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JUNE 5, 2024 | FRONT TOWN TALK + enterprising men CHARITY & CULTURE SPECIAL EDITION: THE MEN’S ISSUE Saving Children, Saving Dollars. America's Largest School-based Asthma Intervention
4 | | JUNE 5, 2024 6 IN THE KNOW 7 COVER STORY – Asthma and Allergy Foundation of America St. Louis Chapter TOWN TALK 〉〉 8 TALK OF THE TOWNS 10 THE INSIDER 11 THE VELVET HAMMER 12 STUDENT STANDOUTS PARENT TRAP – Summer Plans ENTERPRISING MEN 14 DRIVEN – Lincoln Nautilus Black Label 15 STRICTLY BUSINESS CHARITY & CULTURE 〉〉 16 SNAPPED! Make-A-Wish Missouri & Kansas 17 Assistance League of St. Louis 18 SPECIAL FEATURE – A Lasting Legacy TABLE OF CONTENTS june 5, 2024 next issue june 19 on the cover » TOWN TALK CHARITY & CULTURE Saving Children, Saving Dollars. America's Largest School-based Asthma Intervention THE ASTHMA AND ALLERGY FOUNDATION OF AMERICA ST. LOUIS CHAPTER IS DEDICATED TO HELPING THOSE WITH ASTHMA AND ALLERGIES THROUGH EDUCATION, SUPPORT AND RESOURCES. ITS RESCUE PROGRAM ASSISTS SCHOOLS WITH STOCKING ASTHMA MEDICATION AND MEDICAL EQUIPMENT. PICTURED ON THE COVER: ST. LOUIS PUBLIC SCHOOLS NURSE SHERYL SIMMONS, AAFA-STL CEO CHRIS MARTINEZ, BOARD PRESIDENT RICH CHRISMER. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.645.2422 OR VISIT AAFAMIDSTATES.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO BY TIM PARKER PHOTOGRAPHY 8 15 14

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The design firm recently celebrated both its 30th anniversary and a big move. It introduced the community to its new Webster Groves space with a special Cheer and Cherries open house.

PICTURED: ADJ INTERIORS FOUNDER APRIL JENSEN

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The nonprofit’s annual Run for the Roses Derby event raised more than $100,000 in early community campaign pledges from its Leadership Giving Society donors. Guests donned Kentucky Derby-themed attire and enjoyed popular traditions like a bourbon pull, mint juleps, games and watching the race.

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JazzU All-Stars performed at the historic New Orleans Jazz & Heritage Festival. The ensemble of young performers is composed of the top middle and high school players from Jazz St. Louis’ JazzU program.

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Partnering with the National Council of Jewish Women of St. Louis, the nonprofit received $20,000 from the Dana Brown Charitable Trust.

The funds will be used to stock closets in St. Louis Public Schools with clothing, shoes, coats and hygiene products.

PICTURED: KAREN SILVERMAN, DENISE MCKIBBEN, RENEE SIGEL-HEARST

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ASTHMA AND ALLERGY FOUNDATION OF AMERICA ST. LOUIS CHAPTER by stephanie wallace

MORE THAN 27 MILLION PEOPLE in the United States have asthma. That accounts for every one in 12 people, and it is a leading chronic disease among children. But St. Louisans can breathe easier thanks to the local chapter of the Asthma and Allergy Foundation of America (AAFA-STL). The organization is dedicated to helping those with asthma and allergies through education, support and resources.

The local chapter of the nonprofit was founded in 1981 by two St. Louis doctors and a social worker. The first program developed was BREATH, a prescription assistance initiative designed to help families who don’t have insurance or are underinsured. To date, BREATH has helped almost 9,000 children receive asthma medication for little or no cost. “It’s our oldest program, and it’s still going today,” CEO Chris Martinez says. “Our mission is to serve those affected by asthma and allergies, and at the end of the day, what we do is help people breathe.”

One of the largest issues the AAFA-STL is targeting is the impact of asthma in schools. It is the No. 1 reason that children are chronically absent. “It’s a critical issue across the country, but especially in the St. Louis area,” Martinez notes. “Nationwide, roughly 5% of children have asthma, but here, that number is twice as high at 10%. For kids to learn and grow, they need to be in school achieving their best. One way to help ensure that is by taking care of their asthma needs.” In 2012, Missouri passed legislation that allows schools to stock and administer the asthma treatment albuterol but did not provide funding. To ensure local schools had the proper resources, the AAFA-STL launched RESCUE.

The program equips public schools with asthma medication and medical equipment and trains staff and school nurses on proper administration and storage. RESCUE’s impact has been tangible. “Our data suggests that thanks to intervention, around 90% of the students get to stay at school,” Martinez explains. “Without those resources, only around 25% returned to the classroom following an asthma attack. When a student on Medicaid has to go to the hospital, it costs taxpayers money. Not only is this initiative good for kids, but it’s also good for the state.” The AAFA-STL has been able to expand this program beyond St. Louis into other parts of Missouri and Illinois, and in 2022, Missouri began offering state funding to provide asthma resources in schools.

With the success of RESCUE, the AAFA-STL hopes that it can serve as a model for other parts of the country, and that more states will begin to fund similar initiatives. “We want all kids to stay healthy and in school,” the nonprofit’s board president Rich Chrismer says. “The RESCUE initiative is a national model for helping schools get the medicine, training and equipment they need to keep kids healthy and in the classroom with a 90% success rate. Thanks to the support of Governor Mike Parson and the Missouri legislature, RESCUE also will save Missouri taxpayers an estimated $3.2 million.”

The AAFA-STL also helps people dealing with food allergies. It offers education through allergy-friendly events hosted in partnership with local restaurants and organizations. The next event is June 8 at Busch Stadium. The nonprofit is working with the St. Louis Cardinals for AAFA at the Ballpark, an event that features an allergy-friendly tailgate and concessions as well as a field parade and giveaways. &

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A vibrant celebration is slated for June 15 in the Delmar Loop to commemorate Juneteenth in grand style with a race, festivities, vendors and music. This year, four organizations are coming together to curate a unique event. Delmar Boulevard, a longstanding symbol of division, is transcending its historical barriers as both the west and east portions of the Delmar Loop—University City and St. Louis City, along with Delmar Main Street and the St. Louis Reconciliation Network—unite their efforts to create an extraordinary experience. This partnership underscores a shared commitment to fostering unity, celebrating diversity and commemorating the significance of Juneteenth. The festivities kick off with a spirited 5K race/walk from University City Hall to DeBaliviere Avenue and back. After the race, dive into a vibrant Vendor Fair in the Tivoli parking lot that will showcase the creativity and entrepreneurship of vendors and artists. Explore an array of offerings while engaging in family-friendly activities. As the sun sets, join an Evening Celebration filled with captivating performances. Groove to African

Dance by Spirit of Angela and the soulful tunes of the Red Black & Brass Band. Meanwhile, with D.J. KP keeping the energy high all evening, it promises to be a party you won’t soon forget. Plus, don’t miss the exciting car show in the Loop Trolley parking lot. Juneteenth National Independence Day is a federal holiday every June 19 to mark the end of slavery. On June 19, 1865, a high-ranking Union officer ordered the final enforcement of the Emancipation Proclamation in Texas at the end of the Civil War. Find more information on the Delmar Loop’s events and schedule at visittheloop.com/events.

I’ve no idea how long the Riverfront Times’ red newspaper box has been at the bus stop at North McKnight and Gannon, but I walked down to check it out upon hearing that the alternative weekly had been sold to an undisclosed buyer—and laid off its staff. There was one issue left, a little wrinkly from the elements, but nearly dry. I’d always admired the RFT for its in-your-face reporting style, and the last, and perhaps final, edition was no different. I enjoyed their coverage of the local music scene, and it was a great place to find record reviews that I could relate to. I was usually amused by stories that wouldn’t have passed muster at any number of publications in town, especially our esteemed metro daily. RFT was co-founded by firebrand Ray Hartmann in 1977. Hartmann today is vying for the seat in Congress now occupied by Republican Ann Wagner. For years, thousands of us have watched him trade barbs on Channel 9’s Donnybrook with fellow print and electronic journalists Bill McClellan and Charlie Brennan. Hartmann hasn’t owned the RFT for years, but he remains somewhat larger than life, like Joe Edwards, Albert Pujols, Bob Costas and any number of St. Louisans who continue to wield influence much outside their original roles. Most cities or institutions have an alternative published voice. The Maneater, Mizzou’s student-run paper, often raises hackles among university officials. At my high school in Long Island, New York, it was a paper named Dog Breath. Faculty and administrators were often called to task. In Atlanta, the alternative to the city’s mainstream Journal-Constitution is Creative Loafing—although mostly an entertainment vehicle today, it covers news items, too, most of them controversial, many outré. For the most part, IMHO, the more competing editorial stances there are, the better.

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You don’t have to spend too much time in school before learning that sharks don’t infest the Mississippi River, nor any lakes or rivers in Missouri, for that matter. They live in saltwater. But in the St. Louis Aquarium at Union Station the misunderstood and muchfeared lords of the oceans will be a featured attraction through Labor Day. Summer of the Shark emphasizes hands-on activities, experiences and exhibits featuring these magnificent creatures. Visitors are immersed in a world of shark-centered adventures designed to get them up-close and personal with the rulers of the ocean. There’ll be a shark feeding frenzy daily. Heck, these carnivorous beasts couldn’t have prowled the oceans for millions of years without being top of the food chain in the deep blue sea. The regular daily activities at the aquarium focused on sharks will be enhanced with regular presentations of the American Natural History Museum in New York’s traveling exhibit “Sharks.” The St. Louis Aquarium is the first to host this touring exhibition, where visitors may learn about prehistoric sharks and explore new discoveries about today’s sharks, about a dozen species of which swim in the aquarium. Of course, sharks and their cousins, the rays, swim in touch pools where guests may dip their hands. For more information and tickets, visit stlouisaquarium.com.

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She grew up in the church, sings everything from torchy covers to gospel to R&B and rock, caught the attention of John Legend, and is playing two intimate shows this summer at different venues in Grand Center. “I like to play around with genres,” says singer and dancer Lisa Ramey, who lives in Chesterfield and performed for 11 seasons at The Muny, but is now based in New York. She even ran away to join the circus, once, as an adult. “My death-defying act is singing,” quips Ramey, who toured Australia with Kooza, an offshoot of Cirque du Soleil. And she’s scheduled to start rehearsals for her June 28 show at the Blue Strawberry. Likely she’ll sing at least two covers along with songs she wrote herself, some of them club bangers, others power ballads, but most impossible to pigeonhole. One of Ramey’s singles from last year, “The Internet,” laments a relationship cut short by her lover’s addiction to social media. In 2019, Ramey’s version of “The Weight’’ turned judges’ chairs on NBC’s The Voice. The song, written and first performed by The Band, charted at pop radio in 1969 when Aretha Franklin covered it. But Ramey hardly sounds like she’s trying to dethrone the Queen of Soul. She’s infused older music with something new, unexpected and visceral, as in “Sex On Fire,” her blind audition for the NBC-TV show. Judge Adam Levine of Maroon 5 turned to Kelly Clarkson and said, “I love this song!” Clarkson nodded. “Interesting,” she managed to respond, noncommittally. But Legend punched his button to turn his chair around. Ramey got a call from Legend sometime afterward and wound up singing with him at a Madison Square Garden concert. “He’s the sun!” she exclaims. “You just want to stand next to him and catch his rays!” She’s also sung in London with Zayn Malik, formerly of One Direction, to dizzying success. Like many budding performers, Ramey’s goal at the outset was to sell out arenas. Although she’s never wanted ‘the suits’ at major labels to dictate what she should sing and record, her output is substantial and available on iTunes and YouTube. After hearing what a diva she is from her online performances—yes, we’re making a very strong suggestion—check her out this summer. If you miss the Blue Strawberry gig, she reappears at the Grandel in the Dark Room for another intimate show on July 26. Then, if you want to experience her in a show, she’s appearing in the musical Ragtime Sept. 20 through Oct. 20 at STAGES in Kirkwood. While her career may not be headed in the direction she’d hoped as a young woman, she’s doing just fine, thank you. She was anything but a diva in our interview. Ramey is approachable and quite funny. Although that’s obviously her personality, it’s just great marketing, too. “You are the product you’re selling,” she points out. Visit lisarameymusic.com. &

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PRIDE STL

The Missouri History Museum newest exhibit, Gateway to Pride, delves into the vibrant and often overlooked and excluded narrative of LGBTQIA+ individuals in St. Louis. Opening June 8 and running through July 6, 2025, it marks the first-ever full-scale exhibit dedicated to St. Louis’ LGBTQIA+ community, offering visitors an opportunity to explore this rich history through five curated sections.

LEARN MORE AT MOHISTORY.ORG.

Contemporary Art Museum St. Louis and the Pulitzer Arts Foundation are celebrating Pride with a dance party and musical spectacle this weekend! On June 7, Faeded will offer performances at both museums and in their shared courtyard. The main stage will feature legendary local artist Maxi Glamour. The event is free and open to the public.

PrideSTL has announced the headlining acts for PrideFest 2024. On June 29, hometowner Slayyyter will hit the stage, and the day will wrap up with the Grammy-winning synth-pop artist DAYA. The next day Crystal Waters, known as the Queen of House Music, and Broadway and TV star Toderick Hall will perform. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT PRIDESTL.ORG.

We Went Blues Day is returning June 12! The annual tradition celebrates the Blues’ first Stanley Cup Championship in 2019 by sharing thrilling memories and volunteering in the community.

This year, the hockey team also will host its inaugural Blues Trivia Night at Enterprise Center to benefit Blues For Kids.

TICKETS CAN BE PURCHASED AT STLOUISBLUES.COM/TRIVIA.

Join the fight against Parkinson’s Disease while enjoying organ music. Pipes for Parkinson’s is July 7 at 6:30 p.m. at the Holy Infant Catholic Church. While the organ concert is free to attend, donations will be accepted for the American Parkinson’s Disease Association.

The Gateway Korea Foundation and Saint Louis Art Museum are partnering for the 11th annual DanO Spring Festival on June 28. The traditional Korean holiday marks the end of the spring sowing season, and the nonprofit celebrates it with a free educational lecture on Korean art and culture. This year’s special guest is Dr. Soyang Park, who will present “Ways of Seeing: South Korea’s Social Realism.” The event is free to the public, but guests are encouraged to reserve tickets at gateway-korea.org/dano.

THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS, IS GETTING A REFRESH!

The hotel’s Lobby Reimagination Project will enhance the interior of the entrance, reception area, retail store, guest elevator landings, Lobby Lounge bar, Sushi Bar and grand staircase. Helmed by Parker-Torres Design, the project is anticipated to be completed in the early fall.

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Q: I recently was hired to manage a newly-formed nonprofit and have finally convinced the founders to establish a board of directors. Any advice on building an effective board?

A: Building a board and knowing how to select the best board members for your nonprofit is one of the most critical decisions an organization makes and truly can make or break a nonprofit.

Essentially, a board of directors has three primary purposes: development, finances and governance. Board members not only need to understand their legal and fiduciary duties and responsibilities, but they also need to step up to lead and contribute to its culture, strategic focus, effectiveness and financial sustainability, as well as serve as ambassadors and advocates to assist in recruiting other productive board members.

Here are some considerations to begin building your board: Mission: Develop a mission statement that clearly articulates your purpose, what you hope to achieve and key activities to accomplish it. By-Laws: Establish by-laws to define the rules, duties and responsibilities of board members and officers, including their election process and terms, meeting guidelines/protocol and frequency, committees, financial requirements and other operating procedures/policies (i.e. Directors Liability Insurance).

Recruiting Members: While selecting directors, keep in mind that one size does not fit all and serious consideration should be given to your nonprofit’s mission and goals to identify your governing body. Don’t fall into the trap of building a board consisting only of “titles” or those who are just looking for a vanity plate and have no intention of contributing their time, talent or connections. Know what you need—is it someone who can leverage dollars or community resources, skills or knowledge, or a combination of the above? Once those needs are identified then you can start an intentional search.

As you begin to cultivate potential new board members, find out why a candidate is passionate about your mission. Are they already supporting the organization as a volunteer, donor or community partner? If not, what is inspiring them to consider it now? Some candidates might be willing to help as a volunteer. Who knows, they could be a potential board member down the road.

Board Member Role & Responsibilities: To ensure an active and engaged board, members need a clear understanding of their role and responsibilities. Consider hosting a board retreat and orientation with a facilitator or asking the board chair of another successful nonprofit to conduct the training. This kind of peer-to-peer learning can be powerful.

Bottom line: Look for directors who are passionate about your cause and willing to exercise due diligence in understanding their role and responsibilities. Most importantly, choose your board chair and officers wisely. &

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MOLLY SALLABERRY WANTS TO DELIVER WAY MORE than the same old song and dance. The St. Joseph’s Academy sophomore is passionate about musical theater, especially singing. She took home top prize at the 2024 Fox Performing Arts Charitable Foundation Teen Talent Competition. Her performance of “Kindergarten Love Song” not only won the $8,000 first place scholarship, but also earner her the Audience Choice Award.

Where did your interest in performing come from?

I’ve always loved singing and performing. When I was around 8, my mom had me participate in my first show. After that, I started taking voice lessons, and my love for it has only grown since.

What is your favorite thing about performing?

I just love how it makes me feel. I enjoy being on stage and seeing the reactions of the audience. I love making people smile and laugh, that’s why I tend to pick funny songs to perform. I am really into every part of musical theater, but singing definitely is my favorite component. That’s where I started out and what I’ve trained the most in. Singing makes me the happiest.

Why did you decide to participate in the Teen Talent Competition?

My voice teacher recommended it. She had students participate in the past, and it sounded fun. I really enjoy performing, so it was another opportunity to do what I love. She also helped me pick out a song to perform. I wanted to do something more comedic, so I could make

it a whole performance—I didn’t want to just stand there and sing. We came across “Kindergarten Love Song,” and I just fell in love with it.

How did it feel to win both first place and the Audience Choice Award?

It was definitely the best night of my entire life. Never in a million years did I expect that to happen—it was crazy and amazing. I’m really grateful to have taken home both awards.

Do you plan to continue performing?

Definitely. I’m hoping I can perform in college and even outside of it. It’s my passion, so I would like to continue to do it for the rest of my life.

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

I spend pretty much of all of my time doing musical theater. I take voice lessons, do dance classes and participate in shows. I also like to hang out with my friends and be with my family, but a lot of my time is spent doing what I love, which is singing, dancing and acting. &

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SUMMERTIME IS UPON US, so I’m here to offer a few tips to help you avoid power struggles over devices and endless rounds of, “I’m bored!”

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Step one is to immediately fire yourself as your children’s entertainment director. You are hereby never again responsible for their happiness and boredom. A good preventative measure would be to hold a family meeting to tell your children about your resignation and to brainstorm ideas about what they want their summer to look like.

were in awe. Plant vegetables and flowers of their choosing in a garden; kids love to get their hands dirty. Find some good trails to hike or some creeks to walk up. Have camp fires and s’mores in your back yard and you’ll attract lots of neighborhood kids and parents.

Discuss what new hobbies your kids would like to explore, like learning how to play guitar, taking a photography or cooking class, or putting up bird feeders and researching what types of birds live in your area. Activities like these are so much more valuable than wasting time in front of screens. And if given the autonomy to choose them, kids become far more engaged in them.

So often, the only times we explore our own cities is when out-of-town guests arrive. Have the kids plan some fun field trips to the zoo, local state parks, museums or whatever floats their boats. Replace their devices with an “I’m bored box” that contains fun items such as puzzles, comic books, craft supplies, card and board games, or sketch pads and paints. You might give them a budget and allow them to shop with you to pick out these items.

Brainstorm ideas about how they could spend time in nature. Find good spots to view sunrises and sunsets. Provide supplies to let them build a sandbox or a tree house. Or just buy some boards, hammer, nails and rope to let their imaginations go wild. Little kids will spend hours playing with big appliance boxes. At a recent weekend camp I ran for grade school girls, we laid out on a tarp late at night and stargazed for an hour and many of the girls experienced their first shooting stars. They

Speaking of screen time, make some agreements about when, what type and how long they can be on phones, tablets and video games. Make these agreements with a lot of their input so it feels like a win-win; that will ensure much better cooperation and accountability.

One of the keys to this process is listening to what your kids want versus making them do activities you sign them up for without first consulting them. Once they’ve made their choices and have the supplies needed, it will be much easier for you to respond to any, “I’m bored!” comments with, “So what will you do?” And when invited, put your devices away and join them outdoors or wherever they are having fun.

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LINCOLN NAUTILUS BLACK LABEL by robert w. paster

THERE SEEM TO BE NOTHING BUT SUVS ON THE ROAD THESE DAYS, in all sizes, shapes and flavors. Believe it or not, Lincoln, that bastion of the classic American luxury car, no longer offers sedans, just SUVs, which range in size from medium to huge. In the middle of that range is the all new Lincoln Nautilus, a good looking luxurious vehicle meant to meet the needs of modern affluent motorists and families.

The most striking feature of the Nautilus is its “immersive panoramic display,” a cabin-wide screen that stretches from door to door and displays traditional automotive features like the speedometer and fuel level and provides information and entertainment to front seat passengers. The screen is so big and wide the Nautilus should come with a built-in popcorn maker. It is supplemented by an 11.1 inch center-stack screen that controls the audio, climate control, vehicular settings and other more traditional automotive functions. Buttons for transmission selection are located in the middle of the center console. Drive modes include normal, conserve, excite, slippery and deep conditions. An available digital scent might be a welcome reprieve from the smells that typically emanate from the back seat of a family SUV.

Capacitive touch controls on the steering wheel allow use of the radio, cruise control, driver assist features and phone functions without having to remove your hands from the oddly shaped rectangular steering wheel. Since round wheels have been popular since the dawn of civilization, Lincoln’s decision to use a rounded rectangular “wheel” seems a bit odd, since the wheel tilts and telescopes electrically with no need for a flat bottom steering wheel like on a small sports car. Perhaps they wanted something different and distinctive. The odd shape takes a bit of getting used to, particularly in tighter turns and because the power steering is a bit overboosted.

Interior accouterments include dual automatic climate control, a heated steering wheel, heated and cooled front seats, heated rear seats, and a boffo audio system that thankfully includes a large physical volume knob at the bottom of the display screen. The display screen is relatively easy to navigate and use, but can be a bit slow at times, which may require taking one’s eyes off the road momentarily. Rear seat room is most generous, especially leg room, so rear seat passengers can also travel in luxury and comfort, enjoying their own air vents and USB ports and even a second sunroof that extends over the second row, though only the front one opens. Cargo space below the electric tailgate is also surprisingly large and conveniently accessed and can be expanded if necessary by lowering the 60/40 split rear seat. It even offers a real spare tire beneath the cargo floor.

Of course being a somewhat large SUV with a four-cylinder turbo engine, the Nautilus isn’t going to win any races, but power is adequate for normal driving conditions. Favoring luxury over performance, power delivery is smooth and steady, and the supple suspension provides a nice smooth ride over a variety of road surfaces while delivering decent handling. Brakes are up to the task of stopping with ease. An automatic on/off setting for the engine can be disabled.

On the safety front, the Nautilus offers a blind spot warning system with cross-traffic alert, adaptive cruise control, lane keeping assist, rear parking sensors, and pre-collision assist with automatic braking.

According to Ken Peterson, general sales manager at Dave Sinclair Lincoln, “The Nautilus offers good looking, modern styling and large screens that can be adjusted to the driver’s preferences. It’s a nice driving vehicle and the perfect size.” &

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Christian T. Gordon has joined the law firm as a member of the corporate department. Prior to joining Lewis Rice, Gordon served as an attorney in the legal arm of the United States Air Force for more than 10 years. In 2019, he was one of only five competitively selected to obtain a master of laws in government procurement and environmental law from the George Washington University School of Law. His practice focuses on assisting clients with environmental aspects of real estate and corporate transactions as well as regulatory compliance. He has experience in real estate development, including environmental due diligence, land acquisition, construction contracts and leasing, and negotiating the environmental terms of acquisition agreements.

Aki Ishida has been named director of the College of Architecture and Graduate School of Architecture & Urban Design in the Sam Fox School of Design & Visual Arts. Ishida is currently an associate professor and interim associate director of the School of Architecture at Virginia Tech. Along with her new position, she will hold the Sam and Marilyn Fox Professorship. “Aki is an accomplished architect and designer, a respected scholar and a dedicated teacher and mentor,” says Carmon Colangelo, the Ralph J. Nagel Dean of the Sam Fox School and the E. Desmond Lee Professor for Collaboration in the Arts. “I am confident she will be an inspiring leader who will connect deeply with our community and advance the strategic goals of the school and university.”

HOFFMAN BROTHERS

The family-owned home service provider has appointed Matt Whiat as its new president. Whiat held the position of senior and founding partner of Chapman & Co. Leadership Institute, a leadership consulting company within the Barry-Wehmiller organization. Prior to that, he served more than 20 years as a United States Air Force Officer, with assignments at the Pentagon, as a member of the United Nations and with Nato Partners. “I am excited and grateful to welcome Matt Whiat to Hoffmann Brothers as our president,” says CEO and former president Chris Hoffmann.

ROBINSON ELEMENTARY SCHOOL

The Kirkwood School District Board of Education has approved the hire of La’Kendra Garrett, Ed.D. , as the elementary school’s new principal. Garrett has more than 15 years of experience in education. She currently serves as the assistant principal at both Old Bonhomme and Reed Elementary schools in the Ladue School District. She also was director of secondary summer school for the district. She holds a doctorate of education in leadership in teaching and learning from Missouri Baptist University.

METRO THEATER COMPANY

Jacqueline Thompson has been appointed the theater company’s new artistic director. Her background includes a master of the fine arts in acting from the University of Louisville and a bachelor’s in speech communication from Clark Atlanta University. She currently serves as a faculty member at the University of Missouri-St. Louis and has held various teaching and directing positions across the country, including helming previous productions at Metro Theater Company. “Jacqueline’s passion for theater that inspires, challenges and transforms fits perfectly with our mission,” board chair Nancy Garvey says. “Her extensive experience, coupled with her profound understanding of the transformative power of storytelling, makes her the ideal leader to guide us into the future.”

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A Lasting Legacy

When Flint Fowler, Ph.D., joined the Boys and Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis (BGCSTL) in 1996, the nonprofit had a single location. In his role as president, Fowler dedicated himself to growing the organization and finding the best ways to reach local youth. Today, the nonprofit serves almost 14,000 children and their families at 11 locations in Missouri and Illinois. Fowler has announced he will retire at the end of the year. T&S caught up with him to discuss his legacy and what he’s taking away from his time with BGCSTL.

What brought you to the BGCSTL in 1996?

Youth development was the focus of most of my career. I worked with the Boy Scouts, and I ran Saint Louis University’s Upward Bound program and INROADS. The former was focused on preparing high school students for college, and the latter worked on connecting minority youth with careers in industries where they were historically underrepresented. My goal was to help young people prepare for their future. My name came up as a prospect to head BGCSTL, and I followed up on the opportunity.

How does it feel to see how the organization has grown during your tenure?

It’s terrific. Access is so important when it comes to helping youth realize their potential. With only one location, BGCSTL wasn’t able to touch as many lives because people had to come to us to participate. By expanding, we could reach those who previously did not have the opportunity to get involved. Our expansion also raised awareness of the importance of investing in young people, especially outside of school.

What changes have you seen in St. Louis and its nonprofit sector over the last 28 years?

There is a higher degree of respect for the nonprofit community. Historically, we have not been seen as equal. There was an assumption that nonprofits don’t have the skills or knowledge to be successful in the for-profit world. In reality, everything from the complexity of the business to the technology we utilize requires nonprofits to operate with a level of sophistication that is unique, and now, there is more respect for that. There also is a greater appreciation and awareness of the role that we play in the overall well-being of children. Education plays a large part in character development, but we can’t expect schools to handle everything. Nonprofits have become a more valuable community asset in supporting schools and filling any gaps. This has led to greater appreciation for community partnerships between organizations. Having proven our impact, the expectations for us to deliver have been heightened.

What lessons are you taking away from your time with the organization?

The well-being of children is critical, and it is a societal responsibility. Parents have the basic obligation, but there is a role for us all to play. Our priorities are usually identified by the money we invest, whether that’s through policies or practices. The investment that we make in youth today will pay tremendous dividends in the future. Frederick Douglass once said, “It’s easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” Sometimes, we don’t realize what we lose when we don’t support young people—not only in terms of dollars, but also in talent and contributions to society.

What would you say is your greatest achievement with BGCSTL?

Elevating the profile of the organization, and by doing so, highlighting the importance of investing in our kids. Boys & Girls Clubs has a strong national brand, and locally, we have established ourselves, so people see us as a viable entity. It’s tied back to the growth, both in locations and budget. I’m proud to have helped build the reputation of the organization so it can impact more kids.

What advice would you give your successor?

Build on the relationships that have been established, but don’t be afraid to try new things or do things your way. Don’t automatically take apart what has already been built. Instead, look at how you can improve it. Take some time to fully understand and appreciate what is in place and the people who have helped make it happen. Use that as your platform to make it even better.

What are you looking forward to about retirement?

It’s an opportunity to use my skills and relationships in new places to further strengthen the region and improve opportunities for everyone. Not contributing is such a misuse of experience and talent. I think it should be expected that I use my success to help others. I’m looking forward to that and a good night’s sleep.

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JAXEN GREY

“FASHIONS FADE. STYLE IS ETERNAL.”

Those iconic words from the late, great designer Yves Saint Laurent continue to ring true. Clothing is one of the ultimate forms of personal expression. Jaxen Grey is here to help St. Louisans find their own personal flair through a curated selection of menswear. The store in Plaza Frontenac offers a unique space for brands, customers and stylists to come together for a bespoke shopping experience.

Jaxen Grey first opened its doors in the Twin Cities area in Minnesota in 2019. Founder Michael Druskin was inspired by the innovative clothing lines he saw on Instagram. He realized there was exciting potential in connecting these brands to more consumers through a unique shopping experience. “We started with direct to consumer brands—things you could only get on the internet,” explains Adam Bevis, one of the store’s owners. “We offered items that you could not find in a typical retail store.”

The store now offers more than 100 brands from all over the world. These include well known options like Carhart and Mack Weldon as well as more exclusive offerings, such as Mizzen + Main, 7 Diamonds, Les Deux, Cuts and Public Rec. It even carries The Normal Brand, a popular St. Louis-based clothing line. “Jaxen Grey’s selection is unparalleled,” Bevis says. “We have brands you can’t find anywhere else in the U.S. or in any other brick-and-mortar store period.”

With the wide selection of brands on offer, Jaxen Grey has something for everyone, no matter their personal style. “We have families where the son, dad and grandfather can all shop with us, which is really unique,” Bevis says. “The store is like a more curated department store. We have a little bit of everything, so there are very few people who come in and can’t find something they like.” The selection includes everything from athleisure items to more tailored clothing like upscale suits. Along with basics for every man’s closet, there are more fashionable options for those who want to stand out. Even beyond its one-of-a-kind selection, what sets Jaxen Grey apart from other retailers is the experience it offers. The store provides full styling services to ensure the shopping experience is both accessible and enjoyable for everyone who visits. “For a lot of guys, shopping is just something they don’t like to do, so we create a very low pressure and fun atmosphere,” Bevis notes. “That’s what keeps people coming back. Our stylists are very knowledgeable and work hard to ensure that you leave with something you’re going to love.”

Jaxen Grey will be offering a special Father’s Day celebration on June 6 from 2 p.m. to 8 p.m. Bevis notes that Plaza Frontenac has been a natural fit for the brand. “It is a beautiful mall, and the experience of working with the people there has been wonderful,” he says. “St. Louis in general has been very welcoming, and we’re excited about the response we’ve gotten from the community. We’re looking forward to being able to bring the Jaxen Grey experience to even more St. Louisans.” &

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Men’s Health Myths

According to the CDC, women are 33% more likely to visit a doctor than men and also are significantly more likely to visit for annual examinations and preventive services. While the reason for this discrepancy is complicated and manifold, it likely can be linked to common misconceptions about men’s health. June is Men’s Health Month, so we’re busting some popular medical myths.

HIGH LEVELS OF TESTOSTERONE LEAD TO ANGER AND AGGRESSION.

Testosterone is the primary sex hormone for males—although it also plays an important role for females. It has multiple functions, including sexual development, the deepening of the voice during puberty, muscle size and strength, and bone growth and strength. Low levels of testosterone can impact puberty for adolescent boys and cause symptoms like muscle loss, low libido and mood changes in adults, but too much naturally-occurring testosterone is not a common problem among men. In fact, defining “normal” testosterone levels is difficult as they fluctuate dramatically over time and even in the span of a day.

According to Harvard Health, most of our understanding of abnormally high testosterone comes from looking at athletes who use anabolic steroids or related hormones to improve their performance. These artificially increased levels are associated with increased aggression, but there is little empirical data on the subject—“roid rage” is not a medically established diagnosis. Currently, there is no clear evidence that increased testosterone (natural or artificial) makes you angrier

JUST TOUGH OUT ANY PAIN OR EXHAUSTION EXPERIENCED WHEN EXERCISING.

Pushing through the pain is a common approach to physical activity, but your body may be trying to tell you something. Persistent pain may be an indicator of an unrealised injury. If you can maintain proper form while exercising, you are likely just experiencing normal soreness or achiness that can come with increased physical activity. However, if you must alter your form or compensate in order to do an activity, it’s a sign something is wrong, and ignoring the pain could lead to further physical damage.

Similarly, increased fatigue or shortness of breath might be a sign of a larger issue. While exercise generally increases energy and improves fatigue, lowered endurance can be a potential sign of cardiovascular disease. If you find that you are unable to exert yourself as normal, talk to your doctor about potential underlying causes.

ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION ISN’T A MAJOR HEALTH CONCERN, AND IT ONLY AFFECTS OLDER MEN.

Erectile dysfunction (ED) can be a frustrating and embarrassing issue that is often chalked up to age or a mental block. Mental health and stress can play a role, and the frequency of ED does increase with age. However, there are many causes not associated with either issue. If the problem persists for more than three months, it could be an indicator of a separate health problem.

ED can be a symptom of other underlying concerns, such as elevated blood pressure or high cholesterol. These conditions can damage your blood vessels, restricting blood flow through the body. Smoking is another factor that can damage blood vessels. Quitting may help reduce sexual performance diff iculties over time. Heart disease and diabetes also are linked to ED. It is impor tant to consult with your doctor if you experience prolonged ED. It can help rule out other health concerns that may be contributing to your symptoms.

AGE DOESN’T AFFECT MALE FERTILITY THE SAME WAY IT DOES FEMALE.

The effect of age on female fertility is well known, but recent research has offered more insight into how it can affect men as well. The age of the male partner can impact the chance of pregnancy as well as the pregnancy’s viability. Around age 40 to 45, men’s sperm quality typically decreases. This reduces the overall chance of pregnancy and increases the time to pregnancy—i.e. the number of menstrual cycles it takes to become pregnant. When the father is older, there also is an increased risk of miscarriage.

After pregnancy, there can be additional complications for the children. There is a higher likelihood of Down’s syndrome, and mental health problems, such as schizophrenia, can develop later in life. Infants with fathers over the age of 40 also are five times more likely to develop an autism spectrum disorder than those whose fathers are 30 or younger.

SNORING A LOT ISN’T AN ISSUE—EVERYONE SNORES.

It’s true that nearly everyone snores on occasion, but chronic snoring can be an indicator of serious health issues. Most commonly, it is associated with obstructive sleep apnea. The condition causes people to repeatedly stop breathing while sleeping due to the throat muscles relaxing and blocking the airway. It is often characterized by loud snoring followed by periods of silence. The pattern is repeated several times during the night, and the pauses in breathing may cause the individual to wake up. Men are two to three times more likely to suffer from sleep apnea than women.

Chronic snoring isn’t the only indicator of obstructive sleep apnea. The Mayo Clinic suggests consulting your doctor about further evaluation if your snoring is paired with other symptoms.

SYMPTOMS TO WATCH FOR:

Excessive daytime sleepiness

Difficulty concentrating

Morning headaches

Sore throat upon waking up

Restless sleep

Gasping or choking at night

SOURCES: MAYO CLINIC, HARVARD HEALTH, CENTERS OF DISEASE CONTROL AND PREVENTION

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Chest pain at night

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MAN UP YOUR ROUTINE

IN DECADES PAST, BEAUTY MAY HAVE BEEN A WOMAN’S GAME, BUT WE’RE BEYOND THE DAYS WHEN MEN WERE LOOKED DOWN ON FOR CARING ABOUT THEIR GROOMING REGIMEN. HERE ARE SOME PRODUCTS TO TAKE YOUR DAILY ROUTINE TO THE NEXT LEVEL—AND HEY, MOST OF THESE WOULD MAKE PRETTY GREAT FATHER’S DAY GIFTS!

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Originally released as a limited-time fragrance, this scent from the Brooklyn-based company was so popular it joined the full-time line. People went nuts (pun intended) over the fragrance, which along with plenty of pistachio includes notes of cardamom, roasted almond, patchouli and vanilla crème.

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This plant-based salve is your solution for dry, cracked hands. It includes soothing butters, oils and waxes, such as coconut oil, olive wax, candelilla wax, cocoa butter, peppermint oil and vitamin E. The result is a salve that isn’t greasy, sticky or shiny.

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This non-foaming cleanser is perfect for dry and sensitive skin. Key ingredients include provitamin B5, grape seed and sandalwood to leave skin feeling softened and refreshed. Thanks to the mix of soothing botanicals, it also has a natural woody and herbaceous scent.

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This styling spray offers beachy vibes for all hair types. It enhances natural curls, reduces frizz and adds volumized texture courtesy of its organic formula. Key ingredients include sea salt to absorb oil and build volume, vitamin E to promote hair growth and hydrolyzed proteins to encourage moisture retention.

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This moisturizer is designed to be a multi-tasker for all skin types. It tackles dark circles, redness, beard itch and wrinkles. The formula includes niacinamide, hyaluronic acid, squalane and ceramide. Plus, it’s gentle enough that it won an award from the National Eczema Association.

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Take some inspiration from sci-fi to transform your garden. This trend blends together innovative technology and a focus on sustainability to create futuristic landscapes. Hallmarks include elements like vertical gardens, voice-activated systems and smart planters that monitor moisture, sunlight and nutrient levels. To achieve that sci-fi aesthetic, opt for plants with bright foliage, spotted and variegated varieties and ones that bloom at night. Don’t be afraid to experiment with futuristic and modern elements in your outdoor furniture, decor and lighting.

In Garden

Just like with interior design, gardening goes through its own trend cycles. One year perfectly manicured lawns may be in vogue, but the next, colorful more chaotic garden spaces are what’s in. No matter what your personal style is, you can find exciting new ways to add life to your outdoor spaces.

Be a friend to the bees, butterflies, moths and hummingbirds. A pollinator garden is a great way to create a beautiful, colorful outdoor space that also is eco-friendly. Native Missouri plants that wildlife will love include butterfly milkweed, crested iris, golden Alexanders, Missouri primrose, prairie blazing star and purple coneflower. Lemon verbena, bee balm, bronze fennel, chamomile, or mint are options that are favored by pollinators, and you can get extra use out of them by creating your own herbal teas.

Rewilding is a term originally coined by ecologists to describe the concept of returning large tracts of land to nature. Now, it’s being applied on a smaller scale in domestic gardens. Meadow or tapestry lawns replace turf with native plants to support biodiversity. It’s a good option if you’re looking for something unfussy and informal for your garden. This trend means less maintenance, especially lawn mowing since the goal is to let a broader variety of flowering species grow.

If you take a minimalist approach to your home’s interior, why not bring it out into the garden? Opt for neutral colors and natural materials for hardscaping and furniture to achieve a simple, clean look. An understated water feature can add ornamentation as well as sound and movement to the space. Create harmony by limiting the variety of plants or including numerous types in the same color but different shades and tones. Boxwood is popular in minimalist gardens because it provides year-round color and is easily trimmed into clean shapes.

goth garden

Make Edgar Allen Poe and the Bronte sisters proud with this trend. Dark, moody landscapes are popping up everywhere on social media, thanks in part to Gen Z’s love of all things gothic. Inspired by Victorian styling, this approach embraces a dramatic, haunting look with blood red, deep purple or midnight black blooms and leaves accented by moss-covered stones or antique urns and statues. Achieve the look with plants like black mondo grass, black hollyhock, bat flowers, red sunflowers and Ghost Train irises. Hardscaping elements include stone archways, pergolas and meandering paths.

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• Phantom Retractable Screens is North America’s leading provider of retractable insect screen solutions for doors, windows, and porch applications. Large mechanized screens can be made 25’ x 16’ with more than 20 different types of mesh.

• Eze Breeze three season sliding panels are uniquely designed and custom sized to fit existing openings without expansive reframing. Open, they let in the breeze while screening out insects and debris. Closed, they provide protection from rain, snow, and wind.

• Insolroll Sun Shades filter heat and glare, offer daytime privacy and are custom sized to fit your openings.

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DESIGN SPOTLIGHT

Much of contemporary decor is defined by a modern, sleek and pared down aesthetic. While that style has its place, it can lack personality and warmth. The solution? Bohemian decor. The design style gets its name from, well, Bohemianism. A French cultural movement in the 19th century, Bohemianism is all about living a life away from social norms and conventions. How does that translate to interior design? Think unconventional decor, eclectic pieces and globally inspired items.

THE HALLMARKS OF ARTS AND CRAFTS DESIGN

The Bohemian aesthetic embraces creative and carefree decor. While there are some common elements seen in the style, often the items selected are very personal to the homeowner. Decor is often mixed and matched across a variety of textures, patterns, colors and motifs to create a comfortable and meaningful space.

◀ Layed decor pieces

◀ Rattan and wicker elements

◀ Eclectic or vintage furniture pieces

◀ Jewel tones like amethyst, sapphire, ruby and emerald

◀ Global textiles like suzani, berber, ikat and shibori

◀ Plush seating like chaise longues, daybeds and butterfly chairs as well as floor rugs and oversized pillows for floor seating

◀ Items made from organic materials or inspired by the natural world

◀ Clutter

HOW TO INTRODUCE IT IN YOUR HOME

Bohemian decor may seem bold and cluttered, but it is adaptable. A lot of Modern Boho goes for a more neutral palette and contemporary elements paired with pops of color, texture and pattern. Playing with Boho design is a great way to introduce some personality and coziness into your home.

◀ Don’t be afraid to mix and layer. Boho design is all about interesting combinations in art, textiles and accents. This can extend to mixing other design styles, such as pairing sleek Midcentury Modern pieces with more ornamented traditional items.

◀ Go bold with rich colors and bright patterns.

◀ Make a statement with a rug. Boho design often includes high pile rugs, ornate Persian styles and geometric options inspired by south western designs.

◀ Add personality to your home through personal trinkets and accents. The global inspirations of Boho decor makes it ideal for the seasoned traveler to display items they have collected, or you can show off family heirlooms.

◀ Pick items that are handmade from natural materials.

◀ Bring the outdoors through plants.

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TRENDING

MATERIALS FOR OUTDOOR FURNITURE

What's the secret to crafting an inviting outdoor haven? It's all in the materials. Here, we’ll explore three trending-to-timeless favorites in outdoor furniture materials, helping you pinpoint your outdoor living dream team of styles. Go ahead and grab your favorite drink, get comfy and let's talk about how to transform your outdoor space into the envy of the neighborhood.

What's everyone going crazy over?

First, let's touch on popularity. Lately, there's been a big buzz around teak outdoor furniture. Why? Because teak is like the cool, sophisticated friend who's always reliable, no matter the weather. It's got this timeless elegance that just exudes luxury. It's not just furniture—it's a statement.

TEAK: THE MVP OF ALL-SEASON FURNITURE

Now, if you're wondering what material takes the trophy for being the all-season champion, teak takes center stage again. It's like the furniture equivalent of a seasoned world traveler; it's seen it all and isn't fazed by a bit of sun or a splash of rain.

RATTAN: THE LATEST AND GREATEST IN OUTDOOR FURNISHINGS

The outdoor furniture scene is always evolving, and rattan outdoor furniture has been stealing the spotlight with its fresh and modern twists. Pieces offer that laid-back, beachy vibe but with an elegant twist that says, "I know how to throw a sophisticated garden party."

Preserving Your Outdoor Pieces

A little nugget of wisdom for keeping your outdoor sanctuary in tip-top shape: don't forget about the mighty power of furniture covers. Think of them as the superheroes of the furniture world, swooping in to shield your precious pieces from the elements.

Whether it's a sudden summer downpour, a barrage of autumn leaves or just the daily dose of sunshine, these covers have got your back. When you invest in some quality covers; your furniture will thank you, and your future self will give you a high-five for being so forward-thinking!

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Last but certainly not least, the fabric on your outdoor furniture is like the cherry on top. Imagine having a super comfy outdoor sofa that laughs in the face of spills and just shrugs off moisture. Sounds like a dream, right? Performance fabrics are ready to battle the elements and win.

AN EXCITING WORLD OF MATERIALS TO EXPLORE

So there you have it, friends. Whether you're drawn to the elegance of teak, the coastal charm of rattan or the invincible nature of performance fabrics, the world of luxury outdoor furniture has never offered more styles for curating the exact look and feel you want for your outdoor space.

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IMMERSE

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DEAR

HOMEWORK,

We bought a beautiful 1967 ranch home in Creve Coeur this fall. We know it has a lot of potential from the handsome brickwork and new, slate-blend roof, but we would like to upgrade the appearance. The garage (originally a carport), landscaping, shutters and brown wood siding could all use refreshing.

Sincerely, —MEANWHILE…BACK AT THE RANCH

DEAR MEANWHILE…BACK AT THE RANCH,

Let’s start with the colors. With terracotta-colored brick, my go-to color is slate green. I would use it on the roof gable, brown siding and columns. Since the windows probably need to stay white, I have kept the new front doors and garage door white to match. The shutters stay hunter green to help blend with the landscape.

For the landscape upgrade, I suggest a continuous, curving bed of a variety of grasses in different shapes and colors. An upright evergreen at the middle of the façade and a Japanese maple at the right corner add vertical accents. A row of hornbeams underplanted with an evergreen hedge ornaments the left side of the property.

Finishing details include a new custom cupola, a brick pier mailbox and some terracotta-colored plant urns at either side of the garage door … the last of a series that pulls the whole property together.

Hope that helps, HOMEWORK &

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PICTURE THIS… GRANDMILLENNIAL

THERE

IS A NEW-ISH TREND I HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING that seems to be sticking. Grandmillennial, sometimes referred to as Granny Chic, mixes very traditional elements that a millennial’s grandmother might have had in her home with a more modern aesthetic. Some key elements are floral wallpaper, ruffled and skirted furniture, antiques, embroidery, drapery and patterns repeating on multiple elements. With repurposing furniture so trendy right now, there is no doubt that it has influenced this cool, new style.

This trend from the past has made a big

repeating the same pattern from

to linens to upholstered

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Some images of this new trend are reminiscent of a chic and eclectic English cottage This sophisticated den epitomizes Granny Chic with its wallpaper, ruffles, florals and velvets Grandmillennial is fun and playful with lots of pops of color alongside vintage elements A classic example of Grandmillennial style. Even just a vintage feeling light fixture can change the tenor of a kitchen. In this modern kitchen, you can see the nod to the past in the lighting, fabric blinds and flooring. Even skirted tables, in an updated and sophisticated look, are making their return. The pop of floral wallpaper on the ceiling adds a vintage touch to this study. comeback: walls furniture. This image really depicts the modern and traditional element seamlessly combined for a stunning result. Slipcovered stools with a pleated modern ruffle, brass fixtures and copper pans add the “grand” feel in an otherwise modern kitchen. Here you can see the layering of old school patterns and ruffles, yet the result looks modern and fresh.
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19 Clayton Terrace

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Step into Frontenac history with this charming 100-year-old home blending modern comforts with eclectic French Country style. Enjoy the 1.41-acre lot in a private neighborhood. Ladue schools. The current owner blended designer updates with early 20th-century design—4,318 sq. ft. The main house offers 4 bedrooms, including a 1stfloor primary bedroom suite retreat created 4 years ago. The WOW back-outdoor space uses reclaimed barn materials and covers a dining and lounging area. The carriage house showcases a second-floor living space with an open plan, office, bedroom, bath, kitchen, and entertaining space—An oversized 3-car garage below.

Larry Levy is a licensed real estate salesperson affiliated with Compass Realty Group, a licensed real estate broker and abides by Equal Housing Opportunity laws. All material presented herein is intended for informational purposes only. Information is compiled from sources deemed reliable but is subject to errors, omissions, changes in price, condition, sale, or withdrawal without notice. This is not intended to solicit property already listed. Photos may be virtually staged or digitally enhanced and may not reflect actual property conditions. Larry Levy SRES, PSA, REALTOR® M: 314.520.5668 | O: 314.347.1658 larry.levy@compass.com 1608 S. Lindbergh Blvd. Ladue, MO 63131

LET’S BE HONEST,

menswear gets the short end of the fashion stick. It’s the same old suit when heading into the office, and the weekend means grabbing a pair of jeans and a T-shirt.While it may seem inevitable to fall into a style rut, there are simple ways you can craft outfits that stand out and stay on trend while remaining wearable.

1. DOUBLE TROUBLE

The double breasted suit is back in a big way. While it may be a style associated with the 1980s (or even ’40s—fashion truly is a cycle), the boxy silhouette has been popping up on red carpets throughout 2024.

REGULAR FIT DOUBLE-BREASTED JACKET, $119 FROM H&M AT WEST COUNTY CENTER

2. CROCHET? OK!

Grandma fashion is in, and crochet in particular is having a moment in menswear. It’s ideal for summer or hitting the beach since it can be airy and lightweight while still being layerable. Plus, it taps into another trend: textured, loose-weave (or ‘holey’) tops.

WOODBIRD WBBANKS GRAN SHIRT LIGHT BLUE, $145 FROM JAZEN GREY AT PLAZA FRONTENAC

3. VEST IN SHOW

Sleeves, who needs ‘em? For spring and summer, vests of all shapes and sizes are on trend—from the classic white tank top to formal wear to knits. And it’s not difficult to see why. Vests are versatile. You can dress them up or down, layer them or just wear them on their own.

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4. YEE HAW!

If Beyoncé’s gone country, the rest of the world can’t be far behind—and that includes menswear. This year, you can expect to see a lot of boots, studded belts, flared jeans and western-inspired shirts—everything you need to spend the summer at the saloon.

KARDO LAMAR SHORT SLEEVE JACQUARD SHIRT GREEN, $175 FROM JAXEN GREY AT PLAZA FRONTENAC

5. TAKE A HIKE

This summer, ditch your bulky sneakers and grab a pair of hiking shoes. Offering a sleeker look, they promise performance and comfort in a stylish and versatile package.

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ZOO BREW

Urban Chestnut Brewing Company (UCBC) has released the new STL Zoo Bier for 2024: Lemur Light Lager. The brew celebrates the endangered ring-tailed lemur, a native species of southwestern Madagascar. The Saint Louis Zoo is home to three ring-tailed lemurs. Since 2019, proceeds from the STL Zoo Bier have gone to support animal welfare conservation. “As an animal lover and life-long advocate of the St. Louis region, this partnership means a lot to me and to the team at UCBC as well,” co-founder David Wolfe says. “The Saint Louis Zoo is such a significant organization, both locally and globally, and we’re thrilled to continue this partnership, especially at this point in time when it’s more important than ever to support our community.” &

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6429 San Bonita Avenue

4 BD 2.5 BA 3,592 SF $975,000

Schedule your showing beginning June 13th!

Welcome to your new home nestled in the heart of the desirable DeMun neighborhood! This spacious residence boasts an unbeatable location backing to the serene greenery of Concordia Seminary Park, offering a tranquil retreat right in your backyard.

Families will appreciate the convenience of an easy stroll, bike ride, or quick drive to Ralph M. Captain Elementary School, renowned for its Blue Ribbon status. And with charming Clementines and a plethora of shops and restaurants just moments away, every day brings new opportunities for culinary delights and retail therapy.

This unique property is a converted duplex, providing over 3,500 square feet of thoughtfully designed living space, perfect for accommodating your lifestyle needs. Don’t miss out on the chance to call this remarkable residence your own and enjoy the best of both worlds: the tranquility of nature and the vibrancy of urban living.

Sabrina Robb Partners is a team of real estate agents affiliated with Compass Realty Group, a licensed real estate broker, and abides by Equal Housing Opportunity laws. All material presented herein is intended for informational purposes only. Information is compiled from sources deemed reliable but is subject to errors, omissions, changes in price, condition, sale, or withdrawal without notice. This is not intended to solicit property already listed. Photos may be virtually staged or digitally enhanced and may not reflect actual property conditions. The Compass telephone number is 314.347.1658. Sabrina Robb Partners is a team of real estate agents affiliated with Compass Realty Group, a licensed real estate broker, and abides by Equal Housing Opportunity laws. The Compass telephone number is 314.347.1658 Sabrina Robb Sabrina.Robb@compass.com robbpartners.com M 314.283.7590

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