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September 2012 . Issue 92

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ABSOLUTE FEATURES 8 Bermuda Triangle A nautical fashion story 22 Seriously Funny Loveable but grumpy comedian Jack Dee returns to stand-up 38 Beauty with Heart The Body Shop and its new product platform ABSOLUTE REGULARS 7 Editor’s Letter 16 Absolute Fashionista Natalie Wileman on her new bridal boutique 18 Go Animal Animal prints and textures are on trend 20 Absolute Socialite Diary Peter Jarrette shares a page from his diary 20 What’s going on... Observations by Mo Hunter-Shine 21 Celebrity Spotlight 30 Sweet September Five things to cheer you this month 44 Absolute News 50 Absolute Faces and Places 63 Absolute History Tim Parker at the most historic of Sussex attractions - Arundel Castle 66 Absolute Whats On 70 Absolute Education 71 Absolute Property 74 Absolute Distribution

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60 ABSOLUTE INTERIORS 24 Turn Up The Heat Make sure you are fully equipped to face the cold this winter 28 Fifty Shades of Autumn Furniture and accessories for your home in the beautiful shades of Autumn ABSOLUTE HEALTH AND BEAUTY 32 Absolute Life Coaching 33 Absolute Dental Column 36 Fit Freedom Fitness column by Livia O’Toole 46 Smooth Away Luxurious products to hydrate your skin

ABSOLUTE FOOD AND DRINK 48 Cupcakes and Cheese! Two great British institutions are celebrated in September ABSOLUTE WEDDINGS 52 Thoroughly Modern Wedding The latest trends for the big day 55 Absolute Hair with Mark Woolley 56 Get me To The Church Arriving in style can be fun 60 The Meaning of Love The ring, the tiered cake, the white dress... what does it all mean? ABSOLUTE

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I always feel like September is the gloomy end of the summer. Those butterfly tummy feelings of going back to school in September are oh so vivid to most of us, so perhaps that’s why it also feels like a slightly ‘end of the fun’ time too. Head of Accounts/finance: Adam Style

However, as this year proves, autumn can be a time of happening things in our fair city. For instance, the Brighton Comedy Festival arrives at the beginning of October bringing with it a plethora of top comedians (and their books of gags). Jack Dee is one such comedian who makes an appearance at the festival this year as part of his first

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tour in six years, on 12th October at the Brighton Dome. He explains to James Rampton, in his usual deadpan way, why he sees going on tour as an excuse for getting away from his family! James caught up with the comedian before he embarked on his latest stint across the UK, where Jack explained with

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actually mean; from ‘something blue’ to that tiered cake, we discover where it all began. We also take a look at what the latest bridal trends are on the catwalks this season; look out for the black Vera Wang dresses (on page 52) said to be the new rage for modern brides! (Page 51) But whatever you’re doing in September, we wish you a very happy month and thank you for reading Absolute Brighton!

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Bermuda Triangle Jonny wears a Rough Justice striped top £55, Seal Kay jeans, £175 both from Mottoo; Aviator (style) sunglasses £30, from John Lewis

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Ellie wears a Poppy Field vest £25, Glade shorts £40, crew cap £15, striped socks £10 all from Musto; Ray Ban sunglasses from John Lewis, £95

Jade wearing Dolphin top £75, striped socks £10 both from Musto; bikini £29 from Oasis; hat £12, D&G sunglasses £175 both from John Lewis

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Ellie wears long sleeve striped top, £45 by Musto; Jade wears rib top, £45 by Musto; Jonny wears Brave Soul top, £39 by Mottoo

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Ellie wears Zara Phillips top £45, Hat £10 both from Musto; Jeans £45 from John Lewis; Jade wears Art Fashion top £59, Hudson Jeans £170 both from Motto; Jonny wears Rough Justice shirt £95 from Mottoo; Blue Seal Kay Jeans £185 from Mottoo

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Jonny wears cream roll neck, £120 by Musto; Aviator (style) sunglasses £30, from John Lewis Jade and Ellie wear Avalon Knit, £70 by Musto

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Jonny wears a striped top, £55 by Musto; Jade wearing a Cream roll neck, £120 by Musto; Hat, £25 by John Lewis; Ellie wears an Elfin blue roll neck, £100 by Musto Hat, £25 by John Lewis;

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ABSOLUTE FASHION Jonny wears a Beau Fort coat, £325 by Musto; Seal Kay jeans, £185 from Mottoo; Ellie wears Alaska Down coat, £200 from Musto; Jeans, £45 from John Lewis; Jade wears Wax Deck coat, £200 from Musto; Jeans, £45 from John Lewis

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ABSOLUTE FASHION Jade and Ellie wear bikinis, £29 from Oasis; scarves £25, from John Lewis

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IT’S YOUR DAY Stylist and designer Natalie Wileman reveals her new bridal boutique

“...I am shunning the streets of West Street, Brighton, for a shopping weekend in Paris with my closest girlfriends.”

eddings have changed dramatically in the past few years. These days, anything goes, so when it comes to choosing your wedding day look, you don’t have to stick to those more traditional bridal designs. The best wedding day looks are those influenced not by what the magazines state, but those which are an expression of who YOU are! Choosing your wedding dress is quite possibly the most exciting bit of dress shopping you will ever do! Not to mention the most extravagant, and so it really is a chance to treat yourself to items that you will LOVE in years to come. Years ago, it was tradition for the (rather wealthy) bride-to-be to visit Paris to choose her wedding day lingerie along with her closest friend. I suppose this was an early day hen party, and this idea has inspired my own hen party in February, where I am shunning the streets of West Street, Brighton, for a shopping weekend in Paris with my closest girlfriends. While Paris maybe a little far to travel to get your dress and accessories, you still have the most fabulous excuse to gather the girls together, drink champagne and try on unique, once-in-a-lifetime dresses. So it should be done somewhere that first of all is welcoming, will give you the time you need to make that decision without entering a hard sales pitch, and with a stylist that will have fun with you! These features are at the heart of my own bridal boutique, Everything But The Girl, in Chichester, which I opened four months ago after almost a decade’s worth of experience in this industry. I wanted to open a bridal boutique where the bride was the focus, and the designs were cherry-picked and exquisite. I didn’t want the boutique to feel like

a traditional wedding dress shop, but more like a fashion boutique aimed at the bride-to-be. My collections have therefore been pieced together from both the leading names in the bridal industry such as Benjamin Roberts, Ellis and Mori Lee to name a few, but also mixed in with upcoming independent designers to give the collection an exclusive edge. Again, I have chosen accessories from fashion labels as opposed to the traditional wedding designers, such as our vintage inspired accessories labels Maria Allen and Lovett & Co, and have mixed the shoes with labels such as Vivienne Westwood for Melissa, with Wellington Boots. We will soon be introducing a designer room within the boutique, and I have already been invited to a number of shows for the new season, including David Fielden, Jesus Perio and Gosia Baczynska, which will help make my final choices for the boutique! All this makes me believe even more that your wedding day look should leave you feeling excited and should be an excuse for you to treat yourself. Tracey Emin was recently quoted as saying: “Sometimes the dress is worth more money than the money!” What more can I say! I am offering all Absolute readers an EXCLUSIVE 15% discount off any bridal gown purchased at Everything But The Girl boutique when quoting my column. It’s my wedding gift to you. Everything But The Girl 6 Boardwalk Northgate, Chichester PO19 1AR Tel: 01243 531131 Twitter: @abfash Facebook: Absolute fashionista

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Mo Hunter-Shine says it like it is

PJ, aka Peter Jarrette, Brighton’s favourite socialite, with the latest in great new venues, events and happenings

Dear diary

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Brighton and Hove have been married Fashion by Jess Eaton for years and everyone knows that racy Kemptown has been their fancy bit-onthe-side for just as long. Sauce! If they were to renew their vows Kate Moss’ favourite Brighton Roadkill designer Jess Eaton would design the breathtaking gown. One of Brighton’s star turns at our city’s annual Fashion Week, Jess has had her inspirational and controversial creations featured on the slender shoulders of Miss Moss in the latest issue of the orgasmic fashion tome LOVE. Brighton and Hove’s children are many, gifted and far-reaching. Dominic Von Trapp and Brighton band Sweet Sweet Lies myspace.com/sweetsweetliesmusic are blazing trails across France and Germany with their latest album written by Michael Hayes The Hare, The Hound and The Tortoise (Something Nothing Records). Their eagerly awaited single The Day I Changed is penned by Dominic himself who describes their sound as ‘Graduate Parlour Folk Music.’ Making waves too is our favourite electro-pop-indie-disco music makers Kovak. myspace.com/kovakuk The group, headed by the modelesque Annelies Van De Velde have turned out an exclusive BBC gig of their latest single Living the Dream (Kovak Records) at BBC Studios in London’s Great Portland Street for heavyweight industry insiders. I was happy to be invited along by the band’s manager Andy Hollis of 74Music Promotions. Both bands would make beautiful noise at Brighton and Hove’s wedding renewal reception! Of course my lovely friends, faces and hands at Victoria’s and Maryam’s Usual Suspects Salons would see to the loving couple’s beauty needs with their luxurious new brand of industry trending Label M products for across-the-board hair grooming needs. Usual’s latest signing, Kate Barnes, who has jumped ship from Carnival Cruises to join the team will take care of ceremonial manicures, pedicures, massages, dermatological facials and waxing! While on a second honeymoon, Brighton and Hove can enjoy Kate’s new shellac nails in fashionable colours and blinged to order. They last up to two weeks without chipping and on toes they last up to four weeks! Wedded bliss! Now that everybody is loved-up I’m off to reprise Sweet Sweet Lies my role as celebrity judge at TV Vet, author and international animal rights campaigner Marc Abraham’s annual Pup Aid Puppy Farming Awareness Day which is making its London debut on Primrose Hill. So alongside dedicated supporters Meg Mathews and I, we can expect stellar appearances from Simon Cowell and Kate Moss to name just a Kovak few...ding dong! (PJ’s novel BRIGHTON BABYLON - Bags of Fish For Cats is released nationwide by Dynasty Press Ltd, London March 2013) PJ facebook.com/peter.jarrette

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Well, the Olympic Games were a triumph, and our haul of medals has given the nation a great lift. The theme was ‘inspire a generation’, and I have no doubt that thousands of young people, and maybe some older ones, will have been inspired to take up rowing, cycling, running and many, many other great sports, including the newly introduced events like ladies boxing and taekwondo. There were a few problems, especially at the beginning, when many seats were unoccupied, much to the disgust of those who had tried for tickets and failed. This is a situation that should never have occurred, and there should have been a contingency plan available to make sure that no seat was left empty, when people didn’t show up. An unsettling aspect of the Games themselves that struck me, was the extreme pressure put onto certain participants, by the expectations of their performances. Swimmer Becky Addlington was a surprise double gold medal winner four years ago, when she wasn’t expected to do so well. Today, she is a household name, with the whole of Great Britain watching as she tried to retain her two golds at the home games. She brilliantly won two bronze medals this time, and accepted them graciously, but you could tell by her demeanour before and after the races, just what a great load there is on her shoulders with the pressure to perform – and be ‘the best’. In another rather disturbing occurance, the expected favourites in the men’s double skulls narrowly lost out to Denmark in the final.The two Brits were so distraught, they could hardly climb back onto the pontoon, and Sir Steve Redgrave went down to meet them, and had to physically lift one of them to his feet! At the painful interview, they were apologising for letting people down.This after they had just won an Olympic silver medal! The success of the other rowing teams and thus the expectations on these two athletes was just too much, and, although they did a fantastic job, the result was like a punch in the stomach for both of them.This can’t be right. It is difficult to know how to deal with this dilemma – of course it is great that everyone is so passionate about their country’s athletes, and we should never discourage that. But perhaps we should put more emphasis on the strength of the performance, than on the result (and we should place fairer attention to all medals won, not just to the gold).Young athlete Lawrence Clarke was pleased and surprised that he made the finals of the 110m hurdles sprint, and equally thrilled to take fourth place. Although he did not get a medal, he, and the nation, were delighted with his performance on such a big stage. So you don’t need to gain a medal to be a winner and make a name for yourself at the Olympics. This is the true spirit of the Games. Perhaps we should encourage our sportsmen and women to give their all and do their best, with not so much of the ‘Go for Gold’. This would allow them more easily to embrace the words of the great Rudyard Kipling and ‘meet with triumph and disaster, and treat these two imposters just the same.’ ABSOLUTE

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Celebrity

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SPOTLIGHT

Our undercover celebrity spies unravel the world of showbiz news and gossip

Emma Bunton Reveals Her Dream Of A Baby Girl

Arnold Is ‘Back’ With A New Phrase

Former Spice Girls star, Emma Bunton, revealed

Arnold Schwarzenegger apparently has a new catchphrase.

recently her longing for a daughter. The Radio 2 presenter

The action hero is making his return to movies with a role in The

and her long-time partner Jade Jones already have two

Last Stand, in which he plays a small-town sheriff who is caught

sons together: Beau, four and fifteen-month-old Tate.

up in a battle with a drug cartel leader. The legendary hard

“Jade and I have talked about it, and it would be lovely

man’s new character has a tongue in cheek catchphrase that

to have a little girl,” she says. Singer-turned-chef Jade

plays on his most well known one “I’ll be back” – featured in the

proposed to Emma last year on her birthday after dating

Terminator movies.

her since 2000.

Rumour has it that Arnold’s new saying is “I feel old.”

“I’m Not Always Funny”

His new phrase may be a direct reference to the fact he has aged since he last had a big role on screen and the 65-year-old realises his return will not be an easy ride. Rather than easing

Will Ferrell says he feels he “continually lets people

himself back into films, Arnold is back doing the high-impact

down” with his lack of playful nature.

stunts and all-action scenes he is best known for.

The Hollywood funnyman is famed for appearing in a string of hit comedies, and is currently promoting political comedy The Campaign and has revealed the pressure on him to instigate laughter wherever he goes: “I know I am

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you’re in a mood to be playful. Other times you have to be

Who’s going UP and who’s going DOWN this month…

somewhere or you have your family with you.”

Going Up

continually letting people down.” he says. “Sometimes

Butler Kayaks To Work! Gerard Butler stars alongside Jessica Biel in their upcoming comedy drama Playing for Keeps. Gerard portrays a former professional football player who moves back to Louisiana to reunite with his ex-wife, played by Jessica, and their son. During his time filming in the bayous, Gerard found himself in odd predicaments while

In our favour this month is of course all of our wonderful Team GB who made all us Brits so proud. From the Gold medalist winners to the Silver and Bronze winners and participants, and those wonderful volunteers that all helped make our Olympics such a success; you all deserve a gold from us! Going down Still with the Olympics, one of the depressing events that occured was at the early stages of the badminton matches, where certain teams deliberately tried to lose to get a better pairing in the next round. Not a spectacle that you want to see

transporting himself to the set. “I started kayaking to

if you have precious tickets to the event, and not in the spirit of

work, which was great,” he told reviewers.

sportsmanship. Shame on the players, and their teams.

“The water got a little crazy one time and I had to abandon my plan and bring it back in.” ABSOLUTE

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Seriously funny The Jack Dee Live 2012 tour starts this month, taking the popular grumpy comedian all over the country. James Rampton finds out what makes the funnyman Jack Dee tick

ack Dee has been away from stand-up for

for “Top comedy”, while The Evening Standard

ago, I had done a very very long tour and I was

six years, so why is he so eager to return to

enthuses that, “On stage Jack is never less than

tired. The day you stop enjoying stand-up is the

touring now? “I want to spend less time with my

triumphant… there are few comedians who can

day should stop doing it. So I had to step away

family,” he says in that familiar, deadpan tone.

sustain this rage, but he keeps the bile rolling and

from it and recharge my batteries.

“I think that’s a very good reason for touring.

turns grumpiness into an art form.”

“Now, I’m very glad to say, I’ve got my passion

Everyone with children will surely agree with

So the message is clear: you are advised to book

back. Touring the country doing warm-ups has

that. I think a little bit of absence from your family

tickets now to catch this comic master in action.

been a really nice experience and has put me in a

is actually a good thing. There are far too many

The comedian, who has been very happily

very good place for this tour.”

diligent parents out there overdoing it and putting

married to Jane for the past 23 years and is the

Jack, who has produced six bestselling DVDs and

us to shame.”

proud father of four children, admits that he was

will release his latest one in autumn 2013, never

Yes, Jack is back – and he couldn’t be happier

initially nervous about his return to the stand-up

lets his material grow stale. Part of his brilliance

about it. After spending the last six years making

arena. But the moment he stepped onstage once

as a stand-up stems from the fact that he is

his marvellously acerbic BBC 2 sitcom, Lead

again, his love for the genre was rekindled.

constantly refreshing his act. He says that, “What is

Balloon, and writing his hilarious memoirs, Thanks

He reveals that, “At the first warm-up gig I did

really exciting is when you get an idea just before

For Nothing, which he modestly dedicated to

after that six-year break, I felt like a complete

the show begins. Then you go on stage and the

himself (“without whom none of this would have

novice. I didn’t know where to begin.

new material immediately gets a big laugh.

been possible”), the comedian is returning to his

But almost immediately it came back. I’ve never

“I keep putting in new stuff, so the act remains

first love: stand-up.

taken it for granted – to do it well takes real

very fresh – otherwise it becomes sealed. It’s not

Jack, who is also the wonderfully poker-faced host

application. But I’ve been gigging all year now, and

very attractive when it becomes glib. I never want

of Radio 4’s legendary ‘antidote to panel games’,

it’s felt really good.”

it to become set, like a play.”

I’m Sorry I Haven’t A Clue, has spent the past year

Jack, a very deserving past winner of the British

warming up his live act. And the good news is,

Comedy Award for Best Stand-up Comedian,

the show is in great shape.

goes on to articulate the sheer thrill he gets from

A star for the last two decades, Jack is one of the

performing live. “You don’t have to consult any

finest stand-ups in the country.You’ll no doubt be

other people – you get immediate feedback from

delighted to hear that he is equally funny offstage,

stand-up.

keeping me laughing all the time during a highly

“When stand-up goes well, it’s almost as if you can

entertaining hour-long interview in the run-up to

fly – that’s how exciting it is for you and for the

the tour.

audience. There is so much risk involved that the

A hugely charismatic stage presence, his

tension can become very addictive. During the

trademark is turning misery into mirth. When

warm-up shows, I have been thinking, ‘Wow, why

Jack is agonising over the slightest niggle, no other

have I been away so long?’”

stand-up can touch him. As he moans about the

The comic, who will this autumn also be chairing

day-to-day annoyances that plague us all, he is a

a very promising new Sky Atlantic panel game,

dazzlingly funny performer.

Don’t Sit In The Front Row, explains that he has

The critics agree. The Daily Telegraph praises him

really regained his appetite for stand-up. “Six years

“The comedian admits that he was initially nervous about his return to the stand-up arena. But the moment he stepped onstage once again, his love for the genre was rekindled...”

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“A constant in Jack’s comedy has been his grumpy persona, a fact that has led his friend and fellow comedian Jeremy Hardy to dub him, “A little ray of sleet.” According to Jack, the only downside of touring

forces you to look at yourself, so other strands

is that, “When I come home, Jane notices that it

from your life, such as religion and drinking, come

takes two or three days for me to come down

in to the show.”

from the stand-up cloud. I have been in the

Jack hastens to add that his act should not be

mindset of constantly trying to find the funny, and

taken too seriously.

it takes a while to shake that off. I’m sure she finds

“There is no sense of mission or self-analysis. It’s

it very tiresome and is quite glad when I’m not

simply funny stuff that has occurred to me. I have

around.

never been a comedian who writes to a theme.

immediately know where I’m coming from. In

“Oh no, he’s back. Not him again!’”

“That’s why I never give my tours a title – I find

fact, audiences are almost expecting it. When TV

So what subjects will he be covering in this new

it impossible to paint myself into that corner. My

went digital, I Tweeted, ‘No warning, no nothing, no

stand-up show? Jack, who was a team captain on

comedy is more visceral and less prescribed than

signal, no TV for a week’. I got a massive response.

the superbly daft Reeves and Mortimer BBC2

that. The only thing that keeps recurring is that the

The idea was that I was paranoid that no one had

panel game, Shooting Stars, discloses that he will

show is a rolling review of my life.”

consulted me – even though there had been a

mainly focus on, “Observations about home life

Another constant in Jack’s comedy has been his

banner about the switchover across the screen for

and living with teenagers. My take on it is that

grumpy persona, a fact that has led his friend and

the last decade.”

adolescence should really be regarded as a form

fellow comedian Jeremy Hardy to dub him, “A

I can reassure everyone that in real life Jack is a

of mental illness. Once you’ve accepted that,

little ray of sleet.” But his curmudgeonly image

far more genial character. He confirms that, “You

everything makes more sense.

only serves to enhance his material.

need to be able to step away from that persona.

“It’s very alarming when adolescence happens

Jack, who has also appeared on such TV shows

That’s how you can get a perspective on that

to your children. Most parents don’t believe it

as Have I Got News For You, Q I, Never Mind

attitude.

will happen to them. But overnight, you lose the

The Buzzcocks and 8 out of 10 Cats, reflects on

“That characteristic does exist within me. But

person you been living with for 10 years and

why this crotchety persona works so well. “I find

because I’m feeding off it, I’m very aware of it and

someone else entirely emerges. Suddenly you’re

it funny, and the audience do as well. I learnt a lot

can identify it more accurately.”

living with someone who’s metamorphosed into

from playing the character of Rick Spleen in Lead

At the conclusion of what is bound to be a hugely

a lunatic.”

Balloon. I go to great pains to say that Rick is very

successful journey around the UK, Jack is aiming

How do you deal with that, then? “I deal with it

different from me, but no one believes that!

to tour Australia. There is just one snag. “I haven’t

by going out on tour and making jokes about it,”

“But I really like that sense of someone who is

told Jane that I don’t want to take her with me,”

Jack laughs. “But that’s no help to people who

the author of his own unhappiness and can’t see

he jokes.

aren’t stand-ups. That’s the only response I know

that complaining about everything is only making

“I could just tell her that I’m touring around the

to most things in life. Of course, anything like that

things worse.You’re blaming everyone else for

North of England. But after a month, that might

your problems and can’t see that in fact you are

become slightly less believable. At some point

to blame. I’ve always found that very amusing, and

I’ll have to own up to her that I’m actually in

it’s always been a big part of my stage persona.”

Australia. ‘I’m sorry, darling. When I said Grimsby,

He continues that, “There’s nothing funnier than

what I really meant was Sydney. It must have been

someone who thinks life has colluded against him,

a very bad line’.”

someone who believes that everyone has got it in

Jack is appearing at the Brighton Dome

for him. That’s not a rare comic attribute – Woody

on 12th October, as part of the Brighton

Allen is the master of that style of comedy. But it

Comedy Festival.

works brilliantly for me.

Details about Jack’s tour can be found at

“I can say anything in that tone, and people

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Turn Up The Heat Open Fires A large open fire creates a stunning focal point, bringing warmth and comfort to a living room. If you have a chimney and fireplace, then it could also be more simple than you think. Even if a chimney has been closed for many years, it could still be a simple job for a chimney sweep to come and clear it for you. From then on after, it will need to be swept at least twice per year (this is an important measure to take to prevent house fires). Once you have investigated if it is possible, you can then go about selecting the style and type of fire surround, mantle piece that you desire. From architectural salvage yards to fireplace suppliers, you will find a choice of modern and traditional styles ranging through different eras.

Electric Fires Electric fires have come on a lot over the years since just being an orange glow of plastic looking logs. Gone are the days of that artificial look. There are many sleek-looking modern electric fires currently on the market. From blue hues to pebble effect beds, they make a nice feature and give instant warmth when needed. When not needed however, many electric fires have an option of just using the light with no heat giving a pretty hue to your room.

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As the cooler months arrive on the horizon, it’s the time to check that your home is fully equipped. Don’t get left out in the cold this winter

Central Heating Central heating is a good option, or an additional option, to any modern equipped home. Cost effective, central heating with radiators heats a home quickly and can then stay at a temperature using a thermostat, thus keeping an eye on costs. It can also be left on a timer, so you can make sure your home is toasty and warm when you wake in the morning or return from work in the evening.

“From architectural salvage yards to fireplace suppliers, you will find a choice of modern and traditional styles ranging through different eras”

Underfloor Heating underfloor heating is a modern and high spec feature in a lot of homes today. It is a good, and luxury, way of heating up floors in the colder months, while also being a good selling point for homes in today’s market. Because of the way in which the heat is distributed through under the floor, it is thought to also be a more efficient way of heating a home. It gains and sustains a more consistent heat than radiators, but of course it depends on whether it is practical to install it in your particular home.

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Escape to France or Spain this autumn This autumn, discover a getaway with a difference by combining a luxurious cruise with Brittany Ferries, with a stay in some of the finest regions of France and northern Spain. Sailing from nearby Portsmouth, you’ll find it’s so easy to get to, and because you can take your car there’s no hassle, not to mention extra costs for baggage or parking. Better still, with their onboard service and facilities, you’ll find it’s a great alternative to flying Fabulous France and Spain As the summer fades and the harvests begin, France and Spain become a blaze of sumptuous colour – making for a perfect time of year to indulge in fine wine and cuisine. With the weather also still fine, it’s great for walking, cycling, golfing or simply sitting back and enjoying the beautiful scenery. In France, explore Normandy’s medieval towns such as Caen, Bayeux and even the magnificent Mont St Michel, or simply relax in some of Brittany’s tranquil coastal resorts such as St Malo and Dinard. All are within an easy drive of Brittany Ferries’ arrival ports. Or for some extra summer sun and a taste of ‘real’ Spain, take an overnight cruise aboard one of their luxurious cruise ferries to Bilbao or Santander and discover the delights of northern Spain. With a mix of magnificent mountain peaks, lush green countryside and chic seaside resorts; it’s a destination not to be missed! Getting there is easy Taking you direct to some of the best holiday regions of France and Spain, with Brittany Ferries you’ll arrive far closer to where you want to be, saving you miles of driving through northern France and money on fuel, tolls and overnight stops. And with a choice of day and overnight services, it’s easy to plan a week, few days or even just a night away. To Spain, you can sail to Santander or Bilbao with a choice of 4 return sailings a week. Better still, you can even mix and match any of their sailings and plan an itinerary that’s just right for you.

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Need somewhere to stay too? Then check out Brittany Ferries’ superb range of easy to organise breaks and holidays, with hand-picked accommodation and prices including your return sailings. Welcome aboard Probably the best thing about Brittany Ferries is that it doesn’t feel like a ferry at all. More like a cruise ship, you’ll find a choice of dining, with sumptuous a la carte and great value self-service menus, delightful cafes, and stylish bars often hosting live entertainment or sports. Or what about catching a film at the cinema, or even doing a spot of shopping in the chic onboard boutiques? And when you want to relax, you can retire to the comfort of your very own en-suite cabin. Breaks to France and Spain this autumn with Brittany Ferries: Day trips to France from £23 per person French hotel breaks 2 nights from £99 per person Spanish coast & mountain escapes 5 nights away from £193pp Luxurious Spanish Paradores 5 nights away from £249pp Self-catering in France and Spain Save up to 25% on a choice of cottage holidays in France, and 10% on a selection of Spanish casas – even during half-term! For full details visit brittanyferries.com/brighton or call 0871 244 0409 Calls cost 10p per minute plus network extras

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Sweet September 2 Over the Moon

FIVE THINGS YOU SIMPLY MU ST KNOW ABOUT THIS MONTH!

3 It’s coming!

1 Now Is Good Now Is Good is the new film from Ol Parker (writer of Best Exotic Marigold Hotel ), starring Dakota Fanning, Jeremy Irvine (War Horse), Kaya Scodelario (Wuthering Heights, Skins) and Paddy Considine (The Bourne Legacy, Submarine).The film is based on the novel ‘Before I Die’ by Jenny Downham and is based in the heart of Brighton. It’s a romantic story of 17 year-old Tessa (Dakota Fanning) and her decision to live her life to the fullest after receiving a terminal diagnosis. Writing herself a type of ‘bucket list’, Tessa goes through a host of new experiences, including falling in love. In cinemas 21st September.

The Over the Moon Festival is held on 14th - 16th September just outside of Brighton on the Sussex Downs. It is an intimate, non-corporate affair with a strong emphasis on environmental awareness. The event is predominantly powered on solar energy, wind power and bio diese. Food traders will cater to every palate with ethically-sourced produce and there will be activities and entertainment for all ages, with accessibility being a key concern. info@overhtemoonfestival.com

Winston’s Wish, the UK’s leading childhood bereavement charity, with offices in West Sussex, is holding its 4th annual fundraising Sunrise Walk on Sunday 23rd September. The walk follows a10 mile coastal route from Littlehampton to Lancing and starts at the Windmill Complex in Littlehampton at 6am. Anyone interested can take part in this annual fundraising event. Early morning risers, morning dog walkers, beach lovers, Winston’s Wish supporters, etc are every all welcome. Please register at: www.sunrisewalk.co.uk

4 They’re back - no you’re not dreaming! Dallas is back! To all those who loved the original series, that ran from 1978 to 1991, you can now indulge again. The new series runs on from the original series, but focuses now on the two grown up sons, John Ross Ewing III (son of JR) and Christopher Ewing (son of Bobby). The new includes several actors/characters from the original series, including Linda Gray as Sue Ellen, and Larry Hagman as the deliciously evil JR. There will be

guest appearance from Ken Kercheval (Cliff Barnes) and Charlene Tilton (Lucy Ewing) and we are told that John Ross has become almost a carbon copy of his father, bent on oil, money and greed. Sound s great, but can they produce the explosive and electric performance from the old days? We shall see! Channel Five start screening the 10-part series this month. Watch TV listings for dates and times.

New from the king of the chillers!

Sussex’s very own James Herbert is not just Britain’s Number One bestselling writer of chiller fiction, but is also one of our greatest popular novelists. His The Secret of Crickley Hall is soon to be aired as a two-part BBC drama. His new book, ASH is published this month. It is a very contemporary novel, incorporating events that only happened last year (Gadafi’s execution, the closure of the News of the World etc). ASH takes place at Comraich,

a Scottish castle that’s been converted into an exclusive, secret hideaway for people who need to disappear, all of whom have escaped justice simply by being rich. But the castle is haunted and David Ash is the investigator who unravels the source of the activity. Look out for a terrifying climax. Published by Macmillan on 7th September 2012. Price: Hardback £18.99

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TIME OF YOUR LIFE This month, Absolute Life Coaching gives advice on how to manage your valuable time

hen people complained that life was too short, the Roman philosopher Seneca replied that it wasn’t the amount of time that was the problem, rather the way people used it. Now 2000 years on, we have tripled our life expectancy but still our complaints are much the same… and so are the answers. Interestingly a whole industry has formed to sell us tools and techniques that promise to help us manage time. Firstly, we are told: ‘Write a to-do list’. But such a list is just an intention. Instead, try planning blocks of time to complete tasks, and turn them into a commitment. Secondly, ‘buy a personal organiser’. The truth is that organised people usually already have an organiser. Getting organised involves breaking old habits and forming new ones. Being organised is a state of mind. Managing time means getting more done with less time… it means getting fewer

things done of greater importance. Thirdly, we are told that time is money. More than this it’s life; you can always get more money but none of us can ever get more time. Then it’s said: ‘phone calls and meetings are time wasters’. For most people, they are usually part of the job. The real time wasters are procrastination, interrupting ourselves, looking for things, being a perfectionist and spending hours on trivia. Lastly, we are told that sticking to completing one task is more efficient. Efficient it may be, but not effective. Being effective means breaking large tasks into small blocks and having a series of short sprints not occasional marathons. Once upon a time, a millionaire with no time to go to a Time Management course offered to pay a colleague if he went for him. His colleague came back and said he would give him one tip from the course and if it worked

he should pay him £20,000. One year later a cheque arrived for £30,000! So what was the tip? Well, what the colleague wrote on a slip of paper and placed above his boss’s desk, telling him to read it regularly was this: “Ask yourself regularly, am I making best use of my time right now?” If you would like to try life coaching call Terrina on 01273 507679 or Georgina on 07912 296483.

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THE SECRET OF GETTING WHAT YOU WANT! Sandy Furlong, dental hygienist at Marina Dentalcare, explains how she has become a shining beacon in changing bad mental nabits

ere at Marina Dental, as part of our

want to be, as so often the way that we behave is

be a hurdle too high for some. This is a shame

Continuing Professional Development, all

in direct contradiction to achieving want we want

as caring for your mouth to a high standard will

members of the dental team must complete a

to be, and consequently we will never get there.

achieve much more for you than just clean teeth

designated number of hours on further training

Oral health is a good example of that. I would

and will save you a fortune in dental fees.

each year. Further training comes under two

like a penny for the number of times that patients

So learning to interview our patients in such a

distinct headings; boring - a whole day learning

have said to me: “I have awful teeth/gums it runs

way that we discover what they would like, and

absolutely nothing, or fantastic/exciting – full of

in the family.” So often, what they perceive as

guiding them towards achieving that by a change

new insights and ideas. I have just had two days

being a genetic fault is more often a problem of

in behaviour is as important as the ability to

of the latter, and feel newly qualified (only more

poor oral hygiene techniques. It is the behaviour

identify and treat disease.

experienced) and I am ready to change the world!

that is the problem and not something that they

Motivational Interviewing uses many techniques,

Just call me Shining Beacon. I have just been on a course! This morning in the practice, I must admit I was full of it, but sadly everyone seemed too busy to listen to my new ideas. The course that I had just attended was all about MI, and I learned about DARN, OARS, The Beattie Method of Health Promotion, The Cycle of Change and The Rollnicks Ruler, not to mention SMART. I had a lot of exciting and useful stuff to tell everyone, but no one seemed motivated to listen and engage with me. It was then that I had an epiphany moment. The thing to do was to try out this technique of motivational interviewing and see if I could motivate my very busy colleagues into understanding the technique and its uses. Motivational Interviewing is the new name given to a technique which was being used by Socrates in Greece 4500 years ago. Sadly, he was using it as a political motivation tool and that did not go down too well with the powers that be, and so he was eventually tried, convicted and executed for being subversive. It is a way of helping people to get what they

are genetically stuck with. However, changing

the total outcome of which is to assist the patient

behaviour can be a very difficult thing to achieve.

in understanding themselves, and thus be in a position to make a move to where they would

“Giving a patient a lecture on their poor oral hygiene will produce only bad feeling in both the professional and the patient, and will fail dismally to improve the situation....”

rather be. Giving a patient a lecture on their poor oral hygiene will produce only bad feeling in both the professional and the patient, and will fail dismally to improve the situation. Listening to your patient and learning about them will produce valuable insight that when used correctly will be the beginning of a change. The techniques of Motivational Interviewing are complex and varied but they are one of the most exciting developments in dentistry. Using

Changing ones behaviour can be easy if you want

these techniques we can give our patients the

to do it, or virtually impossible if you think that

outcome that they want more than anything, the

you ought to do it. Assisting people in making

opportunity to be in control of their own shining

behavioral changes can be one of the most

smile.

rewarding areas of dental practice. I don’t need

So now is my moment. I am off to talk to Dr

to ask any of my patients ‘would they want dirty,

Sharifzad and see if I can get him to do what I

not-very-nice-to-be-near teeth,’ or ‘would they

want with a quick flick of my new prowess in

prefer a pain free and attractive mouth, that they

motivational skills. Something tells me he will be

are confident to smile with frequently?’ It is, as the behavioral changes which are relatively minor to

busy! For more information, contact Marina Dentalcare on 01273 628899 or visit

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young would say, a ‘no brainer’. Yet making the

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IN SEASON Warm up these chillier nights with a new Late Summer Sizzler

hen provocative divorcee dentist Lorna Stanton explodes onto the Brighton scene, she befriends two new buddies; television producer,

Trudy Button, and New York social queen and spa devotee, Virginia Tardelli, wife to the affluent property tycoon Steve Tardelli. This triumvirate of wild women forge an intense friendship, which is strengthened when Lorna’s sexy exploits with American businessman, Nathan Ross, are outrageously posted on a pornographic website. Subsequently, Trudy uses her BBC training to turn erotic filmmaker as the three friends exact revenge on the scoundrel. However, as fantasy fuses with reality, the women become embroiled in an intense, and at times, hilarious, sexual farce of extra-marital promiscuity, sex addiction and prostitution, and the hedonistic trio realise, too late, that if you play with fire, someone is going to get burnt. Author Louise Clover is an award winning (Royal Television Society/ BAFTA) producer, director and writer of television programmes, straddling everything from sex to sitcom to sci-fi. Her TV experience has also made her no stranger to the egos, promiscuity and scurrility that are found within the industry, which is illustrated, in all its glory, in In Season. She lives in Sussex with her husband, two teenage children, two hundred fish and a rusting jeep called ‘Gorgeous’.

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BEAUTY WITH HEART Brighton holds a very special place for ethical beauty retailer, The Body Shop. Founded by the late entrepreneur Anita Roddick, the company started from very humble beginnings in March 1976 as a small shop in Brighton selling around 25 hand-mixed products and pioneering a ‘profit with principles’ business model. It has now grown to be a global favourite with over 2,700 stores in 63 countries worldwide, and more recently has launched the new Pulse boutique and brand expression, Beauty With Heart.

Sepideh Ziaei is the Assistant Manager of The Body Shop in Brighton, one of the first stores to get the new Pulse Boutique makeover. Here she tells Absolute Brighton readers what makes it such a special company Sepideh, can you tell us how you came to be Assistant Manager of The Body Shop in Brighton, and what you love about The Body Shop and its ethos? I started working with The Body Shop nearly three years ago as a Christmas temp. It’s a great company that develops employees and gives you the opportunity to work your way up, and that’s how I became Assistant Manager in the Brighton store. I love the values of The Body Shop and that it’s part of our DNA and everyday working. I’m extremely proud of The Body Shop Community Fair Trade programme, which is celebrating its 25th anniversary this year. The highest quality, natural ingredients that we buy for our products through this unique purchasing programme positively impacts over 300,000 people all around the world. Good news for them, and good news for our customers! The Brighton shop is one of the first stores globally to receive the Pulse makeover. Can you tell us a bit about this new idea, and how it has been received by your customers? The new Pulse boutique is the ultimate beauty browsing experience, where activism, beauty and community collide under one roof to create an interactive, feel-good shopping experience on every level. The new store incorporates cutting 38

edge design with our five core values* in mind to create a warm, welcoming space to shop, as well as excite people about The Body Shop products and values. The customer feedback has been amazing, they really enjoy the new shopping and enhanced beauty browsing experience, as well as the Community Wall which is a designated area to inform customers about our global activities with our Community Fair Trade partners, and encourage both staff and customers to get involved in supporting local charities through volunteering events. Your new brand platform is called Beauty With Heart. Can you tell our readers about this? The Body Shop believes that true beauty comes from the heart. It’s much more than a pretty face, it’s the combined power of looking good, feeling good and doing good. Customers will experience Beauty With Heart by looking good as a result of our products that are powered by nature and rich in the highest quality ingredients; by feeling good as a result of the rich sensorial textures of our products, in combination with the knowledge that the products come from an inherently ethical Brand and our positive Activate Self Esteem stance; and by doing good through engaging with a brand that encourages and takes concrete actions to help others and protect the planet.

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Sepideh Ziaei, Assistant Manager of The Body Shop, Brighton

Global Brand Advocate Lily Cole in Ghana visiting the Community Fair Trade shea butter supplier

The beautiful actress and model Lily Cole is your new global brand advocate. What do you think she brings to The Body Shop image as a whole? Lily Cole is a long term supporter of environmental and humanitarian causes and embodies the Brand’s strong Values and Beauty With Heart platform. By lending her voice to the discussion around how business can be a force for good, Lily’s work with The Body Shop will amplify the core Values and inspire new generations of consumers for whom beauty is more than skin deep: it’s about looking good, feeling good and doing good too. The late Anita Roddick, founder of The Body Shop said “I believe in businesses where you engage in creative thinking…” Do you think she would approve of the new ideas that have been introduced since her death? I have always admired Anita’s entrepreneurial, pioneering spirit and strength of belief in a set of core values as the foundation for business. Beauty With Heart embodies these values and the company’s commitment in striving to be a force of good. What do you think is her legacy? Her legacy is that business has the power to do good, and that doing good is good for business! I also think that Anita inspired and still continues to

inspire and empower individuals to make a positive difference in this world. One of my favourite quotes of hers is, “If you think you’re too small to make a difference, try going to bed with a mosquito.”

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And finally, where do you see the company, and yourself, in five years time? The Body Shop and its unique approach to beauty will continue to create amazing, innovative products using the highest quality ingredients, and engage and inspire customers as a Brand that takes concrete actions to help others through its Community Fair Trade programme, its campaigns, its commitment to animal welfare and its endeavour to protect the planet. I love working for The Body Shop and I am particularly looking forward to continuing and developing my career within the company. *Defend Human Rights, Support Community Fair Trade, Protect Our Planet, Against Animal testing and Activate Self Esteem

“...true beauty comes from the heart. It’s much more than a pretty face, it’s the combined power of looking good, feeling good and doing good...” ABSOLUTE

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ABSOLUTE BEAUTY PROMOTIONAL FEATURE

Absolutely Fabulous Nails Learn from the most experienced company in Sussex

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of a new career for you! No need to book, just turn up and you will be made very welcome. Parking is plentiful and free. Other courses offered include LCN Gel Nail Extensions, LCN Ultima Acrylic Extensions, Amazing Lashes, eyelash extensions, nail art etc. All the courses are accredited by The Guild of Professional Beauty Therapists. Courses are open to absolute beginners and are offered as either evening or day classes to make them as accessible as possible. BCI has been the exclusive distributor of LCN professional beauty products from Germany for over 26 years and is proud to supply some of the smartest salons and spas in the UK. Further information on courses can be found at www.beautyconcepts.co.uk or simply call our team on 01273 837 302 and have a chat with us.

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4. LP Skin Therapy Multi task Day Cream The cream that works as hard as you do! £35 www.lpskintherapy.com 5. Institut Esthederm TIME Technology Creme A biologically active product that works by detoxifying and reactivating skin. £69 www.salonskincare.co.uk 6. Ultra-rich nourishing balm from Biomimetic Skincare For dry to very dry skin, this balm has a beautiful rich and comforting texture. £9.20 www. etatpur.co.uk 7. Super Facialist Rose Hydrate Radiance Luxurious day cream with SPF15. £12.99 www. boots.com 8. Caudalie Vinosource Moisturising Sorbet Reactivates the skin’s hydration mechanisms and restores its water reserves. £22 www.caudalie.com

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11. Lulu’s Bombshell Body Show Off Body Lotion Designed to transform skin and make it more supple and smoother-looking. £18 www.lulusplace.co.uk 12. Champneys Age Excellence Day Lotion A concentrated replenishing cream with SPF 15. £25 www.champneys.com 13. First Aid Body Moisturiser Nourishes the skin with no harsh chemicals or colourants. £13 www.firstaidbeauty.com 14. NEW Pro-Intense Lift Effect from Elemis An advanced lift effect daily lotion with anti-sagging results. £55 www.elemis.com

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ABSOLUTE NEWS

FABULOUS FEASTS

Jamie’s Fabulous Feasts coming to Royal Pavilion Ice Rink

amie Oliver’s Fabulous Feasts will create this year’s ‘pop-up’ restaurant and bar at the beautiful Brighton Royal Pavilion Ice Rink, making it the perfect Christmas party destination with a 15 per cent discount for bookings of ten or more made before 20th September, organisers have announced. Jamie Oliver’s Fabulous Feasts is a partnership between Jamie and fresh food expert Nigel Harris. They use Jamie’s passionate, entertaining and relaxed approach to food and dining to deliver delicious menus for events and locations throughout Britain. But great events aren’t just about gorgeous food – Jamie’s vision and inspiration for Fabulous Feasts was to create something fresh and exciting that brings new ideas to the catering world. With delicious food, served in new and interesting ways, Fabulous Feasts is set to become one of the UK’s leading catering companies. Jamie Oliver says: “I’m really excited to be teaming up with Brighton Royal Pavilion Ice Rink to add

Jamie Oliver and Fern Tolman, on the Fabulous Feasts team

some festive flavour! Fabulous Feasts will be serving up a whole range of gorgeous festive drinks and dishes made from great-quality British produce. With the incredible Royal Pavilion as the venue, it’s going to be a beautiful place to celebrate Christmas and get together with friends and family. Make sure you come and see us and get involved in all the festivities.” The hugely popular real ice rink is now in its third year and will be open to the public from 10th November to 20th January. With the former Royal pleasure palace as backdrop, the 800 square metre rink has space for 250 skaters per session, offering seasonal fun and a unique and special Christmas experience. Individual ticket sales open on 20th September. For groups of ten or more Royal Pavilion Ice Rink tickets, visit: www.ticketmaster.co.uk. To book a set of Jamie Oliver’s Fabulous Feasts’ hampers for ten or more people, contact Fabulous Feasts at sales@fabulousfeasts.co.uk, or call the booking line on 01869 323100.

WHAT’S IN A MEAL... ...BRIGHTON AND HOVE RESTAURANTS HAVE THE ANSWER A meal can serve so many purposes; it can be fast

aim this year is to exceed that amazing amount.

information, or if you are a restaurant owner

food, fine food, fun food or festive food! It can

Taking a few minutes out of his busy kitchen

looking to get involved, call Juliette MacPherson at

celebrate good news or special occasions, provide

Minesh explained the thinking behind his idea “I

Chestnut Tree House on 01903 871823 or e-mail:

an ideal setting for a catch up with friends and

wanted to get involved with a local charity and

juliette.macpherson@chestnut-tree-house.org.uk.

family, form the basis of a business event or simply

Chestnut Tree House is an extremely worthy

help refuel energy levels after a long day with the

cause, offering a vital service to local children

The Brighton & Hove Foodie Awards is supporting

family or at work.

and their families. I have a captive audience in

Chestnut Tree House’s Restaurant Challenge this

But there’s also another reason to treat yourself

my restaurant so it made sense to help raise

year and public voting is open for just a few more

to a meal in one of the many excellent restaurants

awareness of this fantastic charity amongst my

weeks for the best restaurant, food pub, cafe and

across Brighton & Hove. Throughout September,

customers.”

independent food shop in the city, so vote now at

Chestnut Tree House, the only hospice especially for children with life threatening or life shortening conditions in Sussex, has teamed up with a number of local eateries in their annual Restaurant Challenge. Originally suggested by Minesh Agnihotri of Indian Summer in East Street, the concept is so simple and yet so effective. Diners are given the option to make a donation to the charity when paying their final bill where £1 will be added – this can of course be increased! Last year’s challenge raised a staggering £4,500 for the children’s charity and the

Supporters of the challenge so far this year are:

www.brightonfoodawards.com

Aberdeen Steak House, 27 Preston Street The Coal Shed, Boyces Street Eastern Eye, 58 London Road The Garden Room Restaurant at the Holiday Inn Indian Summer, East Street La Tasca, North Street Plateau, 1 Bartholomews It is hoped that additional restaurants will sign up to the challenge which they can now or all the way through to the end of September. For more

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Gabby and Victoria Snook from Yorkshire

Goodwood glory

FACES & PLACES

Always popular with the racing community Goodwood Race Week attracts people from all over the UK and Europe. Ladies Day saw the 2nd running of the Magnolia Cup, which is a celebrity charity race raising funds for Model Kelly Brook raises a smile from actor Nathaniel Parker

Winstonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Wish and Spinal Research. Many top fashion designers including Vivienne Westwood and Kate Moss worked hard on designing the colourful racing silks for the competitors. Philippa Holland won this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s race riding Beat the Bell trained by Jamie Osbourne and

Samatha Douch and Emma Nicole-Lewis from Winchester

owned by Leslie Marshall. The Earl of March

Hats, of course, were order of the day mixed with strawberries and cream and many bottles of bubbly to go down with them. Adam Waterworth now in his second year as Managing Director of the Racecourse was delighted with the attendance. Pictures and words by John Periam

Magnolia Cup Winner Phillippa Holland on Beat The Bell

Frankie Dettori

Francesca Cumani, who rode Dvinsky

Proud to be British!

Laura King from Portsmouth

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NEWSXTRA LOCAL VET TO HELP STRAYS IN KIEV

VINTAGE WORTHING

nce again, Steyne Gardens, Worthing, was the venue for a fabulous display of vintage and

classic vehicles, during the annual Worthing Lion’s Festival. Proud owners from all over the country displayed their beautiful cars, motor bikes and scooters, as the whole day took on a retro feel, with

Picture © Four Paws

live rockabilly music ringing out over the gardens.

arc the Vet, resident vet on many

lengthy negotiations an agreement was

television shows including BBC

signed with Ukraine’s Environmental

Breakfast, ITV This Morning and It’s

Minister. The charity is operating

Me Or the Dog, and vet at Grove Lodge

mobile animal ambulances around

Vets, Southwick, West Sussex, is to visit

Ukraine to neuter and vaccinate the

Ukraine with the charity Four Paws in

stray dogs. The dogs are then released

order to raise awareness of the terrible

and will no longer be able to breed.

plight of stray dogs and abused bears.

Neutering of dogs in Kiev, including in

Marc says: “Four Paws showed me

shelters, and logistical preparations for

photos of dogs that had been rounded

activities to be undertaken in various

up and killed earlier this year ahead

cities across the country, including Lviv

of the big EUROS football tournament

and Zaporizhia have begun.

in Ukraine and I was horrified. I’m so

Sadly there are also many cases of

pleased that the Ukraine Government

bears being abused in Ukraine. In May

has seen sense and teamed up with

2012 a four-month old female bear cub

Four Paws to neuter the stray animals.

was brutally snatched from her mother

“But it’s not only dogs that need help.

in Lutsk Zoo. Animal traders bought her

Recently the charity rescued a baby

so that she could pose in photographs

bear illegally sold by a zoo in Ukraine. ”

for tourists for a small fee.

According to news reports, last

Four Paws has now rescued the little

year authorities in Ukraine ordered

bear, and is working with the Lutsk city

thousands of stray dogs to be rounded

authorities as well as the responsible

up so the streets would look spick and

ministry in Kiev to identify the best

span for visiting foreign teams and

future options for the little cub; it’s

supporters attending EURO 2012.

hoped a transfer to a new home will

Four Paws has since been in talks with

take place in the next two months.

the Ukrainian government, and after 44

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NEWSXTRA LOCAL HAIRDRESSER IN FINAL FOR AWARD

News items brought to you by Mo Hunter-Shine mo@absolutemagazine.co.uk

Anna Chapman

MUM, DAD, I’M A MILLIONAIRE! Alex with his big cheque!

nna Chapman of Brighton’s Trevor Sorbie salon is one of the six finalists for Southern Hairdresser

of the Year Award in HJ’s 2012 British Hairdressing Awards. The British Hairdressing Awards, launched in 1984 by Hairdressers Journal International and sponsored by Schwarzkopf Professional, have celebrated and rewarded the best of British hairdressing creativity for 28 years and are renowned internationally as the ‘Oscars’ of the hairdressing world. To enter the competition, hairdressers working in salons throughout the United Kingdom have to submit four images, which fulfil the criteria. Anna Chapman entered the Southern Hairdresser of the Year category and has secured a place in the final of the Awards. She will now have to submit another four images, which will be judged along with the first four by industry experts, members of the British Hairdressing Awards Hall of Fame, some of the UK’s leading hairdressers and hair journalists from the most influential and fashion aware consumer magazines. Anna will have to wait until Monday 26th November 2012, to find out if she will be awarded the title of Southern Hairdresser of the Year, when she attends a glittering awards ceremony hosted by a leading media personality at the Grosvenor House Hotel, a JW Marriot Hotel in London.

young man from Brighton is celebrating his newfound millionaire status after his EuroMillions ticket made him one of 100 UK millionaires created on the opening night of the Olympics. Alex Wheatley (26), who lives with his parents and sister in Portslade, believes that that Friday night was definitely his night, not only did he win the million but he also won his £6 stake back on another ticket. The win was particularly fortuitous as Alex, who plays Lotto regularly online, only dips into EuroMillions when the jackpot has started to roll. The night’s estimated top prize was a whopping £118 million so Alex played, using the £6 he already had in his online National Lottery account. Buying three Lucky Dip tickets, he then forgot about it and went about his busy life. Computer programmer Alex, who

works for a local IT company in Shoreham, is still in shock at the win but remains down to earth, even going to work as usual on the following Monday. “It was amazing to tell people about the win,” said Alex, “and I was astounded at the responses, everyone was so happy for me. One of my closest friends even shed a tear, which then set my sister off and I was not far behind. We definitely needed the tissues to hand!” Friends and family will also be benefitting from the win. “I always said if I won, I’d pay off my parents mortgage. They’ve done so much for me so it will be great to do that for them. My sister, Hannah, has already decided she will be moving in with me to the new house but it will be nice to take her on a shopping spree too.” ABSOLUTE

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ABSOLUTE RECIPES

Cup Cake Season! The modest little cake has become a worldwide phenomenon

- it even has its own week! National Cupcake Week (17th - 23th

September) celebrates all things related to our favourite ‘miniature cake’ - giving us the excuse to indulge our sweet tooth

White Chocolate and Star Anise Cupcakes

Celebrate British Cheese Week this year (Sept 22rd - 30th) by enjoying one of our great cheeses in its beautiful natural state. A ploughman’s lunch is one of the best and most adaptable ways to enjoy cheese this way

Preparation Time: 20 minutes Por tions: 12 3. Ingredients: 4 Star Anise 200 ml Whole Milk 115 grams Unsalted Butter 150 grams Golden Caster Sugar 1 tsp Vanilla Extract 170 grams Self Raising Flour 0.50 tsp Baking Powder 3 Eggs Additional Ingredients (For the topping); 500 grams Golden Icing Sugar 160 grams Unsalted Butter (softened) 50 ml Whole Milk 1 tsp Vanilla Extract Method: 1. Preheat the oven to 180°C/fan 160°C/ Gas 4 and line a 12 hole muffin tin with cupcake cases. 2. Pour the milk into a small saucepan and add the star anise, heat the milk until it’s just about boiling, stirring occasionally then remove from the heat

before it boils. Leave for the flavours to infuse for ½ hour or longer. Cream the butter and sugar together until pale and fluffy then add the eggs one by one, beating after each addition. Add the vanilla extract. Sieve in the flour, baking powder and milk, having removed the star anise. Fold the mix together until combined. Spoon the mixture into the cupcake cases and bake for approximately 25 minutes or until a skewer comes out clean. Leave to cool on a wire rack. To make the frosting, place the icing sugar and butter in a large bowl and use a freestanding mixer, or electric whisk, mix on slow speed until the texture is sandy, then add the milk and vanilla extract and turn the speed up. Mix for about 5 minutes until the frosting is light and fluffy. Use a piping bag to pipe the frosting onto the cakes, then decorate with some star anise or liquorice sweets to finish. Copyright: BakingMad.com

Cheese, Beetroot and Pink Lady Ploughman’s In this modern twist on the traditional classic, the versatility of pre-cooked beetroot is used to perfection instead of the pickled onion. Ingredients: 1 pack of traditional or flavoured cooked beetroot depending on taste 1 or 2 large chunks of your favourite cheese such as Gorwydd Caerphilly and Stichelton 1 crunchy apple A few sticks of celery, cucumber or radish depending on preference Your favourite bread and butter – we prefer a wholemeal or sourdough loaf with a good texture to stand up to the cheese and beetroot. A small pot of piccalilli or your own choice of chutney Method: 1. Place all ingredients on one large board, platter or slate and let your guests help themselves. Drinks suggestions: Serve with a light hoppy ale, lager, cider or apple juice. www.lovebeetroot.co.uk

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Como Cucina Italiana Italian Cuisine 36 Ship Street, Brighton Tel: 01273 208123

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Meze Meze Greek Cuisine 168-170 South Street Lancing Tel: 01903 765333

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Buddies 24-hour dining 46-48 Kings Road Brighton Tel: 01273 323600 Crown and Anchor Homemade British Pub Cuisine High Street Shoreham Tel: 01273 463500

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weddings

THE MEANING OF LOVE

WHAT THOSE TRADITIONS MEAN

GETTING THERE

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Absolute Weddings

Thoroughly Modern Wedding The Dress The Bouquet This year and next year (2013) are the years to get married in the world of wedding dresses; you have more choices than ever with dresses of all lengths and necklines being the rage, and even different colours. The catwalks are seeing a lot of chiffon and silk. And the Kate Middleton effect is still ongoing with lace still the most popular choice. Elie Saab has focused on large skirts to wedding dresses; in fact, they are not only big but are adorned with beautiful embellishments. Meanwhile, Vera Wang has introduced rustic colours to her wedding collection, even black. So it seems, although some trends have stayed, some new additions have burst on to the catwalks, no doubt leading the way for the high street. Below: Neftis bridal dress by Elie Saab’s 2012 collection

A vintage inspired bouquet with pearl additions

So you have your dream dress, perfect venue and cake… don’t forget the flowers. Look at your flowers as an addition to your outfit. They will add a touch of colour and could make the perfect finishing touch. Flower trends, as always, are ever-changing and can be based on the creativity that your chosen florist is capable of bringing to each design. However, this year’s flower trend has so far been a gathered flower style, which could appear easy to arrange, but really requires professional floral design skills. This particular bouquet gives the bride a polished look as opposed to holding just a ‘bunch of flowers’. Crystals and pearls are also proving a popular choice, darted around in a few flower heads of a bouquet. They add a subtle touch of sparkle; perfect if you’re getting married in the sun. Going hand in hand with the lace dress trend, vintage style bouquets are proving a popular choice. These can be especially

Below: Vera Wang’s 2012 wedding collection has introduced rustic colours, that are almost gothic inspired

attractive for autumn and winter weddings.

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Absolute Weddings Wedding trends change frequently in the world of what’s in and what’s out. With a new season upon us, we look at what the new trends will be for wedding styles

Bridesmaids With the trend of ‘grown up’ bridesmaids becoming ever more common, dresses are reflecting that they have moved on. The bridesmaid dresses of the new season play an important role in weddings. They are elegant and even quite sexy these days; an influence we are seeing from the ‘Pippa Middleton bottom’ effect! Gone are the big satin shapeless dresses, and enters in the cut, fitted bridesmaid dress.

Bridesmaids are now elegant and feminine, an influence from the Pippa Middleton effect

Colours

Colours and themes have long played an important role in weddings. However, we are now seeing a new era of shades and ways in which to wear them. Vintage style is having an influence upon colour choices for weddings too. Sage, burnt orange and beige with golds are proving everpopular choices. Meanwhile passionate colours of burgundy and lipstick red have taken over from pale pink and pastels, although fuchsia pink is proving popular when twinned

Above: Vintage sage is proving a popular choice of colour this year

with orange for a bright summer look.

Bright pink and orange make beautiful colours for a summer wedding

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Brighton love

Como restaurant in the hear t of the city provides the perfect romantic wedding venue

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around your budget.

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Something borrowed... There are many advantages to hiring your wedding suit, and you don’t even have to leave your house!

here are plenty of advantages to hiring a wedding suit, as opposed to buying. If you’re on a budget it’s a great way to get a smart suit without spending hundreds, and top-name menswear designers often offer a hire option. Providing the suit remains in good condition, you can just return it to the hire shop. The bought suit, however, is your responsibility to dry clean and store ready for its next use. If you’re wearing morningwear, then hiring really is the sole option, as there a very few occasions where you could rewear in the future. When choosing, you should make sure your choice of suit does not clash with the bride’s choice of wedding dress or the bridesmaids’ dresses. Many companies offer a discreet service where they can make sure that the colours that you pick complement the colours

that the women will wear. A good hire company will take a lot of time listening to you, to make sure that the suits that they suggest are ideal for you. They will take into account your body shape and pick a suit that will best flatter your figure, and consider the style and level of formality you wish to achieve. For example, they can help you decide whether to wear a top hat or not. Thanks to the internet, you can now compare a wide range of products from a number of different providers in one place. This will save you time, money and will ensure that you find exactly what you are looking for. Try typing in phrases such as ‘wedding suit hire’, ‘wedding suits’ and ‘suit hire’ and see what you can find. There are now companies that provide a home service too. Measuring, choosing, etc can all be done in the comfort of your own home.

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THE PERFECT DO TO SAY I DO!

At Electric we normally opt for luxe, long and glossy waves for our brides but Kate Middleton’s recent sleek knotted Chignon has won us all over

t’s perfect grown-up glamour for brides

Step 4: Split the section at the crown of

as it’s a style that will not only hold all

the head into two sections by creating

day but one that transcends all seasons.

a diagonal part. Wrap the two pieces

Its simple elegance is bewitching and

around the bun, with each going in an

it will allow you to wear a veil, jewelled

opposite direction.

comb or fascinator (a big trend for 2012

Step 5: Twist the front pieces and wrap

READER RESCUE:

brides) with ease.

around the chignon. When placing the

I am going on holiday and wanted

Follow this simple step-by-step on how to

hairgrips at the top to keep hair in place,

to know whether it is a good idea

achieve the look for your special day:

make sure to push up. This creates the

to use lemon juice on my hair to

Step 1: Use root lifting spray to give the

volume at the crown.

lighten it?

hair volume and texture.

Step 7: Apply a strong hold hairspray,

It’s a scientific fact that lemon juice

Step 2: Separate the hair into three

such as L’Oreal Professionnel Air Fix to

can lighten your hair. As an acid, the

sections. The ﬁrst should be mid-way to

keep your style in place all day.

lemon juice slowly strips your hair of

By Mark Woolley Mark Woolley is the owner and creative director of Electric Hairdressing.

the ear. the second up to the crown of

its colour, producing highlights on many

the head, and the third should be the

blondes and brunettes. However it is

remaining hair. Pull the bottom section

hard to control and you could end up

into a ponytail.

with patchy and slightly orange tones.

Step 3: Backcomb the ponytail; we use the Denman Dressing Out brush (£4.50) to get volume and then twist into a bun. Secure with hairgrips.

Also sitting in the sun with lemon juice in your hair will accelerate the drying effect the sun can have on your hair, UV rays damage the protein bonds in the hair shaft leaving it vulnerable to breakage. I would recommend using a sun protection spray such as Clarins Sun Care Spray, £17 that you can use on both your hair or body and use a repair mask such as Kerastase Nutritive Masquintense, £21 every evening for one week for an intense repair programme.

For further details on Mark Woolley, Electric Haircare or any of the salons in the Electric group view the website www.electric-hair.com

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Get me to the church...

Travelling to your wedding should be a memorable par t of your big day. Here’s our top tips on getting there

hen it comes to wedding transportation the sky’s the limit, literally. You can make an elegant fairytale entrance, or you could parachute in. The choice is yours! There are many ways of getting to your wedding and what you select depends on what you want, the style of your wedding and whether you will arrive alone or with your spouse-to-be. At one time, the groom saw his bride for the first time on the wedding day when she walked up the aisle, but today, with many couples already living together, that is not so strictly adhered to, and many couples arrive together. Horse drawn carriage A classic horse-drawn carriage is still one of the most popular and romantic ways to get to the church. Many companies offer themestyle wedding carriages - you can even arrive like Cinderella in a completely round pumpkin shaped carriage! Classic car Vintage cars are a popular choice for getting to a wedding. Those concerned about the weather can arrive in style while being well protected from rain and wind, but if good weather is assured, why not arrive in a big old American open-top Cadillac? If you were to have a gangster themed wedding, it would be perfect to turn up in an old 1930s Ford Sedan, complete with running boards!

Helicopter OK, this is a bit out there, but if you really wish to make an impact as you arrive for your wedding, a helicopter would certainly have your guests impressed, especially if your arrival was kept a secret until the day. White horse Arrive on a beautiful white horse to your wedding. What a wonderful entrance that would be, but only do this if you have at least a little expertise in riding horses. Prior to your wedding, choose the horse you wish to arrive on and get acquainted with him/her first. An elegant and beautiful arrival could turn into a circus act, if not carefully considered and planned. TWO WHEELS Bicycle built for two Wouldn’t a couple look so sweet on a bicycle built for two? Just make sure the wedding dress is appropriate for cycling in. You would not wish to get it caught in the chain, or get oil on it. But you would truly have an arrival which would be so romantic. Check the internet for companies that hire out good quality tandems. Motor bike or scooter This type of entrance will certainly surprise your wedding guests. The revs of the engine will surely tell everyone the bride and groom have arrived. Take into consideration the wedding dress and type of hair style you choose. The helmet could mess your hair up, so don’t choose an elaborate style. A Harley Davidson is the motorbike of choice, but there are many other classic American or vintage British bikes to choose from. Borrow a scooter from a friend! Just make sure it is sparkling and polished and won’t break down! This is a lovely touch if your wedding has a retro feel.

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A ring of love

James Ross has a bespoke design service, so you really can have the ring of your dreams

or over 100 years, the Ross family has been working in the jewellery industry. Well known businessman James Ross now runs the business started by his grandather; James Ross Jewellers, of Station Road, Portslade. Through years of hard work. James and his team of highly skilled craftsmen have a built up a range of skills and are qualified silversmiths, goldsmiths and diamond dealers, as well as providing engraving and repair work for watches and clocks. James specialises in the buying and selling of prestige watches such as Rolex, Breitling and Omega, and his specialist team of watch technicians restore them back to their original state. They are then sold with a two year international guarantee. James Ross Jewellers not only sell beautiful jewellery, they also offer a bespoke design

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service, from necklaces, earrings and bracelets through to rings. A high quality ring design service is offered for engagement rings and wedding bands, which enables clients to provides the ideas, while James and his team create an exquisite ring from scratch. They can also change a design from an existing piece of jewellery, maybe an heirloom, and bring it back to life and/or update it. They will source all the materials, down to the stone so it is perfectly unique. Contact James Ross Jewellers on 01273 239763 for a complimentary estimate and friendly advice to help you design that most important of all rings.

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A rose for my love At Mathilda Rose, you will find your red carpet moment; purely indulgent styles with high fashion, powerful dresses that whisper sophisticated glamour

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athilda Rose is set in Lindfield, a beautiful

to order, and constructed with the utmost care

Sussex village, and the perfect place to

and attention, ensuring that you not only look

select the most important dress you will ever

fabulous on your wedding day, but you will feel

wear.

it too.

Run by ex fashion buyer Nicola, who studied at

Alongside, exclusive and beautiful wedding

the prestigious St Martins, Mathilda Rose offer a

dresses you will find a wonderful selection of

selection of bridal gowns that balance tradition

bridal accessories, irresistible flower girl dresses

with fashion. The designers are all considered

and quirky gifts for the bride and groom.

to be leading lights in the field of British bridal

To celebrate opening in Lindfield, Mathilda

design, and include the enormously talented

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Ritva Westenius, who has won countless awards

Wednesday 12th September from 7pm.

during her career (including the very prestigious

This will be an opportunity to meet the

Best British Designer at the Bridal Buyer Awards

designers and receive 15% off any purchases

2012).

made that evening. To receive an invitation

All Mathilda Rose wedding dresses are made

please contact nicola@mathildarose.co.uk.

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The Meaning Of Love... The White Dress

hite has long been accepted as the traditional colour of the wedding dress, but wedding gowns were

not always white. The marriage of Queen Victoria to her cousin Albert of Saxe-Coburg in 1840 has had more influence on weddings than any other. Queen Victoria put the wheels in motion by marrying in white. Though brides continued to wed in gowns of different colours, white was now set as the colour of choice for weddings, and has continued ever since. There is also an old poem about how the colour of your wedding dress will influence your future: “Married in white, you will have chosen all right. Married in grey, you will go far away. Married in black, you will wish yourself back. Married in red, you’ll wish yourself dead. Married in blue, you will always be true. Married in pearl, you’ll live in a whirl. Married in green, ashamed to be seen. Married in yellow, ashamed of the fellow. Married in brown, you’ll live out of town. Married in pink, your spirits will sink.”

The Bridesmaids

he bridesmaid tradition is thought to have originated from Roman Law, which required ten witnesses at a wedding in

order to outsmart evil spirits (believed to attend marriage ceremonies) by dressing in identical clothing to the bride and groom, so that the evil spirits would not know who was getting married. Even as late as 19th century England, there was a belief that ill-wishers could administer curses and taint the wedding! In Victorian wedding photographs, for example, the bride and groom are frequently dressed in the same fashion as other members of the bridal party. Nowadays, the bridesmaid’s role has become more about taking care of the bride’s big day for her, taking away any unnecessary stresses. 60

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Absolute Weddings The dress has to be white, the cake tiered and the ring on the left hand third finger… but why? What does it all mean?

The Ring

he wedding bands are the last gift that a couple

gives one another before they marry. This wedding ring is an emblem and throughout time has symbolized

love, devotion and even an agreement between families. The physical structure of the wedding ring has changed, as different civilizations have changed it to look more and more beautiful. Some materials are more dear, like precious metals, and are considered to be of greater value - hence might mean more. The wedding ring was adorned in past times like it is presently, on the left hand, third finger. The reason being because of the strong-held belief that the vein in this finger moves at once from the heart.

The Tiered Cake

Something old...

Britain can be traced back to medieval

times, when it would have been made of

Each has its owned symbol and meaning:

he ritual of the wedding cake in

he tradition of

something old, something new, something borrowed,

something blue…

wheat and, bizarrely, thrown at the bride as a symbol

Something old represents the link with the

of fertility.

bride’s family and the past. Many brides

However, the ‘tiered’ idea of the wedding cake didn’t

choose to wear a piece of antique family

arrive until the late 18th Century, when as legend has

jewellery or a mother or grandmother’s

it, William Rich (a baker’s apprentice in London) fell in love with his boss’s daughter. When he asked her to marry him he wanted to impress her with a large, beautiful cake and his inspiration came from the spire of St Bride’s Church. However, there are no surviving records of this cake.

wedding gown. Something new represents good fortune and success in the bride’s new life. The wedding gown is often chosen as the ‘new’ item. Something borrowed is to remind the bride that friends and family will be

Queen Victoria’s wedding to Prince Albert really

there for her when help is needed. The

set the fashion of tiered cakes; sugar was suddenly

borrowed object might be something such

cheaper and weddings were more affordable for the

as a lace handkerchief.

working classes, as well as for the rich. Needless to

Something blue is the symbol of

say, the royal couple’s cake was huge, tall and a work

faithfulness and loyalty. Often the blue

of art. Couples have tried to copy from therein after.

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A change of scene

Fabricate can transform any venue into the perfect place for your special day

abricate is a venue decoration company just for weddings, so they know all about how to transform a venue and space for that ideal dream ceremony and reception. Fabricate have been in the draping business for 20 years, being based in London for the first few years and moving down south over 12 years ago. They have built up a solid client base of venues in Brighton and beyond, who recommend their company and services to new clients. One of the nicest things about the job is the amazing thank yous that Fabricate get following the reception and the hangover. They have even had the odd invite to the wedding along with flowers, wine and chocolates! For the company, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the total difference it makes to the atmosphere and the space, and how you can change the space with clever reveal curtains,

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opening up a dance area or live band and mood lighting to adding drama for the evening dinner dance and, of course, the classic Disco Ball! You can have the most romantic of settings for your ceremony and wedding breakfast then go all out for the evening fun and frolics with a dry ice machine for your first dance. Over the years Fabricate has transformed hundreds of venues to the delight of brides and grooms, and their family and guests. Some requests can be a little bizarre but they aim to please all the same. From the classic Midsummer Nights Dream and Pastel Vintage to Vampy, Medieval and Mad Hatters Tea Party. Alongside the wedding company is Fabricateâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s sister company The Event Draping Company, which has a large theme department.

As well as the draping and lighting, Fabricate are delighted to offer all the other services that are involved with the setting and styling of a wedding day; chairs and covers, isle runners, pillars and plinths, table centre displays, effects lighting, lounge seating flowers and plants. There is also a selected service for Asian weddings too.

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CASTLE IN THE AIR Tim Parker takes a look at one of the most breathtaking sights in Sussex, Arundel Castle, and explores the historic small town in which it sits

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ABSOLUTE LOCAL HISTORY The Rose Garden at Arundel Castle

“for many years the farming community in the area did well with plenty of jobs for ploughmen, labourers, blacksmiths, wheelwrights and all the other agricultural trades. Now all but a very few of these jobs are gone, despite a few echoes of the past...”

Shakespeare at the castle The cathedral

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f you have never been to Arundel Castle,

such booty as they had been able to snatch

new kingdom and in very short time an

approach it from the East if you can, or

from the luckless English. However, slowly the

unprecedented number of new castles and

catch a train. You will be confronted by an

Saxons got the upper hand and by the time of

fortifications, including Arundel Castle, went up

amazing sight. Across the river and the water

King Alfred (yes, the one who burnt the cakes)

across the country. One Roger Montgomery,

meadows stands a castle, a proper castle, the

most of southern Britain had been made safe

who had fought alongside William, was

sort you find in fairy tales and children’s history

from the Danes and their terror.

rewarded with the Earldoms of Arundel and

books. Sadly there is no sign of a fair maiden

Then, in 1066, there was a new arrival to our

Shrewsbury, and it was Montgomery who

locked in the turret by a wicked baron but

shore when William The Conqueror, a Norman

built Arundel’s first castle. Castles were of

the castle still appears to stand guard over its

King, landed at Hastings. The Battle of Hastings

course designed to protect, but they were also

village and the river below that was once a

was a close run thing and the Saxons could

designed to ensure that the serfs and villagers

busy port.

well have won the day had they been a little

behaved. Within a very few years the original

Before the Norman Conquest most villages

better disciplined but, as every schoolchild

wooden castle was rebuilt in stone and by the

across Sussex were Saxon. The biggest

knows, William was indeed the Conqueror.

time of the Doomsday Book in 1086, Arundel

threat to the Saxons were the Vikings, those

What Britain would have looked like had he

had become a flourishing market town with a

remarkable seamen and fierce warriors from

been defeated we can only guess at, but one

population of several hundred (a large number

Denmark, who caused havoc in Britain arriving

thing is for sure, there would have been no

in those days).

in their long boats to plunder, pillage and rape

Arundel Castle.

Over the years the castle has seen many

and before returning to their homelands with

William wasted no time in securing his

changes: triumphs, disasters and new owners.

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“Castles were of course designed to protect, but they were also designed to ensure that the serfs and villagers behaved. Within a very few years the original wooden castle was rebuilt in stone and by the time of the Doomsday Book in 1086, Arundel had become a flourishing market town with a population of several hundred...” The Fitzalan family who took over the

now as compared with past centuries. But,

estate in 1243 were followed in the 16th

I doubt there would have been a Pizza

Century by the Dukes of Norfolk, who in

Express in the High Street in the 1800s.”

one guise or another, have been there ever

There is indeed much to enjoy in Arundel

since.

and my wife Beth and I, together with our

For the castle itself there is no doubt that

family, have been visiting the town for god

its worst days were during the Civil War

knows how many years. The Black Rabbit

between the Roundheads and the Cavaliers

pub on the riverside was, and still is, a

when the castle changed hands no less

favourite haunt. But, tempting as it is, try

than three times. First in December 1642,

not to spend too much time in the Rabbit!

a small force of Roundheads captured the

The castle and its gardens are well worth

castle; a year later it was retaken by the

a visit. Once inside the castle grounds you

Cavaliers. But it was towards the end of the

will begin to realise the scale and size of

war that the greatest damage was done.

this extraordinary castle, it is colossal. And

Parliamentary forces laid siege, the Fitzalan

do try and see the castle library, you will

Chapel was used as a stable and cannons

be amazed. Take a walk down Mill Road

were mounted on the Parish Church.

and enjoy its magnificent trees. You will

When the Royalists eventually surrendered

pass a wildfowl centre, another place which

the castle was little more than a ruin and

is well worth a visit, and a boating lake

it remained a ruin until it was rebuilt in the

(Swanbourne Lake). There are a number

18th century by the Norfolks.

of interesting shops (Kim’s second hand

What of Arundel today? My grandson Niki,

bookshop is a treasure-trove) and some

who has been helping me with this article,

good restaurants including a Chinese

looked up Arundel’s official website.

restaurant near the top of the High Street

Quirky, fun and cosmopolitan, Arundel

which has a remarkable Venetian ceiling.

captures the essence of heritage, urban

And, of course, as Niki found, you can

chic and country pursuits all within a

always have a pizza.

stone’s throw of London. Experience

The annual Arundel Festival in August

Arundel and you will discover more than

always has a most interesting programme.

you expect. Most of all it is a place to

Sadly this year’s festival is over, but you are

return and tell others about.

not too late to see Pirates on Parade at

Now Niki finds little to disagree with in this

Arundel Castle on Sunday 23rd September,

statement and while I might have written it

a living history of plunder and skulduggery

rather differently, neither do I. Niki thought

on the South Coast in centuries past. Go

it would be interesting to compare how

to www.arundelcastle.org for details.

Swanbourne Lake

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Arundel looks today, and how it would have looked in the past. “For example,” he

Yes, there is more going on in Arundel

says “a great number of the buildings in

than you might suppose, and I have not yet

the village are listed, which means there are

mentioned the cricket, the cathedral and

many similarities as to how Arundel looks

much else. Go and see for yourself.

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En garde! PIRATES ON PARADE AT ARUNDEL CASTLE

Raceday fun Kids go Free to the Best of Sussex Raceday at Plumpton on Sunday 23rd September

oist up the Jolly Roger and dust down the parrot for another exciting Pirates Day at Arundel Castle on Sunday 23rd

September. Arundel Castle is the venue for one of its most popular Living History demonstrations of what it was like to be involved in plunder and skulduggery on the south coast of England in centuries past. The Pirates Day is being organised by the experienced Living History group, Raven Tor, who will be set up on the American Lawn of Arundel Castle. This family day will be an opportunity to find out about the Smugglers of Sussex, and the Pirates who menaced the waters around the world. With the Yarnsmith of Norwich Story Teller, have-a-go fencing, and pirates a plenty demonstrating crafts, weapons and activities of the 18th century, there’s something for all to do. The attractions are included in the normal entrance prices to the Castle, its grounds and gardens. For full details visit the website: www.arundelcastle.org FERRARI TREASURES AT ARUNDEL CASTLE The exhilarating roar of engines will greet visitors on the Castle grounds in a stunning spectacle of motoring elegance on 2nd and 3rd September.

lumpton Racecourse’s first meeting of the 2012-13 season, the Best of Sussex Raceday, takes place on Sunday 23rd September with an action packed programme of family entertainments and Free Entry for accompanied children under 18. In addition to all the entertainment of a day at the races, there is plenty for all ages to see and do. The Children’s Trust Mascot Champion Hurdle featuring 20+ mascot runners will take place at 1.15pm, who will then mingle with the crowd through the afternoon. There is a funfair and face painting, you can try out as a jockey on a equicisor, meet the wonderful shire horses of Plumpton College, and visit the local trade stands. There are also Sussex themed entertainments including Morris dancing and a Mounted Skill-at-Arms display by the Sussex Peggers. Many racegoers enjoy bringing their own picnics into the centre of the course, or there is a selection of food and drink outlets featuring local produce including a delicious Sussex sausage BBQ. Prize money at this meeting is being boosted by support from Betfair as part of their £3 million commitment to support grass roots racing. Betfair spokesman Tony Calvin commented: “We are pleased to announce our sponsorship which has boosted prize money on the day by £20,000. There have been a lot of welcomed new sponsorships at the top end of the sport in recent weeks, but the grass roots should not be forgotten and our sponsorship at Plumpton on September 23rd is the latest in our three year, £3m, commitment in this area. In addition, we will also be providing all stable staff on the day with free food and drink in their canteen; this has been very well received in the past, and we are delighted to offer it once again.” Doors open at 12 noon, with the first race at 2.30pm. Adult Admission is £14 including a free race programme when purchased through the Plumpton Racecourse website, and entry is free for all accompanied under 18s. Online ticket bookings and further informtion about the day can be found at www.plumptonracecourse.co.uk or by calling the Racecourse Office on 01273 890383.

Fresh from the Burpham BMRC Classics show the same morning, the glamorous convoy of vehicles will race to the castle for a thrilling and unique display. For owners and car lovers alike, there will also be the chance to talk all things Ferrari as the event embraces a wealth of the supercar’s 83 year history. The models - belonging to the Sussex Ferrari Owners Club of Great Britain - represent all that is loved about Italian engineering with the exhibit offering a brilliant range of early classics to the latest and greatest Ferraris found worldwide. The mascots provide fun on Raceday

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CHIDDINGLY The 34th Chiddingly Festival September 27th - Oct 7th 2012

THE JAZZ LOUNGE A free weekly sophisticated night held on Thursday evenings from 9pm at Bohemia, as arranged by Joogleberry Acts

Bohemia Grand Café and Late Lounge, 54-55 Meeting House Lane, Brighton. Tel: 01273 777770 SEPTEMBER 2012 programme 6th September Sabrina Altan Sabrina’s unique and soulful voice translates beautifully into jazz, a genre close to this singers heart. Her dynamic vocal skips over songs and fills them with improvisation, a skill learnt by listening to the greats, old and new; Ella Fitzgerald, Billy Holiday, Madeleine Peyroux and Louis Armstrong to name but a few. . www.joogleberry.com/acts/

he Chiddingly Festival once again offers great ways to participate in a wide range of events. Comedy is provided by TV, stage and radio performer Hardeep Singh Kohli , with his new show Indian Takeaway - a unique mix of comedy and cooking. Music is a central theme and this year Danny Schmidt and Carrie Elkins are performing; a rare opportunity to hear these two great folk artists. The Classical concert will be given by Mardi Brass, a versatile and dynamic brass quintet performing musical styles spanning six centuries. Jazz this year features Swedish artist Cecilia Stalin and Claire Martin OBE . The Beer Festival Weekend is a mini festival in itself providing lots more besides excellent ales and ciders; live music, BBQ, workshops on belly dance, drumming, acapella singing, and lots more. For more information visit: www.chiddinglyfestival.co.uk Box Office 01825 872401

13th September Matthew van Kan Matthew vanKan is a modern day crooner who places emphasis on subtle vocal nuances and beautiful phrasing. He honours the timeless music of the legendary Frank Sinatra and his contemporaries. Matthew’s chocolatey voice combined with a slick and classy delivery have led to performances at top international venues. www.vankan.co.uk 20th September Alison David Very many in the music world are already aware of the distinctive voice of Alison David and certainly anyone who has seen her perform will find it hard to forget her. A striking, six-footer with model and film star looks, Alison commands attention with an enchanting, magical, stage presence, a beautiful voice and wide repertoire of gorgeous jazzy songs. www.joogleberry.com/acts/alison-david 27th September Eddie Partridge Eddie’s incredible voice combined with gripping stage presence is an irresistible combination. His professional career began as lead vocalist with several big bands with whom he performed a number of highly successful tributes to Frank Sinatra receiving ecstatic reviews. He subsequently decided upon a solo career and is currently in great demand in the United Kingdom and abroad. www.joogleberry.com/acts/eddie-partridge Contact Joogleberry for more information on any of these acts: acts@joogleberry.com Tel: 07930 160737 www.joogleberry.com

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The sky’s

the limit

Tornados to visit the RAFA Shoreham Airshow, with tactical role demonstation

t will be a first for this year’s Royal Air Forces Association (RAFA) Shoreham Airshow, being held on September 1st and 2nd 2012, which will be celebrating the 100th Anniversary of the RAF Central Flying School. The Royal Air Force has supported the show well this year by sending in a pair of Tornado GR4 Aircraft to perform their Role Demonstration from XV Squadron. This is not a normal aerobatic display as performed by other RAF Aircraft. Whereas the traditional display shows what RAF personnel can do, the Role Demonstration shows what the RAF is doing in support of UK and NATO troops on the ground in Afghanistan. The demonstration shows the kind of tactics and manoeuvres performed by RAF crews in their vital air support role providing a ‘show of force’ low fly-bys as well as the use of Brimstone and Paveway guided munitions. The Tornado crews of XV Squadron’s sister unit at RAF Lossiemouth, the famous 617 Dambusters Squadron have just been deployed to Afghanistan to take over from RAF Marham based crews to continue the vital role of providing battlefield reconnaissance and close air support. There are comments that the show lacks the full quota of fast jet displays at Shoreham. This will make up for that concern! It is worth remembering that it now costs £400,000 to put this event on over the two days. The cost of aviation fuel and aircraft takes up much of this. The event is also a charity show, supporting RAFA, and to date has given them almost one point seven million pounds funding. The ground attractions this year will be larger than ever catering for the family, linked to new ground airside attractions. There will be lots of extra items for the children, with extended trade stands. A large funfair and craft tent, and more static aircraft displays will also be present. The Airfield attack with Spitfires, Hurricanes and German aircraft will be the central theme, and other displays confirmed to date include The BBMF Lancaster, RAF Hawk, Falcons Parachute Team (Saturday), Red Devils Parachute Team (Sunday), B-17G Sally-B Flying Fortress, Breitling (4 ship) wing walkers, Blades Award Winning Aerobatic Team, PBY-5A Catalina, Swip Team and Jet Provost. Shoreham Airshow, Shoreham Airport 1st and 2nd September 2012 www.shorehamairshow.com

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ODYSSEYS AT PHOENIX P

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ODYSSEYS 1st-23rd September Phoenix Brighton 10 - 14 Waterloo Place Brighton, BN2 9NB (01273) 603700 info@phoenixbrighton.org www.phoenixbrighton.org Open every day 11 am â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 6 pm, free admission

Anjin 1600 (2012) by David Blandy

hoenix Brighton and Lighthouse present recent works by David Blandy in a special exhibition curated for Brighton Digital Festival. Blandy is a contemporary ar tist based in Brighton and London who uses video, performance, digital technology, animation and comics to investigate the form and content of the popular culture that surrounds us. His recent works, including Anjin 1600 (2012) and Child of the Atom (2010), draw on the visual language of Japanese anime to tell deeply personal cross-cultural stories. Through his use of the very mediums that he is seeking to deconstruct, video and videogames, Blandy creates truly accessible work that can be simultaneously comic and philosophical, ironic and deeply hear tfelt. Odysseys is curated by Lighthouse and presented in par tnership with Phoenix Brighton for Brighton Digital Festival, and is suppor ted by Arts Council England.

NEON ART SHOW

arren West is an established Sussex based neon sign maker and contemporary artist. He is a master craftsman of the old trade of neon glass blowing, and has transformed his traditional commercial work of neon signs into extraordinary and illuminating art. He is now delving deeper into the world of wall based neon art and sculptures and he is producing some of the most eye-catching, dazzling and unforgettable pieces which harmonize and compliment the modern art world. Darren West Neon art show and paintings 30th September for six weeks Laughing Dog Art Gallery, Brighton Marina. Open 10am-6pm except Wednesdays

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Brighton & Hove High School a girlsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; day school trust school

EARLY YEARS & JUNIOR SCHOOL EVENTS Radinden Manor Road, Hove BN3 6NH Open Event Saturday 6th October, 1:00-3:00pm Open Doors Thursday 11th October, 9:30-11:30am

SENIOR SCHOOL & SIXTH FORM EVENTS

Montpelier Road, Brighton BN1 3AT Open Event Saturday 6th October, 9am-noon Open Doors Thursday 11th October, 9:30-11:30am Sixth Form Open Evening Tuesday 16th October, 6:30pm For more information contact our Admissions Manager, Liz Manning, on 01273 280170 or e-mail enquiries@bhhs.gdst.net

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Live in harmony Record number of boarders arrive at Steyning Grammar School

our hundred years of boarding

mind in your child’s education, in a safe

Shibli regards it as “a real challenge to

at Steyning Grammar School is

and secure environment at a highly

leave a legacy for boarding at Steyning

set to pass an historic milestone this

reputable school, then SGS Boarding

Grammar School which will last for

September as it opens its doors to 120

could be your answer.

generations.”

boarders, the most the school has ever

Boarders at Steyning Grammar come

Boarding places are available for Year 9

accommodated in its long and illustrious

from as near as Chichester and Brighton,

and Year 12 entry and while the school is

history since foundation in 1614.

and from as far as Hong Kong, Africa

generally over-subscribed, there are now

State-school boarding has never been in

and the Caribbean. With over 15

places available for September 2013.

better shape at Steyning Grammar and

nationalities represented, Headteacher,

Full details can be found on the school’s

as the only such school in West Sussex,

Chris Taylor believes, “the rich diversity

website. www.sgs.uk.net.

it boasts some of the ﬁnest and most

and culture which the boarding family

modern facilities of any state or private

bring to the school blend seamlessly with

boarding school. Apart from the stunning

the day population to create a quite

location in the heart of the South Downs,

unique learning environment that very

just 6 miles from the sea and the South

few schools can boast.”

Coast, as a state boarding school, the

Head Girl of Boarding, Lara Wilson, says

education is free to parents and families

“it is a privilege to have this role at such

with just the very modest boarding costs

a special time in the school’s history,”

to cover. If you are looking for piece of

while Head Boy of Boarding, Naief Al-

Steyning Grammar School A better learning environment

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PEACE ONE DAY

“In order to have peace every day, we need to show peace is possible on one day.” Scott M. Weber, Director-General of Interpeace

eace Day on 21st September has proven to be an annual opportunity for individuals and organisations to carry out life-saving activities. Earlier this year, the Global Truce 2012 NGO Coalition was launched alongside Accord, BRAC, MAG (Mines Advisory Group), Mercy Corps, War Child and Viva Rio. At the NGO Coalition launch event in June, Scott M. Weber, Director-General of Interpeace, highlighted, “this is an exciting line up of leading organisations. It is a clear demonstration of just how important peace is for all of us to do our work and achieve our goals.” Scott explains, “Interpeace has partnered with Peace One Day to grow this coalition and work towards a day of ceasefire and non-violence on 21st September 2012. In order to have peace every day, we need to show peace is possible on one day. That is why we are so proud to be supporting Jeremy and his team.” Jeremy Gilley, founder of Peace One Day, said: “We are delighted that peacebuilding, humanitarian and development NGOs are all united to bring people together on Peace Day 21st September 2012 in support of Peace One Day’s Global Truce 2012 campaign.” A Peace One Day flagship event will be headlined by Elton John and his band to celebrate the Global Truce 2012. There will also be contributions from Peace One Day founder Jeremy Gilley and Peace One Day ambassador, Jude Law.

SWIMMING FOR MARIE CURIE Brighton swimmers help raise over £1.3m for Marie Curie Cancer Care ver 26,000 swimmers across the UK

are so thankful to everyone who took on a

took to their local pool to raise funds

challenge and raised these valuable funds.”

for charity during Swimathon Weekend 2012

Duncan Goodhew, MBE, Olympic gold

- the world’s largest fundraising swim.

medallist and Swimathon President, said:

Contributing to this total, were swimmers

“Each year, dedicated swimmers of all ages

from Brighton, whose efforts helped raise

and abilities put in hours of training to raise

a fantastic £52,622 for Marie Curie Cancer

money for a cause close to their hearts, and

Care in Sussex. The funds raised for Marie

this year’s event is no exception. The funds

Curie will help people with terminal cancer

raised are a testament to the commitment

and other illnesses get the nursing care and

and perseverance of each and every swimmer

support they need at the end of their life.

and I am absolutely delighted that the

The event saw over 645 pools taking part

Swimathon Weekend 2012 has raised such

nationwide and swimmers of all ages and

an incredible amount so far with funds still

abilities, crawl, breaststroke and butterfly their

coming in!”

way through individual and team challenges.

Marie Curie Cancer Care expects to care

Hollie Lucas, Community Fundraiser said: “We

for over 31,000 terminally ill patients in the

are delighted that so many people in Brighton

community and in its hospices this year.

took part this year and thrilled with how much money has been raised for Marie Curie Nurses who provide free nursing care to

To get help from the Marie Curie Nursing

terminally ill people in their own homes. We

Service speak to your GP or District Nurse.

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Help make a childs Christmas Brighter with Northwood’s Toy Appeal. ABSOLUTE PROPERTY

STAYING ahead

and 9.30–1.30pm Saturday. demand. e.g Lego, hello Kitty our Christmas appeal is hoping to provide 250 children aged 4 to 16 in foster care with • Suitable DvD’s or CD’s that are in demand presents to open on Christmas day. Children • Sports kit, footballs, rugby balls etc in care are one of the most vulnerable groups in society. We hope this appeal will What about money? help to raise the profile of children in care Cash will be used to buy additional gifts and and the various challenges they face as well gift vouchers as required and gives the as giving something special to open on appeal the flexibility up a shortfall Christmas day. ents hit record highs in July this year, the national average rentto make • 3 months bank statements of gifts for a particular age range where stood at £725.00 per month, this was up by 1% on the previous • Seeking a guarantor where necessary necessary. The criteria for these toys month. But tenant arrears have also risen with almost 10% of rents Meet your tenant and go with your instincts, you will soon know if and gifts include: either late or unpaid. For most landlords this is a serious problem. you can work with the tenant if unforeseen difficulties occur such What happens to the Toys and Gifts? All gifts must be new, second hand items To minimise the risk of late or unpaid rent knowing the correct asfamilies relationship they will be distributed to in thebreak down, job loss or illness. are not suitable. gifts should also be guidelines and having a system in place are paramount. If the arrears persist and increase to over two months you can week leading up to Christmas Day. unwrapped so each item can be carefully Understanding that most tenants prioritise a roof over their heads apply for possession Please drop gifts in by the 17th December 2011 through the courts, this is a lengthy timeselected for the children and young people who will receivecommunication them. and therefore keeping open can avoid an escalation consuming process. Clear knowledge, correct documentation and The drop off point in Northwood Office: in arrears. Be pro-active and call vulnerable tenants to remind an action plan is critical; court processes often fall down at the 53a Western Road, Hove, BN3 stage 1JD. for the most minor omissions. Hereahead are some ideas: them of rent due dates. hearing Forofalltenants monetary donations please visit letting agency should carry out the above as a • educational toys and craft There are prudent steps thatkits, help to avoid the risk A good proactive www.northwooduk.com/letting-agents/ crayons/pens etc missing payments, while it takes time and effort it will avoid a matter of course; they should be aware of any arrears within days, brighton and follow the links • board games and jigsaws bigger headache further down the line. contact the tenant and advise you immediately. • Current books and annuals Full and comprehensive referencing is vital, you need to have Of course the Northwood Guaranteed Rental Scheme takes away Office opening hours are: • Pretty clothing/hats & scarfs permission from the perspective tenant but gathering the following the to issue of arrears and gives you total peace of mind. 9.30am–5.30pm Monday Friday • Any popular toys currently in

Rent arrears - can they be avoided? Paul Cullip of Northwood Lettings has some advice

information will help find the ideal tenant: • Perspective tenants ID and proof of address • Previous landlord reference – If possible speak to the landlord • Employee reference • Credit check

The good news is that mortgage arrears have fallen compared to this time last year even with the economy still in recession. Brighton continues to be a great place to invest and the rental market is buoyant, after all Brighton is London by the sea!

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