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Publisher’s Notes

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Happy holidays, everyone! Here we are, at year’s end…again! I don’t know about you, but 2023 was great, and has gone by in the blink of an eye. When I reflect on the highs and the lows, I realize that 2023 was better than 2022, better than 2021, and definitely better than 2020! Sometimes it seems like a blur. Grandkids are growing up! Savannah is 18 years old, headed off to college. McKenna turned 12 and headed to middle school. Where does the time go? I’ve had the pleasure over the last several months to meet—and hold—some brand-new babies. I sometimes wonder what makes the little ones decide to come forth! When I talk to new parents, I stress to them how fast their babies will grow up. I tell them to take lots of pictures…and videos. It is so much easier now, with smartphones. Back in my early parenting days, it was tough to grab a camera in time to get their first steps, their first words, all the milestones in their lives. No more! The young parents tell me that they are taking this advice to heart. Manny is hard at work, beginning to organize all of my pictures from years gone by. He is very technologically savvy, and he wants to make sure that we have my family photos, and his, readily available. Last night, he was describing his plans to organize it all. I shared that I have always said my photos were going to be my project “when I retire.” He laughed and said he knows. He can tell by the chaos that he’s working through in my picture bins! It is wonderful to be married to a man who has an entirely different set of skills and abilities than I do. In case you haven’t guessed it, he’s the organized one. It’s pretty cool…as he tells me, he’s working on making our lives easier. And he is! The kitchen and home office are my favorite parts of our home. I can find things so easily! Manny is also a true Christmas fan, so he’s the one who makes sure we have a very merry Christmas. I think part of his love of the holidays comes from the fact that he wasn’t always home for the holidays when he was in the Navy. Twenty years, three ships, fourteen times around the world. Now, Manny tells me that this is home. Makes me smile! Hope you all have a great holiday!

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Weekend Gourmet

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Sauté 1/2 pound of cubed ham with a cup of diced onion and a cup of diced green and red pepper for 4–6 minutes. Add a few dashes of black pepper and a pinch of thyme. Grease a 9x13-inch baking pan and add 4–6 chopped-up croissants. Spoon the ham mixture on top. Mix 6 eggs with 1 cup of Half and Half; pour this on top of the ham mixture. Sprinkle on a cup of grated pepper Jack cheese and a cup of grated white cheese. Push the croissants into the liquid. You can refrigerate overnight or bake immediately at 350 degrees for 45–50 minutes until bubbly and cooked through. Rest the casserole for 10 minutes before digging in. Oven Baked Crispy Bacon

Mix 2/3 cup of brown sugar with 3/4 teaspoon of cayenne pepper. Spread 1 pound of bacon slices onto a cookie sheet (use a rack or line with foil). Sprinkle the sugar mixture over the bacon. Bake at 350 degrees for 25–30 minutes.

Sausage Biscuits with Gravy

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White Chicken Chili

Put 2 Tablespoons and 1 teaspoon of butter in the bottom of a stock pot. Add 1 cut-up onion, 1 stalk of celery (diced), and 1/2 of a carrot (diced). Cook until fragrant—5 to 10 minutes. Add 1 clove of minced garlic and cook for another minute. To the pot, add 3 cups of cooked and diced chicken, 1 can of chicken broth, 1 can of tomato-chili mix (like Rotel), 1 teaspoon of oregano, 1 teaspoon of cumin, a pinch of salt, and a pinch of chili flakes. Stir. Add 2 or 3 cans of white cannellini beans. Simmer for 1 hour in the stock pot (or put everything in a slow cooker on low for 3–4 hours). Stir occasionally. Add 2–3 cups of shredded Jack cheese and 1 cup of sour cream—or serve this on the side. Combine and heat through.

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Fashion Worthy

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I confess, I am obsessed with the winter holiday season. I’m always sneaking in decorations early, hoping only I notice that there are pinecones along with the pumpkins. It’s a great time of year to put together a capsule wardrobe so you will be ready for any special holiday event. Whether your get-togethers are cozy home events, work-related, or all-out dressy, there is something this year that will make you feel festive. Sequins are all the rage for the 2023 holiday season and can be incorporated into all your outfits, both casual and dressy! If you want to sparkle but aren’t ready for head-to-toe sequins, I recommend a black top embellished with sequins. Always classy, a black sequined top looks great with jeans for a casual vibe or with a long black skirt for a work party. Even under a black tailored jacket, a little sparkle adds a fun vibe. Another way to wear sequins that works for any festive occasion is a straight, knee-length pull-on sequined skirt. Simply add a solid black top, black tights (tights and leggings are back for winter) and black shoes or boots. It’s an easy and very effective party look! For a more casual vibe, add a bulky sweater with booties, tall boots, or athletic shoes. For a work event, add a black blazer. For an all-out dressy event, add a white satin blouse and black pumps.

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When wearing sequins, the secret is to keep the rest of the outfit very simple—let the sequins be the star. Metallics are also important this season. Both gold and silver fabrics scream fun holiday fashion. Again, the key to pulling off this shiny look is to keep everything worn with metallic fabrics very simple and basic. Designers and fashion sites have been pushing the sheer look for the past couple of years. But how do you wear it? I personally love the look of sheer flowing sleeves. It’s a way to go with the trend without being too revealing. A top with sheer sleeves can be worn in so many imaginative ways! Wear it under a vest for a cool juxtaposition of tailored and flirty. Layer it under a sleeveless jumpsuit or dress. The predominant holiday color this year is easy-to-wear, always-flattering black. Dressing head to toe in black

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If you love shiny things, you simply must visit Goldsmith Silversmith in Omaha’s Old Market! Dwaine Ferguson’s shop is a visual delight of gleaming gold and silver, glittering stones, and glowing pearls. Jewelry made of these sparkling materials wouldn’t look out of place hanging on a Christmas tree, and it would certainly look lovely on your special someone. Many of us are in gift shopping mode, and Goldsmith Silversmith is a local place where you’re sure to find something very special. Dwaine and his fellow artisans provide dazzlers at a wide variety of price points to meet a wide variety of needs. Price is determined primarily by the materials that make up the piece. Many items of jewelry at Goldsmith Silversmith are limited-edition works of art or originals. When you browse the existing pieces at Goldsmith Silversmith, you’ll be amazed by the variety. Rings are dainty or bold, from plain bands to geometric or curvy shapes. You can choose rings with gemstones or without. They can be ornately carved or simple and timeless. With bracelets, you can choose cuffs or bangles in an assortment of colored metals; some are studded with gemstones or pearls. Chain bracelets come in delicate links or heavier pieces. There are striking necklaces made of delicate chain or heavy, bold links. Artistic pendants come in all sizes and shapes and hang from leather string, ribbon, or delicate chain. They are decorated with gemstones, natural stones, or metal work. You have a choice of earrings, too. Whether you prefer small studs, buttons, hoops, or even chandeliers—you’ll find something you’ll love. Precious metals used by the artisans at Goldsmith Silversmith include gold, silver, platinum, and palladium. Some metals come in a variety of blends and colors, such as rose, yellow, or white gold. The colors in precious metals and gemstones depend on where they are found and what they might be mixed with. Dwaine has an extensive knowledge of pearls, which come in a perhaps surprisingly large variety of colors, sizes, and shapes. “Color and shape are determined by the host,” which is not always an oyster, Dwaine notes. It could be any shellfish, including mussels, clams, and abalone. “Pearls vary according to water salinity, temperature, and animal feeding matter.” Some pearls are cultured (man-made) or induced in the host artificially. Though you are sure to find beauty in the pieces at hand, you may be looking for something more personal. If you have an idea for a custom piece, bring it in and talk to Dwaine. He won’t copy someone else’s piece, but he will look at pictures or drawings that you like and create an 12

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Old wives’ tales, urban legends, tall tales. Myths go by many names, and we’ve all heard them… stories that have been passed down through time, often with cultural, religious, or historical significance. In most cases, they stem from a nugget of truth (or a misunderstanding). I’ve discovered some recent fictions that I thought were facts. Have you heard these ones? Bulls are angered by the color red. When a matador waves a red cape, it incites a bull to charge, right? In fact, bulls (like other cattle) are partially colorblind and can’t distinguish the color red. It is the movement of the cape, not the color, that triggers the response. George Washington had wooden teeth. Our first president did have false teeth. They were composed of ivory, gold, lead, and even other human teeth, but not wood. This myth probably emerged because his false teeth were stained. In the days of Christopher Columbus, everyone thought the world was flat. According to historian Jeffrey Burton Russell, “with extraordinary few exceptions, no educated person in the history of Western Civilization from the third century B.C. onward believed the Earth was flat.” When Columbus sailed the ocean blue in 1492, he knew the Earth was a sphere. What he didn’t know was that there was a giant land mass on the path west from Europe to Asia.

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Change is a constant in life, whether we like it or not. There’s some sort of dual existence when it comes to change—it often feels unsettling and exciting at the same time. Naturally, most of us experience hesitation when navigating unfamiliar territory. Sometimes we wish we had a beacon or a map to guide us in the right direction. The truth is that you can take charge of change, draw your own map, and make room for creative ideas. Times of change are when we build self-confidence and shake insecurity. I know, that’s easier said than done. Self-worth can be fragile and very human. That’s okay! Read on for ideas to help make change exciting in spite of doubt and to manage the challenges of an unmapped journey. Resistance to change is the most common reason that many change initiatives fail. “People are people—carbon and water,” says David A. Shore, a Harvard instructor in professional development. “As such, we resist change. It’s important to recognize that managing change is about upsetting people only at a rate that they can tolerate. It’s all about physics. For change, there must be movement. With movement, there is friction.” We need to manage our expectations around change. We can’t expect it to be easy, even if it’s a change we perceive as good. Some life transitions can be positive yet challenging. A new relationship or marriage, the arrival of a new baby, moving to a new home, even an exciting trip or a big purchase—any of these might be exhilarating yet emotionally challenging, especially when our expectations don’t match the outcome. Major life stresses happen, too. Divorce, illness, or the death of a loved one are a few examples. Regardless of the type of change, emotions follow. It’s also important to remember that what feels to some members of a household like positive change (moving, for example) can feel like negative change to others. Whether you’re changing jobs or changing your diet, it’s normal to feel some degree of self-doubt, anxiety, or depression. In some cases, support from a friend, therapist, or life coach may be what you need to get through. If you’re a “dive in feet first” person, good for you! You’ll still experience the shock of something new, but what a chance to build wisdom and confidence! What are the positives of change? Growth, for one. Change brings an opportunity to learn more about yourself and what you can do despite uncertain circumstances. You may feel like you won’t be able to rise to the occasion, but you won’t truly know until you’re facing the occasion itself. Remember to take it easy on yourself as you are navigating change. If you’re in the process of accepting change in your life, 18

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Spike your holidays with the magic and wonder of the season, and joy will follow! In between warmth from the crackling fire in the hearth and the scent of peppermint spices wafting through the air, many of us will indulge in family traditions, plan and attend holiday parties, seek the best gifts for family and friends, and—I hope—make some time for ourselves! Planning is just as important as spontaneity. Decide when to clear your schedule, work out a plan for crowds to gather, ponder gift ideas, and then sit back and bask in whatever the glow of the season brings you. Most people in the United States participate in a variety of much-loved winter holiday traditions, including exchanging gifts, gathering with family, enjoying holiday foods, and attending religious services. Let’s illuminate our hearts and homes this season and make every day joyful! The holidays are busy, and your calendar might be full. That’s all the more reason to focus on bringing joy to yourself and others. If you haven’t made a holiday budget yet, now is the time! Consider how much you’re able to spend on gift-giving and party-hosting. Having a spending plan helps you lower stress during the holiday season and avoid the stress that over-spending brings on after the holidays. When you’re making your budget, don’t forget to include donations to a good cause! If you have a soft spot for a particular charity, donate your dollars there. If you don’t have a favorite already, donating money, food, or time to a local food bank is a pretty good bet. Whatever makes your soul sing will ignite a happy heart for you and for the cause. The act of giving connects us to the community, reducing feelings of isolation that may pop up during the season. Giving creates good cheer and lots of hope. Don’t forget the concept of surprising a stranger—a genuine smile, allowing someone in line to go ahead of you, patience with others who may be struggling. If someone needs a compliment, give them one! During those blustery cold days and nights, open the door for others. Joy will follow! Let’s talk about planning holiday parties during the season. From budget-friendly at-home celebrations to the glitziest of shindigs, start the plan and send out invites early. Ideally, guests need 30 days in advance of the party date, and email invitations are completely acceptable. For parties at home, be sure to clear the entryway and tidy up living areas. If you need help preparing your home for guests, consider hiring a maid service for a single clean (or a double—one before the party and one afterwards!). Place Bluetooth speakers throughout the house for festive music. This time of year, the newest album from many recording artists will be a Christmas album, but your playlist doesn’t 20

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Let’s talk about human kindness for a moment. By“human kindness,”I mean being caring, compassionate, and unconditionally kind. It takes practice to understand it and to feel it, but kind acts can mean different things to different people. It can be through empathy, acceptance, thoughtfulness, and kind gestures. One thing for sure is that human kindness can be learned and even inspired. Someone who inspires human kindness for many is Steve Sheridan, the director of New Life Thrift.

Steve is the kind of man who cherishes each and every day that he can help those in need. This man with the big heart happily runs New Life Thrift with his three daughters and a great group of dedicated employees. Many of these employees have been at New Life Thrift for an average of seven to eight years, which is no small feat in this day and age! One reason for this longevity? The mission. “Our business supports The Hope Center for Kids in north Omaha,” says Steve. “The Center offers a safe place for kids to stay off the streets after school to receive tutoring and enjoy activities.” Steve got started in the thrift business 16 years ago. His goal is to bring new life to gently used items and to old things that can be treasures to others. “It gives me great joy to provide a wonderful shopping experience for our customers. We have furniture, collectibles, clothing, shoes, appliances—everything you could possibly need. We even have a holiday Christmas section. Our store is very clean and organized, which enhances the shopping experience.” This is Steve’s calling, and he is happy to be part of New Life Thrift. Steve graduated from Omaha Cathedral High and spent his early years in the hotel business. He met his wife while working in the hotel industry, and they moved to Iowa City to work at a hotel in town. Later, he and his wife moved back to Omaha to work in car sales. Steve sold a car to the previous owner, Sam Costanzo, of New Life Thrift, and the rest, as they say, is history. New Life Thrift is not Steve’s only service to the community. He also serves at Empty Tomb Ministries. The church at Empty Tomb is where members of other Omaha-based churches come together to help those in need. Steve’s desire to help people is a driving force in his life. Pastoring in the inner city is a passion that Steve lives every day. The Empty Tomb provides food, clothing, classes, and spiritual support to anyone who is in peril. Members of churches in the area volunteer and provide essentials that are important to all humankind. The courage and determination that Steve and the volunteers provide is such a necessary calling. Most of us 24

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It is time to get serious about holiday shopping! Gifts for grandparents (your kids’ or your own) have become more complicated. Our elders have been affected more than anyone by the mind-bending changes of the last few decades. It’s not just our culture that has changed, either—grandparents themselves have changed. In the late 1990s, we were new grandparents—young enough to downhill ski but too old to rollerblade. We listened to CDs on our commute to work. VHS movies or Blockbuster gift cards were welcome. We didn’t use the internet much, as it involved a long-distance charge on our phone bill. No social media yet, so we wrote letters and cards. A box of stationery or a set of greeting cards was a fine gift. A few decades later, young grandparents are much more tech savvy. Older grandparents are living longer than ever with modern medicine and an emphasis on fitness. Your gift list might include your children’s grandpa and grandma along with your own grandparents. Regardless of age or stage in life, we look for gifts that communicate affection and appreciation. A thoughtful gift can improve a relationship, but an ill-conceived one can have the opposite effect. Many people appreciate a gift that involves an experience over one that is material in nature. Seniors, especially, prefer something that can be used up. Many start to feel overwhelmed with “stuff” and are beginning to de-clutter.

Photos are popular with grandparents of all ages. A custom framed family photograph is always welcome. Electronic photo frames that display a rotating slide show make a thoughtful gift. Some of the high-tech frames can be updated remotely via email. Photo calendars are nice, as well—even those of us who keep calendars on our phones still like to see one hanging on the wall. The best gifts are personalized and useful. Simple things like warm slippers or cozy blankets have been among my most appreciated holiday gifts. I’m wearing warm pajamas, a gift from my grandson, as I write this! Sitting by my laptop is an electric mug warmer, a gift that ensures every sip of tea is piping hot. With the pandemic behind us, everyone is catching up on the travel they missed. This re-opens an entire category of gift-giving. From simple travel accessories like a neck pillow, portable charger, or travel journal to an all-inclusive trip, travelers will be sure to appreciate your thoughtfulness. Giving a trip as a gift is sure to wow the recipient but is

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tricky to pull off as a surprise. You also don’t want to give a trip that will end up costing the grandparents. Why not enlist the services of a travel advisor? A surprise trip may be fun to receive, but don’t discount the possibility of working with a travel advisor and the recipient. That can simplify the process and ensure success. Hobbies or interests are good to keep in mind when choosing gifts. Grandparents of any age often have a favorite sports team. My husband loved receiving a set of license plate holders with his favorite college team’s logo. With a sufficient budget, you could get tickets to a game. Enough cash for an Uber ride to and from is a nice touch. For older grandparents, security is often a concern—both home and personal security. A smart watch or medical alert system can give a senior living alone a sense of security (and ease your mind, as well). A friend received a smart watch from family and considered it a fun novelty until she slipped and was unable to get up. Her watch had a fall detection function that got her much-needed assistance. Home security systems have come a long way and make a great gift for grandparents. From door and window Love Has No Race - sixth.indd 1 sensors to cameras and voice controls, there are systems to fit a variety of budgets and technical abilities. Smart home assistants make useful gifts for all ages and can be customized to fit different needs. Voice activation is especially helpful for seniors. In addition to playing music and checking the weather, the system can manage other smart devices, send texts, and make calls. More traditional gifts for grandma might be jewelry customized with charms or birthstones of her grandchildren, a foot massager, a magnifying vanity mirror with lights, or solar garden décor. For grandpa, consider an old-fashioned board game, personalized golf balls, a neck massager, an insulated cup to keep his coffee hot, or perhaps a DNA genetic testing kit, if he’s into genealogy. Remember, the most prized gift for any grandparent will include a phone call from or time spent with the grandkids! Sources for this article included: safehome.org, cntraveler.com, theseniorlist. com, and dailycaring.com.

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By Jackie Byers

Adopting a rescue animal is an act of great kindness that brings great rewards. Every animal at a shelter or rescue deserves the chance to be a loved and loving pet. Sadly, there are not enough homes for all the potential pets born each year. Many animals are euthanized.You can help prevent this by choosing to adopt a rescued animal.You will save the animal’s life and gain a devoted companion for yourself and your family.

When you adopt from a shelter, humane society, or rescue organization, you have many animals to choose from. You can often begin your search online, perusing photos and descriptions of the potential pets available. If you see one online that seems like a good fit, go to the agency with your identification and meet the animal. Many great pets are put up for adoption because of changes in the previous family’s circumstances, including health problems or financial issues. The agency may not have specific answers as to why the animal is available, but staff members will be able to tell you what they have learned about the animal while caring for it. Some animals do indeed have behavioral issues to overcome. Staff will not sugarcoat an animal’s challenges—they want the potential pet to become your lifetime companion. Agencies also are usually willing to accept a pet back if your circumstances change or if the pet turns out to be not a good fit. Some agencies actually stipulate that you return the pet if it does not fit with your family. Be sure to ask ahead of time. Staff members want every placement to work well. They have applications for you to fill out about what you want from your pet and what your family and lifestyle are like. They can advise you about the best pet for your lifestyle. They are also available to help you as you and your family get to know and love the animal. Keep in mind that toddlers and dogs may not be good for each other. Very young children may not have learned how dogs react to what they may perceive as aggression. Adopting an adult animal has advantages, including easier bonding with pets already in the household. With older dogs, you miss the adorable puppy stage, but you also avoid the erratic behavior, excessive chewing, and boundless energy that puppies can bring. Training a puppy can take months or years. Adult dogs tend to be calmer, and they are often already trained. Adult cats bring the benefit of established personalities. A lap kitten may turn out to be a loner, while an outgoing kitten may turn out to be a loafer. With an adult cat, you know what you’re getting. 42

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Most agencies take steps to ensure that your pet is as healthy as possible. These steps include providing immunizations and physical exams for all animals they take in. They have volunteer veterinarians who visit regularly. Most agencies also spay and neuter all animals they adopt out, saving you money. They understand the cost and the pain of too many pets and not enough homes! They care about the animals they work with. When you have adopted a rescue pet, it’s a smart idea to find a professional trainer who will come to your home and see what your pet needs in the way of behavior adjustment. The trainer can offer advice about how to best help your pet to adjust to your lifestyle. They can also do training sessions with you and your pet. (Some trainers say that the most important part of their job is training the owners!) Sometimes, all your new pet needs is a period of adjustment. One shelter advises three days of quiet time for a new dog: food, water, a bed, and a toy before exploring the neighborhood. Then provide three weeks of gradual adjustment to the outdoors, always on leash. Have family members take turns offering a bit of petting and easy play, one person at a time. Take short walks, with lots of sniffing time. The best way to find a pet that is right for you is to visit a shelter or humane society. Many of the people who work for or volunteer at shelters have already rescued a pet—some have more than one. I’ve heard tell of one volunteer who goes home each night to five dogs. Most shelters welcome visitors every day they are open. Check online to find a shelter near you. You may find it a great way to spend an afternoon, or you may find a pet who makes you happy. Sources for this article included: petfinder.com, wagwalking.com, and diamondpet.com.

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Mr. Market’s Cousin The Bond Market

By George Morgan

We all know Mr. Market, but have you met Mr. Market’s cousin, the bond market? He’s from the same gene pool as Mr. Market, but he has different parents. In dollar terms, the bond market is $15 trillion larger than the stock market. Both date back to when our country was founded in 1776.

Unlike the stock market, the bond market has no central New York exchange where trades are made and prices reconciled. The majority of bond activity is conducted among deep-pocketed commercial dealers who are flung across all regions of the country. In the stock market, trades are made among high-speed computers. In the bond market, on the other hand, trades are negotiated between two human beings on an old-fashioned invention called the telephone. There is no bond market index comparable to the S&P 500, which makes it difficult for individual investors to monitor its daily fluctuations. Professional money managers and traders rely on the yield of the 10-year treasury bond as an indicator of the direction and health of the bond market. (In financial news, you may hear the treasury bond referred to as the t-note.) Over 90 percent of the total value of the bond market is held by institutions such as large Wall Street banks, insurance companies, and pension funds. This is in stark contrast to the stock market—more than 75 percent of the stock market is in the hands of individual investors. For the first two decades of the 21st century, the bond market operated quietly in the shadows of the stock market. During this period, inflation was at historic lows and interest rates hovered near zero. The national debt was growing at a snail’s pace…in 2000 and 2001, the United States government actually operated with a surplus. Then, along came the pandemic. Portions of the economy went into lockdown, supply chains collapsed, and store shelves grew empty. The government responded with a spending spree that was unthinkable pre-pandemic. The economic slowdown led to a dramatic decline in tax revenues, and the government turned to the Treasury Department to fund its spending frenzy. The Treasury went to the bond market with trillions of dollars’ worth of bonds to sell. The response of the bond market was underwhelming, so the Fed jumped into the fray, yelling, “I’ll buy, I’ll buy!” The $64,000 question is: where did the Fed get the money? Well, they cranked up the printing presses. Within six months, the inflation rate zoomed from a benign 1.7 percent to double digits. For the first half of 2023, Mr. Market was in a mellow mood, and the indexes moved slowly upward, led by the Nasdaq, which was driven by the public’s fixation with artificial intelligence. Stocks like NaVida, Apple, and Microsoft went ballistic, driving the market into the nosebleed seats. But the bond market grew anxious about the soaring rate of inflation

and the Federal Reserve’s anemic effort to squelch it. During the spring of 2023, the yield on the 10-year Treasury bond hovered around 3.5 percent. Then, following pessimistic comments from the Fed Chairman, the usually calm bond market went berserk, acting much like its mood-swinging cousin. The yield on the 10-year Treasury bond shot up to 4.8 percent, sending both markets into a tailspin. The conventional wisdom is that bonds (especially government bonds) are safe investments. Prior to the pandemic and the government’s out-of-control spending spree, inflation was benign, interest rates hovered near zero, and the government had 15 trillion fewer dollars to borrow. But when interest rates go up, the principal value of a bond goes down. Tens of millions of Americans own trillions of dollars’ worth of bond mutual funds. Rising interest rates caused the principal value of bonds (and the bond funds holding them) to decline. The bond market fell and pulled the stock market down with it, leaving investors in both markets to ask: where do we go from here? The stock market is neither monolith nor static. Wall Street and the financial media present a picture that the financial conditions of individual companies are the driving force behind stock prices. There is an element of truth to this, but there are times when other factors come forward and drown out the fundamentals. This belief in the driving force behind stock prices, combined with the belief that bonds are universally safe investments, has led financial advisors to create computer-driven accounts that contain a formulaic mix of stocks and bonds. Recent events should move all of the parties involved to re-examine these beliefs. This includes both those who construct robo accounts and those who own them (this could be you!).

Editor’s Note: George Morgan has five decades’ experience in all phases of the investment process. He is currently the Founder and Principal of Morgan Investor Education. His website is morganinvestoreducation.com. The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. To determine which investments may be appropriate for you, consult your financial advisor prior to investing. December 2023

The Green Thumb

The Bees and the Bees Buzz-Worthy Talk

By Linda Sutherland

Bees make the world go ’round, and that is no exaggeration. Bees are one of the world’s most important pollinators for all of our food and crops. Every day of our lives, we rely on bees and other pollinators to help with the production of our food. Production of about one third of a standard human diet requires insect pollination, and honey bees perform the majority of pollination for cultivated crops. One out of every three bites we consume relies directly on pollinators. But bees also pollinate many of the crops used for animal feed. Without them, it would be harder to produce lots of our meat, egg, and dairy products. According to some scientists, bees are the most important species on earth. Bees are famous for being very industrious…that’s why we call them busy bees. These hardworking creatures help create many medicines and help provide food for wildlife. There seems to be no end to the jobs that bees have! Unfortunately, bees are declining in population due to the rampant use of pesticides and, of course, climate change. Our cement-paved urban development provides little or no food sources or habitats that are necessary for a bee’s survival. Nectar from certain flowers can be pretty difficult for bees to find in urban areas. These essential insects are part of the biodiversity on which we all depend for our survival, and they need to be supported. What can we do, as individual gardeners, to help keep bees

around? I am glad you asked! The answer, of course, is planting flowers of all different shapes, sizes, and colors! When it comes to supporting bees, the manner in which we plant is just as important as what we plant. Planting flowers in clumps is more effective than planting a single flower. Flowers in clumps make it easier for pollinators to locate their next meal. We can also use less mulch. Scientists say that 70 percent of native bees nest in the ground. They cannot get at the ground if everything is covered with mulch. You can put bee houses out for their safety and enjoyment. These are the insect equivalent of a bird house. These structures provide nesting spaces for certain solitary bees. You can also put a dead log out, since bees like to nest in holes in dead wood.

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I’m not saying this is easy. Being able to focus and give our partner our undivided attention can be a challenge. It means putting the phone down. It means not interrupting. It means looking them in the eye. It helps if you sit and hold hands. That physical connection will help us to drown out the chatter that we all have running through our brains. The payoff, though, is a stronger connection and relationship where our spouse feels loved…and heard…and respected. You’ll feel that way, too. I remember when I first met Manny, eleven years ago. I would constantly interrupt him…and everyone else I had conversations with. He would tell me how disrespectful that was to people. I truly didn’t get it! For a while, I thought he was just being overly sensitive. Then I began watching how Manny interacted with people. All people. The servers at restaurants. Customers at retail stores. Drive-through staff. Family. Friends. I began to notice how others reacted to his level of respect. I thought I’d try it. Amazing. Asking your mate what they want and need from your conversation will make a huge difference in how you feel about one another. Your trust and your love will grow. That is all good. “In love, listening is an art, and the canvas is your partner’s heart.” — Anonymous

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Holiday Stress is Here!

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The winter holidays are nearly here. What we hope will be a time of joy, good cheer, and love with family and friends often becomes a season of stress. How do you handle it? I decided long ago it was easiest to identify the problem and determine if I can do anything about it. If I can, I do; if I can’t, I let it go. Most of the time, the stressor is a case of “What if…?” What if grumpy Aunt Edna starts complaining and spoils the fun? What if Uncle Charlie and Uncle Ed start arguing again? What if the cousins start a row? What if something happens to put a damper on the festivities? I’d say ahead of time: “This is a happy time. Please leave your troubles and differences at home. If you can’t do that, then please decide not to come. We will miss you.” Worries we bring on ourselves pop up all the time. We just need to be proactive and learn to handle them. Having teenagers and young adults around for the holidays might present problems. They think they’re grown up, and we still think of them as children. This isn’t a pleasant situation for anyone. What can we do to establish a new relationship and avoid possible conflict? Make time for them when you can be alone together. Maybe it will be over coffee in the morning or fixing a meal or wrapping gifts…whatever time or activity allows time spent

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getting reacquainted. You can ask questions, but respect their privacy. Don’t judge. If they share their frustration with a class or a friend, encourage them to tell you about it. Having a conversation where you talk with each other, sharing memories, stories, problems, or ideas, is much nicer than constantly giving (or getting) advice. Interaction is the key. Talk to the kids like you want them to talk to you…with respect. Let them know what you expect of them while they’re at home for the holidays. It’s a courtesy to let you know when they’ll be gone, whether they’ll be around at mealtimes, or if they’ll be bringing a guest. We used to leave notes for each other. Today, most of us do this electronically. Remember, you’re setting an example for them when they have kids of their own. Young adults want to sort things out for themselves. If you’ve let them solve problems on their own over the years, they’ll be in good shape now. Trust that you’ve done a good job. Let the kids know you’re proud of them and what they’re striving to do. A little praise goes a long way! You’ve been teaching them to make sensible decisions and choices. By that, you’ve encouraged independence. They’ll make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. That’s how people learn, and kids are people, too.

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Car Lovers on Your List? Vehicle-Themed Gifts

By Linda Sutherland

’Tis the season to make a list and check it twice. And if you have a car lover on your list, you need to read on. There are so many gift options for the automobile aficionado that it is hard to know where to begin, but begin we will. From keychains to smart speakers, there’s something at every price point for everyone on your list! Leather driving gloves are a great option for the serious driver. They will look stylish and practical in a buttery soft pair of leather driving gloves. They’ll have a good grip on the wheel, will protect their hands from the UV rays coming through the windshield, and will definitely thank you for your thoughtfulness. For people who often drive long distances or suffer tedious commutes, how about a really comfy car cushion? A lovely stainless steel water bottle or coffee mug that fits nicely in their cup holder would be greatly appreciated, also. We all know someone who is, let’s say, particular about the cleanliness of their vehicle. A gift card for a much-appreciated professional detailing would be a welcome gift. If they prefer a more hands-on approach to cleaning and polishing, they might like a home detailing kit—that way, they can take their time and control all the details! A flexible dust protector outer car cover may be just the ticket for cars that are not driven during inclement weather. Drivers who often ferry kids and pets may have given up on having a squeaky-clean vehicle, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want to keep a handle on the mess. Everybody needs a Catch Caddy car seat console gap filler. Items that fall between the seats are no longer lost for all time; they’ll stay in reach for easy retrieval. How about a collapsible trunk organizer with an insulated, leakproof cooler bag? For the things that still fall through the cracks, a busy driver would probably love a great car vacuum. A hand vacuum like the Black & Decker Lithium Cordless is a great option for those of us who want to keep our interior looking tip-top. This particular model fully charges in six hours and even comes with a flip-up brush head for dusting and cleaning upholstery. Professionally installed add-ons and upgrades are always favored gifts. A new sound system or remote car starter system can really take a well-loved vehicle from 0 to 60. Fancy floor mat kits are all the rage right now, and there are many choices to turn a vehicle’s interior into a customized inner sanctum. You can order mats outright or you can have them custom made. Your car person will love the way it enhances their personal space! As a bonus, car mats are a great way to protect their investment, as well. For the techie driver on your list, how about a dash camera? Manufacturers now offer cams for the front and back of a vehicle, with fields of view that go up to 135 degrees. That is awesome! If your techie loves Alexa at home, you might consider an Echo 52

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Auto so they can bring their virtual assistant on the road with them. Echo Auto connects to the Alexa smartphone app and car speakers. This amazing device has eight microphones and is designed to be heard over music and general road noise. Make sure the recipient’s car is compatible with the app before you buy! GPS trackers are great for drivers who want to monitor their vehicle’s location. The Zeerkeer GPS tracker, for example, gives real-time updates on the location of a vehicle with a positioning accuracy as close as five meters. It is compatible with both Android and iOS and will give the owner complete peace of mind. This item gets bonus points because it is waterproof, dustproof, shockproof, and magnetic! You simply attach it to any iron surface on the vehicle—no other installation is required. Owners who want to monitor how fast their vehicle is being driven by other parties (teen drivers, anyone?) will surely appreciate the over-speed alarm function, triggered whenever the tracked vehicle goes faster than 70 miles per hour. If the car lover on your list prefers to stay off the roads in the ice and snow, consider a book that might interest them during the off-season. There are some absolutely beautiful coffee table books out now with incredible photos of cars. For a more informative read, consider titles like Ludicrous: The Unvarnished Story of Tesla Motors (by Edward Niedermeyer), The Life of the Automobile: The Complete History of the Motor Car (by Steven Parissien), or American Car Spotter’s Bible 19401980 (by Tad Burness). Sources for this article included: caranddriver.com, popularmechanics.com and autoweek.com.

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Retirement Possibilities Join the Reinvention Craze!

By Janette Calabro

If the idea of retirement stirs up images of a rocking chair and knitting needles, think again. Older, more experienced workers are predicted to make up more than one quarter of the workforce by 2031. That number includes boomers who are able to retire. The Federal Reserve Board says that 27 percent of adults in 2022 considered themselves retired, although many are still working to some degree. A CNBC report from February 2022 says that one in six retirees is considering a return to work. The number of Americans of retirement age who are still working is growing for a wide variety of reasons, such as needing more income, inflation, loneliness, or boredom. Another big reason? The desire to reinvent themselves and find new purpose. Let’s look at a few ideas for starting a new phase of your life after retirement.

retirement. One example from the AARP cites an Air Force The word “retirement” may evoke images of something veteran working for a contracting firm. Two years before uncomfortable and scary for some. What if you outlive your retirement age, the veteran sold her possessions and traveled assets? If that’s a concern for you, seek a financial advisor to around the world in an RV with her family. “About two years help plan your time horizon, your spending habits, and the later,” says aarp.org, “she decided that if she was making such assets you’ll need to live comfortably. For others, the word a big lifestyle change, she could change her career, too, merg“retirement” means freedom—the freedom to do what you ing this way of life with how she made a living.” That includwant to do instead of what you have to do. Either way, a big ed a blog and speaking engagements about healthy eating transition like retirement is an adjustment, and the assets and RV life. She found her own personal path to a new career you’ve saved do play a role. and an income, to boot. Before you judge your mindAnother example? A retired set and bank accounts, consider financial analyst who earned a teachthat a second chance can be a fun, The number of Americans of ing degree and now teaches biology, creative journey, and—in many his favorite subject. How about the cases—includes added income. retirement age who are still retail store manager who “unretired” Every second the clock ticks is a for an entry level job to start a new chance for a redo! Now’s the time working is growing for a wide career in publishing? The point is, it’s to figure out how you really want variety of reasons, such as never too late for reinvention. to spend your time. “Between ages of 50 and 60, most Close your eyes and imagine needing more income, inflation, people retire from their primary a new you. Is it feasible? If more loneliness, or boredom. careers, but that doesn’t mean they education is needed, that’s okay. stop working completely,” according Need more assets or income to to entrepreneur.com. “Truth be told, make it work? Then it’s time to lots of people feel a bit lost without research a personalized path that a job or something to do, and many retirees still need a bit of includes income. Write out a plump, velvety bucket list, even extra income to supplement their retirement income streams.” if it’s extreme. Include 10 or 100 experiences you hope for What if you’re looking for something more creative? If during your lifetime. That may include a new job—part-time, you’re an amateur musician, find a group to play with, or start full-time, or volunteering, if money isn’t a challenge. your own. If you like photography, take a few classes and Your new retirement bucket may include relationship try your hand at breathtaking landscapes or lean into taking goals, a new career, places to go, or people to see. You could event photos. Like designing your home? Unique touches be a poll worker (doing your civic duty) or a gym employee go a long way for interior designers. Hook up with realtors (what a great way to stay in shape). You could go back to for clients. Get creative! The sky is the limit, no matter what school (you’re never too old to learn something new) or turn you’re considering. Freelance writer? Check. Dog walker. your hobby into income (getting paid for doing something Yes! School bus driver? Always needed. Start your own small you would do for free). You could collect antiques (or sell business or side hustle and get into the groove of a happy them), get back to summer camp (yes, you read that right), or retirement. Sort of. become a local politician (or not). Imagine all the possibilities! Sources for this article included: federalreserve.gov, aarp.org, Travel is usually high on the list of things to do after and entrepreneur.com. December 2023

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Golden Years Relocation

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People are living longer. In fact, according to the U.S. Census Bureau, the U.S. population age 65 and over grew nearly five times faster than the total population over the 100 years from 1920 to 2020. By 2020, the senior population in the United States reached 55.8 million people. It’s great that seniors are going strong! As we get older, however, a life-changing event can swiftly affect our living arrangements. Even without a precipitating event, many seniors prefer to downsize or move to a senior community for their golden years. The challenge of moving a lifetime’s worth of belongings is what gave Shayne Fili the idea for Golden Years Relocation. According to owner Shayne, Golden Years Relocation is a one-stop service to help with senior relocation. She is proud that her company is a certified member of the National Association of Senior Move Managers (NASMM). Shayne was raised in the Omaha area and often visited grandparents in Arnold, Nebraska. She was active in 4-H, raising and showing award-winning cattle. That is also where she fell in love with auctions.

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“Early in my career, I did sales and auctions. I also earned my real estate license. I put all these passions together in 1999,” Shayne recalls. “I had a personal experience with a life-changing event and realized that whatever I could do to ease burdens for others was a win-win. I began marketing with the new name in 2019.” Golden Years Relocation starts the relocation process by meeting with clients to discuss their needs. “Older adults

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have a story for every item in their home,” Shayne shares. “We handle these household items and belongings like they were our own. Our senior relocation experts will take the stress out of moving so a loved one’s routine is not affected by their move.” In many cases, Shayne notes, clients are downsizing from a family home to a smaller condo or apartment or to a senior living arrangement. There won’t be room for everything in their new home. “Downsizing can be emotional and even traumatic,” she says. “We are there to help! We go through things with our clients and hopefully make the experience less stressful.” Shayne puts her auction sales experience to work in the final service the company offers. “We help liquidate the belongings that don’t make the move with our clients. Most older adults need every penny they can get, and we lift that burden from them.” In her experience, the best way to do this is online. “It is fast, efficient, and doesn’t interrupt the moving process.” Shayne’s clients are generally in a stage of life when they might need additional resources to keep living life to the fullest, and she uses her years of networking to make the referrals her clients need. It’s important to remember that a life-changing move to a senior living community can be scary, she says. “Many seniors don’t quite know where to start. What I have found from hundreds of clients is that relocating to a senior community can often make them more social and give

them better quality of life. It is the anxiety about that first step in making the change that frightens people. I encourage them to make that initial call and have a conversation about the transition.” She named her company Golden Years Relocation to remind older adults that this time in their lives, while different from earlier stages, can truly be golden. Someone who can attest to the high-quality services of Golden Years Relocation is Ralph Connelly. “From start to finish, Shayne and her staff were wonderful,” Ralph says. “I moved from a 1,200-square-foot apartment that I had been in for 40 years to a smaller, senior venue of about 500 square feet. Shayne met with me, discussed what was needed, moved me, helped sell the things I didn’t need, and even picked up the new television I bought at the furniture store. The help of her company was tremendous.” Testimonials like this are music to Shayne’s ears as her business grows. She has begun to offer franchise opportunities to others throughout the country. “I started my business in the basement and now have 11 staff members,” she says. “Older adults everywhere need these services, and we want to provide them. I am offering franchises and encourage people to contact me if they have a passion for this work.” Golden Years Relocation is located at 7811 Military Avenue in Omaha. To reach them by phone, please call 833-7766877. To learn more about what this compassionate woman and her team can do for you or your aging loved one, visit them online at goldenyearsrelocation.com.

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New Year’s Resolutions Strive for Positive Change

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Many of us make New Year’s resolutions, hoping to spark positive change or reach a personal goal. The most common resolutions focus on health, finances, relationships, and living life to the fullest. These are all great goals, but it’s hard to make big changes. Rather than saying,“I am going to meet these goals,”try resolving to take steps in the areas that are most important to you. Keep two or three top-of-mind by writing them down and posting them on your computer, your bathroom mirror, or your refrigerator—anywhere that you’ll see them often and will remember to cheer yourself on when you take a positive step, no matter how small.

If you want to eat better, start by adding more fruits and vegetables. (When you start with adding, it doesn’t feel like deprivation…because it’s not!) Many people skip breakfast. Make a commitment to eat the first meal of the day. Many of us also don’t drink enough water. If water seems like a boring drink, try adding lemon juice or cucumber slices. For many people, the key to exercising more is to have a partner. If you have a dog, add to your walk, one block at a time. Ask a neighbor or friend to join you. Medicare provides free access to things like aquatic centers and fitness programs. Join an exercise group or enroll in a dance class. Every step counts! If you are like me, you need support for the difficult task of losing weight. Many groups (TOPS, Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig, and more) provide meal plans and camaraderie to achieve your goals. Groups often run enrollment specials in January because they know this is a popular goal. It is hard to quit smoking, and not every strategy works for every person. Some people cut back one cigarette at a time. Some people use patches or other medications. Many people seek professional help. Remember that breaking an addiction takes time and often includes setbacks. Don’t let a step in the wrong direction stop you from celebrating all the steps you take in the right direction! You may not think of getting organized as a health goal, but experts agree that clutter is bad for your health—it literally stresses you out. Start by taking on a single room, or a single closet, or even a single drawer. If you haven’t used something in a year, you probably don’t need it anymore. The first step to improving your finances is to truly understand your budget. I like the envelope system. Once the bills are paid, I put envelopes together for entertainment, gifts, travel, and other expenses. Having a cushion allows me to take advantage of buying on sale or buying in bulk. I used 56

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Happy Holiday Decorations Trends for Cozy Holiday Décor

By Anne Yankus

With fall coming to a close, it’s high time to start thinking about winter holiday decorations! You may already be known in your neighborhood as a decorating champion, or you may be trotting out the same old string of multi-colored lights to clip on your gutters like you have since the beginning of time. Either way, incorporating some of this year’s holiday decorating trends can bring a festive change to your home! We are seeing a definite departure from the loud, gaudy holiday décor of yesteryear. Instead, trendsetters are going for a more natural, understated look by replacing glitter and tinsel with greenery and pine cones. The popular aesthetic this year is more of a “serene winter” than “holly jolly holiday,” and we’re here for it. Interior design experts suggest taking inspiration from classic Scandinavian and Nordic décor, using neutral tones and soft textures. The idea is to find decorations that match your home’s already established color palette rather than pasting a bunch of bright colors on top of everything. The natural aesthetic is great for all elements of holiday decorating, and that includes things like putting out simple, farmhouse-style table settings and beautiful floral centerpieces for your holiday parties. An excellent source of natural holiday decorations that you may not have considered is your local florist! What better way to add natural, earthy décor to your home than to get fresh greenery and poinsettias from the flower shop? This is also a

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Many people plan family gatherings and celebrations during the holiday season. However, just because the season is supposed to be jolly doesn’t mean that everyone feels that way. For some people, the holidays can bring on or worsen depression. According to the National Institutes of Mental Health,“major depression is one of the most common mental disorders in the United States. For some individuals, major depression can result in severe impairments that interfere with or limit one’s ability to carry out major life activities.” The 2021 National Survey on Drug Use and Health revealed that approximately 21 million American adults suffered at least one major depressive episode in 2021. A person was considered to have a major depressive episode if they were depressed or lost interest or enjoyment in daily activities and experienced symptoms such as energy loss, feelings of lower self-worth, or difficulty sleeping, eating, or concentrating for at least two weeks. Depression does not discriminate, impacting people of all ages, races, genders, and ethnicities. There are several types of depression. As described above, a major depressive episode is defined as lasting at least two weeks. Persistent depressive disorder involves less severe symptoms that typically last for at least two years. Perinatal depression appears during or after pregnancy. Prenatal depression occurs during pregnancy, and postpartum depression occurs after childbirth. Seasonal affective disorder typically emerges in late fall and early winter and wanes in the spring. Depression with symptoms of psychosis is a severe form of the condition in which the individual experiences delusions or hallucinations. There are a variety of signs and symptoms of depression. Typical symptoms include feeling sad, anxious, hopeless, pessimistic, irritable, frustrated, or restless. Other symptoms include feeling guilty, worthless, or helpless. Loss of interest in hobbies or other previously enjoyable activities is a common sign of depression. Additional indications include difficulty remembering, concentrating, sleeping, and making decisions. Physical symptoms of depression can include fatigue or decreased energy, changes in appetite, unexplained weight changes, and health issues like stomachaches, headaches, and sexual dysfunction. Individuals with thoughts of self-harm or suicide may also suffer from depression. Fortunately, depression is treatable. According to the Cleveland Clinic, most people (80 to 90 percent) who seek treatment for depression eventually respond well. Available treatments include psychotherapy, medication, brain stimulation, and complementary therapies. In psychotherapy, individuals meet with a mental health professional to discuss their challenges. This therapy helps patients recognize harmful thoughts, emotions, and behaviors that contribute to depression so they can make positive changes. Several kinds of antidepressants are available to reduce depression symptoms. Each type of medication impacts the brain’s chemistry differently. Patients may need to try more 62

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than one medication before finding success. Brain stimulation therapies such as electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) and transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) may be helpful when other therapies are ineffective. ECT passes small electric currents through the brain, which trigger a brief seizure, resulting in changes to the brain’s chemistry. TMS is a non-invasive procedure that stimulates the brain with magnetic fields to improve major depression symptoms. Complementary therapies such as acupuncture, reflexology, meditation, massage, guided imagery, yoga, deep breathing, and exercise may help individuals with depression. These therapies may provide additional benefits when combined with traditional medical treatments. Individuals should consult with their healthcare provider before using these therapies to treat depression. Acupuncture involves penetrating the skin with thin needles to stimulate specific points, releasing chemicals into the brain, muscles, and spinal cord. This treatment can activate the body’s natural healing power for improved physical and mental health. Reflexology involves applying pressure to different pressure points on the body to stimulate the healing process. Meditation, massage therapy, guided imagery, yoga, and deep breathing support a mind-body connection. These therapies promote relaxation and help reduce stress and tension. Exercise affects brain chemistry by releasing endorphins. Exercising can decrease stress while increasing energy, balance, flexibility, and relaxation. What can you do if a friend or a loved one suffers from depression? Try talking to the person about why you are worried. Explain that depression is a health condition that improves with treatment. Please encourage them to get help from a licensed professional, perhaps starting with their primary healthcare provider. Help develop a list of questions for their initial appointment. Let them know that you will help set appointments and go with them if they want support. If you think someone might harm themselves, contact emergency medical services or a healthcare or mental health provider. Recognizing the signs and symptoms of depression allows you to help a friend or loved one get the help they need. Obtaining treatment can relieve symptoms, improve emotional well-being, and enable individuals to return to normal daily activities. Sources for this article included: my.clevelandclinic.org, hopkinsmedicine.org, mayoclinic.org, and nimh.nih.gov.

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I recently read an article about Warren Buffet, the Oracle of Omaha. He mentioned a concept that I had never heard before. Most of us are familiar with the Golden Rule: Treat others as you would like to be treated. Warren has upgraded his approach to life and follows what is known as the Platinum Rule: Treat others the way they want to be treated. “This approach does what the other person wants to be done and assures yourself of a better outcome,” Warren explained. He also noted that the Platinum Rule will activate empathy toward others in your life. “Empathy is seeing with the eyes of another, listening with the ears of another, and feeling with the heart of another.” — Alfred Adler

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