Brides Etc - August/September 2011

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Editor Julie Burniston julie@bridesetc.co.uk Editorial Assistant Kathleen Tucker kathleen@bridesetc.co.uk Magazine Sales & Advertising Holly Croot holly@bridesetc.co.uk Accounts Executive Stacey O’Meara stacey@bridesetc.co.uk Wedding Show Sales & Organisers Tracey Barker-Reeves tracey@weddingshows.uk.com Amy Wright amy@weddingshows.uk.com Andrea Dunning andrea@weddingshows.uk.com Mandy McLauglin mandy@weddingshows.uk.com Graphic Design Grant Poole-Adams grant@gpa-dc.com www.gpa-dc.com Additional Design, Cover Design & Production Rob Mackey, Jennifer Hoque & Kate Lewis T: 020 8530 1500 www.promoworx.co.uk 5 Bolding Hatch Business Centre Bishops Stortford Road Roxwell, Chelmsford, Essex CM1 4LF Tel : 01245 850949 www.weddingshows.uk.com

Hi Girls,

Welcome back to the best free bridal magazine in Essex, Kent and Hertfordshire. We’re thrilled at the reaction we have had since our recent facelift, with lots more suppliers and brides discovering just how fabulous we are and wanting to feature in our pages and take part in our brilliant wedding shows being held in a town near you over the next few months (see p35, 46 and 57). Of course that means we’ve had to work doubly hard this issue to bring you something even more spectacular – and we hope you’ll agree that we have! So, while many of you have been sunning yourselves on your well deserved summer holidays, we’ve been glued to our phones and computers in sunny Essex, putting together our ‘active’ issue. Why ‘active?’ Well, while we like nothing better than curling up on the sofa with a glass of vino, a chick flick and a box of choccies after a hard week at work, we realise that there are many ‘get up and goers’ out there - the sort of women who will appreciate a bridal boot camp (p32 and 33) or a honeymoon which offers a little extra – think dance, horse riding, surfing or diving along with the usual sun, sea or sand (p90). Even our wedding venues have a little something more this issue with many nestled within glorious golf courses. Of course we haven’t forgotten your regular favourites either – real weddings, hair and beauty, freebies, plus the best in bridal fashion. Over at Grooms Etc – our dedicated pages for the man in your life – we’ve really outdone ourselves. There’s funky shoes, stag ideas plus the chance to win a personal wine tasting session.

Not bad!

Until next issue, good luck with your wedding plans!

Julie Burniston Editor Ps Do you like the magazine? Can we do better? What would you like to see more of? I’d really like to hear from you with your comments and questions, so please get e-mailing me on julie@bridesetc.co.uk

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Contents

IN THIS ISSUE

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IN THE NEWS

A round up of all that’s new and happening in the bridal world, plus giveaways, help, advice and more!

P13

REAL WEDDING

Join Liz as she ties the knot with her soldier husband, Craig at gorgeous Gosfield Hall

P17

BEHIND THE SCENES

Welcome to the unique world of bespoke boutique Serena Bridal

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BRIDAL FASHION

Look like a Princess in a dress to flatter your shape

P22

HERE COME THE GIRLS

Beautiful bridesmaids gowns with a splash of colour

P25

HAIR Q AND A

Guest Editor Julie from Elegant Brides tells you how to inject glamour and gloss back into tired tresses

P27

BEAUTY Q AND A

Achieve long lasting and stunning make-up looks with the help of Guest Editor Michelle MacGregor

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THINGS WE LIKE

The best new long lasting cosmetics and fragrances for late summer

P32

A WORK OUT WITH A DIFFERENCE

All about Bridal Boot Camps All about Bridal Boot Camps

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DATES FOR YOUR DIARY

Visit us at a Wedding Show in Kent

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INTRODUCING THE WEDDING GUILD

Tracey Barker-Reeves spills the beans on her fabulous company

P39

DREAM VENUES

Stunning stately homes in Essex, Kent and Hertfordshire

P51

COMPETITION!

Win five pairs of VIP tickets to the National Wedding Show

P53

WEDDING CHECKLIST

Make sure your big day goes to plan with this easy to use planner

P56

COMPETITION!

Win Your Wedding! Courtesy of Warley Park Golf Club

P57

DATES FOR YOUR DIARY

Get planning at a Wedding show in Hertfordshire

P59

REAL WEDDING

Emily and Jody’s magical day at Brandshatch Place in Kent

P66

LET US ENTERTAIN YOU

A round up of some of the best groups, musicians and DJ’s in your area

P70

DREAM VENUES

Glorious locations nestled in stunning golf courses

P77

GROOMS NEWS

All that’s hot and happening in the Grooms industry

P79

BEST FOOT FORWARD

Shoes with sole for the man in your life!

P81

THE GROOM’S ROOM

Your complete guide to male fitness

P83

A STAG DO WITH A DIFFERENCE

An adrenaline filled Welsh weekend

P85

TIME FOR TEE

We check out a local selection of fine golf courses to treat you and your mates before the big day

P87

COMPETITION!

Win a bespoke wine tasting experience with a top Channel 4 chef

P89

SPORTY TRAVEL

Honeymoons with a difference

DIFFERENCE

In The News

Welcome to the Brides Etc Noticeboard – chock full of news, reviews, openings, information and not to be missed dates for your diary…

Revolutionise your wedding list!

Brides Etc love Don’t Ask Don’t Get, a new gift list service recently launched by Donna Plakhtienko. The service uses a website and iPhone app as a platform to ask for all those things you would like.The free-to-use service allows you to create wish lists made up of any item from any online or high-street store, which can be shared with family and friends. The ground-breaking iPhone app has an integrated barcode scanner, and searches for the top five cheapest stores, enabling lists to be managed on the move. Lists can be shared via e-mail, Facebook or Twitter. Check it out for yourself at: www.dontask-dontget.co.uk

Brides Etc Loves...The first bridal collection from top designer Mathew Williamson. The pieces are characterised by feminine, diaphanous silhouettes and great attention to detail through the use of delicate patterns, hand beading and embroidery. Take a look at his beautiful gowns at www.mathewwilliamson.com

GIVEAWAY!

WIN! A BEAUTIFUL BRIDAL BRACELET PS With Love (www.pswithlove.co.uk ) specialise in the design and creation of unique handmade jewellery. All the items in their bridal range are original, one-off pieces handmade to a high standard using only the best quality Swarovski crystals, glass pearls, diamante and freshwater pearls. Designer Beverley believes that every bride is unique and special, and all clients are offered a bespoke service and a no obligation consultation. As an introduction to this lovely company, Brides Etc are giving away this beautiful bracelet made from Swarovski glass pearls, diamantes and Swarovski crystals with a pretty toggle clasp and heart drop which retails for £38. To be in with a chance of winning, simply send your name and contact details to: julie@ bridesetc.co.uk. In the meantime, if you would like to book a no obligation consultation, contact Beverley via email on: info@pswithlove.co.uk.

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S etc BRIDE LOVES

25 % DISCOUNT ON WEDDINGS AT PORT LYMPNE It may be summer, but if you’re dreaming of a magical winter wedding, why not choose the Mansion and Gardens at Port Lympne Wild Animal Park. What’s more, if you get married between November 2011 and February 2012 you will save 25% off the hire of this lovely venue. Simply quote: FAUXFUR11 to receive your discount. Alternatively, put a date in your diary to visit the Port Lympne Mansion Wedding Show on Sunday 2nd October 2011.

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FESTIVAL FUN AT BROWNSTOCK a raucous yet relaxing escape for a hen night with a twist Brownstock is a three day, quirky music festival in Essex. Run by the Brown family and now in its seventh year, Brownstock has grown from its routes as an overgrown family party into a fully fledged music festival which will see Athlete and the Pendulum DJ Set headline this year. The festival hasn’t lost its rustic charm however, and is a brilliant idea for a fun hen weekend. Bask in the sun in a beautiful setting, don your wellies and fancy dress (both are a must!) while having a sing song in The Piano Bar before heading to the main stage to see some superstars in action. If you still have energy to dance, you can bop till you drop in the 24 hour silent disco! For more info log onto: www. brownstock.co.uk or e-mail: info@brownstock.co.uk with your questions or to book your hen weekend.

Brownstock is offering hens a 10th ticket free when a group buys nine tickets. Hens will also get a free drink at the bar during the weekend.

Special Offer

A NEW LOOK FOR SPAINS HALL Spains Hall, one of the finest venues in Essex for weddings has recently been given a ‘make-over’ with a new branding, the launch of an impressive new website and a stunning brochure. Check out Spains Hall for yourself by logging onto www.spainshall.co.uk or for further information contact Sam Ruggles-Brise on: 01371 811596. E-mail: samrb@spainshall.co.uk

DON’T MISS!

The chance to meet jewellery designer Emma Hadley as she showcases her wedding collect ion at the Grace of Westcott Bridal Boutique in Surrey (www.graceof westcott.com). Enjoy champagne, see Emma’s beautiful designs plus check out gorgeous shoes and accessories and receive advice from Leanne Spikesman, wedding hair specialist. Spaces are limited, so hurry!

Date: Wednesday September 14th Time: 6.30-8.30pm RSVP: info@graceof westcott.com Tel: 01306 888466

A perfect idea for your hen celebrations!

COQUETTE AT KETTNERS Take one posh London location, throw in free champagne and decadent Gu chocolate puds, add masterclasses in everything from dance to cocktail making, season with amazing retro hairstyles from Lipstick and Curl, facials from Murad, make-overs from Benefit, manicures from Nails Inc and stunning dresses to try on from top designers. Finally, throw in a fortune teller and a palm reader, posh undies to peruse and purchase and a free goody bag full of scrummy things and you have Coquette, conceived by dapper designer and 40 Winks founder David Carter, and one of the best ways ever to spend a girly indulgent pampering afternoon. Coquette is held at

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Kettners restaurant in Soho, it is fast becoming the talk of the town and is the perfect start to your hen celebrations. The event is limited to 60 people, so get your tickets fast!

Tickets: £90 pp Dates: 20th August, 15th October and 3rd December 2011 Times: 1pm - 5pm Location: Kettner’s, 29 Romilly St, Soho, London W1 Tel: 0207 790 0259 E-mail: reservations@40winks.org to make a booking or register your interest.

Advice

Many brides dream of ditching their glasses and contact lenses and having perfect vision for their big day. Mr C T Pillai, Medical Director of Harley Street Clinic Advanced Vision Care, tells you everything you need to know about laser eye surgery…

There’s no need to be nervous…

‘Treatment really is quick and painless. The most comfortable and popular procedure is LASIK (Laser Insitu Keratomileusis). This involves creating a thinhinged flap on the cornea with a precise computer controlled surgical instrument or with the latest bladefree method, Intralase. The flap is carefully folded back so the tissue can be re-shaped by a laser and is then folded back into its original position to heal naturally without the need for stitches. A contact lens is placed on the eye for the first 24 hours to protect the cornea and is removed by your surgeon the day after treatment.’

Surgery is over within half an hour!

‘Surgery will start when you are lying down, comfortable and ready to begin. Anaesthetic drops are put in the eyes first so, at worst, you will just feel a few seconds of discomfort. You may see a flashing light and after 25 minutes treatment on both eyes will be complete!’

LASIK can be done just a few weeks before your wedding…

‘Even if your wedding is only a number of weeks away, you can still go ahead with treatment and be back to normal in time for the big day. Recovery begins as soon as you sit up in the operating theatre and after just 24 hours you will see a huge improvement. Your

vision may be a little hazy to start with so we advise against driving for the first day. Your eyes may feel a little dry during the recovery period, but your surgeon will provide lubricating drops which will also help speed the healing process.’

There’s a procedure for everyone…

‘Technological advances in eye surgery mean that no matter what problems you have with your eyesight, there is virtually always a solution. If LASIK does not suit you, your surgeon will be able to explain the other options.’

I just wanted to say you do a fantastic job on Brides Etc. I’m a regular reader and love the work you do. I’m currently studying for a fashion and textile degree and your magazine has given me the inspiration to make bridal dresses. My collect ion is called ‘The Bloomsbury Set’ and features 30’s inspired classic evening gowns.

I have worked long and hard to bring this collect ion together and just wanted to share the news with you.

Katrina O’Brien

Hi Katrina, we’ve cut your letter down a little, but we really wanted to print it here to wish you all the very best with your forthcoming career. Your collect ion is lovely and we are glad we have helped inspire you.

Carry on the good work!

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Your Letters

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Bride: Elizabeth Castle, 29 Groom: Corporal Craig Simpson, 30 Home: Colchester and Germany Venue: Gosfield Hall, Essex Date: 19th March 2010

At the Double!

It was a cold evening in October 2008 when I met Craig. My friends and I had popped into a local pub in Colchester where I lived, Craig was based at barracks in the town. I’d never met a soldier before and I don’t know what I expected, but Craig was warm, gentlemanly and made me laugh. He’d just got back from a six-month tour of duty and was due to go to Afghanistan in February 2009. We really hit if off that night and luckily had five months to get to know each other better, before he left the country again. From the start I realised that this relationship would be very different to any I’d had before. Craig and I saw each other only when he could get away, which was sporadic.

It was tough, but I’d fallen madly in love and soon came to the conclusion that it was pointless moaning.

We just had to cherish every moment together and, unlike many Army girlfriends, at least I got to spend Christmas with my man, which was wonderful.

A bittersweet romance

As the time drew near for Craig to leave for Afghanistan, I began to feel very scared and anxious, but I knew I’d make matters worse if I fell apart. I smiled and wished him well and had to be content with a relationship that consisted of letters, emails and the occasional phone

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When Elizabeth and her soldier fiancé decided to get married they knew they would have to plan their celebrations around his leave time, but even Liz was amazed that she managed to pull off such a glorious day with just eight weeks to plan it!

call. Thank goodness I had close friends and family around to keep me going as I counted down the days until his return in May 2009.

A heartfelt re-union

The months without Craig seemed to drag, and it was especially hard being alone on my birthday in March. It was wonderful when he did come back and, as it was unseasonably warm, Craig decided to throw me a ‘surprise’ belated birthday party. I was given orders to stay away until the allotted time and then I was allowed into the garden. All my family and friends were there and as I walked towards Craig, the music suddenly changed and on came ‘our song’, At Last, by Etta James. As he is such a joker, I imagined Craig would suddenly break into a silly dance routine or something, but he didn’t. Instead he got down on one knee, handed me a stunning diamond ring and asked me to marry him. I was in such shock that I burst into tears – along with most of the guests! I couldn’t believe he’d managed to arrange a proposal while in Afghanistan. He and mum had been in cahoots all along and he’d even sent her out to scout for the ring before rushing out and buying it!

A life apart

I knew my life as an army wife would be hard. There would be long periods of separation and as for living together before marriage, that was out of the question as the army are very traditional. Then, to make things worse, our happiness was shattered when Craig was posted to Bury St Edmunds, so while we were in the same country we could only see each other at weekends and sometimes not even then.

Our gorgeous little boy Harry was born at St John’s hospital, in Chelmsford, weighing six pounds eight ounces and there couldn’t have been a prouder daddy.

Wedding plans

In the summer of 2010, Craig had become a Corporal and as part of his promotion we knew he would be re-posted at some point. Neither of us expected it to be to Germany! That news and the fact that I had now fully recovered from Harry’s birth, spurred us onto re-organising our wedding. Of course we had to fit A surprise discovery the ceremony in around Craig’s leave and that left me Because I couldn’t live on base with Craig until we’d precisely eight weeks to do everything! We decided tied the knot, we decided to plan our wedding as to marry in Essex and as luck would have it Gosfield quickly as possible and aimed for summer 2009. We Hall, the venue I’d fallen in love with while looking hadn’t even started planning when I began to feel very on the internet, had a cancellation eight weeks later ill. At first a pregnancy didn’t cross my mind because on August 10th.

I paid a visit I suffered from endometriosis and booked it on the spot. and Craig knew we may need That same day my mum Lynne “I knew we would have to delay extra help to start a family, an and I went to a dress shop in the wedding!” issue he was totally supportive Chelmsford.

I knew my dress about. It was only when the would have to be ‘off the peg’ sickness persisted that I took a as I didn’t have time to have lots of alterations made. test on May 23rd with Craig by my side and was in There it hung, on the hanger looking well, just ok, total shock to see the blue line! We were going to be but when I tried it on – wow!

It was the dress of my parents, and while we were both thrilled and excited, dreams!

Two huge decisions made in the space of a I knew we would have to delay the wedding. This baby few hours.

I was on a roll! was just too precious and I didn’t want to put myself under any undue pressure.

Baby makes three

The decision to reschedule the wedding was a good one because I had problems with my pelvis, I was laid up in bed for the first three months of my pregnancy and had just two months of feeling okay before I had to go back on bed rest! All through this period I had to cope practically alone. Craig only managed to get back for one scan, but at least he’d be there for my elective c-section on January 11th 2010 and then with me for a whole two weeks of paternity leave. Bliss!

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Falling into place

A few days later mum and I were in Moss Bros organising Craig’s Best Man, Gavin Harrop, and my dad’s suits. Later that day we met our photographer, Paul Webb. Paul really ‘got’ me and I loved his work.

Once again I booked him immediately. After that everything fell into place. My maid of honour was my sister Jo. I got her dress from the Mary Rose Boutique in Chelmsford, and my flower girls – nieces Chelsea, Rosie and Olivia looked gorgeous in their Monsoon dresses. My friend Ella offered to do my hair and the rest of the organisation was done in the evening over

the Internet, when Harry was asleep. It was a mad whirlwind and I didn’t even get time for a hen night, although Craig managed a stag do in Germany which I ribbed him about!

Goodbye single life

The night before the wedding was spent at home with my ‘Best Man’, my gay friend Dickie. Dickie and I had known each other since we were 20. He’d been so supportive over the years, and I couldn’t think of anyone better to have a laugh, and a few (but just a few!) drinks with. Craig had arrived two days before the ceremony and was staying with my parents and his best man in Essex. I went to bed feeling happy but nervous and hoping that the rain, which had come down solidly all week, would hold off for us.

The late Ms Castle

The next morning, Dickie and I were up bright and early and amazingly the sun was shining! I did my make-up, then we headed to Gosfield Hall to get ready for the 12 O’Clock ceremony. Harry was safe with a nanny we’d hired and I was free to get dressed with mum and my girls. All was going well until it was time to get into my dress. For some reason we just couldn’t get it to sit right. It took three attempts, and I was half an hour late!

Recreate Elizabeth and Craig’s Wedding Venue

Gosfield Hall, Essex

Photography

Paul Webb, Webb Weddings www.webbweddings.co.uk

Videographer

Premier Wedding Video

Hair

Ella at Blow Creative, Chelmsford

Dress

Sophia Toli from Pronuptia in Chelmsford

Flowergirls’ dresses Monsoon

Maid of Honour dresses

Mary Rose Boutique, Chelmsford

Grooms and Ushers’ suits

Groom wore his army number 1 dress uniform and the ushers and father of the bride wore Moss Bros hire.

We did it!

Finally, I was ready for action. Dickie had gone on ahead to act as an usher and my dad Jim took my arm.

Dad isn’t an emotional man, but his eyes looked glassy with unshed tears as he walked me down the aisle to the strains of Celine Dion’s The Colour of My Love. As an ex-stage school pupil I was taught to ‘get on and do it’ and not to blub, but to be honest all I could feel was overwhelming happiness, not tearful at all. The same couldn’t be said for Craig. As he stood at the altar in his gorgeous dress uniform looking so handsome, I saw he was extremely emotional. It was so touching.

Thankfully, we made it through the ceremony and were both wreathed in huge smiles, as we were finally pronounced husband and wife and walked back up the aisle to Just the Way You Are by Bruno Mars.

I have my say

when, at 11pm, our Army friends had to go back to their base in Bury. Thankfully, many other people stayed overnight at Gosfield Hall and we were all able to enjoy a wonderful breakfast the next morning. Craig and I got just two nights together as man and wife, which we spent in a hotel in Colchester, then it was back to reality as he had to return to Germany. This time though Harry and I were able to join him for good two months later.

Dance off

The future for Craig and I will always be uncertain, that’s the life of an army couple. Being in Germany means I really miss my family and friends, but at least I have my husband by my side. Craig flies out to Afghanistan in September and after that who knows where he will be posted. But we take every day as it comes and make each moment count.

As we posed for wedding pictures, and our guests enjoyed canapés and champagne, I realised just how much Craig and I had to look forward to. We’d never lived together, and while that sounds old-fashioned it was incredibly exciting. At that moment I knew I wanted to make a speech about just how much Craig meant to me, so after the wedding breakfast and speeches from Dad and Gavin, I had my say, a rare thing for an army wife!

Taking each day as it comes

The biggest surprise of our wedding – for our guests anyway – was the ‘dance off’ that Craig and I performed. It started off like any other first dance with Etta James ‘At Last’, but then went into a medley of music from the film American Pie. Everyone screamed with laughter! Sadly the festivities ended all too soon

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Serena Bridal is a haven for the discerning bride. A friendly and intimate boutique which helps you find the gown of your dreams with experienced fitters to assist - and not another bride in sight!

Owner Michelle tells us more…

This well known bridal boutique is based in a secluded part of Wickford, Essex, and holds around 50 wedding gown samples, bridesmaid and mother of the bride outfits. The decor is hot pink, black and sparkly and features fabulous diamante wallpaper! The atmosphere inside is relaxed, with staff who get to know as much as possible about you and your wedding, and who use their wealth of experience to find your dream dress.

DELICIOUS DESIGNS

ABOUT MICHELLE

‘The boutique has recently taken on three new designers which is very exciting: Cosmobella, part of the Demetrios group; Sweetheart, part of the Sincerity group and Private Label, part of the Justin Alexander group. All these gowns offer something very different and will compliment our current collections from Eternity Bride; Romantica; Art Couture, Clarity Bridal and Opulence

by Natalie M. Each gown is handpicked based on feedback from our brides. Although fashion does have some influence, we prefer to stock gowns that ‘real’ brides can look amazing in. We keep the prices down as far as possible too. Currently we only have one gown over £1000. The majority of dresses are £600 - £900, but we also have an amazing new collection from Clarity Bridal with all gowns under £499.

‘As a wedding planner my passion lay with gowns and dressing the bridal party, so it seemed a natural progression to set up a boutique which offered everything I would have wanted when I was looking for my own wedding dress. Aside from what the boutique offers, my extensive experience in the wedding industry means I can also give free advice and suggestions on other parts of the big day. I’m admittedly obsessed with wedding gowns and have my finger on the pulse as to what is available and on-trend, so if a bride suggests a type of gown we don’t have in stock, I’m usually able to suggest one we could bring in. I’m also available to my brides on text, email and Facebook, so if they have any concerns or queries they always get a quick response!

EXCLUSIVE AND PRIVATE ‘We operate on an appointmentonly basis with only the bride and her guests being allowed in. This ensures privacy and exclusivity.’

THE DRESS EXPERIENCE ‘Here at Serena Bridal we strive to be dedicated to our clients. Brides are assigned a personal consultant who will discuss her style, likes and dislikes, help her to select gowns to try on, dress her and offer suggestions for accessories. We may not have THE dress for every single lady, but each bride who leaves us will have a much clearer idea of what she is looking for and what suits her.’

AMAZING ACCESSORIES ‘In stock is a full range of veils from Nieve Couture and tiaras from Nieve Couture; Warren York and NLD. We also stock Jupon petticoats and lovely shoes including the most amazing wedges!’

Serena Bridal Tel: 01268 562447 E-mail: michelle@serenabridal.co.uk Website: www.serenabridal.co.uk Facebook: Serena Bridal of Wickford

MICHELLE LOVES… ‘This season lace is making a comeback and we have some gorgeous lace gowns in stock and are expecting a few more in the new collections. My current favourite is our Sabrina gown from Art Couture.

It really has to be seen to be appreciated as the fabric is amazing.

It’s at the top end of our price range, but I’ve seen similar gowns from other designers at more than twice the price! I’m also a huge fan of the Carnation dress by Opulence. It’s sparkly without being over the top and gives the most amazing shape and flat tummy to nearly all brides who wouldn’t be happy with that?’

Serena Bridal don’t offer dresses which are bespoke and made to measure, but they do offer a full fitting service for each bride, so the dress will be perfectly fitted to her.

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Here at Brides Etc we understand that every woman is different, that we all have different body shapes and suit different styles. With this in mind we thought we would give you a helping hand by offering some advice when it comes to looking for THE dress! We’ve chosen six body shapes and have talked to a variety of experts who bring you top tips on how to play up your best assets and advice on how to disguise those bits you’d rather keep covered. Sit back and enjoy…

Slim/Athletic

Description: You have the ballerina shape that so many people long for. You’re straight up and down, so enhance your curves to reduce the slightly boyish aspect of your figure and think about defining your waist with cuts that add emphasis.

Jules says: You are lucky in that you can get away with wearing draped fabrics such as silk, take advantage of your shape – after all, you’ve got nothing to hide. Also be aware that you may want to give your figure some shape, so maybe try a wide-set V-neck.

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Rosie says: Lucky enough to be a skinny minnie? Slinky styles and silky fabrics are the perfect choice to compliment your svelte figure. Draw attention to your bust and hips with floral details and crystal embroidery to create the perfect hourglass figure. High necks and straps balance out the look. www.mariposa.uk.com

Hour Glass

Description: You have curves in all the right places with a large chest, wide hips and a small waist.

Jules says: Embrace your curves! A 50’s style or fishtail dress would look great on you or go for something quite fitted and tailored. A dress that has gathering at an angle will help if you have a bit of a tummy.

Tall

Description: Whether you are wide or slim, your height has been the envy of many of your friends. Watch out Elle McPherson!

Jules says: Don’t shy away from your height, make the most of it. Certainly don’t feel you can’t wear heels on your wedding day. Like Petite brides you should be careful about your proportions. Stay away from the empire waist as this can make you look ‘tent-like’. Choose a style that makes the most of that runway-worthy body such as a bias cut dress.

Kirsty says: Generally taller ladies have the luxury of being able to wear more dress styles and therefore have more choice. However, this does not mean it’s always easy! Often taller ladies give an impression that they lack curves around their bust, waist and hips. Off the shoulder straps and A-line skirts give an overall hour glass shape. However, for those who love to show off their height, a long, elegant, bias cut dress is simply perfect.

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Kim says: The hourglass figure is like a double edged sword as some brides will embrace their curves and others will want to hide their hips and thighs at all costs.

From experience we listen to each bride’s dilemmas and guide them towards the dresses we know will flatter their figures.

Small A-line or full skirted gowns always flatter the hourglass shape; avoid dresses or styles that have lots of gathers on the rear of the dress as this will add inches on the area you are trying to play down.

One of our favourite gowns for this shape is the Dabra by Blue by Enzoani, it hugs the upper body making the most of the waist and bust line then skims the upper hips into a full skirted gown which is so flattering.

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Apple

Description: You are more voluptuous than most of your friends. You’ve got a full bosom, a bit of a tummy, rounded hips and a butt that J-Lo would be proud of.

Jules says: An empire line dress will look great on you. Maybe find something with a little detail under the bust which then floats down to the floor. Don’t go for a clingy fabric or a ball gown silhouette.

Kirsty says: Apple shapes are usually better off staying away from shiny silk finishes and bias cut crepe silks as they cling and crease more obviously than the lighter fabrics such as chiffon, tulle or taffeta.

A-line skirts are great for apple shapes as they help to make the waist look slimmer and balance out broader shoulders. V-necks can make a figure appear less rounded and divert the eye away from the hips.

www.thedressroom.co.uk

Petite

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Pear-Shaped

Description: You are small on top and wider at the bottom.

Jules says: As you have a small bust you want to emphasize your shoulders to even out the proportions and draw the eye up.

A dress with small, capped sleeves would work well or add a shrug or cape.

Rosie says: If you are a bootilicious pearshaped bride and looking for your perfect dress then strapless styles are the way to go, with perhaps a bit of sparkle down the bodice or floral embroidery. This draws attention to your bust making the most of your fabulous curves, and balancing out your shape. Diagonal detailing and ruching helps with this. With this recipe for success you’re bound to find the perfect dress for your big day!

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Description: You have a small frame all over which makes all those tall men want to protect you!

Jules says: Be careful with your proportions. If you are wearing a long dress, you don’t want it to make you look shorter. You are one of the few shapes that can get away with wearing a short dress and there are some fabulous options out there. You should stick to a small to medium pattern on the bodice and avoid large or bold patterns.

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Kim says: Our petite brides find choosing a dress as daunting as our fuller figured brides. Often an A-line gown will balance out the lack of hip shape, enhancing the waist. One of our best selling styles for petite brides is the Evelyn by Maggie Sottero.

The fluted hem with full train and sweetheart neckline is fabulous, giving the maximum wow factor. Gel cups can be sewn into the dress, enhancing or adding some often much needed inches to make the dress fit in all the right places.

JulesTaylor from Debenhams, Chelmsford Jules is Debenham’s in house personal shopper, so she knows all the latest trends.

Why not take along your bridesmaids and your mum too so she can work her magic.

You will be sure to have the best dressed bridal party once she’s done with you!

Jules says: No matter what your friends say, no one is completely happy with their body and we all have gripes about how we

look. Your wedding day is such a special event that it’s important to remember not to get too caught up with the dress, the hair etc, but to enjoy your day and be able to look back on the photos knowing you did everything right.

Jules’ Top Tip: When choosing your jewellery, remember to choose items that match your size, so if you’re petite choose delicate items and so on.

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When the bride and her bridesmaid have very different ideas about fashion and which bridesmaid dress suits her, it could put pressure on even the strongest friendships. You don’t want to do a Kate Middleton and be upstaged by a too-sexy attendant, yet you don’t want to force the girl to wear something she will look and feel uncomfortable in.

The answer is compromise. To help you with this delicate task, Brides Etc have gathered together a selection of fun, colourful, flirty dresses that are right on trend this season.

With this choice you should be able to find the right dress to suit everyone and have a fabulous looking bridal party that will wow your guests!

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DON’T: Try to make your maids look hideous just so you’ll stand out. You want your friends to look stunning in their own way so you’ll have gorgeous pictures and happy memories. If your bridesmaids are similar in shape or size, opt for the same style but have each friend in a different colour or tone to complement your own dress and the wedding day theme.

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DO: Have a brainstorming session. Let your bridesmaids’ voice what they will and won’t wear. Look over some bridal magazines to see what styles appeal to them. Then let the shopping begin!

DON’T: Think all your bridesmaids have to be dressed alike. How about choosing a colour that they would like the dresses to be in and let each bridesmaid pick the style that she wishes to wear. This way, each person is wearing a dress that complements their shape and shows off their best assets.

F.N.A.T

Whatever the event, wedding breakfast, life partner reception, bar or bat mitzvah, ladies night, civic reception, formal dinner or banquet, why not add that ‘Touch of Class’ and employ the services of a professional toastmaster.

As a graduate of the UK School of Professional Toastmasters, and a Fellow of the National Association of Toastmasters, Ian Low will be the ideal choice to perform the toastmaster’s duties. His meticulous attention to detail will make sure that your special event will pass smoothly, at the same time ensuring protocol and etiquette are adhered to, all conducted with friendly formality, precision, colour and style.

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Tel: 01474 745873 info@ianlowtoastmaster.co.uk

HA IR

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ME!

I’ve recently got back from holiday and the sun has left my hair like straw. What can I do?

A First of all I would suggest a trim to get rid of any brittle and damaged ends as this will give your hair a better chance of recovery. Next I recommend you use a good hair mask such as Moroccan Oil Restorative Mask to help restore, strengthen and revitalise your hair. It will also help prevent further damage. Use a good moisturising shampoo and conditioner (try Moroccan Oil Moisture Repair shampoo and conditioner) with lukewarm water. Just one wash will be fine, but make sure you rinse it properly as your hair can look dull if any residue is left behind. Use cold water for the final rinse if you can bear it as this will give your hair a lovely shine.

I really love swimming, especially on holiday, but I’m worried about the chlorine in pools. What can I do to protect my hair?

A It’s very important to look after your hair as much as your skin. If you’re on your honeymoon and going to the beach or pool, as hair absorbs chlorine and salt more when its dry, a good tip is to wet your hair first before applying a product with an SPF in it such as Redkin Colour Extend Sun Solar Screen SPF Spray to help protect your hair. Make sure you rinse it immediately after leaving the pool.

My hair goes all flyaway and ‘kinky’ when it’s humid outside. How can I prevent this?

A This is a problem lots of people have. I recommend the use of a good anti-frizz product such as John Frieda Frizz Ease before you go out. Try not to over wash your hair as this can strip its natural oils. Just like your skin, hair needs moisture to look and feel healthy, so use a moisturising and nourishing shampoo and conditioner such as the Moroccan Oil range. Also, using a very small amount of Moroccan Oil and smoothing this through your hair will help. Otherwise, try wearing your hair up as this will keep you cool, causing less sweating, which contributes to kinky hair.

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See our Things We Like feature on page 30 and 31 for Brides Etc product reviews on this summers, beauty essentials.

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Every girl knows that if her hair looks good, she feels good too, but the sun, harsh styling and over-colouring can take their toll, leaving your crowning glory flat, lifeless and in need of TLC. This issue Julie from Elegant Brides Bridal and Vintage Hair gives her expert advice and tells you how you can inject some gloss back into your dull tresses…

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Beauty and the

Bride

How can I make sure my make-up stays fresh throughout my wedding without having to resort to caking it on?!

A Using a good quality foundation from a good make-up range is key to this. It may cost a little more than a cheaper product but it will last you much longer and you will get better results. Ensure you buy the correct foundation for your skin type and the correct colour by popping into a store like Mac or by going to a make-up counter in a department store. Another product which helps keep foundation in place all day and night is a primer. Mac have a great range called Prep and Prime.

If your budget can’t stretch to a high-end brand, one of the best on the high street is GOSH Velvet Touch Foundation Primer (stocked in Superdrug, £12.99). It may be cheap but it recently won at the Beauty Bible awards. And finally, if you don’t mind a matt finish, use a good translucent powder or a powder foundation like Mac Studio Fix powder.

Powder will make a huge amount of difference to the staying power of your foundation and ensure your skin looks great for your wedding photos.

Every bride wants to look her very best on her wedding day, but not everyone can afford to have a make-up artist on hand to freshen up her face through what is a very long day. That’s why it’s so important to choose make-up which will stay put all day long. This issue our Guest Editor Michelle MacGregor gives us her tips and advice on how to achieve make-up with staying power…

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I’m bound to shed a few tears on my big day and live in fear of panda eyes. What can I use to keep my eye make-up in place?

A This is a classic bridal make-up worry. Firstly ensure your eyes are ‘primed’ by taking your foundation over your eyelids and right into the corners. Next, press translucent powder onto the whole eye area. Doing this before you apply your eye make-up will give eyeshadow, eyeliners etc something to grip onto and more staying power. Also use waterproof eyeliner and mascara - this is a MUST for tear proof eye make-up!

PS: When using a tissue, if you shed a few (happy) tears, PAT don’t RUB! My face looks really dull without my trademark bright lippy, but I know I will be doing a lot of kissing at my wedding and I’m scared of being left with an outline of lipliner and nothing else. What do I do?

A There are a few options here. You could use a long wearing lipstick like Max Factor Lipfinity, Maybelline Superstay 24hr Lipstick or Mac Pro Longwear Lipcolour.

They act like a lip stain and also have a top coat to give moisture too. Otherwise try this: use a lipliner very close to your lipstick colour and instead of using it to line your lips, pencil in your whole lip area with it. Then apply your lipstick over the top. Blot once. Then apply the lipstick a second time.

Michelle Loves...

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Things We Like It’s the happiest day of your life and a time where you need to look – and stay – fresh and lovely as a daisy! That’s why Brides Etc have hunted high and low for products that will last throughout your ceremony and into the evening celebrations beyond. We think we have it covered with long lasting lippies, tear-proof mascaras and stay put fragrances. Read on and see if you agree, we would love to hear your thoughts.

No 7 Sultry Glow Bronzer Limited Edition £13 www.boots.com

ED’s CHOICE

Marc Jacobs Daisy Eau So Fresh has crisp notes of natural raspberry and grapefruit - a blend that will leave a trail down the aisle and mesmerize all your guests! Our tester, Helen, did admit she was a bit undecided about this fragrance at first, but it did grow on her and a lot of people complimented her on her lovely, fruity scent. www.theperfumeshop.com

One for the Bridesmaids…

This perfume would make a lovely gift for your bridesmaids. A fresh, younger and sparkling twist on the original Flora by Gucci, it’s perfect for the feminine and sophisticated young woman with a hidden, playful streak. www.theperfumeshop.com

I’m a big fan of the DKNY Be Delicious perfumes. The bottles are seriously funky - shaped like little red or green apples and containing fabulously fruity perfume which is perfect for summer yet doesn’t fade. The latest from the Be Delicious range is Golden Delicious, launched this August. Like its predecessors, its smells good enough to eat with a strong scent of orange and of course, apple. Yum! www.bedeliciousfragrance.co.uk

Stay Don’t Stray Primer £19.50 www.benefitcosmetics.co.uk

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I’ve always struggled to find crease-proof make-up that actually works as my skin is naturally quite oily. This is now without a doubt my favourite product in my makeup bag and used in the correct way it can last for up to 15 hours – no joke! The Mac paint pot is designed as a primer for your eyes, so I just used a thin layer over my eye then dusted my usual eye-shadow over the top to create my desired look.

The paint pots come in a whole variety of shades, but the neutral shades form the perfect base for natural wedding makeup. This is a product that I’ll be buying for years to come so I highly recommend it!

TOP TIP! The shelf life of an open bottle of perfume is about a year; an unopened bottle of perfume may keep for two years. Ideally perfume should be stored in a cool, dark place.

– Sarah, 25

Perfect for preventing panda eyes!

Clinique Lash Power Mascara is a Winner of the Look Magazine Mascara Awards for Best Waterproof Mascara, which may come in handy on your wedding day if you are expecting to shed a few tears! It vows to look pretty for 24 hours without a smudge or smear. One stroke and these pretty lashes last through rain, sweat, humidity and tears so you’re all set for your big day.

– Anita, 30 www.clinique.co.uk

Benefit Silky Finish Lipstick This collection of flattering silky-finish lipsticks is sheer and buildable, so you can customize your look: a light wash of colour for you natural girls or an amped-up pop of colour for the drama queen in you! This lippy lasted all day, even after I had eaten lunch, so it will work wonders on your wedding day. I loved the girly colour too.

– Kelly, 26

No7 Eliminating Cream: Works fantastically on tired looking skin and is a great pick me up after all the wedding planning!

No7 Calm Skin: I sometimes suffer from a sore red rash on my face as I have really sensitive skin. This balm has really calmed it down and is a great base prior to your normal moisturiser – Kim, 28 www.boots.com

BRIDES etc LOVES

Bare Escentuals Get Started Kit Bare Escentuals are known for their mineral make-up and natural style.

BareMinerals looks like a powder, feels like a cream and buffs on like silk, giving skin a natural luminosity. Perfect for a natural look on your wedding day. My skin felt soft and gave me a flawless look!

– Emma, 25 www.bareescentuals.co.uk

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This month the team at Brides Etc made a trip down to Gaynes Park in Epping for the Duke of Essex Polo Tournament. They also had the opportunity to meet a few famous faces along the way!

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With your wedding day fast approaching your health and fitness campaign may not be giving you the results you had hoped for. That’s where boot camps come into their own. It’s not a walk in the park, but the tough training regime pays huge dividends in a relatively short period of time. Here we highlight some residential and non - residential boot camps in your area, and speak to a bride who has been through boot camp training for an inside view on this phenomenon…

Give your body a boost THE ASK RT EXPE

GET TO BOOT CAMP! Essex: Essex Boot Camp

Ex Royal Marine Glynn Roberts, 30 is the co-founder and managing director at Essex Boot Camp…

What does Essex Boot Camp offer?

‘Over 200 outdoor boot camp sessions per month across the county. Sessions last an hour and we train in parks, woodlands and forests. We also run residential and bespoke packages for corporate companies, schools, sports clubs etc in the UK and abroad. On top of that we offer personal training to suit specific goals and nutrition information for people wanting to take things that one step further.’

Is the training very hard?

‘The training suits whatever goal you are aiming to achieve. So if you are training for a specific challenge like a marathon we will push your abilities to achieve that much more. If you are a complete beginner who just wants to be more active and lose weight, then you are constantly motivated to work to your own level to always get results.’

Why choose a boot camp over a regular gym workout?

‘For many reasons. We always say, that with the gym you need two different motivation goals – one, to actually turn up, and two, to work hard enough and correctly to the right level to actually see results. With us, you just need to turn up. Most people get stuck into a routine with the gym, therefore your body gets bored and you fail to see the changes. At EBC, we have never repeated the same session twice in five years. On top of all that, you are with like-minded people out in the fresh air. Its fun so you are more likely to stick with it.’

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Do you offer specific classes for brides-to be or for women only?

‘All our classes are mixed but we do attract predominantly women as they tend to be more open to different ways of training. We run bespoke packages for small groups too, so if a bride wanted to do some training with just her bridal party, then this is something we can arrange.’

How long will it take to see results?

‘You can never give an exact timeline as everyone is different and there are NO quick fixes or guarantees. As long as you train on a regular basis and eat well you should start to see results in 6-8 weeks. It all depends on how dedicated you are to the goal you want. But what I will say, is with our support and training, you will get results if you are consistent with us. The training is tough but very effective – though far more enjoyable than being stuck inside the gym!’

Contact Tel: 07739-098790 www.essexbootcamp.co.uk

‘A short, sharp shock –but worth the pain!’

CASE Y STUD

Kent: GI Jane Boot Camp

Janine Davis, 33, attended the women-only GI Jane Bootcamp in Kent prior to her wedding to hubby Tony Hillman at Coltsford Mill, Surrey on August 20th 2009. In just a week, she lost half a stone and a staggering nine inches!

‘I’d been going to the gym and trying to eat healthily in the lead up to my wedding, but I still wanted to lose a few pounds. I went to boot camp from July 25th to August 1st 2009. On arrival I was weighed and measured and a ‘before’ photo was taken. Then I was shown to my room. I was sharing with a journalist from a health food magazine who was there for a few nights to report on the experience. Later, we met our fellow ‘recruits’ and our army trainers who we were instructed to call ‘’Staff X’’and ‘’Staff Y’’.

The trainers asked why we had chosen Bootcamp, what we wanted to achieve and what our strengths and weaknesses were. We then had a fitness test to see what level we were all at. We were advised to get an early night ready for training to start the next day, but I don’t think any of us were prepared for our bedroom doors to be flung open at 5.50 am with staff blowing whistles and turning on the lights, screaming at us to be downstairs in 15 minutes!

Every day we started with an hour and a half exercise before breakfast, usually a long walk or jog. After breakfast it was circuits until lunch, then the afternoon was broken up into team games and a very long walk. Our trainers were both really nice, and while they pushed us to our limits, we all actually had a good laugh with them. I didn’t so much enjoy the 1400 calorie a day diet though! It was devised by a ‘body chef’ and while I wasn’t hungry, I did miss my luxuries. My low day was the Thursday.

We went to Bedgebury Pinetum to do a 10k bike circuit and Go Ape. It was absolutely pouring down all day so we got soaked on the bike ride and we were all just miserable as we sat with our packed lunch, surrounded by families eating cake and drinking hot chocolate, while we weren’t even allowed a cup of tea.

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In the end the hard work was worth it though and the results spoke for themselves. I lost half a stone and nine inches and felt fab on my wedding day. Since bootcamp I have kept the weight off, but obviously was not able to keep up the eight hours of exercise a day while working full time. I then put a bit back on, but I have been going to Weight Watchers to keep myself on track and now weigh less than I did when I got married (annoying!). I’d recommend boot camp, if only to prove to yourself that you can be pushed further than you thought and to realise that there is no easy fix. Results only come with hard work, determination and being aware of what you’re eating.’

Contact Tel: 0208-3014353 www.gijanebootcamp.co.uk

Suffolk: New You Boot Camp Set up in 2007, New You Boot Camp began with its Back to Basics Boot Camp. Since then they have gone on to run over 150 boot camps and launch different concepts such as their Boutique Boot Camp, Coastal Boot Camp, Boot Camp for Men, Portugal Boot Camp Spa and Corporate Boot Camp. They also run military fitness days and mid week and weekend breaks.

Contact Tel: 0871 223 0066 www.newyoubootcamp.com

Hertfordshire: Challenge Boot Camp Challenge Boot Camp is the ultimate outdoor training service in Hertfordshire. Sessions include a range of training styles and variation in action packed enjoyable sessions. The Boot Camp sessions are led by personal training instructors in small groups of between six and 12 people.

Contact Tel: 07740 365312 (Alan) www.challengebootcamp.co.uk

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Pre-register to save time on the day at www.weddingshows.uk.com

PROMOTION

Welcome to the Wedding Guild If you’re not aware of it already, the Wedding Guild is a brilliant, free to join service for brides-to-be which gives you details of wedding related news and events, discounts, advice and information on every aspect of planning your big day. We met founder Tracey Barker-Reeves who told us more about herself and her fabulous company…

Over 7,000 brides are currently on the database of the Wedding Guild.

Weddings are in my blood

My professional background is in sales and marketing in the banking and legal market, but I grew up in and around the wedding industry as my father ran a wedding car company for 28 years. Because of that I was used to attending wedding shows with him and meeting brides. It was originally my father’s idea to form the Wedding Guild.

With so many wedding companies out there, there was nothing to separate the good, honest reliable professionals from anyone who just saw the industry as a way to make money without providing a good service. The Wedding Guild gives its service members a recognised platform in order to stand out from the crowd, and my couples are given the best guidance from quality recommended suppliers specific to the services they require and the county; Kent, Essex, Hertfordshire, London and Surrey, in which they live or where the wedding is taking place.

A unique service

The wedding Guild offers two services – one for couples who will receive information from IWG members offering the services they are in need of organising, details of wedding related news and events plus discount vouchers and offers provided by members. For service providers I offer a listing on the IWG website (logo, mission statement and link to their own website) plus access to a service and county specific database of registered couples and the right to display the IWG logo.

A wonderful job

Since it started in 2007, more than 20,000 couples have registered with the Wedding Guild when planning their wedding.

Photography: Yvette Craig Photography Venue: Port Lympne Mansion Dress: Tiara & Tails Bridal Boutique

The best part of my job is having the ability to bring people together. Couples need reliable and quality providers for their day, and I have the contacts to introduce them. I also enjoy assisting small businesses to be more proactive with their marketing and thus create success for them too. My job is hard work, but it’s wonderful, and can make for some funny moments. For example I once had a foreign gentleman who didn’t really understand the concept of the Wedding Guild and wanted to register with me to actually find a bride!

Brides Etc love the Wedding Guild!

Brides Etc and Wedding Shows UK are both recommended members of IWG. When brides visit us looking for recommendations we tell them to pick up the magazine and to attend their wedding shows. We work very closely with both of them. IWG handles the front of house registration at all of WSL shows and we distribute Brides Etc to all couples in our goody bags. Between the three companies working together we are able to offer our brides so many different ways of sourcing the providers they need in order to plan their perfect day. For a company within the wedding industry we offer three different but complimentary elements of marketing for them to gain exposure for their company.

contact

www.weddingguild.co.uk enquiries@weddingguild.co.uk Tel 0800 458 8089

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Dream Wedding Locations Finding the perfect wedding venue is an important yet difficult task. You probably have a picture in your head of your dream location, but finding everything you need all under one roof can be time consuming and frustrating. Never fear, over the next few pages Brides Etc have compiled some of the finest stately homes, mansions and halls to showcase what is on offer in your area.

From beautiful landscaped gardens to rooms full of history, we are sure you will find something to make you smile. So why not get out at the weekend and take a better look at the stunning venues on your doorstep, starting with the incredible Boys Hall in Kent…

GRAND AND ROMANTIC

Boys Hall Willesborough, Ashford, Kent Boys Hall is one of the most beautiful buildings in Kent, located close to junction 10 of the M20 and Ashford domestic and International rail station. Grand and imposing though it is, Boys Hall is versatile and can accommodate wedding parties from the modest to the very grand on an exclusive hire basis, offering you an extra special private and bespoke venue for your special day.

A Wonderful history Built in the 17th Century, the Hall is a Grade 2 listed property which retains many of its original features, and with over three acres of landscaped gardens, it’s the perfect setting for a wedding which captures the romance of days gone by. Boys Hall was originally built in 1616 by the Boys family who had previously been known as De Bois. The Boys family lived at the Hall for many years and were, so history states, great farmers and landowners. The Hall today sits and reigns majestically as it has done so for the past 400 years.

A Day To Remember From the moment you decide to have your special day at Boys Hall you will be allocated your own personal wedding co-ordinator who will work with you, from your initial meeting right through to the planning stages and who will be there to take care of all your concerns on the day. Staff work closely with a team of local suppliers and are able to offer the services of florists, photographers, musicians and magicians if you so wish. These have all been personally vetted by the venue to guarantee a good service. Your ceremony will be held in either the stunning Manor itself or if you prefer the wonderful gazebo in the gardens. The building is free for your guests to explore while you utilize the magnificent grounds for your photographs, until the wedding breakfast is served. Whether it’s an intimate wedding for close family and friends or a buffet style wedding breakfast, Boys Hall’s experienced chefs will be happy to accommodate, using, where possible, Kentish produce and organic foods.

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Brides Etc love…

There are stunning bedrooms, all individually designed for you and your guests to book for your wedding night. Each is stunningly decorated and unique, with breathtaking features such as hand carved four poster beds; impressive furniture; free standing baths and luxurious décor. We particularly love the ‘Oriental’ which is lavish and striking and contains one of Boy’s Hall’s historical treasures; the wardrobe space which is actually one of four priest holes within the Hall - which gives this room added intrigue and fascination.

Don’t miss…

Boys Hall Wedding Show on Sunday 16th October Venue Checklist Civil licence: Yes Accommodation: Yes Capacity for sit down: 80 Tel: 01233 633772 E-mail: marcus@boyshall.co.uk www.boyshall.co.uk

AW E - I N S P I R I N G G R A N D E U R

Parklands Quendon, Essex

Parklands, on the Essex/Hertfordshire border, is an idyllic setting for a wedding venue. Exclusive use of this impressive, listed mansion is guaranteed for the day. Your personal wedding manager will work with you from the time of booking through to your ceremony and beyond to make sure everything is perfect.

The Banqueting Hall, Drawing Room and Billiard Room all offer stunning views of the grounds, including a moat and fountains. You may even see Parklands’ herd of deer! The function suites can cater for weddings of various sizes and suit anything from 30 to 200 guests.

Weather permitting your party can even spill out onto the veranda, champagne in hand, to admire the surroundings. If you are planning a large wedding you may opt to hold your special occasion in the silk lined pavilion. Elegantly lit with chandeliers, it makes an enchanting area which can be decorated to reflect your own individual style.

At the end of the day when you want some time alone, you and your new husband can be driven in style to the Bridal Pavilion and waved off by your guests. What a perfect ending to such a special day. From relaxed and intimate to awe-inspiring and grand, we think Parklands has it all.

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 450 Accommodation: Yes Tel: 01799 543800 E-mail: enquiries@quendonpark.co.uk www.quendonpark.co.uk

A H AV E N O F L U X U R Y A N D C O M F O R T

Hintlesham Hall Ipswich, Suffolk

This stunning Grade I listed manor house nestles within 175 acres of beautiful Suffolk countryside.

Distinguished by its Georgian additions and by earlier Stuart interior embellishments, if your dream is for a wedding venue that is steeped in history and has a wonderful variety of rooms, each with its own special something to offer, then Hintlesham Hall is for you.

For your ceremony, choose from the magnificent Georgian style Salon; the Carolean Room with its stunning 17th Century plasterwork ceiling or the intimate Justice room. For your reception, the Salon or the pine-panelled Parlour Room are ideal. For that all important wedding breakfast, a broad range of menus is available. Hintlesham Hall’s Head Chef, who has been with the venue for over 20 years, is happy to discuss your requirements and compose a menu that will be both memorable and delicious.

Don’t forget!

Hintlesham Hall boasts extensive and secluded grounds which are a beautiful backdrop for your wedding photographs and, if the sun is shining, they would also make an ideal area for drinks and canapés.

Venue Checklist Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 135 Accommodation: Yes Tel: 01473 652334 E-mail: tracy.carter@hintleshamhall.com www.hintleshamhall.co.uk

UNIQUE AND HISTORIC

Braxted Park Witham, Essex

Braxted Park is a beautiful Queen Anne house set in stunning parkland in the heart of Essex yet within easy reach of London, Hertfordshire, Suffolk and Kent.

Whether you desire a small or large wedding, a church service or civil ceremony, Braxted Park can cater for all eventualities. This elegant country house is a licensed venue as well as having a church within the parkland, so there is no need to go from one venue to another, it can all be catered for in one location.

Braxted Park boasts a variety of rooms which are all fully equipped, and can host anything from 50 to 300 guests. The Reception Hall provides a perfect country house setting for your drinks reception before being seated for your wedding breakfast in the elegant Ballroom.The Pavilion is situated within the Walled Garden and is an idyllic setting in which to celebrate after your ceremony.

ELEGANT AND MODERN

Gilwell Park Epping Forest, Essex Gilwell Park is set in 108 acres on stunning grounds on the edge of Epping Forest. This elegant venue combines 17th Century charm with modern facilities. The White House is a 17th Century Grade II listed building and is the centrepiece of the estate, providing a stunning backdrop for your perfect day. The venue can also offer you the use of its classic banqueting hall in the CIC centre which seats up to 180 guests. The interior can be converted with an internal marquee-style liner to transform the room into the perfect space to host your wedding breakfast.

Wedding receptions at Gilwell Park can obtain exclusive use of the venue, meaning that you don’t have to share your special day with anyone else, and you and your guests can make the most of what Gilwell Park has to offer. We recommend making the most of the outdoor areas for your photographs and maybe even having a barbeque instead of an evening buffet.

However you choose to run your day, the staff will work with you to plan it to perfection from beginning to end, so whether you are dreaming of a sizzling summer event in June or a cosy winter wedding in February, the stunning surroundings of Gilwell Park will provide you with some treasured memories.

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 180 Accommodation: Yes Tel: 0208 498 5300 E-mail: gilwell.conferences@scout.org.uk www.towntocountry.co.uk

When your big day is over you and your new husband can retire to luxurious accommodation. Braxted Park’s bridal suite is a beautiful garden cottage decorated to the highest standards. Why not relax and enjoy a chilled glass of champagne and wind down together and relive the wonderful memories of your wedding day.

Braxted Park offers all the essential ingredients of a fairytale wedding - magnificent English country gardens, the stunning backdrop of Braxted Park house, and tastefully landscaped gardens within a walled garden which are all exclusively yours.

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 300 Accommodation: Yes Tel: 01621 892305 E-mail: office@braxtedparkweddings.co.uk www.braxtedparkweddings.co.uk

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L U X U R I O U S AN D I N D I V I D UAL

Orsett Hall Orsett, Essex

Orsett Hall was originally a 17th Century grade II listed building in Orsett, Essex set in 12 acres of parkland.

Tragically, the original house was destroyed by fire in May 2007 but was rebuilt in the same style and on the same footprint as the original building in 2009.

This luxury 4 star hotel with 32 individually designed bedrooms plays host to a number of weddings each year. The venue can cater from an intimate service of 20 to a more formal affair of up to 350.

Your wedding ceremony can take place within any of the function rooms at the venue and Orsett Hall will soon have a Wedding Lodge within the grounds. There are a variety of rooms available which all benefit from having their own bar. The Pavilion is a beautifully spacious room with the added bonus of having an outdoor seating area; The Gold Room is a light and pretty room with windows overlooking the extensive grounds and for a modern touch, The Whitmore Suite is strikingly decorated in black and gold or The Jaguar Bar is trendy and stylish with a mirrored ceiling.

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 350 Accommodation: Yes Tel: 01375 891 402 E-mail: weddings@orsetthall.co.uk www.orsetthall.co.uk

ELEGANCE, TRANQUILITY AND SECLUSION

The node Codicote, Hertfordshire

Situated near the peaceful village of Codicote, The Node is a grand 19th Century country house.

With 28 acres of beautiful gardens and parkland it certainly sets the scene for a secluded and elegant wedding. You and your guests can relax in these tranquil surroundings that will provide the scene for a memorable wedding day.

The Node can cater for 65 guests for your ceremony conducted in the splendour of the house and 95 for a wedding breakfast in the main restaurant. For larger events a fabulous marquee on the grounds can hold 150 for your evening reception.

Also on offer is a bridal suite and 54 en-suite bedrooms for you and your guests to enjoy meaning you can celebrate late into the night.

The Node’s head chef has created a beautiful and exciting menu for you to enjoy, with fine local produce cooked with passion to make your first meal as husband and wife - truly delicious! You can also meet with the chef and enjoy a tasting session. The staff will be happy to advise you as to which beverage would best accompany your choice of menu making your wedding breakfast one to remember.

Don’t miss…

The Node Wedding Show on Sunday, 30th October!

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 150 Accommodation: Yes Tel: 01438 820361 E-mail: soh.node@chartridge.co.uk www.chartridge.co.uk

Dates for the autumn.

Essex North Weald Golf Club, North Weald Sunday 25th September Warley Park Golf Club, Little Warley near Brentwood Sunday 2nd October Pledgdon Barn, Elsenham Sunday 9th October Greenstead Barn, Halstead Sunday 16th October FASHION SHOW, LIVE MUSIC & BBQ

Park Inn, Harlow Sunday 16th October

FASHION SHOW & LIVE MUSIC

Forrester Park, Great Totham near Maldon Sunday 30th October

Suffolk Sturmer Hall, near Haverhill Sunday 18th September FASHION SHOW & SAMPLE DRESS SALE

The Orwell Hotel, Felixstowe Sunday 23rd October

Cambridgeshire Madingley Hall, Cambridge Sunday 20th November SAMPLE DRESS SALE

01245 850949 • info@weddingshows.uk.com All our shows are open from 10.30am - 3.30pm.

A SPECIAL GIFT WILL BE GIVEN TO THE FIRST 10 BRIDES AT EVERY SHOW. FREE ENTRY and every bride will receive a goody bag which includes a copy of Brides Etc Magazine.

Pre-register to save time on the day at www.weddingshows.uk.com

Complete Wedding Packages Open Day

Sunday 21st August 11am - 4pm • Free Entry

Wedding Fayre

Sunday October 16th 11am - 4pm • Free Entry

from £1,999

Package A • Hire of Venue for Wedding Service (excludes Registrars fee) • Aperitif on Arrival • 3 Course Wedding Breakfast • 2 Glasses of Red or White Wine per person • Celebration Toast Drink • Cake Stand and Cake Knife • Hire of Venue for Evening Celebration • Evening Buffet Sun-Thurs Friday Saturday

2011 £1,999 £2,099 £2,199

2012 £2,099 £2,199 £2,299

Package B • Hire of Venue for Wedding Service (Excludes Registrars Fee) • Chair covers with Organza and Centre Pieces • Cake Table and Head Table Swagging • Cloud 9 Decoration behind Head Table • Runner with Petals • Aperitif on Arrival (Champagne/Bucks Fizz/Kir Royale) • Selection of Canapes • 3 Course Wedding Breakfast • 2 Glasses of Red or White Wine per person • Champagne Celebration Toast Drink • Cake Stand and Cake Knife • Hire of Venue for Evening Celebration • Evening Buffet All Inclusive price of £3,500 Both Package prices are based upon 50 guests.

Tailor made packages also available

The Ivory Rooms , 66-68 Laindon Road, Billericay, Essex CM12 9LD

01277 632378 www.theivoryrooms.com

BRIDES ETC AND WEDDING SHOWS UK LTD ARE RECRUITING FOR THE AUTUMN SEASON We are a professional, expanding company.

There are a variety of positions available including sales and administration.

If you are interested in finding out more please send a CV to our head office at: Unit 5, Bolding Hatch Business Centre, Bishops Stortford Road, Roxwell, Chelmsford, Essex, CM1 4LF or email it to: info@bridesetc.co.uk

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– a day not to be missed!

30th September – 2nd October The National Wedding Show is the UK’s largest wedding event with over 300 exhibitors offering thousands of inspirational ideas for brides-to-be. Why not go along and see for yourself, or enter our fab competition and win VIP tickets so you can visit in style!

FREE ADVICE, FANTASTIC IDEAS Looking for inspiration for your Big Day? Need advice on the dress, your rings, accessories, hair and makeup? Whatever your wedding worries, the National Wedding Show’s team of experts will have the answer. There are also hundreds of products on display, plus your ticket price gives you access to a host of fabulous live events.

ALL ABOUT THE PRETTY

The team behind the fabulous blog Rock My Wedding will be presenting ‘All About The Pretty’, talks that offer the latest and most innovative ideas on a range of wedding essentials from design and décor to stationery and flowers.

THE CATWALK

Showcasing an inspirational display of elegant and stylish dresses, the catwalk is the perfect place to see the latest trends in bridal design and gain inspiration for yourself and your bridal party.

THE HOW TO LOOK GOOD ADVICE CLINIC

The chance to get up close and personal with members of the How to Look Good Team. With experts from the hair and makeup world on hand to give one-to-one advice and consultations, you can’t fail to be impressed and inspired.

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BRIDAL COACHING

Former Britain’s Next Top Model judge Michele Paradise will be holding workshops throughout the show offering practical advice on issues such as how to walk in your wedding shoes and posing for photographs.

DESIGNER FLOWER ZONE THE HOW TO LOOK GOOD SHOW

Brought to you by the producers of How to Look Good Naked, style gurus Caryn Franklin and Jane Galpin will be handpicking members of the audience for a wedding day make-over live on stage!

WIN!

FIVE PAIRS OF VIP TICKETS

The National Wedding Show are offering a limited number of exclusive VIP tickets priced at £35 giving brides to be the chance to plan their perfect day in style. Simply send your name and contact details to: julie@bridesetc.co.uk to be in with a chance of winning.

The Designer Flower Zone in association with the New Covent Garden Flower Market will present the UK’s largest display of wedding flowers in one place. Whatever your style or budget, you’re guaranteed to find inspiration, tips and a floral theme you’ll love The National Wedding Show is extremely popular, so make sure you book well in advance to avoid disappointment. You can also save £2 off the standard adult ticket price if you book now and there are fantastic group savings to be made.

To book visit ww.nationalweddingshow. co.uk or call the ticket hotline on 0844 581 1404.

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Yours

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For unique one off wedding stationery designs visit

www.yoursoccasionally.co.uk for advice and a truly personal service.

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Please email: jon@essexvenues.co.uk or call 07719 442656 if you are a wedding venue or a professional wedding supplier to be listed.

Perfect Planning Organising a wedding is stressful. You want to ensure nothing is left to chance or forgotten. With that in mind, Brides Etc have compiled a checklist to help you through the months leading up to your big day…

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Local wedding planner Helen Carter gave us her top five tips for planning your wedding…

1. Set a budget and divide this across the different aspects of your wedding. Identify two or three important key areas so you know where you want to spend more money and where you may be able to make savings.

2. Create a folder for all your wedding-related paperwork (e.g. receipts, contracts, etc), as well as a list of dates when suppliers require payments or information. Having everything in one place means you can find information easily.

3. Draw up a timeline and set yourself small, achievable targets

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TWO MONTHS BEFORE 3 Double check guest list and send out invitations 3 Select gifts for important members of the bridal party 3 Check details with all your services 3 Choose wedding bands 3 Make hotel reservations for guests from overseas 3 Research local hotels and B&B’s for guests who may want to stay - include information with invite 3 Book make up and hair trial ONE MONTH BEFORE 3 One month before 3 Check wedding party outfits 3 Arrange hen and stag parties 3 Confirm music arrangements 3 Collect marriage license 3 Have your make up and hair trial confirm arrangements for the day TWO WEEKS BEFORE 3 Arrange name change 3 Notify venue/caterer of any last minute changes 3 Confirm arrangements for the day with bridesmaids and ushers etc 3 Do last minute shopping for gifts and for the honeymoon ONE WEEK BEFORE 3 Pack honeymoon case 3 Wrap gifts 3 Remind wedding party of exact timings for the day 3 Go over final details of ceremony and reception with all parties involved ONE DAY TO GO...

3 Relax!

3 Have a manicure and pedicure 3 Give ushers guests list and brief them on the seating plan for the ceremony 3 Check wedding dress THE BIG DAY 3 Eat! It could be hours till you sit down for your meal 3 Have your hair and make up done 3 Appoint family members to check ceremony and reception room 3 Enjoy your day!

for each month. This will make your to-do list more manageable.

4. Make sure you know exactly what is included in a venue or supplier quote. For example, check whether the quote includes things like VAT and set-up/delivery charges, as costs like these can make a big difference to your budget.

5. Try not to get too obsessed about the tiny details. Naturally you want everything to be perfect, but don’t let the preparations take over your life. Take time away from your planning to have fun together.

Contact www.helencarterweddings.co.uk

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• weddings • event planning • bar services • canapé receptions • bbq’s • corporate catering

Bespoke Wedding Catering Combining delicious food prepared to the highest standards with a strong focus on events management, you can be guaranteed a first-class wedding with Limeberry Catering.

www.limeberrycatering.co.uk enquiries@limeberrycatering.co.uk

07851 217925 07920 426590

Win your wedding worth over £3000!

Planning a wedding is one of the most wonderful, yet most stressful, times of your life. On top of your dress, suits and rings, there’s the huge expense of hiring the venue and paying for the wedding breakfast and evening entertainment. How magical, and what a weight off your mind, if you could have these three things for free. Well, thanks to Brides Etc and the wonderful Warley Park Golf Club, one lucky bride will do just that! Read on for more about this lovely venue, and start entering our competition – someone has to win – why not you?!

Wonderful Warley

Warley Park Golf Club is situated in the picturesque village of Little Warley, Brentwood. Set amid a glorious parkland golf course, the clubhouse boasts a fine lounge and restaurant overlooking some of the finest scenery in Essex, and offers a high standard of service in a friendly, relaxed atmosphere. Also for your comfort and convenience is the lovely Terrace Room and Viewing Gallery providing a view of the lakes and the 27th green. The Lakeside Function Room offers a wonderful panoramic view of the course and stunning lakes. In 2009 the Club was granted a licence to host wedding ceremonies and civil partnerships, and has proved extremely popular with brides from Essex and beyond.

The Lakesview Room

This is a beautiful room in which to take your vows. Situated on the first floor with floor to ceiling windows overlooking the golf course and lakes, the fantastic views make a wonderful backdrop for this most special of occasions. The Lakesview Room can accommodate up to 140 guests during the day and a maximum of 150 evening guests. For a more intimate wedding you may want to opt for the Guests’ Terrace which is the perfect location for up to 60 guests.

Your special day

The friendly and experienced staff at Warley Park will help you plan every step of your big day. Every wedding is unique to the team and they will work hard to ensure your day is truly happy and memorable. Photographs can be taken on the course using the best locations to ensure you have beautiful mementos to remember and there is always someone on hand to advise and assist. Functions Manager Mandy, can also help with tailoring your celebrations with balloons, napkins, flowers, candles or any other requirements you may have, such as decorating the room in your favourite colours.

Fantastic food and drink

There are a wide range of menus to choose from at Warley.

Staff will work with you to ensure that the menu you select is to your style and taste. They can also offer alternative meals for children or reduced prices for smaller portions of your chosen menu. From canapés and drinks on arrival, to the wedding breakfast itself and the evening buffet, presentation is always paramount to Warley’s team of chefs.

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WIN A FABULOUS

WEDDING PACKAGE AT WARLEY GOLF CLUB Courtesy of the fantastic folk at Warley Park, one lucky reader will win: • Free Room Hire • 60 guests for a wedding breakfast • 100 evening guests (including buffet) • Table Magician • The services of a DJ

Total cost: £3600

To be in with a chance of winning, simply send your name and contact details to: julie@bridesetc.co.uk The very best of luck!

Contact

Tel: 01277-224891 E-mail: mandy@warleyparkgc.co.uk www.warleyparkgc.co.uk

Dates for the autumn.

Hertfordshire Three Lakes, Ware Sunday 4th September Aldenham Golf Club, Watford Saturday 17th September Bluntswood Hall, Throcking Sunday 25th September Hanbury Manor, Ware Sunday 9th October FASHION SHOW & LIVE MUSIC

Batchworth Park, Rickmansworth Sunday 16th October Quality Hotel, St Albans Sunday 23rd October FASHION SHOW

The Node, Codicote Sunday 30th October FASHION SHOW

01245 850949 • info@weddingshows.uk.com All our shows are open from 10.30am - 3.30pm.

A SPECIAL GIFT WILL BE GIVEN TO THE FIRST 10 BRIDES AT EVERY SHOW. FREE ENTRY and every bride will receive a goody bag which includes a copy of Brides Etc Magazine.

Pre-register to save time on the day at www.weddingshows.uk.com

Flowers by Tracey At Flowers By Tracy we know that your wedding is a special occasion.

HEATHER AND WOOD t h e f i n e a r t o f f l o r i s t r y

We take time with our customers to show you our unique designs using only the finest and freshest available flowers and foliage from around the world.

To book a free Wedding Consultation at Heather and Wood's Studio, your Home or Venue please do not hesitate to call

07725 851627/01622 260488 or email us at info@heatherandwood.co.uk w heatherandwood.co.uk

01708 372729 7 Grange Road, Harold Hill Romford, Essex, RM3 7DU. www.tracyflowers.co.uk

Quality Hotel - St Albans

Fantastic Weddings at Affordable Prices Wedding Show

• Wedding Breakfast for up to 150 guests • Evening Reception for up to 200 guests • Individually Priced Selector Menu, enabling you

Sunday 23rd October

to have full control of your budget • Range of drinks packages to complement your choice of menu • Bar situated within function room for your private use • Special Accommodation Rates for your guests • Ample Free Car parking • Complimentary 1st year Anniversary Stay for Bride & Groom • Personal Service from our experienced, friendly and professional team

Contact our Conference & Events Manager to view our excellent facilities or request a wedding information pack.

Quality Hotel St.Albans, 232 - 236 London Road St.Albans, Hertfordshire AL1 1JQ

Tel: 01727 857 858 Fax: 01727 855 666

Email: st.albans@quality-hotels.net www.stalbans-hotels.co.uk

Bride: Emily Daniels, 29 Groom: Jody Gray, 37 Home: Ashvale, Hampshire Venue: Brandshatch Place Hotel and Spa, Kent Date: August 6th 2010

Special Delivery Emily’s days as a shop assistant at Laura Ashley were brightened by delivery driver Jody, but it took a colleague to lock him in the shop before he plucked up the courage to ask her out! Seven years later, Emily received a special delivery of her own when Jody proposed, and last year they were married…

I will never forget the first time I saw Jody. It was back in 2002 and I was working at Laura Ashley in Guildford while studying for a Degree in Retail Management at the University of Surrey. Jody was the store’s delivery man, and had the most wonderful smile and chatty, friendly manner. ‘Amtrack Man’ the other girls nicknamed him, and they’d giggle and whisper as he came in and made a beeline to talk to me. ‘Are you excited?’ they’d laugh as I knew a delivery was due. I’d tell them to be quiet, but secretly I’d think: ‘Oh please ask me out!’ I’d never have had the nerve to ask Jody, but it was obvious that I fancied him and I was sure he liked me too. ‘Something is bound to happen’ the girls would say, but I think they were getting fed up that nothing had! One day I was on my tea break in the staff room when one of the girls rang and said ‘Hurry up Emily, Amtrack Man is here and I’ve locked him in the shop!’ I had to rush back to the shop floor to let him out and then, finally, he asked me if I’d like to go for a drink. Hallelujah! Of course I said yes immediately and as soon as he’d gone everyone started cheering!

Worth the wait

My first date with Jody was at a lovely little Italian restaurant in Twickenham. While I’d built this date up

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for months and months I can honestly say Jody didn’t disappoint. It was obvious from the start that he was a really special man. He was so trustworthy and kind. I’d had bad experiences in relationships in the past, but this just felt right. Perfect actually! He was fun and friendly and the perfect gentleman. After that date Jody and I saw each other practically every day and stayed with each other when we could. Once I left University a year later, Jody got a flat in Aldershot and I moved in with him and got a job in recruitment.

A special surprise

A few weeks after we began dating, Jody had announced that he had a daughter, Bethan, who was three at the time and who he cared for most weekends. I appreciated his honesty, but I must admit it was quite daunting at first. It was about a month later that I finally met Bethan and I shouldn’t have worried. We instantly took to each other and I found her to be a really lovely little girl.

Luckily she was very young and so she has grown up with me always around, and I think the world of her.

Happy families

For the next six years Jody and I lived together happily, enjoying time with each other and with Bethan. Of

course I wanted to get married. It was something I’d always dreamt of even as a child because I could see what a wonderful relationship my mum and dad, Linda and Ken, have. They’ve been together for 40 years and, like me, thrive on family life. Marriage wasn’t as important to Jody however, as his mum Angela had passed away when he was young and he wasn’t that close to his dad, David. Still, we did talk about tying the knot. We’d even chosen a ring, a single diamond on a white gold band from Ernest Jones in Guildford, but Jody wouldn’t let me have it ‘until the time is right.’ One day in May 2009 we took our dog for a walk and Jody stopped by our favourite tree, got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I couldn’t stop grinning as he slipped the longed-for engagement ring onto my finger.

A family wedding

everywhere but no one had it. Eventually we struck lucky with Pronuptia in London who said they could order it in. Luckily the dress was perfect and nothing else I tried on compared to it. For the bridesmaids, my best friend Gwen, Bethan and Jody’s niece Georgiana, I decided on a midnight blue theme. Gwen’s dress was from Coast and mum added a blue ribbon to Bethan and Georgiana’s white dresses from John Lewis, along with blue flowers to their pretty white headbands. I followed the colour scheme through for Jody and his best man Darryl Johnson’s suits, which we got from Moss Bros, plus I chose white roses and cute little blue flowers called ‘bluebies’ for my bouquet and the bridesmaids’ flowers, and our florist Karen Wolven even decorated our white Marks and Spencer three tier chocolate, vanilla and fruit cake with trailing blue and white blooms.

Once our engagement was official I got all caught up in the excitement of planning the wedding. I knew I didn’t want a church service or a large, glamorous do.

I wanted to keep things simple. I don’t particularly like being the centre of attention, so the most important thing for me was to feel comfortable and to find a venue that was homely and relatively small. Sounds easy, but I looked at and turned down so many hotels and country houses before finding Brandshatch Place.

I immediately fell in love with Brandshatch’s size, its

A family affair

In keeping with the family theme of the wedding I chose Sarah Daniels to do my hair. I’d known Sarah for many years, and wouldn’t trust anyone else. She gave me a fantastic ‘up do’ which shimmered with diamante pins. For the pictures I hired Sue Comber who works with my sister Anna Phipps and does photography part time. Then it was time to have one last girly night out before the big day. Anna, Vicky, mum and my friends went for Tea at the Ritz which was lovely and very refined. Then my friends and I said goodbye to my family and headed off for a night at a London cocktail bar, staying overnight at a hotel. Jody meanwhile was having fun with his stags paintballing and go-karting in Bournemouth.

intimacy and its staff. Because our chosen wedding date coincided with the Superbikes Weekend at the nearby Brandshatch motor racing circuit, the venue offered us a great discount and we were able to book the whole venue and all the rooms which avoided any chance of random bikers in leathers wandering in on our special day! That swayed it for us, and we booked on the spot.

Dressing to impress

My priority after booking the venue was my dress. I looked on the internet constantly and fell in love with a gown by Maggie Sottero called ‘Caprice’ with the most remarkable beaded detail on the back. The problem was finding a stockist! Mum and I rang

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Wedding day nerves

The night before the wedding I stayed at my parents’ house and we all drove to Brandshatch Place the next morning so I could get ready for the 1.30pm ceremony. I don’t know what was wrong with me that day, but from the minute I awoke I was filled with nerves, literally shaking! To make matters worse I could hear the roar of the Superbikes as I neared the venue and burst into tears. I had to sit in the car outside as Jody had stayed at the hotel the night before and mum had to make sure he wouldn’t see me. It was like a Carry On film as mum and Sarah, who was already waiting for me, ran around making sure the coast was clear! As I hurried to my room I was in a state of panic, and even Gwen

looked at me, raised her eyebrows and said ‘It’s not good’. ‘Oh my gosh, are we going to hear this all day?’

I replied. Luckily by 12 0’ clock the noisy drone had died away, but my nerves hadn’t! Even though I was thrilled with my dress and hair I couldn’t stop shaking.

Barry, the Toastmaster, said I was the most nervous bride he’d ever seen and my dad thought I wouldn’t go through with the wedding!

honeymoon – two weeks in sunny California - it was amazing! Being Jody’s wife is incredible but still feels a little odd at times. We joke as we say ‘Hello my wife’ or ‘Hello my husband’ – funny but lovely. A little while after the wedding I bumped into someone who used to work at Laura Ashley. ‘Are you still with the AMtrack man?’ she asked. ‘Actually, I married him’ I answered, proud as punch!’

All’s well that ends well

Thankfully as soon as the doors opened and I heard the opening bars to the entrance of The Queen of Sheba I knew I’d be fine. I could see Jody waiting patiently for me at the altar and I took a deep breath and smiled.

And then just couldn’t stop smiling – and giggling! As dad and I walked in through the doors and the eyes of our 90 guests turned to look at me, my shoulders began heaving – I was in fits. I’m sure everyone thought ‘What is she on?!’ Don’t get me wrong, I was incredibly happy, just still so nervous and thinking ‘Oh gosh I’m going to do something stupid!’ Then I couldn’t get Jody’s ring on. When we’d tried it on in the shop it had fitted perfectly, but now it was just stuck and I had to really shove it to get it on. It could only happen to me!

A new beginning

Thankfully we got through the ceremony without me doing anything crazy and after that I was fine – all my nerves melted away – I was Mrs Gray and I was ecstatic! We’d enjoyed beautiful music throughout the ceremony from a string quartet, and then while Jody and I signed the register Vicky played the oboe.

Jody had chosen the piece Gabriel’s Oboe and it was lovely. Our guests enjoyed drinks and canapés while Clint’s Jazz Band performed Rat Pack songs and Sue took pictures. Then it was off for a wonderful wedding breakfast. Later we cut the cake and then had speeches from Darryl and my dad. I hadn’t known Jody was going to speak, but he stood up and said he just had to mention his mum. I knew how close they had been and it was incredibly moving. I felt so lucky at that moment to have married such a wonderful, loving person and I couldn’t help welling up. As our extra 30 evening guests arrived the brilliant disco provided by the hotel began. Our first dance as man and wife was to Van Morrison’s Have I Told You Lately and the lyrics really couldn’t have summed up my feelings any better.

Despite all the nerves earlier in the day I really didn’t want to say goodnight at midnight. It was just idyllic to be stood with those I loved eating bacon sandwiches looking out over the Kent countryside and reminiscing on what was such a wonderful day!

A day to remember

I couldn’t tell you what the highlight of my wedding day was - it went by so quickly and was so perfect.

I can’t imagine anything that could have added to it. Perhaps I will remember the moment, back in our room, sat with Jody on our bridal bed surrounded by cards and presents. I’d insisted on opening everything in an effort to keep the day going. I was far too happy to sleep! Luckily I didn’t have time for post wedding blues, because two days later Jody and I jetted off on

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Recreate Emily and Jody’s Wedding Venue

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Live music is so much more romantic than an i-pod playing Think how special it will make your parents feel to hear through small speakers. Imagine how special it will feel an acoustic version of their first dance song or perhaps to hear an incredible musician playing your favourite you have a childhood memory of your grandparent playing piece of music especially for you. Live music will make you a piece on the piano...wouldn’t it be lovely to hear this your wedding ceremony completely unique, personalised again on your wedding day. and unforgettable.

A great way to entertain your guests

During the drinks reception, live music becomes the focal point when you are busy having photographs taken.

For some of your more distant relations, who might only appear in the big group photo, the drinks reception can be quite a lonely experience, so live music can act as an ice breaker and a talking point. People are happy to sit and listen to live music if they are nervous about meeting new people. A great live musician can dazzle your guests with fantastic playing, they can play requests on the spot and your friends will almost definitely be discussing the music and playing ‘name that tune’.

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On Song

The correct choice of musician on your Big Day can make a truly memorable wedding. From a beautiful love song or lilting piano instrumental as you sign the register, to an upbeat band guaranteed to fill the dance floor at your reception, great entertainment can really be the icing on the cake. This feature will tell you a little more about the faces behind the music of some fabulous acts. We hope one of them hits the right note with you.

Piano DJ Piano DJ is a company formed and ran by professional pianist and wedding musician James Hughes. James has many years experience and a wonderful reputation for providing exceptional musicians for weddings. James prides himself on getting to know his clients and matching the right musician to complement your musical tastes.

Committed and always highly professional, your pianist can offer music throughout your ceremony; at your wedding breakfast; during your drinks reception and in the evening. With a range of styles from classical to jazz, modern to romantic, there is something for everyone.

What’s even better is that Piano DJ also provides a DJ, sound system and lighting rig, so one call and all your entertainment can be dealt with by enthusiastic and skilled professionals. As James tells us: I remember a bride saying: “James, you really do have the best job ever, you spend your life making people happy.” I was really made up when she said that and it made me feel so proud of my talent.

The Spinettes Meet Melanie Cripps, Emily Shaw and Bonnie Parker, aka The Spinettes, three beautiful ladies who will add a touch of glamour and old-fashioned panache to your wedding day.

Specialising in polished, professional music and dance performances, The Spinettes are spectacular to watch as they take you on a journey featuring classic songs from the 40s to the 60s. From incredible harmonies to stunning costumes, this is one girl group who will appeal to guests old and young. The Spinettes are happy for you to customise your wedding as you see fit, and to utilise their unique skills for performances throughout your big day from the ceremony to the wedding breakfast and into the evening. As the girls told us: We will never forget one lovely bride who said: “Please can I be a Spinette?”

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Why Piano DJ would be great for your wedding…

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Why The Spinettes would be great for your wedding…

If you want your toes tapping, your hips swinging and to leave your guests wanting more, then all you have to do is call upon The Spinettes!

Tel: 07515552491 E-mail: thespinettes@hotmail.com www.thespinettes.co.uk

One Foot in the Groove A fun, flexible, party band covering the South East, One Foot in the Groove are a collection of professional musicians who perform an exciting variety of music from the 60s to the present day. Available as a five, six, seven or eight piece collective which includes drums, keyboards, vocals, saxophone and trumpet, they are guaranteed to get the party started! Singer Louise Perry tells us “Its great to earn a living from something you love doing and One Foot in the Groove love weddings! We know exactly what’s required to make a great party and are very honoured when asked to play on someone’s special day”. In addition to the band, One Foot in the Groove provide a free disco between sets and also offer the service of the Jazz Collective who can provide beautiful music throughout your ceremony, drinks reception or wedding breakfast.

Whatever your dream, One Foot in the Groove have the flexibility and the manpower to make it happen!

Emma Evans Emma Evans is a young solo singer with more than ten years experience of singing professionally at weddings. Specialising in haunting classical arias which would sound incredible at your ceremony, Emma also loves to perform popular ballads and jazz standards with backing tapes or with your pianist/organist and is available to perform throughout your big day if required. Always guaranteed to create a wonderful atmosphere with her moving and powerful voice, you could well see some tears too as Emma captures and conveys the passion of our favourite songs. As she told us: “The most memorable gig I have done was a traditional church ceremony at Saint Catherines in Gosfield.

Id been requested by the Groom to sing Youll Never Walk Alone because he was from Liverpool and a big football fan. He wanted the song to be kept a surprise from his family and friends so it wasn’t printed on the Order of Service. The moment I started to sing the atmosphere was electric. Everyone started singing along with me and swaying. It was amazing.”

Why Emma Evans would be great for your wedding…

How better to personalise your ceremony than by including some of your favourite songs, sung live to you and your guests!

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Why One Foot in the Groove would be great for your wedding…

We are experts within our field and guaranteed to give you a great night!

Tel: 07795 555696 E-mail: info@onefootinthegroove.co.uk www.onefootinthegroove.co.uk Premonition Duo Premonition Duo are Lisa and Graham (known as G) Martin. This down-to-earth and fun married couple are professional musicians who really enjoy singing at weddings and have a repertoire which covers everything from Swing to Motown, Soul to Disco. Whatever your favourite style, they have the skill to provide a fantastic night. As Lisa tells us; “We really enjoy having fun and mixing with the crowd so you can expect your dance floor to be packed!” Premonition Duo can also provide a disco with lighting in between live sets.

Why Premonition Duo would be great for your wedding…

Were versatile and happy to tailor make sets to your requirements, including performing your chosen first dance. We absolutely love what we do and it shows!

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At The Hertfordshire Golf & Country Club we specialise in wedding ceremonies & receptions. We aim to take care of all your requirements, leaving you to relax & enjoy your special day.

Each wedding package at The Hertfordshire includes;  Exclusive wedding use of The Hertfordshire  Guidance & organisation from our dedicated Wedding Co-ordinator & experienced Food & Beverage Manager  A red carpet welcome

 If you choose, a member of our team will act as master of ceremonies throughout your day  Complimentary car parking for all wedding guests

 A selection of wedding menu choices from which to choose  A variety of wines and drinks  A golf buggy to transport you to the course & picturesque lake for memorable photographs  Use of silver cake stand, knife & ornate table plan stand White linen table cloths & napkins Contact our Wedding Co-ordinator on 01992 466666 ext. 245 or email hertfordshire-events@crown-golf.co.uk The Hertfordshire Golf & Country Club Broxbournebury Mansion, White Stubbs Lane Broxbourne, Hertfordshire EN10 7PY

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YOUR BIG DAY

DOWN TO A TEE!

Golf courses aren’t just for the sports-mad. Very often the acres of lush greenery which come as standard provide, not only a wonderful setting for your wedding pictures, but also feature a stunning building nestled away in which to tie the knot and hold your reception and evening entertainment too. Have a look at these gorgeous golf clubs. We are sure there will be one that ticks all the boxes…

MODERN AND MEMORABLE

North Weald Golf Club North Weald, Essex Set in 160 acres of rolling countryside, the spacious, modern facilities at North Weald Golf Club make the perfect backdrop for your special day. The friendly and dedicated staff will look after your every need and will make sure your day will be a memorable one.

Facilities within the spacious clubhouse include a player’s lounge and the bright and airy Bassett Suite with a private bar catering for up to 140 people. The venue is licensed for civil wedding ceremonies so your whole day can be held under one roof. You are able to get married in either the lovely Bassett Suite or, for more intimate ceremonies, the Hurricane Bar overlooking the golf course is ideal.

To view the venue and meet local wedding suppliers, come along to the North Weald Wedding Show on

Sunday, 25th September Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 140 Accommodation: No Tel: 01992 522118 E-mail: aforderbleevents@northwealdgolfclub.co.uk www.northwealdgolfclub.co.uk Images courtesy of Im-Art Wedding Photography.

TRADITIONAL AND PERSONAL

Forrester Park Great Totham, Essex

Located in luscious green countryside, Forrester Park Golf and Country Club is based around an Essex barn.

The venue offers a traditional setting for weddings and is licensed to hold civil ceremonies.

There are several different areas available for your wedding or reception. 120 people can be accommodated in Forrester’s Restaurant or the venue can also cater for smaller, more personal weddings.

There are attractive gardens with patios and lawns which make the ideal background for those all important photographs.

Don’t miss the Forrester Park Wedding Show on

Sunday, 30th October to find out more about this beautiful wedding venue.

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 120 Accommodation: No Tel: 01621 891406 E-mail: info@forresterparkltd.com www.forresterparkltd.com

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GOLF VENUES I N T I M AT E A N D P R E T T Y

Aldenham Golf Club Aldenham, Hertfordshire Set in the lovely Hertfordshire village of Aldenham, the Aldenham Golf Glub provides a picturesque setting for your wedding. The Haywain Restaurant can seat up to 70 guests for a formal banquet and up to 150 for a buffet style function. The conservatory, which overlooks the golf course, is suitable for small bookings of up to 30 people.

The venue itself is flexible and will accommodate your needs wherever they can. If you wish, this includes a meeting with the head chef to discuss your wedding menu. Aldenham Golf Club is conveniently located near the M25 making it easily accessible for your guests, but in the peace and quiet of a suburban village.

Visit the Aldenham Golf Club Wedding Show on

Saturday 17th September

to find out more about this fabulous wedding venue.

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: No Capacity for sit down: 70 Accommodation: No Tel: 01923 853929 E-mail: info@aldenhamgolfclub.co.uk www.aldenhamgolfclub.co.uk

U N I Q U E A N D H O S TO R I C A L

The Hertfordshire Broxbourne, Hertfordshire Set in an area of outstanding natural beauty, The Hertfordshire Golf and Country Club is located just outside of Broxbourne. It boasts a stunning Grade II listed mansion surrounded by glorious Hertfordshire countryside overlooking picturesque lakes with views across the golf course.

There are a variety of rooms available to suit your taste at the Hertfordshire. The Colonial and St James suites offer stunning views over the golf course and can cater for up to 130 guests for a sit down meal. The St James and Bosanquet Suites are ideal for more intimate weddings and are licensed for civil ceremonies for up to 70 guests. Why not enhance the history of these rooms with a reading or some live music?

Every wedding is unique at the Hertfordshire and the staff offer an individual approach to your arrangements and a desire to make your day truly memorable. You will be provided with an experienced wedding coordinator to help advise you and to arrange all the details, ensuring the only hitch on your wedding day is the one you have planned.

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 135 Accommodation: No Tel: 01992 466666 E-mail: hertfordshire-events@crown-golf.co.uk www.thehertfordshiregolf.co.uk

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Batchworth Park Golf Club is proud to announce our first ever Wedding Fayre on Forrester Park is a traditional building based around a 16th century barn and set in stunning countryside, with attractive gardens, patio and lawns.

With over 40 years’ experience of organising weddings, we are renowned for our friendly, welcoming atmosphere.

You and your guests can relax, knowing that behind the scenes our professional wedding team are looking after every aspect of your day.

Sunday 16th October 2011 from 10.30am until 3.30pm.

Please come and view our beautiful clubhouse with stunning views overlooking the Hertfordshire countryside.

To find out more, or to arrange to come and see us, please do not hesitate to get in touch with our wedding manager, Katie Jacobs, via the contact details below.

Alternatively, visit our wedding show on

Sunday 30th October.

FORRESTER PARK

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When only Perfect will do...

W E D D I N G S AT N O R T H W E A L D G O L F C L U B weddings at north weald golf club

Set in 160 acres of rolling countryside and beautiful greenery, the spacious, modern facilities make the perfect backdrop for your special day.

Conveniently located less than 2 miles from the M11and just 15 minutes from Stansted Airport. With unlimited free car parking within the grounds, our location makes us the ideal venue.

Our friendly and dedicated staff will look after your every need and they will make sure your day with us will be a memorable one.

For more details contact us on: 01992 522118 Alternatively,visit our website at: www.northwealdgolfclub.co.uk

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GOLF VENUES

P I C T U R E S Q U E A N D P R I V AT E

London Golf Club Nr Brands Hatch, Kent Set in the heart of the North Downs countryside, in an area of outstanding natural beauty, is the London Golf Club. The setting provides a picturesque and private venue for your wedding day. As you arrive via the mile long driveway to the entrance of the stunning clubhouse you will be greeted by a fantastic view - a real wow factor right from the start! In summer, drinks and canapés can be served on the terrace and in winter, the oak-panelled Great Hall offers a warm alternative.

Stunning views and elegant décor characterise the Banqueting Room, which is the perfect space for any wedding breakfast. With amazing views over the lakes and manicured lawns, the backdrop will make your wedding photographs truly special.

There are a wide variety of menus on offer at the London Golf Club and you will have a wedding breakfast to remember with the help of the friendly and dedicated team who will help you plan every last detail, from the toastmaster to the flowers and all the little things in between that will create the perfect start to your married life.

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 132 Accommodation: No Tel: 01474 875720 E-mail: weddings@londongolf.co.uk www.londongolf.co.uk/weddings

PERFECT INSIDE AND OUT

Channels Little Waltham, Essex Whether you are looking for a traditional church wedding or a modern civil ceremony, the Essex Barn at Channels is ideal for your special day. Set in beautiful surroundings, with large outside areas, you’ll be hoping for a sunny day to make the most of what this venue has to offer.

The Essex Barn can seat 90 for a ceremony and 130 for your wedding breakfast. For a more intimate wedding the Trophy Room can seat a maximum of 20.

At Channels a unique ‘tailor made’ service is offered to match your exact requirements. A team of wedding organisers will be on hand to assist with every aspect of your wedding to create the day you have been dreaming of.

BRIDES ETC LOVE...

Channels Lodge, a converted 15th Century Tudor House with a courtyard and 14 en-suite bedrooms.

These include two fabulously designed Bridal Suites.

The perfect end to your special day!

Venue Checklist: Civil Licence: Yes Capacity for sit down: 130 Accommodation: Yes Tel: 01245 441547 or 0845 873 5718 E-mail: info@channelslodge.co.uk www.channelslodge.co.uk

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London Golf Club Simply Unforgettable

Your wedding is a unique occasion. At London Golf Club we know how important it is to host this special day in the ideal setting.

Licensed for civil ceremonies and partnerships, our venue, with its peerless elegance provides a stunning backdrop to your celebration.

Matched with the knowledge and passion of our staff, the dining experience you will find is simply first class and is a perfect compliment to your stunning once in a lifetime event.

Welcome to London Golf Club, the perfect stage for your wedding.

To request our wedding brochure call 01474 879899, or email us at weddings@londongolf.co.uk www.londongolf.co.uk

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Hi Guys, welcome back to Grooms Etc. We hope that you are able to prise Brides Etc out of your fiancés hands long enough to grab a pint and have a read of our dedicated men’s section. Alternatively, you can pick up your own copy of Brides Etc from your local train station and hide it inside your newspaper on the way to work. Don’t be shy, Grooms Etc is proving incredibly popular, so you’ll be in good company! Since the last issue we have been inundated with companies, all vying to bring you the latest products plus experts wanting to offer advice and tips, on everything from confidence building to fitness, nutrition to fashion and booze to sporting activities. We’re overwhelmed with just how popular we are, but before we get too big-headed, have a look at our latest offering and let us know what you think. After all, Grooms Etc is your magazine and you dictate what we write about (you can always send your ideas to our Editor Julie on julie@groomsetc.co.uk or via our new website www.groomsetc.co.uk). In the meantime, chill out and lust after the latest in traditional footwear (p79), and check out our fantastic Stag competition on p87 which could see you and all your mates get sozzled on the best free wine around – all in the company of a top chef. What are you waiting for?!

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A GROOMING EXPERIENCE FOR YOU AND YOUR MATES!

How do you fancy a fabulous pampering experience at top London hotel the St Pancras Renaissance?

Courtesy of luxury salon Melogy, founded by GQ magazine’s ‘Barber of Choice’ Carmelo Guastella, you and three mates will receive a consultation followed by a new hairstyle; designer beard or stubble; grooming lessons; a traditional wet shave and styling and of course, plenty of champagne! The catch? Well, we’d like you to tell us about your day and have your picture taken by our designer/ photographer and all round cool bloke, Grant, so that we can feature it in the next issue. Still game? Then send your name and contact details to: julie@groomsetc.co.uk

Julie Burniston Editor Front Cover Photography Dan Casson Photography www.dancasson.com

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An oldie but a goodie, the Aramis range still rocks. The body tonic, aftershave spray and body shampoo is great for using after a work-out. www.esteelauder.co.uk/Men_Fragrance

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Best foot forward…

Once you’ve bought your suit you may think you can sit back and relax, but what about those all-important shoes? No good leaving them till the last minute and ruining your big day with blisters or spoiling the look of an otherwise dapper outfit with mismatched loafers! Why not take a look at these traditional wedding shoes, read our tips and get some expert advice from suiting and booting experts, Moss Bros …

Expert Opinion

Our Top Tips

Moss Bros say…

When choosing your wedding shoes, remember to consider comfort - bearing in mind you will be wearing them all day!

In terms of styling, think about the diameter of the foot hole, narrower shoes for narrower legged trousers. Also, if you’re wearing a light coloured suit, it’s wise to ensure that the colour of the sole is similarly light in tone.

Traditional Look

• If you’re going for a traditional style suit, your shoes should be leather, lace up, and well polished.

• The colour of your shoes should be based on the colour of your suit. Sometimes a brown shoe may look better than black. For example, black shoes will go well with a grey suit but brown will look great with a tan suit.

• Remember that if you are going to be kneeling at the altar, then the soles of your shoes will be visible to the congregation - so remove all the labels!

• Wear your shoes around the house for a few days after you buy them to soften the leather and make them more comfortable for the big day.

• When buying online it’s important to order your shoes early enough for them to be exchanged if you need to. You want to allow enough time for your shoes to be delivered to you and enough time to find something else if you are not happy with them.

Saddle Shoe £120 www.asos.com

Moss Boss suggest: Blazer black leather high-shine lace up with highlight colour lining and blazer tan leather pindot brogue with highlight colour lining. www.mossbros.co.uk

Casual Look

J Jeans by Jasper Conran £80 www.debenhams.com

Jones Bootmaker www.jonesbootmaker.com

Quirky Look Frankie Brogue £66.99 www.office.co.uk

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THE GROOMS ROOM

Your complete guide to mental, physical and emotional fitness…

Being fit isn’t just about having great pecs, it’s about being happy in mind and spirit too.The Grooms Room brings you expert advice and tips on how to feel and look the best you possibly can…

THE WORKOUT Every issue personal trainer Paul Hawley brings you easy to follow fitness tips. This issue it’s Russian Kettlebells.

A fab, ‘quick fix’ workout!

Using Kettlebells can seriously change the shape of your body. A session with them can burn up to 800 calories an hour as long as you follow a healthy diet too.

What are Kettlebells?

Kettlebells; iron cannonballs with a handle ranging from 4kg to 32kg, are an ancient Russian army training tool.

The Swing

Great for: bum, calves, shoulders and abs This exercise can be performed with one or both arms. Place the Kettlebell between the legs with the feet outside, hip width apart, in a plié squat position. Start with the knees bent, chest up and arm(s) straight, keeping elbows and wrists fixed. Using the legs, back, hips and core, pull the Kettlebell forwards up to head height, thrusting the hips and straightening the legs until the Kettlebell swings in a pendulum action to a ‘Superman’ position at the top and a semi squat position at the bottom of the swing.

BUILDING CONFIDENCE Confidence is about being happy with who you are and not needing the constant approval of others. Life Coach Steve Roach tells us more…

1. Think positive Confidence is a habit, and habits come from the way we think. The next time you feel a negative emotion, notice your thinking, it will be negative! To become more confident, learn to catch these negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones.

2. Visualise yourself as a confident person Visualisation and anchoring techniques are simple to do and an extremely effective way of building confidence. Close your eyes and picture how a confident you would look. Now remember a time when you acted in a confident way. Capture those good feelings and make them stronger and stronger as you hold the picture of the confident you in your mind.

3. Don’t people please Ultimately it’s our fear of the way others see us that knocks our confidence. Let go of the need to feel liked and you will be more relaxed and confident. Remember, it’s impossible to please everyone all the time!

4. Step outside your comfort zone Top sports coaches encourage their athletes to experience things they haven’t tried before. By stepping outside their comfort zone, it enables them to cope with pressure in their sport. Expanding your comfort zone doesn’t mean you have to do an extreme sport. Start with something as simple as ordering something new from the takeaway menu, or chatting to a stranger.

Contact e-mail: steve@thinkeasy.co.uk

The Burpee

Great for: arms, chest, back and legs Place two Kettlebells with handles at the 12 o’clock position then get into an elevated press up with the feet in a ridged plank starting position. Jump in with both feet, landing with heels down and knees bent between the Kettlebells. Now perform a Dead Lift to the upright position with the arms straight, chest up, shoulders back.

Bending the knees, put the Kettlebells down and repeat.

TREAT YOURSELF Why not splash out before the big day with a new aftershave or maybe you are after a great pressie for your best man? Here are a couple of our favourites.

Gucci Guilty: A seriously seductive cocktail of orange blossom and woody accords of cedar and patchouli, pefect for a wild celebratory party.

Photos courtesy of Grant Poole-Adams • www.gpa-dc.com

Contact

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Joop Splash: Try this for a scent that lasts beyond the wedding day and all the way to your honeymoon! It will add a masculine touch that will keep you cool under the collar. www.theperfumeshop.com

Y B D L I W GO !

T S A O C E TH What TYF offers TYF is a unique, family run company which offers surfing, coasteering, climbing and kayaking among many other activities - perfect for a lively stag weekend. After a fun day with your mates, chill out with a beer in one of four recently acquired bell tents. These tents come with a therm-a-rest double mattress and solar lighting.

TYF have capacity for groups of up to 24 people to camp in 4 bell tents, or up to 40 people in smaller 3 man tents on a campsite just minutes from the activity locations and a short walk in to town. Larger groups could also choose to stay at the nearby Celtic Camping which offers comfortable bunks in a spacious campsite in beautiful surroundings. (find out more at www.celtic-camping.co.uk).

Taking the plunge

To celebrateTYF’s 25th anniversary, Brides Etc were thrilled to be invited to test the place for ourselves, and who better to pack off to Pembrokeshire than country girl Kat, our Editorial Assistant and her adrenalin junkie partner Simon…

Kat says: I’ve been to St David’s numerous times in my life, my family has spent holidays there since the 60’s, so I’d known about TYF for a while. When I was offered the chance to go I reckoned I could get Simon to do all the crazy activities while I stood by taking pictures - no such luck!

Somehow I found myself getting kitted out in a wetsuit, safety helmet and buoyancy aid and agreeing to jump off cliffs into the sea! Simon thought this thing, called “Coasteering”, sounded awesome, but I must admit, at first I was slightly nervous. Simon and I, in a group of six, first took a short walk down to the coastline in glorious sunshine and after the necessary safety talks from our guides we climbed down the cliff and got ready to take our first plunge. Incredibly I loved it! I was expecting the water to be freezing, but luckily my wetsuit kept me nice and toasty. Out in the middle of the sea I realised what I had done and I couldn’t stop grinning! The group then swam out to sea a bit, scrambled over some rocks and climbed back up the rocks ready for our next jump. For two and a half hours we swam, climbed and jumped our way around the coastline – fantastic! The guides were really friendly and there was no pressure to do the high jumps, but amazingly I wanted to. Nearing the end of the session we walked back up the cliff and headed to another spot. Here we swam out to a small rock formation, climbed to the end and …suddenly, out of nowhere, a massive wave grabbed us and pulled us into what looked like a whirlpool, spitting us back out seconds later. We were left gently bobbing in the sea wondering where all that water had gone. “Can I do that again please?” I begged. And I did. About ten times.

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If you’re looking for a stag weekend with a difference, something that will be truly memorable for you and your mates, then head to TYF, an outdoor adventure company based in St David’s, Pembrokeshire. With tons of activities to try and cool tents to sink a beer in at the end of the day, you’re guaranteed to come away feeling refreshed and exhilarated…

Top Tip Bring your swim stuff to wear under your wetsuit, a towel, sun cream, and some trainers you are happy to wade through the sea in (no worries if you don’t have any as they can be provided).

Simon says: ‘Coasteering is invigorating and a real challenge which leaves you feeling pretty good about yourself at the end of it. If you’re looking for a stag weekend in a great setting to try something you haven’t done before then this is the sport for you. Your mates will thank you for not making them go paint-balling or go-karting again! And after all the action, St David’s has some great pubs and restaurants so there is no reason for you to not have a good drinking session while you’re here. Coasteering is a great hangover cure (so we hear), so you have no excuse not to make the most of it.

We recommend...

The TYF Spirit of Adventure Break A relaxing weekend (leaving plenty of drinking and chilling out time), taking in two half-day activities over the weekend. You can choose any two of TYF’s four core activities -coasteering, kayaking, surfing or climbing. TYF can of course design an adventure weekend package just for you, arranging accommodation and activities to suit your specific needs.

Contact Tel: 01437 721611 E-mail: Sales@TYF.com Web: www.tyf.com Images courtesy of Paul Villecourt

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Tee?

Time for

Following the hype of the British Open last month at Sandwich, our designer and golf novice, Grant, decided to hit the greens at Hanbury Manor to find out more about this well known course and hone his skills.

Golf may have, up until recently, been thought of as the sport for the older upper-class gent. But with celebs such as Robbie Williams, George Clooney, and ex-footballer Jamie Redknapp taking part regularly, and more clubs allowing non-members to play, it really is accessible to anyone.

It’s the perfect way to relax after the weekly grind, has a fantastic social side in the club house and would be an ideal way to spend some time with your dad, future father in-law, and mates before tying the knot. After all, the girls are bound to be hitting the spa so it is only right you should get a treat too!At my taster at the picturesque Hanbury Manor in Hertfordshire, I was one of three other novices who were given tuition before hitting the course for a friendly game. It was challenging and although I didn’t manage to hit many pars, I did seriously enjoy it, so much in fact that I’ve taken to playing a few more games. The kit has been dusted down and made ready for action!

Written by Amy Mcritchie

Club House Rules: Although a lot of clubs offer rounds to non-members, (green fee players) it’s important to remember that not all do. Check with the club what the admission policy is, you may need to go with someone who is already a member. Most clubs will have a dress code: shirts must have collars, golf shoes worn on the course, smart shoes in the club house, and jeans will certainly not be permissible on the course or even the club house. Ask the club what you are expected to wear and whether they offer shoe hire. Sharing clubs is never allowed, but most courses will do club hire at a reasonable rate and even buggy hire if you don’t fancy the walk!

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Grooms Etc Recommend: Recomm mend: Hanbury Manor

A historical course set in the Hertfordshire countryside which has been host to numerous professional events such as the English Open. The member’s only club offers golf event days held by Marriot for groups of over 20. After a hard day on the course you can spoil yourselves in one of Hanbury Manors fine restaurants. www.hanbury-manor.co.uk

WIN!

Grooms Etc, courtesy of Hanbury Manor, are offering one lucky reader and three guests a complimentary round of golf. To enter email your details to: Julie@groomsetc.co.uk With its cleverly sited trees and water hazards, this championship course offers a true golfing challenge and has been a 3-time venue for the English Open.

Redesigned by Jack Nicklaus II, the exhilarating 7,502 yard course passes through majestic countryside before returning to the beautiful hotel.

Some of our local favourites: Batchworth Park

A private members club set in 210 acres of Hertfordshire parkland. Facilities include a modern club house with informal atmosphere, restaurant and pro-shop with expert advice always on hand. The bar and restaurant area is very popular and can be enjoyed after a round for a drink or two! www.batchworthparkgolf.co.uk

Three Rivers Golf and Country Club

This Essex club boasts two 18-hole courses: the Kings Course and the newer Jubilee Course. The club also allows visitors to pay a green fee on the day and offers individual or group lessons from professionals. This is a great course to enjoy with your mates and your father in law to-be before the big day. www.threeriversclub.com

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WIN

A PERSONAL WINE TASTING SESSION WITH CHANNEL 4 STAR EWAN LACEY

The reception is sorted, the menu agreed. All that’s left is to choose the wine. What a great opportunity for you to impress the guests! But where do you start? Do you go for something safe that you’ve heard of, or do a little exploring and find something amazing? Wine expert Ewan Lacey gives you his top tips and the chance for you to meet him in person to sample some of his favourite tipples …

EWAN’S TIPS

Learning about wine gives you the confidence to trust in your taste. It needn’t stop at the wedding day either – this delicious subject could become a shared interest throughout a long and happy marriage.

Tip 1

A course is the perfect place to learn about wine. Choose one that’s fun. It should be a day out, not a return to the classroom!

Ewan’s rising stars

A few years ago, Austrian wines walked away with all the prizes when compared with top French wines. They are superb when served on their own and delicious with food.

Linn and Charlotte from Merry Widows Wines have won too many awards to mention, but here are three which will add a touch of class to your big day: White: MW Wines, Muscat Ottonel, Austria (IWC Silver Medal Winner) A great, refreshing wine for serving with canapés.

Rosé: MW Wines, Pinot Noir, Austria The most popular wine of the summer, its easy style means that it suits both red and white wine fans.

Tip 2

Wine comes into its own when it’s paired with good food.

At my courses, celebrity chef Loretta Liu prepares fresh, savoury macaroons. The combination of a cool, dry MW Wines Muscat paired with a goat’s cheese and fennel macaroon is so delicious it will leave you speechless!

Red: MW Wines, Zweigelt, Austria A fruity, juicy, flexible wine - a great choice to share with the father-in-law by the fireside when the nights start to draw in.

Tip 3

All of the above wines are available from www.merrywidowswine.com/Wines

Learn about well-known wines but also the rising stars.

The huge advantage of finding out about up and coming wines before everyone else is that you get top quality wine at great prices.

Tip 4

Armed with your new found knowledge, ask your venue for a wine tasting. If you’re not happy with the wines they offer, bring your own! Most places allow you to do this as long as you pay the ‘corkage’ charge – a great way to get the most for your money.

COMPETITION

For your chance to win a tailor-made wine tasting with Ewan Lacey (www.ewanlacey.com) simply e-mail julie@groomsetc.co.uk with your name and the date of your wedding.

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ABOUT EWAN Ewan Lacey is a wine writer and the wine expert on Channel 4’s The Cookery School. Ewan’s interest in the drinks business started in his teens when he dabbled in making his own beer. This, however, was put to an end when his home brew kit exploded all over his wardrobe! While studying for his law degree, Ewan worked in restaurants and bars all over the world, including a cocktail bar in Copenhagen where he invented new takes on classic drinks.

Moving from Scotland to London Ewan ran restaurants in the West End. His interest in wine deepened and he became a consultant wine buyer, developing wine lists and training sommeliers for some of London’s top restaurants and hotels.

Ewan hosts wine courses and has designed a range of wine tasting events tailored to make any occasion special.

He loves working with top celebrity chefs, designing and delivering great food and wine matching events and hosting themed dinners.

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The Best of British!

Glorious Gleneagles If you’ve broken the bank paying for your Big Day and really can’t stretch the budget to an overseas activity experience, never fear! The good old UK has so much to offer when it comes to an extra special sporting break. From climbing mountains in Wales, to fishing the lakes of Cumbria or surfing on beautiful beaches in Cornwall, there’s something for everyone. This issue we focus on the luxury of Gleneagles in stunning Scotland, famous for its’ world class golf course, but don’t forget to check back next issue to see more of the Best of British!

The ‘Palace in the Glens’ The Gleneagles Hotel is an AA five red star golf resort hotel set in 850 acres of stunning scenery in Perthshire. The resort has been described as ‘A riviera in the highlands’ and ‘The eighth wonder of the world’. This beautiful hotel lies in the heart of Scotland, but the resort is only an hours drive from Edinburgh and Glasgow, meaning you can pop out to shop while he plays golf!

Ooh la-la!

Gleneagles was designed in the style of a French chateau and has extensive landscaped grounds.

Today the hotel boasts 232 bedrooms, including 26 suites. An additional wing was opened in 2002, housing 59 luxurious bedrooms, many of which have balconies, making it perfect for your honeymoon celebrations.

Imagine sipping champagne in the fresh Scottish air and taking in the stunning views prior to dinner in The Strathearn restaurant– perfect!

Food for thought If food and wine is what makes a great holiday for you, then

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Gleneagles will certainly make your dreams come true. The Strathearn Restaurant has a reputation for excellence and variety so you will be spoilt for choice! You will benefit from the finest and freshest produce available in Scotland and from specialist suppliers around the globe. The man in your life will love the innovative wine tasting room where you can sample wines which will compliment your meal.

Be active, be beautiful!

During your stay at Gleneagles you certainly won’t get bored. You can take advantage of the state of the art spa and indulge in truly delightful treatments that are tailored for your specific needs. If this isn’t for you then maybe try out golf - where better than on this world famous course? Also on offer is shooting, fishing, horse riding and off road driving. For something a little different, Gleneagles is also home to The British School of Falconry.

Lessons can cater for every level of experience and involvement. This will certainly give you a good story to take home! A new addition to the sporting activities at the resort is

the Gundog School, the first school of its kind in the world. You will learn how to handle a trained gundog, incorporating obedience and agility.

S etc BRIDE VES Gleneagles has just launch LO

ed an initiative in collaboration with the ‘Big Tree Countr y’ Perthshire, to help protect and sustain the beautiful countryside that provides such a breathtaking location for the hotel. Guests have the chance to donate a voluntary £1 supplement, per room per night, to be donated to re-planting and rebuilding Perthshire’s natural woodlands. www.gleneagles.com Tel: 0800 389 3737 E-mail: resort.sales@gleneagles.com

When the idea of lazing beside a swimming pool or sunning yourself on a beach leaves you feeling a little bored, why not enjoy some togetherness whilst indulging in an exciting sport, taking in the views on foot or horseback, or trying an activity you’ve always dreamt of? Brides Etc have gathered together just a few ideas. We hope they give you some inspiration!

Diving in the deep…

Scuba diving, snorkelling and more in sensational Sharm El Sheik, Egypt…

Sharm El Sheik in Egypt is the perfect holiday destination. With lovely weather all year round (rarely lower than the mid 70s December to February, and reaching a roasting 100 degrees in the height of summer) the resort is a Mecca for those who love the sun, sea and sand, who want the option of amenities such as casinos, discos and shops, but who also want to experience something a little more active. Sharm is well known for its fantastic water sports such as snorkelling diving and windsurfing, with many tour operators offering introductory courses and even the chance for you to gain a PADI open water diving certificate during your stay. There are also golf courses springing up in and around the popular resorts of Na’ama Bay, Shark’s Bay and Sharm elMoiya plus the more traditional sports of horse and camel riding and desert safaris. Whatever you choose, it’s impossible to be bored!

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Thomas Cook offer budget and luxury option diving holidays in Sharm …

Budget Reef Oasis Beach Resort Located on a private beach overlooking Temple Reef, one of the best places for snorkelling and diving, the Reed Oasis diving centre offers introductory dives to full PADI certified courses.

Luxury The Four Seasons Resort Set away from Naama Bay in secluded surroundings, the hotels’ dive centre will plan your diving experience.

For beginners there’s a free pool trial with full diving equipment so you can get a taste of breathing under water.

Dance yourself dizzy…

Get up close and personal with a fabulous dance holiday in sunny Spain…

Learn to Tango at a wonderful school in Andalucia. Spend six nights in a fantastic villa surrounded by almond and olive groves. Experience seven and a half hours of Argentinean tango lessons per week, an evening welcome dinner, Argentine BBQ, a trip to the local tango hot spot accompanied by your teacher, use of the private swimming pool, terrace and more!

BRIDES etc LOVES www.golearnto.com offer flamenco and tango holidays plus a wide range of activity holidays such as painting, walking, kite surfing, photography and horse riding, all in wonderful locations. Check out their website for details.

Tel: 084456250445 E-mail: hello@golearnto.com to check availability www.golearnto.com

On top of the world!

Hiking and rock climbing in the USA… Yosemite National Park Even the most difficult-to-please outdoor types can’t fail to be impressed by the unsurpassed beauty of the Yosemite Valley in California. The towering walls of El Capitan mesmerize visitors and offer rock climbers their ultimate test, while Half Dome rises nearly 5,000 feet above the valley floor and provides a backcountry route to the top that’s accessible to ordinary hikers.

Zion National Park near Springdale, Utah Utah’s first national park, Zion was established in 1909 and is located at the conjunction of the Colorado Plateau, the Great Basin and the Mojave Desert - a geologic smorgasbord that helps give the park a surreal combination of rock towers, cliffs and red sandstone canyons. A mecca for rock climbers, hikers and nature lovers of all persuasions, the 15mile long Zion Canyon offers stunning scenery and a full range of outdoor activities including fishing, climbing, and trail biking.

For more details contact Motel 6 www.motel6.com.

Get Active in Andorra Andorra may be better known for skiing, but it has a wealth of wonderful summer activities and a wonderful Mediterranean climate too! *Panoramic helicopter flights *Jump - a trampoline with elastic ropes *Tobotronc - a mini rollercoaster over 8 kms *Quads *Horse riding *Walking *Paintball *Fishing www.vallnord.com

Or plan your trip in advance via motel 6’s new trip planner site www.goin6.com

*Check out our next issue when two lucky readers report on their prize winning trip to Andorra!

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IN THE NEXT FABULOUS ISSUE OF BRIDES ETC… Step back in time with our ‘Decades’ issue VA-VA-VINTAGE! Timeless accessories to make you sparkle A TOUCH OF NOSTALGIA Glorious modern gowns based on the stunning styles of the 1920’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s and 70’s PRETTY AS A PICTURE: Recreate the glamour of wedding hair and make-up looks gone by FIT FOR A QUEEN Follow in the footsteps of the famous by tying the knot in stunning venues steeped in history

PLUS

WEDDING BELLES A wonderful walk through history courtesy of one family and three generations of brides

NOT FORGETTING...

• News, reviews and gossip • Health, fitness and nutrition tips • Freebies • Grooms Etc – pages of fashion, freebies and advice for the man in your life And much, much more!

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