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Wilmington's Oldest Montessori School The Children's Schoolhouse
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veryone loves a party! In this month’s issue you’ll find fun advice on planning a memorable birthday celebration. We have information on all types of party venues and ideas: gymnastics, glamour parties, educational & toy stores, inflatable rentals, and even an entertainer – Melvin Dewey, the library rapper! If you’re feeling super adventurous and are considering a sleepover party, the article “Do’s and Don’ts for Slumber Party Success”, written by Kerrie McLaughlin, is a great place to start. Don’t forget the cake! This birthday issue, you will also find local businesses that offer specialty cakes, desserts, and an ice cream alternative that will give your party that extra boost towards success! Do you have a drama queen or king on your hands? Well, Ms. Rebecca Rockow, the manager of Thalian Association Children’s Theater, knows just how you feel. She has a theater full of imaginative and creative little thespians, and she’s been enjoying every minute! The feature article “Teaching Kids Through Theater” tells all about her exciting and ambitious plans to bring the full theater experience to the children of Wilmington! Thank you to all who attended our annual Education Fair/Childcare Expo! For any that missed the opportunity to gather information on area schools, please visit our website for listings, an interactive map, and virtual open houses. Coming up at the beginning of next month, our 9th Annual Summer Camp Fair! This free event will offer opportunities to explore different camps and summer enrichment programs. So mark your calendar now, March 3rd 9am-3pm at UNCW Warwick Center, and be sure to bring the kids!
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To Kill a Mockingbird Thalian Association presents the popular stage version of this Pulitzer Prizewinning novel and Oscar-winning movie. Don’t miss one of the most inspiring American classics on the main stage of beautiful Thalian Hall. Performance dates are February 2 – 4 at 8pm and February 5 at 3pm. Tickets are $25. Contact (910) 632-2285 or visit www. thalianhall.com for more information and ticket purchases.
Best Birthday Parties in Wilmington! NC Jazz Festival Don’t miss the 32nd Annual Event of one of the oldest jazz festivals in the country! The festivities will be held from February 2 through February 4 at the Hilton Wilmington Riverside Ballroom and will feature jazz musicians from the US, Australia, Italy and Canada. Concerts begin at 7:30 pm each evening. Visit www.ncjazzfestival.com or contact (910) 793-1111 for festival information and ticket purchases. Patron Tickets: $175 (includes Friday & Saturday concerts plus preferred reserved seating, patron brunch & name in the program) $200 (includes all of the above plus the Thursday night special event concert) General Admission Tickets: Thursday - $35
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growing up online
y now everyone knows that Facebook has introduced a new feature called Timeline. The redesign turns each Facebook page into a virtual scrapbook that includes everything a person has ever done or said on Facebook. Not surprisingly, many teens think this is great. Aside from the expansive new layout, they love the idea of creating a narrative in which they play the
curating your own Timeline if you’re a Facebook user. Or visit Facebook for a quick overview of what’s possible www.facebook. com/about/timeline. Then use Timeline to underscore the following life lessons:
Put your best foot forward. Timeline opens with a cover photo that stretches all the way across the page, a dramatic intro-
Timeline Lessons starring role.
By Carolyn Jabs
Not everyone is so enthusiastic about the way Timeline makes details about the past so accessible. Many people post on Facebook with the assumption that it will swallow up things that are trivial, thoughtless, stupid, or ill advised. Although “older posts” have always been available, getting at them was tedious and time-consuming. Timeline encourages visitors to review each other’s lives year by year and automatically highlights items that got a lot of comments. For parents, Timeline creates a teachable moment. As children learn to use this new tool, parents have an ideal opportunity to raise questions, make suggestions and inject more thinking into the use of social media. Before starting this conversation, consider
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duction that confers a sort of instant celebrity. Because everyone (including you) can see this photo, your child should choose an image that captures his or her personality without giving away too much personal information. The process is like choosing an outfit for the first day of school or a job interview. You want to create an impression that’s consistent with the relationships you hope to have.
Don’t depend on a computer to do your thinking. The default version of Timeline is created by a computer program that gives extra space to posts that have gotten a lot of attention from friends. These won’t necessarily be the posts that sum up your child’s life. The best way to take back biographical control is to use Activity Log, a feature that lets your child give a thumbs up or down to past posts, photos, links and other activities. To get rid of an item, run the cursor over its top right corner. Click the pencil icon and choose “Delete” or “Hide from Timeline.” Or click on a star so the post is highlighted and stretches across both Timeline columns.
You are accountable for what you do. Being an adult means taking responsibility for your actions. If nothing else, Timeline underscores the point that the Internet is not a free zone where anything goes. Seeing the sweep of a life—even a young life—may make your child more mindful. Should Facebook chronicle the trivial or the consequential, the things you do or the thoughts they inspire, what you like or what you detest? These questions don’t have automatic answers but just asking them encourages the kind of “examined life” that wise people starting with Socrates have encouraged the rest of us to lead.
History is slippery. Timeline makes it possible to edit the past—at least as it appears on Facebook. In addition to hiding or deleting old posts, users can now add events that occurred BF—before Facebook started in 2004. They can also move events to a new part of Timeline simply by clicking “Change Dates.” All of this allows young people to shape what the world knows about them— and to revise it as they get older. At the very least, this should make for interesting dinner table conversation about how history gets 8 | February 2012 | Wilmington Parent
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made. Who gets to choose the details? Who gets to interpret them?
Privacy has a purpose. Timeline makes it much, much easier for people to go back and get information about each other. This creates a potential bonanza for stalkers as well as identity thieves who will now be able to find easy answers to typical security questions like the name of your first pet. Encourage your child to make use of the privacy tools that Timeline provides. Every post can be designated: Public (everyone can see), Friends (everyone on your friend list can see), Only me (useful for things you want to remember but not share) and Custom. The Custom option is cumbersome but it has real value. By creating lists, your child can make certain posts visible only to the soccer team, the chess club, the people he met while working a part-time job or relatives she sees only at Christmas. Know your friends. By default, Timeline is visible to anyone your child has accepted as a friend. If your child has been casual about adding or aggressive about recruiting friends, this is a good time to cull the friend list. A quiz called What’s Her Face-book (www.whatsherface-book.com) was created by technology students at Yale to help users get real about who is actually a friend. The app shows random pictures of “friends” to see if a user can identify them. As the authors point out, even pseudo friends have permission to share personal info with third party apps on Facebook. Now with Timeline, they will also be privy to a person’s entire Facebook history. Kids who don’t want to edit their friend list will need to think more carefully about how they can make their posts “suitable for all audiences.” Review your work. If your child doesn’t take time to design a Timeline, Facebook will do it for them. Either way, it’s important to see yourself as others will see you. To do this, click the cog under the cover photo. On the drop down menu, choose “View as” to see what the public can see. Or enter the name of a friend to get their view of you. Encourage your child to use this as an exercise in self-understanding. What do people see when they look at you? How does it match what you know about yourself? Like other online innovations, Timeline is a tool. Talking to teens about how, when, why and even whether they want to use it helps them think about the kind of people they want to be. And that’s an opportunity every thoughtful parent will want to seize. v Carolyn Jabs, M.A., has been writing about families and technology for 20 years. She is the mother of three computersavvy kids. Other Growing Up Online columns appear on her website www.growingup-online.com.
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Cafeteria Plans Help Your Family Year-Round, but Especially at Tax Time
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have a confession: When I was a full-time employee of a fairly large media corporation, I passed on the opportunity to open a flexible spending account. Too much paperwork, I thought. Too much trouble to keep track of medical and health-related expenses, I surmised. Not worth the hassle, I reasoned. Boy was I wrong.
By Robyn Passante
Flexible spending accounts, also called “cafeteria plans,” have been around since the late 1970s but they were slow to catch on, presumably because of misguided people like me. A cafeteria plan allows an employee to set aside a certain amount of his or her paycheck to pay for things like qualified medical expenses and daycare costs. To get the skinny on flexible spending accounts I spoke with Ted Mowery, partner at Gunn-Mowery insurance agency in central Pennsylvania. Mowery has more than 30 years of experience in the insurance industry and specializes in employee benefits. What is covered: Under Section 125 of the federal tax code, an employee is allowed to set aside a certain amount of pre-tax money per paycheck to pay for a number of things:
Employees’ pretax contributions are not subject to federal, state, or social security taxes. 1. Insurance premiums, co-pays and other medical-related out-of-pocket expenses. This includes a rather exhaustive list of items and procedures related to dental, medical, and vision care (including prescriptions, over-thecounter allergy and cold medicine, eyeglasses, acupuncture, birth control pills, chiropractor visits, doctor-prescribed weight loss programs, even air conditioner filters for allergy relief); 2. Dependent care (including day-care expenses, as long as it’s a qualified daycare center). The dependent care flexible-spending account is federally capped at $5,000 per year, per household. How you benefit: Employees’ pretax contributions are not subject to federal, state, or social security taxes. That means you essentially increase your take-home pay and decrease your amount of taxable income. How it works: In the beginning of your plan year you decide how much you want
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to have taken from each paycheck, Mowery said. Many FSA plans now come with a special debit card, called a flexcard, that can be swiped at the point of service for many medical-related expenses (doctor’s appointments, drug stores). Your total contributing amount gets put on the debit card at the beginning of the year, regardless of how much you’ve contributed so far. The flexcard doesn’t recognize all qualifying expenses, though, Mowery says, so you’ll need to submit receipts to get reimbursed for some things. What’s the catch: Under most plans you lose the unused portion of your contributions at the end of the plan year. Some companies have instituted a two- or three-month grace period to give employees an extra few months to use up the money in their FSA, though Mowery says it’s rare to lose any of your hard-earned cash. “There are very, very few forfeitures,” he said. “With technology today, you can access your account online and see exactly how much money you have left. If it’s near the end of the year you can go and get your teeth cleaned again, pick up more contact solution, any number of things.” Also if you quit or are fired during the year and have used more of your pre-set annual FSA amount than you’ve contributed, you don’t have to pay the balance. In that case, the employer picks up the tab. “The employer’s fronting the money in your FSA account. So let’s say you’re having $50 per paycheck deducted, but in February of the New Year you spend $1,000. That additional money’s coming from your employer, and they have no way of recovering that money should you leave,” Mowery said. How to get started: You have to decide how much to set aside based on an estimation of how much you think you’ll spend on medical-related expenses in one calendar year, which isn’t as hard as it sounds, and is probably quite a bit more than you think. “I tell people to go back through their debit statements and credit cards, and they’re usually amazed at how much money they spend (on medical-related things),” Mowery said. Enrollment requirements and periods vary by employer, so check with your Human Resources department — or whoever handles employee benefits — to get the scoop on when you can join. v Robyn Passante is a freelance writer and mother of two who really likes the sound of the phrase “flexible spending.”
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reel life
Stranded whales, Jedi warriors, and tiny Borrowers are
heading to theaters this month. Here’s a sneak peek at what’s new in theaters in February.
view: 3.5 out of 5 Reels. http://www.womaninblack.com/.
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reel life
Jane’s Reel Rating System 1 Reel Even the Force can’t save it. 2 Reels Coulda’ been a contender 3 Reels Something to talk about. 4 Reels You want the truth? Greatflick! 5 Reels Wow! The stuff dreams are made of.
Big Miracle PG for language. In theaters February 3. Ok for kids 7+. Reel Preview: 3.5 out of 5 Reels. http://www.everybodyloveswhales.com/.
Harry Potter is moving on … sniff … In this gothic horror, Daniel Radcliffe plays Arthur Kipps, a widowed lawyer whose grief has put his career in jeopardy. When he’s sent to a remote village to sort out the affairs of a recently deceased eccentric, it becomes clear that everyone in the town is keeping a deadly secret. The townspeople try to keep Kipps from learning their tragic history, but he soon discovers that the house belonging to his client is haunted by the ghost of a woman determined to find someone and something she lost, and no one is safe from her vengeance. This film might attract teenagers who grew up watching Radcliffe as the young wizard, but it’s too dark for tweens.
You already know how things will turn out in Big Miracle, but that’s ok. It’s still an inspiring story filled with hope and wonder. Based on the book Freeing the Whales by Thomas Rose, this real-life tale begins with small-town news reporter Adam Carlson (John Krasinski) looking to escape the northern tip of Alaska for a bigger market. But then the story of his career breaks – a group of whales are trapped by rapidly forming ice in the Arctic Circle. With time running out, Adam and his ex-girlfriend, environmentalist Rachel Kramer (Drew Barrymore), must rally an unlikely coalition of Inuit natives, oil companies and Russian and American military to set aside their differences and free the whales. Directed by Ken Kwapis (Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants), this movie is mushy and sweet and a good choice for both you and your kids.
Star Wars: Episode 1 – The Phantom Menace in 3D PG for sci-fi action/violence. In theaters February 10. Ok for kids 9+. Reel Rating: 4 out of 5 Reels. http://www.starwars.com/watch/ episode-i-3d.html.
Woman in Black PG-13 for thematic material and violence/disturbing images. In theaters February 3. Ok for kids 12+. Reel Pre12 | February 2012 | Wilmington Parent
Yes, it’s true. Every movie will eventually head back to theaters in 3D, or so it seems. This first chapter of the Star Wars saga begins with Jedi apprentice Obi-Wan Kenobi (Ewan McGregor) and his Jedi Master Qui-Gon Jinn (Liam Neeson) discovering nine-year-old Anakin Skywalker (Jake Lloyd), a young slave unusually
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Based on the book by Jules Verne, this followup to 2008’s Journey to the Center of the Earth finds young Sean Anderson (Josh Hutcherson, reprising his role) receiving a coded distress signal from a mysterious island where no island should exist. Unable to stop him from going, Sean’s new stepfather Hank (Dwayne Johnson) joins the quest. Together with a helicopter pilot (Luis Guzman) and his strongwilled daughter (Vanessa Hudgens), they set out to find the island, rescue its lone inhabitant, and escape before seismic shockwaves force the island under the sea and bury its treasures forever. Directed by Brad Peyton, the film also features Michael Caine as Sean’s grandfather and Kristin Davis as Sean’s mom. While this might not be the best adventure movie ever, it’s still a fun caper with a PG rating that’s ok for kids 8 and older. It’s also a good way to get kids reading the classic novel.
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Hiromasa Yonebayashi, the animator behind Ponyo, Howl’s Moving Castle and Spirited Away, directs this sweet film based on Mary Norton’s classic book The Borrowers. Arrietty (voiced by Bridgit Mendler), is a tiny but tenacious 14-year-old girl who lives with her parents (Will Arnett and Amy Poehler) under the floorboards of a suburban home. Like all little people, Arrietty remains hidden except for the occasional covert ops to “borrow” scrap supplies like sugar cubes from her human hosts. But when 12-year-old Shawn (David Henrie), a human boy who comes to stay in the home, discovers his mysterious housemate, a secret friendship blossoms and poses danger for Arrietty and her family.
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1 Wednesday Joshua Academy Enrollment Deadline March 1. Joshua Academy, 4704 S. College Rd. Accepting K – 8 applications for 2012-2013 school year. A Parent Partnership Private School.Visit www.joshuaacademywilmington.com or contact 8631775 for more information. Women of Achievement Nominations Deadline March 1 @ 5pm. Nominate an incredible woman for this 27th annual award event. Honoring women and youth who demonstrate outstanding leadership qualities, accomplishments, and commitment to careers, schools & communities. Find nomination forms at www.ywca-lowercapefear.org or call 799-6820 for assistance. B.W. Wells: Pioneer Ecologist Daily through 02/05. Cape Fear Museum. Explore the breathtaking nature photography of Mr. Wells and discover his passion for the flora and fauna of the Lower Cape Fear region. For more information, contact 798-4350 or visit www.capefearmuseum.com. Mark Peiser: Reflections on the Palomar Mirror Daily. Cameron Art Museum. Glass artist Mark Peiser reinterprets the 1934 event of the historic 20-ton glass casting of the 200-inch Hale Telescope mirror. Contact 395-5999 or visit www.cameronartmuseum.com for exhibit details. Poetic Glassworks Daily. Cameron Art Museum. Honored as 2011 NC Living Treasure, glass artist Richard Ritter reveals his “murrini” process.Visit www.cameronartmuseum.com or 395-5999 for more information. Haunted Cotton Exchange Tours Daily/Year Round. Cotton Exchange, Downtown. Experience chills and thrills! Tales of mystery of the Cotton Exchange ghosts. $10/Adults. $8/Students & Seniors. Free/ Under age 12.Visit www. TourOldWilmington.blogspot.com or call 409-4300 for tour information. NHCPL Lap Sit Storytime 9:30 – 9:50am Wednesdays. Myrtle Grove Branch.
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Designed for babies under 18 months. Features 20 minutes of stories, songs, rhymes and activities. No reservations required. Call 798-6393 for more information. Baby Musik 10am. Learning Express Toys, 1437 Military Cutoff. Enjoy gentle music and movement for babies with Karen Stirnitzke, Kindermusik educator. Ages newborn to 1½. Free but requires reservation. Call 5090153 for assistance. La Leche League – Advantages of Breastfeeding 10am. Wrightsville Beach United Methodist Church, 4 Live Oak Drive. Come for information on nutrition and weaning. Call Sylvia at 512-3293 for details. Moms and babies welcome.
process through critical thinking. Call 254-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org to pre-register. Historical Walking Tours 5 – 8pm. Downtown Wilmington. Tour Old Wilmington and discover hidden history of the Victorian Era (1837-1901): customs, traditions, sea tales, and more. $12/Adults. $10/Seniors & Students. Free/Children 12 & under. Call 409-4300 for availability.
2 Thursday – Groundhog Day NHCPL Lapsit Storytime 9:30 – 9:45am Thursdays. Northeast Branch. Babies 3 - 18 months enjoy fun stories and songs. No registration required. Call 798-6373 for more information.
Preschool Science 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Air Rockets.” Visit the Museum for Preschool Science fun! Call 254-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org for registration details.
StoryCOOKS 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Monkey and Me – Monkey Mix. Cooking club for preschoolers. Read a story and create a dish inspired by the book. Call 254-3534 to pre-register.
NHCPL Toddler Storytime 10 – 10:20am Wednesdays. Myrtle Grove Branch. Children 18 - 36 months are invited to storytime! Enjoy 20 minutes of stories, songs, and pre-literacy activities. No reservations required. Call 798-6393 for further details.
NHCPL Toddler Storytime 10 – 10:20am Thursdays. Northeast Branch. Children ages 18 – 36 months join others for stories, songs and other fun activities. No registration required. Call 798-6373 for details.
NHCPL Preschool Storytime 10:30 – 11am Wednesdays. Myrtle Grove Branch. Ages 3 - 5 years are invited to enjoy a different theme every week. Includes books, songs, flannel boards, finger plays, and other fun pre-literacy activities. No pre-registration. Call 798-6303 for more information. NHCPL Family Storytime 10:30 – 11am Wednesdays. Main Library. Ages 5 and under are invited to enjoy a different theme every week. Includes books, songs, flannel boards, finger plays, and other fun pre-literacy activities. No pre-registration. Call 798-6303 for more information. Discover Science 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Make Funny Putty.” Explore and learn about the scientific
Groundhog Ceremony 10am – 2pm. Museum of Natural Sciences. Meet Sir Walter Wally the groundhog and learn the history of Groundhog Day. Shadow Ceremony at noon. Free. Visit http://naturalsciences.org for details. NHCPL Pre-School Storytime 10:30 – 11am Thursdays. Northeast Branch. Children ages 3 – 5 enjoy stories and songs. No registration required. Call 798-6373 for more information. Groundhogs Among Us 3 – 4pm. Prairie Ridge, sponsored by Museum of Natural Sciences. Learn about the region’s largest squirrel and its habits and search for them in the wild. Wear comfortable shoes. Free. No registration. All ages welcomed. Call (919) 733-7450 x674 for details.
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stART with a Story 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. No Two Alike – Painted Snowflakes. Create a masterpiece that reinforces a fun book. Call 254-3534 or visit www. playwilmington.org with questions. Opening Reception: Civil War Era Drawings 6 – 8pm. Cameron Art Museum. Features 127 “first hand” drawings depicting colorful aspects of life and action during the Civil War. Contact 395-5999 or visit www.cameronartmuseum.com for exhibit details. NC Jazz Festival 7:30pm. Hilton Wilmington Riverside Ballroom. 32nd annual event features jazz musicians from the US, Australia, Italy and Canada.Visit www.ncjazzfestival. com or 793-1111 for ticket purchases.
Pages/WilmingtonGardenShow.aspx for information and admission coupon. Call 392-8106 for details. Tryon Palace Free Day 9am – 5pm. Tryon Palace, New Bern. “In Search of Independence.” Free admission to Gardens, First Floors of Historic Buildings, the NC History Center’s Mattocks Hall, and Gateway Gallery. Reduced ticket ($10/Adults. $3/Students) to NC History Center Regional History Museum, Duffy Gallery, and Pepsi Family Center. Free hands-on crafts and activities for families. Call (800) 767-1560 or visit www.tryonpalace.org for event information. Elmo’s Birthday 10 – 11am. Learning Express Toys, Hanover Center. Celebrate Elmo’s birthday with ELMO! Call 251-6636 for more information.
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Children’s Discovery Time 10 – 11am. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. Watch creatures come alive in this story-telling and critter-creating program. Children meet live animals, hear a story and make ingenious crafts. Ages 3 – 5. $11/Child. Admission included. Call 458-7468 for required pre-registration.
Toddler Time 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Candy Collage Frame.” Projects and activities for young visitors (ages 4 and under) and their special grownups to work on together. Call 254-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org for more information.
“Trickster Tales!” 11am & 1pm. NC Museum of Art. Barefoot Puppet Theatre shares folktales in the adventures of Anansi the spider, Elephant, Hippo and more characters. $3/ Members. $5/Non-members.Visit http://ncartmuseum. org or call (919) 715-5923 for ticket purchases.
Family Yoga 10:30 – 11am Fridays. NHCPL Main Branch. Parents & children 6 months and older listen to stories while stretching and learning basic yoga postures. Wear comfortable clothing and bring a mat or towel. No registration. Call 798-6343 for details.
Wine & Chocolate Festival 11am – 6pm. Coastline Conference & Event Center. Sip, nibble & sigh! Enjoy a tasting tour as well as demonstrations, talks, raffles and more! $12/Advance. $15/ Door. Call 512-9948 or 742-0120 for ticket purchases.
To Kill a Mockingbird 8pm. Thalian Hall, Main Stage. Adapted from the Pulitzer Prize-winning novel. Four performances through 02/05. Call 632-2285 for ticket information.
American Legion Fish Fry 11am – 7pm. American Legion Post 10, 702 Pine Grove Drive. Eat in or take out. $7. Call 458-4253 for details. Adventures in Art 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Valentine Color Theory.” Experience different forms of art each week. Ages 5-8. Space is limited. Call 254-3534 to pre-register. Elmo’s Birthday 4 -5 pm. Learning Express Toys, 1437 Military Cutoff. Celebrate Elmo’s birthday with ELMO! Call 509-0153 for more information. NC Jazz Festival 7:30pm. Hilton Wilmington Riverside Ballroom. See 02/02. Wine & Chocolate Festival 7:30 – 10pm. Coastline Conference & Event Center. Sample regional wines and chocolates at the Grand Tasting. $40/Advance. $45/Door. Call 512-9948 or 742-0120 for ticket purchases.
4 Saturday Katie B. Hines Senior Center Pancake Breakfast 7:30 – 11:30am. Senior Center. Call 458-6609 for details. Luv2Run 5K & Fun Run 8 – 10am. Mayfaire Town Center. Lace up those sneakers and bring the family to enjoy the event and promote a healthy lifestyle.Visit www.luv2run5k.com for race details. ONE Coffee/Tea 9am. Port City Java, 2099 Market St. Join Rachel Fox, volunteer Congressional District Leader for ONE (an advocacy organization giving voice for those living in extreme poverty), for a meet-up to learn what others are doing in the community to make poverty history. Contact rachelfox.onewilmington@gmail.com with questions. Wilmington Garden Show 9am – 5pm. CFCC’s Schwartz Center, 601 N. Front St. 19th annual pre-spring event features vendors, speakers and children’s tent. Proceeds benefit NHC Arboretum. $7/Adults. Free/Under age 12, Active Military & “Friends of Arboretum.” Visit www.nhcgov.com/Arboretum/
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Gullah Gullah Island 1 – 2pm. Cape Fear Museum. Ron Daise, star of Nick Jr. TV show, leads an exciting interactive “game show” for all ages. Discover the Gullah/Geechee people, history, songs, culinary traditions, and trivia. Free with general admission.Visit www.capefearmuseum.com for details.
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Learning Center: African Art 1 – 4pm Saturdays. Cape Fear Museum. Discover the African influences in Lower Cape Fear art and culture. Explore African geography and more. Free with general admission.Visit www.capefearmuseum.com or call 798-4350 for more information. NC Jazz Festival 7:30pm. Hilton Wilmington Riverside Ballroom. See 02/02. NC Symphony 8pm. UNCW Kenan Auditorium. Maestro Curry brings the masterworks by Chopin and Tchaikovsky to Wilmington. Featuring John Noel on piano. Visit www.ncsymphony.org or contact 962-3500 for ticket information.
5 Sunday Airlie Gardens Free Day 9am - 5pm. Airlie Gardens. Visit the parks and Arboretum for a full day of family fun. Contact 798-7700 or visit www.airliegardens.org for more information. Wilmington Garden Show 11am – 4pm. CFCC’s Schwartz Center, 601 N. Front St. See 02/04. Wine & Chocolate Festival 12 – 4pm. Coastline Conference & Event Center. See 02/04. Museum Carts 1 – 3pm. Cape Fear Museum. Explore artifacts, conduct experiments, and play fun games at facilitated carts stationed throughout the Museum. Free with museum admission.Visit www.capefearmseum.com or call 798-4350 for details. Cape Fear Museum Free Day 1 – 5pm. Cape Fear Museum. New Hanover County residents are admitted free to the Museum the first Sunday of every month. Call 798-4350 or visit www. capefearmuseum.com for information.
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NHCPL Pre-School Storytime 10:30 – 11am. Carolina Beach Branch. Children ages 18 months – 5 years enjoy stories and songs. No registration required. Call 798-6385 for more information. NHCPL Family Storytime 10:30 – 11am Mondays. Main Library. Ages 5 and under are invited to enjoy a different theme every week. Includes books, songs, flannel boards, finger plays, and other fun pre-literacy activities. No pre-registration. Call 798-6303 for more information.
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Go Green Engineer Team 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Pinball Wizard.” Hands-on challenges that focus on the engineering design process using simple materials. Ages 5-9. For more information, visit www.playwilmington.org or call 254-3534.
7 Tuesday Leland’s Little Learners 9 – 10am Tuesdays. Town of Leland. Enjoy storytime, arts & crafts, and time outside on the playground. Free. Ages 3-5 (parents/guardians remain with children). Contact 332-4823 to pre-register. NHCPL Lap Sit Storytime 9:30 – 9:50am Tuesdays. Main Library Children’s Room. Babies 18 months and younger are invited to enjoy 20 minutes of books, songs, finger plays, nursery rhymes and bounces. No pre-registration. Call 798-6303 for details. Storytime 10am. Barnes & Noble Tuesdays. Enjoy weekly storytime in the Children’s section. Call 509-1880 for details. NHCPL Toddler Storytime 10 – 10:30am Tuesdays. Main Library Children’s Room. For enthusiastic toddlers ages 18 - 36 months! This activity-time is filled with books, flannel boards, songs, and finger plays. No pre-registration required. Call 798-6303 for more information. NHCPL Preschool Storytime 10:30 – 11am Tuesdays. Main Library Children’s Room. Ages 3 to 5 years are invited. Different theme featured weekly. Includes books, songs, flannel boards, finger plays, and other fun activities. No pre-registration. Call 798-6303 with questions. Kids Cooking Club 3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Homemade Biscuits. Learn new skills, explore fun seasonal recipes, and savor the flavors of the finished treats. Free with Museum admission.Visit www.playwilmington.org for details. Call 254-3534 to pre-register.
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American Girl Club 7pm. Barnes & Noble, Mayfaire. Bring an American Girl doll and join the fun with crafts and activities. Call 509-1880 for more information.
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Little Sprouts Storytime 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Meet new people, hear wonderful stories, and enjoy an activity.Visit www.playwilmington.org or call 254-3534 for details. Brilliant Sky Toys & Books 10:30am Mondays. Mayfaire Town Center.Visit www.brilliantskytoys.com or call 5093353 for details.
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Makin’ Musik 10am. Learning Express Toys, Hanover Center. Enjoy rhythms and rhymes and a lowkey musical time. Ages 1 ½ to 5 years. Free but requires reservations. Contact 2516636 to reserve a spot. Discover Science 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Gumdrop Dome.” See 02/01.
9 Thursday StoryCOOKS 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Pinkalicious – Pinkalicious Cupcakes & Frosting. See 02/09.
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Children’s Discovery Time 10 – 11am. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 02/04. Behind the Scenes Tour 11:30am – 1pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. Come explore the spaces for animal holding, husbandry, life support systems, and backstage accesses to exhibits that are hidden behind the aquarium walls. Guided tour. $15/Ages 13+. $13/Ages 8-12. $7/Members. Children under age 8 not permitted. For required preregistration, call 458-7468. stART with a Story 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Pinkalicious Pink of Hearts – Hearts. See 02/09. Daddy Daughter Date Night 5 - 7pm. Chick-fil-A Mayfaire. Call 256-0854 or visit www.cfarestaurant.com/mayfaire for details. JAZZ @ the CAM 6:30 – 8pm. The Cameron Art Museum. The winter jazz series features Stardust. Tickets: CAM/CFJS Members/$7, Non-members/$10. Students/$5 with valid ID. For more information, call 395-5999 or visit http://cameronartmuseum.com.
10 Friday Toddler Time 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Toddler Valentines.” See 02/03. Extended Behind the Scenes Tour 2 - 4pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher.Visit the top of our largest exhibit, the Cape Fear Shoals and get a birdseye view of this 235,000-gallon tank as sharks, stingrays, moray eels and fish. Participants must wear closetoed shoes. $20/Age 13+. $18/Ages 8-12. $12/Member. No children under age 8. Call 458-7468 for information and pre-registration. Adventures in Art 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Doily Prints and Yarn Wrapped Hearts.” See 02/03. Valentine’s with Olivia the Pig 4 – 5pm. Learning Express Toys, 1437 Military Cutoff. Celebrate Valentine’s with Olivia the Pig herself, along with an Olivia story read by the Story Station Lady. Call 509-0153 for details. “Broadway Now” Musical 7pm. Hannah Block 2nd Street Stage, Corner of 2nd & Orange Streets. Children’s Theatre Performance dates: 02/10-02/12 and 02/17-02/19. Contact 3417860 ticket information. “Double Door” 7:30pm. Odell Williamson Auditorium. Brunswick Little Theatre presents “Double Door”. Performances dates also include 02/11 – 02/12 & 02/17 – 02/19, with Sunday curtain at 3pm. Contact 392-4869 for ticket information. Carolina Master Chorale Concert 8pm. Seaside United Methodist Church, Sunset Beach. Enjoy some of the region’s finest gospel musicians.Visit www.CarolinaMasterChorale.com for details.
11 Saturday Daddy & Me 9 – 10:30am. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. Dads and their children learn together about aquarium animals and enjoy playtime in our Freshwater Wonders Room. $13/ Ages 1-2 one adult and one child ($1/each additional child). $4.50/Member & child pair. Call 458-7468 for required pre-registration.Visit www.ncaquariums.com for program details. La Leche League – The Family and the Breastfed Baby 10am. Breastfeeding Center of Wilmington. 4406 ½ Wrightsville Avenue. Come for information regarding the advantages of breastfeeding. Call Chrissy at 2625288 for details. Moms and babies welcome. Valentine’s with Olivia the Pig 10 – 11am. Learning Express Toys, Hanover Center. Celebrate Valentine’s with Olivia the Pig herself, along with an Olivia story read by the Story Station Lady. Call 251-6636 for details.
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Art for All 12 – 10pm. Brooklyn Arts Center. Enjoy shopping for pottery, paintings, drawings, sculpture, jewelry and more. All art is $250 or less. $5 admission includes refreshments. Call 616-9882 for event information. Valentines in the Woods 1:30 – 3pm. Halyburton Park. The Junior Naturalist Program invites children ages 6-11 to learn more about plants and animals living in the Park. $7/child. Call 341-0075 to pre-register. Aquarist Apprentice 2 – 4:30pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. Join staff on a behind-the-scenes tour and participate in daily care and maintenance tasks. Includes an animal feeding. Wear closed-toe shoes. $25/Ages 13+. $23/Ages 10-12. $17/ Members. (Price includes Aquarium admission.) Ages 10+ welcome. Call 458-7468 for required pre-registration.Visit www.ncaquariums.com for details. Cape Fear Heart Ball 6pm.Wilmington Convention Center.A black-tie event presented by the AHA celebrating the mission of building healthier lives, free of cardiovascular disease and stroke. Tickets $150 supporting research and education. Contact 538-9270 for more information.
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the escapades of two members of the British upper crust who invent wild tales about imaginary Ernest and Bunbury! $6/Students. $22/General Admission. $4 Discount/UNCW Faculty/Staff/Alumni/Student Parents & Senior Citizens. Call 962-7972 or visit www.uncw. edu/presents for details.
15 Wednesday Preschool Science 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Lava Lamp.” See 02/01. Baby Musik 10am. Learning Express Toys, Hanover Center. Enjoy gentle music and movement for babies with Karen Stirnitzke, Kindermusik educator. Ages newborn to 1 Free but requires reservations. Call 251-6636 for assistance. Discover Science 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Make Glowing Water.” See 02/01.
16 Thursday StoryCOOKS 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Jamberry – Smoothies. See 02/09.
Airlie Gardens Closed Sundays 2/12, 2/19, & 2/26
stART with a Story 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Owl Babies – Owl Puppets. See 02/09.
Girl Scout Workshop: StoryCOOKS 10am – 12:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. After exploring the fun-filled exhibits of the Museum, step into a storybook in the kitchen to read and make a tasty treat. $16/Brownie (includes admission, activities, snacks & patch). $8/Chaperone. Register through Coastal Pines Girl Scout Council. Call 254-3534 for details.
La Leche League – The Art of Breastfeeding & Overcoming Difficulties 7pm. Pine Valley United Methodist Church, 3788 Shipyard Blvd/Bldg B/Rm 3. Come for information about the family and the breastfed baby. Call Julia at 791-2853 for details. Moms, dads and babies welcome!
Behind the Scenes Tour 11:30am – 1pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 02/09. Passion for Purity 6 – 8pm. Wilmington Convention Center. Pam Stenzel speaks to teens on their level about sex. Parents welcomed too. Relevant message, amazing prizes and creative media teach teens the price of sex before marriage. Register for this FREE event by calling 620-2804 or sexhasaprice@gmail.com.Visit http://pamstenzel. com to learn more! Wilmington Symphony Orchestra 8pm. Kenan Auditorium. 25th anniversary season. Contact 962-3500 for tickets or www.wilmingtonsymphony.org for more information.
13 Monday Little Sprouts Storytime 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. See 02/06. Little Explorers 10 - 11am. Halyburton Park. Children ages 2-5 are invited to enjoy stories, songs, hands-on activities, hikes and crafts regarding “Shapes and Colors.” $3/ child. Call 341-0075 to pre-register.Visit www.halyburtonpark.com for more information. Go Green Engineer Team 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “What Gives?” See 02/06. Family Reading Night 5:30 – 6:30pm. NHCPL Main Branch. “Story Paint.” Preschoolers watch masterpieces being painted as their stories are read aloud. Meet a local painter & fingerpaint a Valentine. Call 798-6303 for details.
14 Tuesday – Valentine’s Day Kids Cooking Club 3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Valentines Punch & Cupid Cupcakes. See 02/07. Family Fun Nights 5:30 – 7pm. Chick-fil-A Mayfaire. Lady Bug Tic-Tac-Toe. See 02/07. The Importance of Being Earnest 8 – 10pm. Kenan Auditorium. A witty comedy detailing
17 Friday East Coast Shag Classic Blockade Runner Beach Resort, Wrightsville Beach. Weekend get-away featuring Band of Oz, The Mark Roberts Band, and The Fantastic Shakers with three ballroom concerts and daily shag lessons.Visit www. eastcoastshagclassic.com or call 297-7688 for complete event details. Toddler Time 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Painted Cookies.” See 02/03. Adventures in Art 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Snail Homes.” See 02/03. Jammie Jam PJ Party 5 – 7pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Come in PJs and bring a special stuffed friend. Make toothpaste and dream catchers, play board games, and settle in for a cozy storytime. Call 254-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org for more information.
18 Saturday East Coast Shag Classic Blockade Runner Beach Resort, Wrightsville Beach. See 02/17. Firepower 9am – 12pm. Battleship NC. Learn about & explore the Battleship guns & firing mechanisms. Participants will enjoy a lively, engaging, in-depth program with presentations and hands-on experience. Bring a camera. Lunch provided. $95/person. Call 251-5797 for as reservations are required.Visit www.battleshipnc.com for information. Polar Plunge 11am – 3:30pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. 8th annual event supporting Special Olympics, NHC. Register to “plunge” and come for an afternoon of fun events! (Plunge at 3:05pm) Visit www.PlungeNHC.com or call 341-7253 for event details. Full Belly Feast 6 – 10pm. Coastline Convention Center. The 10th annual fundraising event features cuisine from several countries, an auction, and entertainment. Benefits The Full Belly Project. Contact 452-0975 for more information.
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19 Sunday Cape Fear Skies: African Skies 1:30, 2:30 & 3:30pm. Cape Fear Museum.Venture into outer space and hear mythical tales while exploring stars, planets and more. Free for members or with general admission. Appropriate for all ages. Parent participation required. Free with general admission. Call 798-4357 or visit www.capefearmuseum.com for more information. Friends School Admissions Open House 3 – 5pm. Friends School of Wilmington.Tour the campuses and grounds, visit classrooms, and meet dedicated faculty and current families. For more information, call the 207 Pine Grove Drive campus (ages 18 months – 2nd Grades) at 791-8221 or the 350 Peiffer Avenue campus (3rd – 8th Grades) at 792-1811. Student Recitals 4 - 5pm. UNCW’s Beckwith Recital Hall. Free. Call 962-3415 for more information.
20 Monday – Presidents’ Day Little Sprouts Storytime 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. See 02/06. Family Movies 10:30am – 12:30pm. NHCPL Northeast Branch. Enjoy a movie for all age groups. Contact 798-6373 for movie information. Go Green Engineer Team 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Watercraft”. See 02/06.
21 Tuesday Kids Cooking Club 3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Banana Dogs & Balls of Energy. See 02/07. Family Fun Nights 5:30 – 7pm. Chick-fil-A Mayfaire. Fat Tuesday. See 02/07. Life in NC during the Civil War & Reconstruction 6:30pm. Cape Fear Museum. Topic: “The Homefront.” Celebrate the Civil War Sesquicentennial. Audience discussion encouraged.Visit www.capefearmuseum. com or call 798-4362 for event details. La Leche League – Nutrition & Weaning 7pm. Grace United Methodist Church, 4th & Grace Streets. Come for information regarding the art of breastfeeding and overcoming difficulties. Call Denise at 612-7885 for details. Moms & babies welcome. Ladysmith Black Mambazo 8pm. Thalian Hall. 15-time Grammy-nominated South African vocal ensemble (first introduced on Paul Simon’s “Graceland” album). $38/$30/$18. Contact 632-2285 or visit www.thalianhall.org for ticket purchases.
22 Wednesday Makin’ Musik 10am. Learning Express Toys, Military Cutoff. Explore rhythms and rhymes and a low-key musical time. Ages 1½ to 5 years. Free but requires reservations. Contact 509-0153 to reserve a spot. Preschool Science 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Make Magic Mud.” See 02/01. Discover Science 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Sky Diver.” See 02/01.
23 Thursday StoryCOOKS 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Mud Tacos – Real Tacos. See 02/09.
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Children’s Discovery Time 10 – 11am. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 02/04.
Aquarist Apprentice 2 – 4:30pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 02/11.
Behind the Scenes Tour 1 – 2:30pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 02/09.
Jazz at Lincoln Center Family Concert 7 – 8:30pm. Kenan Auditorium. “Discovering the Groove in Jazz and You,” a family concert featuring drummer Alvin Atkinson and special guests, introduces families to the world of jazz. $8/Adults. Free/Youth and Students. Call 962-3500 for more information.
stART with a Story 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Art – Art Art. See 02/09. NC Symphony 8pm. Kenan Auditorium. Stephen Hough takes center stage for a night of musical luminaries. Tickets: $60/$50/$40. Students/$10.Visit www.ncsymphony.org or call 962-3500 for more information.
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Civil War Living History 11am. Cameron Art Museum. See 02/25.
Toddler Time 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Soapy Sensory Squish.” See 02/03. Extended Behind the Scenes Tour 2 - 4pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 02/10. Adventures in Art 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Fingerprint Blossom Trees.” See 02/03. Fourth Friday Gallery Walk 6 – 9pm. Downtown Wilmington. A self-guided tour through several Wilmington galleries and studios. Includes artist discussions, live music, wine tasting and other art-based activities. Call 343-8997 for more information. UNCW Big Band & Combo 7:30 – 9pm. UNCW’s Beckwith Recital Hall. $5/ General Public. Free/Students with valid UNCW ID. Call 962-3415 for details.
25 Saturday Marine Explorers: Guppy Love 9am – 12pm. UNCW Center for Marine Science. Explore some very special relationships under the sea. Snack provided.Visit www.uncw.edu/marinequest or call 962-2640 for more information. Battle of Moores Creek 9am – 5pm. Moores Creek National Battlefield, Currie. Re-enactors representing both Patriot and Loyalist militias demonstrate military camp life, musket & artillery firing and broadsword use for the 236th anniversary. Call 283-5591 or visit www.moorescreek.info for details and directions (just minutes from downtown Wilmington). Civil War Living History 10am. Cameron Art Museum. Commemorating the 147th anniversary of the Battle of Forks Road on the Museum’s site. Free.Visit www.cameronartmuseum. com or call 395-5999 for schedule. Kids at CAM 11am – 2pm. Cameron Art Museum. In honor of Civil War Living History Weekend at the CAM, children will have Civil War era games and activities, explore exhibits and make art to take home. $3-$5. Call 395-5999 or visit www.cameronartmuseum.com for details. Tidewater Camellia Club Annual Show & Sale 12:30pm. Arab Shrine Club, 4510 S. College Rd. Come to see approximately 1,000 camellia blooms that compete for prizes and bragging rights! Visit www.tidewatercamelliaclub.org for details. Literacy Live from the Bear Cave 1 – 3pm. UNCW Watson School of Education. Investigate the reasons why bears like to sleep away the winter. Learn how seasons impact animal diets and behaviors. Enjoy reading, drama, science and more. Free. Call 962-7291 or visit http://library.uncw.edu/ cmc/literacy_live for required pre-registration.
Battle of Moores Creek 9am – 5pm. Moores Creek National Battlefield, Currie. See 02/25.
Behind the Scenes Tour 11:30am – 1pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 02/09. UNCW String Ensemble 7:30 – 9pm. UNCW’s Beckwith Recital Hall. Free. Call 962-3415 for details.
27 Monday Little Sprouts Storytime 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. See 02/06. Go Green Engineer Team 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Blow it Away.” See 02/06.
28 Tuesday Kids Cooking Club 3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Breakfast Sundaes & Rainbow Toast. See 02/07. Jazz at Lincoln Center Orchestra with Wynton Marsalis 8 – 10pm. Kenan Auditorium. Enjoy this special performance that includes jazz musician, trumpeter and educator, Wynton Marsalis. $75/Reserved Seating A. $55/ Reserved Seating B. Free/UNCW Students with valid ID. Call 962-3500 for details.
29 Wednesday Preschool Science 10am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Molecule Madness.” See 02/01. Baby Musik 10am. Learning Express Toys, 1437 Military Cutoff. Special “Leap Year” theme. See 02/01. Discover Science 3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Molecule Madness.” See 02/01.
To submit events to the calendar, please email calendar@ wilmingtonparent.com Deadline for submissions to the March issue is February 9, 2012.
Family Storytime 2 – 2:30pm. NHCPL Northeast Branch. Enjoy a storytime about “friends.” No registration. Contact 7986373 for details.
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62nd Annual Camellia Show and Sale The Tidewater Camellia Club presents this annual Show and Sale at the Arab Shrine Club on February 25 from 12:30 – 5pm. Enjoy the event where camellia experts from all over the southeast display approximately 1,000 blooms. Admission is free. Contact tidewatercamellia@ec.rr.com for details.
Life in NC during the Civil War & Reconstruction On February 21 at 6:30pm, the Cape Fear Museum will celebrate the Civil War Sesquicentennial with a program called Community Conversations – Making Choices, Taking Sides: Life in North Carolina during the Civil War and Reconstruction. This evening’s topic is “The Homefront.” Audience discussion is encouraged. Visit www.capefearmuseum.com or contact (910) 798-4362 event details.
Cape Fear Heart Ball The American Heart Association will hold the Cape Fear Heart Ball at the Wilmington Convention Center on February 11 at 6pm.
Full Belly Feast The 10th Annual Full Belly feast is scheduled for February 18 from 6 – 10pm at the Coastline Convention Center. The evening includes cuisine from several countries, an auction, and entertainment. This fundraiser is for The Full Belly Project which is a non-profit that creates machinery for needy communities around the world. Contact (910) 4520975 or info@thefullbellyproject.org for more information about the event.
The black-tie event celebrates the mission of building healthier lives, free of cardiovascular disease and stroke. This evening provides an opportunity to raise funds to support research and education. Tickets are $150. Contact (910) 538-9270 for more information.
East Coast Shag Classic The East Coast Shag Classic will be held at the Blockade Runner Beach Resort on Wrightsville Beach on February 16 - 18. This three-day, beachfront get-away celebrates East Coast beach culture through music inspired by the shag (the unofficial dance of the state of North Carolina). February 16 “Patron’s Shag Party” featuring Jim Quick & the Coastline Band February 17 & 18 “Weekend Get-away” includes Band of Oz, the Mark Roberts Band, and the Fantastic Shakers, with three ballroom concerts. Daily shag lessons included. The East Coast Shag Classic is a charity event benefiting Women of Hope. Visit www.eastcoastshagclassic.com or call (910) 297-7688 for event details!
Leadership Lecture: Bryant Terry “Food Justice” Join Bryant Terry, eco chef and author of Vegan Soul Kitchen, on February 20 at 7pm for an evening of information at UNCW’s Kenan Auditorium. This evening’s talk will explore how poverty, racism and classism impacts peoples’ opportunities to access healthy food and live healthy lives. Admission is $9. Contact (910) 962-3500 for ticket purchases and information.
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Teaching K i d s through T h e at e r D
By Danielle Villegas
oes your living room occasionally transform into a forest or a magical castle? Or perhaps one of your children has been known to randomly insist they are actually a dog, or a cat, or even a dragon. Of course, this is nothing to be concerned about. Children are naturally imaginative, and because of this, most are natural actors! What those creative little minds need is a healthy, safe place to allow all that brilliant energy to thrive. What better place than the stage!
be Rebecca’s first production as director with TACT. “Over 120 kids auditioned for this production, and about 60 of them were cast,” says Rebecca. A live orchestra will be providing the music for this show too, and guess who will be playing the instruments? Kids! A separate audition was held to find all types of musicians. Everything from drums, violins, even an electric guitar will be jamming along to the Broadway tunes. “This is going to be a fun, musical performance and we are putting it all together in only five weeks!” She is thrilled to be working with such a motivated group of children of all ages. “These kids all really want to be here, working hard, and making this a performance they can be proud of,” says Rebecca.
Rebecca Rockow, Manager of Thalian Association Children’s Theater (TACT), says “Theater is a wonderful way for children to learn how to express themselves.” Rebecca was also involved in theater as a child. “The opportunities that were available to me cannot compare with what TACT has to offer today. I performed primarily in school and church productions.” She eventually moved on to study vocal music at UNC School of the Arts. Rebecca has toured with numerous companies as a professional opera singer, and has now returned to her hometown of Wilmington. Rebecca joined TACT in the early spring of 2011, and she has been busy making some exciting changes! Not only has she continued the TACT tradition of cultivating young actors, she has expanded the training to include many of the technical aspects of theater production.
Auditions for the TACT productions are held at various times throughout the year. Rebecca understands many of the children attending the auditions are beginners, and that the large, professionally run auditions can be extremely intimidating. However, she wants them to feel comfortable knowing that the adults running the auditions have all been on the other side of the table, and have experience performing in front of large crowds. They understand how scary it can be for a child just starting out in the theater and they truly want to make this a rewarding experience for every child involved!
Many of the older children involved with TACT, learn to work the sound and lighting. All of the children participating in a production are involved in the set design. However, there is an entire group of kids that only want to work on the technical aspects, and that’s fine too! Some of the technical kids are former TACT actors, while others never felt a desire to perform on stage. Rebecca says that this is a wonderful way for these children to earn community service hours, also it is essential to the success of the production. Rebecca assures us that there is always a professional on hand to guide them through the more complicated technical areas. She says, “These kids are learning professional skills that they can take with them directly to a professional stage, or college. Do you know the best part about this experience? There are no fees associated with being a part of the TACT productions! TACT is a non-profit organization and their mission is “to teach life skills through theater education and provide an outlet for artists and technicians to develop and exercise their craft.” Rebecca is proud to work with TACT to achieve this goal! “My first production (as producer, general manager, and assistant musical director) with TACT was Footloose,” says Rebecca. TACT’s current production, “Broadway Now”, will
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One way to see if your child is interested in performing on stage is to let them attend one of the shows. Broadway Now Show times and location February 10-12 and February 17-19 at the Hannah Block 2nd Street Stage, 120 S. 2nd Street in downtown Wilmington. Performances are Fridays and Saturdays @ 7pm, and Sundays @ 3pm. $10 general admission. If your child is still not sure they want to jump right in to an audition, there are other opportunities to test out their acting chops! Acting Classes TACT Academy The TACT Academy offers classes in the three main disciplines of musical theater: acting, music, and dance. Classes take place at the Community Arts Center 120 South 2nd Street in downtown Wilmington. Each class is held one day per week for a six week session. Classes are offered at $50 for a full six week session. Parents may register for classes and acquire additional information by calling Community Arts Center at 910-341-7860. You can also visit the Thalian Association website www. thalian.org or TACT’s facebook page for upcoming class schedules, performances and auditions. v Danielle Villegas is the Features Editor at Wilmington Parent Magazine. Please email any questions, comments, or ideas to danielle.wilmingtonparent@gmail.com
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Audition Time! So you’ve decided to let your budding little actor give theater a try, but what’s next? There are a few steps you need to take before you progress from your living room theater to the big stage. Clear the calendar! – And not just for the audition. Once you find out when to show up for the audition, ask about the rehearsal and production schedule. Then take a serious look at your family’s calendar. Many of these productions require a major time commitment. No need to get your child excited about something only to find out they will not be able to accept an offered role. Practice!! (but not too much) – Before the audition, find out if there is a song they would like your child to prepare. Then let them practice singing in front of the mirror, the family or just by themselves. Not too much, just enough to know the tune and the words. It’s important to be prepared, but sometimes if you over-do it, a child might become more nervous or frustrated. Just keep it light and fun! Dress comfortably – I know this sounds obvious, but often children will show up to an audition and they are over-dressed. Save the Sunday dresses and fancy shoes for...well, Sunday school. They should be ready to move around, because after they sing, they get to dance! Don’t worry about planning for this, your child will be taught a simple routine and then get a chance to show it off. Read a book – Any book will do, this will help your child with the next phase of an audition – the cold read. This is when your child will get a chance to show how they think a character will act in a story. They will be allowed to look over some lines (these are called “sides”) and then act out the part in front of the director. The more comfortable a child is with reading the easier this will be. Try letting your child read aloud from a page in a book for practice. Don’t over-coach them here either. Remember, kids are amazing actors! Just let them play pretend and they will figure it out with their own wonderful imagination. Callbacks – Some productions will have callbacks, some won’t. This just means that they want to see more of what a person can do. Often this happens for the bigger roles, and they might have a group of children come back and try some more lines or sing a bit more. Stay Positive! – Not everyone makes the cut after an audition, just like in real life. Don’t let your child be discouraged! Keep a positive outlook on the situation and remind them to keep trying. The more auditions they attend, the more confident they will become. There is always another one right around the corner. In the meantime, maybe sign them up for an improv, acting, dance, or musical theater class. Anything to get them out in front of others, having fun, and doing what they love! Rebecca Rockow in costume with TACT company member Emilia Torello backstage at Thalian Hall.
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Crazy Cakes and Froyo Time! By Danielle Villegas The Dessert Divas
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Apple Annie’s – Specialty cakes plus other fun delicious desserts. You can also order personal birthday cupcakes in a special birthday box. www.appleanniesbakeshop.com (910) 256-6585
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The Bakeress – All types of specialty birthday cakes, pies, and desserts. Plus - she delivers!! (910) 512-4681 Coastal Cupcakes – Cupcake towers make a fun birthday cake, plus no need to worry about cutting pieces of cake. Boxes available filled with a variety of cupcake flavors too! www.coastalcupcakes.com Downtown (910) 251-8844 or Wrightsville – (910) 256-1122 The Dessert Divas – Designer cakes of all shapes and sizes! These ladies love designing specialty cakes and have experience with a variety of themes and styles. www.thethreedivas.com Hot Pink Cake Stand – All things cake!! Theme cakes or cupcakes for your party. www.hotpinkcakestand.com (910) 343-4727 Perfectly Frosted – Cupcakes delivered anywhere in the Wilmington area! Unique themes and flavors. www.perfectlyfrosted.com -order online (910) 228-3585 The Bakeress
Shore Shack – Only the coolest party has a Donut Cake!! Customized donut cakes to fit the theme of the party. (910) 333-6688 Need some ice cream to go with that cake? How about some Froyo?! The Fuzzy Peach - Did you know you The Fuzzy Peach is now in the catering business? Oh yeah, now your party is really chillin’ when all your party guests get to make their own cup of the infamous Fuzzy Peach Frozen Yogurt! www.thefuzzypeach.com Brrrberry – There’s a new frozen yogurt bar in town! Located in Mayfaire, and they do birthday parties. No catering yet, but if you schedule your party at Brrrberry, bring your fancy cake with you, then no need to worry about how to keep your ice cream from melting. They have that part covered! www.brrrberryyogurt.com (910) 679-4709 v The Shore Shack
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Every party at Ribbet includes 2-hour room rental with clean-up; a dedicated party host; complementary use of our DVD player with surround sound for movies; and IPod dock with in-wall speakers for your party. Playlists are available if needed. All packages below include up to 10 children but additional guests may be added.
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on’t let birthday party planning destroy your last hold on sanity! Our annual Birthday Party Guide is here to help you find everything you need to make your party a success. We have a variety of birthday party venues listed, with different themes and activities for all ages. Think you might want to try a party at home? We have some fun local ideas about inflatables, party food, and entertainers to help you plan a party your child will always remember. Below are some helpful hints to ensure a stress-free party! • Start planning at least 4 weeks in advance. • Involve your child in the planning process by letting them help choose the theme. • Keep it simple – don’t stress about the little details. Kids just want to have fun! They probably won’t remember if the napkins matched the plates. • If parents are dropping off their child, remember to keep a clipboard handy to write down emergency contact information. • If they’re old enough, let your child help you write out the invitations (and the thank you notes!). This will save time, and your writing hand, plus your child will feel more involved. • Limit the number of guests to the number of your child’s age + 1. • To avoid hurt feelings, only send invitations to school if you’re inviting the whole class. Remember, add your name to the invitation so they know who to ask for when they RSVP! If you think you’re brave enough to try a sleepover, be sure to check out the article “Do’s and Don’ts for Slumber Party Success.” Most importantly, have fun making lasting memories, and celebrating another exciting year as a parent!
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Birthday Party Listings Theme Parties
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The Children’s Museum of Wilmington 116 Orange Street Wilmington, NC 28401 910-254-3534 x 13 www.playwilmington.org mypartyis@playwilmington.org The Museum is pleased to offer parties featuring great themes that provide a worry-free experience for parents and an exciting time for children. Our celebrations will make everyone SMILE! Come And Party With Us! - Exclusive use of a private party room for 2 hours (adults are free, however siblings will be counted in the guest total). - Full day admission for all party guests, so children can play after the party. - Children’s Museum of Wilmington birthday invitations and envelopes - Includes a fun, educational activity for all children. (Choose from one of our party themes, listed below) - Party supplies include table decorations – napkins, plates, cups, tablecloths, forks, candles and cake knife. - Each party guest will receive a goody bag full of fun trinkets to remember their day at the Children’s Museum of Wilmington including a FREE child’s return guest pass. - Birthday child will receive a Children’s Museum of Wilmington t-shirt. - Set up and Clean up by CMOW’s friendly staff Theme Parties Our themes are exciting and complimented by fun table decorations, props and party music. Birthday Parties are held in 2 great locations within The Children’s Museum of Wilmington: Secret Cove under the Sea Room and Make Merry Birthday Room. Both locations have plenty of room, fun designs and privacy for your child’s special day! Locations are chosen based on availability. - Become a REAL Princess! PRINCESS PARTY: Activity – Make Lip Gloss! - Arrrg! Mateys! PIRATE PARTY: Activity – Go on
a Treasure Hunt! - Oooooh Ahhhh! SCIENCE PARTY: Activity – Make Slime! - Get Creative! ART PARTY: Activity – Paint on Canvas!
The Wow Factor of Wilmington 910-520-7925 www.wowfactorofwilmington.com We bring the party to you! Backyards, hospitals, churches, company parties and more… (Military Thank You Discount). Our hostess will set it up and take it all down. We provide all the bells and whistles from table settings, chairs, decorations, balloons, party favors, props for photo ops, goodie baskets/bags and all supplies for cake time. All you have to do is be there and enjoy. Our party packages starts at 135.00 for 8 children, 10.00 for each additional child or call for a large group pricing. We have something for everyone. Add-ons available for each party such as a bounce house, a visit from a Princess, special up-dos, mani’s or pedi’s, or a UFO landing in your yard! Parties include: Princess/Mini Azalea Belle Party Give your little princess what she deserves with “The Royal Treatment.” Dress up, play with jewels, enjoy glamorous table settings and possibly a visit from a Princess! The Enchanted Tea Party This delightful, enchanted party brings out the Fairy or Princess in your little one with porcelain teacups, face painting or a girly craft. Spa Party Wow The Spa Treatment! They’ll enjoy mini spa facials, hand and foot soak, glitter face art or making spa lotions. Each guest will enjoy a soft luxurious robe, slippers, plush pillows, vibrating foot massager, a fun game about the birthday girl, chocolate fountain, platter of goodies, glass bowls of color candy and gumballs.
UFO Laser Encounter I bet you’ve never played laser tag like this before. This party is for the young at heart. The Alien Spaceship has landed…enter at your own risk! We provide the laser guns, laser beams, fog machine, robot props and obstacles so you don’t get tagged or tazed. This is an incredible party during the day or an awesome laser party at night. Carnival Party Your guests will enjoy playing backyard carnival games and winning prizes. We’ll provide a pony hops race, sack race, football toss, milk jug toss, fishing game, a visit from our very own Clown Giggles, Clown Joey, balloon animals, carnival tent, candy cart loaded with popcorn, cotton candy, and an assortment of candies.
Magic Parties It’s Magic! No Sleeves Magic 910-200-5300 www.nosleevesmagic.com Voted Wilmington’s Best Party Entertainer since 2006! If you want to give your child one of the craziest and most FUNnominal Parties they will never forget, then take a RUN on the Wacky-Side with No Sleeves Magic. We provide an adrenaline rush of Magic mixed with comedy that’s great for the whole family. Some party packages include goodie bags, tricks, games & more! So, Sit Back, Relax and Laugh, while No Sleeves makes your event a success!To find out which package is best for you, contact one of our PARTYOLOGISTS or visit our website. We have different themes to suit your event and even offer magic telegrams as well as summer magic camps programs.
Indoor Play Parties Simply Play 3818 Oleander Drive Wilmington, NC 28403 910-791-0022 www.playsimplyplay.com simplyplay@yahoo.com Simply Play offers private birthday parties in their
Our Gift to Birthdays! Kids and parents love our Birthday Wish Boxes. Our elves specialize in gift selection, goody bags, personalizing and wrapping the gifts for FREE. We all love teaming up to create happy birthdays!
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Bouncing Parties All About Fun Party Rentals, LLC 910-471-2277 www.allaboutfunonline.com Get your party started with fabulous rentals from All About Fun! We have just what you need for kids of all ages: Pirate Bounce w/ basketball goal, Tropical or Castle Bounce, 3-in-1 Combo, Wet and Dry Slides and a 30’ Slip ‘n Slide! Inflatable rentals range from $150 - $250. New commercial grade Margarita machines plus Sno Cone, Cotton Candy, and Karaoke Machine rentals are available. Call now for pricing. All About Fun will deliver and set up before your guests arrive and pick up after the excitement is over. Call James Merritt to make YOUR next event All About Fun.
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Enjoy a private party in the gym! The birthday child and friends can play in the gym, and jump in the inflatables, the tumbletrak, and the foam block pits, while parents relax and socialize. Our coaches supervise gym time and they also help serve cake, clean up, and load presents into your car after the party. A stress free time for parents; a safe and active party place for boys & girls, ages 2-12. Cost is $250 per party for 1.5 hours - unlimited number of children Saturdays only.
Salon & Make-up Parties
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Downtown Darlings 112 Market Street Unit A Wilmington, NC 28401 910-251-2233 www.downtowndarlings.net It’s a Girl Thing! All of Downtown Darlings party packages include a dedicated party host, plates, napkins, utensils, candles, and one drink per child. All party attendees and the birthday girl receive special items to take home including keepsake photos. All parties take place in our special laugh-A-Lot Lounge and culminate with cake under the spectacular crystal chandelier. Inquire for times, rates and add-ons. Princess Party: Spend a fun filled hour and a half with your friends becoming a princess and being treated like one. You and your friends will make your very own tiaras or sashes and get her photo taken with a royal photographer to as a keepsake memento. Add-ons such as a visit from Ariel, Snow White or Cinderella available. PJ (“or not”) Karaoke Party: Enjoy spending a fun-filled hour and a half in the Laugh-A-Lot Lounge with your friends (pajamas are optional) while you make a “cool craft” of your choice to take home. You and your friends will also get the chance to test your “Music Star” abilities, singing karaoke and dancing to popular hit songs. “Pamper Me” Party: The birthday girl and her guests will be treated to an enjoyable hour and a half of “pamper me” type activities in the Laugh-A-Lot Lounge. First, all girls will make their very own spa mask or lip gloss (one activity or the other - to be determined by birthday girl). 18” Doll Party: A girly girls dream come true! Bring your own 18” doll to play with, dress up, and laugh and giggle with...a lot! There are two options available, both of which include choosing from a wide selection of store doll outfits to dress up and play and the birthday host parent choosing within a certain predeter-
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Carolina Gymnastics 3529 Carolina Beach Road 910-796-1896 Register online @ www.carolinagymnasticsacademy.com
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mined dollar amount for clothes, accessories, and other items. For girls that are invited to the party that do not have an 18” doll, one will be provided for in-store use. Girls without dolls can have same spending allowance set by birthday parent on other store merchandise.
Ribbet – Salon & Shop for Kids 3610 S. College Rd Wilmington, NC 28412 910-399-4252 www.RibbetSalon.com Manager@RibbetSalon.com
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30-foot Slip 'n Slide!
Cotton Candy! SNO Cones! Frozen Margarita Machine
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Give those girls what they love – the girlie treatment! When she has a salon party at Ribbet, she and her 10 party guests will get a color hair extension, light make-up, glitter sprinkle and a manicure. They’ll choose from our huge selection of polish colors including glow-in-the dark and glitter! No need to worry, all our products, nail polishes and make-up are all natural or organic so they’ll have a naturally beautiful time! Packages range from $185 - $225 and include 2 hours in our party room and complementary use of our DVD player or iPod dock. Feel free to bring your own food or let us create an all-inclusive package for you providing pizza and/or cake with all the plates, utensils and drinks for an additional $35-70. Custom packages available, just ask!
Sweet and Sassy Mayfaire Town Center 6800 Main Street, Wilmington, NC 28405 910-256-2882 Hours: Mon-Sat: 10am-7pm, Sun: 12pm-6pm Sweet & Sassy is THE Sweetest Party destination! With 8 themed parties and the Hot Pink Sweet & Sassy Limo, what could be more fun? Parties are designed for girls, ages 4-13 and include glittery makeovers, free take-home gifts, themed activities, and time in our Cake Place® room. The Birthday Girl always gets extra special treatment and it’s our goal to make it her “Best Birthday Ever”. Additional popular add-ons include: Goodie Bags, Pucker Powder Candy, Make-Your-own Spa Items, Hot Pink Limo Rides* & more!
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Nintendo Wii Parties Ribbet – Salon & Shop for Kids 3610 S. College Rd Wilmington, NC 28412 910-399-4252 www.RibbetSalon.com Manager@RibbetSalon.com Oh yeah, these parties are fun! Both boys and girls enjoy our party room with four 50” high-definition TV’s each with its own Nintendo Wii so they can play individually or in large groups. We have all the top games (over 40 to choose from!) and accessories including steering wheels, golf clubs, tennis rackets, Dance Dance Revolution pads, Band Hero with guitar & drums and microphones for karaoke. They’ll play, dance, swing, jump, sing, drive and jam the time away! Packages range from $140 - $180 and include 10 guests for 2 hours in our party room and complementary use of our iPod dock. Feel free to bring your own food or let us create an all-inclusive package for you providing pizza and/or cake with all the plates, utensils and drinks for an additional $35-70.
Gifts and Gift Registry Brilliant Sky Toys and Books Mayfaire Town Center 6864 Main St Wilmington NC 910-509-3353 Wilmingtonnc@brilliantskytoys.com Step into locally owned Brilliant Sky Toys and Books and discover something different, with a focus on enrichment, enlightenment and enjoyment. It’s not just a toy store it’s a play store and everybody likes to play! Featuring toys by Corolle, John Deere, Schleich, Lego, Mogo, Thames & Kosmos, Ugly Doll, Ty, Usborne Books, Kumon, Hape, Tolo, and Webkins.
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Learning Express Progress Point, 1437 Military Cutoff Road Wilmington, NC 28403 910-509-0153 or Hanover Center, 301 Oleander Drive 910-251-6636 www.learningexpresstoys.com/wilmington/ Learning Express offers a Birthday Wish Box gift registry for kids who love to make birthday wishes. It’s popular with kids and convenient for busy parents who can also call and shop by phone. The birthday child fills a jumbo bucket with wishedfor toys ten days before his/her party. A “Birthday Box” is created, and friends and family can call or come in and choose a gift from the child¹s box. The elves at Learning Express will help with party favors, personalize, and even wrap your gifts, free of charge. Birthday kids can also make an online wish list and email it to friends and relatives.
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Does your artistic child have a birthday coming up? Why not celebrate with an art project designed especially with your child in mind! Art projects range from drawing to painting and clay and are created with the help of your child. Mini Monets will come to your party, bring all the supplies and materials, and the party guests get to keep what they make! Children 2 - 12 years old enjoy projects and the cost is $100 for up to 10 children. Please call or email for more details. I look forward to seeing you soon.
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Wine and Design Wilmington 3342 Wrightsville Ave. Phone: (910) 313-2600 Email: wineanddesignwilmington@gmail.com www.wineanddesignnc.com/ wilmington Description: Learn to paint in a fun and friendly atmosphere. In just two hours you take home your own masterpiece! No experience? No problem! Our paintings are suitable for the first-time painter or for more experienced artists. All you need to do is Sign up, Show up, Sip up, and Paint! We know parties! Book yours today!
Barnyard Parties Old McFaye’s Farm 2814 Peter Springs Drive Castle Hayne, NC 28429 910-602-7845 Pony rides, hayrides, feeding the farm animals, and grooming Bubbles, the miniature horse, are just some of the fun activities partygoers will experience at Old McFaye’s Farm. You provide the party supplies (cake, drinks, plates, decorations, etc.) and Old McFaye’s Farm will take care of the fun! The farm provides picnic tables and a grill, or a fire pit is available to roast hotdogs and marshmallows. Appropriate for all ages, your 2-hour party costs $225 for 20 children; additional children $8 each. Call Faye Hodges for more information.
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Mini Monets Mini Monets Birthdays Greater Wilmington Area 910-399-1708 www.minimonets.wordpress.com
Sea-Worthy Parties North Carolina Aquarium at Fort Fisher 900 Loggerhead Rd. Kure Beach, N.C. 28449 www.ncaquariums.com/fort-fisher 910-458-8257
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Aquarium Parties or Sleepovers. We can even come to you! Celebrate your child’s special day with a birthday party at the North Carolina Aquarium at Fort Fisher. Program birthdays include a T-shirt craft with T-shirts and all art supplies included, a live animal presentation, use of the Aquarium’s classroom and a self-guided tour of the Aquarium. You can choose the following themes for a live animal presentation: - Amphibians – Frogs, toads, salamanders - Reptiles - Turtles, alligators, snakes - Invertebrates – Sea urchins, starfish, crabs Cost: $205.00 for up to 12 children and 12 adults, $10.00 for each additional child, $6.80 for each additional adult Time Length: 2 hours. Parties are recommended for ages 4-10.
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Aquarium Outreach Programs Let our education staff bring a fun, interactive program to your classroom or other location. Each program is specifically adapted to fit your needs, customized for age, size and focus of your group. Live animals, props, hands-on learning activities and costumes make Aquarium Outreach parties enriching for groups of all ages. Registration Information Please contact Special Activities Coordinator at 910458-8257 ext 206 or via email:renee.weeks@ ncaquariums.com to schedule a birthday party for your child or to arrange an outreach contact the Outreach Coordinator at (910) 458-8257 ext. 236 or emailncaff.outreach@ncaquariums.com.
Ripley’s Aquarium 1110 Celebrity Circle Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 843-916-0888 ext 3226 or 800-734-8888 ext 3226 www.ripleysaquarium.com info@ripleys.com Celebrate your birthday at Ripley’s Aquarium with fascinating fish and magnificent sharks. Invite family and friends and we’ll take care of the rest. Dive in and join us for a spectacular birthday to remember! Perfect for anyone who wants to celebrate their special day under the sea.
Birthday Signs & Announcements Stork Greetings & More 910-465-7736 or 910-399-2580 http://www.storkgreetings.org Stork Greetings & More isn’t all about 7ft. Storks and announcing newborn babies arrivals! SGAM offers 4-5ft. Birthday lawn greetings that are fun & colorful with a whimsical look! Our signs are perfect for announcing your child’s birthday, whether it’s a party or private occasion! For children, we offer a 4ft. beautiful Butterfly, a fun, red Airplane, a dancing Princess, a cool Pirate on deck, and the cutest Mermaid for your beach lover! SGAM doesn’t stop at children’s birthdays, we also cater to adults birth-
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days as well! We have a 5 ft. decorated Birthday cake, and a “Holy Mackerel” Fish, splashing some wishes! All of our signs come personalized for the recipient’s birthday. Included as well is a 4-balloon bouquet, which can be upgraded with Mylar balloons from our fun selection we offer! We deliver, set-up & pick-up for one-two day rentals. All of our signs are pictured on our website, plus some other fun ideas and critters to deliver your message!
All Aboard Parties Battleship NORTH CAROLINA 910-251-5797 www.battleshipnc.com The best birthday parties are held aboard the Battleship! With the Ship as the playground and party site it’s a playdate your kids won’t forget. Call 910-251-5797 for pricing and availability to see how you can be coolest parent that took all the kid’s to the Battleship!
Princess Parties
Treat your daughter like the princess she is with a fairy princess birthday party! Your princess and her friends will enjoy a day of dress up, runway, dance, crafts, and bounce house time in the birthday rooms at the Wilmington School of Fine Arts. Please see the office for availability and reservation of your birthday party. We will provide the table, chairs, decorations, instructor, princess gear, and loads of fun. You provide refreshments, paper products, & cake. The cost is $150 for 1.5 hour.
Ice Skating Parties The Wilmington Icehouse 7201 Ogden Business Lane Wilmington, NC 910-686-1987 Take a birthday celebration to the next level; throw an ice skating birthday at the coolest place in town! The Wilmington Ice House is the areas only ice skating facility that offers a selection of birthday party packages to suit your party needs. We can take care of the decorations, the food, set-up and the clean up. All you need to worry about is putting on your party skates and having fun, and that’s also included! Give us a call to schedule your next event.
Fancy Nancy Wraps Nancy Lievre 910-520-1586 Fancynancywraps@aol.com With more than 250 designs to choose from- there is a wrapper for every occasion! Add a photo, logo or the perfect message to turn any event into a memory that will last a lifetime. Perfect for birthday party favors, weddings, births or just about any special occasion. The possibilities are endless with a personalized candy bar! Check us out on Facebook: www.facebook.com/FancyNancyWraps
Icy Party Treats Kona Ice 910-270-2575 www.coastalcarolina.kona-ice.com Kona Ice is a one of a kind experience that serves a premium tropical shaved ice; the finest icy treat on the planet. This is NOT your typical lack-luster snow cone. Our flavors are bold & delicious... like nothing you’ve ever had! Kona Ice is dairy-free, gluten-free and we even offer flavors that are sugarfree and dye-free! What really sets Kona Ice apart is our patented FlavorWave®! Those top 10 flavors that YOU can apply yourself!! Or choose from over 50 custom flavors we can create for you! Kona-Ice can do anything with fundraising or fun – sports leagues, school events, festivals and fairs, school sports, birthday parties, corporate events, picnics, church events, block parties, daycares and preschools. Contact us to schedule your event today!
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Party Entertainer The Story Yeller Melvil Dewey International Library Hip Hop Superstar storyYELLER@yahoo.com 949-395-6197 Want a unique birthday party experience? Bring literacy to life with a visit from the Story Yeller. Melvil Dewey teaches children the importance of libraries in our communities, advocates reading and introduces basic library skills. His first single, The Dewey Decimal Rap, has over half a million hits on YouTube and is being distributed worldwide by McGraw-Hill in 2012. Dance, sing and jump around with Melvil Dewey and his zany library hip-hop at your next party.
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COPING WITH COLLEGE COSTS— SAVINGS AND DEBT If you think education is expensive, try ignorance
Derek Bok By Ken Harbinson
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here are three things to remember about college costs. Foremost, very few families pay the full price as itemized in the catalog. Second, there are various tax advantaged savings plans to help. Third, government and college financial assistance in the form of loans, grants and scholarships is generously available. In these circumstances, students should always apply to the schools they want, not just to the ones they think they can afford. COLLEGE SAVINGS PLANS—START EARLY AND STAY WITH IT Family savings are almost invariably the essential first ingredient for getting your teenagers into that desired school. Probably the best way to safely accumulate these savings is through 3 tax-advantaged savings plans provided by Congress. SECTION 529 SAVINGS: This is the most popular and widely used college savings plan because the accumulated interest is tax-free both at the federal level and in most states, including North Carolina. A family can make extremely high levels of deposits into a selection of investments that are administered by state entities such as the North Carolina State Education Assistance Authority. Deposits are not limited to immediate family members, but can be made by grandparents, uncles, etc. They can also be transferred from one college student to another. Moreover, the program is not limited to attending a NC college, rather can be used for schools nationwide. INDEPENDENT 529 SAVINGS: While the basic 529 programs are geared toward state institutions, some 270 private colleges administer a similar program. These schools range from the most prestigious— a Duke or Stanford—to lesser-known quality institutions. As with standard 529 plans, the deposits go into professionally managed mutual funds that strive for peak dollar values when the funds are needed. A special feature of this plan is that it locks in tuitions years before the student is to attend while still giving the student the full range of 270 options. Altogether 8 colleges in NC participate in this program. COVERDELL SAVINGS: These are sponsored by banks or brokerage houses and thus can offer a greater (and potentially riskier) range of investment options. They can be done in addition to regular 529 plans. In addition, they can be used for elementary and high school costs rather than
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just college expenses. Unlike the 529’s, however, total contributions are limited to $2000 per student annually and family income must be less than $110,000 for single filers and $220,000 for joint filers. Given the relatively small amounts, this is just the sort of savings program that your teen might fund from lawn mowing or babysitting so as to learn some early investment lessons. COLLEGE COSTS—MAXIMIZE USE OF SAVINGS SO AS TO MINIMIZE DEBT Interestingly, the money an average family puts into the foregoing savings plans will have little or no bearing on the student’s eligibility for financial aid. Rather, eligibility derives from an “Expected Family Contribution” (EFC) calculation--this is basically annual family income and family circumstances (e.g.. number of children). Annually, some 9.6 million loan applicants calculate their EFC on the almost universally used “Free Application for Federal Student Aid” (FAFSA) form that they then submit online to the Department of Education (DOE) and to schools of interest. These applications must be renewed every school year. Once submitted, the student’s financial need is calculated by subtracting the EFC from the overall college costs. A college selecting a student for admission then proposes a mix of loans, grants, scholarships, and work-study programs for which the student is eligible. Here in NC these offers can range from 80% up to fully 100% of needs. If accepted by multiple schools, the student and family then weigh the competing offers to select the school that best meets the teen’s academic goals and financial needs. If the family has adequate savings, of course, they may turn down loan offers. In most cases, however, student borrowing is a necessary part of the financial aid package—2/3 of college graduates emerge into the work-aday world with some $25,000 of debt. The test for the student and family, therefore, is to see to it that the graduate does not begin his or her working career swimming in a sea of red ink. THE THREAT OF DEBT—MAKE IT LESS PAINFUL Government loans through DOE are clearly the least onerous of borrowing options—it is some mixture of these loans listed on the chart below that the college of your choice will offer. They are administered directly by DOE rather than by banks as in the past.
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Loan Options CRITERIA
SUBSIDIZED STAFFORD
UNSUBSIDIZED STAFFORD
PERKINS
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ELIGIBILITY
At least ½ time student in 5000 schools
At least ½ time student in 5000 schools
At least ½ time student in 1800 schools. Limited funds available to each school
Dependent on parents credit rating
Available so long as underlying loans are in good standing
AMOUNTS AVAILABLE
1st yr-$3500 2nd yr-$4500 Beyond-$5500
1st yr-$2000 2nd yr -$2000 Beyond-$2000
$4000 per yr to total Yearly limit is cost of of $27000 as an under- attendance minus grad other aid
Amount accumulated in underlying loans
NEEDS TEST
Need as shown in FAFSE
Not needs based
Exceptional need as shown in FAFSE
Not applicable
Not applicable
INTEREST RATE
4.5% starting 6mos after graduation
6.8% starting 6mos after graduation
5% starting 9mos after graduation
7.9% + 4% origination fee starting 60 days after final disbursement
Weighted average of underlying loans + .25%
As shown, the “subsidized Stafford (Direct)” and “Perkins” loans are low interest and strictly based on need. Both loans forego interest payments while the student is in school. Note also that Perkins loans are allocated by the college from a limited pot of money—it is necessary to apply early to get one of these. By contrast, “unsubsidized Stafford’s” and “PLUS” loans to parents have higher interest rates payable while the student is in school. They are not based primarily on need. Finally, the “consolidated” loan represents the option for the graduate to wrap all his or her loans into a single package and presumably pay a lower interest rate than would otherwise be the case.
When it now comes time to repay the loan(s) there is another menu of options shown on the chart below. They are more sensitive to the financial struggles graduates may face than would be the case with normal bank loans. Graduates can change from one repayment plan to another as circumstances change. Repayment begins 6-9 months after graduation. While these options are designed to facilitate loan repayment, default is nonetheless a growing problem in bad economic times. Thus, DOE is exercising “forbearance” on many loans where borrowers ask for it and need temporary “elbow room” to avoid harming their credit rating. To be noted— bankruptcy does not relieve a person’s responsibility for student loans.
REPAYMENT OPTIONS PAYMENT SCHEDULE OPTIONS FOR ALL LOANS
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EXTENDED
GRADUATED
INCOME BASED
INCOME CONTINGENT & INCOME SENSITIVE REPAYMENT PLANS
Fixed monthly amount for 10 years
Fixed or graduated repayment not to exceed 25 years
Payments increase every 2 years for repayment in 10 years
Payment capped at 10% of income
Available to limited special loans
Unlike a bank loan, it is also possible to have these government loans forgiven under certain circumstances. This is particularly so with “income based payments.” After 20 years of timely payments DOE is able to cancel remaining balances. This period is shortened to 10 years if the graduate has certain public service jobs. Beyond this, colleges that awarded Perkins loans to students are empowered to cancel them if graduates follow certain public service careers with particular emphasis on teaching. While college saving is necessary and student debt is often a necessary RESOURCES TO REVIEW 1. NCSEAA.EDU—PROVIDES INFORMATION FOR ENROLLING IN NC’S 529 SAVINGS PLAN 2. INDEPENDENT529PLAN.ORG—PROVIDES SIMILAR INFORMATION FOR THE PRIVATE SCHOOL PLAN 3. FAFSA.GOV—THE ON-LINE FAMILY FINANCES FORM TO BE FILED WITH DOE 4. STUDENTLOANNETWORK.COM—PROVIDES COMPLETE INFORMATION ON ALL LOAN AND REPAYMENT OPTIONS 5. FINAID.ORG & FASTWEB.COM—PROVIDE EXTENDED GUIDANCE ON EVALUATING COLLEGE FINANCIAL AWARD LETTERS AND A CALCULATOR FUNCTION FOR MAKING COMPARISONS
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evil, responsibility for both of them fall on the student and family. Grants and scholarships are the other half of the college finance equation, whether based on need, academic achievement or other considerations. They constitute the lion’s share of most financial aid packages and will be discussed in the next article. v Ken Harbinson is a freelance writer and the proud parent of three college graduates. ALL SAVINGS PLANS CAN BE USED FOR A BROAD RANGE OF COLLEGE COSTS. IF THEY ARE NOT SO USED, HOWEVER, THE IRS CAN CHARGE A 10% PENALTY. WHILE THE DOE HAS TAKEN OVER THE STUDENT LOAN PROGRAM SOME BANKS HAVE INITIATED “ALTERNATIVE STUDENT LOAN” OFFERINGS. INTEREST RATES DEPEND ON THE CO-SIGNERS CREDIT. DETAILS AND APPLICATION ARE AT STUDENTLOANNETWORK.COM.
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fit family Preparing for the Presidential Physical Fitness Test Each year in late winter and early spring, students in New Hanover County Schools are required to take the Presidential Physical Fitness Test. In preparation for the next round of testing, consider helping your child train ahead of time so he can do his very best. First, here are a few things you should know about the test: The Presidential Fitness Test is based on age and gender. It recognizes students for their level of physical fitness in 5 events: curl-ups, shuttle run, endurance run/walk, pull-ups or flexed arm hang, and sit & reach. Two awards are available for students who meet the program qualifications: Presidential (Blue Badge) and National (Red Badge).
Local Races Luv2Run 5K Saturday, February 4 @ 8am Mayfaire Town Center Run for Ray Trail Run Half-Marathon, 6 Mile & 3 Mile Saturday, February 25 @ 9am Brunswick Nature Park, Winnabow
Tips for Fitness Test Success: Download the handbook “Get Fit—A Handbook for Youth Ages 6 to 17” by visiting http://www.presidentschallenge. org/pdf/getfit.pdf. You’ll find information to help you better understand the test as well as some great exercises you can do with your child. Curl-Ups Tip: Have your child ask the person administering the curl-up test to count the number of repetitions out loud. Shuttle Run Tip: Make sure your child knows to run through the finish line. Sit & Reach Tip: Your child will be most flexible after a warm-up run, so best results for sit & reach may occur immediately after the endurance run. Pull-Up Tip: Instruct your child to spend as little time as possible hanging from the bar before pulling up. Also, discourage kicking of legs or swinging of the body. Flexed-arm Hang Tip: Rather than pulling up to start, your child should be lifted to the starting position. This will decrease exertion and may increase length of time she’s able to hang. Endurance Walk/Run Tip: Practice running and walking with your child to help him learn how to pace himself to cover the one-mile distance in as short a time as possible.
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Welcoming New Parents The President’s Council on Fitness, Sports and Nutrition a committee of volunteer citizens who advise the President on promoting healthy lifestyles through fitness, sports and nutrition programs offers tips on how to start out the new year on the right foot.
Our pediatric medical practice is designed to provide medical care to infants, children, and adolescents from birth through 18 years of age. Our focus is on the total development of each child; physical, mental, social and emotional.
Council member Cornell McClellan, trainer to the First Family, suggests the following to get your new year started on the path to good health, nutrition and fitness:
We offer a sick walk in clinic Monday through Saturday 8am – 11am; well visits by appointment from 9 am – 5pm Monday through Friday and sick visits by appointment 1pm – 6:30pm Monday – Thursday (4pm on Fridays).
The Right Start to 2012
• Use salad plates for your meal instead of a dinner plate. A smaller plate will help with portion control. • Make exercise a family affair. Physical activity is more than the gym and classes. Dancing, walking, or ice skating with your family provides great physical activity opportunities, and is a great way to spend time with your loved ones. • Mental roadblocks can stall your progress to physical fitness. Overcome these barriers by starting small – walking 5 minutes every day will soon turn into 50 minutes.
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• Relieve stress and tension with physical activity. Being active can boost your endorphins and distract you from daily worries during the long winter months. • If you’re concerned about overindulging when going out to a party or function, eat a small snack beforehand - this will make you less likely to overeat during the party. • Prioritize your health. It’s important to find time to be physically active and eating healthy. Consider waking up earlier in the morning, fitting in physical activity over a lunch break, and scheduling time for your workouts on your daily calendar.
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• Have a clear goal in mind – whether it is being active a certain amount of time each week or attending a set number of fitness classes.
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• Know what motivates you. We’re all motivated by something different – by our families, by our jobs, by ourselves. Once you find out what in your life motivates you, relate it to the benefit that will come from physical activity and enhance your life. • Physical activity doesn’t have to be something we dread. Try a new sport or workout class to break out of your normal exercise routine. • Can’t make it to the gym? Fit exercise into your daily routine by taking the stairs instead of the elevator, parking away from the building to walk more, or exergaming instead of sitting on the couch and watching TV. • Keep your healthy eating goals where you can see them. Source: http://www.fitness.gov/about-us/what-wedo/national-monthly-events/healthiest-year-yet/
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department | school notes
Elementary School Options 1) An assigned school is a school near your home to which your child is guaranteed admission. 2) A year-round school offers the NC curriculum on a nine-week-on/three-week-intercession schedule. Year round schools are Codington and Eaton. (You must apply to these schools and they must be within your assigned territory. Acceptance is determined by lottery.) 3) A magnet school is a school with a theme to draw students from all over the county. The three elementary magnet schools are Rachel Freeman School of Engineering, Gregory School of Science, Mathematics and Technology, and Annie Snipes Academy of Arts & Design. (If you live in the “attendance zone” for a magnet school, there is no need to apply. All others must apply and acceptance is based on lottery.) 4) A charter school is a tuition-free publicly funded school that is run by a small group or organization. Charter schools in our area include Cape Fear Center for Inquiry (cfci.net), Wilmington Preparatory Academy (wilmingtonace.org) and Roger Bacon Academy (rogerbaconacademy.net). Visit the school web page for additional information. For complete details and application information on the first 3 options, visit http://www.nhcs.net. Click on the “Parents” tab for links and select “Magnet/Choice schools.” Contact Student Support Services at 251-2929 or 254-4292 for assistance.
Community Job Fair at Williston Williston Middle School will host a Community Job Fair and Professional Attire Fashion Show on Saturday, February 18, 2012 from 11am to 3pm. The goal of the Fair is to provide assistance to job seekers and to offer training on resume writing and dressing for success in the workplace. Employers interested in participating please contact NHCS Public Relations at (910) 254-4221
School’s Out! New Hanover County: Traditional Schools: February 17 – Student Half Day/ Staff Development Day February 20 – Teacher Work Day Year Round Schools: February 17 – Student Half Day/ Staff Development Day February 20 – Teacher Work Day Isaac Bear Early College: February 27 – Staff Development Day Wilmington Early College: September 5 – Labor Day Holiday
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Pre-K Calendar: February 17 – No School for Students/ Staff Development Day February 20 – Teacher Work Day
Brunswick: Traditional Schools: February 20 – Teacher Work Day (Parent Conferences) Charter Day School: February 20 – President’s Day Holiday Brunswick Early College: February 10 – Teacher Work Day (Parent Conferences)
Pender: Traditional Schools: February 8 – Early Release/Staff Development February 20 – Student Vacation/Staff Work Day Penderlea Year Round School: February 8 – Early Release/Staff Development February 20 – Student Vacation/Staff Work Day Pender Early College: February 8 – Early Release/Staff Development February 20 – Student Vacation/Staff Work Day Visit www.nhcs.net, www.co.brunswick.k12.nc.us or www.pendercountyschools.net for more information.
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pediatric dentistry
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department | going green
Lighten Your Load
going green
Laundry tips that save energy, money and the planet
By Brandy Metzger
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aundry seems like a never-ending chore. According to Energy Star, the average American family washes almost 400 loads of laundry a year. This task can have a huge impact on the environment through consumption of energy, natural resources and products used. Thankfully, there are ways to reduce your environmental impact by greening your laundry practices. One of the best ways to reduce your impact is to do less laundry. You can do this by reusing towels instead of washing them every time you use them. After all, you are drying a clean
Washing machines use between 40 and 60 gallons of water per load, so if you don’t have a full machine, you are wasting a lot of water. surface after bathing or showering, right? Also, some clothes can be worn more than once before washing. Jeans, corduroy pants, sweaters and sweatshirts usually aren’t dirty after one wearing, so hang them up instead of slinging them into the laundry hamper. After you’ve lightened your laundry load, hold off on running the washer until you have a full load. Washing machines use between 40 and 60 gallons of water per load, so if you don’t have a full machine, you are wasting a lot of water. Use the lowest temperature setting possible as well. Most clothes come clean in a cold or warm water wash. If you have heavily soiled clothing, pre-soaking can help clean them and
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allow you to use a lower temperature wash cycle. If water doesn’t have to be heated, a great deal of energy is conserved. Drying clothes the old fashioned way—on a clothesline—saves the most energy. Plus, line drying protects your clothes and linens from the harsh heat of the dryer, giving them a longer lifespan. If a clothesline or drying rack is not an option for you, follow these tips. Fill the dryer, but don’t overfill it! If the clothes are packed in too tightly and don’t have space for air to move around them, they won’t dry quickly, requiring longer cycles to get them dry. Clean the dryer filter after each load and check the outside dryer exhaust vent frequently. If either one of these is clogged or not working properly, then your dryer is using more energy than necessary. Choose products that are environmentally friendly when shopping for laundry supplies like detergents and stain removers. Avoid products that contain artificial fragrances and choose ones that have earned the “Design for the Environment” label from the EPA. This label lets consumers know that the product has met EPA requirements that designate it as safe for the environment. Dryer sheets are non-essential and break down the fibers in your clothes, so you can eliminate them from your laundry budget! Following these simple laundry tips will reduce your household’s environmental impact— and save you money. v Brandy Metzger is a freelance writer with a passion for green living. She is also a mother and a principal educator with STIZZil (an online education company).
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department | the doctor is in
the dr. is in
How do you get RSV? RSV is usually transmitted by hand contact. The virus is excreted in mucous and may live for hours on countertops, doorknobs, or grocery cart handles. You touch the virus, then you touch your nose or eyes, and the RSV has a new home. People who contract RSV do make antibodies against the virus which are somewhat protective, but they’re not perfect, so it’s possible to acquire RSV multiple times in your lifetime (I suspect I’ve had it multiple times in the last month). The good news is that subsequent infections are usually less severe than the first one. By age two most children test positive for RSV antibody, meaning they’ve been infected at some point.
So what exactly does it do?
By Dr. David Hill
For the first two to eight days, nothing (that’s the incubation period). But RSV rarely remains asymptomatic. Symptoms always start in the upper airway, with nasal congestion, cough, and runny nose. RSV frequently causes middle ear infections (otitis media) In many patients that’s where it stops, as a “common cold.” But in half of first-time RSV patients the virus works its way down into the lungs causing a bronchiolitis.
Don’t you mean “bronchitis”? The term “bronchitis” really lacks a med- ical definition in children. Bronchial infec- tions in adults (usually smokers) may be bacterial and sometimes respond to antibi- otics. In children such infections are almost always viral and antibiotics don’t help. Childhood coughs that do respond to antibiotics usually result from sinusitis, pneumonia, or Bordatella pertussis infec- tion.
in the thirties or forties. The trick, especially with smaller infants, is to count the breaths for a whole minute, as they’ll often alternate short periods of slower and faster breathing. Also, babies who can’t breathe can’t eat, so poor feeding can be a sign of respiratory distress. Babies may also flare their nostrils or grunt with each breath as they work harder to move air. Sometimes you’ll see the skin between the ribs pull inward as they inhale (retractions). You may even notice the infant using his or her abdominal muscles to help force air out of the lungs.
How do you diagnose RSV? If the history and physical exam suggest RSV, your doctor may use saline drops and a syringe to withdraw some mucous from the baby’s nose. Most labs can analyze this sample for RSV within a couple of hours. Chest x-rays may sometimes be suggestive, but often the xray doesn’t look nearly as bad as the clinical picture would suggest.
How do you treat RSV? Therapy for RSV infection remains large-ly supportive. While wheezing from asth- ma responds well to bronchodilators (albuterol, levalbuterol, pirbuterol, salmeterol) the wheeze in RSV is by a different mechanism. Bronchodilators are almost always tried, but results are rarely satisfying. Corticosteroids, which work well for asthma, don’t improve RSV at all. Antiviral drugs like Ribavirin have been tried, but they don’t seem to help. So for now we administer oxygen and IV fluids if needed and monitor breathing until the patient gets better, usually over the course of a few days.
The ABC’s of RSV What does RSV do in the lungs?
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ome people hear the letters “RSV” and think Really Soggy Vermicelli or Routinely Squeaky Violinists or even Regrettably Short Vacation. But parents of infants know RSV means something even more frightening than grating fiddlers: Respiratory Syncitial Virus.
Respiratory what? Respiratory syncitial virus is a member of the Paramyxoviridae family responsible for cold symptoms in older children and adults. But in small children and infants RSV can cause a potentially life-threatening lower respiratory infection called bronchiolitis. Between 75,000 and 125,000 babies are hospitalized each year for RSV, most between two and five months of age. Infections may occur year-round, but the incidence rises dramatically in November and tapers off around April.
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When the RSV virus infects the lungs the bronchioles produce excess mucous and dead epithelial cells, which block air movement. White blood cells (lymphocytes) move into the area around the bronchioles to fight the infection, and they may contribute to the blockage as well. When you breathe in the bronchioles open up a little, so air gets into the alveoli. But when you breathe out, the bronchioles are compressed, so air gets trapped in the lungs. This condition is called “hyper-expansion”: more air gets into the lungs than can escape. Wheezing is the high-pitched, whistling sound the air makes as it tries to exit the lungs through thousands of narrowed air passages. RSV may also infect the alveoli themselves, causing pneumonia.
How can I tell my child is having breathing problems? We mentioned wheezing, but wheezing is often very difficult to hear without a stethoscope. A more obvious sign is tachypnea (fast breathing). Infants may breathe as often as sixty times a minute, but usually their respiratory rates are
Who is at greatest risk from RSV? Older children and adults seem to tolerate RSV with few consequences unless they have serious underlying lung or heart disease. Smaller infants are more likely to be hospitalized, and premature babies can be at very high risk depending on how early they are. Immunocompromised patients, such as bonemarrow transplant recipients, can be at very high risk as well..
Is there some way to avoid RSV infection? Hand washing remains your best bet. Alcohol hand sanitizers seem at least as good, especially when there’s an older sibling in the home who attends school or daycare. Premature babies and infants with severe lung or heart disease may receive monthly antibody injections throughout the winter to minimize RSV infection. Hopefully with these precautions you and your children can maintain your Radically Superb Vitality.v Dr. David Hill is a board-certified pediatrician with Cape Fear Pediatrics (www.capefearpediatrics.com). He has three children.
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Do’s and Don’ts
for Slumber Party Success! By Kerrie McLoughlin
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oes the thought of 10 kids sleeping over at your house all on the same night freak you out? Do you picture getting zero sleep because you have to deal with said kids all night long? Do you picture food and drink and toys and junk exploding all over your house? Yeah, I did, too. Then I figured out some ways to make it a great experience for the kids AND for me. Learn from the Slumber Party Sensei’s do’s and don’ts, folks:
Do make food and drink easy. Pizza is the perfect slumber party food, and if you’re really daring you can let them build their own (using a pre-made crust, of course … I’m not COMPLETELY insane!). Clear juice in pouches or boxes is awesome. You’ll have a lot of little people and you don’t want them hopped up on caffeine or spilling soda all over the place. If you have older girls over, you might let them make and decorate cupcakes, as long as they can clean up after themselves.
Don’t have a slumber party until all the kids are at least 7, can understand rules and communicate well and can be away from home without being too homesick. Make sure you get home and cell phone numbers for all parents.
Do leave the kids alone. They don’t want you hanging around, and this
Do find out about any special needs by talking to parents one-on-one. For
Do check in from time to time because kids are naughty by nature! This is a good time to pretend like you’re a spy. Buy some binoculars. Just kidding!
instance, if a kid wears a Pull-Up overnight and wants it to be kept secret, do all you can to make that happen. Especially ask about food allergies, and make a note of them so you don’t forget!! And if this is a kid’s first slumber party, you won’t be surprised if he comes to you wanting to go home close to bedtime.
Do have everyone bring their own pillow and sleeping bag or you will be washing all your stuff the whole next day. Also, I never have enough pillows for everyone and they have to use rolled-up towels.
Do have a game plan for activities, food, etc. Nerf gun wars, Shrinky Dinks and movies work great depending on if you have boys or girls over and what their ages are.
Do set the ground rules. No eating outside the kitchen. No sneaking out. No prank calling (or texting!). You don’t want parents calling you in the middle of the night because your little charges are messing around on the phone. They can stay up and watch TV (2 half levels down!) as long as they want.
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gives you the chance to have a real conversation with your spouse, make some phone calls, do some scrapbooking or start some other crazy project (like cleaning out your closet!).
Don’t have a tent sleepover in the backyard. We tried this for about 5 minutes once until someone told me two kids were plotting to sneak over to the park across the street in the middle of the night. Trust me, you do NOT want to be “that parent” who loses the kids or lets them run wild in the neighborhood! Do have everyone pick up before they go home! Don’t forget to set a definite pick-up time for the next morning (so you’re not stuck with a house full until noon!) v Kerrie McLoughlin has tons of slumber parties at her house, what with being the mom of 5 kids and all. You can find her at TheKerrieShow.com. Catholic hippie family chaos at http://TheKerrieShow.com & http:// homeschoolingmommybot.blogspot.com Twitter http://Twitter.com/mommykerrie
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department | meet the expert
Ribbet Salon & Shop for Kids 3610-E S. College Road, Wilmington, NC (910) 399-4252 www.RibbetSalon.com Family Atmosphere Meets Quality Haircuts You can expect a super fun atmosphere and a quality haircut every time you visit Ribbet. Their stylists are patient, friendly, and specially trained to work with children. They will listen and consult on the most up-to-date trends and hair styles so your kids leave looking their best. That is a promise that owner Delyn Fritz takes personally.
All Natural Hair Salon Products You can expect that every product used and sold at Ribbet is a carefully selected natural product found to be of superior quality without all the needless chemical preservatives or mystery ingredients in so many of the widely available children’s products. The simple truth is that there are excellent alternatives available and Ribbet is proud to make them more accessible to you. You’ll be thrilled with every personal care item you try from their store or they will gladly swap it out for another product.
What They Offer They offer the works – whatever you might be looking for. From children’s haircuts as well as simple shampoo and blow-dry styling to special haircut add-on’s such as up-dos. Their First Haircut Package will make your child feel extra special for their first haircut with a personalized keepsake certificate. They also provide manicures, pedicures, color extensions made from human hair and applied with safe, non-toxic bonding, and special occasion hair styling ideal for weddings, parties, recitals and other occasions. They also offer special occasion, age appropriate make-up using allnatural cosmetics made from fruit pigments.
Birthday Parties Book your next party in Ribbet’s special party room! Every party at Ribbet includes 2-hour room rental with clean-up; a dedicated party host; complimentary use of the DVD player with surround sound for movies; and IPod dock with in-wall speakers for your party. All packages include up to 10 children but additional guests may be added. The birthday child may customize a gift registry in the shop that makes it easy for your party guests and convenient for out of town family and friends that would like to order online or via phone in time for the party. They’ll gift wrap and have the gift waiting for you at the party! Book a Wii Party, an All-Out Salon Party, or a Paint & Play Party. Ask about other options if you would like to customize a package to fit your needs. Call to check availability or reserve your party time.
Shop at Ribbet’s Worry-free luxury! Ribbet offers a full line of children’s shampoos, conditioners, lotion and styling aids that are biodegradable and 100% vegan. They use and offer many organic beauty products for kids using natural, vegetable and plant-based ingredients. Rocking some serious style in 100% recycled packaging, Ribbet also offers toys, accessories and other eco-friendly items.
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department | book beat
Food Fun
book beat
The Edible Schoolyard Project. www.chezpanissefoundation.org. Alice Waters founded the Chez Panisse Foundation in 1996 that provides an educational program that uses food to nurture, educate and empower youth. With names on the board like Michael Pollan and Robert Redford, they have taken a model school lunch program in Berkley, California, and are providing materials to create garden and kitchen programs on the grounds of public schools nationwide. Students learn the connections between food, health and the environment.
Twist It Up, by Jack Witherspoon (Chronicle).
By Julie Hubble
A portion of the proceeds from each book sold is donated to the Beckstrand Cancer Foundation and the Miller’s Children’s Hospital in California because the 11-year-old author of this recipe collection is a leukemia survivor. He “twists” each recipe up by adding a measure of comfort and individuality to these kid favorites. (Age 8 and up)
Eat This Not That! for Kids!: Be the Leanest, Fittest Family on the Block Zinczenko and Matt Goulding (Rodale Books). This is a great book to start the discussion about the choices we make everyday about what we eat. Twenty-two percent of all advertisements geared towards children are food ads. Vivid pictures and brand name labels are held to the microscope for all to see. Popular restaurants, school lunches and the 20 Worst Kids Meals in America are on display. The last chapter? Exercise.
Story Time New Hanover County Libraries
http://www.nhcgov.com/AgnAndDpt/LIBR/Pages/DeptInfo.aspx Main Library – 201 Chestnut Street – 798-6301 Myrtle Grove Branch – 5155 South College Road – 798-6391 Northeast Branch – 1241 Military Cutoff Road – 798-6371 Carolina Beach Branch – 300 Cape Fear Blvd. – 798-6385 Lapsit Storytime (Babies under 18 months) @ 9:30am Main Library: Tuesday 2/7, 2/14, 2/21, 2/28 Myrtle Grove Branch: Wednesday 2/1, 2/8, 2/15, 2/22, 2/29 Northeast Branch: Thursday 2/2, 2/9, 2/16, 2/23 Toddler Time (18 – 36 months) @ 10am Main Library: Tuesday 2/7, 2/14, 2/21, 2/28 Myrtle Grove Branch: Wednesday 2/1, 2/8, 2/15, 2/22, 2/29 Northeast Branch: Thursday 2/2, 2/9, 2/16, 2/23 Preschool Storytime (3 – 5 years) @ 10:30am Carolina Beach Branch: Monday 2/6, 2/13, 2/20, 2/27 Main Library: Tuesday 2/7, 2/14, 2/21, 2/28 Myrtle Grove Branch: Wednesday 2/1, 2/8, 2/15, 2/22, 2/29 Northeast Branch: Thursday 2/2, 2/9, 2/16, 2/23 Family Storytime (All Ages) @ 10:30am Main Library: Wednesday 2/1, 2/8, 2/15, 2/22, 2/29 Main Library: Monday 2/6, 2/13, 2/20, 2/27
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Special Events
Main Library Family Reading Night (Story Paint): Monday 2/13 from 5:30 – 6:30pm Northeast Library Family Movie: Tuesday 2/7 from 6 – 8pm Family Movie: Monday 2/20 from 10:30am – 12:30pm Family Storytime: Saturday 2/25 from 2 – 2:30pm
Pender County Public Libraries
Preschool Storytime: Wednesday 2/1, 2/8, 2/15, 2/22, 2/29 at 11am
Brunswick County Public Libraries
http://library.brunsco.net/ Barbee Library – 8200 East Oak Island Drive – 278-4283 Harper Library – 109 West Moore Street – 457-6237 Hickmans Crossroads – 1040 Calabash Road – 575-0173 Leland Library – 487 Village Road – 371-9442 Rourk Library – 5068 Main St. – 754-6578
www.youseemore.com/PENDERPL/ Burgaw Central Library – 103 S. Cowan Street – 259-1234 Hampstead Branch Library – 75 Library Drive – 270-4603
Contact branch for February schedule.
Burgaw CLOSED 02/20/12 Teen Lounge: Wednesday 2/1, 2/8, 2/15, 2/22, 2/29 from 2 – 4pm Morning Storytime: Thursday 2/2, 2/9, 2/16, 2/23 from 11 – 11:30am Evening Storytime: Thursday 2/2, 2/9, 2/16, 2/23 from 6 – 6:30pm Fetch: Thursday 2/2, 2/9, 2/16, 2/23 from 4 – 5pm
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Hampstead CLOSED 02/20/12 Toddler Storytime: Wednesday 2/1, 2/8, 2/15, 2/22, 2/29 at 10:15am
Brilliant Sky Toys & Books Storytime Mondays at 10:30am
Barnes & Noble
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department | peanut gallery more listings on page 44 Delightful and delicious, these ideas will get your appetites going!
Ratatouille (Walt Disney Videos).
Juliette M. 2/25 • 2yo
Joseph H.
2/27 • 2yo
Oscar A. 1/20 • 3yo
Remy is a French rat with a gourmet palate who somehow becomes the head chef at a Paris Restaurant. A delightful feast with a “Cyrano de Bergerac” feel, Remy creates havoc while trying to live his dream in the kitchen.
Deacon
Emily
1/16 • 6yo
2/22• 10yo
Ariel W.
2/02 • 2yo
What Chefs Feed Their Kids: Recipes and Techniques for Cultivating A Love of Good Food,t by Fanae Aaron (Lyons Press). Interviewing 20 award-winning chefs who also happen to be parents, Aaron has created the perfect start to turning picky eaters into helping hands in the kitchen. Filled with encouraging solutions and kid-friendly recipes, little ones will be trying new ideas in a flash. Provides guidelines on each age and stage of cooking and eating, even if the parent is not at ease in the kitchen.
Aaron
2/02 • 4yo
Cruz Drew
Fruit Ninja App (Halfbrick Studios). Fruits are sliced, diced, squirted and smashed into explosions of juicy goodness. At each new level, new fruit facts appear—did you know that apples are grown on every continent except Antarctica? A juicy way to delight your kids with lip-smacking fun. Available for iPhone, iPod Touch, iPad, and Android.
2/20 • 2yo
Kayden B.
3/27 • 3yo
Tavionna B. 2/04 • 3yo
Does your child or grandchild have a birthday iN March? Honor them by having their photo published in Wilmington Parent. Here's how: e-mail image (size not to exceed 1mb) to birthday@wilmingtonparent.com. Deadline for publication: 2/13. We have a limited number of spots, so if you sent your child’s picture and do not see it this issue, please check back next month!
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department | peanut gallery more listings on page 43
Madylin A. 2/26 • 8yo
William
2/04 • 4yo
Caroline M. 2/19 • 2yo
Gia Zabella C. 2/07 • 5yo
Loch M.
2/23 • 1yo
Lili A.C.
2/29• 4yo
Laila B.
2/11 • 5yo
Brighton
2/04 • 1yo
Caleb
2/24 • 9yo
Zachary B.
2/12 • 9yo
Chase
2/25 • 10yo
Caitlin Parris 2/25 • 8yo
Sydney M. 1/16 • 7yo
Emma E. 2/18 • 3yo
Bennett Z. 2/29 • 4yo
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Martha & Owen 2/05• 8yo
Gray H.
Reese
Myles M.
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2/27 • 1yo
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2/11 • 1yo
2/03 • 6yo
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