VIP Alexandria Magazine | July 2020

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CELEBRATING THE

AMERICAN

SPIRIT

Commemorating the 75th Anniversary of the end of WWII

ALEXANDRIA’S HIDDEN GEMS OF OUTDOOR DINING

THE ULTIMATE SUMMER STAYCATION

THE KISS PROJECT: RECREATING THE ICONIC TIMES SQUARE IMAGE

YOUR CBD STORE SUMMER DRINK RECIPES

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PUBLISHER'S LETTER Dear Alexandria, Since we last welcomed you into our pages, our nation, and our city, have both celebrated momentous birthdays. Things were a bit different this year, of course; no festivals or fireworks. But America is now another year older, nonetheless. I hope that despite these trying times you and your loved ones found a way to keep your patriotic spirits alive and remember what a beautiful thing it is to live in the land of the free.

We are a young country, it's true. We have so much potential, yet so much to learn. It's a journey that will not be easy, but the path ahead has been forged by men and women who have come before us - many of them courageous enough to lay it all on the line. In the great scheme of things, 75 years is nothing; merely a pinprick on the timeline of the history of the world. But to Americans, the past 75 years have meant everything.

This August, we celebrate the 75th Anniversary of the end of WWII. In commemoration of this event, our stunning cover depicts one of three military spouses who volunteered themselves (and their husbands) to participate in VIP Alexandria Magazine's The Kiss Project. Recreating the iconic photograph taken in Times Square, when the end of WWII was announced, has been a dream of mine ever since I began working in publishing. It was an honor, to not only meet these heroic women who are all serving on two fronts (as military spouses and as nurses during this pandemic), but to be able to share their stories with Alexandria and beyond.

Speaking of Alexandria, the history of our great city during WWII is nothing short of remarkable. On page 24, you will find the story of The Payne Brothers and the history of The Torpedo Factory. But my favorite story is of the mysterious P.O. Box used during WWII by our very own Fort Hunt. Don't worry! Your journey through time won't end there. This month, we were honored to work with the Defense Credit Union Council and Andrews Federal Credit Union on The Legacy of The Tuskegee Airmen. Their story, on page 34, is a beautiful reminder that every single one of us has the ability and duty to break down barriers- not just for ourselves, but for future generations to come.

In addition to these patriotic stories, you will find that event spreads have finally returned to VIP! None of us know what the near future will bring, but where our fellow Alexandrians gather, VIP will be there to capture every moment! Be sure to email us if you have an event coming up soon at hello@vipalexandriamag.com Finally, we round out this exciting issue with a bit of wellness and adventure!

Learn how to create the ultimate 'staycation' on page 20, dive into the world of mixology with Your CBD Alexandria on page 12 and learn where to find the best hidden gems of outdoor, local dining on page 16.

Until next time, Alexandria! Stay safe, keep your distance and remember how important it is to Celebrate the American Spirit.

Kellie Gunderman

OWNER / PUBLISHER

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VOLUME ONE | ISSUE EIGHT

OWNER / PUBLISHER Kellie Gunderman OPERATIONS DIRECTOR Jeanette Wages EDITOR Warren Gunderman SALES EXECUTIVE Andrew Gates CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Dr. Lauren Fisher Noe Landini Liesel Schmidt PHOTOGRAPHERS Amber Griffin Magdalena Papaioannou Megan Terry Igda Warner We are hiring!

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WHAT’S INSIDE CELEBRATING THE AMERICAN SPIRIT 24

WWII + Alexandria

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The Kiss Project: Military Spouses Serving on Two Fronts

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Becky Dines

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Jen Hensarling

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Gretchen Steketee

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Salute to Service: Andrews Federal Credit Union + The Legacy of The Tuskegee Airmen

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Passover Freedom Run

10 Live Music Night at Augie's Mussel House + Beer Garden 14 Del Ray Farmers' Market 19 Del Ray Vintage & Flea Market 22 An American Celebration at Mount Vernon 36 4th of July in Old Town 40 Cool Yoga 2020 at Del Ray Psych 46 Catoctin Creek Cocktail Class at King's Ransom 48 Chef CocoLoco Launch Party

FEATURES 11

EVENTS

50 Apples + Automobiles at Lost Boy Cider

Club Pilates Alexandria

12 Your CBD Alexandria Drink Recipes 16 Alexandria's Hidden Gems of Outdoor Dining 18 A Note from Noe Landini 20 The Ultimate Summer Staycation 38 The Jeté Society of The Washington Ballet Presents: Rench Soriano 43 The Chamber ALX Spotlight: Chelsea Anderson, HomeGrown Restaurant Group 44 Surviving the New Normal: Teletherapy 101

ON THE COVER Jen + Brian Hensarling

Featured on page 30 Photography by Magdalena Papaioannou Special thanks to the other military couples who participated in The Kiss Project: Becky and John Dines + Gretchen and Paul Steketee

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wellness | Passover Freedom Run Photography by Magdalena Papaioannou

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food + drink | Live Music Night at Augie's Mussel House on the Patio Photography by Magdalena Papaioannou

Augie's Mussel House & Beer Garden recently welcomed singer-songwriter, Caleb Hacker, to perform for patrons on Alexandria's only open air beer garden, complete with communal tables, televisions and pet friendly spaces.

Contactless menus were available which included over 70 select beers and Belgian bites and, most notably, an extensive mussel menu.

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CBD DRINK RECIPES TO

RELAX, REFRESH + REJUVENATE Story + Photography by Kellie Gunderman

If you're not familiar with CBD products, mixology is a wonderful way to experiment with its wellness benefits. This is why we have partnered up with Shells Karle, Owner of Your CBD Store Alexandria to provide you with a few delicious (non-alcoholic) drink options to quench your summer thirst!

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THE ICED COFFEE

Vanilla Almond Iced Rejuvenator What you will need: • 1-2 cups of fresh-brewed coffee, refrigerated for 2-3 hours • Ice cubes

• Vanilla Flavored Almond Milk • SunMed Full

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• 1-2 SunMed Raw Hemp Flower Buds • 1 cup ice • SunMed Premium Broad Spectrum CBD Edible Watermelon Gummy Ring • Sprigs of fresh mint (garnish)

Directions: Pour chilled coffee over ice, leaving space for milk. Drop 5-15mg of SunMed Full Spectrum Water Soluble in and stir well. In a separate container, froth milk.

Slowly pour frothed milk into glass, leaving foam to settle at the top. Serve.

THE SMOOTHIE

Watermelon Kiwi Flower Refresher What you will need: • 2 cups seedless watermelon chunks • 2 kiwis, peeled and chopped • 2 cups nonfat vanilla yogurt

Directions: Place all ingredients into a blender and puree until smooth.

Pour into (2) glasses and garnish with a SunMed Premium Broad Spectrum CBD Edible Watermelon Gummy Ring on the rim of the glasses and float a sprig of fresh mint on top.

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shopping | Del Ray Farmers' Market Photography by Magdalena Papaioannou

Though vendors continue to recommend and accept pre-orders, The Del Ray Farmers' Market is slowly moving towards a new normal, now offering same day sales. At a recent market, social distancing rules remained in place as vendors were thrilled with the community's continued support and cooperative spirit.

The Del Ray Farmers' Market is open every Saturday from 8:00am-12:00pm and held along Mount Vernon and Oxford Avenues.

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OF OUTDOOR DINING Story by Jeanette Wages | Photography Courtesy of Featured Restaurants

Wandering the quaint streets of Old Town or Del Ray, it’s hard not to notice all of the wonderful boutique shops and restaurants lining them. Locals and tourists alike are treated with a variety of cuisine, atmosphere and drink options. During the warmer months the real treasures are the outdoor dining spaces, which have recently expanded to include sidewalk and street seating up and down King Street.

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CAFE 44 Cafe 44 offers balcony and terrace seating, providing guests with a panoramic view of the Potomac River, National Harbor and the Washington Monument.

But the breathtaking views are just the beginning. Their chef driven menu, craft cocktail selection and intimate ambience make it the stylish American eatery you've been searching for.

Walking up to this brightly colored building with unique window displays that change with the seasons, the average passerby would never imagine there is a wonderful garden dining option out back.

But once you get there you are instantly transported to a village in Greece where you will find dancing and plates breaking (yes, this does happen). Make sure to try the Saganaki and Exohikon!

Carlyle District is most known for office buildings and Alexandria highrises but they also have a few true gems of dining. Whiskey & Oyster offers a unique and delicious seafood selection including Bourbon Shrimp N Grits, Wild Rockfish, Tacos, and, of course, Oysters. Whiskey lovers will be in heaven with a vast selection of whiskeys displayed on an old dry cleaner conveyor system.

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A neighborhood favorite, with delicious pizza and pasta options, Lena's is now home to The Oasis and The Beer Garden. The Oasis pulls in resort-style vibes with cabana drapes and a misting system to keep everyone cool and relaxed in the beautiful space that was once a parking lot while the Beer Garden is located on their previous patio offering local favorites like Port City beer to thirsty visitors.

Slip away from the waterfront and find yourself following the sound of live music to the gates of Augie’s Mussel House and Beer Garden, where outdoor dining is available year round (beneath of the shade of trees or heat lamps). Beyond the delicious mussels and beer, Augie’s hosts local musicians on TuesdaySunday evenings making it an absolute favorite amongst locals to gather with friends and family or for great date nights.

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BARKS, BITES + BREWS Has there ever been a city that is more dog friendly than Alexandria? We think not! When you walk up to most restaurants in our city, pups are welcomed with pets, shade, cool water and, in some cases, their own menu or 'Yappy Hour' options (non-alcoholic, of course)!

Be sure to check out next edition of 'V.I.P.s (Very Important Pups) event spread in the August issue... come soon!

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Alexandria has had a lot of success because restaurant owners and managers pulled together to achieve a common goal, which was to get customers to trust our ability to do what we do best, even under uncommon circumstances. Thanks to that resilience and also city leadership, Alexandria restaurants were able to carve out outdoor real estate graciously offered by the city and it’s wonderful and loyal citizens.

"Alexandria

has had a lot of success because restaurant owners and managers pulled together to achieve a common goal."

Alexandria is approaching a milestone in its effort to deal with this crisis as businesses are rebuilding the confidence of their client base one person at a time. Just across the river in DC, many are still closed. DC’s Mayor reopened restaurants but not commercial office buildings. More importantly, school is out everywhere and will remain that way for some time. Without available childcare or school, many are forced to continue working from home.

Congress is still taking their break and with little tourism to fill the void of DC turning into a ghost town, there’s no light at the end of the tunnel until at least mid-September. Because the workforce has not yet returned, downtown restaurants cannot bear the cost of opening while the majority of their client base aren’t able to attend happy hours, business lunches or dinners. Other downtown restaurants rely on professional sports, live entertainment and theatre which are still completely shut down. here’s a common misconception that busy restaurants simply print money, which may be why they have been targeted for years by vendors, insurance companies, and government to be erroneously charged with a high cost of doing business that far supersedes almost any other industry. Additionally, many customers expect a product to be sold at prices that may not differentiate between the quality difference of a highend restaurant verses fast food.

What’s all this mean? It means that it’s no surprise many restaurants are still closed, in some cases forever. It comes down to simple economics and if the revenue isn’t there to support already incredibly thin profit margins, there’s no way to support all the overhead, licensing, insurance, rent and taxes. On a good day, 60% is where many otherwise normally successful restaurants currently are in terms of gross revenue. However, for those of us who are survivors and most restaurant people are exactly that, at least it’s a step back to normal.

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COVID has led very skilled and capable restaurant operators to close their doors indefinitely, for some because it was cheaper to start over and for others, it was simply a way to get out of an undesirable situation.

Many of us are still in the fight and will rebuild our businesses one day at a time. The continued and increased support and cooperation from local, state and federal government is critical. Most importantly, we need our customers back, safely, and we know how to do that.

- Noe

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shopping | Del Ray Vintage & Flea Market Photography by Magdalena Papaioannou

Del Ray Vintage & Flea Market recently kicked off their second season, committing to making the safety of all visitors their top priority.

Amy Eggers, Co-Founder of Del Ray Vintage & Flea Market told us, "As the day progressed and our vendors set up, customers and friends came out, it became apparent that we had come as close to 'normal' as we'd been in months. Knowing people were smiling behind their masks made everything worth it. Adding life to Del Ray and bringing community and opportunity is the crux of our event."

For more information on this event, visit www.delrayvintageflea.com

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Story by Jeanette Wages

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Vacation time and travel can mean different things to everyone. Some want to run away to a beach, sit with a drink in their hand and not worry about anything in the world. Others want to go on adventures like white water rafting or climbing mountains. We also have the world travelers who want to see all the sights and experience as many cultures as possible. Most of us are a little bit of all these things depending on our mood. No matter what type of traveler you are, these moments and breaks from the everyday routine are vital for our energy and mental wellbeing. We need moments away from the work and chores of life to be able to reset and recharge, and sometimes expand our minds with new experiences. The question is how can one do this in a time when travel is not as easy as jumping online, booking a flight and going?

Many people this year won’t be going on their normal vacations either because travel is limited and hard, they’ve been out of work or they are just getting back to the “normal” grind of things.

Working from home may have been a nice change of pace for some without the commute or pants but it is not the same as actually getting away. So what can we do to reset?

BECOME A LOCAL TOURIST.

If you don’t want to wear a mask for a long flight, risk having to self quarantine, or wonder if the location you get to will even have things open, you can do something local you’ve never done.

Taking a day trip to a small town nearby and exploring some of the sights can give you that boost of new your mind is craving. This area is rich with outdoor sights, monuments and hiking trails to keep you safe while giving your mind the sense of getting away. Hitting a local beach may not be as glamorous as Bora Bora but if you go at an off time like during the week, maintaining social distance is easier while soaking in the salt air.

CREATE AN OASIS AT YOUR HOME.

Setting up a tent in the backyard was one of my favorite things to do as a kid, it felt like escaping the boredom of home without really going anywhere. I’m personally not a camper now, so I’m more likely to set up a pillow fort in my living room and retreat into Disney+ to mentally escape the pressure of adulthood. Turning off all the screens, playing soft ambient music like crashing waves while taking a bubble bath can also be a quick reset for your brain, throw in some calming essential oils in the tub or a diffuser can also help take your brain to another place when you haven’t even left your home.

DELVE INTO A NEW CULTURE.

For those who want the history and excitement of trying new cultures, pick a place you would have wanted to go, research the food and culture, look up sights you would have wanted to see and create that feeling at home. You can order carry-out from a local restaurant serving the cuisine of that region, or make some dishes at home. Turn on a Spotify channel related to that country or find a movie filmed there, Netflix has some great foreign films for you to absorb the language and culture of an area from your couch. Then just remind yourself that one day, hopefully soon, you will be there in real life.

Just remember, even though life isn’t what we are used to right now, doesn’t mean we have to neglect our need to reset, recharge and explore.

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holiday | An American Celebration at Mount Vernon Photography by Magdalena Papaioannou

Mount Vernon recently celebrated America's independence with historical actors, Revolutionary War military demonstrations and an appearance from General George Washington, himself, who inspected troops of the 1st Virginia Regiment and conducted a reading of the Declaration of Independence for guests.

Visitors were welcome to explore the grounds and outbuildings, pay their respects at the Slave Memorial and Cemetery, stroll the gardens, enjoy views from the mansion's piazza, visit the final resting place of George and Martha Washington and much more!

For more information or to plan your visit to George Washington's Mount Vernon, visit www.mountvernon.org

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In commemoration of the 75th Anniversary of the end of World War Two, VIP Alexandria Magazine is proud to bring you a brief history of The City of Alexandria's service to our nation and a reminder of the sacrifices made by so many.

You will never be forgotten.

Story by Warren P. Gunderman

THE PAYNE BROTHERS May 8, 2020 marked the 75th anniversary of the end of World War II in Europe and Aug 15, 2020 will mark the end of the war in the Pacific. The nation came together in defense of freedom and the town and residents of Alexandria did their part. Following are just three of the many stories of Alexandria’s contributions to the war effort.

During the war, all of America knew the story of the Sullivan brothers – five brothers who served together in the Navy and died together when their ship, the light cruiser USS Juneau was sunk on November 13, 1942. Alexandria also sent five brothers to war. Unlike the Sullivans, all five of the Payne brothers survived the war.

The oldest, Ralph, initially trained at Camp Wheeler in Georgia as part of the 4th Platoon, C Company, 8th Battalion, but by 1941 he was in the Officer Candidate School at Fort Benning, GA. In 1942, he completed Parachute School, and was commissioned as a First Lieutenant and in the 502nd Parachute Infantry Regiment, 101st Airborne Division.

In June, 1944, Ralph parachuted into Normandy.

Fighting through the hedgerow country of northern France, he carried out a number of dangerous reconnaissance missions for which he received the Silver Star, two Bronze Stars and a Purple Heart.

Ralph Payne died in 2008, and is buried at Arlington National Cemetery.

Following the attack on Pearl Harbor, Francis joined the U.S. Navy shortly after Christmas. He was an Electrician’s Mate on the USS Randolph, an Essex-class aircraft carrier. In March, 1945, while the ship was anchored at Ulithi in the western Pacific, a Japanese kamikaze crashed into the stern of the ship, killing twenty-seven.

Francis spent a total of forty-two months in a combat zone, even manning an anti-aircraft gun at one point for an injured shipmate.

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Francis Payne died in 1993, and is buried in Quantico National Cemetery, Prince William County, Virginia.

Harold enlisted in the Navy in 1942. He hoped to be either a pilot or to serve in the submarine service, but due to the needs of the Navy, he became an Aviation Electrician’s Mate. He eventually became Chief Petty Officer in charge of the electrical shop for VR-6, a transport squadron based at Dinner Key Naval Air Station near Miami, FL. Near the end of 1945, he had enough points to be discharged from the service and returned to Alexandria.

Harold Payne died in 2005.

Grover Cleveland Payne, Jr. got the nickname “Jack” as a baby, and it stuck. Jack initially tried to join the Marines and then the Navy, but was rejected from both due to an eye condition.

He then enlisted in the Army and trained at Camp Lee, outside Petersburg, Va. Jack was deployed to Okinawa shortly before the Japanese surrender in 1945, and then to Korea as a member of the 382nd Station Hospital, 10th Army.

Jack Payne died in 2014, and he and his wife are buried together at Quantico National Cemetery.

By the end of the war, Alexandria’s Torpedo Station had manufactured almost 10,000 torpedoes that were estimated to be responsible for damaging or sinking almost 1,500 ships.

You can visit The Torpedo Factory at 105 N. Union St. in Old Town Alexandria or online at www. torpedofactory.org

FORT HUNT

David Lee Payne, the youngest of the brothers, enlisted as a Naval Aviation Cadet and participated in V-12 training programs at a variety of universities including Emory, Duke and the University of Miami. Unfortunately, David washed out of flight school for failing to pass the “vertigo test.” He then spent the remainder of his service in the Navy as an Air Traffic Controller and an Air Support Technician instead.

David Payne passed peacefully in his sleep on September 5, 2014 To view an online exhibit about the Payne brothers, their life in Alexandria, and their service in World War II, visit www.alexandriava.gov/historic/lyceum/default.aspx?id=95002

TORPEDO FACTORY Alexandrians today know the Torpedo Factory as an Art Center on the Potomac River waterfront. However, during the Second World War, workers produced the Mark 14 submarine torpedo used by U.S. Navy personnel in the Pacific theater.

The Alexandria Naval Torpedo Station was built in 1918, just after the end of the First World War. In 1923, the factory ceased production of torpedoes and became a munitions storage facility for close to twenty years.

P.O. Box 1142 was both the code name and the actual Alexandria post office box number for the top secret Military Intelligence Service sections MIS-X (Escape and Evasion) and MIS-Y (Interrogation) programs at what is today Fort Hunt Park.

At the beginning of WWII, the Army transformed the park into a military intelligence center division that operated from 1939 to 1945. Most of the park was used to support the MIS-Y program, which interrogated several thousand German POWs during the course of the war.

A smaller section of Fort Hunt Park was set aside for an even more secret operation involved with POW escape and evasion.

The MIS-X program, which trained selected military personnel how to escape from Nazi prisoner of war camps, was so guarded that even the commander of Fort Hunt was kept unaware of their operations. Only top Department of War officials and the President of the United States were aware of the operations of the MIS-X program.

There were two main components of MIS-X, technical and correspondence, to aid American prisoners of war with their standing directive to attempt escape. MIS-X officers trained selected aircrew in the use of the secret letter codes. If captured, they could send coded messages with military intelligence or requests for materiel.

The technical section developed methods of cunningly concealing escape and evasion material such as compasses and documents inside seemingly innocuous objects like shaving brushes and chess pieces that could be sent to prisoners.

The MIS-X program ended immediately after Germany's surrender on May 8, 1945. After Japan's surrender in August, all MIS-X records at Fort Hunt Park were destroyed, but it is known that the program aided in the escape of over 700 American POWs during World War II.

When the United States entered the Second World War, the factory began production of the Mark 14 submarine torpedo.

With torpedoes in such short supply in the early stages of the war, Alexandria’s Naval Torpedo Station worked around the clock to produce ordnance for the war effort.

Today Fort Hunt Park is administered by the National Park Service as a unit of the George Washington Memorial Parkway. For more information on upcoming events or to request a ranger program for a group, call 703-289-2553.

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THE KISS PROJECT This August will mark 75 years since VJ Day – the day that marked the end of World war Two. Today we can barely imagine the joy, relief, and thankfulness Americans felt with the war finally over. They say a picture is worth a thousand words, and for most of America at the time and ever since, the feelings engendered by the War’s end were aptly portrayed by the iconic black-and-white photo of a sailor kissing a nurse in Times Square. It’s incredibly expressive, conveying the absolute, overwhelming feeling of joy and relief that the entire nation felt at that very moment. While we are no longer in the midst of a world war, our military men and women are still serving in harm’s way, preserving our freedom and defending our way of life.

As we approach the 75th anniversary of that historic day, we at VIP Alexandria Magazine could think of no better way to celebrate and honor both those who served during World War Two as well those serving today than by recreating that famous photo with real service personnel and real military spouses.

The stories you will find in the pages ahead are not of your typical military spouses. These are the inspiring stories of three local women who have chosen to serve our nation on two fronts; that of a selfless support system for their partners in uniform and also as warriors themselves fighting, as nurses, an unprecedented and invisible enemy: COVID-19.

A special thank you to these women and all who are currently serving.

We salute you all.

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BECKY DINES RN, BSN

Becoming a nurse is a journey that takes dedication, determination, and can often take a great deal of sacrifice. For countless women and men all over the world, it is a calling that is felt at a young age, giving them a desire to serve and help people who are most in need. It was that very desire to help others that inspired Becky Dines to become a nurse, though her plans were put on hold while she served a four year enlistment in the Air Force after high school. After her time serving her country in uniform was complete, she soon began serving her country in a different capacity—as the spouse of a man in the military.

her nursing degree. More than a decade after the journey began, she received her degree and applied to Medstar Georgetown University Hospital after her husband received orders to the Pentagon. Now a bedside nurse, Becky Dines, RN, BSN initially specialized in orthopedic and limb salvage services, but has since expanded to urology, neurosurgery, neurology, general surgery, internal medicine and transplant patients.

Still determined to become a nurse, she enrolled in nursing school and was on track to achieving her dream when her younger sister was diagnosed with cancer and given less than six months to live. Once again, Dines put her plans on hold.

“I withdrew from the fall semester to go home to be with her,” she recalls. “The nurses that cared for her were amazing people and helped to give my sister the best 'last' moments they could.

Before she passed, she told me that I had to finish nursing school and become what I wanted because she wasn't able to herself. I promised her—and myself—that no matter what, I would become the best nurse that I could possibly be and be truly present in every moment with those who needed my care.”

“I consider it an honor to care for others and am so very grateful that they trust me with the most intimate details of their lives at such a vulnerable time. Thank you to my patients for trusting me to care for you! All of you bring such profound meaning to my life, and my moments helping you overcome whatever challenges you face is a true honor for me.”

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JEN HENSARLING Family Nurse Practitioner

In Jennifer Hensarling’s fifth grade yearbook, she stated that she wanted to be a children’s doctor when she grew up. It was a prediction made by a little girl who loved the idea of taking care of people. That heart for caring stayed with her throughout her young life, inspiring her to organize charity events for hospitals and volunteer at the local hospital as soon as she was old enough.

Encouraged by her grandmother and stepmother, Jennifer enrolled in nursing school after graduating from high school.

It was during her second year at Gonzaga University that she met the man that would become her husband, a guy from her hometown 350 miles away. Now married 15 years, she is the mother of two children and has become a seasoned military spouse whose career as a nurse has taken her far, through various aspects of medical care and even abroad. From caring for Alzheimer’s patients and disabled adults to working as a cardiac care nurse, her early years in nursing were pivotal in shaping her. Five years in, her husband’s orders to Brussels, Belgium, gave her the opportunity to work at the Embassy Health Clinic while she pursued her post-graduate degree and completed the clinical hours required to become a Nurse Practitioner. She even had the unique opportunity to train at the NATO health care facility in Belgium. Now a Family Nurse Practitioner, she has found her greatest passion in working with children and their families.

furloughed,” she says. “I felt as if I were a trained soldier ready to head to war but told I couldn't go! I applied to hospitals and signed up to volunteer, wanting to use my skills to help.

Unfortunately, without the ICU or recent hospital experience, I did not get called in. Thankfully, it turned into an amazing opportunity to spend more time at home with my children and my husband, who has never spent so much time at home since joining the military!”

“Being a military spouse, I have learned to be ready for change, whether that means moving to a new duty station or adapting to my husband leaving for training or deployments. It has helped me to be creative with resources and taught me to be comfortable in asking for help as well as being ready to give help. It has also given me an appreciation for our community because it takes a village!”

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GRETCHEN STEKETEE RN, BSN

Like many little girls all over the world, Gretchen Steketee pretended to be a nurse when she was young. Equipped with her very own play medical kit, her juvenile fascination took root and later grew into a serious desire to help people, driving her to pursue a nursing career.

That clear direction was one that served her well. By the time she’d graduated from high school, Gretchen had been accepted to Samford University nursing school. During her freshman year at college, fate stepped in and brought her the love of her life.

After three years of dating, Gretchen was married to a military man and was looking at a life filled with multiple changes of station, temporary duty assignments (TDYs), and deployments.

The challenges were ones she embraced. As she settled into a career as an ER nurse, she found that the portability of her field worked well with the constant changes of life as a military spouse. Seven moves later and now on her family's third tour in the National Capital Region, Gretchen Steketee, RN, BSN, works as a staff nurse at Inova Fairfax Hospital Emergency Department, the only Level 1 trauma center in northern Virginia.

COVID-19 crisis, Gretchen recognized the dangers that could come for her little “heart warrior” at home. “I was terrified that I’d bring it home to her because she is so at risk,” she says. “The unknown was torturous and exhausting.” Even so, she and her family soldier on, living their lives to the fullest as they wait out the pandemic.

“During this crisis, we have worked together to care for our patients to the best of our ability. Our facility has had phenomenal leadership and has truly been concerned about their employees, providing for all our physical and mental health needs without hesitation as well as putting policy in place to protect staff.”

As frenetic and challenging as her life as an ER nurse may be, Gretchen feels a great sense of purpose in her work. That sense of purpose is felt even deeper for her now that she’s the mother of three young children—one of whom battles a congenital heart defect. The diagnosis has been one that has shaped the family of five in remarkable ways, bringing unexpected blessings in the midst of struggle. As a front-line worker during the current JULY 2020 • 33

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THEY SAID BLACKS COULDN'T BE PILOTS AND WOULDN'T MAKE GOOD MILITARY MEN. WE PROVED THEM WRONG. WE DISTINGUISHED OURSELVES IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE. WE MADE THAT RED TAIL FAMOUS.

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“Guided by our vision, our mission is to deliver innovative products and world-class service to help our global membership realize their financial aspirations. We take pride in providing financial solutions to help you take the next step in your financial journey.” That is the mission statement of Andrews Federal Credit Union, one that is extremely important for the millions of men and women of the United States military and their families. As they work to protect our nation, our armed forces need the support of financial institutions built around their specific needs, with programs designed to help them reach their financial goals.

Those brave souls—the Tuskegee Airmen—were the AfricanAmerican soldiers involved in an Army Air Corps program called the "Tuskegee Experience" created to train AfricanAmericans to fly and maintain combat aircraft during WWII. Known as the Red Tails because of the distinctive markings of their fighter aircraft, the Tuskegee Airmen included pilots, navigators, bombardiers, maintenance and support staff, instructors and all the personnel who kept the planes in the air.

As an organization tasked with honoring the accomplishments of these brave individuals and keeping their history alive, TAI has an important mission.

Since opening in 1948, Andrews FCU has been dedicated to being a presence that the military community can count on, both here and overseas, offering everything from personal banking to loans, financial seminars, and investment services. Over the past seventy-plus years, Andrews FCU has grown exponentially to number more than 133,500 members, with a membership area that includes Washington, D.C., Maryland, Virginia, New Jersey, Joint Base Andrews and Joint Base McGuire/Dix/Lakehurst as well as U.S. military bases in central Germany, Belgium and the Netherlands. Such an expansive reach is even more impressive when one considers that the credit union began with only eight people and a deposit of five dollars each.

Part of that mission is investing in the futures of minority and disadvantaged youth, and TAI is committed to offering opportunities to those who dream of careers in aviation. In addition to offering scholarships and grants, the organization offers youth programs that encourage those dreams. Over the course of more than a decade, Andrews FCU’s partnership with TAI has contributed significantly to helping fund programs and scholarships by sponsoring two of its most important events.

Honoring its deep military ties, Andrews FCU is a frequent sponsor of events important to the military, including the 2019 Joint Base Andrews Air Show and Space Expo. Held on May 10-12, 2019, the show included a number of military service performances and demos such as the USAF Heritage Flight, the Army Golden Knights Parachute Jump Team and Air Combat Command A-10 in addition to performances from the highly celebrated Air Force Thunderbirds and the Navy Blue Angels.

Supporting the military community also means showing support of the military’s heritage, which is why Andrews FCU takes great pride in its partnership with Tuskegee Airmen, Inc. “As a federal credit union that is extremely committed to serving the military community, it is an honor to support Tuskegee Airmen, Inc., and the legacy of the brave souls it represents,” says Rosalind Bishop, Regional Branch Manager DC, MD, VA.

Since 1990, the East Coast Chapter of TAI has hosted the Benjamin O. Davis Golf Classic at Joint Base Andrews to support youth programs that include Educational Assistance Grants and the Youth in Aviation Program (YIAP). Benjamin O. Davis was the commander of the 332 Fighter Group (The Tuskegee Airmen) and was the first African-American General in the US Air Force. Andrews FCU has been a proud sponsor of the event, knowing that giving their support is helping to change young lives.

Another significant TAI event sponsored by Andrews FCU is the Tuskegee Airmen Youth Breakfast, held each year at the Clubs at Andrews. Open to JROTC and other local high school students, the breakfast is a great opportunity for outreach and encouragement in addition to raising funds for the ECCTAI and its programs. “We are honored to sponsor and participate in this prestigious event each year,” says Bishop. “We are always looking for ways to support our local community, particularly service members. This event affords us with an opportunity to do both.”

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Even while practicing social distancing on the 4th of July, there were plenty of ways to celebrate and enjoy a festive celebration of our nation's independence.

Old Town locals and visitors enjoyed special holiday meals, ice cream, scavenger hunts, boutique sales, strolls along the waterfront and more.

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“IN THESE TIMES, WE REALLY NEED TO KEEP THE ARTS ALIVE BECAUSE IT BRINGS JOY AND TOGETHERNESS TO PEOPLE.

- Rench Soriano Ballet is an elegant form of dance that requires strength, stamina and grace. It also takes determination and heart.

While we generally attribute such characteristics to the poised female forms that plié and flit across the stage to orchestral accompaniment that conveys unspoken emotion, we would be remiss to overlook the importance of men in the world of ballet.

As a child growing up in the Philippines, Rench Soriano learned to be independent at an early age, taking public transportation on his own, cooking, and washing his own clothes by hand. A lover of the outdoors, he was always in search of adventure. When his parents realized that the interest he showed in dance was serious, Soriano was well on his way to his greatest adventure ever. “At the age of five, I started my first bop to Michael Jackson when my mother bought me his concert videos,” Soriano recalls. “I would study his movements and spend the whole day in my room perfecting ‘Billie Jean.’

My mother noticed that I was serious about dancing, so she took me to some local competitions in our town including our church's talent show. Later, my parents decided to enroll me at a dance studio in the city to do hip-hop. Since they offered ballet classes, I convinced my mother to let me take a few classes. At that moment, I imagined what my career would be like.”

“Moving to America was a big step. Since I was a kid, I’ve always wanted to live in the United States and pursue dance.

It's like a dream come true,” Soriano says. Now that he’s here, he’s found a new home with TWB and is embracing the work, though COVID-19 has interrupted his plans. Cast as a peasant as well as to dance the Czardas and the Neapolitan Dance in Swan Lake, Soriano must wait until the production is back on the books to show what makes him such a special dancer.

During this crisis, he feels more strongly than ever the need for something as beautiful as ballet. “In these times, we really need to keep the arts alive because it brings joy and togetherness to people,” he says. While we wait for a time to dance, we can show our support by donating to The Washington Ballet's Stronger Than Ever campaign.

His career would be a successful one, as the young Soriano’s talent launched him into daily training all throughout his elementary and high school years. His determination paid off and he received a scholarship to New Zealand School of Dance. It was there that the rising star truly found his footing.

While attending a summer program in San Francisco, Soriano met someone who would help change his life. Offering him guidance as his teacher during the program, ballet master Ruben Martin saw Soriano’s talent and urged him to audition for The Washington Ballet Studio Company. Midway through his second year in New Zealand School of Dance, the young dancer received an email from Julie Kent officially welcoming him to TWB. JULY 2020 • 39

wellness | Cool Yoga 2020 at Del Ray Psych Photography by Magdalena Papaioannou

Cool Yoga recently returned to Del Ray, celebrating the free outdoor yoga series' eighth anniversary series with COVID-19 precautions.

Cool Yoga 2020 is a community event taught by senior yoga instructor and Coldwell Banker Realtor® Maureen Clyne, and generously sponsored by Del Ray Psych and Wellness.

Cool Yoga 2020 takes place every Wednesday evening from July 8 – August 26, 2020. Classes are free, open to the public and suitable for all levels.

For more information, please contact Maureen at mclyne@mac.com or visit Cool Yoga on Facebook at www.fb.com/CoolYoga2014

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Story by Liesel Schmidt Growing up as the child of restaurateurs, the hospitality industry is pretty much in Chelsea Anderson’s blood. From an early age she worked every aspect; helping her father with catering jobs, later working as a hostess, and also as a busser.

As she got older, she was given more responsibility and over the course of her working life, Chelsea has gained experience working in everything from fast-casual and beach bars to fine dining.

Such varied experience has given her a special understanding of the restaurant industry—one that, when paired with her natural talent for graphic design and passion for marketing, put her in the perfect position to become the Director of Marketing and Communications for her family’s restaurant group. “When I was the bar manager at Pork Barrel BBQ, I also worked as a freelance graphic designer,” she says. “I was hired to do various jobs for each of the restaurants, and I started to manage all of the social media accounts. Later on, I was hired to create logos and branding for Tequila & Taco as well as Whiskey & Oyster. By this point, I was spending most of the day designing, marketing and creating content for the HomeGrown restaurants while working nights at Pork Barrel BBQ. After over a year of this schedule as a freelancer, I pitched my current position and really had to sell the idea.”

She sold it well, and stepped into the newly created position in March 2019. Since then, Chelsea has been going non-stop.

“Every day is different for me,” she says. “You can mostly find me behind my laptop screen, designing a new menu or responding to customer DMs on social media, updating a website or curating promotional ads. It's a lot of screen time. If I’m not at home working, I am pinballing between the six restaurants to drop off print materials, snap pics for Instagram or check in with all the managers on what they have coming up so that I make sure it gets promoted.”

Busy as she is, she knows the importance of connecting with the local business community and maintains an active membership in the Chamber ALX, continuing HomeGrown Restaurant Group’s tradition of being a member. “Even though I feel like I've been in the restaurant industry for an eternity, I am very new to the community outreach aspect of being in a business.

The Chamber is full of individuals who know a great deal and are incredibly supportive, and I never hesitate to reach out to them.”

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the new normal SERIES TWO: TELETHERAPY 101

Story by Dr. Lauren Fisher / Del Ray Psych

Currently fear, uncertainty, and the unknown has understandably increased anxiety and depression for most people. Individuals are suffering significant distress related to virus anxiety, racial trauma, economic, political, & family stress, and social isolation. More people than ever are considering teletherapy for assistance with managing stress, regulating emotions, improving communication and interpersonal patterns of behavior, and increasing their internal coping skills.

A reasonable goal for 2020 is for individuals and families to keep themselves as emotionally healthy as possible while navigating fluctuating stressors.

Is teletherapy confidential and private?

How does teletherapy work?

What are some advantages of teletherapy?

Is this teletherapy covered by insurance?

What are some disadvantages of teletherapy?

Teletherapy works the same way as in-person therapy sessions.

The process typically includes an intake session to discuss your needs, a treatment plan, and weekly sessions (approximately 1 hour in duration). The length of treatment varies depending on the needs of the client. Some therapy platforms, like Talkspace. com, may use a combination of text, audio, and video.

Most insurances are allowing and covering teletherapy during COVID-19. Call your insurance and check your benefits prior to starting the process.

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Therapists use a range of HIPAA-Compliant video platforms, which can be accessed through computer, phone, or tablets.

Sessions are best conducted in a quiet, private spot free from distractions, interruptions, and background noise.

Is teletherapy effective?

Research studies over the past 20 years indicate that teletherapy is just as effective as in-person sessions. However, some people may not feel like the format is the best fit.

Remote sessions allow you to be in the comfort of your own home and surroundings, saves you time from commuting, parking, and wait times for appointments, and it broadens your access to a more diverse range of professionals who can best serve your needs. During COVID-19, it allows you to receive healthcare without worrying about additional exposure to the virus.

Teletherapy is subject to computer glitches and internet disruptions from time to time. It may also feel awkward and

not be the right fit for your needs. Teletherapy is traditionally not recommended for individuals with severe mental illness or for those in crisis. However, if there is no other option, any treatment is better than no treatment.

What is the best way to find a therapist?

I find Psychology Today (www.Psychologytoday.com) to be a great search engine because it allows you to search for therapists by location, insurance, and clinical needs. Whether it is via this engine or an internet service, be sure that the person you find is a licensed or pre-licensed mental health provider with expertise that matches your needs. Please be aware that the search for providers may be frustrating, as the demand for services is high in Northern Virginia. Keep emailing or calling, join waitlists, or extend your search to greater Virginia. Finding a therapist closer to your home is ideal in case the opportunity for inperson visits resumes at some point in the future. There are also a variety of online therapy services, such as Talk Space (www. talkspace.com), which may have more immediate availability.

Lastly, the most important part of any good therapy process (online or in-person) is there is a good relational fit between the therapist and client. If it does not feel right, move on to someone new.

Dr. Lauren Fisher, Clinical Psychologist, is the co-owner of Del Ray Psych & Wellness, LLC, an Alexandria based practice that is currently offering teletherapy services for adults and couples.

Whether it is short-term solution focused therapy, career counseling, or longer term trauma therapy, consider teletherapy as a mechanism to help you build your inner strength and resiliency in 2020.

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Catoctin Creek Distilling Company recently partnered with King's Ransom to host a cocktail class. The event marked the launch of King's Ransoms' private cocktail/dinner parties and cocktail classes series.

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Chef Melvin Urrutia, lovingly referred to as Chef CocoLoco, recently launched his new private chef services by joining forces with Whiskey & Kicks for a very special (and delicious) evening.

Chef Melvin worked his magic in the kitchen as guests enjoyed a four course meal, complete with Mezcal El Silencio craft cocktail pairings with each dish.

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social | Apples + Automobiles at Lost Boy Cider Photography by Magdalena Papaioannou

Lost Boy Cider recently celebrated the triumphant return of Apples N' Autos by turning their parking lot into a car show. They teamed up with Alexandria Cars & Coffee and Caribbean Cruisers Car Club to showcase custom, hot rod, classic and modern cars. There were plenty of good eats and, of course, world class ciders to enjoy!

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