Town & Style 9.20.23

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by stephanie wallace

st. louis shakespeare festival

Earlier this month, the cultural organization celebrated 10 years of Shakespeare in the Streets. The 10th production was The Game’s Afoot, a new play from Benjamin Hochman adapted from Shakespeare’s Henriad and inspired by true soccer stories.

metro theater company

After 10 years, Julia Flood will retire from her role as the theater company’s artistic director. Under her leadership, Metro Theater Company produced 34 productions and offered arts-based residencies in numerous schools and school districts across the St. Louis region.

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associate editor JULIA M. JOHNSON

CONTRIBUTORS

talk of the towns BILL BEGGS JR.

the velvet hammer JOAN BERKMAN

get ignited BETH CHESTERTON

off the cuff MIKE CLAIBORNE

patty unleashed PATTY HANNUM

DR. TIM JORDAN

my messy mom life KATELYN MEYER

CREATIVE

creative director

JULIE M. STREILER

graphic designer

CYDNEY MOORE

PHOTOGRAPHY

photographer COLIN MILLER

photographer TIM PARKER

photographer SUZY GORMAN

photographer BILL BARRETT

SALES

sr. account exec WENDY JABLONOW

sr. account exec JANIE SUMNER

ADMINISTRATIVE

office manager KATHY COWHEY

nine pbs

The network has launched a new season of Teaching Room 9 with a new host, Albert J. Sanders Jr., Ed.D. Sanders brings a wealth of experience in early childhood education to the role of guiding young learners through their school-readiness journey.

university city public library

The library will host the Square Quilters’ exhibition

Quintessential Quilt

2023 Oct. 1-28. The display showcases more than 50 quilts, both traditional and contemporary, created by local quilters.

LAURA K. SAWYIER

fashion editor

CHRISSIE WOJCIECHOWSKI

COVER STORY

EDUCATION IS KEY

ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS

by stephanie wallace

DURING ITS LAST FISCAL YEAR, the Assistance League of St. Louis and its nearly 500 members logged 63,200 volunteer hours, serving more than 21,000 St. Louisans. Those numbers represent a strong commitment to transforming lives. For more than 35 years, the nonprofit has used its community programs to make a tangible impact on the region. One of the largest chapters in the national Assistance League organization, the nonprofit is operated entirely by volunteers, and it’s evident the league’s members are dedicated.

The Assistance League has five community programs. “We believe that education is the key to breaking the cycle of poverty, so all of our programs are connected to it,” president Denise McKibben says. One of the nonprofit’s major initiatives is Books From Friends. Last year, the literacy program provided books to more than 14,200 aspiring young readers in 36 schools. “The American Academy of Pediatrics says exposure to books and reading goes far in assisting children toward success in the future,” McKibben notes. “Through Books From Friends, we want to inspire kids to learn and love to read, not just read to learn.”

The primary way Books From Friends inspires literacy is through book festivals at local schools. Last year, the Assistance League held 11 events, including those organized in partnership with Gwendolyn Diggs, Ed.D., vice president of the Urban League of Metropolitan St. Louis’ Head Start program. The festivals begin with a character parade where volunteers dress as popular characters like Pete the Cat and Clifford the Big Red Dog. “It’s incredible to see the kids light up when they see these characters,” McKibben notes. “They’ve read the books, so it creates a connection.” After the parade, students get to enjoy a puppet show inspired by Why Not You? by Ciara and Russell Wilson, listen to stories and choose two books to take home. At some festivals, older students get to meet with local author Micheal Anderson, who helps inspire the exploration of STEM topics and related careers.

The Assistance League’s other programming includes Operation School Bell, which provides students with new school uniforms, winter coats, hygiene kits and more. It also operates AL’s Closets in 36 schools to help meet students’ basic needs. Steps to Success provides new athletic shoes to more than 3,400 students. To help survivors of domestic abuse, Project ROSE provides essential items to women in shelters and scholarships to St. Louis Community College. The Assistance League also operates an outreach program to support the urgent needs of families in crisis.

To make its important services possible, the Assistance League operates an upscale resale shop in Creve Coeur called Fantastic Finds. One of the nonprofit’s other largest fundraisers is its annual Imagine! gala. This year’s event will be Nov. 11 at Doubletree by Hilton-Chesterfield and is themed Rhinestone Cowboy. McKibben notes that guests can look forward to an amazing evening, including a live auction lead by emcee Rene Knott with items like a cooking class at Frank Papa’s, visits to luxurious vacation homes and tickets to Cardinals and Blues games. “Not only is Imagine! our primary fundraiser, it’s always a lot of fun,” she says. “This year, we’re offering people a glittering cowboy and cowgirl experience while they step up and support our programs.” &

Sustainable

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ASSISTANCE LEAGUE VOLUNTEERS GIVE AWAY BOOKS AT THE URBAN EXPO BACK TO SCHOOL & COMMUNITY EMPOWERMENT FESTIVAL

PHOTO COURTESY OF ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS

OF THE TOWNS talk

by bill beggs jr.

st. louis

Folks in the Lou have perfected the ‘rolling stop.’ Drivers here, when approaching a stop sign, look both ways at an intersection, only because it was ingrained in them as soon as they learned to walk. But this is where fuzzy thinking commands StL motorists. Rolling stoppers, before they approach an intersection, lightly tap the brake pedal just to make sure it’s still there for when they really need it, like when they come upon snarled traffic. And stopping. And starting again. Note that we haven’t said anything about the law until right now: Stop signs are there for a driver to come to a complete stop before proceeding. Otherwise, they’re scofflaws, like the people in the

the gateway arch

Little Amal, the puppet modeled after a 10-year-old Syrian refugee girl, is not so little. She’s 12 feet tall—two feet above a basketball hoop. And how she’s going to carry her message 6,000 miles from Boston to the U.S.-Mexico border at San Diego on Nov. 5 is a tall order: She embarked Sept. 7 on a tour of 35 cities with her puppeteers, her goal to visit key places in American history to raise awareness about immigration, migration and social justice. Among these significant spots are Boston Common and the Edmund Pettus Bridge. Slated to arrive in the metro on Oct. 1 for a vibrant event at the Gateway Arch, Little Amal is a symbol of unity and hope for refugees and immigrants and honors cities like our own Gateway City that continue to welcome them with open arms. The event is scheduled for that Sunday afternoon, 12:30 to 1:30 pm. at River Overlook Stage, directly across from the grand staircase below the Arch. Twice the height of practically anyone except an NBA star, she’ll be hard to miss in the throng slated to come sing, dance and celebrate with her. Handspring Puppet Co. of South Africa designed and built Amal, as well as the puppets for the show War Horse. Amal was inspired by a character in Joe Murphy and Joe Robertson’s play The Jungle, about a refugee camp in Calais, France. During her trek, Amal will join 1,500-plus artists at more than 100 artistic events. Ours promises to be awe-inspiring. Philip A. Woodmore, COCA’s artistic director of voice, as well as the worship and arts leader of New Sunny Mount Missionary Baptist Church, has spent months collaborating with a local and national team that includes the International Institute and the St. Louis Mosaic Project to create the dynamic event at the Arch. Performers include the STL Little Amal Mass Choir, an intergenerational group Woodmore established. This special choir will welcome Little Amal to the stage, then send her on her way as she continues her cross-country journey.

richmond heights

far-left lane driving their bright, new, freshly washed Tesla or dented Toyota van west on U.S. 40 (OK; I-64) at 80 MPH where the speed limit is 60, maybe 65 outside the metro. Ninety-five percent of these heathens won’t get a ticket, or just don’t care, even if they’re texting or talking on the cellphone behind the wheel. Talking on the cellphone is distracting enough, but drivers usually stay in their lane unless the person on the other end has some really juicy gossip. Texting while driving is really dangerous, and it became illegal in Missouri on Aug. 28. But our dear Show-Me State, the 49th to adopt such a law, is letting us down easy. Cops cannot issue tickets until January 2025, only written warnings, unless the driver is breaking another traffic law, like rolling through—check that, running—a stop sign. Rolling or running… what’s the diff? Only someone wearing a badge or holding a Ph.D. in physics could tell you.

Cate loves Soft Surroundings. I do, too. She’s bought some great outfits there, many online recently, but they’re mostly finds from the Boulevard, the shopping center off Brentwood Boulevard across from St. Louis Galleria. The majority of my bride’s ‘drapes’ are still stylish enough to be plenty hip today. Anyway, she got a really nice gift certificate from her sister for Christmas, but has yet to use it. Time is running out for Cate and her cohort because another unique shop is about to bite the dust: Soft Surroundings plans to sell its direct-to-consumer assets—women’s clothing, beauty products, gifts and home decor—to another retailer as part of a reorganization under Chapter 11. And this is all since 2017, when the company announced ambitious expansion plans—that was before the pandemic, when … oh, you know. Anyhow, if approved, the bankruptcy plan calls for shuttering the approximately 80 remaining locations of Cate’s almost-favorite store. I liked it, too, and not just because there are comfortable seating areas for men as physically ‘mature’ as I am. But we’d better get down there with the gift certificate right quick, so I can relax while Cate rolls her eyes at the clothing selections. Or maybe we’ll find a nice gift for her sister.

LAST ISSUE’S Q & A

IS TALKING ON A CELLPHONE WHILE DRIVING ILLEGAL IN MISSOURI?

The U.S. population growth spurt that followed World War II—the so-called Baby Boom—lasted how long, starting and ending in what years?

The U.S. Census Bureau defines Baby Boomers as people born between mid-1946 and mid-1964. Why 1946? World War II ended the previous summer, and those who survived the carnage must have been pretty frisky because nine months later... I know, right? Then, why did it wind down in 1964? OK, Boomer. Birth-control pills were in widespread use by then.

BILL BEGGS JR. HAS WORN MANY HATS AT NEWSPAPERS, MAGAZINES AND IN MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS SINCE BEFORE THE ERA OF THE FLOPPY DISC. NOW HE JUST WEARS A HAT TO KEEP HIS BALD SPOT FROM GETTING SUNBURNT. YOU CAN REACH HIM AT WRTRS.BLCK@GMAIL.COM

Scissors in hand, Chris Lee deftly snips a little here and more there, putting the finishing touches on Oliver’s bushy face. Lee’s been cutting this senior citizen’s hair for 15 years. Check that. Oliver (pictured with Lee) has been coming to A Walk in the Park, a dog-grooming salon at 5210 Chippewa (63109) just west of Kingshighway, since the business was established in Tower Grove East. Oliver is a ‘Pomapoo,’ Lee explains. That, for those unschooled in designer dogs, is a Pomeranian bred with a toy poodle. There are plenty of spaces designed to make such ‘special needs’ canines absolutely gorgeous. “We have seven grooming stations and six bathing stations,” he notes. It’s not always just another day at the beach Tuesdays through Saturdays because fur is flying nonstop. At pickup, every client sports a seasonal bandana and smells heavenly. Lee and partner Mark Langevin opened the salon in 2008, so Oliver was among the first dogs Chris styled there. Meanwhile, Langevin keeps the books. He’d need the finances just so, as they opened a second salon in 2010 in the CWE—the salon’s name is apt, as Forest Park was as easy a walk with a freshly coiffed canine as was Tower Grove Park from the flagship location. Lee and Langevin merged both salons into the two-story Chippewa building, which also offers daycare and boarding. The first two years of the 2020s were tough on everybody, what with masks and social distancing, but 2022 and this year have been a comparative gold rush, Lee says. More than 23 million U.S. households—nearly one in five—adopted a pet during

the pandemic, according to the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA). This baby boom of barkers means plenty of ’poos and oodles of ’doodles, which some owners drop off thoroughly matted and tangled, having not thought much to brush them between appointments. “Many are troubled dogs who just need extra care,” says Lee, who’s been grooming for 41 years. He’s a graduate of Mesquite High School in Dallas, and your dog won’t be his first, or his thousandth, rodeo. “We’re always trying to do what you see in your head,” he says. To make it less scary than the veterinarian, the salon is filled wall-to-wall, floor-to-ceiling, with greenery. And, if you’ll pardon the dogawful pun, Lee and his 15 employees are a cut above. “We take dogs that other salons turn out,” he says. One such delinquent is your correspondent’s mutt, The Dude (pictured after a grooming at Christmastime). A high-strung, ‘Heinz-57’ variety rescue, he was handled by three other StL groomers only once or twice, all then refusing him altogether or insisting on sedation. Lee, who’d studied to be a vet until as an apprentice so many unnecessary surgeries turned him off, isn’t sure that ‘doggie downers’ are a panacea: They could distort a dog’s vision such that hand movements are perceived as a threat. And DNA testing? He rolls his eyes. It’s a racket, he says, just not in so many words. “No dog likes to be groomed,” he notes, but pooches such as Oliver grow attached and at least tolerate their time being woman- and manhandled: “They come in and crawl in my lap.” Visit awalkintheparkgrooming.com. &

Chris Lee

tell your story

You can share your story with StoryCorps, the national nonprofit dedicated to recording, preserving and sharing the stories of people from all backgrounds. The organization’s Airstream will be at St. Louis Public Radio’s headquarters through Oct. 20. Both virtual and in-person reservations can be made by calling 1.800.850.4406 or visiting storycorps.org.

THE INSIDER

a visit to the fair

Missouri author Steve Wiegenstein is transporting readers back to the 1904 St. Louis World’s Fair in the latest installment of his Daybreak series, Land of Joys. In the novel, the sleepy Ozarks village of Daybreak is turned into an exhibit at the fair, only to get caught up in the exoticism, greed and danger that surround it.

screen screams

on stage

Don’t miss Saint Louis Ballet’s season opener Oct. 6-8!

Giselle transports the audience to a magical world where spectral maidens, a vengeful queen and a peasant girl embody heartbreaking loss and triumphant forgiveness. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT STLOUISBALLET.ORG.

PATTY

by patty hannum

TODAY’S COLUMN IS NOT GOING TO make you chuckle, but maybe it will inspire you to face medical maladies head on. This summer alone, I have been scanned, scoped and surveyed to make sure that I am healthy. I’m just at that age where I must pay attention to my body. All these tests turned out fine, but that’s not the case for many people who are given a cancer diagnosis that forever changes their life. I want to tell you about a family and their battle with the disease for two reasons. First, because there is hope. Cancer research and funding continues to grow, and we are blessed in St. Louis to have one of the best cancer centers around. And second, because I want you to stop putting off that needed scope or scan because it is inconvenient.

I met my friend Kira Andersen when she was pregnant with her first child. She was a spin instructor, and for one of my many articles for this publication, I did a feature on fitness. The workout was tough, but as we all know, I hate to sweat and

Celebrate spooky season with the Haunted Garage Horror Festival at the Hi-Pointe Theatre Oct. 5-7. As well as screenings of micro-shorts, shorts and features from local and national filmmakers, the events will include “Dead Talks” from horror experts. LEARN MORE AT HAUNTEDGARAGEHORRORFEST.COM.

Pedal the Cause is almost here, and 15 local restaurants, cafes, breweries and more will be onsite Sept. 23 and 24 to help fuel riders and guests at the event. Participants include Hi-Pointe Drive-In, Napoli Restaurants, Niche Food Group, Nudo House, Peacemaker Lobster & Crab, Seoul Taco, Companion Bakery, Herbie’s, Ices Plain & Fancy, 4 Hands Brewing Co., Kaldi’s Coffee and Fitz’s Root Beer.

do any sort of physical activity other than change the channel on the TV. My fingers are in excellent shape, I might add. Kira and I kept in touch as she had two more children and a very full life as health and wellness coach. I was sad to hear that Kira’s husband, Kyle, was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer about two years ago. Pancreatic cancer is a silent cancer. By the time you have symptoms, the disease has most likely spread to other major organs, which was the case with Kyle. But neither Kira or Kyle let fate chart their course. Instead, they got involved. Kyle was enrolled in a clinical trial conducted by Dr. Kian Lim. Funding, $3 million to be exact, was needed for the trial to move forward so Kira used her sales skills expertise to ask people to donate. She was relentless in her efforts to make sure that just not Kyle, who had gotten a compassionate use exception by the FDA, but other people who needed to be part of the research had a chance. They wrote letters and made phone calls asking

people for donations. The Andersens were the little engine that could, raising more than $600,000.

Sadly, after a long fight, cancer took Kyle in April, but that did not stop Kira from her quest to raise awareness and money for cancer research. As a health and wellness coach, she knows the food we eat and the amount of exercise we do are all important factors to living a healthy life. She also knows paying attention to your own body helps you know when something is not quite right.

Kira continues the fight and is determined to reach that $3 million goal for Dr. Lim’s research. She has drafted friends and family to be part of Pedal the Cause held this weekend. If you want to donate, visit mypedalthecause.org and search for Kira Andersen. Her rider I.D. is #210202. If not, consider giving Kira a follow on Instagram @theessentialsbyKira. Just reading her daily posts will make you a little bit healthier, and that’s what I want, healthy and happy readers. Funny returns next time. Peace my peeps. &

by dr. tim jordan

PARENTING 2.0: BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND

IT’S EASY TO GET OFF COURSE with our parenting today due to so many distractions and a cultural imperative of being outer directed. Many families find themselves spending inordinate amounts of time rushing their kids from one enrichment activity or sports tournament game to the next. Parents complain to anyone who will listen about how exhausting their schedules have become. And guess what? You’ve got no one to blame but yourself.

There are two main fears I see driving parents today. First, dads and moms worry little junior is going to fall behind their peers who are enrolled in professional coaching sessions and enrichment programs. It becomes a slippery slope to join in on the race to nowhere, trying to keep up not with the Joneses but with the Joneses’ children. The second fear involves parents feeling anxious about how to prepare their children for a future that is so different from their own experience in an ever-changing world. So, it’s easy to fall into the trap of micromanaging and overscheduling. So, what’s a parent to do?

You can start by creating what Stephen Covey described in his bestselling book, The7HabitsofHighlyEffectivePeople, as “beginning with the end in mind.” My wife and I during some of our parenting workshops have the audience visualize their children all grown up and make a list of the qualities they hope their adult children live out. I’ve made these lists with parents in 17 countries, and it’s always very similar no matter where we are. The list contains qualities like honest, kind, brave, generous, close with their family, successful, spiritual and high integrity. What we have never seen on these lists is things like straight A’s, winning national championships at age 10 or being accepted into an Ivy League college. Yet, where does much of our focus go day by day?

I encourage parents, and if their kids are old enough, the whole family, to create their own, unique end in mind of what is important to them, what they value and how they want the family to feel and function. It’s critical to get input from everyone in the family because no involvement usually results in no commitment. From then on, you make decisions together based on whether or not it is in alignment with your values. In this way, you avoid being guided by the emotions of the moment, what others are doing, other’s judgments, pleasing or not disappointing others, or forgetting to focus on the long-term growth you want to develop in your children. When our then 13-year-old son wanted to add spring hockey to his schedule, we said no because he was already committed to playing baseball and the family had decided at a family meeting on only one sport per season. Making these agreements ahead of time allows you to organize and execute around your thought-thorough priorities, regardless of the Joneses’ children. Take the time up front to develop your end in mind for parenting your children. Most companies take the time to create mission statements to align everyone with the company’s goals and vision. I encourage you to do the same for your family. &

TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO COUNSELS GIRLS AGED GRADE SCHOOL THRU COLLEGE. LISTEN TO HIS WEEKLY PODCAST, RAISING DAUGHTERS, TO GAIN INFORMATION ON RAISING STRONG, RESILIENT GIRLS. FOR MORE INFO ON DR. JORDAN’S RETREATS, SUMMER CAMPS AND BOOKS VISIT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

HEADS OF SCHOOL

Jarrett Young CITY ACADEMY

Jarrett Young holds a B.A. from Bowdoin College and an M.Ed. from Harvard University. He joined City Academy in 2022 after serving as middle school director at Whitfield School for five years. A St. Louis native, he grew up near City Academy, attending MICDS for middle and high school.

4175 N. KINGSHIGHWAY BLVD. 314.382.0085 CITYACADEMYSTL.ORG

Bob Cooke

COMMUNITY SCHOOL

Bob Cooke, now in his ninth year at Community School, is committed to fostering the intellectual, emotional and creative growth of students. Bob has more than 35 years of combined experience as a teacher and administrator, and he believes the elementary years set the foundation for a lifelong love of learning.

900 LAY ROAD 314.991.0005 COMMUNITYSCHOOL.COM

Lou Reuss EYC ACADEMY

Lou Reuss is a founding member of EYC Academy and was named head of school in 2018. His motivation for helping non-traditional learners is personal. Providing a truly individualized education is his mission and stems from his belief that when students have control over their education, they will rise to their highest level of capability.

13718 OLIVE BLVD.

636.220.3344

EYCACADEMYSTL.ORG

Rob Butler FORSYTH SCHOOL

Rob Butler joined Forsyth as head of school in 2021 after serving as the assistant head at University Liggett School in Michigan. He holds a master’s degree from Oklahoma State University and a bachelor’s degree from Northeastern State University. Rob joined the Independent Schools of St. Louis (ISSL) Board of Trustees in 2023.

6235 WYDOWN BLVD. 314.726.4542

FORSYTHSCHOOL.ORG

Andy Abbot

JOHN BURROUGHS SCHOOL

Andy Abbott, now in his 23rd year at JBS and his 15th as head of school, is committed to Burroughs’ founding principle: a strong liberal arts and STEM education that encourages a life of service and concern for the environment. Recognized for his leadership surrounding issues of diversity, equity, inclusivity and engagement, he promotes an atmosphere of understanding, trust, respect and accomplishment.

755 S. PRICE ROAD

314.993.4040

JBURROUGHS.ORG

Alexis Wright NEW CITY SCHOOL

Alexis Wright has been the head of New City School since 2016. Alexis is a nationally recognized leader in the areas of elementary education and diversity with 28 years of experience in independent schools. He also is one of this year’s recipients of the prestigious Heads of School Fellowship at Columbia University’s Teachers College.

5209 WATERMAN BLVD.

314.361.6411

NEWCITYSCHOOL.ORG

Elizabeth Zurlinden

ROSSMAN SCHOOL

Known to students as “Mrs. Z,” Elizabeth feels blessed to have a career devoted to encouraging and supporting children while guiding them to discover a world waiting for their imprint. Elizabeth holds an M.A.T in elementary education from Webster University and an M.Ed. in Independent School Leadership from Vanderbilt University.

12660 CONWAY ROAD

314.434.5877

ROSSMANSCHOOL.ORG

Chris Cunningham, Ph.D.

WHITFIELD SCHOOL

With more than 25 years of experience in independent schools, Chris joined Whitfield in 2022. As head of school, he affirms Whitfield’s commitment to 21st-century education—to teaching for depth rather than breadth, to caring for students’ social and emotional well-being, and to aligning academic rigor and strength of character.

175 S. MASON ROAD

314.434.5141

WHITFIELDSCHOOL.ORG

Thad Falkner THE WILSON SCHOOL

Appointed to lead The Wilson School in 2006, Thad Falkner is one of the most experienced heads of school in St. Louis. Thad believes Wilson’s motto, Make Your Mark A Good One, influences the school’s culture and motivates students to do their best, for themselves as well as for others.

400 DE MUN AVE.

314.725.4999

WILSONSCHOOL.COM

Open House

▲ kirkwood school district

Staff members in the district have received two $500 grants from the Missouri Retired Teachers Association Foundation (MRTF) to support community initiatives. Patty Goeke, science teacher at Nipher Middle School, will use the funds to purchase hydroponic gardening supplies. Tashia Nelson, the technology specialist at Kirkwood High School, will use her grant to train the school’s therapy dog, Pioneer Penny. The two grants awarded to Kirkwood Schools were part of 126 teacher grants and 28 PEERS grants awarded across the state by MRTF this year.

HEARD IN HALLS

by stephanie wallace

THE▶ micds ◀

Senoir Zoe Zlatic earned a flight on NASA’s Zero-G plane to run an experiment she designed. She was selected while attending a summer internship with the STEM Enhancement in Earth Science (SEES), a joint program between NASA and the University of Texas at Austin Center for Space Research. Her project is Testing Procter & Gamble’s Water Purification Powder in Micro and Artificial Gravity. Over the next few months, Zlatic will work with a team of engineers, scientists, administrators and teachers to design a centrifugal experiment, write test procedures and select instrumentation to capture results—all in preparation for her flights out of Fort Lauderdale in late November.

ladue horton watkins high school

Congrats to the school’s Science Bowl Team! Last spring, they finished among the top 16 teams at the National Science Bowl in Washington D.C. The event brought together more than 60 teams from around the nation to solve technical problems and answer questions on a range of science disciplines including biology, chemistry, Earth and space sciences, physics and math. The Ladue Horton Watkins team also won two team challenges at the competition.

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The school’s library was named one of nine libraries in the state to receive the Exemplary Library Program award from the Department of Elementary and Secondary Education (DESE). The award highlights the library program for its commitment, collaboration and engagement with its students and staff in several areas of literacy. To earn this recognition, libraries must demonstrate excellence in five main categories: instruction, leadership, library environment, library management and staffing. Parkway South’s library is led by library media specialists Dawn Murray and Katie Pendleton.

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Seventh grader Nathan Chien received three first place awards and one runner-up placement in the youth category in the American Iris Society (AIS) Photography Competition. His family has grown, shown and photographed irises since 2015. He and his brother have numerous blue ribbons and best youth entries at the Missouri Botanical Garden for horticulture and design entries. They also established a Classroom Iris Program at Chesterfield Montessori School through the American Iris Society. This was Chien’s first time entering the AIS Photography Competition.

STANDOUT SENIORS

SPECIAL SECTION

A PERFECT FIT

THE GATESWORTH

by stephanie wallace

AS WE AGE, SECURITY AND COMFORT become even more important than they were earlier in life. It’s much easier to enjoy your later years when you know all of your needs are anticipated and help is never more than a few steps away. For Barbara Field, the combination of ease and confidence is one of the main reasons she decided to move to The Gatesworth. For 35 years, the senior living community has been dedicated to offering residents innovative services and a variety of amenities to ensure they remain active, happy and comfortable.

Having lived in St. Louis and worked for AT&T, Field moved to Hilton Head, South Carolina, following the death of her husband. “I enjoyed all of the benefits of island life—beach, golf, tennis and bridge,” she notes. “Due to health issues, I returned to St. Louis.” The move brought her closer to her daughter, another AT&T alum who lives in Kirkwood. Field initially moved into a condominium in Webster Groves, but looking to recapture the active social life she enjoyed in Hilton Head, she moved to The Gatesworth three months ago.

When looking for a senior living community, Field took many factors into consideration to ensure she could find the perfect fit. She also consulted with her daughter and friends when making the decision. “We get together frequently, so I wanted to be in close proximity to them,” Field explains.

“I visited several communities, and The Gatesworth was simply the best. Home decor is important to me, and the community’s apartments and grounds are truly beautiful. My new home suits me perfectly.”

The Gatesworth brought Field the engagement she was looking for with a wide variety of programming, such as live music performances, day trips, exercise courses and seasonal parties. “I’m never bored,” she says. “Between the live entertainment and bridge groups, there’s always something to do.” She also enjoys taking full advantage of the convenience the senior living community offers that living in a condo did not provide, such as room service and grocery delivery. “Having my travel bags taken to and from my apartment to my car is an absolute delight,” she adds. “I also enjoy having a choice of restaurants on site—the food is all outstanding.”

The wide variety of ways residents are kept engaged is just an extension of The Gateworth’s dedication to service. “The staff is unsurpassed,” Field says. “Everyone is very accommodating and friendly.” It’s that kind of personal engagement that has truly set life at The Gatesworth apart for her. The community has given her the active social life she wanted—making new friends and having old ones visit. “I made the right decision moving to The Gatesworth,” she notes. “I’m secure, treated well and have support when needed. It’s home.” &

LOCATED AT ONE McKNIGHT PLACE, THE GATESWORTH OFFERS RESIDENTS A WIDE VARIETY OF INNOVATIVE SERVICES AND AMENITIES

SO THEY CAN LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST. PICTURED ON THE COVER: RESIDENT BARBARA FIELD. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.993.0111 OR VISIT THEGATESWORTH.COM.

COVER DESIGN COURTESY OF THE GATESWORTH

COVER PHOTO BY ROB WESTRICH PHOTOGRAPHY

Discover Senior Living Your Way

The Gatesworth provides the perfect canvas to enjoy life your way. Living in an exquisitely appointed apartment surrounded by beautiful, lush grounds, you’ll feel inspired to pursue new interests, expand your knowledge, build friendships and embrace your independence.

We invite you to discover The Gatesworth and experience exceptional senior living today. Call 314-993-0111.

WHAT DOES THE GATESWORTH MEAN TO YOU? opportunity

If you are always open to meeting new people, exchanging ideas and sharing enthusiasm – if you keep your eyes, ears and minds open, this can be the best time of your life.

— JOHN LESSER

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PHOTO: ROB WESTRICH PHOTOGRAPHY

RESIDENT BARBARA FIELD

STANDOUT

FAll Fun for FAll

by stephanie wallace

Whether you’re exploring the wonders of nature, enjoying local festivals or rocking out at a concert, fall is a season that has something for everyone, especially for St. Louis seniors. The Lou and surrounding areas offer plenty of opportunities to enjoy autumn.

ANCHORS AWAY

“Senior prom” has a whole new meaning in St. Charles this autumn. The Anchors Away Affair is a dance party for people 55 and older. The event is Oct. 1 at the Foundry Art Centre, and the evening includes hors d’oeuvres and the music of Captain Bulkhead and the Portholes, who play classic yacht rock tunes. To purchase tickets and learn more, visit stcharlescitymo.gov.

DAY TRIPPER

Mix things up this fall with a day trip. Heading out of the metro you can find a wide spectrum of autumnal adventures. In Kimmswick, Missouri, on Oct. 28 and 29, the Apple Butter Festival invites guests to take in the small town charm, while exploring more than 500 food, drink and craft vendors and enjoying live entertainment. Bring the grandchildren along for the miniature train, petting zoo and pony rides. Make sure to visit Eureka, Missouri, throughout October for the Eureka Scarecrow Festival, which features artfully designed scarecrows posed in front of businesses, churches, schools and private homes. Across the river in Belleville, Illinois, Eckert’s Farm is hosting Ecktoberfest weekends throughout October. Guests can look forward to wagon rides, live entertainment, festival foods, children’s activities, German music and more.

GOOD BREWS

They say St. Louis is a beer city, and there is no doubt that fall is a beer season. You’ll find lots of great events celebrating brews, both local and international. The last weekend in September brings the St. Charles Oktoberfest, and early October offers other options to celebrate the German folk festival in Soulard and at Urban Chestnut Brewery in The Grove. The St. Louis Beer Festival is Oct. 21 at the Saint Louis Science Center, Brew in the Lou is Oct. 14 in Francis Park, and Fest-of-Ale is Oct. 20 at Missouri Botanical Gardens.

ROCK ON

Don’t miss out on the great concerts coming to the StL next month! Classic rock is on the docket at several venues around town. KISS and Aersosmith are set to rock with the Enterprise Center on Oct. 25 and 26 respectively. At Stifel Theatre, legendary singer-songwriter Bob Dylan will perform on Oct. 4, and fans of more contemporary alternative rock may want to check out Wilco Oct. 26. Out in Chesterfield, The Factory will host Three Dog Night on Oct. 8, Little River Band on Oct. 21 and YES on Oct. 23. Check each venue’s website for more exciting upcoming events.

COLORS OF AUTUMN

One of the highlights of the season is, of course, the changing of the leaves. While you can’t go wrong with planning a visit to Forest Park or even a drive outside of the city, you can make your fall color viewing experience something extra special this year. One of the best places for viewing is along rivers, so a boat ride is the perfect opportunity to take in the seasonal ambience, so book a river cruise with Riverboats at the Gateway Arch. You also can head to Grafton in Illinois to visit the Grafton SkyTour, which offers aerial views of the autumn foliage at the confluence of the Mississippi and Illinois rivers Check out the Missouri Department of Conservation for resources and tips to determine the best time to view fall color at its peak. &

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HealthFlash

by stephanie

DIABETES & MEN’S HEALTH

A study from Saint Louis University has found that erectile dysfunction (ED) in men under the age of 40 may be an indicator for undiagnosed prediabetes and type 2 diabetes. Looking at the electronic health records of 1,915,468 patients, researchers found there was 34% increased risk for prediabetes or type 2 diabetes in ED patients, and 75% developed prediabetes or type 2 diabetes within a year of ED diagnosis. “This indicates a remarkable ability to predict the potential onset of illness and treat it early with lifestyle or medication,” says Dr. Jane Tucker, associate professor of family and community medicine. These findings are important as an estimated 2.5% of the population has persistent undiagnosed diabetes, accounting for 8.5 million adults.

FASTER COVID-19 TESTING

Scientists at Washington University School of Medicine have developed a new breath test to identify COVID-19 infection in less than a minute. The test has the potential to offer quick diagnoses at doctors’ offices or screen at public events and places where people live in close quarters, such as college dorms or senior living communities. “It’s a bit like a breathalyzer test that an impaired driver might be given,” says John R. Cirrito, Ph.D., a professor of neurology. “And, for example, if people are in line to enter a hospital, a sports arena or the White House Situation Room, 15-minute nasal swab tests aren’t practical, and PCR tests take even longer. Plus, home tests are about 60% to 70% accurate, and they produce a lot of false negatives. This device will have diagnostic accuracy.”

DIAGNOSING HEAD & NECK CANCER

Researchers at Saint Louis University have found that there are frequent delays in the diagnosis of head and neck cancers. When patients are experiencing neck swelling and other symptoms, they are often prescribed antibiotics rather than receiving evaluation for cancer, which is called for in the current clinical guidelines. A delay in diagnosis can necessitate more aggressive treatments with a lower cure rate. “ENT doctors usually are quite familiar with this cancer diagnosis and can use their training and tools to parse out whether it be symptoms caused by cancer or some other cause,” says Dr. Sean Massa, the study’s lead author and associate professor of otolaryngology. “But it’s much more challenging for primary care doctors to make that determination, and I worry that this knowledge is not being disseminated to the broader medical community.”

TRACKING ALZHEIMER’S

In the progression of Alzheimer’s disease, tau tangles are one of the driving forces of cognitive decline. However, there has been no easy way to measure tau tangles in the brain. Research from Washington University School of Medicine and Lund University in Sweden have identified a form of tau, MTBR-tau243, that can be tracked as a marker for Alzheimer’s. “These findings will help accelerate drug development for patients with symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease,” says co-senior author Dr. Randall J. Bateman, the Charles F. and Joanne Knight Distinguished Professor of Neurology. “We are also working on developing these biomarkers as a clinical test to stage individual patients and improve patient care.”

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Take Note

SAVE THE DATE october

10/7

UNLOCK THE MAGIC OF LEARNING

St. Louis Learning Disabilities Association

BROOKDALE FARMS | 6 P.M. 314.966.3088

LDASTL.ORG/UNLOCK-THE-MAGIC

10/9

DAN MCLAUGHLIN CHARITY GOLF

TOURNAMENT

Special Education Foundation

NORWOOD HILLS COUNTRY CLUB 314.394.7030 | SEF-STL.ORG

10/13

LUNCHEON & FASHION SHOW

Friends of the Rural Parish Workers

RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS | 10 A.M. FRIENDSOFRPW.COM

10/15

RYAN J. CANDICE MEMORIAL

GOLF TOURNAMENT Project Wake Up

GATEWAY NATIONAL GOLF LINKS 1 P.M. WAKEUP.ORG

SUN RUN 5K & ONE-MILE WALK

SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital

FOREST PARK FESTIVAL AND PARKING PLAZA | 9 A.M. 314.577.5605

GLENNON.ORG/SUNRUN

10/19

CELEBRATION OF CHILDHOOD GALA

Kids In The Middle THIRD DEGREE GLASS FACTORY 6 P.M. | 314.909.9922 KIDSINTHEMIDDLE.ORG/GALA

1. Fantastic

Finds Upscale Resale

With Fantastic Finds Upscale Resale, elevate your style and empower your community. Shop women’s, men’s, kids, jewelry, accessories, home and more. The shop is 100% volunteer-driven, benefiting the Assistance League of St. Louis.

12778 OLIVE BLVD.

314.579.9500

ALSTL.ORG

2. SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital

Shop smart. Give big. Purchase your Glennon Card today to save 20% at more than 340 businesses Oct. 13-22 and make a big impact on the lives of Cardinal Glennon patients.

314.577.5605

GLENNONCARD.ORG

3. The Exercise Coach

We’re kicking off our nationwide 30-Day Metabolic Comeback Challenge next month. We can’t wait to see our client’s results after the nutrition challenge.

8500 MARYLAND AVE. | 314.720.1575

13456 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.548.2178

EXERCISECOACH.COM

4. Hindman Auctions

Trusted for 40 years, we offer appraisal and auction services for fine jewelry, fine art, furniture, decorative art property and more. We provide local clients with seasoned expertise in the global art market.

32 N. BRENTWOOD BLVD.

314.833.0833

HINDMANAUCTIONS.COM

5. Saint Louis Ballet Seduction. Deception. Madness! Giselle’s music, choreography, extraordinary costumes and sets transport you to a magical world where spectral maidens, a vengeful queen and a peasant girl embody heartbreaking loss and triumphant forgiveness.

314.534.1111

STLOUISBALLET.ORG

10/13-10/22

GLENNON CARD

SSM Health Cardinal Glennon

Children’s Hospital

VARIOUS BUSINESSES

GLENNONCARD.ORG

10/14

WINETOBERFEST

Ronald McDonald House

Charities of St. Louis

ST. LOUIS WINE MARKET | 4 P.M. 314.773.1100 | RMHCSTL.COM

LIGHT THE NIGHT

Leukemia & Lymphoma Society

FOREST PARK CRICKET FIELD 5 P.M. LIGHTTHENIGHT.ORG

10/21

TEN BY THREE GALA Ten by Three 5234 OAKLAND AVE. | 6 P.M. 314.272.1250 | TENBYTHREE.ORG 10/25

GREAT FUTURES GALA Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis ARMORY STL | 6 P.M. BGCSTL.ORG 10/26

AN ICONIC EVENING Gateway Arch Park Foundation 6:30 P.M. | GATEWAY ARCH 314.881.2015 ARCHPARK.ORG/ICONIC

SAINT LOUIS ART FAIR 30th anniversary kickoff party

by suzy gorman

Celebrating Saint Louis Art Fair’s 30th anniversary at Carrollton Bank, guests were treated to a sneak peek of the nationally acclaimed fine art show and the reveal of the 2023 anniversary poster by artist Tanya Kirouac. The fair was held on the streets of Clayton Sept. 8 through 10 and featured original art, live music, dance and spoken-word performances, culinary samplings from premier restaurants, hands-on activities for children, “Meet the Artist” tours and more.

guests: Saint Louis Art Fair founders Susan and Ben Uchitelle, executive director Sarah Umlauf

shine the light gala

The gala supports Paraquad’s mission to provide a hub for disability support, including resources, expert knowledge and connection to services for more than 5,500 people annually. Guests enjoyed a cocktail reception, dinner, after party entertainment by Andy Ruwe and a live auction with

ALEX AND CINDY BERGER

EDDIE AND ROBIN DAVIS, RONNIE BARRETT

ALEXIS AND ACIE L. MOORE

ED PRIBYL, TANYA KIROUAC

SUSAN UCHITELLE, SARAH UMLAUF, BEN UCHITELLE

MICHELLE AND MARK HALEY, MERRY AND JIM MOSBACHER

AMITA CHINNADURAI, EMILY SCHUMACHER

JIM AND VICKI ISRAEL

RUQAYYAH BAILEY, DREW ASARO

JIM AND GAIL VELTEN

CHELSEA CACIANO, ANNA CORBITT, MELISSA BRICKEY

AIMEE WEHMEIER, JERRY EHRLICH

SHOP, SAVE & SUPPORT

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

They say it’s better to give than receive—but why not do both at the same time? That’s exactly what the Glennon Card program allows St. Louisans to do every fall. By purchasing a $60 card, you unlock a 20% discount at more than 340 local shops, restaurants and other service providers. Plus, more than 120 businesses accept Glennon Card online, making it easier than ever to use. All proceeds from card sales directly support the young patients at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital.

The Glennon Card initiative is presented by the Glennon Guild, a women’s auxiliary with more than 100 active members. The group was established in 1957, and for more than 65 years it has been dedicated to volunteering in the hospital, fundraising and providing resources to the Glennon patients and their families. Co-president Laura Baylis has been a member of the group for 18 years. “When I moved back to St. Louis, I wanted to find a way to give back to the community and make new friends,” she explains. “I was familiar with SSM Health Cardinal Glennon. When I was 14, I was a candy striper and then became a junior apostolic volunteer in high school. The hospital has been my passion ever since.”

Along with the Glennon Card program, the Glennon Guild gives back to SSM Health Cardinal Glennon in a variety of ways. During the holiday season, it hosts Deck the Halls, an annual self-guided home tour. This year, the event is Dec. 9 and will feature five homes fabulously decorated for the holidays. Baylis notes that the group also recently founded the Glennon Guild Junior Board. “It includes 250 passionate and energetic high school students from more than 10 area Catholic schools,” she says. “They volunteer together on behalf of Glennon kids.”

This year’s Glennon Card shopping period is Oct. 13-22. Cards can be purchased online at glennoncard.org in digital or paper versions, or they are available at select retailers. Baylis is excited for people to take advantage of this unique opportunity to support local businesses while giving back to SSM Health Cardinal Glennon. “It really benefits everyone,” she says. “It’s a wonderful opportunity to support local businesses; the community gets to discover new stores, restaurants and services; and 100% of the funds raised by card sales go to the hospital.”

Since its founding in 2011, the Glennon Card program has raised more than $2.3 million. The funds have supported initiatives like the Orthwein Center for Infant and Child Nutrition, the 3D Printing Center of Excellence, Danis Pediatric Center and a number of enhancements to patient areas. “Glennon Card funds also have gone toward different programs at the hospital, such as the Knights of Columbus Developmental Center, Footprints and Reach Out and Read,” Baylis adds.

On Oct. 9, Glennon Guild is offering an early shopping opportunity through the Glennon Card Shoppes Boutique. From 11 a.m. to 4 p.m., people can visit Hilton St. Louis Frontenac to shop from more than 30 vendors who will honor the 20% Glennon Card discount. Glennon Cards will be available for purchase onsite or can be obtained ahead of time online. &

PURCHASING A GLENNON CARD DIRECTLY SUPPORTS PATIENTS LIKE SOPHIE.

NEXT STEPS

WHITFIELD SCHOOL

by stephanie wallace

THE COLLEGE APPLICATION PROCESS CAN BE A DAUNTING PROSPECT. From standardized testing and personal essays to in-person interviews and extracurricular activities, there are many moving parts to manage and the decision to attend a university can impact the rest of a young person’s life. At Whitfield School, the college counseling team offers an individualized experience for every student, allowing them and their families to navigate the process with confidence.

“The college admissions landscape is changing rapidly,” notes Amanda Henry, Whitfield’s director of college counseling. “Parents approach it based on their own experience or that of their older children, but everything from extracurricular activities to standardized testing is different. We offer a structured program that guides students through the process by rolling our different elements at appropriate times.” Whitfield students start working more in-depth with the college advisory program in ninth grade, learning to identify their strengths through strong academics and extracurricular activities. In sophomore year, students receive their individual counselor assignment as they start standardized testing. They also learn more about different majors and career paths by engaging with Whitfield alumni through the Career & Major Exploration Program.

During junior year, students participate in the College Knowledge course where they learn how to research colleges, craft resumes, draft personal essays and handle applications. “In junior year, we start meeting more with students one-on-one,” says Ebony Sistrunk, associate director of college counseling. “I like to call Whitfield a Goldilocks school—it’s not small, but it’s not so big that we can’t give students individualized attention.” That individual attention allows students to take control of the application process, finding college options that fit their interests and needs. Sistrunk notes that Whitfield’s graduating classes rarely have more than two students attending the same university. The class of 2023 included 84 grads attending 68 different schools.

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Henry says that parents start working with the college counseling department in fall of their child’s junior year—although the focus remains on students driving the application process. “Parents are engaged, but we don’t ask them to manage everything,” she explains. “We do the heavy lifting so that they can act in more of a cheerleading and encouraging role.” In senior year, the College Knowledge course continues with a focus on financial aid, decision-making and preparation for college life. By the beginning of November, all Whitfield students are ready to turn in at least one application by the early action deadline. The effectiveness of Whitfield’s college counseling program is evident in the experience of students and their families. For senior Taryn Jones, the program allowed her to easily navigate the complicated process, while taking a leadership role in her own education. “As a parent, the amount of time it takes to help your child with their college journey is daunting,” note her parents, Corey and Sheila Jones. “Whitfield’s college counseling streamlines most of that effort, alleviating a lot of work and worry. They have a deep understanding of your child, which enables them to provide a guiding path. During our initial meeting, Amanda had already compiled lists of suitable schools for Taryn, considering academic, social, geographical and environmental factors. Our experience has exceeded our expectations in every way.” &

AMANDA HENRY, COREY JONES, TARYN JONES (’24), SHEILA JONES, EBONY SISTRUNK

jon jay

WHAT IS THE ONE THING YOU’RE BETTER AT COOKING THAT YOUR WIFE? Nothing. She’s better than me at everything. I try to help as much I can, and I cook breakfast every day in the off season. I’m up super early and try to get done with my workouts by 7:30 a.m., so I can be home with the kids, get them up and ready for the day, and make breakfast. It’s kind of our tradition.

SO YOU’RE NOT DANGEROUS IN THE KITCHEN?

To some people, I am. I used to have the reputation that if I opened a restaurant, it would be called Crispy’s.

OFF the cuff claiborne w/

With each Off the Cuff, we try to share some insight into notable people who have made their mark on St. Louis, but unfortunately, it’s impossible for us to include it all. So this issue we’ve decided to share some of the awesome answers that we couldn’t the first time around.

michelle smallmon

OTHER THAN YOUR CURRENT GIG, WHAT’S THE MOST FUN JOB YOU’VE HAD?

I worked on Russillo & Kanell when I was at the ESPN headquarters. It’s the type of show I always wanted to work on. Part of the reason that you get into this business is that you want to be at all of the big games, and we got to travel a lot. We went on football and basketball tours where we visited some of the best college sports environments in the country. Just being at some of those venues is the stuff you always dream about.

dave glover

WHAT IS THE BEST THING ABOUT YOUR SHOW? You can probably guess it, but it’s the people. We’re like a family, especially with the fighting. We love and care about each other, but we also know everyone’s buttons and will push them. If you listen and feel like you’re listening to a bunch of friends, it’s because you are. I think that’s the magic of the show. I do not have the skillset to do anything else. I could not do a solo show. I’m successful 100% because of the human beings who sit in chairs next to me.

art holliday

DO YOU REMEMBER YOUR FIRST JOB? HOW MUCH WAS THAT FIRST CHECK?

It was in Oklahoma City at KOCO-TV in 1977. I think I was making $14,000 or $15,000 a year. By today’s standards that doesn’t sound like much, but when you’re fresh out of college and used to looking under seat cushions for beer money, that $15 grand is pretty good.

jackie joyner-kersee

HOW DO YOU STAY IN SHAPE THESE DAYS?

I do a lot of walking. I love to go to parks because I’m always looking for areas with a lot of grass that allows me to run.

PHOTO: SUZY GORMAN

MARK YOUR CALENDAR:

by stephanie wallace

10/10-10/22

beetlejuice

october

10/14 & 10/15

st. louis street food festival

through 10/22

st. louis renaissance fair

The St. Louis Renaissance Fair invites guests to enjoy jousting, aerial acts, lively music, fine foods, vintage wares and plenty of cheer on Saturdays and Sundays through Oct. 22.

Rotary Park | $11.95-$89.95 10 a.m.-6 p.m. | stlrenfest.com

10/1

st. louis vegfest

Learn more about the StL’s thriving vegan community with around 70 vendors and speakers. The festival also features entertainment, free yoga and fun activities for kids.

World’s Fair Pavilion in Forest Park | Free 10 a.m.-5 p.m. | stlouisvegfest.org

The acclaimed singer-songwriter brings the Rough and Rowdy Ways tour to the StL. Stifel Theater | $66.50-$142 | 8 p.m.

10/7

festability

Celebrate the disability community with a day of accessible, family-friendly activities and entertainment. Enjoy food trucks, resource tables, hands-on crafts, a sensory room, the chance to pet Duo Dogs service dogs and more. Missouri History Museum | Free 11 a.m.-5 p.m. | festability.org

10/7

paw parade

Dress your furry friend in costume and parade down Second Street in style. After the parade, a vendor fair features resources and fun for you and your pet. All proceeds benefit the City of Saint Charles Animal Shelter.

Frenchtown St. Charles | $15-$20 | 10 a.m. stcharlescitymo.gov/pawparade

10/7 & 10/8

shaw art fair

The fine art fair features 130 artists showcasing works in a variety of mediums, including ceramics, paintings, pastels, photography, sculptures, woodwork and more. The event also includes food and music. Flora Place & Tower Grove Avenue | $8-$10 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Sat., 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Sun. shawstlouis.org

It’s showtime! Based on Tim Burton’s dearly beloved film, this hilarious musical tells the story of Lydia Deetz, a strange and unusual teenager whose whole life changes when she meets a recently deceased couple and a demon with a thing for stripes.

The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $35-$129 Various showtimes | 314.534.1111 fabulousfox.com

10/11

sza

The St. Lous native brings her S.O.S. North American tour to her hometown. Enterprise Center | $36.50-$224.50 | 8 p.m. 314.622.5400 | enterprisecenter.com

The event will feature the best of area food trucks and restaurants. Sample a wide range of flavors while enjoying eating competitions, cooking demonstrations, axe throwing, live entertainment, family-friendly activities and more. Ballpark Village | $7.99-$44.99 Noon-8 p.m. | streetfoodfests.com

10/22

eternal light

Taking the audience on an emotional journey, the concert highlights Howard Goodall’s masterpiece Eternal Light: A Requiem, along with choral favorites by renowned composers. First Presbyterian Church of Kirkwood $27-$52 | 3 p.m. | 314.652.BACH (2224) bachsociety.org

10/28

berlioz, prokofiev, and tchaikovsky

The St. Louis Civic Orchestra is excited to present its first concert of the season, featuring Berlioz’s Rakoczy March, Prokofiev’s Violin Concerto No. 1 in D major Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 1 in G minor and more.

Kirkwood First Presbyterian Church Free | 7 p.m. | stlco.org

&more! HOOKED BOOKS

by patty hannum

Madame Duchesne:

Mere Duchesne, RSCJ

by Theresa Riley Shaw

When Rose Philippine Duchesne was born in France, no one knew she would become both a Catholic saint and the founder of The Society of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. Her story is a fascinating one as she faces countless obstacles to bring education to the children of the United States.

The Other Husband by Kathryn Croft

What happens when secrets are shared— not with your spouse but with someone else’s? You get a great thriller that provides you with lots of twists and turns with a very surprising ending. Croft does a great job of constructing believable characters, some of whom you will hate. A good book for a rainy day.

Stolen by Ann-Helén Laestadius

Stolen begins with a devastating moment for the young protagonist, who belongs to a reindeer collective within a Norwegian ethnic minority. The mystery of their missing and savagely killed reindeers is played out over 10 years. We watch the young girl grow up and assimilate as she struggles to solve the mystery and hold onto her indigenous ways.

Justified: City Primeval Hulu

I missed the first go around of Justified, starring Timothy Olyphant as U.S. Marshal Raylan Givens, and now, I find myself wanting to go back in time to watch the original series. This updated story of Givens takes place in Detroit and surrounds the murder of a corrupt judge. The crime/drama is enjoyable to watch, primarily because of Olyphant. I could do with a bit less violence, but this season was outstanding.

ASKED & ANSWERED: FALL ALLERGIES

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

Whether it is due to changes in humidity, seasonal weather or flu and cold, the fall can bring with it congestion and discomfort that almost everyone has to deal with. Allergies affect more than 50 million Americans, and the common cold is … well, common! Here’s what you need to know to ensure you can take a deep breath and enjoy autumn.

What makes allergies an issue in fall?

In the fall, there is an increase of both indoor and outdoor allergens. The most common indoor irritant is mold spores. Their growth spikes in the warmth and humidity of summer, and they persist through the fall. Outside, ragweed pollen is the biggest cause of seasonal allergies. Its levels begin to rise in late August, and it can hang around until the first frost.

What are some common symptoms of seasonal allergies?

Seasonal allergy sufferers usually deal with:

O Sneezing.

O Itchy eyes

O Congestion

O Post-nasal dri

O Cough

O Runny nose

Do allergies impact other health conditions?

People with asthma may be impacted by their seasonal allergies. Allergic asthma or allergy-induced asthma can flare up when you are exposed to substances to which you are sensitive. If you have it, you should follow up regularly with a doctor. Controlling your allergies may mean you can use less asthma medication. People with eczema also can experience increased flare ups due to exposure.

Is it possible for a person’s allergy symptoms to vary over time?

Yes, your allergies can fluctuate over time. Experiencing different environments while traveling may lead to allergy changes when you’re exposed to new allergens. Moving to a different region may cause an increase or decrease in symptoms depending on the mix of vegetation in your new home. Sometimes, it can take time for symptoms to develop. For example, pollen allergies usually take a few seasons to manifest because it takes exposure to become sensitized. Reactions to indoor allergens usually manifest sooner because the exposure is more consistent.

Are there ways to manage seasonal allergies without medication?

Allergies are your immune system’s inflammatory response to a foreign substance. They happen seasonally when your body overreacts to something airborne in the environment, usually pollen or mold. To avoid sneezing, congestion, a runny nose and other bothersome symptoms, there are simple steps you can take to manage your exposure to allergens.

O MONITOR POLLEN COUNT. Check pollen counts in your area—they’re often included with TV or radio weather reports or you can easily find them online. To avoid pollen in your home, don’t leave the windows open when pollen counts are high. Limit outdoor activity in the morning or on dry, windy days because that’s when pollen counts are highest. The best time to head outside is after it rains, which helps clear pollen from the air.

O WEAR A MASK when mowing the lawn or doing other outdoor chores. To avoid allergens when raking leaves or completing other seasonal outdoor work, make sure your nose and mouth are covered.

O CLEAN YOUR VENTS before turning on your heat for the first time. Allergens can get trapped during the spring and summer, and they’ll fill the air once the furnace turns on. Also use a HEPA filter in your heating system to remove particles from the air.

O USE A DEHUMIDIFIER. Removing moisture from the air will help stop mold and dust mites from thriving in your home.

O Groom and WASH YOUR PETS regularly. If they spend time outside, that will keep them from tracking pollen or other allergens inside.

O RINSE YOUR SINUSES. Rinsing is an easy way to reduce congestion. It directly flushes out mucus and allergens from your nose.

How can I tell my allergies apart from a cold, the flu or COVID-19?

Thhe common cold, seasonal allergies and COVID-19 can sometimes manifest in similar ways, especially now that vaccines and new variants are resulting in milder cases of COVID-19. Despite some indistinguishable symptoms, there are some key differences. Think about your history and consider what symptoms you’ve previously experienced in the fall. If you’re dealing with a fever, aches and pains, nausea or a sore throat, odds are it’s not your allergies making you sniffle and sneeze. Allergy symptoms also tend to last longer than the common cold.

SOURCES: MAYO CLINIC, THE UNIVERSITY OF CHICAGO MEDICINE

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THE NATURAL ELEGANCE OF CABO SAN LUCAS BY NICOLE HOLLIS

Join us on a captivating home tour through Cabo San Lucas, where Nicole Hollis seamlessly blends indigenous materials and textures to create a monochrome palette punctuated by pops of earthy colors. Hollis has created a true sanctuary, where art, nature and design harmoniously coexist. It is a testament to her unique approach to design, where every element is carefully considered and curated to create a space that is not only visually stunning but also deeply connected to its surroundings.

Open Oasis

The open-concept living space seamlessly blends indoor and outdoor living, with expansive floor-to-ceiling windows that frame breathtaking views of the ocean. A large sectional sofa invites you to sink in and relax, while a statement piece of artwork adds a pop of color and intrigue. This open feeling flows into the primary bath, where a stunning statement bathtub sits under a large window to offer a relaxing soak alongside a gorgeous view.

Blending Beauty and Nature

Moving into the kitchen, you are greeted with clean lines, a bold patterned backsplash and a spacious island creating a functional and stylish design. Natural materials such as wood and stone add warmth and texture, while two pendant lights hang above, casting a soft glow over the room.

Primary Sanctuary

The primary suite exudes luxury and comfort, with a plush bed adorned with crisp white linens and a panoramic view of the ocean. Designed as private sanctuaries, each bedroom offers its own unique character.

Art, Architecture and Authenticity

Throughout the home, Hollis has incorporated elements of Mexican art and culture, paying homage to the rich heritage of the region. Vibrant textiles, handcrafted pottery and intricate woodwork add layers of authenticity and create a sense of place.

Serenity by the Sea

Outside, the home seamlessly blends with its natural surroundings. A spacious terrace with organic modern seating areas provides the perfect spot to soak up the sun during the day or enjoy breathtaking sunsets in the evening. A private infinity pool appears to merge with the ocean, creating a sense of serenity. &

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DESIGN SPOTLIGHT

by stephanie wallace FRENCH

COUNTRY

There’s something magical about escaping to the countryside. While it’s not always possible to leave behind the urban grind, you can recreate that country charm in your home. If you’re looking for a more refined approach to a cottagecore aesthetic, French Country may be your answer. Inspired by, you guessed it, the French countryside, the interior design style blends rustic and refined. The result is a space that is warm, welcoming and casual while still feeling a little luxurious.

the hallmarks of french country design French Country is all about mixing and matching, such as combining natural rustic materials with more elegant elements like touches of gold or patterned fabrics. The style incorporates antique furnishings, weathered finishes, natural materials and warm neutrals, although bolder colors can be used.

◀ Softly patterned fabrics, such as florals or Toile de Jouy

◀ Warm muted colors

◀ Vintage furnishings and accessories

◀ Curvy-lined furniture

◀ Exposed wooden ceiling beams

◀ Natural stone, wood or brick

◀ Weathered appearance

◀ Rustic touches

◀ Eclectic decor pieces

how to introduce it in your home

With French Country design, the focus isn’t on buying the latest must-have furniture items or picking matching sets. Instead, opt to look for unique antique pieces or decor elements that spark joy and can be incorporated into your existing collections. Lighting can be a great place to start. A rustic chandelier is a must in a French Country home’s dining room, living space or bedroom.

◀ Look for salvaged and repurposed decor. Weathered wood and chipped paint add character and a sense of history.

◀ Choose furniture pieces with curves and soft edges to soften the appearance of your space.

◀ Don’t be afraid of more ornate touches inspired by French decor, such as gilded mirrors or vases full of flowers.

◀ Add trusses to give more modern homes the look of original wood beams.

◀ Consider window dressings. For a more casual look, pick a more rustic fabric like gingham. Looking for something more formal? Silk draperies are a great option. &

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AT THE PLAZA

by stephanie wallace

Carondelet Plaza is a shining example of urban living. Rising above downtown Clayton, it offers some of the finest architecture and luxury amenities in St. Louis—not to mention easy access to amazing shops and restaurants. The classic building gave owners of this condo the chance to create the home of their dreams. They gave T&S a peek inside at their fully renovated unit and its modern minimalist approach.

WE REALLY HAD A FRESH PALETTE TO START FROM SCRATCH ...

WHY DID YOU DECIDE ON A CONDO?

We started with a historic home built in the 1920s in Clayton and spent about 15 years renovating the property. We loved it but wanted to try new construction, so we built a new home also in Clayton. As time passed, we wanted to travel more, so we started looking at condominiums.

WHAT ATTRACTED YOU TO THE PLAZA?

We wanted to stay in Clayton. It’s a great area with lots of activity. It’s not a sleepy suburb, and you have a great mix of young professionals and older people. The Plaza’s location was perfect for what we were looking for. It’s within walking distance of so many great shops and restaurants. We’re right next to The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis, so sitting on our balconies, we sometimes get to hear free performances from events at the hotel. It’s also relaxing to overlook the fountain. When we were looking for condos, we were originally a little worried that we were too young for the community. We found that there's a wide mix of people from retirees to young families. One of our original neighbors had a preschooler. It was fun to see her around. She was just like the storybook character Eloise.

DID YOU MAKE ANY MAJOR CHANGES TO THE CONDO?

Our condo is actually one of the original display models, and it had never been updated. We had a very traditional house and then a very modern home, so we wanted to do something contemporary with the condo. We took the space down to the concrete before moving in. We raised the ceilings, changed plumbing, updated fixtures and moved rooms around—where the hearth room is now was originally the kitchen.

HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR INTERIOR DESIGN STYLE?

When we sold our last house, the buyers loved the furniture and decor so much that they bought quite a bit of it along with the home. We really had a fresh palette to start from scratch with in the condo. It seems like we’re going a little backward in our home decor. Instead of becoming more traditional, we’ve been becoming more contemporary. We really like a minimalist aesthetic and wanted to create a space that is aesthetically pleasing but not busy. That design approach also factored in our decision to downsize. By going minimalist contemporary, it’s easier to take care of.

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ME ABOUT BUILDING YOUR ART COLLECTION.

It’s both old and new pieces. While we did sell some of our art with our last house, my art collection actually started with my mother, so there were certain pieces that I couldn’t part with. Two of my favorites that came from my mother are in the primary bedroom. They are by a Spanish artist. One is of two women bathing, and the other is a Madonna and Child. When it came to finding new pieces for the collection, it started with looking for pieces that fit the scope of the walls. When remodeling the condo, we wanted to make sure we had large wall spaces to accommodate different artwork. One of my favorite new pieces is actually in the primary bedroom’s closet. The space just felt empty so we wanted to find something for it. We found a piece by Donald Baechler that is very unique.

HOW IS THE CONDO FOR ENTERTAINING?

We do entertain quite often. Since moving in, I ran for the board of the homeowner’s association and am now the youngest member. I was made the chair of the social committee, so I’m working on more socialization throughout the building. The Plaza has a large social club room that has a catering kitchen and a nice enclosed patio off to the side. In our condo, we have two patios and a great dining room for entertaining.

DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE ROOM?

My favorite room is actually the primary bath. The shower is my favorite feature and was actually my idea. I was inspired by an outdoor shower I had seen in Mexico. I wanted a no-threshold shower with a knee wall with no glass. We weren’t sure it was going to work. After we put in the features, there was a chance we’d turn it on, and there’d be water on the wrong side of the wall. Thankfully, that wasn’t the case. It worked, and we had an open consent without glass that would steam up. It really gave us that minimalist look we were looking for. &

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