January Issue

Page 1

Architecture Class

Will Reiser ’98

Architecture students draft a new environment.

Hackley almumn Will Reiser wrote film 50/50, which stars Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Seth Rogen.

Dial

page 7

the

Hackley School

page 6

Tarrytown, NY 10591

January 2012 Vol. 113, No. 5

living with

autism

[Above] Senior Matt Rosenstein, juniors Julie Piscina, Veronica Qu, Dilsia Olivero, and freshman Ashley McGrath carve pumpkins with an autistic student during a Hawthorne Project on a Saturday morning. [Below] Sophomore Dan Shaw and junior Veronica Qu play on a swingset with a peer from the Hawthorne School. This community service activity has grown among the student body, and will become the junior class project. Photos by Margot Shaw.

through the eyes of a sibling When junior Dilsia Olivero was about eight years old, and she entered a mall elevator with her family and some teenage boys began to stare and laugh as they whispered “retarded” to each other. They were pointing at Dilsia’s brothers, James, 14, and Lucas, 12. She was hurt. But it would be one of many such incidents in Dilsia’s life. “Many people have been incredibly ignorant about autism and do not realize what they say or do is hurtful and not funny,” Dilsia said. Some adults have even asked her mother to control her children, assuming that autistic behavior is the result of poor parental supervision. But Dilsia and other Hackley students are doing their part to dispel some of the ignorance about the disability. One Saturday morning every month, a group of Hackley students travels to Hawthorne Country Day School in Hawthorne, N.Y., to spend three or four hours with autistic children. Junior Julie Piscina, one of the leaders of the Hawthorne project, praised this face-toface experience with autistic people. “Autism is a growing epidemic in the country, so it’s hard for people to understand it if they don’t experience it firsthand,” she said. “After you go [to Hawthorne School], you realize the three hours you spent with them makes their week,” she added. Sophomore Dan Shaw also has a brother with autism. A fraternal twin, Andy Shaw attends the Hawthorne School. Autism, called a “spectrum disorder” because of the wide range of behaviors described, affects one’s social interaction and communication skills. For example, Andy might bite his hand or scream in public, but he, Lucas, and James all

allymueller Staff Writer

live relatively normal lives. A typical day for Andy Shaw is going to school, seeing a therapist who monitors his brain activity, and then returning home for dinner and a movie, while James and Lucas usually go to school in Rockland County and then come home to play video games or watch television. “It is a particularly normal schedule,” Dilsia said of her brothers’ daily routine. “Except the difference is that their school is for children with autism, and my parents have to help them get dressed, brush their teeth, and pack their bags.” For the last six years, Hackley has had a strong connection with the Hawthorne School, giving students the opportunity to raise autism awareness and dispel ignorance. “It gives people a first-hand experience so they no longer guess or assume things about mental disabilities such as autism,” Dilsia said. For his part, Dan often corrects people when they use the word “retarded” in the wrong way. “It used to bother me at first,” he said, “but I realized it’s not a personal attack.” Dan’s example gives Julie a cause for optimism about how we treat autistic people. “I see Dan and Andy hanging out, how well they get along, and how much Dan loves him,” Julie said. “It’s very comforting to Andy to know that he has such a great brother.” Both Dan and Dilsia agree that having a sibling with autism makes their families closer. “I would have to say the fact that my brothers have autism makes us more united and protective of one another,” Dilsia said. Dan also believes that his brother enriches his own life, not just the family’s life. “Andy makes me see what’s good in life,” he said.


Turn static files into dynamic content formats.

Create a flipbook
Issuu converts static files into: digital portfolios, online yearbooks, online catalogs, digital photo albums and more. Sign up and create your flipbook.