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ELLIS COUNTY
MAGAZINE
VOLUME 11 ISSUE 1 PUBLISHER CINDY CAMP EXECUTIVE CREATIVE DIRECTOR JENNIFER KEMP CREATIVE DIRECTOR LINDSEY KEENEY EDITOR IZAMAR LOREDO ADVERTISING PAMELA MCCRORY CHRIS BENNETT CFO SUSAN KOSORIS INTERN TRISTA MCCORMICK A special thanks to all of our contributing writers.
Ellis County Living Magazine is published bi-monthly by ECL Media, Inc.© using only environmentally-friendly ink. Copyright 2015, ECL Media, Inc.© All rights reserved. For advertising information, please contact Ellis County Living Magazine at 972.935.0938 or info@living-magazine.com. We are proud members of the Waxahachie, Ennis, Midlothian and Red Oak Chambers of Commerce. No portion of Ellis County Living Magazine shall be reprinted in any other publication without permission. The views expressed herein should not be construed as medical advice. Please consult your physician.
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“A new year is here for us to explore, learn and conquer! I’ve got fun friends and a loving family plus a new place to travel to - Sao Paulo Brazil - this year. We have a special destination wedding to attend in 2015 and I’m very excited about it. The wedding issue is one of our very favorites at the magazine office. It is with such fondness that I will remember Courtney Keen Flores, florist extraordinaire and designer of my daughter’s wedding bouquet; no doubt she designed for many of you as well. She was very creative and loved providing floral arrangements with wedding ideas for the magazine. Many of her arrangements graced the cover of our magazine and will continue to provide fond memories of a very lovely lady.“
Cindy Camp, Publisher JENNIFER is the executive creative director for Living Magazine. She is a perfectionist who works around the clock to make sure the magazine maintains its high design standard. While ad design and page design are two very different worlds, her charming and positive nature keeps the two sides of magazine production working well together. Send questions or comments to jennifer@living-magazine.com.
LINDSEY is the creative director for Living Magazine. She grew up in Ennis and graduated from Texas A&M University. She enjoys spending time with friends and family, concerts, shopping and traveling, especially to her favorite destination, Las Vegas. Contact Lindsey at lindsey@living-magazine.com.
IZAMAR is the editor of Living Magazine. She grew up in Red Oak and graduated from the University of Texas at Austin with a bachelor’s degree in corporate communication. In her free time she enjoys trying out cool new places around the Ellis County area, shopping for the best deals and pinning her life away on Pinterest. Contact Izamar at editor@living-magazine.com.
PAMELA is the advertising representative for Waxahachie and Red Oak. She has an extensive background in sales and advertising and runs a promotional advertising business. She enjoys spending time with her family and friends, cooking, entertaining and traveling. Contact her at pamela@eclmedia.com.
CHRIS is the advertising representative for Ennis, Waxahachie and Midlothian. He grew up in Red Oak and volunteers with the SPCA in his spare time. In February, he married the love of his life, Robin, and they are happily settling in to married life together. Contact him at chris@living-magazine.com.
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COVER PHOTO BY BRENT HUGHES PHOTOGRAPHY STAFF PHOTOS BY MARIE Q PHOTOGRAPHY
ing t t u P f o s t h g i l h g i H r: This Issue Togethe
4 Nurturing a Hello Kitty
Chia Pet Lindsey got for her work anniversary. We’re loving having a low-maintenance office pet around!
Quick weekend adventures to Vegas, San Francisco, Napa, College Station, Galveston and Austin
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EXPECTATION
4Discovering
that COLLEGE STREET PUB makes FANTASTIC Bloody Marys.
REALITY
Watching4 AWESOME ABC Family Holiday movies. Chris Bennett and4 Jennifer Kemp doing donuts in Big Blue.
4Discovering that
Photobooth on Macs can make you look EXACTLY like a chipmunk. You know, just in case that’s a look you’re going for.
4Eating delicious
spaghetti compliments of Tony Bennett.
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Celebrating4 Trista’s 21st birthday!
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Finding the best brownies ever.
Jennifer and I experimenting with athome chemical peels while working (do not attempt at home).
Getting to4 explore the beautiful area of Ellis County that is Sugar Ridge.
Cindy bringing4 a selfie pole as her gift for our company Christmas gift exchange party.
TABLE OF CONTENTS 42 HOME OF THE YEAR 2015
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2015
JANUARY/ FEBRUARY
FASHION
LOCAL FASHION 14 IS MY 2014 SHOWING? 20 FIGHTING OIL WITH OIL 22
LIFE & STYLE
BOOKS TO MOVIES 2015 24 TRAVEL: WEEKEND IN D.C. 26 DESTINATION HAPPILY EVER AFTER 28 (CROCK-POT) SOUP FOR THE SOUL 30 LOVE ON THE ROCKS 32 A MOTHER’S TALE: A CLEAN SLATE 34 NONPROFIT: RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS 36 COUNTY UPDATE: EMBRACING THE FUTURE 38
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HOME & GARDEN > HOME OF THE YEAR 2015 42 MASTER MAKEOVER 50 DIY: 10 HOUSEHOLD LIFE HACKS FOR THE NEW YEAR 54 JANUARY/FEBRUARY PLANTS 56
MEDICAL
DR. DONALDSON: NEW YEAR, NEW OUTLOOK 62 THE SKINNY ON WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY 64 D IS FOR DENTIST 66
> CINDY BURCH: WHO CHANGED THE RULES? 68
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A LOT IS HAPPENING IN ELLIS COUNTY...
AROUND TOWN EDITOR’S NOTE I love the beginning of a year. It’s such an opportunity to turn to a new page and accomplish all of the things that have been collecting dust on your to-do list. I for one plan to volunteer more, give more, and keep learning new things and stimulating my mind. What are your goals this year? To help you ease into the new year, we’ve circled this issue around a new year, new you mentality. Among the many great articles inside, you’ll find fashion and beauty ideas for a fresh new look, inspirations on being more kind this year, Crock-Pot recipes for quick and delicious dinners and a collection of life hacks that are meant to make your life a little bit easier. We’re also showcasing our magnificent Home of the Year! Diane Johnson Collard did an excellent job of helping us find a home with so many beautiful details it was impossible to fit them all in this issue. Lindsey and I had a great time exploring Sugar Ridge, which truly is a breathtaking part of Ellis County. Up next is the Everything Spring issue, which is sure to get you excited for more sunny weather! Enjoy this issue as much as we enjoyed making it, and as always, if you have any questions, comments, ideas or just want to say hi, email me at editor@living-magazine.com!
JANUARY 24 Getzendaner Park Benefiting Texas Baptist Home for Children Post Adoption Services. Registration: 8 A.M.; Race Start: 9 A.M. Online Registration: www. texasbaptisthome5k.org. For more information call 972-937-1321 or email Dana Holt at dholt@tbhc.org.
entertainment and a souvenir photo flipbook. WFAA sports broadcaster Dale Hansen will be the auctioneer. Tickets are $75 per person and can be purchased online at www.casaofelliscounty. org, or with check made payable to CASA, 601 Water, Waxahachie, TX, 75165. Proceeds from the event will benefit training and support for CASA volunteers who serve abused and neglected children, and expansion of the CASA offices and training facility. Visit http://www. casaofelliscounty.org.
presents the Arts District Chorale at Central Presbyterian Church at 7:00 p.m. in Waxahachie. Tickets may be purchased on-line at waxahachiesymphony. org. Details are on the web page. Contact Sherry Dyess at 972-938-1181 if needed or visit www. waxahachiesymphony. com
HACHIE HEALTH HIKE
CUPID SHUFFLE 5K & 15K
JANUARY 17, 9 A.M. - 11 A.M., FEBRUARY 21, 9 A.M. - 11 A.M. Walmart Garden Center Midlothian Animal Control offers free adoptions to keep its shelter open for more strays. Off-site adoption events are held the third Saturday of each month from 9am11am at the garden center entrance of the Walmart located at 400 N. Highway 67. For more visit www.midlothian.tx.us/ animalcontrol.
WAXAHACHIE
MARTIN LUTHER KING DAY PARADE JANUARY 19 Begins in Downtown Waxahachie
MUSTACHE . . . DASH 5K
JANUARY 24, 10 A.M. - NOON Downtown Waxahachie Begins at Farmers Market, 410 S. Rogers.
DADDY DAUGHTER DANCE FEBRUARY 12, 6 P.M. - 9 P.M. Waxahachie Civic Center Tickets: $15; On-Sale January 5 at the Waxahachie Civic Center
GINGERBREAD HOUSE CHILI COOK-OFF
FEBRUARY 13-15 Ellis County Youth Expo Center For more information: 972-937-1870 or www. elliscountycac.org
2015 SHARE THE LOVE GALA
FEBRUARY 14, 6 P.M. – 10 P.M. The evening will include dancing, dinner, raffle, door prizes, silent and live auctions,
FEBRUARY 14, 2015 Waxahachie Register at reachcouncil. org/events or call 972.723.1053. All money raised will support REACH Council Prevention Services and Crime Stoppers of Ellis County.
WAXAHACHIE CHAMBER OF COMMERCE AWARDS BANQUET FEBRUARY 26
Waxahachie Civic Center
WAXAHACHIE SYMPHONY ASSOCIATION – ARTS DISTRICT CHORALE
FEBRUARY 28, 7 P.M. The Waxahachie Symphony Association
MIDLOTHIAN: CITY OF MIDLOTHIAN ANIMAL CONTROL PET ADOPTION EVENT
MOCKINGBIRD PARK WINTER WALK FEBRUARY 28,
10 A.M. Midlothian Mockingbird Nature Park sponsored by Methodist Mansfield
Medical Center. Nature activity stations, great prizes, giveways and healthy sanck post-walk! FREE registration at www.midlothian.tx.us or call 972.775.7177.
ENNIS
UNITY IN THE COMMUNITY ORATORICAL ESSAY AND YOUTH CONTEST
JANUARY 15 For more information, email uitcofennis@ gmail.com.
UNITY IN THE COMMUNITY COUNTY-WIDE HEALTH FAIR
JANUARY 17 For more information, email uitcofennis@ gmail.com.
UNITY IN THE COMMUNITY, DR. MARTIN LUTHUR KING, JR.: MORE THAN A DREAM MEMORIAL
JANUARY 18 For more information, email uitcofennis@ gmail.com
ENNIS CZECH MUSIC FESTIVAL
FEBRUARY 7, 1 P.M. - 10:30 P.M. Sokol Hall Listen and dance to five different bands! $7 per person, ages 14 and under free. For more information, call 972-878-4748.
For updates and chances to win free stuff, be sure to “like” us on Facebook and visit our blog at www.living-magazine.com. Do you have an event you want everyone to know about? Send an e-mail to: EDITOR@LIVING-MAGAZINE.COM
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waxahachie 2ND THURSDAY LADIES’ NIGHT OUT JANUARY 8, 5 P.M.- 8 P.M.
Every Month in Downtown Waxahachie with Participating Merchants.
2ND THURSDAY LADIES’ NIGHT OUT
SINCE 1850
JUNK IN THE TRUNK JANUARY 10, 9 A.M.- 2 P.M.
Parking Spaces around the Ellis County Courthouse in Downtown Waxahachie Join the Waxahachie Downtown Merchants Association for a community-wide resale event. Free admission to the public to shop.
FEBRUARY 12, 5 P.M. - 8 P.M.
Every Month in Downtown Waxahachie with Participating Merchants.
OLD TOWN VILLAGE ANTIQUES & UNIQUES Old, new and artistically created, you will find something beautiful in every aisle at Old Town Village. Come search for antiques, collectibles, shabby chic decor, vintage finds, books, jewelry, repurposed treasures and much more! 307 S Rogers St. • Waxahachie
972.938.9515 OldTownVillageAntiques.com
CHECK IT OUT Are you looking for that one chair you can relax in? We’ve got it in our showroom! Vintage and new furniture. 212 S. Rogers St. Waxahachie
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FOR MORE INFORMATION ON ALL OF THE FUN THINGS GOING ON IN DOWNTOWN WAXAHACHIE, VISIT...
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Bling It On Blingin’ Gypsy Boyce Feed & Grain Corp. Brent Hughes Photography Carol’s Designs Catfish Plantation Check It Out Cherics Antiques Chic Boutique Citizens National Bank of Texas College St. Printing College St. Restaurant Pub Common Threads Quilting Crafty Scrapper Crooked Creek Farms Antiques Doves Nest Restaurant El Mexicano Ellis County Abstract and Title Ellis County Art Association Ellis County Living Magazine Ellis County Museum Eubank Florist and Gifts Frank’s Urban Collection FRESH at Villa Flora GG’s Vintage Home Gingerbread Antique Mall Gran’s Antiques Grow My Biz hodge•podge Junction 22 Jim Lake Companies KBEC Radio Klassy Klutter Lake Mareno Main St. Dental Maxwell Jewelry Multitudes Mosaic Madness My Father’s House NAPA Auto Parts/Pool Supplies NOW Magazine Old Town Village Antiques Pearman Oil LP Gas Inc Plain Jane & Co Paris Flea Market Red Barn SoCo Depot T. Beresford Teresa McNiel - Coldwell Banker Texas Pearls & Co. The Briarpatch The Shop Toshio’s Taste of Japan & Klopfer House Town Square Title Waxahachie Daily Light Well Inked Custom Invitations Wray, Willett & Stoffer
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VEST, Multitudes $74 EARRINGS, Doves Nest $18 MISS ME TOP, Briarpatch $47.95 LEGGINGS, Chic Boutique $25.95 NECKLACE, Multitudes $38 SHOES, Chic Boutique $49.95
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JACKET, Chic Boutique $64 TOP, Multitudes $46 EARRINGS, Multitudes $14 PANTS, Briarpatch $42 BRIGHTON BRACELET, Briarpatch $62 SHOES, Merle Norman $92.95
SCARF, Multitudes $18 TOP, Multitudes $44 SKIRT, Briarpatch $27.95 NECKLACE, SoCo Depot $28 BRIGHTON RING, Briarpatch $58 CLUTCH, Doves Nest $32 EARRINGS, Briarpatch $9.95 BOOTS, Chic Boutique $65.95
TOP, Briarpatch $29.95 LEGGINGS, Multitudes $38 NECKLACE, SoCo Depot $40 EARRINGS, SoCo Depot $20 YOSI SAMRA FLATS, Multitudes $72 CLUTCH, Doves Nest $32
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FASHION { SHOPPING }
Grab these adorable must-have winterssentials just in time for Texas winter to get here.
GET BUNDLED UP...
DOVES NEST $16.95
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MULTITUDES $16
CHIC BOUTIQUE $18.95 SOCO DEPOT, $28
MULTITUDES $32 DOVES NEST $36
And Kick off the New Year MULTITUDES $22
DOVES NEST $9.95
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MERLE NORMAN $92.95
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FASHION { SHOPPING }
What’s
COOLER than being COOL?
“Ice cold!” is right, but so is wearing one of these fashionably warm coats and jackets.
MULTITUDES $48 CHIC BOUTIQUE $64
BRIARPATCH $123.95 MULTITUDES $58
MULTITUDES $74
EMBROIDME PRICES VARY BRIARPATCH $144.95
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FASHION { BEAUTY }
Is my 2014 showing? Slough off the past with these effective and easy
Glowing
Beauty
DIY SCRUBS!
Lip Scrub NATURAL AND MOISTURIZING »» 1 teaspoon of honey »» 1 teaspoon of brown sugar »» 1 teaspoon olive oil Mix together in your choice of container. Lick your lips, apply small amount to lips and scrub. Use napkin to wipe off residue. Use once a week.
Taylor Swift
Green Tea Soothing Scrub
Perk Me Up Body Scrub
Foot & Hand Scrub
GREEN TEA IS LOADED WITH ANTIOXIDANTS AND HAS ANTIBACTERIAL PROPERTIES
APPLIED TO THE SKIN, CAFFEINE HELPS REDISTRIBUTE FAT CELLS AND DECREASE THE FORMATION OF CELLULITE. IT ALSO TIGHTENS AND SHRINKS BLOOD VESSELS.
ENJOY A SPA DAY AT HOME WITH THIS MULTITASKING SCRUB.
»» 1.5 cup of sugar »» 1/8 cup grape seed oil »» 2 green tea bags (one boiled one not brewed) First make a strong cup of green tea and let it cool. Add oil to sugar and mix well, then slowly add in green tea. Finally open unbrewed tea bag and combine to mixture.
For a perfect gift idea mix the scrubs in a cute resealable mason jar!
»» 1 cup sugar (white, brown, cane) »» 5 tablespoons coffee grounds »» 1/4 cups Coconut Oil »» 1 teaspoon Peppermint Extract »» 1 teaspoon Vanilla Extract First, combine sugar and coffee. Then add desired amount of oil to the sugar/ coffee mix until everything is coated. (You may not need the full 1/4 cup). Feel free to add any fragrance to the mixture to make it more fun.
»» 1 cup coarse sea salt »» 1/4 cup organic jojoba oil »» 1/4 cup organic almond oil »» 10 drops peppermint essential oil »» Zest of 1 organic lemon Rub mixture into hands and feet, particularly in the dry spots. Rinse, pat dry and moizturize with your favorite lotion!
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SKIN TIP: FIGHTING OIL
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LIVING MAGAZINE’S 2015
I’m finally going to indulge in the Naked Pallete! LINDSEY KEENEY CREATIVE DIRECTOR
WITH OIL
As I was on another skincare quest online, I stumbled across a post describing the benefits of washing your face with coconut oil. I thought it was a disgusting concept. Rubbing oil all over your face? Gross! The post had mentioned that the act of cleansing with oil tricks the skin into thinking it had produced enough, therefore decreasing the need to wash your face constantly!
After I washed the majority of the oil off I rubbed the excess in as a moisturizer. As I looked in the mirror I realized my face was not irritated or raw. In the morning I was even more pleased as my face did not turn into a giant zit from the oil (I was terrified of this before trying!) and my face did not feel greasy as per usual. I have been using Spectrum organic coconut oil on my face for the past month and I couldn’t be happier! My face does appear to be clearer, less oily, and overall healthier.
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Of course I had to test this. I washed my face like I normally would with soap, and for the most part I believed it was clean. I then slathered the oil on and used a damp washcloth to wipe it off. I couldn’t believe my eyes! There were copious amounts of makeup on the washcloth! That was truly an eye opener for me. No wonder I had skin issues. Not only was I rubbing chemicals into my face, but they weren’t even removing what they claimed to!
Estee Lauder Waterproof Double Wear Stay-in-Place Eye Pencils! These are already awesome, but now that they’re waterproof they really are perfect for every ocassion!
Definitely a moisturizing lipstick like Bobbi Brown’s Lip Color! SUSAN KOSORIS CFO
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Most washes and creams leave my face closely resembling an Arizona desert, and then I have to pile on moisturizer to replace what I’ve washed off. What a process!
Not only that, but the oil also breaks down all dirt and makeup, leaving your face squeaky clean.
No. 7 facial products and Chanel No. 5 body powder. I love the creams and fragrances! CINDY CAMP PUBLISHER
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Like many people, I have struggled with skin problems for years (the skincare aisle has practically become my home).
Oh pretty much everything in my Birchbox! JENNIFER KEMP EXECUTIVE CREATIVE DIRECTOR
TRISTA is our resident beauty expert/ jack-of-alltrades intern/ photographer. Contact her and see her work at facebook.com/ tristamccormickphotos.
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LIFE & STYLE
2015
BOOKS to
MOVIES
4We all know bringing a book to life is
easier said than done, but that doesn’t keep Hollywood from trying. Sure, they may leave out that one scene from that one chapter that only you love, but the scenes attempt to stay true to the words on the page.
Will 2015’s next batch of movies live up to reader’s expectations? BY MORGAN MCCRORY
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INSURGENT
BY VERONICA ROTH
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE: MARCH 20 NOTEWORTHY CAST:
SHAILENE WOODLEY, THEO JAMES, KATE WINSLET
FIFTY SHADES OF GREY
AMERICAN SNIPER
A WALK IN THE WOODS
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE:
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE: JANUARY 16 NOTEWORTHY CAST:
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE: AUGUST 19 NOTEWORTHY CAST:
BY E.L. JAMES
FEBRUARY 13
NOTEWORTHY CAST: DAKOTA JOHNSON, JAMIE DORAN
People everywhere went crazy for this “adult-themed” novel. Some read it in secret, hiding the cover behind more appropriate titles; others shouted their love loud and proud. Either way, it’s hitting theaters just in time for Valentine’s Day. They kept it rated “R” though, so don’t expect quite the same kind of imagery that added to this book’s controversy.
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BY CHRIS KYLE
BRADLEY COOPER, SIENNA MILLER
Chris Kyle served four tours in Iraq, but it wasn’t the war that ended his life too soon. Before his untimely death, Kyle became the most lethal sniper in American history. With a little help from director Clint Eastwood, Bradley Cooper now tells the story of not only Kyle’s legend but, more importantly, the man behind the scope.
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AUTHOR: BILL BRYSON
ROBERT REDFORD, NICK NOLTE, EMMA THOMPSON, NICK OFFERMAN
The fact that this independent drama stars Robert Redford should already get you through the door. Redford doesn’t get in front of the camera too much these days, so when he does it’s important to take notice. If you need more convincing, expect to see some beautiful scenery mixed with a bit of humor as Redford and Nick Nolte attempt to hike around some difficult trails in order to reconnect with their homeland
Another year, another sequel… but this one shows more promise than most. Its predecessor, Divergent, didn’t quite reach the success of other young adult books that made their way to the silver screen like Twilight or The Hunger Games, but it still held its own. And if you watched the first, you have to at least see the second to find out how our female heroine bounces back.
BLACK MASS
FRANKENSTEIN
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE: SEPTEMBER 18 NOTEWORTHY CAST:
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE: OCTOBER 2 NOTEWORTHY CAST:
JOHNNY DEPP, BENEDICT CUMBERBATCH, DAKOTA JOHNSON, KEVIN BACON
Back in 2009, Johnny Depp portrayed the infamous bank robber, John Dillinger, in the well-received Public Enemy. He’s back in gangster mode but this time, he’s moved from bank robber to notorious Irish mob godfather James “Whitey” Bulger. Bulger eventually teams up with the FBI to take down the competition, but that doesn’t keep him from a life of crime. His deal with the FBI spirals out of control, and Bulger ultimately ends up on the department’s “Ten Most Wanted List.”
BY MARY SHELLEY
JAMES MCAVOY, DANIEL RADCLIFFE
Okay, so Frankenstein has been done before… like a lot. We’re talking at least 30 films that have been made since the 1910s where the monster himself has either been the star or a supporting character. So how does this one plan to set itself apart? For starters, it stars everyone’s favorite boy wizard, Daniel Radcliffe, as Igor, the good Dr. Frankenstein’s assistant. Unlike the others, this film will tell the story from Igor’s perspective. We get to hear about his troubled past, how he met up with Dr. F, and what it was like to witness the birth of a monster.
PRIDE AND PREJUDICE AND ZOMBIES BY SETH GRAHAME-SMITH
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE: TBA NOTEWORTHY CAST:
LENA HEADEY, LILY JAMES, MATT SMITH, SAM RILEY
Seth Grahame-Smith has taken the beloved tale of tangled relationships between cross-class lovers in 19th century England and added an army of undead zombies. Instead of worrying about Mr. Darcy, Elizabeth Bennett and her sisters are now sword-andknife-wielding martial artists. And yes, they do it all in corsets.
THE JUNGLE BOOK
BY RUDYARD KIPLING
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE: OCTOBER 9 NOTEWORTHY CAST: SCARLETT JOHANSSON, BILL MURRAY, CHRISTOPHER WALKEN, LUPITA NYONG’O
I know what you’re thinking. “Didn’t Disney already do this?” Yes, yes they did, but not like this. This version is live action and will most likely not include cute animals breaking out into song. This new spin on the classic tale is actually based on the original novel, and it boasts an amazing cast. Big names like Bill Murray and Scarlett Johansson are lending their voices to play the jungle’s most famous inhabitants like Baloo and Kaa. A kid with only a single short film to his name is playing the boy raised by wolves, so seeing him make his big screen debut should also be quite the experience.
THE HUNGER GAMES:
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BY DICK LEHR
MOCKINGJAY PART TWO
BY SUZANNE COLLINS
EXPECTED RELEASE DATE: NOVEMBER 20 NOTEWORTHY CAST:
JENNIFER LAWRENCE, JOSH HUTCHERSON, LIAM HEMSWORTH, WOODY HARRELSON, JULIANNE MOORE
I must admit that I am a big fan of The Hunger Games. I enjoyed the books a fair amount, but then Jennifer Lawrence braided up her hair and I was hooked. She’s the reluctant female heroine Hollywood needed in their repertoire as of late, and later this year her story will finally come to an end. Mockingjay – Part One did a lot of the talking, taking on a more dramatic feel so that the final part could come out with a bang. Expect Mockingjay – Part Two to be filled with plenty of action and a few surprises for those of you who haven’t picked up the book.
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Rose’s Luxury 717 8TH STREET SE
PHOTO BY ELIZABETH PARKER
TRAVEL
Weekend in D.C.
4 TOP THINGS TO DO IN “THE DISTRICT” BY MEAGAN CAMP
After decades of being viewed as a destination saved for junior high students and their beleaguered chaperones on class trips, Washington DC is enjoying a renaissance outside of the usual history class must-sees. Young neighborhoods with new chefs opening quality eateries, open-air markets and easy day trips to Northern Virginia provide travelers with plenty to eat, see and enjoy without the tour bus. Here’s an itinerary for a delicious weekend in “The District”.
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LUNCH:
The Grape + Bean 118 SOUTH ROYAL STREET, ALEXANDRIA WWW.GRAPEANDBEAN.COM
SATURDAY:
Landing and Lunch
IN OLD TOWN ALEXANDRIA If you are catching the early flight out plan to land at Reagan Airport, by far the easiest to get you on your way. Southwest, Delta, Virgin America and American Airlines all fly to Reagan everyday. After landing, hop in a cab and head a few miles south to Old Town Alexandria. It has a charming shopping district with antique stores, excellent restaurants and cobblestone streets that will show off the colonial architecture unique to the town. King Street is the main thoroughfare so beginning your walk at the waterfront is the place to start.
This is a local eatery featuring a simple menu with an emphasis on wine and coffee. Tables are nestled between the cute coffee bar and the eclectic collection of wines. It’s just off King Street so you can enjoy a long quiet lunch close by the shopping and people watching. DINNER:
Graffiato
707 6TH STREET NW
WWW.GRAFFIATODC.COM
Graffiato opened to happy crowds in 2011, opposite the Verizon Center on Sixth Street. Chef Mike Isabella, best known from Top Chef, helms its concept of family style Italian dishes. He also carries local wines and beers to complement the rich dishes coming from the two-story kitchen. There’s lots of energy on the first floor so consider requesting a table on the second for a quieter experience.
EVENING:
Penn Quarter and Dinner
No matter where you’re staying in the District or Northern Virginia, access to the city is easy if you go by Metro. It’s inexpensive and can take you all over the city fairly quickly. Hop on the Blue or Yellow Line and make your way to Penn Quarter, just north of the National Mall. This neighborhood connects the crowded Mall and eclectic Chinatown district. Walk up E Street and see the cross section of DC’s favorite things: trendy restaurants from José Andrés, fun museums like the Spy Museum, institutions like the National Portrait Gallery and independent playhouses. SUNDAY:
WWW.EASTERNMARKET-DC.ORG
Off the Blue Line in the slowly gentrifying Barracks Row area of Capitol Hill is the restaurant row on Eighth Street. It has one great meal after another to choose from. The weekend morning crowd is made up of young families, dog walkers and those looking for a bargain at the eclectic arts and crafts fair in the pedestrian plaza surrounding the wonderful Eastern Market. For 136 years vendors have been selling food inside, earning it a place on the National Register of Historic Places. You’ll find vintage clothing, tapestries, estate jewelry, African wax fabric and locally made art in the tents around the building every weekend. Inside are booths run by local butchers, farmers, bakers and cheese makers selling their artisan foods. A coffee bar serves breakfast to those doing their shopping for the weekend and is open all morning.
BRUNCH:
Belga Café
514 8TH STREET SE
WWW.BELGACAFE.COM
For brunch, the unofficial sport of District residents, reserve a sidewalk table at Belga Café. The menu features savory and sweet waffles and Belgian frites to get your day going. Favorites are the corn meal waffle with pulled pork and a fried egg or the Liege waffle for those with a sweet tooth. Take a minute to peruse the beer list that has over 100 choices from all over Europe.
Old Town Alexandria
PHOTO BY C. DAVIDSON FOR VTC
Brunch on Capitol Hill and Eastern Market
DINNER:
Rose’s Luxury 717 8TH STREET SE
WWW.ROSESLUXURY.COM
PHOTO BY NATE GRAY
Rose’s Luxury is a unique find in a city that has every cuisine represented. In August it was named the “Best New Restaurant” by Bon Appetit magazine, which featured their Fisherman’s Stew dish, a soup overflowing with shellfish from the Chesapeake. The small plate menu of updated American classics changes frequently. What the restaurant is quickly becoming known for is their focus on excellent service. Those who’ve eaten there feel the staff goes above and beyond with every customer. The delicious menu and warm service has won over the District’s diners. If you have time to eat at Rose’s Luxury, plan on showing up at 5 p.m., when the restaurant opens. They’ll take your phone number and text you when your table is ready, as they don’t take reservations.
Eastern Market
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Destination
SHANNON SKLOSS PHOTOGRAPHY
HAPPILY EVER AFTER Do you dream of getting married in a picture-perfect location? A recent study published by TheKnot.com reveals that 24% of couples are ditching the traditional ceremony and locations in favor of a destination wedding with only their closest friends and family in attendance. Even though planning such an event can feel overwhelming, these tips will ensure that your walk down the aisle is as pleasant as possible!
1. Choose the Right Destination:
The Caribbean region and Mexico are among the most popular locations in which to wed. Each country or state within the region has its own geographical makeup, climate, and culture. The most important factor to consider when picking a destination most often boils down to price point. Brides must consider airfare from their gateway of origin, the cost of the ceremony, the expenses for their guests, etc. A destination wedding in the Bahamas will differ from that of Mexico, but one is not always less expensive than the other.
2. Timing is Everything:
High travel season is mid December to mid April, when resort prices are at their peak, and low travel season is mid April through mid December. If you’re really determined to have a great destination wedding for the lowest price point, booking during hurricane season offers the most bang for your buck. While it is hurricane season, I have yet to have a wedding that has been affected by such a storm. Resorts and event locations are prepared for weather, so if they are a top wedding ceremony supplier, they will have a backup location for the wedding.
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3. Get Help:
Choose a destination wedding travel professional to assist with the planning and book ing process for your big day. Destination wedding travel professionals should be well-versed in assisting through the entire process of booking the destination wedding. From travel arrangements to ceremony details, a good destination wedding professional will be there to help accomplish every task related to the big day! Their expertise will keep your and your guests’ travel itineraries organized, and their connections will make sure you receive more amenities and inclusions. Make sure that the professional is quick to communicate and does it in such a way that the bride and her family/ friends are not confused by any of the details that are relayed. It is also always important to work with someone who is confident in what they are doing. If they are not familiar with destination weddings because they only help plan one or two a year, it might be a good idea to look for someone who is a little more skilled or has a niche/certification in this particular field. In many states, travel agents do not have to be licensed to sell travel, so if they are not certified as a destination wedding specialist, there are a lot of details they may miss when helping with the big day!
4. Dress the Part:
When you are picking wedding attire, keep in mind the destination to which you are traveling and the time of year. Also, make sure you travel with your attire in hand so it is not misplaced in transit. Many airlines will allow brides to hang their dresses in the captain’s closet, but notifying the airlines in advance is a must. Bridesmaid’s dresses are
often smaller than the bride’s, so if packed correctly in a suitcase in plastic they should get to the destination with very few wrinkles. Brides and wedding parties on a budget should travel with a hand steamer to get rid of any wrinkles.
5. Ready, Set, GO!
There is no time like the present to begin planning your destination wedding. When booking early, travel professionals have access to better rates, which can save the bride and her family money. Please keep in mind that international vendors in the locations mentioned above are on “island time”. They may not be quick to respond, so it is imperative that you begin the process early. Utilizing your travel professional’s contacts is a great way to move the process along! A destination wedding professional will have contacts at many of the most popular resorts and venues for ceremonies, and those relationships will help the client with communication. A destination wedding professional should offer to make the calls, write the emails, and communicate with the wedding team for the bride and her family, or at least assist, so that communications are efficient and timely. Destination weddings will continue to increase in popularity over the next few years as wedding costs continue to rise stateside. Instead of planning all of the details, brides and grooms are finding themselves soaking up the sun while the professionals take care of the rest. Dive right in… it’s time to begin planning the experience of a lifetime! Lindsay Foerster is the President/CEO of Foerster Travel, Inc. For more information visit FOERSTERTRAVEL.COM.
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Healthified Crock Pot Chicken Tortilla Soup AMANDA PLOTT OF THESKINNYFORK.COM SERVINGS: 6
PHOTO BY AMANDA PLOTT
{ RECIPES }
(Crock-Pot)
SOUP FOR THE SOUL It’s a new year but winter is still in full force. What better way to fight the cold than with a delicious, effortless soup? Start these before work, come home to a deliciously warm, readyto-eat meal and watch your slow cooker become your favorite kitchen gadget.
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Hamburger Stew
Ingredients »» 2 large potatoes, pared and sliced »» 2 to 3 medium carrots, sliced »» 1 10-ounce package frozen peas, partially thawed »» Salt and pepper to taste »» 2 stalks of celery, sliced »» 1 1/2 pounds lean ground beef, browned and drained »» 1 10 3/4-ounce can tomato soup »» 1/2 cup water Directions Place layers of vegetables in the order given in Crock-Pot. Season each layer with salt and pepper. Put the lightly browned ground beef on top of the celery. Mix the tomato soup with the water and pour into Crock-Pot. Cover and cook on Low 7 to 9 hours. (High: 3 to 4 hours, stirring occasionally).
Easy Broccoli Cheese Soup
Ingredients »» 2 cans cream of mushroom soup »» 2 cans cream of celery soup »» 2 cans cream of broccoli soup »» 1 (12 oz) can evaporated milk »» 2 cans water »» 1 lb. Velveeta cheese, cut into cubes »» 1 lb. bag of frozen chopped broccoli Directions In slow cooker or large pot, mix soups, evaporated milk and water. Heat on low until thoroughly heated (two to three hours in slow cooker.) Add Velveeta cheese and frozen broccoli. Heat until cheese is melted and broccoli is cooked.
Ingredients »» 1 lb. boneless skinless chicken breasts (about 2-3 breasts), cubed »» 10 oz. diced tomatoes with green chilies (Rotel) »» 14.5 oz. diced or whole peeled tomatoes (no salt added), undrained »» 1 cup corn, frozen and thawed »» 14.5 oz. black beans (no salt added), drained and rinsed »» 1 medium white onion, diced »» 1-2 jalapeños, diced »» 2 cloves garlic, minced »» 2-3 cups reduced sodium chicken broth (I use sodium-free instant chicken bouillon + water) »» 1 tsp. ground cumin »» 1 tsp. chili powder »» 1 tsp. salt »» 1/4 tsp. black pepper »» Tortilla strips: white corn tortillas, cut into strips »» Salt and pepper to taste »» Final touch: lime, cut into 6 wedges »» Optional suggested toppings: shredded cheese, diced onion, avocado, fat free plain greek yogurt, cilantro, etc. Directions Toss all the ingredients for the soup into your Crock-Pot and give everything a good stir. Secure the lid and set to cook on low for 6-8 hours. If you use whole peeled tomatoes you will want to carefully smash the tomatoes at some point so that they break apart into smaller pieces. Careful though or you’ll have tomato guts everywhere!
Sudoku is a logic-based number placement puzzle where the objective is to fill the 9x9 grid. Do you have to use arithmetic? No! Nothing has to add up to anything else. Instead, you solve the puzzle with reasoning and logic. Each column, each row and each of the nine 3x3 boxes should contain the digits from 1 to 9, only one time each (that is, exclusively). Find the answers at www.living-magazine.com and click on the Sudoku link.
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LIFE & STYLE { DRINKS }
LOVE ON THE ROCKS
Stir up some passion this Valentine’s Day with these romantically inspired cocktails.
FOR THE FUN ROMANTIC:
The Flirtini
YOU’LL NEED:
»» 1.5 ounces of orange flavored vodka »» 1 ounce of pineapple juice »» 1 ounce of Champagne »» Shaker Mix the pineapple juice and the orange vodka with ice in the shaker. Strain into martini glass, and top off with Champagne.
FOR THE SWEET-TOOTH ROMANTIC:
ChocolateMint Martini YOU’LL NEED:
»» 1 ounce Vodka »» .5 ounce White Creme de Cacao »» .5 ounce White Creme de Menthe Drizzle chocolate inside the martini glass. Mix ingredients separately and pour in glass.
Did you know? AMERICANS PURCHASE OVER $1 BILLION WORTH OF CHOCOLATE FOR VALENTINE’S DAY.
FOR THE CLASSIC ROMANTIC:
FOR THE HEALTHCONSCIOUS ROMANTIC:
YOU’LL NEED:
Gluten-free
Cosmopolitan »» 1 ounce cranberry juice »» .5 oz lime juice »» .5 oz Cointreau or other orange liqueur »» 1.2 oz lemon flavored vodka Pre-chill a glass by filling it with ice (toss out before pouring the cocktail in) or by placing it in a freezer. Mix the Cointreau, lemon vodka, lime juice and cranberry juice in a shaker filled with ice. Shake well and strain into martini glass. Garnish with lime wedge and/or sugar.
Pomosa
YOU’LL NEED:
»» Chilled pomegrante juice »» Champagne Pour about half chilled pomegranate juice into a Champagne flute, then top off with Champagne. Amount should be about 50/50.
FOR THE ADVENTUROUS ROMANTIC:
Chocolate Margarita
FROM SAUZA.COM
YOU’LL NEED:
»» 1 part silver tequila »» 3 parts chocolate milk (store-bought or homemade) »» Chocolate covered strawberry »» 1 part strawberry puree or daiquiri mix Make sure chocolate milk is chilled. Combine chocolate milk, tequila and strawberry puree in a glass. Stir vigorously to mix. Pour into another glass and place the chocolate covered strawberry on top.
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A MOTHER’S TALE
A CLEAN SLATE BY LINDSAY MARKERT
January is a clean slate. It’s a month of promise, full of resolutions and attempts to change habits and routines. It is a month that we use to set goals and plan our path for the year. For our family, January 2015 marks four very full, precious years since our oldest son Jackson had his first set of clear scans following his cancer diagnosis, subsequent surgeries and numerous rounds of chemotherapy and radiation. September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, and we have participated every September since 2010 when we became aware. However, it is a personal goal of mine for 2015 to raise awareness all year long, because I know from personal experience that children get cancer all year long, not just in September. Childhood cancer is the leading cause of death by
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disease for children in our country under the age of 15. Thanks to the advances in research and treatment, the five year survival rate has climbed from less than 50 percent to 80 percent in the past few decades. In recent years, social media has played a big part in raising awareness. It truly is making a difference, but there is still a long way to go. Awareness leads to fundraising which leads to a cure. A cure means no more babies and toddlers and children and teenagers are taken from this life way too early due to cancer. I know there are many schools of thought on how cures are “known” and withheld to make money. I can’t speak on the validity of that. All I know is that, as a parent, you will do anything in your power to keep your child healthy and safe. I can do my part and share our experience and knowledge, even if all it does is help prepare a family thrust into this scary world of childhood cancer.
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“NORMAL DAY, LET ME BE AWARE OF THE TREASURE YOU ARE. LET ME LEARN FROM YOU, LOVE YOU, BLESS YOU BEFORE YOU DEPART. LET ME NOT PASS YOU BY IN QUEST OF SOME RARE AND PERFECT TOMORROW. LET ME HOLD YOU WHILE I MAY, FOR IT MAY NOT ALWAYS BE SO. ONE DAY I SHALL DIG MY NAILS INTO THE EARTH, OR BURY MY FACE IN THE PILLOW, OR STRETCH MYSELF TAUT, OR RAISE MY HANDS TO THE SKY AND WANT, MORE THAN ALL THE WORLD, YOUR RETURN.” --MARY JEAN IRION
Below is an excerpt from the blog that I kept during Jackson’s treatment. This post was written at the end of his 20 rounds of radiation. It was one of the hardest parts of his treatment for all of us.
20 DAYS
20 DAYS of telling Jackson no when he asks for milk after waking up. 14 DAYS (6 of the 20 we were inpatient) of driving to Dallas on empty stomachs. 20 DAYS of walking through those doors and being hit by the hospital smell. 20 DAYS of sitting on the flowered couches while we waited and watched cartoons. 20 DAYS of walking him down the long hallway. 20 DAYS of carrying him into the treatment room. 20 DAYS of holding him down while the anesthesiologist does his thing. 20 DAYS of feeling his body give in to the medicine. 20 DAYS of laying him down on the table and walking away. 20 DAYS of looking back one last time. 20 DAYS of waiting. 20 DAYS of looking up anxiously every time the door opens, hoping it’s over already.
20 DAYS of rushing to the back when it is. 20 DAYS of hearing the pulse ox machine beeping down the hallway. 20 DAYS of sitting in Room 6 while he wakes up. 20 DAYS of listening to his deep sleep sigh. 20 DAYS of Nurse Wendy checking vitals and pushing pressure points. 20 DAYS of seeing him wake up irritated and waiting to see if he would throw up. 20 DAYS of a very strong little boy ripping off the pulse ox and blood pressure cuff. 20 DAYS of chugging apple juice because he was so, so hungry and dehydrated. 10 DAYS of Blues Clues stickers. Then he got bored with that. 20 DAYS of radiation. On my 3 year old. How did this happen?
I AM THANKFUL for modern medicine. I AM THANKFUL for sweet nurses, efficie nt and knowledgeable doctotechs rs. I AM THANKFUL for Chick-fil-A on the way home. I AM THANKFUL for a husband whose job allows him to be there. I AM THANKFUL for DVD players in the ca r. I AM THANKFUL for a God that carried us through this. I AM THANKFUL THAT THIS IS OVER.
ON ABOUT DAY SIX he stopped crying and freaking out when we walked into the treatment room. I’m happy that it was easier on him but sad that he was so used to something so awful. He started losing his hair again on DAY 11. I will never forget seeing his hair on that white pillow. He asked me to put him on his bed (the treatment table) on DAY 14. I cried in the hallway. We have had a couple of scares and setbacks since those first clear scans in January 2011, but our days have mostly been filled with normal. There are no words for how wonderful normal is. Don’t take it for granted because there are many, many families that don’t have the precious gift of normal. We are so very thankful that Jackson is healthy today.
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{ NONPROFIT }
Be Kind BY IZAMAR LOREDO
International Random Acts of Kindness Week is February 1016, 2014. Take this week to step out of your normal routine or comfort zone and attempt a new random act of kindness each day of the celebratory week. Although the Season of Giving is past us, the Random Acts of Kindness Foundation would like to remind us that every day of the year is a good day to give back in ways big or small. Even though Random Acts of Kindness (RAK) isn’t a local nonprofit, their philosophy stretches far and beyond the reaches of its brick-and-mortar building. With so many nonprofits, people in need, or just those that might need a smile here in Ellis County, we all have the power to become part of the RAK movement. Established in 1995, The
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Random Acts of Kindness Foundation hopes to inspire people to practice kindness and pass it on to others. They pride themselves in being a resource for people committed to spreading the word about kindness. RAK also provides free educational and community ideas, guidance and other resources to kindness participants through their website to encourage and spread kindness around the globe. By joining Randomactsofkindness.org, everybody can participate in and contribute to this positive movement. Those interested in becoming activists for the organiza-
A kind stranger from Red Oak left these much-needed supplies on the Ellis County SPCA’s porch this past holiday season. This is only a tidbit of all the kindness acts going on in Ellis County!
Share your random acts of kindness with us on Facebook! Find us at Facebook.com/EllisCountyLiving
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tion can apply to become RAKtivists and spread the RAK philosophy in their neighborhoods. Schools in our area, such as Waxahachie ISD, are already active participants of the RAK movement. Smile at a stranger. Pick up litter. Make an unexpected gift. Leave a thank you note. Donate. Say hello. Let someone else go first. By doing these small, meaningful acts, you’re not just giving someone the gift of a smile. You’re also giving yourself the gift of helping another. What are you waiting for, Ellis County? Get out there and be kind this year!
KINDNESS HELPS THE BODY
“People who volunteer tend to experience fewer aches and pains. Giving help to others protects overall health twice as much as aspirin protects against heart disease. People 55 and older who volunteer for two or more organizations have an impressive 44% lower likelihood of dying, and that’s after sifting out every other contributing factor, including physical health, exercise, gender, habits like smoking, marital status and many more. This is a stronger effect than exercising four times a week.” — Christine Carter, Author, “Raising Happiness; In Pursuit of Joyful Kids and Happier Parents”. Acts of kindness have also been proven to increase happiness, optimism and self-worth. Positively influencing another’s life is great for decreasing feelings of depression.
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Embracing the
FUTURE BY CAROL BUSH ELLIS COUNTY JUDGE
John F. Kennedy was quoted as saying that “Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.” From my office in the Historic Courthouse, it would be easy to feel as though I were in a period piece and time were standing still outside my window. That is, of course, if my computer screen weren’t partially blocking my view and all the incoming email didn’t suggest otherwise. As a community, we do a remarkable job of paying homage to our history and preserving some elements of its past. That’s as it should be; but, as for County government, hanging on too tightly to the past or lingering too long in the present would be an unwise proposition for the future. It seems whenever I speak or write about the County, the recurrent theme is growth… literally and figuratively. So, with a few things out of our control and with a great deal of planning for some things within our control, 2015 will bring the following CHANGE…
COMMISSIONERS COURT
After a busy election season, two new members joined the Commissioners Court on January 1st. With new representation, we look forward to new ideas and perspectives each will bring to the challenges facing our growing county.
HOUSING OUR RE-
CORDS AND PROPERTY AT THE COUNTY FARM
No sooner had the ribbon been cut in 2010 on the Ellis County Courts Administration Building, and the Law Enforcement Train-
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ing Center and Juvenile Services buildings opened at the County Farm, did Commissioners Brown, Dodson, Robinson, Sims and I renew our commitment to finish out the County building projects when economically feasible. Those projects are now coming to fruition. A records storage building will not only provide much needed space within our existing offices, it will also do away with the need to lease expensive storage space. Constructing our own facility on our own property provides more efficient control over records and inventory and will be more costeffective in the long run.
A COUNTY FIRST
Since 2009, it had been my goal to see a much-needed 3rd District Court established for the benefit of the community. In 2012, with the support of Commissioners Robinson, Dodson and Sims, I requested Representative Jim Pitts to take our petition to the legislature. With his invaluable assistance, a new District Court was approved in the last legislative session and Governor Rick Perry appointed a District Court Judge for Ellis County this past August. Cindy Ermatinger has taken the bench of the 443rd District Court and bears the distinction of being the first female District Court Judge in Ellis County.
NEW DISTRICT COURTROOM AND MULTIPURPOSE ROOM
Along with a new District Judge, Ellis County is also getting a new District Courtroom and multipurpose room. The planning for a finish-out of the shell space in the Courts and Administration Building, which began in 2010, will be realized this spring. The space will
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accommodate the Court and the multipurpose room will multitask as a Jury Assembly room, meeting room and courtroom for the Attorney General’s Office handling child support enforcement. The addition will allow for more cases to be processed and more comfortably seat the public that is called for jury service.
GOODBYES ARE SOMETIMES TOUGH
State Representative Jim Pitts retired after 21 years of faithful service to Ellis County. During his tenure, Representative Pitts always had a handle on the needs of this community and was instrumental in advancing our causes and securing support and funding for many of our County and City projects. The Commissioners Court owes him a debt of gratitude for his unwavering support over the years. As County Judge, it has been my pleasure and privilege to work with Representative Pitts on behalf of our community, and I wish him the very best in his future endeavors. I look forward to working with Representative John Wray who shares his predecessor’s commitment to making Ellis County the best that it can be. I’ve also said a sad goodbye to Commissioners Ron Brown and Bill Dodson. With 23 years (I’ve teased that Commissioner Brown was one of the original Commissioners when the Courthouse was built in 1895 and he hasn’t denied it) and 8 years of service respectively, these two gentlemen have been a credit to the people that placed them in office. Commissioner Brown has lived and breathed Ellis County since he took his place on the Commissioners Court. His love for this community has been evident by
his impressive tenure and 24/7 accessibility to the people he served. Commissioner Dodson brought his business experience to every effort and project the Court undertook. Bill’s commitment to basing his decisions on facts and the best interest of the community without regard to politics was admirable. That genuineness will be greatly missed.
ELECTIONS OFFICE WILL GET A NEW HOME
Ellis County Elections Office has operated in a cramped and aging leased building. However, residents will soon be able to cast their early votes in a new facility, which will offer better functionality, convenient access and more parking for the public. The County will begin construction of a new facility on the County’s property across from the Courts Building Parking Garage. It was originally the site of the blacksmith’s shop in 1910. According to the experts, age and intense heat have deteriorated that structure beyond repair, but as much wood and metal as possible will be used in the new building along with historic stone to match the Historic Courthouse and the feel of downtown Waxahachie. Change brings opportunity, and with 2014 behind us, Ellis County is embracing the future.
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MARKETPLACE ARK COUNTRY STORE
Whether rustic or country, this piece is sure to tie your prize room together. 209 S. Highway 77 Waxahachie 972.937.8860 www.arkcountrystore.com
MOSAIC MADNESS
SOUTHERN REVIVAL ANTIQUITIES & CURIOSITIES
Adorn your home with your own special handmade mosaic item. Vases, frames, crosses…the possibilities are endless with mosaics! Custom work is also available. 211 S. College Street • Waxahachie 972.937.5797 www.mosaicmadness.net info@mosaicmadness.net Find us on Facebook!
Estate sales, private sales and personal antique shopping for your home. Tish Creech - 214.435.3760 Mary Roux - 254.541.7660 SouthernRevivalAntiques on Facebook.
BRIARPATCH BOUTIQUE Surprise your sweetheart with a one-of-a-kind Pandora bracelet for Valentine's Day! 404 W. Main St. Waxahachie 972.937.7717
THE DOVES NEST
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Give a great first impression before getting through the door with the pefect doormat for your home or business. Order a custom doormat today! We also offer embroidery, screen printing and promotional products. 1585 N Highway 77 Ste E Waxahachie • 972.923.0970 www.embroidme-waxahachie.com
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Pick up a copy of our awardwinning cookbook, “The Doves Nest Restaurant: New American Recipes From A Historic Texas Town,” in its fifth printing. 105 Jefferson • Waxahachie 972.938.DOVE (3683) www.thedovesnestrestauant.com
HOUSE OF TEES
It’s basketball, baseball and softball season. Show off in your fan gear from House of Tees. New location: 509 George Hopper, Suite C Midlothian 972.723.9820 HouseofTeesOnline.com
THE STUDIO
Tommy Singer created this oneof-a-kind statement piece before he passed away. Tommy Singer was arguably the most famous Native American Jeweler of all time. Made with genuine inlaid stones, sterling silver and signed by the artist, this necklace is a treasure to anyone who loves his style. Call or pop in for details. 3671 N. Hwy. 77 | Waxahachie 972.617.7740
WELL INKED CUSTOM INVITES Let’s share the big news! Announce your holiday engagement in style with a custom save the date. We offer budget-friendly options that are sure to impress your guests. 214 S. Rogers Street Downtown Waxahachie 469.733.0114
L & J MANUFACTURING JEWELERS
Restyle your old, sentimental jewelry into something that is uniquely you! We create men’s and women’s jewelry. Watches, unique antiques and vintage items in stock! 130 N Hwy 77, Suite D • Waxahachie 972.938.0504
MERLE NORMAN COSMETICS & BOUTIQUE
New year, new gear! Our entire boutique is on sale! Pop by Merle Norman Cosmetics & Boutique today for a head to toe transformation. Make-up, outfits, shoes, accessories... we have you covered. Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ MerleNormanWaxahachie 401 N. Hwy 77, Ste 8 Waxahachie 972.937.9696
DALLAS TORTILLA & TAMALE FACTORY
Now serving street tacos! Bringing you authentic Mexican food since 1950. 213 SH 342 Suite 405 Red Oak 972.576.1171
HOME & GARDEN
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Home LIVING MAGAZINE’S 2015
Home of the Year
Each year Living Magazine chooses an outstanding home to be featured in our January issue as the “Home of the Year.” The spectacular homes selected in past years have been located in various towns in Ellis County. This year is no different. BY DIANE JOHNSON COLLARD PHOTOS BY BRENT HUGHES PHOTOGRAPHY
For the 2015 “Home of the Year” we found, down a winding drive and nestled among huge oak and pecan trees, a magnificent home owned by Joe and Kitty Crow. This lovely, picturesque setting is located on the border of Palmer and Ennis right in the middle of the Bluebonnet Trail. In constructing their home, Kitty and Joe were both very active in every phase of the building process. The basic home plan was selected from Southern Living,
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but personal touches were added throughout to make this home truly theirs. After construction had begun and decisions were being made, Kitty realized that she needed assistance in creating the home she ultimately desired. It was at this time that I was hired to help design and coordinate the final product. Getting the ceiling treatments designed so the wood beams
would fall into place in the family room was our first challenge. With a little tweaking and redesigning the beams were finally installed to perfection. There is always the question of which texture to choose for the walls. Whether you choose to paint or glaze your walls, texture is an important decision you have to live with for a long time. We chose to do a light hand trowel texture that allows for lots of texture and future options.
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Molding in the living room and dining room is designed to enhance the tall ceilings and accentuate the lovely windows in the front of the house. Multi-level crown molding painted with an accent color brings weight to the top of the room. The entry floor is an inlaid combination of natural stone used in the kitchen side of the house and hardwood used in the more for-
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mal areas. The huge stained entry door coordinates with the wood floor while an enormous handmade painted bookcase unit captures attention at the other end of the room. The kitchen is graced with the presence of an enormous island, glazed black with magical black and gold granite that sparkles like the stars in the sky. This piece of granite is an incredible piece of art.
Natural stone and granite countertops surround the custom designed cabinets that reach to the ceiling. The crown molding is enhanced by carved wood panels glazed black to match the island. The open concept of the kitchen is continued in the family room area, which is divided from the kitchen only by a raised bar that surrounds two sides of the work area. This
entire bar wall is covered in Austin stone capped with a gold and white granite that stretches gracefully around the room. The family room has an enormous cast stone fireplace flanked by windows on both sides, which overlook the pool area. The furnishings are a combination of sleek linen upholstery and huge, rugged handmade wood pieces enhanced with fine art and colorful window treatments. Although the style and furnishings in this home are rather eclectic, they flow together beautifully. There are antiques placed here and there sparingly. A definite touch of country French style can be seen in the family room and breakfast area, while the formal dining room, living room and wine room all have a slight Tuscan flare. The breakfast room is surrounded by windows overlooking the covered patio and pool. The country French fabric used for the window dressings accents the entire area with hues of clay and muddy teal that are carried into surrounding rooms.
THE FRENCH COUNTRY DESIGN OFTEN INCORPORATES DISTRESSED WOODS, RUFFLES, MIXED PATTERNS, AND A MIX OF MUTED AND VIBRANT HUES.
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The wine room, which holds over 500 bottles of wine, is unique and special in its own right. The arched ceiling is covered with tiny mosaic natural stone tiles that resemble cork. This same tile is used in larger sizes on the walls and backsplashes. Above the sink is a mural, painted by artist Karen Ducker, which reflects an old European scene. The iron-gated entrance adds to the intrigue, forcing you to peek inside to see more. All three bedrooms are picture perfect, but with totally different personalities. One guest room, designated as daughter Kate’s room, is decorated in a light contemporary style using grays with bright yellow accents. The dressing area has an enormous framed mirror with gray enamel cabinets. The countertops are gray and white marble, as is the tile in the adjoining bathroom area. A second guest room, better known as Annie’s room, has a cottage feel with hues of pale blue. The adjoining bathroom has a claw foot tub and a tile floor that looks like weathered wood. The painted wood-paneled wall adds a touch of country, but the gray granite
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countertop has a rough, chiseled edge for a more casual look. The master bedroom is a mixture of old and new. The bed was custom made by Restoration Hardware. It is done in oatmeal linen with wood trim. Bedding pieces in neutrals with teal accents were purchased at market. The dresser is custom made and glazed by artist Karen Ducker. The white upholstered love seat and accent chair add to the charm of this cozy master suite. The master bath is a woman’s dream. The dressing area has a magnificent, domed, hand-painted ceiling glazed with copper and enhanced by a fabulous chandelier hanging from the center. The island tub has a natural stone and glass tile surround with a granite top. A gas fireplace flickering in the center back wall overlooks the tub and separates the shower and tub areas. The shower and floors are also covered in natural stone with glass tile accents. The powder bath has a unique custommade vanity table created by a metal artist in East Texas, who also created the matching mirror. The countertop is onyx mosaic tile as is a backsplash board cut into a unique design. Kitty has a room all her own for wrapping gifts, sewing or just entertaining herself on the computer. Next to the craft room is the utility room boasting stainless steel countertops and built in appliances.
COLORS MOST ASSOCIATED WITH THE FRENCH STYLE ARE BRIGHT YELLOWS AND GOLDS, SOFT GREENS, RUSTIC REDS AND LIGHT TOUCHES OF PINKS, LAVENDER AND BLUES. THESE COLORS ENCOURAGE A BRIGHT ENVIRONMENT WHILE COMPLIMENTING NATURAL RUSTIC TOUCHES. LIVING-MAGAZINE.COM // JANUARY-FEBRUARY 2015
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Off the butler pantry, just beyond the laundry room, is a staircase leading to the second floor of the Crow home. As you arrive at the top of the stairs you are looking out over the vast property through windows surrounding the game room.
tiful pieces of art and décor displayed in the home are exquisite paintings done by Kitty’s mother, Mickie Tenney. These paintings, done in both pen and ink and watercolor, are treasures that add to the warmth and charm of the Crow household.
A balcony offers a view that encompasses more miles than I could even begin to imagine.
With my design ability and Kitty’s natural flare for accessorizing, we created an elegant yet comfortable home worthy of the title “Home of the Year.”
The second room upstairs is a fabulous media room which includes a wet bar and theatre seating for family movie night and watching special sporting events. Among the many unusual and beau-
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Thank you, Joe and Kitty, for allowing the residents of Ellis County to visit your home and enjoy, for a few moments, what you get to enjoy on a daily basis.
BRENT HUGHES IS A LIFESTYLE, WEDDING AND ADVERTISING PHOTOGRAPHER BASED IN WAXAHACHIE. HE COMBINES CUTTING-EDGE LIGHTING TECHNIQUES, TECHNOLOGY AND A UNIQUELY CREATIVE EYE TO PRODUCE STUNNING IMAGES FOR HIS CLIENTS. BRENT’S WORK TAKES HIM ALL OVER THE COUNTRY, AND DEMAND FOR HIS EXPERTISE CONTINUES TO GROW. FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT BRENT AND HIS WORK, VISIT BRENTHUGHESPHOTOGRAPHY.COM.
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INTERIOR DESIGN
Master Makeover BY DIANE JOHNSON COLLARD
After living in a home for many years, it’s easy to overlook a lot of things that need attention. I am no exception.
There are items I hurriedly placed when I moved into my home 12 years ago that are still in that same spot. They were supposed to be very temporary until I found a permanent home for them. Alas, they are still there. Isn’t it funny how you don’t even see those things anymore after a while? This can happen with one obsolete accessory, a small repair or even an entire room. Chances are it has happened to all of us. After living in their home for 20 years while raising their children and busily doing what every parent does, my recent Ovilla clients looked around their home and realized that they had never noticed how plain their enormous master bedroom was. It had always
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Before been a place to crash and nothing more. They had lived there for many years with very little thought to that space having any more than a utilitarian purpose. One day the homeowners decided to update a little by painting their barren bedroom walls. They tried numerous paint shades but could not come to a mutual decision on what color would be best. After much exasperation, they decided they needed help. That is where I came in. When I arrived to see the master bedroom for the first time, I was very impressed with the size and potential for this room. It could’ve been a luxury suite! The master bed looked like a matchbox. Had it not been for the enormous book
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HOME & GARDEN case headboard, the room would have seemed empty. I truly had a blank slate to work with. New furniture was in their future and they had decided that they really wanted hardwood floors, so we were well on our way to a total makeover. One thing led to the next and the room evolved into a fabulous retreat. In the meantime, the adjoining master bath was silently sitting there surrounded by floral wallpaper from the mid 90’s and carpeted floors. The more we did to the bedroom, the more outdated the bath looked. Although remodeling the bathroom was something they had discussed for the future, it became evident that the bath had to be done now. In the bedroom, paint, hardwood
floors and draperies renovated the space immediately. By adding to the living area with a sofa, comfortable swivel rockers, area rugs and a big screen TV, this room has become another living space instead of being a room only for sleeping. The bathroom was more complex. The room needed to be totally redesigned, so we decided to completely gut it and start over. There were some architectural elements that really made no sense and had no purpose, so we eliminated them. The wallpaper was primed, textured and painted. Crown molding was added to enhance the ceiling line. The shower was torn out and enlarged. Custom twin chests of drawers were designed
to fill a dead wall. Plumbing fixtures and lighting were updated and a chandelier was added to the center of the room. Although the room is very large, the outdated marble garden tub took up a huge amount of floor space. Most of that space was not functional because the marble surround extended out way beyond the tub itself. It was a beast and I could not wait to rip that thing out and have it pitched over the balcony railing. After the carpet was torn out and new tile floors and custom cabinets installed, we awaited the arrival of the new focal point for this grand master bath: a free-standing pedestal tub. What a gem! Changing the tub from that giant marble garden tub to this sleek, modern freestanding tub changed the personality of the entire room. As the project advanced, the couple realized that their closet had always been dysfunctional. Although large, the built-ins and shelf design really limited the useable storage space, so we ripped all of that out too and started over. With new lighting and all new shelving and rod space, this closet has been transformed to be fit for a queen. Now that the happy homeowners have a new, cozy, inviting and eclectic bedroom and bath, they may never use the den again. They have found their true haven at home, and what a room it is.
UNTIL NEXT TIME,
Happy Decorating.
DIANE JOHNSON COLLARD
Before
Diane has been decorating Ellis County for more than 30 years. Contact Diane Johnson Interiors at 972.935.8899 or djohnsoninteriors@hotmail.com.
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~ Household
Life Hacks for the New Year
u Use an EMPTY
KETCHUP BOTTLE
or other similar squeeze bottle to make the perfect pancakes or pancake designs. The controlled stream of batter coming out of the bottle will allow you to completely revolutionize your pancake game.
BY IZAMAR LOREDO
w Use TOILET PAPER ROLLS
to keep multiple cords from a power strip together and out of the way. You can also use them to store rolled up cords tangle-free.
4Starting the new year off right often comes with the goal of clearing up our mind, body and space. Before you put on your best cleaning gloves and start trashing what seems like junk, check out the following household hacks. Who knows, that so-called trash may become a treasure!
v KLEENEX BOXES OR EMPTY WET WIPE CONTAINERS
are great for storing plastic grocery bags in a tidy and organized way. Not only will keeping them in these containers reduce clutter, but their openings will allow you to easily pull out the bags as you need them.
z Take the printing off of reusable plastic containers (such as sour cream or yogurt containers) with
NAIL POLISH REMOVER.
x Worried your
fabulous new boots might lose their shape? Roll up an
OLD MAGAZINE and insert it
into soft shaft boots to help them stand up and maintain their look.
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y That LARGE ORANGE JUICE JUG you’re about to throw away can work as both a mini car trashcan and a reusable cereal container.
{ Use an OLD PILL
BOTTLE as a safe hide-
away when leaving a key outside your home. Glue a medium sized rock (one that covers the lid completely) on the lid. Place the key inside the bottle and push it into the soil until only the rock is showing.
| PLASTIC SHOWER CAPS make the
perfect (and reusable) replacement for saran wrap. They also work as suitcase shoe bags to protect your clothes from dirty soles.
}A pretty
PAPER TOWEL ROLL HOLDER also makes an
excellent bracelet organizer. This trick will help all of your bracelets remain visible individually instead of all jumbled together.
~ Use a SODA
TAB to hook TWO OR MORE HANGERS together in your closet, creating double hangers and completely maximizing your space!
Creative Curtains:
A DIY with the Material Women of Check It Out BY TAYLOR HAMPTON
Ready made curtains are a quick, easy way to jazz up square or rectangular windows, but their major flaw is that they do not fit every window. Luckily, a quick and easy solution exists. Buying ready made curtains and altering them will allow you to make your favorite pair of curtains fit any window. The first step is to choose a pair of ready made curtains from any home goods store, and the second is to select an accent fabric. You will need: ready made curtains, accent fabric, sewing machine, seam ripper, matching thread, trim (optional)
1. Choose a pair
fabric and cut the correct width to lengthen the curtain.
2. Measure the
4. Cut the ready made curtains at the point you would like. Designer Tip: The top or bottom make for great accents.
of ready made curtains from the store.
window so you know how much length needs to be added to your curtains. If the curtains are the correct length, you can still add accent fabric. Designer Tip: Curtains should brush just above the floor, so measure accordingly.
3. Choose accent
5. Use the seam ripper to remove the seams along the edges where the accent strip will be attached.
6. Sew the accent strip to the drapes.
* Optional: To add trim, run a
strip of fabric glue along the back side of the trim and attach to the draperies. Allow to dry for a few hours before hanging. Once you have hung the curtains, you are now ready to host the dinner party. Your windows will be the envy of the evening!
Cheers!
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»»Gardening BY MELINDA KOCIAN, ELLIS COUNTY MASTER GARDENERS
January PLANTING
»» Plant cilantro, parsley, chives, garlic and onions. Plant onions from seeds in rows 1/4 to 1/2 inches deep in well prepared soil. They can be planted in flats along with tomatoes and peppers. Plants in flats need bright light and warm temperatures (60-70º F). Use grow lights for best results. »» Another alternative is to plant onion sets in a container that is 3-4 inches deep with lava sand. Lava Sand allows them to grow nice roots and turn beautifully green, giving lots of nutrients before planting in the garden. After a week or two, plant the onion sets in wellprepared soil 2-3 inches deep. »» Sow sugar snap peas between February 1 and March 15. Plant them 1-2 inches deep about 6 inches apart. (They can also be planted August 1 through September 15 for a fall harvest). Harvest when seeds are fairly flat; if they’re too full, they will be tough. Fertilizing is not necessary but will enhance production. They need something to climb on such as chicken wire or cattle paneling, approximately 1 1/2 feet high. »» Tomatoes, especially those hard-to-find varieties in the spring, can be planted from seed by mid-month. Peppers and warm weather annual seeds can also be started in flats at this time. They need bright light and warm temperatures (60-70ºF). Grow lights work best. »» Transplant small trees and shrubs while they are dormant. It is best if they are root pruned in the fall so that roots will be established before the heat and drought of the summer. Water the plant well before digging.
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»» Keep a spray can of pruning paint handy to immediately paint any wound on your oak trees. To help prevent oak wilt we no longer say there are windows of safety because of cold weather or hot weather. Central Texas weather is too unpredictable and changeable—paint every wound all year long. »» Prune trees, including live oaks and red oaks, to remove dead, broken and unwanted branches, or to “limb up” (raise the canopy to allow more light underneath). »» Water, as needed, newly planted trees and shrubs and apply a liquid root stimulator monthly. »» Peach and plum trees should be pruned to stimulate lateral branches and keep their “bowl” shape. Thin the trees to open the center to allow more sunlight resulting in fruit production over the entire tree. »» Apply a balanced fertilizer to iris and asparagus. Feed pansies with blood meal. »» Maintain your free-form crape myrtles by removing “root sprouts” growing from the base. Please never cut the tops out of the crape myrtles. It produces unsightly knots. Don’t be a Crape Murderer! However, removing spent seed pods are okay. »» This is a good time to have the soil tested in the lawn, vegetable and flower gardens. Contact the Ellis County Master Gardeners or the Texas AgriLife Extension Service – Ellis County at 972-825-5175 for the soil sample test kit and mailing instructions for more information.
GARDEN WATCH
»» Remove by hand broadleaf weeds such as clover, dandelions, henbit and chickweed in lawns and beds. If necessary, spot spray turf with a broadleaf weed killer when temperatures are above 70 degrees. Be careful when using weed killers in flowerbeds to prevent the drift from harming desirable plants. The application of a pre-emergent in September or early October on lawn grasses will help prevent winter and spring weeds.
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Asparagus
Asparagus is a fern-like perennial with edible shoots that emerge in early summer. It is usually planted from roots or crowns but can also be planted from seed. Patience is needed after planting since you may not be able to harvest for a couple of years, but once established your bed can produce for up to twenty years. Plant crowns February 15 – March 1. Recommended varieties for Ellis County are: Jersey Giant, Jersey Knight and UC 157.
Asparagus and Artichoke Salad BY BETTY AND JON REUSCHER
Ingredients
3 (8 oz.) cans artichoke hearts, quartered 3 lbs. asparagus, cooked until barely tender, cut into 2-inch pieces 1 (8 oz.) can hearts of palm, cut in slices, opt. 1/2 onion, minced 1/3 c. olive oil 1/3 c. salad oil 1 1/2 tsp. salt 1 T. Dijon mustard Seasoned pepper, to taste, optional Directions Combine all ingredients and marinate overnight. Serves 12.
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»»Gardening BY MELINDA KOCIAN, ELLIS COUNTY MASTER GARDENERS
February
Beets Beets are a dual-
PLANTING
»» Plant cool-season vegetable seeds such as lettuce, spinach, radishes and carrots in mid-February directly into well-prepared soil. Cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli, beets, swiss chard, kale and potatoes should be planted two to four weeks before the last average frost date, which is March 15th in Ellis County. Plant asparagus crowns in 10-12 inches of soil. »» Container and bare-root roses can be planted this month. When planting from a container, use a two-gallon or larger size. Texas A&M EarthKind varieties are easy to maintain and will need less water, fertilizer and pesticides. Prepare the planting beds by adding a layer of 3 inches of organic matter and 3 inches of expanded shale and till into the top 6 to 10 inches of existing soil. »» Plant blackberries, grapes, fruit and nut trees. »» After planting, cut off the top half of peach trees and all side branches to encourage new lateral branches. »» Dig and divide warm-season perennials, such as cannas, coneflowers, perennial salvia, mums and fall asters before they break dormancy.
FERTILIZING AND PRUNING
»» Prune bush roses around Valentine’s Day, February 14th. Prune back to the ground old, dead and weak canes. Leave four to eight vigorous canes, removing one-half of their growth above an outward-facing bud. Feed
roses with a balanced fertilizer, compost or aged manure. Wait to prune climbing or leaning roses until after they bloom. »» Dead tops of ornamental grasses can be pruned four to six inches from the ground. Dig and divide large clumps of warm-season ornamental grasses especially if the center of the grass has died. »» Cut back the tops of herbaceous perennials to the ground or to basal foliage. If they are hardy, new growth will emerge from the roots in the spring. »» Prune damaged, rubbing or unwanted limbs and trunks from crape myrtles.
GARDEN WATCH
»» Begin controlling insects and diseases on fruit and nut trees. Spraying is essential for a successful harvest. Contact an Ellis County Master Gardener or the Texas AgriLife Extension Service – Ellis County for a copy of the “Homeowners Fruit and Nut Spray Schedule”. »» Watch for aphid and caterpillars on cool season vegetables. Control aphids with insecticidal soap and caterpillars with Bt (Bacillus thuringiensis). »» Spray hollies, euonymus, shade and fruit trees with horticultural oil; referred to as “dormant” oil, for scale and over-wintering insects.
Pickled Beets BY MELINDA KOCIAN
Ingredients 4 lbs. beets (1 1/2 - 3 inches in diameter) 3 cups thinly sliced onions 2 1/2 cups apple cider vinegar 1 1/2 cups water 1 tsp. pickling salt 2 cups sugar 1 tsp. whole allspice 1/2 – 3/4 tsp. whole cloves 3 sticks cinnamon, broken in half 1 T mustard seeds
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purpose vegetable grown for its tender young top growth and, later, for its fleshy roots. They must have loose and well-drained soil to develop good roots. Spring planting should be February 10 – March 1 and fall planting is September 1 – 15. Harvest greens before they reach six inches tall and roots when the bulbs are two inches in diameter. Do not allow roots to become large and tough. Beets are great for roasting, canning or pickling. Recommended varieties: Detroit Park Red and Pacemaker III..
Directions Wash beets. Leave 2 inches of stem and tap root. Cover with boiling water. Cook until al dente tender (25-30 minutes). Peel, trim ends and cut into 1 inch pieces; place in a bowl. Combine cinnamon and seeds in cheese cloth; secure top with a string. Combine remaining ingredients in a large pan. Bring to boil; add spices. Reduce heat; simmer 5 minutes. Add beets and onion—cook until hot through. Remove cheese cloth bag. Pack beets into hot, scalded jars. Ladle pickling liquid over beets, leaving 1/2inch headspace. Put on lids. Lower into boiling water. Bring to a boil; process for 30 minutes.
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What Women Want
BAYLOR SCOTT & WHITE MEDICAL CENTER Waxahachie answers the call when it comes to meeting women’s unique health needs. In December, a new era in caring for a woman’s health began in Ellis County when Baylor Scott & White Medical Center – Waxahachie opened its doors. The area’s newest full-service hospital features a Women’s Health Unit offering growing families advanced childbirth services in a warm, caring environment, as well as advanced capabilities to tend to women’s changing health needs at every age and stage of life. “Before designing our Women’s Health Unit, we asked women from the community what they expected from a great women’s services program, and then we set out to make it a reality,” explains Jaime Sinclair, MSN, RNCOB, director of Women’s Services for
the new medical center. At the top of the list, says Sinclair, was an experienced, compassionate team of nurses committed to outstanding service. So while the facility is new, the Women’s Health Unit nursing staff boasts an impressive average of 13 years experience. In addition, with spacious private suites, waiting areas and a computer lounge, the amenities and services offered in the Women’s Health Unit are more akin to those of a fivestar hotel than a hospital.
A SPECIAL TIME
Just as every woman is different, so is every pregnancy. Regardless if a woman is facing a high-risk pregnancy or a healthy pregnancy or experiencing
unexpected complications, the new Baylor Scott & White Medical Center – Waxahachie is prepared. “Our goal is to create a safe, cherished experience for every mother and her newborn–before, during and after childbirth,” explains Sinclair. “We also realize what a special time it is for the entire family, which is why our policy is to allow family and loved ones to be together throughout the entire birthing process.” Besides private Labor and Delivery suites equipped with a flat screen television, sofa, mini-fridge, jetted shower, make-up mirror and hair dryer, the unit features antepartum services to provide inpatient care to pregnant
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- Jaime Sinclair, MSN, RNC-OB
women who need it. It also is home to a Level 1 Nursery to care for infants born after 35 weeks gestation. “We also have 24-hour neonatal nurse practitioner coverage to assist with newborn stabilization during high-risk deliveries,” says Sinclair. “The practitioner can help provide the same quality care at delivery as a new mom would find at a big city hospital.”
AS THE SEASONS CHANGE
Health challenges such as endometriosis and hormonal
changes related to menopause and incontinence impact many women throughout the Ellis County community. The gynecologists on the Baylor Scott & White Medical Center – Waxahachie medical staff provide an array of treatment options and services for women affected by these and a number of other conditions. Whether a woman is in need of a routine annual or is seeking answers to an issue related to menstruation, reproductive health or urogynecology, the women’s health specialists on the medical staff are ready to help. “The gynecologists on our medical staff offer a wide range of treatment options, including minimally invasive and laparoscopic surgical procedures,” says Sinclair. “And the Women’s Health Unit’s specialized inpatient gynecological program is staffed with caregivers who are highly experienced and truly passionate about helping women recover as quickly as possible, so that they can go back to being the mom, wife, daughter or sister they want to be.”
READY FOR BABY? The Women’s Health Unit makes a variety of online and onsite classes available for expectant parents and their families:
Baby Basics Breastfeeding Infant/Child CPR Prepared Childbirth Refresher Childbirth Big Brother, Big Sister (sibling preparation class) For more information, visit us at BaylorHealth.com/WaxWomen or call 1.800.4BAYLOR.
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Physicians are members of the medical staff at one of Baylor Health Care System’s subsidiary, community or affiliated medical centers and are neither employees nor agents of those medical centers, Baylor Health Care System or Baylor Scott & White Health.
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NEW YEAR,
NEW OUTLOOK Dear Dr Donaldson,
It is a new year… again. I am not happy with my life, but I am not terribly unhappy either. Something is missing. New Year’s resolutions are not the answer, but what is?
Let me give you some questions to get you headed in the right direction.
1. Can you remember a time when you had dreams and aspirations? What did you want to do? Did you do it? If not, what got in your way?
2. What did you enjoy as a child? Do you have the essence of that type of fun in your life right now? When I was young I loved playing outside. I still feel great when I am doing things outdoors. It is a small thing, but there is nothing like the sun on my face and the sights and sounds of nature. It makes me happy. What makes you happy?
3. Find something that makes you want to get out of bed. What adventure or activity could you plan that would excite you when you open your eyes in the morning? Plan more of those days. Better yet, start each day with something that brings you joy. If you work, you may have to get up a little earlier to do it before heading out, but it will be worth it. What might excite you? Hiking, painting, swimming, meditating, volunteering, taking a class, dancing, crafting, reading, writing a poem or a story, learning a new language, going to a concert, singing, taking a trip, spending more time with family? The possibilities are limitless.
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BY DR. KATHERINE DONALDSON
4. Even if you are afraid or nervous… sometimes especially if you are afraid or nervous… try something new. The feeling of exhilaration that we experience after stepping out of our comfort zone gives us the courage to try other new things. In the movie “The Secret Life of Walter Mitty,” we see a character that initially resorts to fantasy to cope with a humdrum life. He steps out on an adventure and you know his life will never be the same. His fears will no longer hold him back. What new thing can you try?
5. If you are having trouble coming up with ideas, think of someone you admire. What do they do? What are they about?
6. If you knew you only had a year to live, what would you want to do during that year? Start your bucket list. Life is short. There are so many wonderful adventures to be lived and things to be tried. Use your imagination to figure out how you want to live your life, then start taking steps in that direction. Who knows where you will go. Life is waiting for you.
DR. DONALDSON is a clinical psychologist practicing in Waxahachie. She can be contacted at donaldsonpsyd@aol.com or by visiting donaldsonwellnesscenter.com.
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The SKINNY on
Weight Loss Surgery
BY JULIE MARTIN OF BAYLOR SCOTT & WHITE HOSPITAL
The holidays are over and you’ve decided this is the year you’re finally going to lose weight and get in shape. If you just need to drop the Thanksgiving-to-Christmas flab, eating right and an exercise program may be all you need to get on track. But if you are obese and have been unsuccessful in dropping pounds in the past, it may be time for more drastic measures. Given all the commercials featuring people and their big pants (which have become small pants), weight loss surgery (also known as bariatric surgery) may not be a magic pill, but often seems close enough. However, according to Andre Graham, MD, FACS, medical director of bariatrics at Baylor Scott & White Medical Center – Waxahachie, it’s not quite that simple. “You can’t be successful just relying on surgery alone,” explains Dr. Graham. “You still need to diet and exercise and modify unhealthy behaviors. If you don’t change your habits, you will regain the weight- no doubt about it.”
A Process… Not a Procedure
There are several types of weight loss surgery procedures for those who qualify, but qualifying is not as easy as stepping on the scale, realizing you need to lose 30, 40 or 50 pounds, and then dropping by a bariatric surgeon’s office. Generally, those who qualify for surgery are morbidly obese with a body mass index (BMI) of 40 or greater, or have a BMI of 35 or greater along with another potentially serious health condition such as diabetes or high blood pressure.
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“Patients with a higher BMI are generally candidates for gastric bypass or sleeve gastrectomy, while those with a lower relative BMI, or another health condition, are usually candidates for sleeve gastrectomy or LAPBAND®,” says Dr. Graham, referring to three of the most common weight loss surgical procedures. Long before patients get to the operating room, however, they are given a low-calorie diet and exercise plan to follow and may be asked to make other lifestyle adjustments. In addition, patients may need to be cleared for surgery by a cardiologist, pulmonologist or other specialist if they have an obesityrelated health challenge. Patients also may be asked to attend a support group or counseling prior to their procedure, as well as afterwards. It is often months of preparation before the weight loss procedure is even performed. This period of preparation is critical to the whole process, so that after the procedure, the patient will have the best chance at longterm success.
Getting Big Results that Last
“Most of the weight loss that occurs after a bariatric procedure occurs within the first 18 months after surgery,” says Dr. Graham. Patients who undergo gastric bypass can expect to lose 70-80 percent of their excess body weight. Those who have sleeve gastrectomy typically lose 50-60 percent of their excess body weight, while LAPBAND® patients see a 40-50 percent reduction in excess body weight.
Additionally, the vast majority of weight loss surgery patients with obesity-related health problems, including Type 2 diabetes, sleep apnea, high cholesterol or high blood pressure, see big improvements in these conditions or even shed them altogether along with the extra pounds. Patients with joint or back pain also often experience significant relief. Dr. Graham stresses that it’s the weight loss that leads to the improvement in patients’ health, not the procedure itself. Usually after about two years, patients’ weight loss plateaus, and it is up to the individual to continue living a healthy lifestyle to keep the pounds off. He uses the analogy of a computer with viruses that needs to be cleaned up and rebooted. “Once your computer is rebooted, you can’t go back to the same websites that gave you the viruses in the first place,” Dr. Graham says. “Weight loss surgery gives people a chance to reboot their body, but they can’t go back to the same habits they had before or else they’re going to have the same problems.”
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DIS FOR DENTIST
February is National Children’s Dental Health Month BY JEFF KOSORIS, D.D.S.
Years ago doctors at the famed Mayo Clinic observed that good dental health habits could add years to one’s lifespan. Like a lot of things in life, getting an early start on a healthy dental lifestyle pays off forever! So... where to begin for a one-page article about this toothy issue? Since we all want kids to grow up happy and healthy, I’ll start there and move along. Childhood tooth decay is generally preventable unless there are complicating genetic and environmental factors. Once a child’s first tooth comes in, it’s time for parents to get busy. You have to brush that little guy poking through the gums as soon as you can see it! Start with a washcloth over your finger. It takes 5 seconds during bath time. Keep it up every night before bed. Once more teeth come in, move to a little brush and your time investment jumps to a whopping 30 seconds! YOU CAN DO IT! Make it a ritual you rarely skip. I used to dip the brush in over-the-counter children’s flavored fluoride mouthwash, shake the brush nearly dry, and brush my sons’ teeth
with that. No foam, no rinsing, and a micro-dose of fluoride to offer a bit of enamel strengthening. Some parents floss their kids’ teeth and teach them to brush and floss as soon as they are able. I applaud them, but here is the key: Until a child is five to six years old, they generally lack the dexterity and understanding of getting the brush across all the tooth surfaces, no matter how long the brush is in there. It’s technique, not time, that counts. Always insist on Mom or Dad’s turn after the child has brushed, and whenever the child is capable of rinsing and spitting IN the sink you can transition to toothpaste. Have the young kids lie down on your lap on the sofa so you have great teeth access and visibility, and brush ’em down in no time at all! In summary, (and this is for all ages), It’s the BRUSH and cleaning ALL THE TOOTH SURFACES that counts, not the foam, not the time. Electric brushes are helpful since the brush head motion increases efficiency, but they are not essential if one is thorough. Unless teeth are gapped, flossing is the only way to physically scrape off plaque (bacteria, biofilm) that can cause cavities between teeth. Next up: Diet. Surprise! In the interest of brevity and keeping you awake, here are some quick silent sound bites: Minimize exposure to sweets and dietary acids. If you can, follow their intake with a water rinse or five minutes of sugarless gum or xylitol containing gum that will remove sugar residue and wash away acid. Soft drinks, sweet or not, are huge acid exposures (ever seen
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a swimming pool get an acid wash to remove rough surface plaster? You get the idea). Carbonated soft drinks acidwash teeth, and the sugar gives bacteria a feast of carbs to add acid to the process. Try not to let yourself or your kids get hooked on soda pop and limit them as much as possible. Another example: biting into lemons is especially harsh on upper teeth enamel. People with high acid and/or sugar intake, especially with sodas, are often headed for ongoing and expensive dental care, and when enamel breakdown is combined with clenching/grinding habits, it can really become a mess. I’m betting there isn’t a tobacco user out there that is unaware of the dangers of using it in any form and its potential effects to promote gum disease, oral cancer, and tooth decay, likewise for drug use (mainly due to neglect in this case). Yet, all of these behaviors will go on. All we dentists can ask is to moderate the bad stuff, do your best to counter the damaging effects by practicing effective home care and get things checked out now and then. At the first sign of a problem, get it checked out. You could save a lot of time and investment in the “fix” with early intervention. Communities across the country add dental prevention education into school curriculums. Many offer in-school fluoride varnish or other treatments to help emphasize the lessons learned and add a little cavity resistance to the enamel. Ellis County school children have the benefit of such an outreach program from Hope Clinic, which is staffed by volunteer dentists, hygienists, and dental assistants from across the region.
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LA FIN
Who Changed the Rules? I was born in 1960, when kids were taught that it’s not whether you win or lose, but how you play the game. We didn’t have score-free games or trophies for just participating. We were taught that losing is not the same as failure, but rather teaches perseverance, making you a stronger individual. So whose idea was it to begin raising children with the notion that everybody is a winner? I beat my whole third grade class at Indian leg wrestling, including the boys. I don’t recall anyone having emotional issues after losing to me. I wasn’t that good of a soccer player, but I don’t remember our moms trying to change the rules so our delicate psyche could handle a league loss. I do, however, remember my parents teaching me that sometimes we lose because our skills aren’t as good as our opponents. Sometimes we lose because of bad luck or a bad call and sometimes we lose because we didn’t play our best. Whether playing sports or just making friends in school, children need to learn how to handle unfavorable situations on their own. Certainly there are kids who cross the line, and bullies need to be disciplined. You think I wasn’t made fun of and called names for being a tall freckledfaced kid with curly red hair? I survived because my parents taught me to believe in myself. They taught me I was a child of God and I was important. They also taught me the Golden Rule: always treat others as you would have them treat you. In high school I had the privilege to play girls basketball. Coached by the great
Sandra Meadows at Duncanville High School, we became the 1978 State Champions. Coach Meadows taught us that a good sport has respect for teammates, opponents, and the game. She showed us how to be graceful at winning and losing. We were never allowed to gloat or put other teams down. However, we were taught to win through hard work, discipline and lots of practice. It was an honor to play under her. I admit I’m not a parent, but I was a kid. Kids need to hear that in this real world of ours, failure is much more common than success and losing is not a disgrace. I don’t know of anyone who has achieved greatness and hasn’t used their failures as stepping stones to success. I know I would not be an entrepreneur as an adult if I had not been encouraged to take risks. I failed with my first business and found myself bankrupt at 25 years old. Temporary setbacks teach resilience and build character. Losing is a part of life and teaching children to accept this fact and learn from it will help them grow into well-adjusted and successful adults. I’m sure the move to a score-free world for elementary school children is well-intended, but are we really doing them any favors? You’re telling a kid that keeping score is something negative, shameful or wrong. Learning how to overcome adversity is a good thing. We owe it to our society to give people the chance to try – not shield and protect them from every little thing they might face in this world.
I also showed horses as a kid. If my parents hadn’t literally made me get back in the saddle every time I was thrown off, I would have never developed the courage to keep trying. Because of my perseverance, I ultimately went on to become a top contender in the American Quarter Horse Association. I worked hard to win, and when I lost it made me work even harder. Studies are now showing that when children lose they often cry out that “it’s not fair”. They tend to place blame, point fingers and basically become poor sports in all aspects of their life. When a child is cushioned from defeat at an early age, are they less prepared to cope when real competition arises? Have we raised a generation that doesn’t know how to accept a loss, much less fight for what’s important? As a competitive society we seem to have been thrown from the saddle, so to speak. Have we lost our American swagger, our ingenuity and our grace to countries who have pushed their children to excel, take risks and succeed? Unless our future generations are encouraged to dust off their ego, face challenges, and get back to our roots of perseverance, we will stand and watch countries like China and India eclipse us, and it won’t be a score-free game.
Cindy Burch
Cindy Burch and her husband, Andrew, own and operate The Doves Nest in historic downtown Waxahachie. Cindy is also a freelance writer, caterer and consultant. Her award-winning cookbook, “The Doves Nest Restaurant: New American Recipes From A Historic Texas Town,” is in its fifth printing.
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