The Ground
rules
(Make these available to participants ahead of time)
1. We affirm that we are one in Christ Jesus, despite different opinions or cultural backgrounds. Because of Jesus, we are brothers and sisters. 2. We aim to speak the truth in love. We will not hide facts and feelings that need to be spoken, but we will always treat our listeners with God’s love. 3. We understand that, in the course of these conversations, we may offend others with our words or take offense at what others say. Recognizing our own imperfections, we offer grace to others and ask for grace from them. 4. We will not think of ourselves more highly that we ought to think. Instead, we put the interests of others ahead of our own. We set aside defensiveness and pride, as we seek better ways to serve and honor Jesus Christ. 5. We will enter a process of learning and teaching — but more learning than teaching. We will teach others about our experiences, but we will make an extra effort to learn about theirs.
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