Brunswick Forest Living November 2024 by daigleinc

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Wings of Tribute: HONOR FLIGHTS FOR OUR HEROES NOVEMBER 2024

Front row from left, Diane Speer, Karen Townsend, Joe Masturzo, John Marone, Bill Boston, Patty Kelley, Robert Morin and Dan Dodge. Back row from left, Alan Simmons, Robert Adkins, Kelly Sullivan, David Bilodeau, Dale Todd, Kobe Kelley and George Speer.

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FAMILY & GENERAL DENTISTRY

Blue Wave Dentistry

Dr. Chad Biggersta 910-383-2615

1300 S. Dickinson Drive Leland, NC 28451

GARAGE DOOR SPECIALIST

Jimmy Davis, Owner 910-833-1961

9550 Ploof Rd SE Building 3 Leland, NC 28451 JimmyDavis@garagedoorspecialist.net

HEALTH BENEFITS

Mary Ameling, Advisor

Ganey, Byrd & Dunn

Insurance Group 240-882-5739

1110 New Pointe Blvd Unit 110 Leland, NC 28451 marlarinc@bellsouth.com

HOME REPAIR REMODEL

SERVICES

TruBlue Home Ally Je Pitman, Owner O: 910-812-1656 jpittman@trublueally.com trublueally.com/south-wilmington

INTERIOR DESIGNER

Elizabeth Leake, Owner

LUXE Home Interiors (910)371-0464

Waterford Village 2013 Olde Regent Way #270 Leland, NC 28451 luxewaterford.com

KITCHEN DESIGN

Mary Ellen Willson, Owner

Indigo Blooms Kitchen and Bath Design Mobile: 910-512-0017

147 Old Fayetteville Rd Leland, NC 28451 ibkbdesign.com

MORTGAGE SERVICES

American Security Mortgage

Pat Holsten, Regional Vice President

NMLS: 90586 Mobile: 910-471-1617 pat@patholsten.com pholsten.com

ORTHOPEDIC SPECIALIST

Dr. Joseph B. Norris, MD Advanced Orthopedics 910-641-8670

509 Olde Waterford Way Suite 102 Leland, NC 28451 crhealthcare.com

OUTDOOR LIVING

What the Grill

Je Jones, Owner 910-399-1262

Je @whatthegrill.com 1026 Appleton Way #110 Leland, NC 28451 WhatTheGrill.com

PEST CONTROL SERVICE

Avid Pest Pro

Ryan Lapps, Owner (910) 465-0923

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POOLS & SPAS

Ocean Blue Pools and Spas

Pauline Dunne, Owner O: (910) 799-3022

pauline@oceanbluepoolsandspas.com 7239 Market St. Wilmington, NC 28411

PORCH CONVERSION

Taylor Waddle, Owner/President 1536 Castle Hayne Rd #24 Wilmington, NC 28401 910-777-3363 porchconversion.com

REAL ESTATE

RE/MAX Essential

Debby Daigle, CLHMS Email ddaigle@remax.net debbydaigle.com choosetheballoon.com

ROOFING CONTRACTOR

Weather Shield Rooﬁng

For a FREE Quote

Dave Karimi, Owner 630-854-2815

Sonny Karimi, Owner 847-873-2771

Sean Karimi, Owner 630-201-5232 weathershieldroofers.com

WEALTH MANAGEMENT

Deb Pickett, CFP®, CRPC™

Signature Wealth Strategies, RJFS 910-371-0366

1022 Grandiﬂora Drive, Suite 110, Leland, NC 28451

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This is the time every year the words “gratitude” and “thankfulness” start popping up everywhere. It’s the time in which people speak of what they are thankful for - family, friends, good health, a job that pays the bills. We give thanks for the good things in our lives. But what about gratitude? Gratitude is self-directed; an attitude of being grateful for what we have or have experienced, no matter the result. For me, just reading the word “grateful” makes me pause and ask myself, “Am I truly a thankful person?” I must confess, there are too many times in my life when I've been guilty of veering into the territory of thinking, “I’ve earned this!” or “I deserve that.”

Gratitude is a bit like healthy eating. We all want it, and sometimes can do it for a few days, but bad habits usually derail our good intentions.

There’s a particular scripture that resonates with me in these moments: Lamentations 3:22-23

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new ever morning.” God's mercy is new every morning. It’s a reminder that each day presents a brand-new opportunity for change and a fresh start. So, even if yesterday found me stuck in ungratefulness, today is a chance to begin anew, to truly appreciate every facet of life.

Let's embrace this season of gratitude as an invitation to take that fresh start, to choose gratitude over entitlement, and to remember that every day is an opportunity to be thankful, no matter where we've been, or what we’ve been through.

Let’s o er a BIG Welcome our newest Expert Contributor, What the Grill. Je and Lisa have brought more than 30 years of experience in outdoor kitchen design and installation to the Leland community. Stop by to see all their amazing grills, ovens, accessories and seasonings.

Please support and continue to pray for those who have been a ected by recent ooding here in North Carolina. Thousands have been displaced and/or have lost their homes and livelihoods. A tragedy most, including myself, cannot begin to imagine.

With appreciation and gratitude,

Hello Neighbors!

Debby Daigle Publisher ddaigle@bestversionmedia.com

This month holds special signi cance as we honor the veterans among usthose who have served our country with dedication and courage. It's a time to celebrate their stories and express our deep gratitude for their sacri ces.

As we prepare for the festive season ahead, November o ers a gentle reminder to cherish our connections with loved ones. From shared laughter over bon res to the comforting aromas of homemade meals, these moments create the heartwarming backdrop of community spirit that de nes us.

Let's also celebrate the spirit of giving that the season inspires. Whether it's lending a helping hand to a neighbor in need or participating in local initiatives, our collective e orts truly make a di erence, and there has rarely been a time of more need and importance than right now to be of service.

As we embark on this new month together, let's embrace the beauty of November and continue to foster the warmth and camaraderie that de ne our community.

As always, stay safe, stay healthy, and stay grateful!

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"TURNING CHALLENGES INTO TRIUMPHS: Dan Dodge's Path from Military Service to Civilian Leadership"

BY DOREEN SARGENTE

Dan Dodge, a self-professed ‘Geek’, was always passionate about electronics from a young age. Graduating high school in 1972, he enrolled in a technical school to pursue his interest in electronics engineering. While studying away from home, Dan took on a part-time job to cover expenses, which soon became full-time, impacting his academic performance.

During this time, Dan befriended several classmates who had served in the US Armed Services. Admiring their discipline, focus, and dedication to their studies, Dan learned that all of them developed these traits and skills while serving in the Military. Inspired by their success in the electronics industry, despite his own academic challenges, Dan made a pivotal decision. He enlisted in the US Army as a digital computer repair technician for missile systems, aiming to gain the skills needed for working on large-scale mainframe computer systems.

However, during basic training in October 1975, Dan broke his foot, altering his career path. He had a tough decision to make: drop out of the Army or pick another Military occupation. He chose to become a computer programmer instead, excelling in his studies and graduating top of his class. Assigned to support the Corps of Cadets at the US Military Academy at West Point, Dan utilized his expertise until his enlistment concluded in 1978.

With valuable military training under his belt, Dan secured positions in business data processing upon transitioning to civilian life. Over the years, he ascended to management roles in various US corporations before retiring and relocating to Brunswick Forest.

Despite his civilian career, Dan remained committed to military service, joining the US Army Reserves as a computer programmer. He dedicated 19 years to multiple Reserve units and Commands before retiring with honors. His dual careers exemplify his ability to turn setbacks into enduring successes.

Upon reaching retirement age, Dan earned a well-deserved pension and lifelong medical care for himself and his spouse, recognizing his over two decades of service to the US Army. Today, Dan continues to serve as an ofﬁcer with the John E. Jacobs American Legion Post 68 in Leland, supporting fellow veterans, local youth, and the community.

PHOTO SUBMITTED BY DAN DODGE Dan receiving Army Commendation Medal 1996

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A Journey of REMEMBRANCE

BY DOREEN SARGENTE

Earle Morse, a physician's assistant at the Veterans Affairs in Springfield, Ohio, interacted daily with WWII veterans. Recognizing their desire to visit the newly erected WWII Memorial in Washington D.C. but constrained by age, he conceived an idea. Drawing from his experience as a pilot, Morse initiated flights for two veterans who otherwise wouldn't have had the opportunity. This humble beginning in 2005 with six small planes and twelve veterans grew under the inspiration of Jeff Miller from Hendersonville, N.C., who expanded the initiative to provide cost-free flights for veterans. Today, spanning 45 states and encompassing 130 programs, Honor Flight continues its mission to honor veterans of WWII, Korea, Vietnam, and those with life-limiting illnesses with all-expensespaid journeys to the nation's capital. The Honor Flight of the Cape Fear Area, an allvolunteer organization officially recognized in February 2020, tirelessly raises funds to support bi-annual trips each spring, involving 75 veterans, 75 guardians, medical personnel, and administrative staff, with each trip requiring over 100 dedicated volunteers."

"The success of the Honor Flight program relies on the dedicated efforts of many sponsors and volunteers. The Honor Flight of the Cape Fear Area (HFCFA) has streamlined the process to ensure the focus remains on the veterans, as it is truly about honoring them. This involves coordinating various logistics, including signing contracts for buses, airplanes, convention centers, parking structures, food, shirts, hats, and more. Additionally, recruiting a medical team, inviting dignitaries, notifying a welcome group in Washington, and securing donated wheelchairs are all part of the meticulous planning to ensure the veterans' well-being during the trip. The team also prepares for potential challenges, such as mechanical difﬁculties with the plane or uncooperative weather, to ensure the journey runs smoothly.”

HFCFA is a local 501(c)(3) organization supported by private individuals. Donations come from companies, fundraisers, and groups like the ELKS, North Brunswick Newcomers Club, and the American Legion. There is no funding from the federal government. The $120,000 raised annually supports the Honor Flight of the Cape Fear Area, covering the costs of ﬂights to Washington D.C. Donations can be made in honor or memory of a veteran, enabling veterans to ﬂy free of charge. To donate, you

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DIANE SPEER AND PAUL SALERNO, KOREA VETERAN IN FRONT OF WWII MEMORIAL, WASHINGTON D.C. CAPE FEAR HONOR FLIGHT 2024

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can ﬁll out an application online under Honor Flight Cape Fear Area.”

In July, Diane Speer, an active volunteer with Honor Flight, was asked to give a short overview to the ELKS in Shallotte. That evening, she met a veteran who had served in Korea, and they traveled together to Washington D.C. in April of 2024. Diane, acting as his Guardian, pushed his wheelchair to each site, and they shared a memorable day. The ELKS presented her with a check, which she graciously accepted. These donations signiﬁcantly support the program. "Veterans sacriﬁced everything," says Diane, "and it is our privilege to honor them with a true heroes' welcome.

Honor Flight is seeking dedicated and compassionate Guardians to accompany our veterans on their journey. Each Guardian is assigned to a veteran for the entire day. Those interested can ﬁll out a 'contact us' form online.

Honor Flight thrives on the dedication and generosity of volunteers from all walks of life. Whether you are a veteran or someone who deeply appreciates those who served, there is a place for you in our program

What motivated Diane to get involved was her father.

Raised as a Navy brat, Diane often accompanied her father to military bases and ships in San Diego. When they lived in Fredericksburg, Va., her father came to visit and stayed for six years! He was a veteran of WWII, Korea, and Vietnam, and already active in the VFW and American Legion, which Diane continued to support on his behalf.

Through these organizations, Diane learned about Honor Flight. After hearing others speak about the program, she ﬁlled out an application for her father. He participated in the Honor

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Flight and truly enjoyed his day. He said,"I was treated like a hero. Everyone wanted to shake my hand and take a picture with me". Diane responded, "You are a hero, mine," and her father was moved to tears.

Diane's most memorable Honor Flight experience was in 2022. As a volunteer, she was asked to assist where the veterans were gathered. Held at the convention center, the event featured different rooms with various groups. While there, Diane heard many stories. Some men and women, who had never before spoken about their experiences, opened up about their service. They spoke of home life and the struggles of reintegration, and some recounted the lack of a welcome home, being spat on, and called names. Many had never been to Washington D.C. before. This experience reminded Diane of her father, and she felt very privileged and honored that the veterans conﬁded in her.

There is a profound impact on the veterans who participate in these trips. They remember fallen comrades, share memories and experiences with other veterans, and feel both anticipation and trepidation. Some break down and cry upon seeing the beauty and reality of their Memorial. The bond among these men and women is strong. Some bring mementos to place, while others take rubbings of names from the Wall. Although showing emotion can be embarrassing for some, this experience will last them a lifetime. Whether they volunteered to serve or not, they gave their all.

Diane looks forward to working with Honor Flight each year. "Speaking with the veterans is like a history lesson," she says, "and I learn what is not written down in any book."

Honor Flight is seeking dedicated and compassionate Guardians to accompany their veterans on their journey. Each Guardian is assigned to a veteran for the entire day. Those interested can ﬁll out a 'contact us' form online. Visit www.honorﬂightcfa.org for details and more information on how you can get involved.

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Nic's Tips

GET A GRIP ON YOUR GRIP!

BY NICOLE WELLER

One of THE MOST IMPORTANT aspects of an effective swing is how one holds the club. The club will move based only on how your hands allow the equipment to be utilized. The word Grip in golf should be more of a noun than a verb for many. The verb grip usually leads to excessive tightness that robs a golfer of the ability to maneuver the club in a successful manner. I always say for right-handed golfers, Tight usually goes Right!

Exploring HOW one places his or hands on a club is a good starting point. Watch golf on television and most of the best players allow the club to slip into an anatomically-hanging hand/ arm to the side of the body or they place the lead hand on the club while up in front of them near waist height. You won’t see many twist, grip or peel their lead hands and arms into position on the club down in front of them. So test hanging your arm to the side and letting the club settle into the ﬁngers of the lead hand, just as if holding onto a suitcase at your side in the ﬁngers. Then settle the heel pad (not thumb

RIGHT HANDED GOLFER GRIP OBSERVATIONS

LEFT HAND

"V" to Right Collarbone

Shorter Thumb

2 - 2.5 Knuckles

LEFT HAND

More ﬁngers than high in palm

Heel Pad securely on handle (not side/under handle)

RIGHT HAND

"V" to Right Shoulder

Trigger Finger

More in ﬁngers than palm Palm towards target

LEFT HANDED GOLFER GRIP OBSERVATIONS

RIGHT HAND

"V" to Left Collarbone

Shorter Thumb

2 - 2.5 Knuckles

RIGHT HAND

MANNA'S

BY DOREEN SARGENTE

We stumbled upon Manna's six years ago, totally by chance. It was a Saturday night, and we didn’t have a reservation, but we decided to try our luck before heading to a show at Thalian. To our surprise and delight, they welcomed us in and served us an incredible meal. Shortly after, we sometimes joined them on Sunday evenings for their quirky but fun 'Beggar’s Can’t Be Choosers' events. These nights were a blast – you’d choose a type of dish (beef, vegetable, sweet, etc.), but the speciﬁc dish would be a surprise, with no substitutions or changes allowed. When I ﬁrst sat down to write this review a few months ago, that event had sadly been discontinued for a few years, but just last month they've brought it back and we couldn't be more excited! Is it weird to get like this about food? Don't answer that.

Now, there's good news and bad news, and they're both the same. Manna changes their menu weekly, featuring fresh, farmto-table ingredients, with the chef putting unique twists on classic dishes. So, if you fall in love with something, it might not be there next time, but you're almost always guaranteed a fresh, professionally prepared meal. I’m still dreaming about a dessert I had once, never to be seen again. But don’t worry – despite the limited menu, there's always something for everyone, prepared to perfection by their talented staff.

Manna's is deﬁnitely a spot for special occasions, but don’t overlook the bar area for a more laid-back experience. The bartenders are cocktail wizards, mixing some of the best drinks around.

On our most recent visit with friends, my friend and I indulged in a steak dish, while our husbands savored a delicious pork dish. We wrapped up the meal with an unbelievably tasty bread pudding dessert, making a great evening even better.

From Military Missions to Motorcycle Trips

BY DOREEN SARGENTE

In 2000, Kobe and Patty Kelly found themselves on a joint military mission in Macedonia, a country that had once been part of Yugoslavia. Kobe was with the Navy Seabees, and Patty was serving in the Vermont Air National Guard. Their task? To upgrade medical centers, improve schools, and build playgrounds—projects aimed at making life a little better for the locals. But what neither expected was that this mission would also mark the beginning of their own journey together.

Evenings on the base were simple: time spent at the canteen, where the small military population would gather after long days of work. It was here that Kobe and Patty ﬁrst met. Casual conversations turned into friendship, and before long, there was a strong attraction between the two. Though their paths hadn’t crossed earlier in their careers, the timing now seemed perfect.

Kobe’s military story began when he was still in high school. "My Dad gave me options", says Kobe. "Get a job and move out, get a job and stay home and pay

rent, go to college, or join the military". With a family full of service members— his grandfather and two older brothers had also served—the idea of joining the military felt like a natural progression. He enlisted in the Navy Seabees at 18, opting for a life of structure and purpose. By 2003, Kobe had retired as a Chief Petty Officer after 22 years of service, during which time he became known for his skill in construction and fixing just about anything. To this day, Kobe remains the neighborhood "fixer"—if someone has an issue with a smoke detector, gutters, or anything else,

Kobe’s the man to call.

Patty’s path into the military was shaped by different circumstances. One of nine children, college wasn’t in the cards ﬁnancially, so her father suggested the Air Force. The prospect of joining the military was exciting for Patty—an opportunity to leave home and discover a greater sense of purpose. After a long career that spanned active duty, the reserves, and the Vermont Air National Guard, Patty retired in 2013 as a Lieutenant Colonel, proud of her service and the life it afforded her.

Their relationship really took root after Kobe retired from the military and moved to Vermont. He began working as a Geodetic Surveyor for the state, while Patty continued her military service. Their biggest test came in 2007 when Patty was deployed to Iraq. During her absence, Kobe took on full responsibility for Patty’s two children and the household. It was during this time that Kobe discovered a new skill: cooking. Although his repertoire wasn’t vast, his famous Hamburger Helper became a household favorite, especially for Patty’s daughter.

Patty’s deployment also proved to be a turning point for their relationship. Despite the distance, the two managed to stay connected with daily phone calls. Kobe’s steady handling of the home front built a deep trust between them, and after 14 years together, they ﬁnally decided to marry in April 2017.

Service to others is a value that Kobe and Patty carried over from their military careers. These days, you'll find Patty volunteering at a local hospital and Kobe has remained very active with the Navy Seabee Veteran's of America. They both participate in veteran pinning ceremonies for hospice patients and serve in various roles with the American Legion and VFW posts. They are both volunteers with the NC Patriot Guard Riders who stand flatlines at veteran and first responder funerals and escort remains to cemeteries.

One thing that remains constant for the couple is their deep-rooted habit of always being on time. "Perhaps only a military person will understand this", says Patty, "but we are always early for appointments." They like to call it "Military punctuality", arriving early, especially for medical appointments, is second nature to both of them. It’s just one of those small quirks that’s carried over from their service days into civilian life.

In retirement, Kobe and Patty have found a way to balance their sense of duty with their love of adventure. Whether it’s a friendly pickleball match—something they play four to ﬁve times a week—or riding their motorcycle across the country, this couple knows how to enjoy life. In 2021, they embarked on a 28-day motorcycle trip, covering 5,700 miles and visiting national parks across Texas, Arizona, and Utah. Just two years later, they found themselves cruising through South Dakota, visiting Mount Rushmore, Crazy Horse, and even Devil’s Tower in Wyoming.

When they’re not traveling, Kobe and Patty cherish time spent with friends. They’ve vacationed with neighbors in Costa Rica and Italy and are planning both an Alaskan cruise and Viking River Cruise for next year. For them, retirement is far from quiet—it’s an active, vibrant chapter ﬁlled with new experiences and strong community bonds.

Kobe and Patty’s story is a testament to the idea that life, much like the military, is best lived with a sense of purpose, service, and a little bit of adventure. From their days on a military base in Macedonia to their lives now in Brunswick Forest, they’ve continued to live by these principles—together.

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"Phoebe was adopted at 16 weeks after our ﬁrst dog passed away. She is a 12 1/2 year old Schnoodle who is well behaved (except for barking while I'm on the phone), loves treats, and her walks around Hammock Lake."

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"My name is Kono and I am a male Sheltie that my parents adopted when I was 6 months old. I was a bad boy! I chewed up furniture and molding but now I’m 6 and a good boy that likes to jump, run and play with my parents. I still do like to grab an occasional sock or toilet paper but I’m a pretty good boy that my parents love. I know they are trying to rescue a sheltie so I can have a playmate, I can’t wait!"

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Thank you Sponsors

BY CARMEN SCHLONER

Dear Donors & Sponsors,

I would like to express my deepest gratitude and thanks for the donation you gave our non-proﬁt, Caridad Inc. for Single Mothers, at our Golf fundraiser on August 12, 2024. It was very exciting to see all the golfers having such a good time not only on the course, but also buying rafﬂe tickets and bidding in our Silent Auction items.

Because of your generous donations, Caridad raised over $27,000, which is double the amount we raised the previous year. This event was successful because of you, and we cannot thank you enough for your generosity. We appreciate your support and I am happy to say, you made a difference in a single mother’s family life.

Thank you,

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A Story of COURAGE

BY BARRY GRUPP

My name is Barry Grupp, and I’ve lived in Walden for 10 years. I graduated from college in 1970 during a time when protests against the Vietnam War were at their peak. Six of my high school classmates from the class of 1966 died in that war, including my best friend. I didn't serve in the military, but I have always supported our veterans and those who served our country. I'm a member of the Hogs in The Forest, and you might have seen us riding our decorated motorcycles during the Christmas season. Many of us are also part of the Patriot Guard Riders, a volunteer group founded in 2005. The Patriot Guard's mission began as protecting the services of fallen heroes from disruption and has grown to honor both military veterans and ﬁrst responders. We also have a Help On The Homefront (HOTH) program that provides assistance to veterans and their families.

His life, marked by courage and struggle, reﬂects the experiences of so many who served in Vietnam, coming home to face both seen and unseen challenges.

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Recently, I self-published a book called Mike’s Story, A Lesson in Courage and Faith Over Adversity. It tells the story of my high school classmate, Mike Lansdown, who was a standout athlete and a Division I football player at the University of Arizona. Mike’s promising football career was cut short by two concussions, and in the fall of 1969, he was drafted into the Army. He served with the 101st Airborne, 502nd Division in Vietnam, operating just south of the demilitarized zone. Mike survived the war, but he lost four close friends in an ambush only 30 days before his tour was supposed to end. The experience changed him forever.

Last May, I reconnected with Mike’s sister, Lori Lansdown, through Facebook. In our conversations, I realized that no one in our class truly knew what Mike had been through. Lori sent me hundreds of letters that Mike had written while he was in Vietnam, and I also spoke with many of his friends and fellow soldiers to piece together his story. I found it important to share his experiences, not just for Mike, but for all those veterans whose stories have gone untold. Mike’s name isn’t on the Vietnam Wall, and he isn't commemorated at our high school with the other classmates who died in the war. He is one of the many unsung heroes who came back alive but paid a different kind of ultimate price, dealing with the aftermath of Agent Orange exposure and PTSD.

My book follows Mike from his early years through his service and struggles after returning home. His story mirrors that of countless other Vietnam veterans who faced similar challenges. The Vietnam War saw the use of twenty million gallons of herbicides, including twelve million gallons of Agent Orange. These chemicals were supposed to be harmless, but they caused severe health problems for those exposed. Agent

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Orange, in particular, contained dioxin, one of the most toxic chemicals known. The government and chemical companies like Monsanto and DOW knew about its dangers as early as 1962, yet the spraying continued until 1971.

Mike, like many veterans, suffered from both the physical and mental effects of the war. PTSD wasn't formally recognized until 1980, and early on, it was called by different names like “shell shock” or “combat fatigue.” Mike's struggle with PTSD went unrecognized for nearly a decade, and even when he started to understand his condition, he kept it to himself, conﬁding only in family and close friends. He never sought formal treatment, trying instead to cope alone for more than 45 years.

We often think of the Vietnam War's cost in terms of the names on the Vietnam Wall, but the toll extends beyond those who died in combat. Many veterans returned home, seemingly unscathed, only to discover they were ﬁghting invisible battles against PTSD and the long-term effects of Agent Orange. Mike eventually developed Parkinson’s Disease, a result of his exposure to Agent Orange, and passed away on December 17, 2019. His life, marked by courage and struggle, reﬂects the experiences of so many who served in Vietnam, coming home to face both seen and unseen challenges.

Writing Mike's story was my way of honoring him and shedding light on the ongoing battles faced by Vietnam veterans. It serves as a reminder that while the war may be over, the echoes of its impact continue to resonate through the lives of those who served and their families. Mike may not be ofﬁcially commemorated, but his legacy, like that of many other veterans, deserves to be remembered.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS

FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 1-SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 3

Cape Fear Kite Festival

Kure Beach

With fall winds at their peak, the annual Cape Fear Kite Festival is a fantastic opportunity for visitors to be awed by a colorful display of kites of all varieties. Held at the Fort Fisher State Recreation Area on the Cape Fear coastline, this impressive event is always a crowd pleaser, with an unforgettable overhead show that will make everyone look to the skies.

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 2

Applearchy Cider Festival

Brunswick Beer and Cider 1313 Dickinson Drive

Attention all cider enthusiasts! Get ready for our second annual Applearchy Cider Festival. Come and join us for a tasting event featuring ciders from the eastern region and fruitforward beers. Time: 1:00 - 5:00 Visit: all events.in for ticket info

At the time this magazine went to print, all event details were accurate to the best of our knowledge, but please check event websites or call ahead for the most current information.

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 2

Taste of Wrightsville

The Cape Fear area has its own unique style when it comes to food and fun, and visitors can get a big helping of this food-centric atmosphere by attending the annual Taste of Wrightsville Beach. Celebrating its 11th year in 2024, this festival that is perpetually growing in popularity features dozens of samples, tastings, contests, and more, which allows newcomers to dive into the local Wrightsville Beach food scene with gusto.

Cost: $25-$75

Visit: cape fear-nc.com for more info

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 2

Southport Wooden Boat Show

Water lovers of all ages and all varieties will have a ball exploring the fun and educational Southport Wooden Boat Show. Held in the peak of fall, this annual celebration brings together talented boat makers and mariners to showcase a stunning display of wooden boats, while providing a little history on Southport’s maritime heritage and life on the water.

Visit: southportwoodenboatshow.com for more info

FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 8

North Brunswick Newcomers Club Meeting

Leland Cultural Arts Center

Breakfast style refreshments will be o ered. Come early to meet new friends or neighbors. You do not have to be new to the area to join us. If you would like to donate breakfast food please use disposable containers. Doors open at 9:15 am, meeting at 10:00 am.

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 9

Sweet Haven Vendor Appreciation Festival

2651 Blue Banks Loop Road Northeast

Join us at Double Run Farm for a day ﬁlled with fun, food, and festivities for children and the whole family. Time: 12:00-4:00

Cost: FREE

SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 17

Battleship Half Marathon, 10K and 5K

Tie up your laces and get ready for one of the biggest running and ﬁtness events that the Cape Fear area has to o er! The annual Battleship Half Marathon, 10K and 5K is a popular running event that attracts active visitors from all across the county and beyond, and which provides a perfect opportunity to explore the local landscape of the southern N.C. coastline while enjoying a little competitive fun.

TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 19

Basket Weaving

Leland Cultural Arts Center

Time: 6:00 pm - 8:30 pm Cost: $55.00

WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 20-SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 24

Cucalorus Film Festival

Wilmington

The Cucalorus Film Festival has been going strong for 30 years, and this annual film festival is well known as one of the biggest and best of its kind in the Cape Fear region and well beyond. Renowned as one of the largest film festivals in the southern United States, this multiple day event features a wealth of films, shorts, live entertainment, music, and many more ways to celebrate Wilmington’s reputation as the Hollywood of the East Coast.

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 23 - SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 30

Kure Beach Holiday Market

Holiday shopping is a whole lot more fun with the Atlantic Ocean as a backdrop, and the annual Kure Beach Holiday Market combines a stellar location with a delightful mix of locally crafted and truly one-of-a-kind gifts for everyone on your Christmas list. Held during Thanksgiving week, with music, food, and more enticements for visitors, the Kure Beach Holiday Market is a great way to get into the spirit of the season while simultaneously getting a jump start on your holiday shopping.

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 23

Christkindlmarkt German Christmas Market

St. Matthew's Evangelical Lutheran Church 612 College Road

Time: 10:00 - 4:00 Cost: FREE

SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 24

Island of Lights: Lighting at the Lake Carolina Beach

Once the Thanksgiving feasting and festivities are complete, head over to the heart of Carolina Beach for this annual tradition that signiﬁes the beginning of the holiday season for Pleasure Island residents and visitors alike. The Island of Lights: Lighting at the Lake celebration lives up to its name as the o cial light-up ceremony that starts a long season of celebration in Carolina Beach and miles beyond.

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 30

NC Holiday Flotilla at Wrightsville Beach

Get a jumpstart to your holiday celebrations with this annual event that is always a crowd pleaser for visitors and local Cape Fear residents like, The NC Holiday Flotilla at Wrightsville Beach is an enchanting evening that combines holiday celebrations with the allure of the coastline, courtesy of a festive boat parade, ﬁreworks, and so much more

RECIPE SPOTLIGHT

BY DEBBY DAIGLE

Bread pudding is an old dish with humble roots. It evolved out of necessity, as a means of using up leftover, stale bread at a time when food was scarce. If the last heel of bread in the house was too stiff to chew, you could always add a bit of warm milk and sugar to it and make it new again. Bread pudding has come a long way since those early days, modern bread pudding typically starts with a custard that consists of eggs whisked with milk or cream. Regardless, it is still a family favorite and is perfect for the holidays.

Sweet Memories BAKED IN EVERY SPOONFUL Sweet Potato Bread Pudding with Candied Bacon

FOR THE CANDIED BACON:

¼ cup packed light brown sugar

2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar

3 tablespoons maple syrup

1 pound thick-cut bacon

INSTRUCTIONS

For the candied bacon: Preheat oven to 350°. In a small bowl, mix brown sugar, vinegar, and maple syrup.

Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. Place bacon slices on cooling rack set over the lined baking sheet. Bake for 10 minutes, turn slices, and bake another 10 minutes.

Remove bacon and brush both sides with brown sugar mixture. Return bacon to the oven and bake for another 10 minutes. Repeat basting every 5 minutes until bacon is browned and crisp. Remove bacon from oven and coarsely chop. Set aside.

FOR THE BREAD PUDDING:

2 cups whole buttermilk

½ cup ﬁrmly packed dark brown sugar

⅓ cup orange juice

¼ cup unsalted butter, melted

3 tablespoons molasses

½ teaspoon nutmeg

½ teaspoon ground cloves

½ teaspoon ground allspice

1 teaspoon ground cinnamon

1 tablespoon orange zest

½ teaspoon salt

6 large eggs, beaten

1 teaspoon vanilla

INSTRUCTIONS

1 (15-ounce) can sweet potatoes, drained and mashed

1 (1-pound) loaf day-old French bread, cut into 1-inch cubes

For the bread pudding: Spray a shallow 2½-quart baking dish with nonstick cooking spray. Set aside.

In a large bowl, whisk together buttermilk, brown sugar, orange juice, melted butter, molasses, spices, zest, salt, eggs, vanilla, and mashed sweet potatoes until combined. Stir in bread. Pour mixture into prepared dish. Cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate 1 hour.

Preheat oven to 375°. Cover dish with aluminum foil and bake for 30 minutes. Uncover, and sprinkle candied bacon evenly over the top. Bake until bread pudding is lightly browned around edges and set in the middle, approximately 15 to 20 minutes more.

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Pickleball for All!

BY LAURIE DEVER, PPR CERTIFIED PICKLEBALL COACH AND PRESIDENT OF BRUNSWICK FOREST PICKLEBALL CLUB

Chances are you have heard of this crazy (not so new) game, unless you have been in hiding for the last 10 years or more! It seems no matter where you turn these days there are new courts and players popping up. So, what is Pickleball and how did it start?

Although the game was invented in 1965, it has only just hit its stride in popularity in the last 10 years or so. It has become the fastest growing sport in the country in the last few years and enjoys a following of young and old alike. Did you know that many school systems are now bringing this game into school PE programs? What a great idea!

The great thing about this game is that it is easy to learn and can be taught in just a couple of hours. That is not to say that there aren’t many nuances and strategies that can take months and years to perfect! Players of all levels can enjoy this game at many levels, from recreational and neighborhood games to tournaments and professional level play. Nervous about starting because you don’t know how to play? Don’t be! Everyone starts somewhere, and this is the friendliest group of people you could ever hope to meet. What starts as a friendly meet up with strangers has often turned into years of lasting friendships. Many players report making new friends within their community that have become their best friends and social contacts. What better way to meet new folks than to engage in a healthy and fun

activity?

Pickleball is based on fair play and encourages players to make honest calls as well as to just have FUN! Players who excel at the sportsmanship of the game encourage others who are new to the sport. You don’t need to come from an athletic background to be able to play, although those that come from a racquet sport background often have an easier time of picking up the game quickly due to some familiarity with court sports.

The only thing needed to play are a pair of court shoes (different from running or walking shoes to provide better support and stability), and a paddle. While you can wear just some old tennis shoes you happen to have in the closet, it is highly recommended that you invest in a decent court shoe for more stability if you choose to continue playing. Eye protection is highly recommended, such as sunglasses or protective eye guards. Oh, and of course, a court to play on! Courts are available both indoors and outdoors, and are located at public parks, schools, churches, local community amenity sites, and public and private clubs.

As for a paddle, there are literally hundreds of paddle makers out there, and prices range from below $40 to over $250.00. How do you choose? Don’t sweat it! If you are just beginning, an inexpensive paddle will work just ﬁne until you decide you really

love the game and want to play a lot more (which many do!!!). No need to spend hundreds of dollars on a paddle with Kevlar or Raw Carbon or other fancy materials at the beginning level. The paddle that is right for you, at any level, is the one that feels good in your hand, feels balanced, and has a nice smooth swing weight.

If you really want to learn the right (and safe!) way to play, it is recommended that you take a lesson from a club or coach that offers lessons. Lessons may be free or for a fee. Many local clubs offer clinics for free or for a small fee.

Brunswick Forest Pickleball Club has over 560 members and is still growing! We have a great club with wonderful members, and welcome Brunswick Forest residents to join in the fun!