A Glimpse into Developing Self Confidence and Achieving True Personal Freedom homebusinesstipswithaaronrashkin.com /a-glimpse-into-developing-self-confidence-and-achievingtrue-personal-freedom/ Aaron Rashkin
They say babies cry for it and men die for it. I used to want it so bad, I obsessed over getting it. Not just from my peers, but my parents, my siblings, my friends, girlfriends, and business partners‌
… it coulda been anyone – even a stranger. I did all sorts of things to get attention. Good, bad, and even ugly. “Hey look at me, look at me. Look how awesome I should look, to you.” As a child, that’s expected. Because children derive so much of their self esteem from outside of themselves. And this is why it’s so important to love all over your children, and ALL children for that matter. They will develop a good self esteem & great self image so that when you must discipline them – as they start testing their own boundaries – they know you still love them and appreciate you for loving them in a different way. It’s all still love – if that’s all they know from previous experiences in their short lives. Those boundaries are critical for children, and they learn more about themselves & others and what they are capable of – when you teach them self discipline, self reliability, responsibility and accountability to others.
But as an adult, “this look at me, look at me” personality, can mean that something very unhealthy might be going on beneath the surface. It was for me. I just wasn’t enlightened to it yet. And I wasn’t ready to transform, yet. Because I didn’t think I was worth it. And because i didn’t feel that I was enough to deserve it. I was 25 years old, and still didn’t really like who I was. On the outside, I was successful, I was confident, and it appeared that I had it a all going on. Inside, there was this tornado ripping right through me. Because my parents loved me, but didn’t love each other. At least, that’s what my story was, and what I believed to be true. And it affected me greatly, in many self destructive ways. Sex, drugs, alcohol. You name it. I experimented with it all, and could’ve easily killed myself & others with what I was doing. I knew no better.
And I repeated the same mistakes until I had hit rock bottom.
Then one day… … at age 25, after digging through my sofa for change so I could eat off the $.99 value menu at Taco Bell… It was right around that time I realized that the only one who I really wanted approval from, was… … myself. So that I could be content. So that I could be happy. So that I could be fulfilled. And to make the personal & professional breakthroughs that I really wanted. That was it. I didn’t need approval from my parents, or siblings, friends, girlfriends, or business partners. I didn’t need to stand on stage and be celebrated. I didn’t need any award. Or reward. Because no matter what my financial situation, or how I looked, or if I had a girlfriend, or I was successful in my business… Regardless… I was ok. And I was comfortable. And I was perfect – or should I say, “perfectly imperfect”. And I was lovable. And desirable. And sought after. And good enough to be a success. And be a top producer. And a top money earner. And a Leader. Not just of followers. But of Leaders.
And I can be, do & have whatever I want, because I am worthy.
So… I surrendered. And I stop fighting to be right. I stopped fighting to be important. And I stopped fighting to be significant. The bottom line… As soon as I started loving myself, and being ok with me, I got all the recognition I ever wanted, and thought that I needed. Because a whole new world of belief & self confidence opened up inside of me. And that was when it broke wide open for me. I started succeeding. I began making money. I stopped struggling. And started really living. And today, many millions of dollars later, thousands of lives changed, businesses used & people loved… One of my favorite parts of being in our Profession, is seeing others succeed. My family, my friends, my members, and my members, students & clients all around the World! In business. In relationships. And in life.
This is what I call Personal Freedom. So my friends, congrats on ALL of your success! Trust me – you deserve it. You deserve the best. You deserve everything you’ve ever wanted out of life. And you can do it! So as you are climbing the proverbial “ladder of success”… Enjoy the spotlight & always remember that… “One doesn’t need money, power, buildings, or status to practice the Art of Peace…
Heaven is right where you are standing… … and THAT is the place to train. Thanks for reading, “A Glimpse into Developing Self Confidence and Achieving True Personal Freedom”. Still looking for a way to Personal & Financial Freedom?
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Aaron Rashkin Aaron Rashkin is a dad, a dude and a pretty darn good home based business entrepreneur! His focus is in personal development, spiritual awakening & abundant living. His business strengths are copy writing, creating content, and making lots of money from both online & offline sales. One of his greatest passions, is teaching others how to set themselves & their families free, financially, by building a successful home based business, and right now he is available for a few new students who want to work directly with him, so find a link to his join page, or simply ask him for one. There are few better sponsors & mentors in the business.