Yaadi Culture, Fimi Style Magazine September 2013

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Welcome to

Yaadi Culture, Fimi Style Magazine

Ambition

is

strong

dependent upon circumstances. He should

desire to achieve

move ahead facing all the odds and

something in life. A person

a

without any

difficulties that hinder his progress. He

without rudder.

should have the firm determination to

Having an ambition needs continuous ef-

achieve his aim. His will-power and

forts towards achieving it. One

cannot

determination will carry him forward.

achieve anything if one just day dreams

Obstacles in his way will not lead him

and does nothing to turn this dream into a

astray.

reality.

An ideal person always tries to achieve his

A strong will-power and determination

goal. Aspiring for great things in life is

will carry a person forward against all

human tendency. The youth of today wants

obstacles. Different people have different

to scale the greater heights of success but it

ambitions. Some aim to become teachers,

was taught by our forefathers that, if we

soldiers,

dream for the stars, we will at least reach

ambition is like a boat

artists,

politicians,

doctors,

engineers etc. Some try to amass wealth

the moon.

and some run after the name and fame.

This issue of the YCFSM focuses on

There are others who aim to serve

“AMBITION” and speaks specifically to

humanity. One should have a noble aim in

the ambitions of ourselves and our people;

life and strive hard honestly, sincerely and

how ambitious are we as a people, are we

with dedication to achieve it.

still inspired for greatness or have we

A person with an ambition should not be

changed our aspirations over time.

Adrian St. P. Duncan Layout & Design Contributors:

Editor - in– Chief Adrian St. P. Duncan Dillon Thomas

Deidre Douglas

Teisha Dawkins

Lynford Harris

Georgette McGlashen Hugh Miller

Vanessa Williams

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From a Bird’s view Deidre D. Douglas

The Newness of Back to School How serious does the society take the implications of September “Isn't it nice to think that tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it yet?” ― L.M. Montgomery

For some,

the new school

year has already

Stress of

spending is on the rise, with the hike of oil

commenced and yes it comes with all the

prices, the new fare rates and the ever pre-

fandangle of new beginnings. There is the

sent wage freeze. Just a few Sundays ago a

best behaviour and the uncertainty that

friend of mine who is the mother of two

accompanies being in a new environment.

was explaining how she has hit the sixty

Some bask in being

grand ($60,000) mark even with

afforded the chance of

some second hand books, not

starting afresh while

spoiling her kids with name

some tremble with fear

brand this and that, plus getting

of finding themselves

some supplies in the summer

lost in the

rigors of

barrel. No envy here. Another

new school. How much

parent who had to ship her

influence does this time of the year have

daughter off to college was basking in the

on society though? The fact is many just

joy of being a proud mother but was quite

can’t wait for “September Morning” as

prompt to point out that she will worry

there will be a full display of new things.

about every cent spent for the next few

Some parents have broken their backs,

years until her child is out of the woods.

bending this happen.

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From a Bird’s view

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Cont’d

So there

are new people

retain their new shoes shine for an

to get to

entire week, some even longer.

know, sometimes new environments to

The psychology that is implicated in

become accustomed to and even more

starting anything especially for the first

importantly new

time gives a sense of

attitudes to turn

novelty. This is the reason

into

why

habits.

for

school

aged

And why, one

persons,

may

countries like ours where

ask,

do

especially

in

these behaviours

uniforms

are

worn,

come into play?

September

has

greater

It

the

effect on the psyche than

newness of the

January as a time to start.

word beginning.

People return to school

is

To start a new school year especially in

from a long summer holiday in different

Jamaica where some still believe it is all

conditions, as this was not a couple weeks

for a show, there are new supplies and for

of festivities but an extended few months

an entire month students and even

of resting or working or exploring or a

teachers smell like “new”. The khakis are

combination of any of the few. So limits

still stiff and glossy, the tunics are still

are set or erased more readily after summer

pleated and immaculate, and the shoes

holidays.

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From a Bird’s view Cont’d

Deidre D. Douglas

our January. Let us not approach it as time running out due to the impending year end, but as an opportunity to right some wrongs

There are

many new and old goals

attempted in September just like January. The only difference is there is less time to accomplish it before the year ends and one

for this year. And as my basic school teacher would say, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, and try, and try again”. Until next time, try to start at something that will in turn make you proud eventually.

may have faced the reality of their current situation for a longer period. So attempting to ace term exams, and to lose weight before Christmas, are only two of the many attempts at resolutions made as September approaches. The fact is for school aged or those directly influenced or affected by the school aged, September is

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JAMAICAN Facts you should know : WILD JAMAICAN IGUANA The Jamaican Iguana (Cyclura collei) is native to the island of

Jamaica and is the island’s largest

land animal, reaching a body length of 150 cm or more. It is on the world endangered species list as the adult population is thought to be below 200. It was once thought to have been common in Jamaica around the seventeenth century, around drier parts of the south coast. They declined dramatically during the second half of the 19th century, probably due to the introduction of the Indian Mongoose (Herpestes Javanicus [auropunctatus]) in 1872, changing land use patterns, and human population growth. They currently survive only in the Hellshire Hills area, a rugged limestone area. Jamaican Iguanas were thought to be extinct in the 1940s after they disappeared from the Goat Islands, two small islands off the

Jamaican coast, but during the 1990s they were

found in their

present habitat.

Jamaican Iguanas are green with bluish shading and dark olive-green lines on the shoulder. The female iguanas often appear reddish-brown because of digging in the red dirt to build nests. The worst threats to the Jamaican Iguana are from predators such as mongooses, cats, stray dogs and wild pigs. Another threat is from burning the forest for charcoal production.

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FEATURE

Aspirations

by Adrian Duncan

Consider a man who aspires to make a great deal of money. By placing a great deal of emphasis on this particular aim in life, this man is likely to create a lifestyle for himself in which he works long hours, to chose a profession based more on its pay and status than on its inner rewards, and to make decisions that maximize his own personal material gain when confronted with certain quandaries.

that aspirations are a useful way to understand

Such experiences and decisions, in turn,

“the good life,” because such values and goals

have ramifications for his own personal

influence the kinds of experiences individuals

quality of life and for the well-being of

have and the decisions they make in life.

those around the man. Over the last few years, my colleagues and I have been scientifically studying aspirations such as the desire for wealth as a way of understanding whether the different values and goals that people hold relate in systematic ways to their own quality of life, as well as to the well-being of others. As hinted at above, we believe

These

experiences and decisions, in

turn,

affect

people’s

well-being and happiness. In addition, we find values, goals and aspirations useful and interesting to study because they are influenced by the manifold messages people receive from others in the

social surround about what

particular pathways might lead towards a specific conception of “the good life.”

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FEATURE

Aspirations Aspiration

is

a

ingredient

by Adrian Duncan

key Continued

for

success. It is used by numerous persons as

INTRINSIC ASPIRATIONS

their motivational factor when they are

Intrinsic goals are those that are

trying to change their status quo; poor to

inherently satisfying to pursue because they

rich, uneducated to educated, jobless

tend, on average, to be congruent with

nature to be gainfully employed. When I

important

was younger, I would continually hear my

common by all people. There are three main

mother say “Aim for the skies and if you

intrinsic goals that we have studied. Personal

don’t reach them then you’ll fall on the

growth goals concern strivings to more deeply

psychological

needs

held

in

stars”.

understand one’s own self and to

This

has

pursue one’s own interests and

been

my

callings. Affiliation goals involve

guiding

being closely connected to family

phrase for

and

success;

feeling goals are primarily about

my moti-

trying to improve the state of the

friends.

Community

vational; my key ingredient that I used to

broader world through activism. As most

mix

of

readers likely recognize, these three intrinsic

determination, hard-work and continued

goals have traditionally been encouraged by

perseverance so that I can enjoy a cool

various philosophical and religious traditions

drink of success

as important pursuits that are purported to

drink

chilled

with

cubes

bring happiness.

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Aspirations

by Adrian Duncan

FEATURE

Continued

As I sit here pondering, I can see flashes of my childhood and the numerous times I was told that I must continue to work hard in order for me to fulfill my dreams. In addition to this I remember my mother’s mother

saying

“boi yu betta have

ambition, else yu nah go reach noweh”. This has been riveted into

better on for

tomorrow. As a child I had

numerous, some lost along the way, but I have never lost sight of my be

remembered

as

an

told me “you were born to be

watching

television and seeing numerous successful individuals revealing their path to success; outlining their aspirations and sacrifices which later became their dreams and reality. Oh how I was

marveled by their success and how they from

“ambition” has molded

field. My mother continually

rooms of our houses today. I

normally

called

innovator, a leader in my desired

on our walls in the sitting

were

thing

me into the man I am today and an even

and

used to hold the flat screens

finally, their

this

ultimate goal; to foster change

my head deeper than rivets

remember

Possessing

poor/humble

beginnings following their dreams to get to where they wanted to by simply possessing

great”, and even today those words continue to echo in my ears. It is evident, I am on the brink of greatness and this can only be attributed to the inspirations/ambitions I possessed as a child and the warrior spirit that is in me

helping to pave my path of

success. I will not lose sight of my vision as one day I will wake up and realize that it is no longer a dream but I’ve made it my reality

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Aspirations by Adrian Duncan Continued

Let us pause

for a minute and family members. Moving from and assess community to community to dance at events/

FEATURE

individuals with inspirations and how they parties on a nightly basis he became the talk made it into a reality. *Close your eyes of the town. With the rhythmic movements and imagine with me* a figurine vendor, of his hands and feet, the innovation and born and raised in the rough inner-city dynamism in his movements, he chiseled a community of Waterhouse. Peddling his name for himself in the country. His crafts on a daily basis, he dreamt of sometimes seemingly choreographed styles making it big; he often times would hum and movements took him to places overseas and sing tunes as he walks up and down in that he dreamt of since he was a child. His the hot sun hunting for a sale. Yearning to first thrust into the limelight came after he change his present situation, he wrote and conceptualized and made public the “worl’ voiced his first hit song and to his surprise dance” and the “bogle dance”. he not only changed his situation but is Affectionately known to his family and now one of the greatest dancehall deejay of friends as Gerald Levy, Bogle became an all time; you guessed it, I’m talking about international dancer and a renowned Rodney “bounty killer” Pryce. His choreographer simply by following his aspirations/ambitions has allowed him to dreams and performing numerous acrobatic be one of the most inspirational, focused movements on a regular basis; moves such as and

career-driven

members

of

the the “Bogle” “World dance” “Tatty” and

entertainment fraternity.

before his untimely death; ‘Wacky dip”

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Aspirations Continued

FEATURE

He

through

his

aspirations

by Adrian Duncan

has

that extends to other species and involves

accomplished success beyond his wildest

future generations yet to be born. As such, “a

dreams; this has opened doors not just for

good life” must also take into consideration

himself but numerous youths with similar

how our actions affect the broader ecology, on

aspirations, namely: John Hype, Ding

which the well-being of redwood trees,

Dong, Sadiki, Sample Six and Black

whooping cranes, Siberian tigers and our great

Blingaz and many more.

-great grandchildren ultimately depends.

There are numerous other similar success stories to these and just as relatable. These stories prove that once you aspire for something, work hard enough and is focused and determined; you will succeed. It is not going to be an easy road but once you keep your eyes on the prize and you work continuously for it then it will be worth it in the end. Never think that your aspirations are not attainable or too trivial, simply keep your eyes on the prize; you will get it soon enough. “Just don’t give up”. Maximizing the well-being of one’s self and of other people in one’s social surround, in my mind, is still not a complete definition of “a good life.” We humans are part of a broader living world

My hope is

that this article suggests to law- makers a variety

of ways that they could modify the legal system to enhance individuals’ opportunities to attain “the good life.” I hope I have made clear that many features of contemporary, consumeristic, hyper-capitalistic society stand in the way of this worthy aim, and that what is necessary is to fashion a culture which does a better job of encouraging and providing opportunities for individuals to pursue the intrinsic aspirations which research shows facilitate personal happiness, social justice, and ecological sustainability. “Success is not reached overnight, it not something you accidentally stumble on, it is acquired through hard-work and determination” Adrian St. P. Duncan 14


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DOCTAZ ADVICE Peyronie's Disease Peyronie's disease is caused by scar tissue, called plaque, which forms along the length of the penis in the corpora cavernosa. This plaque is not visible, and depending on the severity of the condition, the plaque can cause the penis to bend, making sexual intercourse difficult and occasionally painful.

What Causes Peyronie's Disease? The cause of Peyronie's disease is unclear.

Who Gets Peyronie's Disease?

Many researchers believe the plaque of

One study found that Peyronie's dis-

Peyronie's disease can develop following

ease occurs in 1% of men, according

trauma (hitting or bending) that causes

to the National Institutes of Health.

localized bleeding inside the penis. The

Although the disease occurs mostly in

injury or trauma may not be noticeable.

middle-aged men, younger and older

Other cases, which develop over time,

men can get it. In some cases, men

may be genetically linked or inherited

who are related tend to develop

(passed on from parents to children

Peyronie's disease, suggesting the dis-

through genes). The disorder could be

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DOCTAZ ADVICE Symptoms Symptoms may develop slowly or appear overnight. When the penis is soft, no problem can be seen. But, in severe cases, the hardened plaque (which is benign, or noncancerous) reduces flexibility, causing pain and forcing the penis to bend or arc during erection. In most cases, the

How Is Peyronie's Disease Diagnosed?

pain decreases over time, but the

First your doctor will talk to you and ask

bend in the penis can remain a

about any circumstances, such as injury,

problem. Occasionally, milder forms

that may have occurred prior to

of the disease will resolve

symptoms appearing. Your doctor can

spontaneously without causing

feel the hardened tissue caused by the

significant pain or permanent

disease during an exam, although

bending. Overall, Peyronie's disease

sometimes it is necessary to do the exam

will resolve on its own between

with the penis erect. In some cases where

5%-19% of the time.

the doctor's exam does not confirm

Some men with Peyronie's disease

Peyronie's disease, or in cases where the

develop scar tissue elsewhere in the

condition develops rapidly, your doctor

body, such as on the hand or foot.

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Gospel t a e B Lord,

help me to remember that you are most

interested in an obedient heart. Change me

when I think you are obligated to me because of my religious acts of worship or service. Give me a pure unquestionable heart

that will serve you without

embarrassment or shame. Have thine own way with me, Lord. Though art the Potter, I am the clay; mold me and make me after thy will, while I am waiting, yielded and still. God has a purpose for your life, so what you have to do is follow Him , believing that He will keep directing you. *Broken things can become blessed things if you let

God do the mending*

This month’s text is taken from:Read:

Jeremiah 7: 1 - 11 2 Chronicles 34 – 35 Jeremiah 18: 1 - 10

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Jamaican

Dillion Thomas

super stitions

BY

1 The most popular one that I can remember is that a pregnant woman should never ignore her cravings. For example if a pregnant woman were to crave an orange and she ignored the craving, then the baby would be born with a mark in the shape of an orange on some part of his/her body. (hence the birthmarks that some of us have)

2 If a woman drinks plenty of milk during her pregnancy, then the baby would be born If a woman drinks plenty of milk during her pregnancy, then the baby would be born light in complexion

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After the baby is born and the umbilical cord ('navel string") falls off, it should never touch the ground. You also have up to a year to bury the cord and it should be buried under a coconut tree.

4

A new mother should not bathe or wash her hair for three months after giving birth, as her pores are believed to be open and susceptible to colds."

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Hugh Miller’s

Fiwi Sports... Fimi pree

Ambition In Sports Speeds Up Development Hello

people,

hope you all are doing Jamaica

well. and

sports have come a long way and certainly have a long way to go. I simply typed ‘define ambition’ into Google and the first definition clearly helps me to further explain the title of this article. The search reads ‘A strong desire to do or to achieve something,

typically

requiring

determination and hard work’. As I speed up to the term development that I know can mean so many things, for our purpose development means nation building. A 2010 Grace

Kennedy Foundation Lecture by

has generated amongst Jamaicans a sense of pride when our teams do well on the local and international stage. Sport gives members of the Diaspora community a focus on which to hang their nationalistic caps and to positively reinforce their Jamaican identity. The international exposure the country gains from the performance of our sports men and women and the benefits that spring from that are difficult to quantify’. agree that music Many would and sports has allowed the man from the inner most of the earth to know of Jamaica. These talents certainly are difficult to quantify as we may argue for the

Delano Franklyn reminds us that;

most part that the

‘For nearly 100 years sport in

individual

Jamaica has been an important

gains

greater as he /she is

component of nation building. Sport

the

one

with

the

talent/gift. .

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Hugh Miller’s

Fiwi

Sports... Fimi pree

And so what if they are the greater

CONT’D

out discipline. It bonds classes, races and communities in shared pride. They vanquish

gainer, the ambition it takes for athletes to

racism’s claim that certain races have

be able to beat the world or even arrive on

greater ability than others. They match

the world stage is no easy feat. Please let’s

nation’s talent for talent regardless of size

not go there, where we begin to say it’s

and resources, and show that human

easy for them because… I remember Tesfa

determination levels the playing field. Sports

Latty from St. Georges beating Bolt at

have the importance of investing in people

Boys Champs 2001 in the 200m. There and

and confirm what Jamaicans have been

then I thought Tesfa was one to look out

saying all along, its people are its greatest

for, but his drive was not track

resource”.

although he was so good. And not

However,

to mention all the talented school

talented a nation is, without the

mates we all had who just was not

carefully designed infrastructure,

determined or wanted to work hard

marketing, promotion and simply

regardless

of

how

enough to help Jamaica’s development

making use of these resources development

through sports. But some did the work,

will

from George Headley to Usain Bolt and by

is the case. Franklyn, 2010 points out that it

just doing the work; they encourage many

is the combined synergies of the state, the

to strive for the best which in turn develops

private sector and the voluntary sector which

our country. For we all know the greatest

have been the greatest asset in using sport as

resource for any country. As expressed by

one of the principal drivers of nation build-

Robert Buddan, (2008):

ing. Athlete can do well but our laws and

“It takes a people to build a nation. Sport is important for physical and mental

never speed up, sadly for Jamaica that

policies must be in place to protect them and speed up our development.

development, for national pride and selfesteem. Sport develops talent and brings ‘Bolt to Jamaica, the land of Bob Marley’ Franklyn, 2010.

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Words of encouragement

Two

By: Lynford Harris

brothers, two different minds, as the saying goes.

Ambition is the difference that separated them both. They both got the same opportunities, even came from the same home. Yet they both turned out so different, like a

He dreamed of living like a drug lord, having

leprechaun and a gnome.

fast cash and pretty girls.

Derek was the patient type, went to college

Talking like he was scarface "one day I'll rule

got a good job.

the world".

But patience wasn't one of Johns virtues so

Their ambition decided their choices, Derek

he decided to loot and rob.

got the perfect life, the job, the kids, the

This wasn't for a lack of opportunities, John

finished high school so he was no

fool. But working a 9-5 wasn't his thing he would say, while dressing 'hype' and acting cool.

home. John's future held only two outcomes, Prison or here lies John on his grave stone. Don’t try to act cool or behave like a fool,

Please

I implore you to stay in school.

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Ole Time People did say…. Georgette McGlashen Uol Taim Piipl Yuuz Tu Se

I do

n

o

t

know of

one person that does not want to be

“Ef Yu Waahn Gud, Yu Nuoz Afi Ron”, translated ‘If You Want Good, Your Nose Will Have To Run’.

successful, that does not want to be healthy, that does not want good relationships and want to have everything that makes them comfortable.

However

wishing

and

wanting does not and cannot produce results, without working for it. What is it that

separates

the

haves

from

the

have-nots? What makes some people more successful than others? What gives some persons that extra edge over others? Jim Rohn motivational speaker suggests that ‘to

But what is it in us that would cause us to want more than the normal, more than the average? Why would we want our nose(s) to run?” The answer; AMBITION. Ambition is the ardent desire for rank fame or power, the desire

for

personal

advancement

or

preferment. It is ambition and not potential that drives one to success. Because after all, we all have potential and we all are capable of doing something.

get what other people do not have, you need to do what other people do not do’. Closer to home, Uol Taim Piipl Yuuz to Se,

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Ole Time People did say…. Georgette McGlashen Uol Taim Piipl Yuuz Tu Se

Cont’d

“Ef Yu Waahn Gu

staying late a couple evenings and making a few more calls. Yes, you must be willing to

good, Yu Nuoz Afi Ron” is usually

get wet by rain and walk bare feet even. You

offered as a form of encouragement to

must embrace the process and get the cold

cope in a difficult situation, such as a

and let your nose run. Why? Because in the

competitive job, a testing relationship,

end, you will get your good; you will see the

or hard training for example. It is that

worth of your work and you will guard it

sobering reminder that success, great

with great appreciation and gratitude.

success, good success, does not come easy. With ambition, whatever your goal is, it must be worthy of fighting for. The dreams you have must be something good. Your vision should worth the inconvenience of staying up late and getting up early; reading that extra book and writing the

Also you would have endured that process and would have become a stronger person, that if you were to do it again – maybe your nose will not run and you would have become immune by then. Until next time Waak Gud An Tek Kier and remember Oudi an Tengki No Brok No Skwier!

extra line; doing 5 more pushups and 10 more abdominals;

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A Word to the Wise with ..... Deidre Douglas AN EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW WITH Yaadi Culture, Fimi Style Magazine is all about treading new and interesting waters and as such we have established an avenue so those who have can share their experience and expertise with those who wish to. Hi guys, this month we are speaking to a young and vibrant lady who knows a few things about “Treading New Waters” which is where we want to get to in this month’s interview. She is no stranger to Yaad although she now resides overseas. With little more to say, here is our interview with the ever so lovely Toni Longmore.

Q Hey Toni, thanks for agreeing to do this interview. This month’s magazine theme is all about

Ambition and our interview is regarding “Treading New Waters”. While brainstorming for an interviewee, you popped up in my head because I recalled you taking on culinary arts (the kitchen) after graduating from university. Tell us about that game change; what did you actually study in university?

studied Language, Communication and Society at the University of the A IWest Indies.

Q

Was Culinary Arts a total 180 degrees of change for you or had you prior exposure or experience?

think that it was definitely 180 degrees for me. I went from Linguistics to A ICulinary Management. I always loved to cook and had a very strong passion for it. I had a lot of encouragement from friends and family, which ultimately led me to pursue my passion.

Q

For you, how important are others in your life to your choices and the steps you have made in changing your path (if you have)?

A I care for my family a great deal and at the end of the day I do respect their

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Toni Longmore Q

Our article has quite the young and youthful audience, therefore, what is your advice to those who believe they have to stick to one job, career or field for life?

A

You know what I think my advice would be, make sure you do what you love. I think that is where you will gain fulfilment and satisfaction. There is a saying: "If you do what you love, you will never have to work a day in your life." I think this is so true. I have an aunt who actually went to medical school in her 30s, and is now an established doctor in Florida. I think most often times we feel that by the time we are done high school we should have it all figured out and we should know what we want to do with our lives, however that is not always the case. I would encourage those who are unsure of their career path to seek career counselling and try to figure out what you love and what makes you happy. Whatever we choose in life we should also have a passion for it.

Q

What is your philosophy about goals?

think my philosophy for goals A Iwould be, don’t procrastinate.

Q What do you enjoy most about your life as is? A I love to cook and I love to see the

smiles on people's faces when they have had a good meal. To me If i can make people happy by giving them a good meal. I think my job is done.

for agreeing to do this interview Q Thanks Toni, you are a gem.

A

No problem

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Values of our young women in a changing Jamaican environment

By Teisha Dawkins

acts and the ones doing it hiding from public GONE ARE THE DAYS… Jamaican society today is to be

view and lying about doing same. Now,

If the compared to what it was a few

everywhere you go females are on par with

decades ago, we will see major changes in

concerned. Whether it is marijuana or

the way women dress, our drinking and

cigarettes, we are smoking it just as much

smoking habits, and in ambition driven

as- if not more than- our male counterparts.

females. The way women dress

males

where drinking

and

smoking

is

Male dependency and chasing the “good” life instead of worthwhile goals

The mode of dress for females has changed

The society today is all about living big, fast

significantly over the years. Gone are the

money, partying and especially for women-

days of modest-dress, as females seem to

looking “clean” every day. It is all about the

be revealing as much skin as possible. You

hype, making sure everything “tun up til eh

may just be walking on the street and see

buk”. It is all about partying, we pay to attend

females in ‘clothes’, word being used

the hot parties, enter the hottest clubs and

lightly, barely covering their breasts and

drink up a storm and get ‘drunk til wi cant

buttocks. Even beach-wear is offering less

even talk’ according to PopCaan. We women

coverage (yes, such a thing is possible),

tend to depend on men to get whatever we

barely covering areas that the public

need instead of working. It is not merely being

should not be available for public viewing.

a house-wife and expecting the husband to act

Female drinking & smoking

as the head of the household and take care of

Females today are drinking and smoking and are making no secret of it. Gone are

the family’s financial needs while we cater to the children and house.

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Cont’d

Values of our young women in a changing Jamaican environment

By Teisha Dawkins

OUR DIMINISHING VALUES Gone are the days when men actually go out to work and come home to a clean house and home-cooked meal. Majority of

Women

today do not want to hold down a nine-to-five job,

some do not even want to work, period. It is

the women who depend on men financially

all about finding ways to get that money now!

are not married, do not take care of

In doing so, do we lose our morality? A friend

household chores and have no children for

once said “if you are doing nothing illegal or

these men. We sit at home doing nothing,

immoral, then you have nothing to worry

with bills coming around every month like

about’, but what do we consider moral? Do we

clockwork and depend solely on men to

even have morals/ self-imposed boundaries we

pay these bills for us. We want our hair and

live by? Is illegality our cut-off point? How

nails to get done, we start scrolling through

far will we go and what will we do to ensure

our phone books. What happened to

that we are all the rage?

working for what we want? We want our bills paid we start calling up “boo”. Some of us do not even want to go to school anymore. So we party, we go out, we are always “clean and fresh”. How long do we do this for? Then what?

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Values of our young women in a changing Jamaican environment

By Teisha Dawkins

Adam and Eve realized the existence of nakedness a lifetime ago therefore we as humans are not oblivious to it. The messages we are trying to send by publicly

as-

displaying our butt cheeks and everything else but our nipples is not a positive one. We are also telling our children and

siduously to achieve that goal. We spend time

younger siblings that this way of dressing

on

is appropriate and acceptable. One of the

capture the attention of these rich men. It is as

reasons for entering public places so

if we no longer have ambitious aims we work

scantily dressed is because some females

towards in our life, chasing fast money, bling

are always on the prowl. The aims for most

and men instead of working towards education

young females today seem to be ‘find a

and career. The time and effort put into this

rich man to take care of me’ and they work

task could be spent working towards more

our

hair,

clothes

and

makeup

to

rewarding and satisfactory goals. We cannot lose our

education, ladies. It is ours

forever so let us put our wit, intelligence and intellect to more productive use.

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My My ambitions ambitions in in life life ... ...

Grades

By Adrian St. P. Duncan

are important because

faced with ambition they will in the end be

getting a good grade

a happy, productive, respected, upstanding

can be the reason one gets

accepted into

a top university or is offered a prestigious

and successful individual in your chosen field.

job. However, grades are not the only thing

Aimless life is certainly a sin. Many

that can lead one into being successful in

people have no definite aim in life. They

life. Ambition is what is most important. It

are like the travelers going ahead without

is often times

any destination. Such people lead an

encouraged that one needs

to have a thirst for

being adventurous,

aimless life and what they do in life, is

follow your dreams and no

largely a matter of chance, determined by

matter what, always, believe in yourself.

the circumstances in which they happen to

This ‘thirst’ is ambition. If one is smart but

live. One should have a definite

has no ambition and passion for what they

of life. The individuals in society who

are doing, it is possible for them to become

want success in life, first of all, establish

lazy and disinterested in their career.

and aim for their target. They keep before

Individuals are advised to never give up

them their circumstances, their virtues,

establish and

despite

the

their

purpose

qualities,

their

circumstances

talents and their ability

they are

to

facing

or the host of troubles

work

hard

for

whatever they desire.

being Continues on next Page

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My My ambitions ambitions inin life life ... ...

Different

people have different ambitions in life. Some

aim at wealth, power, fame, at education

Cont’d

everybody should try their best to make this beautiful island a better place.

and knowledge and some wish to become

Additionally, I aspire for servitude to my

leaders of the country to gain honour.

fellow

citizens,

There are others who are

craze

The

among

poor

and

the

down-trodden and the

mainly led by a spirit of adventure.

the

less

latest

fortunate

individual

young

of

our

beautiful country. It

people today is to go to foreign countries. Their

has been my passion

aim in life is to earn a lot

to help those who are

of money in a short

in dire need, it is clear

period of time. I am a human being and I too have ambition of my own. My ambition in life is not wealth, power or high social status. I am too modest a young man to aim at these things.

that I have a tall task ahead of me.

Servitude, humility and

sincerity will be my motto. I shall not chase riches and will always try my best to help the poor and needy.

My ambition is simple; I wish to serve my country with the best of my talent. I love

By Adrian St. P. Duncan

my country and I really believe that

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What is the nation’s ambition? The summer period is drawing to a close and at the end of summer, the beginning of the new school year beckons. As I stood within the large tent at The University of the West Indies this past week, I have witnessed a steady stream of fresh faced, bright eyed, bushy tailed young people enter the campus for their orientation programme.

The

individuals who are actively seeking employment but have been unable to secure one. This inability may be for a variety of reasons but certainly from my point of view, not for lack of trying and applying

bright

in

greatness

of

job

the

career

success.

a

university

lamented

that

span she had sent out over 60 applications. The

reality is that having spent

academic

and

companies/

within a two months time-

into greatness, they were journey

which

graduate

eyes. They were stepping resume

numerous

was privy to a conversation

within the souls of their

to

to

organizations/ministries. In recent times, I

expectant light shone from

about

By: V. L. Williams

years to acquire an

honors

degree from one of the most

prestigious

tertiary institutions in the

region and

Recent data from the Statistical Institute of

having spent millions of

dollars,

Jamaica (STATIN) indicates that the

individuals are then faced with the task of

unemployment rate in Jamaica is at 16.3%,

spending

while youth unemployment is over 30 %.

hundreds of hours to seek employment;

The reality of these statistics is that, of the

which now seems to be an illusion for

approximated that 2,889,187 people in

young people in this country rather than an

Jamaica, there are approximately 215,550

actuality.

thousands of dollars and

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What is the nation’s ambition?

By: V. L. Williams Continued

So while

there a r e

thousands of young persons

been

about to start out on their

amalgamated.

tertiary path to

What

greatness,

removed or is

the

there are hundreds of other

ambition of a

young people who are sitting at home rife

educated,

with

students graduating university each year,

frustration

and

hopelessness.

nation with hundreds of

brilliant, young

economics

Hundreds of young brilliant minds who

but still

have once had that bright expectant light

warfare? Where is the ambition for growth,

shining from within, having graduated

development, and making use of the

from University are now sitting with

available human resources?

dreams of grandeur, plans to empower and improve their

families and communities,

but with no

prospects for employment.

Such a reality is cause for one to question the ambition of the nation, of the leaders and of the organizational

culture that

exists within this country. Jamaica is a country fighting an economic war but has hundreds of individuals employed to the public sector with minimal qualifications; numerous persons holding posts with

unable to step out of economic

The battle

being

sought

within

the

Jamaican context appears to be one between the presence of will power and the inability to grasp opportunities. The will power

of

the

relevant

personnel

in

authority to instigate much needed job analyses and reclassifications and ensure that the posts occupied within the public sector are necessary and functional.

minimal duties; such posts that could have 48

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What is the nation’s ambition? Also,

ensure

that

the

Continued

By: V. L. Williams

individuals

occupying the posts are qualified and competent. Such moves would definitely speak to the organizational ambition of the institutions considering that the presence and input of qualified and competent individuals would undoubtedly create much more productive, effective and efficient entities and agencies.

The

ambition of the leaders ought to propel them into

being harsh decision makers; the kind of ambitious individuals who will seek to ensure that the best of the qualified cohort are employed and not ‘the cousin of a

Such

ambitious

efforts

undoubtedly

will

create

opportunities for some of the thousands who are leaving universities every year and

significantly

lessen

the

unemployment percentage in the country, therefore signifying the bold ambition of the nation and its individuals.

friend who visited their neighbor’. The ambition of such individuals should drive them to create employment along the lines of merit and not within the lines of nepotism.

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