Area Woman Magazine Aug/Sep '14

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12CONTRIBUTORS

16EVENTS CALENDAR

26BRIDAL FANTASY

The F-M area’s Premier Bridal Show

28ART QUILTS

Breaking down boundaries between art and craft

30CULLY'S KIDS

32HAWAIIAN FOR HOSPICE

800 People “Go Hawaiian For Hospice!”

34EXTRAORDINARY LIVING

The Women's Business Exchange

36FARGO-MOORHEAD HOMEWARD ANIMAL SHELTER

Nurturing Women Dedicated to Rescuing Animals

40FINDING FAMILY

Finding family at the Homeward Animal Shelter

42MSUM GRADS GET HIRED

97% find employment in their field

44 ARBITRATION VS. MEDIATION

48VELKOMMEN TO STABO

Stabo Scandinavian Imports

50WHERE TO SHOP

52FASHION

Embrace fall fashion with pattern and texture

54PHOTOGRAPHY WE LOVE

Wedding and children

60LOVE YOUR LEGS

Don’t let varicose veins hold you back this summer

62SHAREHOUSE, INC.

Removing barriers for clients in need

64FIND RELIEF FOR DRY EYES

68HOME SHOWCASE

The woman-centric approach

74BEYOND BEAUTY

Elena K Photography

78 JUA PROJECT

Moorhead family’s ministry brings hope to local refugees and women in Kitale, Kenya

82COVER STORY

Kristi Huber making a difference

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EDITORS IN CHIEF

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Becky Sherman

PROOFING EDITOR

Amy Peterson

GRAPHIC DESIGN

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PHOTOGRAPHY

Ockhardt Photography

Elena K Photography

Ben Nash Photography

5Foot20 Design Lounge

Nate Mickelberg

Ande Sailer

Rick Westra

Legacy Photography

Wolff Photography

Timeless Images Photography

Thuen Studios

Rachel Torgerson Photography

Ashley Oberholtzer Photography

Studio A Photo

Haney's Photography

Scherling Photography

Golden Veil Photography

Mike Smith

Limelite Photography

Mandey Marie Photography

Karensa Tischer Photography

Masterpiece Portraiture

Inna, a national and international award winning photographer, is proud to introduce the “Masterpiece” series of portraiture.

Each piece is created to be unique and original, creating timeless memories to show the elegance and grace of the subject. This is the type of piece that will be passed down through the generations.

Please call Inna to discuss your thoughts or to ask her questions.

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contributors

I remember the feeling of utter freedom that flooded my body as I stepped off the school bus on the last day of school. Nothing to do for three whole months! There are very few moments in my adult life that can even come close. Sure, as my five-year-old points out, I can eat as many cookies as I want and stay up as late as I want. But actually having so little responsibility that boredom was a daily phenomenon –that kind of freedom is unmatched.

I've read that there are 97 days between Memorial Day and Labor Day. I am hoping that at some point during these summer days you have experienced glimpses of the summers of your youth – carefree nights by a campfire with friends; time spent with family around a table filled with great food; maybe even a few bike rides that ended at an ice cream shop. Even though fall is around the corner, there are still lots of warm days and long evenings to enjoy before we pack it in for the winter. So let's make the most of it!

LETTER FROM THE EDITOR AmyPeterson

Beth Diane Bradley

Kim Malakowsky

Ashley Thornberg Carolyn Lillehaugen

Alicia Underlee Nelson

LIFE

So many great things to do and events to be a part of in the FM area during the next few months. Be sure to check the calendar of events as you plan the rest of your summer. You can also read about events that have already taken place―Cully's Kids and Go Hawaiian for Hospice―as well as two events coming to the area this fall―the Bridal Fantasy Show and Quilt National '13. A variety of community organizations are also featured in this edition of Area Life.

calendar of events

Note: All events are subject to change. Confirm dates and times before attending.

ride the red 09•13

August, 4-8

Explorer Camp: Awesome Animal Adaptations

Five-day camp for grades 1-3. Choose 9 a.m.-noon or 1-4 p.m. session

How can some birds fly? How do reptiles control their body temperature? Come to Zoo Camp and find out! Each camp includes fun activities, crafts and animal encounters.

RRZ Members: $105 Non-Members: $120 Space is limited; registration required

9 a.m. - noon or 1-4 p.m.

Red River Zoo

4255 23rd Ave South www.redriverzoo.org

August 6

Concert in the Park

Local bands will entertain families with lively music. Get your face painted, jump in the bouncy castle and take home a craft project. This is a free event and there will be limited concessions for sale. Penny and Pals Performing!

7-8:30 p.m.

Elephant/Percy Godwin Park

100 19th Ave N fargoparks.com

August 7

JOES for G.I.s

Sloppy Joes, Chips, Cookie & Soda

$5.00 All proceeds donated to local military support groups.

11 a.m.-1 p.m.

U.S. Bank Plaza

Downtown & U.S. Bank Service Center (Corner of 43rd St SW & 15th Ave—Fargo)

701-280-3500

August 7

Community Play Day

Take a Free Play Day! Kids will have fun playing yard games, making take home crafts and climbing on the playground. Daycares are welcome. Adults supervision is required.

This program is free thanks to Xcel Energy Foundation

9-11 a.m. & 1-3 p.m.

Rheault Farm

2902 25th St S fargoparks.com

August 7

Stroll for Epilepsy

This family-friendly event is the largest fundraising/awareness event in MN & ND to benefit people with seizures. Funds raised support programs and services for the 60,000 people in our community with epilepsy. Join us!

5-7:30 p.m.

FargoDome

800 N University Dr, Fargo ND Amy Haugen, 701-429-1165 or ahaugen@efmn.org

August 9-10

Fiber Arts Festival

Celebrate all things fiber, yarn and fabric! Two days full of demonstrations, vendors and hands-on activities. Lectures and handson classes you can sign up for prior to the event or on-site registration will be available. Admission is free! Food vendors will be onsite to purchase tasty treats. Check out www.fiberartsfest.com for details.

Thank you to our sponsor.

10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Rheault Farm

2902 25th St S

August 9

Rugs Galore

Dress up your floor! Area rugs can really wake up your room. Rhonda Gill will show you ways that rugs can work in your design plan. Reservations are requested.

1 p.m.

Gabberts

4601 23rd Ave SW

Fargo 952-928-3132

mcnelson@homfurniture.com

August 9

Design is in the Details

Take your design plan from “ho-hum” to “ Oh Wow!” Andrea Coleman (at 1 p.m.) and Jillayne Olson (at 3 p.m.) will share some of the professional secrets they have used to help their clients over the years. You have an unbelievable amount of choice at your fingertips. Reservations are requested.

1 p.m. and 3 p.m.

Gabberts

4601 23rd Ave SW, Fargo 952-928-3132

mcnelson@homfurniture.com

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August 13

Concert in the Park

Local bands will entertain families with lively music. Get your face painted, jump in the bouncy castle and take home a craft project. This is a free event and there will be limited concessions for sale. Q5 Band performing!

7-8:30 p.m.

Brunsdale Park 1702 27th Ave S fargoparks.com

AUGUST 14

Music Montage

Join in an interactive evening of music outside on the park plaza. An open mic format invites talented local musicians to perform to a crowd of all ages. Get your shot up on the stage or just enjoy the up and coming talent in our community.

7-9 p.m.

Great Northern Park

425 Broadway N fargoparks.com

August 16-17

Pioneer Days

Take a journey back in time at Bonanzaville and experience our region's rich history!

10 a.m.-5 p.m. Sat; Noon-5 p.m. Sun

Bonanzaville

1351 West Main Ave, West Fargo www.bonanzaville.org

calendar of events

Note: All events are subject to change. Confirm dates and times before attending.

August, 18-22

Critter Camp: Food for Thought

Five-day camp for ages 4, 5 and 6. Choose 10 a.m.-noon or 2-4 p.m. session Just like humans, all other creatures need to eat to survive. Some eat meat and others eat leaves. Most animals eat a variety of food. Find out about carnivores, herbivores and omnivores - as well as what we feed the animals at the zoo. Each camp includes fun activities, crafts and animal encounters. RRZ Members: $70

Non-Members: $85

Space is limited; registration required.

10 a.m.-noon or 2-4 p.m. Red River Zoo 4255 23rd Ave S 701-277-9240

August 23 & 24

Island Park Show

Spend a day at Island Park shopping in the shade! Come to the beautiful park for a twoday festival of original fine arts and unique crafts. Shop at the 160 juried arts and original craft booths for that special “treasure" that you can’t find anywhere else. Take a look at such items as handmade baskets, pottery, handmade candles, original photos of rural North Dakota, decorative wood items, clothing and much more!

Admission is Free to the event.

10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Island Park

302 7th St S fargoparks.com

Aug. 25 to Oct. 8

MSUM Alumni Exhibition: New Works

Gallery hours are Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., Saturday from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. or by special arrangement.

Reception: Thursday Sept. 4, 4-6 p.m. MSUM Art Gallery in the Roland Dille Center for the Arts on the MSUM campus.

Call Shirlee Holland at 218-477-2317 shirlee.holland@mnstate.edu.

September 4, 2014

CCRI's Superhero 5k Run & Walk 'n' Roll-a-Thon

Caped crusaders will overrun the city of Moorhead for a good cause! Partnering with Greater Moorhead Days, CCRI will host the first annual Superhero 5K Run & Walk ‘n’ Rolla-thon on Sept. 4, 2014. The race starts near the large shelter at Gooseberry Mound Park located at 100 22nd Ave S in Moorhead. The race runs on a trail along the beautiful Red River into Lindenwood Park in Fargo.

Youth Run 5:30 p.m., 5k 6 p.m., Walk 6:30 p.m.

Gooseberry Park

100 22nd Ave S Moorhead

www.creativecare.org

218-236-6730

September 4

Zoolebration!

Join us for an elegant evening celebrating the Red River Zoo- Past, Present, and Future! Enjoy live music by Tucker'd Out, delectable edibles, & a truly wild auction. Tickets are $50 and are available online or at the Zoo. This is a 21 or older event

6 p.m.-10 p.m.

Red River Zoo

4255 23rd Ave S

www.redriverzoo.org

September 7

Grandparents Day at the Zoo

Celebrate Grandparents Day the the Red River Zoo! All grandparents receive free admission!

10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Red River Zoo

4255 23rd Ave S

www.redriverzoo.org

Red River Zoo • Jill Ockhardt Photography

September 11

Music Montage

Join in an interactive evening of music outside on the park plaza. An open mic format invites talented local musicians to perform to a crowd of all ages. Get your shot up on the stage or just enjoy the up and coming talent in our community.

7-9 p.m.

Great Northern Park

425 Broadway N fargoparks.com

September 12

2nd Annual Recovery Walk in the F/M area

Free food, band and SOBER fun! Heidi Heitkamp will be present to help us celebrate recovery!

5-8 p.m.

100 22nd Ave S

Gooseberry Park, Moorhead 701-566-5272

Megan.busch@availpsych.com

September 13

Ride the Red biking event to benefit Hospice of the Red River Valley

Ride the Red participants ride bike to raise money for Hospice of the Red River Valley. 100% of the proceeds from Ride the Red registration fees will benefit Hospice of the Red River Valley. Registration is $25 per rider, and kids under 12 are free with an adult registration.

9-11 a.m.

Trefoil Park

1321 Elm St N, Fargo

Trevor Berner 480-294-0804

Ride the Red Biking Event

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UPCOMING EVENTS

Friday, Saturday, & Sunday

September 19, 20, & 21, 2014 Fargo Civic Center

207 4th Street North, Fargo ND

Enter your quilts. Register for classes. Bid on auction quilts. View the show. Shop the vendors.

Registration opens July 1, 2014 Schedule and entry forms at ndquilts.com

UPCOMING EVENTS

17th Annual

October 8, 2014

5:30 – 8:30 pm | Ramada Plaza Suites - Fargo

Gourmet Food • Drinks • Silent Auction

Tickets Available August 1st (Space Limited) 232-2624 | www.fmchefsgala.org

Generously supported by:

Fighting Hunger, Feeding Hope

calendar of events

Note: All events are subject to change. Confirm dates and times before attending.

September 13

Home Run/Walk

Join the fun at the 61 for 61 Home Run/Walk at the Scheels Arena Register for the 10K, 5K Run/Walk or Youth Run and support the Roger Maris Cancer Center.

6 a.m. to 7 p.m.

Scheels Arena

5225 31st Ave S 61for61.sanfordhealth.org or call 701-234-6246 for more information.

September 18

MSUM Performing Arts Series: Turtle Island String Quartet with singer Nellie McKay

Two-time Grammy-winning Turtle Island Quartet joins popular singer-songwriter Nellie McKay for music of Billie Holiday, Billy Strayhorn and others. For tickets, go to www.mnstate.edu/perform or call the MSUM Box Office M-F from 10:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. at (218) 477-2271.

7:30 p.m.

Gaede Stage in the Roland Dille Center for the Arts on the MSUM campus. www.mnstate.edu/perform

September 18

Take Back the Night

Please join the Rape and Abuse Crisis Center for a march and rally to prevent sexual and domestic violence. Free & open to the publicmay not be suitable for young ages.

6 p.m.

Island Park

North side at Broadway & 1st Ave S 701-293-7273

September 20

Walk To End Alzheimer's

Come join the FM community in walking to support a world without Alzheimer's. Registration begins at 8 a.m., with the walk beginning at 9 a.m. There will be a silent auction along with other activities before the walk begins.

9 a.m.

Scheels Arena

5225 31st Ave S, Fargo act.alz.org

September 20 & 27

21 & 28

Fall Festival

FREE ADMISSION to the Park! • games & rides wristbands $5.50

Fun Fall Activities!

Thank you to our 2014 Sponsors! Noon-5 p.m.

Fall Festival

2902 25 St S fargoparks.com

September 27

Rusty Barn Junque Show

An Occasional Market featuring vintage and repurposed treasures.

10 a.m.- 4 p.m.

12753 110th St N

Felton, MN

(Approximately 20 miles NE of Moorhead) facebook.com/rustybarnjunque

Chanyce Dahl, Junque Artist at Rusty Barn Junque Show

Turtle Island String Quartet with singer Nellie McKay

October 2-4

Junk Prom

It is with great pleasure that I am able to cordially invite you to Junk Prom 2014. The store is open four days each month and offers an amazing assortment of furniture, décor and gifts using vintage and repurposed items.

Thursday, Oct. 2, 5-8 p.m. (Early Bird Shopping)

Early Bird Tickets $25—includes admission to all three days

Friday, Oct. 3, 9 a.m. – 6 p.m. – admission $5

Saturday, Oct. 4, 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. –admission $5

All Seasons Garden Center

5101 S. Washington St Grand Forks, ND www.junkwithspunk.net/junk-prom

October 3-4

Your Beautiful Purpose, a women’s conference

Susie Larson, radio cohost of Focus on the Family’s daily talk show with Dr. Greg Smalley, author of 10 books and national speaker, will present; Elizabeth Hunnicutt will lead worship. Tickets go on sale Friday, August 1.

Bethel Church

For more information or for tickets, call 701-232-4476 or go online at www.bethelfc.com.

October 7

Roers/Keller Williams Roers Realty Chili Feed

All proceeds to benefit the United Way of Cass Clay.

11:30 a.m.-2 p.m.

ROERS

200 45th St S (Door M), Fargo 701-356-5050

QUOTABLE

"For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. Then you will seek me and find me: when you seek me with all your heart, I will be found by you, declares the Lord. "

— JEREMIAH 29: 11-14

calendar of events

Note: All events are subject to change. Confirm dates and times before attending.

Susie Larson • Your Beautiful Purpose

Roers Realty Chili Feed

Bridal Fantasy Show

Stressful. Daunting. Overwhelming. These are just a few of the words that couples trying to plan their wedding may identify with. Inundated by to do lists, checklists and wish lists, and receiving constant social media input on the latest must-have napkin holder doohickey that is guaranteed to make the wedding day magical and unforgettable can, over time, make an engaged couple toss around the word “elope” in frantic, half-jesting tones.

With the support of local vendors from the Fargo-Moorhead community, however, thousands of couples over the past 22 years have managed to navigate the turbulent waters of wedding planning with ease, choosing a “one-stop shopping” approach at the area’s premier bridal event: the annual Bridal Fantasy Show.

Held in October every year and located at the Ramada Plaza and Suites, the Bridal

Fantasy Show has been recognized as the official kick off to the wedding planning season. This year’s show will be held on October 12 and will feature over 35 quality, reputable community wedding vendors providing grab bags, displays and drawings, as well as a top grand prize of up to $20,000 given to one lucky couple. In addition, there will be two different style fashion shows―Affairs by Brittany will show at 1:30pm; Wedding Elegance will show at 3:00pm. Furthermore, while recognized as LGBT friendly and heralded as the only show with a live band, the Bridal Fantasy Show has also been designed to embrace attendees as if they were at a wedding reception versus a traditional trade show.

Helping to inform couples on every aspect of wedding planning from invitations to photography to thank you notes and information on honeymoon destinations, the Bridal Fantasy Show prides itself on its comprehensive selection and variety

of local businesses while maintaining a smaller, more intimate feel for couples and attendees. After nearly selling out in previous years, organizers for this year’s show encourage attendees to either prepurchase online (at a discounted rate of $8 in advance versus $12 at the door), or in person at any of the following area storefront locations: Blonde Ambition, Floral Expressions, Aqua Blue, Wedding Elegance, the West 13th Salon (in West Fargo), Bursch Travel, the UPS store on 13th Avenue, or Affairs by Brittany in Detroit Lakes.

Additionally, with many of the vendors traditionally receiving bookings on the spot at the show, event organizers encourage attendees to arrive early (the show will run from noon until 4:00pm) and to invite family members and bridal party members so as to help canvass and select vendors efficiently and effectively.

Tips on the Bridal Fantasy Show website also include encouraging show

The F-M area’s Premier Bridal Show

By Marie Laska • Photography by Legacy Photography

participants to bring a binder with organizing sleeves as well as blank paper to write notes on, and to sign up for a monthly newsletter that will showcase exclusive Bridal Show offers.

Testimonials from previous Bridal Fantasy Show attendees allude to the many free samples and drawings held at the show: “There were many vendors, samples and early booking deals,” and “The vendors were very nice and it was AWESOME to be registered to win so many different prizes.” Noting the variety and accessibility of vendors, one attendee commented, “I liked all the different vendors, and you could get most of your major things for your wedding done there.” [AWM]

For more information

on this year’s upcoming Bridal Fantasy show and/or to purchase tickets in advance, please visit www.bridalfantasyshow.com

Quilts Art

Breaking down boundaries between art and craft

By Kim Malakowsky

Defining Form

Terminology once associated with the fine arts has become the language of quilt makers across the world as expressive art quilts have emerged in recent decades. Exploring sophisticated art principals like balance, contrasting elements, texture, focal points and creation of movement has become an intricate part of the art form.

The art quilt is based on imagery and ideas rather than traditional patterns, often expressing political, social and environmental statements. Art quilts tend to break the rules of traditional quilting offering a new experience for the viewer.

Transition

A handful of artists and craftspeople began experimenting with modern designs and non-traditional techniques in the 1950s and 1960s, with the 1970s and 1980s bringing the most important advances in the field.

Jean Ray Laury (1928-2011) widely recognized as the mother of the art quilt by contemporary artists once stated “There are no rules in stitchery―no single ‘right’ way of working.” These words helped pave the way for quilt artists to stretch the boundaries of traditional methods.

Contemporary quilt artists employ new, innovative techniques including painting, dyeing, stamping, piecing, collage, printing, appliqué and other complex processes.

Explore, Learn, Experience

Quilt National, a long standing juried exhibition of non-traditional quilts produced and circulated by The Dairy Barn Arts Center of Athens, Ohio, will be hosted by the Historical & Cultural Society of Clay County at the Hjemkomst Center in Moorhead, MN. Dates are set for August 16-September 28, 2014. Quilt National ’13 (a biennial show) is comprised of 85 quilts divided into three collections for touring. The Hjemkomst will exhibit the 26 quilts of Collection B.

Visitors to this collection of Quilt National ’13 can expect to see fine art crafted with respect to the heritage quilting techniques of piecing, appliqué, embroidery and stitching layers together. In addition to use of found objects and commercial fabrics, these fiber artists create their own dyed, printed, painted and inked fabrics using innovative takes on processes of discharge dyeing, shibori, wax resist, screen printing, monoprinting, digital printing, pastels, acrylics, paint sticks, textile crayons, markers and ink. Materials range from plastic bags to fine silk with everything in-between.

In addition, the Indian Summer Quilt Show and Conference (ISQSC) takes place September 18-September 21,

"Dragon Sushi: 9 of Pyrex Cups in the Kitchen Tarot" by Susan Shie, Wooster, Ohio

"Plastic Trees #5, Olive Grove in Ampolla, Spain" by Rita Merten Sarmenstorf, Switzerland "Decay" by Leslie Bixel, Los Gatos, CA

2014 at the Fargo Civic Center. The ISQSC intersperses traditional quilts with contemporary and modern quilts representing the full scope of the beauty and vibrancy of quilt making today.

Popular ISQSC instructor and Quilt National artist Katie Pasquini Masopust of Santa Fe, New Mexico will represent Quilt National and be available for questions at the Hjemkomst public reception on September 18th from 3:00-5:00. Katie will also teach sought-after classes on color value and composition and present a lecture on art quilts as part of the Indian Sumer Quilt Show and Conference.

Prestigious museums across the country and around the world are curating quilt shows giving a nod to the artistic vision of today’s quilt makers and acknowledging the merging of craft and art. [AWM]

For more information

regarding shows, learning opportunities, and receptions visit hcssonline.org, ndquilts.com, and dairybarn.org.

If you go...

QUILT NATIONAL ’13 OPENING RECEPTION

Saturday August 16, 2014

3:00-5:00 p.m.

202 1st Ave N

Hjemkomst Center, Moorhead

QUILT NATIONAL ’13 PUBLIC RECEPTION

Thursday September 18, 2014

3:00-5:00 p.m.

202 1st Ave N

Hjemkomst Center, Moorhead

QUILT NATIONAL ’13

August 16-September 28

202 1st Ave N

Hjemkomst Center, Moorhead

INDIAN SUMMER QUILT SHOW AND CONFERENCE

September 18-September 21

207 4th St N

Fargo Civic Center, Fargo

Cully's Kids

Photography and article by Rick Westra

It was an early morning start to the 10th and final Cully's Kids Celebrity Weekend. Friday featured the annual golf event with 288 players. Although the rain-filled clouds were ominous, the the sheer excitement of the event filled the air. While the golfers teed off, Cully's Kids were gathering for their time with Matt, Bridget and the rest of the celebrities.

The first of Saturday's events was a wellattended picnic. Even though the rain eventually poured down, people's spirits and enthusiasm were high.

Usher's restaurant served as the venue for the final big event Saturday evening, with both a silent and live auction attended by a large crowd.

Amongst all the heartfelt hugs, the smiling faces and the joy of each celebrated moment over the years, the bittersweet tears were present as well, as the finality of the Cully's Kid's Celebrity Weekend Event sunk in for all.

It was Matt, looking back 10 years, who shared this Arthur Asche quote Saturday night: “Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.” Words to live by.

Through the talent, the hard work and the generous giving of so many, combined with the selflessness of Matt and Bridget, over $1,000,000 was raised at this year's final event.

[AWM]

800 People go hawaiian for hospice!

By Beth Diane Bradley Photography by Ben Nash

Choice Financial hosted its second annual “Go Hawaiian for Hospice” fundraiser July 1 benefitting Hospice of the Red River Valley. A luau-style feast of roast pig was served along with French fries, fresh pineapple, Hawaiian Punch and a frozen treat for a suggested donation of five dollars.

Audra Mari, Miss North Dakota USA 2014, was a special guest at the event that also featured live music, prize drawings and a memorial wall where guests were invited to remember their loved ones.

“Despite the wind and rain, the 2nd annual Go Hawaiian for Hospice fundraiser was an overwhelming success; we surpassed our fundraising goal of $30,000!” Deb Gemar, director of community relations,

said. “We are so grateful for the loyal, steadfast supporters of Hospice of the Red River Valley who help us carry out our mission to provide comfort at the end of life’s journey.”

The event was sponsored by Choice Financial, Kasowski Farms, Simplot, PetroServe, Brand Trucking, TMI Hospitality, Premium Waters, Inc., Hornbachers, American Bottling Company, Go Promo and The Yogurt Place.

“The money raised provides care for patients and their families, and helps support our grief support services, and other non-reimbursed needs,” Gemar said. [AWM]

Go to www.hrrv.org for more information.

Extraordinary Living

The Women's Business Exchange: A Place to Connect, Grow and Mentor

By Janelle Brandon • Images by 5 Foot 20 Design Lounge

Cari Rauch, president of the WBE (The Women's Business Exchange), is a certified life and money coach. She is passionate about helping women learn to live extraordinary lives through coaching them to step into the woman they desire to be right now. She believes life is a wildly fun adventure which she infuses with laughter, play and pleasure everyday, and teaches her clients to do the same.

However, she wasn’t always this articulate with what she wanted to do for her career. That’s where the WBE, a group that was founded 10 years ago to focus on both “intra” and “entra” preneurial women’s needs and issues, came into play.

“When I first joined WBE, I didn't have my own business nor was I looking for customers,” said Rauch. “Instead, I became involved in order to connect with more women in the community. Now that I have my own business, I'm still involved for the connections, but it has also grown into being able to support an amazing group of women.”

Rauch said the greatest benefit is being able to meet and connect with incredible women in the community who have helped her expand her knowledge, strengthen her love of helping others and increase her self-confidence.

“One of the greatest things about the WBE is that there are no memberships and no meeting or attendance requirements,” said Rauch. “All you need to do is register for one of our events and show up. I highly recommend attending an event because it's a chance to build connections that are not just business contacts but friendships that can turn into long-lasting relationships. I have made many of these connections through this organization.”

Karen Stensrud, vice president of marketing for Bell State Bank and Trust, was one of the founding members of the WBE. She reflected on her experience being involved in the group early on.

“Years ago, when I had my own business, Arlette Preston (also a local businesswoman and former city commissioner) and I were meeting over coffee,” said Stensrud. “Arlette said, ‘I would love to know all of the women in business in our community and what they do, because I’d like to support them in any way I can.’ From there, the idea blossomed into the founding of the WBE, with the goal of providing networking, education and mentorship for women in business or those considering starting a business.”

Over the years, even as Stensrud’s career evolved and changed, she’s shared conversation and ideas with many wonderful business leaders and entrepreneurs through the WBE. A special highlight for her was being asked, several years ago, to be one of several women mentoring other younger women in business and organizations. These core mentors have become a group of supportive friends that meets several times a year and continues to mentor each other in their professional and personal lives.

“If you are looking for a comfortable exchange of ideas for business and personal growth, and a place to expand your networking circle, give the WBE a try!” said Stensrud. [AWM]

To learn more about the WBE or for information on upcoming events, visit wbefargo.com

Cari Rauch, President

Lois Greisen, Secretary

Cheryl Bergian, Treasurer

Tasha Rohlfs, Marketing

JoAnn Fazekas, Register

fargo-moorhead

Homeward

Animal Shelter

Nurturing Women Dedicated to Rescuing Animals

By Ashley Thornberg

When you look for the best qualities in a pet, loyalty and enthusiasm are near the top of the list. What happens when you get those qualities in the people who devote their careers to animal advocacy? The answer is you get the staff of the Homeward Animal Shelter, previously known as the Humane Society FargoMoorhead.

Executive Director Nukhet Hendricks oversees the overall administration of the organization to ensure that it functions to fulfill its mission of the pound rescue organization, including four full-time and eight part-time employees, all of whom fit her description of an ideal animal shelter society employee. Each has an “incredible open mind and big heart,” and “reason tempered with compassion. You have to be a people person, and an animal person. This is about bringing people and animals together. That’s our number one priority… You can’t compromise."

That dedication is a driving force behind the shelter’s successes. In its almost 50year history, the nonprofit has saved thousands of animals from euthanization.

Hendricks, who’s been with the organization since June of 2006, is quick to tout the team’s tremendous successes―

last year was the first year no adoptable pets were euthanized in Fargo/Moorhead. “We are an incredible team here. It takes a little village to run this place. We are as strong as our weakest link, and I don’t see one. We are, together, strong.”

Of that village, the a.m. crew of animal care technicians gets the day rolling with a deep cleaning. Throughout the day, staff care for the animals and get them ready for adoption.

“I call it a match made in the shelter. 86% of American households have pets. [They are] the fabric of American life.

Therefore I believe the match changes the family and keeps us going and hopeful. The work the staff does changes lives,” said Hendricks.

Like many in animal advocacy, much of the staff grew up with pets. Special events/P.R. coordinator Heather Klefstad grew up on farm outside of Pekin, ND, where animals “were [her] best friends, another part of the family.”

Shelter manger Heather Clyde thinks animals teach kids to be empathetic and hardworking. “I don’t remember ever sitting in front of the TV or playing video

Photography by Timeless Images Photography & Jill Ockhardt

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games like all the kids do now,” said Clyde. “I was outside with calves and pigs. We had pigs on leashes. We had calves we used to ride. We used to sit on them and ride like horses and hang out with lambs. We always had a minimum of two dogs and lots of barn cats following us.”

One notable exception to growing up with pets is Hendricks, who came to the United States from Turkey in 1987. She got her first pets as an adult, starting with two kittens. That quickly grew into four cats and a dog, which kept her going, even when she didn’t want to. “When you are not in a good mood or wanting to get out of bed, you get out. Your babies need your care. They are not simply little furry things to love. They are companions who listen to your secrets. They are companions for life.”

Her dog Rascal, a lundehunde, is also the reason why she works at the animal shelter. Hendricks’ background is in fundraising. She has a Master’s degree in public and human service administration. She saw the posting for the executive director position at a critical time. “I had just lost my dog, one of the very first animals I’d had. And I have to say it was traumatic for me. I was really drawn to the work. I have to be doing something with the animals. I applied. The rest is history.”

Clyde visits pounds in Fargo, West Fargo and Moorhead daily to select animals for the animal shelter. She’s careful to choose ones

This is about bringing people and animals together

that aren’t overly aggressive or too sick to be good pets. All pets are vaccinated and receive standard medical care, often including spaying and neutering.

They can board nine dogs, 17 cats and six kittens, meaning they need to use other outlets often. Clyde coordinates with Cat’s Cradle, 4 Luv of Dog and other shelters across the region for additional placement. There’s also plenty of need for foster families, who might take animals for a few days, or even a few months.

Approximately four million cats and dogs are put down every year nationally. “We don’t exactly have a good handle on animal welfare issues,” said Hendricks. The shelter hopes to stem that tide with education. “The more our young people know how to take care of animals, the more the habits of taking care of animals will change. We do believe in education. Education is what changes the world brings us to a different level of awareness … In a way you can’t just keep rescuing animals. There are so many. It never ends. My mentor used to say our job is to work ourselves out of job,” said Hendricks.

The staff also works to counteract the

belief that shelter animals are problem animals. “A lot of times why an animal is here is a human issue. People move, have allergies or have a baby,” said Clyde. However, there are times when an animal ends up at the shelter because of neglect or abuse. Last year they rescued 17 dogs from a hoarding situation in Wheatland, ND. “They had to learn how to be dogs,” said Clyde. “They had never walked on carpet. They had never gone upstairs. They had never played with toys. They were in cages all the time and not housebroken. Some were scared to eat out of bowls,” All were eventually adopted, but only after proper medical care and training.

With hundreds of animals ending up at the shelter every year, Klefstad, Hendricks and Clyde make sure to focus on the positive. "If you concentrate on the bad, you will destroy yourself,” said Clyde. The job might be hard, but for animal lovers, that’s better than the alternative. Hendricks said, “For me, I hope to God it will never become easy because when it’s easy I will need to leave, because I will be too jaded.” Something she hopes never happens to any of the young women at the Homeward Animal Shelter. [AWM]

BACK ROW FROM LEFT TO RIGHT: Amanda Hanson, Hanna Karevold, Jim Melhus, Nukhet Hendricks, Tracy Dobos, Heather Clyde FRONT ROW FROM LEFT TO RIGHT: Amanda Swank, Jenna Vanatta, Heather Klefstad, Courtney Blinn and Sam Bacon ANIMALS FROM LEFT TO RIGHT: Potter, Sasha and Sebastian THOSE NOT PICTURED: Melody Brown, Natasha Gislason and Melissa Coster

Jill Ockhardt Photography

The shelter is always in need of more foster families and donations. You can find a complete list of what’s needed at humanesocietyfargomoorhead.org

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at the homeward animal shelter Finding Family

The Homeward Animal Shelter Fargo-Moorhead was organized in 1966 to serve the animals and communities of Cass and Clay counties. We are a pound rescue organization that takes in animals from the three municipal pounds after their time is up and their owners have not claimed them. Before the animals arrive at our facility, they are examined by veterinary staff and given all the appropriate vaccinations. These animals stay with us until they are adopted and we provide medical care as needed.

Every effort is placed into the rehabilitation and placement of all of our animals. Each year, we adopt out hundreds of pets that just need a second chance at finding a “forever” home. We have a variety of pets available for adoption, from puppies and kittens to senior pets and everything in between in a variety of breeds, including purebreds. Next time you’re considering adopting a pet, please check out our shelter and consider giving a home to a pet in need.

Potter

Skyler

Linx

Jedi

Tessla

Images by Timeless Images Photography

Did you know you can volunteer at the Homeward Animal Shelter just by walking dogs, playing with cats or showing customers the adoptable animals?

MSUM

Grads Get Hired

97% find employment in their field

By Danielle Rebel, Marketing Intern, MSUM Marketing & Communications

Marketing & Communications

As students graduate from college, one common thought is on their minds –finding the job of their dreams.

Minnesota State University Moorhead graduates are among the most fortunate in the nation. Of the 1,701 students who graduated from MSUM in 2012, 97 percent found employment in their field of choice in the year following graduation.

Sarah Miller, director of MSUM’s Career Development Center (CDC), attributes this success to the flourishing economic climate of Fargo-Moorhead, the quality of MSUM programs and active student engagement.

“We live in a thriving economy,” Miller said. “Those who want to find employment can. Opportunity exists here in a lot of different job sectors.”

Contrary to other areas of the country, Fargo-Moorhead is an ideal place for students to find jobs after college.

Livability.com ranks Fargo as No. 8 in the article, “Top 10 Best Cities for New College Grads in 2014.” The article states new college graduates are provided with a “booming job market” and “a diverse industry base that includes health care, technology, manufacturing and financial services,” all which contribute to the area’s well-balanced economy.

MSUM graduates finding their dream jobs right after graduation isn’t solely due to the economic climate, however. Strong academic programs and student commitment also play a large role in student success.

“MSUM has a reputation for producing graduates who have strong critical thinking skills, strong team skills and strong communication skills. These are some of the primary attributes all employers seek,” Miller said.

Chris Hagen, director of public relations at Flint Communications, said, “Students

get real-world experience and internships from most institutions, but at MSUM it’s like they’re more meaningful; their portfolios are very rich and deep. That experience is reflected in their confidence, presentation and passion when they apply for jobs.”

This past year, more than 4,000 students used the CDC’s resources for resume review and job search assistance, and about 900 attended workshops and career fairs, all of which help students prepare for jobs after graduation. Miller said MSUM is known for producing students who are sought after in the workforce.

“MSUM graduates not only interview well and are prepared, but they also match our culture at Discovery Benefits. We believe in open and transparent communication, endless education and training, asking questions and continual improvement to not only provide the best customer service but to grow and develop our employees,” said Sue

Photography by Ande Sailer, MSUM

Hanish Anderson, director of Client Account Services at Discovery Benefits, Inc. “I am always encouraged when I see an interview is scheduled with an MSUM graduate; they raise the bar!”

Students, alumni and community members are encouraged to access the CDC. Last year, the CDC held workshops for 3,500 community members; alumni receive the lifetime benefit of one-on-one appointments with career counselors and other services such as interview coaching.

Other Minnesota State Colleges and Universities (MnSCU) look to MSUM as the university continues to blaze a trail of excellence in the percent of graduates employed in a field of their choice. Other four-year MnSCU employment rates:

Southwest Minnesota State University - 91.6%

Winona State University - 80.2%

Minnesota State University, Mankato 78%

St. Cloud State University - 77.3%

Bemidji State University - 76.6%

Metropolitan State University - 74.4%

For an in-depth look

at what MSUM graduates are up to, visit mnstate.edu/gethired. [AWM]

Danielle Rebel

Danielle Rebel is a senior at Minnesota State University Moorhead studying mass communications. She is an Honors Apprentice student and currently works as an intern for the MSUM Marketing and Communications department. During her time at MSUM, Rebel has been highly involved with Students Today Leaders Forever, an organization that focuses on “paying it forward” in communities across the country. She intends to graduate in the spring of 2015 with a bachelor’s degree in Integrated Advertising and Public Relations and a minor in Leadership Studies.

ARBITRATION MEDIATION vs

by Jack G. Marcil • Photography by Thuen Studios

The distinctions between mediation and arbitration in a public’s mind are often blurred. Both are forms of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) that are designed to keep parties out of court or to remove them from protracted legal fighting when already in court. The two concepts are different. This article will discuss in very general terms the difference between the two.

Mediation

Mediation involves using a neutral third person who helps the parties come to an agreement. Mediation is a flexible process that can be used to settle disputes. Mediation conferences can be scheduled very quickly and requires a small amount

of preparation time. The role of the mediator is to help the parties reach a solution to their problem. The mediator remains neutral throughout the process. Mediation is voluntary. No one can force you to mediate. However, in some jurisdictions it is a requirement of the court to go through the mediation process before getting into a court hearing. Mediation is confidential. Each party will disclose facts to the mediator, who will maintain confidentiality. Typically the parties share the cost, which is normally an hourly charge by the mediator. Many cases are resolved within a few hours. Mediation does work. Statistics show that 85 percent of commercial matters and 90 percent of personal injury matters end in

a written settlement agreement. If you are unable to reach an agreement you can still go to court. Mediation details will not be disclosed at the court hearing.

Arbitration

Arbitration is the referral of a dispute to one or more impartial persons for a final and binding determination. Private and confidential, it is designed for quick, practical, and a economic resolution. Arbitration is a form of binding dispute resolution equivalent to litigation in the court. Arbitration is most commonly used for the resolution of commercial and construction disputes. In arbitration, a third party considers both sides in a dispute and makes a decision that resolves

Jack G. Marcil, attorney with Serkland Law Firm

the dispute. An arbitrator may be an attorney, an engineer, an accountant, or other expert, depending on the nature and complexity of the claim. The arbitrator is impartial and neutral. In most cases, the arbitrator’s decision is legal binding on both sides. After considering the parties’ submissions, the arbitrator issues a final and binding award. The award includes reasons for the decision. The cost of arbitration varies. Arbitration tends to be less expensive, less formal, and more flexible than court. The rules of evidence are not as strict. Like mediation, arbitration is less time consuming and less expensive than litigation.

Mediation and arbitration are the most common forms of ADR. They are used in place of the litigation process (that is taking a dispute to court). In the United States, litigation is very costly. The parties to a dispute can agree on a different process. Typically any process that is outside the litigation process must be agreed to in writing. That document will outline the procedures for the mediation or arbitration.

This article was written and prepared by Jack Marcil, an attorney with the Serkland Law Firm in Fargo, North Dakota. For

call 232.8957, email jmarcil@serklandlaw.com or visit www.serklandlaw.com.

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STYLE

Those with a passion for Scandinavian goods and foods will want to spend a moment reading about the woman dedicated to bringing these goods to our area. Also in this edition of Area Style become familiar with some shopping hot spots and the latest fashion trends heading into fall, or peruse the section featuring area photographers.

VELKOMMEN TO STABO

Stabo Scandinavian Imports

By Susan A. Stibbe

Velkommen to Stabo, a Fargo store offering items imported from Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Finland along with other merchandise that has a Scandinavian connection or design. It is a specialized gift store with a very wide range of products.

Stabo first opened its doors at West Acres Mall in 1972―the same year the mall itself opened―and has operated continuously since then. “We are one of the few original stores at the mall,” said owner Susan Rusch. “We are still in our same location, although we have expanded our space over the last 42 years.”

Rusch bought the store in 1982 after

graduating from Minnesota State University Moorhead with a degree in Scandinavian studies. She has always had an interest in all things Scandinavian. That interest helped her connect with the store and its customers. “You don’t have to be Scandinavian to appreciate our merchandise,” she said. “Scandinavians have a great sense of design.”

Fargo and the Red River Valley have a strong Scandinavian heritage and Stabo celebrates that. “During this time of year, we have a lot of people visiting our area and many of them are interested in finding items that reflect that heritage. We learn from them and they learn from us,” Rusch said. “The community response

has been wonderful. Right from day one, people have been incredibly loyal. We have great long-term employees and customers that support us. We have many second or third generation shoppers.” Area foreign exchange students also find Stabo the perfect place to buy a little something that reminds them of home. They especially like the recently expanded food selection. The store offers basic Scandinavian consumables such as candy, cookies, jams, and mixes (sweets, lefse, etc.) many of them hard to find outside their native country.

Stabo offers a big range of merchandise. “Some of our best selling products are glassware―Orrefors from Sweden,

Photography by Jill Ockhardt

Owner, Susan Rusch

Kosta Boda also from Sweden, and iittala from Finland―trolls, which are always a conversation piece, Norwegian sweaters, and beautiful jewelry. We have stocked these since the very beginning. Styles change but we always have a selection,” said Rusch. “One of the areas that is really growing is our baby and children’s lines.”

But the Stabo treasure trove offers so much more. They have everything from inexpensive, affordable goods to upscale, luxury goods. They stock books with a Scandinavian theme including travel, children’s, local history, and the recently popular Scandinavian crime novels. There is a large selection of exquisite paper products and linens. It is the perfect place to find a gift, be it hostess, wedding, shower, graduation, birthday, or any other celebration. Their inventory can enhance and complement any décor. This writer was especially enamored of the new spatula and utensil line with a Norwegian sweater design. Every kitchen needs one!

Stabo Imports also has a shop in Bismarck, an online presence (www.staboimports.com), and offers a little Christmas catalog for those customers who know the store but live far away. They gift wrap any purchase for free and will ship and mail purchases.

Stabo Scandinavian Imports is a wonderful Fargo/Moorhead institution! Stop in soon! Velkommen! [AWM]

fargo moorhead Where to Shop

Stabo Scandinavian Imports

Marius patterened kitchen items. Spatulas, dishcloths, cupcake liners!! Fun Norwegian pattern, just like the sweaters.

West Acres Mall | 701-282-0421 www.Stabo-imports.com

Hollands

Terrariums, locally made tables & benches of reclaimed wood, fresh coffee & hazelnut cappuccino soy candles.

1201 Center Ave, Moorhead | (218) 233-6131 hollandslandscapingandgarden.com

dalbol flowers

Sunflowers steal the show in this simple arrangement. Also featured: green bupleurum, salal leaves and a curly willow inside the glass bubble bowl.

1450 25th Street South, Fargo | (701) 235-5864 dalbolflowersfargo.com

mainstream boutique

Wear this multi-patch, three-quarter sleeve dress with leggings and your favorite boots.

2603 Kirsten Ln S, Fargo | 701- 356-6684 fargo.mainstreamboutique.com

people's organic

Peoples Choice Coffee – A heavy-bodied slightly smoky flavor that echoes with floral and nippy aroma notes. Its medium acidity, with mild cherry undertones make it the Peoples Choice.

2653 45th Street South, Fargo | 701.356.6454 www.peoplesorganic.com

Scheels

Bernie Mev features a selection of footwear designed to deliver everyday comfort and unique style. Find yours today. Available at Fusion Boutique, Located inside Scheels Home & Hardware.

3202 13th Avenue South, Fargo | (701) 232-8903 scheelshomeandhardware.com

Laurie's

Introducing Heather sweaters for fall!

2511 Kirsten Ln. S., Fargo (701) 282-8180

the crystal corset

Leggings and shapewear in one, Lyssè offers leggings made from the perfect blend of cotton and spandex to give you moving comfort with support and shape.

2551 45th St S, Suite 107, Fargo (701) 478-BRAS | thecrystalcorset.com

Twyla's cosmetique

A Magnetic 3 Well Onyx Pallette!

2420 South University Drive (Behind Kallod Carpet) (701) 282-5303

Mystique Boutique

Put unique back into your wardrobe while shopping at the downtown Mystique Boutique. This fashion form is wearing a trendy short black knit top with a mint camisole and layered beaded necklace set. Get the look! Check us out on facebook.com/trendy.attire to be up-to-date on the latest fashion forward apparel, downtown events, and in-store specials.

412 Broadway, Downtown Fargo New, larger store... Same great location! (701) 799-4390 | facebook.com/trendy.attire

Pine Mill Furniture

Celebrating 25 years in business!

Custom-built wood furniture, finished in your choice of colors, and lacquered for durability. Custom orders are the customer's favorite. Your ideas are always welcome.

46730 Co Rd 54, Ottertail, MN 218-367-2885 | www.pinemillfarm.com

Hillmer Eye Clinic

Xperio UV polarized sun lenses eliminate 100% of blinding reflective glare, provide three times more scratch resistance, and offer the maximum UV protection available. Xperio UV lenses are available in your prescription and will give you the best vision under the sun! Stop in and ask about Xperio UV lenses for your new sunglasses.

101 10 Street North, Suite 120, Downtown Fargo (701) 239-9771 | hillmereyeclinic.com

Transition Pieces

Embrace fall fashion with pattern and texture

By Alicia Underlee Nelson

Fall’s warm days and cool nights provide the perfect opportunity to explore pattern and texture. For clarity, focus on one or the other to really let each element shine.

Colorful prints keep the summer spirit alive but wearing a pattern on longer layering pieces like tunics or cardigans ushers the look into fall. Try big, colorful florals, animal prints or a bold graphic print on top and something sleek and neutral on the bottom – think leggings

and heels or opaque tights and boots. More advanced color fans can mix prints. As long as you keep the prints in the same color family, the look will still be harmonious.

Texture takes center stage when paired with a mostly neutral palette. Choose your favorite neutral (gray and bone look especially elegant) and cuddle up in soft sweaters or cozy fur. You’ll find both real and impressively luxurious faux fur options on the racks this season. The

most interesting textures don’t look too perfect. Instead, they have a handmade, almost bohemian spirit that makes them interesting to look at.

Whether you choose to embrace pattern or texture, statement details like a interesting hem, a cascade of ruffles or unique embroidery will set your look apart and turn a simple layer into a statement piece. [AWM]

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HEALTH

Taking care of our bodies is a top priority. This edition of Area Health sheds some light on different treatments for varicose veins and dry, irritated eyes. And learn about ShareHouse, an organization dedicated to empowering individuals to live sober lives.

love your Legs

Don’t let varicose veins hold you back this summer.

Summertime in this part of the country doesn’t last long enough, so it needs to be enjoyed to the fullest. You have pool time, trips to the lake, baseball games and barbeques to plan for you and your family.

But there’s one problem. Your legs are holding you back – both visually and physically. Varicose veins can be a debilitating condition that significantly affects your life – if you let it.

More than half of all men and women in the United States have varicose veins, so you are not alone in your struggle. From tiny spider veins to bulging cords that run the length of the leg, this condition can be

unsightly, embarrassing and sometimes quite painful.

And if left untreated, varicose veins can lead to problems that extend beyond a cosmetic issue. You are at risk to develop skin ulcers, vein inflammation and blood clots.

But you don’t have to suffer needlessly. Not when help may be closer and more convenient than you realize.

With a broad range of treatment options available at Sanford Vascular Center, our team of vein specialists can help you love your legs this summer, and all seasons that follow.

Do you have varicose veins?

• Fatigue

• Leg heaviness

• Burning

The following procedures are available to you at Sanford Same Day Surgery:

• Endo-venous laser/radiofrequency ablation therapy: This quick, scar-free and virtually painless procedure is usually performed under local anesthesia, in less than one hour. A thin fiber is inserted into the vein through a small incision. Laser energy is then used to heat the vein, causing it to shrink and collapse, rerouting the blood flow to healthy veins.

• TRIVEX (Trans-illuminated-powered phlebectomy): This procedure, requiring general or light anesthesia, involves inserting an illumination device under the skin. The special light allows doctor to

• Aching

• Itching

• Cramping

• Restlessness common symptoms include:

• Throbbing

highlight abnormal veins, which are then removed with a small surgical tool. The procedure is fast, requires few incisions, and has proven cosmetic results.

• Microstab phlebectomy: When laser therapy isn’t enough, this procedure safely removes the remaining veins through small incisions.

• Sclerotherapy: If you have small, unsightly spider veins, sclerotherapy may be for you. A concentrated saline or specially developed chemical solution is injected with a very small needle into the vein, causing it to collapse and become barely noticeable or invisible. The work of carrying the blood is shifted to other healthy blood vessels nearby.

It’s not too late to find varicose vein relief this summer. Call (701) 234-4800 to see a specialist at Sanford Vascular Center. [AWM]

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ShareHouse, Inc.: Removing Barriers for Clients in Need

By Alissa Maier

Nearly 40 years ago, a group of men and women in Fargo knew there was a need for a program to support alcoholics in the community. Their idea was to build a halfway house that would provide hope and healing. Their vision became ShareHouse, Inc., and has expanded to provide programs that serve adults, both men and women, who have the disease of chemical dependency. ShareHouse consists of four residential centers, 116 beds, mother and child programs, and a dual diagnosis program for those with substance abuse and mental health issues. The programs provide a foundation for life skills through sobriety. ShareHouse also has a program for homeless and uninsured individuals with or without addiction issues, many of whom also have mental health issues.

There are two programs provided by ShareHouse, Inc. for mothers and children. The first program, ShareHouse Sister’s Path, is in Fargo and the second

is ShareHouse Stepping Stones in New York Mills, MN. Both programs provide an opportunity for parenting classes while allowing children to be with their mothers. The goal is that clients will leave as a sober family ready to live in the community.

The Sister’s Path program was started as the only one of its kind in the region and one of very few in the nation. The Stepping Stones program provides the same treatment and has the same goals. This is the first program of its kind started in North Dakota along with just a handful in Minnesota.

Deb Soliah, executive director of the ShareHouse Foundation stated, “One of my goals is for all of us to realize that an addict is someone that looks like me or you. And for people to understand that treatment works!” She continued, “We are all touched one way or another by addiction. It might be a family member,

a friend, ourselves, our pastor, our doctor, a neighbor. This disease can and must be addressed. There is no place for shame. There is a place for treatment.”

The role of the community support is critical to providing the best client care, which led the Board to bringing on Soliah as the first executive director of ShareHouse Foundation. Lisa Trudeau was hired to serve as executive assistant. Both Soliah and Trudeau have long histories of serving the community.

ShareHouse Foundation was organized about six years ago and became operational in 2012 to help support the vision of ShareHouse Inc. Philanthropic gifts to the ShareHouse Foundation are used directly to serve the clients. These gifts make it possible for clients to accept jobs and purchase uniforms or work shoes. When mothers successfully complete treatment, they receive a Section 8 Housing Voucher from the Fargo Housing Authority. These

Photography by Nate Mickelberg

gifts to ShareHouse are used to change and save lives. Soliah stated “Recovery is a long journey. We want to remove the barriers for our clients.”

As a nonprofit organization, volunteers initiated it and still continue as the leadership board of the organization. Carrie Simonson is an example of the impact a volunteer can have. She is a wife, mother, nurse and a recovering alcoholic for over 30 years. Simonson said, “I have learned that the only way to keep sobriety is by giving it away. I give it away by telling my story to others looking at their addiction, listening to others struggling in sobriety and educating others whenever the opportunity presents itself.” Simonson was first interested in getting involved in ShareHouse due to a family connection and wanted to find a way to give back for the blessed life that she has been given.

She is currently on the ShareHouse Inc. board of directors and was recently appointed to the ShareHouse Foundation board. This year, Simonson is heading up the annual fundraiser Jeans and Jerseys. Last year, this event had over 200 guests, raised over $81,000 and all the funds went to benefit clients here in the community. The funds were used to update the facilities by adding storage, updating kitchens, providing more beds, and adding a medication room at the recovery center, just to name a few.

This year, Jeans and Jerseys will be held on August 27 at the Ramada Plaza Suites in Fargo. It will feature a sporty theme complete with tailgating and a social hour outside. The event will then move indoors for dinner and a live auction. It will also feature vignettes from members of the community who have first hand experience with ShareHouse, Inc. Soliah stated, “That is what our fundraising event is all about – creating a team to bring this subject out into the open and help make treatment possible.” [AWM]

For ticket information

to the Jeans and Jerseys event, or to offer a gift to the ShareHouse Foundation, please visit www.ShareHouse.org.

for dry irritated eyes Find relief

By

The hours you spend each day staring at a computer screen or checking your smartphone can take a toll on your eyes. You may not only be straining your eye muscles but also compromising the tears that protect your eye.

“When we’re paying attention to something like a computer screen, we end up staring and not blinking, or not blinking completely,” said Dr. Anne Keating, an Essentia Health ophthalmologist. “That can lead to dry, irritated eyes.”

“To properly lubricate your eyes, you need to close your eyelids completely when you blink,” explained Dr. Keating. That action stimulates tiny Meibomian glands inside your eyelids to add a layer of lipids, or oils, to the tear film that protects your eyes. The top layer of lipids prevents the watery layer below from evaporating too quickly.

According to Dr. Keating, dry, burning, red or irritated eyes can be caused by many factors so it’s important to get your eyes examined. One of the most common diagnoses is evaporative dry eye, which is caused by blocked Meibomian glands.

People with evaporative dry eye can treat their symptoms with artificial tears, prescription eye drops, warm compresses, and a new treatment option called LipiFlow.

“LipiFlow is a scientific approach to unplugging the Meibomian glands and improving their function,” said Dr. Keating. “The advantage of LipiFlow is that it treats the underlying problem, not just the symptoms.”

LipiFlow applies heat and gentle pressure inside the eyelids to push out the lipids and unplug the glands. “The special eyepieces heat the glands from inside the eyelid, which you can’t do at home with warm compresses,” the ophthalmologist explained.

To get a proper diagnosis, Dr. Keating does a thorough eye exam and then assesses a patient’s tear film. Next, a computer program analyzes how often and how completely a patient blinks since

poor or partial blinking can contribute to dry eye.

A LipiFlow treatment takes 12 minutes in the doctor’s office. The lightweight devices sit on the eyelids and heat them to a precise temperature that liquefies the

Dr. Anne Keating, an Essentia Health ophthalmologist, offers a new treatment called LipiFlow that addresses the cause of evaporative dry eye.

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lipids. Then gentle repetitive compressions push the lipids out and unplug the glands.

The treatment also stimulates the glands so they work better, the ophthalmologist said. “It’s like a spa treatment for your eyes,” Dr. Keating said. “It feels comfortable, like an eye massage.”

“Patients see results in two to six weeks, depending on the severity of their condition. Many continue to use artificial tears or prescription eye drops but use them less frequently, which saves them money,” Dr. Keating said.

Dry eyes needed to be treated earlier rather than later, Dr. Keating explained, because blocked Meibomian glands will atrophy and stop working. She pointed out that treatment can help save the glands.

Besides discomfort, evaporative dry eye can cause sensitivity to light and blurred vision. “Not only do people feel better after LipiFlow, they also see better,” Dr. Keating said. [AWM]

For more information, or to make an appointment with Dr. Keating at the Essentia Health-South University Clinic, call (701) 364-3378.

LipiFlow uses lightweight eyepieces to warm and gently massage tiny glands in eyelids to treat the cause of evaporative dry eyes.

HOME

Knowing that someone is truly listening to what you have to say strengthens that relationship like nothing else can. The design and building team at Heritage Homes prides itself on providing a women-centric approach that allows clients' opinions to be heard. Get to know the team at Heritage Homes and take a look at the beautiful work they can do for your next home in this edition of Area Home.

Stunning Design

& stress-free living

The Woman-Centric Approach

By Tanya Weets

Photography by Wolff Photography

An oasis. A place to retreat. That is what Heritage Homes wants every woman to have. With their breathtaking designs, livable layouts and spaces made for complete comfort, Heritage Homes is ready to build a place made just for women, their way.

Heritage Homes offers ease of living for every woman of every style. Even better, their homes are designed alongside the

woman who will be living in them. With Heritage Homes’ unique woman-centric approach, their customers will find beauty and practicality around every corner.

Whether looking to build a space for yourself or your family, Heritage Homes’ designs are gorgeous, efficient and wellplanned―homes designed around your life and what you need.

And it’s a relationship built on trust and complete customer satisfaction that makes it all come together. With stunning designs, open spaces and cool places to get away, what more could a woman want?

Heritage Understands

At Heritage Homes you will find a group of warm and inviting professionals that understand what it takes to design

with a woman in mind. Team members Steve Larson, Anna Krieg and Gretchen Taylor came together to offer up their homebuilding expertise.

All of Heritage Homes’ woman-centric designs are based on an open-living plan focusing on four main interests: Flexible Living, Entertaining, Storage and De-Stressing. “We’re the only home builder in Fargo-Moorhead that uses this approach,” said sales manager Steve Larson. Being a woman-centric builder gives the Heritage customer more variety and a chance to dream. “Knowing you don’t have to settle for what’s on the market is the nice thing. All of our floor plans are merely a starting point and can be customized from there,” he said.

Daring to Dream

Along with their woman-centric approach, Heritage uses their own 7-Step Right Way Home™ process, paving the way to stress-free building. The beauty of this unique method is also the main benefit.

“You don’t have to know how to start. We’ll walk you through the entire process. We have people in place every step of the way,” said sales coordinator Gretchen Taylor.

All you need to do is imagine the possibilities. It’s the design team’s job to help uncover the details and then turn them into plans. Taylor is involved in every design meeting and understands the entire process. She knows what questions homebuilders are asking and what they should consider when starting. Taylor’s expertise comes into play right away, making those first steps easier to take.

Smart Designs

The team at Heritage understands homebuilding and will lead with that professional experience from day one. “Reducing the stress of design and building is the main focus of the Heritage Homes process. Everything is possible

as long as it works for the structure of the home,” said Larson. It’s having that industry-specific knowledge and a keen eye for design that will help make your home truly unique.

“We design for beauty and livability,” said marketing specialist Anna Krieg. “And with the experience to stand behind what we say, Heritage can make your designs happen.”

No Corner Cutting

Before any piece of lumber is cut, the entire team meets to help envision how to take your plans from paper to possibility. “We’ve mastered where things should be in the home and the efficiency behind that. That comes from Heritage, and from our woman-centric approach,” said Larson. At Heritage Homes, you are involved in the planning of your own beautiful, efficient homemaking use of every square foot.

Whatever you want, Heritage will work to make it fit your life, your personality and the structure of your home. “Your home should reflect you and how you live,” said Taylor.

Make it Your Own

The most common request in all womancentric homes is the ease of entertaining and the flow from living room to kitchen and everywhere in between. As we toured two of Heritage’s most popular showcase homes, we found that no two are alike.

If you want a contemporary home with a modern twist, the Santa Monica is the one for you.

The Santa Monica is the showstopper boasting artistic choices and mood lighting, complete with angled staircase and catwalk. It’s a livable piece of art offering what Heritage Homes can do.

Everywhere you look reflects flexible living and entertainment at its finest.

On the lower level, a state-of-the-art, raised theatre with multi-seating comes complete with wet bar and open bar seating overlooking the theatre - a perfect place for entertaining guests.

Bringing in elements that are picturesque – like a stone wall from top to bottom - provides for that “wow” factor. “Wherever you stand, you’ll have a great view,” said Larson. “In the Santa Monica, you get everything you could imagine at an affordable price, and beauty for years to come.”

For a more classical and cozy home, buyers may opt for the timeless look and feel in the Montclair.

The Monclair is a rambler-style layout incorporating the woman-centric, open living concept. The kitchen, dining and living area all come together in one open plan. Whether you’re entertaining, cooking or hanging out, everyone can be involved and have a clear view from room to room.

And with the convenient foyer off the garage, you’ll have the optional drop zone with cabinetry and closet, and main floor laundry - not to mention the ability to close it off to reduce stress in that area.

At Heritage, we showcase who we are and earn your business based on that.

The Montclair lends itself to a variety of layouts that you can design to fit your needs. As one of the top-selling models, the master suite provides a unique setup - including a walk-in closet through the bathroom with a shower, dual sinks and a private restroom.

“It’s great if you’re on different sleeping schedules and you won’t interrupt sleep while you get ready. Multiple people can use the area at once,” said Krieg.

In the lower level of the Montclair is a wide-open space with room to roam. With an incredible living room area, wet bar, abundant storage space and a giant place to play, the opportunities are endless. It’s a great place to get away. The Montclair is a timeless classic boasting elegant design with room to spare.

Stress-Free Living

“We want to de-stress your living path when you get home and eliminate the feeling that there is 'work’ to do,” Larson said. The woman-centric approach is used to simplify and make space for people to really live, and make room for those activities that you enjoy.

“It’s that feeling of ease. One where you use the space as needed, but it’s all efficiently laid out from your perspective,” Taylor said.

Keeping Promises

Often times builders will shake your hand, give you the keys and that’s the last you see of them. Heritage Homes takes a different approach. “We’re very proactive with our warranty,” Larson said. “After you’re in your home, our lines of communication remain open. We’ll check in with you for an entire year,” he mentioned.

Heritage Homes stands behind what they say and are accountable to make sure your home is everything you want it to be.

“At Heritage, we showcase who we are and earn your business based on that,” said Larson.

You don’t have to know how to start. We’ll walk you through the entire process. We have people in place every step of the way.

More to Come

With such a solid foundation, why wouldn’t their future be bright? Heritage Homes is near completion of implementing their own Design Studio giving homebuyers even more options. A chance to sit down with professionals and plan your look around your style.

Buyers will be able to make selections directly in the Fargo Heritage Homes location. From trim to cabinetry to flooring, you’ll choose what you want in every piece of your home. It’s that extra hands-on step that allows the woman-centric approach to appeal to so many.

What’s Next?

With Heritage Homes, you’ll find a crew in tune with what you want that has the ability to build you a beautiful, efficient home at the same time. With their woman-centric approach and 7-Step Right Way Home ™ process you’ll plan your space the way you want it.

“For us, we’re always looking for ways to improve upon the home itself and the livability of the home,” said Larson.

To get to know their customers better, Heritage welcomes anyone interested in starting the home building process to take their Finally About Me ™ Quiz online. It’s an empowering survey that helps define what you really want in a home.

“We want to show you how homes will live differently than before,” said Larson. “We want your space to make sense for you.”

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To take the quiz or read more about the Heritage Homes approach, visit heritagefargo.com or call 701.281.7184.

PROFILES

One of the best ways

to

improve

the

world around you is to simply put your gifts and talents to work. In this edition of Area Profiles you will meet three women that have done just that. Elena K uses her photography skills to capture images that make women feel beautiful. Lindsay Erhardt has put her gift of compassion and ingenuity to work improving the lives of women in Kenya and the FM area. And Kristi Huber is making a difference in the lives of so many not only because of her job but because of the person that she is.

beyond beauty

Elena k Photography

by Kim Malakowsky • Photography Provided by Elena K Photography

Elena Kannenberg’s 15th birthday marked a very special occasion. It was the day she held her first camera in her hands. It was exactly the one she had hoped for, with detachable lenses and the ability to capture the images she had imagined for so long.

Her grandmother, knowing she could not afford the camera on her own, had lovingly reached out to relatives asking if they would join her in giving this gift to Kannenberg. This act had a profound influence on the young girl. It was the beginning of understanding women’s relationships with one another and the beauty of women inside and out.

Twenty-six years later, Kannenberg owns her own photography business―Elena

K Photography. She has evolved into an award-winning photographer shooting in her home country of Russia, the United States, Germany and Taiwan. Kannenberg offers three specialties: contemporary female portraits, senior portraits and fine art family portraits on location.

The Elena K Photography studio is minimally furnished, lending itself to the contemporary European style Kannenberg favors. Clean lines and lack of props gives focus to the subject with nothing distracting the eye.

The photographs are stunning. Kannenberg expertly captures both the physical beauty and the essence that lies beneath. “Every single woman is beautiful” states Kannenberg, “I have to

Every single woman is beautiful; I have to dig through her uncertainty and show it to her.

beautiful;

dig through her uncertainty and show it to her.”

Near to her heart are the contemporary portrait sessions done in her studio. “I don’t take pictures; I create an experience for a lifetime,” quips Kannenberg.

And it’s clear this is no ordinary sitting. Kannenberg starts with a consultation, recommending what to wear and often going through closets or sending her clients shopping. “I ask my clients where they like to shop. This tells me something about their style,” explains Kannenberg. Always in the forefront of her mind is capturing the personality of her subject. Her approach is like that of a great artist, studying every aspect before the first brushstroke.

When it comes to makeup Kannenberg says “trust me.” She knows from years of modeling what works for the camera. She

Elena K

Treasure your moments now while you can...

partners with leading salons and stylists in the F-M area for all client hair and makeup styling.

Once in the studio there is laughter, smiles and talk between mother and daughters, sisters, or girlfriends. Kannenberg guides them on how to stand or where to place their hands. It’s comfortable and easy and the time passes quickly.

Her favorite age to shoot is what Kannenberg calls a woman in her “fabulous 50s,” when a woman has gone through difficulties in life, goals have been reached, and she values herself better, but doesn’t always see her own beauty.

Peggy Bullinger was apprehensive before her session. Uncomfortable in front of the camera, the day began with a dose of courage. “I was pleasantly surprised,” says Bullinger. “I had a truly wonderful time with my daughters, Nikki, Kelly and Toni. It was a great bonding experience.” Like many of the sessions it became a girls' day out, as they left Bullinger’s husband Mike in charge of the many grandchildren. And, Bullinger reports, “All the husbands loved the photographs!”

“I get so many compliments from friends and family when they see the portraits,” says Julie Shorma. Shorma was photographed with her mom and now has a lasting keepsake to treasure. She was impressed with Kannenberg’s professionalism, knowing how every

nuance would show up on the photograph. “I felt so feminine, so beautiful, it was comfortable and fun.”

Kannenberg reflects on the fact that today people seldom print their photographs. They reside on CDs where no one sees them. CDs fail and we lose our precious photographs. She urges us to do the photography for our kids, our grandkids.

“Treasure your moments now while you can,” says Kannenberg.

Her words are filled with depth and emotion. Last October 11, 2013 Kannenberg lost her mom, Valentina, and like so many, doesn’t have a portrait of the two of them. The next five years she is dedicating her female portraiture to Valentina’s memory.

As her website states: In my heart of hearts, I believe that every woman should have the most remarkable portraits taken of them, not only by themselves, but with their mother, daughter, sister, or best friend. If you love your family as much as I do, please, love your loved ones. [AWM]

www.elenakphotography.com

jua project

Moorhead Family’s Ministry Brings Hope to Local Refugees and Women in Kitale, Kenya

By Amanda Peterson

Photography by Jill Ockhardt

In October 2011, Lindsay Erhardt, 33, moved her family of five from Moorhead to Kitale, Kenya, to start a home for infant orphans. When the project fell through, friends encouraged Erhardt and her husband, TJ, to bravely stay and wait for God to show her family another path.

They are glad they waited. What could have ended in hurtful disappointment opened the way for something beautiful.

Today, the Erhardt family runs a ministry from Moorhead called Jua Project – Jua means “hope” in Swahili, Kenya’s national language. The project’s purpose is clearly reflected in its name, to bring hope to impoverished women in Kitale through job skills and building a sense of community. Women who once struggled to feed their children

and provide a home are now starting businesses of their own and sending their children to school.

“Jua Project takes in all kinds of women and pours into their lives, holds their dear faces and says, ‘Yes. You are worth it.’” Erhardt says. “I’ve learned that if people have a purpose and a goal in their mind, they can survive anything. We all need a community to survive and thrive.”

Erhardt, a former social worker, has recently used the same model to serve refugees in her own community. Partnering with Churches United for the Homeless shelter in Moorhead and the Adult Learning Center at Agassiz in Fargo, Jua Project is connecting refugee women with each other through crafting and mentoring classes.

Serving these two groups of women is more than Erhardt could have ever hoped for.

“As the time gets further way from the nine months we lived in Kenya, we see that God had an intentional purpose for us and it was something much bigger than we originally thought,” she says. “We are so grateful for how our eyes have been opened to what is going on in Kitale and our own community.”

Starting Jua Project

In 2011, as the Minnesota family adjusted to Kenyan life and searched for new direction, Erhardt spent much of her time with Priscilla Wairimu, 25, of Kitale. The two women met in during Lindsay’s first service trip to Kenya in 2001 and Erhardt began sponsoring Wairimu’s school fees. A strong friendship formed over the years. When the Erhardts moved to Kenya, Priscilla and her son, Daniel, 5, moved in with them, as close as family.

Wairimu was key in helping start Jua Project in the following months. Together, the two friends reached out into the Kitale community and nearby slums. The reality of slum life shook Erhardt.

“I saw living conditions that I never knew were possible, toddlers rummaging around in dumps and sewage systems,” she says. “I saw children scouring the leftover rotten produce from the market each day. I saw children with bottles of glue in their mouths, an attempt to numb the pain, cold and hunger they felt.”

Wairimu remembers Erhardt saying, “Prissy, we are going to start a project, a place where women will come work, share their painful experiences, encourage each other and learn from each other. Prissy, I do not know how, but God will make the way.”

The Erhardts began by opening their home during the day to seven women in need. They shared meals and Bible studies. They formed friendships and encouraged each other. The Erhardt kids – Ben, now 9, Collin, 7, and Alayna, 3 – played with the Kenyan children while their mothers learned to roll beautiful beads out of old magazine paper and string them into necklaces and bracelets. Erhardt sold the jewelry online in the U.S.

Jua Project was born.

“We helped our moms learn basic small business skills and encouraged them to save

a portion of their money each week for emergencies,” Erhardt says. “Today, many of our women have small side businesses outside of our Jua compound to help them further sustain their families.”

Jua Project Today

The Erhardts moved back to the U.S. in July 2012, as originally planned. Wairimu became Jua Project manager, running the day-to-day aspects of the organization. In a small building, she works side-byside with the Jua women 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. weekdays, making jewelry, sharing lunch and tea, and helping them with any struggles or concerns. On Saturdays, she visits one woman’s home to help her learn cooking, cleaning and parenting skills.

From Moorhead, Erhardt directs the programs, selling the jewelry online and in a small shop at Modern Textiles in downtown Fargo. She oversees the finances, handles marketing and dreams big for this hopeful organization. Lately, that has included reaching out to more women locally.

Tuesdays and Thursdays, Erhardt leads a crafting class for refugee women at the Adult Learning Center. Using loose paper beads created by Jua Project women in Kitale, the Fargo women create new jewelry designs for sale. ALC Coordinator Jennifer Frueh says the classes are helping women bring extra income to their families while doing so much more.

“Through these activities, the women are also able to regain a sense of belonging and purpose, something that hopefully makes their transition to this new world a little easier,” Frueh says.

It’s the same idea behind the new art and mentorship classes Wednesdays at Churches United. Ann Leuthard, support services director at the homeless shelter, says they’ve seen a huge increase in the homeless refugee population. Families are coming to the U.S. and struggling

Jua Project takes in all kinds of women and pours into their lives, holds their dear faces and says, ‘Yes. You are worth it.’

with employment, language and cultural barriers, and housing. Leuthard and Erhardt partnered to bring women together to help each other.

“We really needed to find a way to create a sisterhood for these women,” Leuthard says. “There’s nothing better than women helping women.”

Like everything else with Jua Project, it’s about bringing hope.

“It’s pretty powerful,” Frueh says. “When I wear my beaded necklace, I can’t help but hold onto one bead. I imagine the story behind the woman in Kenya who made it or the face of a local refugee woman who put that item together.” [AWM]

For more information

on Jua Project or to purchase products or make a donation, visit juaproject.org.

Lindsay Erhardt & Family

Ben Nash Photography

Impacting the Community through Heartfelt Service

By Carolyn Lillehaugen

The simple starfish necklace around Kristi Huber’s neck provides a glimpse of the vision she has for making a difference in the world. The necklace reminds her of a beloved story. “An old man walked up a shore littered with thousands of starfish, beached and dying after a storm. A young woman was picking them up and flinging them back into the ocean. ‘Why do you bother?’ the old man scoffed, ‘You’re not saving enough to make a difference.’ The young woman picked up another starfish and sent it spinning back to the water. ‘Made a difference to that one,’ she replied.”

Making a difference seems to be part of the very fiber of Huber’s being. Growing up on a farm near Elbow Lake, Minnesota, Huber naturally learned the foundational skills of hard work, accepting responsibilities and giving back as she watched her parents Bob and Connie Ehlers and her sister Shelle model those qualities. Whether picking weeds from the soybean field wet with dew, participating in Campfire Girls, or inviting neighbors out for lunch after church, Huber and her

family worked together to demonstrate the values of authenticity, trustworthiness and generosity, thus letting small actions impact their community in a positive way. It was also during these early years that Huber developed a natural friendliness and her sense of storytelling as a way of connecting with people. She loved talking with anyone and would cheerfully entertain the neighbors with her colorful renditions of The Price is Right’s Bob Barker or quips of wisdom she attributed to their neighbor Jean Haraldson.

t Making A Difference

After graduating from West Central Area High and then Concordia College, Huber accepted her first job with John Deere, gaining valuable corporate experience learning how successful businesses operate as she worked in factory marketing and eventually became the first female territory manager in South Dakota. Upon returning to the FargoMoorhead area in 2002, Huber spent time in several interesting and rewarding jobs with Bell State Bank and Trust and their subsidiary companies, and even built her own book of business as an employee

benefits broker. Each position allowed her to work with and learn from talented and dedicated professionals as well as gain skills in relationship building and business development. To compliment her work experience, in 2007 Huber completed her MBA from the University of Mary.

In 2011 Huber received an invitation from United Way of Cass-Clay to join their team as Resource Development Director. This position offered a unique opportunity to use her leadership and marketing skills in combination with her passion for impacting positive social change. The creative and dynamic work environment at the United Way of Cass-Clay (UWCC) proved to be a perfect match for Huber. She simply beams as she describes the many outstanding ways that UWCC impacts our community. “We certainly do fundraising.” In fact in the three years Huber has served as Development Director they have successfully raised over 15 million dollars! But as Huber continued, “We are an ‘and’ organization. Along with fundraising, we strategically invest resources, and train and empower volunteers, and positively impact our community through support of lifechanging programs.”

The mission of United Way of Cass-Clay is to connect people to people, needs to resources and experts to advocates to

We strongly believe the dollars we raise are more than charity, they are investments in the economic development and well-being of our entire region.

• Photography by Ben Nash & Jill Ockhardt

improve lives and advance the common good. To do this well the UWCC needs to identify local concerns and priorities and consider the most effective and efficient way to meet those needs. As Huber explained, “It is an honor to work for an organization which functions at such a unique position in the community. Because we work with nonprofit, for-profit, private, educational and philanthropic partners, we are positioned to recognize the present and future needs of our community.” Although the United Way has been active in Fargo Moorhead for 87 years, and is part of the largest nonprofit organization in the world, the UWCC is very intentional about understanding and responding to the current needs of the

local community. Utilizing research, they make informed decisions about resource allocations that will yield the “best return on investment.” According to Huber, “We strongly believe the dollars we raise are more than charity, they are investments in the economic development and wellbeing of our entire region.”

The heart of the United Way is people helping people. It always has been and always will be. But because of the concentration on making investment decisions based on what research says will create the greatest good, the United Way has recently experienced a time of change as they refine their focus. This emphasis has resulted in new clarity for

how to best invest in the building blocks which will provide the foundation for a good life, both for individuals and in turn the community. The resulting comprehensive strategy is to slow the cycle of poverty through investment in the four focus areas of education, income stability, health and basic needs.

Education is a means for each person to learn and develop to their fullest potential. Huber explained that “Research indicates that when a child is at risk for falling behind educationally, the earlier the intervention, the greater the positive impact.” Because of this the United Way convened a new partnership with 26 nonprofit service providers called the United for Education Collaborative.

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Through this partnership high-quality early childhood education, family mental health, safe and engaging after school opportunities and parent/guardian education programs have become top priorities for the United Way’s support.

One of the successful programs UWCC has supported for over 10 years is the Imagination Library program. With the intent to spark a love for reading, and prepare a child for kindergarten, the Imagination Library provides children ages birth through five residing in Cass or Clay counties with a free book in the mail each month. This program encourages parents and guardians to become involved with reading to their children, and participants can build a library of 60 books before they enter kindergarten. Currently more than 9,000 children receive a book monthly from the United Way.

The North Dakota Reading Corps is a United Way Community Partner which works with children from pre-kindergarten through 3rd grade to improve reading skills. Utilizing volunteer reading tutors using specific intervention strategies partnered with young students whose reading skills are below grade level expectation, the program served 459 elementary students in 2012-2013. By the end of the school year 89% of those students were successfully reading at or above grade level! This early intervention will have long-term positive effects as children move through their academic career transitioning from learning to read to the application of reading to learn.

Another educational support program sponsored by the UWCC is the School

Ben Nash Photography

Everyone has the opportunity to make a difference in someone else’s life, and in turn it will change our own lives.

Supply Drive which provides a backpack with grade-appropriate school supplies to students in need. In 2013 the School Supply Drive engaged more than 450 volunteers to equip 4,744 students with a backpack to help them start the school year with the necessary supplies.

Education that Works is a program in which UWCC partners with area schools as well as the Greater FM Economic Development Corporation to support educational initiatives targeting skills necessary in today’s world of work. Among other initiatives of the program are enhanced professional development opportunities to help teachers collaborate with business partners and each other to implement authentic and relevant learning experiences.

Each fall the UWCC coordinates the Day of Caring. This annual event focuses on helping local senior citizens with basic tasks and outdoor chores. In 2013 they coordinated 1,625 individuals from 113 business partners to serve 389 seniors. From washing windows, to raking leaves to light construction projects, this generous labor of neighborly love is certainly a highlight for the seniors who receive the help.

None of the excellent programming the United Way supports would be possible without the combined efforts of an extraordinary group of volunteers. In 2013 the service of 3,063 volunteers provided support valued over $505,600. Volunteers raise dollars, work on community events and projects and guide grant-making decisions.

One of the most effective ways to encourage volunteers desiring to make a positive difference is to provide adequate support and preparation. The 35 Under 35 Women’s Leadership Program provides leadership training and development focusing on mobilizing the caring power of women to energize and inspire them to make a difference. The program deepens leadership and networking opportunities for 35 young women in Cass and Clay counties each year. 2014 marked the 6th annual group of women

who have met monthly to discuss topics such as goal setting, personal growth, board leadership, public speaking, conflict management, interpersonal skills, philanthropy and mentorship. Alumni from the program frequently share how the course has had a profound impact on their personal and professional growth.

In 2001 UWCC created the Women’s Leadership Council designed to be a powerful network of women who strengthen our community through investments of leadership, fundraising and community service. Each year, this inspiring group of women partner with UWCC staff to coordinate a women’s leadership luncheon. On November 5th 2014, they will host Stacy Bess, a teacher whose story is retold in the book, “Nobody Don’t Love Nobody.” Proceeds from the event will be invested in the United Way’s work with early childhood education.

Each program that the United Way develops requires the commitment of visionary leadership. According to UWCC President, Sher Thomsen, “Kristi is an incredible asset to our organization. She is the kind of leader that is not only exceptional at her job, but also a servant leader who connects with people because of her genuine caring and compassion.”

Beyond her work as Resource Development Director for the United Way, Huber has also chosen some key organizations through which to volunteer her personal time. Mentorship has become a core value and passion for Huber. She had the life changing opportunity to be a part of the Big Brother Big Sister program serving as a mentor to a young girl named Amber for nine years. Their relationship endured through both good times and challenges, from elementary school and beyond, and now Huber is thrilled that her little sister Amber is successfully pursuing a college degree in occupational

Kristi is a servant leader who connects with people because of her genuine caring and compassion.

Ockhardt Photography

therapy. Huber is certain that Amber has gained the confidence to dream and will go on to change the lives of others in need.

Another mentorship opportunity came through Concordia’s Offutt School of Business when Huber worked with a young woman seeking vocational discernment. Huber helped her explore the rewarding possibility of a career in nonprofit work. Additionally Huber serves Concordia as a member of the National Alumni Board. Serving as President for the FM AM Rotary club has also been an important platform for Huber to share her passion for making a difference. During her year as president, the group raised over $19,800 to give to great nonprofit organizations such as the YWCA, the Rape and Abuse Crisis Center, and Rebuilding Together. Working alongside others from the group they also helped clean at the YWCA emergency shelter, worked at a Fargo Marathon aid station, provided bell ringers for the Salvation Army, packed food at the Great Plains Food Bank, and completed roadside garbage clean up.

Huber and her husband Gregg live in West Fargo and it will probably come as no surprise that even in her “off duty” time, they are involved with a Life Group and other ministry opportunities at their church. They also love watching hockey and have a goal to see all 30 NHL arenas in North America.

In each of her roles, Huber considers it a priority to connect with people. Her warm and enthusiastic personality makes her someone others look to for encouragement and support. Much like her early days of storytelling in Elbow Lake, she continues to eagerly share ideas and inspiration with others, and encourages them to “look for the starfish in their paths.” As this generous woman firmly believes, “We each have the opportunity to make a difference in someone else’s life, and in turn it will change our own lives.” [AWM]