Yaadi Culture, Fimi Style Magazine October/November 2014 Issue

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Welcome to

Yaadi Culture, Fimi Style Magazine

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The ability and willingness to express sincere

I aim to get things done. Once I complete a task or

appreciation is one of the most valuable skills of

project, I’m onto the next one. I used to forget to

leadership communication. People will tend to

stop and appreciate the people and things around

willingly follow others who make them feel good

me. To take a moment and express a heartfelt

about themselves.

thanks.

It may sounds simple, yet the expression of sincere gratitude is rare. It is simply not easy, and frequently not considered important to convey real appreciation in our world where convention rather than authenticity rules most of our

This issue of the magazine will be attesting to appreciation and general gratitude. Please enjoy our issue and we would appreciate if you help with the furtherance of our magazine by sharing it with a friend or family member.

communication. Do you tell others often how much you appreciate them? Does it come across sincere? I

struggled

in

the

past

with

Adrian St. P. Duncan

expressing

Editor - in– Chief

appreciation. Especially with employees, but also with loved ones, colleagues and even strangers.

Deidre D. Douglas Senior Associate Editor

Layout & Design Contributors:

Adrian St. P. Duncan

Ann-Marie Scott

Photos: 4D Productions RozaRebel

Christal Miller

Dillon Thomas

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Many Thanks “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” Melody Beattie

It is

officially another school year. Students, parents and teachers have transitioned

into the hum drum routine that the school year requires. They wake up and until they go back to sleep, it is one activity after another. There are several morning routines, some inclusive of mortal alarm clocks, who sometimes transform into chefs and

and always showed keen interest. For some it is the teacher who gave sound advice, tips and stayed close enough to see them through the most challenging of times on the road to academic achievement. Few can boast self reliance as their only source of motivation and assistance on the journey though, which comes to prove, no man is an island.

chauffeurs; some include calling a taxi, and or

Every walk in life presents us with lessons to grasp

skipping through minor roads to beat city traffic; or

and absorb. Do we always notice that at the moment

leaving home at some dead hours of the morning for a

we are being schooled? No. Sometimes we are

twenty minutes drive to some place where they will

completely oblivious to it until we’ve gone through,

sit for a couple hours awaiting the arrival of the

until we’ve taken the beating, until we have survived

people who travel at regular hours. The truth is school

the scars and the scares, and until we have been re-

is routine sacrifice, whether it’s for kindergarten or

vived from whichever dungeon we end up during the

college. It all winds down to who is making the

series, or the episode. But 1 Thessalonians 5 verse

ultimate sacrifice, whether the parents who fund it, or

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the students who endure it, or the educators who

will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” This

participate in it for one reason or the other.

teaches us to be grateful in our circumstances even if

When graduates take to the podiums or simply sit and

we cannot decipher the favour in them.

reflect amongst themselves, the good, bad and crazy resurface in their hearts and minds. A personal sometimes left unanswered is who truly deserves the thanks for what is achieved. Maybe it is the parent who gave their all, supported in every way possible 5 Yaadi Culture, Fimi Styleja


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Cont’d We have to learn to crawl before we can walk, run and dance. Equally we may have to accept tests of faith that may change our scope, because sometimes it’s in disappointments that we have a change of vision and realise new dreams, new perspectives. Now as new heights have been set to soar, and new skies have been aimed to surpass, I hope we are mindful of the limitless possibilities.

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ife has continued to school me well. I can thank them all, you all, for

So as one of my favourites of all time, the Lady Maya

how and who I am. I am tougher

Angelou had said, “No matter what happens, or how

and wiser because of the bad, the

bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be

disappointments and the loss. I am more loving

better tomorrow.” Don’t dwell on what’s in the past,

and kind because of the ones who shared their

deal with it; be thankful for an opportunity to move on

lives with me and continue to do so. For me it’s

from it, and Carpe Diem. We are like milk in carton

never just about the pity party of a bad day, term,

boxes, we can either stay on the shelves of life until

relationship or result; there is a time and place for

we expire, or we serve the purpose we were made for.

all things under the sun. There comes a time after

And whether it is school, or a long standing relation-

the initial shock, or hurt, or emptiness, when

ship with some other being, mortal or immortal, there

decisions have to be made. It is in those times

are sacrifices to be made, there are scars to be gained,

that the bigger me shows up, and she is

there are lessons to be learned and choices to be made,

world-class. The bigger me smiles at adversary

but never forget to give thanks for who you are every

and she notes the danger possible, but carefully

time you realize you are still alive.

plans her next move, trusts the God she has a long standing relationship with and takes her next step, knowing always who is in her corner, and

One Love

who has her back. @YaadiCulture

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Cont’d

We always hear it loud and clear whenever there is

Natalie 90% of the journey - "....stick to what you're

something bad to be said about the male specie, especially

doing, and keep trying, it's going to be difficult, you

Jamaican men. But what about when you meet that man

going to have bad days and things going to seem

who deserves a real "loud up" so to speak, for doing

hopeless, but you will make it.”

almost everything just right? Well that is the aim of this article, showing appreciation to a dedicated father. I trust

Mr. Taylor did not realize just how much those

that other men will learn and follow suit. I also hope that

words meant to me, and what impact they had on my

parents in general will learn several important parenting

current reality as an entrepreneur surrounded by

skills from this. Ladies and gentlemen, allow me to

dream killers who keep saying the opposite, you will

"LOUD UP" Mr. Owen Taylor .

never succeed. begin,

"A nine to five is good, but it makes you lazy.

everything he said made

Because it forces you to accept another's way of

perfect sense to me. I left out a lot of the stories, he told

thinking and doing, and it kills your talents. There is

me about fifty in that twelve hour period. We were

no room for growth, you do as you’re told in order

traveling across island to tend to business for one of

to keep your job. So it is better for people like me

daughters. He is a realist, he tells it as it is. The reason his

and you Natalie. People like me and you can survive

stories gripped my attention was how dedicated he was to

in America.”

his responsibilities and how determined he was to

A father of 5, Mr. Taylor went on to tell me the

succeed.

stories of raising his children. "Mi have 5 sperm by 3

"As a child growing up in Clarendon, I had to wake up

different mother, and mi decide seh all a dem haffi

early and walked miles with my mother to the market. I

live under one roof, my roof. So when I made that

learnt the values of business from her. I learnt that one

decision, one of the mothers started fussing about

can be successful working as a self-employed individual,

she not wanting her kids living with no step-mother.

if you are creative enough. So, Natalie..." -he called me

I said to her, listen mi, it is better for the children

I did not

know

where

to

financially if they live with me and are together. If they are in 3 different house holds, somebody going to get short changed, and mi nuh waah short change my children. Don't let the children suffer because you the parents can't agree. 8

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So he got his way and all his “sperms�, that's what he calls them, grew up together. He ensured they all got a solid education. He said that was important as he himself never got the opportunity. So unlike most Jamaican parents who are of the belief that they

Parent Teacher Association (PTA) meetings at each school

should help their children financially up fifthth form

and did regular random check-ins to speak with guidance

(grade 11), he believed he should do so until they are

counselors and teachers even if these meetings happened

23yrs of age, because that will give them enough time

on the same day. "A mi a spend di money, mi waah know

to get at least a first degree. Although he keeps saying

what a gwaan" was his reasoning. Not many parents would

he is not supporting any adult children, he still helps

make such an effort when the schools were miles apart. He

them out when he can .

said sometimes he knew it was impossible to make it to

Apart Unl i ke

m os t

from financial support, he has

one so that is when he called on the mothers to fill in .

been there for them through

He and his children are very close as well. His UWI

their

graduate daughter says "Nuttin to mi like mi puppa u

m en,

emotional he

growth.

wel com es

t he

opportunities to have discussions with his children of any topic. Of the five children, Mr. Taylor has one son and four daughters. He proudly asserts that they all talk about absolutely everything with him, from the miniscule to major issues. These discussions may be about life choices, personal issues, sexual issues, the weather, everything. They say his daughter, whom I attended UWI with, is his favorite, but he believes it's because he speaks more frequently with this daughter as they both live in North America . One of the stories he told was about the children's secondary school tenure. He told me that once during their schooling three of them were attending three different high schools. Even so, he ensured he attended

hear... My treasure dat" and I tell you he is indeed a treasure. Not only as a parent, but also as a Jamaican man . He told me how hard it was when he migrated to United States of America for a better life. His new wife did not want him to financially support his children the way he wanted. She wanted full control of the money as she wanted him to spend less money on his children. Also, his new wife wanted to spend the money on her children for whom he is not the father. He was in total disagreement and was willing to end this marriage if it meant he could not support his children how he believed he should . "Nobody can tell me not to support my pickney dem. Dem never ask fi come into dis world. A we mek dem while having fun, so a fiwi responsibility fi ensure seh dem alright.� 9

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The ability and willingness to express sincere appreciation is one of the most valuable skills of

himself, he thought “easy enough”, until the teacher

leadership communication. People will tend to

added “and you have to experience the gratitude”.

feel good about themselves. It sounds simple but, yet the expression of sincere gratitude is very very rare in our present Jamaican society.

It is

As Jamaicans, we are all exposed at some time to proper manners and a sense of decency; that visit to the grandmother for the summer, that Sunday school

simply not easy, and frequently

teacher or that lady who always remind you of proper

not considered important to

deportment. We all know how to say “THANK YOU”

convey real appreciation in our world and present

but few of us actually know how to generate the

Jamaican society, where convention rather than

expression of actually being grateful. Regrettably,

authenticity rules most of our communication. A

unless we generate this experience in ourselves, the

famous author told of his teacher and how she

object of our thanks will only experience the

wanted him to write two lines on gratitude before

conventional and obligatory communication as well as

leaving his room in the mornings, thinking to

“THANKS”.

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It is my belief that our leaders must develop the

employees

capabilities of generating the experience of

opens the doors

gratitude in themselves in order to engender the

for a higher level

kind of loyalty displayed by individuals that have

of efficiency.

and

for years documented shortfalls used them for improvement. A Benedictine monk, Brother David Steindtrest, a prolific writer on gratefulness stated that “real gratitude is grounded in

I have used the “don't leave your room until you feel

experience not in rhetoric”.

and

experience I want to challenge our leaders, supervisors,

gratefulness”

commanders and bosses to display to workers

exercise myself. It

appreciation; appreciation for the work done (not

is quite enlightening and en-heartening. As a leader, it

just financially but also through other recogni-

has enriched my life as well as those around me. Our

tion and incentive schemes (employee of the

leaders today are calledon to exhibit uncommon

moth plaque on the office wall, a public oral

emotional intelligence, part of that intelligence is the

commendation

ability to express authentic gratitude.

while

attesting

to

specifics for this high commendation). Surprisingly, this fosters a greater a sense of appreciation by employees

and it has been

Do you think they are able to or do they need to take that notes in room exercise first?

proven countless times that this ultimately helps in the fostering of greater output productivity by

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Depression What are the symptoms of

WHAT IS DEPRESSION? Depression is a state of low mood and aversion to activity that can affect a person's thoughts, behavior, feelings and sense of well-being.[1] Depressed people can feel sad, anxious, empty, hopeless, worried, helpless, worthless, guilty, alone, irritable, hurt, or restless. They may lose interest in activities that were once pleasurable, experience loss of appetite or overeating, have problems concentrating, remembering details or making decisions, and may contemplate, attempt or commit suicide. Insomnia,excessive sleeping, fatigue, aches, pains, digestive problems or reduced energy may also be present.

depression? Many people know when they are depressed. However, some people do not realise when they are depressed. They may know that they are not right and are not functioning well but don't know why. Some people think that they have a physical illness for example, if they lose weight. There is a set of symptoms that are associated with de-

pression and help to clarify the diagnosis. These are: Core (key) symptoms 

Persistent sadness or low mood. This may be with

or without weepiness. Marked loss of interest or pleasure in activities, even for activities that you normally enjoy.

Other common symptoms  Disturbed sleep compared with your usual pattern. This may be difficulty in getting off to sleep, or waking early and being unable to get back to sleep. Sometimes it is sleeping too much.  Change in appetite. This is often a poor appetite and weight loss. Sometimes the reverse happens with comfort eating and weight gain.  Tiredness (fatigue) or loss of energy.  Agitation or slowing of movements.  Poor concentration or indecisiveness. For example, you may find it difficult to read, work, etc. Even simple tasks can seem difficult. Feelings of worthlessness, or excessive or inappropriate guilt. 15 @YaadiCulture

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SEVERITY OF DEPRESSION The severity of depression can vary from person to

person. Severity is generally divided as follows: 

Severe depression - you would normally have

most or all of the nine symptoms listed above. Also, symptoms markedly interfere with your normal functioning. 

Moderate depression - you would normally have

more than the five symptoms that are needed to make the diagnosis of depression. Also, symptoms will usually include both core symptoms. Also, the severity of symptoms or impairment of your functioning is between mild and severe. 

Mild depression - you would normally have five of

the symptoms listed above that are required to make

What causes depression? The exact cause is not known. Anyone can develop depression. Some people are more prone to it and it can develop for no apparent reason. You may have no particular problem or worry, but symptoms can develop quite suddenly. So, there may be some genetic factor involved that makes some people more prone than others to depression. 'Genetic' means that the condition is passed on through families. An episode of depression may also be triggered by a life event such as a relationship problem, bereavement, redundancy, illness, etc. In many people it is a mixture of the two. For example, the combination of a mild low mood with some life problem, such as work stress, may lead to a spiral down into depression.

the diagnosis of depression. However, you are not likely to have more than five or six of the symptoms. Also, your normal functioning is only mildly impaired. Subthreshold depression - you have fewer than the five symptoms needed to make a diagnosis of

Women tend to develop depression more often than men. Particularly common times for women to become depressed are after childbirth (postnatal depression) and the menopause.

depression. So, it is not classed as depression. But, the symptoms you do have are troublesome and cause distress. If this situation persists for more than two years it is sometimes called dysthymia.

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Love and Marriage 

A woman who sits on a table will never marry, and neither will a man who turns down his hat on a table or bed.

If a person wants to know the depth of love someone feels for him/her, knot a thread a few times and place a flame over it. If the flame passes over the knots the love is strong.

If you open an umbrella in your house you will not marry.

May is an unlucky month to marry, and Monday and Saturday are unlucky days on which to be married. If you marry on Monday it is believed the husband and wife will quarrel to their deaths, while if you marry on a Saturday it is believed the husband will die. It is also bad luck to marry on your birthday.

Wednesday is the luckiest day to get married and the best times on that day are 8:00 a.m., noon and 4:00 p.m.. Sunday at 4:00 p.m. is also a lucky day and time to get married.

If anything is broken during the wedding reception, the marriage will be an unhappy one.

Dreams 

If you dream about fire, it means confusion

If you dream about new shoes, it means you will have a new lover.

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have infused the many aspects of Jamaican life. They have belief about everything from good luck, horse racing,

death, birth and even those that make you laugh or cry. Jamaica is well recognized as one of the most religious countries in the world, it is no wonder they are called a superstitious group of people. Here are some of the common superstitions in Jamaica.

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A Black Cat crosses your path, you will hear bad news or be disappointed, This is the truth, I never believed in this, but I have proved it!

Dreaming of a fast moving car shows that someone will visit you but that person will soon transition to another realm, or you should look out for a message from an ancestor

It is said that if a woman drinks lot of milk during

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pregnancy her child is going to have lighter complexion.

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When the top of your eye (say the eyelid) is twitching, something good is going to happen to you, but when the bottom of your eye is twitching, something bad is going to happen. If it is twitching really bad, the effectiveness is stronger than a little twitch.

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1 Chron. 29: 6– 9 The Book of Ruth

Is the

character

of

character

of

Appreciation working in you?

Take a careful look at this character and fruit of appreciation from God’s most precious Word,

Acts 9 Luke 17 :12—20 Rom. 9: 30—10: 4

by examining the following passages. Now ask yourself:

How do I exhibit appreciation in my daily life?

What can I do to develop a better willingness to show appreciation towards other?

What blocks appreciation from working and being exhibited in you/me?

Eph. 3 :7—13

Appreciation is having admiration for others and communicating your approval to them. It is taking the time to make people feel comfortable , welcome, special by using the fruits of God’s work in you to encourage and uplift others. It is the form of valuing other; this takes

How can I make appreciation function the focus off you and places it on God’s better, stronger and faster even in times of purpose and direction. It is fueled from uncertainty and stress?

our heartfelt thanks to God for what He we have, for what He has given and done

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This allows us to give to, and value oth- right time and place to give a kind word ers with respect and honor:

and when someone is at a critical stage and needs a friend. The world is full of discour-

Rom. 12:10;

1 Thess. 5: 12-18;

very few people live to build others up. We

1 Tim. 5:17; 6:1;

are too preoccupied with ourselves and our

aging people who live to put others down; a

circumstances to see and value others. 

1 Pet. 2:17; Heb. 12:28-29

However, these Scriptures point out how valuable it is to God that we take the time

Appreciation offers gratitude because gratitude is a response for what someone has done for us—such as, God’s grace. A gift is given and we say “thank you” in words and

honor others. That kind word at the right time can lead to a person out of a depressive state, out of a bad thinking situation, even out of suicide. Your kind gestures set a tone for healthy relationships and point others to Christ.

deed. Appreciation is honoring others while also being grateful for what we have. It is being thankful and happy for other people, family, friends and co-workers. This character will enable us to see the

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Passing

the University of the West H Indies

or

visiting

it,

on

overlooked the collage of buildings across the

overlooked, this community has been active

various sectors in Jamaica; including the educa sectors. Affectionately called “Commons�,

the com

Commons is located in the parish of St. Andr

the home to a host of young talented Jamaican i

years, there has been a number of professiona

sporting personalities who were born and raised community.

One such individual is Richard Brown. Richar

male fifth form student of the Mona High Schoo

Road in the parish. Additionally, Richard is a ve

of his community and school , where he p

competitively. Coupled with sporting talents, h

artistic talents way beyond his years as well as

who on occasions is responsible for providin friends and other members of the community.

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ne

would

simply

e road. Often times

ely participating in

ational and sporting

mmunity

of Mona

rew, Jamaica and is

individual. Over the

als, entertainers and

d in this “inner city�

and

getting

an in-depth look at his portfolio, the Yaadi

Culture, Fimi Style Development team was convinced he had much more than what the eyes had to offer.

In a recent

interview with Yaadi Culture Reporter, Richard revealed

that his aspirations will be crossing these boundaries and will not let his present socio-economic situation stop him from accomplishing his dreams. With an eagerly anticipatory smile on his face, he adamantly stated that he will be and Engineer and further expressed that he is working tirelessly in making this

rd is a 16 year old

ol, located on Mona

ery talented member

plays field Hockey

he was blessed with

s is a skilled barber

dream a reality. Already compiling his portfolio, Richard proudly displays creative drawings that he did while selling in his aunt’s shop. Like a typical teenager, Richard likes all sports but prefers to work hard at perfecting the game that he currently plays.

ng hair-cuts to his

ou as a typical inner to speak with him

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Cherries Name: West Indian Cherry Binomial (Scientific) Name: Malpighia emarginata Other Caribbean Names: Barbados cherry (Barbados), acerola (Portuguese) and wild crepe myrtle Place(s) of Origin: Yucatรกn Uses: Food (fruit consumable both cooked and uncooked, both green and ripe, both as food, in pies and sauces, pulps and juice); Flavour used in alcohol such as flavoured vodka (Absolut Los Angeles) One of the main ingredients in herbal medicine for allergic rhinitis; Notable Characteristics: Bright red fruits of approximately 1-3 cm in diameter, 5g in mass; Fruit known for its high vitamin C content; One of notably high antioxidant potency Evergreen tree with spreading branches Distribution: Sri Lanka, Taiwan, Ethiopia, Ghana, Hawaii, India, Zanzibar, Canary Islands, the Caribbean, and other tropical and subtropical countries.

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Appreciation

as

Many times we are handed situations with

and

seemingly obvious solutions, all of a sudden we find

enjoyment of the good qualities of someone or

that there was more to it than we initially thought,

something, a full understanding of the situation’.

which

The key elements of appreciation are clear,

unpreparedness - we think we know, but we don’t

‘recognition

‘full

really know that we didn’t initially know. The

understanding of the situation’. It becomes

answer to the equation is appreciation. Appreciation

simple therefore that if one does not recognize a

is not just a feel good word, it is a technique. A

good quality nor fully understand a situation then

technique which if

he cannot appreciate it and thus he hinders his own

at the top of your game. The skill building strategy

progress.

in this technique is asking at every stage ‘what are

of

good

is

defined

‘recognition

qualities’

and

now

places

us

in

a

thicket

of

mastered will always leave you

the effects?’ Asking this question will lead you to Roy is the Managing Director of one of the

gather the information necessary to make the right

Caribbean’s

decision.

largest

and

most

successful

manufacturing company. He found out recently that

In Roy’s case, the questions are: 1) what are the

several of his top employees have attended job

implications of several top employees leaving the

interviews with a view to work for his smaller

company? Production time will have to be spent

competitors. He gave considerable thought to this

seeking and training new workers for the upcoming

and found that he has no plans in place to counter

vacant positions; 2) what are the implications of

this likely exodus of good employees. What is Roy

production time being lost? Supply commitments

missing?

will be compromised and profits lost: 3) what are the implications

of

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taboo. catch the drift. In

An

example of this can be seen in revoluntionization of marijuana, it is now seen mainly as a medicinal, therapeutic plant rather than

known as a

conventional hard drugs.

a nutshell, appreciation helps us to find the right, solutions. From a sociological perspective, human individual behavior and culture usually determines what he appreciates. However, with the fast pace of technology, cultures are shared and we begin to see ‘the strange in the familiar’, thus, developing fresh appreciation for things and people once viewed as

In

concluding,

appreciation

calls

for

open-mindedness. Being able to look at the situation fully and finding the solution which is most suitable. It is asking the necessary questions to better understand the situation in order to appreciate it. It is for this reason why each individual is encouraged to adopt this technique in order to gain the best out of any circumstance.

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Well, his stance against her opposition apparently

Stand

outside your car door until he comes and opens it. Even if he

unleashed her true colors. She tried to ruin him and jumped in the car without realizing, don't move until succeeded for a time. But, what a man determine! Is he does it. "So, walk wid your vex money" he tells the only way I can finish this story. He bounced them, if the man doesn't treat you the way you are to back. He bounced back beautifully, because he was be treated, don't stick around. And I must say that is determined to succeed. He had his children to tend the problem that feminism has created. We were to and finish up. He is on his last lap at the moment taught to do everything for ourselves, and we end up with the kids, and I am never one to hide the truth, spoiling men, now we've created monsters. I will leave so let me say it, from what I have seen, he has done that story for another day . a very good job!

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I don't know about you guys, but finding a gentleman hat also impressed me about like this is like searching for a needle in a haystack in Mr. Taylor was his level of today's society. It is good to know that they still exist. thinking.

He

is

a

strong It is good to know that he has instilled in his children believer of accepting ones correct standards. I am positive that they will pass on responsibilities. He has given his children advice in the same knowledge and lessons to their children. I am hopes that they will use them as guidelines in life. also certain that his daughters will choose men who He is a traditional man who believes in simple portray similar qualities to their father. Because he has courteous etiquettes of being a man. Opening doors taught them never settle for less. I can appreciate the for ladies, he nearly broke my arm when I reach to lessons of Mr. Owen Taylor, one of the good fathers, open the office door myself, then at the car again. one of the good men of our society, whom by simply But I gave him a shocker, I leaned over and opened interacting and engaging in conversation has triggered his door in showing the ladies side of being a chain reaction forcing men to be men. This I can courteous. appreciate, and I think it's time we start louding up and I learnt that from Mrs Thelora Reynolds at UWI. I giving credit to the good men, instead of highlighting wish they would insist on these things in modern the bad ones. society, people will be so much more pleasant. Not

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straying, getting back on point, Mr. Taylor says he teaches his daughters to wait and allow the man to do his job.

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Step 5: Gently place stalks on the

Jamaicans

seat of the hole to form a are

an

pot-like structure

innovative Step 6: Use leaves to line the

and very creative bunch of people. When you listen to an elder person from the generation

inside of the hole

before ours or if you are fortune enough to get the

Step 7:

Full pot-like hole with water

generation before that you will be astonished at the

Step 8:

Create with leaves and stalk a cover for

innovative ways that they found to survive and make

the

makeshift pot

due with what they had in yesteryear.

Step 9:

Place items to be cooked in the water

opportunity to speak with someone from the

Have you ever heard of Jamaican's cooking without a pot?

Step 10: Use sticks and make a fire on the make shift pot cover Step 11: Place makeshift pot cover with fire over

Now here is an innovative idea for you and your friends in case you happen to go to the river or beach to do a cook out.

the makeshift pot and allow it to cook the food already in the pot Step 12: Wait patiently for the food to cook

Step 1: Get a leaf from a banana tree Step 2: Skillfully remove the leaf from the stalk Step 3: Heat (quail) the leaves and stalk after separation Step 4: Dig a pot size hole

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Latest Jamaican Slang 

Do yu ting Go ahead (do your thing)

 A dat wid you That's how you are - used to comment on someone's (bad) habits

Dun (see "shell dun")

 A mi fi tell yu! That's right - used to show agreement with something you've been told

Dups/Doops Friend

Fish Male homosexual

 A who you man? What are you up to? (literally means "who are you really?")

 Flassing Spending big - buying drinks by the flask etc

 A yasso nice! Expression used when one is having a good time (originates from an extremely X-rated song of the same name)

Fluffy Fat, plump

Frass Frazzled/Tipsy

Fulljoy/Funjoy Enjoy, enjoyment

Bad chargie Young guy on the streets

 Beat dem bad Surpass, be better than anyone or anything else

 Gaza Originally used to describe the Portmore community (hometown of DJ Vybz Kartel), or also used to describe Kartel's crew. Now used as an expression of resilience and defiance, referring to individuals or groups who stand their ground, even if it requires using violence.

Ben Upset, angry

Gone Drunk/pregnant

Big man ting Grown up business/Honestly

Goodaz Hot, sexy woman or girl

Big tings Good things/Monetary success

Bill Chill, take it easy

 Gyalis A guy who loves women/has many women

Breathe easy Relax, calm down

Bush Look awful

Cheddar Money

Crawb up Looking good, something good

Crawful Outrageously good

Crawny Look awful

Creng Muscular, buff

Daadie A term of address, used usually by males talking to each other

 Bait up Set someone up for a downfall/ Cause disappointment or embarrassment (Yu a bait up di ting)

Happen Fabulous (e.g. Yu hairstyle a happen!)

Hataz Hot, sexy woman or girl

Hol' a medz/medi Meditate, relax

Ig Vexed, upset (Don't get mi ig)

Inna di morrows See you tomorrow

KMT Kiss mi teeth (used in texting)

Kwenga Star boy, someone full of style

Level Calm down, relax

Live a luu Spoil the plan

Dat a shot/dat shot/ting shot That's fantastic (used to describe something fabulous)

Loud up di ting Expose someone's business

Luddy Lucky

Deh pon a endz Gone out (usually somewhere nice to chill)

Maad Awesome

Do road Go on an outing

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YAADI CULTURE, FIMI STYLE MAGAZINE

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Child Development Agency (CDA) The Child Development Agency (CDA) is a leader in

maintain an active schedule in serving children and

Jamaica’s child protection system, with a growing

families as part of the effort to restore the fabric of

regional reputation for our work in promoting

the Jamaican family and empower children to

child-friendly

achieve their highest potential

policies

and

ground-breaking

programmes to strengthen families. Established in 2004, out of a merger of the Child Support Unit, the Child Services Division, and the Adoption Division, the CDA is now under the purview of the Ministry of Youth and

The Agency also provides residential child care services. This includes direct responsibility for the operation and management of eight government children’s homes and places of safety, and the

Culture

monitoring and licensing another 40 plus private

In carrying out its mandate, the agency:

homes. However, over the last several years, the agency

Provides support to children in need of care and

has been placing greater emphasis on Living in

protection (those who have been, abused, abandoned,

Family Environment (LIFE) Programmes as an

neglected

disability);

alternative to residential care. LIFE programmes

Carries out advocacy/public education programmes to

enable children to live in family situations, even as

p r e v e n t

they are in the care of the State. These

or

vulnerable

due

to

c h i l d

a b u s e ;

Investigates reports of child abuse, abandonment and

include

neglect to determine the best interest of the child

reintegration.

which

Police;

Initiatives such as Children and Family Support

Provides quality care for children who are brought

Units established in CDA’s regional offices, and

into the care of the State (those who live in children’s

the Multi-Agency Partnership with agencies such

homes

safety).

as CISCOA, Office of the Children’s Registry and

Advises government on policy and legal issues

the Ministry of Justice’s Victim Support Unit, are

relating to children.

helping to keep children out of State Care, through

The agency's staff members are spread across our

counseling and other interventions to families and

corporate office located in Kingston, four regional

abuse victims. The Multi-Agency Partnership also

offices and 13 parish offices as well as child care

enables child victims to be interviewed and

facilities.

counseled in a caring and sensitive atmosphere.

supports

and

the

Courts

places

and

of

the

Our team of social workers and others,

foster

care,

adoption

and

family

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