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This year, going to school at WISD won’t just make you SMARTER SMARTER,, it could also WIN YOU A NEW CAR! CAR!
Waxahachie Autoplex is teaming up with WISD in the perfect attendance program. Students at WISD who have perfect attendance all year will be entered into a drawing to win a new car at the end of the year! For more information contact WISD.
888-275-7858
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Monday-Saturday 11AM-7PM
Wish Upon a Paw You’re invited!
2nd Annual Wish Upon A Paw benefitting the Ellis County SPCA Barbecue dinner, live & silent auctions & live music by Kevin Kosoris & Friends Band
what: When: Where: tickets: honored guest: sponsors:
Saturday, September 28th, 2013, at 6 P.M. Midlothian Conference Center $30 at the SPCA, Grant and Weedon, Vintage Bank, Wally’s Party Factory or the office of Dr. Jeff Kosoris
Top Dog & Cool Cat Sponsors
Gloria Campos of WFAA
The Cat’s Meow Sponsors Kay Lynn Collier Bill
Jeff Kosoris, DDS, FAGD
Lend A Paw Sponsors
Purrfect Pal Sponsors
The Hale Law Firm, Vintage Bank, Dr. Nancy Carter Veterinary Clinic, Gerdau, Grant & Weedon CPA, Jim Pitts, Ennis State Bank, Waxahachie Autoplex
Citizen’s National Bank, William & Rita LeNoir, Nancy Eberlen, Mary Thomas
Ellis County SPCA
Ellis County SPCA
2570 FM 878 Waxahachie 972-935-0756 EllisCountySPCA.org
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BOUTIQUE 404 W. Main St., Waxahachie 972-937-7717
HOME DECOR 405 Water St., Waxahachie 972-937-1441
Hallmark 507 N. Hwy 77, Ste. 406, Waxahachie 972-923-1884
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
all aBoUT WeDDingS: local BRiDeS anD THe laTeST TRenDS
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acceSSoRieS FoR all YoUR SPecial evenTS
FaShION Put a Ring on it 16 The Blooming Bride 20
WEDDING Featured Weddings 24 Travel: Destination Weddings 32 engagement announcements 34 Tips from a Wedding Planner 36 Traditionally modern 40 Here comes the groom 42
september october hOmE & GaRDEN Weekend Projects 54 September/october Plants 58 Whirlwind Wedding 60
mEDICaL Planting Seeds of Hope 62 Dealing with Depression 64 Breast cancer Update 66 a Big Decision 68 a lesson on Kidney Stones 70
LIFE & STyLE local Date nights 44 Finger-lickin’ good 46 White Wedding 48 Kindergarten Blues 50 local musicians 52
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Unique Gifts for the Newlyweds
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There was a time when I dreamt of being a clown, so I dressed up as one on several occasions, including a friend’s clown themed birthday party. Turns out it wasn’t a costume party, but that didn’t stop me. - Kathryn Kemp, editor
Spice up your life! Who didn’t love the Spice Girls? Me channeling my inner Baby Spice...girl power! - lindsey Keeney, associate creative Director
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{ aRoUnD ToWn { A LOT IS HAPPENING IN ELLIS COUNTY...
eDiToR’S noTe love is in the air! isn’t it? at the living office, it has been for the last couple of months as we pored over lots of pretty pictures, sweet stories and fun wedding trends, all to bring you the latest in wedded style. Whether you’re totally traditional or like to mix things up, there’s plenty in these pages for you - even if you have no wedding to plan! i’ve really enjoyed hearing from the brides about how they met their sweetie, what the wedding was like, and all the love in between. There’s also a fun article from a man’s point of view - FYi ladies: consider choosing a date that falls during hockey season. We also have some ideas for dates and anniversary gifts, medical updates and a whole lot more! Up next is the holiday issue, and i for one am excited yet again to have an excuse to start listening to christmas music long before it is acceptable. last year, i made lindsey and Jennifer join me in my quest to see if it was possible to get tired of those merry tunes (turns out it is not possible, but i’m sure they really enjoyed being a part of the challenge). enjoy this issue, and as always, if you have any questions, comments or ideas, email me at kathryn@living-magazine.com.
DaLE haNSEN FOOTBaLL CLaSSIC
september 6 & 7 Stuart B. lumpkins Stadium, Waxahachie For schedule, visit dalehansenfootballclassic.com. contact WiSD at 972.923.4631.
10Th aNNuaL BRIDaL EXTRaVaGaNZa
september 15, 12-4 p.m. Waxahachie civic center lots of local wedding vendors to meet, a fashion show, groom’s ring pull, spring wedding ceremony giveaway, and much more! For more info, call 469.309.4040 or visit waxahachieciviccenter.org.
mEET ThE auThOR, RED Oak BOOk CLuB
auctions, and hear from Rep. Jim Pitts!
WaXahaChIE ChamBER auCTION ThE GODFaThER
october 5, 6-10 p.m. Win a 4-night stay at Harrah’s lake Tahoe, including airfare and more. For tickets and info, contact the chamber at 972.937.2390 or waxahachiechamber.com.
SPCa BOW WOW hOWL-O-WEEN huSTLE october 19, registration at 8:30 a.m. getzendaner Park in Waxahachie costume contest starts at 9:30 with a walk immediately following.
september 16, 7-8:30 p.m. Red oak Public library local author cordell adams, mD will be speaking about his debut novel, “light Bread.” For more info, call 469.225.4447 or email redoakbookclub@gmail.com.
auTumN DayS IN ENNIS FaLL FESTIVaL
SCREamS haLLOWEEN ThEmE PaRk
5Th aNNuaL RIDE OF ChamPIONS
september 27-october 26, Fri & sat, plus sunday, october 27 7:30 p.m. to 1:30 a.m. (11 p.m. oct. 27) 2511 Fm 66, Waxahachie We’ll be giving away tickets on our Facebook page, so watch for your chance to win!
ST. JOSEPh CaThOLIC SChOOL OkTOBERFEST
september 28, 10 a.m. – 8 p.m. Waxahachie civic center Fun for everyone, all with free admission! visit stjosephwaxahachie.com for more.
WaXahaChIE ChauTauQua aSSEmBLy 2013 CaR CRaZy: aN amERICaN LOVE aFFaIR september 28, 12 p.m. chautauqua auditorium, Waxahachie all about cars, past, present & future. For more info, visit waxahachiechautauqua.org.
SPCa WESTERN WISh uPON a PaW
september 28, 6-10 p.m. midlothian conference center enjoy live music, barbecue and silent & live
october 19, 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Downtown ennis arts & crafts, treats, railroad museum, live entertainment, pumpkin decorating and children’s activities, all free to the public.
october 19, 3 p.m. campfire creek Therapeutic Riding center Students demonstrate their riding - everyone is invited! contact emily oliver at 972.937.7265 or visit campfirecreek.org.
WaXahaChIE COmmuNITy ThEaTRE: “CINDERELLa”
october 25 & 26, 7:30 p.m. sunday, october 27, 2:30 p.m. chautauqua auditorium, Waxahachie Tickets go on sale october 1 at waxahachiecommunitytheatre.com, or at the Waxahachie chamber of commerce, The ellis county museum or the offices of Jerry ellis, DDS, in midlothian.
FaLL aT ThE RaNCh FOR FamILIES WITh SPECIaL NEEDS
october 26, 2-4 p.m. Paws for Reflection Ranch 5431 montgomery Rd., midlothian Families with special needs are invited for hayrides, crafts, games & prizes, horse rides, refreshments and to meet the animals.
For updates and chances to win free stuff, be sure to “like” us on Facebook and visit our blog at www.living-magazine.com. do you have an event you want everyone to know about? send an e-mail to: editor@living-magaZine.com
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Members of the Waxahachie Downtown Merchants Association:
WAXAHACHIE
DOWNTOWN mERChaNTS LaDIES’ NIGhT OuT september 12, 5-8 p.m. Downtown Waxahachie Participating merchants will be open late the second Thursday of every month, offering discounts, snacks and fun.
SIP-N-STROLL
september 14, 4-7 p.m. Downtown Waxahachie Sip on some wine and shop around the square.
CLaSSIC CaR ShOW uNDER ThE LIGhTS
september 14, 6-9 p.m. Downtown Waxahachie Don’t miss the classic cars and an authentic sock-hop!
JuNk IN ThE TRuNk SaLE
october 12, 9 a.m. - 3 p.m. Downtown Waxahachie
WaXahaChIE LIONS CLuB mINI GRaND PRIX
SINCE 1850
18Th BOB PhILLIPS TEXaS COuNTRy REPORTER FESTIVaL
october 26 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Downtown Waxahachie artists, craftsmen, chefs, games, autographs and entertainment. For more, call 972.937.2390 or visit TexascountryReporter.com.
october 18 & 19 Downtown Waxahachie
OLD TOWN VILLaGE aNTIQuES & uNIQuES
old, new and artistically created, you will find something beautiful in every aisle at old Town village. come search for antiques, collectibles, shabby chic decor, vintage finds, books, jewelry, repurposed treasures and much more! 307 S. Rogers St. • Waxahachie 972.938.9515
OldTownVillageantiques.com
ChECk IT OuT
are you looking for something a little different? We are now accepting furniture for our consignment showroom. come check out our large supply of in-stock fabric, trims and pillows. 212 S. Rogers St. • Waxahachie 972.938.2403
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CROOkED CREEk FaRmS
“Waxahachie’s Unique antique experience” come junk with us! Store Hours: Fri/Sat 9 a.m. - 6 p.m. & Sun 1 p.m. - 6 p.m. 510 W. main St. • Waxahachie 214.463.5169
510antiques.com
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beads n bling catfish plantation check it out cherics antiques citizens national bank of texas college street printing college street restaurant & pub common threads Quilting cozee’s little cottage crooked creek Farm ellis county art association ellis county living magazine ellis county museum inc. eubank Florists & gifts Frank’s urban collection gingerbread antique mall glenn’s Warehouse carpet gran’s antiques hodge podge Kbec 1390 Klassy Klutter martha nell’s clothes tree maxwell’s Jewelry mosaic madness my Whimsical country cottage napa auto parts/marine pool supply old town village antiques & uniques pearman oil & lp gas inc. plain Jane & co plato loco mexican café sandra’s dazzling Jewelry sugar & spice, naughty & nice t. beresford the boyce Feed & grain corp the doves nest restaurant & gifts the red barn tina bohlman gallery tire town Wray, Willett & stoffer
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For many little girls, the day when they’ll get to pick the perfect dress and walk down the aisle can’t come soon enough. As these dreams evolve over the years, so do bridal styles. Here are some peeks at a few designers’ latest looks from their Spring 2014 lines for you to fantasize about. Just remember: lace, tulle, sequins and bows won’t last forever, but true love never goes out of style.
Monique Lhuillier
Kenneth Pool
Kelly Faetanini
David’s Bridal
Ines Di Santo
Amsale
Christos
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FaShION This season’s bride is one of a raw and organic beauty. Stepping out of the traditional patterns and textiles of the wedding industry, she is one that embraces the subtle charm of floral design and nature.
THE Blooming
BY JoHnnie SmiTH
BRIDE Fresh-picked products
inFUSeD WiTH FloWeRS THaT Will enRicH YoUR SPecial DaY mAKeuP: While browsing through the cosmetic aisles of Wal-mart, you may have come across “Flower” by Drew Barrymore. The cosmetic line has a long range of products, with everything from tinted moisturizer to vibrantly pigmented cream eye shadows. The color palettes are inspired by the beauty of nature and are formulated with many nutritional vitamins for your skin. The brand also prides itself on being cruelty-free. (flowerbeauty.com)
hAnd creAm: margot elena, creator of Tokyomilk and lollia, created a new line of beautifully packaged goods. Dubbed “library of Flowers,” it is a rich moisturizing blend of fig and honey. (libraryofflowers.com)
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bAth bomb: lUSH is known for its innovative ability to design not only all-natural, but 100% handmade products with all organic fruits, vegetables and essential oils. Their aromas are to die for and your body will love them! Toss one of these “Tisty Tosty” Bath Bombs in your tub the night before the wedding for a sweet aromatic blend of lemon, geranium and jasmine. (lushusa.com)
hAir AdornmentS: Hairpieces and accessories: if you are looking for a fresh and stylish new way to replace the traditional veil, take a peek at these beautifully handcrafted flower pieces designed by myra callan, creator of Twigs & Honey. (twigsandhoney.com, photo by elizabeth messina)
Johnnie is the owner/artist behind the hair and makeup company prettibloom artistry. as a licensed cosmetologist, and with over 10 years’ experience in the beauty industry, her work and clientele has been seen both locally and nationwide. contact her at johnnie@prettibloom.com.
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Ellis County
Wedding Issue
Living Magazine 2013
Waxahachie Civic Center Presents the 10th Annual
Bridal Extravaganza
Sunday, September 15, 2013 12 p.m. to 4 p.m. Every September for the past 10 years, brides, grooms and the top wedding vendors in the area have gathered at the Waxahachie Civic Center to mix, mingle, and get down to the business of planning some weddings. With all of the bridal buzz in the air, it’s only appropriate that Living Magazine’s wedding issue should fall in line, and we’re proud to join the Civic Center in helping to prepare brides for their most special day. We hope brides can use what is in these pages leading up to the event and long after to find inspiration as they set out on the journey of a lifetime.
2013 Wedding Section: Featured Weddings 24 Travel: Destination Weddings 32 Engagement Announcements 34 Tips from the Wedding Planner 36 Wedding Features 40
I would have to say my favorite moment was when I first locked eyes with Josh walking down the aisle. I never felt such peace, love and joy as I did in that very moment.“ – Amy Haberman Thompson
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WEDDING
Meade + Kosoris
10.20.12
Samantha is near and dear to my heart. I first met her sweet family when my son was attending First Christian School many years ago. Samantha’s sister and my son were in the same preschool and kindergarten classes together. Later, my path would cross this family again when I would work with her mother, Kary Meade, at several weddings I had coordinated at Central Presbyterian Church. So I was extremely happy when they contacted me to assist with Samantha and Kevin’s wedding planning and coordinating. Samantha and Kevin’s roots and commitment to Waxahachie run deep. They wanted to have their wedding in Ellis County and use as many local professionals as possible. I think in the end this goal was very much achieved and it was the social event of the season. Samantha came to us with a very definite traditional style and a color pallet of deep fall eggplants, oranges, reds and yellows. The bridesmaids were to be in long navy gowns and the gentlemen in threepiece navy suits. The invitations were cream with
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chocolate imprinting, as was all the detailed printing for the ceremony and reception. The ceremony floral decor consisted of fall tones in bold oranges, bold yellows, deep reds and eggplant. The florals were hydrangeas, roses, dahlias, calla lilies, stock, snapdragons, fall foliage and berries. Samantha’s bridal bouquet was a large garden-style bouquet of all ivory and white blooms, finished with ivory satin ribbon. The bouquet was the perfect complement to her stunning gown and long train and signature red shoes. Floral “S” and “K” initials were hung on the giant wooden exterior doors at the Central Presbyterian Church with ribbon. The altar platform was designed with two traditional gold candelabras and a garland of fall foliage, berries and blooms. Samantha was ahead of the curve asking for the gold candelabras. The pews were adorned with bouquets of fall blooms and navy satin ribbon. The reception was held at the Ennis National Bank Event Center. This is a two-story historical bank
VENDOR LIST: Ceremony Venue & Church Coordinator: Central Presbyterian Church of Waxahachie, Winnie O’Donnell
building that has been turned into a venue. The guests were greeted with assorted appetizers and spirits downstairs when they arrived. We had a lounge area for the guests to mix and mingle as they awaited the arrival of the newlyweds. We also designed the cakes to be a focal point as the guests arrived on the first level. The bride’s cake was a five-tier cake, with each tier separated with flowers, detailed scrolling on the icing and the bride and groom’s monogram on the middle level. We carried the monogram throughout the design of the ceremony and the reception. The groom’s cake design was like nothing I have ever seen. I am still amazed at the design of the cake by Charlesa Sims and that it could be transported. The cake was a replica of Kevin’s smoker on wheels, detailed with smoked ribs, corn on the cob and a stuffed baked potato. Not to be left off: the spray paint graffiti on the back of the smoker - S+K! Upstairs, the reception was set with a combination of long and round banquet tables. Cafe lights were strung as well as uplighting to enhance the ambience of the evening. The
same color scheme was enhanced with floral centerpieces on all of the tables. The Doves Nest had prepared comfort foods from the heart of the bride and groom. Mini chicken fried steak served over buttermilk mashed potatoes with southern cream gravy, mini pulled pork sandwiches on a jalapeño cheddar biscuit, a macaroni and cheese bar with assorted toppings and sweet potato fries served in bamboo cones dusted with parmesan. It wasn’t over yet - late night there were root beer float shots and mini hamburgers. Kevin’s grandparents made the special guest favors by hand: containers and containers full of the most fabulous jam I have ever tasted. What a delight it was for me to meet and discuss the jam making with Mr. Daryl Schliep. Samantha and Kevin danced the night away with their families, wedding party and guests. They were then swept away in a limousine and off to their honeymoon. It will be interesting to see what impact this young couple will make on Ellis County in years to come.
Wedding Planner: Teresa Choate
Floral designer: FRESH
Photographer: Ami Trull Photography
Invitations: Teresa Choate
Special Printing: My Invitation Lady
Reception Venue & Venue Director: Ennis National Bank Event Center, Linda Calvert
Catering: The Doves Nest
Cakes: New Creations Cakes
Sound & Lighting: Infinity DJ Systems
Rentals: M&M Special Event Company
WEDDING
Sullivan + Featherston 05.25.13
This was my first experience planning and coordinating a wedding for a bride I have seen grow up. I met Catherine when she was a high schooler working for Courtney Keen-Flores at FRESH. She had a passion for the event industry and all the “pretties” from the beginning. She would say, “Miss Courtney and Miss Teresa, I want you both to plan and design my wedding.” We always told her we would on one condition: that she graduate college first. We watched Catherine graduate high school and enter into her college path, and become a lovely, caring young lady. As she was completing her senior year in college, we began planning for her wedding day. She graduated college with her teaching degree. Yes, three weeks apart, graduation day and wedding day! Catherine came to us with the color scheme of whites, navy blue and a hint of mint. She probably had the biggest inspiration binder to date. But we loved all her ideas and inspirations and assisted her in narrowing down the design and the details. The ceremony was in the open area adjacent to the Waxahachie Chautauqua Building. The altar was designed and built especially for Catherine: two sets of repurposed doors, separated by flowing ribbon and lined with curly willow and hydrangeas. The lawn had the historic pews placed at an angle to the altar. Catherine entered the ceremony in a horse-drawn white carriage with her father beside her. When the ceremony was complete, the guests were greeted with specialty treats of assorted popcorn at the popcorn bar and a variety of cookies and milk at the cookie station inside the Chautauqua. The reception was designed with banquet tables endto-end with crisp white linens, assorted clear bottles, and crates of white hydrangeas and seasonal blooms as well as green apples for accents. The cake design carried out the elegant simplicity with a five-tier traditional white cake topped with a mint bow and embellished with pearl detailing. The cake stand was an apple bushel basket surrounded by green apples and florals. The groom’s cake was quite imaginative to reflect Tyler: traditional in chocolate and square shape, but whimsical with the laptop and custom bobble head of Tyler. We so enjoyed planning with Catherine, her mother, Debbie, and her mother-in-law-to-be, Cindy. Tyler was a great asset to the planning process as well with all the custom design and printing. Catherine will be starting her first year of teaching - we wish her the best! Her kids are going to be so lucky.
-Teresa Choate, Wedding Planner
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VENDOR LIST: Ceremony & Reception: Waxahachie Chautauqua Wedding Planner: Teresa Choate Floral designer: FRESH Photographer: Marie Q Photography Cakes: New Creations Cakes Carriage: Once Upon A Carriage
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DeHay + Strouse 07.29.13
Blown Away
One of my best friends, Maegan, was coming to Dallas one weekend and bringing her new boyfriend, Brett (now her husband). Brett also went to A&M and has several friends in the Dallas area that were coming to see him while he was in town. It was that night at Blackfriar Pub that I met Kyle. The next day was the St. Patty’s Day Parade on Greenville Avenue. Kyle told me all night how he kite surfs and wasn’t going to make the parade because of how windy the next day was supposed to be, and he will always be on the lake if it’s a windy day. The next morning I got a text message saying he had decided to come to the parade instead of going kite surfing, which I knew was a big deal from all I had heard the night before! We had a blast and ended up spending all day together. We have talked every day since and I could not be happier!
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DIY
One night, my mom went and picked up her wedding dress and veil at my grandmother’s. I fell in love with the veil; the Alençon lace was the exact same as my wedding dress. My mom and her friend, Gayle LaNier Tate, embellished the veil with “pearls and diamonds” to match my dress and a comb was added instead of using the headband. It was perfect!
Helpful Hubby
Kyle was very helpful with the planning of the wedding. Our parents have become very good friends as well. When we went to visit the City Club, Kyle came too. When we went for the cake tasting, he was the first one there! We made all of our gift selections together. He loves to cook so that was important to him. When we went for the food tasting at
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the City Club, we all went. It was a fun time for us all to be together.
A Gift of Love
One night during a Pinterest search, I discovered this completely cheesy idea: “52 Reasons Why I Love You.” Basically, you take a deck of cards and on each card you write a reason. I ended up finding a jumbo, vintage Las Vegas deck of cards on Etsy. I think what I loved most about this project is it gave me a break from the stress of wedding planning and let me reflect on all the reasons he is so special. It turned out amazing and I enjoyed it so much. After all, it showed all the reasons why we’re having a wedding in the first place!
-Natalie DeHay Strouse, Bride
Ceremony: First Baptist Church of Waxahachie Reception: The City Club Dallas Wedding Planner(S): Cora Martin, Terry Bensmiller of Waxahachie; Vicki Welch of The City Club Dallas Caterer The City Club Dallas Photographer: Marie Q Photography Floral Designer: FRESH invitations: Swoozie’s Reception Music: TOP cakes: Elena’s Cakes
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Walker + Gowin 07.27.13
Courtship & Engagement
Jameson and I met in Port Aransas when we both went with mutual friends. We hit it off and have been inseparable ever since. Jameson is from Palmer and that is where my mother grew up, so it was neat to see how our families knew each other. As a matter of fact, my Papa Schwartz gave Jameson’s dad, Robert, his first baseball glove as a kid. Jameson proposed on Christmas Eve by hiding the ring box in the tree.
Food & Fun
I had the Doves Nest cater and we picked three food stations: cocktail hour featured a fruit and cheese display with a gorgeous lemon yellow topiary. On our main food station, we had field greens salad, fried chicken and waffles, bbq sliders, Greek pasta salad and honey oaked salmon. We also had a Frito pie station and a coke float station.
The Dress
I looked at an app (the Knot) one night, scrolling through dress after dress until they all just looked the same. Finally one stood out and my cousin found the dress I loved in Plano. We went there,
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tried it on and got it that day. My mom forced me to try a few more on and sent three different pictures to my dad. He picked the one I went up there for in the first place and I knew that it was the dress for me. Dress shopping took less than an hour!
Coca-Cola Classic
The coke float station was a hit. My father has worked for Coca-Cola for over 30 years, so I wanted to tie that into our wedding. I told Cindy Burch my idea of what I wanted. She ran with it and made it look great, serving them in shooter glasses with coke memorabilia and yellow striped straws to tie in my wedding colors.
Tip
The actual day of your wedding goes by so fast and all the details you stressed over seem ridiculous. The preacher told me as long as you have the dress and the right man, that’s all you need and that is the exact advice that I can give, because that is all that matters.
-Jessica Walker-Gowin, Bride
Ceremony: Central Presbyterian Church of Waxahachie Reception: Civic Center MUSIC: DJ Randall Kelly Caterer: The Doves Nest Photographer: Jamie Harper Bridesmaids’ Dresses
I knew I wanted the bridesmaid dresses to be grey and for them to wear yellow shoes and have a yellow bouquet. I wanted to make sure they didn’t have to spend a lot of money on a dress that they wouldn’t wear but once. My maid of honor’s mom mentioned that Target had a bridal department and that’s exactly where I found them.
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WEDDING { TRAVEL }
Amy Haberman + Josh Thompson 03.30.13
Playacar Palace Hotel Playa del Carmen, Mexico
COURTSHIP & ENGAGEMENT We met through mutual friends and knew immediately that there was something different and special about one another. In spite of many of life’s challenges, we always knew that we were destined to marry one another. Josh proposed on August 17, 2012, in San Francisco walking along the bay beneath the Golden Gate Bridge. PLANNING In the early stages, our travel specialist Stephanie sent us information on our location and gave lots of insight into how the planning would take place. Stephanie helped not only us book our trip, but all of our guests as well. I refer to Stephanie as our local planner and would have been lost without her. Playacar Palace supplied us with a preliminary planner as well as an on-site planner when we arrived. CEREMONY & RECEPTION The wedding took place at 4 o’clock in the afternoon on the 3rd-floor wedding terrace looking out toward the ocean. The terrace was covered, yet open to the air, and was draped with soft white linens that framed the backdrop of the Caribbean waters. The bridesmaids wore coral-colored strapless dresses and carried bouquets of coral and white flowers that were wrapped in a Caribbean blue ribbon. My father, Jim, escorted me down the aisle lined with coral rose petals and assorted seashells. Josh’s uncle Bill Flem-
PHOTOGRAPHER: Jayde Photography TRAVEL PLANNING: All About Honeymoons & Destination Weddings, Stephanie Medina HOST HOTEL (lodging, planning, flowers, music, food and décor): Playacar Resort
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ming officiated our ceremony, which concluded our vows with a sand ceremony including our daughter Lexi. At the Big Kiss, our guests shook maracas that were placed in each chair as a fun wedding favor. Planning a wedding without my late mother was no easy task. I chose to keep her presence alive by adding special details to our day. I brought her bible tied with lace as our ring pillow and displayed her bridal portrait as well as my mother-in-law’s next to our guest book and cake table. We honored her presence during our ceremony and tied her wedding band and special charms to my bouquet. We started off the reception with cocktail hour and hors d’oeuvres on the Cielo Terrace. We used this time for photos, our first dances and visiting with everyone. We moved into the beautiful La Terraza Italian Restaurant for a lovely sit-down dinner. The evening concluded with everyone having a blast singing karaoke. The best part about a destination wedding is that while most people get a “wedding day,” you get a “wedding week” to celebrate with friends and family. A destination wedding means your honeymoon starts as soon as you’ve said “I Do.” TIPS: Bring your own photographer! You will not regret this. -Amy, the Bride
“Do not put decorative sand in your carry on! You will be searched by TSA!”
Carly Rejcek + Dillon Pechal 06.13.13
Lindquist Beach St. Thomas, U.S. Virgin Islands COURTSHIP & ENGAGEMENT Dillon & I are high school sweethearts; we met while he was a junior and I a freshman at Ennis High School in 2003. We continued dating throughout both our college careers. Dillon graduated from Texas A&M University in 2009. When I graduated from UTA, we celebrated with a cruise that was a Christmas gift from his parents. On our second night, Dillon proposed to me on the back of the ship at sunset; how he got that diamond through baggage check with me by his side, I will never know. THE WEDDING We always knew we wanted a simple, fun and intimate wedding on a beach. We easily decided on St. Thomas. Along with most of our guests, we arrived Tuesday afternoon, June 11. That night, we all joined together at one of the hotel’s restaurants, Lobster Grille. On Wednesday, instead of a typical rehearsal dinner we set out at 5 o’clock on a catamaran for a sunset cruise around the island with drinks and hors d’oeuvres; it was breathtaking. GUEST HOTEL: Sugar Bay Resort & Spa TRAVEL PLANNING: All About Honeymoons, Stephanie Medina of Ennis PHOTOGRAPHER: Jina Armstrong Photography VIDEO: Alex Wolfy WEDDING COORDINATOR: Island Bliss, Janelle Scott RECEPTION COORDINATOR: Sugar Bay Resort & Spa, Naomi Bertand CAKE: VI Desserts
On Thursday morning, the day of the wedding, Dillon and his groomsmen, along with some of the other guys on the trip, went spear fishing and lobster snaring - quite the adventure. The girls took a more relaxing approach. We visited the ceremony site then had lunch at a tiki bar in Red Hook named Bamboos.
THE CEREMONY Complete with bamboo chairs, vintage blue mason jars I shipped with white floral arrangements, and the view, who could need more? Our ceremony was conducted by Andy Armstrong of Ennis alongside his wife, our photographer Jina Armstrong. Andy was able to capture one of Dillon’s life passions, fishing, in our unity ceremony. He unified our marriage based on the meaning of a fisherman’s knot and how two individual ropes come together to join something into such a strong and permanent bond and no matter the forces pulled upon it, it only strengthens with time. Dillon has a love for outdoors and fishing, and with that we decided for the guy’s attire to go with a Columbia PFG blouse with slacks. The girls wore floor-length aqua blue bobbinet gowns, with all of the wedding party enjoying their barefoot toes in the sand. After our ceremony, our guests joined us on a ballroom terrace overlooking the island of St. John. We feasted on lobster tail, crab legs and speared tuna. After all the toasts, dances and tosses, we led our party down to the beach where we released white wish lanterns over the water. THE HONEYMOON On Friday morning, Dillon and I left for our honeymoon on St. John to Caneel Bay. We returned on Monday, back to reality and back to Texas as Mr. & Mrs. Dillon Pechal. We were told when leaving the island that if we want our marriage to last, we have to return to the USVI every other year. I guess we need to start planning our next trip!
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Announcing
WEDDING
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Dana Zajicek to Jason Karamatic COURTSHIP & ENGAGEMENT
Lisa Harris to Carlos Fuentes COURTSHIP & ENGAGEMENT
Mr. Carlos Fuentes and I met in the summer of 2010, right as I was finishing my internship and graduating from UNT. He was working at Gloria’s restaurant in Addison at the time and I was there after work with friends. It was kind of love at first sight, but we were both too shy to admit it. Anyway, he asked for my number and our first date was for lunch near campus in Denton. Six months later, dating became complicated when I decided to move to Peru to work at a hotel near Machu Picchu, but eventually he came around again and we fell madly in love writing romantic messages to each other...through Facebook.
DETAILS
We are using a lot of sapphire blue with golds and silver. The decor is modern and a little artsy. We are having a Mediterranean buffet after cocktails and hors d’eouvres, have hired an MC/DJ for a night of both Spanish and English music dancing, and have also arranged an aftermidnight gathering at the Magnolia Hotel just a couple of blocks away.
PRECIOUS TIME
The most time-consuming part of planning is definitely Pinterest - it has consumed hours of my life that I can never get back! I also thought finding a photographer was kind of tricky; you have to be in line with their style, budget, packages and personality, which is a lot. I am so happy with having spent the time to find the right one for us though.
TIP
One of the best decisions I made from the beginning was to not make it all about me. Everyone wants to share in the experience and excitement, so I try to involve someone different in each wedding planning tasting, trial or shopping of whatever sort.
-Lisa SEPTEMBER 13, 2013 THE ROOM ON MAIN DALLAS, TX
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“WE WOULD BE TERRIBLY BORING ON REALITY T.V.! I THINK THE BIGGEST CONFLICT HAS BEEN DECIDING BETWEEN ITALIAN CREME CAKE OR WHITE WITH LEMON FILLING.”
Jason and I met in the fall of 2001. He was a senior in high school and I was a freshman. Later I would realize he was my soulmate. Jason and I will have been together for 12 years this December. Eight of those years in a row we spent in a long-distance relationship. Those eight years were hard, but it taught us how to truly appreciate the time we spend with one another. In November 2011, Jason received an unexpected job offer in Dallas and we were finally able to say goodbye to our long-distance relationship. On December 7, 2012, exactly 11 years together, Jason proposed to me at a place that holds a very special place in our hearts. I said yes, cried, and had never been so happy in my life.
DETAILS
The colors are white, light grey and sea mist blue. My vision for the ceremony and reception is beautiful, bright and classic. Every flower will be a shade of white. I want to create a beautifully romantic setting so that everyone will feel as happy and in love as Jason and I are.
THE DRESS
For the first time in my life, I went into a shopping experience with an open mind and fully trusted my amazing bridal consultant. I told her what I MARCH 22, 2014 LOMA LINDA EVENTS ROCKETT, TX
liked and what I didn’t like. I didn’t bring in pictures and I refrained from showing her the ones on my phone. I managed to try on nine different dresses. In the end, I went with the first dress I tried on. It is the epitome of my personality and how I want to look and feel on my wedding day. I never thought I would have bought the style of gown I fell in love with.
PRECIOUS MOMENT
The best moment was my amazing engagement. Jason put so much heartfelt thought into the whole thing. It truly showed what an incredible man I am about to spend the rest of my life with. He also selected the most amazing engagement ring I have ever seen. I will treasure it forever. I’ve loved how much time I’ve been able to spend with my mom, my grandmother and Jason’s mother. They’ve been such a huge help and I don’t know what I would do without them.
TIP
At least have a rough draft of your entire guest list before looking at or booking a venue.
-Dana
“I CONSTANTLY REMIND THE SKY THAT IT BETTER NOT RAIN ON MY WEDDING DAY.”
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Ready to Plan a Wedding? BY TERESA CHoATE
Colors, Flowers and Current Trends Favorite colors continue to be corals/pinks, all shades of green and blush and neutrals. navy paired with yellows and greys/platinum is also a favorite. White and cream hydrangeas continue to be used in floral design. Their beauty and size will always place them in the list of top two flowers. The use of roses is also an excellent choice and value with plenty of color options. The use of succulents in bouquets and reception centerpieces has become a bride’s new favorite, especially when pairing with coral or turquoise. Rustic elegance and earthy concept designs are still very current for reception decor. We’re starting to see a resurgence in traditional decor. I believe this has to do with the royal wedding. Since the wedding of Kate and William, lace has become more popular in wedding gowns as well as details in the reception. Popcorn stations are replacing candy stations as popular action stations or guest favors. Brides and grooms as well as guests are still enjoying the photo booth at the reception. Remember to personalize your ceremony and reception to the couple and have fun with all the available colors and details.
Managing Expectations I bring up this topic again because it is always a reoccurring topic pre and post wedding events. If you have a professional planner or family or friends are assisting with the setup and details of the wedding day, it is a high priority that everyone is on the same page and all topics have been discussed and delegated in detail. As a professional planner and coordinator, I see it all from behind the scenes. If family or friends have offered to help, they truly want to help, however expectations from both the bride/groom and helpers should be clearly defined. I have heard time and time again, “this is not what I signed up to do.” The wedding day is not the day for, “I do not know what she wants me to do,” or, “It is way too hot for the icing and cake I gifted to the couple. They didn’t tell me we would be in a field with no shade or covering for the cake.” or a disappointed bride walking into the reception and not finding her vision executed. or even the parents, grandparents and wedding party busing tables and tearing down tables and chairs at midnight after participating in wedding events since 7 o’clock that morning. So please, take my advice and prepare ahead of time to manage everyone’s wedding day expectations and duties. Happy Planning, Teresa Choate The Bride’s Rep - 972.935.3478 teresachoate@aol.com
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Tips for Attending Bridal Shows It is easy to get overwhelmed when attending your first bridal show. If you go prepared, you can enjoy the process and make great progress planning your event. go with an open mind and plan on speaking and visiting with vendors. no need to be intimidated by vendors, they are there to provide you information and assist you. » Create a new email address specifically for all your wedding information; vendors that you want to contact you, drawings you may enter, etc. » If the show offers premade information labels, take advantage of this or make your own and bring with you to the show. » Have a plan of the vendors you need to specifically meet. » Bring your fiancé and/or decision maker with you to the show. » Bring your calendar and be prepared to schedule meetings with vendors. » Bags are usually provided at the entrance of shows. Bring a folder with you for information on vendors you are interested in. It will save you time and help you remember which vendors you would like to contact. » Also attend local smaller shows and open houses. » Relax, take your time and enjoy meeting with vendors and wedding professionals.
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Local Shopping
LIFE & STYLE
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All the elegance you want for your invitations, right here close to home. Geneise Waltmon 600 Methodist St., Suite 3110 Red Oak 972.617.5053 www.myinvitationlady.com
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L & J MANUFACTURING
JINA ARMSTRONG PHOTOGRAPHY & PHOTO BOOTH
Restyle, renew and repair outdated pieces into fresh, new styles. Come in and create your own ring with your style! Men’s & Women’s jewelry store. 130 N. Hwy. 77, Suite D Waxahachie 972.938.0504
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ARK COUNTRY STORE For great gifts for the bride and groom, stop by and shop our country collections. 209 S. Hwy. 77 • Waxahachie 972.937.8860 www.arkcountrystore.com
g NEW CREATIONS CAKES BY CHARLESA Making those special events in your life a whole lot sweeter! 972.935.5445
THE STUDIO Enjoy the beautiful sound effects during lazy evenings on the porch with your love. Music of the Spheres Wind Chimes, “The Wind Chime for all Seasons.” Handcrafted in Austin, these chimes are a perfect gift for weddings, anniversaries and so much more. 3671 N. Hwy. 77 Waxahachie 972.617.7740
IT WORKS! GLOBAL Look great on your special day! Tone and tighten in 45 minutes with this amazing body wrap! As close to magic as it gets! Get your friends or bridesmaids involved and get your wrap for free by scheduling a fun wrap party! For more information contact me: Allison Camp 214.537.7359 campwrap.myitworks.com alliekcamp@yahoo.com Find me on Facebook facebook.com/campwraps
IMPRESSIONS SALON ETC.
ANNIE’S GARDEN For all your wedding and floral needs! Anna Sanders 903.879.2633 annasanders71@gmail.com
MOSAIC MADNESS Mosaics make wonderful wedding gifts as well as décor for the reception, ceremony and much more! 211 S. College St. Waxahachie 972.937.5797 www.mosaicmadness.net info@mosaicmadness.net
Aveda Control Force hair spray and Aveda lipstick are perfect for wedding day. Stop by and let us help you with your look on your special day. Gift certificates available! An Aveda Salon Thank you to all of our loyal customers we appreciate you. 202 N. I-35 Service Rd., #B Red Oak • 972.617.6300 www.impressionssalonetc.net
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Traditionally
MODERN BY KATHRYN KEMP
Most people are familiar with the traditional anniversary gifts: tin on the 10th, pearls on the 30th, ruby on the 40th, etc. Nowadays, people are getting creative with the oldfashioned ideas, and years without a traditional choice are being designated with things like original pictures, travel and even groceries. But whatever the gift, the most important part of any anniversary is sharing it
with the one you love!
22nd Anniversary
MODERN: Copper (traditionally for the 7th anniversary) IDEAS: A necklace or keychain with pennies from the birth year of each family member (etsy. com/shop/ShopTheCopperFox for more), wheat penny cufflinks, copper cookware, a bottle of Coppertone sunscreen to take on a surprise trip to the beach
1st Anniversary
TRADITIONAL GIFT: Paper IDEAS: Unique maps (like this cat map from fineartamerica. com), tickets to somewhere special, a subscription to a magazine, lottery tickets, a personalized deck of cards (see newlywed Natalie’s Pinterest find for a “52 Reasons Why I Love You,” deck on page 28).
2nd Anniversary
TRADITIONAL: Cotton MODERN: China (traditionally for the 20th anniversary gift) A stuffed version of your favorite pup (shelterpups.com), DIY dishes (using oil-based Sharpie pens and acrylic sealing spray - a Google search will help with the details), customized pillows, undies, eReader cases, or anything else you can come up with (try cafepress.com), trip to China?
6th Anniversary
TRADITIONAL: Candy/Iron, MODERN: Wood IDEAS: Personalized M&Ms with special messages or even pictures (mymms.com), golf clubs, a copy of Iron Man, wooden signs painted with loving words (like this one from Plain Jane & Co.), name a star after someone, customized cutting board
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24th Anniversary
MODERN: Musical instruments IDEAS: guitar lessons, a grand piano, a record player, upgraded sound system in the car, surround sound in the living room, an iTunes gift card, tickets to a concert or the symphony
26th Anniversary
MODERN: Original Pictures IDEAS: A customized puzzle with your favorite couple or family portrait, a scrapbook of all of your favorite moments (picaboo.com is a great place to make custom picture books), a calendar with special pictures for each month, a night out at the movies
THEIR FAVORITE ANNIVERSARY GIFTS? For their 50th wedding anniversary, Dick gave Virginia a diamond anniversary ring, made of white gold with 48 small diamonds. Virginia gave Dick a Bible, but Dick said, “You’re the best anniversary gift I have.”
Sixty-Three Years of
“Going-Steady”: THOUGHTS ON A HAPPY MARRIAGE FROM VIRGINIA AND DICK ALLEN OF OVILLA BY LEEANNA SMITH
Ovilla resident Virginia Allen laughed as she remembered requesting that the preacher at her wedding would omit the traditional phrase, “‘By the authority given to me by the state of Texas, I now pronounce you man and wife.’” Virginia said, “It’s all romantic and religious up ‘til that!” Richard (Dick) and Virginia Allen were united at Oak Cliff Christian Church on August 23, 1952. “Without [marriage], I would have missed out on a life of sharing joys and sorrows, and a life of loving each other … I
didn’t know how much fun it was going to be,” Dick said. Virginia smiled at her husband and said, “But you had an idea!” Dick offered advice for men entering marriage: “Make sure your wife knows that you love her and demonstrate that.” The affection Dick and Virginia have for one another is evidence of a relationship that is continually growing. “We loved each other from the beginning of our marriage but every day we love each other more,” Virginia said.
More Anniversary Gifts by Year 3rd
MODERN: Sculpture
4th
TRADITIONAL: Pearl MODERN: Diamond
TRADITIONAL: Fruit or flowers MODERN: Appliances
7th
TRADITIONAL: Wool or copper MODERN: Desk sets
9th
46th Anniversary
MODERN: Original poetry IDEAS: A book made by you filled with special words for your love (heartfeltbooks.com), buy a great book of poetry, put together a book of all of the poems that remind you of your love, write your own love poem, a scavenger hunt with poetic clues leading to the prize
32nd
MODERN: Conveyances (e.g. automobiles)
40th
TRADITIONAL: Ruby
44th
MODERN: Groceries
13th
TRADITIONAL: Sapphire
15th
MODERN: Optical Goods
TRADITIONAL: Lace MODERN: Textiles or furs
17th
TRADITIONAL: Coral MODERN: Jade IDEAS: A trip to go snorkeling or scuba diving (or scuba diving lessons if you aren’t certified), a visit to the aquarium, a ride in an Atlantis Submarine in Hawaii, a romantic stay at Jules’ Undersea Lodge (jul.com – look it up!)
30th
TRADITIONAL: Pottery MODERN: Leather
TRADITIONAL: Crystal MODERN: Watches
35th Anniversary
27th
TRADITIONAL: Leather MODERN: Crystal
MODERN: Furniture
20th
TRADITIONAL: China MODERN: Platinum
25th
TRADITIONAL: Silver
45th
48th
50th
TRADITIONAL: Gold
55th
TRADITIONAL: Emerald MODERN: Emerald or turquoise
75th
TRADITIONAL: Platinum
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WEDDING { GUY TALK }
HERE COMES the
Groom BY JUDD MCCUTCHEN
From the time they are little, most girls fantasize about the perfect wedding day. She imagines herself in a beautiful white dress, holding hands with her father as he walks her down the aisle, gently squeezing it to let her know he loves her. Hundreds of people stand with all eyes fixated on her as the Bridal March begins to play. Her groom waits at the altar, holding back a small tear in one eye…smiling at her all the while.
goes through his head. I will don this title twice in my lifetime, but it will be a number of years before that day comes. In thinking about my little girls, I would say these are the things that will be going through my head:
But what do guys think? It’s a question rarely thought about because weddings are so much of a ‘girl’ thing. Yes, we guys do have to be there for it to actually become legally binding, so we do play a role in this whole production. But how many times have you heard that all the guy has to do is show up, stand there and say, “I do.” Our input is not needed on 90 percent of the planning decisions, and usually not taken seriously on the other 10 percent. So I thought I would set the record straight on what goes through a guy’s head when thinking about weddings.
“I am so glad my baby girl is happy.” To this point in her life, this will be her happiest day. And I love to see her smile. “Do I have to let her go?” I wonder if they will let the wedding continue if I don’t answer the preacher when asked who gives this girl away? Just a thought. “With as much money as I spent on this wedding, if this guy doesn’t treat my daughter like a princess I will be all over him!” I doubt there is one father that hasn’t only thought that, but probably said it too.
LET’S START WITH THE GROOM.
For him, the wedding day signifies a fork in the road. He is leaving the life of bachelorhood and entering into marital bliss. He is gaining a life partner he will share everything with. What’s his is now hers, and what’s hers…is still hers. That’s a fact. Here are a couple of thoughts that go through the groom’s head as the big day approaches: “I hope the wedding day she picks doesn’t coincide with my team’s schedule.” If game seven of the World Series is on the wedding night, I can promise the groom is thinking about it. We’re in Texas, help your man out and get married during hockey season. “I cannot cry!” This is a big one. No groom wants to cry. We will think of the most random things
just to keep our mind off of it. Toilet paper, pecans, David Hasselhoff, and the list goes on and on and on…
NOW ON TO THE BEST MAN.
He has some significant duties to take care of. These include planning the bachelor party, scheduling for the groomsmen, giving the toast at the reception and making sure no one ends up in Vegas babysitting Mike Tyson’s tiger. Here are a couple of things that run through his head as he tries to keep the ‘wolf pack’ in order:
“I hope the bachelor party doesn’t get out of hand.” When you get a bunch of guys together for a bachelor party, someone will do something stupid. It always happens. And on this night, it’s somewhat your responsibility since you planned it. Just expect to be in the doghouse the day after. It’s better than the tank. “I hope my speech doesn’t suck.” The “SO WHAT THE best man will be sweating this one for weeks leading up to the wedHECK, LET’S HAVE ding. Should I get emotional, do I A WEDDING!” keep it funny, should I embarrass him? For some reason, best men I’ve seen tend to have the same answer for their speech preparation: a few cocktails.
THE FATHER OF BRIDE.
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LAST IS THE GUY SIMPLY ATTENDING A WEDDING. There are some standard things that concern this guy. When the invitation arrives in the mail, he instantly starts investigating…calling friends who are going, asking questions, putting out feelers. Here’s what he is thinking.
“Is it open bar?” If this were a Family Feud question, this would be the number one answer. Guys don’t love going to weddings like girls do. So we at least want to know that we can have a few freebies once we are there. “Do I have to wear a suit?” As much as we don’t like going to weddings, it’s even worse if you have to dress up for a formal one. It’s like wearing a tux to the dentist. Zero fun. I say all of this to be somewhat comical. Weddings are life-changing events, and I don’t want to paint the picture that guys could care less about that. We get it. But there is a little side of us that would love nothing more than to have a justice of the peace officiate the ceremony and save about $25,000. But then you would have no reason to wear your suit, have a free drink, miss the big game, get in trouble at a bachelor party, stress over a speech or give your daughter away to some bum you don’t even like that much. So what the heck, let’s have a wedding!
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LIFE & STYLE BY IZAMAR LOREDO
FUN (AND LOCAL)
FALL DATE IDEAS TO CHECK OUT Just because you’re new to wedded bliss doesn’t mean date nights should become a thing of the past. When date night is here and venturing into the big city seems farther than you want to drive, it is nice to have special places in and around Ellis County to enjoy. As a fan of staying close to home for date night, I have found these local spots to be hidden treasures that you may not have discovered. They beat any glitzy night in the big city, and better yet, they’re right in your backyard.
WHERE: Richland Chambers Lake, Corsicana, TX WHEN: Year-round PRICE: $65 boat rental for a minimum of two hours, $275 for the day
WHEN: Open every night, movie starts when it is dark enough WHERE: Ennis, Texas PRICE: Two movies for $6 a person
RICHLAND CHAMBERS LAKE
GALAXY DRIVE-IN MOVIE THEATER (MY FAVORITE!)
Looking for something fun and inexpensive to do with a large group of friends? Consider renting a boat from The Harbor Inn Marina on the wonderfully tranquil Richland Chambers Lake outside of Corsicana. Still relatively unknown, the pristine Richland Chambers Lake is one of Texas’ last undiscovered treasures. This spot is particularly well suited for those who work in the city and are yearning to lose sight of it for a few days. Rent a pontoon boat starting at $65 for a minimum of two hours and a low $275 for an entire day, and escape the city with your friends. After a day on the lake, head over to the Harbor Inn Restaurant & Club for a fully stocked bar, live music and entertainment on weekends.
With only 17 drive-in theaters left in Texas, it is a lucky coincidence that we have one right in our backyard. Bring out your lawn chairs and enjoy two movies for the price of one, a delightfully inexpensive concession stand, and the feeling of having been transported back to the 1960s. A timeless date, this is an excellent venue for newly married couples, as well as a group of friends, families or those on their first date. While you wait for your movie to start, walk on over to the on-site miniature golf course and enjoy a game of putt-putt. To finish the experience right, take a look up and enjoy the extraordinary view of the breathtaking night sky, a rare sight to many city dwellers. The best part? That view is completely free. The Galaxy Drive-In truly is an escape from the modern world!
WHEN: Scarborough Faire: April 5- May 26, 2014, plus Memorial Day Monday. Weekends only. Screams: September 27October 27, 2013 WHERE: Waxahachie PRICE: Scarborough Faire: $24 at the gate, discounted prices online Screams: $24.99 per person
SCARBOROUGH FAIRE/ SCREAMS: Attractions that are not so secret but still conveniently close are Scarborough Faire and Screams. Both are events in Ellis County that are widely known all around Texas. Step into medieval times in the spring with Scarborough Faire and spend the day perusing the multitude of elaborate costumes and novelty items for sale. Don’t forget to try a famous Steak on a Stake for lunch and make sure to catch the hilarious Don Juan and Miguel comedy team during one of their world famous shows. In the fall, head over to the same location for Screams, an amusement park that offers five haunted houses, and enjoy the fantasy thrill both attractions have to offer.
RED OAK OPRY If live music is your thing but crowded concerts are not, make your way to the Red Oak Opry, a diverse concert compilation of local talents. Open the second Saturday of each month, experience the incredible musical talents of your neighbors and friends. The Red Oak Opry welcomes singers of all ages, and the variety of the talent is extremely entertaining. Prepare to be awed at the quantity of talent that has been hiding in Ellis County! WHEN: Second Saturday of each month WHERE: Lone Star Cowboy Church of Ellis County PRICE: $10 per person
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LIFE & STYLE { RECIPES }
FINGER-LICKING GOOD
FINGER FOODS Curried Cheese and Chutney Turnovers
Stuffed Mushrooms
The Doves Nest Cookbook
SeRveS: 4-6 (aPPeTizeR PoRTionS)
YielDS 32 SeRvingS
1 pound crimini mushrooms 2 leeks, finely diced (white lower portions only), thoroughly washed 1 cup white wine 1 cup heavy cream 2 tablespoons butter 1/2 cup aioli or mayonnaise
St. Francis Winery & Vineyards
3 ounces light cream cheese, softened 1/2 cup packed shredded sharp white cheddar cheese 1/3 cup finely chopped green onions 1 teaspoon curry powder 1/4 cup plus 2 1/2 teaspoons chopped mango chutney 2 sheets frozen puff pastry, thawed 1 egg white, lightly beaten
2 tablespoons chives, chopped 2 tablespoons black truffles, chopped 1 tablespoon white truffle oil 1/2 cup white bread crumbs (not from sourdough bread) 3/4 cup parmesan cheese, grated
Heat oven to 375 degrees. Remove stems from mushrooms and pulse stems in food processor until finely chopped. Sweat diced leeks in butter until soft, add mushroom stems and cook until almost dry, add white wine and cook until almost dry. after wine is cooked off, add cream and bring to a boil, then reduce to a simmer and cook for 1 to 2 minutes. Place finished mushroom and leek mixture in a bowl and allow to cool. once cool, add aioli or mayonnaise, chives, black truffles, white truffle oil and parmesan cheese. mix thoroughly. Place stuffing into mushroom caps and bake at 375 degrees for about 8 minutes or until stuffing is golden brown on top. Serve warm.
Heat oven to 400 degrees. in a bowl, combine cream cheese, cheddar cheese, green onions, curry powder and 1 1/2 tablespoons chutney in a bowl; mix well. Roll 1 sheet of pastry into a 12-inch square on a floured surface, trimming edges evenly. cut into sixteen 3-inch squares. Place 1 level teaspoon cheese filling in center of each square. Top with 1/8 teaspoon remaining chutney. Brush pastry edges with egg white. Fold in half diagonally, forming a triangle. Press edges with a fork to seal. arrange on a foil-lined baking sheet. Repeat process with remaining pastry. Bake at 400 degrees for 10 minutes. Brush with remaining 2 tablespoons chutney. Bake for 6 minutes longer. These may be made ahead and stored, covered in the refrigerator for 1 day or in the freezer for up to 1 month. Thaw before baking.
Spicy Crab and Corn Croquettes with Curry Dipping Sauce
Candice Kumai for Woodbridge by Robert Mondavi maKeS 2 Dozen cRoQUeTTeS 1 cup just-add-water cornbread mix 2 1/2 teaspoons curry powder, divided 2 (6-ounce) cans crabmeat, diced 1 cup finely chopped onions, divided 1-2 teaspoons canned chipotles in adobo, chopped 1 egg plus 1 egg yolk 1/2 cup panko breadcrumbs Sea salt to taste vegetable oil (for frying)
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For the dipping sauce: 3 tablespoons Dijon mustard 2 teaspoons curry powder 1 tablespoon agave 1/4 cup greek yogurt Sea salt to taste
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in a medium mixing bowl, combine cornbread mix, 1/2 teaspoon curry powder, crab meat, chipotles, egg and 3/4 cup onions. Pour enough oil into medium saucepan to reach depth of 1 1/2 inches. Heat oil over medium heat until it reaches 320 – 330 degrees. meanwhile, in a small bowl, whisk together all ingredients for the dipping sauce. When oil is ready, use a spoon to form bite-size rounds of batter; working in batches, drop in the oil. Fry until golden and cooked through, 1 to 1 1/2 minutes. Remove from oil with a slotted spoon or frying spider. Transfer to paper towels to drain. Serve hot with dipping sauce.
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LIFE & STYLE { WINE }
IT’S A NICE DAY FOR A
WHITE WEDDING BY JeFF KoSoRiS The wine industry has done gone crazy... seems like every state and country that can grow a grape is producing wine. To find a good one, well, “you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince.” Recently, several bottles of white wine arrived at Wino central....er, living magazine, and we felt duty-bound to share them vicariously with our readers. Thus it fell to our expertly empaneled expert wine tasting panel to do so. The wine panelists consider it a civic duty to place their highly refined palates at living’s disposal. So, the tasters were assembled, the bottles chilled, and we got down to bidness. Surprisingly, the panel’s rankings from least favorite to most liked correlated directly with the lowest to highest price, which isn’t always the case. First up, the least expensive bottle at $10 was the 2011 Rioja Royal White from Bodegas Franco-espanolas. it hails, like all Riojas, from Spain. The grape in this refreshing light wine is viura. it has a nice citrus aroma (or bouquet to us professionals) and a light texture. all agreed that it is pleasant, fruity, has good acidity, but overall is fairly ordinary. it would be a good choice well chilled for light fare...a
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BODEGAS FRANCOESPANOLAS 2011 RIOJA ROYAL WHiTe $10 la Rioja, Spain
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cheese plate, creamy dips, a fruit plate, even over ice (!) on a hot Texas afternoon. next was a chardonnay from the Sonoma region of california, gloria Ferrer carneros 2010 chardonnay, retailing at $18. it’s hard to go wrong with “carneros” on the label, and this 100% chardonnay, aged in French oak for nine months, did not disappoint. The panel noted a nice bouquet, balanced acidity, a clean bright taste reminiscent of pears, melon, lemon and a hint of oak. it was a firmer wine than the Rioja, and would stand up well to cheeses, seafood and roast fowl...a good choice for chardonnay fans. Taking second place was St. Francis 2012 White Wine, estate cuvee Blanc, also from Sonoma. The three varietals in this wine are marsanne, roussanne and vognier, and it is aged six months in oak. The panelists really enjoyed this one, commenting on the firm body and nice fruit and floral notes on the nose; flavors of vanilla and citrus with an excellent balance of acidity and a clean finish. very refined and easy drinking, this would make a great dinner wine to accompany seafood, chicken or turkey dishes, sharp or spicy cheeses, yet would be delightful on its own. at $24 a bottle, it’s a nice one to keep in the rack for an “occasion.”
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GLORIA FERRER 2010 CARNEROS cHaRDonnaY $18 Sonoma
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and the winner....Robert mondavi Winery 2009 Fume Blanc Reserve! now, stay with me here, as you are probably as surprised as we were, but its $40 price tag had us hopeful. The wine is 98% sauvignon blanc and 2% semillion grapes, from the prized (to wine snobs) “To Kalon” vineyard in the napa region of california. Sauvignon blancs generally are pleasant, easy drinking, inexpensive, drink-’em-young wines....so what’s with a 2009 at $40 a bottle? Well, it has tons of character, great acidity and a pleasantly floral bouquet. Tasters noted flavors of herbs, lemon and mint; from the first sip everyone knew we had a winner. mondavi, to some, connotes a lesser quality from a large producer, but the ‘09 Fume Blanc will change that mindset. The judges unanimously awarded it the blue ribbon. The price may seem a little steep, but you would easily pay this much or more for a very mediocre white wine at a restaurant. You may not have these wines available at your favorite grape juice shop, but they are available from online merchants. i suggest: be adventurous and try something new that looks good and fits the budget. great wines are everywhere, including those made here in our home country of Texas. it can be a lot of fun to try something new... maybe just because you like the label!
ST. FRANCIS ESTATE 2012 CUVEE BLANC WHiTe $24 Sonoma
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Tasters’ Choice
ROBERT MONDAVI 2009 RESERVE FUme Blanc $40 napa
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LIFE & STyLE
A MoTHER’S TAlE BY lInDSAY MARKERT
Is it really time for
KINDERGARTEN? In what feels like the blink of an eye, a flash, the speed of light, a nano-second, and every other cliché…five years have passed and we are staring down the primary-colored hallway to kindergarten. We have our Batman backpack and lunchbox, a pile of new school clothes waiting to be washed, a school calendar on the fridge, and even a fun notebook to write all of his special moments and achievements.
Is he ready? Yes. logistically and maturity wise. He is excited to learn and meet new friends. We drive by his school often and talk about how much fun he will have. Thankfully, he had great experiences with Mother’s Day out and pre-K so he understands a bit of what is to come. He is at that sweet age where learning is truly fun and exciting, and I really can’t wait to see he grows. He has “All I REAllY how an outstanding memory nEED To KnoW for super heroes, movie I lEARnED In quotes and lEgo men, hopefully that transKInDERgARTEn.” so lates to reading, math -RoBERT FUlgHUM and science. Am I ready? no. Where is my baby? Should I check the nursery? The one that had his name spelled out in wooden letters above his crib and a precious antique rocking horse below the window…surely my first born BABY is still in there. He can’t possibly
be this man-child that is asking me to play lEgos and making potty jokes.
But as it does, time has passed, and it really is that time. We are entering a whole new arena, one that seemed eons away five years ago, like it or not. My heart has been equal parts thankful and sad all summer. Thankful for the quality time that I have had with him and sad that change is on the horizon. With that change, though, will come new experiences and new friends. So I am allowing myself one cry day and then embracing the change, newness and excitement. We have a saying - “no reason to be scared” - that started when he was little. I said it reflexively as mommas do when their littles are fearful of something. I can’t remember if it was a loud noise, a scary-looking bug, or just plain ole toddler anxiety, but I said it to him as I held his hand and it was enough. Enough for him to carry on with a little less fear because he trusted me; trusted that I would keep him safe. This was also in the “repeat everything” phase, so soon it became something he said, either as a question for reassurance or sometimes he would say it To us when he saw we were scared or upset.
diagnosis. I was trying so very hard to not fall apart in front of him, but I’m human and I was so terrified. When the inevitable tears started to fall, his sweet 2.5-year-old self toddled over to me and said, “Momma. no weason be scared.” When that first day rolls around, I know the inevitable tears will come again. I know he will hold my hand a little tighter when we walk into his classroom for the first time. I know I will count the minutes and hours until I can squeeze him again. I know he will be bubbling with excitement and happiness when he tells me about his day. I know he will be anxious to do it all over again. And, I know there’s no reason to be scared. Jackson Rex, You are amazing. Plain and simple. There is no reason to be scared because you are going to rock kindergarten! I know you will be an amazing firefighter/astronaut/knight one day…but can you be my baby for a bit longer? I am beyond lucky to be your Momma. I love you lotsa lotsa much!
The one time he said it to me that I will never, ever be able to forget was when I sat on a hospital couch hours after his cancer
lindsay, a Waxahachie native, is a mother of four and writes her articles during morning nap time. visit her blog at themommarazziblog.blogspot.com/ to read more about her family.
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LIFE & STYLE { MUSIC }
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Talent
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BY KATHRYN KEMP
Brandon Bolin
Austin, TX Texas Country www.brandonbolin.com Though I-35 will take most people from Waxahachie to Austin, Texas, in around three hours, Brandon Bolin managed to make a few stops along the way. Born in Waxahachie, Bolin made his way to Amarillo, Texas for high school, Nashville, Tennessee to attend Belmont University, New York City where he graduated from City College New York and joined an Air Force ROTC program, and to Dallas, Texas, for law school at SMU, before settling down in Austin. While he still does plenty of traveling around Texas and Oklahoma playing shows, he also works as a real estate developer with GroundFloor Development and spends time with his wife and two kids, Abigail and Bennett. His album, “Shiver,” was recorded in Nashville and released in February 2012. His music is also available on iTunes. What got you into music? I have always liked to sing. When I was in the ninth grade, I was in the men’s chorus at Amarillo High School. One day my director called my mom and told her I need private lessons. She said, “Does he sing that badly?” Mr. Hood answered, “No, he is
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that good and needs vocal lessons to help him refine that talent.” I then started lessons with Mr. Perales, a classic vocal teacher, and remained with him throughout my four years of high school. Does anyone else in your family play? My grandmother played the piano, and on Sunday afternoons she would play hymns from the Methodist Hymnal and we would all sing. My mother took piano lessons as a child but didn’t stick with it. Today, she is taking violin lessons! Who would you compare your music/voice to? I guess I would compare my voice to Roy Orbison, but probably best to ask those that listen to me! If you could open for any artist, who would you choose? Man, that is a tough call. Willie Nelson. What era of music inspires you most? Classic country and Classic Rock — musicians took more risk with their music back then. I hope we can return to the place of
creative experimentation in popular music. Do you write your own songs? For my first record I did not. I was coming from a point in my life where I did not make time for the creative process. Over the last two years, I have grown as an artist and have recently started writing my own songs. This year I am concentrating on songwriting and putting together my next album, which will be completely different than my first one. What topic do you like to write about most? I simply try to write from a position of truth. Whatever that brings out, I tend to go with. What’s your favorite genre of music to listen to when you’re relaxing? Besides country, I like classic rock — The Beatles If you knew it was your last meal, what would you eat? An after-church homemade Sunday afternoon lunch that my grandmother used to make. It would include homemade biscuits, that’s for sure!
Billy Ewing Jr. Milford, TX Country www.reverbnation.com/billyewingjr
Sloane McCain Sloane McCain Band
Corsicana, TX Classic Country, Texas Country & Gospel www.facebook.com/SloaneMcCainBand
Born and raised in Corsicana, Sloane graduated from Corsicana High School in 1993 then attended Navarro College to become a registered nurse in 1998. He resides in Corsicana with his wife, Candace, and sons Tyler (18) and Slade (3), and works at Ennis Regional Medical Center in the ER. The band mostly plays classic and Texas country, but also plays a lot of gospel – they can be heard every Sunday at the Lone Star Cowboy Church of Navarro County. He’s currently finishing up the tenth track on his 11-track CD at Starlight Productions, where he won recording time through a local radio contest. The album will be available on iTunes, Amazon and at cdbaby. com, and videos can already be found on YouTube. What got you into music? Music got me into music. I loved listening to music at a young age and even found it therapeutic then, although I had no idea what therapeutic meant at the time. I then wanted to mock my idols. Any big moments in your career so far? I wrote and played for about 10 years before I actually played in front of an audience. I was asked to sit in with the church band and this got the ball rolling and it’s yet to stop. In 2012 I decided to throw cau-
tion to the wind and do something very unlike me. I entered the 106.9 Ranch Singer/Songwriter Contest and actually won the contest. I got a chance to play a few songs live on the radio and played a set at Tommy Alverson’s Family Gathering. Who are your idols? My “Pop,” Cecil Lee Wright. A man of few words but his character spoke tons. Hank Williams Sr., George Strait, Jamey Johnson, Merle Haggard. What era of music inspires you most? The days of outlaw country. How often do you practice and for how long? If you love to play it’s never practice or work, it’s having fun. We have fun a lot. Several times a week. Do you write your own songs? Yes. Dance Floor is a song liked by many. It’s a song I wrote after becoming, I guess you’d call, a bornagain Christian. It’s a song basically about having God on your side even when you are lost and regaining faith. If you knew it was your last meal ever, what would you eat? I’ve actually thought about this and it’s always been Red Lobster.
Billy was born in Ennis into a family rich with musical heritage. From a very young age, he remembers listening to family members talk about visits from his grandfather’s cousin, Ernest Tubbs. When he was 8, his grandmother bought him his first guitar and he’s been playing ever since. He eventually moved to Waxahachie then to Maypearl, and now he lives in Milford with his wife and four children. His CD, Pain, was recorded by some of his best friends, Robert Steadman, Doreen and Sonny Morris, who run Starlight Music Productions in Waxahachie. It is available for purchase at his shows. Do you write your own stuff? When my uncle Richard passed on, who was a very good songwriter, all of his notes and charts were handed down to me. I still sit with that cardboard box of treasures and pull from his lines to write my own music. What’s your favorite place you’ve played? I have played on many stages in my life, but the best is the Majestic Theatre in Dallas. I have recently made several trips out to Nashville where I was invited to play down on Broadway. That was a lot of fun. Music video for “I Like Trains” We went to DeQuincy, Louisiana, to film a video for my song, “I Like Trains.” There is a lady in DeQuincy, Chriss Long, who worked very hard to get us the Old Train Depot and stage area for an entire weekend to film the video, which is posted on YouTube. We spent way too much money but had a great time. Catch him live: Billy currently hosts a show on Thursdays at 8 p.m. at Rockett Ranch Café & Music Hall in Milford, and says anyone is welcome to bring a guitar and join him. September 6 – David Bauman CD Release Party, LC Auditorium in Midlothian at 7 p.m., tickets at brownpapertickets.com or 800.838.3006.
hoME & GArDEn { DIY }
weekend s t c e j o r p
Refinished
Secretary Desk
Refinishing old furniture is a great way to breath new life into an otherwise dowdy and outdated piece. a great source to find highly affordable furniture to refurbish is your local craigslist (craigslist.org). For a project like the desk that is shown, search for a solid wood furniture piece with great lines and a sturdy build. a little spray paint will work wonders on the finish, so don’t worry about the exiting stain or color. if the finish is painted, you may need to sand the furniture down to the wood to remove the old paint before you refinish it. if the finish is stained, you likely will only need to rough up the finish with some light sanding. after sanding and removing any dust, cover the surface with a spray primer and let dry before paint-
ing with your selected color. You may need a couple coats of color – but always be sure to let each coat dry before the next is applied. Be creative and incorporate multiple paint finishes on one piece, such as the blue paint and black chalkboard paint shown on the desk. The addition of new hardware - knobs or pulls - is another inexpensive and easy way to really dress up an old piece of furniture. Finally, consider using contact paper to line dresser drawers or the inside of a bookcase or desk for an updated punch of color. The possibilities are endless when you’re reviving a castoff treasure. one thing is certain: you will truly make it one-of-a-kind! – from Kristen Hobbs, creator of the blog “inspired Whims” at inspiredwhims.com.
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Use the 5 Cs
So, you’re about to tie the knot and what was once “yours” becomes “ours.” if you’ve been single for a long time, this sharing of stuff and space can be quite a transition, especially in the first year of marriage. When combining households, there is no greater area affected than the garage. Sometimes, the garage is the only place something can live until a permanent home for it can be established. if you’re a minimalist, your garage will actually serve its intended purpose – a place to store your bicycles, gardening and other yard tools. in this case, the use of tall metal shelves and simple hanging systems will do the trick. if you have a bigger budget, systems like The container Store’s elfa offer endless possibilities and configurations. in either case, various sizes of clear bins work well. When organized properly, you can actually store a lot more than you think in a garage. living-magazine.com // SePTemBeR-ocToBeR 2013
of Organizing: CATeGOrIZe. Sort “like” with “like” COnSOLIDATe. Eliminate excess CreATe. A space plan, zones for categories COnTAIn. Purchase shelves, bins and hooks COnTInUe. Put things back where they go. Purge annually. – from Certified Professional Organizer Ashley Easley of MasterPeace Solutions, masterpeacesolutions.com.
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weekend projects
Happy Halloween!
Ideas to spook up your home in no time.
Halloween
Garland
From buggieandjellybean. blogspot.com, this DiY garland shouldn’t take long, but is such a cute way to get in the spirit. Just grab your desired fabrics, cut them into appropriate-length strips and tie to a piece of yarn. amy, creator of the Buggie & Jellybean blog, says to remember you will need more fabric strips than you think!
Candy Corn Bottle Vases On her blog, The Swell Life, Alexa Westerfield explains how to make these festive candy corn bottles. After cleaning all labels, she said to apply a white base coat before applying the orange coat in the middle, letting it dry and then doing another. Once it is completely dry, mist the yellow on the bottom until there is a solid coverage. Get full details and more great ideas at swelldesigner.blogspot.com.
DIY
Magazine Rack
The perfect way to organize your current collection of magazines, this DiY magazine rack is both practical and beautiful. The simple weekend project takes about a day to complete. For materials, you will need 1”x3” wood, screws, sandpaper, stereo wire, a washer and l-bracket hardware. For tools, you will need a measuring tape, pencil, saw, driver, drill and wire cutters. First, determine your desired dimensions based on space requirements, measure and cut the wood to size, and assemble the rectangular frame with screws. measure out and drill equally-spaced holes on both sides of the frame, and give the entire frame a good sanding. at this point, you can choose to leave the wood frame bare for a natural look, paint it to match other accessories in your space or stain it (as shown) for a more classic finish. next, splice the stereo wire into a single strand,
tie a knot on one end of the wire to secure it in the outside top hole of one side, and then string the wire, snaking it through the holes all the way through the bottom hole of the opposite side. Pull the wire as taut as possible and secure the end of the wire to the base of the magazine rack with a small screw and washer (this will allow you to tighten the wire over time as required). Finally, add some l-bracket hardware to the corners for a vintage, industrial aesthetic. Your magazine rack can be leaned against the wall or hung to clear up floor space. The finished product has such a hip vibe, it may be hard to decide which room to showcase it in. and, you just might have friends and family dropping hints as to what they’d like you to make them for a christmas gift. – from Kristen Hobbs, creator of the blog “inspired Whims” at inspiredwhims.com.
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» Gardening BY melinDa Kocian, elliS coUnTY maSTeR gaRDeneRS pLAnTInG » Plant fall-blooming annuals from bedding plants such as marigolds, petunias, asters, dianthus, pincushion flowers (Scabiosa) and snapdragons. » Wait until october when the weather is cooler to plant pansies and violas. » most spring- and summer-blooming perennials can be planted (like salvias, roses from containers, butterfly weed, phlox, cone flowers and lantana), as well as vines such as coral, honeysuckle, cross vine, trumpet vine and wisteria. » Dig and divide spring-blooming perennials such as iris, daylilies, coneflowers, gaillardia, violets and ajuga. amend the planting bed with compost and replant. » Plant trees, shrubs and perennials from containers. Fall planting will allow them to establish roots before hot and dry weather arrives next year.
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GArDen WATCH » Spray roses for blackspot and mildew that can be extremely troublesome in September and october. » check for spider mites on fall tomatoes and newly planted transplants. Treat with a strong stream of water or insecticidal soap. » Webworms are prevalent on pecan trees, starting as small webs at the ends of branches. cut off the ends of those branches as soon as the webs appear. They are difficult to control once established. Tear open large webs to expose worms for the birds.
OCTOBER 2013
» apply an all-nitrogen fertilizer on Bermuda and St. augustine lawns, or wait until the first week of october after the grass has stopped growing.
» Use a pre-emergent on lawn grasses to prevent germination of winter and spring weeds. » continue to deadhead summerblooming perennials to prolong seasonal color. » Root-prune trees and shrubs (cutting the roots around the plant with a spade to stimulate new growth) to be transplanted this winter.
lawn and garden experts have long known that plants, especially turfgrass, benefit from the regular application of supplemental fertilizers. Balancing the benefits of plant fertilizers with their environmental impacts has become an important issue for communities throughout Texas and the U.S. eutrophication is the term used to describe an increase in the concentration of chemical nutrients entering an ecosystem. Depending on how much eutrophication occurs in surface and groundwater, negative environmental impacts like depleted oxygen levels (anoxia) and decreases in water quality, fish and other animal populations may occur.
prUnInG AnD FerTILIZInG
pLAnTInG » Plant vines and ground covers from containers. » Put in cool-season annuals such as pansies, Johnnyjump-ups, violas, dianthus, snapdragons, ornamental kale/cabbage and alyssum. mix in some blood meal with the amended soil. » Plant leaks (elephant garlic), garlic from cloves and onions from sets or blubs in soil enriched with organic matter. » Daffodils and other spring-
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flowering bulbs such as Dutch iris, grape hyacinth, rain lilies and ranunculus can be put in the ground. Daffodils are more likely to return each year. other bulbs should be considered annuals in our area with new blubs planted each year. Some daffodil varieties for this area include ‘Fortune’, ‘Falconet,’ ‘ice Follies,’ ‘Thalia’ and ‘carlton.’ » Wait until December to plant tulips and hyacinths.
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» Fertilize lawns the first week of the month if it was not done in September. » Deadhead fall-blooming annuals and perennials. They will look better and flower longer. » Remove annuals that have completed their life cycle. leave seed pods of those you want to reseed next year (for example, castor bean, larkspur, four o’clocks and cosmos). » continue to feed tropical plants in containers and hanging baskets with a water-soluble fertilizer. » lightly prune vigorous shrubs to maintain shape and size. leave the clippings on the ground as mulch.
GArDen WATCH » Watch for signs of brown-patch fungus on St. augustine lawns. Treat with an appropriate fungicide. » To prevent potential insect pests and diseases next year, remove and discard all dead vegetable plants in the garden. » insects can be a problem if the weather
TIpS many nutrient problems in the landscape/garden are related to pH. Typically high pH levels (i.e. >7.0) tend to limit the solubility/availability of many of the micronutrients – iron most notably. Treating the symptoms of a pH problem (i.e. chlorosis) instead of the problem itself can result in the long-term, excessive application of fertilizer materials which can pose a significant ecosystem threat. Treating a pH problem can be challenging but most often addressed through the addition of organic matter to the landscape/garden.
stays hot. look for whiteflies, aphids, spider mites and scale. if treatment is necessary, contact a master gardener at your Texas agrilife extension Service or a nursery professional.
eArTH-KInD® FALL prACTICeS Fall is an excellent time to establish new plants in the landscape. Fall fertilizer applications are very common and typically recommended to prepare plants for winter. The type and amount of fertilizer to apply should be based on the results of a soil test. To learn more about earth-Kind Fall Practices, click on the Resource tab at www.ecmga. com and click on earth-Kind Publications.
TIpS in the fall, many yards are virtually covered by leaves from deciduous trees. Disposing of these leaves can create a significant burden on landfills and municipal compost facilities. Using leaves as mulch is a simple and effective way to recycle this organic material and improve the landscape. leaves can be used as mulch in vegetable gardens, flowerbeds, and around shrubs and trees. apply a 3- to 6-inch layer of shredded leaves around the base of trees and shrubs.
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’ y l i m a F l a e R ‘A And the whirlwind wedding
to thank for it.
BY Diane JoHnSon collaRD
a few months ago, my daughter Tricia and her boyfriend, Kyle, walked into Wal-mart holding hands with my 5-year-old grandson, Seth. as they walked down the long aisle, Seth looked around and said with great pride, “We look like a real family just walking around Wal-mart.” Those words might not mean much to some, but obviously this little 5-year-old had paid close attention to what he thought was a “real family,” and it meant a great deal to him. Tricia was stunned and saddened that he had made such an observation. a few weeks later, Seth got his secret wish: his mother and Kyle announced their engagement. They were going to be a “real family.” Three days later, we were told that the wedding was going to be in two weeks. as a basically organized person, i went into panic mode trying to figure out how that was going to happen - and why in two weeks? now this is where second-time-around weddings become a whole different venture than first-time weddings. First of all, you are older; she is 40 and he is 43. You think far more practically than 20-somethings getting married for the first time. The logic of considering finances, schools and schedules outweighs the ceremony itself. in the beginning, the wedding was going to be just a notch above going to the courthouse and signing the papers. it was going to be immediate family and very casual. The ceremony would be held in one of our homes. The location decision was made over lunch at the college Street Pub. The wedding would be held at Kyle’s sister Kelley’s lovely home on the family ranch. The fun was just beginning. We were down to 11 days. our thoughts were, “we can do this.” letting people in the family know was the first step. no one really had any idea that the wedding was going to be so soon and some had not even heard that they were engaged yet. it was a whirlwind. as the news spread
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on Facebook, it was evident that friends were going to be upset if they didn’t get to attend, so we decided to have a small intimate ceremony and a separate reception for friends and family. Then logic kicked in again and it was decided that having two separate events was too much work and it should just be a simple wedding and reception combination. evite invitations had to be quickly created to announce the wedding. only closest friends and family would be invited. now we had a place and invitations had been sent. We were down to eight days. emotions were high and hormones started raging. emails started pouring in with pictures of cakes, buffet table ideas and table settings. i was going into panic mode again. constant conversations about colors and food whirled in texts and emails like a flurry. my head was spinning. getting tables and chairs, flowers, the cake, food…and, oh yeah, who is making all of this, anyway? The children needed clothes for the wedding. They needed haircuts. They needed new shoes. Tricia wanted turquoise shirts and black pants. Where was i going to find turquoise dress shirts for three little boys? i can tell you, not in any store that i went to, and there were many. i resorted to searching hours online to find the right color with matching ties in all the right sizes. The clothes were ordered and we had six days to get them delivered. Tricia’s wedding dress was taken from the Rodeo Royalty collection designed by my stepdaughter Brandi Harper. alterations were quickly done to make the fit perfect. it sure pays to have a designer in the family with a seamstress and workroom at your disposal on short notice. The dress was gorgeous and fit like a glove.
The clothes arrived the day before the wedding. The ties were navy and not black, so they were quickly disregarded. The dress was done, the decorations completed and the reception and cake tables set up. The big day had arrived. The children were scattered in four different directions with firm instructions to behave and, “don’t touch anything.” Seth, who, by the way, is our family’s Dennis the menace, was my assigned child for the afternoon. i grabbed him up and jumped in the car to head home to figure out what i was going to wear. as we traveled from the ranch, Seth suddenly spoke up and said, “nana, i am going to have lots of new cousins.” “Yes you are Seth. You are a very lucky little boy.” “Yeah, i know,” he went on, “and they all really love me and we are not even related.” my heart was full as i said, “They sure do Seth. They really do love you.” We continued for a block or so down the road and he said, “nana, i am really really happy and i am going to stay happy forever!” all of the stress of the week, the day and the hour seemed to just melt away. out of the mouths of babes god delivers great wisdom and peace. Until next time, Happy decorating.
DIAnE JohnSon CoLLArD Diane has been decorating ellis county for more than 20 years. contact Diane Johnson interiors at 972.935.8899 or djohnsoninteriors@hotmail.com.
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Planting seeds of Hope By kathryn kemp
With so much discussion about health care reform and new laws going into effect in coming months and years, it’s hard not to think about the changing face of medicine and what it means to you and your community. It’s no secret that many Americans, and specifically many Texans, are uninsured – the Lone Star state has topped the list for years with about a quarter of the population going without coverage. But while the federal government strives to find a national solution, Hope Clinic in Waxahachie has been fulfilling the need for affordable health care in Ellis County since 2000. “Hope began 13 years ago as a way to provide help for people that didn’t have any place else to go, and that’s what we’re still doing,” CEO Mackie Owens said.
13th Annual Seeds of Hope Thursday, November 7, 6:30 to 8 p.m. Midlothian Conference Center At this special event, dinner will be served, along with testimonials from patients, providers and donors, plus special music and a keynote address. To reserve a seat or host a table, contact Barbara Clark at 469-517-2523 or bclark@call4hope.org.
Aiming to improve health outcomes and therefore enable patients to act as contributing members of the community (and reduce strain on emergency rooms), Hope Clinic serves those who may not be able to afford quality health care otherwise. This includes those living at or below 200 percent of the federal poverty limit, and Owens says many of the people they see are living below 100 percent. For a family of four, 100 percent of federal poverty would mean pulling in $23,550 a year, or about $1,960 a month.
the local low-income population, but also because it saves money for the community as a whole.
The clinic accepts Medicare, Medicaid, CHIP (Children’s Medicaid), most forms of commercial insurance and even cash, and also provides sliding-scale fee discounts for uninsured individuals making at or less than 200 percent of federal poverty. They also accept County Indigent Health Care (CIHCP), a program by the State of Texas covering basic health care for those earning 21 percent of federal poverty or less (that’s $413 a month for a family of four).
The National Association of Community Health Centers touts that community health centers produce $24 billion in annual health system savings and reduce unnecessary hospitalizations and visits to the ER, and Hope Clinic is proud to help with that. But while the clinic is already doing a lot for the community, the team is ready to expand their reach with a second clinic in Ennis.
While about 39 percent of the clinic’s revenue comes from patient copays, the clinic also receives grants and federal funding. But with an average visit cost of $313, more money is always needed to cover primary care for adults and children, women’s health care, dental care and behavioral health care for thousands of clients each year. In 2012, Hope Clinic saw 4,456 patients on over 22,000 total visits. Rep. Joe Barton has been a supporter of the clinic since its beginning, not only because he says it provides quality health care in a safe, faith-based environment to
“Going through a clinic is a lot less expensive if you’re low-income,” Barton said. “The most expensive way to provide health care is though the emergency room because of all the regulations. They’re just going in to get a Band-Aid or something on a cut and it costs a thousand dollars because of all the overhead.”
The first step will be to purchase a new building, and with funding already in place and backing from United Way, they hope to have the new location up and running by the end of this year or early 2014. Of course, Rep. Barton, along with his wife, daughter, daughter-in-law and the entire Barton Family Foundation, will continue to do what it takes to help the clinic spread Hope to all of Ellis County. “When you go to Waxahachie and you walk in and see some of the young children that they’re helping, you see the future of our state and our country and you see the nurses and the doctors that are helping those children,” Barton said. “That’s pretty special.”
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Dealing with Depression October is Depression and Mental Health Screening Month. BY DR. KATHERINE DONALDSON
What are the symptoms of depression? Symptoms of depression include persistent feelings of sadness, changes in appetite, changes in sleep patterns, loss of interest in activities you previously enjoyed, thoughts of death or suicide, feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, worthlessness or guilt, loss of libido, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, irritability and even body aches. Having one or two of these symptoms does not mean a person is depressed, but if someone suffers with several of these symptoms they may be clinically depressed. It is important to know that not everyone with depression has the same symptoms. For example, children often present as angry, have stomach aches or headaches, experience nightmares, become clingy with parents, become negative and do not want to go to school. Depression looks different in older adults, who may not exhibit the typical symptoms of depression. Often their symptoms are experienced as body aches and pains. Men are less likely to talk about feeling depressed and they tend to experience depression as fatigue, irritability and trouble sleeping. Men are more likely than women to self-medicate with alcohol or drugs. Depression is more common in women than men, at least in part due to the hormone changes women go through. Examples of this are pre-menstrual dysphoric disorder and postpartum depression. Research also suggests psychosocial factors result in a higher incidence of depression in women.
What are the causes of depression? Other mental health issues can cause depression. For example, about 40 percent of people with Posttraumatic Stress Disorder also suffer with depression. Those with substance abuse problems are often depressed. For women,
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hormonal changes and psychosocial factors can contribute to depression. Caring for children while working, caring for aging parents and relationship difficulties have all been cited as factors contributing to depression in women. Depression can be related to medical problems such as stroke, cancer, heart disease and diabetes. For example, with stroke victims, changes in the brain can result in depression. Of course, coping with any major illness can cause depression. Medical problems can exacerbate symptoms of depression and conversely depression can exacerbate medical problems, so it is important for the depression to be treated. If you are suffering with depression, it is important to talk with your doctor to rule out physical causes for depression. Some people have a genetic predisposition for depression. An individual has a greater chance of suffering with depression if they have a family member who has been clinically depressed. Situational stressors such as losing a loved one, job stressors, relationship difficulties, problems at school, parenting problems or financial difficulties can all be contributing factors to depression. A shortage or imbalance of neurotransmitters such as dopamine or serotonin has been linked to depression.
What treatments are available for depression? Therapy and anti-depressant medication are common treatments for depression. Therapy alone can often be effective, especially for exogenous (situational) depression. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) has shown to be very successful in treating depression. CBT addresses faulty thinking and behaviors that contribute to depression and replaces them with healthy ones. Therapy provides people with tools for
coping with life stressors. For endogenous depression (when neurotransmitters are out of balance), anti-depressants are often necessary, especially if someone is suicidal. A combination of therapy and medication is often the answer. Although anti-depressants are usually safe, they can have negative side effects. Some side effects are troublesome, while others are more serious. An increase in suicidal ideation has been linked to some anti-depressant medications, especially in children and adolescents. People taking anti-depressants, especially children and teens, should be monitored for thoughts of self-harm. If someone is taking an over-the-counter herbal supplement for depression, they should let their physician know. It can be dangerous to take herbal supplements and an anti-depressant together. For severe depression accompanied by suicidal ideation and intent that is not helped by medication or therapy, electroconvulsive therapy is sometimes recommended. ECT can be accompanied by memory loss and is usually only considered as a last resort when other treatments have been ineffective. Due to memory loss, many doctors will not use ECT on younger patients. If you are feeling depressed, know that help is available through psychologists or other mental health practitioners and your MD.
Dr. Donaldson is a clinical psychologist practicing in Waxahachie. She can be contacted at donaldsonpsyd@aol.com or by visiting donaldsonwellnesscenter.com.
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SenTinel noDe BioPSY One of the Most Valuable Breast Cancer Breakthroughs BY DR. William c. maJoR
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With increasingly new advances in surgical techniques, patients are afforded many options in the treatment of breast cancer. one of the most talked about new findings in breast cancer is using a sentinel lymph node dissection to stage breast cancer and determine treatment. When appropriate, the use of this procedure can lessen the magnitude of breast cancer surgery and reduce the incidence of post-operative side effects.
have an axillary dissection. This has led to significant changes in breast cancer management and greatly reduces the number of people who have to endure additional surgery for treatment.
linger, including mild armpit discomfort and numbness in the armpit and the upper arm, and swelling of the arm on the side of the affected breast, called lymphedema.
one of the first patients i used sentinel node biopsy on was Debra Winters. Diagnosed and treated for breast cancer in 2000, today Debra remains cancer free.
Whether the patient chooses breast conserving surgery or mastectomy, there almost always will be an accompanying procedure to assess the status of the lymph glands under the arm on the side of the cancer. if the pre-operative evaluation suggests the lymph nodes are unlikely to contain cancer, the patient will have a sentinel node biopsy.
“When i had my mastectomy i was of course concerned about the cancer and the possibility of it spreading,” said Debra. “at the same time Dr. major did my mastectomy, he did a sentinel node biopsy.”
“i believe i had a much easier recovery because Dr. major performed only a sentinel node biopsy. i didn’t experience any problems with my arm during my recovery, none. zero side effects,” said Debra. “i had the surgery on Friday, and was back in church on Sunday.”
This procedure tries to identify several of the lymph nodes that would be first to trap cancer cells should they spread through the breast lymph channels into the lymph glands under the arm. Previously, if cancer cells were found in the sentinel lymph node, it would necessitate the removal of many other lymph glands, an axillary dissection.
To identify the sentinel node, a surgeon injects a radioactive substance, a blue dye or both near the tumor to locate the position of the sentinel lymph node. The surgeon then uses a device that detects radioactivity to find the sentinel node or looks for lymph nodes that are stained with the blue dye. once the sentinel lymph node is located, the surgeon makes a small incision (about one-half inch) in the overlying skin and removes the node for evaluation.
However, recent studies by the american college of Surgeons oncology group have found that there is no significant difference in survival amongst those with sentinel nodes with early stage cancer who are treated with radiation and chemotherapy versus those who
There are many good reasons why women want to minimize the number of underarm lymph nodes that are removed. lymph node surgery can lead to uncomfortable temporary side effects, such as lymph backup in the armpit, called seroma. other side effects can
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Sentinel node dissection provides critical treatment insights with the least possible surgery and trauma. Studies have shown that after almost five years, women who had just the sentinel node removed were as likely to be alive and free of cancer as women who had more lymph nodes removed.
William c. major, m.D. is a board-certified general surgeon who has served patients for over 30 years in ellis county.
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A BIG DECISION BY STePHanie aSHmoRe i’d been worried about getting breast cancer since i was 16. my grandmother was diagnosed with the disease when she was 36 years old and passed away just two years later. my mother received the news of her cancer when she was 34. i was a sophomore in high school. From that moment, i just felt that i was going to come across my own diagnosis at age 32. i tried not to worry about it at first, but i began thinking more and more about cancer the older i got. although my mom was a survivor, it was still incredibly scary for me. i once read somewhere that of all the cancers you could be diagnosed with, breast cancer was the one that women were most afraid of. i could relate. i don’t ever remember hearing very much about hereditary cancer, but i always felt i would somehow inherit the disease. if i was ever vocal about my worry, it was typically in a lighthearted manner. i would downplay the fear by jokingly mentioning that i should just get rid of my breasts so i wouldn’t have anything to worry about, but i don’t think there was very much measure to it; it was just my own attempt at calming my fear. i don’t remember what finally hit me one day, but about six years ago i decided that maybe i should inquire about actually doing it. So i picked up the phone and called my insurance
company. i was told there was nothing i could do without a definite cancer diagnosis. my fear was now more real than it had ever been. i also had anger and i couldn’t understand why anyone would want me to sit around and wait for something to possibly happen to me. Why was i being told i shouldn’t be proactive? i didn’t want to sit and wonder; i wanted to prevent it if i could and i wanted to find a way to do it. after much research of genetics testing, and a bit of persistence with my mother and my insurance company, i was given a green light on the test but only if my mom would test first. She had to be a carrier of the mutation in order for me to even be susceptible to it. She agreed. She got tested. She was positive, so i got tested. i was positive as well. The gene mutations linked to breast cancer are BRca1 and BRca2. The typical lifetime risk of a woman developing breast cancer is about 12 percent. With my BRca1 diagnosis, my risk for developing breast cancer was greatly increased. i was told i had anywhere from a 60 to 85 percent chance of developing breast cancer before the age of 40. The gene mutation, which also carries an increased risk of ovarian cancer, was there, as was that age pattern in my head again: 36, 34, 32. i would be 32 in just four years. i already knew what i thought i wanted to do, but met with a genetics counselor regardless to become more educated on the mutation. She went from speaking of an 80-something-year-old woman who tested positive yet never had even one single scare of breast cancer to an almost 19-yearold girl who was undergoing chemotherapy from early onset of the disease. You just never know which it may be. So what
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did i really want to do? Two options were recommended: alternating mammograms and mRis every six months for the rest of my life or a prophylactic mastectomy. after a lot of praying and thinking, i finally decided and scheduled my surgery for early January 2009. Then, about a month before it was supposed to happen, reality set in and i cancelled it. i cancelled a surgery i had been talking about having for quite some time, because even with all my worry, the surgery seemed too huge for me and i was terrified to actually go through with it. So i sat on it for a little longer and prayed and thought some more. i ultimately rescheduled for two months later in mid march. at the end of February, i wanted to cancel again but didn’t. i decided to stop focusing on my fear and start working on moving past it. i had three surgeries that year between march and December. i don’t remember being in a huge amount of pain for a very long time nor do i remember ever regretting the decision at any point. i had so much support from my family and friends and knew that i had made the right choice for me. it’s been about three and a half years since my final reconstructive surgery and i feel the best i’ve ever felt about it. For about a year and a half after the surgery, even though my risk of cancer development was now only 2 to 5 percent, i was still afraid, but i believe it was simply worrying due to habit. and though i currently have to be more proactive in screenings for ovarian cancer, i don’t let the worry and fear overcome me as it used to all those years ago. Today i am not afraid. Today i am incredibly grateful. i am grateful for the education and awareness of my options. i am grateful for my perseverance for peace of mind. and i am grateful for family and friends who loved me and supported me in one of the hardest and best decisions i’ve ever made.
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KIDNEY STONES 101 BY anDReW SamBell, m.D.
Stones in the urinary tract can be very common. about 10 percent of the United States population will have faced this unpleasant problem. This country spends about two billion dollars per year on medical costs from stones. First, a lesson in human plumbing. most stones form in the kidney over months to years; they remain painless until they pass. as they pass down the ureter toward the bladder, obstruction causes swelling in the kidney and intense pain. if you are lucky, you only have mild irritation and a show of blood in the urine. every man cringes at the thought of the stone travelling the rest of the way. Well, that’s not usually the problem as that pipe in the plumbing is larger. most stones are less than 5 millimeters and pass in the first 30 days. Well, if you have read this far you probably want to know how to avoid this. The number one cause of stones is a lack of adequate fluid intake. Water is best. Try to drink six 12-ounce glasses of water per day. When working outside in the heat, double this. i am constantly asked if cokes or iced tea cause stones. Well, it depends. if that’s all you drink it puts you at risk. i tell patients to enjoy a 12-ounce glass of tea or coke per day. However, the caffeine acts as a diuretic and the net result is dehydration. You
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must maintain hydration with a non-caffeinated beverage. The most important time to consume water is in the morning. We are all guilty of running out the door and stopping at Starbucks. Drink water first! You will find the extra water benefits your health in so many ways. americans eat too much animal protein (meat). it is complicated, but this causes stones. cut back! also, the american diet is too high in salt. Start reading labels. Restrict your diet to 2,500 mg per day. if you eat fast food more than twice weekly, you are ingesting a lot of salt. The salt acts like a magnet and pulls extra calcium into the urine. if you enjoy salty snacks, drink extra water. You have probably heard high dietary oxalate causes stones. oxalate is in leafy vegetables, chocolate and tea, to name a few. You have to work really hard on your diet to lower urine oxalate. You are better off adding a serving of dietary calcium (dairy) to each meal. The calcium will bind the oxalate in the intestines and prevent the oxalate from being absorbed. Therefore, Do noT restrict your calcium intake. This is the most common mistake people make after passing a stone and not discussing prevention with a doctor. You may have heard lemonade helps prevents stones. The lemons are high in
citrate. This binds urinary calcium and prevents crystallization, so slice up that lemon, it will help that extra water go down. Finally, once you have a bout with stones, your recurrence rate is 50 percent, so talk to your health care professional about how to prevent your next stone. in my practice, i have numerous repeat stone formers. although it is usually one of these dietary factors, you can have a serious medical problem causing your stones. We now know so much more about human metabolism. most stones can be prevented. enjoy the rest of your summer and stay hydrated!
Dr. andrew Sambell is a board-certified urologist in Waxahachie and a member of the american Urological association. He practices with Urology associates of north Texas.
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Rome After sailing the Adriatic Sea with friends and family, several of us took the last flight out from Split, Croatia, to Rome, in hopes of a little sightseeing before continuing on to Tuscany. We’ve all heard the 12th-century French proverb: “Rome wasn’t built in a day.” Well, I’m certain the Eternal City isn’t meant to be seen in a day either, but with a plan, a comfortable pair of shoes and a good tour guide, I was determined to try. We hit the ground running as our taxi drove past some of Rome’s famous monuments before arriving at our hotel. The first notable site was the remains of the Forum, where just a handful of columns and temples are left standing to remind you of its imperial splendor. As we rounded the piazza, it was a surreal moment to finally see the Colosseum in person. Even in its ruined state, you can still imagine the spectacular events that were staged there. Arriving at the beautiful Hotel Campo de’ Fiori was interesting, as it sits on a narrow cobblestone street making it difficult for taxis to pull up to the entrance while trying not to hit pedestrians walking by from the local produce market. The boutique hotel’s old façade is covered in lush ivy that seems to lure you in. Appointed with antiques, tapestries and baroque framed paintings, it will make you feel as though you are a guest in a private home, complete with a rooftop terrace where you can sip Prosecco while absorbing the views. We had dinner at La Taverna dei Fori Imperiali. This quintessential family-run restaurant is everything
in a Day you dream dining in Rome would be, with brick archways and red and white checkered tablecloths. Chef Alessio Liberatore is the robust father in the open kitchen, crafting home-cooked Italian dishes such as pappardelle alla carbonara and saltimbocca alla Romana. I would fly back to Rome just to eat there again.
Condotti for some quick window shopping while making our way to Trevi Fountain, the most famous fountain in Rome. According to local lore, if you throw a coin over your shoulder into the fountain you will return to Rome some day. I did indeed make that wish, as I knew this was a place I hope to experience again.
The next day started early. We walked along admiring chic Italians as they sipped their morning cappuccino at the sidewalk cafes. I had always heard Romans look at people from their shoes up. I can now confirm this is true, as I felt a bit inferior blitzing through Rome wearing flip flops. We arrived at the Vatican walls, relieved we had booked through a tour company with permission to skip the lines, as there were literally thousands of tourists waiting to buy tickets. The Vatican Museum’s collections of classical sculptures and extensive artworks deserve more than a quick glance to fully absorb Michelangelo’s ceiling in the Sistine Chapel and Raphael’s magnificent painting of the Transfiguration. Don’t miss St. Peter’s Basilica and touring the tombs of popes before exiting onto St. Peter’s Square.
Our last stop was the Pantheon, one of the best-preserved Roman buildings. Built in the second century by Hadrian, it looks more like it’s a couple hundred years old than a couple thousand. Outside there were men on horseback dressed as Romans, waving plastic swords and offering to pose for photos. More couples kissing and smells of coffee roasting nearby seemed to be a recurring theme at all of the sites. We finished our tour strolling through the Piazza Navona, where an average espresso, slice of pizza or cone of gelato tastes better than any you’ve had elsewhere.
With only a few hours left to see Rome, we crossed the Tiber River, grabbing pizza at a small osteria before emerging at the Spanish Steps via the metro. Said to be Europe’s widest staircase, I can attest it is very wide and packed with tourists snapping pictures, couples kissing and most everyone eating gelato. From there we mingled down the fashionable Via dei
With little time to spare, I asked our guide to accompany us to Termini Station, as foreign train stations can be confusing. She obliged and we soon collapsed into our comfortable seats on a first-class train to Florence. As we reminisced about our day in Rome, someone in our group proposed a toast: “veni, vidi, vici” (“I came, I saw, I conquered”). I’m not sure Julius Caesar would approve of our modest conquest, but we were satisfied.
Cindy Burch
Cindy Burch and her husband, Andrew, own and operate The Doves Nest in historic downtown Waxahachie. Cindy is also a freelance writer, caterer and consultant. Her award-winning cookbook, “The Doves Nest Restaurant: New American Recipes From A Historic Texas Town,” is in its fifth printing.
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1st Annual Event!
FREE DENTAL CARE Event Date: Saturday October 5th Event Hours: 8 A.M. - 4 P.M.
This is the day when we give back to a community that has been so wonderful to us. Choice of Filling, Extraction or Cleaning will be performed for those 18 years and older who can’t get dental care elsewhere. Arrive early - registration starts at 7:30 A.M. Patients will be seen on a first-come, first-served basis.
First 50 patients are guaranteed to be seen! Patients are encouraged to arrive early, dress appropriately for the weather and bring chairs, blankets, water, snacks, etc., as they may be outside waiting to be seen.
SCOTT CLINTON DDS, MAGD
BOBBY HANEY DDS
125 Park Place Blvd. Waxahachie, TX 75165
972.937.4370 WWW.WAXFAMDENT.COM