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TABLE OF CONTENTS

13 Puttin’ on the Dog Celebrates 20 Years

LIFE’s annual fundraising event Puttin’ on the Dog is turning 20! To celebrate, the event is getting a shiny new theme.

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Vol. 30, No. 6 LIFE Senior Services, Inc. Publisher Laura Kenny President and Chief Executive Officer

14 T ips for Decking the Halls

Kelly Kirchhoff Director of Marketing and Strategic Planning

Nothing puts us in the holiday spirit like pine-scented Christmas trees, twinkling lights and doorways festooned with ribbons and wreaths. But decorating for the holidays can be a dreaded chore. Find helpful tips and ideas for simplifying this year’s hall-decking.

Erin Shackelford Managing Editor eshackelford@LIFEseniorservices.org Bernie Dornblaser Advertising Director bdornblaser@LIFEseniorservices.org Leah Weigle Graphic Designer

18 Building New Holiday Traditions or many seniors, the holidays can be a difficult F time of the year. Whether it’s due to the loss of a spouse or the relocation into a senior living community, it’s hard to let go of long-standing holiday traditions. But it’s possible to have a very merry holiday season, if you and those close to you are open to forming new – and equally enjoyable – holiday traditions.

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Carol Carter Copy Editor Carrie Henderson Bowen Circulation Coordinator cbowen@LIFEseniorservices.org dick mccandless Community Distribution

20 O, Christmas Tree

This holiday, you can find a forest of festive trees throughout the Tulsa area whose lovely branches are sure to help you get in the holiday spirit.

22 Sharing Holiday Memories and Traditions

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The holidays are a time to reconnect with family and friends. And while every gathering creates new memories, the beloved memories and traditions from past holidays can bring added joy and comfort during the season. We’re happy to share some of our cherished memories and traditions with you.

24 G uide to Gift Giving

Don’t let gift giving stress you out. There are plenty of ways to give something special to those you love and appreciate. From family and friends to delivery drivers and hair stylists, you’ll find creative ideas for everyone on our list.

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From the Publisher 6 Looking Back 8 Caregiver Corner 10 Weathering the Winter Medicare & You 12 Benefits Update 2016 1 Protect Yourself from Scams Seminar Healthy Aging Stories That Heal The Dinner Belle Dine in Style at Celebrity Restaurant Noteworthy Mindbender & Puzzles Business Directory Share Your Time & Talent Calendar LIFE EDU People & Places Classifieds Vintage Friends

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LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine is published monthly by LIFE Senior Services (a Tulsa Area United Way nonprofit) and helps fulfill LIFE Senior Services’ mission to promote and preserve independence for seniors. This publication is printed and mailed at no charge. Donations of any amount are appreciated and will help offset LIFE Senior Services’ production costs. A donation of $25 per year is suggested. To make a donation, visit www.LIFEseniorservices.org/VintageDonate or call (918) 664-9000. LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine accepts advertising to defray the cost of production and distribution, and appreciates the support of its advertisers. The publisher does not specifically endorse advertisers or their products or services. LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine reserves the right to refuse advertising. Rates are available upon request by calling (918) 664-9000. © LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine and LIFE Senior Services, Inc., 2015. All rights reserved. Reproduction without consent of the publisher is prohibited.

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t’s that time of year again – the season to rejoice with friends and family! In this spirit, we’re pleased to celebrate the most wonderful time of the year with a holiday-themed issue. But before the merriment begins, our staff and volunteers are busy preparing holiday stockings for homebound seniors, helping enroll hundreds of seniors in Medicare prescription drug plans, while continuing to provide programs and services that keep seniors independent and active in the community. In addition, some of the elves from our Vintage Publications staff gathered an assortment of holiday tips that will help you ease into the hustle and bustle of the season. In the article Tips for Decking the Halls on page 14, we talk with a local interior designer for some helpful tips and tricks for simplifying this year’s holiday decorating. You will also find instructions for a few easy-to-make craft projects that will add some holiday pizazz to your space.

Laura Kenny President and CEO of LIFE Senior Services, LIFE’s Vintage Housing and LIFE PACE

While many of us anxiously anticipate flipping our calendar to December, the holidays can be a difficult time of the year for some. Whether it’s due to the recent loss of spouse, the physical or mental inability to host the family Christmas dinner, or the relocation into a senior living community, it’s hard to let go of long-standing holiday traditions. In the article Building New Holiday Traditions on page 18, we talk about the benefits of creating new – and equally enjoyable – holiday traditions when family and lifestyle dynamics change.

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Next, we take a look at some of the area’s most recognizable and notable Christmas trees on page 20, as well as share a few of your fellow readers’ most cherished holiday memories and traditions on page 22. Since gift giving can be another stressor of the season, we’ve also put together an eclectic gift guide on page 24 that is brimming with ideas ranging from affordable and handmade to slightly more expensive and store bought. If you don’t find the perfect gift for that special someone on our list, we hope it at least stirs your gift-giving creativity! Finally, LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine is only one of the many services LIFE provides to seniors and caregivers across Green Country. On the next page, you will learn more about another one of our services and the tremendous impact it has made in the lives of Susan and Neil. As a nonprofit, LIFE Senior Services is dependent on donations to keep our programs and services operational, as well as to continue helping seniors in our area retain their health and independence. Within in the pages of this issue, you will find a donation envelope. If you are able, we hope you consider investing in LIFE Senior Services and joining us in our mission to promote and preserve independence for seniors today - tomorrow - always. Until next year,

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will never forget that day. I had just gotten out of court where I had been granted guardianship of my husband Neil of 40+ years. He was in the later stages of Alzheimer’s disease and simply could not take care of himself any longer. My new responsibilities were weighing heavily on my mind, and I was not sure I was up to the task. I was also grieving the loss of the man I had married all those years ago, and the loss of the dreams we had for our retirement. I was forced to face the fact that there was no hope of him ever getting better. I was facing the end of the journey we started so many years ago. As I was driving down 31st Street in Tulsa, I passed LIFE Senior Services. I drove around the building twice, trying to make up my mind. I finally parked the car, went inside and asked for help. I was encouraged to try LIFE’s Adult Day Health program for Neil. I remember little of this meeting, except that we qualified for financial help and that Neil could have a free visit day to try out the program. I said that I would think about it. When I got home, I called back and made arrangements for Neil to visit the program. When I dropped Neil off the next morning, he was like a kid in a candy store. He was talking a mile a minute, laughing and joking. It had been a long time since I had seen him that excited. I left him at the Adult Day Health center, and I went home to sleep. When I picked up Neil that afternoon, he appeared to have had a good day. That evening, Neil was quiet and tired. For the first time in many months, he did not experience sundowning syndrome. He slept through the night, and so did I.

Day after day for the last year, I have gotten Neil up every morning to get ready to go to LIFE’s Adult Day Health. When I pick him up in the afternoons, he’s never ready to leave, but he’s always happy to see me. Friends sometime ask me, what does having Neil in Adult Day Health mean to me. The best way I can describe it is through the analogy of the caterpillar and the butterfly. Before Neil was in Adult Day Health, I was overwhelmed, tired, frustrated and depressed. My life was one disaster after another. I never thought I would be able to take control of our lives again. After Neil began going to LIFE, I used my freedom to get the rest I needed and to become the caregiver I wanted to be. I gained the knowledge and the courage to work with my family to develop a care plan for Neil during his final journey. During this time, I also got enough sleep, became less stressed, educated myself on caregiving and Alzheimer’s, took better care of myself, and found organizations – like LIFE Senior Services – who could help with tax preparation and care management services. I also began accepting help from my family and adult children. We called a family meeting, so that everyone could voice their needs and concerns, and contribute to the plan. We met via teleconference for several months, developing a list of action items that are now being implemented. We have come so far in such a short time. LIFE Senior Services, thank you for touching our lives and making them so much richer. Neil and I are ready to try our new butterfly wings. Sincerely,

Susan and Neil

SUPPORT LIFE Every penny invested in LIFE Senior Services stays local to support seniors and caregivers in our community, like Susan and Neil. The donation you invest with us will go towards our local programming and services, such as Adult Day Health and Care Management. To make it easy to give, a donation envelope is included in this issue of LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine. If you prefer to give online, visit www.LIFEseniorservices.org/donate. You can also call (918) 664-9000 to make a donation over the phone. We thank you for your support and wish you a wonderful 2016! www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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looking back

Tulsa’s Christmas Past

All photos (unless otherwise noted) courtesy of Tulsa Historical Society.

Lilah Lindsey’s family Christmas, c.1906. Courtesy of Beryl Ford Collection/Rotary Club of Tulsa

Charles Page brought live reindeer to Tulsa by railway for the Christmas parade, c. 1910-20s.

Tulsa’s Christmas parade at 4th Street and Denver Avenue, c. 1938.

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See additional pictures in the digital edition of December’s LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine at www.LIFEseniorservices.org.

in history Children searching for Santa Claus, c. 1914.

Students painting a stage for a Christmas party, c. 1950s.

this month in history December 9, 1950: Harry Gold was sent to prison for atomic espionage Harry Gold, a 39-year-old chemist who confessed to being a courier between a British scientist who stole top-secret information on the atomic bomb and Soviet agents, was sentenced to 30 years in jail for his crime. Gold’s arrest and confession led to the arrest of David Greenglass, who then implicated his brother-in-law and sister, Julius and Ethel Rosenberg.

December 19, 1986: World Series parachutist was sentenced Michael Sergio, who parachuted into the 1986 World Series at New York’s Shea Stadium, was fined $500 and sentenced to 100 hours of community service. On Oct. 25, Sergio, a 37-year-old Mets fan, landed on the infield with a “Let’s Go Mets” banner in the first inning of the sixth game between the Mets and the Boston Red Sox.

December 11, 1946: UNICEF was founded After WWII, the General Assembly of the United Nations voted to establish the United Nations International Children’s Emergency Fund (UNICEF), an organization to help provide relief and support to children living in war-devastated countries. After the crises of the late 1940s passed, UNICEF continued as a relief organization for children of troubled nations, growing into a vocal advocate of children’s rights.

December 22, 1900: First “Mercedes” was delivered to its buyer The first car to be produced under the Mercedes name was delivered to Emil Jellinek, the Austrian car racer, auto dealer to the rich and famous, and bon vivant. Jellinek commissioned the Mercedes car from the German company Daimler-Motoren-Gesellschaft. In exchange for his extraordinary patronage, the company agreed to name its new machine after Jellinek’s daughter, Mercedes.

December 14, 1900: Quantum theory was born German physicist Max Planck published his groundbreaking study of the effect of radiation on a “blackbody” substance, and the quantum theory of modern physics was born. The theory helped to resolve previously unexplained natural phenomena, like the behavior of heat in solids and the nature of light absorption on an atomic level. In 1918, Planck was awarded the Nobel Prize.

December 26, 1966: First Kwanzaa celebrated The first day of the first Kwanzaa was celebrated in Los Angeles under the direction of Maulana Karenga, the chair of Black Studies at California State University at Long Beach. The seven-day holiday, which has strong African roots, was designed by Dr. Karenga as a celebration of AfricanAmerican family, community and culture.

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CAREGIVER CORNER

ne of the biggest threats for older adults during the winter is the cold. As we age, skin begins to thin, production of body heat decreases and blood circulation slows. Poor blood circulation can create problems, such as increased arthritis pain or difficulty remembering tasks and medications. Below are some tips for keeping you and your loved one happy, safe and warm this winter. Keep Healthy and Warm This Winter v Stay indoors, especially when it is cold and windy. Also, it is strongly suggested that older adults keep their thermostats above 65 degrees Fahrenheit. Older adults who lower thermostats below this temperature increase their risk for hypothermia. v Moisturize your skin. Cold air can make skin sore and dry. Adults should moisturize regularly after handwashing and bathing. Using a humidifier and drinking plenty of fluids can help minimize cold air damage. v Stay dry. Wet clothes make it more difficult for your body to warm. Things to Monitor When You’re Out in the Cold vH ypothermia occurs when a person experiences a dangerous drop in body temperature. While shivering alone does not indicate hypothermia, some of the warning signs include intense shivering, cold skin that is pale or ashy, tiredness, confusion, weakness, sleepiness, difficulty walking, slower breathing and/or heart rate. Some medical conditions and prescriptions can increase the likelihood of developing hypothermia. Check with your doctor regarding you or your loved one’s risk for developing hypothermia. vF rostbite occurs when skin tissue freezes and usually involves numb, waxy skin that has become slightly grey, white or yellow. Call 911 if you believe you or a loved one are experiencing hypothermia or frostbite. Stay Safe and Warm this Winter vC heck and, if needed, change batteries in carbon monoxide and smoke detectors. vM ake sure that any space heater purchased is marked as “UL certified” and is at least 3 feet away from all objects, fabrics and people. Also, do not use an electric blanket when sleeping. v Do not overload extension cords. v I f you do not have a fire extinguisher, purchase one for your home. It is better to have one and not need it than to need it and not have one. vC heck your furnace and heating ducts. Proper use and ventilation are important to prevent problems like carbon monoxide poisoning. v Never use an oven to heat your house, as it can cause carbon monoxide to build up in your home. For more information about ways to properly heat your home and resources that can help you pay for your utilities, call LIFE’s SeniorLine at (918) 664-9000. 10

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Winterizing Your Home v Cordless phones do not work when the power is out. It’s important to have a traditional phone with a cord or a charged cell phone available for these situations. v Have a battery-operated radio or weather radio available. You will be able to listen to updates on weather conditions or receive safety instructions. v Ensure walls, attics and outside faucets are properly insulated. If your pipes freeze, know when and how to shut off your water. v Try to walk on cleared sidewalks or pathways, and be leery of black ice. Wear boots with non-skid soles, so you are less likely to slip. If using a walker or cane, replace the rubber bottoms before they are worn smooth. Icepick-style attachments for the rubber bottoms are available at medical supply stores and can further help prevent slipping. v Visiting Angels recommends a “senior storm kit.” These kits may be stored within homes or cars and should include bottled water, flashlight and fresh batteries, first aid kit, socks, gloves, weekly pill box, cereal bars and a winter safety checklist. Other items you may want to include are candles, matches, blankets, an extra pair of glasses, scarf, etc. Winterizing Your Vehicle v Keep wipers, tires, lights and fluid levels well maintained. v Try to keep at least a half tank of gas in your car at all times. v Keep an ice scraper and senior storm kit in your car in case of an emergency. v Keep a bag of rock salt or cat litter in your trunk to use when your car loses traction. v Be wary of black ice. Bridges and overpasses are first to freeze and likely to be icy before roads. v If you or a loved one is driving a long distance, travel during the day and preferably with another person. Keep Everyone Around You Safe v If you are worried about a neighbor or relative and have not seen or heard from them, you can ask the police to conduct a welfare check. When asking for a welfare check, call the non-emergency phone number; if you know it is an emergency, dial 911. v Older adults are at an increased risk for developing depression during winter months. Keep seniors active by encouraging them to participate in fulfilling activities. If there is snow outside, perform exercises, like walking in place or bicep curls with a soup can, inside. Always consult a physician before beginning any exercise routine. by Jessica Allen, MS, LIFE’s Community Education Specialist Sources: www.healthyaging.org, www.winfieldpost.com, www.visitingangels.com, www.mayoclinic.org, www.mansionseniorliving.com, www.healthinaging.org

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medicare & you

The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) has set the Medicare premiums, deductibles and coinsurance amounts to be paid by Medicare beneficiaries in 2016. Medicare Part A (Hospital Insurance) Medicare Part A helps cover inpatient hospital care, inpatient care in a skilled nursing facility, hospice care and home healthcare services. v Part A Monthly Premium: Most Medicare beneficiaries do not have to pay a premium for Part A services because they have at least 40 quarters of Medicare-covered employment (or are the spouse or widow of such a person). However, some enrollees who have fewer than 40 quarters of coverage can buy Part A coverage by paying a monthly premium of up to $411 in 2016. v Part A Deductible and Coinsurance: The Medicare Part A deductible that beneficiaries pay when admitted to the hospital will be $1,288 in 2016, which is a small increase from $1,260 in 2015. The Part A deductible covers beneficiaries’ share of costs for the first 60 days of Medicare-covered inpatient hospital care in a benefit period. The daily coinsurance amounts will be $322 for days 61 through 90 of hospitalization in a benefit period and $644 for lifetime reserve days. For beneficiaries in skilled nursing facilities, the daily coinsurance for days 21 through 100 in a benefit period will be $161 in 2016 ($157.50 in 2015). Note: A benefit period starts the day a patient is admitted and ends when the patient has been out of the hospital for 60 days in a row. Medicare Part B (Medical Insurance) Medicare Part B helps cover medically-necessary physicians’ services, outpatient care, home health services, durable medical equipment and other medical services. Part B also covers many preventive services. v Part B Monthly Premium: As the Social Security Administration previously announced, there will be no Social Security cost of living increase for 2016. As a result, by law, most people with Medicare Part B will be “held harmless” from any increase in premiums in 2016 and will pay the same monthly premium as last year, which is $104.90. Medicare Part B beneficiaries not subject to the “hold harmless” provision will pay $121.80, as calculated reflecting the provisions of the Bipartisan Budget Act signed into law by President Obama last month. Medicare Part B beneficiaries not subject to the “hold harmless” provision are those not collecting Social Security benefits, those who will enroll in Part B for the first time in 2016, dual eligible beneficiaries who have their premiums paid by Medicaid and beneficiaries who pay an additional income-related premium. These groups account for about 30 percent of the 52 million Americans expected to be enrolled in Medicare Part B in 2016. v Part B Income Related Adjustment: Since 2007, beneficiaries with higher incomes have paid higher Part B monthly premiums. Specifically, if a beneficiary’s “modified adjusted gross income” as reported on their IRS tax return from two years ago is above $85,000 ($170,000 filing jointly) the beneficiary is responsible for a larger portion of the cost of their coverage. These premium adjustments range from $48.70 to $268 more per month for Medicare Part B. About 5 percent of current Part B enrollees are expected to be subject to the higher premium amounts. Note: The Affordable Care Act also requires Part D enrollees whose incomes exceed these same thresholds to pay a monthly adjustment 12

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amount in addition to their plan premium. These enrollees will pay the regular plan premiums to their Part D plan and will pay the incomerelated adjustment to Medicare. v Part B Deductible and Coinsurance: Costs for Part B services depend on whether you have Original Medicare or are in a Medicare health plan. For some services, there are no costs, but you may have to pay for the doctor’s visit. If the Part B deductible applies, you must pay all costs until you meet the yearly Part B deductible before Medicare begins to pay its share.

• In 2016, the Part B deductible will be $166, up from $147 in 2015. •A fter your deductible is met, you typically pay 20 percent of the Medicare-approved amount of the service. • I f you join a Medicare Advantage Plan, like an HMO or PPO, or have other insurance, such as a Medigap policy or employer or union coverage, your costs may be different. by Cindy Loftin Medicare Assistance Program Coordinator at LIFE Senior Services Source: www.cms.hhs.gov

PROTECT YOURSELF FROM

SCAMS SEMINAR Financial scams targeting seniors are considered “the crime of the 21st century.” A recent study estimated that older Americans lost at least $2.9 billion dollars via financial exploitation in 2014. Sadly, financial scams often go unreported and can be difficult for law enforcement to prosecute, so criminals consider them a low-risk, high-profit crime. However, they’re devastating to many older adults, and can leave them vulnerable. It’s not just wealthy seniors who are targeted. Low-income older adults are also at risk of financial abuse. And it’s not always strangers who perpetrate these crimes. Over 90 percent of reported financial exploitation crimes are committed by a family member. Even if you haven’t been a victim of financial exploitation, chances are good that someone you know has been scammed. They may not talk about it, but the statistics do. That’s why LIFE Senior Services is pleased to offer a special program from the United States Secret Service, the federal law enforcement agency tasked with investigating financial-related crimes. The program is designed to provide you with information and tips to help prevent common frauds, scams and other types of elder financial exploitation. The “Protect Yourself from Scams” seminar, presented by Special Agent Coffman, will teach you how to avoid becoming a victim. See page 35 for details on how to reserve your spot.

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Puttin’ on the Dog

Celebrates 20 Years with “The Platinum Party”

Rod Nordstrom, John and Denise Redmond, and Laura Kenny In 1997, LIFE Senior Services held its first fundraising event called “In the Dog House.” The event centered on the tremendous benefit derived from relationships between seniors and dogs. Four short years later, the annual event evolved into “Puttin’ on the Dog,” a title that aptly reflects the revelry of dressing up to go out and have a spectacular time. In keeping with the celebratory tone of the evening and to commemorate its 20th anniversary, LIFE is pleased to present this year’s Puttin’ on the Dog theme: The Platinum Party. Over the past 19 years, more than $4.1 million has been raised through this fabulous event. The proceeds have benefited thousands of seniors and their families in and around the Tulsa area, and helped LIFE Senior Services, a Tulsa Area United Way nonprofit, further its mission to promote and preserve independence for seniors – today – tomorrow – always. Puttin’ on the Dog “The Platinum Party” will be held at the Cox Business Center in downtown Tulsa on Thursday, Feb. 11, 2016, at 6 p.m. During this memorable evening, guests – donned in platinum-inspired dress – will enjoy a delectable gourmet dinner, decadent desserts, musical entertainment, upscale wine pull (guaranteed to be unlike anything previously conducted in Tulsa), as well as opportunities to win prizes in the silent auction, raffle and the alwaysspirited live auction. In this year’s live auction, attendees will have the chance to bid on a one-of-a-kind package to caddy for PGA pro Jordan Spieth, who was the 2015 FedEx Cup winner, as well as a meet and greet or dinner with several actors from The Young and the Restless TV show! Plus, LIFE is very excited to have LeAnne Taylor, KOTV’s Six in the Morning spunky co-host, as the evening’s emcee, along with auctioneer Jay Litchfield, who will conduct the bidding during the event’s live auction. To make this year even more special, Denise and John Redmond are returning as event chairs for a second consecutive year. “My wife and I find great personal satisfaction in supporting LIFE’s mission, which includes assisting families and caregivers by connecting them to the valuable services that support the expanding number of seniors in the region,” said John, president and CEO of BlueStone Natural Resources headquartered in Tulsa. “As co-chairs of this milestone event, we invite you to celebrate LIFE’s accomplishments with us. Please join us for this great event, and we promise you will have a memorable evening.” Individual tickets are $150 and table sponsorship opportunities are still available. Please contact Rickye Wilson at (918) 664-9000 or visit www.LIFEseniorservices.org/POD for tickets and more information. www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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TIPS FOR

DECKING the Halls

Nothing puts us in the holiday spirit like pine-scented Christmas trees, twinkling lights and doorways festooned with ribbons and wreaths. For many of us, decorating (and later un-decorating) for the holidays becomes a dreaded chore. Yet, I admit I dream of waking up one chilly December morning to find my house a shimmering Christmas vision.

ell, so much for dreaming. Let’s talk about some practical ideas for decorating that are simple, fun, affordable and appropriate for any size living space. First, full disclosure: I’m all thumbs when it comes to crafts. I knew I’d need a little help with this article, so I contacted interior designer Kendra Brawner for ideas. “As we age, we can sometimes feel lonely and isolated during the holidays,” said Brawner. “A little bit of holiday decoration can bring the spirit of Christmas or Hanukkah into our living space, whether we live in a big house or have downsized to an apartment, assisted living center or a nursing home. Decorating doesn’t need to be over the top, and you don’t need to spend a lot of money.”

First Simplify

This year, give yourself permission to throw away tired old ornaments and decorations that are broken, frayed and faded. Items that are still nice, but no longer bring you joy, can be traded with friends or donated. “Get rid of what you don’t like and add a few new, fresh things,” said Brawner. “And you don’t have to put everything you have out every year,” she added. “Also, if you have a collection of things [like snowmen, penguins, etc.], it’s really nice to group them together, instead of having them scattered all over the place. It gives your collection more presence, and it’s a lot more fun to look at as a grouping,” she said.

Teeny Tannenbaum

“I think a tree adds a lot of charm to your home at the holidays,” said Brawner. “You don’t need to have a big tree, you can just do a small table-top one,” she said. “You can get a small, inexpensive pre-lit tree at major craft stores, such as Michaels or Hobby Lobby.” 14

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According to Brawner, you can choose whether or not you decorate the tree. If you are tired of your decades-old ornaments or just don’t feel like getting them out, you can give your tree a simple, elegant look by wrapping it in wide holiday ribbon or tying bows on the tree. While ornaments are optional, lights are more important. Pre-lit trees allow you to enjoy the ambiance of holiday lights without the frustration of sorting, testing and stringing.

Centerpiece with Flair

Add a bit of shine to the holidays by repurposing old jewelry into a stunning centerpiece. Brawner started with a pretty silver tray, sprinkled with broaches, old earrings, strands of pearls, then added a few small gold Christmas balls and a fun teapot as a vase. She then placed an inexpensive sparkly Christmas tree in the vase. You can also just put greenery in the vase. “Anything can be a vase,” said Brawner. “I think it is really charming to find vintage things, like old teapots, and put greenery in them.” You can place your finished creation on a coffee table, mantle or nightstand. Tips for decking the halls continued on page 16 www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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Mason Jar Candles

To add holiday warmth without striking a single match, Brawner suggested making cozy holiday candles using Mason jars (or similar jars) and batterypowered votives. “Mason jars are really popular right now,” said Brawner. “You can find them at craft stores or even Dollar General.” To make a stunning statement, create a grouping of Mason jar candles in different sizes.

Materials:

Mason jars White sand (available at craft stores) or Epsom salt Battery-powered (or regular) votives Holiday ribbon

Steps:

1. Fill jars with layer of white sand or salt 2. Place votive on top of sand or salt 3. Tie ribbon around neck of jar

Wreathed in Glitter

Another way to make your home shine at the holidays is with a sparkly wreath. This is a great project to do with glitter-happy grandchildren!

Materials:

Grapevine wreath Mod Podge (found at craft stores) Small foam brush Glitter Ribbon Newspaper

Steps:

1. Lay wreath out on newspaper 2. Dab wreath with Mod Podge 3. Sprinkle liberally with glitter 4. O nce the wreath dries, loop a ribbon over it, add a bow to the top and hang it above the fireplace or on the front door.

Small Spaces

For those living in small spaces, such as studio apartments, assisted living centers or nursing homes, Brawner suggested adding a festive holiday quilt and some matching throw pillows to your bed or couch. “Small things like that can really lift your spirits at the holidays,” said Brawner.

Now, You Party

Once your space is decorated, it’s time to party. “Have guests over for cookies,” suggested Brawner. “That’s what the holidays are all about: being with friends and family to share the joy of the season.” by Cindy Webb 16

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Sharing The Holiday Spirit Armed with bundles of greenery, giant gift tags, huge ornaments and lots of wrapping paper, employees at Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma transformed Heritage Landing Senior Apartments into a sparkling holiday wonderland in 2014. “We try to do a community project every quarter,” said Pam VanMeter, Medicare regulator analyst at Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma. In 2014, one of their projects was decorating Heritage Landing apartments, a LIFE Senior Services Vintage Housing community for lower income seniors. “We decorated the doors of 40 apartments with wrapping paper. We made giant gift tags to place on doors that said ‘Merry Christmas’ or ‘Happy Holidays.’” The group also gave each resident a handwritten holiday card and decorated the apartment’s common areas with greenery, large wrapped boxes that looked like gifts, and giant, shiny Christmas ornaments. On the day the decorating took place, the group invited the residents to join them for refreshments in the common area. One talented employee even played favorite Christmas carols on the piano. “Many residents came and helped us,” said VanMeter. “A couple of people brought their families. They seemed happy that we were there to make things more festive for the Christmas party they were having the next week. I think they were glad they didn’t have to decorate it all themselves!” For several years, the employees at Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma have also taken part in LIFE Senior Services’ Holiday Project. But the group had so much fun decorating Heritage Landing, that they plan on continuing that, too. Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma’s generosity towards LIFE doesn’t end there. The organization has supported LIFE’s Senior Centers through a “Healthy Kids, Healthy Families” grant, and have been a major sponsor for LIFE’s annual fundraiser Puttin’ on the Dog. Pam encourages other groups to adopt an assisted living center or nursing home to decorate. “We enjoyed it so much and look forward to doing it again this year,” said VanMeter. “If we can share, we should share.”

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When the festive lights begin to twinkle and The Salvation Army bells start to jingle, you know the holidays are here.

owever, for many seniors, the holidays can be a difficult time of the year. Whether it’s due to the recent loss of a spouse, the physical or mental inability to host the family Christmas dinner, or the relocation into a senior living community, it’s hard to let go of longstanding holiday traditions. Despite the many challenges and transitions that come with aging, it’s possible to have a very merry holiday season, if you and those close to you are open to forming new – and equally enjoyable – holiday traditions.

Remembering a Loved One

Gruszeczki said. “You can honor them by reminiscing or by participating in a holiday activity that they enjoyed.” If you’re grieving, it’s important to find support – whether from friends, church or a support group. Gruszeczki also recommended starting a holiday tradition where you “do something for someone else.” This could include volunteering at an animal shelter or homeless shelter, buying gifts for a child from The Salvation Army’s Angel Tree, or making homemade items to be given away. Berrien also recommended getting together with someone else who is lonely during the holidays or make a donation to a cause in honor of your loved one.

The first holiday season after losing a loved one can feel unbearable. Besides the sadness, many families face a difference of opinions on how to continue celebrating the holidays. While some family members want the holidays to be exactly as they always have been, others would rather find a new way to celebrate, so the person’s absence isn’t as pronounced.

Additionally, those who have lost a loved one need to remember the value of taking care of themselves. “Get a manicure or pedicure, attend religious services, enjoy your time with grandchildren,” Gruszeczki said.

According to Chris Gruszeczki, LCSW and administrator of Saint Simeon’s Senior Community, it may be healthier for the family to start a new tradition. Elizabeth Berrien, author of Creative Grieving, tends to agree. “If you try too hard to make the holidays exactly like they were before your loved one died, you’re likely setting yourself up for a rough time, emotionally. Things aren’t like they were before, and no amount of effort will change that,” said Berrien. However, just because you find a new way to celebrate the holiday, doesn’t mean that your loved one has been forgotten.

“During the holidays, people feel pressured to do too much,” said Gruszeczki. “Instead of trying to do everything, decide which things aren’t really as important as others. Pick out the traditions that are most meaningful to your family and focus on those.”

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Cutting Back Isn’t a Bad Thing

Minimize Effort, Not the Meal For some, an extravagant feast is the most adored holiday tradition. And as the matriarch or patriarch of the family, you may have always prepared the entire meal – turkey, stuffing, pies, the works – on your own. And if you are like my grandmother, you make everything from scratch. However, that’s hard to maintain as we get older and our physical abilities change. Instead of making the entire meal yourself, let the rest of the family pitch in by bringing www.LIFEseniorservices.org

dishes to share. Of course, it’s tough to let go of longstanding traditions, and some people may even feel guilty about cutting back. But it’s important to view the changes as opportunities to start new traditions and memories. Instead of being prepared by one person, the meal is now a collective effort that everyone is excited to contribute to. The important thing to remember is that the holidays are for spending with family, not about who cooked the meal or at whose house the festivities were held.

Decoration Downsize As we get older, the thought of decorating the house can be nerve racking, and the actual task can be cumbersome – even dangerous. Instead of tackling the project by yourself, schedule an afternoon when friends or family can help you trim the tree and deck the halls. You could make things even easier by involving the whole family. Instead of lugging all of your decorations around the house, ask each family member to bring one decoration with them to the gathering. That way, the house is festive during the get-together. Afterwards, everyone takes their decoration home – makes for a super quick cleanup!

Hold the Holiday As children and grandchildren grow older, find jobs and spouses, and have kids of their own, it becomes increasingly challenging to get everyone’s schedule to align. In some cases, this means moving the gathering from the actual holiday to a more agreeable day – maybe a week before or after. This could mean that you or a family member are alone on Christmas. In these cases, it’s important to make an effort to connect with that person – whether through a phone call or video chat session – on the actual holiday. If you personally find yourself alone, reach out and send well wishes to other folks you know are alone, too. And, if your holiday celebration was a week early, reminisce about the fun you had by looking at the day’s photos or writing thank-you notes. If you still have to wait a week to celebrate with family, find last year’s pictures or write short notes to family and friends letting them know how much they mean to you and share your sentiments when you see them. If you’re able, consider volunteering to serve others, many nonprofits, including Iron Gate, John 3:16 Mission and the Tulsa Day Center for the Homeless, are always in need of volunteers to help during the holidays.

A New Home for the Holidays If you or someone you love has recently moved into a senior living community, you might be in the process of creating new, yet still meaningful, holiday traditions. Most senior living communities host festive holiday parties and offer delicious holiday meals, so consider hosting a family gathering at the senior community. For example, Saint Simeon’s hosts tree-decorating parties, outings to see holiday lights and Philbrook Museum’s Festival of Trees, visits from Santa and special church services. “Most communities offer great meals and fun activities, and by hosting the holiday party there, you [or your loved one] are more comfortable,” Gruszeczki said. While you still may host a more traditional family get-together at someone’s house, a gathering at a senior community can prove to be a fun new adventure and mean the world to someone who is worried the holidays won’t be the same. And even though they won’t be exactly like years past, the newly-formed traditions still make for joyous times and memories with friends and family. by Lindsay Morris www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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casino. Each tree has a rock ‘n’ roll theme, except the tree in the Replay Sports Bar, which – naturally – has a sports theme.

Winterfest

3rd & Denver Ave., Tulsa Step into a magical winter wonderland with a trip to Tulsa’s Winterfest. Many families in Tulsa enjoy this annual tradition, held in the heart of downtown and featuring Oklahoma’s largest Christmas tree – a 44-foot tall tree with a bottom diameter of more than 30 feet and strung with more than 35,000 lights! The majestic tree stands guard over an ice-skating rink. This year, Winterfest runs Nov. 27 through Jan. 17.

The Salvation Army Angel Trees

his holiday, you can find a forest of festive trees throughout the Tulsa area whose lovely branches are sure to help you get in the holiday spirit. From Oklahoma’s largest Christmas tree to humble trees that remind us of the true meaning of Christmas, these yuletide boughs are perfect for helping you celebrate the enchanting holiday season.

Philbrook Museum’s Festival of Trees

2727 S. Rockford Road, Tulsa • (918) 749-7941 For many Tulsans, the holiday isn’t complete without a pilgrimage to Philbrook for the Festival of Trees. From Nov. 20 through Dec. 31, the museum is decked out in festive decorations, including uniquely designed trees created by artists who have gone beyond merely decorating trees to creating new works of art. Every Thursday night the museum stays open late for Thursday Night Lights, during which time the Philbrook gardens and grounds sparkle with holiday lights.

River Lights

41st St. Plaza • 41st St. & Riverside Drive, Tulsa • (918) 596-2001 Ring in the holidays on the banks of the Arkansas River at River Lights. The dazzling display of twinkling trees and lights begins Dec. 5 at the 41st Street Plaza. Enjoy live music, food and beverages. The display continues through the month of December. Bundle up and walk the trails for a fun winter excursion.

Hard Rock Hotel & Casino

777 W. Cherokee St., Catoosa • (800) 760-6700 You can rock around the rock ‘n’ roll-themed Christmas tree at the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino. Located in the hotel’s grand lobby, the 20-foot-tall tree is decorated with guitars, drums and lights, which – for the first time this year – will be choreographed to music ranging from classic rock to Christmas standards. Completing the fantasy, the tree will be paired with a near life-sized gingerbread house. In addition, the property is magically transformed into a forest with 55 Christmas trees decorating the hotel and

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Woodland Hills Mall • 7021 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa • (918) 252-7511 Tulsa Promenade • 4107 S. Yale Ave., Tulsa • (918) 627-9282 The true spirit of Christmas can be seen on The Salvation Army’s Angel Trees. This annual initiative takes place at Woodland Hills Mall and Tulsa Promenade mall. The Christmas trees are covered with tags bearing the first names and wish lists of children and seniors in need. Shoppers “adopt an angel” by buying an item listed on the tags. The Salvation Army then distributes the gifts to the recipients in plenty of time for the holiday.

Broken Arrow Historical Society museum Christmas Tree Exhibit

400 S. Main St., Broken Arrow • (918) 258-2616 Now through Dec. 14, take a walk through an enchanted Christmas forest, filled with nearly 30 decorated Christmas trees at the Broken Arrow Historical Society. After the event is over, Broken Arrow Neighbors will donate the trees to families in need, along with holiday meals and gifts.

Throwback Tulsa: Williams Center Forum’s “Concert on Ice”

Long before Winterfest, Tulsans rang in the holidays at the annual “Concert on Ice,” a show at the Williams Center Forum, featuring dozens of local skaters performing to Christmas music by the Tulsa Philharmonic and a 100-voice children’s choir. Many remember the large Christmas tree that stood in the mall, welcoming visitors. The Forum, adjacent to the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, opened in 1977 and featured an ice-skating rink, movie theater and more than 60 shops and restaurants on three levels. Concert on Ice began in 1978 and continued for 16 years until its final show in 1994. When the Williams Center Forum opened in 1978, the ice was the centerpiece to a mall that was 100 percent occupied. Eventually, the shops and ice rink closed to make way for WilTel offices.

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From David Bernstein LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine Reader “My wife and I made sure our Hanukkah holiday was celebrated in our home and was a joyful occasion, so our kids would have fond memories. We have menorahs – eight-light candelabras. And every night we light the candles with the special prayer. In our family, we sing songs for Hanukkah – songs that I learned as a kid. We would also march around the house to get the kids involved. The march leader would do fun things and the followers would mimic it. We would sing while we marched, too. Then, we would cook something in oil because of the miracle of the oil lasting for eight days. The food that is prepared, like latkes and doughnuts, there are lots of calories in those! Then, we would have a present for our kids. When I was a kid, we didn’t get presents, but we did get silver or gold coins – whatever change was in my parents’ and grandparents’ pockets. My grandpa was a plumber, so there were usually a few washers mixed in! Now, my kids are grown and they’ve passed down our traditions – like the marching – to their kids. They march, and that makes me proud.” From Irene LIFE’s Adult Day Health Participant “I was about 12 years old that year. My Uncle Howard lived in Idaho Falls, and he had a onehorse sleigh – for real. It snowed about 2 feet that year. Uncle Howard brought over the sleigh to

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take me and my sister Doris for a ride to all the relatives. They were pea green with envy.” From Carol Carter LIFE’s Public Relations and Community Affairs Coordinator “For more than 30 years, my husband and I have hosted a Christmas caroling party – even though neither of us are vocally talented. We load up a caravan of cars with family and friends and go to a low-income apartment community a few miles down the road. Two buildings have hallways of doors that face each other, so we knock on all the doors and sing from the common area. Many seniors sing along with us through tear-filled eyes, and the children smile and appreciate the small gifts we bring them. After, we go back to the house for snacks, hot apple cider and the warm company of friends.” From Frank Weigle LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine Reader “My family owns a 60-acre farm that’s been in our family for generations. My father thought it would be really neat to plant Christmas trees and sell them. We began planting the trees when I was in seventh grade. Every spring, we would go to a local nursery and buy saplings that were around 1 foot tall. They were Scottish Pine trees. So for a good amount of time, we planted these saplings and cared for them until they were ready to cut. The first round of trees that we cut we sold to people as they passed by the front of our

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house. We donated some of them to the local veterans hospital every year and also gave some of them away. I sold Christmas trees from the time I was in junior high school to my last year of college when I was 24.” From Marquetta LIFE’s Adult Day Health Participant “I used to hide all of the kids’ Christmas presents until Christmas Eve night. They were so darn nosey and would shake the packages, so I couldn’t put them under the tree. On Christmas Eve night, I would put the presents back under the tree. Then, I’d stay up all night and watch the gifts to make sure the kids didn’t get to them before Christmas Day.” From Ken Dornblaser LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine Reader “When my mom passed away, the one thing my brother John and I both really wanted to hold on to was our childhood cookie jar that my mom always kept filled to the brim with cookies. So one year at Christmas, we decided to ‘rotate’ it between the two of us. My wife and I filled it up with homemade cookies, wrapped it and gifted it to my brother. The next year, he did the same thing – homemade cookies, wrapping paper and everything. We did that back and forth for quite a while. It was a fun tradition that also reminded us of our mom.”

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Let Them Eat Cake (or Cookies, or Fudge …) fter baking, write the recipe on cards and attach them to the container. A Containers, tissue paper and other supplies to store and package baked goods can be found for as little as $1 at local dollar stores. Here are some fun and fanciful ideas: Cupcake in a Jar: Bake and decorate a cupcake in a small Mason jar. Tutorial: www.smashedpeasandcarrots.com/how-to-bake-cupcakes-in-a-jar Hot Cocoa in a Jar: Fill a small jar with hot cocoa mix, then top with mini marshmallows. To keep them extra warm this winter, attach a small bottle of Bailey’s Irish Cream liquor. Finish with ribbon. ive the Dog a Bone: The pups need to eat, too! Package cute dog G biscuits in a Mason jar. Finish with ribbon.

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HEALTHY aGING

Stories

That Heal Think back to the last time you met someone new. After the formalities establishing how many kids and grandkids you have, your careers and spouses’ names, what did the two of you discuss? Chances are you told stories – about kids, grandkids, careers and spouses! People trade narratives to establish connections and form bonds. When we put those stories to paper, they provide a personal way to navigate the plot twists of our lives.

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arrative has always been an important part of who we are as humans. Since the 1970s, it’s been given more attention – even more so in the last 10 years,” said Tanis Taylor, mind and body therapist with Cancer Treatment Centers of America. Seniors face new challenges as they navigate the twilight years. Whether it’s caring for an aging parent, coping with a chronic condition or even processing a terminal illness facing you or a loved one, writing about the feelings associated with illness, grief or a major life change offers a way to work through these difficult long-term challenges.

Power of the Pen

“One of the benefits of journaling is that it gives you an opportunity to take something that’s internal and make it external. It’s like you get to put it in your hand, touch it, turn it around and see it from a perspective that makes more sense. When something is internal, it’s so heavy – getting it external makes it easier to sort through,” said Taylor. “We increase our ability to verbalize our feelings two to three times better because the act of penning them activates our ability to tell others what we are thinking or feeling,” said Taylor. According to Taylor, studies about expressive art and journaling after 9/11 revealed that children who wrote about what they were going through coped much better than children who merely talked about the trauma. Additionally, research has discovered positive health benefits from journaling 15 to 20 minutes, three to five times each week for a specific traumatic event.

Start With Thanks

But what if writing doesn’t come naturally to you? Taylor suggests starting with gratitude journaling, especially for people worried about not doing it right. “People who focus on being thankful have a different outlook and increased mindfulness, which is connected to happiness. When that becomes a habit, you start looking around and wondering, ‘What am I going to write about today?’ For someone dealing with grief, focusing on what you’re grateful for changes your perspective. That’s an easy starting place,” said Taylor.

Take the Time

“The number one thing I run across is that people don’t give themselves permission to take care of themselves. It’s OK to do that – in fact, it’s mandatory. Especially caregivers – their plates are already so full that the idea of adding one more thing is overwhelming. Journaling is associated with stress reduction. I would keep it simple. It can be used as a worry book – write it down, so you don’t have to carry it. There’s a lot of fear when you have to be brave for someone else. A journal is a safe place where you get to deal with all that,” said Taylor. It’s important to remember that journals come in many forms, not just lengthy chronicles. In fact, a journal can tell a story without any words at all. “One of the other things I frequently hear is that they’re worried that they’ll vent in the journal, someone will find the journal after they’re gone and they won’t be around to explain it. The art journals are particularly helpful. It doesn’t have to be inked words on white paper. Draw something,” said Taylor. “If you can just start – whether a bulleted list or things you’re frustrated about today or even a to-do list. Five minutes at the end of your day, just three or four things. Just do it! There’s no right or wrong way – just pour it out. The water doesn’t drip if the faucet isn’t turned on. There are some days you run across something that’s already been written, and it resonates with you. It can sum up your experience better than 10 pages of your own writing! Write that down because that’s what mattered today,” said Taylor. Narrating your story during trying times offers release. However, Taylor recommends the practice as part of a proactive wellness plan, regardless of life challenges. “I think it is a healthy wellness practice for anyone to be journaling as part of self-care routine. It helps us clarify thoughts and feelings, increase emotional intelligence, and get to know ourselves better.” by Kelsey Duvall

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The dinner belle

For a special holiday meal, consider trying one of Tulsa’s longest-standing traditions: Celebrity Restaurant. The restaurant opened at the intersection of 31st Street and Yale Avenue in 1963 when owner Mike Samara bought a vacant bar and transformed it into a club.

hen Samara opened the Celebrity Club (its first moniker), selling liquor-by-the-drink was illegal. Due to the stringent liquor laws, Celebrity Club was originally a private club where members could bring their own bottled spirits. Two years after the club opened, it burnt to the ground. Samara believes it was arson, but it was never proven. The Celebrity Club was rebuilt just three months later and began to collect many of the upscale decorative items that are still there today. Originally, the club didn’t charge an entry fee, but you did need a membership card. At one point, the membership list included Bob Hope, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Mickey Mantle, The Dave Clark Five and President Franklin D. Roosevelt’s son John Roosevelt. Other famous faces, including Warren Spahn, Ben Stiller and Willie Nelson, have dined there. The club remained private until 1984 when liquor-by-the-drink was legalized. Samara supported and even contributed to writing the bill to legalize liquor-by-the-drink in Oklahoma. After the law passed, Celebrity Restaurant was issued the state’s first liquor license and opened its doors to the general public. Ambiance is a large part of what makes Celebrity Restaurant so special. Upon entering, this Dinner Belle felt like she had been transported back in time and was about to have a meal with the cast of The Godfather. Crushed red velvet seats, dim lighting and ornate paintings fill the restaurant. During our recent visit, my husband and I enjoyed a truly exquisite meal. It began with shrimp cocktail – plump shrimp served with a zesty cocktail sauce. When our server asked if we were interested in trying the Caesar salad, we didn’t hesitate to say yes. We learned from our server that The World Class Caesar Salad is Celebrity Restaurant’s specialty. Servers even assemble the superstar salad beside your table and explain each step of its creation. The end result is a flavorful, slightly spicy, delicious concoction. My husband, who is not much of a salad fan, remarked that it was the best salad he’s ever had. The salad is $6 per person when served with your meal. For the main course, I enjoyed the 8-ounce filet mignon accompanied by Parmesan new potatoes, corn on the cob and a dinner roll. The potatoes were my favorite – buttery, cheesy and cooked to perfection! My husband selected the New Zealand white fish, sautéed in butter and also served with Parmesan new potatoes, corn on the cob and a dinner roll. The fish was light and flavorful.

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The World Class Caesar Salad and Shrimp Cocktail

Somehow, we managed to save room for dessert. Our server shared the dessert menu with us, but also told us about a dessert that isn’t listed on the menu: their house dessert. It’s made with vanilla ice cream blended with a bit of brandy and cocoa. It’s served in glasses with straws and was the perfect, refreshing cap to our meal. Other items on the menu that sounded tantalizing were the skillet fried chicken, beef kabob, lobster tail and grilled salmon. Celebrity Restaurant is open for dinner Monday through Thursday, from 5 to 9 p.m. and Friday and Saturday, from 5 to 10 p.m. The restaurant is also open for lunch Monday through Friday, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Lunch menu items include an Asian chicken salad; Bacon Bleu and chicken salad; Celebrity’s famous Caesar salad with chicken, shrimp or salmon; and a variety of burgers and sandwiches. Reservations are accepted, but not required. The Celebrity Restaurant also has a private dining area large enough to seat 50. For more than 50 years, Samara continues to greet guests every evening – ladies get a kiss on the cheek and gentlemen get a hearty handshake. Samara said the outstanding food and excellent service are the reasons for Celebrity Restaurant’s long-standing success. From our experience there, I have no doubt that the delicious food and outstanding service we received are a normal occurrence at Celebrity Restaurant. by Lindsay Morris

Celebrity Restaurant 3109 S. Yale Ave., Tulsa, OK 74135 (918) 743-1800 Monday – Thursday • 5 – 9 p.m. Friday and Saturday • 5 – 10 p.m. Lunch: Monday – Friday • 11 a.m. – 2 p.m.

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Noteworthy Take in the Sights and Sounds of the Holidays Get lost in the magic of the season with some of Tulsa’s most joyous theatrical and musical performances, including some of the holiday’s timeless classics. v Brown Bag It: Tulsa Festival Ringers Enjoy beautiful sounds from a hand bell choir Dec. 2 • 11:30 a.m. • Free Tulsa PAC, John H. Williams Theatre 110 E. 2nd St. • Tulsa (918) 584-3645 • www.tulsapac.com v A Holiday Celebration Presented by the Tulsa Metro Sound and Tulsa Founders Chorus Dec. 5 • 7 p.m. • $15 Bishop Kelley PAC 3905 S. Hudson Ave. • Tulsa (918) 622-5392 • www.tulsafounders.org v Home for the Holidays Concert Presented by the Tulsa Symphony Dec. 6 • 2:30 p.m. • Tickets start at $15 Tulsa PAC • 110 E. 2nd St. • Tulsa (918) 584-3645 • www.tulsasymphony.org v A Christmas Carol Presented by the American Theatre Company Dec. 10 – 13, 15 – 19, 21 – 23 • 7:30 p.m. Dec. 13 & 20 • 2 p.m. • Tickets start at $20 Tulsa PAC • 110 E. 2nd St. • Tulsa (918) 596-7111 • www.tulsapac.com v The Nutcracker Presented by Tulsa Ballet Dec. 11, 18 – 20 • 7 p.m. Dec. 12 & 13, 19 & 20 • 2 p.m. Tulsa PAC • 110 E. 2nd St. • Tulsa Tickets start at $25 (918) 596-7111 • www.tulsapac.com v Christmas in Tulsa Concert Presented by TCC’s Signature Symphony Dec. 18 & 19 • 7:30 p.m. • Tickets start at $30 TCC’s VanTrease PACE 10300 E. 81st St. • Tulsa (918) 595-7777 • www.signaturesymphony.org

Christmas Tree Trek The staple of any fun, old-fashioned family Christmas – at least according to Clark Griswold – is the tree. And if you’re looking for an authentic holiday experience to share with family this season, you can do what our forefathers did: select and cut your own symbol of the season. While our ancestors had to trek into the wilderness, local Christmas tree farms make the 28

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experience far more pleasant and comfortable. The Owasso Christmas Tree & Berry Farm, located at 11039 N. 129th E. Ave. in Owasso, has a variety of trees to choose from, including Noble Firs, Douglas Firs, Grand Firs and Fraser Firs. The farm is open Nov. 21 through Dec. 22, Monday through Friday, from 1 to 7 p.m., and Saturday and Sunday, from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. The farm also has a large gift shop, variety of wreaths and garland, plus free hay rides and hot apple cider. The farm will also shake, bail, load and tie your tree at no additional cost. If you’d rather choose a tree from a pre-cut assortment, you can do that, too. For more information about the Owasso Christmas Tree Farm, call (918) 272-9445. Pleasant Valley Farms, located at 22350 W. 71st St. S in Sand Springs, offers a similar experience. The farm boasts rows of expertly-trimmed Virginia Pine trees, as well as pre-cut Fir trees. The farm opens the day after Thanksgiving and runs through Christmas Eve, from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. While you’re there, keep your eyes peeled for a sighting of Santa himself. For more information about Pleasant Valley Farms, call (918) 248-5647.

Light Up the Night Chanukah Festival The public is welcomed to celebrate the last night of Chanukah, or Hanukkah, with Congregation B’nai Emunah. The Light Up the Night Festival will be held Sunday, Dec. 16, beginning at 6 p.m. at Congregation B’nai Emunah, located at 1719 S. Owasso in Tulsa. As the menorah burns bright, the festive celebration will include a concert featuring Billy Jonas, an acclaimed singer, songwriter, percussionist and multi-instrumentalist from Ashville, N.C. A jovial meal, children’s games and confetti will accompany the celebration. The cost for the meal and concert is $18 for adults and $9 for children ages 4 through 12. The concert alone is $5. Reservations are required. For more information or to make your reservation, call (918) 935-3373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com.

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Take to the Skies with Tulsa Air and Space Museum Tulsa Air and Space Museum offers an astronomic array of educational exhibits and programs, as well as planetarium experiences that are literally out of this world. Currently, the museum is in the process of fully converting a donated MD-80 plane into a Learning Center and soon-to-be Flight Theater. The plane was a donation from American Airlines, and was moved from Tulsa International Airport to its permanent home between the museum and planetarium in late 2013. Guests of the museum can take a tour of the plane, which includes a brief history of the MD-80 aircraft, facts about flight, a glimpse into the cockpit and a viewing of The Pursuit of Flight video. While already an experience like none other, the second phase of the conversion, which will deliver a unique theaterquality “flight experience,” will be even more impressive. The Flight Theater will envelope the MD-80’s first-class section and will offer guests a 20 to 35-minute theatrical production. The second phase of the conversion is scheduled for completion Dec. 18. Tours of the MD-80 are available daily at 11 a.m., noon, 1 p.m. and 2 p.m. Boarding passes for the 25-minute guided tours are issued with the purchase of admission to the museum and planetarium. The passes can be purchased separately for $3 with a museum or planetarium only admission. The Tulsa Air and Space Museum, 3624 N. 74th E. Ave., is open Monday through Saturday, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. For more information about the museum, planetarium or MD-80 tours, call (918) 834-9900.

Celebrate the New Year with a Twist Are you looking for a fun – yet safe – way to ring in the New Year? Broken Arrow Seniors has just the ticket! Join the group on Dec. 31 for “Twist the Night Away.” The evening begins when doors open at 6:30 p.m. and will feature dancing and live ‘60s music from DJ Willard Koch. Tickets are $5 at the door, and attendees are encouraged to bring a snack to share. The event concludes at 10 p.m., and departing guests will be treated to a keepsake party favor. The Broken Arrow Seniors Activity Center is located at 1800 S. Main St. in Broken Arrow. For more information, call (918) 259-8377.

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LIFE’s Tax Assistance Program is looking for people to help others in our community by becoming a tax volunteer with the Tax Counseling for the Elderly (TCE) Program at LIFE Senior Services. Volunteers receive specialized training to provide free tax help for seniors 60 and older with an annual household income of $54,000 or less. You can also choose a volunteer role that doesn’t require tax law certification. For more information, call LIFE Senior Services at (918) 664-9000. American Cancer Society needs volunteer drivers. The American Cancer Society’s Road to Recovery program provides transportation to and from treatment for people who have cancer, but who do not have a ride or are unable to drive. Volunteer drivers donate their time, so that patients can receive the life-saving treatments they need. For more information, call RSVP at (918) 280-8656. RSVP Power Up+ volunteers teach job skills to people who need and want to find employment. If you can use a computer to search the Internet, you can help as a teacher, coach or mentor in several employment and job-seeking projects supported by Tulsa nonprofits. For more information, call RSVP at (918) 280-8656.

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RSVP/Family Safety Center Court Watch is looking for volunteers to document the court process to identify trends, changes in procedures, as well as the response by the courts, law enforcement, district attorneys, advocates, healthcare and other participants charged with public safety and protection. Shifts are available Monday through Thursday, from 9 a.m. to noon, at the Tulsa County Courthouse. On-the-job education and mentors are provided, as well at at-home reading education. This volunteer position offers a look into the judicial system, a challenging learning curve and the opportunity to contribute expertise, innovation and leadership. For more information, call RSVP at (918) 280-8656. RSVP Airport Ambassadors work four-hour shifts one day per week and provide hospitality and information services to airline passengers at three locations at the airport. Free convenient parking and a uniform are provided. RSVP Airport Ambassadors provide goodwill and are the first welcome visitors receive when arriving at our airport. Various shifts are available with the biggest need being the weekends. For more information, call RSVP at (918) 280-8656. St. John Medical Center is in need of volunteers to work various positions. Gift shop volunteers are needed Monday afternoons, Wednesday mornings, Thursdays and Fridays. Information desk volunteers are needed Tuesday afternoons. Dismissal volunteers are needed Mondays, Thursdays and Friday afternoon. Lastly, surgery waiting room volunteers are needed Thursday evenings. Volunteers should have a positive and compassionate attitude. Schedules are flexible and typically consist of one four-hour shift per week. Training is provided. For more information, call (918) 744-2198. Hospice of Green Country, a nonprofit United Way agency, is actively recruiting volunteers to help in the organization’s resale shop, which will open in 2016. This upscale resale store will need approximately 30 volunteers to commit to at least one four-hour shift each week. Applications for store volunteers are being accepted. No previous retail experience is necessary. Training is provided. For more information, call (918) 747-2273. www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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holiday festivals & events

Fantasy Land of Lights Nov. 20 – Dec. 30 • 6 – 10 p.m. • Free Johnstone Park 100 N. Cherokee • Bartlesville (918) 914-1530 Snowflake Winter Festival Ice Skating Nov. 21 – Jan. 3 • Times Vary • $10 Downtown Tahlequah (918) 456-0651, ext. 257 Rhema Christmas Lights Nov. 25 – Jan. 1 • 5:30 – 11:30 p.m. • Free Rhema Bible Church 1025 W. Kenosha St. • Broken Arrow (918) 258-1588 Castle Christmas Nov. 26 – Dec. 31 • 6 – 10 p.m. • Free The Castle of Muskogee 3400 W. Fern Mountain Rd. • Muskogee (918) 687-3625 Winter Wonderland Christmas Lights Tour Nov. 26 – Jan. 1 • 5 – 10 p.m. • Free Pine Lodge Resort 33635 Dock Rd. • Afton (918) 782-1400 Garden of Lights Nov. 26 – Jan. 1 • 5:30 – 10 p.m. • Free Honor Heights Park 1400 Honor Heights Dr. • Muskogee (918) 684-6302 Woolaroc Wonderland of Lights Nov. 27 – Dec. 20 • 5 – 9 p.m. • $4 Woolaroc Museum & Wildlife Preserve 1925 Woolaroc Ranch Rd. • Bartlesville (918) 336-0307 Lights on the Hill Nov. 27 – Dec. 27 • 6 – 9 p.m. • Free Chandler Park 6500 W. 21st St. • Tulsa (918) 591-6053 Holiday Bingo December 1 • 11:30 a.m. • Free Hillcrest Hospital 1027 E. Cherry St. • Cushing (918) 579-6060 • hillcrest.com/events

To submit a calendar item, please contact Managing Editor Erin Shackelford at eshackelford@LIFEseniorservices.org or (918) 664-9000, ext. 295. Bethlehem Walk December 3 & 4 • 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. December 5 & 6 • 5:30 – 8:30 p.m. Christview Christian Church 2525 S. Garnett Ave. • Tulsa (918) 232-3587 • Free Christkindlmarkt Presented by the German American Society of Tulsa December 4 – 6 • Noon – 5 p.m. • Free German American Society of Tulsa 1429 Terrace Dr. • Tulsa (918) 744-6997 Thompson House Victorian Christmas December 4 – 6 • 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. • Free Thompson House 300 S. College Ave. • Tahlequah (918) 456-1595 Christmas Arts & Crafts Show December 5 • 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. • Free J.M. Davis Arms & Historical Museum 330 N. JM Davis Blvd. • Claremore (918) 341-5707 Carols & Crumpets Benefiting the Tulsa Herb Society December 5 • 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. • Free Tulsa Garden Center 2435 S. Peoria Ave • Tulsa (918) 496-8019 Holiday Arts & Craft Show December 5 • 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. • Free Bixby Community Center 211 N. Cabaniss Ave. • Bixby (918) 366-4841 Har-Ber Village 19th Century Christmas December 5, 6, 12 & 13 • 2 – 8 p.m. • Free Har-Ber Village Museum 4404 W. 20th St. • Grove (918) 786-6446 Native American Christmas Market December 12 • 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. • Free Sapulpa Elks Lodge 24 S. Poplar St. • Sapulpa (918) 998-4549 Murrell Home Christmas Open House December 13 • 1 – 4 p.m. • Free Murrell Home 19479 E. Murrell Home Rd. • Park Hill (918) 456-2751

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Light Up the Night Chanukah Festival Featuring Billy Jonas; includes meal December 13 • 6 – 9 p.m. • $18 Congregation B’nai Emunah 1719 S. Owasso Ave. • Tulsa (918) 495-1100

Tulsa Metro Retired Educators Featuring silent Christmas auction & holiday music December 15 • 10 a.m. • Free TPS Education Service Center 3027 S. New Haven Ave. • Tulsa (918) 369-2617

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Smart Conversations: Anthony Bourdain & Jacques Pepin Featuring live telecast; reception to follow December 15 • 7 – 9 p.m. • $25 Pohlenz Cucine Moderne 3402 S. Peoria Ave. • Tulsa (918) 935-3373 • www.tulsagogue.com

Open Studio for Adult Artists For amateur painters, drawers & sculptors; bring own supplies December 1 & 15 • 4 – 7 p.m. • Free Henry Zarrow Center for Art 124 E. M.B. Brady St. • Tulsa (918) 596-2700 • www.gilcrease.utulsa.edu BA Community Book Fair December 4 & 5 • 8 a.m. – 5 p.m. December 11 & 12 • 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. The Book Pantry 201 W. Houston St. • Broken Arrow (918) 251-7781 • Free Author Presentation With Rick Atkinson December 5 • 10:30 a.m. Hardesty Regional Library, Conner’s Cove 8316 E. 93rd St. • Tulsa (918) 549-7550 • Free Art Explorations For individuals with early-stage Alzheimer’s & their caregivers December 8 • 10 a.m. – Noon • Free Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd. • Tulsa (918) 596-2768 Ambler Hall Concert Series Featuring “Those 2” duo December 11 • 7 p.m. $25 advance • $30 at door OK Mozart’s Ambler Hall 415 S. Dewey • Bartlesville (918) 336-9800 • www.okmozart.com Tulsa Genealogical Society Holiday Celebration Casual or festive dress December 14 • 6 p.m. • Free Delta Café 11101 E. 41st St. • Tulsa (918) 814-1258

ACBL Duplicate Sanctioned Bridge Mondays & Wednesdays • 11 a.m. Broken Arrow Seniors, Inc. 1800 S. Main St. • Broken Arrow (918) 355-6652 Seniors on the Go: Fun, Food & Fellowship Tuesdays & Fridays • 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Jenks Senior Citizens, Inc. 211 N. Elm St. • Jenks (918) 299-1700 Alzheimer’s Disease: Understanding, Getting Help & God’s Healing Power Presented by Jackie Lenzy, BS, BA, CDP Wednesdays • 5:30 p.m. • Free Victory Christian Center 7700 S. Lewis Ave., Rm. 234 • Tulsa (918) 510-6062 Single Seniors 60+ Join for lunch, visiting & cards Wednesdays • 11:30 a.m. Buffet Palace 10934 E. 21st St. • Tulsa (918) 371-4367 or (918) 341-3375 Ukulele Class Bring your own ukulele; beginners welcome Wednesdays • Noon – 2 p.m. Broken Arrow Senior Center 1800 S. Main St. • Broken Arrow (918) 259-8377 Friday Night Opry Branson-style show, featuring classic country & gospel music Fridays • 6:45 – 9 p.m. • $6 St. Marks Methodist Church, Activity Bldg. 10513 E. Admiral Pl. • Tulsa (918) 258-1072

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Support Groups LIFE’s Caregiver Support Groups (918) 664-9000, ext. 244 Respite provided • Free LIFE’s Adult Day Health at Broken Arrow December 10 • 3 – 4:30 p.m. • Free 3106 S. Juniper Ave. • Broken Arrow LIFE’s Adult Day Health at Central December 3 • 6 – 7:30 p.m. • Free December 17 • 3 – 4:30 p.m. • Free 5950 E. 31st St. • Tulsa LIFE’s Adult Day Health at North December 15 • 5 – 6 p.m. • Free 902 E. Pine St. • Tulsa Faith Based Approach to Alzheimer’s Presented by Jackie Lenzy, BS, BA, CDP December 5 • 11 a.m. • Free Victory Christian Center 7700 S. Lewis Ave., Rm. 234 • Tulsa (918) 510-6062 Grief Support Group December 14 • 6 p.m. • Free Hometown Hospice 804 S. Main St. • Broken Arrow (918) 251-6441 Grief Journey Group Tuesdays • 2 – 3:30 p.m. • Free Tuesdays • 6 – 7:30 p.m. • Free The Tristesse Grief Center 4646 S. Harvard Ave., Ste. 200 • Tulsa (918) 587-1200 • www.thegriefcenter.org

Dancing Round Up Boys Dance December 4 • 7:30 p.m. • $6 American Legion Post 308 11328 E. Admiral Pl. • Tulsa (918) 607-3600

Tulsa Swingdance Club Featuring lessons in country two-step, East & West coast swing Sundays • Start times vary $5 club members • $7 nonmembers The ClubHouse 2735 S. Memorial Dr. • Tulsa (918) 557-1699 Line Dancing Class Tuesdays & Thursdays • 10 a.m. • Free University Village 8555 S. Lewis Ave. • Tulsa (918) 298-3480 Friday Night Dances Fridays • 7:30 – 11 p.m. $5 members • $6 nonmembers American Legion Post 308 11328 E. Admiral Blvd. • Tulsa (918) 437-1635 Round Up Boys Dance Mondays • 6:30 p.m. • $5 Broken Arrow Senior Center 1800 S. Main St. • Broken Arrow (918) 607-3600 Clog Dancing Lessons Presented by Turtle Creek Cloggers Mondays • 5:45 – 8:30 p.m. Thursdays • 6 – 8:30 p.m. LaFortune Community Center 5202 S. Hudson Ave. • Tulsa (918) 627-0067

Belles & Beaus Square Dance Club December 8 & 22 Workshop 7 p.m. • Dance 7:30 p.m. St. Marks Methodist Church 10513 E. Admiral Pl. • Tulsa (918) 437-7277

Fitness

TCC Vintage Swing Dance Club December 11 • 6:30 p.m. • Free Thomas K. McKeon Center 910 S. Boston Ave. • Tulsa (918) 595-7143

Bold Moves PD (Parkinson’s Exercise) Tuesdays & Thursdays • 10:30 – 11:15 a.m. University Village 8555 S. Lewis Ave. • Tulsa (918) 298-3370 • $20 per month

Lake Keystone Square Dance Club December 12 & 18 • 8 p.m. • $3 Mannford Community Center 101 Green Valley Park Rd. • Mannford (918) 865-2846

Exercise Class Designed for Older Adults Mondays, Wednesdays, Fridays 9:30 – 10:30 a.m. • Free Owasso Community Center 301 S. Cedar St. • Owasso (918) 272-3903

Round Up Boys Dance December 16 • 6 p.m. • Free Will Rogers Downs Casino 20900 S. 4300 Rd. • Claremore (918) 607-3600 Melodies & Memories December 19 • 2 – 4 p.m. • Free First Christian Church of Jenks 308 E. Main St. • Jenks (918) 299-7381 • www.fccjenksok.com

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Round Up Boys Dance December 31 • 8 p.m. • $20 American Legion Post 308 11328 E. Admiral Pl. • Tulsa (918) 607-3600

Seated Yoga with Lucy Weberling Wednesdays • 2 – 2:45 p.m. Aberdeen Heights Assisted Living 7220 S. Yale Ave. • Tulsa (918) 633-8890

Beginners Tai Ji Quan Moving for Better Balance Tuesdays & Thursdays 2 – 3 p.m. • Free Owasso Community Center 301 S. Cedar St. • Owasso (918) 272-3903

Senior & Caregiver Community Education

Laughter Yoga Club

Laughter yoga is a fun, easy and exciting exercise. The club meets every second and fourth Tuesday of the month. Tuesday, December 8 • 1 – 2 p.m. LaFortune Recreation Center • 5202 S. Hudson Ave. • Tulsa Free • RSVP • (918) 664-9000 (not meeting December 22)

Basics of Medicare

If you are newly eligible or soon to be eligible for Medicare, this seminar is designed especially for you. The seminar is presented by the Medicare Assistance Program at LIFE Senior Services and will cover the basics of Medicare, explain what you need to know about Medicare’s different parts and give you the information you need to make an informed decision about your coverage options.

This seminar is intended for persons newly eligible or soon to be eligible for Medicare. It is closed to licensed Life, Accident and Health Insurance Agents, insurance company personnel, and anyone affiliated with a Health Maintenance Organization or other conflicts of interest.

Wednesday, December 16 • 10 a.m. – Noon LIFE Senior Services • 5950 E. 31st St. • Tulsa Free • RSVP • (918) 664-9000

Protect Yourself from Scams

If you are age 60 or older, you are more likely to be targeted by people who sell bogus products and services. This seminar, presented by Special Agent Coffman with the U.S. Secret Service, will provide important information and tips that can help you avoid being a victim of these predatory scams. Wednesday, December 16 • 2 – 3:30 p.m. LIFE Senior Services • 5950 E. 31st St. • Tulsa Free • RSVP • (918) 664-9000

Medicare Part D Assistance Clinics Available

The Medicare Assistance Program at LIFE Senior Services offers free Medicare Part D Plan Comparison and Enrollment Assistance Clinics now through Dec. 7. Now – December 7 • Appointments Required LIFE Senior Services • 5950 E. 31st St. • Tulsa Free • RSVP • (918) 664-9000

LIFE’S SENIOR CENTERS With two locations in midtown Tulsa, LIFE’s Senior Centers offer a variety of activities for adults age 50 and older. Membership is only $25 per year. To discover all that LIFE has to offer, call LIFE’s SeniorLine at (918) 664-9000 or visit www.LIFEseniorservices.org/seniorcenters.

Functional Movement

With personal trainer Brenda Weaver Tuesdays & Thursdays • 9 a.m. • $5 • Open to the Public LIFE’s Senior Center at Southminster 3500 S. Peoria Ave. • Tulsa

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Patron Chairs Will and Donna Farrior with Event Chairs June Patton and David Hogan at Western Days, the annual fundraiser benefiting Aberdeen Heights residents Mary S. and Saint Simeon’s held on Sept. 15 at Expo Square. Audrey C. gardened in the courtyard.

Aberdeen Heights resident Charles P. with his trophy and medals from the Sagora Senior Games.

Jenks Senior Citizens enjoyed the food and entertainment at the annual Greek Festival. The entertainers made them feel especially welcome when they stopped by their table.

Three gals from The Broadmoor Retirement Community had a wonderful time at their weekly Bingo extravaganza!

Virginia Chosinard and Betty Cottier had a blast at Heatheridge Assisted Living’s Hawaiian-themed luncheon.

RSVP volunteers were showcased for their amazing service to our community at RSVP’s gala “Somewhere in Time: Havana Nights” on June 27, 2015, at Cain’s Ballroom.

At Heatheridge Assisted Living, some days just call for a little bit of crazy. Betty Weaver shows off her creative selection for Crazy Hat Day!

Patsy, Sherry, Frances, Ursula, Elaine, Judy and Don pose in front of a Native American sculpture on the grounds of Gilcrease Museum on a recent trip with Jenks Senior Citizens.

Aberdeen Heights resident Jane C. shows off her owl painting that she completed during Assisted Living Week.

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Whether it is your traveling group, tennis buddies or a night on the town, we want your pictures! Submit high-resolution photos to editor@LIFEseniorservices.org by the 1st of every month.

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AUTO REPAIR Strickland Automotive Strickland Automotive is locally-owned and - operated with over 40 years of auto repair experience. We perform all types of vehicle repair, from computer and electrical problems to engine and transmission overhauls. ASE Certified mechanics. Open six days a week, with towing provided. Call Gary. (918) 832-7072.

stay safe in their home. We are looking for caring individuals to provide assistance to elderly/disabled clients. Tasks may include errands, light housekeeping, and personal care assistance. Must have reliable transportation, valid driver’s license, auto insurance and pass OSBI background check. Certified and Non-Certified positions! Apply Today!! www.oxford-healthcare.com or call: (918) 258-1111.

BOOKS

ESTATE SALES

Coaching My Way This is the dramatic story of a small college football coach hired by a major university to resurrect a failing program. This compact family-friendly book is ideal for both adults and teenagers.Send $10 check or cash to Tom Campbell, 5117 East 21st Place, Tulsa, OK 74114.

2MS Estate Sales ...Tulsa’s Finest! Downsizing? Estate liquidation? Let us take the worry away and maximize your return!!! No out of pocket expense for you, we handle all advertising, staging and the sale it self. We specialize in senior transitions, having been in the senior housing market for over 10 years. Please contact Michelle Reed (918) 691-5893 or Atulsa@aol.com for a free consultation.

CARPET CLEANING ALL PRO Carpet Cleaning Senior and caregiver discounts. Carpet, furniture, rug cleaning. Pet odor removed and Teflon protectant available. Emergency water extraction. Residential and commercial services. Professional truck mount steam cleaning. Carpet repairs and restretching. Prompt, professional, quality service at a fair price. Certified, insured. Call Thomas Fink, owner/technician, for free estimate (918) 636-6303.

CEMETERY LOTS A Bargain! Memorial Park Cemetery. Two spaces, lot 77A, section 20. Must sell. $1,500. (918) 445-5373. Lots for Sale in Floral Haven Floral Haven Garden of Devotion area. Four lots available. $5,000. Will sell two for $2,500. Call (918) 408-7945. MEMORIAL PARK LOTS FOR SALE Six spaces in Section 6 Lot, 559. $1400. each or $7200 for all six. Call (918) 455-4138. Side-by-Side Memorial Park Plots Two side-by-side burial plots in Memorial Park Cemetery in Tulsa with pre-installed crypts. Located in Section 50, Lot 318, Spaces 7 & 8, south of the Lake of Enchantment. Total price is $2,620 each if purchased from the Cemetery. Asking $1,500 each or $3,000 for both. Call (918) 629-2011.

COMPUTER SERVICES Computer and Electronic Assistance Are you stuck and need Help with your computer or any electronic device. Price and Son Computer and Technology Services, LLC will be glad to assist you in your home. Call James or Jared at (918) 236-6010 or email us at office@pricestechhelp.com to schedule an appointment.

DAYTIME CARE Daytime care for older loved ones LIFE’s Adult Day Heatlh offers convenient, affordable daytime care at three locations in Tulsa and Broken Arrow. For more information, call LIFE’s Adult Day Health at (918) 664-9000.

EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITIES Hiring for Home Care Aides! Brighten your neighbor’s day by helping them

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Estate Sales PLUS Estate Sales PLUS manages Estate Sales… Moving Sales… Downsizing… Consignments… & Appraisals. Selling your home? We bring HUGE crowds of potential buyers and work with your realtor to showcase your home. Estate Sales PLUS is Bonded, Insured and an accredited member of the BBB. For a FREE CONSULTATION, call David Ross at (918) 982-2320, email estatesalesplus@cox.net or go to www.estatesalesplus.com Miss Lilly’s Estate Sale Services Miss Lilly’s Estate Sale Services specializes in Estate Liquidation, downsizing or moving sales. Our Estate appraiser has over 30 years of experience. If you are selling your home, we will work with your agent and bring potential buyers into your home. Contact Patti Lorimer at (918) 906-3539 for a FREE estate evaluation OR email misslilly’s@cox.net OR visit our website www.misslillysestatesales.com

FINANCIAL/INSURANCE Got Grandchildren? This Holiday Season, stuff their piggy banks instead of their stockings. As a grandparent, you can play a vital role in preparing for the future of your grandchildren and greatgrandchildren. Please call Caroline Adams, AAMS, Financial Advisor with Edward Jones at (918) 622-2207 for more information. Medicare Assistance Program The Medicare Assistance Program (MAP) at LIFE Senior Services provides accurate information, counseling and assistance relating to Medicare benefits for Medicare beneficiaries, their representatives and persons soon to be eligible for Medicare. Call MAP at LIFE Senior Services (918) 664-9000 or toll-free (866) 664-9009. Medicare Supplements & Medicare Advantage Plans The Health Insurance Enrollment Center is here to assist you with Medicare Supplements, Medicare Advantage, and Prescription Drug Plans offered by Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma. Call Bob Archer today at (918) 814-5550 for free information. Let me guide you through the outstanding Medicare Plan options that are available to you.

GARDENING/LAWN SERVICES A New Season Lawn Care & Landscape Now accepting new customers. Mowing, trimming, leaf and small debris removal, shrub planting, mulching flower beds. Small tree trimming. Will haul off small appliances, scrape metals, etc. We offer weekly, bi-weekly & year round services for the manicured look. Best rates, senior discounts. Free Estimates. Call Todd (918) 639-2262. Kimble Davis Tree Company Family-owned and operated. Specializing in all aspects of tree care: restoration, pruning/ thinning, removal, stump grinding, hedge trimming, firewood available. Serving Tulsa for 25 years. References. Member BBB. Insured. ISA certified arborist. Check us out at www.kdtreeco.com. Call Kimble at (918) 853-5383. Lawn Care & Handyman Services Leaf Removal/Snow Removal/Lawn Care/ Landscape Design/Fence Repair & Building/ Seasonal Color Design/Yard Spray Treatment/ Debris Cleanup/Interior Remodels/Parking Lot Maintenance. Owner Operated- Fully InsuredFree Quotes-Reliable-Courteous-Professional Service-References Available Upon Request. Call J&S Landscape to take care of all your lawn care & handyman needs. (918) 406-4889. Lawns & More Total lawn care. Leaf removal. Snow removal. Firewood available starting at $80 per rick delivered & stacked. Gutter cleaning, fence repair and new installation available. Stump grinding and small tree work. Debris hauling. Dedicated to making your lawn look its best. Insured, honest, experienced and dependable. Veteran-owned. We are a small company with personal service. References available. FREE ESTIMATES. Call Larry. (918) 3611299. Mower Repair / Maintenance All brands - Riders, ZTR’s, Walk-behinds, Hand-helds. Top Quality work, ASE certified Mechanic. Pick-up and Delivery available. Tulsa and surrounding counties. Maintenance specials include pick-up and delivery 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Call Scott (918) 519-3869.

HOME REPAIR/REMODELING A-OK Plumbing A-OK Plumbing is now offering handyman services. No job too big or too small. Free estimates. We work by the job or hourly. 10% off to all first time customers. Relax, everyone’s welcome. Sit back and give us a call. Special senior rates offered. (918) 810-0397. A Handy Helping Hand Professional home maintenance, painting, and improvements. Whether you’re making overdue repairs, sprucing up your home and garden, or optimizing your home’s “saleability” potential, call Joe Surowiak with A Handy Helping Hand. Professional results. Competitive rates. (918) 520-0333.

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Allen’s Handyman Services of Tulsa “Your Home Improvement and Repair Specialist.” 15th year serving Tulsa seniors. “One call can do it all.” 10% senior discount. Insured. All work guaranteed in writing. No pay until job is completed. Plumbing, drain cleaning, grab bars, electrical, carpentry, painting, seamless guttering installation/repair/ cleaning. Roof, tile and drywall repair. Wood siding/trim replacement. Deck repair, power washing, staining. Tree trimming. No job too small. For free estimate, call Allen at (918) 630-0394. A Smart Concepts Home Improvements Smart Concepts for Home Improvement has 20 years of experience repairing and improving homes. Steve can fix anything, from the front door to the back door, from the basement to the attic. Call anytime for a free estimate on drywall, plumbing, electrical, doors, windows, and decks. Call Steve for repairs, remodels, paint jobs, etc. (918) 636-2376. Big C’s Plumbing Services Your one stop Plumbing Shop! Call us and I guarantee you will never have to call another plumbing company. Licensed, bonded and insured for your protection....Call (918) 855-9216, tell us you saw us in the Vintage Newsmagazine receive an automatic 10% discount....call us now. BJ’s Handyman Services I will tighten it, nail it, glue it, paint it, cut it, hang it, change it, assemble it, install it, and do other odd jobs. Quality work at reasonable prices. Our goal is to keep your costs low. Life member of Handyman Club of America. Serving seniors since 2005. We now accept all major credit/debit cards. Call BJ at (539) 777-2915. This is a local call. Bumgartner Plumbing Licensed, with over 30 years of experience. Rates are low and based on the job, not the hour. No service call fee or travel time charge. Senior and caregiver discount. Plumbing service and repair our specialty. Honest, professional service you can count on. Lic. # 82750. (918) 355-4747. Burton Painting and Floors Specializing in all aspects of exterior and interior home painting. Staining, sealing, and painting faux finishes. Decks, fences, cabinets and floors. Free estimates. 25+ years of experience. Reliable, courteous, professional service. Fully insured. (918) 378-2858. Contracting for Seniors by Van Repairs, painting, remodeling, some plumbing and electrical, small jobs. Special needs: grab bars, ramps, hand rails, door alterations to accommodate wheelchairs, handicap fixtures. Working with individuals, families, seniors, businesses since 1987. We function with integrity, with special concerns for seniors. Free estimates, insured. (918) 636-6849. Dave’s Heat and Air, Inc. Licensed, insured, and bonded. Honest and reliable service for over 30 years. Competitive rates. Specializing in heating and air conditioning service and repair. All makes and models. Residential and light commercial. Tulsa metro area. Family-owned and operated. (918) 437-8101.

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|| classifieds || Doorman Door Service of Tulsa Thinking about replacing your windows? Call us first, glass replacement may be a better option. The Doorman provides service and installation for doors, windows and siding. We offer a senior and military discount. Financing is available and we accept all major credit cards. Visit us at www.tulsadoorman.com. (918) 430-4398. Freedom Electrical Services Do you need outlets, ceiling fans or lights hung? Freedom Electrical Services provides quality workmanship. For all your electrical needs, call (918) 216-1846. Handyman/Painter Minor house work & repairs such as plumbing: leaky faucets, install new faucet & hardware. Electrical: replace bad light switches, or receptacle (wall plug ins) fix old light fixtures install new fixtures & ceiling fans, wood staining, furniture repair, interior /exterior home painting and repairs on walls or ceiling. Call David at (918) 346-3774. Hutson’s Handyman Service Carpentry. Painting. Home repair. Basic plumbing. Sheet rock – new and repair. Storm doors and windows. Install ceiling fans. Clean and repair rain guttering. $15 service call charge. $35/hour. 10% senior discount. What do you need done? Member, Better Business Bureau. (918) 835-8205 or (918) 645-5761. Same Day Services Light Hauling /Light Moving - help you rearrange room furniture, lawns-grass mowing/small paint jobs/cleanup/ fence repair/ installation of wireless security system on doors/winwdows - We are honest dependable. References. Call (918) 313-5230. Z&J Remodeling No job is too big or small. Painting, carpentry work, roofing, room additions, decks, sheet rock, carpet & carpet repairs, storm damage repairs and more. Free estimates and insured. (918) 629-1903.

HOUSE CLEANING Housekeeper Available Weekly, Biweekly, Monthly. Thorough and Honest. Integrity at work yesterday, today and tomorrow. 15 years experience. Adjustable fee according to situation. References Available. Call (918) 282-1617. Tyson Window Cleaning I clean windows, chandeliers and mirrors. Need help cleaning for holidays? Company coming? I clean houses, one time or regularly. I also do construction clean-up, clean moveins and clean move-outs. Will help pack and unpack your move. Satisfaction guranteed, experienced, insured, senior discount, affordable rates. (918) 408-1353.

HOUSING Woman Housemate Wanted I want to share my home in Keystone with a nice neat clean Christian woman 65+ in good health. I will give you free rent but you must be able to drive, pay for ½ of monthly expenses. My home is spacious, lovely with a private room and bath. Must be financially secure. No children and no smokers please. (918) 927-9751.

LEGAL Full-Service Estate Planning Law Firm Trusts, Wills, Gift and Tax Planning, Powers of Attorneys and more! With offices in Sand

Springs and Tulsa. Discount to Veterans and Retired Teachers. Willing to meet you in your place for no extra charge! Call Penni of the Skillern Law Firm at (918) 805-2511. www.skillernlaw.com

OIL AND GAS Buying Oil, Gas, & Mineral Interests Please contact us if you have oil & gas properties or mineral interests you want to sell. We are local and honest. To arrange a confidential meeting please call Bill Wiles, StoneBridge Partners, Tulsa, OK. (918) 747-7594. Thank you. Mineral, Oil/Gas Interests Want to purchase minerals and oil/gas interests. Send details to P.O. Box 13557, Denver, CO, 80201

PERSONAL ASSISTANCE AAA+ Personal Assistant/Caregiver Absolutely the best physical, mental and emotional needs care giving for yourself or loved one. Professional, discreet and dependable. No revolving door of people in your home. Meal planning, shopping and preparation. Transportation, travel companion or business assistant. We can fit your needs. Call Carol (918) 430-6448. $15 per hour. Accomplished Help at Home Former owner and administrator of Oklahoma state licensed facility. Help in home management coordinating your needs. Cooking, light housekeeping, transportation to doctors’ appointments. I value your dignity with respect. Excellent references. Adjustable fee according to situation. (918) 728-5489 or (918) 270-1671. Affordable Flexible Caregiver My name is LaQuanna. I do light housekeeping, light cooking, laundry, grocery shopping and companionship, too! I am dependable, honest, caring and affordable. If you need someone to help you or your loved one call me at (918) 313-7433. Ask for LaQuanna You have a blessed day! Bobbi and Bob’s Personal & Business Assistance Secretarial and administrative tasks, project manager assignments, running errands, grocery/personal shopping, take to beauty shop, take to medical appointments, organizing home/office, housecheck, handle healthcare and medical insurance paperwork. Call Bobbi Warshaw, MPH, or Bob Warshaw, MBA, at (918) 747-3807. Website: www.errands-to-go.com, Email: bobbi.warshaw@att.net. Busy Bee Services Let me make your life easier! I will run errands, take you to appointments, shop for you or take you shopping. I do pet sitting and house sitting, along with companion care and light housekeeping. Rates and references furnished upon request. Call Beverly at (918) 851-0567. B.keeley@me.com. Compassionate Respectful Caregiver In need of someone to help with daily activities? I can help with getting dressed, laundry, light cooking, light cleaning and getting groceries. I provide transportation to appointments or just out to have lunch. I can also help with medication reminders. 3+ years’ experience with seniors and/or special needs. Call (918) 805-2074.

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Financial Organizer Are you overwhelmed handling monthly finances (paying bills, balancing your checkbook, organization) for yourself or a loved one? I can help! I create customized systems that fit your needs, either for set up only or ongoing mnmonthly. Call me to discuss the options available. Essential Strategy Consulting, LLC. Gwen Stevens (918) 557-5259. Mail Stacking Up? Do you have trouble seeing to write checks? No family close by to help? Confused about your income or expenses? I will pay your bills, setup deposits, correspond with insurers, accountants, bankers, doctors, brokers and creditors. Organize information for your taxes. Monitor all accounts for fraud. Notarize your legal papers. Bonded and insured. FREE initial consultation. Senior Money Manager Call Sherry (918) 625-2001. Mary’s Errands/Senior Services Tulsa I do personal errands such as: deliver your groceries, pharmacy pick-ups, post office, pet care, escort to appointments/activities, dry cleaning, Wal-Mart runs, meal delivery, and more! If you don’t see what you need listed call me! Mary 1-(918) 791-3770, text or email: maryehayes@att.net Need A Good Caring Caregiver? Don’t need phone calls looking for a job position. I have 35 years of experience. Prefer full time. Will accept whatever client wants and needs. Will only work in Tulsa I believe in the word of God. Give me a try. You won’t be disappointed. Call (918) 270-2627. Pay negotiable.

PERSONAL SAFETY EARS Emergency Alert Response Systems. Enjoy living at home while we listen for your safety with our quality personal medical alarm and monitoring service. Affordable with no long-term commitment. Locally owned and operated (918) 298-0500 or toll-free. (877) 885-3277. HALO Medical Alarms HALO provides emergency response throughout Oklahoma with an office in Tulsa. Let a HALO medical alarm provide you with the confidence and security to live independently in your own home, where you are most comfortable. Call (918) 392-0566 or (877) 747-HALO (4256). www.halomedicalalarms.com

PERSONAL SERVICES Affordable Hairstyling In-Home or Shop Transportation and home service available for your hairstyling needs. I will come to you at the hospital, rehab or nursing home. A Mane Event hairstyling is for the entire family. 35 years experience. Senior specials for haircuts, perms and color. In-shop special: Haircut $7 for first time customers in shop ONLY. Tuesday through Saturday. Near 11th and Yale at 937 South Canton Ave. (918) 834-2686. Darlene’s Salon Services Hair care for men and women, specializing in senior clients. Wet sets, blow drying, back combing, perms, colors, and cuts. Manicures and pedicures available. This month’s special: haircut OR shampoo and set for $12. First

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time clients only with this ad. Come see us at Highland Plaza, 5661 E. 41st St. (Corner of 41st and Hudson). (918) 742-3440. Detlef’s Master American European Hair Design Established 1964. Precision cuts, color corrections, perms by design from sensible to sensational. Former owner of Elizabeth Arden Red Door Miss Jackson’s Salon and Coiffures Continental Salon. Catering to classy and mature styles for ladies and gentlemen. Monday – Saturday. Call (918) 663-8779. 4833 South Sheridan, Suite 405A in Fountain Plaza. By appointment only. For Your Feet Many foot problems occur later in life. Let MY S.H.O.P. (Seniors House of Pampering) take care of your tootsies. Soothing, relaxing foot bath followed by massage to help relieve pain and improve circulation. Senior owned and operated. $25 at your place. $20 at my place. (918) 808-5084. In-Home Beauty Services of Tulsa We provide beauty services to our clients who are unable to leave their home, disabled, hospice care or independent living. We offer full beauty service for men and women in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Our services include: shampoo & sets, haircuts, perms, manicures. pedicures. Licensed and Insured. Visit our website www.inhomebeautyservicesoftulsa.com. Call (918) 630-6274.

PET SERVICES Cat Boarding Going out of town and need someone to care for your cats? The Kat Shack offers a calm and peaceful place for your cats to stay: no cages, no dogs, and lots of love. 23 years animal experience. (918) 364-cats (2287). www.thekatshack.com. Elaine’s Pet Care & Housesitting Elaine’s “Happy Pets”. My home or yours. Daily, weekly, monthly. Excellent References. (918) 369-1319.

REAL ESTATE Residential Home Sales Thinking of selling your home to move to a senior supportive environment? Perhaps to move in with an adult son or daughter who can help assist with your needs? Get the specialized attention you deserve by contacting Jay Workman with Coldwell Banker Select today for a free consultation. Email jayworkmanrealtor@gmail.com or call (918) 734-2004.

SOCIAL/SUPPORT GROUP Single Seniors (60+) Are you over 60, single, divorced or widowed? We are a fun loving group of single seniors over 60. We meet every Wednesday, 11:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. at the Buffet Palace, 10934 East 21st Street. We eat at 11:30 have a short meeting and then play cards. Join us for great fun and fellowship. Questions, call Bob at (918) 371-4367 or Nancy at (918) 341-3375.

TRAVEL Adventures on Route 66 Take a short 3 hour tour of Tulsa’s Route 66 with the granddaughter of Cy Avery, the father of Route 66. Each tour (you will be the

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driver) will be planned around your interests monuments, cemetery, 11th Street Bridge, etc. Plus I’ll provide you with an illustrated history of Mr. Avery. Call Joy Avery (918) 813-0325.

In appreciation of contributions to LIFE Senior Services received in October 2015. We sincerely apologize for any error or omission. If there is an error, please call Carrie Bowen at (918) 664-9000.

Anonymous Mary Jane Bittick Elston D. Blakesley Priscilla Brown Kevin and Melanie Burdick Caroline Campbell Ken and Mary Ella Coe Deniese Dillon Ronald and Lindsay Fick Gary L. Frame Gordy and Charlotte Guest Bill and Terri Hirsch Trevis and Julia Hulse Terry Johnston Helen N. Jones Jerry V. Jones Memorial Trust Angela Larson Brad Lawton Beth Legg Judy Locut Paul and Sandra Mullins David L. Nelson Nieta M. Pinkerton Sheila Powers Bob and Denise Rock Bill Salwaechter Bobby D. Sayre Robert and Sandra Smith Church of St. Mary Jeanne Sturges Curtis L. Ware Mark and Anita Watkins David and Mary Ann Williams John and Deborah Willis

Affordable Motorcoach Tours 2016: April 3-10 Caribbean Cruise. May 11-19 New York, Statue of Liberty and 911 Museum: $975. September 12-22 Boston, Salem and Cape Ann: $1,039. Deposits are $75 each. Junkets by Jill Travel (918) 407-9031. www.Junketsbyjill.com

TRANSPORTATION Call Patricia! Need a go-fer to run errands, take you to an appointment or grocery shopping? Need someone to take you to hair appointments, the pharmacy, make deliveries? Need someone to stay with you during an out-patient medical procedure? Also, available as a driver/ companion for traveling; rates negotiable. Call Patricia! (918) 437-3456 or (918) 855-2302. My Driver Transportation Service Let me do the driving. To and from work, airport, shopping, errands, post office, appointments. Also, LIFT VAN transportation available. Able to assist getting to and from bed. Senior sitting. Also, small breed dog boarding. 20 years experience. CLEET certified and licensed. References. Member, Better Business Bureau. (918) 491-9929. Travel Made Easy Motor home with lift and driver available for short in-state or long out-of-state trips. Seats 6 comfortably. Cross country patient transfer or sightseeing. Also available for rent: powerchair for shopping, hospital visits, etc. Member, Better Business Bureau. (918) 491-9929.

In Honor of In Honor of Johanna Hay Doris Gallagher In Honor of Anna Kerr John and Iva Reynolds In Honor of Our Parents Bruce and Carolyn Stewart In Memory of In Memory of Sam Anderson Betsy Anderson In Memory of Margaret Mary Donnelly Elizabeth May Le Leux In Memory of Theresa Ann Finck Theresa M. Finck and Mary Ann Finck In Memory of Helen Meyer Edwin W. Meyer In Memory of George Prothro, M.D. Joy Prothro About LIFE Senior Services

LIFE Senior Services is a recognized leader in aging services and an acknowledged voice on aging issues and is proud to be a nonprofit United Way organization. If you would like to make a donation in support of LIFE Senior Services, please mail your contribution to: LIFE Senior Services 5950 E. 31st St. Tulsa, OK 74135-5114 Make your donation securely online: www.LIFEseniorservices.org

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES Love life’s little treasures? We do too! Volunteers needed to cashier, create displays, and provide friendly customer service at our upscale resale shop coming in 2016! Bring your friends and make a difference. Contact Colleen at (918) 747-2273 or chelms@hospiceofgreencountry.org with Hospice of Green Country to join the fun! New Century Hospice Welcomes Volunteers! Have an iPad or laptop that you can use to share “the world” with a patient needing companionship? In Tulsa, Bixby & Mannford areas. Enjoy parties? We need birthday cards mailed, cupcakes delivered, and holidays celebrated on time! Call Debra at (918) 493-4930.

CLASSIFIEDS TO ADVERTISE, CONTACT:

Bernie Dornblaser, (918) 664-9000 or bdornblaser@LIFEseniorservices.org

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DECEMBER Answers

For puzzles, see page 30.

COMMONYM 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

6 9 3 1 5 4 8 2 7

Types of Holes All have bridges All are knots Types of paper Pieces in Lucky Charms Cereal

2 4 1 8 7 3 9 5 6

8 7 5 9 6 2 3 4 1

5 1 7 6 8 9 2 3 4

6. 7. 8. 9. 10.

4 3 8 2 1 7 5 6 9

Types of nuts Types of numbers Types of windows Colors of green Types of flys

9 2 6 4 3 5 1 7 8

7 6 9 3 2 1 4 8 5

3 8 4 5 9 6 7 1 2

1 5 2 7 4 8 6 9 3

LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine | December 2015