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Ruth and Larry Bonner have something most people don’t – a love story that’s lasted 75 years.

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16 Dean Ross: Age is No Obstacle

Have you ever wondered if you’re too old to compete in a sport? Consider the case of Dean Ross, a truck driver from Tulsa, Okla. who participates in not only one, but two, competitive sports. And if that’s not enough, he’s a world champion and record holder to boot.

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17 Alberta “Peaches” Johnson: Loyal Volunteer for More Than 25 Years

erin sHacKelFord Managing Editor eshackelford@LIFEseniorservices.org

A pint of power, standing at 4 feet 11 inches tall, 96-year-old Alberta “Peaches” Johnson has been a member and devoted volunteer of Broken Arrow Seniors activity center since the organization began in 1988. Johnson volunteers at bunco and bingo games, potluck lunches and more.

Kaylee campbell Associate Editor kcampbell@LIFEseniorservices.org bernie dornblaser Advertising Director bdornblaser@LIFEseniorservices.org carol carTer Copy Editor

18 Ruth & Larry Bonner: A Lifelong Love Aﬀair

carrie Henderson boWen Circulation Coordinator cbowen@LIFEseniorservices.org

Ruth and Larry Bonner have something most people don’t – a love story that’s lasted 75 years. They were married on Dec. 23, 1939.

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20 A Dream Deferred … Until Now

beTsy Troyer Contributing Designer

Dream Chasers, a program started by a devoted MGM Healthcare employee, works to make some of MGM’s senior residents’ deferred dreams come true. Similar to Make-A-Wish, but more like fulfilling items on a bucket list—the program has been around for more than 10 years.

22 Penning Your Dreams

Two Tulsa residents, 85-year-old Wilma Hawes Connely and 97-year-old Lois Meyer prove that it is never too late to publish a book. Connely dreamed of sharing her brother’s World War II letters with the public, while Meyer dreamed of sharing her Christian faith.

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25 Mable Rice: A Woman with Moxie

Saint Simeon’s resident Mable Rice is a woman with moxie, according to the YWCA Tulsa, which has named Rice one of its “100 Women with Moxie.” Rice, 80, has long been an advocate for racial equality and a herald for black culture and heritage in Tulsa.

26 Holiday Events

If you’re looking to revel or share in the holiday spirit this December, there’s an event in Green Country for you.

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From the Publisher Looking Back Caregiver Corner Caregiving and the Holidays: How to Avoid the Headache Medicare & You Benefits Update 2015 The Dinner Belle Find Cold Weather Comfort and Holiday Cheer at Main Street Tavern Healthy Aging We Can Do It: Taking Control of Your Health Noteworthy Mindbender & Puzzles Share Your Time & Talent Business Directory Calendar Events & Seminars at LIFE Senior Services People & Places Classifieds Vintage Friends

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As we celebrate the joys of the season, we’re honored to share portraits and stories of area seniors, rich in the rewards of substantial and celebrated accomplishments, milestones, anniversaries and lifetime legacies. From these real life vignettes, we see that it’s never too late to create something new, achieve a goal or make one’s dream a reality. From setting strength-related world records on page 16 to being named a “woman with moxie” for years of advocacy on page 25 to penning and publishing a book on page 22, we hope you find encouragement in each inspiring profile. On page 20, we take a look at Dream Chasers, a MGM Healthcare program, which is in the business of making their residents’ deferred dreams come true. Dream Chasers has fulfilled a variety of wishes, including sending

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a spunky 86-year-old on her first Harley-Davidson motorcycle ride and giving a “country girl” a complete makeover. I know you’ll enjoy sharing in the excitement as you read about each wish-come-true. And, of course, a holiday issue wouldn’t be complete without a go-to guide to Holiday Events! Whether you delight in twinkling lights or prefer bundling up for a parade down main, I’m sure you will find an event or activity to suit your fancy. We’ve even included some safe, yet festive, events to help you ring in a prosperous New Year. Finally, I encourage you to take a moment to discover more about LIFE Senior Services. LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine is one of many services we proudly provide to seniors and caregivers across northeast Oklahoma. On the next page, you’ll find our personal list of what we’ve accomplished this year– with help from you; together, let’s make 2015 just as wonderful. Until next year,

President and CEO of LIFE Senior Services and Vintage Housing

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LOOKING BACK

Spavinaw: How Water Saved Tulsa ALL IMAGES ARE COURTESY OF THE TULSA HISTORICAL SOCIETY & MUSEUM

Spavinaw: How Water Saved Tulsa Exhibit Now Open Tulsa Historical Society & Museum 2445 S. Peoria Ave. • Tulsa When water began flowing through the Spavinaw Water System on Nov. 17, 1924, it ended a long and hard-fought battle over the source of Tulsa’s water. It became apparent at the beginning of the oil boom that the previous sources of water were neither large enough nor clean enough to support a growing city. In the end, a $7.5 million dollar bond issue brought water to Tulsa from 55 miles away, thanks to one of the biggest and most expensive engineering projects in the country at the time.

in history

this month in history Dec. 3, 1967: First human heart transplant Fifty-three-year-old Louis Washkansky received the first human heart transplant at Groote Schuur Hospital in Cape Town, South Africa. Washkansky, a South African grocer dying from chronic heart disease, received the transplant from Denise Darvall, a 25-year-old woman who was fatally injured in a car accident.

Dec. 6, 1865: The 13th Amendment was ratified The 13th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution, officially ending the institution of slavery, was ratified. “Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction.” With these words, the single greatest change wrought by the Civil War was officially noted in the Constitution. Dec. 12, 1913: Mona Lisa recovered in Florence Two years after it was stolen from the Louvre Museum in Paris, Leonardo da Vinci’s masterpiece the Mona Lisa was recovered inside Italian waiter Vincenzo Peruggia’s apartment in Florence. Peruggia had previously worked at the Louvre and had participated in the heist with a group of accomplices dressed as Louvre janitors on the morning of Aug. 21, 1911.

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Dec. 16, 1811: Earthquake rocks the American wilderness One the greatest series of earthquakes in U.S. history began when a quake of an estimated 8.6 magnitude on the Richter scale slammed the region of New Madrid, Mo. The earthquake raised and lowered parts of the Mississippi Valley by as much as 15 feet and changed the course of the Mississippi River. At one point, the Mississippi momentarily reversed its direction, giving rise to Reelfoot Lake in northwest Tennessee. Dec. 19, 1972: Last lunar landing mission ended The Apollo lunar landing program ended on Dec. 19, 1972, when the last three astronauts to travel to the moon splashed safely in the Pacific Ocean. Apollo 17 had lifted off from Cape Canaveral, Fla., 10 days before. Dec. 31, 1961: Kennedy and Khrushchev exchange holiday greetings President John F. Kennedy issued a statement extending his and the American people’s “sincere wishes” for a peaceful and prosperous New Year to Soviet Premier Nikita Khrushchev and the people of the Soviet Union. It was the height of the Cold War and the United States and Soviet Union were locked in a nuclear arms race. © The History Channel

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Caregiving

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Holidays:

How to Avoid the Headache

When caregivers anticipate the holiday season they are often flooded with emotion. Memories of a simpler time when cooking was fun; conversations were about travels, work, kids and food; outings included shopping trips and leisurely lunches; and cocktail parties and dressing up were the norm. Caregiving brings new tasks and stressors to the holidays, especially if your loved one has limited cognitive functioning or mobility issues. The day-to-day organization, doctor visits, medications and all the other tasks don’t stop just because the rest of the world is making merry. Often, everything becomes harder due to the added holiday traffic and shoppers. But even if the logistics of caregiving are stressful, it is often secondary to the emotional and anticipatory stress associated with “the big family visit.” Family: love and judgment all rolled into one unique, probably dysfunctional, unit. This is the norm. Most families are a little quirky. This quirkiness, in pre-caregiving years, gave fodder for gossip, stories and giggles. For example, Uncle Moran was lovingly referred to as Uncle Moron; and cousin Alicia, who worked at a fancy jewelry store, was always on the prowl for her next ex-husband. They were so fun to see, talk with and (just being honest here) talk about. When a family is faced with caring for a loved one, there is usually one person, statistically a daughter, who takes on the role of organizer and ultimately hands-on caregiver. The light-hearted conversations about Uncle Moron and Cousin Alicia change to guilt-infused accusations (usually by a sibling who lives out of town) about how to caregive better, longer, more modern and less expensively, just to name a few. The judgment can be brutal.

With strategic planning, some of the familial stress can be mitigated. The Family Caregiver Alliance (FCA) believes that the holidays are an excellent opportunity to find a connection with and support from family and friends. Here are some of the FCA’s suggestions: • Communicate truthfully about the realities of your caregiving experience. •

Before the get-togethers start, write a brief note to family and friends about your loved one’s condition. This helps family members who are not present very often or live out of town to have a realistic expectation of what they’ll experience when they arrive.

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Let go of disappointment. If you feel that other family members are not as involved with the care of your loved one as you would like, there are choices you can make. You can try to speak to them before the holiday events begin and hope for resolution, or you can put feelings on hold and wait until after the festivities to discuss them. The main objective is to enjoy the holidays.

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Adapt to the new reality. Even if you are the main organizer for your family, you may need to hand over the reins for a few holiday seasons. This also means letting go of judgment about how the festivities are run.

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When entertaining with a person who is cognitively impaired, identify a quiet room or space for him or her. Too much stimulation can cause behavior issues. Plan for the quiet space ahead of time.

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Commit to enjoying the holidays! by Mickey Hinds, LIFE’s Community Education & Working Caregiver Program Coordinator

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Gifts for the Caregiver

If you love a caregiver there are some helpful things you can offer to do for them this holiday season. Offer to stay for a few hours with their loved one while they go shopping or get a massage. Even better, give them a gift card for the massage. Make a couple of casseroles, so they can have a few evenings free of cooking. Offer to tidy the garage or change light bulbs. Minor home fixes and self-care are often neglected by busy caregivers. Most importantly, acknowledge the hard work they do. A sincere “thank you” does wonders for a caregiver and the whole family. www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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December 8 – December 12

December 1 – December 5 Collinsville/Skiatook Valley National Bank 118 N. 11th St. Mon.-Fri. • 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

Tulsa Prosperity Bank 10115 S. Yale Ave Mon.-Fri. 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

Sand Springs Bank of Oklahoma 401 E. Broadway St. Mon.-Thurs. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m.-6 p.m.

Tulsa Bank of Oklahoma Pine & N. Lewis Ave. Mon.-Fri. • 9 a.m.-6 p.m

Tulsa Arvest Bank 31st & S. Mingo Rd. Mon.-Fri. • 8 a.m.-6 p.m.

Broken Arrow – AVB 302 S. Main St. Mon.-Fri. • 9 a.m.-4 p.m Tulsa – American Bank & Trust Co 6060 American Plaza (61st & Yale) Mon.-Thurs. 9 a.m.4:30 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m.-6 p.m. Bixby/Tulsa – Citizen’s Security Bank 11402 S. Memorial Dr. Mon.-Fri. • 9 a.m.-4 p.m.

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Tulsa Bank of Oklahoma 31st & S. Harvard Ave. Mon.-Thurs. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m.-6 p.m.

Broken Arrow Arvest Bank 145th E. Ave. & 71st St. S. Mon.-Thurs. 8 a.m.-6 p.m. Fri. 8 a.m.-12 p.m.

Tulsa Bank of Oklahoma 21st & S. Lewis Ave. Mon.-Thurs. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m.-12 p.m.

Owasso First Bank of Owasso 8601 N. Garnett Mon.-Fri. • 9 a.m.-6 p.m.

Jenks – BancFirst 200 E. Main St. Mon.-Thurs. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m.-12 p.m.

Broken Arrow – AVB 6401 S. Elm Pl. Mon.-Thurs. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m.-12 p.m.

Tulsa – Commerce Bank 6130 E. 81st St. (81st & Sheridan) Mon.-Fri. • 8:30 a.m.-5 p.m.

Glenpool – Citizen’s Security Bank Bank of Oklahoma 381 E. 141st St. South Mon.-Thurs. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m.-12 p.m.

Prattville – American Heritage Bank 3801 S. 113th W. Ave. Mon.-Thurs. 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m.-12 p.m.

Bank locations may close due to inclement weather.

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medicare & you

Benefits Update 2015 Social Security Benefits Will Increase by 1.7 Percent Monthly benefits for nearly 64 million Americans will increase 1.7 percent in 2015, which translates to an increase of roughly $20 a month for the typical Social Security recipient. The 1.7 percent cost-of-living adjustment (COLA) will begin in January with benefits that more than 58 million Social Security beneficiaries receive. Increased payments to more than eight million Supplemental Security Income beneficiaries will begin on Dec. 31. The annual COLA change is tied to the Consumer Price Index, which posted a 0.1 percent increase in September after dropping 0.2 percent a month earlier. Inflation remained tame, due in large part to low energy prices. Based on that increase, the maximum amount of earnings subject to the Social Security tax (taxable maximum) will increase to $118,500 from $117,000. Of the estimated 168 million workers who will pay Social Security taxes in 2015, about 10 million will pay higher taxes because of the increase in the taxable maximum. With inflation running low, it’s the thirdstraight year that the COLA will be less than two percent. Medicare Costs in 2015 The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) has set the Medicare premiums, deductibles and coinsurance amounts to be paid by Medicare beneficiaries in 2015. Medicare Part A (Hospital Insurance): Medicare Part A helps cover inpatient hospital care, inpatient care in a skilled nursing facility, hospice care and home healthcare services. • Part A Monthly Premium Most Medicare beneficiaries do not have to pay a premium for Part A services because they have at least 40 quarters of Medicare-covered employment (or are the spouse or widow(er) of such a person). However, some enrollees who have fewer than 40 quarters of coverage obtain Part A coverage by paying a monthly premium. Those with less than 40 quarters of covered employment can buy Part A coverage by paying a monthly premium of up to $407 in 2015.

• Part A Deductible and Coinsurance For each benefit period, Medicare pays all covered costs except the Part A deductible during the first 60 days and coinsurance amounts for hospital stays that last beyond 60 days, but no more than 150 days. (A benefit period starts the day a patient is admitted and ends when the patient has been out of the hospital for 60 days in a row). In 2015, for each benefit period, you pay: -A deductible of $1,260 and no coinsurance for a hospital stay of 1-60 days. -$315 per day for days 61-90 of a hospital stay. -$630 per day for days 91-150 of a hospital stay and all costs for each day beyond 150 days. -Skilled nursing facility coinsurance is $157.50 per day for days 21-100 and all costs for each day after day 100 in a benefit period. Medicare Part B (Medical Insurance): Medicare Part B helps cover medicallynecessary physicians’ services, outpatient care, home health services, durable medical equipment and other medical services. Part B also covers many preventive services. • Part B Monthly Premium As a result of cost controls implemented in the Affordable Care Act, most Medicare beneficiaries will not see a Part B monthly premium increase in 2015. Most beneficiaries will continue to pay the 2014 premium of $104.90. • Part B Income Related Adjustment While the majority of Medicare beneficiaries will pay the standard Medicare Part B monthly premium of $104.90 in 2015, some will pay more based on their annual income. Specifically, if a beneficiary’s “modified adjusted gross income” as reported on their IRS tax return from two years ago is above $85,000 ($170,000 filing jointly), the beneficiary is responsible for a larger portion of the cost of their coverage. These premium adjustments range from $42 to $230.80 more per month for Medicare Part B. About five percent of

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current Part B enrollees are expected to be subject to the higher premium amounts. NOTE: The Affordable Care Act also requires Part D enrollees whose incomes exceed these same thresholds to pay a monthly adjustment amount in addition to their plan premium. These enrollees will pay the regular plan premiums to their Part D plan and will pay the income-related adjustment to Medicare. • Part B Deductible and Coinsurance Costs for Part B services depend on whether you have Original Medicare or are in a Medicare health plan. For some services, there are no costs, but you may have to pay for the doctor’s visit. If the Part B deductible applies, you must pay all costs until you meet the yearly Part B deductible before Medicare begins to pay its share. -In 2015, the Part B deductible remains unchanged from 2014 and will continue to be $147. -After your deductible is met, you typically pay 20 percent of the Medicareapproved amount of the service. -If you join a Medicare Advantage Plan (like an HMO or PPO) or have other insurance (like a Medigap policy or employer or union coverage), your costs may be different. by Cindy Loftin, Medicare Assistance Program Coordinator, LIFE Senior Services Source:www.cms.hhs.gov

Medicare Part D Assistance Clinics Scheduled The Medicare Assistance Program (MAP) at LIFE Senior Services offers free Medicare Part D Plan Comparison and Enrollment Assistance Clinics during the Fall Open Enrollment Period, which runs Oct. 15 through Dec. 7. Medicare counselors provide unbiased, easy-tounderstand information to help you compare Medicare Part D plans and assist you in selecting or changing your drug coverage for 2015. Reservations are required. Call LIFE Senior Services at (918) 664-9000, ext. 250 or toll-free at (866) 664-9009. www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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Find Cold Weather Comfort and Holiday Cheer at Main Street Tavern You’d be hard pressed to find a restaurant more perfectly suited for a chilly December evening than Main Street Tavern in downtown Broken Arrow’s Rose District. Although I’ve never been to an authentic English pub, I would bet you a few pounds that any Englishman would feel right at home amid the low lights, red bricks and expansive bar, which boasts a large beer selection. The restaurant is handicap accessible with plenty of room between tables for easy navigation. One thing that could hinder navigation and menu-reading is the dim lighting during dinner. It made for a cozy ambiance, but could be frustrating if you struggle with your vision. If that is the case, I suggest dropping in during lunch (or bringing a flashlight!). For parking, we found one handicap space in front of the restaurant, but any others eluded me. However, we went on a bustling Friday evening and the walk from the car was negligible. According to our attentive and friendly server, Main Street has some ongoing events and specials. There is live jazz every Wednesday night – our server suggested coming on a night when either Olivia Duhon or Cynthia Simmons are performing, as their music is light and understated. Pint Night, where you buy the beer special and keep the glass, is every other Thursday. On most nights, there is also a food special. On the off-chance you don’t find something on the menu that tickles your fancy, ask about any specials. For an appetizer, my husband and I selected the hummus, which was served with warm pita bread and vegetable sticks. Although my husband lacks my undying enthusiasm for the chickpea-based spread, I did hear him assent that it was some of the best I’ve forced him to try. The hummus was smooth and garlicky, with just a little kick. On past trips, we’ve sampled the soft pretzel and the roasted garlic artichoke dip. Both of which were delicious. And we’ve heard Main Street has mozzarella sticks the size of Twinkies! Until next time, cheesy goodness… For our entrees, I chose the chicken pot pie, which was incredibly rich and creamy with plenty of chicken and hearty vegetables. It was topped with a thick layer of puff pastry. It further solidified Main Street as a “go-to” for wintertime comfort. My husband ordered the fish and chips. The fish pieces were juicy and flaky with a light, crispy batter, and they were especially tasty when dipped in their tartar sauce. Previously, I’ve ordered the raspberry walnut salad and my husband’s tried out a few of their burger selections. Everything received high marks. One burger option, in particular, I recommend is the jalapeño cream cheese burger, which is topped with grilled jalapeño and a thick slice of cream cheese. It does pack a punch, but the cream cheese balances out the spicy jalapeños. And, if you really want to go all out, add some smoky bacon. From our experience, it’s hard to go wrong at Main Street.

Main Street Tavern 200 S. Main St., Broken Arrow, OK 74012 (918) 872-1414 https://www.facebook.com/ MainStreetTavernBA Mon. - Fri.: 11 a.m. - 2 a.m. Sat. - Sun.: 10 a.m. - 2 a.m. Price Range: $8 - $18

Our server also highlighted Main Street’s weekend brunch. I’ve not had the pleasure of sampling any of their brunch offerings, but our server mentioned that the waﬄe, pancake and other mixes are all homemade. She also said to expect generous servings at a great price. Plus, you can enjoy $3 mimosas and $5 bloody marys. If you venture out to Main Street Tavern during the day, I highly recommend you take a moment to explore the newly-named Rose District. Downtown Broken Arrow is bustling with new stores, restaurants and holiday “pop up” shops, turning it into quite a charming entertainment and shopping district. by Dinner Belle, Erin Shackelford, Managing Editor

Top: Main Street Tavern’s hummus appetizer comes with warm pita bread and vegetable sticks. Middle: Raspberry walnut salad. Bottom: Bacon and blue burger.

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We Can Do It: Taking Control of Your Health Picture Rosie the Riveter. Emblazoned with determination, Rosie’s face appeared on posters during WWII to inspire women to join the war effort. But why has Rosie persisted as a cultural icon even into current day 2014? The answer is because women and their bodies are capable of incredible things. A body capable of growing and sustaining human life is worth taking care of, and taking a “Rosie” approach to your health—one that is aggressive and preventative—can keep a body strong, fit and sound. Women over 50 should be especially mindful of four main medical areas. Even if you feel physically fit and healthy, there may be potential medical issues lurking below the surface. Cancer Screenings The pink ribbons representing breast cancer awareness are everywhere, and for good reason. Along with cervical cancer, breast cancer is the leading cancer in women over 50. “The risk of breast cancer increases with age, and early detection is vital. Women with a family history of breast cancer or elevated risks may need to get a mammogram every year, while women with no family history or lower risks may only need one every two years,” according to Bailey Harris, guest writer for Lifestyle Health Guide.

Older women should also be aware of cervical cancer. Cervical cancer does not just affect the younger generations; it is something that can also develop later in life. “Many women think that pelvic exams and pap smears aren’t as important as they get older. They may believe that because they have had years of negative pap tests, they will never get cervical cancer. Well, that’s not the case. If you are 50 or older, you still have a risk of developing cervical cancer,” said Harris. Your chances of developing colon cancer also go up after the age of 50, and Medline Plus, a service of the U.S. National Library of Medicine and National Institutes of Health, suggests colon cancer screenings in the form of a stool test, sigmoidoscopy or a colonoscopy. However, if there is a history of colon cancer in your family, it is advisable to have a screening done before the age of 50. Bone Density Test Bones can become brittle with age due to osteoporosis, leading to fractures and breaks. According to Harris, “Osteoporosis causes the loss of bone mass and is much more common after menopause has taken place … A simple bone density test measures the density of your bones by determining the mineral content in them.” It is recommended that women over 50 receive a bone density test every two years.

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Fortunately, a diagnosis of osteoporosis can be curbed by preventing fractures from occurring, according to WebMD. Incorporating exercise and a diet rich in calcium and other nutrients can lessen its effects. Taking vitamins can also aid in controlling osteoporosis. But make sure and talk to a physician about the right vitamins and supplements for you. Blood Pressure It is especially important to pay attention to your blood pressure, because high blood pressure directly feeds other medical issues like heart attacks and strokes. “[High blood pressure] roughens the walls of your arteries and makes your heart use extra effort in order for your body to maintain its functionality,” according to Health Positive. High blood pressure can also affect your memory and ability to concentrate. Get your blood pressure checked every six months, especially if you have diabetes, kidney problems, heart disease or other certain medical issues. According to Medline Plus, if the top number is greater than 140 or the bottom number is greater than 90, schedule an appointment with your doctor. Blood Work Your blood is a huge health indicator for your physician. Harris states that routine blood work is important for women over 50, as it can give your doctor an assessment on the following things: a complete blood count, thyroid and kidney function, cholesterol and glucose levels, and various other issues. Blood is like a flashing neon sign for problems within the body, so do not hesitate to have your blood checked often, even if you feel totally normal. When it comes to women’s health, remember Rosie the Riveter. Never ignore an issue or think that skipping an exam is okay. So flex into the mirror, put on a red bandana and take an aggressive “Rosie” approach to your health. by Tiffany Howard Sources: Lifestyle Health Guide: www.happyhealth.net/1750/ 5-important-medical-tests-for-women-over-50 Medline Plus: www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/rticle/007467.htm WebMD: www.webmd.com/osteoporosis/features/can-you-reverse-osteoporosis Health Positive: http://healthpositiveinfo.com/health-screenings-women-over-50.html

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Dean Ross: Age is No Obstacle

Have you ever wondered if you’re too old to compete in a sport? If so, consider Dean Ross, a truck driver from Tulsa, Okla. who participates in not only one, but two, competitive sports. And if that’s not enough, he’s a world champion and record holder to boot. At 71, Ross competes in weightlifting and at Scottish Highland Games. Both sports require strength, but also discipline – something Ross learned as a boy growing up in Sand Springs, Okla. “I’ve been working since I was 9 or ten,” Ross recalled. “I walked back and forth, eleven miles each way, delivering newspapers, both morning and evening. I walked everywhere. I was 22 before I owned a car.” Today, Ross spends most of his time behind the wheel as a truck driver for a 24-hour courier service. In fact, for someone who spent so much time walking everywhere in his youth, Ross has made a career out of driving. “I drove a bus for 15 years, then I drove a delivery truck. I’ve been driving around Tulsa since 1958,” he said. Ross’ passion for both weightlifting and the Scottish Highland Games take him on the road, as well. Most weekends, he drives all night to reach an event, competes all day and gets back on the road to drive home. Sometimes he will compete in one event on Saturday and another on Sunday. He started out competing in one game annually, but has become a staple at Scottish Highland Games across the country. “My dream would be to compete in 40 Scottish Games in one year,” he said. He has already logged more than 300,000 miles to reach that goal – and doesn’t appear to be stopping any time soon. Ross’ passion for the Scottish Highland Games began in 1999 after learning about Tulsa’s Scotfest, an annual festival celebrating Celtic history, music and heritage.

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“I was working out at a gym on the leg press machine,” Ross recalled. “A man came up to me and said, ‘You’ve gotta compete in the Scottish Games.’”

Ross has a passion for setting records. He currently holds countless age group world records, as well as first, second and third place finishes. Along with the Scottish Highland Games, Ross enters competitions for the U.S. All-Round Weightlifting Association (USAWA). He began competing in 2005 and holds 188 USAWA records.

That man was Dan DeWelt, who was the director of the Tulsa games at the time. DeWelt and Ross share a spot in the Scottish Masters World Championships Hall of Fame. Ross holds a current world record in the sheaf toss, a traditional Scottish sport in which 16-pound burlap bags are hurled over a horizontal bar above the competitor’s head. Ross’ record is 22 feet high among the 70-79 age group.

“I’m going to keep at it,” he said. “I’m not ever going to quit. I do it for the camaraderie and friendships I’ve made. The person on the field you’re competing against will be the first person to come over and give you tips on how to do something better. Camaraderie is the word you hear most often.” by Karen Szabo

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Alberta “Peaches” Johnson: Loyal Volunteer for More Than 25 Years

A pint of power, standing at 4 feet 11 inches tall, 96-year-old Alberta “Peaches” Johnson has been a member of Broken Arrow Seniors activity center since the organization began in 1988. Johnson volunteers at bunco and bingo games, potluck lunches and runs the concession area during the Monday Night Dance. She is present at the senior center nearly every day of the week, according to June Ross, executive director of Broken Arrow Seniors, Inc. When the organization moved into its current location at 1800 S. Main St., Johnson was proud to be the first person to step foot inside the building. “When we moved, we all packed the items to be moved into our cars, and formed a line with our cars. I was at the head of the line, so I got to be the first person in the doors,” beamed Johnson. Johnson was raised in a proud, but poor family with 11 siblings. Her “Papa” was an Illinois coal miner who lost his job in 1922, which meant a family move to Kansas to stay with relatives and a search for new work opportunities. In order to get there, her father purchased railway tickets with the little money they had left. Unfortunately, that took them only as close as St. Louis, Mo., so the family walked to Coffeyville, Kan. (approximately 360 miles), surviving mostly on persimmons and sleeping in churchyards. Since she was the oldest child, Johnson stayed with her family until her mid-20s and helped her parents raise her younger siblings. As a young woman, she worked in Coffeyville picking tomatoes and green peppers for a grocer. She also worked at a bakery, earning $1 a day to make cakes and soft pies. One day, while she was working in the bakery, a young man who worked at the mercantile across the street wandered in to buy his lunch. That man, William Thomas Johnson, took special notice of her. “One of his co-workers told him, ‘You ought to go with that girl,’ so he took me to the carnival that night. We won a wine-colored pitcher with

six glasses, and I still have them,” Johnson said. She married William in 1953, and they were married for 33 years until William passed away in 1986. Johnson has two children, five grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. When they were newlyweds, William started working for the Fadler Company out of Coffeyville. Soon, the company relocated to Tulsa, and so did the Johnsons. “I’ve lived in this house in Broken Arrow since 1962,” Johnson said. In addition to her dedication to Broken Arrow Seniors, Johnson is also a long-standing member of the Broken Arrow First United Methodist Church and serves as secretary for her Sunday school class. Johnson is a two-time survivor of breast cancer. In 1990, she was diagnosed with cancer and underwent a mastectomy and radiation. In 2009, she was once again diagnosed with cancer in her other breast and went through a second mastectomy and another round of radiation treatments. “I’ve survived 10 surgeries total,” she said proudly, “including the two breast surgeries, gallbladder surgery, an appendectomy and two eye operations.” “With the exception of several months convalescing from her surgeries, she has been here on site to help in every way she can,” said Ross of Broken Arrow Seniors. “She has given of herself on a daily basis, and is always loyal, always helpful, always here to support others.” Ross recalled one depiction of Johnson’s devoted character, which was when, even after she broke her arm, she called the senior center weekly, “very concerned that she was not going to be here to fulfill her volunteer duties.” Johnson shared her secret to a fruitful 96 years of life: “If you want to stay living, the key is to make yourself go.” by Lindsay Morris

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Ruth & Larry Bonner: A Lifelong Love Affair

Ruth and Larry Bonner have something most people don’t – a love story that’s lasted 75 years. The couple met in Mercedes, Texas when Ruth was 21 and Larry was 23. Their brothers played football together, and also acted as the couple’s matchmakers. Their brothers knew they’d be a good pair, and they were right. Six months later, Ruth and Larry married. “We just hit it off right from the start,” recalled Ruth. They were married by a justice of the peace on Dec. 23, 1939. “It was a different time,” said Ruth. “We didn’t have a lot of money like most everyone we knew. We were just kids, living hand to mouth.” At the time, Larry was working for a wholesale garden supply company and was a volunteer firefighter. One Saturday night, a couple of weeks after they were married, a group of firefighters gave the couple the fire department’s version of a shivaree. “They put me in their wheelbarrow and pushed me down the street to the fire station with the fire truck behind me and the siren going,” recalled Ruth. By the time World War II started, Ruth and Larry were already parents of their first child, Barbara. Larry joined the Navy and served overseas for 14 months on a destroyer in the South Pacific. Meanwhile, Ruth worked in a shipyard in Long Beach, Calif. as a

welder. “I wasn’t Rosie the Riveter, but close,” she said. “I went to welding school and we were in a pool. If they needed a welder, they would take someone from the pool.” After the war ended, the couple returned to Texas and Larry went back to work for the garden supply company. Over the next 40 years, he worked his way up the company ladder until he eventually became vice president. In 1951, the couple had their second child, Debbie, and 18 months later, their third daughter Betty was born. They lived in Dallas until 1999 when they moved to Tulsa to be closer to family. For the past four years, the couple has lived at Burgundy Place. They have four grandchildren and three greatgrandchildren. Over the years, the family enjoyed countless trips together and Ruth and Larry continued to travel extensively after he retired. They have visited every state except Wisconsin and Michigan, most of the national parks, as well as Europe. The couple doesn’t make any extravagant claims about why they have had such a long marriage. Ruth believes the secret to their long and happy marriage is compromise. “We don’t believe in fighting or divorce,” she explained. “We were determined to make a go of it, regardless. We’ve been very happy and the years just piled up on top

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Top: The Bonner’s marriage has spanned over seven decades. Right: Larry and Ruth Bonner in December 1939. of each other. We’ve never had any major illnesses or issues. We’ve had a peaceful, calm life. So, part of it is endurance – we’ve simply just lived this long.” Their daughter Barbara added, “My mother and daddy have always gone to church. God was

their center. They taught us that and they live that.” Ruth agreed, “The secret of the whole thing is to live godly lives and teach your kids to do the same thing and put the Lord first in your planning.” by Karen Szabo

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A Dream Deferred … Until Now

When Langston Hughes wrote about dreams deferred, he wondered what happened to the dreams we placed on life’s metaphorical shelf. When you’re in the Golden Years, it may seem like it’s too late for some of those dreams to come true. But one local organization is working to make those dreams a reality. Dream Chasers, a program started by a devoted MGM Healthcare employee, works to make some of MGM’s senior residents’ deferred dreams come true. “Sara Gaither-Embrey, director of operations for MGM, came up with the idea for Dream Chasers in 2003. She thought, wouldn’t it be cool to come up with something we could do for our residents? Similar to Make-A-Wish, but more like fulfilling items on a bucket list—the kind of things they wish they could have done,” said Heather Berryhill, public relations director for MGM. The first dream came true at Rainbow Health Care Community in Bristow, Okla. Bedridden and nearing the end of her life, the dreamer said that she’d always loved looking at horses, but she had never seen one up close. Gaither-Embrey knew she had her first project. She called up some cowboys, and when they rode in to make this dream come true, it was an unforgettable scene. “Picture this—four cowboys opened her room windows, then let the horses they were riding stick their heads through the window. She was petting the horses with tears rolling down her face—there wasn’t a dry eye in the room. I wish I had pictures—it was an amazing experience!” said Berryhill. While there is no set schedule for projects, Dream Chasers has certainly provided an array of experiences for its residents. When a wheelchair-bound woman at Leisure Village Health Care Community in Tulsa, Okla. mentioned that she had always wanted to

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Dream Chasers also sent two women from The Broadmoor Retirement Community in Tulsa, Okla. on a hot air balloon ride. ice skate, Dream Chasers got in touch with the Tulsa Oilers hockey team. Before one of the team’s games, the players twirled and spun her around the rink, reminiscent of a graceful ice dancer, while she waved at the fans. Dream Chasers also sent two women from The Broadmoor Retirement Community in Tulsa, Okla. on a hot air balloon ride, and gave a “country girl” a makeover, complete with a reveal party for her friends and family. “We just have an ear for what our residents want and turn it into something they never forget. You hear the unique story behind their dream and it puts the idea in your head to fulfill it some way,” said Berryhill. On Oct. 8, Dream Chasers gave one resident the ride of her life. Betty Weaver, a spunky 86-year-old, always wanted to ride a HarleyDavidson motorcycle. Decked out in leather, boots, braids and bandanas, Weaver finally had her chance to ride a Harley. In its usual fashion, Dream Chasers wanted this to be a big day. When Weaver suited up and hopped on the bike, she rode off in the company of ten Harley-Davidson riders. “When that little lady walked out in her leather pants, she was a stunner!” said Berryhill. Dream Chasers does some stunning of its own. The Dream Chasers staff does everything possible to make each event a special occasion. Just like having four horses, instead of one, or skating in front of an Oiler’s hometown crowd, instead of an empty ice rink, Weaver did more than just take a spin around the block on her Harley. She became part of the pack that helped make her dream come true. We often hear that it’s never too late—to go on that trip, to take that class, to connect with that old friend. And the Dream Chasers program is doing its part to ensure it’s never “too late” for some of its residents’ deferred dreams. by Kelsey Duvall www.LIFEseniorservices.org LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine | December 2014

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Penning Your Dreams Have you ever dreamt of publishing a book? It’s never too late! Just ask two Tulsa residents, 85-year-old Wilma Hawes Connely and 97-yearold Lois Meyer. Connely dreamed of sharing her brother’s World War II letters with the public, while Meyer dreamed of sharing her Christian faith. Both women claim to be ordinary people, but their stories are anything but ordinary. Wilma Hawes Connely “My kinfolk know that I am the unofficial family historian,” said Connely. “I started researching my family history when my husband passed away in 1983. I wrote to libraries, funeral homes, courthouses and churches to get information.” In 2011, Connely made her biggest discovery. It didn’t happen in a library or courthouse, but in Zionsville, Ind. in a trash pile in front of a house previously owned by her Aunt Loy and Uncle Calvin. A box containing letters from Connely’s brother, Staff Sgt. Walter Hawes, was found buried in the trash pile. Hawes had corresponded with his aunt and uncle between 1943 and 1945, while serving in World War II. After cleaning out the house, the new owners had thrown out the priceless letters with the trash. A relative of Connely’s found the letters and, knowing Connely’s interest in family history, passed them on to her. While reading the letters, Connely was moved by the ordinary details of military life her brother recorded. She was also stunned to find that her brother learned about the end of the war on Aug. 12, 1945, two days before President Truman’s official announcement. After hearing the news

on a broadcast from Italy he wrote, “I jumped up and yelled it with tears in my eyes. Everybody in the office thought I had gone crazy. No one would believe me until I handed the operations officer the headset and let him hear himself. Sure was a great day!” Connely was also delighted to discover letters from her mother in the stash. “It was wonderful to find them,” she related. She reminisced about how her mother, sick with tuberculosis, would “sit real close to the wood heating stove and read letters from Walter with tears in her eyes.” Her mother died on Nov. 9, 1944, when Connely was just 15 years old and her brother was a soldier in Italy. Convinced the letters had significant historical value, Connely made two unsuccessful attempts to get a story printed in the Tulsa World. Undeterred, she contacted the paper a third time, and on Aug. 15, 2012, 67 years after Hawes’ letter relaying news of the end of the war was written, Connely’s story made the front page of the Tulsa World. A local attorney, Doug Eaton, read the article and contacted Connely, expressing an interest in writing a book about Hawes and the letters. He and Connely met several times, and in 2013 Letters from Walter was published. Connely has since found that the letters may have some monetary value, but she’s not about to part with them. They remain in a safety deposit box, each lovingly preserved in its own plastic document sleeve. Lois Meyer When she was young, Lois Meyer dreamed of living a life of service to God. She prepared by getting a master’s degree in Christian education from McCormick Theological Seminary in Chicago, and spent her young adult years working in churches. Publishing came much later, when she penned her book, Beloved Come Closer, in 2008. “I had written poetry all my life and decided to put it in a book,” said Meyer. Her book of “devotions with poetry,” was published with the help of Kathy Gustafson, coordinator of University Village’s Life Writing group. Billy Joe Daugherty, the renowned late pastor of Victory Christian Center, wrote the book’s forward, which reads, “Lois Meyer is a mighty woman of God … At 89 she is ready to take any mountain for the Lord.”

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At 97, Meyer is still taking mountains for the Lord, and still writing. Currently, she is working on a second book she calls her “spiritual autobiography.” Meyer’s autobiography will cover a lot of ground, for at an age when most people’s lives are slowing down, Meyer’s was picking up speed. She would eventually travel to 19 countries on mission projects— all after the age of 67. “I didn’t feel old,” said Meyer.

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Lois Meyer At 60, she began working with Campus Challenge Ministry, traveling from one college campus to another on Greyhound buses and speaking to fraternities and sororities. At 67, she started working in the foreign mission field. “I was in the Philippines for six years, Hong Kong for four years and China for two and a half years.” When she was 74, she applied to teach English as a second language in China and was initially accepted. “I was so excited! I was dancing up and down and calling all my family.” But two weeks later, China rescinded the offer, citing her age. At 77, she began smuggling Bibles into China, eventually making nine trips. “I’d put them under my clothes and hide them in my luggage,” she related. When she was 82, she was speaking and ministering in Russia, England, Ireland, Scotland, Canada and Israel. And at 87, she traveled to the Dominican Republic. Today, Meyer lives at University Village in Tulsa, Okla. But don’t ask her when she started slowing down, for her adamant reply will be, “Who said I’m slowing down?” At University Village, she leads a hymn sing-a-long for 20 wheelchairbound people, reads the Bible to individuals with vision problems and gives hugs to people in the health center. And at 3 p.m. on certain days, she teaches Spanish. “I have six students that are residents. All of them are eager to learn.” Meyer also enjoys hanging out with her boyfriend of three years, Carl Seaton, also of University Village. “I robbed the cradle,” joked Meyer. “Carl is only 83.” For Meyer, the travel and excitement was just “natural.” “I didn’t realize at the time how exciting it was. I’m not anybody special. I’m just doing what Jesus said to do.” by Cindy Webb Letters from Walter is available on www.amazon.com and at the Tulsa Historical Society, 2445 S. Peoria Ave., with the net proceeds going to the Oklahoma Honor Flights. The Oklahoma Honor Flights program takes Oklahoma military veterans to Washington D.C. to visit memorials dedicated to honor their service and sacrifice. Beloved Come Closer is available on www.amazon.com and at the Victory Christian Center, 7700 S. Lewis Ave., bookstore. www.LIFEseniorservices.org LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine | December 2014

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Mable Rice: A Woman with Moxie

Saint Simeon’s resident Mable Rice is a woman Rice remembers that even in the era when with moxie, according to the YWCA Tulsa, Tulsa was segregated, jazz musicians of any race which hasMcNally named Rice one of its “100 Women frequented Ralph is a 91-year-old World War II Navy veteran. He wasthe jazz halls of the Greenwood District. with Moxie, an award honoring YWCA Tulsa’s also recalled how Greenwood once had it all assigned to ”what was commonly known as a “suicide NavyShe mission.” centennial and women who exemplify its mission – pharmacies, He was officially a member of the United States Navy Armed Guard, grocery stores, movie theaters. “We of empowerment and inclusion. Rice, 80, has long didn’t have to leave north Tulsa – everything was which was established to provide protection, defensive power and been an advocate for racial right there,” recalled Rice. support to merchant ships.equality and a herald for black culture and heritage in Tulsa. When ended, Rice became the first McNally remembers that at 18 years old, he was told, “Once you segregation get black woman to own a retail shop – a boutique onRice’s that ship, you’refriend neverand coming back.” long-time former Oklahoma dress store – in the then merchant-packed Williams Senator Maxine Horner joined Rice for her McNally was in the Navy for exactly two years, 19 days and 14 Forum in downtown Tulsa. Center interview. The two have been friends since the hours. When asked how he remembers theseveral time down to the hour, he seventh grade and have served together on said, “If you’d been shot at like I’d been shot at, you’d know.”As if her resume wasn’t long enough, Rice also community projects. worked as a developer of the North Tulsa Heritage

Foundation, the Greenwood Cultural Center McNally’s unit was stationed all over the world, including the Rice and Horner worked together in the and Guinea, the Business and Industrial Development Philippines, New Zealand, Australia, India, Peru, Chile, New mid-1970s at the Tulsa branch of the Minority Corporation in an effort to preserve the rich history Hawaii and Los Angeles. The Armed Guard of World War II was Women’s Employment Program when Rice served of the Greenwood District. often referred to as “the other Navy” and was trained to deliver as project director. During her tenure, they placed troops, food and water amidst fire from enemy ships. In total, the Rice and her husband, Troy, have been married 62 52 minority women, who were recent college World War II Armed Guard surpassed 144,000 crew members, years. They have three children, three grandchildren graduates, in managerial or technical jobs. serving on 6,236 ships. and three great-grandchildren. accomplishment wasmoment the Blackof the war was when a Rice’s proudest McNally said the most frightening Horner, nearly a lifelong friend, said Rice is still Arts Festival she started in Tulsa’s Greenwood Japanese submarine shot at his ship while it was stationed in thePerth, same bold, smart woman she’s always been. District in the 1960s – a time when racial tensions Australia. Fortunately, it missed them. Not a single doctorShe or nurse recalled when they once started a protest for were high. Theon festival featured music was stationed his ship, so theblack menart, would have had to treat each equality as students at Booker T. Washington High and theater and was held in collaboration with other’s injuries. School, using “short dresses and overalls.” Juneteenth, a celebration of freedom from slavery. Even though the all Navy officers from taking cameras “People came from overprohibited to participate, ” Rice said. “In her journey, she was always looking for a onboard, McNally snuck one on and now has dozens of treasured positive way to educate and bring about change,” Rice also as what director thelike Oklahoma photos thatserved capture lifeof was in the U.S. Navy Armed Guard Horner said. Chapter of TheWar National during World II. Association for Sickle Cell Rice will celebrate her 81st birthday on Dec. 31, Disease from 1983 to 1995. Rice’s sister-in-law’s but that battle with the influenced her drive to raise McNally has disease a favorite, light-hearted wartime memory. While hedoesn’t mean she’s finished contributing to the Tulsa awareness of sickle cell Zealand, anemia. “Back it of wasthe island’s native community. This year, she was responsible was stationed in New he metthen, some for the first Juneteenth celebration at Saint Simeon’s apeople, silent thing noasone about, Horner said. tall and strong. known thetalked Māori, who”were extremely Senior Community. She observed that many young “Th roughand education, people learned andawhen McNally the other officers werehow visiting dance hall when a Māori people to get tested.” woman asked him to dance. “She reached down and picked me uphave little knowledge of Juneteenth, and her hope was that the celebration would help raise like I was a bunch of rags and said, ‘Come on, shorty, let’s dance!’” awareness of the slaves’ emancipation. She also In the 1980s, Rice and Horner were part of a McNally remembered. plans to host Asian, Hispanic and American Indian core group of people who became the driving force cultural events at Saint Simeon’s. behind the Oklahoma Jazz Hallreceived of Fame.a Horner Following the war, McNally proclamation from became the Governor founder ofHenry the organization 1988,for his service in the Oklahoma Bellmon inin1987 “You don’t accept the system – particularly when with Rice serving a supporting developer. U.S. Navy ArmedasGuard. He went on to marry his wife and work for you think change needs to happen,” Rice said. ONEOK for more than 30 years. He is currently a resident at Saint “I came Senior from a Community family of musicians. I’ve always Simeon’s in Tulsa, Okla. In essence, that seems to be her life mantra. had jazz in my soul,” Rice said. by Lindsay Morris by Lindsay Morris

Top: Mable Rice celebrates at the annual Saint Simeon’s pool party. Bottom: The Tulsa League of Women Voters honored Mable Rice and Sen. Maxine Horner with its 2009 Pathfinder Award.

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Holiday Events Holiday Lights & Outdoor Entertainment Bethlehem Walk

December 4 – 7 • 6:30 p.m. Christview Christian Church 2525 S. Garnett • Tulsa (918) 232-3587 www.christview.org

Twin Bridges Park of Lights Through December 30 Dusk – 10 p.m. • Free Twin Bridges Park 14801 S. Hwy. 137 • Fairland (918) 542-6969

Woolaroc Wonderland of Lights

Christmas Kingdom at the Castle

Through December 31 • 6 – 10 p.m. Free • The Castle of Muskogee 3400 W. Fern Mtn. Rd. • Muskogee (918) 687-3625 • www.okcastle.com

Snowﬂ ake Winter Festival Ice Skating

Through January 1 • Times vary Downtown Tahlequah (918) 456-0651

Rhema Christmas Lights

Through January 1 • 5:30 – 11:30 p.m. Free • Rhema Bible Church 1025 W. Kenosha St. • Broken Arrow (918) 258-1588 www.rhemabiblechurch.com

Through December 21 Fridays – Sundays • 5 – 9 p.m. Adults: $4 • Children: $1 Woolaroc Museum & Wildlife Preserve 1925 Woolaroc Ranch Rd. Bartlesville • (918) 336-0307 www.woolaroc.org

Winter Wonderland Christmas Light Tour

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Holiday Lights on the Hill

Through December 31 Dusk – 10 p.m. • Free Honor Heights Park Muskogee • (918) 684-6302

Through January 1 • 5 – 10 p.m. Free • Pine Lodge Resort Hwy. 85 • Ketchum • (800) 640-3173 www.pinelodgeresort.com Through December 28 • 6 – 10 p.m. Free • Chandler Park 6500 W. 21st St. • Tulsa (918) 591-6053

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River Lights

Lighting Ceremony December 6 • 3 – 5 p.m. • Free Lit daily through January 2 41st & Riverside Dr. • Tulsa (918) 596-2001

Holiday Parades 32nd Annual Festival of Lights Christmas Parade December 5 • 7 p.m. • Free Downtown Sand Springs (918) 245-3221

Broken Arrow Civitan Christmas Parade

December 6 • 10 a.m. – noon Main St. • Broken Arrow

Festival of Lights Parade December 6 • 6 p.m. • Free Downtown Okmulgee (918) 758-1015 www.okmulgeeonline.com

Tahlequah Christmas Parade of Lights December 6 • 6 p.m. • Free Downtown Tahlequah (918) 456-3742 www.tahlequahchamber.com

Tulsa Christmas Parade

December 13 • 6 p.m. • Free Begins at 3rd & Boulder Ave. Downtown Tulsa (918) 810-0041

Claremore Christmas Parade December 13 • 6 p.m. • Free Will Rogers Blvd. • Historic Downtown Claremore (918) 341-2818 www.claremore.org

Grove Lighted Christmas Parade December 13 • 6 p.m. • Free Downtown Business District Grove • (918) 786-9079 www.groveok.org

Holiday Activities Locust Grove Christmas Home Tour Excursion December 13 Departing at 10:30 a.m. • $30 Departs from NEATs Office 3119 S. Jamestown Ave. • Tulsa RSVP required • (918) 743-1303

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Historic Trolley Christmas Lights Tour

Includes Garden of Lights at Honor Heights Park December 9 – January 1 • Times Vary $10 • Muskogee Civic Center 425 Boston St. • Muskogee RSVP required • (918) 682-0312

Christkindlmarkt

Presented by German-American Society of Tulsa December 5 • 10 a.m. – 7 p.m. December 6 • 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. December 7 • 12 – 5 p.m. German-American Society of Tulsa 2301 E. 15th St. • Tulsa (918) 744-6997 • www.gastulsa.org

Th ompson House Victorian Christmas

December 5 – 6 • 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. December 7 • 1 – 5 p.m. Thompson House 300 S. College Ave. • Tahlequah (918) 456-1595 • Free

Holiday Arts & Craft s Show

December 6 • 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. • Free Bixby Community Center 211 N. Cabaniss Ave. • Bixby (918) 366-4841

Christmas Arts & Craft s Show

December 6 • 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. JM Davis Arms & Historical Museum 330 N. JM Davis Blvd. • Claremore (918) 341-5707

Carols & Crumpets

Presented by Tulsa Herb Society December 6 • 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. • Free Tulsa Garden Center 2435 S. Peoria Ave. • Tulsa (918) 496-8019

Native American Christmas Market December 13 • 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. Free • Sapulpa Elks Lodge 24 S. Poplar St. • Sapulpa (918) 629-7187

Har-Ber Village 19th Century Christmas

Through December 14 Saturdays & Sundays • 2 – 8 p.m. $17 non-members or $12 members 4404 W. 20th St. • Grove (918) 786-6446 www.har-bervillage.com RSVP required

Murrell Home Christmas Open House

December 14 • 1 – 5 p.m. • Free 19479 E. Murrell Home Rd. Park Hill • (918) 456-2751

Winterfest

Through January 4 • Hours vary Downtown Tulsa (918) 894-4267

Live Holiday Performances

Events to Ring in the New Year New Year’s Eve Dance

Music by the Round Up Boys December 31 • $15 Dinner at 6:30 p.m. Dancing 7 – 10 p.m. Broken Arrow Senior Center 1800 S. Main St. • Broken Arrow (918) 259-8377

New Year’s Eve Dance

Th e Best Christmas Pageant Ever Presented by Clark Theatre December 4 – 6, 11 – 13 • 7:30 p.m. December 6 – 7, 13 – 14 • 2 p.m. December 7 & 14 • 5 p.m. Henthorne Performing Arts Center 4825 S. Quaker Ave. • Tulsa (918) 746-5065 www.cityoftulsa.org/henthornepac

All proceeds will be donated to help veterans • Party favors, champagne and breakfast provided. Music by Whiskey Bent December 31 • 8:30 p.m. – midnight American Legion Post 308 11328 E. Admiral Pl. • Tulsa Call after 2 p.m. for information and tickets • (918) 437-1635

Th e Nutcracker

Courthouse Square Ball Drop

Presented by Tulsa Ballet December 12, 19 – 21 • 7 p.m. December 13 – 14, 20 – 21 • 2 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St. • Tulsa (918) 596-7111 www.tulsapac.com

Living Nativity at Shepherd’s Cross

December 11 – 13, 18 – 20 10 a.m. – 8:30 p.m. • Free Shepherd’s Cross 16792 E. 450 Rd. • Claremore (918) 342-5911 www.shepherdscross.com

Sharing and Caring Activities Th e Art of Giving

Vote on decorated Christmas trees and support your favorite local charity Through December 31 Tuesday – Friday • 1 – 5 p.m. Saturdays • 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. Sand Springs Historical & Cultural Museum 9 E. Broadway St. • Sand Springs (918) 246-2509

Enjoy

December 31 • Free Bonfire at 11 p.m. Courthouse Square • Pawnee (918) 762-2108

New Year’s Eve Powwow

December 31 • 1 p.m. – midnight Free • Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center • Tulsa (918) 639-7999

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Kick-oﬀ the Holiday Season at the Annual Carols & Crumpets Herbal Craft Fair Get into the holiday spirit with the sights, scents and sounds of the Carols & Crumpets herbal craft fair, Saturday, Dec. 6, 8 a.m. – 3 p.m., at the Tulsa Garden Center, 2435 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa. A Tulsa tradition for 24 years, this event features a range of artisan wares in a delightfully relaxed holiday atmosphere. Some of the items to be featured include herbal vinegars, chutneys, seasonings and teas, as well as herbal cosmetics, soaps and essential oils. Live plants, topiaries, poinsettias, handmade Christmas ornaments and handcrafted baskets and pottery, among other goodies, add to the mix. As if the anticipation of shopping weren’t enough, the Snowflake Café will be serving tasty treats from 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. and there will be a raﬄe for a one-of-a-kind vintage-style Christmas tree with wool felt ornaments and beaded wool felt tree skirt. Admission is free. For more information, call (918) 496-8019 or visit www.tulsagardencenter.com.

LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine Wishes “Happy Birthday” to a Few Oklahomans Celebrating 100 or More Years of Life Turning 100 is monumental. And climbing the ladder of wisdom beyond 100 is even more impressive! LIFE Senior Services and LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine would like to wish a very happy birthday to some of Oklahoma’s most seasoned residents. Born in 1914, Owen Brown, resident of The Broadmoor Retirement Community, celebrated his 100th birthday in October; Geraldine “Gerry” Dodd, resident of Heatheridge Assisted Living & Residential Care Community, celebrated hers in October; and Adalene Wilson, also a resident of Heatheridge, celebrated her 100th year in November. Dena Fate, resident of Oklahoma Methodist Manor, will turn 106 on Dec. 30. Not to be outdone, Oklahoma’s oldest known resident, Ora Holland, (pictured above) who moved from Tulsa to Oklahoma City to be near her grandson, will celebrate 114 years on Dec. 24. Ora, the third of twelve children, has outlived all of her siblings, as well as her only child. To these and all other Oklahoma centenarians, we send our sincerest well wishes!

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Have a Historic Holiday in Green Country

Oklahoma’s rich history comes to life around Green Country this holiday season and, with a short drive, you too can get in on the action. Tahlequah’s historic Thompson House Victorian Christmas offers visitors a unique historical shopping experience complete with Victorian-clothed characters as hosts. This event will feature a tour of the home, as well as an arts and crafts sale including homemade treats like their famous pepper jelly. The Thompson House Victorian Christmas is free to attend and takes place Dec. 5 – 6, 9 a.m. – 6 p.m., and Dec. 7, 1 – 5 p.m., at the historic Thompson House, 300 S. College Ave., Tahlequah. For more information, call (918) 4561595. A trip to Grove’s Har-Ber Village Museum provides a festive holiday haven at the annual 19th Century Christmas on Main Street event. HarBer Village buildings will be decorated in Victorian style and an array of holiday activities will entertain all ages. Visit the Country Store and browse through a variety of unique seasonal gifts or spark your creativity at the gingerbread house workshop. Also, be sure to stop at the bandstand and enjoy the sounds of local performers covering Christmas carols. Christmas on Main Street will take place Dec. 6, 7, 13 and 14, from 2 – 8 p.m., at 4404 W. 20th St., Grove. Admission is $17 for non-members or $12 for members. Reservations and prepayment are required. For more information or to reserve your visit, call (918) 786-6446 or visit www. har-bervillage.com. Head out to the Murrell Home in Park Hill (pictured above) for your next holiday stop. A truly old-fashioned Christmas awaits you at the Murrell Home Christmas Open House. The experience gives visitors the opportunity to take in the beautiful traditional Victorian decorations that adorn the home’s lavish parlor, sitting room and dining room. There will also be special exhibits, period-costumed characters, refreshments and a visit from Father Christmas. This event is free to attend and will take place Dec. 14, 1 – 5 p.m., at the Murrell Home, 19479 E. Murrell Home Rd., Park Hill. For more information, call (918) 456-2751.

Ring in the New Year with Safe, yet Festive, Fun A number of organizations around Tulsa are making sure you have a safe and jovial New Year’s Eve. With music by the Round Up Boys, the New Year’s Eve Dance at Broken Arrow Senior Center, 1800 S. Main St., Broken Arrow, will begin with dinner at 6:30 p.m. and dancing from 7 – 10 p.m., getting you home safe well before the ball drops. This event costs $15 per person and will take place Dec. 31. For more information, call (918) 259-8377. The New Year’s Eve Dance at American Legion Post 308, 11328 E. Admiral Pl., Tulsa, will feature music by Whiskey Bent, as well as complementary party favors, champagne and breakfast. This event will take place Dec. 31, 8:30 p.m. – midnight. Tickets are available in advance for $20 per person, or at the door for $25 per person or $45 per couple. For more information or advance tickets, call (918) 437-1635. For a unique cultural New Year’s Eve experience, you may want to venture out to the New Year’s Eve Powwow at the Cox Business Center, 100 Civic Center, downtown Tulsa. This free event will take place Dec. 31, 1 p.m. – midnight, and will feature a variety of traditional Native American dancing, grand entry procession, dance contests and supper. For more information, call (918) 639-7999. www.LIFEseniorservices.org

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RSVP Airport Ambassadors are needed to provide hospitality and information services to airline passengers at three desk locations at Tulsa International Airport. Ambassadors are asked to work one four-hour shift per week. Free, convenient parking and a uniform are provided. For more information, call RSVP (918) 280-8656. Th e Community Food Bank of Eastern Oklahoma and Senior Servings at Gilcrease Hills Estates are looking for volunteers to help distribute food items on the first and third Monday of each month from approximately 10:30 a.m. – noon. Volunteers will be asked to help a Food Bank staff member bring the food inside from the parking lot, set it out on inside tables and sign-in participants as they come to pick up the food. For more information, call RSVP (918) 280-8656. Tulsa Symphony Orchestra (TSO) has opportunities for Symphony volunteers to participate year round according to their schedules and availability from single-event participation to full engagement in many different support activities and assignments. Get to know the musicians, staff and the entire TSO family through volunteering. For a list of opportunities and more information, call RSVP (918) 280-8656.

Tulsa Public Schools and Starbase need volunteers to assist instructional coaches in seventh and eighth grade science and math classes. Volunteers with a background in science, math, technology and/ or engineering are greatly needed. Volunteers are given the opportunity to request a specific school and will not be solely responsible for students. Activities will be hands-on and fun for you and the students, and training is provided. Program dates vary but volunteers are usually asked to contribute their time and talent four or five days per month. For more information, call RSVP (918) 280-8656. Rebuilding Together Tulsa, a local nonprofit that provides free home repairs for low-income, senior and disabled homeowners, is seeking an enthusiastic, motivated volunteer to assist the program and community relations departments with office and clerical work. Hours are flexible. For more information, call RSVP (918) 280-8656. Th e American Cancer Society Road to Recovery Program needs volunteer drivers to provide transportation for cancer patients, to and from treatments. Vehicle will be provided. For more information, call RSVP (918) 280-8656.

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Events Meetings NEATs Mystery Luncheon – Out of Town! December 3 • Departs at 11 a.m. • $25 Departs from NEATs Office 3119 S. Jamestown Ave. • Tulsa RSVP required • (918) 743-1303 Friends and Family CPR Training Class Presented by Osteopathic Founders Foundation December 3 • 1 –3 p.m. • Free Osteopathic Founders Foundation 8801 S. Yale Ave., Ste. 400 • Tulsa RSVP required • (918) 551-7300 Candlelight Concert at Harwelden Mansion Featuring Appassionata Duo (Harp and Violin) in Winter Wonderland music December 4 • $35 Departs from NEATs Office at 6:15 p.m. 3119 S. Jamestown Ave. • Tulsa RSVP required • (918) 743-1303 Drawing on Memories Presented by Alzheimer’s Association December 9 • 10 a.m. – Noon • Free Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd. • Tulsa RSVP required • (800) 272-3900 AARP Defensive Driving December 10 • 8:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m. $15 for AARP members $20 for nonmembers LIFE’s Senior Center at East Side 1427 S. Indianapolis Ave. • Tulsa RSVP required • (918) 744-6760 NEATs Monthly Gathering and Luncheon Entertainment: Praise Age Choir, Olivet Baptist Church. Presentation by Bill Sherman, Tulsa World religion editor December 10 • 10:30 a.m. • $8 lunch Yale Avenue Christian Church 36th & Yale Ave. • Tulsa RSVP requested • (918) 743-1303 Drawing on Memories Presented by Alzheimer’s Association December 16 • 10 a.m. – Noon Philbrook Museum of Art 2727 S. Rockford Rd. • Tulsa Free • (800) 272-3900 RSVP required Tulsa Metro Retired Educators Association December 16 • 10 a.m. • Music program TPS Education Service Center 3027 S. New Haven Ave. • Tulsa (918) 252-9588

To submit a calendar item, please send an email to kcampbell@LIFEseniorservices.org or FAX to (918) 664-9922, Attn: Vintage. Scrapbooking 101 December 31 • 12:30 – 2 p.m. • Free Owasso Community Center 301 S. Cedar St. • Owasso (918) 272-3903 Fun, Food & Fellowship Tuesdays & Fridays • 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Jenks Senior Citizens, Inc. 211 N. Elm St. • Jenks (918) 299-1700 The Drunkard and The Olio Saturdays • 7:30 p.m. $13 seniors • $15 adults • $10 children Tulsa Spotlight Theater 1381 Riverside Dr. • Tulsa RSVP required • (918) 587-5030 www.spotlighttheater.org Single Seniors 60+ Join for lunch, visiting, cards and dominos. Wednesdays & Saturdays • 11:30 a.m. Buffet Palace • 10934 E. 21st St. • Tulsa (918) 371-4367 or (918) 341-3375 Pins & Needles Quilting Club Mondays • 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. Come and go as you please Bixby Community Center 211 N. Cabaniss Ave. • Bixby (918) 743-5408 T.O.P.S. (Take Off Pounds Responsibly) Thursdays • Weigh-in at 9 a.m. Meeting 9:30 – 10:30 a.m. Bixby Community Center 211 N. Cabaniss Ave. • Bixby (918) 369-9600 ACBL Duplicate Sanctioned Bridge Mondays & Wednesdays • 11 a.m. Broken Arrow Senior Center 1800 S. Main St. • Broken Arrow (918) 355-6652 Bridge Wednesdays • 10:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. Bixby Community Center 211 N. Cabaniss Ave. • Bixby (918) 366-3346

LaFortune Bridge

Wednesdays • 1 – 4 p.m. Buddy LaFortune Community Center 5202 S. Hudson Ave. • Tulsa (918) 496-6220 Bridge Club Tuesdays • 1 – 4 p.m. South County Recreation Center 13800 S. Peoria Ave. • Bixby (918) 746-3780

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Bridge, Spades & Dominoes Mondays – Wednesdays • 12:30 – 2:30 p.m. Chandler Park Community Center 6500 W. 21st St. • Tulsa (918) 591-6053 Bunko December 15 • 6 – 9 p.m. Bixby Community Center 211 N. Cabaniss Ave. • Bixby $5 per month • (918) 369-5608

Support Groups Faith Based Support Group Jackie Lenzy, BS, BA, CDP December 3 & 17 • 10 a.m. • Free Legend at Tulsa Hills 701 W. 71st St. S. • Tulsa RSVP requested • (918) 588-3600

Support 4 You, Caregiver Support Group Presented by Legacy Hospice of the West December 11 • 10:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Free • Miami Senior Citizens Center 2104 Denver Haner Dr. • Miami (855) 729-2288 • www.legacyhospice.net Daytime Support Group for Caregivers December 18 • 3 – 4:30 p.m. • Free LIFE’s Adult Day Health 5950 E. 31st St. • Tulsa • Respite provided (918) 664-9000, ext. 244

Dancing Round Up Boys Dance December 3 • 6 – 10 p.m. • Free Will Rogers Downs 20900 S. 4200 Rd. • Claremore (918) 607-3600

Faith Based Educational Memory/ Support Group Presented by Jackie Lenzy, BS, BA, CDP & Dr. Chandini Sharma December 4 & 16 • 1 – 2:15 p.m. • Free Villages of Southern Hills 5721 S. Lewis Ave. • Tulsa (918) 561-6642

Tulsa Swingdance Club December 3, 10 & 17 Elks members free/$5 non-members Beginning West Coast Swing • 7 p.m. Intermediate West Coast Swing • 7:45 p.m. Practice dance • 8:30 – 9 p.m. The Elks Lodge 5335 S. Harvard Ave. • Tulsa (918) 557-1699

Caregiver Support Group Presented by A-Vow Hospice December 4 • 6 p.m. • Free Clarebridge of Broken Arrow 4001 S. Aspen Ave. • Broken Arrow (918) 557-8937

Tulsa Dance Lessons and Fun Dance Free for Elks members/$5 non-members Intermediate Foxtrot • Mondays • 7 p.m. Dance • December 8 • 7:30 – 9:30 p.m. $6 • The Elks Lodge 5335 S. Harvard Ave. • Tulsa (918) 557-1699

Daytime Support Group for Caregivers December 4 • 3 – 4:30 p.m. • Free LIFE’s Adult Day Health 902 E. Pine St. • Tulsa • Respite provided (918) 664-9000, ext. 8448

Square Dancing & Line Dancing Lake Keystone Squares December 7 & 14 Workshop 7:30 p.m. • Dance 8 p.m. Mannford Community Center 101 Green Valley Park Rd. • Mannford Evening Support Group for Caregivers (918) 865-2846 December 4 • 6 – 7:30 p.m. • Free Cowboy Ball LIFE’s Adult Day Health 5950 E. 31st St. • Tulsa • Respite provided Featuring music by the Round Up Boys December 11 • 7 – 10 p.m. (918) 664-9000, ext. 244 Oklahoma Music Hall of Fame Music Depot • 401 S. 3rd St. • Muskogee Faith Based Educational Memory/ (918) 687-0800 Support Group Presented by Jackie Lenzy, BS, BA, CDP Belles & Beaus Square Dance Club December 10 & 24 • 1:15 – 2:30 p.m. December 11 Free • Mt. Zion Baptist Church Workshop 7 p.m. • Dance 7:30 p.m. 419 N. Elgin Ave. • Tulsa St. Marks Methodist Church (918) 584-0510 10513 E. Admiral Pl. • Tulsa Daytime Support Group for Caregivers December 11 • 3 – 4:30 p.m. • Free LIFE’s Adult Day Health 3106 S. Juniper Ave. • Broken Arrow Respite provided (918) 664-9000, ext. 8324

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Line Dancing Class Tuesdays & Thursdays • 10 a.m. • Free University Village Retirement Community 8555 S. Lewis Ave. • Tulsa (918) 298-3480

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Kings of Music Tuesdays • 7:30 – 9:45 p.m. Moose Lodge 11106 E. 7th St. • Tulsa (918) 254-8167

Seated Yoga with Lucy Weberling Wednesdays • 9:30 – 10:15 a.m. Ramona Senior Center Corner of 4th St. & Cherokee Ave. Ramona • (918) 633-8890 www.festivalyoga.com

Friday Night Dances Fridays • 7:30 p.m. $6 non-members • $5 members American Legion Post 308 11328 E. Admiral Blvd. • Tulsa (918) 437-1635

65+ Exercise Mondays • Wednesdays • Fridays 10:30 – 11 a.m. • $10 per month LaFortune Community Center 5202 S. Hudson Ave. • Tulsa (918) 496-6220

Saturday Night Dances Saturdays • 7:30 – 11 p.m. • $6 American Legion Post 1 1120 E. 8th St. S. • Tulsa (918) 584-4274 Line Dancing Class Mondays, Wednesdays, Fridays 1 – 2:30 p.m. • Free Tuesdays • 7:30 – 9 p.m. • Free YMCA • 8300 N. Owasso Expy. • Owasso (918) 272-3903

50+ Badminton Tuesdays • 11 a.m. O’Brien Park and Recreation Center 6230 N. Birmingham • Tulsa RSVP requested • (918) 591-6008 50+ Basketball Tuesdays • 10:30 a.m. O’Brien Park and Recreation Center 6230 N. Birmingham • Tulsa RSVP requested • (918) 591-6008

Senior Square Dancing & Line Dancing Rushing Stars Square Dance Club Wednesdays • Workshop 12:30 p.m. Dance 1 p.m. • Centennial Center 1028 E. 6th St. • Tulsa (918) 363-8380

50+ Eight Ball Monday – Friday • 10 a.m. – Noon O’Brien Park and Recreation Center 6230 N. Birmingham • Tulsa RSVP requested • (918) 591-6008

Round Up Boys Dance Mondays • 6:30 p.m. • $5 Broken Arrow Senior Center 1800 S. Main St. • Broken Arrow (918) 607-3600

Chair to Floor Yoga Wednesdays • 11:45 a.m. • $6 per class LaFortune Community Center 5202 S. Hudson Ave. • Tulsa (918) 260-9236

Clog Dancing Lessons Turtle Creek Cloggers Mondays • 5:45 – 8:30 p.m. Thursdays • 6 – 8:30 p.m. LaFortune Community Center 5202 S. Hudson Ave. • Tulsa (918) 627-0067 Friday Night Opry Fridays • 6:45 p.m. • $6 1st – 3rd Fridays: Country/Western 4th Friday: Gospel Green Country Event Center 12000 E. 31st St. • Tulsa (918) 557-7913

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Tai Chi for Older Adults Mondays • 10 a.m. • Free Sapulpa Library Annex 15 N. Poplar St. • Sapulpa (918) 224-9647 Moderate Yoga with Lucy Weberling Mondays • 5 – 6:15 p.m. Hairbender’s II 200 E. Rogers Blvd. • Skiatook (918) 633-8890 • www.festivalyoga.com

Pickleball at South County Recreation Center Mondays • 5 – 8 p.m. Thursdays • Noon – 3 p.m. $3 per visit or $12 per month South County Recreation Center 13800 S. Peoria Ave. • Bixby www.parks.tulsacounty.org (918) 746-3780 Parkinson’s Exercise Class Monday, Wednesday, Friday 1 – 1:45 p.m. University Village Exercise Room 8555 S. Lewis Ave. • Tulsa (918) 298-3370 Exercise Class Designed for Older Adults Mondays, Wednesdays, Fridays 9:30 – 10:30 a.m. • Free Owasso Community Center 301 S. Cedar St. • Owasso (918) 272-3903 Tai Ji Quan – Moving for Better Balance Tuesdays • 9:30 – 10:30 a.m. • Free Owasso Community Center 301 S. Cedar St. • Owasso (918) 272-3903

Events & Seminars AT LIFE Senior Services Create a Holiday Ornament

Celebrate the season by making a holiday ornament with Lilli Land, local artist and LIFE’s SeniorLine Supervisor. Commemorate an accomplishment, anniversary, milestone or any celebratory experience through the tradition of holiday ornaments. Friday, December 12 • 1 – 2 p.m. • $5 LIFE Senior Services • 5950 E. 31st St. • Tulsa RSVP requested •To register, call (918) 664-9000, ext. 224.

Basics of Medicare

This seminar, presented by the Medicare Assistance Program at LIFE Senior Services, will cover the basics of Medicare, give you the information you need to make an informed decision about your coverage options and provide resources to help you protect yourself from fraudulent scams that target Medicare beneficiaries.

This seminar is intended for persons newly eligible or soon to be eligible for Medicare. It is closed to licensed Life, Accident and Health Insurance Agents, insurance company personnel and anyone aﬃliated with a health maintenance organization or other conﬂicts of interest.

Wednesday, December 17 • 10 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. • Free LIFE Senior Services • 5950 E. 31st St. • Tulsa RSVP requested • To register, call (918) 664-9000, ext. 273

MEDICARE PART D ASSISTANCE CLINICS

The Medicare Assistance Program at LIFE Senior Services offers free Medicare Part D Plan Comparison and Enrollment Assistance Clinics until Dec. 5. Reservations are required so call and make your appointment now. They are scheduled from 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. most business days and last approximately one hour. To make your appointment, call (918) 664-9000, ext. 250, or toll-free at (866) 664-9009.

HOARDING SUPPORT GROUPS

Th e Buried in Treasures Workshop is designed for individuals struggling with disorganization, clutter and/or hoarding. The group will meet for 15, 1.5 hour sessions over a 20-week time period. Group size is limited to 12. Informational meeting Wednesday, January 7, 2015 • 6 – 7:30 p.m. • Free Mental Health Association of Oklahoma • 1870 S. Boulder Ave. • Tulsa RSVP requested • To register, call Jacki Sauter (918) 857-7339 or Brenda Haesloop (918) 855-1502. Digging Out – Helping Your Love One Manage is designed for family and friends of individuals who struggle with disorganization, clutter and/ or hoarding. This group meets weekly for 1.5 hours, for approximately eight weeks. Group size is limited to 12. Tuesday, January 6, 2015 • 11:30 a.m. – 1 p.m. • Free Improving Lives Counseling Center • 6216 S. Lewis Ave., Ste. 180 • Tulsa RSVP requested • To register, call Patrice Lott (918) 629-4828.

SENIOR CENTERS

LIFE’s Senior Centers are open Monday through Friday; 8 a.m. – 4 p.m. and oﬀ er an excellent selection of social, creative, educational, fi tness and health activities to keep members physically active and socially engaged. Call today for a tour and discover all that LIFE has to oﬀ er! Fitness: Mat Yoga and Seated Yoga • Chair or Standing Fitness • Tai Chi Zumba Gold • Strengthen & Tone • Indoor Walking • Women’s Basketball Line Dancing • Social Dancing • Pickleball • Ping Pong Creative: East Side Band • Choral Group • Art Classes • Writing Classes Social: Luncheons • Brunch • Friday Breakfast • Bridge • Canasta Various Games • Theme Parties • Day Trips Services: Massage Therapy • VNA Foot Care • Vision Screening Defensive Driving • Computer Lab LIFE’s Senior Center at East Side 1427 S. Indianapolis Ave. (East of 15th St. and S. Harvard Ave.) Sunny Lile • (918) 744-6760

LIFE’s Senior Center at Southminster 35th Pl. (West of S. Peoria Ave.) Jamey Henderson • (918) 749-2623

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Jenks Senior Citizens dedicated their new bus on Oct. 21. Several city officials were in attendance.

Sterling House of Broken Arrow grants Paul B.’s lifelong wish to learn how to drive an 18-wheeler.

As part of its ongoing work with people with Alzheimer’s and their families and caregivers, Volunteers of America is supporting the documentary feature film, I’ll Be Me, chronicling Glen Campbell’s Goodbye Tour. Tulsa’s Private Screening of Glen Campbell ... I’ll Be Me was presented by Volunteers of America Oklahoma, LIFE Senior Services, Alzheimer’s Association, Leading Age Oklahoma and Williams in October at Circle Cinema.

Margaret Jordan celebrated her 100th birthday at Prairie Rose Independent Senior Living Community.

Volunteers were recognized at RSVP Tulsa’s recent Volunteer Recognition Luncheon for achieving over 4,000 lifetime service hours. From left to right, Suzanne Smith, Pat Walton, Sharon Cairns, Katherine Hull, RSVP Board President Alexis Higgins, Julia Baker and Doris Mayfield.

AARP Indian Elder Honors included Winnie Guess Perdue; Carmelita Skeeter; Jacque Secondine-Hensley; George Shannon of Skiatook; Lewis Ketchum, 100-years old, of Bartlesville; and Marsha Rose and Arthur James of Glenpool.

Country Club of Woodland Hills’ residents Loren and Betty Stephenson, Jenny Redwine, Mona Phipps, Mary Lou Harkins, Lanelle Withers and Tom Oxley enjoyed a beautiful evening during a trip to The Lodge at Mt. Magazine, Ark.

Cornerstone Village recently celebrated its 10 year anniversary. The event included a special recognition for seven residents who have lived at the property since September 2004.

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AUTO REPAIR Strickland Automotive Strickland Automotive is locally-owned and - operated with over 40 years of auto repair experience. We perform all types of vehicle repair, from computer and electrical problems to engine and transmission overhauls. ASE Certified mechanics. Open six days a week, with towing provided. Call Gary. (918) 832-7072 Lube To U Oil Change No more waiting in long lines or being past due for an oil change. We bring the oil change to you. Fully licensed and insured, professional service, state of the art equipment, other pre-maintenance services available. Senior discounts available. Call Val at (918) 704-9902. CARPET CLEANING ALL PRO Carpet Cleaning Senior and caregiver discounts. Carpet, furniture, rug cleaning. Pet odor removed and Teflon protectant available. Emergency water extraction. Residential and commercial services. Professional truck mount steam cleaning. Carpet repairs and re-stretching. Prompt, professional, quality service at a fair price. Certified, insured. Call Thomas Fink, owner/technician, for free estimate. (918) 636-6303 CEMETERY LOTS Garden of Faith/Floral Haven Four plots for sale in Garden of Faith at Floral Haven. Section #7N Lot 72C. $1,500 per plot. Will sell individually. Call (505) 865-5159. Lots/Vaults in Memorial Park Two lots and two vaults available in Memorial Park. Space 1 & 2, Lot 15, Section 50A. Total package $1,700. Call for details. (918) 250-2443. COMPUTER SERVICES Computer and Electronic Assistance Are you stuck and need Help with your computer or any electronic device. Price and Son Computer and Technology Services, LLC will be glad to assist you in your home. Call James or Jared at (918) 236-6010 or email us at office@ pricestechhelp.com to schedule an appointment. Computer Help At Reasonable Cost Retired computer tech will help with all your computer needs. Does your computer need to be moved or repaired or do you need help with setup or usage? Can also provide periodic maintenance and updates. Call Ed at (918) 629-1395. DAYTIME CARE Daytime care for older loved ones LIFE’s Adult Day Services offers convenient, affordable daytime care at three locations in Tulsa and Broken Arrow. For more information, call LIFE’s Adult Day Services at (918) 664-9000. EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITIES Helper Needed Free bedroom and bath to mature lady to help care for my wife. Someone on Continued

Social Security would be perfect for me. Mostly it would include being a companion. We have Home Health 3 days a week. Please call me so we can discuss further. Looking for someone with a big heart. Bob at (918) 512-6117. Hiring for Home Care Aides! Brighten your neighbor’s day by helping them stay safe in their home. We are looking for caring individuals to provide assistance to elderly/disabled clients. Tasks may include errands, light housekeeping, and personal care assistance. Must have reliable transportation, valid driver’s license, auto insurance and pass OSBI background check. Certified and Non-Certified positions! Apply Today!! www.oxford-healthcare.com or call: (918) 258-1111 ESTATE SALES Estate Sales PLUS Estate Sales PLUS manages Estate Sales… Moving Sales… Downsizing… Consignments… & Appraisals. Selling your home? We bring HUGE crowds of potential buyers and work with your realtor to showcase your home. Estate Sales PLUS is Bonded, Insured and an accredited member of the BBB. For a FREE CONSULTATION, call Sue Lynn Warren at (918) 488-8853, email estatesalesplus@cox.net or go to www.estatesalesplus.com Miss Lilly’s Estate Sale Services Miss Lilly’s Estate Sale Services specializes in Estate Liquidation, downsizing or moving sales. Our Estate appraiser has over 30 years of experience. If you are selling your home, we will work with your agent and bring potential buyers into your home. Contact Patti Lorimer at (918) 906-3539 for a FREE estate evaluation OR email misslilly’s@cox.net OR visit our website www.misslillysestatesales. com FINANCIAL/INSURANCE Are Medicare Choices Confusing? Let me help you make the best choice for you! With over 30 years experience in the Insurance industry, I can answer your questions and concerns and put your mind at ease about what is best for you! Call Donna Grady today at (918) 6916979 for appointment. Investments-Insurance-RetirementLegacy Market volatility, rising healthcare costs and longer life spans may make achieving desirable retirement more difficult. As financial professionals we help clients develop and monitor customizable options toward reaching their goals. Ken Finch, CLU, ChFC, AEP and Marilee Lonergan at (918) 392-5477. AXA Advisors, LLC (NY, NY 212-314-4600), SIPC, AXA Network, LLC. Medicare Assistance Program The Medicare Assistance Program (MAP) at LIFE Senior Services provides Continued

accurate information, counseling and assistance relating to Medicare benefits for Medicare beneficiaries, their representatives and persons soon to be eligible for Medicare. Call MAP at LIFE Senior Services (918) 664-9000 or toll-free (866) 664-9009. Medicare Supplements & Medicare Advantage Plans The Health Insurance Enrollment Center is here to assist you with Medicare Supplements, Medicare Advantage, and Prescription Drug Plans offered by Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma. Call Bob Archer today at (918) 814-5550 for free information. Let me guide you through the outstanding Medicare Plan options that are available to you. Worried About Funeral Expenses? Preferred Rates, Standard Rates, Guaranteed Issue Plans, Permanent Whole Life Rates never increase. Issue up to $35,000 Paid to Beneficiary of Choice or Assignment to any Funeral Home. Call Michael Moore (918) 557-5665 for RATES or Email ineedlifeinsurance@ sbcglobal.net. Write for information at PO Box 733 Glenpool OK 74033. FOR RENT Beautiful All Bills Paid Community! Great location with wooded grounds, on-site pool, laundries and professional staff. Units have many updates including granite, carpets, wood flooring, fireplaces, bookshelves and much more. Call us today at (918) 743-8001 to schedule a viewing! FOR SALE Adult Discount Diapers Let us help you with your incontinence products. We provide adult briefs, bladder control pads, protective underwear, and underpads for bed and furniture protection. Call Janet (918) 851-9400. Furniture for Sale Recliner that is a wing-backed chair, soft short-textured burgundy-colored cloth. Seldom used, excellent condition. Also, Ottoman (40”L x 24”W x 17”H) with under-cushioned storage. Painted cloth design with texture-blues, burgundy, green, cream. Superb/splendid condition. Hardly ever used. Call (918) 3579344 or (918) 740-2045. GARDENING/LAWN SERVICES Aardwolf Leaf & Lawn Care Leaf removal, gutter cleaning and lawn clean-up. Free estimates. Call Patrick Mills. (918) 814-0973. A Caring Hand – Tulsa Lawn Service Fall and winter clean-up including leaf and snow removal. Complete lawn care. Family-owned since 1970. Includes mowing, trimming, edging. Dependable service and fair prices. In addition, we offer handyman services. Senior and Continued

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veteran discounts. Call for a free estimate. (918) 806-2482 Kimble Davis Tree Company Family-owned and operated. Specializing in all aspects of tree care: restoration, pruning/thinning, removal, stump grinding, hedge trimming, firewood available. Serving Tulsa for 25 years. References. Member BBB. Insured. ISA certified arborist. Check us out at www.kdtreeco.com. Call Kimble at (918) 853-5383. Lawns & More Total lawn care. Dedicated to making your lawn look its best. Insured, honest, experienced and dependable. Veteranowned. Stump grinding. We are a small company with personal service. References available. FREE ESTIMATES. Call Larry. (918) 361-1299. New Season Lawn Care & Landscape Fall Clean-Up/leaf mulching and removal. Mowing, trimming, leaf and small debris removal, shrub planting, mulching flower beds. Small tree trimming. Will haul off small appliances, scrape metals, etc. We offer weekly, bi-weekly & year round services for the manicured look. Best rates, senior discounts. Free Estimates. Call Todd (918) 639-2262. HOME REPAIR/REMODELING A Handy Helping Hand Professional home maintenance, painting, and improvements. Whether you’re making overdue repairs, sprucing up your home and garden, or optimizing your home’s “sale-ability” potential, call Joe Surowiak with A Handy Helping Hand. Professional results. Competitive rates. (918) 520-0333 Allen’s Handyman Services of Tulsa “Your Home Improvement and Repair Specialist.” 14th year serving Tulsa seniors. 10% senior discount. Insured. All work guaranteed in writing. No pay until job is completed. Plumbing, drain cleaning, electrical, carpentry, painting, seamless guttering installation/repair/ cleaning. Roof, tile, and drywall repair. Wood siding/trim replacement. Deck repair, power washing, staining. Tree trimming. For free estimate, call Allen at (918) 630-0394. Bathroom Safety Specialists Maintain your independence. Feel secure in your home with a new walk-in tub/ shower, grab bars, ramps, etc. Also, windows, siding, sunrooms, kitchens and patio covers. Large or small jobs. 35 years experience. Call about our senior and veterans specials and discounts. Insured. Top quality work with fair prices. Freed Contractors, Inc. (918) 939-9713 Big C’s Plumbing Services Your one stop Plumbing Shop! Call us and I guarantee you will never have to call another plumbing company. Licensed, bonded and insured for your protection....Call (918) 855-9216, tell Continued

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us you saw us in the Vintage Newsmagazine receive an automatic 10% discount....call us now. BJ’s Handyman Services I will tighten it, nail it, glue it, paint it, cut it, hang it, change it, assemble it, install it, and do other odd jobs. Quality work at reasonable prices. Our goal is to keep your costs low. Life member of Handyman Club of America. Serving seniors since 2005. We now accept all major credit/debit cards. Call BJ at (539) 777-2915. This is a local call. Bumgartner Plumbing Licensed, with over 30 years of experience. Rates are low and based on the job, not the hour. No service call fee or travel time charge. Senior and caregiver discount. Plumbing service and repair our specialty. Honest, professional service you can count on. Lic. # 82750. (918) 355-4747

ing, flooring, entry doors and vinyl siding and will remodel or add a room. Those over 55 receive a 15% discount! LIFETIME WINDOWS & SIDING CO. since 1999. We offer services for all of eastern Oklahoma. References furnished. Call Richard for a free quote. (918) 261-9999

to and from medical appointments, healthcare and other paperwork. Bobbi Warshaw, MPH, previously worked with seniors, physicians, and medical insurance plans. Call Bobbi at (918) 747-3807. website: www.errands-to-go. com, email: bobbi.warshaw@att.net.

Hutson’s Handyman Service Carpentry. Painting. Home repair. Basic plumbing. Sheet rock – new and repair. Storm doors and windows. Install ceiling fans. Clean and repair rain guttering. $15 service call charge. $35/hour. 10% senior discount. What do you need done? Member, Better Business Bureau. (918) 835-8205 or (918) 645-5761

Companion/Aide Caring Christian lady seeks part-time companion/aide position. Prefers weekdays. Light cooking, light housecleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, companionship. Very reasonable rates. Experienced with references. Call (918) 749-9399.

Burton Painting and Floors Specializing in all aspects of exterior and interior home painting. Staining, sealing, and painting faux finishes. Decks, fences, cabinets, and floors. Acid staining of concrete floors, patios, and driveways. Free estimates. 23 years of experience. Reliable, courteous, professional service. Fully insured. (918) 378-2858

Z&J Remodeling No job is too big or small. Painting, carpentry work, roofing, room additions, decks, sheet rock, carpet & carpet repairs, storm damage repairs and more. Free estimates and insured. (918) 629-1903. LEGAL

Contracting for Seniors by Van Repairs, painting, remodeling, some plumbing and electrical, small jobs. Special needs: grab bars, ramps, hand rails, door alterations to accommodate wheelchairs, handicap fixtures. Working with individuals, families, seniors, businesses since 1987. We function with integrity, with special concerns for seniors. Free estimates, insured. (918) 636-6849 Dave’s Heat and Air, Inc. Licensed, insured, and bonded. Honest and reliable service for over 30 years. Competitive rates. Specializing in heating and air conditioning service and repair. All makes and models. Residential and light commercial. Tulsa metro area. Familyowned and operated. (918) 437-8101 Debris/Junk Removal “When your junk starts to stack up call Haul Aways for backup.” We offer fast and efficient junk and debris removal service from anywhere on your property. Call (918) 407-0336 or visit us online at www.haulaways.net. References Furnished. Freedom Electrical Services Do you need outlets, ceiling fans or lights hung? Freedom Electrical Services provides quality workmanship. For all your electrical needs, call (918) 216-1846. Handyman & Construction Services New & Remodel Commercial & Residential - 25 Years All Handicap Accessories - grab bars, handicap access abilities; Framing, Drywall, Tape & Bed; Texture & Paint, Plumbing, Electrical, Tile, Laminate & Wood Floors & Fences. Free Estimates, Competitive Rates, Professional Service. Call Craig at (918) 892-4168. Home Improvements We install custom made energy efficient replacement windows that will totally eliminate the outside heat and lower ever increasing electric bills. We also remodel kitchens and baths, install roofContinued

The Doorman Door Service of Tulsa Windows, doors and siding. Professional installation service and repairs. (918) 430-4398. Free quotes. www.tulsadoorman.com

Full-Service Estate Planning Law Firm Trusts, Wills, Gift and Tax Planning, Powers of Attorneys and more! With offices in Sand Springs and Tulsa. Discount to Veterans and Retired Teachers. Willing to meet you in your place for no extra charge! Call Penni of the Skillern Law Firm at (918) 805-2511. www.skillernlaw.com Notary To Assist You Professional Notary Public and Certified Notary Signing Agent will travel to you to have documents notarized. Call Christine at (918) 851-4909. Specializing in general notarization work, she has multiple certifications. Background screened, bonded, and insured. She makes the process easy! www.BrokenArrowMobileNotary.com OIL AND GAS Mineral, Oil/Gas Interests Want to purchase minerals and oil/gas interests. Send details to P.O. Box 13557, Denver, CO, 80201. PERSONAL ASSISTANCE Accomplished Help at Home Former owner and administrator of Oklahoma state licensed facility. Help in home management coordinating your needs. Cooking, light housekeeping, transportation to doctors’ appointments. I value your dignity with respect. Excellent references. Adjustable fee according to situation. (918)728-5489 or (918) 270-1671. Affordable Flexible Assistant My name is Ms. Daniels. I do light housekeeping, light cooking, laundry, grocery shopping and companionship, too! I am dependable, honest, caring and affordable. If you need someone to help you or your loved one call me at (918) 313-7433. Ask for Ms. Daniels. You have a blessed day! Bobbi and Bob’s Personal Assistance Errands, grocery shopping, personal shopping, take to beauty shop, organizing home and closets, transportation Continued

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Confident Personal Assistant Are you looking for a confident personal assistant to help with light cooking, light housekeeping, laundry, grocery shopping and companionship? Experienced with references. Call (918) 688-0031. Financial Organizer Are you overwhelmed handling monthly finances (paying bills, balancing your checkbook, organization) for yourself or a loved one? I can help! I create customized systems that fit your needs, either for set up only or ongoing monthly. Call me to discuss the options available. Essential Strategy Consulting, LLC. Gwen Stevens (918) 557-5259. Mail Stacking Up? Do you have trouble seeing to write checks? No family close by to help? Confused about your income or expenses? I will pay your bills, setup deposits, correspond with insurers, accountants, bankers, doctors, brokers and creditors. Organize information for your taxes. Monitor all accounts for fraud. Notarize your legal papers. Bonded and insured. FREE initial consultation. Senior Money Manager - Call Sherry (918) 625-2001 PERSONAL SAFETY EARS Emergency Alert Response Systems. Enjoy living at home while we listen for your safety with our quality personal medical alarm and monitoring service. Very affordable with no long-term commitment. Locally owned and operated. (918) 2980500 or toll-free (877) 885-3277 HALO Medical Alarms HALO provides emergency response throughout Oklahoma with an office in Tulsa. Let a HALO medical alarm provide you with the confidence and security to live independently in your own home, where you are most comfortable. Call (918) 392-0566 or (877) 747-HALO (4256). www.halomedicalalarms.com PERSONAL SERVICES Affordable Hairstyling In-Home or Shop Can’t get out? Transportation and home service available for your hairstyling needs. A Mane Event hairstyling and tanning service for the entire family. 35 years experience. Senior specials for haircuts, perms, and color. In-shop special: Haircut $7 for first time customers in shop ONLY. Tuesday through Saturday. Near 11th and Yale at 937 S. Canton Ave. (918) 834-2686 By Design Everything for all of your hair care. New customers only. Special: perm, haircut Continued

and style only $65. 9515-C East 51st Street. Shannon Square Center near Mingo. Call Kay (918) 557-2282. Darlene’s Salon Services Hair care for men and women, specializing in senior clients. Wet sets, blow drying, back combing, perms, colors, and cuts. Manicures and pedicures available. This month’s special: haircut OR shampoo and set for $12. First time clients only with this ad. Come see us at Highland Plaza, 5661 E. 41st St. (Corner of 41st and Hudson). (918) 742-3440 Detlef’s Master American European Hair Design Established 1964. Precision cuts, color corrections, perms by design from sensible to sensational. Former owner of Elizabeth Arden Red Door Miss Jackson’s Salon and Coiffures Continental Salon. Catering to classy and mature styles for ladies and gentlemen. Monday – Saturday. Call (918) 663-8779. 4833 South Sheridan, Suite 405A in Fountain Plaza. By appointment only. For Your Feet Many foot problems occur later in life. Let MY S.H.O.P. (Seniors House of Pampering) take care of your tootsies. Soothing, relaxing foot bath followed by massage to help relieve pain and improve circulation. Senior owned and operated. $25 at your place. $20 at my place. (918) 808-5084 Holiday Salon Specials Holiday specials for ladies and gentlemen. Haircuts, Cut and Style, Perms, Colors, Blow Dry and Roller Sets, and Waxing. By Design Salon & Day Spa. 9515-C East 51st Street. Northwest corner of 51st and Mingo. (918) 851-4949. Please call for appointment. PET SERVICES Cat Boarding Going out of town and need someone to care for your cats? The Kat Shack offers a calm and peaceful place for your cats to stay: no cages, no dogs, and lots of love. Pick-up/Drop-off services available. 23 years animal experience. (918) 364-cats (2287). www.thekatshack.com. REAL ESTATE Residential Home Sales Thinking of selling your home to move to a senior supportive environment? Perhaps to move in with an adult son or daughter who can help assist with your needs? Get the specialized attention you deserve by contacting Jay Workman with Coldwell Banker Select today for a free consultation. Email jayworkman@ cbtulsa.com or call (918) 734-2004. SOCIAL/SUPPORT GROUP Single Seniors (60+) Are you over 60, single, divorced or widowed? We are a fun loving group of single seniors over 60. We meet every Wednesday, 11:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. and Saturdays at noon at the Buffet Palace, 10934 East 21st Street. We eat at 11:30 have a short meeting and then play cards. Join us for great fun and fellowship. Questions, call Bob at (918) 3714367 or Nancy at (918) 341-3375.

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Mary L. Saddoris Bobby D. Sayre Church of St. Mary Pete and Pat Stamper Jeanne and John Sturges Charlie Mae Thornton Tulsa Federal Credit Union Tulsa Run Henry and Betty Whitaker In Memory of In Memory of Paul Annex John P. Barajas In Memory of Marietta Barajas John P. Barajas In Memory of Katy Butts Bill Butts In Memory of Theresa Ann Finck Theresa M. Finck and Mary Ann Finck In Memory of Randy Jarvis Sherry and Frank Marcum In Memory of Jim Limke Anonymous In Memory of Vona M. McLearan Jean K. Estep In Memory of Helen Meyer Edwin W. Meyer In Memory of Pansy Nordstrom Rod L. Nordstrom In Memory of Ida Rock Bob and Denise Rock

In Memory of Margie Young Julia and Bill Sanders In Honor of In Honor of Frances Birchfield LeRoy and Linda Fore In Honor of LeRoy Fore Janet Vierra In Honor and In Memory of Mrs. Jeanne Goodwin Jocelyn G. Bush In Honor of Anna Kerr John and Iva Reynolds In Honor of Kelley Rash Barbara Kimbrough In Honor of Jama Rush Ruth Hamill About LIFE Senior Services LIFE Senior Services is a recognized leader in aging services and an acknowledged voice on aging issues and is proud to be a non-profit United Way organization. If you would like to make a donation in support of LIFE Senior Services, please mail your contribution to: LIFE Senior Services 5950 E. 31st St., Tulsa, OK 74135-5114 Make your secure online: www.LIFEseniorservices.org

Call Patricia! Need a go-fer to run errands, take you to an appointment or grocery shopping? Need someone to take you to hair appointments, the pharmacy, make deliveries? Need someone to stay with you during an out-patient medical procedure? Also, available as a driver/companion for traveling; rates negotiable. Call Patricia! (918) 4373456 or (918) 855-2302 My Driver Transportation Service Let me do the driving. To and from work, airport, shopping, errands, post office, appointments. Also, LIFT VAN transportation available. Able to assist getting to and from bed. Senior sitting. Also, small breed dog boarding. 20 years experience. CLEET certified and licensed. References. Member, Better Business Bureau. (918) 491-9929 Travel Made Easy Motor home with lift and driver available for short in-state or long out-of-state trips. Seats 6 comfortably. Cross country patient transfer or sightseeing. Also available for rent: powerchair for shopping, hospital visits, etc. Member, Better Business Bureau. (918) 491-9929

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