November Chimes by Chapelwood United Methodist Church

NOVEMBER 2016

HOLY FAMILY FAJITAS AND POPSICLES On Saturday, August 28, the Holy Family Community gathered for Fajitas (provided by John and Kristen Ramsey) and Popsicles (provided by Steel City Pops). What a joy to watch Jacob Breeze and the leaders in this brand new community as they grow and reach others!

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Chapelwood’s Mission is to make disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world by embodying God’s grace as we receive it to those who need it. The Chapelwood family is a service-focused body of believers who welcome all to experience God’s grace and goodness through Christian community.

While we are determined to “take church” to those who do not belong to a local church family, we also delight in serving those individuals and families within our church. We provide ongoing faith-building activities and meaningful fellowship opportunities for men, women, youth, and children.

SATURDAY

NOVEMBER 5, 12, 19, 26 MERCY STREET 5:30 p.m., Fellowship Hall *

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A Word from Jerry

Words on Worship

Advent Common Ground

Service of the Longest Night

CONTEMPLATIVE SERVICE Meditation, Communion, and Healing Prayer 8:45 a.m., Chapel *

Church Under the Bridge

The Release

THE BRANCH Family Service in Spanish 10:30 a.m., 3911 Campbell Road

The Buckingham service celebrates 5 years

SUNDAY NOVEMBER 6, 13, 20, 27 SANCTUARY SERVICES 8:25 *, 9:45 *, 11:10 a.m. *

UPPER ROOM 11:30 a.m., Upper Room * * Services are broadcast live on the web.

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GRACE IN MINISTRY

Family Discipleship

Christmas Mana

Poinsettia Dedications

Methodism at Chapelwood

College Care Package Party

Foundation

Confirmation Covenant Service recap

Bookstore Open House

Fee the Need

Singles Events

Weslaco Mission Trip

Staff List

United Methodist Women

Alternative Christmas Market

Joys and Concerns

New Member

Calendar

Getting Ready to Get Ready

The Only One Standing in Your Way is You

Give Blood Fair Trade Coffee Singles join Mercy Street Mobile

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Memorial Room/ Columbarium Dedication Service

LIVING BOTH-AND As Jesus and the disciples continued on their way to Jerusalem, they came to a certain village where a woman named Martha welcomed him into her home. Her sister, Mary, sat at the Lord’s feet, listening to what he taught. But Martha was distracted by the big dinner she was preparing. She came to Jesus and said, “Lord, doesn’t it seem unfair to you that my sister just sits here while I do all the work? Tell her to come and help me.” But the Lord said to her, “My dear Martha, you are worried and upset over all these details! There is only one thing worth being concerned about. Mary has discovered it, and it will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:38–42) The Mary-Martha story in Luke 10 is not an either-or story (just as many of the parables and Gospel stories are not as either-or as we tend to think). There is something of both Martha and Mary in all of us. Martha was the sister who, hosting Jesus in her home, wanted to do her best in preparing a meal for him and for those gathered under her roof. Martha believed in hospitality. Like my mother, she had a magnet on her refrigerator door that said, “Love people . . . cook good food for them.” The Marthas of the world show their care in actions. They are generous with their gifts. They are most comfortable when active, busy, and engaged. They demonstrate love through acts of kindness. As many have suggested to me through the years, if the Marthas of the world did not cook, the rest of us would not eat. Mary was her sister who, when hosting Jesus, couldn’t even think about the evening meal ahead. She just wanted to be with him, to take in his words, and to absorb his wisdom. Haven’t you met people who seemed wise, grounded, and “real” in a very unique way? They were not showy, nor did they call attention to themselves. They may have been quiet and reflective, but their spirit and presence were weighty. Their thoughtful words emerged from a deep center within them, and those words truly seemed to matter. Their genuine humility was magnetic.

You may not have known what the “it” was, but you knew they were in touch with “it,” and you simply wanted to spend more time with them. You wanted to be near, to take in their wisdom, to learn from them. Mary felt that way about Jesus. The Gospel story does not ask us to make a choice between Martha’s activity and Mary’s attentiveness. Martha does not need to become Mary, and Mary does not need to become Martha. Jesus’ words to Martha are not a rebuke of her work and busyness; rather, Jesus gently invites Martha to notice how she is worried, upset, and distracted by many things. She is split-up and frayed, double-minded and not able even to give herself fully to her cooking. She works over the stove while she has one eye on her sister sitting at Jesus’ feet: “Tell my sister to get up and help me!” This seems to be our human condition, that like Martha, we are worried, upset, and distracted by many things. We spin it as “multitasking,” but in reality we’re not able to give our attention to the thing actually happening at the moment. We aren’t immediately present now. When Jesus commends Mary, he is not suggesting that the rest of us stop what we are doing and sit at his feet as she does. He doesn’t ask us to give up our cooking, our tasks, our work. He is, however, praising her focus, her single-mindedness, the way she is able to give herself wholeheartedly to one thing. Essentially, I think the invitation of Jesus to each of us is that we do our Martha-work with a Mary-spirit. We stay engaged with whatever is given us to do (the Martha-work), but we do that with a spirit of attentiveness, aware of the way our current task is part of the larger project of God for the world (like Mary). You don’t have to choose Martha or Mary, action or stillness, service or prayer. To be whole, Martha and Mary are integrated within us. We serve like Martha with the receptive spirit of Mary. This is the essence of the Christian spiritual life.

Jerry Webber Community Pastor, The Center for Christian Spirituality

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Worship in November brings four significant areas of focus. I disciples continued on their way to Jerusalem, they came to a would like to share with you a little about each of them in a way certain village where a woman named Martha welcomed him into that I hope will enhance your worship experiences this month. her home. Her sister, Mary, sat at the Lord’s feet, listening to what The first to arrive on our calendars is the Feast of All Saints. he taught. But Martha was distracted by the big dinner she was Though this worship focus is actually on November 1, most preparing. She came to Jesus and said, “Lord, doesn’t it seem unfair to churches, including Chapelwood, observe it on the first Sunday of you that my sister just sits here while I do all the work? Tell her to come November. The inclusion of All Saints with a communion service is and help me.” significant. Our Great Thanksgiving reminds us that we join in the But the Lord said to her, “My dear Martha, you are worried and unending hymn of all God’s people on earth and all the company upset over all these details! There is only one thing worth being of heaven. We also know from Hebrews that we are “surrounded concerned about. Mary has discovered it, and it will not be taken by a great cloud of witnesses.” This broader awareness of time away from her.” (Luke 10:38–42) can be very meaningful when participating in communion. Think about this: when you approach the front of the church to The Mary-Martha story in Luke 10 is not an either-or story (just as receive the sacrament, you are walking in the path that so many many of the parables and Gospel stories are not as either-or as we have walked before, that so many are walking today, and that tend to think). even more will walk in the future. We so often see ourselves in a There is something of both Martha and Mary in all of us. singular light, when in fact we are joined by God’s grace and love Martha was the sister who, hosting Jesus in her home, wanted with all of earth and heaven. As you see the banners surrounding to do her best in preparing a meal for him and for those gathered the room, remember, we are but one point in the eternal story of under her roof. Martha believed in hospitality. Like my mother, God’s work in all of Creation. What a powerful day to worship! she had a magnet on her refrigerator door that said, “Love people The next observance on the Christian calendar is Christ the . . . cook good food for them.” King Sunday, which this year is November 20. It is the last Sunday The Marthas of the world show their care in actions. They are of the Christian year before the beginning of the new Christian generous with their gifts. They are most comfortable when active,

busy, andAdvent. engaged. They fairly demonstrate acts ofthe year with Though young inlove our through history, Christ kindness. Aswas many have suggested through thetwo years, if the King Sunday instituted to remindtousme that there are very Marthas of the world did not the restWhile of us we would eat. important aspects to God’s rolecook, in our lives. are not certainly was her sister who, when hosting Jesus,whom couldn’t partMary of the family of God, Christ is the King from weeven take think about and the evening meal ahead. She just to we be with our direction whom we follow as Lord. Thiswanted is the day him, to take hisare words, andtotohave absorb his wisdom. celebrate thatinwe blessed a ruler such as Christ over ourHaven’t lives. you met people who seemed wise, grounded, and “real” in a very unique way? did they of call Of course, while we look toThey Christwere our not King,showy, we arenor also aware attention themselves. They mayon have andThough reflective, the secular to holiday of Thanksgiving thebeen samequiet Sunday. buta their spirit and presence werebeing weighty. Theiristhoughtful not specifically religious holiday, thankful certainly an words emerged a deep center within them, and those important part of from who we are as the Church in God’s love andwords truly seemed to matter. genuine humility wasreturned magnetic. grace. Christ once healedTheir ten lepers. When only one to You may not have known what the “it” was, but you knew they say thank you, Jesus asked about the whereabouts of the other wereItin touch with “it,” and simply wanted toGod spend nine. certainly appears thatyou saying thank you to formore the gifts time with them. You wanted to be near, to take in their wisdom, we have been given is important to Jesus. I believe that in worshipto learn them. we givefrom thanks for the blessings of God, which include the gift of Mary felt that way about God’s Son. This makes the lastJesus. Sunday before Advent an incredibly Gospel story does not ask us to make choice of between richThe opportunity to worship together with theapeople God. Martha’s Mary’s attentiveness. Marthaofdoes not need The last activity Sundayand of November is the first Sunday Advent. It become Mary the andculture Mary does not need to become isto very easy, given in which we live, to jump Martha. straight wordsBut to Martha are not rebuke of her work and busyintoJesus’ Christmas. remember, we ahave a time of anticipation in ness; rather, Jesus gently invites Martha to notice how she is our worship. Just like when we wait to open our presents, even worried, and distracted by many things.asShe split-up though weupset, may already know what is in them, weisbegin ourand frayed, double-minded not able give herself fully celebration of the seasonand there can beeven a littletomystery, a little bitto cooking. She works over the stove sheto has one eye on ofher expectancy, as we try to imagine whatwhile it is like not already her sister sitting Jesus’ feet: “Tell my sister to get up and help know whence ouratredemption comes. me!” I hope you will take every opportunity to come and worship seems be our condition, thatand like praise Martha, thisThis month. It isto a rich andhuman full season of thanks towe theare worried, upset, and distracted by many things. We spin it as “multiLord our God. tasking,” but in reality we’re not able to give our attention to the thingGilbert actually happening at the moment. We aren’t immediately Craig presentDirector, now. Worship and Music Ministries Ministry When Jesus commends Mary, he is not suggesting that the rest

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THE BUCKINGHAM AND CHAPELWOOD CELEBRATE FIVE YEARS! Jesus and the disciples continued on their way to Jerusalem, TheAs Buckingham and Chapelwood they camefive to ayears certain where a woman named Martha celebrated invillage ministry together himThe intoevent, her home. inwelcomed September! with Her oversister, fortyMary, sat at the Lord’s feet, to what he taught. But Martha was distracted by the big inlistening attendance, featured a vibrant worship dinner great she was preparing. SheKelly, cameand to Jesus and said, “Lord, doesn’t it service, music by James unfair you thatpoints my sister justlife sits here while I do all the work? a seem message ontoturning in our Tell her toOur come and helpvalue, me.” and God purpose. lives have the Lord for saidustoto her, dear Martha, you are worried and hasBut something do“My – no matter upset over all thesewe details! There only one thing worth being how old or young are. The dayisincluded concerned about. Maryand has discovered and it will not be taken refreshments, balloons, equippingit,new awaymembers from her.”to (Luke 10:38–42) team serve as worship hosts. Through the past five years, Chapelwood’s The Mary-Martha story in Lukehas 10reached is not an either-or story (just as ministry with the Buckingham many of the living parables Gospel independent andand health carestories are not as either-or as we tend to think). residents alike, caregivers, family members, There is something of both Martha adult children, and grandchildren. “Thisand Mary in all of us. wasexperience the sister who, hosting Jesus in her home, wanted is a Martha wonderful for us, ”a to do her best in preparing a meal for him and for those gathered resident shared. Another resident related, under hercoming. roof. Martha believedbrings in hospitality. Like my mother, “Just keep Your ministry she had magnet herbe refrigerator church to athose whoon can’t there.” A door that said, “Love people . . . cook good foodmember for them. ” that one Chapelwood team said Thebest Marthas the world show their care in actions. They are of the thingsofabout volunteering is the generous with their gifts. are mostand comfortable when active, appreciation expressed forThey this ministry busy, and engaged. They love “the smiles we bring to thedemonstrate residents’ faces. ” through acts of kindness. Asgathers many have suggested to me through the years, if the Chapelwood at the Buckingham Marthas of the worlda.m. did The not cook, the rest of us would not eat. each Sunday at 11:00 worship Marythe wasDVD her sister who, when hosting Jesus, couldn’t even features from the Blended think about theearlier evening meal ahead. She just wanted to be with 8:25 a.m. service in the morning. him, to take in his words, and to Communion is celebrated the firstabsorb Sundayhis wisdom. Haven’t you met people who wise, grounded, and of every month. Chapelwood alsoseemed convenes “real” in a very unique way? They were not a bi-monthly prayer shawl knitting group showy, nor did they call attention to themselves. They may have been quiet and reflective, with Julia Edwards and a weekly devotional but Dr. their spirit and presence were weighty. Their thoughtful from Scott Endress. If you are interested in serving on the Sunday Buckingham team, please contact Margaret Bedell, mbedell@chapelwood.org.

words emerged from a deep center within them, and those words truly seemed to matter. Their genuine humility was magnetic. You may not have known what the “it” was, but you knew they were in touch with “it,” and you simply wanted to spend more time with them. You wanted to be near, to take in their wisdom, to learn from them. Mary felt that way about Jesus. The Gospel story does not ask us to make a choice between Martha’s activity and Mary’s attentiveness. Martha does not need to become Mary and Mary does not need to become Martha. Jesus’ words to Martha are not a rebuke of her work and busyness; rather, Jesus gently invites Martha to notice how she is worried, upset, and distracted by many things. She is split-up and frayed, double-minded and not able even to give herself fully to her cooking. She works over the stove while she has one eye on her sister sitting at Jesus’ feet: “Tell my sister to get up and help me!” This seems to be our human condition, that like Martha, we are worried, upset, and distracted by many things. We spin it as “multitasking,” but in reality we’re not able to give our attention to the thing actually happening at the moment. We aren’t immediately present now. When Jesus commends Mary, he is not suggesting that the rest of us stop what we are doing and sit at his feet as she does. He doesn’t ask us to give up our cooking, our tasks, our work. He is, however, praising her focus, her single-mindedness, the way she is able to give herself wholeheartedly to one thing. Essentially, I think the invitation of Jesus to each of us is that we do our Martha-work with a Mary-spirit. We stay engaged with whatever is given us to do (the Martha-work), but we do that with a spirit of attentiveness, aware of the way our current task is part of the larger project of God for the world (like Mary). You don’t have to choose Martha or Mary, action or stillness,

A MUSICAL CHRISTMAS AT CHAPELWOOD

A Musical Christmas at Chapelwood An Advent series of music, celebration, contemplation, and joy Advent brings with it a number of opportunities for worship – some contemplative, some interactive, many musical, and all in the spirit of the season. This year Advent begins early – the Sunday after Thanksgiving. Plan now to feed your spirit, enrich your soul, and lift your heart with these inspiring Advent offerings: Christmas with Wayne and Friends Sunday, November 27, 7:00 p.m., Sanctuary Our first concert in the series is a special presentation of Americanainspired Christmas music from award winner Wayne Watson and the Sanctuary musicians of our 9:45 a.m. Contemporary service. Wayne and the band bring their signature sound to the music of the season that is sure to warm your heart. Join us for an intimate evening of varying genres, familiar standards, and contemporary seasonal favorites. The Many Moods of Christmas, with the Chancel Choir and Orchestra Sunday, December 4, 5:00 p.m., Sanctuary The second concert in the “Christmas at Chapelwood” series features Robert Shaw’s timeless classic, The Many Moods of Christmas, a sweeping arrangement of Christmas carols from around the globe. The Chancel Choir will bring this musical treasure to life with organist Cameron Cody and a 21-piece orchestra under the direction of Chapelwood Director of Worship and Music Ministries Dr. Craig Gilbert. Additionally, the evening will feature

congregational singing, multiple soloists, small ensembles, and the Chancel Bells under the direction of Diana Montgomery. This musical experience will surround you with joy, reverence, and praise as we join our voices together to celebrate the spirit of Christmas. A Night in Bethlehem Sunday, December 11, 5:00 – 8:00 p.m., Sanctuary and more Join us for an interactive event for all ages as we gather to celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior. We will begin the evening in the Sanctuary with an amazing concert, which will lead our journey to Bethlehem through song and scripture. The concert features the childrens' choirs, with additional appearances by many of our Chapelwood community’s leaders and musicians. Afterwards, we will step back in time to a living, vibrant re-creation of the town of Bethlehem and be a part of the first Christmas! To register for dinner go to www.chapelwood.org/bethlehem. Carols and Keyboards Friday, December 16, 7:00 p.m., Sanctuary Celebrate the Christmas season with “Carols & Keyboards,” featuring four Steinway concert grand pianos, vocal soloists, congregational singing, storytelling, and Chapelwood’s magnificent pipe organ! This concert experience features ten keyboardists playing together as they bring this soon-to-be tradition to Chapelwood United Methodist Church for the first time. This majestic concert will feature the sights and sounds of Christmas in grand style as we celebrate this special season.

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GROW IN GRACE IN GROUPS AND RELATIONSHIPS EMBODYING GRACE: METHODISM @ CHAPELWOOD

Sundays, November 6 and 13, 11:00 a.m., W202 Did you know that the mission, vision, and values of Chapelwood line up with the earliest beliefs of the Methodist movement? You’re invited to join us for this two-session class. We will share a snapshot of Methodism, the history of Chapelwood, and the overlapping missions of both. Whether you are new to Chapelwood or a seasoned member, you will benefit from learning how Chapelwood is not only a cutting edge and visionary congregation but also a faith community that holds true to our Methodist heritage. To register for the class or for more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/methodism. Childcare is available upon request.

CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE IN THE BOOKSTORE AND COFFEE SHOP

Wednesday, November 30, 10:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. Join us for hot cider, hot chocolate, cookies, and book signings by local authors! For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/openhouse.

SINGLES GAME PARTY

Friday, November 4, 5:30 – 9:30 p.m., Game Room Bring your favorite table games to the Game Room in the Youth Building. We'll start the evening sharing food and planning which games to play. Ping pong, pool, foosball, and air hockey will also be available. Water and lemonade will be provided by the church. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/gamenight.

SINGLES “COME HOME” THANKSGIVING DINNER

Thursday, November 17, 6:30 p.m., Fellowship Hall The Chapelwood Sunday school classes, Singles Journey and A Place for You cordially invite you to our annual Thanksgiving “Come Home” dinner on Thursday, November 17, 2016. We are honored and blessed to have our Executive Pastor Reverend Bob Johnson to give the message. Bob is a favorite to the singles ministry. He has a long history of supporting us, through being co-director for the singles ministry in the 90’s to class teacher to being the leader on weekend retreats. This is our heart-warming event that brings us together as a singles family and community. We are thankful for our community and ministry. We still want to give back and serve our community. We will be taking contributions for 40 Chapelwood Foundation students. We will be mailing "winter finals care packages." We appreciate you bringing $10 food gift certificates to Chick-Fil-A or McDonalds, or cash is welcomed to pay for the food gift certificates. Our Thanksgiving dinner will cost $15. Please register online, as it will help paperwork and food count flow smoothly. Dinner will begin at 6:30 pm in the Fellowship Hall. At 7:45 PM, we will move to the Chapel for Bob’s message. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/singlesthanksgiving.

SINGLES RICE AND BEANS

Sunday, November 13, 11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m., Courtyard Room Come join Singles from all of Chapelwood’s worship communities as we bag beans and rice for Spring Branch food pantries. It is one of the ways for us to embody God’s grace as we receive it to those who need it. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/riceandbeans.

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GROW IN GRACE IN GROUPS AND RELATIONSHIPS UNITED METHODIST WOMEN INVITE WOMEN FROM ALL COMMUNITIES

Women from all of Chapelwood’s worship communities are invited to attend and join in United Methodist Women (UMW) activities and small groups. Through UMW, small groups participate in book studies and service and mission work with a special emphasis on women, youth, and children, and support mission activities and partnerships all over the world. Following is a description of the November circle (small group) meetings and other opportunities. If you would like to know more and are interested in becoming a member of UMW, please contact Membership Chair Dawn Powers, (281) 888-4324, dawnpowers@ comcast.net. Come join in grace with us. To learn more, please visit www.chapelwood.org/umw. Tuesday, November 8 UMW Sew Sociable will meet at 9:30 a.m. in W202 to work on Linus blankets for children in area hospitals and other special projects. Contacts: Ann Ramsey, (713) 729-3720, and Judy Glassford, (713) 468-8908. Tuesday, November 15 Martha Circle will meet at 8:45 a.m. in the church parking lot to carpool to Brookwood Center for a tour of their facilities, shopping, and lunch. Contact: Katie Fields, (713) 818-1579, or fields.kt@gmail.com.

Moms on the Grow will meet 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. in the Fireside Room. Linda Withers will lead the program schedule. Nursery care can be provided if needed by e-mailing nursery@chapelwood.org by November 8. Contact: Sally Towe, smtowe@gmail.com. Priscilla Circle will meet at 10:00 a.m. in the Parlor for a program on Amazing Place, given by Susan Giles. Contacts: Rockie Deboben, (713) 871-9043, and Marian Murray, (713) 973-8254. Vivian Osburn Circle will meet at 11:45 a.m. in YB100 for lunch and a program TBA. Contacts: Vicki Jud, (281) 496-9127, and Carol Hill, (713) 278-2266. Lydia Circle will meet at 6:30 p.m. at the La Fiesta Restaurant, 9427 Katy Freeway, for dinner and a service project for the Westside Homeless Partnership. Contacts: Susan Johnson, (281) 682-3031, and Marie Mathieu, (713) 467-3841. Sarah Circle will meet at 7:00 p.m. at the home of Karen Richey for dinner and a work project. Contact: Ann Ramsey, (713) 7293720. Deborah Circle will meet at 7:00 p.m. in YB100 for a light dinner and a program TBA. They welcome any who would like to participate and share in fellowship. Contact: Nancy Durrschmidt, (713) 939-0944.

BOOKED FOR LUNCH

Tuesday, November 8, 12:00 – 1:00 p.m., Parlor Girls with Swords: How to Carry Your Cross Like a Hero, by Lisa Bevere Books are available in the Chapelwood Bookstore. For more information, contact Susan Johnson at hunsy@sbcglobal.net. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/booked.

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GROW IN GRACE IN GROUPS AND RELATIONSHIPS GETTING READY TO GET READY

Wednesdays, November 2, 9, and 16, 6:30 p.m., Conference Room Advent is a time when we prepare our hearts and minds to receive the Christ child, and when we wait in faithful expectation for Christ’s return. But what about the weeks leading up to Advent, when the stores are filling with Christmas decorations and the malls are already overcrowded? What are we supposed to do then? Join us in the Conference Room for the Pastor’s Bible Study on Wednesdays, November 2, 9, and 16, at 6:30 p.m. Rev. Tammy Heinrich will lead the study as we explore together three stories from Luke’s Gospel that show us three very different responses to the birth of Christ. And – we’ll learn how to incorporate these stories into our own faith journeys as we “get ready to get ready.” For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/getready. Session 1: Luke 1:5-25; 57-80 (Zechariah) Session 2: Luke 1:26-38 (Gabriel) Session 3: Luke 2:22-38 (Anna)

THE ONLY ONE STANDING IN YOUR WAY IS YOU! A seminar for those interested in answering two questions “WHO is God calling me to be?” “WHAT is God calling me to do?”

Thursday, November 10 and Friday, November 11, 9:00 a.m. – October 22 – 8:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. and 4:00 p.m., LC214Thursday, Friday, October 23 – 9:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. 203 If you have ever struggled to Williams understand “who” God is calling you “The Only One Standing In Your Way Is You!” will challenge you to stretch your mind and examine some of are clingingGod to that may be keeping you fromto being the person createdon you to be personally, to the be“truths” andyou“what” is calling you do, thenGodplan attending professionally, and spiritually and, in turn, what God is calling you to do in these areas. The central focus of the seminar will be discovering and discarding these false “truths” so that you can “become” and “do” the best YOU. this two-day workshop. Fred Lowe and Sue Howe will lead the seminar. Fred retired from ExxonMobil after more than 35 years to establish BMS Connections, LLC, a company dedicated to enhancing both individual and organizational performance through improved quality of thinking and human interactions. Sue is also retired from ExxonMobil where she was instrumental in developing and delivering leadership training programs for employees at all organizational levels.

“If you want to change the way you are, you need to change theSeminar waycostyou ” This seminar uses biblical psychological is $30think. and includes materials and lunch both days. Register online and at www.chapelwood.org, keyword: seminar by Thursday, October 15. There will be no refunds for cancellations after October 15. For more information, contactindividuals Kristin Lewis at (713) 354-4438 klewis@chapelwood.org. concepts to teach how toorchange their thinking to achieve dreams previously unimagined or thought to be impossible. “The way you think carries over into all aspects of your life.” Participants will learn concepts that will improve their effectiveness as leaders, individual performers, and team players; and help them to become better spouses, parents, and friends. Who will benefit? • • • •

Those who find themselves asking, “Am I missing something? Is this really the life God has for me?” Those in transition or experiencing significant life changes, such as empty nest or retirement. Those who feel personally, professionally, or spiritually “stuck.” Those who would like to improve relationships with spouses, children, and friends.

The seminar cost is $30 and includes materials and lunch both days. Register online at www.chapelwood.org/toos by Monday, November 7. For more information, contact Kristin Lewis, klewis@ chapelwood.org or (713) 354-4438.

SHARE GRACE IN MINISTRY COLLEGIATE CARE PACKAGE PARTY

Sunday, December 4, 12:15 - 2:00 p.m., Courtyard Room Show your love and support for the Chapelwood Foundation Scholarship students who are currently attending college by donating items for care packages and helping to assemble and mail them. These young people are from low-income families in the community. The singles community wants to reward them with care packages during fall finals. Groups of ten like items are suggested but any contributions are appreciated. Requested items: $10 gift cards for McDonald’s, Subway, or Chick-fil-A, packages of sandwich crackers, cookies or candy, granola bars, microwave popcorn, sugar free mints or sugar free hard candy, and $5 bills. Because the packages will be mailed, please don’t include any chocolate that is likely to melt in the heat. Monetary donations will be accepted by Teresa Cannon and Mary Wenzel. Other items can be brought at 9:45 a.m. Sunday mornings between now and the end of November to the Singles Journey classroom (W205) or to the singles Thanksgiving service November 17. Better yet – bring your items on December 4 and help with assembly. There will be a boxed lunch provided for those helping assemble the boxes. RSVP by December 1 to Mary Wenzel, artqua5815@gmail.com, to reserve your lunch. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/carepackage.

FEED THE NEED: THANKSGIVING MEAL IN A BAG CHRISTMAS MANNA 2016

Christmas Manna is our annual Christmas event where Chapelwood families adopt 150 families in need within Spring Branch and provide them with Christmas gifts. This program holds a special place in the hearts of many of our Chapelwood members. Many have been participating in it for years, as it is a fantastic way for one family to serve another family. We believe that Christmas is a great time of year for people to demonstrate generosity and to connect with a family that they might not otherwise have the opportunity to meet. It is not simply about what one family can give to another but about what happens between the two families through God's spirit. This reflects the true meaning of the Christmas holiday, which often gets lost in the busy-ness of the season. We are blessed to be a blessing and Christmas Manna is one of the primary ways we experience that. Stop by the tables in the Fellowship Hallway on Sundays from November 13 to December 4 to select a family in Spring Branch and help provide Christmas gifts for the children. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/christmasmana.

Sunday, November 13, 8:00 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. "For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, and you welcomed me." Matthew 25:35 Want to share your blessings with a family in need at Thanksgiving? Bring your food items on November 13 to create a Thanksgiving Meal in a Bag for our Spring Branch food pantries. Drop them off in the Fountain Hallway or in the collection bins around the church. See www.chapelwood.org/feedtheneed for details.

SHARE GRACE IN MINISTRY WESLACO, TX SPRING BREAK TEAM

March 11-16, 2017 Join Amy Vogel and Ted Bland as they lead a team traveling to Weslaco, Texas, to work alongside members from First UMC and La Santisima Trinidad United Methodist Church. We are building an ongoing partnership with this community and will join them in fellowship, worship, and working together on home repairs for a United Methodist mission nearby called La Mesa. Team members can also participate in drama, art, or sports activities with the children at La Mesa! All ages are welcome. Registration ends December 1. For more information, see www.chapelwood.org/weslaco or contact Janine Roberts, jroberts@chapelwood.org.

THE ALTERNATIVE CHRISTMAS MARKET

November 27 – December 18, 8:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m., Fountain Hallway The Alternative Christmas Market is an opportunity to give to ministries and organizations that serve those in need. Since its beginning many years ago, the Alternative Christmas Market has provided our church with a way to give a holiday gift to a loved one that embodies the true spirit of Christmas. By giving a donation to one of these organizations you are giving the gift of hope, restoration, and transformation. Each of the 25 local and global ministries selected are ones that our church has an existing partnership with or is a favorite organization that Chapelwood members have participated with over the years. Pick up a booklet in the Fountain Hallway during Advent to find descriptions of the participating organizations along with how your donation will be used. Once you make your selections and donation, you will receive an enclosure card and envelope that describes the ministry to the recipient. Cards are available in the Fountain Hallway each Sunday during Advent. Cash, check, or credit card payments are accepted. You may also make donations online and pick up your cards in the Fountain Hallway or throughout the week at the church offices. Give and make a difference in the lives of those in need. Give as a way to honor a family member or friend. Give as a way to bring the Good News of Jesus to many this Christmas. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/alternative.

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GIVE BLOOD...EVERY DROP COUNTS

Sunday, November 20, 8:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m., Courtyard Room It’s time for Chapelwood’s quarterly blood drive! On Sunday, November 20, representatives from M.D. Anderson Blood Bank will collect donations. Cancer patients need more blood components than do patients with any other disease because cancer often impairs the bone marrow where blood cells are produced. M.D. Anderson's blood bank uses more than 300 units every day. This is why donors are the most important part of the process. Giving blood provides hope for cancer patients who depend on the support of their family and friends and on the generosity of donors just like you. Consider giving 20 to 30 minutes of your time to give a pint of blood. Blood donors must be at least 17 years of age and weigh a minimum of 110 pounds. Eat a sensible meal within four hours prior to donation. Donors must bring a driver's license to donate blood. Walk-ins are welcome. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/blood.

FAIR TRADE COFFEE AND CHOCOLATE!

Purchase your Fair Trade products! Items are on sale outside of the Fellowship Hall from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. the second Sunday of every month. Purchasing fairly traded products allows farmers to earn a fair price for their crops while delivering quality products to consumers. In addition, fair trade prohibits the use of child labor and encourages the adoption of safer, chemical-free farming methods. Contact Vicki Jud at vicki.jud@sbcglobal.net if you would like to volunteer at the Fair Trade table. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/fairtrade.

SINGLES JOIN MERCY STREET MOBILE!

Friday, November 11, 6:00 p.m., meet in Game Room Get out of your comfort zone! Chapelwood’s Singles group will join with the ministry to the homeless led by Mercy Street on November 11. We’ll meet in the Game Room at 6:00 p.m.; the van will leave by 6:15 p.m. If you’re driving directly there, meet us at 2715 St. Charles, 77004 at 7:00 p.m. that evening. We will assist in the service and help distribute the meal. For more information, please visit www.chapelwood.org/msmobile.

RIDE THE SHUTTLE ON SUNDAY MORNING 7:00 A.M. - 1:30 P.M.

SPRING BRANCH MIDDLE SCHOOL KINKAID SCHOOL

I-10 SPRING BRANCH

SPRING BRANCH 1000 Piney Point Rd.

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Smithdale Claymore Greenbay

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KINKAID 201 Kinkaid School Dr. 15

THE CHAPELWOOD FOUNDATION

LIVING OUR LEGACY...FUNDING OUR FUTURE

Your gifts to the Chapelwood Foundation can be a special way to honor someone or mark the joy of a special occasion while helping to build an endowment for Chapelwood in perpetuity. For more information, contact Teresa Cannon at (713) 354-4485 or tcannon@chapelwood.org.

GIFTS IN MEMORY OF Dike Howe Charlotte and Larry Whaley Debbie and Gary Gibson Jane and Dick Humphreys Toni Balock Fellowship Sunday School Class Michael R. Fritts Betty Fritts David Barra Karla and Bill Lowerre Teresa and Clayton Cannon Pam and Jerry Treadwell Charlotte and Larry Whaley Richard McGuire Sandy and Richard Lynch Linda Nichols Nan Fulweber Teresa and Clayton Cannon Donna Dawson Nancy and John Grubbs

David Hillman Pam and Jerry Treadwell Teresa and Clayton Cannon Edward Lynch Christa and Steven Hash Annette and Lee Duggan Carrie and Jeff Hoye Judy and Dan McClure Lorraine and Doug Becker Ellen Andrews Richard Kellenbenz Bill Marshall Colleen Lingle Per Evensen Pam and Jerry Treadwell Charlotte and Larry Whaley Scott Hyde Mary and Richard Hooper Teresa and Clayton Cannon

Nelda Sims Dale and Dean Kollatschny Alice Bing Jody and John Nicholas Carolyn Hamilton Pamela Moore Susan and William Galbreath Janice and Doug Shipley Syble Bryan Linda Huffaker Donna Dawson Mary Catherine Jax

Pete Dalton Erin and Matthew Roorda Robert Fulweber Nan Fulweber Bill Jensen Roberta Mayfield James “Froggy” Williams Charlotte and Larry Whaley Judy Hubbell Syble Bryan

Grover C. Scruggs, Jr. Teresa and Jerry Blizzard Christopher Haeckel Marilyn and Louis Mogas John E. Stokes Jennifer and Randy Coleman Janet and James Pyle Demi and Keith Kirk Kittie Rothschild

Barbara Baker Tom Baker Dona Barrier Crowell Martha and Jim Hunt

RESTRICTED GIFTS

UNRESTRICTED GIFTS

Jane and Jim Wise (Susan Jackson Scholarship Fund)

Pam and Mark Callahan Karen Dixon

GIFTS IN HONOR OF Kay Newman Pam and Jerry Treadwell

Al Hoppe Candlelighters Sunday School Class

Johanne and Christian Washington George Anderson-Wood

Wayne Payne Judith and Victor Hampton

Jackson Craig Trout’s first birthday Susan and Ed Patterson

Don Rhodes Shaver’s baptism Diane and Ben Roberts

Sloane Margaret Shaver’s birthday Diane and Ben Roberts Taylor Cody Shaver’s birthday Diane and Ben Roberts Susan Jackson Susan Jackson’s Yoga Friends

FLAME ALIVE RENEWAL 2016/17 (As of September 30, 2016) Irene and Bob Bening Marjorie Capshaw Rockie Deboben Gail and Art Faris Judith and Craig Fecel Tammy and Timothy Heinrich Kathryn Hennington

Cathy Helm Joan and Kevin Hodges Robin and James Hurley Virginia and Hans Kolb Karla and Bill Lowerre Donna Clark Love Joan and David Magdanz

Kay and Connie McIlvoy Lisa and David Miller Geraldine Neva Russell Orr Grace and Carroll Phillips Cathy and Ronald Ramsey Kristen and John Ramsey

Beverly Rossy Rita and James Spencer Karen Strong Jo and Wally White

CONFIRMATION COVENANT SERVICE

On October 2, over 300 6th graders and their parents attended the Confirmation Covenant Service in the Chapel. This service was led by the 6th graders, along with a message from Sarah Pattillo, and 10th grader, Kate Jones, led worship. In the service, 6th graders and their parents entered into a covenant between themselves, God and one another whereby they committed to enter fully into the confirmation journey by attending regularly and participating fully in Sunday morning classes, Sunday night small groups, retreats, worship service projects and more. Over 100 6th graders will be confirmed on May 7, 2017.

JOYS AND CONCERNS

PRAYERS AND PRAISE FOR OTHERS

Contacts

WHO DOES WHAT

John Stephens – Senior Pastor Bob Johnson – Executive Pastor Bob Lindsey – Business Administrator/Director of the Wesley Choir ADULT DISCIPLESHIP Andy Cunningham – Pastor, Grow Ministries Suzanne Harter – Ministry Director, Share Ministries (Local Serving) Tammy Heinrich – Pastor, Connect Ministries Ginny Itz – Ministry Director, Connect Ministries Josef Klam – Directing Pastor, Adult Discipleship Janine Roberts – Ministry Director, Share Ministries (Global and National Serving) Teresa Rossy – Ministry Director, Grow Ministries FAMILY DISCIPLESHIP Karen Lopes – Ministry Director, Special Needs Ministry Sarah Pattillo – Pastor, Student Ministry Cason Sicking – Ministry Director, Recreation Ministry Heather Sims – Directing Pastor, Family Discipleship Betsy Sutherland – Pastor, Children's Ministry David Walker – Director, Chapelwood School for Young Children PASTORAL CARE & REACHING Scott Endress – Pastor, Pastoral Care Bill Stell – Assistant Pastor, Pastoral Care Wick Stuckey – Senior Associate Pastor, Pastoral Care WORSHIP COMMUNITIES AND MUSIC Jacob Breeze – Community Pastor, Holy Family Richard Gandy – Ministry Director, Worship and Arts, Mercy Street Craig Gilbert – Ministry Director, Worship and Music Ministries Melissa Maher – Community Pastor, Mercy Street Luis Palomo – Community Pastor, The Branch Christian Washington – Community Pastor, Upper Room Wayne Watson – Ministry Director, 9:45 Contemporary Worship Jerry Webber – Community Pastor, The Center for Christian Spirituality OTHER MINISTRIES Teresa Cannon – Ministry Director, Chapelwood Foundation Toby Dagenhart – Managing Director, Technology for Ministry Karen Firenza – Ministry Director, Marketing and Communications Ivan Rhone – Ministry Director, Kitchen Ministry For a complete staff listing, go to www.chapelwood.org. 11140 Greenbay, Houston, TX 77024 Phone (713) 465-3467 Fax (713) 365-2808

Baptisms: Emma Claire Emerson, daughter of Cassandra and Joe Emerson, on September 11, 2016. Ethan Lee Essary, son of Katie and Jordan Essary, on September 11, 2016. Our Prayers and Sympathy Expressed to: Mr. and Mrs. Andy Loyd and family on the death of Karen’s father, Mr. Darrow Stephen Lee, on September 11, 2016. Mrs. Sally Ketley and family on the death of her husband, Mr. John Charles Ketley, on September 16, 2016. Mrs. Sandra Mulvany and family on the death of her husband, Mr. Dennis (Denny) Mulvany, on September 18, 2016. Mrs. Kimberly Hillman, Reid, Luke, and Addie on the death of their husband and father, Mr. David R. Hillman, on September 22, 2016. Mr. and Mrs. Jack Hillman and family on the death of their son, Mr. David R. Hillman, on September 22, 2016. Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Johnson and family on the death of Ann's mother, Gloria Reedy, on September 25, 2016. Recently Hospitalized: Bill Harwell Elwin Peacock Don Siems Joe Royce

NEW MEMBER

WELCOME TO CHAPELWOOD

Bill Monteverde III

Membership is your commitment to grow as a disciple of Jesus Christ in the areas of prayers, presence, gifts, service, and witness. If you are interested in becoming a member, please contact Tammy Heinrich, theinrich@chapelwood.org, or (713) 354-4446.

NOVEMBER 2016 SUNDAY

MONDAY

TUESDAY

WEDNESDAY

THURSDAY

FRIDAY

SATURDAY

OCT.30

NOV.1

Sager Brown registration closes

Wednesday Night Supper & Studies

Open Hearts Support Group, 7 pm, YB100

Singles Game Night, 5:30 pm, Gameroom

Booked for Lunch, Noon, Parlor UMW Sew Sociable (see page 8)

Wednesday Night Supper & Studies

The Only One Standing in Your Way is You, 9 am - 4 pm, LC214

The Only One Standing in Your Way is You, 9 am - 4 pm, LC214 Church Under the Bridge (see page 6)

UMW Circles (see page 8)

Wednesday Night Supper & Studies The Release, 6:30 pm

Singles Thanksgiving (see page 10)

Highschool Fall Retreat (Novemeber 18-20)

Wednesday Night Supper & Studies

Happy Thanksgiving Church offices closed

Church offices closed

DEC.1

Wednesday Night Supper & Studies Bookstore Open House (see page 10)

Weslaco and Costa Rica Mission registration closes

Methodism at Chapelwood, 11 am, W202

Second Sunday Chicken, 11 am1pm, Fellowship Hall Fair Trade Coffee (see page 14) Methodism at Chapelwood, 11 am, W202 Singles Rice & Beans (see page 10) Feed the Need (see page 13) Christmas Mana begins (see page 13)

Blood Drive (see page 14) Advent Wreath Making, 2-4 pm, Fellowship Hall Columbarium Dedication Service (see page 20)

27 First Sunday in Advent No Confirmation Alternative Christmas begins (see page 14) Poinsettia Dedications begin Christmas with Wayne and Friends, 7 pm, Sanctuary

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Vol.VI, No. 11

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MEMORIAL ROOM / COLUMBARIUM DEDICATION SERVICE

Sunday, November 20, 3:00 p.m., Chapel Please join us as we dedicate our new Columbarium/Memorial Chapel. The room will be open for prayer after the dedication. For more information about the Memorial Chapel, please visit www.chapelwood.org/columbarium.