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center for hearing & speech About 200 people attended the organization’s annual gala at Hollywood Casino, raising more than $51,000 to help people with hearing and speech disorders. The center also presented its inaugural Community Partner Award to the Redbird Rookies, the youth baseball program supported by Cardinals Care.
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st. louis university high school The Jesuit preparatory school (the oldest high school west of the Mississippi) celebrated its bicentennial with a community-wide event, including an outdoor church service, performances by students and a fireworks display.
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ACCESS ACADEMIES PARTNERS WITH URBAN MIDDLE SCHOOLS TO PREPARE STUDENTS FOR SUCCESS IN HIGH SCHOOL, COLLEGE AND BEYOND THROUGH ENRICHMENT, GUIDANCE COUNSELING AND SCHOLARSHIPS. IT HOSTS ITS ANNUAL CELEBRATION DINNER JUNE 6 AT THE FOUR SEASONS. PICTURED ON THE COVER: GRADUATE SUPPORT DIRECTOR NICK McDOWELL AND PRINCIPAL JESSICA KILMADE WITH PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE ACCESS ACADEMIES STUDENTS AT MOST HOLY TRINITY CATHOLIC SCHOOL AND ACADEMY. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.898.0430 EXT. 4 OR VISIT ACCESSACADEMIES.ORG/DINNER. COVER DESIGN BY ALLIE BRONSKY COVER PHOTO BY COLIN MILLER OF STRAUSS PEYTON PHOTOGRAPHY
characterplus Campaign chairs Sam and Marilyn Fox and Randy and Veronica McDonnell hosted a Character Education kickoff event for the nonprofit at the Saint Louis Club. CharacterPlus works to build strong school communities and recently received a $500,000 challenge grant from the Sanford N. McDonnell Foundation to expand the program in local schools. circle of concern The nonprofit’s food pantry has a new and muchneeded delivery van, thanks to funds raised during its 50th anniversary gala. The previous van had racked up more than 300,000 miles collecting donated food from area grocery stores.
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We spent our first day wandering the countless aisles of the Portland Saturday Market, an outdoor mecca of local art, local food and just locals in general—and it was quite a different scene than the Midwest, which I both embraced and admired. The eclectic, chill vibe could be found in everyone’s casual, unique style (tattoos and brightly colored hair were the norm), in the countless musicians playing on the streets, and in the unofficial vendors sprawled out in the grass along the river. talk of the towns velvet hammer bridge design on my mind tech talk food critic homework
Add to this energetic atmosphere our breathtaking hikes in Mt. Hood National Forest and the enchanting coastal town of Cannon Beach, and I had to force myself to remember why I should come home. Traveling is necessary; it opens your eyes to the wonderful individuality of America and the beautiful customs of the world. But hopefully, it makes you appreciate home as well. Yes, the coasts have a varied and prominent culinary scene, but St. Louis is playing right along. We have world-class chefs producing amazing food and experimenting with new ideas. Just read about Doug Weerts in Apronomics this issue. The new executive chef at Firecracker Pizza & Beer is both personable and talented. He has quite the history in numerous kitchens and now creates pizza with unexpected combinations … that really work. And if you want funky, definitely visit the place.
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FOR MANY YOUNG PEOPLE, MIDDLE SCHOOL CAN BE A CHALLENGING TIME . When
there’s poverty in the mix, these pivotal years can be harder still. But since its inception in 2005, ACCESS Academies has been a guiding light for more than 1,100 students, steering them through middle and high school and on to college. A vast majority of the students ACCESS takes under its wing are eligible for free or reduced lunch (a federal indicator of poverty), are first in their families to plan for college, and attend one of three local Catholic middle schools serving high-poverty populations. “We wrap our arms around the students and their families,” says Nick McDowell, graduate support director at Most Holy Trinity Catholic School and Academy. “By supporting these children in three key ways, we provide opportunities they otherwise would not have.” By that, McDowell means the nonprofit’s three-pronged approach: after-school enrichment, counseling by a graduate support director and high school scholarships. He notes that in 2017 alone, ACCESS awarded more than $618,000 to 238 students, allowing them to attend more than 20 private college-prep high schools like St. Mary’s, Bishop DuBourg, Notre Dame, Chaminade, Villa Duchesne, Nerinx Hall and Christian Brothers College. “The application process for high school and college can be very rigorous and overwhelming,” McDowell says. “But we empower families by being a supportive presence every step of the way.” He adds that ACCESS covers ACT test prep, educational testing and college application costs, and notes that since 2005, 96 percent of ACCESS students have gained admittance to colleges, universities and other post-secondary schools. All in all, the nonprofit makes a seven-year commitment to its students, beginning in sixth grade. But McDowell stresses that the support doesn’t end with college acceptance. He reports that ACCESS is in the process of hiring a college and career counselor whose primary role will be mentorship through the college years and into employment. “The bond we form with our students is very strong,” says McDowell, who oversees 48 middle-schoolers at Most Holy Trinity and 42 students at area high schools. “They are like family.” McDowell also says ACCESS will expand its reach when it opens a new academy at Sister Thea Bowman Catholic School in East St. Louis in the fall. The other schools under the ACCESS umbrella are Most Holy Trinity and St. Louis Catholic Academy in North St. Louis and Saint Cecilia School and Academy in South City. On June 6, ACCESS Academies holds its biggest fundraiser, the 10th annual Celebration Dinner at the Four Seasons Hotel. The event raises money to support high school tuition scholarships. The organization commits its scholarship support for all four years of high school. &
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Whitney Hulling went to her senior prom in style, thanks to the women of the U. City Police Department. Members of the department’s Ladies Encouraging Others (LEO) group donated their own money to send Whitney to the prom and have her hair and nails done. (Shoes? What about shoes? OMG, they had to be fabulous!) The U. City Police Association donated Whitney’s dress, which LEO enlisted Kewana Waddell to design and create— in blue, natch. A hairstylist and a makeup artist donated their services. (Oh, and we heard you the first time! Whitney picked out the perfect pair of sparkly sandals at Aldo.) If you hadn’t heard of LEO, that’s because it hasn’t been active in U. City for much more than a year. After serving 10 years with StL police, officer Latoya Draggs brought LEO to the U. City department, where she has been since 2017. It comprises 14 female officers, dispatchers and record room clerks. LEO decided Whitney was tops after reaching out to U. City High School administrators and guidance counselors to find a star. Whitney is all that, boasting a 3.9 GPA and staying actively involved in student leadership. What’s more, she had choices when she got to the April 28 event: Since she went solo, she wasn’t stuck with having to dance all night long with ‘the one who brought her.’ Although they definitely had her back, the cops didn’t pick her up or drop her off at the dance. Her parents drove her, but not without a sendoff by the UCPD. Last year, LEO sponsored one student for prom and paid for another student’s ticket.
Building and Tenet-owned physician practices in St. Louis. The new name of the hospital? Drumroll, please: St. Luke’s Des Peres Hospital. The 143-bed medical center has served the community for more than 40 years. Officials say St. Luke’s is the metro’s only independent health care provider. Anyone in the area who is interested can attend one of two meetings on what the acquisition means for residents: 6:30 p.m. May 22 and 8:30 a.m. May 24 at The Lodge Des Peres, 1050 Des Peres Road. St. Luke’s should be a familiar name for many: St. Luke’s in Chesterfield, with 493 beds, is also the exclusive alliance provider for the nation’s No. 1 heart hospital, Cleveland Clinic’s Heart & Vascular Institute.
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Nicaya Wiley of Kirkwood High School danced her heart out April 28 at The Fabulous Fox to win the St. Louis Teen Talent Competition. Along with first place, she took home an $8,000 college scholarship, underwritten by Ameren Corp. Charitable Trust. Nicaya, 16, chose jazz-pop standard “This Bitter Earth,” made famous by Dinah Washington, for her routine and was judged tops among 15 metro high school acts. Students competed for more than $40,000 in college scholarships, cash awards and special prizes. The panel of judges—performing arts pros with careers in film, TV and Broadway—had the difficult job of evaluating performers on their interpretation, stage presence, technical ability and originality. Second place and a $6,000 college scholarship sponsored by John Russell went to Labels, a dance group comprising Arielle Adams, 16, Hazelwood Central; Kelsey Carnes, 16, Francis Howell North; Madison Alexander, 14, Incarnate Word Academy; and DessaRae Lampkins, De’Jai Walker and Brooke Reese, all 17, from Hazelwood Central. Third place and a $4,000 scholarship went to Pattonville student Josh Royal, 17, for his vocal performance of “She’s Out of My Life.” Last year’s first-place winner, Christina Jones, returned to sing “God Bless the Child” and “The Greatest Love of All.” Many additional special awards and prizes went to finalists and semifinalists, including the $1,000 cash Audience Choice Award, which went to Labels for their performance. The Nine Network recorded the really big ‘shew’ for a special program to be aired at 5 p.m. Sunday, May 20—with rebroadcasts on May 22, 26, and 27 at 11 a.m. Mark your 2019 calendars (does anyone have one of those to mark up yet?) for the ninth annual competition, which is slated for April 13.
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St. Luke’s Hospital has finalized the purchase of Des Peres Hospital from Tenet Healthcare Corp. The acquisition includes the Des Peres Medical Office
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Can we get there from here in Forest Park, forever? (Little play on words there. You’ll get it in a few lines.) Regional leaders have been ‘nogginating’ about this since early last year. A long-range ‘Great Streets’ study incorporates insights from transportation and urban planning professionals, park officials and the public to improve safety, access, and circulation in and around the park. The study’s lead consultant is Design Workshop, a landscape architecture, urban planning and design agency that has completed projects in 30 countries over the past 45 years. Last month, the Forest Park Great Streets team publicly presented concepts and operational recommendations developed with input from focus groups and the metro at large. East-West Gateway Council of Governments—in partnership with the city’s Department of Parks, Recreation and Forestry, and Forest Park (wait for it …) Forever—has been managing this initiative. The five key goals the study seeks to advance are: To improve how pedestrians and cyclists can safely enter and exit the park across all four major perimeter streets, and enjoyably and safely circulate through the park To alleviate congestion at the Hampton Avenue park entrance and improve circulation and parking access and information throughout the park To reimagine how a Forest Park circulator or shuttle could efficiently and sustainably assist in moving visitors through the 1,300-acre park To improve connections and transitions between different modes of travel within the park To expand uses for select park structures, e.g., the Spanish Pavilion The full report includes many specific concepts and targeted areas for improvements, ranging from site-specific projects—such as making the Festival & Parking Plaza above The Muny a convenient transit hub to alleviate parking congestion around the zoo and art museum—to enhancing crosswalks and using technology to improve information about parking options and path etiquette. Like all other capital projects in the park, any decision to undertake any changes originating from this study will be subject to review by the Forest Park Advisory Board.
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Maybe tumbleweeds roll across the vast parking lots when nobody’s looking. Once a shopping mecca, Chesterfield Mall is a virtual ghost town. A few dozen cars dotted the mostly empty asphalt on a recent Thursday, most of them outside The Cheesecake Factory and movie theater. Inside, if you listened very, very carefully, you could hear crickets. The kiddie choo-choo carried only five passengers, one at a time, by 2 p.m. Traffic inside Sears, once the nation’s proudest retailer and catalog presence, was practically nonexistent. Comfort food joints like Annie’s Pretzel Factory are shuttered. Even the nail salon has vamoosed. But there’s hope—not for Sears or many other brick-and-mortar stores here, there or anywhere—but for the mall’s 170,000 square feet of floor. The Staenberg Group (TSG) has bought Sears, as well as Taubman Prestige Outlets in Chesterfield Valley, which represents approximately 300,000 square feet of outlet retail space. TSG, though it only has latched on to Sears at this writing, touts plans to transform the mall into a destination with “exhilarating entertainment, innovative dining and unique shopping.” Chesterfield Mall, at Clarkson Road and Hwy. 40/I-64, is “right at Main Street and Main Street,” says Tim Rowe, the company’s VP of leasing and development. Since the city has no ‘official’ downtown, this one day could be it, Rowe adds, what with plans for office and residential space, a supermarket, restaurants, specialty shopping and entertainment. Now, didn’t somebody somewhere say—at least 1,142 times—that only one outlet mall could survive in The Valley? Harrumph. Taubman, during an estimated 12-month transition phase, will be renamed Chesterfield Outlets, and customers will continue to find their favorite shops there. (Don’t count on Dillard’s or J.C. Penney as anchor tenants … those days are over. Slated to open by the end of 2018, Topgolf is the coming attraction that will tower above the outlet center’s eastern end.) Then, shoppers have only to venture across the bridge on the western end to connect with Chesterfield Commons, a so-called ‘power center’ that may well be, according to locals, the longest and largest of its kind anywhere. TSG is quite the innovator. Developing, leasing and managing commercial properties nationwide, the company has a portfolio of more than 200 shopping centers, with 1,000plus restaurants and 1,000 retail stores. Altogether, that’s upwards of 35 million square feet … but who’s counting? &
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THE INSIDER A GLIMPSE AT WHAT’S GOING ON AROUND ST. LOUIS AND BEYOND.
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a T-shirt that says #noregrets. I am a 'should’ve, would’ve, could’ve' kind of person. I make no apologies for second guessing myself because I do it so well, but I am bothered when other people do it. So consider this week’s column to be advice so that you can sport the previously mentioned shirt. (Though really? I hate the whole hashtag T-shirt craze. Just say what you want without the extra punctuation!) I should have worn sunscreen. Take a look at my face. You see how pale and freckly it is? Let’s just say the sun is not my friend, and I really should not have laid out slathered with baby oil on my face while using an album cover wrapped in foil as a reflector to give me a ‘glow.’ Unhappily, I never got the glow I was looking for; instead, I got skin cancer. So now, I have an unattractive scar on my face. Oh, and if one more person says no one will notice, you’re getting punched. I notice, and in this situation, I am the most important person. So wear sunscreen every day so you don’t end up looking like Patty the Pirate. I would tell all my friends I love them. To say that I am fortunate in the friends department is an understatement. Somehow, this prickly personality manages to hold onto friends for years. I am not a huggy, ‘I love you' kind of person. I sometimes am able to croak the words out to my girlfriends, but I have never felt comfortable saying it to my male friends. I am afraid they will think I have become a cougar and have designs on them, which, much to their relief, is not the case. I recently had a friend die. He was someone who treated me like his kid sister. I laughed hard when we were together. He made my days at work brighter, and now he is gone, and I never once told him what a great pal he was. I am sure he knew, but right now, I would give anything just to say those three words to him, in no small part just to hear him say it back. I could run a marathon. I am not a runner, never have been. I hate to exercise, my knees hurt and running makes me sweat. But I am a fan of The Real Housewives of New York City and have become inspired by one of the women who, after 53 years of never exercising, decided to run the New York City marathon. I signed up for a class at Central Studio called Run Reformer with my friend Karen. It is supposed to get me in shape to run a 5k by the end of May. As I write this, I have been to one class and I was able to run half a block. I am not exaggerating. OK, maybe I am. It was a quarter of a block. Anyway, I asked the very patient instructor Kristen, who is a long distance runner, if I was able to run half of a block this week, when would I be able to run a marathon? She said 26 weeks. I know she is lying, but she has provided me with a bit of hope to keep trying! That’s enough advice for one day. Maybe you will try to do one of your 'should’ve, would’ve, could’ve' things. Whatever you do, never wear a T-shirt that says #noregrets. CONTACT PATTY AT PHANNUM@TOWNANDSTYLE.COM.
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Of recent note at the NATIONAL BLUES ▶ MUSEUM is the hiring of Jeffery Hardin as executive director. The Vashon and Harris-Stowe grad formerly served as vice president of the nonprofit Citizens for Community Improvement. He replaces founding director Dion Brown, who took a post as president of the National Underground Railroad Freedom Center in Cincinnati.
▲ Students in the LADUE SCHOOL DISTRICT can hit the fast-forward button on their career paths thanks to an anonymous, $1 million gift to
the Ladue Education Foundation and Alumni Association.
The donation, made by a Ladue Horton Watkins High School alum, will fund a new coordinator for the district's Center for Advanced Professional Studies to help students attain college credit, mentoring assistance, work experience and other help to land in-demand jobs.
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◀ Kudos to Little Bit Foundation executive director and co-founder ROSEMARY HANLEY, recently named a
recipient of the Ellis Island Medal of Honor (one of only 88 in
the country!). It's awarded each year to leaders who contribute to the nation's rich ethnic diversity and empower others to succeed. Since its 2001 founding, Little Bit Foundation has served the physical, emotional and academic needs of more than 36,000 kids in the St. Louis area.
▲ Parents of kids with special needs can take a page from local author Jillian Thomadsen's new book, All the Hidden Pieces. The suspense novel tells the story of a mother, her dyslexic son and a police detective who investigates their disappearance. Thomadsen, herself a mom to a child with dyslexia, lives in Olivette with her family. She wrote the book after noticing there was little contemporary fiction about families dealing with the condition. AVAILABLE AT AMAZON.COM
〈〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉〉 Pooches and pet lovers will converge on Forest Park May 19 for the Humane Society of Missouri's annual Bark in the Park. The fun-filled event includes Purina Pro Plan Performance Team shows, pet adoptions, a biergarten, food truck fare, games, and even royal weddingthemed pet contests and photo ops.
Learn about the nature of joy May 23 at Happiness: A Priest, A Psychologist and A Philosopher Walk into a Concert Hall, an informative evening presentation at The Sheldon. It's part of Saint Louis University's Happiness and Well-Being Project. Featured speakers are Fr. Ted Vitali, Ed Diener and Valerie Tiberius.
Light up your Memorial Day weekend at the Four Seasons Hotel's Grill + Chill party, held on the Sky Terrace May 27. The familyfriendly celebration features a raw seafood bar, grill stations, drinks, music and a great view of Lumiere Place fireworks!
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Donate your books, CDs, DVDs and LPs to the YMCA for its 40th annual book fair Aug. 17 through 21. Fair proceeds benefit various community programs. Book donations will be accepted through July 31 at any Y branch. 314.436.1177 | gwrymca.org
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Those who work in long-term care are invited to visit VOYCE’s seventh annual Long Term Care Conference June 14 and 15. Learn dynamic strategies and innovative tools while earning 14 CEUs in two days! 680 Craig Road, Ste. 245 | 314.918.8222 voycestl.org/conference
The fifth annual VP Fashion Show, ‘Work Gloves to White Gloves,’ raises funds to support community service projects for charity partners of the Veiled Prophet Foundation. Join us 6 to 8 p.m. May 31 at Saks Fifth Avenue to celebrate fashion, fun and community service! thevpfashionshow.eventbrite.com
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By remembering the zoo in your estate plan, you become a forever friend with a permanent legacy to benefit animals and the visitors who love them. Join the Heritage Society today! 1 Government Drive | 314.646.4509 stlzoo.org/plannedgiving
First Fridays in Grand Center take place the first Friday of every month and offer free entry to museums and galleries until 9 p.m. Take a stroll through our district and start the month with an inspiring evening of free art and culture. grandcenter.org The Great Gatsby: great night, great cause. Care to Learn’s annual benefit is June 1 at The Coronado with music by Miss Jubilee. Creative dress is encouraged! Buy a chance to arrive in a 1940 Cadillac limo. 314.650.3820 | caretolearn.org caretolearnstlouis.eventbrite.com
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A COMMUNITY THAT WORKS TOGETHER IS A COMMUNITY THAT WORKS WELL.
That’s the message of the Veiled Prophet Foundation’s Community Service Initiative (CSI), which teams up with VP Ball participants each year to complete local charitable projects. An important part of that effort is the fifth annual VP Fashion Show. Proceeds from the event provide funding for the projects, which include community beautification, building improvements, food outreach programs, care packages for those in need and more. Even the fashion show’s theme, ‘Work Gloves to White Gloves,’ illustrates participants’ commitment to the community. They put on work gloves to perform projects during the year, and in December, they don long white gloves and formal gowns for the VP Ball downtown. This year’s fashion show will be held May 31 at Saks Fifth Avenue in Plaza Frontenac. Fox 2 anchor Jasmine Huda will be on hand to emcee, and Harriette Warren and Alden Pflager are the show’s co-chairs. Warren and Pflager note that the fashion event is a very special one for St. Louis. “We’ll welcome representatives from design houses like Carolina Herrera, Lela Rose, Zac Posen, Zang Toi, Helen Morley and more,” Pflager says. “Some of the designers will attend, too, with collections brought in from New York and Chicago. It’s a rare opportunity to see their work in the same space on one night.” Evening gowns will be the focus, and models will take to the floor after the show. “Our guests won’t just be seated next to a runway the whole time,” Warren explains. “They’ll get to mingle, enjoy cocktails and view the beautiful dresses up close, which they wouldn’t get to do at a
typical fashion event. It will be an exciting mix of interesting people.” Pflager adds, “St. Louis has a great community of fashion-forward thinkers and builders. We’ve had a lot of support from the Saint Louis Fashion Fund, and we hope everyone interested in the industry will buy a ticket for this special event. And when show guests shop at Saks the first weekend in June, the store will donate 10 percent of purchase proceeds to the CSI.” Event tickets and more information are available at thevpfashionshow.eventbrite. com. “Most of the money raised comes from fashion show ticket sales and sponsorships,” Warren says. “Top-tier sponsors include Soft Surroundings, Swift Print Communications, Truffles & Butchery and our hosting sponsor, Saks Fifth Avenue.” Charities that benefit from CSI include Great Circle, Hawthorn Leadership School for Girls, Missouri Veterans Endeavor, North Side Community School and Beyond Housing, among others. “When our daughters participate in CSI projects, they come back with such wonderful energy for doing good,” Warren says. “My daughter worked on a planting project for Missouri Veterans Endeavor, and she was elated about it.” Pflager’s family took part in a Habitat for Humanity build, and it, too, was a positive experience. “It was a great chance for my daughter to see her dad ‘walking the walk’ in the local community,” she says. “They still talk about the wonderful time they had together.” The CSI has expanded its focus beyond just fathers and daughters to include the entire family. “Service projects are a wonderful bonding experience for the community,” Pflager says. “I can’t think of anything better than families pitching in together for great causes.” &
THE VEILED PROPHET FOUNDATION’S COMMUNITY SERVICE INITIATIVE GIVES VP BALL PARTICIPANTS AND THEIR FAMILIES THE CHANCE TO VOLUNTEER FOR IMPORTANT COMMUNITY BETTERMENT PROJECTS. PICTURED ON THE COVER: TROY DUNCAN, ALDEN PFLAGER, JASMINE HUDA, TOM DONNELLY, HARRIETTE WARREN, BILL WALLACE. THE VP’S ‘WORK GLOVES TO WHITE GLOVES’ FASHION SHOW IS MAY 31 AT SAKS FIFTH AVENUE. FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THE EVENT, VISIT THEVPFASHIONSHOW.EVENTBRITE.COM. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER | COVER PHOTO BY BILL BARRETT
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WHERE Palladium Saint Louis WHY More than $275,000 was raised to support the mission of empowering people with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families to lead better lives by providing services, family support and advocacy. WHO President and CEO Mark Keeley; co-chairs John and Mimi Londoff, Bhavik Patel, Paul and Teri Weber, and Richard and Kathie Winter; honorary co-chairs Mary and David Steward II; emcee Charlie Brennan HIGHLIGHTS Musical entertainment, 2018 Superhero for Kids Award presentation to Julie Williams
A STROLL FOR YOUR SENSES Around every corner, through every window, behind every door; you will find the hear ts of ar tists. Passionate per for mer s, master musicians, culinar y craftsmen; they all gather here. Take a stroll, and take your senses to a place where beauty is created, and humanity is celebrated.
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To ensure no child will have adult disease and no one will die from preventable illness
CAMP JUMP START AT LIVING WELL VILLAGE MEET SHADOE THIBAUT...
Everyone thinks Camp Jump Start at Living Well Village is just a weight loss camp; so did I until I went there. Everyone does lose weight (I lost 20 pounds), but we gain so much more. The self-confidence I gained changed my life forever. I hate to think where I would be today without Camp Jump Start. I come from a very poor background. My family was constantly being evicted. I dropped out of school after ninth grade to get a job, but my grandmother wanted me to get an education. I said I would go back to school if I had the chance to go to camp first, so she sent me. I wanted to be the old me again, the one who wasn’t ashamed of who I had become. After Camp Jump Start, life improved for my entire family. I did go back to school, got my GED and went straight to community college at age 16. I worked hard to put myself through “Ole Miss” graduating with an English degree. The summer after college, I worked at Camp Jump Start to give back to a place that gave me so much. This role taught me to be patient and understanding and opened my eyes to what was possible for me. I had kids in my cabin from all over the country, and I was fascinated by their stories. My childhood world was very small. Camp Jump Start taught me to step out of my
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changed my life in a profound and everlasting way. All children should have the opportunity to discover themselves at Camp Jump Start. The world knows about this camp—does St. Louis? 3602 Lions Den Road Imperial, MO ✤ 636.674.5014 campjumpstart.com livingwellvillage.org
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Ranken Jordan Pediatric Bridge Hospital MEET BRAD BAUER
Brad Bauer was in Mexico for spring break in 2017. As his mother Laura watched, he ran into an ocean wave. Seconds later, she saw him floating motionless. She screamed and went running into the water. Brad held his breath until his mom arrived. He managed to utter the words, “Mom, I’m paralyzed.” A medical helicopter flew Brad to a hospital for immediate surgery that saved his life. He maintained a positive attitude, though he only could wiggle a few toes on his right foot. Just moments before the medical team put him into a medically induced coma, he told his family, “I am strong!” Brad and his family flew back to St. Louis so he could recover in an intensive care unit. During his recovery, his parents researched therapy and rehabilitation options and decided Ranken Jordan was the best place for their son. “After being here a couple of months, we got the feeling Ranken Jordan was a home away from home,” Laura says. “The positive energy had a tremendous impact on Brad and our family. It kept us all motivated to push forward.” The Bauer family learned that Ranken Jordan treats the whole child—and the whole family. In addition to physical therapy
Ranken Jordan Pediatric Bridge Hospital’s mission is to consider children first in all we do. Ranken Jordan provides medical and rehabilitative services for children with complex conditions. Services generally begin once their acute care needs have been met and before they are able to safely transition from hospital to home. Ranken Jordan serves as the bridge between acute care and home, providing Care Beyond the Bedside, a highly effective model that considers the whole child. It includes rehabilitative therapies, nurturing, encouragement, learning, play, socialization, family involvement, adaptive sports and community integration. These elements provide children the best opportunity to realize their fullest potential and greatest future independence.
and rehabilitation, hospital staff cared about the emotional and spiritual health of the family. “When Brad arrived at Ranken Jordan, he had a feeding tube in his stomach” says Brad’s father, Mark. “He wasn’t standing and could not walk. His movements were still limited. Over a three-month period, he progressed from removal of the feeding tube, to soft foods, to solid food. He began standing, walking and gaining strength.” After just a few months at Ranken Jordan, Brad was able to walk out of the hospital on his own. No wheelchair. No fear. He regained his confidence and his infectious smile returned. Through an intense regimen of therapy, rehabilitation, parental training and emotional support, the staff at Ranken Jordan helped heal Brad and his family.
Brad Bauer’s personal strength was an inspiration to many and a demonstration of the dedication and passion of those who cared for him during his difficult road to an amazing recovery.
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Assistance League of St Louis Assistance League of St. Louis is an all-volunteer service nonprofit whose members identify, develop, fund and implement ongoing philanthropic programs to serve specific needs of children and adults in the St. Louis community.
MEET THE VASHON HIGH SCHOOL BASKETBALL TEAM
When new shoes do more than allow a child to jump higher or run faster, something magical happens. Assistance League supplied the Vashon High School boys basketball team with new athletic shoes so they could participate in the playoff tournament, and they won! Some time later, Assistance League celebrated Discovery Day at the St. Louis Zoo with children from Adams Elementary School, and members of the basketball team were invited to attend and help fit the kids with new shoes. Quite a few of the teammates attended and engaged with the kids. Magic happened when the children learned these young men were heroes of a sort; they began autographing any and everything handed to them by these adoring kids.
One could feel the self-esteem of the Vashon students blossom! Talk about a win-win; new shoes and newly found pride!
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Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring taps the potential of committed volunteers to make a profound difference in the lives of children.
MEET SALLY COLEMAN
Her days are already full, but Sally Coleman makes room for one more thing on her calendar—and in her heart: Oasis Intergenerational Tutoring. Founded in 1989, the national program pairs volunteers with children in grades K-3 to work one-on-one each week during the school year as their tutors, mentors and friends. The relationships forged make a profound difference for all involved, as Sally, 77, can attest. This school year, she met once a week with Morgan, a thirdgrader at Westchester Elementary in Kirkwood. The two learned a lot about one another. A voracious reader herself, Sally was eager to help the little girl find books that would capture her interest and boost her confidence. By the end of the year, they found just the thing: Nancy Drew mysteries! Sally plans to return next year and hopes to recruit new tutors. “People who are the most successful are those who are willing to try new things,” she says. “That’s what attracted me to tutoring and other Oasis programs. You have to have a ‘what’s next?’ kind of attitude.” Sally joins the ranks of 2,000 Oasis tutors working in 230 schools in the St. Louis area. Nearly 4,500 older adults participate as Oasis tutors across the country.
Sally helped her young friend Morgan discover books she loves to read.
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BURN We all know St. Louis weather can be temperamental, and spring is no different. A day that starts with chills and rain could end in complete sunshine, so it's best to be prepared with stylish layers. These looks will have you hot no matter what it's like outside!
BY CHRISSIE WOJCIECHOWSKI | PHOTOS BY SUZY GORMAN
RED HOT Red sizzles in any season, and this showstopper's polka dots are a hot trend for spring. Saloni ‘Isa’ ruffle dress, $650, Valentino ‘Rockstud’ leather pumps, $1,045; both from Saks Fifth Avenue | Gucci sunglasses, $1,105 from Neiman Marcus | Raffia drop earrings, $28, resin cuff, $20; both from Shine Boutique
LIGHT MY FIRE Have the fire department on stand by with this mix of classic patterns. J Brand mid-rise super skinny jeans, $188 from Neiman Marcus | Lafayette short-sleeve tee, $248, Circolo 1901 fleece raglan topcoat, $498; both from Mister Guy Women's | Multistrand wood necklace, $64, raffia tassel earrings, $24; both from Shine Boutique | Jimmy Choo ‘Niles’ sunglasses, $495 from Neiman Marcus
SPARKS ARE FLYING Ignite some style in this brightly hued sequin bomber jacket, perfect for a casual lunch or night on the town. DL 1961 ‘Bridget’ jeans, $188 from Mister Guy Women's Alice + Olivia ‘Lonnie’ bomber jacket, $795, FRAME smocked ruffle sleeveless blouse, $249; both from Neiman Marcus
IT'S ELECTRIC! Brights are big. Find your pop of color, and turn it up a notch. Alice + Olivia ‘Trista’ silk blouse, $275, Alice + Olivia ‘Mikaela’ midi skirt, $350; both from Saks Fifth Avenue Silver crescent necklace, $99, floral earrings, $20; both from Shine Boutique | Shoes, model’s own
ON CALL Be prepared! When the phone rings, a short suit will have you covered for brunch or cocktails. Alice + Olivia ‘Macey’ short jacket, $495, Alice + Olivia ‘Heath’ shorts, $250; both from Saks Fifth Avenue | Valentino caged metallic ‘Napa’ sandal, $1,295 from Neiman Marcus Feather earrings, $22 from Shine Boutique
COOL DOWN NEEDED Graphic black and white never disappoint, and this leather and pearl combo will create some heat! Rebecca Minkoff ‘Wes’ moto jacket, $698, Theory dress, $455; both from Saks Fifth Avenue | Evocateur striped cuff, $320 from Mister Guy Women's | Aquazzura ‘Knockout’ caged sandal, $995 from Neiman Marcus
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FRESH FRAGRANCES by karyn williams | photo by bill barrett A NEW SEASON CALLS FOR A NEW SCENT, and these are all simply divine. Each radiates the freshness of spring, with no overwhelming or off-putting undertones.
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Aventus for Her Suited for the feminine uprising of late, this is a celebration of strong women who test and break boundaries. I would buy it just for that, but its notes of green apple, pink berries, sweet peach and bergamot are also quite attractive. Sweet but strong— the perfect mix for a fragrance and the women who wear it. $405 FOR 2.5 OZ. AT NEIMAN MARCUS AND SAKS FIFTH AVENUE
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Vetyver Bright, fresh and cozy are all words used to describe Vetyver; how could it not be wonderful? The clean fragrance is accented with juniper, citron, nutmeg and musk among others to deliver a feminine and sophisticated scent. $185 FOR 2.5OZ. AT NEIMAN MARCUS AND SAKS FIFTH AVENUE
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Terre de Lumière Everything about this exudes delicate beauty, from the pale pink packaging to the tender, light fragrance that is just enough and never too much. Its head notes include bergamot, pink pepper and black currant complemented by pink peony and almond essence. $89 FOR 3 OZ. AT L’OCCITANE EN PROVENCE
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Arizona As with their celebrated fashion line, designers Jack McCollough and Lazaro Hernandez merged two minds to create their debut scent. Based on adventure and mystery, creamy orris accord and white cactus flower are at the heart of the fragrance. It’s something I want to wear again and again. $100 FOR 1.7 OZ AT SAKS FIFTH AVENUE
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THE NEW McKNIGHT PLACE ASSISTED LIVING & MEMORY CARE EXPANSION OFFERS LUXURY AMENITIES AND OPPORTUNITIES FOR ACTIVE SENIORS WITH THE SAME TRUSTED CARE RESIDENTS HAVE EXPECTED FROM THE GATESWORTH SENIOR LIVING COMMUNITY FOR THE PAST 30 YEARS. THE EXPANSION’S GRAND OPENING CELEBRATION IS FROM 1 TO 4 P.M. JUNE 3. PICTURED ON THE COVER: SHILOH DAVIS, RESIDENT JOSIE CLARK, CO-OWNER CHARLES DEUTSCH. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.993.3333 OR VISIT MCKNIGHTPLACE.COM. COVER COURTESY OF McKNIGHT PLACE COVER PHOTO BY ROB WESTRICH PHOTOGRAPHY
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HOME SWEET HOME MCKNIGHT PLACE ASSISTED LIVING by stephanie wallace
THE GOLDEN YEARS CAN BE JUST AS FULFILLING as the rest of your life. Aging doesn’t mean you have to leave behind your interests or activities that keep life fun and engaging. Senior living communities should anticipate their residents’ needs while still respecting this independence and individuality. At McKnight Place Assisted Living, every element has been researched and designed to provide quality care and create a unique and welcoming experience for each resident. Last fall, McKnight Place cut the ribbon on a $32 million expansion, adding 90 upscale luxury apartment homes and several elegant common areas. To address the needs of residents with Alzheimer’s disease and dementia, 27 newly renovated memory care units will open in June. “It’s been an amazing year,” co-owner Robert Leonard says. “Everyone loves the new building. The apartment homes are spacious and very elegant. Our residents are enjoying a full schedule of activities, and the chef is having a great time with the new kitchen.” The expansion was created to be both luxurious and accessible, a combination that can be difficult to achieve, according to co-owner Charles Deutsch. “It was a challenge, but it also was a lot of fun,” he says of designing the new community. “We provide support for people who may not be as agile or independent as they once were. We don’t want them to lose their dignity just because they are aging.” He explains that while the building had to be functional, McKnight Place wanted to avoid an institutional atmosphere. “It can be difficult to take a structure and make it a warm, residential environment,” he notes. To tackle this issue, McKnight Place worked with The Lawrence Group and Gateco Development. The results speak for themselves, according to Deutsch and Leonard. “The environment really invigorates the soul and provides lots of light and elegance,” Deutsch says. “From the resident halls to the common areas, it’s all tastefully appointed with a blend of elegance, charm and function.” The common areas include activity spaces, TV lounges, a greenhouse, theater, beauty shop and two distinct dining options. The main dining room, which features a two-story ceiling, embroidered draperies and plenty of beautiful artwork, is across the hall from a
European-style cafe complete with a copper ceiling and bar. “They have completely different atmospheres, and our residents are empowered by their ability to make a choice about where they eat dinner,” Deutsch notes. “It supports a sense of excitement and creates a more personal experience.” The new spaces make it easy for residents to engage with each other. “The whole concept is experientially oriented,” Deutsch says. “One of the best times to visit is during happy hour. Everyone is laughing and talking. It reminds me of when you’re 21 and visit a pub for the first time. It’s a very powerful social experience.” Leonard adds that residents have been enjoying a full schedule of activities and even are planning their own. “They are so proud of the new building that they are hosting family parties and other gatherings like bridge clubs and luncheons with friends,” he notes. The arrival of spring weather also has motivated more people to enjoy McKnight Place’s beautiful outdoor spaces. “The residents are taking full advantage of the nice weather, gardens and walking paths,” Leonard says. The apartment homes also were designed to make the transition of moving to the community easy for residents. The amenities and luxury finishes found in each are similar to what people would have in their own homes, including 10-foot ceilings, oversized windows and custom cabinetry. The spacious units allow for cherished heirloom furniture, art and other items to make the move with each resident. “There’s plenty of elegance and space for residents to make themselves feel at home,” Deutsch says. Being able to assist and meet new members of the community has been Leonard’s favorite part of the expansion. “I love listening to their stories and getting to know their families,” he says. “It is really a wonderful and caring atmosphere.” To celebrate the expansion, McKnight Place is throwing a grand opening from 1 to 4 p.m June 3. Guests can tour the apartments, sample food and experience the welcoming atmosphere. “People will feel really satisfied and secure whether they’re helping a loved one transition or moving in themselves,” Deutsch says. “Leaving the grand opening, they’ll recognize that McKnight Place Assisted Living is the right choice.”
Everyone loves the new building. The apartment homes are spacious and very elegant.
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by stephanie wallace | photos by bill barrett COOKING DINNER FOR 200 PEOPLE AT MIDNIGHT IN A CORNFIELD
outside Boston is a unique experience, and one not many chefs can say they’ve had. But it’s just one meal out of thousands in the culinary career of Doug Weerts. The St. Louis native has worked across the country in a variety of roles, from serving movie stars to bringing Pi Pizzeria to the nation’s capital. Now, he’s serving up his own innovative and out-of-the-box pizza creations at Firecracker Pizza & Beer in The Grove. Food wasn’t always something that interested Weerts. “I wasn’t the kid who cooked with his mom or grandmother,” he recalls. “I always was outside racing motorcycles. I loved anything outdoors.” His interest in the culinary arts didn’t begin until he was 19 or 20, but it led him to the Culinary Institute of America in New York. While the training was intense, it helped prepare him for the chaotic nature of working in a kitchen. “They really show you the ropes of what any real restaurant is going to be like,” he says. “They didn’t hold anything back when it came to teaching real life experience. It was fast-paced and hardcore.” That intensity has been emblematic of Weerts’ career. One of his more unique jobs was as a caterer on movie sets. The midnight dinner mentioned previously? Weerts was working on the set of the Tom Cruise movie Knight and Day. He cooked while the crew and actors worked on a plane explosion stunt. Excitement and chaos were par for the course. “There was some craziness to cooking for celebrities,” he says. “Every day was a new location and menu, and you’d work 18 to 19 hours a day. You had to love cooking.” The chef’s energy and ability to thrive in hectic situations has served him well in local kitchens, too. Since returning to St. Louis, he has been at the
helm of Atomic Cowboy and Pi Pizzeria. The latter landed him in Washington, D.C., for 10 weeks to open a new location. He’s excited to be part of St. Louis’ thriving culinary scene, noting that when he was younger, the restaurants here couldn’t compete with either coast. “St. Louis has grown a lot in the last decade,” he says. “It’s cool to be a part of helping the food scene develop to its full potential.” Weerts is making his mark as executive chef of Firecracker, a casual spot from Atomic Cowboy owner Chip Schloss—located right across the street. “Opening a restaurant and helping design it from the ground up has been an amazing experience,” Weerts says. The menu is a combination of ideas from Schloss and Weerts’ inspired creations, and the names also pack a unique punch. Many pizzas are named after bands (like the Beastie Boys-inspired No Sleep ’till Brooklyn, a turkey reuben pie and Weerts’ favorite), but there’s also a cinematic influence. “A lot of the names come from a scene in Joe Dirt that’s about firecrackers,” he explains. References to the movie include the Sizzlin’ Whisker Biscuits and Whistlin’ Kitty Chaser. Despite his impressive pizza pedigree, Weerts says he doesn’t want to limit himself to one thing. He has had an eclectic career, and he wants to continue to grow as a chef. “I’m not one to really talk about myself,” he notes. “I’d much rather be doing the work. Hopefully, people like the product I put out.” Luckily, Firecracker will keep him busy and allow him to continue to flex his creative muscles. Each quarter the restaurant will feature two special pizzas: one that uses seasonal brews and another inspired by rock-n-roll. “It’s been crazy,” he says of the restaurant’s opening in March, but Weerts wouldn’t have it any other way. &
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I HAD SO MUCH FUN A FEW FRIDAYS AGO, I did it again on Saturday. ‘It’ was visiting the Plein Air Arts Festival in Augusta, Missouri, only about 45 minutes from home—although it felt like a world away. The annual event offers 11 days of open-air painting opportunities for artists from all over the country, although most are from our area. Each day, the painting session (or sessions) is held at a different locale around Augusta and its environs, and the public is invited to come and watch the magic happen, eat and drink, socialize and just all-around enjoy the scenic Missouri countryside. If you haven’t ventured west on Hwy. 94 in a while (or ever), you will be amazed at the natural beauty of this area: hilly panoramas, Missouri River vistas, thick forests and flowering trees as far as the eye can see—especially this time of year. Most of the ‘paint-outs’ are held on the grounds of wineries, which makes visiting that much more fun (don’t be surprised by the number of people walking around with glasses—and bottles—of wine at 11 a.m.). But the real draw is watching so many talented artists transfer the bounty before them onto a two-dimensional surface. And appreciating the myriad interpretations they come up with in a range of media. You can walk up to artists and chat, or just wander the grounds trying to discover where each has chosen to set up paints and create something presentable in four hours or less. After each paintout, winners are named and honored. It’s remarkable to see how differently the artists depict the same worn barn or blossom-laden bank of trees—yet how beautiful the various results are. Best of all, after judging, the pieces are displayed and available for sale, so if you love something, you have the chance to take it home, often for an attractive price. This is the festival’s 16th year, and I discovered that just about everyone in Augusta is ‘on the committee.’ The event is a way to promote their town and appreciate the arts, says chairman Kathy Kessler, who owns Halcyon Spa in downtown Augusta (which is about four blocks total). At first, I had trouble wrapping my mind around the plein air concept, but now it makes complete sense: the artists come for the fun of it—and the Augusta Chamber of Commerce makes it easy for them by housing out-of-towners in host homes, providing most of their meals and of course, making sure they get free wine during paint-outs. Turns out, there are other local plein air happenings, too. Wildwood hosted one (its fourth) on May 5, and the Academy of Nature and Wildlife Arts has one planned May 18 to 20. There’s even a group of artists, Missouri Plein Air Painters Association, that gathers weekly to paint outdoors. I can’t imagine a better way to spend a sunny spring day than by taking a ride out to Augusta and seeing artists in action, but maybe doing it a little closer to home will fill the bill, too. Until next April, anyway.
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WHEN YOU’RE A CHILD, SUMMER IS A MAGICAL TIME filled with long days in the sun and
playing outside until dark. With this freedom, however, can come new opportunities for injury and illness. The doctors at St. Louis Children’s Hospital and its pediatric emergency unit at Missouri Baptist Medical Center work tirelessly to not only treat common summer injuries, but also educate families on how to prevent them. The pediatric emergency unit at Missouri Baptist Medical Center is staffed 24 hours a day, seven days a week by specialty-trained pediatric nurses and Washington University–St. Louis Children’s Hospital pediatricians ready to help children and their families. The state-of-the-art ER sees about 5,500 pediatric patients each year and includes nine treatment rooms, six inpatient beds and a dedicated pediatric waiting room stocked with toys. Fortunately for families, wait times are often minimal, ensuring parents and children can return home as soon as possible. “We think of summer as trauma season,” says hospital pediatrician Dr. Katherine Jones. “The nice thing about this time of year is that we see fewer of the common viruses, like flu and RSV, that bring kids to the ER, but we see far more injuries. Kids are outside playing around, and sometimes play leads to injury. We treat a lot of lacerations and broken bones.” These are the most obvious summer injuries, but Jones notes others include sunburn (generally preventable by limiting exposure and liberal use of sunblock starting at age 6 months) and tick-borne or other insect-related illnesses. She recommends insect repellent containing up to 30 percent DEET for kids as young as 2 months. Jones says the more serious issue of hyperthermia is also a concern. “Never leave kids in a hot car, even briefly,” she notes. Other major traumas witnessed in the ER when school is out are injuries sustained in ATV accidents or head injuries from biking accidents. Doctors heavily stress using standard safety practices and always wearing a helmet to help prevent or minimize injuries. Lawnmower accidents also can be serious or deadly. Jones recommends keeping young children inside when you are cutting the grass and never letting kids ride on a lawnmower. Not surprisingly, the biggest prevention issue this time of year for kids is drowning injuries and deaths. “This is the most common cause of injury-related death during childhood,” Jones says. “We always emphasize vigilant supervision, pool safety and age-appropriate swim lessons for kids.” Sometimes parents are uncertain when an ER visit is appropriate. “I can’t emphasize enough the importance of parental intuition,” Jones notes. “If something doesn’t feel or look right to you as a parent, I always recommend that it’s better to be safe than sorry. Have your child checked out.” &
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sk any parent you know, and they'll say nothing is more important than raising happy, healthy kids. It's the most precious and priceless job there is, and it's a constant learning process as parents try to absorb the best advice they can find. There are lots of resources to help families avoid childhood health problems and to find help when learning and behavioral issues arise. Health professionals advise open, positive discussion about all of these subjects so problems can be prevented or dealt with early.
SUB STANCE ABUS E It's one of parents' most heart-wrenching fears—alcohol or drug addiction in their child or teen. The keys to preventing and addressing it are a supportive attitude and positive, two-way communication, health professionals say. “Prevention comes from an environment where kids feel valued, listened to and loved,” says Cassie Korte, a licensed professional counselor at Midwest Institute for Addiction. “Your relationship with your child is like a bank account; you make investments in it, and that affects what you can take out of it. Trust and attention fill up the account, and withdrawals happen when you lovingly confront behaviors and problems. When you haven't made enough deposits of time and encouragement, you get a negative result.”
PA R E N T P O S I T I V E LY.
According to the National Institutes of Health, there is a big difference between 'authoritarian' and 'authoritative' parenting, and it can influence whether kids develop substance abuse issues. Authoritarian parents use strict control without much warmth or responsiveness, but authoritative ones use positive, consistent discipline with a lot of communication and interaction. Children raised by authoritative parents tend to learn better problem-solving and emotional skills, which can help them avoid alcohol and drug use. “Parents also should find the strength to admit their own mistakes in dealing with these issues,” Korte says. “When they are able to say, 'I haven't given you enough attention. I'm sorry, and I'll do better,' that can be very therapeutic for a child who is struggling. Open, congruent communication is key. If parents sugarcoat or tiptoe around substance abuse, they're taking away from the seriousness of it. They need to express themselves honestly if they want their kids to do the same.”
TA L K T H E TA L K .
Dr. Robert Spewak of Southwest Pediatrics says early childhood is a good time to begin conversations about drugs and alcohol. “Kids will absorb what they see online and on TV at a young age,” he notes. “So it's important to start an early, open discussion that's nonjudgmental and positive. If your kids see you as stern and lecturing and don't feel comfortable approaching you, you've already lost them in terms of communication.” He says parents should expect the same judgment-free attitude from any health professionals they turn to for help.
WA L K T H E WA L K .
According to Spewak, another key line of defense against substance abuse is a good parental example. “Show them by your own actions that it's important to make healthy choices,” he notes. “If you don't smoke, use drugs or drink to excess, they will be less likely to.” It's also important not to allow underage drinking in the home and to be consistent about enforcing family rules.
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Spotting the Signs Use your nose. Be alert for the smell of alcohol, marijuana and other substances when kids return from socializing with friends. Watch for mood and behavior changes. Note anything unusual such as irritability, sullenness, clumsiness, fatigue or laughing hysterically for no reason. Monitor teen driving. Look for evidence of alcohol or drug use in the car, including odors and paraphernalia, and pay attention to any auto damage, recklessness or traffic tickets. SOURCE: PARTNERSHIP FOR DRUG-FREE KIDS
S PORTS Naturally, parents want their children to be physically active and healthy. But sometimes the line blurs, and kids end up feeling too much pressure to perform. That stress can cause health and motivation problems, according to Dr. Christian Verry, a Mercy family and sports medicine physician. He has three main pieces of advice for parents of young children: Don't start them in sports too young, don't push them too hard, and don't make them specialize in a sport too early.
body some recovery,” Verry advises. “Also, monitor play to avoid overuse injuries. How many innings is your young pitcher throwing in a month? How many pitches is he taking in practice?” Consult a doctor to ensure sports schedules are appropriate, and consider enrolling kids in activities that exercise different parts of the body. Be alert to signs of mental burnout, too, Verry advises.
. . . to o muc h phys ic a l activity can take a toll on young bodies, espec ially d u r i ng maj o r g row t h p e r io d s . "
AG E S A N D STAG E S Verry says too much physical activity can take a toll on young bodies, especially during major growth periods. “The density of bones tends to be lower before and during a growth spurt, so they can't handle stress as well,” he cautions. “From about age 6 to 10, bone density is good, the tendons are well established and cartilage is less susceptible to injury. But in pre-adolescent and adolescent years, growth plates open up and bone density goes down. Tissues like ligaments need time to catch up to lengthening bones, so they are not as strong during these phases. All of these things can increase injury risk.” Verry says blood supply to body tissues decreases during growth periods, also making them more susceptible.
AVO I D I N G P R O B L E M S To help prevent damage, parents should make sure kids don't overtrain, overcompete or constantly repeat the same motions. “Between sports seasons, build in several weeks of noncompetitive activity to allow the
SA F E O P T I O N S “Running is something everyone can do at their own level,” says Mona Langenberg, president of GO! St. Louis, a nonprofit that encourages physical fitness. “It doesn't require practice, training or a set of skills, so it's a great activity for families to do together. The key is to make it enjoyable for kids so it becomes a lifetime habit.” Langenberg says races and fitness programs sponsored by GO! St. Louis are carefully calibrated for age-appropriate engagement and fun instead of just competition. “Activity should make kids feel good about themselves mentally and physically,” she notes. “Sometimes, well-meaning parents try to push kids into races when they're too young. We counsel them that our age limits are recommended by medical experts and intended for their families' safety.”
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B E H AV I O R AND LEARNING D I SA B I L I T Y RESOURCES If your child is facing a behavior issue or learning problem, you're not alone, and compassionate, professional care is available in the St. Louis area. Knowing the right questions to ask is important both before and during your appointments.
» AS K FOR H E LP. “The first step is a good, thorough evaluation by an experienced professional to find out why your child is having issues,” advises Dr. James Feinberg, a child and adolescent clinical psychologist in private practice. He says counselors, social workers, general psychologists, clinical psychologists and child clinical psychologists receive very different levels of training, so it's important to find a professional with experience, compassion and specialization. “I discourage parents from choosing someone who sees people of all ages,” Feinberg notes. “Young kids and teens require different provider skill sets.”
» FI ND A PART NE R . There are a number of behavioral health nonprofits and educational institutions that also can help kids and families restore balance. Great Circle provides specialized counseling and mental health services, Miriam operates schools and programs for kids with learning issues, and Thrive Autism Solutions helps families dealing with autism spectrum disorders. Hospital systems like Mercy, BJC HealthCare and SSM Health/SLUCare also offer services and referrals.
Unstructured play is best. Running
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Vision and attention span start to improve, so try some organized, supervised activities. T-ball, softball or baseball | Running | Soccer | Gymnastics
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» LI ST E N AND S PE AK . Liz Kinsella, program director at Thrive, says parents should pay attention when a teacher, daycare administrator or school counselor suggests a child may need help. Parents also should be assertive if their family doctor takes a 'wait and see' approach to a child with behavioral or learning problems. “Sometimes doctors worry about offending parents, but early intervention is key, especially for conditions like autism,” she says. “Show the doctor you're comfortable talking about it so you don't end up pushing back important care. The right diagnosis is the golden ticket to services that can really help.” & MAY 16, 2018 | townandstyle.com
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PARENT TRAP PREVENTING SCHOOL SHOOTINGS by dr. tim jordan
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things we can do to prevent school shootings. Without oversimplifying this complex issue, I want to address a couple of areas that we can control. I gathered data from multiple sources for this article. There is no accurate or useful ‘profile’ of students who have engaged in targeted school violence. Most did well in school, with 41 percent getting As and Bs, so don’t gloss over signs that teens are struggling just because they have good grades. Almost half of school shooters were considered to be part of the mainstream crowd at school, almost two-thirds never or rarely got into trouble at school, and most had no history of violence or criminal behavior. But there are types of behaviors that are common to planning or carrying out attacks, which is where prevention can come into play. Most perpetrators had experienced suicidal thoughts (78 percent) or depression (61 percent), though only one-third had ever received a mental health evaluation. Most had trouble coping with significant loss or failures before the attack, like failed romantic relationships, failing grades, and family deaths or illnesses. Kids need
help when they show signs of depression or desperation; individual or family counseling offers them tools to deal with stresses and emotions. Many attackers felt bullied, persecuted or injured by others and said they had tried without success to get someone to intervene. Revenge was a motive for more than half of the attackers (61 percent). The most effective anti-bullying programs focus mostly on bystanders, not the victim or perpetrator. Kids who feel included and valuable and have a good sense of connection with their peers and teachers will not attack people. Students need recurring dialogue with each other to resolve conflicts and learn social-emotional coping skills. This is a much more effective strategy than metal detectors and teachers with guns. In most cases, the attacker’s observable behavior gave hints prior to the attack. Someone else often knew about the plan, but this information rarely made its way to an adult who could have intervened. Schools need to take concerns seriously. Nearly two-thirds of the attackers had a known history of weapons use, and most acquired their guns from home. Many also tended to be obsessed with guns and violent media. The 19-year-old who killed 17 people
in a Florida high school used a semi-automatic AR-15 military-style assault rifle that he purchased at age 18. Why is this allowed? I encourage parents to give their teenagers some privacy, but if a teen seems depressed, withdrawn or aggressive, look for clues about the child’s mental health in diary entries, social media posts and texts. In most past cases, adults would have seen posts about rejection, injustices or unrealistic fears, attempts to recruit peers, an obsession with weapons and plans to take revenge. Pay attention to these red flags and take immediate action. The best way to prevent school shootings is to address widespread problems that are at the root of why kids become perpetrators. We should focus our energy on boosting the connections of the entire school community and be more attuned to kids who show signs of being troubled. Empower the bystanders by taking their concerns seriously. Make sure every kid with any level of mental health concern gets treatment. And most importantly, start using your voices and votes for significant gun reform. &
TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO SPECIALIZES IN COUNSELING GIRLS AGES 6 THROUGH COLLEGE. HE RECENTLY LAUNCHED AN ONLINE VIDEO PARENTING COURSE,TAKING FLIGHT: EVERYDAY PARENTING WISDOM TO HELP GIRLS SOAR. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.
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n the heart of Brentwood, The Refind Room offers a true alternative to traditional resale shops. The store buys and sells a carefully curated mix of vintage and modern furnishings, many of which originated from well-known, quality manufacturers such as Baker, Henredon, Bernhardt and Maitland-Smith. In addition to furniture, The Refind Room sells a wide range of home decor items with continuously changing inventory that is stylish and affordable. The store has become a favorite of local interior designers seeking high-quality pieces for a fair price. Recently, it started carrying new accessory items like pillows and lamps to complement its vintage offerings for a fresh, ontrend look. Located in a historic building on Brentwood Boulevard that once housed the old Brentwood Theatre, The Refind Room is helmed by owner
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from the homeowners » THE OLD REAL ESTATE ADAGE ‘Location, location, location’ may be cliché, but it’s undeniably true. Whether you’re looking for sleek, urban living or a cozy, rural lifestyle, where your house is makes all the difference. Lacie Ehrhart and her family fell in love with their home in Fenton even before walking through the front door.
What attracted you to the house? Lacie Ehrhart | Definitely the property. The house sits on about three-quarters of an acre, and my favorite thing overall is the outdoor space with wildlife, trees and beautiful views. We’re surrounded by pretty substantial woods, and there is gorgeous ornamental landscaping. The beautiful interior and all of the amenities are great, too.
green space, and it’s wonderful to walk around. Living here is like being in an exclusive, secluded area, but it’s also very accessible to the highway.
How do you use your outdoor space? We have three outdoor spaces: a patio off the walk-out basement, an outdoor kitchen and a second-floor balcony that overlooks the Old Towne Fenton and Gravois Bluffs area. We love to entertain, and having a kitchen outside is excellent for that. We have hosted a lot of barbecues and parties for our son. The amount of outdoor space makes it easy to accommodate all of our friends and family. It’s always enjoyable bringing everyone together. The balcony has a fireplace, and in autumn, it’s wonderful to sit out there with a glass of wine and watch the wildlife. What is the neighborhood like? It’s excellent. There are a lot of beautiful homes by different builders, so each has its own unique style. The area has tons of
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Have you renovated any spaces? We’ve done a little bit. We added a flagstone walkway in the backyard so you can walk from the drive to the patio, and we did some additional landscaping. The original carpet was kind of itchy, so we updated it with something much more plush. We also added Surround Sound, which is especially useful in the basement where we have a theater room. How would you describe your design style? I’d say it’s contemporary. What is your favorite room in the house? The library. It has beautiful wood paneling with French doors and huge windows. I love being in there to read or just look outside. The wild turkeys like to peep in the windows!
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Would you like to tackle a backyard puzzle? We live in a 1950s ranch in Kirkwood and love to eat outside. Our backyard has been neglected since we moved in years ago. We would like to tie three projects together: provide much-needed maintenance to the retaining wall, replace the back door stairs and make eating outdoors less treacherous coming in and out of the kitchen. (The back door goes into the kitchen.) We would love to exit outside on the same level as the kitchen, but are aware that doing so will raise the height of the retaining wall at the driveway, and we don’t want to do that. Are we stuck? Thanks,
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Your decaying porch structure and retaining wall offer a clean design direction because when they are removed, we can build a spacious new wood deck at the same level as the kitchen for ease of serving, which will expand your outdoor entertaining options. If you use a white railing and stone columns to match the remaining portion of the retaining wall, the deck will fit well with the existing architecture. Additional upgrades include black shutters similar to those on the front façade, new window boxes, a striped awning, carriage-style garage doors and a few black coach lamps. These changes all work together to give the rear elevation a bit more elegance and charm. Landscaping changes include a burning bush hedge on top of the retaining wall (for safety), a flowerbed featuring multicolor tulips, and some ornamental grasses to help hide the electric meter. Now that you have a new deck to enjoy along with your existing stone terrace, your backyard will be ‘the place to be’ as the weather warms up. Thanks for asking, —HOMEWORK
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holly bry gladys manion real estate FOR MORE THAN 20 YEARS, HOLLY BRY HAS BEEN HELPING CLIENTS FIND THEIR PERFECT HOMES IN THE CENTRAL CORRIDOR AS AN AGENT FOR GLADYS MANION REAL ESTATE.
The St. Louis native enjoys helping buyers and sellers navigate the complicated process. She has assisted everyone from professional athletes to multiple generations of the same family. “I have reached a new stage in my career where I have the honor of helping the children of friends and clients,” Bry says. “It is so flattering that they trust me with this major decision.”
What has been your most memorable experience in real estate? It’s hard to say which experience has been the most memorable. I’ve had so many! Working with a few professional athletes over the years has been fun. One time, I was sitting at the front desk of our office when a very tall, polite, good-looking young man came in the door, asking if I could help him get out of his noisy rental and find a quiet place to live—turns out he was a new player for the Cardinals! I helped him with three homes during his St. Louis career, met his girlfriend and was the first person they told when they got engaged! Actually, I have been the first one to hear about a couple’s engagement or pregnancy more than once. I enjoy working with clients of any age, but it has been especially rewarding to help young buyers make their first home purchase, and then the next one. I have the pleasure of following them through getting married and having babies! What areas attract young buyers? My young buyers end up in the central corridor from the Central West End to Chesterfield and Ballwin. Young buyers today know what they want, are Internet-savvy and involve themselves in the home search process. They have different priorities—some want a short commute to work, some want a specific school district and those from St. Louis often want to live in the area where they grew up. (They always think it’s the best!)
What are buyers looking for most in homes? The majority of buyers want a home that is new or renovated and movein ready. They do not seem to have the time or interest for a fixer-upper. They also want floor plans that have usable space with a focus on kitchens and family rooms where everyone can gather in a casual setting. What are the disadvantages to a ‘For Sale by Owner’ for both buyers and sellers? The process has become so complicated that buyers and sellers need professionals to help navigate it. It’s really in both parties’ best interests to have the protection of working with someone who is very familiar with contracts. If they get through the negotiation phase and agree on a price, there are still many complicated steps. The inspection phase also can be overwhelming and frustrating. And finally, from a marketing standpoint, a professional can show your home to its best advantage, providing more exposure and ultimately getting you a higher sale price. What is the biggest hurdle you had to overcome in real estate? My first year in business, I didn’t make a sale. It was extremely frustrating to stick with it when nothing was happening, and I had to work hard—but I’m glad I did!
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what are some interesting ideas for sprucing up home landscaping? Many clients are asking us to create dry creek beds in their yards—not for drainage, just for appearance. They can be as long as you like; the bed can start at the back edge of the property and lead up to a focal point like a deck or patio. The idea is to establish a visual divider between landscaped areas like planted beds, and it should be built to be seen and enjoyed from the house, patio or deck. To create a creek bed, we first draw it out on the lawn, excavate a shallow trench, then put down landscape fabric to prevent weeds. We lay down cobblestones that are about the size of a tennis ball, then create attractive plantings on either side. Clients also are very interested in tropical plants that make a colorful statement. Varieties like hibiscus and lantana are popular because they’re more exotic and interesting than run-of-the-mill marigolds or geraniums, and they come in bright colors like reds, oranges and pinks, which are becoming much more popular than whites and pastels. The tropical plants do well in the St. Louis heat. Many people also are asking for massive front- and backyard flower beds for high-end homes; they make a bold statement and add to the curb appeal. —PATRICIA CUBBAGE, NURSERY MANAGER GARDEN OASIS LANDSCAPE & DESIGN
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First, think about how you want to use your outdoor space. Are you just looking for some visual interest, or is your family outside a lot? Do you enjoy watching butterflies and birds? Many things can affect your choice of plants. For example, if you plan to sit on the patio often, don’t plant things like purple coneflowers nearby because they will attract bees. And if you have deer in the area, don’t plant hostas or other things they like to eat. On the other hand, many people choose milkweed to attract monarch butterflies or trumpet creeper for hummingbirds. For year-round color, choose perennial hellebores that bloom in late winter or early spring, then plant early summer flowers like daisies, a variety of annuals during the summer, and holly bushes that produce red berries in the fall. Japanese maples produce bright foliage, and red-twig dogwood provides vibrant color in the winter. Many homeowners are interested in incorporating native plants into their landscaping. Asters, native primrose and coral bell are good examples of flowering species. A professional can help you figure out which local plants will work in your yard based on its size and shape, how you use it, and the amount of sun and water it gets. –TERESA HESSEL, PROJECT MANAGER M&P LANDSCAPING
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Interior & Exterior Painting, Staining, Powerwashing, Wallpaper Removal. Insured and Free Estimates. Dependable. Owner & Operator Matt 314-401-9211
Full Service, Affordable, Experienced Interior/Exterior Painting Call Dan 314-706-3201
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Spring Into Tune! Bill McGreevy Associate Member Piano Technicians Guild 314-335-9177 wrmcgreevy@gmail.com
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1065 Cabin Club Drive | $990,000 | 1-3 p.m. 314.997.4800 | janetmcafee.com 2 Dromara Road | $1,300,000 | 1-3 p.m. 314.997.4800 | janetmcafee.com 2 Sumac Lane | $1,590,000 | 1-3 p.m. 314.997.4800 | janetmcafee.com
5231 Studer Lane | $1,199,000 | 1-3 p.m. 314.997.4800 | janetmcafee.com
Tree Pruning & Removal, Plant Healthcare Program, Deadwooding, Stump Grinding, Deep Root Fertilization, Cabling & Storm Cleanup Cary Semsar ISA Board Certified Master Arborist OH-5130B Free Estimate, Fully Insured Call 314-426-2911 info@meyertreecare.com www.meyertreecare.com
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Are you interested in selling your home in Clayton AS IS andavoiding commissions and showings? Flexible close dates to work with your needs. If so, call Mike @ 314-374-3846 Michael Lauren Development LLC 121 Hunter Ave, Ste 201 St. Louis, MO 63124
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TREE SERVICE PROFESSIONALS
Trimming • Deadwooding Reduction • Removals Stump grinding • Year round service • Fully insured Contact Michael Baumann for a free estimate & property inspection at 636-375-2812 You’ll be glad you called!
YOUR TREES DESERVE THE BEST CARE PRUNING TRIMMING REMOVAL SPRAYING FERTILIZATION
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WINDOW CLEANING M & P WINDOW WASHING & GUTTER CLEANING Reasonable Rates, Free Estimates, Angie’s List, Insured, Dependable, 30+ Years of Experience & Ref’s. Call Mark, 314-805-7367 or Paul, 314-805-6102
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2208 Ridgley Woods Drive $665,000 | Pr/SqFt: $172.64 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Sally Harris 1141 Greystone Manor Parkway $877,500 | Pr/SqFt: $196.31 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Kara Kaswell
8140 Kingsbury Blvd. $738,500 | Pr/SqFt: $304.91 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate Agent: Karen Tucker
199 Cornelia Ave. | $457,600 Pr/SqFt: $262.23 Upper End Properties Agent: Seth Reeder 664 Hawbrook Ave. | $477,000 Pr/SqFt: $271.02 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Christine Thompson 1024 Brownell Ave. | $610,000 Pr/SqFt: $213.14 RedKey Realty Leaders Agent: Teri Nicely 1801 and 1803 W. Adams Ave. $902,800 | Pr/SqFt: $293.02 Realty Executives Premiere Agent: Mark Drewel 701 E. Monroe Ave. | $1,165,000 Pr/SqFt: $250.27 Laura McCarthy Real Estate Agent: Lizzy Dooley
[ 63017 ] 25 Baxter Lane | $708,000 Pr/SqFt: $187.20 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Teresa Lessaris
[ 63021 ] 1516 Wolf Trail Road $900,000 | Pr/SqFt: $155.74 Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty Agent: Ted Wight
[ 63038 ] 1548 Garden Valley Drive $575,000 | Pr/SqFt: $149.04 Real Living Now Real Estate Agent: Tiffany Ludwig
[ 63108 ] 5290 Waterman Blvd., No. 3W $548,500 | Pr/SqFt: $178.08 Gladys Manion Real Estate Agent: Rex Schwerdt
[ 63117 ] 1150 Hillside Drive | $610,000 Pr/SqFt: N/A Gladys Manion Real Estate Agent: Ann Farwell 7476 Hoover Ave. | $684,128 Pr/SqFt: $213.92 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Diane Denny
[ 63119 ] 373 Edgar Road | $600,000 Pr/SqFt: $217.55 Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties Agent: Teresa Lessaris 316 S. Maple Ave. | $800,000 Pr/SqFt: $185.44 Keller Williams Realty St. Louis Agent: Eric Bronner
[ 63124 ] 9747 Litzsinger Road $1,015,000 | Pr/SqFt: $187.68 Jon Mendelson Realtors Agent: Kitsy Sheahan
[ 63131 ] 1815 Gray Drive | $593,000 Pr/SqFt: $244.84 Coldwell Banker Premier Group Real Estate Agents: Mark and Neil Gellman
[ 63141 ] 243 Magna Carta Drive $589,000 | Pr/SqFt: $154.27 Janet McAfee Real Estate Agent: Lawrence Levy 13137 Bellerive Farm Drive $632,000 | Pr/SqFt: $141.32 Coldwell Banker Premier Group Real Estate Agents: Mark and Neil Gellman
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