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Contents Open House

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Sky’s the Limit

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When Style Meets Function

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The Night Skies

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Ask The Decorator

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Fall Gardening

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Windows & Doors

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Boulevard Beauty

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Walk this way

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Homebuilding in the age of covid-19

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A Place to Gather

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Bringing Your Vision to Life

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Extension of your Home

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Outdoor Living for All Seasons

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Designing an Entrepreneurial Lifestyle

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Contents Get the Look 100 F is for Family 110 Sweatin’ in Style

Healthy Living 115 Energy Healing 119 Destress and Reconnect 124 Take Charge of your Heart Health

Feature Story 128 Viking Village

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Contents Weddings 140

First Comes Love

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The Perfect Hair Stylist

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Wedding Bliss One

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Wedding Bliss Two

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The Perfect Pairing

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Micro-Ceremonies

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Falling in Love

Feed Your Mind 185 Feed your Mind : Pairings 198 Art, Culture & Food

Did you Know? 206

Q&A with Ty Mares

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Explore LBI

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Happy Birthday m.t.burton Gallery!

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New Construction on LBI

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The Shell Shack

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Let's Fly

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The Serene Beauty of Maris Stella

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FOUNDERS NOTE

One to Remember This year has truly been one for the history books. We find ourselves reflecting on the fragility of life, the perseverance of the human spirit and just how lucky we all have been to ride out the [figurative and literal] storms that keep coming in 2020 on this lovely, quaint bubble of our beloved Long Beach Island. Despite these economically challenging times, our community came together to celebrate and support the various nonprofit organizations of the region. Record numbers of beach badges were sold this summer. We ordered more takeout than ever to ensure our beloved restaurants somehow got through the season unscathed. Business owners displayed the utmost ingenuity and determination in order to get their livelihoods up and running—whether it was through virtual means or by creative interaction. If 2020 has proved anything to the people of LBI, it would be perseverance is the only way forward. We close this summer with a positive thought, for it was not the summer that will be defined by a virus. It was the summer of pause; of having the chance to stop and smell the roses. It was the summer of finally getting that garden going. The summer of spending more quality time with loves ones than you could have ever imagined possible. The summer of nature; seeing the most birds, seals, turtles, dolphins, whales –even sharks! — on this island than we’ve seen in years. It was the summer of taking up that new hobby. It was the summer of enjoying more sunsets on the bay than you could have dreamed of. It was the summer in which we all received the gift of time. To reset. To realize what matters most. And this island, dear readers, has always had the extraordinary power to muffle all of the noise from the outside world. So, let this summer be a reminder of just how special LBI truly is. We invite you to learn more within the pages of our Fall issue of Bay Magazine. All Our Best,

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Sky’s the Limit Written by Michael Jacobowitz

Photos by Ryan Paul Marchese

Rick Aitken and his team of skilled contractors, millworkers and artisans only create custom homes. And when Rick says custom, he means custom. Every Aitken project begins with the client's vision and Rick is determined to make that vision a reality. “I don’t ever tell the homeowner no,” Rick says. “Even if it is something that hasn’t been done before. The sky’s the limit. What I get a gas out of is doing something until the customer goes, ‘Wow!’”

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“Every client has their own unique story with one common thread,” Rick says, “their love of Long Beach Island". For many it’s a second home where you can break free from day to day responsibilities and professional demands. Each custom home tells their story and I love working with my clients to bring their family’s dream home vision to life.”

client, who Rick says “is really talented and has a great eye for design” the color of the siding was one of the most important early decisions.

Rick has a lot of experience bringing customers dreams to life as he’s been creating unique custom homes on the island for over 36 years. The 6,800-sq.ft home he built in Harvey Cedars in 2018 for a large family is no exception.

Rick’s willingness to keep trying something until the customer is wowed is one of the many things that sets Aitken apart. That, and his unmatched knowledge of products that work best on a barrier island and hold up in a harsh corrosive environment. Due in part to Aitken’s property management services wherein they develop a one, three and five year plan to protect the homes of their clients, they understand what products do well over a period of time.

The first challenge Rick and his team faced in building this 10-bedroom, 8-bath bayfront home was ensuring there would never be water in the house. The homeowners had a home in Beach Haven previously that suffered from frequent water damage and set near impossible standards for water runoff and pitch. Rick started by raising the lot two feet from the ground and working with the architect and engineer to create proper drainage away from the home. While every build is different, Rick lets the client guide him in what they want in their home. For this

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“She had a color in mind,” Rick explains. “We engineered over 13 different colors before we got what the client wanted.”

Rick prides himself on being an industry leader in knowing what products are best in a coastal environment. He’s also particularly proud of introducing new materials to the shore. “I was the first person to bring cement siding to the island,” Rick boasts. “My office was the first building in the Northeast to use the product.”


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It’s not just the products that make Aitken unique. “Whether it’s a product or person,” Rick says. “The mom and pop subs we use, we’re using the best people and the best products.” One of those people Rick works with is architect Jay Madden. “One of my favorite things about working with Jay is that during the first meeting he asks how the home will be used and what is most important to the family,” Rick says. “Jay doesn’t just draw a pretty picture. Each room is designed with an intent of how the family is going to be enjoying the home.” It’s that collaboration homeowner, the onset of the design and build process with the architect and designers that ensures “integration and not compromise” in the home according to Rick. “You may be just putting the 22 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

pilings in but from day one, we are already thinking about your landscaping, grading and water runoff.” “Including the builder in the early stages of the design process will not only ensure your design intent is met but you are also designing within your budget.” One of the things that came from the initial meeting with the homeowners was that they have a large family and the home was built to be used for entertaining all summer. The house features a pair of two-car garages to store their beach chairs, surfboards, kayaks, fishing gear and anything else a family needs for the perfect LBI vacation. The home features a number of other innovative solutions for problems that arose during the build. They


celebrated the public access element on the property by creating a Bocce ball court the clients wanted. On the second floor, the family room has a drop in the ceiling that was designed to hide mechanicals. “Form should follow function,” Rick says. But your builder should be able to make sure everything is intentional, ascetically pleasing and architecturally correct. You want to select a builder that can resolve any obstacle that should arise and create custom solutions.” Each aspect of the home from the custom spindles on the front porch to the trim detail around the bunk beds is meticulously designed for the client. All of the trim and molding in the house came out of their own millshop and were installed by Aitken employees. The kitchen, designed by Dean Zisa of Sage Design, is a show stopper, with a nautical and eclectic look. The range hood looks like a series of lanterns, the cabinets a mix of wood, glass and metals and the door to the panty has a window shaped like a porthole on a boat. The home, like all the others Aitken and his team create is one of a kind. “Every home that we’ve built is as unique as the wonderful clients I’ve had the pleasure of working with,” Rick tells. “Whomever you select as your builder, be sure to have fun, put your heart and creativity into your project and make it a home that’s your own work of art.” At Aitken Builders, there is nothing a client asks for they can’t do. “We’ll figure out how to make it all come together so the customer gets what they want,” Rick says. “I also share in the love of Long Beach Island as my family’s history here goes back many generations,” Rick says. “I plan to continue to build, maintain and care for the beautiful homes of our customers for many more years to come.” Thirty-six years since its inception, the Rick Aitken building and contracting team now consists of more than 70 full-time employees, guaranteeing the ultimate customer service commitment no matter what departments a client’s situation may be geared towards. The company is operated by the executive committee consisting of founder and owner Rick Aitken, business manager Christine DiThomas and Debbie Mattson, who oversee all operations at the firm, including the service department. The veteran management team is comprised of Heather Aitken, Rick’s daughter and Director of Sales & Design and Bob Rizzo, who oversees the Andersen Authorized Windows and Door service department.

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When Style

Meets Function Written by Carolyn D’Andrea

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Maritime musings have been a source of inspiration for coastal designers since the inception of home decorating. From the sensations of the salty sea air to the way the sun reflects off of the water and magically floods homes with a dancing kaleidoscope of light, there are certain seafaring colors and textures that undeniably invoke the feelings of nostalgic charm and zenful relaxation. For Long Beach Island homeowners, Charlotte and John, who recently made the transition [after more than two decades] from their home in Holgate to a new Beach Haven location, they turned to none other than the design experts at Oskar Huber Furniture and Design for their professional touch in order to take their new abode’s visual aesthetic to the next level of chic beach house style. “When we originally were looking at new homes, it was this spec home from Michael Pagnotta (a local architect), that caught our eye. When we first saw the home, it was already framed, so we couldn’t move walls or anything structural... although I was able to select some of the finishes,” shares Charlotte. “But as soon as the realtor brought us up and we saw the views—we were sold,” she adds. This blank canvas was the perfect opportunity for the homeowners to incorporate the natural beauty of the exterior views with a beautifully calming interior environment. But when the undertaking of juggling work life and the children’s schedules with a full home design overhaul seemed a bit daunting for Charlotte, the homeowner began to seek out professional assistance. “We have been coming to the island since High School, so we knew as soon as you get onto the island, Oskar Huber is right there,” Charlotte begins about the series of events that led her to their Ship Bottom-based design studio. After meeting with countless other designers and services on the island, it was Oskar Huber’s designer, Dawn Caputo, that the homeowner had ultimately sparked a creative connection with. “I knew that Dawn was the one that would help bring our vision to life,” Charlotte shares.

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Designer Dawn Caputo’s attention for detail and eye for modern décor are exactly what won over her latest client. Caputo, a master of pulling together all of the best elements of design and functionality, began her career in fashion before starting her own interior design company and ultimately finding her home at Oskar Huber Furniture & Design. Understanding how to balance a room and evoke the feeling of calm immediately upon entrance, her main source of inspiration is clients and their lifestyles; her primary goal is helping clients find utmost enjoyment within their homes. Her clean and classic designs keep homes feeling fresh and comfortable, and this mantra is exactly what Charlotte resonated so strongly with. The rooms within Charlotte and John’s new home are light, airy and aesthetically beautiful, all while having a foundation of functionality and durability. One of the main design elements that Charlotte and John prioritized during the planning process was the wherewithal to effortlessly entertain friends and family. The vibe they wanted was to be welcoming and cozy, luring guests in to sit at the kitchen counter and enjoy a hot mug of coffee with a view or to snuggle up on the luxurious sofa and relax after a day of sun and fun at the beach. Not only are these areas comfortable rooms

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to entertain in, but the family-friendly spaces are also polished with an elevated look and feel. The flow of the living and dining areas is enhanced by soft muted creams and beiges with pops of cobalt blue to truly set the beachy mood. The designer also brought in key design pieces that bring a personal touch to this coastal retreat, such as the industrial ceiling fan over the main living space that is balanced by plush pillows on the sofa and seating area. “Dawn really understood my vision and how to implement these concepts,” Charlotte says, adding, “I showed her my design boards and photos of what I wanted and she would say, ‘We can do that.’ She showed me items on display in the store that worked, or pulled down a book and started flipping through to find the right fabric or swatch pieces that just worked perfectly.” One’s eye is not only lured to the amazing waterfront view from the family room, but it is simultaneously drawn towards the dining room area as well. This modern take on the traditional dining space includes two different types of bench seating and tons of intricate little features from the starfish etched into the chairs to the trim around the pillows— every piece revealing a


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delightful detail that onlookers may have missed at first glance. A massive wall clock with a nautical compass harmoniously complements the iron chandelier illuminating the table. However, both homeowner and designer agree that their absolute favorite feature of the space is the plantation style shutters on the windows, as with one simple adjustment, they possess the power to instantly transform the ambiance within the room. Every piece of furniture within the home was chosen with both comfort and customization in mind. The bedrooms, for example, are designed to, with a few simple adjustments, ingeniously accommodate double the number of guests. The pride of this design function is seen within the bed designs: lush queen-sized beds actually house queen-sized trundles underneath to allow for the additional sleeping accommodations when guests are aplenty, and every other bed in the home cleverly contains this smart and stylish hidden feature as well. All of the fabrics in the home including pillows, sofas and seating were purposefully selected. Consolidated counter stools that not only allow you to see the bay but allow for all of your guests to be seated; hidden trundle beds and sleeper sofas for extra guests to stay over comfortably— Dawn’s arsenal of pulling off style, comfort, and functionality of these pieces consists of high-quality and well-designed custom fabrics. “Nowadays, you can get high-grade, performance fabrics that are durable,

practical and stain resistant while still maintaining a luxurious look and feel,” she adds, “it really is that simple—you just have to know where to look.” The reason why this home’s aesthetic works so well is that everything from the furniture to the accessories is designed to fit the exact space it is meant for. Caputo explains, “In many of the homes here on the island, the rooms are often smaller than one realizes at first. But once you get the right layout and have pieces that complement the size of the space, being mindful to keep clutter off of the floors, or give the illusion of higher ceiling with vertical wall hugging furnishings—that is when the rooms really open up.” Mindfulness was a key part in maintaining the flow of Charlotte and John’s home, and while often the common misconception may be that one must sacrifice a beautifully styled space for functionality, Dawn has proven with this literal beach haven of a Beach Haven home, that this is simply not the case at all with the right designer and an eye for great style.

Oskar Huber Furniture and Design was founded on the virtues of exquisite design and quality craftsmanship. Whether in their Ship Bottom, NJ or Southampton, PA store location, clients will find the finest quality furnishings, custom upholstery, home accents, and one-of-a-kind collectables curated from skilled artisans from across the globe. For more information please visit oskarhuber.com or call 609-494-8127. Follow them on Instagram @oskarhuber and Facebook.com/OskarHuberFurnitureAtTheBeach bay-magazine.com 29


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The Night Skies

HOW TO MAKE THE MOST OF ARCHITECTURAL AND LANDSCAPE LIGHTING Written by Elaine Sisko

Photos by John Martinelli

Creatively designed and thoughtfully planned—the benefits of an outdoor lighting system are many-- ensuring the safety of the home, highlighting the beauty of the surroundings and increasing the value of the property for years to come. By sensitively combining subtlety and drama with these objectives a warm and inviting atmosphere can be created-- visually guiding circulation through the property to entryways and outdoor activity hubs encountered along the way.

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As most home invasions occur at night, a properly illuminated home creates an effective burglary deterrent. Lighting can also provide a clear view of potential obstacles—preventing injury to family and guests as they navigate around steps, terraces, pathways and pools during nighttime hours. Outdoor lighting can also create a nighttime ambiance on the property concealing unflattering elements (ie. garbage corrals, pool equipment platforms and utility sheds) while drawing the eye toward aesthetically pleasing components like specimen trees, custom-built pergolas, architectural home details and landscape ornamentation—features that enhance the beauty of the residence. An investment in outdoor lighting offers the largest and most efficient use of funds when it comes to beautifying your home and property. Furthermore, a few wellplaced lights around the yard can double or even triple the functional and useable space on the property. Combining safety and aesthetics, the lighting system needs to be designed as a multi-dimensional unit—preventing danger, setting ambiance and designating areas for entertaining and dining. When focusing on these factors and highlighting noteworthy features on the property, the residence becomes not only a showcase in the neighborhood but a visual magnet to potential buyers. A distinct character can also be created with outdoor lighting--differentiating a property from neighboring homes and showcasing unique attributes. Lighting fixtures, wash lights and dimming features create separate, individual zones of light complementing the special function of a particular area of the property. Lighting components and filters create mood and dimension to the overall lighting on site. However, a lighting system should be designed with flexibility and expansion in mind allowing for adaption to the changing landscape and needs of the homeowner.

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Despite an increase in energy usage, options do exist to increase efficiency and create an environmentally friendly outdoor illuminated environment. Low voltage lighting systems with long-light lamps, efficient timers, photocells and light control automation features ensure that lights operate only when needed improving energy savings in the outdoor lighting system. If conditions permit, an outdoor lighting system should attempt to follow guidelines outlined by The Dark Sky Campaign, an international effort aimed at reducing light pollution. While not always possible or practical, it is important to at least consider these guidelines in an attempt to achieve a subtle lighting system that not only respects neighboring properties but also the many vantage points in the landscape. Careful planning and research is necessary before investing in an outdoor lighting system and it is highly recommended that the homeowner consult with a certified lighting designer to avoid dissatisfaction and the pitfalls of a poorly created lighting system. Driveways lit up to mimic airport runways or misdirected lights from neighboring properties nightly invading the priva34 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

cy of the bedroom refuge—are but a few of the consequences resulting from an ill-conceived and inadequately installed lighting system. Instead of showcasing the beauty of a home, lighting mistakes can not only hide the architectural and landscape attributes of a property but also create a hazard for guests attempting to maneuver through pathways and entries. It is also recommended that homeowners avoid purchasing solar units and all-in-one lighting systems from large home improvement stores—they lack versatility and most often do not provide adequate illumination for dark walkways or for effective up-lighting. Furthermore, powder-coated or painted fixtures will most likely peel or flake overtime while the thin stems at the base of many store-bought pathlights will not withstand the test of time. A complete low voltage lighting system can be a major investment, however, be assured that it can be completed in phases over time as the budget allows. Unless the homeowner has the experience, time and ability to design, install and maintain an outdoor lighting system, it warrants repeating that this service be left


to the professionals. Circuit overloads can be hazardous and unsecure or incorrectly installed wires can cause fire and injury. A lighting designer is skilled in creating multi-faceted lighting zones for atmosphere and functionality—taking into account anticipated use and maintenance while ensuring that all requirements are meet with the new system. When choosing a lighting professional, always request and check references, drive by examples of lighting systems installed by the contractor and confirm that they are registered with the NJ Division of Consumer Affairs. The contractor also should provide a complete nighttime demonstration of the lighting system—allowing the homeowner to visualize the final result to be achieved before making such a commitment. Finally, when planning a low voltage lighting system take care to avoid the following common lighting pitfalls including: Avoid installing exposed lighting sources which produce a glare, distracting the eye from noteworthy elements in the landscape. Always use fixtures that have lighting shields. Carefully select which features on the property to showcase—if every feature on the property is lite to the same intensity, nothing will stand out. Instead, combine lights and darks to create contrast, depth and mystery. Remember to consider the side yards when designing the outdoor lighting system—not just the front and back of the residence. When lighting a backyard dining area avoid placing a ring of light fixtures along the perimeter of the patio. If tabletops are not illuminated, food and faces will be indiscernible. Above-ground light fixtures in the lawn or too close to the driveway run the risk of being clipped by lawnmowers, snowplows and cars.

To learn more about low-voltage outdoor lighting systems or to schedule an appointment to discuss the various options available, contact Reynolds Landscaping Lighting Designer, Tanek Hood, by phone at 609-597-6099 or via e-mail at tanek@reynoldslbi.com.

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T H E D E CO R ATO R Q & A with Tom Sweeney

Thom Sweeney is no stranger to interior home design with thirty-two years of experience, founder and owner of Thom Sweeney Interiors, his shop in Barnegat is a haven for novice designers, first time homeowners or seasoned vets of in-home design just looking for a refresh. Typically in the Ask the Designer series the focus is on general questions about in home design. This time we wanted to shake things up a bit and demystify the design process and dig a little deeper into the process. When scrolling through social media or flipping through the channels on TV, there seems to be an oversaturation in regards to interior home design. For many, the task of updating or furnishing a room for the first time is daunting; the influence of countless design shows which then inevitably lead you down the Pinterest wormhole of perfectly styled rooms one often wonders where to start. Thom Sweeney is just the person to ask, with his in depth knowledge, experience and Interior Designer Tool Belt he has just the advice to style your home in the right direction.

Q: What is your favorite color combo to use? A: At the office my name is the “King of Comfort Gray”. It’s a Sherwin Williams color that can best be described as Sea Glass. It’s not green, it’s not blue, it’s not gray. It’s the best mix of all three, and it changes as the light changes. It causes INSTANT relaxation in any room it’s used in. Q: How can you take the “worst “ / most unappealing room of a home and make it beautiful? A: It starts with a cold, hard look or evaluation. It may be the fact that it hasn’t been decorated for 15 years that makes it look unattractive. Color palettes change Start with a fresh coat of a current paint color. That can do wonders. Hopefully it is now just the faded prints on the wall that look like they need to be replaced be38 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

cause they don’t go with the new paint color. But if it’s the major pieces of furniture that are holding you back from the perfect room, replace them. Don’t beat yourself up. It’s not your fault. Time marches on. What was beautiful and beautifully decorated during the mauve and gray period, or the deep jewel tone era, isn’t acceptable anymore, and it’s your job as the homeowner or designer, to be objective and let things go. Rest in Peace Maroon and Hunter Green. Q: What is the one staple item every home should have? A: A comfortable sofa. Never underestimate the value of what this piece of furniture gives you. Whether it’s for the entertaining or the TV watching, being comfortable shouldn’t be a luxury. Cut back on other things, but never on the sofa.


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Q: How can I take what I saw on HGTV and apply it practically? A: HGTV is a great place to get inspiration. It is the perfect starting point to get diverse ideas that can act as a springboard to your personal design. As you watch the many design shows on HGTV you must remember that although the projects seem to take very little time from beginning to end they actually take hundreds of hours and the behind the scenes help that they have, makes things run smoothly. With that being said, keep a notepad by your TV and jot down not only the ideas you like, but the program it was on. All of these shows have websites and most offer more information on the products that were featured on their shows. Q: What is the biggest misconception homeowners have about beginning to design a space? A: We find that most homeowners think that tackling a design project is overwhelming and costly. The process should be a happy experience. Despite the fact that people think that an interior designer will be too expensive, it is often just the opposite. A good designer will save you time and money. They will keep you organized and

often extend their discounts to you. Remember it costs less to do it right, than to do it over. I just came across a quote that I thought was so profound, that I have adopted it as our Mission Statement. It goes like this: “Don’t give people what they want. Give them what they NEVER DREAMED they wanted”. Q: What are elegant ways for a homeowner to add their personality into their space without it being too obvious? A: I want to make the space “my own” or I want to keep "my personality" in the design, are the phrases we often hear at the office. We simply want to give a cohesive look that will function to its optimum potential. Some clients have sentimental pieces of furniture, or a favorite accessory or even a collection that they want to incorporate into the space you’re working on. Once the design is underway, the client’s personality is brought out through these special pieces. We can reupholster furniture, make pillows out of your grandmother’s tablecloth or display your collection in a unique way. Subtlety is the key. Learn to know when to stop. Too much is just that: TOO MUCH. Q: Design on a budget, can it be done? Where to look for the unique pieces that won’t break the bank? bay-magazine.com 39


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A: To be clear, everything is always done on a budget. The dollar amount is what varies. Most people do not want to spend an inordinate amount of money, no matter what their financial situation is. We are always shopping flea markets, garage sales and estate sales. You often can find a high quality, one of a kind pieces that may need a little work. Train yourself to envision a new way to use the piece. It doesn’t have to be used as it was originally intended. Think repurpose. And remember, the more affluent the community, the more likely you are to find higher end items, which are disposed of before they are worn or outdated. Some weekends it’s worth the drive to Greenwich, Connecticut! Q: From new construction to a simple update, what is the one piece of design advice that is universal for any stage of homeownership? A: Buy what you love. If you love something you will have it longer. People also underestimate the value of trim work. Likewise on larger upholstery pieces, you should use neutral fabrics. You can change your pillows and window treatments to freshen the look without spending money on big-ticket items. Also, invest in treated fabrics that will repel stains and have a high sunfast rating. They will keep your furniture in its best condition through the life of the piece.

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Q: Why doesn’t buying pre-set design pieces work? A: We call it “bed in a bag” design. One size DEFINITELY does not fit all. You can’t buy a pre-fab design and expect it to fit your individual space perfectly. Every home is different. Each room has its own nuances that should be addressed on an individual basis. So step out of the box and dare to be different. Q: How can you train a non ID (Interior Decorator) to have a decorator's eye to "shop their home" when freshening up a room? A: With today’s need to repurpose and reuse, you should always shop your home first. Accessories can look old and become stale if they’re kept in the same location over the years. Look for items that have good bones and serve multiple purposes. You will need to keep scale color and shape in mind. You can give a new life to an old item by changing its surroundings. Look at things objectively. That urn in the living room might be just the touch needed in the Master Bedroom.

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Fall Gardening Preparing your garden in fall for a beautiful spring Written by Peg Reynolds

After the long hot days of summer have come to an end, the lazy summer nights heavy with the scent of the ocean in the air, the cool crisp shift in the atmosphere evokes the familiar feelings of fall. The scents of cinnamon, cardamom, the vibrant changes in temperature and of course that cool crisp air signaling: sweater weather is just around the corner. Avid gardeners know that this seasonal shift also mean huge changes in your garden. These cool temperatures, warm soil and rainfall create the ideal conditions to plant. Keep in mind that you can plant up to six weeks before the ground freezes; plants will have time to establish an adequate root system to withstand the cold and snow. If there has been a dry spell or it has been windy remember to water thoroughly when planting and until 42 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

the ground freezes. Pests and disease problems also fade away in the fall. Garden Centers usually have great deals on the material they are trying to sell before winter. Timing is of the essence when it comes to late planting. The window of opportunity in which you can get plants in the ground is just before the ground freezes. Fall provides a unique opportunity to explore and be creative, go ahead and try something new and different. Mulch is an important component in the fall planting. It works as insulation for your plants, like a warm blanket. This makes the perfect environment for strong root growth. This is especially important for newly planted trees, shrubs, and perennials. The plants will be raring to come up in the spring.


Divide and replant existing perennials in the fall: Astilbe, lilies, and hostas are ready to be shared with friends. Get ready for spring-blooming bulbs such as hyacinths and tulips by planting them in the fall. These bulbs need a cold period to bloom, which is why they need to be planted in fall. Have a problem with deer or other critters in your

garden? Planting bulbs such as daffodils, grape hyacinths and alliums are varieties they do not care for. The cool weather is also the ideal time to plant pansies. Look for the cold-hardy Cool Wave variety for a longer bloom time and, they will often start blooming again in the spring when the weather warms up. Of course, we all love to plant chrysanthemums, kale, and asters to decorate our harvest homes. Take advantage of this time of year to seed your lawn with cool-season turfgrass. Get a jump on spring and fill in the sparse areas. Vegetable gardens get a new start as well. Plant beets, brussel sprouts, cabbage, cauliflower, lettuce, peas, spinach, and swiss chard to name a few. These can all be purchased as starter plants at the garden center. You can also start from seeds, making sure you check the labels for ample germination time. The cool autumn air temperatures are easier on both plants and gardeners. Take advantage, and with a little fall planning, dividing, planting, and cleanup work you will be amply rewarded in the spring.

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The Homeowner’s Guide to Windows and Patio Doors Written by Diana Lentini

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Cracking open a window to feel the warm summer breeze. Stepping out onto your deck to enjoy an evening with friends. Simple pleasures are what shore living is all about, and your home’s windows and doors should be optimized to give you just that without any hassle. After all, there’s a reason why home listings highlight “new windows and doors” as a selling point—high-quality products installed correctly guarantee more time spent on life’s little joys, and less on home maintenance. The team at Woodhaven Lumber & Millwork is dedicated to helping families in Ocean and Monmouth counties bring their dream homes to life, and are experts when it comes to outfitting your home’s windows and entryways. In business for over forty years, their dedicated Window and Door Supply & Installation group works on both new construction and replacement windows and doors, and offers full-fledged service from purchase through installation. A Certified Contractor of Andersen® Windows and Doors, and Certified Door System Installer of Therma Tru® Doors, Woodhaven stocks only the top brands, and is entrusted to serve as ambassadors for them. For Bill McDermott, Residential Supply and Install Manager at Woodhaven, educating homeowners about their options for their home’s unique needs is key. “It starts with an appointment for measurement and consultation. We walk, room by room, through the home, and discuss with the homeowner what functions well, what they like and don’t like,” McDermott says. The average walkthrough for a house takes about an hour or more—for good reason. Installing new windows or exterior doors may not always be an open and shut case. There are multiple factors to consider when replacing them, especially when it comes to 46 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020


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coastal homes. McDermott walks through the process and highlights key points for homeowners to keep in mind when it’s time to make an upgrade to your windows or patio doors. Function, Glass and Style Let’s start with the basics. According to McDermott, the two most popular styles of windows along the coast are casement and gliding windows. Casement windows often come in single or twin, with a hand crank to open them outward, while gliding windows slide side-to-side. “Both styles offer uninterrupted, large glass exposure,” McDermott explains. An unobstructed view is the reason that double hung windows—which open up on both sides through a center bar—are not as popular on the island. “You want to maintain your view with a sight line that aligns with a person sitting down,” McDermott adds. For patio doors, your options include gliding doors, hinged doors

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or folding panel doors that can be customized to create the look of a removable wall. Doors offer an opportunity to get creative—recently, the Woodhaven team supplied and installed a custom 28-foot-wide by 8-foot-tall glass “door” made of nine panels, with the option to use a center door, or push the panels aside to open up the entire space for maximum sunlight and fresh air. “Other factors to consider when replacing a patio door include placement of hinges, impediment of anything in your house, and the overall look you want to achieve,” McDermott says. Next, you’ll need to consider the type of glass that works best for your home. At Woodhaven, low-emissivity (also known as “low-e”) coating is standard for all windows and doors. This type of coating helps with energy efficiency by minimizing the amount of ultraviolet (UV) and infrared light absorbed by the glass. For homes basking in direct sunlight, a specialty sun glass can help block strong UV rays that have

the potential to damage furniture and artwork, all without obstructing your view. Depending on your location, investing in specialty glass made to withstand harsh conditions may be a consideration. Waterfront homes, especially, should consider stronger pane glass with stainless steel hardware on the outside, to protect against corrosion. For patio doors, safety glass is the standard for anything placed 18 inches or less to the ground, in addition to the other considerations. “Through a conversation with the homeowner, we’re able to determine what they’re looking for and come up with a solution to their challenges,” McDermott says. Cleanability and Maintenance Ah, salt air and a sea breeze—some of the most enjoyable aspects of shore life happen to be some of the worst things for windows. As with any home renovation, there are maintenance factors to consider when selecting your window or patio door.


Casement windows can be susceptible to damage over time, since they catch wind, which can impact the hand crank operating system. However, “everything can be adjusted,” McDermott reassures. For gliding windows, the biggest challenge lies along the track of the window, called the U-channel, which can catch wind-driven rain and flow out through an opening on the outside of the window called a weep hole. The weep hole needs to be cleaned regularly for the water to wick away properly. McDermott suggests using compressed air once a year to clear out the channel through the weep hole. And for patio doors, keeping the tracks clear along which the door opens and closes is imperative. So does this mean new, high-end windows and doors are a guaranteed money pit from the start? Not at all—in fact, investing in high quality hardware can save money over the years. For someone cleaning their tracks and weep holes regularly, and monitoring hand cranks and latches for any signs of sticking, windows and doors can last 10 years without any intervention or professional maintenance at all. However, if anything starts to stick, it’s time to call for maintenance before the issue progresses. “The best time to call for maintenance is before you need a new door or window. We have a great team here at Woodhaven that can fix most anything,” McDermott says. Annual spring cleaning is a great time to take note of any potential problems. But if you have a cloudy window, unfortunately no amount of scrubbing or Windex will restore its clarity. This type of damage is caused by seal failure between double paned windows that are filled with argon gas, a naturally-occurring colorless, odorless gas used to increase energy efficiency, and the only way to prevent it is to invest in a good quality seal from the beginning. The minimum warranty for seal failure on most window brands is 20 years. Finishing Touches Once you have the technical aspects selected, it’s time to move on to your decorative options, including grilles, hardware and even art glass. Window grilles are the decorative bars that divide the window horizontally or vertically into sections. However, those looking to maximize their beach views may choose to forgo grilles all together—something McDermott sees often on LBI. Hardware styles and finishes today

come in over a dozen options, allowing homeowners to match their interior hardware to the room’s design, and choose a different finish altogether on the exterior to make a statement. Finally, forget the myth that summer is the best season to install new windows and doors—Woodhaven works year-round. In fact, winter can be a great time for your home project. As McDermott puts it, “It’s the best time—there’s usually no one home, no neighbors, we can easily maneuver our ladders and trucks.” Home upgrades are not a decision to be made lightly. Ensuring that you’re working with a reputable industry leader like Woodhaven can ensure that your lifestyle and budgetary needs are met, while resting assured that you’re investing in high quality items that will last for years to come. Ready to get started? Visit woodhavenlumber.com to view our Windows and Doors Gallery for information and inspiration, or call 848-222-2310 to schedule an in-home or virtual consultation. Woodhaven is a Professional Dealer of Andersen Windows & Doors. Woodhaven is not part of or affiliated with Renewal by Andersen.

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Boulevard Beauty Written by Jaime Lee

Photos by Michael Spark Media & Photography

Long Beach Island is not only a vacationer’s paradise, but it is simultaneously becoming the ideal destination for empty nesters. For the Heals, LBI is exactly where they decided to build their dream home on the lagoon.

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Natives of Staten Island, Helen and her husband Jim, a retired Battalion Chief who dedicated 31 years of service in the FDNY, set their hopes on downsizing and finally enjoying a relaxing retirement in a serene home near the water. On the advice of an old friend who raved about his great experience working with Thomas J Keller Building Contractor, a local builder based out of Surf City, the Heals were convinced that this was the man to call for a flawless building process, free of aggravation and stress. When Jim finally sat down to meet with Tom, the choice was clear: Tom was the first and only builder he needed to talk to. “I’m a pretty good judge of character,” Jim shares. “When I looked Tom eye to eye, I said, ‘This guy’s a real honest guy.’ I got such good vibes.” That initial conversation kicked off the start of a no-hassle, seamless, collaborative build that resulted in a 3,500-square-foot 5-bed, 3 ½-bath Nantucket-inspired home in Loveladies, complete with wrap-around porches, a rooftop deck with views of both the bay and ocean, and magnificent vaulted ceilings that allow natural light to flood in from every direction. Their beach oasis, which is now a yearround home for the owners, started however on a real diamond-in-the-rough patch of land sandwiched between the Boulevard and the lagoon. Before the building process could begin, the existing boarded-up and condemned home needed to be demolished. According to Jim, the property and structure at the time of purchase was in such bad shape, they needed to sign a letter with the township agreeing that the home would be in a dumpster within 90 days of purchase. But that was no problem for Keller, recalls the couple. “He said, ‘I got it’,” Jim raves of the builder. “That was his line. Anytime I said, ‘Tom what about…’ he said, ‘I got it.’ And he did. He got the job done.” “And he got it done quick!” Helen adds. The land was so overgrown with trees and poison ivy, it wasn’t until they cleared out the brush, they discovered a hidden gem — a 30-foot private dock on the lagoon. 54 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020


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The Design Process The Heals signed on Keller and his team for the project late in 2017 and the first pilings went in the ground by December. The couple trusted the team so much that they went down to Florida for the beginning of construction. Framing was put on hold for about a month after the pilings went in because of extreme cold, but after it resumed in late January, it was only seven months before Helen and Jim were sleeping in their new home. Although the design process was a collaborative effort between the Heals, Keller and his team, and their architect, Craig W. Brearley, Helen and Jim started by looking through books of homes Keller had built and working with the architect to select features they wanted to incorporate into the design. “Tom took what could’ve essentially ended up looking like a plain square, box-ofa-house, and customized everything that we needed to make it our own,” Jim recalls. “He only makes custom homes.” Even though the couple was downsizing since their children are each grown with families of their own, Helen actually designed much of the home with her large extended family in mind. She knew she wanted five bedrooms: in addition to their grand master suite with a private bath and impressive frameless shower on the top floor, on the floor below, two more bedrooms would be for their beloved five grandchildren to share,

and another two bedrooms were built for each of their sons and their wives. Inspired by a friend whose Manahawkin reverse-living home they admired, the Heals even built an additional family room downstairs for the kids to have a place of their own to play and watch TV. Her sons, daughters-in-law and grandchildren could now all gather for family time, meals and boardgames on the top floor, but then had the option of enjoying their own space downstairs if they ever needed some privacy or down time—offering her kids the best of both worlds when they come to stay at their home. The collaborative process wasn’t just with Keller and the architect, however, as Helen leaned on her son, Darren, and daughter-in-law, Danielle (who she lovingly refers to as daughter), for design help and advice as well. “We spoke with my son and Danielle and they shared their ideas with us during the design and building process. Our perspective is 1970,” Helen chuckles, “and theirs is 2020. You get that blend of two generations—and it really helps.” Danielle was instrumental in helping Helen choose one of the homes’ most unique and grand features — a 12’ X 4’ single-slab quartz island, which the owner of Taylor Made Cabinets said was likely the largest he had ever installed on LBI. The island’s size is vital when the Heals host all of their grandchildren, as Helen lovingly notes, “I had to make sure there was enough room for all my grandkids to fit around the island at the same time.” bay-magazine.com 55


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The Features The home is custom from the front stairs to the rooftop deck and Helen and Jim rave about the quality of the millwork and overall craftsmanship from Keller and his building team. The top-level family room features unique vaulted ceilings and custom millwork around every window and the fireplace. It is comprised of custom built-ins and shelving units that seamlessly meld in with the architecture of the home. This charming seaside home exudes a casual elegance not often seen in many beach homes—there are no flip flop signs or ships-in-a-bottle in sight. The color tone of the home is very calm and inviting with muted whites, delicate grays and driftwood tans; it exudes a timeless, minimalist aesthetic that is modern, yet classic— balancing any edge with natural fibers and simple upholstery to uphold maximum comfort and durability. Inspired by the luxe California-based brand, Restoration Hardware, the home is filled with neutral tones elevated by eccentric elements—such as the showstopping wall of windows that allows a view of the Boulevard and ocean, inviting visitors outdoors towards one of the many porches and wrap around deck areas of the home.

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This home also features an outdoor oasis that is unrivaled on the island. There are covered decks off of the bedrooms allowing for lounging outdoors while enjoying a morning coffee, as well as a larger decked area off of the kitchen where guests may gather to lounge and watch the children splash around in the resort-like swimming pool. An expansive outdoor shower completes the outdoor features, as it lets the grandkids wash off after a day at the beach. “When you look down you see a dozen little feet in the shower,” Helen tells, “It’s so cute!” Many smaller balconies overlook the lagoon, and the open concept living room has a wraparound-styled porch. Capping off the house, is a large rooftop deck with unobstructed views of the bay, ocean, lagoon—even the Barnegat Lighthouse. “It’s nice to watch the sunset up here,” Jim tells, adding, “with a Piña Colada in hand!” They say a man's home is his castle, but for some, a home workshop is the real source of pride and joy. A special feature designed specifically for Jim is the three-car garage, complete with a spacious area for Heal to have a proper working space as well as a place for him to store all of his tools for handywork.


The Team It wasn’t only Tom the Heals were impressed with, it was his entire company. “Your business is only as good as your workers,” Jim said. “Colette (on Keller’s construction team) is as straight as an arrow. She’s as sharp as can be. There were things we wanted to change and it always worked out.” Even now, two years after their home was completed, the Heals and the Kellers keep in touch. “Tom’s wife, Daphne, who also works with the firm, asked me to do the home tour last year,” Helen shares. “So, I said, ‘I’ll do it if you and Tom go out to dinner with us.’ And we did. And I feel like we are part of the family now. There is this mutual respect and trust.” “The good thing about Tom and his business, his secret for success, is having great subcontractors,” Jim adds. “They do great work and he doesn’t have to worry. He knows it will be done correctly. And that’s very important. He has good people working for him.” The team at Thomas J Keller Building Contractor would

like to respectfully thank Mr. Heal, who compassionately and humbly refuses the notion of being referred to as a “hero” when referring to his service with the FDNY—even through the most unimaginable of times including the events of 9/11. He and all of his fellow firefighters and first-responders have all of our utmost highest regards for putting their lives at risk for other human beings every day that they go to work. Jim, may you enjoy a well-deserved retirement full of peace and happy, loving moments here on Long Beach Island. Moreover, a great big “Thank You” to all first responders and all essential workers for their tireless efforts and unwavering labors during some of the most difficult times of recent past. Your sacrifices are immeasurable and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts. The homeowners would additionally like to thank good friends of theirs, Barbara & John Favorito and Debbie & Joel Clark, who graciously allowed the Heals to stay with them in order to make final decisions on their home as they traveled to and from their residence on Hutchinson Island, Florida during the winter months. Your hospitality is greatly appreciated. bay-magazine.com 57


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WALK THIS WAY Written by Carolyn D’Andrea

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Pavers, Pavers, Pavers oh my! When walking into your local landscaper's office or home improvement store it often seems like there is a section with mini paver blocks in a ton of different colors with a ton of different names and you just pick one for your backyard; however, finding the perfect hardscape for your home isn’t that simple, in fact there are a multitude of factors that contribute to creating the perfectly paved outdoor space. David Ash Landscape and Pools knows that in order to create your backyard paradise it all starts with finding the right elements for your home that tie in all of the external factors as well as a homeowner’s personal preference. The hardscaping element of landscape design incorporates all of the non-living elements in that space; whether it bay-magazine.com 61


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is a walkway from the backyard to the pool or an entire patio, the pattern of the pavers as well as the type of pavers used all must tie into the overall feel of the space. LBI provides a naturally stunning backdrop to create these amazing outdoor spaces. These naturally versatile landscapes combined with the infusion of a homeowner’s personality are all beautifully coordinated through David Ash’s experience and expertise. The inception of design starts with the architecture of the home. Utilizing the natural lines of the home set the outline for the placement of the pavers; the lines of the home can be reflected in an understated way through the pavers, drawing your eyes to the end of the space while having a sanctuary that feels endless. Colors open and enhance an outdoor area. The elements around your home contribute to the overall design. Utilizing the colors around a home brings a sense of openness to the space. This is particularly helpful for shore homes that are on a smaller lot. Complemented by pops of green and colorful flowers a space is transformed into your own lavish backyard paradise. There is no “right” or “wrong” material to choose in order to create the location of your dream. The customizability of hardscaping is endless. The patterns in the bricks can be as intricate or simple as you’d like. You can even utilize materials such as concrete for a more seamless look. David Ash Jr. Landscaping Contractors is a high-end landscape and design firm based in Surf City. Servicing Long Beach Island for more 27 years, David Ash Jr. offers a visionary, functional, and natural approach to full service luxury outdoor living design, custom installation, and building.

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homebuilding in the age of covid-19 Walters reveals how the pandemic has affected the homebuilding industry.

COVID-19 is reshaping the places where

Throughout the pandemic, even with

we live, work and play. Every industry has

travel restrictions and social distancing

been affected. Every person has been

in place, Walters continues to field

affected. Everyone’s plans have changed

inquiries from out-of-state homebuyers

and the impact is far-reaching – especially

planning to relocate to the Jersey Shore.

in the homebuilding industry.

“We continue to do our best to keep the

Walters, a local homebuilder, reveals its steadfast response to the pandemic. “Homebuilding presses on along the

lines of communication open and make homebuyers feel comfortable going through the process in-person or virtually,”

Jersey Shore as homebuyers realize

said Gaudet-Walters. “As always, safety

the importance of living in the present

is our top priority as we are diligently

as opposed to delaying their long-term

following all CDC guidelines. This includes

plans or life goals in regard to new homes,

frequent sanitization and handwashing,

locations and lifestyles,” said Matthew

avoiding close contact through social

Gaudet-Walters, Director of Business

distancing measures and requiring the

Development for Walters.

use of face coverings.”

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Although in-person traffic inevitably decreased since the pandemic started, web traffic and virtual communication rose significantly. “People were at home searching for new places to live, so we quickly embraced technology and explored ways to make the home more versatile as everyone finds themselves spending most of their time at home,” said Gaudet-Walters. Everything from design plans and financing to the closing/settlement process was affected by the coronavirus. “In some cases, the pandemic has accelerated design trends that were already occurring,” said Arnold Boyle, AIA, Principal Architect at Walters Architecture, LLC. “In other cases, the pandemic prompted individuals to rethink the ways in which new home designs can positively impact their lives. We have found that homebuyers were searching for opportunities to use their spaces in different ways that would help balance their home life with that of their new work-at-home life.” The Walters Architectural division has reassessed and reinvented home designs based on what the public desires in their future home. “We are now able to design a house, meet with clients and create 3D models using virtual platforms like Zoom and Google Meet,” said Boyle. “Our goal is to help you ‘future-proof’ your home by personalizing it to make it more in line with how you live now as opposed to how you lived pre-pandemic.” Whether it be your primary residence, second home, future retirement home or investment property, Walters helps homebuyers take full advantage of every part of their property. “We are definitely seeing more requests for home offices, flex spaces, recreation 66 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

rooms and outdoor living spaces as part of our designs,” said Boyle. “We have also seen people build homes during the pandemic with more personal, introspective spaces like yoga and meditation rooms. The desire is to have fully connected and integrated spaces in case we find ourselves quarantined again in the future.” The mechanical elements are also important. “All of our homes are ENERGY STAR® certified, which enable for better air flow and circulation, as

“We promise to

well as lower operational costs and

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long-term savings,” Gaudet-Walters said. “We incorporate high thermal

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way they feel most comfortable...” – Matthew Gaudet-Walters, Director of Business Development


Looking to the future, the demand for housing is high. “With an extremely low inventory of available homes on the market and historically low interest rates, the desire for new homes – especially new construction homes – is stronger than ever,” said Gaudet-Walters. “Whether you prefer a two- or three-story home, a traditional shore colonial that is both versatile and symmetrical, or a contemporary marvel with clean lines and a connection to the outdoors, your home should be a reflection of both your lifestyle and personal preferences – both now and in the future.”

about walters

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Walters highlights a streamlined process

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custom home services. “This gives us the

Realty offers full-service brokerage experts that help home

opportunity to truly build relationships with our homebuyers in order to build the home they’ve always wanted,” said Gaudet-Walters. “And now, because of this pandemic, we are connected to

buyers find the right homesite depending on their desired location. Walters Architecture allows home buyers to work with in-house architects and designers to establish a working knowledge of the property in order to design the perfect home using the latest technology and quality building materials. Home buyers receive a complimentary first meeting with a preliminary

our homebuyers in new and different

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homebuilding process from concept, construction and delivery

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feel most comfortable – whether that

Every custom home built by Walters meets or exceeds the

be in-person, over the phone or virtually.

energy efficiency requirements for ENERGY STAR® certification.

That has always been, and will continue to be, what inspires so many families to

Walters Headquarters is located at 500 Barnegat Boulevard North, Building 400, Barnegat, NJ 08005.

build with Walters.”

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A Place to Gather Written by Diana Lentini

Photos by Shannon Murphy

Step inside this bay-front Loveladies home and guest house, designed for creating a lifetime of memories.

For Chuck and Stephanie Cahn, there is no greater joy than the feeling of sharing moments with loved ones that turn into lifelong memories. For nearly two decades, the Cahns and their three children have spent summer after summer at their bay-front home in Loveladies, celebrating life’s milestones together as a family and alongside the company of dear friends. As their children have grown and as Stephanie and Chuck became grandparents of three, the Cahns considered building a guest house to accommodate their expanding family tree. When the property next door was put up for sale two and a half years ago, they knew they had found their opportunity. The adventure began as they purchased the bayfront property and built a guest house from the ground up. “We wanted the guest house to have the same integrity as our main house, to feel as if the two homes belonged together,” Stephanie, an accomplished interior designer with 35 years of experience, explains. “But the obvious challenge was how to make that happen when the original home was beginning to show its age,” she adds. Though the Cahns have kept their home’s design fresh over the years, the construction of the guest house was an impetus to upgrade some aspects of their primary home, including the addition of a spacious, window-enclosed sunroom with waterfront views. Meanwhile, the four-bedroom guest home was built for comfort, with an intentional choice to include only a kitchenette, rather than a full-size kitchen. “We want everyone to come over to us!” Stephanie explains. “We love gatherings and having everyone eat our meals together under one roof.”

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The architect, Jay Madden, captured the vision of what the Cahns were looking for in their new home, including a beautiful gym with high windows overlooking the Loveladies bay and natural wildlife preserve. “The general contractor, Kevin Engelken of KHE Construction, complemented the project perfectly,” Chuck says. “Kevin’s vision of upgrading the main house to match the guest house and tying the two homes together was spot on,” he adds. The construction of the guest home was also an opportunity to blend the décor of both houses, featuring a neutral color palette that’s similar yet different between the two buildings. The guest home gravitates mostly toward whites, creams and camels, while the main home consists of whites and blues. To tie it all together, Stephanie selected Chantilly Lace by Benjamin Moore paint—a crisp, clean white—for all of the walls and trim. “I wanted the fabrics and artwork to stand out. White is a neutral backdrop,” Stephanie says. “I wanted everything to be soothing. We’re in the middle of nature, and the focus should be on the water,

sun, flowers and shrubs,” she adds, “The views are a constantly moving picture.” To tackle the interior paint job, the Cahns and KHE enlisted Pablo Oehlmann, owner of Spectrum Painting LBI, and his team, who have worked on projects for the Cahns for over a decade. “By painting the house in Chantilly Lace, it brightened up the whole place for a clean and sparkling look. More and more, my clients are choosing light, bright colors for their homes,” Pablo shares. “Pablo is easygoing, and there wasn’t anything he couldn’t tackle. He’s punctual, kind and professional. If ever something didn’t look proper for any reason, he would come right back and fix it. He’s pleasant to work with, and that’s so important,” Stephanie shares. With the walls and the trim painted the same shade, the Cahns decided to let the natural wood of the interior doors shine through for a bit of contrast, rather than painting them white.

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Pablo says, “We refinished all of the interior entry doors by sanding them down and adding a coat of polyurethane, which broke up the white walls in a subtle way. Instead of blending in, the way white doors sometimes do, they really separate the rooms.” Maintaining uniformity on the exterior was a priority as well. For a cohesive feel, both houses had NuCedar® Shingles installed on the outside, a durable, manmade shingle that replicates the natural charm of real wood shingles while offering minimal maintenance. To accompany the light beige shingles, long-lasting AZEK trim was installed around the windows and doors, primed and finished by Spectrum Painting LBI with a white coat of paint for contrast. The exterior doors were all finished 70 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

with a clear stain, again allowing for the beautiful natural wood hues to pull through. The landscaping also provided a natural opportunity to unite the properties, with new bluestone and travertine walkways to accent new decking. A playground area, putting green and designated yoga area offers unique entertainment opportunities for guests and the family to enjoy. “Above all, our home is a place for friends and families to come together to make cherished memories. Now with our grandchildren, we want them to look back at the memories we’ve made here. That’s just what we do,” Stephanie says. “We’re grateful for our adopted motto: ‘Sunny Days at Club Cahn.’”


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Bringing Your Vision to Life

Town & Country Kitchen and Bath Makes Your Dream House a Reality Written by Sarah Hodgson Photos by Patricia Burke Photography

You’d think that with years of HGTV binge-watching, designing your own home would be a breeze. But alas, designing a home is a complex and tedious journey for the layman. Even those with a comprehensive understanding of basic design struggle come decision time. How do you know if your vision will carry successfully through your entire home? You may know what you like, but how do you translate personal tastes into tangible design elements? It’s time to call in the experts.

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Town & Country Kitchen and Bath (TCKB) is a boutique design studio based in Red Bank, New Jersey specializing in the design, specification and sourcing of hard surfaces and permanent fixtures. “We work differently than other companies specializing in kitchen and bathrooms,” said Ginny Padula, the founder and owner of Town & Country Kitchen and Bath. “We are designers. Which, for us, means that we are not just a showroom where you are purchasing materials. Regardless of the project scope, we are looking at all aspects of the space and how to optimize function, flow, style, needs and budget.”

Country Kitchen and Bath take the time to work with clients and gain a thorough understanding of not just their preferences, but their lifestyles. “We take the time to get to know our clients so we can incorporate features that are personalized for them,” said Padula.

But it’s not just the catalog of services that sets TCKB apart from other firms. It’s the approach.

For Jersey shore homeowners, achieving a coastal aesthetic is paramount in the construction or renovation process. Just look at Town & Country Kitchen and Bath’s 2016 Ocean Avenue project in Mantoloking, New Jersey. The clients wanted a triedand-true beach house. A home that was both casual and stylish, trendy yet comfortable enough to entertain family and friends. Just steps from the ocean, the homeowners wanted the finished dwelling to flow effortlessly from the inside to the outside.

When embarking on a new design project, the experts at Town &

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tion and dream to life,” said Padula, the lead designer on the project. The team drew from a classic coastal pallet of whites mixed with warm wood and sand tones, incorporating shades of blue as an accent color. Pops of orange were added to the sitting room and wet bar on the second floor, which opens to a deck boasting a stunning view of the sea. “We specified materials and products that would be easy to care for, allowing the focus to be enjoying the spaces rather than the upkeep. For instance, in the kitchen and bathrooms we used quartz countertops with a natural stone look to serve as a hard wearing surface with no maintenance,” said Padula. TCKB outfitted the kitchen in crisp white custom cabinetry with beadboard detailing for a casual, beachy feel. Stained hardwood floors


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surround the center island which sits on a custom stone basket weave accent tile rug. The seating around the island faces the beach so that guests can enjoy the home’s full, ocean front view. Elsewhere, the designers implemented polished nickel hardware and fixtures and white shaker style cabinetry in the bathrooms for a clean, simple effect. In all, the home was an exact depiction of what the TCKB clients had envisioned. The team had successfully interpreted the homeowners’ basic needs and translated them into creative, unique design features. They achieved the fresh simplicity and functionality of a classic shore house. But Town & Country’s professional prowess doesn’t end with design and implementation. The team has taken lifestyle branding one step further with their newly relaunched retail division, T&C Mercantile. Now, they can not only iron out the architectural elements of a space, but outfit one with complementary pieces. “We officially launched the re-introduction of our retail portion of the business, T&C Mercantile, in the fall of last year. We focus on sourcing unique pieces, either new or vintage, that complement the areas we typically focus on through our design,” said Padula. Kitchen accessories, cookbooks, design books, serving pieces, canister containers and candles are among the retail items stocking the shop’s shelves. Customers who have worked with the design team, or who are familiar with the tasteful TCKB aesthetic, enjoy perusing the showroom and incorporating the homeware pieces into their homes. “Realizing that having a carefully curated collection of homewares in the showroom was a natural extension of our business,” said Padula. “Many client’s want us to help with finishing touches for the spaces we create for them. This allows us to do that seamlessly.” bay-magazine.com 77


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extension of your home Written by Carolyn D’Andrea

Oftentimes when designing an outdoor space the natural inclination is that this is a completely separate space from the interior of the home. The ladies of Between the Sheets in Ship Bottom know that simply isn’t true. The outdoor space of your home is not only a homeowner’s own personal retreat, it is an extension of your home; allowing the elements of nature and home design to blend and create a unique space. The time and effort to create a beautiful outdoor space doesn’t have to take a long time and shouldn’t leave you with an end result that looks like you just plopped a box set in your backyard. The outdoor space from your front entrance to your backyard is a coordinated collaboration that bookends your home into a cohesive and calming space that flows from end to end. Co-owners Kristin Nissen and Maryann Schmid truly believe that any homeowner, regardless of their budget, can create this for their home. The process of designing breathtakingly stunning outdoor spaces is a part of the initial process when looking at a homeowner’s interior space. An exterior space starts with the homeowner, while there are some elements that are out of a homeowner’s control, ultimately the direction and feeling that an exterior space evokes is dependent on the homeowner's vision and a designer who can help bring that vision to life. The key is to look at the entire home from the front door to the back patio holistically. Photo by Michael Spark Media & Photography bay-magazine.com 81


Photo by Bonnie Felton

The home tells a story and the exterior spaces (the front and backyards) truly are two parts of the entire story. You are led in and once you get to the backyard everything comes together to complete the story that is being told. When you are standing in your great room or kitchen and you look out your window your eye shouldn’t “stop” as you are looking out. Designers know that this “stop” you are distracted by whether it be a pop of color that isn’t necessarily right or faded, cracked, and outdated furniture is a distraction from the feeling of the space. Exterior spaces are an extension of the home in that when you are looking out your window what you see should complement the space on the inside.

the end result. If you are a homeowner who has the opportunity to build your home from the ground up the exterior starts with the builder. While you are still in the blueprinting stages work with your architect to see what things can be added while the home is being built. For example, if you know that you want a deck that comes off of the kitchen make sure that you have a sliding door in order to access the deck. This not only creates a cohesive flow but it allows you to access that exterior space more easily. It provides you with a quick and easy way to expand the room when entertaining. The same level of practicality can be used for homeowners who are updating an existing exterior.

Curating the outdoor space extends the line of the home as well as the room, providing open space for entertaining and relaxing that will take you from lazy summer nights to cozy fall evenings roasting marshmallows by the fire pit. September sunsets on the island are incredibly beautiful and what better way to enjoy your outdoor space than with hidden touches to entertain and extend the use of the space.

Design with purpose is the lens that Kristin and Maryann kick off each project and the anchor that allows them to create stunning extended exterior rooms. The assessment of how much space you have to work with, combined with what your intentions are for that space will determine the end result. Starting with a floorplan Kristin and Maryann visualize and move around the objects that will fill a space on paper first. By assessing different configurations they can see what way an exterior will function at its most optimized layout. They also have some do's and don’ts when creating an outdoor space.

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DO'S DON'TS Invest in Pairs of items

Purchase 4 or 6 of the same item

Look at the lighting of your space. Houses on the Bayside tend to have more light from the afternoon to sunset, make sure that you have a way to shade the space.

Assume one type of shade fits all - a backyard umbrella isn’t the only option you have for shading a space.

Get creative!

Use plastic or

Invest in quality pieces

Rush to “get it done” Follow what is “trendy”

aluminum furniture

Use Teak and wicker furniture

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One of the best examples Kristin provided centers around the execution of nautical themes for shore homes. The shore home often evokes an image of days past with overly obvious design trends: seashells all over a wall, signs that read “SHORE HOUSE” and anything with the word beach found from your local home goods… to be blunt this is no longer the case and shore interiors and exteriors are having their renaissance and revitalization. Gone are the days of the nautical home that is strewn with anchors and ships. But what if you actually like that look and you have a home that has a great view of the bay and you want to complement it? Then what do you do? Kristin provides the best example that would make any shore homeowner want this for their own backyard. Navy is your primary color to evoke a nautical theme, it is clean and classic. Once you’ve established your base complementary color accent with untreated teak chairs. Yes, you heard her right untreated. Teak has a natural beauty that is brought out as it weathers. The sun and salt will transform them into a stunning muted silver-grey that no spray paint could ever match. Teak pieces are impervious to mildew and mold, they naturally care for themselves and you end up with gorgeous furniture that will last for 20-25 years. Classic cream-colored cushions on the chairs will help keep the clean lines. At Between the Sheets works with a custom manufacturer that creates cushions that include a drain in the bottom. The practicality of this hidden feature means that your cushions will completely dry and thus last you longer. Rather than limiting your shading options, utilize the resources around you. Outdoor draperies are an absolute essential to creating optimal aesthetically pleasing shading. By using a material similar to sail material and rolling it up like the one you can utilize a fabric that is wind, sun, rain, and salt-resistant all while being chic. The final component of tying this look together would be to accent with antique brass. Brass handles and hardware on furniture help pull this together. It will accent and complement the space alluding to a nautical feel with an upscale and modern end result. Kristin and Maryann have provided their expertise to Virtual House Tour which is a part of the Long Beach Island Foundation 54th Annual Open House Tour which took place on August 2nd and 5th. This year due to precautions surounding COVID-19 the tour was held virtually for the safety of the participants.

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OUTDOOR LIVING FOR ALL SEASONS Landscape Design by Charles Morris, LLA Bay Avenue Plant Company Construction and Installation by Bay Avenue Plant Company, Jersey Pools & Spas and Tradewinds Builders Written by Jessica Scangarello

Photos by Ann Coen Photography

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Maximizing our living spaces has never been more important, given all of the time we are spending in our homes these days. On Long Beach Island we all love to enjoy the beauty of the outdoors and maximizing our outdoor spaces has also become a goal of many of our clients. As fall approaches, finding ways to enjoy the island during the cooler months has become a focus of many of our projects. Creating a landscape design with more than the summer weather in mind requires planning but can also enhance the space you are creating.

was designed to be custom-built with function and aesthetics in mind. The fireplace is the focal point of cooler nights as the seasons change. It is surrounded with a natural stone veneer and a soapstone hearth for a warm and rustic feel. The built-in kitchen with matching stone veneer and soapstone countertop includes a 36� grill, refrigerator, sink, and trash bin. Conveniently located under the pavilion, cooking and entertaining is easy and eliminates the need to go in and out of the main house while also keeping the cook and his guests warm next to the fire.

In the project featured here, the custom cedar pavilion creates an entirely new room in this homeowner’s backyard. It changes the vibe of the property and sets a tone for the rest of the landscape. It also allows for year-round entertainment and enjoyment. Everything in this project

Another key element of this design, that brings additional warmth to the landscape, is the lighting. The copper and brass LED light fixtures in the landscape, pool, pavilion, and kitchen elevate the entire look of this backyard and draw you in at night, no matter what season.

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The beautiful gunite pool with spillover spa can cool you off during those hot summer days, and also become a place of peace, relaxation, and enjoyment during the fall and spring seasons. The silver travertine pavers that run along the entire space create a seamless look that is a nice contrast with the wood and stone elements. Adding comfortable and alluring outdoorfurniture enhances the space created and with so many all-weather outdoor options, you can

have a lot of fun designing the look and feeling you desire. Lastly, the plantings you choose can help keep your landscape full and colorful throughout the year. The use of evergreens and ornamental grasses that can be kept tall through the fall and winter will add warmth to your outdoor environment. These elements can be the game changer and will bring all other aspects of your space together while creating privacy and also giving your backyard a finished look.

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DESIGNING AN Entrepreneurial Lifestyle Written by Diana Lentini Photos by John Martinelli

It’s a question pondered by business leaders everywhere: Is entrepreneurship learned, or is it an innate skill? For Donna Grimes and her family, it’s a little bit of both. The owner of Serenity Design and Beach Barn Boutique, Donna is an accomplished interior designer and business owner of 31 years, paving the way for her two daughters to follow in her footsteps. A New Jersey native, Donna spent her childhood summers on LBI. After earning her degree in interior 92 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

design from the Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising in Los Angeles, and her MBA from Seton Hall University in New Jersey, Donna built a successful design business called Donna Grimes Custom Designs, serving primarily high-end clientele in northern New Jersey. In 1995, Donna’s husband, Jimmy, purchased a marina business, and the Grimes family moved to Long Beach Island permanently. In 2002, Donna was eager to start


another design business, but this time one with a storefront that offered clients the opportunity to browse textiles, fixtures and decorative accoutrements in person. She purchased the building at 1102 Long Beach Boulevard in Ship Bottom and opened Serenity Design, and has been in business on the island ever since. “Serenity Design was born to continue to design quality homes at the beach and beyond. I didn’t originally want a storefront, but the business grew so fast, and with real estate continuously being bought and sold on the island, it made sense to offer our clients a storefront,” Donna says. “Additionally, owning a retail location affords buying power that provides clients with the best selection,” she adds.

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In addition to offering a space to meet and work with clients, the storefront is a complete home design center, with furniture and products like tile, lighting, window treatments and home accessories for sale. Walk-in customers are invited and encouraged to browse the shop and learn more about the services offered by Serenity Design. Most of Serenity Design’s clients are homeowners, but Donna also partners with a group of builders working on new construction and renovations who are often looking to incorporate design from the beginning of the construction process. While Donna doesn’t have a “signature style” that she imparts on her home—part of the firm’s dedication to true custom design, rather than a copy and paste formula that’s popular on social media today—she says her success is based on the fact that their designs are based on the clients’ personal profile. “We’re going to make your house what you want it to be,” Donna explains. Over the years, Serenity Design projects have been featured in publications like Coastal Living, NJ Home and Architect. At Serenity Design, the definition of successful job is simple: “Knowing we made a family happy is everything. It’s all about pleasing the client and hearing them say they love it,” Donna says.

The Next Generation In 2017, Donna’s daughter Victoria joined Serenity Design. Victoria, a trained designer who earned her degree at the New York School of Interior Design, has taken on a great deal of the business’ day to day responsibilities. “Victoria brings a fresh approach to the business. Having a second set of eyes with new ideas has been great, and her proficiency in the latest design technology and software is an asset to our company,” Donna shares. While the future of Serenity Design includes having Victoria eventually take over the business, there are no drastic changes planned for the near future. “Our plan for the next decade is to continue giving people great service and design, and making it obtainable,” Donna shares. “We’ve been in business a long time, and with our start to finish approach to home, we make design comfortable and approachable. Having Victoria on board has brought a whole new element—she’s lighthearted yet passionate about our work, but brings youth to the table. She does a lot of things I can’t do,” Donna adds. 94 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020


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In addition to managing Serenity Design, the Grimes family is also the owner of Beach Barn Boutique, a gift boutique offering a wide range of antiques, accessories, homeware, clothing and more—just down the road from Serenity Design’s office. In true entrepreneurial spirit, Beach Barn Boutique is managed by Donna’s oldest daughter, Ashley. Earlier this year, Beach Barn Boutique expanded to include the Mermaid Room Coffee Bar, a chic spot for specialty coffee drinks, tucked in among the boutique’s eclectic ambience. For the Grimes family, it seems the entrepreneurial spirit is generational—an innate skill passed on, strengthened through years of practice and obser-

vation. For those looking to start a business of their own, Donna shares the following advice: “You can’t be scared. You can’t be afraid to take the chance. You have to totally believe in yourself and also realize there’s no perfect time to start something—even during a pandemic or poor economy. People that do well in business that these opportunities to start new things.” The Shoppe at Serenity is located at 1102 Long Beach Boulevard in Ship Bottom. For design inquires,email victoria@serenitydesignlbi.com, and follow the firm on Instagram @serenitydesign. Beach Barn Boutique is located at 1920 Long Beach Boulevard in Ship Bottom. Follow the store on Instagram @beachbarnboutique.

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SWEATIN’ IN STYLE The Latest in Fitness Fashion From Black Sheep Studios Written by Sarah Hodgson

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One of the biggest perks of working out is dressing the part. Feeling comfortable and confident in chic activewear is, afterall, the ultimate motivator for hitting the gym. But with all of the brands clogging the digital shopping sphere, it can be hard to sift through trends to find quality, functional exercise apparel. To get the skinny on the latest in fitness fashion, we had to hit up one of the hottest wellness hubs on Long Beach Island: Black Sheep Studios. Devon Karvan, owner of Black Sheep in Beach Haven, is an advocate for both looking and feeling good when 110 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

you’re at the gym (or studio). The energetic, LBI-based fitness mogul has a background in dance and just about every extreme sport you can imagine (snowboarding, surfing, skateboarding, etcetera). She started Black Sheep in 2016 with just a few spin bikes and now, less than 5 years later, Karvan has created a one-of-a-kind brand dedicated to bringing fun to high intensity workout classes ranging from boxing to yoga. This, of course, means armoring her clients with vivid, artful threads that would be as acceptable in a spin class as they would a hip city gallery. Here are some of Karvan’s top picks from the Black Sheep retail boutique!


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No one wants to wear bulky sneakers in pilates and barre classes, but sweat, condensation and freshly-waxed floors can make your workout area as perilous as a slip and slide when barefoot or in standard socks. Karvan cannot stress enough the importance of investing in a solid (and sticky) pair of grip socks for pilates and barre. A top brand featured in Black Sheep’s retail division is ToeSox, a line of safe, breathable socks that fit like gloves and are dotted with rubber to create traction between your soles and the floor.

MATCHING FITNESS SETS

Sometimes the most powerful motivator for working out is the adorable matching set folded in your dresser drawer, just waiting to be flaunted in that morning spin class. Being the local, leading fitness experts they are, the folks at Black Sheep have stocked their retail shelves with the best of the best in matching activewear sets for all shapes and sizes. “We carry brands for all body types and figures. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and my studio is all about being bold and pushing your boundaries while having fun,” said Karvan. “We just want clients to feel good and be true to themselves." Karvan’s personal favorite matching set this year? The hand-dyed, gorgeously made legging and top duos from NUX. Each piece is made of a stretchy-yet-supportive ribbed fabric for optimum comfort and functionality. bay-magazine.com 111


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While Black Sheep pulls from a range of national fitness brands for their retail boutique, they also make sure to leverage Jetty Ink, a local company specializing in graphic design and eco-friendly screen printing. Their motivational “Get Sh*t Done” hats with the trademark black sheep and ultra soft mens’ tees are must-have items for fitness enthusiasts and Black Sheep clients. Karvan also sources from Coastal Sign and Design, and Jersey-based company responsible for the clever and down-right adorable Black Sheep branded wear. Items include punny “Cyclepath” spin tops and the classic Black Sheep “Bad A**” tanks.

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Black Sheep in Beach Haven has an impressive inventory of studio to street looks - tops and leggings you can wear outside of the gym. Favorites include the white mesh short sleeve and white, sheer jacket from ALO Yoga. You can take these stylish pieces to the streets and no one would suspect you’d just burned 400 calories in a Cycology class.

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Whether you’re pairing your sports bra with a sheer top or high-rise leggings, it can be fun to don one with some flair. Black Sheep Studios features a variety of flattering, supportive bras fit for a fitness queen. One of Karvan’s favorite brands, Year of Ours, crafts eye-catching and functional bras with varying necklines, patterns and straps. There you have it! Karvan and her crew are not only certified wellness professionals, but also well-versed in the world of fitness fashion. At Black Sheep boutique, there lies a unique and tempting selection of sweat-ready apparel to help you feel confident, fit and ready to take on the world (or morning beach barre class). bay-magazine.com 113


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Thanks to Einstein, we know that E =mc2. In the simplest of terms, his equation proposes that matter, simply by having mass, has an inherent amount of energy—which in turn means that everything is energy. According to the Encyclopedia Britannica, energy may exist in potential, kinetic, thermal, electrical, chemical, nuclear, or other various forms. Something that is inanimate and solid, such as a chair, or even something intangible, such as an emotion, has energy. The first law of thermodynamics states that energy can be neither created nor destroyed, but it can be changed from

one form to another. This is where Eastern Medicine comes in with a modality that is not so mainstream in Western Medicine: the manipulation of one’s energy. We have some of the best medical schools and hospitals in our country. And there’s no doubt about some of the miracles that can be achieved with modern medicine. But for centuries, people around the world have developed alternative therapies that treat the body, mind and soul—and below we discuss just how interesting some of these practices are.

Acu p u n c tu re The modality of acupuncture is a 3,000-year-old healing technique of Traditional Chinese Medicine. It aims to improve the body’s functions and promote the natural self-healing process by stimulating specific anatomic points on the body, called acupuncture points, in order to keep the body’s energy (called Qi, pronounced “chee”) flowing freely. It is believed that the body has more than 2,000 acupuncture points, and they are all interconnected through meridian pathways. Disruption or blockage in the flow of energy from one point to another is believed to be the cause of pain or illness. By applying acupuncture to certain points, practitioners can help to release blocked qi in the body and stimulate function, evoking the body’s natural healing response through various physiological systems. Modern research has demonstrated acupuncture’s effects on the nervous system, endocrine and immune systems, cardiovascular system, and digestive system. By stimulating these various systems, acupuncture is believed to help resolve pain, improve sleep, digestive function, and an overall sense of well-being. The most common method used to stimulate acupoints is the insertion of fine, sterile needles into the skin. Pressure, heat, or electrical stimulation may further enhance the effects. Sometimes other forms of stimulation can be used over the acupuncture points

instead of needles, such as massage pressure (acupressure), small electrical impulses (through electrode pads), and suction (through cupping therapy, which became part of the mainstream conversation during the 2016 Summer Olympics when swimmer Michael Phelps showed up to compete with what appeared to be circular bruises covering his back). For acupuncture services on Long Beach Island, the LBI Acupuncture & Healing Center offers acupuncture therapy, Chinese herbal medicine, and more.

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R e i k i Reiki is an ancient stress reduction and relaxation technique that is another form of an energy healing, and was rediscovered and brought to the mainstream by Mikao Usui in Japan in the late 1800s. It was first taught to Japanese naval officers to be used as a form of first aid. The first part of the word Rei- actually means “the wisdom of a higher power” or “spiritual guidance” and -ki is the transliterated Japanese name for energy (the same as qi in Traditional Chinese Medicine). So, reiki literally means “spiritually guided energy.” The same idea as with qi, followers believe that health comes from the ki flowing through and around a person, rather than the condition of the physical body. Ki is the reason why the physical organs function in a healthy way and when the flow of ki is blocked or disrupted, it adversely affects the body, causing the illness. It is also believed that ki responds to the energy of one’s emotions, thoughts and feelings, so positive thoughts help the ki flow more freely throughout the body, while negative thoughts yield blockages, or poor flow of ki (and negatively impacting health and vitality). What sets Usui's teachings apart from other hands-on healing methods is his use of reiju or attunement to remind students of their spiritual connection, as the realization of the mind-body connection is very powerful—practitioners themselves must have clarity and be attuned to a certain energy in order to guide an individual through the reiki session. During a reiki session, one typically lays down on a massage table (fully clothed) while a trained practitioner, referred to as a Reiki Master, places their hands lightly on, or slightly above, specific areas of the body in order to balance the flow of energy throughout the

body. The laying of hands on the head, face, neck, chest, shoulders, abdomen and feet delivers varying degrees of natural vibrational "heated" energy from their hands, to strengthen the patient’s body to heal itself. Reiki masters create an environment of comfort and support where people feel as though they can release their worries and their fears, and this feeling of warmth and safety is often described as a big hug or a bright white light, as the weight of the world on your shoulders now lies in someone else’s hands. As local Reiki Master Colleen Tola Dopkin, of Free Spirit Reiki and Wellness, in Manahawkin, shares, “the practitioner is merely a vessel for the energy to flow freely, helping the patient’s body harness this energy and use it for its therapeutic effect.” Dopkin also practices crystal healing during Reiki sessions, as her practice also follows the chakra philosophy of disease and energy imbalances. This utilizes certain crystals as conduits for healing — allowing positive, healing energy to flow into the body as negative, disease-causing energy flows out. Today, Reiki is offered in conjunction with traditional Western medical treatments to relieve side effects and promote recovery in patients. Reiki sessions are even given as a part of a hospital or clinic sponsored program in prestige medical centers such as the Mayo Clinic, Johns Hopkins, Columbia University Medical Center, New York-Presbyterian, Memorial Sloan Kettering, and the Cleveland Clinic. The well-known cardiac surgeon Dr. Mehmet Oz, who holds degrees from two Ivy League universities, even invites Reiki Masters into his operating room, allowing them to tend to patients undergoing precarious surgeries like heart transplants for its ability to re-balance bodily and cognitive systems.


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Western medicine recognizes the mind-body connection and its ability to improve or worsen health conditions. In order to understand this mind-body connection, it’s important to understand that all of the organs are connected to the nervous system, and our nerves are what send messages to and from the brain. When our brain is anxious, worried, angry, or in a constant state of elevated stress, these are the messages being relayed to our nervous system on a regular basis. Our bodies essentially function in a constant state of “fight or flight mode,” which nature designed to help us survive stressful and life-threating situations by prompting us to stay and fight or run away and flee via a sudden burst of energy. But most of us live in this chronic state of stress— that is, our bodies are perpetually in fight or flight mode— adrenaline and cortisol levels pumping, heart beating faster than normal, pulse rate and blood pressure high, muscles tense, digestion slowed— and this has been proven time and time again with medical literature to be dangerously detrimental to our health, even deadly. Meditation, mindfulness and breathing exercises, however— even if only for a few minutes every day—are some of the best ways to counter the harmful side effects of chronic stress. Learning to take control of one’s thoughts and redirect the energy of those emotions can turn down the volume of these nerve-wracking messages our overstimulated brains are constantly feeding our nervous systems. Studies have shown that regulating your thoughts and emotions can increase stem cell production, balance your hormones, improve grey matter in the brain and downregulate inflammatory responses of

the body, among other things. The key here is that once one is able to get the brain out of “fight or flight” mode, you activate your parasympathetic nervous system (responsible for “rest and digest” mode) and basically this undoes all of the work your body was doing while under that stressful situation; it decreases respiration and heart rate and increases digestion once again. It gives your body the chance to finally rest and repair itself, as nature designed it to do. A master of the mind-over-body concept is extreme athlete and the subject of several well-documented medical assessments, Wim Hof—also known as “The Iceman.” He has set Guinness World Records for swimming under solid ice, has sat in ice baths for hours while maintaining an elevated body temperature, and still holds the record for a barefoot half-marathon through ice and snow in the Arctic Circle. Attributing his daring feats to meditation and breath work, he is a stellar example of being in total control of one’s mind and connecting the body with the soul. There are numerous free resources available to help guide newcomers to the art of mindfulness, meditation and breath work. Whether it be an app, a podcast, a best-selling book, or simply submitting to a guided shavasana at the end of your beach yoga session with Yoga Bohemia, the benefits of meditation will increase one’s self-awareness and positive energy, help you to focus on the present, and benefit your overall health and wellness in immeasurable ways. These ancient practices all use different modalities to stimulate the body's natural ability to heal in unique ways, but they all recognize the power of one very important element: our own innate energy, how it responds to the world around us, and how to empower us to guide it in a positive light. Best wishes for good health and wellness!

It is important to note that this article is for informational purposes only and not intended to replace your own physician’s advice. Energy healing is a complementary modality that shouldn't exclude any Western medicine you may be taking. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified healthcare provider before starting any new treatment or discontinuing an existing treatment. Talk with your healthcare provider about any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Photos by Courtney Simpson of Courtney Simpson Photography LLC, www.courtneysimpsonphotography.com

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Destress and Reconnect Moving through 2020 with the Help of the Yoga System Written by Katie Ribsam

From the outside looking in one may think that the work of the yoga teacher is to help their clients stay fit in the body. After all, any yoga class is predominantly physical movement, right? It certainly may appear that way. However, the job of the yoga teacher goes much further than guiding movement in one's body and in fact it is quite arguable that the physical benefits of the movement routine (such as strength and flexibility) is simply the ancillary benefit to something much deeper. With thousands of years of history, the yoga system has overtime crafted and created ways to assist the practitioner in finding alignment in their bodies. However, this physical movement is simply a tool to find this alignment within the mind and ultimately allow us to move beyond the mind’s sometimes daunting grasp so we can access our highest, most stable self. Yoga practitioners far and wide can certainly attest to the shift that happens within the mind with consistent practice providing benefits including stress relief, being less agitated and reactive and living in a greater state of acceptance and peace. This is both the work and the result of the yoga system. After all, the Yoga Sutras specifically teach us that yoga is “chitta vritti nirodhah”, a Sanskrit phrase which means the “cessation of the fluctuations of the mind”; and with our mind’s being the instigator of much of our stress and anxiety, learning to calm our thought patterns can do us all a profound amount of good.

Try this 15 minute routine to release stress in the shoulders and hips: the areas of the body we often hold our stress. Compliment it with deep and steady breath to calm the mind.

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As a professional yoga teacher, I regularly hear from clients that have come to find yoga as a way to manage life’s stressors; and with 2020 being such an uncertain year, it should come as no surprise that there has been a significant increase in people looking to the yoga system with the primary goal of gaining strength and flexibility in their mind as opposed to those same goals for the physical body.

Easy Pose - Find your way into a comfortable seat. If your hips are tight lift the seat by sitting on a pillow or folded blankets or even sitting in a chair. Lengthen into your spine by rolling the shoulder up, back and down the back body which broadens the chest and allows for full capacity of breath. Gently pull the navel towards the spine and lift As our summer season comes to an end and we roll into into the pelvic floor to support the seated posture. Autumn 2020, I invite YOU to give yoga a try. Join a public Allow your hands to come to the knees and close class. Perhaps online, in a studio or outside. Hire a profesyour eyes. Begin to focus solely on your breath. sional teacher to come to you and develop a customized plan Allow slow and steady breathing for a count of 5 that suits your goals, or even try this simple 15 minute routine seconds in, holding at the top of the breath for a 3 once a day from home and begin to reap the benefits of what second pause and then breathing out for 5 seconds. thousands of years of yoga tradition has to offer. With a little Stay with the breath technique for 10 rounds of commitment, the results will surely be realized. breath or until you notice the mind and body calm.

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2 Easy Pose Variation with Side Stretch - From your seat and with a slow inhale sweep your hands over head bringing your hands to a prayer above you. On your exhale draw your left hand to the side body extending the right hand over your head and towards the left to create a c-curve in the side body. Breathe here for 3 deep breaths allowing the side body to expand. On an inhale extend both palms back to the prayer over your head and exhale drop the right hand to the side of the body reaching the left hand over the head and to the right creating the same c-curve in the body. Breathe for 3 deep breaths. On an inhale extend both palms back to the prayer over your head.

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Easy Pose Variation with Eagle Arms - With the palms lifted overhead, Sweep the right arm underneath the left, wrapping the arms around each other and bringing the palms together. Concentrate on spreading the shoulder blades far apart from each other and breathing deeply into the space created in between the shoulder blades (note: if the hands do not come to a complete clasp do not worry! As long as you're opening the upper back body you are doing the posture perfectly!). Breath for 3 deep breaths. On an inhale release the bind with the hands bringing the palms up and over the head back to prayer. Next, sweep the left arm underneath the right, wrapping the arms around each other and bringing the palms together. Concentrate on spreading the shoulder blades far apart from each other and breathing deeply into the space created in between the shoulder blades. Breath for 3 deep breaths. On an inhale release the bind with the hands bringing the palms up and over the head back to prayer.

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Downdog - From your Easy Pose walk your fingertips out in front of you drawing your body to your hands and knees (tabletop position). Lift your knees off the ground and send your hips to the sky creating an inverted V shape with your body. Bend one knee and then the other, peddling out the feet and experiencing a stretch through the back of the legs. Anchor through the palms of the hands and engage through the shoulders. Lift your right leg to the sky and bring the foot in between your hands to enter into a low lunge.


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Low Lunge With your right foot in between your hands and the knee aligned over the ankle, lift the fingers to the sky to a prayer over your head. If it is too demanding on the body to lift the hands, feel free to keep the hands on the ground framing the foot. Once in your shape, breath for 5 slow and deep breaths. After your 5 breaths and on your next exhale frame your foot with your hands. Engage solidly through your palms, engage your shoulders and press back up and into downdog. Lift your left leg to the sky and bring the foot in between your hands to enter into a low lunge. With your left foot in between your hands and the knee aligned over the ankle, lift the fingers to the sky back to a prayer over your head. Once again, feel free to keep the hands on the ground framing the foot if more comfortable for you. Once in your shape, breath for 5 slow and deep breaths. After your 5 breaths and on your next exhale frame your foot with your hands. Engage solidly through your palms, engage your shoulders and press back up and into downdog.

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Savasana with 4 Part Breath - From Downdog drop the knees to the ground. Cross your feet behind you and roll to a seat extending your feet in front of you. Slowly begin to lower your body down to a lying position. Once lying, allow the body to come to full relaxation with the feet out and front of you and the palms of the hands on your belly. For 5 rounds of breath feel the belly expand like a balloon on the inhale and sink down of the exhale. Follow the sensations of the breath within the body. Next, slide the palms to the side rib cage. As you inhale begin to feel the breath move the ribs outwards and with every exhale feel the ribs move inward. Stay with this for 5 rounds of breath. Next, slide your left hand to the upper chest and

Pigeon Pose - From Downdog lift your right leg to the sky, as you exhale draw your right knee to your right wrist and your right ankle toward your left wrist. On an inhale press through the palms of your hand lifting and extending into the spine. On an exhale relax the body over your front leg. Extend the hands out in front of you resting your chest towards the ground or stay on your forearms of hands depending on your comfort. Once in shape, breath deeply for 5 inhales and exhales. Walk back up and onto your hands. Press through the palms and send the foot back into the downdog. Lift your left leg to the sky, as you exhale draw your right knee to your right wrist and your right ankle toward your left wrist. On an inhale press through the palms lifting and extending into the spine. On an exhale relax the body over your front leg. Extend the hands out in front of you resting your chest towards the ground or stay on your forearms of hands. Once in shape, breath deeply for 5 deep rounds. Walk back up and onto your hands. Press through the palms of the hands and send the foot back into the downdog.

press the right palm on top. For 5 rounds of breath, breathe into the space right behind the hands. Follow the breath as it moves the upper chest slowly and steadily up and down. Finally, draw the hands to the side body. Breath into all 3 parts of the body at the same time feeling full expansion of breath. Breath into the low belly, the mid ribcage, the upper chest all at the same time. Notice the full body move with breath like a wave through your body. Stay with this breath for another 5 to 10 rounds. Allow the body to come to a neutral and natural breath and stay in a state of relaxation for as long as needed. ENJOY your relaxed body and mind, knowing that you can come back to this state any day and any time... simply by taking 15 minutes out of your day! Katie Ribsam is a soul searching, sun loving yogi residing in beautiful Long Beach Island. You can find Katie teaching yoga in one of her two LBI studios: Yoga Bohemia, one in North Beach Haven and one in Surf City. Katie and her professional team are also available for group and private sessions in person and online.

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Cardiovascular disease is the nation’s number one cause of death of men and women and nearly half of Americans live with some form of cardiovascular disease or the after effects of stroke. The good news is advanced treatments and major improvements in technology are dramatically impacting cardiac care and vascular disease for the Southern Ocean community. One of the most recent developments is Southern Ocean Medical Center’s expansion of its cardiac catheterization and interventional radiology procedures with a $1.5 million investment, adding a GE Innova IGS 540 angiography suite. Make it: Designed to increase the available interventional procedures, such as minimally invasive peripheral vascular and endovascular procedures as well as aortic aneurysm repair,

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this advanced technology diagnoses and treats more patients with cardiovascular disease. “With this latest leading-edge technology, diagnosis of heart, artery and valve disease as well as evaluation for interventional radiology procedures are now accessible to achieve the best patient outcomes,” says Vascular Surgeon and Vice Chairman of the Department of Surgery Arthur DeMarsico, D.O., FACOS, RPVI, Vascular Surgery and Vein Center of Southern Ocean Medical Center. “By providing a unique combination of superior image clarity and reduced radiation, surgeons, interventional radiologists, and cardiologists have the best tools and equipment necessary to provide numerous state-ofthe art interventional procedures in a safe environment.”

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Long-time donor and community member Michael Armellino proudly supports the vascular, cardiac catheterization and interventional radiology teams at Southern Ocean Medical Center. His remarkable gift toward the medical center’s expansion has a transformational impact on the community for years to come. A ceremonial ribbon cutting took place to celebrate the opening of the new Cardiac, Vascular, and Interventional Radiology Suite at Southern Ocean Medical Center.

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(Left to right, first row): Bill Schreiber, MBA, MSN, RNBC, director of operations; MaryClair Delbury, BSN, RN, CNOR, NE-BC, interim director of perioperative services; Micki Patrick, MSN, RN, NEA-BC, vice president of nursing, chief nurse executive; Michele Morrison, MPH, BSHA, RN, chief hospital executive. (Left to right, second row): Rizwan Ali, director of finance; Thomas YU, M.D., chairman, department of radiology; Carl Maslag, RPH, director of clinical operations; Michael Armellino; Beverly Karch; Deborah Mathis, chair of the Southern Ocean Medical Center Foundation Board of Trustees.; and Tyrone Luckey.


Many people can prevent or manage heart and vascular disease by making healthy choices in their day-to-day lives. It is never too late to take action to prevent and control the risk factors of heart disease. The following are ways to maintain a healthy heart and reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease: Be active Maintain a healthy weight Eat a heart-healthy diet Know your cholesterol levels Monitor your blood pressure to make sure it’s not too high Don’t smoke or use smokeless tobacco Control your blood sugar (diabetes)

Take charge when it comes to your heart’s health. Work with your physician or cardiologist to reduce your heart disease risk by following up with him or her for treatment for high blood pressure and cholesterol levels. An easy and proactive step people can take to determine their risk for heart disease is a CT Calcium Scoring scan. This non-invasive, ten-minute scan detects buildup of plaque in the walls of the arteries. These deposits are an early sign of heart disease and can identify if a person is at increased risk for a heart attack. Call 609-978-3400 to make an appointment for a scan. “As part of the most comprehensive health network in the state, Southern Ocean Medical Center offers more options than ever before for treating cardiovascular illnesses," said Michele Morrison, MPH, BSHA, RN, chief hospital executive. “The collective strengths and collaboration with experts within our Hackensack Meridian Health network ensures seamless and expedited care for the most complex heart conditions.” For information about Southern Ocean Medical Center’s cardiovascular services, visit hackensackmeridianhealth.org/SOMC. To make an appointment at The Vascular Surgery and Vein Center of Southern Ocean Medical Center, located at 37 Nautilus Drive in Manahawkin, please call 609-978-0778.

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VIKING VILLAGE

Behind Long Beach Island’s Oldest and Largest Commercial Fishing Company Written by Lisa Simek

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Vikings. Most often stereotyped in Hollywood as horned helmet-wearing, lawless, bloodthirsty barbarians—the Vikings have been greatly misunderstood. Sure, some of them may have racked up a brawny reputation as ruthless conquerors of the seas, but the traits that a vast majority of Vikings actually had were that of an outstanding skill in craftsmanship—especially ship making— seafaring, exploring and settling of the West (many historians believe that Vikings actually discovered America before Christopher Columbus was even born). In fact, most Vikings weren’t really all brutal raiders, but rather peaceful tradespeople and farmers. They were rather cosmopolitan and multicultural, travelling to barter goods from Scandinavia as far as Constantinople and North America. They were also quite gender egalitarian, as for centuries Viking women enjoyed more power and authority than their mainland European sisters. Vikings were renowned for their ships, which at the time were extremely high tech and an integral part of their culture, facilitating commerce and establishing world trade routes, as well as providing as a means to explore the unseen world. 130 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020


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In Old Norse, vík means “inlet, cove, or bay” and the ending -ing means “belonging to, or one who frequents”. Thus, the word Viking actually means “one from or one who frequents the sea's inlets or bays.” This is why it’s no surprise that Barnegat Light’s most famous dock, Viking Village, which was settled by Norwegian immigrants at the turn of the 20th Century, pays homage to such a strong influence of heritage of the Nordic culture. The Norwegian settlers of Barnegat Light (then, named Barnegat City) left a significant mark on the island’s history through the development of the region’s school houses, churches, and businesses, and, much like the Vikings, they came to the New World as skilled craftsman and tradesmen, and ended up settling down and establishing fruitful livelihoods by the sea. In the early 1900s the quaint little dock on the northernmost end of the island was gradually built by Norwegian settlers, even using wood leftover from the old Causeway bridge. In 1927, several Scandinavian fishermen, spearheaded by a man from Norway named Otto Olsen (whose family still lives in Barnegat Light today), united to form the Independent Fishing Dock. Over the years as the dock continued to grow, it was bought by

another Norwegian immigrant named Erling Hem with his wife Barbara, and was then renamed Viking Village. After changing hands once again to a man named Dick Day, by the 1970’s before dredging of the Barnegat Inlet began, the shoals and sandbars would cause boats to run aground and with an unstable future in the location of his dock business, Day decided to sell Viking Village to Captain John Larson Jr. and Captain Lou Puskas—who are credited for pioneering tilefishing in the Mid-Atlantic—and it remains in their and their families’ hands present-day. Although Viking Village was at first known for its lobster co-op and surf clam economies, it eventually evolved into the world-class scallop, gillnet and longline fishing operation that it is known for today. Viking Village services about 35-40 boats at its docks and nearby marinas, with 13 of them belonging to the Larson family. In its early days, the boats were very primitive and included small skiff-type boats that caught sea bass, lobster, weakfish and bluefish. The trappers who worked at Viking Village in the beginning caught lobsters and sea bass, and the gillnetters caught bluefish and weakfish, even some fluke very early on.

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TODAY,VIKING VILLAGE IS PROUD TO PROVIDE THE FOLLOWING FRESH, WILD-CAUGHT, LOCAL SEAFOOD FROM ITS HARD-WORKING FLEETS: Scallops, whose peak season is from April-July (The largest and most significant marine fishery at Viking Village) Golden Tilefish, whose peak season is March – October Mahi Mahi (which is bycaught June-November) Swordfish and Tuna, whose peak season is June-November (Note: Barnegat Light is famous for its New York Big Eye [Tuna], which are prized for sashimi, in addition to Yellowfin, Albacore and Bluefin Tuna) Monkfish, Skate and Skate Wings, which have two peak seasons: mid-April through mid-June, and Winter Skate in late October through late January Smooth Shark is typically caught in the spring. Fluke is generally available year-round

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As a part of this series, Bay Magazine will be diving deep into each one of Viking Village’s fishing fleets, bringing readers an in-depth look at the family-owned and operated, worldwide commercial fishing economy right here in our very own Long Beach Island. We aim to enlighten our audience regarding the sustainable harvesting practices and about all of the delectable local seafood that, unbeknownst to some, is available at our very fingertips, most of the time caught fresh that very same morning by a boat that docked at Viking Village. If you haven’t done so already, pop into a fish market on the island or any restaurant that supports locally caught seafood and relish in the deliciousness that comes from our regional waters’ bounty.


THE ATLANTIC SEA SCALLOP: The Largest Wild Scallop Fishery in the World

In case you haven’t heard, Long Beach Island is known for amazing scallops. Not only can these briny mollusks be found listed on the menus of almost every restaurant up and down the island, but these delicacies are exported worldwide, even touted as none-other than the infamous “Viking Village Scallops” at first-rate, Michelin-star rated eateries in the finest of restaurants in the heart of Paris (I’ve seen it myself). And to think, we have access to such an incredible product right in our very own backyard. bay-magazine.com 133


Viking Village is home to one of three major scalloping ports in New Jersey, along with Cape May and Point Pleasant, and comes in a whopping second place in the state for dollars landed annually of Atlantic Sea Scallops. As a company, last year Viking Village landed 2.1 million pounds of sea scallops from a fishery valued at nearly $60 million annually in the state of New Jersey— a market in which scallops retail at a generous price. But just how much work exactly goes into harvesting scallops from the sea and having them end up on one’s dinner plate? Scallops live towards the floor of the ocean, although they don’t dig into the sand as clams do. They open and close their shells in a clapping motion to propel themselves through the water and swim freely along the bottom of the sea. When scalloping boats go out to sea, they glide a metal dredge across the bottom of the ocean and this scoops up scallops that get stuck in its chain baglike structure. Once the crew hauls the gear up and 134 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

dumps it out onto the boat, they sort through the scallops and toss out everything but the keepers. Then, while still out to sea, the crew hand shucks and cuts each scallop one at a time — at a remarkably rapid speed — before tossing the shells back out to sea in one swoop and stuffing the remaining adductor muscles (the part we eat) into a special muslin bag that is stored in ice until the boat returns to the dock. Viking Village’s scallop fleet consists of 20 boats, comprised of 9 limited access permitted boats, 2 part-time limited access boats (single dredge) and 9 general category permitted boats (day boats). The Larson family own 13 of them, heartwarmingly enough, many are named after Captain John’s grandchildren and other family members, such as the popular Ms. Manya, which was named after his wife, Marion, who is called by the nickname. Their scallop boat, the Lindsay L, was even used in the hit Hollywood movie, The Perfect Storm, featuring George Clooney and Mark Wahlberg.


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The duration of a scallop trip can vary from one day (dayboat scallops) to an entire week or even ten days. It takes thousands of gallons of fuel just to set out on a scalloping voyage, and each boat also must equip itself with freshwater and 10-15 tons of ice to maintain the cold freshness and coolness of the scallops. The crew of 5-7 on board are always sure to ice up before they leave for their trip. Each boat crew of fishermen have varied responsibilities and skills. While each crew is different, most are all equipped to run, repair, and work the trip. The captain runs and operates the boat. He is the link between management and the boat. The first mate is the assistant manager of the boat and is also responsible for running the boat with the captain. The crew members consist of 3-5 deck hands, who are the workforce behind the boat. Everyone picks the pile of scallops, meaning everyone is involved in the hard work behind the scenes—the crew personally hand shucks each and every scallop that is harvested for sale. In addition to being incredibly talented with a shucking knife, the skills they possess include mechanical work, cleaning the boat, gear work, icing the boat, welding, packing the bags, and assuring the dredges have fresh shoesteel on them for proper scallop-collecting. The boats are also kept impeccably clean because the scallops are a food product. A mission is considered successful if it produces 12,000- 18,000 pounds (which is the maximum amount allowed) of scallop meat in one trip. Depending on the type of boat, it’s capacity and licensing, some boats catch smaller scallops while others

are able to travel to unique spots in order to gather larger ones. But generally, the Viking Village boats are after larger scallops since those are in higher demand. They are just as tender and tasty as smaller ones, and tend toward colder water. Since juvenile scallops are in their reproductive stage, by targeting larger scallops, scalloping is overall very sustainable. Most of the time, juvenile scallops actually sift right out of the dredge. The Marine Stewardship Council declared the Atlantic Sea as a certified sustainable fishery, and The New England Fishery Management Council and the Assistant Administrator for Fisheries (NOAA) regularly implements strict management requirements to address resource management and prevent the overharvesting of scallop fisheries. Scalloping, as a trade particularly on Long Beach Island, supports many local families. It is not only important as consumers to understand the way local fishermen catch our seafood but the lifestyle that goes along with it and how it affects the culture and local economy. An institution on the island, Viking Village and its surrounding shops preserve and present the story of the fishing industry past, present, and future—subconsciously honoring the effort, sacrifice, and courage of those who built the Viking Village fishing industry of LBI as we know it today. So next time you take a bite out of that sweet, buttery, fresher-than-fresh scallop, remember all of the hard work that went into delivering this mollusk from the sea to your dinner plate. And if you stop by the Viking Village docks for a tour, give the crew members a smile or a wave. They will surely be grateful for the appreciation.

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pening! Before I knew it he got down on his knee and popped the question! It was such a perfect spot and luckily he had one of his friends take some pictures as it happened so we always have those to look back on. I loved that he did it in front of the high school since we are high school sweethearts and that’s where we fell in love with each other. Also bonus points for him since we had Scooter with us and I couldn’t imagine him not being with us at such a special moment in our lives! Afterwards, Brian planned for both of our families to meet up at our local wine bar to celebrate, it was the best day ever!


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The Perfect Hair Stylist Written by Diana Lentini

After the first dance is over and the cake has been cut, the details of a wedding day are captured in photos and video, joyous moments for the happy couple to reminisce on for anniversaries to come. On a heavily-photographed day where brides want to look and feel their best, it’s no wonder that hours are spent searching for the perfect hair stylist to help create their dream look. Brittany Romano, owner of Lavish Salon in Beach Haven for over a decade, shares her top advice for shore brides looking for the perfect ‘do on their big day.

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Be true to you

When consulting with brides, the first question Romano asks is: How do you normally wear your hair? “For brides who have their hair in a ponytail for most of the time, your wedding day may not be the right time to experiment with wearing it down. In this case, an updo can offer a polished look while helping the bride feel like herself—the ultimate goal of any wedding day style,” Romano shares. The same goes for those who wear their hair down most days. Other factors to consider are whether a style falls over the ears or is tucked behind them, and your hairline part. If you’re used to wearing your hair one way on a daily basis, a slight deviation can throw you off and leave you feeling less than confident on your big day.

Know your venue

In Romano’s experience, shore brides tend to gravitate toward one of two types of events: intimate, ocean-front, sand-in-your-feet beachfront nuptials, or classic, ballroom, black-tie affairs. For her beachfront brides, Romano often creates loose flowy beach wave looks, often accented by a fun braid. “It’s not an overly ‘done’ look, it’s not overly polished. It’s lived in,” Romano explains. Those with ballroom backdrops often opt for a timeless, clean updo. “Think lots of buns and twists, without too many loose curls. I’ve often noticed that these types of hairstyles will match the style of the bride’s dress, which is often a classic silhouette with clean lines,” Romano says.

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Consider the dress

Speaking of silhouettes, another factor to consider when selecting a hairstyle is your wedding dress neckline. “For a high-neck style with a lot of beading or lace, my recommendation is to wear your hair up,” Romano suggests. “The concern is about your hair gripping to the beads. The last thing you want is a picture-perfect moment ruined by one rogue curl stuck to the dress,” she adds. Dresses with a lower neckline and open back offer less of a chance of hair snags, and work well with updos and loose styles, along with chic halfup, half-down looks. “With a low back, a halfup, half-down look that’s tapered at the center creates a nice visual to accentuate a dress with a low back,” Romano says.

Weather the storm

While weather is the one factor you can’t control on your wedding day, a little planning ahead of time can go a long way to ensure your wedding day goes as smoothly as possible. Coastal regions tend to be more humid than cities, which can affect how your hair will hold its style. Consider the texture of your own hair and how it responds to moisture—if your curls tend to fall within hours after styling, there’s a high probability you’ll end up with limp locks halfway through your wedding night. Opting for an updo, or at least having a back-up plan for your hairstyle in the case of rain, can ease worries the day of, Romano shares.

Highlight your hairpiece

Hairpieces are the finishing touch to any look—a hint of glimmer, a touch of florals, incorporation of a family heirloom. But it’s important that the accessory match the hairstyle, otherwise the piece may look out of place—for example, a flower crown is often better suited toward a boho beach wedding, while a shimmery hair comb will shine bright under ballroom lights. “Some brides have the perfect hairpiece in mind, and I help them select the perfect style to show it off. Others know exactly what hairstyle they want, but need help finding an accessory. I love working with both and guiding them toward something they love,” Romano says. Ann Coen Photography 146 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020


Book a trial (or don’t)

While hair trials—a styling session in advance of the wedding to test out a look—are recommended for anyone in the planning process still trying to narrow down a stylist for the big day, Romano doesn’t see them as an absolute must-do. “If you know that you want to work with my salon, but don’t feel the need to come in for a trial, it’s not a problem. If my portfolio of work matches the look and feel you’re going for, then I’ll be able to create a look you love the day of,” she says. For brides who are still on the search for a stylist, or need help visualizing their look by actually having their hair done, a trial is a perfect opportunity to do so. On average, two months before your wedding date is a good time to schedule a trial, but Romano has accommodated out-of-town brides a year or more in advance.

Use inspiration carefully

Pinterest is the holy grail of wedding planning, but use it wisely when it comes to hair inspiration. “Keep in mind the texture, amount of hair and hair line of the model in the photo. If the person in the photos has

a drastically different facial structure and type of hair than you do, then your style just won’t look the same. Look for similarities and use the photos for inspiration, rather than an exact hairstyle. In most cases, it’s not realistic to achieve the exact same look, but we can come close in style that fits your unique needs,” Romano says.

Prep your locks

Unless you’re opting for a simple blowout, Romano instructs her brides to prep by washing and drying their hair the day before the wedding and letting it dry completely before sleeping on it. For textured hair requiring smoothing, Romano suggest scheduling a blow out the evening before—that way, you have a sleek look for your rehearsal dinner and are ready to go the next day. Ultimately, you know your hair best and should plan to arrive with clean hair with minimal product that is ready for styling. Wedding planning can be stressful, but hiring the right vendors can make a world of a difference when it comes to helping brides focus on what matters most: their new life with their partner. Keep these tips in mind when searching for a stylist to help bring your wedding look to life.

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HOW THEY MET? Our story began five years prior to our dreamy wedding day down on Long Beach Island, our favorite place that houses some of our most precious memories. We met our final semester of college and hit it off from the start. Gerrard has always been the charming one from day one and his smile and laugh is my absolute favorite.

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HOW HE PROPOSED? Gerrard proposed to me on the beach in Oahu, Hawaii while on vacation. I was completely shocked and we loved Hawaii so much we went back two years later for our honeymoon and plan to go back again in the near future.

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HOW THEY MET? We met at Stockton during Beckie’s last semester in a very mundane class about dinosaurs or volcanoes or some other crazy topic that didn’t peak either of our interests... we both simply took the class to gain miscellaneous required credits to graduate. Dan walked into class “eager to learn” but immediately picked his seat against the back wall next to the cute girl. Without a doubt we seemed to catch each other’s attention. We exchanged smiles, laughs and our phone numbers throughout the semester but parted ways after the final exam about earthquakes (or whatever that class was about) was finished.

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HOW HE PROPOSED? December twentieth twenty seventeen was the best day of our lives to date. We shared an entire day together reminiscing about how our love had grown in ways we never could have imagined only one year after our journey began. The day began at the Stockton parkway rest stop which was our “halfway meeting point” to where we both lived when we first started hanging out. The amount of laughs, tears and conversations shared in this parking lot were some of our favorites throughout our love story. Dan read a beautiful letter about the meaning of this stop and played Matchbook Romance’s Tiger Lily. We both sang every word of course! We continued throughout the day of surprises by stopping at Stockton University and visiting the classroom the room where it all began! Another beautiful love letter was read as Camilla Cabello’s Bad Things played. We walked through campus reminiscing about our college years and the semester that made every dollar of debt we are in worth it. As if we didn’t already know it, it was evident that the class about koalas was the best thing that could have happened to us! What’s a romantic date day without playing games? Of course we had to stop at Ocean City’s Jilly’s Arcade to play ski ball, pinball and pacman. Our competitiveness is one of our favorite parts about our relationship and everyone that knows us will admit that we are always playing games and making bets. We truly show no mercy! After Dan read another beautiful love letter and Beckie won first place in all of the games played, we left and continued to the final spot that would change our lives. The last stop was Golden Nugget where we walked through the casino to exact spots we shared memories over the last year. On our way out to dinner Dan stopped under the glowing lights of the casino lobby and asked Beckie “Do you remember what this spot is?” Beckie was slightly taken off guard thinking she had forgotten one of our many memories. Trying hard to remember she said she wasn’t sure what this spot was and wondered why it would be one of the stops on our list. Moments later we realized that spot would grow to be one that neither of us would ever forget. “This is the spot where I realized I want to spend the rest of my life with you” Dan said as he read the most beautiful, sentimental love note while playing Train’s Marry Me and got down on one knee. To say that Beckie ugly cried for the next thirty minutes would be underestimating but we do have pictures to prove it, along with the excitement, shock and overall love of those very moments. It is our favorite memory of our love story! 162 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020


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The Perfect Pairing

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A couple’s guide to selecting wedding rings. Written by Diana Lentini

In a year where wedding celebrations have been forced to adapt to unprecedented circumstances, one bright spot of wedding planning that’s been relatively unchanged is the selection of wedding bands—a milestone that offers both brides and grooms the opportunity to choose a sentimental piece of jewelry symbolizing their love and commitment. Chris Biele, owner of Atlantic City Jewelry, a family-owned business with locations in Tuckerton and 164 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

Bayville, has thirty years of experience in helping couples choose their wedding bands. A third-generation jeweler, Biele is an expert when it comes to all aspects of wedding jewelry, and is able to tailor suggestions to the taste, lifestyle and budget of couples who visit his shop. A proponent of custom design, Biele shares considerations, trends and advice for brides and grooms picking out jewelry for their big day and beyond.


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For the traditional couple The classic choice for both men and women who are traditionalists at heart is a simple, unembellished wedding band in a precious metal like platinum or gold, whether it’s white, yellow or rose. You can even consider matching the style of your partner’s ring, but it’s certainly not a must-do. Thin, plain bands are also great for brides who plan to stack their rings, or add more rings to commemorate special anniversaries.

For the sparkle lover Diamond-encrusted bands are always a popular choice

for brides looking to add a little (or a lot!) of sparkle to their finger, but the real detail is in the stones’ setting, Biele explains. Pave settings, where diamonds are set closely together with minimal visible metal, are a common request, especially when paired with an engagement ring featuring a pave band. Pave settings shine especially bright in platinum or white gold, allowing the metal to seamlessly blend in with the diamonds. Shared prong settings are another way to incorporate sparkle into a wedding band while adding flair to your engagement ring pairing. For this type of setting, each diamond shares a set of prongs with the one next to it. Like the pave setting, white metals can contribute to a bright look, while visible metal in yellow or rose gold catches the eye with its contrast. A third type of setting that’s sure to shine is the channel setting, where diamonds are set directly into a groove—

or channel—around a ring, without any metal in between each individual diamond. Pairing with a plain engagement band or a matching channel band offers a clean, elegant look.

Eterni ty styles No matter the setting, one element to consider is whether your band will be an eternity ring, where diamonds are visible all around. The pros, of course, include sparkle from every angle and a gorgeous piece that’s designed just for you.

The one potential downside of a full eternity band, Biele explains, is that eternity rings aren’t made to be resized easily. “It’s so important to meet with a jeweler who can create a custom piece, sized perfectly to your finger, versus buying one off the rack where the size may not be perfect for your hand,” he shares. While sizing down or up technically is possible, a reputable jeweler will walk you through the process (removing diamonds to go smaller or adding a piece of plain metal to go larger), and work to create a custom piece that fits correctly from the start, saving you time, money and potentially the integrity of the ring. And if you’ve perhaps heard that eternity bands are more susceptible to lose stones, Biele is glad to clarify: “It’s a myth! A custom piece from a high-quality shop that’s properly maintained should not lose stones. It’s the display pieces from big box stores that are not properly constructed that give cause for worry.”

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If you’re not ready to commit to all around jewels, or are looking for cost-savings without sacrificing style, consider a half or three-quarter eternity band, where the diamonds encircle half or three-fourths of the band.

Mi xed metals Typically, most brides tend to match their wedding

bands to the metal of their engagement rings, but the days of never mixing metals are over. For those looking to experiment, mixed metal stacks can look chic and fashion-forward. Consider adding a yellow gold band or rose gold band to your white or platinum engagement ring, or vice versa.

Add a second Can’t make up your mind between two decorative

bands? Consider adding a second for a stacked look. “Stacks are an opportunity to get creative,” Biele says. The best part? They don’t even have to match. Consider experimenting with size, setting and color for a look that’s uniquely yours.

Alternati ve bands Platinum and gold aren’t the only metals in town—

more and more, especially for grooms, Biele receives requests for non-precious metals like tungsten, titanium, cobalt and ceramic. Tungsten and cobalt are popular choices due to their scratch resistant properties. Alternative bands are also a good option for those looking for a darker colored ring. “Design and price points are typically the driving factor behind alternative bands,” Biele says. The downside of alternative bands? They can’t be resized, so Biele suggests prioritizing the most important qualities that you are looking for in a wedding band (color, metal strength, ability to resize, budget) and making an informed decision. Ultimately, your wedding band should be a reflection of your personal style and a happy reminder of your commitment and love, made to last for a lifetime. Enlisting a professional, experienced jeweler from the start is the only way to ensure that your vision is brought to life, precisely the way you want it. Visit Atlantic City Jewelry at 437 Atlantic City Boulevard in Bayville, or 110 East Main Street in Tuckerton, or online at atlanticcityjewelry.com. Photo by Idalia Photography 166 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020


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Micro-Ceremonies Written by Katie Hood

Due to the ever-changing guidelines surrounding social gatherings during the pandemic, wedding celebrations are certainly not what they used to be. Making lemonade from lemons, however, many of the couples that we are partnering with have decided to embrace these restrictions—opting to move forward with intimate social gatherings and dinner parties, aptly called ‘Micro-Ceremonies’, to affirm their vows surrounded by close friends and family. The exchange of handwritten expressions of love and commitment in the privacy of the family home or first dances held on a balcony or paver patio surrounded by those most important--there is something so pure and genuine about these small ceremonies. Dinners catered by a favorite local restaurant followed by a custom wedding cake designed and created by the neighborhood bakery create a personal ambiance impossible in large profile settings. Though these micro-ceremonies may not be the traditional event envisioned and conceived over the past year, they no doubt create lasting memories and reconfirm the belief that love does indeed conquer all.

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Throughout this unprecedented wedding season, we have found that most couples are taking a more casual and whimsical approach to their wedding flowers. For a recent bridal event held in June, our goal was to create a magical ceremonial setting filled with unique and highly personal bouquets, accent arrangements interspersed around the property and beautiful table settings enticing guests to congregate. Due to disruptions in the supply chain, however, sourcing flowers has been a challenge and we have found it necessary, on occasion, to dust off our garden pruners—cutting tulips and ranunculus from our own display garden. In the end, however, these beautiful blooms created lovely and enduring flower arrangements. 170 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020


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Despite the restrictions surrounding a venue, the site for wedding photography remains simple and constant—the exquisite and imposing coastline of Long Beach Island. The stunning beaches and undulating dunes impress whether they be engulfed in fog on a cloudy day or bathed in the light of the summer sun. The effect and resulting photo album is simple and serene—providing a sense of normalcy and tranquility during these strange and chaotic times. Intimate, highly-personal and hassle-free— Micro-Ceremonies are the perfect alternative to largescale wedding events impossible during these times of social distancing and isolation. They provide an opportunity for once in a lifetime experiences to be shared with close family and friends and enduring memories to be created in a safe and familiar setting.

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The end of summer means anything but the end of all LBI has to offer. With the return of the crisp fall air and ocean breeze, we’re bringing to you delectable food and drink pairings that will make the perfect cool afternoon gathering. These recipes require little time and effort, allowing for more time with friends and family and less in the kitchen. Easy to pack up and take to the beach because we don’t want these glorious LBI days to end. Cheers!

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YELLOW SQUASH BITES PAIRING: SANCERRE WHITE WINE INGREDIENTS: 4 oz. cream cheese, softened ⅔ c. shredded mozzarella ¼ c. grated Parmesan cheese ½ c. canned artichoke hearts, drained and chopped ½ c. frozen chopped spinach, thawed and drained 2 tbsp. sour cream 2 cloves garlic, minced 2 medium zucchini & 2 medium yellow squash, cut into ½” rounds Pinch red pepper flakes Salt & pepper to taste

DIRECTIONS: Preheat oven to 400° and line a large baking sheet with parchment paper. In a medium bowl, combine cream cheese, mozzarella, Parmesan, artichokes, spinach, sour cream, garlic, and crushed red pepper. Season with salt and pepper. Spread about a tablespoon of mixture on top of each zucchini/ squash round. Bake until cheese is melting, about 15 minutes. SERVES 6

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FRIED ARTICHOKE HEARTS PAIRING: GRAPEFRUIT APEROL SPRITZ INGREDIENTS: 2 – 14 oz. can of Whole Artichoke Hearts, halved ¼ cup Olive Oil DIRECTIONS: Cut the artichoke hearts in half vertically and drain on paper towels. Heat olive oil in a large nonstick sauté pan over medium high heat. Gently place artichokes in pan. Fry 3-4 minutes per side until slightly browned. Remove from pan and drain on paper towels.

GRAPEFRUIT APEROL SPRITZ INGREDIENTS: 8 oz. grapefruit juice, fresh 2 oz. Aperol 8 oz. prosecco Grapefruit peels, for garnish DIRECTIONS: Combine all the ingredients in a pitcher and stir. Pour into 4 glasses and add grapefruit peels to each glass for garnish.

ROSEMARY GARLIC AIOLI INGREDIENTS: 2 cloves garlic, minced 3 Tbsp. Mayonnaise 2 Tbsp. Olive Oil 1 Tbsp. Fresh Rosemary, chopped DIRECTIONS: Mix garlic, mayonnaise, oil and rosemary together in a blender or mini food chopper and pulse until well blended.

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ROSEMARY BRIE PUFFS PAIRING: PINOT NOIR INGREDIENTS: 1 (8 oz.) tube crescent dough Cooking spray, for pan Flour, for surface 1 (8-oz.) wheel of brie, cut into small pieces ½c. whole berry cranberry sauce ¼ c. pecans, chopped 6 sprigs of rosemary, for garnish

ing spray. On a lightly floured surface, roll out crescent dough, and pinch together seams. Cut into 24 squares. Place squares into muffin tin holes.

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SHOESTRING FRIES WITH AVOCADO DIPPING SAUCE PAIRING: COLD PILSNER BEER INGREDIENTS: 4 baking potatoes, peeled and sliced into shoestrings 3 Tbsp olive oil 3 Tbsp coarse sea salt DIRECTIONS: Preheat oven to 425°F. Line two baking sheets with parchment paper. In a large mixing bowl, lightly mix potatoes in olive oil. Place them evenly onto baking sheets. Bake fries for 20 minutes or until crispy and golden brown, turning fries halfway through. Serve with avocado dipping sauce and a beer of your choice.

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AVOCADO DIPPING SAUCE INGREDIENTS: ½ cup plain Greek yogurt ½ cup ripe avocado 1 Tbsp. lime juice 3 Tbsp. chopped fresh cilantro 1 clove of garlic, minced salt & pepper to taste DIRECTIONS: Combine all the ingredients in bowl of a food processor and pulse until smooth. Keep refrigerated until ready to serve.

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APPLE BACON CROSTINI PAIRING: MULLED WINE INGREDIENTS: 4 apples, cored and cut into slices 1 block white sharp cheddar cheese, cut into thin slices 8 slices bacon, cooked and crumbled Maple syrup, for drizzling DIRECTIONS: Preheat oven to 350° and line a baking sheet with parchment paper. Create rows of apple slices about ½" apart. Top with cheese and bacon. Bake until cheese has partially melted, 7 to 9 minutes. Drizzle with maple syrup and serve.

MULLED WINE - SERVES 6 INGREDIENTS: 4 cups apple cider 1 bottle of dry red wine ¼ cup honey 2 cinnamon sticks 4 whole cloves 3 star anise 1 orange, juiced and peeled for garnish DIRECTIONS: Combine the cider, wine, honey, cinnamon sticks, zest, juice, cloves and star anise in a large saucepan. Bring to a boil and simmer over low heart for 10 minutes. Pour into mugs, add an orange peel to each and serve. SERVES 6

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Written by Mia Ingui

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Tucked away beneath lush greenery and vibrant yellow umbrellas is Birdy’s Cafe and Market, a step into serenity for the Long Beach Island community. The recently established market founded by Amy “Bird” Haeberlein is filled with local art of seascapes and poolside views, vibrant flamingo statues and a sunny staff, bringing delicious and freshly-made food and drink to the Long Beach Island community.


A self-made entrepreneur, Haeberlein opened her first business, Artifacts and Company, in Beach Haven as a floral shop, which has since evolved to feature local art, custom and repurposed furniture, and the adjoining Coffee Nest run by her daughter, Grace. Wanting to bring a truly unique marketplace to LBI, Haeberlein seized the opportunity to open Birdy’s and offer her fresh concepts north in Harvey Cedars. The market, coined “Birdy’s” after Haeberlein’s lifelong nickname, was founded on her passion to establish a fresh and cultured spot on the island that supported local business collaboration. With help from her friends, the group of creative women uplifted each other’s efforts and contributions to the shop, from branding to art to menu development. “It is a reinvention of myself and a reflection of me taking a chance,” said Haeberlein, “There’s been a lot of hurdles and struggles in my life, including lots of loss. But through the support of the community and customers, people believed in me and this business, which is amazing.” Upon entering Birdy’s, visitors immediately see the blend of Haeberlein’s passions, as the front of the market serves as an art and floral shop while the inside is reserved for the bakery and coffee services, fresh-pressed juice and smoothie bar, and embellished couches and chairs. Each week, the marketplace boasts new menu items and in-season florals for sale, offering a unique experience for even recurring guests.

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Supporting other female-owned businesses in New Jersey, Birdy’s partners with bakeries, artists, farmers and more, with local vendors including Pie Lady Cafe, which was voted best bakery in New Jersey, and artists Jessie Wolfrom and Elizabeth Sabine, whose artwork is featured for sale in the cafe. This new addition to Harvey Cedars came just in time for coronavirus to strike New Jersey, but Haeberlein noted that Birdy’s achieved great success despite the statewide lockdowns and offered sunshine to the community in a gray few months.

“Customers looked forward to leaving the house for 10 minutes each day to come pick up freshly baked goods from the cafe,” said Haeberlein, “In a way, we actually succeeded in captivating our audience during that time. We are so appreciative for the support of our local community, navigating new waters while we developed a menu and opened in this unconventional time.” Birdy’s is driven to give back to the local community and hosts an outdoor market every Sunday morning, with all proceeds supporting Enlightened Farms’ agricultural programs for addiction recovery. “We love this weekly partnership for so many reasons,” said Haeberlein, “The positive impact these farming programs can have on those recovering from addiction, supporting fellow female-led businesses, and offering locally-grown produce without pesticides and harmful chemicals to the Harvey Cedar community.” Birdy’s continues to push forward with fresh ideas for the fall season while offering catering for barbecues and private parties year-round. Fall harvests will bring new offerings to Birdy’s, from holiday décor and seasonal florals to in-season veggies and fruits, and Birdy’s hopes to soon open for indoor dining as well as private parties once it’s safe to regather inside. Guests will be

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“I want those who leave here to feel happy, to feel lighter than they did before, and enjoy the comfort of this space.”

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"I have been told I look like John Mayer since before I even played the guitar" Q&A by Matt Burton

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Artist Ty Mares


Ty Mares, 24, the guitar player, singer and song writer is the ideal musician to catch live on Long Beach Island. His guitar playing is what caught my attention. He strums the guitar giving it layered sound and resonating richness. He goes back and forth between using his fingers and a pick and slaps the bass strings with his thumb. Something he picked up from John Mayer, whom he is often compared to not just because of his playing but in looks as well. Ty’s music is described as Americana, an amalgam of historically American folk, blues and rock. His songs vary in sound - ballads, narratives and jams. “Superstar” off of his 2014 release of the same name, is a heavier rock song with more production and a catchy chorus. “To the Moon and Back”, another track off of SuperStar, caries you away with it’s harmonies and fermatas. His 2018 release, “Still Breathing” is stripped down to just his guitar and vocals and has the same vibe as his live performances. “Unbreakable” a 2019 single captures his soulful sound and thoughtful lyrics of dealing with relationships. The pandemic has hit the music industry hard. Live performances were put on hold for several months and only recently with bars and restaurants opening for outdoor dining have musicians been able to go back out to play in front of an audience. In the midst of the stay-athome order I found myself watching musicians playing live on Facebook and other streaming platforms which certainly does not have the same vibe as hearing them live but it was nice to see a familiar face and hear their voice. As a viewer I could “Like” and make requests in the comment section. Thumbs-ups and heart emoji’s popping up on the screen when a familiar song was played. Ty was one of the musicians I would catch live on my phone. I reached out to him to talk about how he was holding up and if he was producing new music. Matt Burton: You are originally from Colorado- why did you settle down in the Long Beach Island region? Ty Mares: I actually didn’t come to Jersey on purpose. My father was a captain in the army and my family picked this spot after I moved to attend classes at Berklee College of Music in Boston. They figured it was the closest they could get to me. After a few summers, back here at the shore and discovering how many places were paying live musicians I decided to stay and start my professional career here in Jersey. MB: What was it that made you decide playing music was what you wanted to do? TM: Growing up my family attended church frequently and as a result I listened to a lot of worship music and played a little guitar. Crazy as it sounds John Mayer was one of the first musicians I really listened to who’s music kind of opened my window to the rest of the musical world. Through him I discovered Stevie Ray Vaughn, Jimi Hendrix, BB King, and many more. It became my goal to have my music be heard. I have definitely always wanted to play music. Over time, working in the music industry, to me, can be compared to an invisible set of stairs. You have no idea where the next step is and you just keep putting one foot in front of the other, working hard, hoping that the next step is bigger than the last. MB: Speaking of John Mayer- What are your thoughts on being constantly compared to him? TM: I have been told I look like John Mayer since before I even played the guitar. Honestly, I find it flattering and It has definitely built my following and made me unique to my colleagues

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being the “John Mayer, Dave Mathews guy”. I think my only quarrel with the comparisons are when people think it’s funny to call me John…. not a fan of that. John Mayer is the reason I picked up guitar and has heavily influenced me as a writer and musician. I hope to thank him one day. MB: Who gave you your first break and how did that go down? TM: When I first arrived here I was just looking for a job. I started working at Mud City Crab House in Manahawkin as a kitchen prep. After a month or so of working there I think I hand-

ed my demo to the owner Eric Magaziner, at some point, he really liked it and hooked me up with the booking agent for his restaurants and within about a year I was booked all up and down LBI. Over time I’ve spread out up and down the Jersey Shore. MB: When you perform what are you most conscious of? The crowd? The sound of your guitar? What do you feed off of? TM: That really depends on the show. I had a teacher in college that taught me something that changed my entire mindset on performing. “Your audience doesn’t need you, you need them. They were doing just fine before you got there and they will be doing just fine after you leave.” I believe the art of performance is a dialogue, it’s not just me talking to the audience but maintain a flowing conversation. The conversation isn’t necessarily carried out with words but with energy. If I play the first song and the crowd shows no interest than I focus on myself and playing because I love what I do. Crowd reaction creates the dialogue; I play they answer the energy continues and honestly makes for a much better show. But not every crowd wants to engage and it’s my job to respect and accommodate to the vibe the room gives off. MB: Your guitar playing is really

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what sets you apart, I believe. What gets you into the “Zone”? And when do you decide it’s time to jam a little? TM: Music is the best high that can be had, it has no negative outcome, no hangovers, no withdrawals, just a beautiful connection with this unknown force that pick you up off the ground. So it doesn’t take much to get me in the zone mainly because I love it. On the question concerning how I know when to jam; every show I do is completely different. Songs will be different, solos will vary, heck I have different versions of different songs that vary. I don’t want the audience to be bored and if I’m bored playing the same songs MB: What do you want your audience to hear? TM: From a writers standpoint I want my audience to hear me, hear my voice, and not just know me as the John Mayer, Dave Mathews guy. However, in order to keep making an income I have to play more than just my own music so in that case I feel like I’ve built a following being the guy that doesn’t play the same stuff everyone else does. I keep as far away from the shore bar cover standards as I possibly can. I want the audience to either love that I play different music or enjoy songs they forgot existed. MB: It’s been tough for live performers during COVID-19. Many musicians have turned to Facebook to broadcast live to reach their audience and play music. I’ve watched you a couple times, what’s that experience been like? TM: The Facebook live thing definitely affected every musician differently. For me it didn’t change much I just went back to what I had been doing before I was able to perform live all the time. I took time to play for myself. When you’re on a stage in front of people you find yourself playing for them, which is great, but to me if you can’t enjoy the feeling you get of picking up a guitar even when no one is watching your missing out on something awesome. At first it was the community giving back to artists who they love and support but I think it later just turned into a musical long distance relationship between us and our friends. Showing our people that were still here and were not letting this stop us.

MB: You write some your own music, right? What’s your creative process for writing music? TM: One of the things I love about writing music is how it’s completely different for everyone who does it. For me it changes every time, either I’ll get some melodic idea or a guitar part in my head then go from there or I’ll find an idea that I want to write about. I feel like my earlier music was more about creating a simulation of emotion, thinking about a situation and thinking “how would I feel in this situation”. Now I feel like my last few songs have been much more personally attached. MB: How many guitars do you own and which is your favorite? Which one is your work horse? TM: I only own maybe 7 guitars. I’m the guy that trades in and sells what I don’t use for better stuff. My OMJM John Mayer Martin definitely works harder than most considering its on stage with me every day through rain and humidity, wind and cold. Electric wise I kind of switch between my Red American strat and my sunburst mexi-standard strat. I’ve been using the sunburst a lot lately mainly because it has my favorite custom pick-ups in it MB: What’s next for you? More recordings? Staying here in NJ? TM: Right now, me and my band are trying to create more content to start pushing forward. Good Content and good following are the two most important things needed for me to at least try and find the next “invisible step” in my career. I’ll definitely be staying in Jersey for a while and even if I get lucky enough to start touring I’m sure that this will be home base. MB: What’s the first thing you plan on doing once you can play live in front of a crowd again? TM: Well the world has started to open up which means I’m blessed enough to be able to play for people once again and I truly am thankful for all the people that have supported me through this cray time. To watch Ty make the next step follow him on his Facebook page, Ty Mares Music (@TyMaresmusic) for live performing dates and to view past live videos. Ty also has a profile on Spotify.

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Explore LBI

Find Your Favorite Fall Itinerary online

Back to School Family Activities and Education

The region’s interactive website visitLBIregion.com features the businesses and organizations that help power our community. Jump on for real time updates, blogs with the latest travel insight and local information. Plan a day or a longer stay with this online portal and planning tool. Spend time at the beach, on the bay or in the pines where the season traditions always feel at home. Bookmark visitLBIREGION.com to find out about what is available for every aspect of your next journey!

Planning on remote schooling? The Passport to LBI is key to providing online tools for in person adventures for you and your family. Learn about the Reclam the bay Clam Trail, virtual screenings, downloadable coloring sheets and local suggestions for an educational and interesting look at Long Beach Island. For a lineup of nonprofit organizations ready to share their knowledge with your home school learning assignments go to their facebook page Passport to LBI or their site Passporttolbi.org

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Make it a ChowderMonth to soup up our local economy

The Southern Ocean County Chamber of Commerce members responded to COVID 19 safety issues by creating a dynamic Chowder Restaurant and Merchant Month, to support local businesses launching Labor Day Weekend Due to restrictions currently in place the Chowderfest will bring chowder tasters directly to the source by supporting local restaurants and retailers. There will be many features including a Chowderfest Play list for in home or on route listening, Official Chowderwear E- store, restaurants serving up dine and take home options as well as an online voting component, Chowder Virtual Run & Bike Challenge, social media and pop up surprises. By allowing a full month to share the spirit of the event, it allows customers to enjoy multiple restaurants at their own pace, avoiding overcrowding of restricted space, shop merchants in store and online as well as submit their vote for 2020 Overall Chowder Champion. Voting will begin September 5 for Labor Day Weekend when tasters can purchase Chowder cups, pints and quarts to taste at registered restaurants. Each voter can register for free and will receive the Chowderfest Virtual Information Packet. The event will be supported by interactive content as well as a live stream announcement for the Chowderfest 2020 Overall Champion happening October 4. Photo Op stops, digital mapping, and Secret Sale Merchant Listing will be housed online at www. chowderfest.com. There will be no cost for consumers to get the information needed to vote or tour the participating members.

Fall Fresh Markets and Farm Stands

Add some Jersey Fresh Bounty to your table and take a trip to get locally sourced ingredients or autumn colors for your home. Many local businesses are extending their offerings to help make shopping convenient, and towns are also planning special holiday markets to extend the season. Stay connected and watch for announcements on dates, times and locations.

Shop Small all Fall!

Why wait for an excuse to Shop Small? Connect with businesses ready to serve up our local specialties even after summer is gone! Tune in for Shop Small Saturday and Holidays Redefined programming kicking off November 28th…. Stay connected with us @LBIregion facebook and Instagram so you know the latest promotions . bay-magazine.com 211


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Happy Birthday m.t.burton Gallery! m.t.burton gallery Turns 20 Years Old Written by Sarah Hodgson

Twenty years ago, Matt Burton opened his m.t.burton gallery in Surf City out of necessity. He needed a permanent space to create, showcase and sell the large ceramic sculptures he was crafting. Now, two momentous decades later, the “necessity” has become the artistic epicenter of LBI, a gathering place for creatives to share their work. An inspirational hub that sets the tone for not just artists, but local businesses and community members. Burton has earned an impressive trio of degrees: a Bachelor of Arts from Roanoke College in fine art, a Master of Arts from Stephen F. Austin State University in ceramics and painting, and a Master of Fine Arts from Stephen F. Austin State University. “I pursued art mainly because of my love of the creative process. Working with my hands and being an artist was all I ever wanted to do growing up,” said Burton.

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his way into someone else’s gallery. He asked himself the question, “What can I do and still be an artist?” The answer was in Surf City. In 2000, Burton approached a friend and LBI-based business owner about partnering up with him on his new venture. They struck up a deal and in just a few short months, they converted an old Surf City bakery into a chic art gallery. “On the first day we were open I sold one of my sculptures. I knew then we were going to be a success,” said Burton. Looking at it now, you’d never know that m.t.burton had once been an aromatic boulangerie, churning out breads, cakes and pastries en masse. The gallery that Burton has called “business” for 20 years is a neat little space. The inside is bright and windowed. Natural light spills generously across sculptures and pottery pieces, jewelry cases and paintings. The artifacts have a touch of the shore as oceanic themes wash over every other piece in a tasteful sheen.

The art gene was a dominant one in the Burton lineage, which boasts creatives on both sides of the family tree. Burton had even spent one memorable summer with his mother’s second cousin Lowell Nesbitt, a renowned painter and sculptor.

The m.t.burton gallery represents over a dozen artists, some locals, some not, some friends of Burton and some up-and-coming artists looking for shelf space in a respected gallery. Burton’s open-mindedness and passion ensure a rotating roster of unique creators in his venue. “I choose artists whose work I respond to. Sometimes I’m looking for a particular medium not currently represented and want diversity. I’m looking for something for everyone.”

“He was famous for his large paintings of irises and lilies. I grew up with his art in the house and one summer, I had the opportunity to work with him in his SoHo studio loft in the late 80’s when I was in college. It was a great experience.” It was in that NYC studio that Burton would see behind the curtain of an artist’s life, a see-saw of glamour and grit. “I knew then I was going to do what I needed to be an artist.” After obtaining his multiple degrees, Burton got his foot in the door at Ocean County College in 1999 as an adjunct professor, having had previous experience as a grad school teaching assistant in ceramics and 3-D design. But he still wanted two things: job security and the ability to showcase his pieces without having to nudge bay-magazine.com 213


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Amidst the gallery’s shelves of diverse artistry is Burton’s own expert work, including beautifully-potted pieces belonging to his latest series dubbed, “Open Water.” “I depict ocean waves and paint sunsets or clouds with imagery of local interest. Breaching whales, the lighthouse or a fishing boat for example. Reminds me of why I love it here so much,” said Burton. One piece from the collection is a textured depiction of a lifeguard sitting on a wooden stand and looking out over the ocean. A seagull flies over her umbrella and on the wooden slats of her perch are the ocean water temperatures and tide times scrawled in chalk. The gallery has a museum feel in its layout. The entryway is an eclectic collection of ceramics - platters, 214 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

pots, coasters, mugs and decorative table pieces. A walk into the next room reveals a burst of antiques - books, silver cutlery and beautifully kept treasures acquired from estate sales. Beyond this room is an exhibition space of grand sculptures and wall pieces - a smiling stingray perched on driftwood and a white whale swimming across the wall are among the most eye-catching artifacts. Since opening the doors of his museumesque gallery, Burton is proud to witness the growth of the art scene surrounding him. “In 2000 it was Jane Law [beloved watercolor artist] and me. Today there are 7 or 8 art friendly businesses just in Surf City. The annual LBI Artists Open Studio Tour has over 20 stops with over 30 artists. It’s amazing to see how much the market has grown in 20 years.”

Much of this growth can be owed to Burton’s visionary venture. The artist isn’t just an advocate for his own business, but an advocate for local artists and their influence in the community. Following his gallery opening, Burton became involved with a National Endowment for the Arts “Creative Placemaking Grant” awarded to Long Beach Township. According to the NEA website, “Creative placemaking supports local efforts to enhance quality of life and opportunity for existing residents, increase creative activity, and create a distinct sense of place.” Burton and his colleagues conducted surveys and studies to determine how art could build the local economy and increase tourism on LBI. From their work, the LBI Arts Council was formed and Burton served as President for three years.


But most notable amongst Burton’s personal accomplishments is the longevity of his gallery. m.t.burton gallery has withstood the tourist drought that plagues the seasonal community of LBI and it has flourished. The artist owes the continued success of his gallery to hard work, support from family, friends and the community, and most important of all, a willingness to change with the times. Adapting, especially in the art industry, is vital for keeping a gallery afloat. For Burton, this means paying attention to national trends, keeping an ear trained towards clients, studying the global market and building his e-commerce platform. Just last year he launched his Etsy shop where he sells gallery pieces to buyers around the country. One of the biggest changes that Burton’s gallery has seen has been the literal, physical growth of the studio. In an era of “sip and paints” and BYOB art classes, the Jersey-based artist has had to meet the demand for experience driven activities. “We expanded our clay studio for pottery drop-in classes. Anyone could just stop in and take a pottery class on the potter's wheel,” said Burton. While the COVID-19 pandemic will bring these experiential classes to a halt, Burton plans to offer limited hand-building clay classes by appointment and utilize his spacious, outdoor sculpture garden for socially-distanced workshops. With an eye on the next two decades, Burton’s goals are simple. “I just want to keep it going. Make the experience for anyone coming in a special one. I want to continue making my art. I’ll be here for a long time.” For more information about m.t.burton gallery, visit https://www.mtburtongallery.com/ or find them on social media @mtburtongallery. bay-magazine.com 215


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New Construction on LBI Holgate Taxpayers Association to Install Condo-Style Birdhouses in Holgate Written by Sarah Hodgson

LBI is making room for a new brand of tourists: Purple Martins. The Long Beach Township Marine Education Field Station in Holgate will be the recipient of an upcoming Purple Martin bird housing development. Yes - you heard that right. Area residents will be installing a home-built condominium for this very unique, very picky species. A little background on this quirky bird: Purple Martins, so named for their purple plumage, are avian creatures that prefer cluster living to nesting. Given their somewhat particular living preferences, the birds are typically dependent on human-supplied housing. Which is where the Holgate Taxpayers Association comes in. The resident-led organization serves the Holgate section of Long Beach Township at the south end of Long Beach Island. Many of their initiatives serve to protect and conserve LBI’s diverse and fragile ecosystem. Their

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projects include dune planting and beautification, the installation of greenhead traps and, most recently, the placement of Purple Martin birdhouses in Holgate. Self-proclaimed amateur bird nerd Angela Andersen is the Sustainability Coordinator for Long Beach Township and the liaison for this project. “I tie the Purple Martins into many of the educational talks I do. It is a very coastally nostalgic species and their unique multi-family houses are symbolic of their coastal life.” Homo sapiens aren’t the only species flocking to our shores each summer season. Purple Martins migrate from South America to North America each year, typically travelling to coastal regions. Being the aerial insectivores they are, the birds soar above marshlands and open water in search of moths, butterflies, wasps and other flying insects. Namely greenheads.


“The Holgate Taxpayers Association members are very proactive. They have worked with student groups to have greenhead fly boxes built and installed around the neighborhoods,� said Andersen. The new bird condos will hopefully nurture the Purple Martin population while monitoring greenhead populations in Holgate. Andersen says that the Purple Martins are in abundance in the Holgate section of Long Beach Township, where beautiful expanses of marshland provide the perfect habitat for their food sources. The Sustainability Coordinator has personally seen them soaring about the new field station perhaps staking a claim to their new residences? In addition to environmental lectures, scientific research and community events, visitors of the new Long Beach Township Marine Education Field Station (which is slated to open later this year) can soon add bird watching to their list of activities once the condominiums are built and open for business! To follow the progress of these Purple Martin birdhouse developments, follow @lbtfieldstation on social media.

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Long Beach Township Prepares to Unveil a Shiny New Field Station Written by Sarah Hodgson

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Imagine a place where you could immerse yourself in the sciences and learn about local wildlife, all while attending a natural dye workshop hosted by a local boutique? Welcome to the Long Beach Township Marine Education Field Station in Holgate. Otherwise known as the “Shell Shack.”

Add “build a field station from scratch” to that list. For some, that mouthful of responsibilities may seem grueling. But not Andersen. The position and its monumental workload are fulfilling, “I don’t work a day in my life. I have the privilege of doing what I do every day.”

Mayor Joe Mancini thought up the idea for the Long Beach Township Marine Education Field Station in 2015, envisioning this brand, spanking new space as a hybrid scientific and community programming center. Dubbed the “Shell Shack,” by Mancini (and appropriately since the site will be a point for oyster shell recycling, education and research), the waterfront building will be open to all for wildlife viewing, artistry, workshops, lectures, events and more. At the forefront of this exciting project is Angela Andersen, Long Beach Township’s Sustainability Coordinator.

Andersen remembers the moment Mancini approached her with the idea for a field station five years ago, humorously likening the experience to an episode of Food Network’s Chopped. “Here’s a basket of things. You have 30 minutes,” she laughed, remembering how little she had to work with at the very start of the project. “There was no parking, we have very limited space, barely any plans... but make it happen.”

Andersen, who is lovingly referred to by friends as the one who does “all of the green stuff” has a BS in Environmental Studies from Stockton University and an MA in Environment and Community from Antioch University Seattle. The Long Beach Township resident serves as President of the Association of New Jersey Recyclers, an organization whose purpose is to promote and enhance recycling practices in the state of New Jersey. Given her educational merits and work in recycling, it’s no surprise that she created and filled the role of Sustainability Coordinator in Long Beach Township ten years ago. According to Andersen, there are three main pillars of sustainability: environment, economy and community. This means that the Sustainability Coordinator is responsible for all duties intersecting those pillars. The resulting job description is a lengthy one and includes research, grant writing, community outreach, community programming and the ability to analyze data to devise and implement cost efficient solutions for Long Beach Townships.

Even with a mountain of challenges on the horizon of this venture, Andersen took the lead with glee. Since Superstorm Sandy in 2012, Long Beach Town-

ship has been working hard to acquire and preserve coastal marshland on Long Beach Island. Their goal is to increase and improve public access to the bay while setting aside tracts of land for conservation and protection. The field station project is another step in that direction. bay-magazine.com 223


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Before moving ahead with construction, the Township conducted a trial run and positioned a crude trailer where the station would go. They needed to know if this field station concept held water. Did people even want one in Holgate? They sure did. The tiny, cramped, makeshift station drew press and visitors in droves. When a scientist from Stockton held a discussion covering the groin project and wooden jetty in Holgate, Andersen remembers the trailer being packed to maximum capacity.

educate visitors on these species and even play a role in serving and protecting them. Conserve Wildlife Foundation of New Jersey plans to install an osprey platform and a marsh camera to monitor this local bird. The Holgate Taxpayers Association will even be donating a Purple Martin bird house to the station, with plans to build more around that section of Long Beach Township. “We’re super excited to be the host and the community anchor for all of that information but also a place where we can just enjoy Little Egg Harbor casually and just bring together all interests,” said Andersen. The Shell Shack will be open to all when COVID-19 restrictions have subsided and it’s safe for the public to visit the station at their leisure. Until then, however, Andersen and her colleagues have made great use of the station’s social media account, employing live video features to engage with and educate their viewers. Andersen has done what she’s dubbed “Field Station Chats” where she conducts split screen interviews with different partners and experts. This past spring, Andersen has covered toppings ranging from oysters and turtles, to bees and edible plants.

“It was hugely successful. We were onto something,” said Anderson. The field station has come a long way since the double wide trailer days. From barren land, Andersen has procured a buzzing hub of nature, science, community and culture. The tasteful venue located off Osborne Avenue in Holgate has a quaint, fisherman’s cottage feel, meshed with a high-tech laboratory. Beyond the front doors of the Shell Shack lies a trove of technologically advanced resources, with more to come as construction progresses. The station is designed and plumbed for hands-on, experiential indoor and outdoor learning. Features of the station currently include a spacious classroom and an open area for science and research. Andersen’s hope is to add an outdoor filet demo table and install a small kitchen area to teach interested visitors how to prepare and eat fresh caught seafood. The team will even install a weather station and flood gauge on site. “The learning opportunities are just unfolding like a beautiful onion,” said Andersen. Thousands of species call Long Beach Island home sweet home. At the Shell Shack, Andersen is thrilled to 224 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

One of the goals of the field station is to support small, seasonal local businesses. “We want to invest in our small seasonal local businesses. There’s a place for that

at the field station too. It’s not just super sciency. We want it to be a space for community development in the arts and culture and history.” While collaborative events with local environmentally-conscious businesses and organizations may be put on hold for the time being to accommodate COVID-19 restrictions, it only means more opportunity to plan and prepare. And Andersen is thrilled. “2021 is going to be our year,” said Andersen. For more information and updates, visit the field station’s Instagram and Facebook @lbtfieldstation.


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Written by Carolyn D’Andrea

Looking up at the crystal clear sky this past summer on LBI, beachgoers have noticed extra pops of color up and down the coastline; from Surf City to Beach Haven there seems to be a lot of people gliding across the Atlantic Ocean. But what are they doing? What is it called? Where can you go to get the equipment? All across LBI, there are a ton of shops that can set you up with all of the items you need to Kite Surf, but the biggest piece of the puzzle is to know what you are actually doing before you start. Kite Surfing as its namesake suggests is a combination of surfing and kite flying with the major difference being there is no stationary movement involved at all. This water sport has been around for quite some time. It primarily involves being strapped in a waist harness, while being pulled along by a large kite (which is approximately 35 meters in the air), while standing on a kiteboard. Sounds a lot harder than it looks? It is. Not only do you have

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to be an excellent swimmer you have to have great balance and core strength as well. The first official documentation of kitesurfing was in 1977. Gijsbertus Adrianus Panhuise from the Netherlands filed a patent for kitesurfing. At the time and his geographical location, it did not generate the amount of interest it has today. In November of 1984, French Legaigonus brothers filed a patent for the first inflatable kite design according to https://www.ikointl.com/blog/. Slowly but surely this watersport was starting to take shape. More and more enthusiasts of this new sport started to experiment. Kite surfing as we know it today is based on a series of trials and errors all with continuous improvement which gives us what we now see as modern kite surfing and continues building upon what peers have learned throughout the years. The combination of surfing techniques and aerodynamics paved the way for performance and safety features. Towards the latter half of the 20th century, most of the “discovers” for kite surfing had already happened, the foundation was set and now the time for growth and expansion was happening for the Kite Surfing community.

“The reason for this insanely quick evolution in equipment efficiency, globalization and safety comes down to seeing more and more individuals taking interest in kitesurfing. Every year there are several thousand newly certified recreational kitesurfers around the world. What is remarkable is not only the growth but the diversity of kiters personas within the sport. Contrary to popular belief, kitesurfing is not only attracting top athletes and adrenaline junkies kitesurfing most recently has begun attracting people of all ages and all horizons from kids to grown-ups, fathers, mothers, lawyers, ex-presidents, dentists, plumbers, fortune 100 company CEOs and pretty much converting in anyone who tries” (https://www.ikointl.com/blog). With the right background information, the next major question is what do you need in order to Kitesurf and where can you go to get the equipment? Look no further than Island Surf & Sail located in Brant Beach, this is your one-stop-shop for all things watersports related. They have kites, boards, harnesses, accessories and so much more. The key to this watersport is safety and making sure that you have the correct equipment for your body type. With so many different factors coming into play this is a sport where safety is key.

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Maris Stella Written by Carolyn D’Andrea

They say you never forget your first drive down to Long Beach Island. I know that I certainly have not forgotten mine. A rainy night, crammed into the college van with the Campus Ministry Group heading down to LBI for our retreat in 2008. Not much could be seen, it was so dark I remember thinking where could they possibly be taking us? Pulling into the Maris Stella site our top priority was getting into the cottage and out of the rain. Waking up the next morning was magical. I remember hearing the call of the gulls from the bay, the marvelous smell of sea water that no candle or hand soap could ever encapsulate, the way the water twinkled off of the sea… this was serenity incarnate. This is the serene beauty of Maris Stella and for those who have ever stayed at the center you know exactly what I am referring too.

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Maris Stella Retreat and Conference Center is celebrating 60 years of providing ministry and hospitality to the community at large. Located in Harvey Cedars, Maris Stella has a fascinating history that is such a part of LBI it just has to be shared. Originally the home of Frederich Small, the former CEO of American Express the property and home was built as an oasis for the summer. When Small built the estate in 1926 it was intended as his family's summer home (most of the buildings on site date back to this time). In 1959 Mother Ellen Marie McCauley, General Superior of the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth found the property that is now Maris Stella. The Congregation purchased the 11 acre property which spans from the bay to the ocean. She wanted a place for the Sisters to go and relax and at the time this was a very progressive idea. During Small’s ownership of the property he gradually built each building on site for his children and their families to use. Upon his death his children were no longer interested in coming to the property. Small’s will dictated that if the property were to be sold it had to be sold as one complete parcel of land and could not be

sold in pieces or developed. During the 1950s the Harvey Cedars area of the island was isolated and secluded, not like the bustling area that is there today. The property sits on 11 acres, with 8 buildings. The majority of which are original to the estate from the time of Small’s ownership. Some of these buildings have seen a new life: the former garage that once housed modern cars of the day is now the St. Vincent dormitory; the original boathouse is now the chapel that overlooks Barnegat Bay. The rich history of the site is one that the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth know with pride and graciously share with their guests. Sister Mary Morley, Administrator explained how the name of the property has changed over time. “ Originally it was called the Small Estate. When the Sisters of Charity acquired the property, they named it Maris Stella, which means Star of the Sea. It is one of the Marian Titles (a title given to the Virgin Mary over the centuries as a way to honor her).” Sister Mary explained that the chapel is officially named Immaculate Heart of Mary and they have a shrine to Mary on the property as well. bay-magazine.com 231


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Each day after mass the Sisters say three Hail Marys for the safety of all those who vacation and for protection from hurricanes. “We are not really sure where this tradition started but if I had to take a guess, I would say it started after the nor’easter of 1962” said Sister Patricia Dotzauer, Assistant Administrator. In 1962 the nor'easter that swept through LBI destroyed two of the homes on the ocean side of the property. These structures were swept into the sea. Today from time to time you can still see their pilings at the water's edge. This storm was so bad that the sea and the bay met in Harvey Cedars. There is a wealth of knowledge that could be learned in regard to the history of the Sisters of Charity. The Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth are an American group of Sisters. Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton was left a young widow in 1803 with five young children. 232 BAY MAGAZINE FALL 2020

After a visit to Italy she converted to Catholicism. She founded the Sisters of Charity of St. Joseph, the first community for women religious established in the United States. In 1853 James Roosevelt Bayley, a nephew of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton sought a community of women religious for his newly established diocese which encompassed all of New Jersey. The two sisters, Sister Mary Xavier Mehegan and Sister Mary Catherine Nevin, assigned to oversee the congregations in Newark and Paterson, NJ founded the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth in September 1859. When the Congregation had outgrown the original facility in Newark , a property was purchased from the Diocese, which was Seton Hall College. Seton Hall relocated from Madison to South Orange. In July of 1860 the Motherhouse was relocated to Morris County now on the same property as the University of Saint Elizabeth.


After the second Vatican Council (also known as Vatican II) many changes took place one of which was the opportunity for the center to become more connected with their community at Harvey Cedars. The official Mission Statement of Maris Stella is as follows: Maris Stella, a ministry of the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth, is a center that provides a ministry of hospitality, offering space and nourishment to individuals and groups seeking physical, psychological and spiritual enrichment. Located on the Atlantic Ocean and Barnegat bay, it is a rich resource for study and reflection on the sacredness of creation. The center embodies all aspects of hospitality and the Sisters take great pride in making sure that all guests are welcomed. With retreats throughout the year they now have the ability to serve the community not only in the summer season but for the accompanying seasons as well. Each administrator that has come here has enhanced the programming as well. On “Volunteer Weekend” (usually Memorial Day weekend) students from the University of Saint Elizabeth come down to prepare Maris Stella for the season. The Sisters are currently publishing

a 2021 calendar with photographs that the Sisters, Associates and friends, have taken at Maris Stella throughout the year. Sister Mary and Sister Pat explained that the changes that Maris Stella has seen throughout the years have all positively impacted the community at large. “The biggest change is that we welcome so many groups not just the Sisters of Charity such as other religious communities, women’s groups, schools, and parish groups". Sr. Mary said, “one of the major changes is that more and more are seeking God and seeking to deepen their relationship with God. All who come here are touched by the beauty and the peace of the place. When people are in our chapel they come out and they always say it is so peaceful here.” The legacy that Mother Ellen Marie established is one that resonates with the Maris Stella community as well as the Harvey Cedars community and all those who have visited the center. “ I think she would be very happy that we are making such great use out of it. She wanted a place for the sisters to rest and relax and now we have expanded the

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mission and reached out to the community” said Sister. Mary. Last summer the nieces and nephews of Mother Ellen Marie came to visit. Traveling from New York and Massachusetts ,her family and Sisters Mary and Pat were able to share details about her and learn more about her and her legacy. Her nieces and nephews brought scrapbooks of her that the Sisters had never seen before. About three years prior to this visit the granddaughter of Frederich Small came to visit the property. She said, “I’m sure my grandfather would be very pleased to know that the sisters are enjoying the property as much as he did and that the property remains basically the same. The Harvey Cedars community of LBI knows the Sisters well and the feeling is mutual. “ I think it is wonderful we are known and welcome here” said Sister Mary, “we find the number of people who come to our Sunday liturgies have tremendous respect for our congregation, the Sisters of Charity of St. Elizabeth. The community is supportive of us and they know us and that we are here if they need our help.” Sister Pat explained, “ People have been coming to mass here for years and they are like our family. People who are homeowners on the island or they come on vacation here every year and we get to see them each year. The community is extremely generous to the center and there is no way that we could do what we do without the generous donors that we have.” During these uncertain times as the world seems to be in chaos the sisters have noticed that Maris Stella has been a source of hope for so many in the community. “We have noticed cars pulling up and going to the shrine to say a prayer when all the churches were closed. It is a place where they could come and pray and it happened every single day through this painful time, this was a place of peace and prayer and support for them. Some people would come and watch the sunset, some people would sit on the dock and say the rosary. During the summer we keep the chapel unlocked so people can sit and find some peace” said Sister Pat. The Sisters have a very special relationship not only with the visitors to the center but the Neptune Deli as well. Sr. Mary explained “ We are practically there every day and they always tell us who they

need prayers for. They have become our friends and it is a strong community experience.” While many areas were closed due to Covid Sr. Pat found a creative way to stay in touch with the community. “ I took a lot of photos of the bay and the ocean and the sunsets and as the spring came the flowers and such. I posted it on our Facebook page and people responded. They felt like they were here and that we were sharing Maris Stella with them. People were commenting that they wanted us to keep doing it and it helped them feel so much better and they felt the peace of Maris Stella through these photos.” So what does the next 60 years have in store for Maris Stella? “ Well only God knows about the next 60 years” Sister Mary laughed “ but at least for the next 3 years we know that we will continue to promote the mission of the Sisters of Charity, integrating hospitality, maintaining relationships with the community, enhancing programs and a variety of programs throughout the year.” From firsthand experience I know that the hospitality of the Sisters of Charity is one that is so deeply rooted in who they are you cannot help but feel inspired by them. Their devotion to the community around them extends not only to the direct community but the community at large. “One of the things we try to do is improve the experience of our guests. A huge responsibility is the improvement of our physical spaces that are in constant use and it requires a tremendous amount of improvement. We just added wifi to all of the homes, prior to that it was only in the conference center and the big house on the ocean side.” Sister Pat explained. She put it best “Our accommodations are simple, but we hope that they are homey and welcoming. We try to improve and meet the needs of the people who are here. We focus on the environment and our commitment to sustaining this property. It is one of the largest non-developed properties on the island. We are committed to keeping this property for as long as we can and ensure that it is not developed and keep it as an open space. We try in all different ways to reduce our footprint, and our Coastal Camp is a part of our mission to educate the young people on the importance of the environment.” It is this dedication for the natural beauty of Maris Stella that provides the peace and tranquility that so many are seeking.

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