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Saturday, June 13

Family Science Saturday: Make It Work

10am Preschool

11am & 12pm Ages 5-14

Experience how mechanical advantage makes work easier as you create and use simple machines. Take a guided tour of our Make it Work exhibit to see how simple machines have been used in the maritime industry. Parental participation required. Free for members or with general admission.

Cape Fear Museum • 814 Market St • www.capefearmuseum.com Summer Pop-ups!

June 15 – July 2

Oﬀered daily at 11am & 2:30pm

June 15 - 19: Hurricanes! Experiment with the power of wind! June 22 - 26: Prehistoric Wilmingon Travel back in time to prehistoric Wilmington! June 29 - July 2: Moon Explorations Take a virtual journey to the moon using our digital planetarium! Parental participation required. Free for members or with general admission.

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Stormfest 10am - 4pm

Saturday, June 20

Explore the science of weather with the National Weather Service, local broadcast meteorologists, and community safety experts. Engage in fun, hands-on experiments to investigate air pressure, precipitation, and wind. Present your own forecast and make weather tools you can use at home. Parental participation required. Free admission.

Cape Fear Museum • 814 Market St • Wilmington, NC 28401 • www.capefearmuseum.com Saturday, June 27

Community Health & Safety Expo

10am - 2pm

HIV/Hepatitis C Awareness Walk beginning at 9:00am from the Schwartz Center. The event is free to the public and will include activities for people of all ages. • More than 25 information booths! • Activities for kids!

• Free shredding of personal documents (5 box limit per person)

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• Participate in the “drunk goggle” simulation

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• Mobile Planetarium • Health Screenings

Schwartz Center • 411 North Front Street • Wilmington, NC 28401 • www.nhcgov.com June 29 - 30

Experience 4-H Day Camp

1pm - 4pm

Dive into the exciting world of 4-H—the largest youth organization in the US that teaches kids using their slogan, “Learn By Doing.” Two afternoons at the Arboretum will be spent exploring 4-H through science, healthy living, and citizenship. Kids will learn how to impact their community, discover the culture of the world around them, conduct science experiments, and make homemade healthy snacks. For more information call 910-798-7660. Age Group: 5-8 Year Olds

Cost: Non Club Members- $40, 4-H Club Members- $30

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ow many hours have you spent at the beach so far? I haven’t spent nearly enough yet, and I plan to fix that soon! Here in Wilmington, I believe we have a minimum requirement for beach time. Just don’t forget about safety during those long, lazy days. The sun is one danger that can not be ignored. On page 25, there are some important sun safety tips in our Your Health section. Don’t forget the danger lurking in the ocean too - riptides! Our Fit Family section has great information to help you teach your kids what to do if you encounter one of these “killer currents”. June is not just for summer fun, this dad’s month to celebrate! If you’re looking for a fun activity for daddy and daughter this Father’s Day, the article on page 16 has some ideas to get you started. This month is also our Choices in Childcare issue. Wilmington is packed with helpful resources for pointing parents in the right direction when it comes to finding care for your children. One of our best local organization is Smart Start and their Puzzles Center. To find out how they can help you on during your search, check out the article on page 18. Don’t let this summer get away from you without visiting Carolina Beach Boardwalk’s Family Night. Every Tuesday your family can enjoy free entertainment and on Thursdays they have fireworks and a concert! If you are looking for more family activities this summer, keep our calendar in a convenient place. A calendar in the car, one on the fridge, and the online version easily accessed on your phone will make it easy for you to have spontaneous adventures!

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ummer is here, the kids are home, and now you need to find some fun-filled adventures to keep them busy! Adventures don’t have to be a big deal. Just a little something different can be all it takes to create those summertime memories!

One of my favorite summer activities is also a nice way to get out of the heat, $1 movies at Regal Mayfaire! Here’s the 2015 Summer Movie Express schedule: Week 1 Tue, June 16 - Nut Job Wed, June 17 - Annie

Week 6 Tue, July 21 - Night at the Museum: Secret of the Tomb Wed, July 22 - Penguins of Madagascar

Week 2 Tue, June 23 - Earth to Echo Wed, June 24 - The Boxtrolls

Week 7 Tue, July 28 - Madagascar 3 Wed, July 29 - Dolphin Tale 2

Week 3 Tue, June 30 - Paddington Wed, July 1 - Turbo

Week 8 Tue, August 4 - Muppets Most Wanted Wed, August 5 - Alexander and the Very Bad Day

Week 4 Tue, July 7 - Rio 2 Wed, July 8 - How To Train Your Dragon 2 Week 5 Tue, July 14 - Mr. Peabody & Sherman Wed, July 15 - The Book of Life

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Week 9 Tue, August 11 The Lego Movie Wed, August 12 The SpongeBob Movie: Sponge Out of Water

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If you are looking for a daytrip and a some time outside, you could celebrate National Zoo and Aquarium Month this June by visiting some of North Carolina’s animal havens. The obvious place to start, NC Zoo in Asheville, is easily a twoday visit to see everything. Check out www.nczoo.org to plan your trip. Our coastal state is also home to amazing aquariums! Fort Fisher Aquarium is our local spot, but there are a few others worth checking out, see what’s out there at www.ncaquariums.com. Here are a few lesser known places where families can learn more about animals from all over the world: Lynnwood Park Zoo - Located in Jacksonville, 10-acre park displays more than 80 animal exhibits. www.lynnwoodparkzoo.com Conservators Center - Located just before Greensboro in Burlington, NC. You’re guaranteed a unique and up-close view of breathtaking exotic animals – often from just 5 feet away! This one requires advance tour reservation. www.conservatorscenter.org. Zootastic Park of Lake Norman - Near Lake Norman in Troutman, NC. Entertaining and educational, this unique interactive animal park offers some pretty amazing behind the scenes experiences such as personal animal encounters & the “Zookeeper for a Day” program. www.zootasticpark.com. A couple of other important days to remember - June 8th is World Oceans Day, and June 27th is the Great American Backyard Campout. Both offer opportunities to get the kids outside appreciating and protecting nature. For World Oceans Day, bring a trash bag and some gloves to the beach and make a game of how much trash you can collect. Of course, everyone should be out camping for the Campout day! Visit www.nwf.org to pledge to “Pitch a Tent to Protect Wildlife” on the 27th. Have a tip, lead, or just an interesting bit of news to share? I want to hear all about it! Send me an email at danielle.wilmingtonparent@gmail.com. If you include a picture, I’ll be extra excited!

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If you’re looking for a small nature project that will beautify your yard, get the kids to help you attract these majestic pollinators with an easy to make butterfly feeder! Make Your Own Butterfly Feeder Here’s what you need: • mason jar with lid • kitchen sponge • hammer and nail • heavy-duty string • sugar • scissors • saucepan • flower stickers or decorative tape (optional) 1. Prepare “Butterfly Food” by Mixing 9 Parts Water + 1 Part Sugar Bring the mixture to a boil in a pan on your stovetop until the sugar is completely dissolved. Allow to cool completely. 2. Make a Small Hole in the Mason Jar Lid - Using a nail and hammer, punch a small hole in the center of the lid. 3. Place a Piece of Sponge Through the Hole - Cut a 1/2 inch strip from your sponge, then pull it through the hole in the lid so about half of the sponge is sticking out from the top – you’ll want the sponge to be a tight fit. 4. Decorate your Feeder - Flower shapes and bright colors are great options, because they imitate the real deal and hopefully entice butterflies to visit your feeder! 5. Use String to Make a Hanger - Visit www.brightnest.com to see how to make a secure hanger out of string.

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Don’t forget to visit your local New Hanover County Library throughout the summer months. Research shows that children who read books during the summer improve their reading fluency, reading comprehension, and vocabulary, all of which help keep students on track for graduation. Visit their website, www. nhclibrary.org to find out about their summer activities. You definitely don’t want to miss their 2nd Annual Music Festival for Children at Ocean Front Park in Kure Beach. This free event will kick off the NHC Library Summer Reading Program.

PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY Douglas S. Fry, DDS

Reading programs are a great way to encourage reluctant readers during the summer. Here are a few others: • Scholastic Summer Reading Challenge - Sign up for free and your school could win prizes. www.scholastic.com • Barnes & Noble - Read eight books and get one free at Barnes & Noble. www.barnesandnoble.com/u/summer-reading • Pizza Hut Book It Program - Kids can enjoy fun activities, play games and the chance to win prizes. New Hanover County Schools is also opening up community sites at local school libraries. These library opportunities will give children easier access to reading materials at specific times throughout the summer. Call Jennifer Lagarde at 254-4316 to find out where and when your family can find an open library near you.

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growing up online

How Social Media Can Shape a Girl’s Body Image

By Carolyn Jabs

aising a daughter who’s happy in her own skin isn’t easy. For years, parents have worried about the unrealistic way women are depicted in media, advertising, pop culture and even video games. Many try to counter this influence by pointing out to their daughters that commercial images of women are often manipulated by people hoping to make a profit. (Excellent information about the connection between traditional media and body image is widely available online. Check out the research at geenadavisinstitute.org, the infographics representationproject. org, and the interactive mypopstudio.com.) Social media poses different challenges, largely because girls themselves are creating and commenting on their own images. This gives them tremendous power—and makes them hugely vulnerable. On platforms like Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat and Twitter, appearance can become a competitive sport as girls vie for emoji, likes, and followers. Selfies in particular push girls to compare themselves with peers at their prettiest, and it doesn’t take long to figure out that the fastest way to get more likes is to be thin, skilled with make-up, dressed in revealing clothing or positioned in a provocative pose. A recent survey by Common Sense Media found that, among teens who post online, 35% are worried about being tagged in unattractive photos, 27% feel anxious about their appearance in posted photos, and a quarter take it personally when their photos are ignored. Parents may not be able to dominate the conversations about appearance that are going on in social media, but they can and should comment. Girls need to hear from mothers who have come to terms with their own body issues and fathers who appreciate women for more than their faces and figures. Here are some things to keep in mind.

Don’t dismiss. For better or worse, people do make judgments about each other based on how they present themselves physically, so your daughter’s concerns about how she looks are valid. And for girls who constantly see images that have been filtered and Photoshopped to match an ideal, the curves and pimples of puberty can feel like a crisis. Parents cannot change the prevailing culture, but you can help your daughter think clearly about two things. First, how much will she allow herself to be influenced by what others think about her looks? Encourage her not to give power to those who don’t deserve it. Second, how will she evaluate others? Help her understand that other, less visible qualities—integrity, intelligence, sense of humor, compassion—are more important than appearance.

Be aware of the awful. Yes, there really are pro anorexia (pro-ana) and thinspiration (thinspo) websites that encourage girls to starve themselves and praise them when they post emaciated photos. Yes, girls post “Am I pretty?” videos on YouTube and, perhaps unsurprisingly, attract the attention of trolls. Yes, there are apps like Hot or Not that exist simply to rate the physical attractiveness of users. Although many girls are turned off by these sites, others are susceptible to their appeal. 8 | June 2015 | Wilmington Parent

Point out possibilities. Social media gives girls more opportunities to find allies who will encourage them to be themselves, without conforming to other people’s ideas about how they should look. Some girls, for example, post what they call “uglyselfies.” unadorned photos of them which mock conventional ideas about beauty. Others post photos that emphasize accomplishments or insights instead of appearance. Girls can also follow female celebrities like Lorde and Emma Watson who have been outspoken about the way representations of women are manipulated and exploited. Critique photos. A photo can capture a “real” moment or it can be a performance. Talk to your daughter about how she chooses the photos she decides to post online. What is she trying to express about herself? What kinds of editing techniques does she use and why? What kind of feedback does she hope to get? How will she feel if people misunderstand what she is trying to communicate? You can ask similar questions about the photos her friends post online. Do specific photos capture what she likes about her friend or their relationship? Do other photos make her uncomfortable? Filter feedback. Teens long for feedback from peers—as long as it is positive. Negative comments can be crushing, so parents need to help children develop defenses. Rather than accepting hostile or cruel comments as objectively “true,” teach kids to understand them as a reflection of the other person’s state of mind. People who are happy with themselves don’t feel the need to attack others. Encourage your child to be constructive in her own comments—supporting and encouraging other girls instead of tearing them down. Get real. Positive role models have an enormous effect on kids. Be sure your daughter knows plenty of real life women who are comfortable with themselves. Surround her with female role models—grandmas and aunts, teachers and coaches, your own colleagues and friends. Talk about the accomplishments of these women and the qualities you admire in them. Although it may not seem that way in adolescence, appearance is only a fraction of a girl’s identity. You can mitigate the impact of social media by talking often about all the other things you value about your daughter. Help her find activities she enjoys and people who appreciate her for who she is. Model a lifestyle that includes a balanced approach to eating and exercise. Most of all, create a family environment in which every member is respected for who they are and what they can do rather than how they happen to look on any given day. v Carolyn Jabs, M.A., raised three computer savvy kids including one with special needs. She has been writing Growing Up Online for ten years and is working on a book about constructive responses to conflict. Visit HYPERLINK “http://www.growing-up-online.com/” \t “_blank” www. growing-up-online.com to read other columns.

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All Month Long! Cotton Exchange Tours

Daily (Year Round). Cotton Exchange, Downtown. Tales of mystery of the Cotton Exchange ghosts. $10/Adults. $8/Students & Seniors. Free/Under age 12. Visit www.TourOldWilmington. blogspot.com or call 409-4300 for information.

Gems4U Bracelet Making

Daily. 12-5pm. 10 North Front Street Downtown. Come to our Beading Buffet! Making jewelry is FUN and Mary Sedcieski, Owner of GEMS4U, will help you make your special bracelet. $15 per child or adult. Walk-ins are always welcome. Great family time and we provide everything you need. So many beads to choose from! Call 742-5938 for information or directions. Visit us at www.gemsbymary.com.

Downtown Wilmington Trolley Tour

Downtown at Water St. Wilmington Trolley offers a tour through the Port City on an authentically reproduced trolley. Tour highlights include: museums, beautiful mansions, birthplaces of famous natives, TV & movie locations, fine dining ideas, shopping, history and more! www.wilmingtontrolley.com.

1 Monday Railroad Storytime

10:30am. Wilmington Railroad Museum. Hear stories and enjoy creative activities in the Children’s Hall. $4/Family. Free/ Members. Call 763-2634 for more information.

Family Storytime

10:30am, Mondays. Carolina Beach Library. All ages are invited to storytime for approximately 30 minutes of stories, fingerplays, and other pre-literacy enhancing activities. No registration is required, but all children should bring an adult chaperone. Call 798-6303 for details.

Mini Monets Clay & Sculpture Art Class

4:45-5:30pm, Mondays. Kings Grant Area. Let’s get our hands dirty with clay! All projects will be handmade in different types of clay and sculpting materials. This session is a great opportunity to create art in three dimension. Visit www.minimonetsart. com or call 399-1708 for more information.

2 Tuesday Storytime at the Library

9:30am; 10am; 10:30, Tuesdays. Main Library. Babies up to 18 months at 9:30 are invited to bring an adult lap and enjoy up to 20 minutes of books, songs, fingerplays & rhymes. Toddlers 18 months to 3 years old are invited at 10am to 20 minutes of books, music, and pre-literacy activities in Story Place. Preschoolers aged 3 to 5 are invited at 10:30am to 2030 minutes of books, music, and pre-literacy activities in our storytime room! Call 798-6303 for details.

Happy Little Singers

9:45am, Tuesdays. Hannah Block USO/Community Arts Center. Music and Movement program for children 6 months to 6 years. Sing, Dance, Instruments, Creative Play with your child. Drop-ins welcome, $10 per family. Please call or text in advance 777-8889.

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Kid’s Cooking Club

3:30 - 4:30pm Tuesdays. Children’s Museum. Learn new skills and explore fun seasonal recipes. Then savor the flavor of your hard work. Kids Cooking Club is sponsored by Harris Teeter. Visit www.playwilmington.org for weekly themes and call 254-3534 to pre-register.

Family Night at Carolina Beach Boardwalk

6:30-8:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Bring the family out for bounce house, kids activities, entertainment, raffles and more!! Featuring the band: Lynne and The Wave.

3 Wednesday Poplar Grove Farmers’ Market

8am-1pm, Wednesdays. Poplar Grove Plantation. Through Nov. 18. Features fresh local fruits and veggies, dairy products, meats and seafood, baked goods, and sweets, plus arts & crafts, cut flowers, wine and more.

Storytime at the Library

9:30am; 10am; 10:30, Wednesdays. Myrtle Grove Library & Northeast Library. Babies up to 18 months at 9:30 are invited to bring an adult lap and enjoy up to 20 minutes of books, songs, fingerplays & rhymes. Toddlers 18 months to 3 years old are invited at 10am to 20 minutes of books, music, and pre-literacy activities in Story Place. Preschoolers aged 3 to 5 are invited at 10:30am to 20-30 minutes of books, music, and pre-literacy activities in our storytime room! Call 798-6303 for details.

Aquatic Adventures

10am. Children’s Museum. Splash! Dive into the underwater world of Marine Science! Open to all ages, Aquatic Adventures is a hands-on program designed to learn the physics, chemistry, and biology of our world’s oceans. Visit www.playwilmington.org for more information.

S.T.E.M. Explorations

10am & 3:30pm, Wednesdays. Children’s Museum. STEM programs explore Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics by applying them in fun, hands-on activities. Children will learn about the scientific process while measuring and recording in mathematical terms, developing critical thinking skills in the process. Please pre-register. Visit www. playwilmington.org for more information.

Mini Monets Clay & Sculpture Art Class

4:15-5pm, Wednesdays. Carolina Beach Rec Center. Let’s get our hands dirty with clay! All projects will be handmade in different types of clay and sculpting materials. This session is a great opportunity to create art in three dimension. Visit www. minimonetsart.com or call 399-1708 for more information.

4 Thursday Storytime at the Library

9:30am; 10am; 10:30, Thursdays. Myrtle Grove & Northeast Library. Babies up to 18 months at 9:30 are invited to bring an adult lap and enjoy up to 20 minutes of books, songs, fingerplays & rhymes. Toddlers 18 months to 3 years old are invited at 10am to 20 minutes of books, music, and pre-literacy activities in Story Place. Preschoolers aged 3 to 5 are invited at 10:30am to 20-30 minutes of books, music, and pre-literacy activities in our storytime room! Call 798-6303 for details.

StoryCOOKS

10am, Thursdays. Children’s Museum. A cooking club for preschoolers where we read a story and make a dish inspired by the book. Visit www.playwilmington.org for more information and weekly themes.

Child Yoga

3:30pm. Children’s Museum. Get moving the first Thursday of every month in Child Yoga. This month’s theme is “OMazing Love.” Visit www.playwilmington.org for details.

Jump! Move! Learn!

3:30pm, Thursdays. Children’s Museum. Join us in learning how to keep our bodies healthy and happy. Discover new exercises and games while learning all about the human body. Ideal for ages 5-9. Visit www.playwilmington.org for details.

Fireworks by the Sea and Music: TJ Jones & Pimlico Sound Machine 6:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Enjoy free fireworks by the sea on Carolina Beach at 9:00 pm and the Motown/Dance music of TJ Jones & Pimlico Sound Machine at 6:30 pm at the gazebo. The fireworks and gazebo entertainment are free and open to all, weather permitting. Visit www.pleasureislandnc. org for a complete summer schedule.

5 Friday Toddler Time

10am, Fridays. Children’s Museum. No registration necessary. Projects and activities for our youngest visitors (ages 4 and under) and their special grownups to work on together. Call 2543534 or visit www.playwilmington.org for more information.

Family Yoga Storytime

10:30am, Fridays. Main Library. Parents & children, newborns and older, will have fun listening to stories while stretching and learning basic yoga postures with Miss Susan. Children must have an adult present. Wear comfortable clothing and bring a yoga mat or beach towel. No registration required! Call 798-6353 for more details.

Baby Play!

11am, Fridays. Children’s Museum. No registration necessary. An informal playtime for babies to explore the world around them through hands-on discovery, sensory play, music, baby sign language, early creative experiences, and more! (Ideal for ages 6 - 18months)

Spring Flea at the BAC

3-9pm. Brooklyn Arts Center. Renowned as the “ultimate vintage flea” and attended by more than 1,500 shoppers and dozens of vintage vendors from around the region. With a wide array of vintage, retro, and upcycled treasures - and tons of fun, with Wilmington’s finest food trucks feeding the crowds, a coffee shop in the courtyard, and the BAC cash bar serving liquid refreshments. $5 admission good for all 3 days. Call 616-9882 for more information.

Adventures in the Arts

3:30pm, Fridays. Children’s Museum. Please pre-register. Bring your child to express their creativity through various forms of art including but not limited to painting, sculpture, music, theater, dance, drawing, and printing. Visit www.playwilmington.org for details.

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Downtown Sundown Concert Series: Girlz, Girlz, Girlz

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6pm. Riverfront Park. Tonight’s concert features Girlz Girlz Girlz, a tribute to 80’s hair bands. Beer, wine and food available for purchase. Rain or shine. Schedule subject to change.

Summer Concert Series: Mid-Atlantic Band

6-8pm. Airlie Gardens. We welcome the Mid-Atlantic Band for an evening of folk rock and lots of dancing! Concerts are open to the general public and admission is free for Airlie Members. General admission parking is offsite at the Old Cinema 6 at 5335 Oleander Drive across from Jungle Rapids. A free trolley service will run throughout the evening from the Cinema to the Gardens. Concert tickets are now available for purchase online at www. airliegardens.org and at the Airlie Gift Shop. Tickets are $9/Adults, $2/Children(4-12), Free for children under 4 years.

Mayfaire’s Music on the Town Concert Series: Uncle Hairy

6:30pm, Fridays. Mayfaire Event Lawn. Plentiful free parking is available on site, just bring a blanket or chairs for comfort and pick something up from one of Mayfaire’s 20 eateries. This week enjoy the Rock & Soul sounds of Uncle Hairy. Our fun family friendly sponsors will be out with activities and goodies for all. Visit www.mayfairetown. com/events/concert-series for a complete summer listing.

6 Saturday Riverfront Farmers’ Market

8am-1pm, Saturdays. Downtown Riverfront. Through Nov. 21. Features local farmers, produce, arts and crafts, music, and more. Items change weekly depending on the season and include fresh fruits and berries, vegetables and herbs, eggs and cheeses, plants and flowers, meat and seafood, doggie treats, tea, honey, fresh baked goods, jams and jellies, wine, art, and more. Rain or shine.

Carolina Beach Music Festival

10am. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Billed as “the biggest and only beach music festival actually held on the beach on the North Carolina coast” and one of the longest running beach music festivals in the United States. Come out and enjoy a full day of live entertainment with the hottest beach music bands in the south! Visit www.pleasureislandnc.org.

Revolver Music Girl Band Concert

10am. Ocean Front Park, Kure Beach. The students of Revolver Music Productions will be performing on stage. Female performers ranging in age from 7-18 years old will be showcasing their newly honed skills and rocking the stage with their Girl Bands. This performance is free and open to the public.

Raptor Day

4-5pm. Learning Express, Oleander. Create a cool Duct Tape Water Bottle for summer and camp. Ages 8+ $5 fee with reservation. Call 910-313-3100. Bottle and all supplies included.

Family Fun Day

9am - 5pm. Airlie Gardens. Visit the parks and Arboretum for a full day of family fun. Contact 798-7700 or visit www.airliegardens. org for more information.

Spring Flea at the BAC

12-5pm. Brooklyn Arts Center. See 06/05.

Water, Water Everywhere! Raising Community Awareness via Environmental Education 1-4pm. Bellamy Mansion. Featuring mini-seminars, demonstrations, make-and-take projects, activities and more! Activities are geared towards children age 5+. This family-friendly event is free to the public due to a generous grant from International Paper Riegelwood Mill. Participants: Cape Fear River Watch, New Hanover County Arboretum, WAVE Transit, Cape Fear Public Utility, NC Cooperative Extension, City of Wilmington, Going Green, etc.

Residents Free Day - Cape Fear Museum

1 – 5pm. Cape Fear Museum. NHC residents are admitted free to the Museum the first Sunday of every month. Call 798-4350 or visit www.capefearmuseum.com for information.

Boogie in the Park Concert Series: The Midatlantic Band

5-7pm. Ocean Front Park, Kure Beach. Free concert series featuring The Midatlantic Band and their folk rock music from the decades. Bring your beach chair or blanket and enjoy the music!

Movies at the Lake: Alexander and the No Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day

8:45pm. Carolina Beach Lake. Bring your chairs and find a spot on the lawn where the whole family can enjoy newly released movies every Sunday night throughout the summer. Popcorn, candy, soft drinks, cotton candy, and more for sale at reasonable prices or bring your own food and beverages. For a complete list of movies visit www.pleasureislandnc.org.

8 Monday Awesome Amphibians

10am. Halyburton Park. Ages 2-5. Bring your “Little Explorers” out to the park and discover nature through stories, songs, hands-on activities, hikes and crafts. Your children will delight in the many nature themes we explore each month. Cost: $3/participant. 2-5pm. Myrtle Grove Library. Are you ready for the Women’s World Cup? Come to Myrtle Grove Library to get ready! Learn a Soccer chant to help cheer on our Women’s National Team, craft a noisemaker, practice soccer skills and get a bracket to follow along the action.

Spring Flea at the BAC

William Shakespeare’s: Taming of the Shrew

Oh, the Places You’ll Go!

11am. Barnes & Noble. Oh, the fun you’ll have at this Storytime! Join us as we celebrate the 25th anniversary of Oh, the Places You’ll Go! Call 509-1880 for details.

Young Living Yoga & Essential Oils Class

12pm, Saturdays. Be Unlimited Yoga, 5725 Oleander Dr. Suite B10. 30 minutes of gentle yoga, 30 minutes oil workshop with different themes every week. $5.

All Creatures Great and Small

3pm. Minnie Evans Performing Arts Center. Every Creature Great & Small is an afternoon of dance celebrating the wonder of animals, in all of their variety. This annual showcase will feature performances by Dance Element students, The Element Productions Company dancers, Dance Element teachers, and the Company “T” Tappers adult ensemble. Call 685-3787 for ticket information.

Super Saturday Fun Time

3pm Saturdays. TheatreNow. Join DOCK, the dog, and his two-legged friends as they uncover mysteries and discover artifacts (courtesy of Cape Fear Museum). Different adventure each week. Families welcome. $8/person. Visit www.theatrewilmington.com for tickets.

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Kids Classes • Adult Classes drawing

• painting

SUMMER CAMPS!

Nationally Recognized, Professional Artist & Art Educator Carolyn Faulkner 3803 Wrightsville Ave #8, Downey Branch Office Park

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developmental and behavioral pediatrics Ross E Williams, MD, FAAP

World Cup Warm Up

10am-12pm. Children’s Museum. Join us for Raptor Day! The Cape Fear Raptor Center will be on site with LIVE raptors educating both children and adults on the importance of environment preservation and animal rescue. Free with admission or membership. 10am-5pm. Brooklyn Arts Center. See 06/05

Art Classes Young Artist’s Series Katelyn

4-5pm. Learning Express, Oleander. Create a cool Duct Tape Water Bottle for summer and camp. Ages 8+ $5 fee with reservation. Call 910-313-3100. Bottle and all supplies included.

8pm. Greenfield Lake Amphitheater. Presented by The Shakespeare Youth Company, in association with the City of Wilmington. Free admission, donations accepted. Come early and picnic on the green or enjoy a snack at the concession.

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Evaluation and/or treatment of ADHD, Autism, Learning and Behavioral concerns.

Most health insurances accepted. Ages 3yr to adolescent

Happy Little Singers

9:45am, Tuesdays. Hannah Block USO/ Community Arts Center. Music and Movement program for children 6 months to 6 years. Sing, Dance, Instruments, Creative Play with your child. Drop-ins welcome, $10 per family. Please call or text in advance 777-8889.

French for Tots

10am. Learning Express, Oleander Dr. Ages 6 months-6 years. Free Class. Get ready to sing, dance, and speak French with native teacher Miss Marie. A bientot! Call 509-0153 for reservations.

Awesome Amphibians

Family Night at Carolina Beach Boardwalk

6:30-8:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Bring the family out for

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bounce house, kids activities, entertainment, raffles and more!! Featuring the band: Lynne and The Wave.

the performance. Kids are welcome to join in the fun so bring out the whole family!

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William Shakespeare’s: Taming of the Shrew

Fireworks by the Sea and Music: Lynn and the Wave

8am-1pm, Saturdays. Carolina Beach Lake Park. Through October 3rd. Local growers, artisans, and crafters. Come enjoy a walk around the lake with the family, pick up some locally grown and made products. Visit www.carolinabeachfarmersmarket.com for more information.

8pm. Greenfield Lake Amphitheater. see 06/08.

10 Wednesday Poplar Grove Farmers’ Market

Storytime by the Sea

10am, Wednesdays through 8/26. Ocean Front Park, Kure Beach. Free event. Join characters from Fairytales and Dreams by the Sea at Ocean Front Park for stories, crafts and games. Fun activities for both boys and girls, as well as time for photos with the Princesses. Come dressed as your own favorite character to add to the fun. We hope to see you there!

Mary Poppins

8pm. Thalian Hall. Based on the classic Disney film, Mary Poppins is the story of a mysterious nanny who magically appears at the Banks household in Edwardian London to care for Jane and Michael Banks. Adventure abounds as she whisks them away to meet dancing chimney sweeps, shopkeepers and an array of colorful characters. Featuring an irresistible story, eye-popping sets and costumes, breathtaking dance numbers and beloved songs such as the Academy Award-winning “Chim Chim Cher-ee,” “A Spoonful of Sugar,” “Step in Time” and many more, this show will bring out the child in everyone! Call 632-2285 for ticket information.

6:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Enjoy free fireworks by the sea on Carolina Beach at 9:00 pm and the Contemporary music of Lynn and the Wave at 6:30 pm at the gazebo. The fireworks and gazebo entertainment are free and open to all, weather permitting. Visit www.pleasureislandnc.org for a complete summer schedule.

William Shakespeare’s: Taming of the Shrew 8pm. Greenfield Lake Amphitheater. see 06/08.

Mary Poppins

8pm. Thalian Hall. See 06/10.

12 Friday Downtown Sundown Concert Series: Natural Wonder 6pm. Riverfront Park. Tonight’s concert features Natural Wonder, a tribute to Stevie Wonder. Beer, wine and food available for purchase. Rain or shine. Schedule subject to change.

Summer Concert Series at Fort Fisher: Rivermist

6:30-8:30pm. Fort Fisher Military Recreation Area. Bring the family, some chairs or a blanket. Enjoy 80’s tribute band sounds of Rivermist during the free concert series at historic Fort Fisher.

Mayfaire’s Music on the Town Concert Series: The Beachbilly Brothers

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6:30pm, Fridays. Mayfaire Event Lawn.Plentiful free parking is available on site, just bring a blanket or chairs for comfort and pick something up from one of Mayfaire’s 20 eateries. This week enjoy the Beachbilly sounds of The Beachbilly Brothers. Our fun family friendly sponsors will be out with activities and goodies for all. Visit www.mayfairetown.com/events/concert-series for a complete summer listing.

Jazz at the Mansion Concert Series: Stardust

Mary Poppins

William Shakespeare’s: Taming of the Shrew 8pm. Greenfield Lake Amphitheater. see 06/08.

6:30-8:30pm. Bellamy Mansion. Feel free to bring snacks, chairs and blankets to sit on the lawn, beer and wine will be for sale at

8pm. Thalian Hall. See 06/10.

Carolina Beach Farmer’s Market

Riverfront Farmers’ Market

Family Science Saturday: Make it Work

10am-1pm. Cape Fear Museum. Experience how mechanical advantage makes work easier as you create and use simple machines. Take a guided tour of our Make it Work exhibit to see how simple machines have been used in the maritime industry. Parental participation required. 10 AM: Preschool; 11 AM and 12 PM: Ages 5-14. Visit www.capefearmuseum.com for more information.

Safety Awareness Day

10am-3pm. Greenlands Farm. Join Greenlands Farm and the Brunswick County Sheriff’s Office to meet your deputies and see a cruiser up-close. Deputies will be promoting safety awareness, discussing Project Lifesaver, and explain the many ways the BCSO works for you. Come out for an informative visit to the farm. This event is free.

Touch the Brightest Star

11am. Barnes & Noble. What happens while you’re sleeping? Find out in this interactive bedtime story, Touch the Brightest Star. No two readings of this book will be the same, and the gentle, soothing rhythm makes this a bedtime favorite! Join us for Storytime and activities. Call 509-1880 for details.

Super Summer Kickoff at Learning Express and Whole Foods 11am-1pm. Learning Express, Oleander Dr. Appearances by Curious George, Olaf (whose favorite season is Summer!), Cinderella (11-12) and Spiderman (12-1). Photo ops and autographs, face painting, and local food tastings.

Super Summer Kickoff

11am-1pm. Learning Express, Oleander. Appearances by Curious George, Olaf (whose favorite season is Summer!), Cinderella (1112) and Spiderman (12-1). Autographs and photo ops for all ages. Call 313-3100 for details.

Mary Poppins

8pm. Thalian Hall. See 06/10.

14 Sunday - Flag Day Mary Poppins

3pm. Thalian Hall. See 06/10.

Movies at the Lake: Paddington

15 Monday Wrightsville Beach Farmer’s Market

8am-1pm, Mondays. Town of Wrightsville Beach Municipal Grounds. Through Sept. 28. This unique Farmer’s Market is the only one on the island and provides an opportunity for residents and visitors of Wrightsville Beach to purchase fresh, locally grown produce. In addition to produce vendors and various other consumables vendors, the market includes a variety of unique craft vendors.

Railroad Storytime

10:30am. Wilmington Railroad Museum. Hear stories and enjoy creative activities in the Children’s Hall. $4/Family. Free/Members. Call 763-2634 for more information.

Taking Care of Your Pet

2-3pm. Main Library. Officer Jodi Kerwin with NHC animal control will discuss taking care of your pet and how Animal Control keeps animals safe. She will be bringing her personal pet with her. Call 798-6303 for more information.

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Super Hero Training

2-2:45pm, Mondays. Carolina Beach Library. Super Hero Boot Camp starts our summer long weekly training. June 22nd - Star in a Super Hero Movie! June 29th - Vaporize a Villain! July 13th - Attack of the Bubbles & Balloon Bombs! July 20th - Super Hero Water Wars! July 27st - Star Wars Dodgeball! Use the Force in a movie!

Mighty Mites

3:30-4:15pm, Mondays. Northeast Library. Literature based fun for preschool ages 2 to 6 years; registration is not required. We’ll read a book and enjoy crafts, movement, or other fun activities each week. We’ll feature a different book each week. Call Call 798-6373 for details.

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Childcare Listing Guide

Happy Little Singers

9:45am, Tuesdays. Hannah Block USO/ Community Arts Center. Music and Movement program for children 6 mos to 6 years. Sing, Dance, Instruments, Creative Play with your child. Drop-ins welcome, $10 per family. Please call or text in advance 777-8889.

Kids Clapping Games

11-11:30am, Tuesdays. Main Library. Take some time to celebrate childhood through refreshingly fun and simple hand-clapping games. Clapping games are not only fun for all ages, they help improve coordination and memory skills.

Super Villain Syndicate for Teens Duct Tape Capes & Eye Masks!

6-7pm, Tuesdays. Myrtle Grove Library. Teens! Do you enjoy throwing water balloons at kids?!?! Then join the weekly SUPER VILLAIN SYNDICATE! Create your own Super Villain identity and build water warfare in preparation for battle at our Summer Reading Finale - Super Hero Fun Run! Then put your Super Villain skills to the test and throw water balloons, heave sponge bombs and flail pool noodle light sabers at kids during Super Hero Fun Run on August 8th!

Family Night at Carolina Beach Boardwalk

6:30-8:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Bring the family out for bounce house, kids activities, entertainment, raffles and more!! Featuring: No Sleeves Magic Show.

William Shakespeare’s: Taming of the Shrew 8pm. Greenfield Lake Amphitheater. see 06/08.

17 Wednesday Poplar Grove Farmers’ Market

Super Hero Training

10am-12pm, Wednesdays. Main Library. Come every week this summer to test your superhero skills on the training course. No fees or registration required. Separate craft events to make a superhero mask, cape, and cuffs will be available for the first six weeks with registration.

Make a Super Hero Mask

10-10:45am. Main Library. Create your own superhero mask. When you’re done, try out the superhero training course next door in the Masonboro room. No fees, but registration is required for the craft portion. Register at www.nhclibrary.org.

Taking Care of Your Pet

Family Movies @ Northeast Library - Alice in Wonderland 3pm. Northeast Library. Wednesdays this Summer: all movies are rated G or PG and are free and open to the public. BYO (Bring Your Own) Blankets and Spill-Proof Drinks/Snacks.

William Shakespeare’s: Taming of the Shrew 8pm. Greenfield Lake Amphitheater. see 06/08.

18 Thursday Sing Along with Julie

11-11:40am, Thursdays. Main Library. We will be singing traditional tunes and rhymes. Your children won’t care whether you can carry a tune or not. They just want to have fun singing with

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Childcare – Preschools Childcare Network 8 convenient locations in Wilmington, Southport and Leland 866-521-KIDS www.childcarenetwork.com Ages 6-weeks to 12-years The Children’s Schoolhouse Montessori 612 South College Rd. Wilmington, NC 28403 910-799-1531 www.childrensschoolhouse.org Now enrolling students ages 3-5, for 2, 3, or 5 day programs. Jenkins Preschool Academy 7888 Market St. Wilmington, NC 28411 910-367-7210 www.jpawilmington.com Half day programs 9am-12pm, 2 or 3 day classes for 2-3 yr. olds, 5-day programs for 4 y.o. And PreK Friends School of Wilmington PreK 207 Pine Grove Drive, City of Wilmington, North Carolina 28403 910-791-8221 www.fsow.org A truly unique and desirable educational experience. Montessori teaching principles are used for preschool.

Harbor United Methodist Preschool 4853 Masonboro Loop Road, Wilmington NC 28409 910-452-7202 www.harboronline.org/preschool Facebook: Harbor United Methodist Church Preschool Harbor United Methodist Church Preschool Program’s mission is to provide a loving, affirming, spiritually-led experience in a safe and developmentally appropriate environment. Our focus is to encourage a love of learning and creative thinking and to build a strong foundation for further learning and Christian development. We are a ministry of Harbor United Methodist Church. Pax Natura Academy 4202 Wilshire Blvd. Wilmington, NC 28403 910-791-2080 www.childcarenetwork.net/159 Early Foundations Infant & Toddler Programs. Preschool for 2 & 3 yo. Kindergarten Prep for 4 & 5 yo. After School Program. Wilmington Christian Academy 1401 North College Road 910-791-4248 www.wilmingtonchristian.com Ages 3 & up, WCA offers a year-round, fullday program including developmental, experiential & academic elements in a secure, faith-based environment.

Parents Night Out Carolina Gymnastics Academy 3529 Carolina Beach Rd. Wilmingon, NC 28412 910-796-1896 www.carolinagymnasticsacademy.com Friday & Saturday night, 6-10pm, for ages 3 – 10.

The Little Gym of Wilmington 132 Racine Drive, Unit 1, Wilmington, NC 238403 910-799-3771 www.tlgwilmingtonnc.com 3-12 years. The Little Gym of Wilmington Parentsʼ Survival Nights lets you enjoy some adult time to see a movie, catch up with friends or enjoy a meal. We schedule Parentsʼ Survival Nights for select Friday and Saturday evenings. Wilmington Parent | June 2015 | 13

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you. We meet at the Main Library in Story Place. Come and check it out! No fees or registration.

Child Yoga

3:30pm. Children’s Museum. Get moving the first Thursday of every month in Child Yoga. This month’s theme is “OMazing Love.” Visit www.playwilmington.org for details.

Local Superheroes: Pet and Animal Care

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3:30-4:15pm, Thursdays. Northeast Library. Junior Superheroes 6 to 12 years of age are invited to weekly programs during Summer Reading Club! This week Animal Control Officer Jodi Kerwin will tell us about pet care. No Registration required. Please note that sometimes local superheroes and presenters have to respond to a crisis and will not be able to present their program. If that happens Northeast Regional Library staff will act as their superhero substitutes for the duration of the program.

Fireworks by the Sea and Music: Junkyard Mama

6:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Enjoy free fireworks by the sea on Carolina Beach at 9:00 pm and the Classic Rock music of Junkyard Mama at 6:30 pm at the gazebo. The fireworks and gazebo entertainment are free and open to all, weather permitting. Visit www.pleasureislandnc.org for a complete summer schedule.

WECT Sounds of Summer: Machine Gun Band

6:30pm. Wrightsville Beach Park. Get ready to party by the sea as we kick-off this year’s free WECT Sounds of Summer Concert Series! Tonight make sure to let your hair flow as you head-bang to the hard rock of Machine Gun! You’re invited to bring your picnic, lawn chairs, and blankets for an evening of music and fun! Visit www.townofwrightsvillebeach.com for a complete summer schedule.

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William Shakespeare’s: Taming of the Shrew

8pm. Greenfield Lake Amphitheater. see 06/08.

19 Friday Super Hero Training

2-2:45pm, Fridays. Myrtle Grove Library. Super Hero Boot Camp (6/19) starts our summer long weekly training. June 26th - Star in a Super Hero Movie! July 10th - Vaporize a Villain! July 17th Attack of the Bubbles & Balloon Bombs! July 24th - Super Hero Water Wars! July 31st - Star Wars Dodgeball! Use the Force in a movie!

Movies at Main Library - Maleficent

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2-4pm. Main Library. When the fairy Maleficent is stripped of her wings by a man who becomes king, Maleficent curses his infant princess daughter Aurora, only to realize that Aurora may be the one person to reunite the human and fairy worlds. All movies are FREE and rated PG. Snacks and covered drinks are allowed.

Dad Can Do Anything

4-5:30pm. Learning Express, Oleander. Create a book , an unforgettable gift for Father’s Day. Hardcover book, writing and drawing prompts and all supplies included in the $8 fee. This is a drop-in event for ages 4+ with a parent or caregiver. Reservations, 910-313-3100.

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Downtown Sundown Concert Series: Dave Matthews Tribute Band

6pm. Riverfront Park. Tonight’s concert features Dave Matthews Tribute Band, a tribute to Dave Matthews. Beer, wine and food available for purchase. Rain or shine. Schedule subject to change.

Summer Concert Series: BLP

6-8pm. Airlie Gardens. We welcome BLP for an evening of dance music and lots of dancing! Concerts are open to the general public and admission is free for Airlie Members. General admission parking is offsite at the Old Cinema 6 at 5335 Oleander Drive across from Jungle Rapids. A free trolley service will run throughout the evening from the Cinema to the Gardens. Concert tickets are now available for purchase online at www.airliegardens.org and at the Airlie Gift Shop. Tickets are $9/Adults, $2/Children(4-12), Free for children under 4 years.

Mayfaire’s Music on the Town Concert Series: The Phantom Playboys

6:30pm, Fridays. Mayfaire Event Lawn. Plentiful free parking is available on site, just bring a blanket or chairs for comfort and pick something up from one of Mayfaire’s 20 eateries. This week enjoy the Swing & Rockabilly sounds of The Phantom Playboys. Our fun family friendly sponsors will be out with activities and goodies for all.

20 Saturday Carolina Beach Farmer’s Market

Riverfront Farmers’ Market

Safe & Responsible with Pets & Strays by Monty’s Home

9-10am. Children’s Museum. Appropriate age range: 4 through 10 years old and individuals with developmental disabilities. Focus: how 2 approach a dog on a leash; when 2 stay away; what 2 do if approached by a strange/loose dog; what dogs need to be happy and healthy; what is overpopulation and how can we help. Expected learning outcomes: safe behaviors around familiar/unfamiliar dogs and pet care and responsibility. Visit www.playwilmington.org for details.

Kids Music Fest

9am-12pm. Ocean Front Park, Kure Beach. NHCPL’s 2nd Annual Music Festival for Children FREE admission for the whole family. Featuring live performances by Mr. Erik, Mr. Mark, NHCPL Rap Club, 208th Army Band & Mr. Scooter! Plus rocking activities including Summer Reading Kickoff & Registration! NHCPL Rap Club Album Release Party! Kure Beach Fire Department Fire Truck! Rock Star Makeovers & Tempo-

rary Tattoos! Activities with the Children’s Museum & Fort Fisher Aquarium! Free Comic Books with Memory Lane Comics! Bubble Mania! Snow Machine Madness!

Stormfest

10am-4pm. Cape Fear Museum. Free event. Explore the science of weather with the National Weather Service, local broadcast meteorologists, and community safety experts. Engage in fun, hands-on experiments to investigate air pressure, precipitation, and wind. Present your own forecast and make weather tools you can use at home. Parental participation required. Sponsored by Time Warner Cable’s Connect A Million Minds initiative.

Special Father’s Day Storytime

11am. Barnes & Noble. Join us for a special Storytime celebration for Father’s Day featuring How to Surprise a Dad and How to Babysit a Grandpa. Call 5091880 for details.

Dad Can Do Anything

3-4:30pm. Learning Express, Oleander. Create a book , an unforgettable gift for Father’s Day. Hardcover book, writing and drawing prompts and all supplies included in the $8 fee. This is a drop-in event for ages 4+ with a parent or caregiver. Reservations, 910-313-3100.

21 Sunday- Father’s Day Boogie in the Park Concert Series: Port City Shakedown 5-7pm. Ocean Front Park, Kure Beach. Free concert series featuring The Port City Shakedown and their dance, motown, soul music. Bring your beach chair or blanket and enjoy the music!

Movies at the Lake: Annie

22 Monday Wrightsville Beach Farmer’s Market 8am-1pm, Mondays. Town of Wrightsville Beach Municipal Grounds. Through Sept. 28. This unique Farmer’s Market is the only one on the island and provides an opportunity for residents and visitors of Wrightsville Beach to purchase fresh, locally grown produce. In addition to produce vendors and various other consumables vendors, the market includes a variety of unique craft vendors.

Beautiful Butterflies

Firefighters at Main Library

11-11:45am. Main Library. Meet some of our local heroes! City of Wilmington Firefighters will read a story, show some fire fighting gear, and answer questions!

Super Hero Training

2-2:45pm, Mondays. Carolina Beach

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23 Tuesday Happy Little Singers

Beautiful Butterflies

Art Storytime

10-10:35. Myrtle Grove Library. Hear a story and paint a picture related to the book! Register at www.nhclibrary.org.

Learning Express Art Camp

10:30am. Learning Express, Oleander. For ages 5+. Design and create a paper bowl jellyfish. FREE. Reservations, 910313-3100.

Mr. Pants Author Visit

3-4pm. Myrtle Grove Library. Meet Scott McCormick, acclaimed children’s book author of the Mr. Pants series! Join us for a fun-filled reading of Mr. Pants followed by an audience-based storytelling activity concluding with a book signing.

Super Villain Syndicate for Teens Pool Noodle Light Sabers!

6:30-8:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Bring the family out for bounce house, kids activities, entertainment, raffles and more!! Featuring: No Sleeves Magic Show.

24 Wednesday Poplar Grove Farmers’ Market

Super Hero Training

Family Movies @ Northeast Library - Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day 3pm. Northeast Library. Wednesdays this Summer: all movies are rated G or PG and are free and open to the public. BYO (Bring Your Own) Blankets and Spill-Proof Drinks/Snacks.

WECT Sounds of Summer: Blivet

6:30pm. Wrightsville Beach Park. Get ready to party by the sea during the free WECT Sounds of Summer Concert Series! Tonight enjoy the sounds of Blivet! You’re invited to bring your picnic, lawn chairs, and blankets for an evening of music and fun! Visit www.townofwrightsvillebeach. com for a complete summer schedule.

Fireworks by the Sea and Music: Bakkwoods

6:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Enjoy free fireworks by the sea on Carolina Beach at 9:00 pm and the Country music of Bakkwoods at 6:30 pm at the gazebo. The fireworks and gazebo entertainment are free and open to all, weather permitting. Visit www.pleasureislandnc.org for a complete summer schedule.

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25 Thursday

9am-12pm. Children’s Museum. Join us for the messiest fun you can imagine! Celebrate International Mud Month at our annual MUD DAY event! Squish, stomp, and slide in the mud, make mud pies in our mud kitchen, explore Magic Mud and other new gooey concoctions. The mission of International Mud Month is to connect children to the joy of playing in nature; come see how we put our own Children’s Museum spin on playing in the MUD. Wear a bathing suit or old clothes and bring a towel and a change of clothes. We’ll have a rinsing area to clean off. Visit www.playwilmington.org for more information.

Sing Along with Julie

Super Hero Training

Logic Jam: Cape Fear Museum at Main Library

3-4pm. Main Library. Plug into hands-on logic puzzles as you learn to think like a computer scientist!

Snakes of NC

6-7:30pm. Halyburton Park. Ages 2 and up. Discover many species of snakes living in the coastal plain of NC during this presentation by Keith Farmer. A wide variety of snakes will be on display including venomous species.

11-11:40am, Thursdays. Main Library. We will be singing traditional tunes and rhymes. Your children won’t care whether you can carry a tune or not. They just want to have fun singing with you. We meet at the Main Library in Story Place. Come and check it out! No fees or registration.

Local Superheroes: K9 Unit

3:30-4:15pm, Thursdays. Northeast

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3:30-4:15pm. Carolina Beach Library. Meet some of our local superheroes! The New Hanover County Sheriff’s Dept. K-9 unit will bring in one of their dogs explain what they do to keep our community safe.

Family Night at Carolina Beach Boardwalk

Library. Junior Superheroes 6 to 12 years of age are invited to weekly programs during Summer Reading Club! This week Animal Control Officer Jodi Kerwin will tell us about pet care. No Registration required. Please note that sometimes local superheroes and presenters have to respond to a crisis and will not be able to present their program. If that happens Northeast Regional Library staff will act as their superhero substitutes for the duration of the program.

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K9 Unit at Carolina Beach Library

sabers at kids during Super Hero Fun Run on August 8th!

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Library. Super Hero Boot Camp (6/15) starts our summer long weekly training. June 22nd - Star in a Super Hero Movie! June 29th - Vaporize a Villain! July 13th - Attack of the Bubbles & Balloon Bombs! July 20th - Super Hero Water Wars! July 27st - Star Wars Dodgeball! Use the Force in a movie!

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Movies at Main Library - Despicable Me

2-4pm. Main Library. In his quest to be the world’s greatest villain, Gru plans to steal the Moon, then he meets his greatest challenge when he adopts three little girls to help him on his mission. All movies are FREE and rated PG. Snacks and covered drinks are allowed.

Fourth Friday Gallery Walk

6 – 9pm. Downtown Galleries & Studios. An after-hours celebration of art and culture through a self-guided tour. Free. Visit www.wilmingtondowntown.com or call 343-8997 for map of participants.

Downtown Sundown Concert Series: Funky Monks

6pm. Riverfront Park. Tonight’s concert features Funky Monks, a tribute to Red Hot Chili Peppers. Beer, wine and food available for purchase. Rain or shine. Schedule subject to change.

Summer Concert Series at Fort Fisher: Co Co Loco Party Band

6:30-8:30pm. Fort Fisher Military Recreation Area. Bring the family, some chairs or a blanket. Enjoy party band sounds of Co Co Loco Party Band during the free concert series at historic Fort Fisher.

Mayfaire’s Music on the Town Concert Series: Eastbound

6:30pm, Fridays. Mayfaire Event Lawn.Plentiful free parking is available on site, just bring a blanket or chairs for comfort and pick something up from one of Mayfaire’s 20 eateries. This week enjoy the Country sounds of Eastbound. Our fun family friendly sponsors will be out with activities and goodies for all. Visit www.mayfairetown.com/events/ concert-series for a complete summer listing.

27 Saturday Carolina Beach Farmer’s Market

Riverfront Farmers’ Market

Mud Day!

Orion and the Dark

11am. Barnes & Noble. Orion is scared of a lot of things, but most of all he’s scared of the dark.

So one night the Dark decides to take Orion on an adventure. The Dark leads Orion on a night of friendly mischief (bed bouncing!) and a trip into the very heavens where Dark reign. Call 509-1880 for details.

Play: Romeo and Juliet

2-3pm. Northeast Library. Join BareBones Performances and ‘play’ the GAME OF LOVE in this fun, interactive performance that follows the story of the famed star-crossed lovers from William Shakespeare’s ROMEO & JULIET! Complete with translations and an activity Guide. Fun for the whole family! This FREE event is made possible by Friends of the Library.

Pokemon Trading Post

3-4pm. Learning Express, Oleander. Drop in for all ages. Bring your card collection and get ready to trade.

28 Sunday Movies at the Lake: Willie Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (1971)

29 Monday K9 Unit at Main Library

11-11:45pm. Main Library. Meet some of our

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local superheroes! The New Hanover County Sheriff’s Dept. K-9 unit will bring in one of their dogs explain what they do to keep our community safe.

Super Hero Training

2-2:45pm, Mondays. Carolina Beach Library. Super Hero Boot Camp (6/15) starts our summer long weekly training. June 22nd - Star in a Super Hero Movie! June 29th - Vaporize a Villain! July 13th - Attack of the Bubbles & Balloon Bombs! July 20th - Super Hero Water Wars! July 27st - Star Wars Dodgeball! Use the Force in a movie!

30 Tuesday Super Villain Syndicate for Teens Create a Super Villain Movie! Super Villain Mugshots! Costume required.

Family Night at Carolina Beach Boardwalk

6:30-8:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Bring the family out for bounce house, kids activities, entertainment, raffles and more!! Featuring the band: Lynne and The Wave.

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Great Dates

for Dads and Daughters

By Beth N. Davis

o you want to take your daughter out but aren’t quite sure how to plan an activity that you will both enjoy? If you are looking to stray from the traditional dinner and a movie, try one of the following activities with your daughter. If you find comfort in numbers, invite along another father and daughter to join you.

Enjoy the Great Outdoors. Enjoying the great outdoors with your daughter will give her an appreciation for nature. Take your daughter for a walk along a river or lake. Lie down in the grass and make out shapes in the clouds. Take a hike. Along your walk you may be able to find a spot to take her fishing and bait her hook for her. Have a picnic in the park and feed birds. Skips rocks along a lake or climb a tree. Watch a sunrise or a sunset from a favorite spot. The outdoor opportunities to spend time together are plentiful.

Get Sporty Outside. Aside from attending sporting events, which may not thrill a non-sporty daughter, there are many outdoor activities that the two of you can do. Go disc golfing or for a bike ride. Try miniature golfing and only keep score if it makes it more fun. Go on a paddle boat, canoe, or kayak but don’t rock the boat. If you must take her to a sporting event, make sure to treat her to cotton candy.

Channel Your Altruism. Teach your daughter the value of helping oth-

Foodie Fun. Whether you are the world’s best chef or a novice in the

ers by volunteering together. Whether you decide to visit a nursing home, serve at a homeless shelter or pick up trash, your daughter will see you as a helper of others when you volunteer. Ask her what causes are important to her or share with her what causes are important to you.

Go Wild! Take your dogs for a walk around the neighborhood or, if you don’t have any pets, visit a pet store. She may want to take home a new friend so be sure you know what you’re getting into. For an unforgettable good time, take her horseback riding. If you have the option, visit a local zoo and really go wild! History’s Mysteries. History isn’t just about dates and places. It is about the people who lived through the significant events of that time. Tour a local historical spot and learn about the people who lived and worked 16 | June 2015 | Wilmington Parent

then. Personal history counts too. Take her to where you grew up or make a time capsule and bury it someplace only the two of you know.

kitchen, food can be fun. Try some international cuisine or plan and make a meal together. Cooking and connecting will nourish your body and your soul.

At Home. If you’re not up for going out, you can still connect with your daughter at home. Play some interactive video games such as Wii sports or Let’s Dance. Send the rest of the family out and snuggle up to watch a movie or a show of her choosing. Spend some time with her in her room playing with her toys. You might be surprised at how much fun you’ll have. Whatever you decide, make sure the activity is fun for both of you and you will be making memories in no time. v Beth N. Davis writes from Silver Spring, MD where she and her husband are raising their four children, including three daughters.

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Product Review

Summertime Fun Reviews Magnolia Tropical Flavors Ice Cream

an’t make it to the Philippines this summer? Order some of these exotic tropical flavors, use a little imagination, and you might fool yourself! We gathered some kids together for a taste-testing of some very unusual ice cream flavors. Honestly, I figured they would chicken out on the Avocado Ice Cream, but everyone was brave enough to try each flavor. Even the adults. There were some familiar tastes, like Mango and Coconut, but they had a unique twist - they tasted real. Not like sweetened coconut, it tasted like cold coconut. I appreciate realness in my food. One little tester, 7 year old Neeka, said “I liked Mango because it actually tastes like mango and it’s very sweet”. She did say that she would pass next time on the Halo Halo Ice Milk Bars. Neeka says, “It tastes weird and has beans in it”. This one was a little adventurous, but it is a genuine Filipino summer treat. The beans were Azuki Beans and were mixed with coconut, jackfruit, and purple yam. The Avocado and Purple Yam did not sound appetizing, but ended up being some of the kids’ favorite flavors! You never know what your kids will like if you give them a chance to be food adventurers! If you want to give these flavors a try, visit www.magnoliaplease.com and contact a sales person about ordering your own trip to the Philippines.

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Educational Summertime Games

t’s always a little easier to get kids learning over the summer if they are having fun. With these games, they probably won’t even realize they are acquiring skills they can use in the upcoming school year!

World of Madagascar This is a FREE game that kids can play on the computer or on a mobile device. A 3D online world based on DreamWorks’ most recent Penguins of Madagascar film. This game offers grade-specific quests that teach players language arts skills based on four levels, Kindergarden-3rd grade -while they get to engage with their beloved Penguin super spies to defeat the evil Dr. Octavius Brine. Play World of Madagascar free online at http:// www.jumpstart.com/world-of-madagascar/

Reduce, Reuse,

Recycle

Now recycle me after the match!

School of Dragons: Alchemy Adventure Based on the DreamWorks Animation film How to Train Your Dragon, JumpStart’s School of Dragons: Alchemy Adventure is the first learning-based Match-3 style game. The game enables players to learn about the Periodic Table of Elements and match elements to form compounds (instead of mindlessly matching candy or jewels like in similar games) in a fun - and educational - experience. School of Dragons: Alchemy Adventure is currently available for free in the App Store, Google Play, Amazon, and Facebook, and is coming soon to Windows® v

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Recycle More with the City of Wilmington wilmingtonnc.gov/recycling 910.341.7875

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Solving the Child Care Puzzle

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here are only 2,000 days between the time a baby is born and when that child begins kindergarten, and experiences during that time have a lasting impact on later learning, health and success. In New Hanover County over 5,500 children live in a home where both parents work. For those working parents, that means finding a caregiver they can trust to properly care for and teach their child during a time of critical brain development. Choosing a high-quality early childcare setting for your young child may help put your child on a path to success in school and life. Smart Start Smart Start of New Hanover County is committed to ensuring the welfare and future success of our youngest children. “We collaborate with a network of community services on behalf of children and their families in order to ensure that every child has the opportunity to enter school prepared for success,” says Krista Turner, Education Services Manager at Smart Start of New Hanover County. PUZZLES Smart Start PUZZLES Center is a program that provides parents with a variety of resources and assistance in finding child care. Finding child care for does not need to be stressful. PUZZLES provides parents with information about choosing quality care, listings of local child care businesses that fit your personal needs, and help with understanding the Star Rating System. How Can PUZZLES Help? Counselors at PUZZLES provide invaluable help to parents by phone, email, and in person. “We can help you meet the individual needs of your family while taking into consideration preferences such as location, care for infants and toddlers, hours of operation and care for children with special needs,” says Turner. For a $5 annual fee, the Family Resource Room membership includes access to: • Theme-based kits with educational toys and materials • CD music library • Storybooks on tape • Baby slings and wraps • Infant massage kit • Food mill with healthy recipes • A two week trial membership to the Wilmington Children’s Museum • A wide variety of other books and materials available for check out For the kids, there is a fun and safe area for children to play while parents browse through the large selection of resources.

Choosing Childcare Pros and Cons PUZZLES can help you sort through all the different programs in your area and assist you in choosing a child care program that best fits your family. Here are a few options:

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Photos of children who are playing with a water play kit they checked out from our PUZZLES resource room.

By Danielle Villegas

Child Care Center: Pros – prepares children for a larger group setting which is similar to a Kindergarten classroom. Similarly aged children grouped together allows for teachers to plan age appropriate daily schedules and lessons. Cons – Sometimes there can be a high teacher turnover rate. High staff/ child ratio could lead to less one-on-one attention and less flexibility. Family Child Care Home: Pros – Home-like atmosphere with more flexibility. Lower staff/child ratios. When care setting includes children of different ages, skills, and abilities there is a potential to lead to increased empathy. Cons – Only one provider means there is not a back-up care provider. So if they are sick or take a vacation parents need to find alternate care for a day or so. Nanny: Pros – One-on-one attention. Less disruption and transition for the child during the day. Cons – Nanny agencies have their own qualifications and education requirements for their employees. However, they are not required to meet state licensing and accreditation requirements. Possibility for decreased socialization. Typically more expensive. What to Look For The right caregiver for your child during this critical development period is someone who will: • Enhance social-emotional skills in young children: working through conflicts together, describing feelings, teaching and modeling empathy, etc. • Provide activities and a schedule that reflect the learning through play philosophy. • Be actively engaged by talking to your child throughout the day, and playing with them while introducing them to a variety of materials. • Provide a balance of active and quiet times / indoor and outdoor times each day • Follow good health practices and teach your child to do the same. • Use teaching time to sing songs, encourage a love of books, expose your child to different drawing/writing utensils, and begin teaching early literacy. • Adhere to legal staff/child ratios at all times. • Encourage family involvement. • Strive to reduce caregiver turnover and encourage higher education among staff. For more information and to obtain useful child care checklists, Call: New Hanover County (910) 815-3731, Pender County (910) 259-9978, Brunswick County (910) 755-3362, or Columbus County (910) 642-8189 Email: krista.turner@newhanoverkids.org, or mebane.boyd@newhanoverkids.org Visit: www.newhanoverkids.org/puzzles v

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WILMINGTON Christian Academy

High School • Middle School • Elementary School • Preschool

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Join us this summer for classes and camps beginning June 8th!

The Little Gym of Wilmington

132 Racine Drive, Unit 1 Wilmington, NC 28403

www.tlgwilmingtonnc.com 910-799-3771

Wilmington Christian Academy is a fully accredited school offering an incredible education at an affordable price. Serving students in preschool through high school, WCA has a rich history of excellence in academics, athletics, and fine arts in an environment that encourages spiritual growth. From phonics-based reading in elementary to college credit, honors and AP classes in high school, WCA offers all students the tools they need to succeed. www.wilmingtonchristian.com • 1401 N. College Rd • 910.791.4248

Most popular gym in town! www.carolinagymnasticsacademy.com • 3529 Carolina Beach Road • 910-796-1896 www.wilmingtonparent.com

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When Grandma is the Caregiver

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By Sandra Gordon

ven if your mom has always been there for you, given the rising cost of childcare, daycare tuition and pretty much everything else related to raising a family, you may be relying on her support more than ever. According to a recent study by the National Association of Child Care Resource & Referral Agencies, many grandparents are to helping to defray the cost of their grandchildren’s full time childcare by being the childcare providers, either full or part-time. It can be a big help. In 36 states, the cost of fulltime daycare is now higher than a year’s tuition at a four-year public college. Grandparents fit a niche that a babysitter doesn’t because they have a vested interest in your child. Still, as much as you need and value the assistance, family contributions can be a source of conflict and confusion.

Family Matters Set clear boundaries. No matter how grateful you are that your parents or in-laws provide childcare, they still need to follow your parenting rules. Team up with your spouse to present a united front. You might say something like, “When the kids are with you as a grandparent, you can do what you want in your home. But when you’re acting as a caregiver here, this is what we need you to do and we’re wondering if you’re okay with it?” Or better yet, write your household rules down so your parents don’t forget. Express them nicely, of course, so no one gets offended. Defining your expectations from the onset gives the arrangement a foundation you can refer to if the rules aren’t followed. Have a back-up plan. Formulate a plan B in case your parents (or in-laws)

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don’t follow your parenting rules or you get the feeling they don’t really want to babysit even though they’ve agreed to. Without a plan B, your parents’ help can feel like extortion as in: We have to have them babysit because we can’t afford anything else. Can you cut back somewhere in your budget to pay for, say—at least part-time daycare if you had to? Just knowing you have options can help preserve your relationship if things don’t work out. If it comes to that with your childcare arrangement, you might say, for example, “We decided we’d rather you be a grandparent than a caregiver because that’s more important to us”. Payback with appreciation. Whether your parents or in-laws graciously provide childcare or help pay for things your family needs, such as daycare tuition, be sure to reciprocate in nonfinancial ways. Tell them how much you appreciate their support, even if it’s unsolicited. Acknowledgement is so important. It needs to be verbal, but you don’t have to gush. You might say, for example, “I hope you don’t feel like you have to do this, but we appreciate it.” Other small gestures, such as sending an occasional thank you note can mean a lot too. “If you really want to score points with your mother-in-law, put a photo of her with your kids somewhere in your house,” says Linda Della Donna, 63, a grandmother of Hunter, 2, and Zoey, 1, who babysits for them weekly. Inviting your parents/in-laws over for dinner occasionally or including them on family outings is also a nice way to give back and to let them know you value them and their contributions. v

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Childcare – Preschools Childcare Network

8 convenient locations in Wilmington, Southport and Leland 866-521-KIDS www.childcarenetwork.com Ages: 6-weeks to 12-years

The Children’s Schoolhouse Montessori

612 S. College Road Wilmington Lucy Hieronymus 910-799-1531 lhieronymus@aol.com www.childrensschoolhouse.org Ages: 3 years to 6 years Availability: Call for details Wilmington’s Oldest Montessori School, 30 years of excellence, also offering Montessori Marine Science Camp.

Friends School of Wilmington PreK

Jenkins Preschool Academy

7888 Market Street Wilmington 28411 Contact: Alethea Jenkins 910-367-0287 momofktj@aol.com

Special Kids The July 2015 issue of Wilmington Parent Magazine will feature our annual resource guide devoted to Special Needs children. With articles, resources, tips, and provider listings of local businesses and organizations that serve the special needs population in Brunswick, New Hanover and Pender counties.

opmental, experiential & academic elements in a secure, faith-based environment. Phonics-based reading instruction and strong math skills are combined with many extra fine arts and age-appropriate physical/sports activities to create a comprehensive learning experience.

Harbor United Methodist Preschool

4853 Masonboro Loop Road, Wilmington NC 28409 910-452-7202 www.harboronline.org/preschool Facebook: Harbor United Methodist Church Preschool Harbor United Methodist Church Preschool Program’s mission is to provide a loving, affirming, spiritually-led experience in a safe and developmentally appropriate environment. Our focus is to encourage a love of learning and creative thinking and to build a strong foundation for further learning and Christian development. We are a ministry of Harbor United Methodist Church.

Pax Natura Academy

4202 Wilshire Blvd. Wilmington, NC 28403 910-791-2080 www.childcarenetwork.net/159 Early Foundations Infant & Toddler Programs. Preschool for 2 & 3 yo. Kindergarten Prep for 4 & 5 yo. After School Program.

Wilmington Christian Academy

1401 North College Road Dr. Cathy Dotson 910-791-4248 info@wilmingtonchristian.com www.wilmingtonchristian.com Ages 3 & up Call for availability WCA offers a year-round, full-day program including devel-

Parents Night Out Carolina Gymnastics Academy

3529 Carolina Beach Rd. Wilmingon, NC 28412 910-796-1896 www.carolinagymnasticsacademy.com Friday & Saturday night, 6-10pm, for ages 3 – 10.

The Little Gym of Wilmington

132 Racine Drive, Unit 1, Wilmington, NC 238403 910-799-3771 www.tlgwilmingtonnc.com 3-12 years. The Little Gym of Wilmington Parentsʼ Survival Nights lets you enjoy some adult time to see a movie, catch up with friends or enjoy a meal. We schedule Parentsʼ Survival Nights for select Friday and Saturday evenings.

Come Grow with Us!

Pax Natura develops school readiness skills, fosters curiosity and fun, and brings focus to: • Nature & Eco-conscious Efforts • Character & Leadership Development • Diversity & Respect for All • Community Involvement

Early Foundations Infant & Toddler Programs • Preschool for 2 & 3 years olds • Kindergarten Prep for 4 & 5 year olds • After School Programs

4202 Wilshire Blvd. Wilmington• (910) 791-2080 • www.childcarenetwork.net/159

For more information, contact: Andrea Knight 910-632-0283 andreailmparent@gmail.com Nancy Lievre 910-240-3461 nancywilmparent@gmail.com www.wilmingtonparent.com

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207 Pine Grove Drive, City of Wilmington, North Carolina 28403 Ann Souder 910-791-8221 www.fsow.org Friends School of Wilmington inspires a love of learning from Montessori preschool through 8th grade. Our academically vigorous program is culturally enriched with art, music and foreign language. Active outdoor time is prioritized through nature study, field trips and PE. Nurtured and challenged, our students develop into confident, engaged thinkers.

www.jpawilmington.com Ages: 2-4/preK Availability: limited for all age groups Comments: Also offer summer camp sessions; Call for a tour. Voted a Wilmington Parent Family Favorite 2 years in a row!

Youth Acting Summer Camp Mon. June 22nd - Fri. June 26th. 9am-12pm. Ages 8 & up! We will focus on: On-Camera Audition Technique, Cold Reading, About the Industry, The Casting Process, Headshots/Resumes, and much more.... Spots are limited!

(818) 939-4825 info@actorsarsenal.com 6336 Oleander Drive. Ste 5

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Actor’s Arsenal Youth Acting Summer Camp

6336 Oleander Drive, Suite 5 Wilmington, NC 28403 818-939-4825 www.actorsarsenal.com info@actorsarsenal.com Ages: 8 & up! Session dates: Mon. June 22nd - Fri. June 26th. 9am-12pm. Description: Focus on Camera Audition Technique, Cold Reading, About the Industry, the Casting Process, Headshots/Resumes, and much more.... Spots are limited!

Carolina Gymnastics Academy

3529 Carolina Beach Road Wilmington, NC 28412 910-796-1896 www.carolinagymnasticsacademy.com Ages: 3-10, Boys & Girls Session dates: June 15th - August 21st Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Full Day 8:00am-6pm & Half Day 9:00am-1pm Categories for camps: Sports & Free Play , Adventure Camp Description: Campers stay busy and active in our Outdoor Recreation Area, Gym and Afterschool Building. Gymnastics Circuit, Bouncy houses, gymnastics free play, and in/outside active play. Field trips to area parks & pools. Campers bring lunch and 2 snacks from home.

Childcare Network Adventure Summer Camp

Wilmington, Leland, and Southport 866-521-KIDS www.childcarenetwork.net Ages: 6 weeks to 12 years Session dates: Full Summer Transportation provided: Yes, but call each school for availability Type of camp: Summer, Full Day Categories for camps: arts, adventure, science, sports and/or academics Description: Full day summer camp. 6:30am to 6:00pm, weekly field trips and daily activities,weekly trips to the pool, visit our website for more information

Children’s Schoolhouse Montessori Reading and Mathematics with A focus on Marine Science ( Beginning levels- advanced)

Let’s engineer together this summer! registration now open uncw.edu/youth 910.962.2640

An EEO/AA Institution

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612 South College Road (across from UNCW) 910-799-1531 www.childrensschoolhouse.net Ages: 3 1/2 - 6 years Session Dates: May 21 - June 11 (3 weeks) Transportation: No Type of camp: Half Day/Extended 9-1 or (9-2:30 for older child) Categories for camps: Marine Science, Arts, Music and academics. Outside environment Description: Great fun exploring our exciting marine environment with lessons in reading and math. Daily themes in marine science, music with instruments and fun with art projects. Children bring a lunch and a snack each day.

Jenkins Preschool Academy Summer Camps

7888 Market Street 910-367-0287 www.jpawilmington.com Ages: 3-5 (must be potty trained) Session dates: Under the Sea June 22-26, Rainforest Adventures July 27-31, Dynamic Dinosaurs August 10-14 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Half day 9-1 www.wilmingtonparent.com

Categories for camps: Arts/crafts, Music & Games Description: Weekly session has a theme fun

adventure using their with children using imaginations. Need to bring snack, lunch and a drink daily. Outdoor and indoor activities.

The Little Gym of Wilmington

Summer Camps for ages 3-5

UNCW MarineQuest

601 S College Rd Wilmington, NC 28403 910-962-2640 www.uncw.edu/marinequest/index.html Ages: 4 - 17 Session dates: June 14, 2015 – August 7, 2015 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Summer, half-day commuter, full-day commuter, full-day residential Categories for camps: marine science Description: MarineQuest summer camps are designed to make the learning process fun and engaging while providing real hands-on, field-based opportunities for students ages 4 to 17.

UNCW Engineering Expectations

601 S College Rd Wilmington, NC 28403 910-962-2640 uncw.edu/youth/programs/ summerengineering.html Ages: 6 - 14 Session dates: June 15, 2015 – July 31, 2015 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Summer, half-day commuter, full-day commuter Categories for camps: engineering Description: Engineering Expectations is designed to hook kids on engineering by engaging them in creative thinking and out-of-the-box problem solving.

Wilmington Christian Academy Summer Day Camp

1401 North College Road 910-791-4248 ext. 122 www.wilmingtonchristian.com Ages: 4-year-olds through 8th grade Session dates: June 1- August 7, 2015 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Weekly adventure camp Categories for camps: adventure Description: Summer Day Camp provides a recreational day camp for children of parents who need www.wilmingtonparent.com

Call for more info

367-0287 (910) 367-0287 I www.jpawilmington.com I 7888 Market St summer childcare. Daily activities include field trips to area businesses and sites of interest.

Wilmington Christian Academy Sports Camps

1401 North College Road 910-791-4248 ext. 122 www.wilmingtonchristian.com Ages: 4-year-olds through 8th grade Session dates: June 1- August 7, 2015 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Weekly, half-day sports camps Categories for camps: sports Description: WCA offers weekly sports camps in basketball, golf, soccer, volleyball, fitness, and ballet. Excellent facilities and enthusiastic coaches create an enjoyable summer.

Wilmington Christian Academy Enrichment Camps

1401 North College Road 910-791-4248 ext. 122 www.wilmingtonchristian.com Ages: 4-year-olds through 8th grade Session dates: June 1- August 7, 2015 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Weekly enrichment camps Categories for camps: science, technology, academic Description: WCA provides week long, half-day enrichment camps. There are camps in technology, science, culinary arts, woodworking, STEM, art, and much more.

The YMCA’s Youth Day Camp at Wilmington Family YMCA

2710 Market St. Wilmington, NC 28403 (910) 251-9622 x257 www.wilmingtonfamilyymca.org Ages: 3-15 Session dates: June 15-June 19, June 22-27, June29-July 3, July 6-10, July 13-17, July 20-24, July 27-31, August 3-7, August 10-14, August 17-21 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Full Day Camps & Half Day Camps Categories for camps: Summer Camp, Leaders in Training Camp & Preschool Day Camp Description: The Y offers a classic summer camp experience filled with a variety of activities for children to learn new sports & games, create arts & crafts, make friends, swim, and have fun!

The YMCA’s Youth Sports Camps

2710 Market St. Wilmington, NC 28403 (910) 251-9622 x229 www.wilmingtonfamilyymca.org Ages: 3-16 Session dates: June 15-June 19, June 22-27, June29July 3, July 6-10, July 13-17, July 20-24, July 27-31, August 3-7, August 10-14, August 17-21 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Full Day Camps & Half Day Camps & Residential Camps Categories for camps: Soccer Camp, Basketball Camp, Volleyball Camp, Baseball Camp Description: The Y’s Sports Camps focus on developWilmington Parent | June 2015 | 23

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132 Racine Drive, Unit 1 910-799-3771 www.tlgwilmingtonnc.com Ages: 3-12 years Session dates: April 6-10th (Spring Break); June 8th- August 21st (Summer) Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Summer, Full and Half-Day Categories for camps: Sports/ Cheerleading/ Gymnastics Description: Day camp for kids at The Little Gym is as great as youʼd imagine! These three hour camps are held during vacation times when schoolʼs not in session. Our seasonal and vacation camps combine physical activity, gymnastics and games for gigglefilled fun!

Calling All Aspiring Percussionists! Are you looking to enhance your skills? Then come to Percussion Camp Learn proper techniques, build your chops, and learn to play drums like a pro! Hosted by Joey's Little Julliards At the Wow Factor Building 107 Cinema Dr. Wilmington Call (910)620-8455 Or email at joeyslittlejulliards@gmail.com Visit at joeyslittlejulliards.com

ing skills while learning the importance of teamwork, and good sportsmanship to promote the development of the whole athlete.

The YMCA’s Youth Day Camp at Temple Baptist Activity Center

709 George Anderson Wilmington, NC 28403 (910) 251-9622 x255 www.wilmingtonfamilyymca.org Ages: 5-15 Session dates: June 15-June 19, June 22-27, June29-July 3, July 6-10, July 13-17, July 20-24, July 27-3, August 3-, August 10-14, August 17-21 Transportation provided: No Type of camp: Full Day Camps & Half Day Camps Categories for camps: Youth Day Camp, Leaders in Training Camp Description: The Y offers a classic summer camp experience filled with a variety of activities for children to learn new sports & games, create arts & crafts, make friends, swim, and have fun!

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The YMCA’s Youth Day Camp at Calvary Baptist Church- Shallotte

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Safer Sun for Everyone: enjoy summer without getting burned By Malia Jacobson

unscreens are now part of most kids’ summer routines, but that doesn’t mean that all kids are perfectly protected. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, sunscreens are often less effective than parents think, because they aren’t applied correctly. And parents sometimes skip protecting dark-skinned children and tiny babies. Here’s how to get the best-possible sun protection for your brood, starting now.

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Sun protection isn’t just for freckle-faced, blue-eyed kids, says Adelaide A. Hebert, M.D., professor and director of pediatric dermatology at the University of Texas Health Science Center. The sun doesn’t miss anyone; sunburns may not be as visible on kids with darker complexions, but that doesn’t mean they don’t need SPF. Children with darker skin need to take the same sun safety precautions as their lighter-skinned pals.

Choose Well Forget about the multitude of subcategories and formulations, and focus on the two main types of sunscreens: chemical and physical. Chemical sunscreens like Coppertone actually absorb ultraviolet radiation. Many conventional sunscreens fall into this category. Physical sunblocks like those made by California Baby are made with ingredients that physically block the sun’s rays. They’re becoming increasingly popular with parents seeking a more natural option. The safest option, says Hebert, is to use both. Look for a combination product, like those made by Bull Frog or Helioplex. Or buy two, a conventional sunscreen and a physical sunblock, and layer them.

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To get the full benefit of sunscreen, your application needs to be up to par. Many people don’t use enough, and sun protection is compromised further by water play, toweling off, even windy conditions. For best results, apply every two hours to clean, dry skin. The best time to apply the first coat is in the morning, when conditions are still cool, because sunblock won’t adhere as well to sweaty skin. Hebert recommends that parents of young babies look for sunscreens containing zinc oxide or titanium dioxide, a common ingredient in diaper creams. If parents are safely using titanium dioxide to treat diaper rash, a sunscreen that containing the same ingredients probably won’t cause an adverse reaction, she says.

Protective Fashion Photoprotective clothing is the next wave of sun protection. Brands like Coolibar, the first line to be certified by the Skin Cancer Foundation, offer clothing that blocks out 97 percent of the sun’s UV rays. These garments are great options, says Hebert, but any tightly woven, dark clothing will protect kids from the sun. To raise the protection factor for regular clothing, the Skin Cancer Foundation recommends Rit Sun Guard. This laundry additive washes into fabric, giving clothing an ultraviolet protection factor (UPC) of 30 for at least 20 launderings. v Malia Jacobson is a nationally published health journalist and mom. Her latest book is Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers & Preschoolers Sleep Well Without Tears, Tricks, or Tirades.

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school notes Lake Forest Academy Teacher Named Children’s Champion by Smart Start

School’s Out! New Hanover County: Traditional Schools: 6/11 - Half Day, Last day of school Year Round Schools: 6/18 - Half Day, Last day of school CFCI Charter School: 6/9 - Half Day, Last day of school IBEC: 6/5 - Half Day, Last day of school Brunswick: Traditional Schools:

Kristie Bundy Shaffer, a special needs kindergarten teacher at Lake Forest Academy, has been named a Smart Start Children’s Champion. The Smart Start of New Hanover County Children’s Champion Award recognizes deserving individuals for their exceptional service to young children and their families in New Hanover County. Nominations are solicited from the public and a committee of Smart Start Board of Director members selects one or two winners to receive the “champion” award. About Ms. Shaffer Ms. Shaffer is currently in her twenty-ninth year in education. In addition to teaching, she tutors and mentors through the Department of Social Services Adoptive Assistance Program, which provides mental health intervention through community service. She tutors pre-kindergarten and kindergarten children from the community in reading. Along with tutoring the children, Ms. Shaffer also works to educate their parents on how to help their child be an active learner, how to communicate their child’s educational needs, and the importance of extracurricular activities. A single parent of four, Ms. Shaffer also fosters children from the community. Understanding the importance of early intervention to a child’s future development, she works diligently with each child to advocate for them to meet each of their individual needs and collaborates with medical personnel, social services, schools, daycares, guardian ad litems, and contracted therapists to serve the children she fosters.

6/10 - Half Day, Last day of school Roger Bacon Academy: 6/11 - Half Day, Last day of school Pender: Traditional Schools: 6/11 - Half Day, Last day of school Penderlea: 6/4 - Half Day, Last day of school Visit www.nhcs.net, www.co.brunswick.k12.nc.us or www.pendercountyschools.net for more information.

Hoggard Student Awarded Prestigious Morehead-Cain Scholarship Aisling Henihan of Hoggard High School has been awarded the prestigious Morehead-Cain Scholarship by the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. The Morehead-Cain Scholarship covers all expenses for four years of undergraduate study at UNC-Chapel Hill. In addition, it features a distinctive program of summer enrichment experiences designed to support students as they learn and grow. During the course of four summers, scholars will have opportunities to complete an outdoor leadership course, commit themselves to public service in the U.S. or abroad, conduct research at sites around the world, and gain experience in private enterprise. Aisling Henihan will graduate in June 2015. She is a member of student council and Beta Club, in which she organizes service events and tracks volunteers’ hours. Aisling is also a talented dancer and she has performed in several productions and attended summer programs with the Carolina Ballet and American Ballet Theatre. Aisling enjoys learning about English and social sciences and may pursue a career in public policy or law. For more information on the Morehead-Cain Scholarship, visit www.moreheadcain.org.

Three New Hanover County Schools Receive Grants from the Statewide Community Garden Network New Hanover County Cooperative Extension and Feast Down East announced that three New Hanover County schools are the winners of $200 mini-grants given by the North Carolina Community Garden Partners (NCCGP) as part of their Gardeners Recreating Our World (GROW) project. Award recipients include Bellamy Elementary School, Myrtle Grove Middle School and Wrightsboro Elementary School. The schools will use the grant funds to build and/or enhance school and community gardens The grant requires the recipients to provide education to others in their community about the materials and share information that they learned while attending the GROW workshop, which was held at the New Hanover County Cooperative Extension Office in November 2014. Projects will provide education to the community by building school and community gardens and using those gardens as learning environments for students and community members. Funding from the Burt’s Bees Greater Good Foundation and Resourceful Communities, a program of The Conservation Fund and Z. Smith Reynolds Foundation made the grants possible. Feast Down East, Iredell County Farm Bureau and NC Cooperative Extension each contributed $200 for a project in their areas. The grants help NCCGP to meet a goal of increasing the number of community gardens in North Carolina that are practicing environmentally-friendly gardening techniques. For more information about the NCCGP GROW workshops and mini-grants, visit the NCCGP website at www.NCCGP.org.

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Get Your Kids to Eat More Veggies If you have a picky eater, vegetables can be a hard sell. Encouraging healthy eating requires consistency and persistence from parents, and it won’t be easy. But if you’re willing to stick to your guns, you should come out triumphant in the end. 1. Set an example By far the best predictor of a child’s eating behavior is the eating patterns of her parents. 2. Make food fun Kids love to play make believe. They also love games. Broccoli can be intimidating to a kid hoping for macaroni and cheese. But if he is a dinosaur who needs to eat five miniature trees in order to outrun a tyrannosaurus rex, suddenly those florets are a lot more interesting. 3. Get them involved Taking your kids with you to the farmers market or grocery store and letting them pick one or two things to cook for dinner can make them far more excited to eat it later. 4. Enforce the “one bite rule” Research consistently shows that children who have initially rejected a food must be exposed to it at least 8-10 times for the food to be accepted. 5. Don’t force them to finish 5. Arrange food in patterns on the plate If you shape it into a heart or smiley face, they’ll like it even more. This is another way to make food fun. 6. Stick with it Some children will be more difficult than others, and will require more effort and patience. It’s important to realize, however, that the habits they develop at a young age will remain with them long into adulthood. Source: www.summertomato.com

Rip Current Awareness Did you know, the greatest fear of many beachgoers is sharks—just mentioning the word conjures up a mixture of fear and fascination in the human psyche. In reality, only one person on average is killed annually in the United States by sharks, which pales in comparison to the 100+ people who drown and tens of thousands of swimmers who struggle in the deadly rip currents each year. Clearly rips are the real killers. Yet most people do not even think about rip currents, much less fear their power or even know how to recognize them. Rip Currents are powerful currents of water moving away from shore, capable of sweeping even the strongest swimmers out to sea and are often called “killer currents” for a good reason. What are the warning signs? • Change in water color from surrounding water (either murkier from sediments, seaweed, and flotsam, or darker because of the depth of the underwater channel where the rip flows) • Gap in the breaking waves, where the rip is forcing its way seaward through the surf zone • Agitated (choppy) surface that extends beyond the breaker zone. • Floating objects moving steadily seaward • Temperature of water--water in the rip may be colder than surrounding water. What to do if caught in a rip current • Never panic. Try to float by lying on your back and treading water. • Don’t fight the current by trying to swim against it. If necessary, ride it out. Remember, the strength and energy of a rip current will eventually dissipate. • Swim parallel or at an angle to shore until you feel the current weakening. • Once the current weakens, swim toward shore in a relaxed manner while trying to breathe normally and not hyperventilate. • If lifeguards are visible, wave your arms and yell for help. Sources: www.ripcurrents.noaa.gov; www.ripcurrents.com

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peanut gallery

Savannah K. 6/13• 2yo

Declan P. 5/16•7yo

Andrea B. • 8yo

Nathan H. 6/30• 4yo

Bailey G. 6/1• 3yo

Caleb B. 6/26•4yo

Soleil D. 6/1• 4yo

Fiona H. 6/2• 5yo

Ariana 6/4• 1yo

Sara Roze N. 6/23• 1yo

Connor 6/6• 3yo

Jack M. 6/15• 4yo

Dylan W. 6/8• 5yo

Harrison 6/20• 2yo

Avery G. 6/4• 2yo

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6/20• 3yo

Marco 6/20• 2yo

Eleanor B. 6/15• 8yo

Pierce-Amory. Y. 6/30• 7yo

Does your child or grandchild have a birthday iN July? Honor them by having their photo published in Wilmington Parent. Here's how: e-mail image (size not to exceed 1mb) to birthday@wilmingtonparent.com. Deadline for publication: 06/15. We have a limited number of spots, so if you sent your child’s picture and do not see it this issue, please check back next month! 28 | June 2015 | Wilmington Parent

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