why it takes time for the benefits to be realized. Whatever the condition, we keep the patient involved in his own health care decisions. For example, there are different ways of delivering testosterone therapy; we work together to choose one that fits his lifestyle.” McDonough says SLUCare physicians are committed to sharing the benefits of the latest medical thinking with patients. “It’s easy to view our health in terms of separate conditions, but we look at it from a whole-person perspective,” he says. “For example, a prostate problem may not involve just the prostate. There may be neurological or cardiovascular issues, too. When we design a treatment plan, we look at what is going on elsewhere in the body, and that helps us provide complete care.” &

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The ever-tasty Juniper has moved to the other side of Lindell Boulevard, closer to the Cortex, and the new place is hopping (make a reservation). During its five years on North Boyle, it became known for solidly delicious Southern fare, particularly fried chicken, fried green tomatoes and some of the best biscuits anywhere. The new space is on the ground floor of a swank new condo building at Laclede Avenue and Sarah Street, with windows all around and funky decor.

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There are beers (mostly local), a few wines and a good cocktail list. Our Tennis with Hemingway ($10) was a little sweet and heavy on citrus, with rum, Luxardo and St. Germain. Served in a daiquiri glass, it goes down easy and its kick comes later. As you’d expect of a Southern spot, bourbon dominates, but there’s something for every preference. Wine flights, three 2-ounce tastes, are offered at great prices: $12 to $14.

BREAD BASKET ▶ 3/$5 or 5/$9 This is at the top of my list. Choose what you want from the selection, but do not pass up the popovers or the biscuits, both of which are amazing. The biscuit was a touch salty and sweet, and a lot rich and flaky. The huge popover was flavored subtly with roasted garlic and was deliciously puffy. FRIED CHICKEN ▶

Two pieces white: $10, Two pieces dark: $8, Half Bird: $16 The fall-off crispy crust is a combination of thick buttermilk and flour, pumped up with a little fish sauce for that extra umami kick.

BAKED OYSTERS ▶ About $4 each, depending on the market. These are great, topped with cornbread crumbs and creamed corn. PLATE OF SOUTHERN COUNTRY HAM ▶ $10

Plentiful and with the right amount of salt and smokiness, it’s served with soft, house-made flatbread, full-grain mustard and spiced peaches.

SHRIMP ‘N’ GRITS ▶ $25 This has amazing flavors from tomatillos, shishito peppers and bits of andouille sausage. The dish comes with ‘bloody butcher’s grits,’ a nickname for heritage red dent corn grits. They’re grainy and creamy at the same time and resemble a butcher’s apron in color. This dish is not filling, so be sure to order some of those biscuits, too. BLACKENED CATFISH ▶ $22 Catfish is elevated to gourmet fare here with a coating of tangy spices, chermoula (blended cilantro, parsley, garlic, lemon, paprika and cayenne) and a liberal drizzling of butter. The soft whitefish works well with this bold treatment, and a generous side of dirty rice laced with pork adds more heft. Beware, this dish is on the spicy side. PECAN PIE BREAD PUDDING ▶ $8 It’s as good

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as it sounds—actually better since it’s served with bourboncinnamon ice cream. An excellent bread pudding (crusty top and moist inner bread cubes), it was very tasty, but a few pecans notwithstanding, it didn’t really taste like pecan pie.

dinner pop-ups in 2008. And that he planted himself in a permanent spot in 2013. And that he’s been successful enough to double his space in a developing neighborhood. The food is as innovative and tasty as ever, with new dishes popping up next to old faves, thanks to chef Glenister Wells (formerly sous chef at Pastaria). Quality deserves to be recognized. 4101 LACLEDE AVE. 314.329.7696


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and alcohol-free! Infused with American hops, UCBC Sparkling Hop Water is sold at The Grove bierhall and is set to be released in stores. The brewery also partnered with Cinder House to create a house beer for the restaurant. The lager pays homage to the popular Brazilian beer Xingu, and will complement the menu of South American-inspired cuisine.

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Major congratulations are due to Michael Gallina of Vicia, who was named a James Beard Foundation finalist for Best Chef: Midwest. … Piccione Pastry is turning 6! The bakery has been serving up Italian treats in The Loop since 2013, and to celebrate, it’s introducing new breakfast offerings, including items like calzones and cannoli inspired by popular cereals. … Another local favorite is celebrating six years: Russell’s on Macklind. The South City spot is offering a new dinner-only service during the week as well as weekend brunch.

After 10 years in the CWE, it looked like West End Grill and Pub had served its last round in January. Residents, however, weren’t ready to let go of the popular neighborhood spot. A group of locals joined with two of the original owners, Neill Costello and William Roth, to reopen the beloved restaurant last month.

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Local hot sauce company Hot Charlie’s has partnered with Palo Foods of Sheboygan Falls, Wisconsin, to create Hot White Cheddar Popcorn. Starting this month, the spicy snack will be available at Schnucks and Dierbergs.

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Cafe Coeur is now open in Creve Coeur at 10477 Old Olive Street Road. The JapaneseItalian fusion restaurant is serving up options like nori spaghetti, matcha linguine and arancini onigiri. … If you’re craving a burger, head downtown, where Hi-Pointe Drive-In has opened a second location at 634 Washington Ave. In partnership with the St. Louis Gateway Arch Foundation, it’s also offering the Arch D-Lux burger, with $1 from every sale going to the nonprofit. … Taco Buddha is back! After closing temporarily, the globally inspired taco joint is open at 7405 Pershing Ave. in U. City. … After more than 25 years in business, Brazie’s Ristorante on Watson Road has closed its doors. The family-owned restaurant was known as one of the city’s hidden gems of Italian cuisine.

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THE MISSISSIPPI RIVER HEART HAND and the Duke of Cumberland Hand (aka the 007 Moonraker Hand) have been part of whist and bridge lore for centuries. Bridge legend keeps us playing deal after deal, hoping that we will sit in on such a hand. This month’s hand fills the bill.

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1. The ♦ Ace was trumped in Dummy. 2 . The 2 of ♣ to Declarer’s King. 3. The 3 of ♦ was trumped. 4. Declarer took note of the three/two ♦ break and cashed the ♣ Ace drawing trumps. 5. The 3 of ♠s was ruffed in hand. 6. Declarer gave up a ♦ and claimed. Note: With two voids, East bid six ♣s as a save against five ♠s. N/S holding 31 points had no

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Comment: “Points schmoints!” (31 for N/S, 9 for E/W). Trumps and controls rule.

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We recently heard the expression ‘points schmoints!’ What does it mean? I believe Marty Bergen, prolific maker of bridge conventions, coined the phrase when writing one of his many bridge books. The phrase suggests trumps and controls often are more useful than the number of points one holds.

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HEALTH & BEAUTY

HEALTH FLASH by stephanie wallace

TEA PARTY 〉〉 Enjoying a nice cup of oolong or green tea could have unexpected benefits. Researchers at Saint Louis University have discovered it can damage breast cancer cells and inhibit the growth of tumors. Published in Anticancer Research, the study tested how five tea extracts affected six different breast cancer cell lines and found that green and oolong tea prohibited growth in all six. The findings correlate with cancer statistics from the teaproducing province Fujian in China, where the incidence of breast cancer is 35 percent lower than the national average. While more research is needed, this could offer a nontoxic strategy for cancer prevention.

PUMP UP THE VOLUME 〉〉 Concert-goers, rejoice. The Department of the Army has given Washington University $10.5 million to investigate whether an anti-seizure drug can prevent noise-induced hearing loss. In partnership with the University of Texas at Dallas, the University of Akron, Ohio, and Gateway Biotechnology, researchers will evaluate how the drug zonisamide impacts police officers exposed to gunfire at a shooting range and patients exposed to drilling during skull surgery. Zonisamide blocks several chemical signals that nerve cells use to communicate and has been shown to prevent temporary hearing loss in animal models.

I, ROBOT 〉〉 While they are old standbys in sci-fi classics like Star Wars, surgical robots are no longer just the stuff of fiction. Surgeons in the StL have been performing robotassisted procedures for years, but now, SSM Health Saint Louis University Hospital is the first in the region to offer a new type. The Flex Robotic System is used to perform less invasive surgery by using the body’s natural orifices. For example, surgeons can insert a single, fully flexible robotic arm into a patient’s mouth to access tumors previously unreachable without a long incision in the neck.

JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS 〉〉 Mutations, which are mistakes in the DNA sequence, are known to drive cancer growth, but researchers at Washington University have discovered that a genetic phenomenon known as ‘jumping genes’ may play a role, too. Also called transposable elements, jumping genes are short sections of the DNA sequence that have been incorporated randomly into the genome. A study published in Nature Genetics found they function like an on-and-off switch in many tumors. The findings could help doctors predict a patient’s prognosis and open up new avenues of research that focus on gene regulation rather than mutation.

Special moments deserve special attention. Your baby’s birth is one of life’s most special moments. Your pregnancy and birth experience should be, too. With a maternity nurse navigator, all-private birth suites, excellent nursing staff and a state-of-the-art Neonatal Special Care Nursery for preemies, St. Luke’s has everything you need for an intimate birth experience and exceptional care.

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TWO BY JULIA M. JOHNSON

Generally speaking, what’s good for your body when you’re not pregnant is good for it when you are. Still, it doesn’t hurt to get a refresher on habits that can help make the stages of pregnancy run smoothly from conception to delivery. Whether you’re planning for a baby, already expecting or welcoming your brand-new family member, doctors have some helpful, healthful advice.

GETTING PREGNANT Dr. Megan Mohrman, an obstetrician and gynecologist at St. Luke’s Hospital, says proper nutrition is one of the first topics she brings up with patients who want to become pregnant. She says women looking to conceive need a well-balanced diet that includes fresh fruits, vegetables and lean meats. “It’s important to make sure your own body is in the best possible shape before you try to get pregnant,” she says. “Talk with your doctor about any underlying health issues like diabetes, thyroid problems or high blood pressure so they can be addressed beforehand.” Here are some other pre-conception points to ponder. PRENATAL VITAMINS ARE KEY. They contain essential nutrients like folic acid, which helps prevent brain and spinal cord defects in the baby, and iodine, which is necessary for thyroid development. A HEALTHY BMI (BODY MASS INDEX) IS IMPORTANT. Being overweight or underweight can affect your chances of a healthy pregnancy. CURRENT MEDICATIONS should be discussed with your doctor. If you are on a drug that isn’t considered safe during pregnancy, you may need to switch to an alternative. TOBACCO AND ALCOHOL should be off limits. CERTAIN FOODS also should be avoided. Fish high in mercury content, raw or undercooked meats, and unpasteurized dairy should be left off your grocery list. STRESS should be reduced whenever possible. Its effects on fertility are hard to quantify, but some studies have suggested a link between low stress and higher pregnancy rates. Mohrman says it’s also important to try and avoid getting sick during this stage. You can’t fight off all germs, of course, but staying alert to food safety and hygiene is a good place to start. Pathogens from unpasteurized dairy foods and unwashed produce can cause problems. Also, talk to your doctor about getting a flu shot and any other vaccines you may need. Finally, Mohrman advises, it’s important to have an established relationship with a knowledgeable and compassionate OB/GYN. “It’s best to see your doctor before getting pregnant,” she says. “But if that’s not possible, your physician can go over the latest medical advice once you’re expecting.”

THE BUMP Dr. Hamnah Siddiqui, an obstetrician and gynecologist with SSM Health Medical Group, says it’s easy to think of pregnancy as a time when you should ‘eat for two,’ but that’s not really the best train of thought. “A developing baby doesn’t require as much energy as a full-grown person,” she says. “It’s not necessary to double your caloric intake when you become pregnant.” In fact, in the first trimester, no increase usually is needed at all unless you’re underweight, she notes. Later on, it’s a good idea to boost your calories by 350 per day in the second trimester and 450 in the third. (The average non-pregnant woman needs about 2,000 daily.) “Most expectant mothers feel good using these guidelines,” Siddiqui says. “Calories need to be nutrient-rich from whole, fresh foods such as produce—not extra dessert! You also need a good balance of proteins, fats and carbohydrates. Lean meats like chicken usually are OK because they don’t have too much fat. And try to limit processed foods.” Siddiqui says it also may be helpful to consume five smaller meals a day instead of three. “If you are having a lot of nausea or acid reflux, five may be the better option,” she notes. “Eating smaller amounts more often also can help distribute your nutrition more evenly.” Staying well hydrated is important, too. She adds that 25 to 35 pounds is a normal weight gain for the average mom-to-be. “If you’re overweight, 15 to 25 pounds is advisable, and if you’re obese, it’s best not to gain more than 15,” she says. “If you find you’re actually losing weight during the second trimester or later, notify your doctor.” CONTINUED ON PG. F12


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CONCEPTION MISCONCEPTIONS

POST-DELIVERY Once your new family member arrives, it’s natural to want to focus all of your attention on mothering. But it’s just as important to practice good self-care, says SLUCare obstetrician and gynecologist Dr. Shilpa Babbar. She advises paying attention to your body’s signals and returning gradually to a normal routine so your tissues have time to heal.  EXERCISE. “There’s no magical date for a new mother to return to physical activity,” Babbar says. “Women who deliver vaginally can resume activity when they feel ready and healthy. C-section patients should take at least two or three weeks to heal before starting moderate exercise.”  WEIGHT. Babbar advises patients to return to their pre-pregnancy BMI gradually over a six- to 12-month period.  BREASTFEEDING. It can help accelerate post-delivery weight loss, and it’s recommended for other reasons like maternal-infant bonding, nutrition and immunity.  NUTRITION. Babbar recommends a fresh, wholesome, balanced diet for new mothers. “It’s a good idea to continue your prenatal vitamins after delivery,” she notes. “Vegetarian and vegan moms should make sure they get enough nutrients like calcium and vitamins B12 and D.”  STRESS. Practices like yoga, breathing exercises and meditation can help you stay calm and centered, Babbar says.

Knowledge is power! Let’s debunk some common pregnancy myths.  I can’t get pregnant while breastfeeding. It can help prevent pregnancy if the mother is within six months after delivery, has not had a menstrual cycle and is feeding the baby only breast milk. All three criteria must be in place; otherwise, ovulation still can occur during breastfeeding.  After an egg is released, it can be fertilized for up to two days. Sperm can stay viable for three days or more, but an egg only lasts 12 to 24 hours.  Men don’t have a ‘biological clock.’ Older men can father babies, but they are more likely to have fertility issues due to declining testosterone, reduced sperm quantity and quality, and other factors.  I can wait until I’m pregnant to cut back on caffeine. Too much caffeine actually can interfere with fertility. Don’t exceed 200 mg (one 12-ounce coffee) per day while trying to conceive. The same goes for pregnancy.  I shouldn’t exercise much while expecting. Actually, moderate physical activity is safe for most pregnant women and can be beneficial. Five hours a week of brisk walking, biking or golf is usually OK. SOURCES: MAYO CLINIC, CLEVELAND CLINIC, WHATTOEXPECT.COM

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Here’s what happens to the female reproductive system during and after your monthly menstrual flow. Day 1: The tissue lining the inside of your uterus breaks down and leaves the body along with some blood. Hormone levels are low. Days 1 through 5: Follicles develop on your ovaries. Each one contains an egg. Days 5 through 8: One follicle keeps growing while the others are reabsorbed. Estrogen levels rise. Period bleeding stops on about Day 8, and the uterine lining thickens. Day 14: Estrogen levels peak, and luteinizing hormone levels rise sharply. The mature follicle bursts and releases an egg (ovulation). Days 15 through 24: The newly released egg moves through the fallopian tube toward the uterus. If fertilized by a sperm cell, the egg attaches to the uterine lining and begins to develop. Days 24 through 28: If not fertilized, the egg breaks apart and leaves the body. Estrogen and progesterone levels drop. The uterine lining sheds, and the entire process begins again. SOURCE: WOMENSHEALTH.GOV


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THE WARNER HALL GROUP by stephanie wallace INTERIOR OF 728 N. CLAY AVE. IN KIRKWOOD

ST. LOUIS’ MANY VIBRANT, INDIVIDUAL NEIGHBORHOODS are distinct

pockets of culture, architecture and community—and they make our city a truly unique place to live. That’s something The Warner Hall Group understands. As the No. 1 real estate team at Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty, its agents work to make the complex process of buying or selling a home an easy and enjoyable one for clients, no matter where they want to hang their hats. “In our opinion, if you don’t know one community from another, you aren’t doing everything you can for your clients,” says Sam Hall, a founding member of the team. The Warner Hall Group has been named among the top agents in areas like Clayton, the Central West End and University City, but Hall says he and his colleagues aim to serve the entire central corridor. This sets them apart from other agents who may focus on a single area or neighborhood, giving them a limited perspective. “To know the market well, you have to work across a broader area,” he explains. The diversity of the St. Louis market is a major draw for buyers, according to Hall. “People from outside the area are blown away by the uniqueness of our communities,” he says. Architecture is one way those differences are reflected. From centuries-old homes in Lafayette Square to examples of the early Arts and Crafts movement in University City, there is something to appeal to all tastes. “There are not too many major metropolitan areas with such variety, and it’s a result of how St. Louis has grown and developed,” Hall says. “Each area has its own distinct characteristics.” He notes that Kirkwood is one community that stands out to buyers. “Everyone we take to Kirkwood is instantly reminded of a Norman Rockwell painting,” he says.

“It’s a very welcoming part of St. Louis.” He attributes the area’s appeal to its history. “It was built in the mid-19th century by people who wanted to escape downtown, which was overpopulated and polluted at the time,” Hall explains. The community continued to grow and then blossomed in the ’40s and ’50s when soldiers returned home from World War II. Today, Kirkwood offers beautiful homes, great schools and a bustling downtown. “Everything is walkable, and people instantly feel at home,” Hall says. “It’s everything you could want from a community.” The Warner Hall Group currently is listing 728 N. Clay Ave., a brick bungalow built in the 1940s. “It’s in a great location that is very accessible to downtown Kirkwood,” Hall says. “The home has a rear addition that doubled the size of the interior but didn’t compromise the yard. There’s still nice outdoor space, which is rare in such a centrally located home.” Properties in the area often have small yards due to homeowners building expansions, according to Hall. “People jokingly call it the ‘Kirkwood addition,’” he explains. “As families grow, people build their homes up and out rather than moving. Once you TOWN & NEIGHBORHOOD move in, you won’t want to leave!" & SPECIAL SECTION

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OUTDOOR LIVING 〉〉 After a brutally long winter, it seems we all are extra ready to get outside and enjoy the fresh air. Our yards, decks, patios and pools truly are extensions of our homes, and stylish furniture and accessories have changed the landscape of outdoor entertaining. These images are my latest inspiration for enjoying the sunshine ahead!

A fire pit area nestled into the yard gets a distinct elegance from its boxwood perimeter. String a pergola with lights and simple chandeliers for an enchanting outdoor dining space.

Outdoor rugs and lamps have changed the game and can create a hidden retreat.

Outdoor upholstered furniture makes the patio just as comfortable as the family room and can withstand the elements. A covered porch feels cozy with drapery, wall art and a rug.

Nothing says summer like taking an outdoor shower in the pool or garden area.

This is so Hollywood, but consider a focal point in a space surrounded by three walls. Lighting will add warmth and make an outdoor space feel like an indoor room.

An elegant table doesn’t require much space. Hang a pendant from a nearby tree.

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This feels like summer camp! A simple structure, hanging lanterns and a shady spot are all you need.

The fire pit continues to evolve; accent it with comfy chairs and pillows.

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BRING THE GAME HOME Making memories together. Round up the family Saturday morning to pass the ball around. Come home from work to find the neighborhood kids sinking free throws. Invite your co-workers over for the game of volleyball that will finally separate trash talk from talent. It's all about bringing your friends and family together to create lasting memories.

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HOMEWORK

DEAR HOMEWORK,

My husband and I moved to a villa recently. We have renovated the inside and would like to continue with the yard. It took a while to fix the landscaping at our previous house, and we can’t wait that long this time. What sort of tree do you suggest for the front, and how can we make it look special in this sea of sameness? Sincerely, —IN A BIT OF A HURRY

DEAR IN A BIT OF A HURRY,

I would start your landscape scheme with a serpentineshaped planting bed that extends from your entry walk to the neighboring driveway. Plant a continuous line of variegated Liriope grass and add gradually taller plants as you work toward the façade. At the far edge of the new bed, plant a Japanese maple. On the left side of the façade, plant a trio of graduated, upright evergreens and on the right, a round boxwood. Various ornamental grasses and annuals fill in the rest of the bed. To balance the overall scheme, add a line of grasses along the entry walk and an upright evergreen to the right of the garage door underplanted with a few more ornamental grasses. The sweep of the main planting bed softens the entire presentation and should work well with adjacent properties. It also should be a fairly low-maintenance proposition. Hope this is useful, —HOMEWORK

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Bringing St. Louis People & Properties Together From Forest Hills to Forest Park, no matter which St. Louis neighborhood you call (or hope to call) home, Lottmann Realty Group is your go-to resource. As a full-service real estate firm, we assist residential and commercial property buyers, sellers, and investors at all levels. How can we help you?

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47 RIDGEMOOR DRIVE | CLAYTON | $1,365,000 | ANN WROTH | 314.440.0212 Classic Claverach Park home features 4 bedrooms, 3 full/2 half baths, updated gourmet kitchen, light-filled family room, charming screen porch, master suite w/2 walk-in closets, luxury bath and oversized 3 car garage. Custom finishes throughout, inlaid wood floors overlooks Oak Knoll Park!

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3 EDGEWOOD ROAD | LADUE | $2,495,000 MOLLY RICHARDSON | 314.568.8521 ELISABETH THOMPSON | 314.452.1198 Stunning estate w/5 beds, 5.5 baths on 2 acres providing privacy in pristine Ladue neighborhood. Breathtaking PebbleTec pool & 3-car garage.

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131 NORTH SPOEDE ROAD CREVE COEUR | $1,350,000 RACHEL NOLEN | 314.749.6237 Custom 4-bedroom ranch home on 1-acre lot w/ beautiful open kitchen, main flr master suite w/ sitting area, finished walk-out LL w/3-car garage. COMING SOON

16 LINDWORTH LANE | LADUE | $695,000 CATHERINE UNSETH | 314.704.6224 BOB BARRETT | 314.570.8888 Charming 2-story 4 bed/2.5 bath Ladue colonial on desirable lane. Master suite, 4 season sunroom, patio overlooking serene landscaped yard.

215 BRIGHTON WAY | CLAYTON | $979,000 SHAINA SCHULZE | 314.255.8137 Alluring 1.5-story 4 bedroom brick home in established Clayton Gardens. Open flr plan w/main flr master suite, beautifully updated kitchen w/large deck.

14 CLERMONT LANE | LADUE | $1,495,000 MOLLY RICHARDSON | 314.568.8521 ELISABETH THOMPSON | 314.452.1198 Fabulous transformation & new look for 14 Clermont Lane situated on 2.27 acres w/outstanding gardens, multiple outdoor terraces & beautiful pool. NEW PRICE

6 LITTLE LANE | LADUE | $799,000 MARGIE KUBIK | 314.954.2513 LAURA DYER | 314.737.0319 Stunning ranch features 4 beds, 4.5 baths w/ living/dining room combo, nicely appointed kitchen, finished LL w/ beautiful flagstone patio.

12466 CONWAY ROAD | CREVE COEUR | $739,000 ANN FARWELL | 314.973.3407 REX W. SCHWERDT | 314.800.4755 Centrally located 1.5-story home w/4,500+SF on over an acre lot. Main flr master, newer white kitchen, sunroom, 4-car garage & lovely pool.

7117 FORSYTH BOULEVARD UNIVERSITY CITY | $449,000 LAURA DYER | 314.737.0319 Residential lot sits on beautiful tree-line street surrounded by charming traditional upscale homes just minutes from Clayton Business District.

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word on the street Mark Gellman

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BY JULIA M. JOHNSON

Sabrina Robb

Jeff Lottmann

IN THE REAL ESTATE BUSINESS, clients’ tastes and priorities constantly evolve, and it’s interesting to see how the market responds. Singles, families and retirees may tend to prefer certain architectural styles or areas of town, and there always will be buyers who want something truly unique. The St. Louis region is diverse and vibrant and can accommodate any buyer’s needs, local agents say.

WHAT HOME STYLES ARE SELLING WELL THIS YEAR?

WHAT FEATURES ARE IMPORTANT TO BUYERS?

WHAT NEIGHBORHOODS ARE WALKABLE?

WHAT ARE SOME CURRENT BUYER TRENDS?

WHAT’S HAPPENING IN THE LOCAL CONDOMINIUM MARKET?

Modern ranch styles that were popular in the 1950s are ‘in’ again. It wasn’t as easy to sell these back in the early 2000s, but now there is a larger buyer pool for them. Many people like the architectural style and the ease of one-floor living.

We find that move-in condition is the No. 1 consideration for many first-time buyers. They’ve already been through the process of searching, getting a loan approved and doing inspections, and they may not want a renovation project on top of it. They tend to want a home that already looks good and is ready to live in.

If you look at the Highway 64/40 corridor starting in St. Charles, walkability tends to grow as you move east. Neighborhoods like Midtown, Clayton, the Central West End, Ladue, Kirkwood, Webster Groves, Tower Grove and Benton Park are denser and more conducive to walking. In the western suburbs, things tend to be more spread out.

There’s an interesting phenomenon happening locally in terms of age and population. You can think of the buying pool as being shaped like a barbell. At either end is a larger group—baby boomers in or near retirement at one end, and millennials at the other. In the middle is a narrower group of Generation X and Generation Y buyers. Also, we’re seeing that younger clients and downsizing retirees often want the same type of house, one in good condition in the $200,000 to $300,000 range.

The condo market really is for everyone these days, including families and single buyers. With the increase in dual incomes and more limitations on people’s time, we find that families often are interested in condos for the convenience factor. They like quick access to community amenities and buildings with elevators in neighborhoods like Chesterfield and Clayton.

SABRINA ROBB Robb Partners, Keller Williams Realty St. Louis

Ranches and 1.5-story floor plans are attractive to all ages, but especially the older demographic thinking about a home where they can age in place. We find that first-time buyers with young families often favor two stories with all of the bedrooms on the same floor. This is why the central corridor of St. Louis is appealing—you can find any style of house in that area. JEFF LOTTMANN Lottmann Realty Group, ReMax Suburban

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JILL BUTLER RedKey Realty Leaders

Many buyers want neighborhoods that are consistent in terms of price and appearance; these tend to be more stable when it comes to resale value. The market in a particular neighborhood may struggle if a buyer tears down an existing property and puts up a $1.5 million home when the rest of the houses in the area are around $300,000. MARK GELLMAN The Gellman Team, Coldwell Banker Premier Group

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Neighborhoods like Kirkwood, Ladue, Des Peres, Webster Groves and Clayton cater to a wide spectrum of people and preferences. They have town centers, parks, and great public and private schools. Most important for walkability, they are safe. JEFF LOTTMANN

SABRINA ROBB

JILL BUTLER

... THE CENTRAL CORRIDOR OF ST. LOUIS IS APPEALING—YOU CAN FIND ANY STYLE OF HOUSE IN THAT AREA.


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745 Carman Oaks Court

UNDER CONTRACT Manchester | $300,000

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This property has a large terrace off the main open living space and includes stunning custom built-ins, moldings and more than 10-foot ceilings. A master suite and office are at one end with three additional ensuite bedrooms, a gym and den on the other.

Like that status figure you’ve always idolized, this spectacular Maritz & Young-designed residence will captivate you with its distinction and grace. The Warner Hall Group - Ann Gold Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty 314.764.5238 | warnerhallgroup.com

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214 Bellington Lane $765,000 CREVE COEUR

The Maritz & Young home with whitewashed brick, black shutters and a steeply gabled slate roof was built in 1929. Constructed with exquisite attention to detail, the stone decking of its luxurious pool is the perfect complement to the architectural design.

A gorgeous, move-in ready property with four bedrooms and three full and two half baths has 9-foot ceilings, striking millwork, an updated kitchen and master suite. It has a finished lower level, saltwater pool and lovely .62-acre lot in the Parkway Central School District.

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5 CHateau oaks, ladue

Like a prized keepsake, this captivating French home is a treasure nestled in a wonderland of natural landscape. Truly one of a kind! | 5 br, 5f 2h baths | $2,750,000

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11 lake forest, riCHmond HeigHts Impressive English Tudor! | 5 br, 3f 2h baths | $1,275,000

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9116 Rott Road | $1,235,000 SUNSET HILLS Peaceful, picturesque and private: The atrium garden, private wing, and more than five-car garage are only a few of the gems of this 4.3-acre custom, energy-efficient property. Jeff Lottmann Lottmann Realty Group 636.812.4414 | mystlrealtor.com 1777 Dougherty Ferry Road | $958,000 | KIRKWOOD This is a luxury home with elegance, style and a great location! Centrally located, it has the feel of a vacation home. It sits on a full acre and was designed to bring the outdoors in.

6 Rutherford Lane | $1,990,000 TOWN & COUNTRY The beautiful, custom-built, 1.5-story house is enhanced by handburnt hickory floors and extraordinary architectural finishes. It features a large kitchen for the gourmet cook and a walk-out lower level with recreation room, wet bar, game room, workout room, fifth bedroom, full bath and laundry.

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31 Westwood Country Club | $1,075,000 WESTWOOD

611 N. Clay Ave. | $639,900 | KIRKWOOD

A gorgeous Tudor home on 1.1 acres faces the clubhouse and features a four-car garage.

A gorgeous two-story just blocks away from downtown Kirkwood has many charming features throughout: wood floors, stained glass windows, a luxurious kitchen and more. And it’s a gardener’s dream with professional landscaping!

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SARAH BERNARD RedKey Realty Leaders

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and business background to all of her real estate dealings, and her team thrives on providing top-notch customer service. Her team is top of the market and top in sales at RedKey Realty Leaders. Sarah’s real estate and property management businesses, along with her Executive MBA from Washington University, give her unique skills and a comprehensive view of the St. Louis marketplace. She also is an industry coach with Workman Success Systems, helping realtors around the country grow their real estate business skills. In addition, Sarah hosts the weekly TV show, STL LIVE, which features interviews with inspiring locals who are doing tremendous work throughout the community. She serves as a member at large of the National Association of Realtors’ Resort and Second Home Real Estate Committee in Washington, D.C. Sarah’s team includes three buyer specialists and a support staff to assist clients with every part of the real estate process. They sell property at Innsbrook Resort and throughout the St. Louis metro area, from Soulard to Wentzville and everywhere in between. Working with the locally owned RedKey Realty Leaders brokerage gives Sarah and her team a tremendous amount of support and provides clients with extremely personal service. Sarah is a native St. Louisan and has lived in Clayton for more than 30 years. She has three children, ages 22, 21 and 18. They love to spend family time at their getaway at Innsbrook Resort whenever possible.

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process, but Kim Carney has plenty of experience helping clients through it from both sides—sometimes at the same time! She understands what buyers are looking for (good schools, central locations, move-in ready properties) and knows what it takes to effectively and uniquely market a home. “It can be a lot of work, but it’s always memorable and very rewarding,” she says. Kim prides herself on having proven success using an aggressive and unique marketing plan that gets the best price in the quickest time. Her knowledge and experience of the local luxury market has made her one of her company’s most successful real estate agents. She got into the business after becoming fascinated by the intricacies of her own home sale. “I discovered I was finding good deals before my agent did,” she says. “I took a training class, got a listing right away, and fell in love with the business. It speaks to my competitive side.” Kim grew up in University Hills, and her family moved to Ladue when she was in middle school. She’s been there ever since. She loves the community’s unique neighborhoods and the school district. Her twin daughters attend Ladue Horton Watkins High School. She enjoys traveling, spending time with her family and being involved in numerous charities.

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2124 Crystal Drive $541,000 | Pr/SqFt: $196.16 Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty Agent: Heather Johnson 11448 Conway Road $685,000 | Pr/SqFt: $222.62 Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty Agent: Elaine Medve 12919 Topping Way Drive $975,000 | Pr/SqFt: $263.37 Gladys Manion Real Estate Agent: Rachel Nolen 12960 Thornhill Drive $1,400,000 | Pr/SqFt: $283.75 Gladys Manion Real Estate Agent: Margie Kubik

[ 63141 ] 215 Hibler Oaks Drive $515,000 | Pr/SqFt: $171.32 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Rodney Wallner 183 Laduemont Drive $649,900 | Pr/SqFt: $203.54 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Alicia Cop 191 Plantation Drive $725,000 | Pr/SqFt: $234.78 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Patti Blumeyer 962 Delvin Drive $875,000 | Pr/SqFt: $188.74 Coldwell Banker Gundaker Real Estate Agent: Lorraine Salinas

[ 63144 ] 6 Middlesex Drive $490,000 | Pr/SqFt: $239.02 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Julie Bisig 2613 Louis Ave. $544,000 | Pr/SqFt: $202.76 Murphy Realty Partners Agent: Molly Murphy MAY 8, 2019 | townandstyle.com

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